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Well said ! Another point is the way popular media influences people. People forget that the media also plays a dominant role in portraying stereotypes. Impressionable people will unwittingly accept theses stereotypes and might even think/justify this is actually their preference without realizing it has been force fed to them. Women fall for this shit so easily !
/r/seduction29/05/17 12:07 PM
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I feel your pain dude. I am a brown short guy in between countries that are very white (Ireland and UK). I still remember like 4 years ago (when I was last in college) ; I once went out straight 3 weeks out every night where I completely left my shame away and hit on girls in night clubs and bars (must have hit on at least 40-50 girls, all +7.5s). I got a very similar kind of response from most local girls. They would see I am brown and immediately ask me where I am from (not blow me away) but t…
/r/seduction28/05/17 07:22 PM
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Same here in Ireland as its in the UK. Cold approaches dont seem to work at all as they seem to creep girls out. The entire dating scence here is around drinking in pubs (where looks and height matter a lot) or tinder (online) where again looks and height matter a lot. Being exotic (like brown, black or asian) does not help really. Social game is more the way most people meet. Ask any couple u will get that answer (either in the club r through friends) Anyone here seen this in IR/UK?
/r/seduction24/02/17 08:18 PM
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That's the most generic answer dude. There is some contradictions there seriously and so i am trying to get to the bottom. U say escalate but then say make her feel u are not emotionally committed. whats that supposed to mean ? as soon as u show interest in a woman (espically physically), its obvious she knows u want her.
/r/seduction24/02/17 08:12 PM
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And how exactly would you "Through words demonstrate interest but emotionally demonstrate that this interest isn't above hers and thus not subject to her power.".. Can u give an example of a typical conversation ?
/r/seduction23/02/17 07:00 PM
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Not always man. BUT In some cases looks(or other social conditioning like height, race and money etc) do override game but that is completely subjective and depends on the what worldview that particular girl subscribes too. I have many women as friends (its always good to have female friends as they give u perspective on things we miss out as guys) and they have given reasons like these with statements like "he is such an amazing guy, too bad he is only 5'5" (just as an example). Internet anonym…
/r/seduction23/02/17 04:38 PM
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Disinterested interest Humans connect on an emotional level and a rational level. Your rational words should show interest and enthusiasm but you must communicate the “emotion” of “I’m just talking to you to be nice, I would maybe rather be somewhere else.” Take the pressure off of her and just allow HER emotions to grow by not getting emotionally invested. And until she emotionally invests, DO NOT STOP YOUR MISSION. She should feel like you might walk away at any moment. Disinterested interest,…
/r/seduction22/02/17 11:46 PM
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Thats a good point mate. But its not possible to make yourself completely immune to the outside world and be really someone who has 100% inner game perfected. Its what makes you human; your imperfections ! I think its seriously overrated that if you have a solid inner game and confidence all is set. NO its not. Women are conditioned by their own realities and social norms. So many of them will side step you not because you are not a solid A in inner game and are a great catch but because they do…
/r/seduction22/02/17 01:48 PM
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Solid advice mate ! cheers. Can I ask you something related to the conversation regarding attrn and qulificaiton. Lets say u are in an environment where u might have not have too much time at hand to get in to long conversations. IN those situations how to keep creating attraction and qualify ? A good example is lets say a dance club like salsa or swing where u need to change partners often (and even if u are talking to her on the floor while dancing or after it, other guys come quickly to whisk…
/r/seduction14/02/17 07:27 PM
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Thanks man. yeah I am working on the vulnerability part. Its very hard for me as my natural disposition is to make jokes and have fun all the time. But I think I am doing that subconsciously to make the girl see I am a funny guy. Isn't that part of attraction ? Doesn't the vulnerability come after I have established attraction and comfort ? How can I get to it if I cant create comfort ? Wont the girl FZ me if I show vulnerability ?
/r/seduction23/01/17 11:52 PM
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Thanks man. I see your point ! What topics do u think will help me establish that rapport ? I can create attraction many times with different women but to create comfort is a monumental task for me.
/r/seduction23/01/17 11:48 PM
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I see what u mean. Yes I am very hard to get along in the beginning as I do not trust people that easily. I am friendly to everyone but dont open up. Hence I have few friends and lots of acquaintances. The issues I am saying here is around other Alphas that are sometimes within the group or around the group I usually hang out with. They usually seem to be at ease with women and although I can make people laugh and put them at ease (if they share my sense of humor) I cant seem to do that. Women o…
/r/seduction23/01/17 12:17 AM
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I do bring in a certain fun element to everyone life. People almost always laugh when they are around me and have a good time. The issue is that such groups almost always form around alphas (1 or two) and not around anyone else. I know many guys who are betas and not great at game but they have quiet better social life than me. TBH I tend to be very analytical, sarcastic and always up for a laugh (sometimes even at my own expense but not in a way to let me down). My friends even ask me to become…
/r/seduction22/01/17 11:37 PM
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Well said
/r/seduction21/01/17 12:12 AM
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You mean if there is no attraction I give up ?
/r/seduction05/01/17 10:43 PM
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Probably the best piece of practical advise I have received in so many posts here. Cheers mate. Most posts give u the same old shit as be confident blah blah but no specifics as to why and how ! Although this is more specific to dating places rather than issues with Kino and comfort (my two biggest sticking points) its still useful information !
/r/seduction04/01/17 11:50 PM
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I get that but lets say I try and connect with the girl (physically and mentally) and she is not interested or maybe not attracted. DGAF would mean walk out of there or keep trying ?
/r/seduction04/01/17 11:48 PM
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That's cool. Leading in the date itself ! awesome man. I have to do this too but I wish I had pool in my complex. :D need to get rich mate.
/r/seduction04/01/17 08:24 PM
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Alcohol in bars is stupid expensive where I live Same story here. Cheers mate
/r/seduction04/01/17 07:41 PM
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can u elaborate?
/r/seduction04/01/17 03:51 PM
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Try to keep date cost low tho, not all the girls/dates are worth your money. Excellent point mate. I almost never pay fully for a date. Maybe a few drinks but I have been lucky as most girls want to pay as well. They still appreciate me buying in the first rounds but then they want to pay as well later on.
/r/seduction04/01/17 03:51 PM
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I like the DGAF attitude. But many of us are learning here and maybe it is some mistake we made on the date. how is that attitude of not giving a fuck going to work if we dont improve ourselves ?
/r/seduction04/01/17 12:14 PM
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Dude I am not being negative. I am trying to get advice that truly works especially for my situation. Just as every girl is different and u have maneuver yourself in the game according to her, guys are different and have to have a different strategy that overcomes their weakness and strengthens their strong points. Now maybe I do have a negative outlook at times and its probably because I am much older than you are and yes maybe I am cynical but I have seen much more shit in life. I have been da…
/r/seduction03/01/17 09:41 PM
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Thanks for the link. I was looking forwards to it and have had to stop straight away when he mentioned he was wearing shoes that increase his height ! SO much for not caring about height. And honestly he does not look like an average guy; he has a well chiseled face and is definitely not bad looking at all. Hats off to him though for keeping in the set. Those cock blockers were all over it. So the key is if you are not tall at least be good looking and built ! and then get some confidence to get…
/r/seduction03/01/17 09:11 PM
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Cool ! So u are still taller than me then :D lol, I am 5'6" and slim so I am under most girls radar. Well I dont agree completely with "muscles don't get you girls". Yes they do ! U can be the most charming and witty person in the world but if the girl does not physically like u, u are out ! Muscles do help but of course the bonus on the top is your confidence. But you have to understand that once u are good looking and well built your mistakes and incoherent lines will still slay girls to some …
/r/seduction03/01/17 12:11 PM
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Good for u man. All the best in 2017. U say u are good looking. How tall are u ? I am asking that since most advice here seems to work for above average height and looks. Game however is essential no matter how ur looks are. So thanks for sharing the books and the links u used.
/r/seduction02/01/17 11:35 PM
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Dude I dont think anyone is not saying u dont need game to get the girl. Yes u do and u did well there ! but the odds of someone not meeting the social physical norms scoring like that (howsoever charming they might be) is minuscule compared to someone who does. Most women will tell you they dont go for looks if the personality is good and they will do the exact opposite in real life (just as always). Unfortunately most women are outright discriminatory against guys who are shorter than 5'7" or …
/r/seduction23/12/16 11:19 PM
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she was a well educated, high earner in tech, visiting friends from out of town There's the punch ! She was out on a trip alone visiting friends, having a good time, looking for an adventurous story she can reminisce later in life (this is the same shit girls feel when they are out on vacation in places like Ibiza and so). You caught her at the right time, right place ! Women are so conditioned by social norms ! I bet you are a good looking dude and definitely tall as well ! (above average) Noth…
/r/seduction23/12/16 01:40 PM
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I get your point. I dont necessarily think a girl will shit test you unless she is actually interested in you in the first place. Girls in Europe are hence harder to impress since no matter what type she is, she will shit test you ! However the difference is that American girls will do that for fun while girls here will do it to embarrass you. My feeling also is that girls here are more into looks than American women. American women (also to some extent are like that but...) want to see potentia…
/r/seduction23/12/16 01:31 PM
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Dude I need coaching myself lol.. But yeah follow the advice I just gave u there. One more thing, either stay a friend or stay away far enough not to be in the friendzone. "and so she found another guy to "fuck the pain away."" The other guy was clearly not her friend was he ? U need to make line that u are not friends with a girl. If I ask a girl out and she says no, I keep a friendly distance from her (this keeps u from ending up in the fiend one). However if u can leverage her to get to her h…
/r/seduction09/12/16 02:50 PM
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I hope you do and I guarantee you this will make all your advice and knowledge convincing for people eager to follow your advice make even more so. You have my attention and I hope we see something like this soon ! Good luck mate.
/r/seduction08/12/16 07:39 PM
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"More of a challenge" is an understatement. I am not saying any of that u should liger on it rather I am saying show us how to deal with it in real life interaction with a girl. Yes u need to accept your circumstances and then make an effort. I get that and I work on it. But the issues I am pointing out here bring in a host of other things u need to use in your game to overcome. The tips most PUAs give are not for such audience. What you are showing here is for a very select audience which is no…
/r/seduction08/12/16 04:12 PM
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Nope. Its to see how women react when they are around men who dont fit the social norms that they are so conditioned to follow (tall, built, good looking ; especially tall; women might pass looks but not height if u have a good personality). Go on a night out anywhere and show0 me what success rate below average height guys have compared to tall even if the tall ones are boring as fuck. ""thinking" about success rate is going to help anyone" ?? No one is talking about thinking about but to actua…
/r/seduction08/12/16 03:41 PM
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This guy is good surely. What I want to see is you Bradicus dude make a video with someone who is below average in height (5'5" or so)and not very well built! Then tell us what is ur success rate compared to his with women above 25 ! ( i think its so much easier to game women below 25 but i am much older so I wont be interested in that)
/r/seduction08/12/16 03:10 PM
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I never do day game and probably never will as I feel I am a bit too old for that. But I think ur issue is u are trying too much at one time. Try taking it in baby steps ! Talk to some people and thats it. Like a cashier or a bar man (doesnt have to be even a hot girl). just practise conversation with strangers. then start to make friends and hang around social circles. Take it one step at a time !
/r/seduction08/12/16 02:59 PM
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Dude we all have gone through this at some point. I have the other problem, I never get friend zoned in the sense they will always bear in mind that if they get close to me I will get sexual.(but I am shit at closing as I still struggle with being very aggressive and I take too much time; so i am not in the friend zone but become like an aloof asshole haha) First of all: Stop giving a fuck ! Girls come and go ! Make ur intentions clear right from the beginning (I still struggle with it so I cant…
/r/seduction08/12/16 02:51 PM
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Tinder has gone down the drain. No good matches at all and even if u match the reply rate is abysmal ! not worth it unless u dont mind spending a few mins everyday swiping
/r/seduction08/12/16 02:45 PM
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Am 38 dude ! (although I look like a 25 year old) and am still struggling with this whole thing. Its so damn hard to find a women who not only matches with u intellectually but also has the temperament of a woman than that of a girl. Most women I meet have the attention span of a fly. There are so many distractions in the world today that no one seems to understand that its not all about the so called chemistry but also about making compromises and understanding. The older I get the harder I fin…
/r/seduction08/12/16 02:43 PM
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Thats exactly what I thought. But she herself was very self conscious of what she was going to get into. She bought that topic up herself and started talking about how she is not really looking for a fling. What was I supposed to say there ? Hence my question as almost always all recommendations are that be clear with the girl about your intentions. If i ask her out now I will come across too needy and giving up on my on standards. Wont come out good for me.
/r/seduction25/11/16 12:36 PM
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How did I miss a chance if she herself was very self conscious of what she was going to get into. She bought that topic up herself and started talking about how she is not really looking for a fling. What was I supposed to say there ? Hence my question as almost always all recommendations are that be clear with the girl about your intentions.
/r/seduction25/11/16 12:36 PM
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Welcome to the club. No one here will explain the conversation that comes with escalation ! I have asked that question several times with no real response.
/r/seduction21/11/16 01:32 PM
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I have girls say to me: I see you are holding my hand when I try and get close and say something that distracts from the touching. Move away if i move in for a kiss. Worst is they flake a lot on next dates. Host of things like that
/r/seduction04/11/16 01:34 PM
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Thanks man. So I am not bad at making connections either as I say theses kinds of things already to girls one on one. God knows then what I am missing. Awesome idea man. Closing the eyes is very powerful for her to feel my lead and making a connection !
/r/seduction04/11/16 01:31 PM
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Dude you don't have to be condescending to make a point. No one is saying that you dont need to hone your skills and conversation alone is not enough. There are quiet a few other factors too. The motive here is to get to the bedrock of the issues especially around escalation along with conversation that goes hand in hand. If the advice is specific it really helps guys to get an edge on learning the skills. If its vague and very broad its does not help. I know its easier said than done but then t…
/r/seduction03/11/16 07:33 PM
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Nice story ! One thing to learn here is that he subtly let u know he was interested. So that's cool. I appreciate you taking your time. But most women will freak out and think u are needy if a guy actually asks a friend for the girls number (even if there was an excuse). How many guys get asked to come over to smoke weed to a girls place unless he already has a contact like u had a friend there ? You would not let a guy come around to u to let him smoke weed alone if you were yourself not intere…
/r/seduction03/11/16 04:39 PM
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See? This is the kind of thing that make you fail with girls! You cannot learn a speech and use it with all girls. Take my personal summary as example, those 4 lines should give you enough information to start and have a decent conversation for at least 3hrs. You are partially correct there that "No you cant". Human interactions are far more complex. But what most guys here want is a clear but outline to the emotional connection and context underlying the conversation. A few good examples showin…
/r/seduction03/11/16 02:59 PM
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It could a multitude of tings. Girls are strange creatures and hence there is no definitive answer but theses could be the issues: 1. Girl not that attracted ! She might be into me but not enough. She might see other guys around her that she thinks are more attractive and I recede into the background. 2. Girl is attracted but no emotional connections. That's definitely an issue. Getting her to open up can be a tough job. 3. NO idea what to say in particular when getting close. If i get close wit…
/r/seduction03/11/16 02:51 PM
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Yup. Most of these so called coaches never give u details. Its all superficial crap like be confident and be physical. Sounds more like a psychopath rather than a smooth guy. I have the same issue. I am very good at getting girls to laugh, making innuendos and making them look at me for the man I am ; confident, humorous and easy going. The issue is when u start going close and physical. You need a set of skills that includes conversation to allow that kind of proximity. I have posted this reque…
/r/seduction03/11/16 12:11 PM
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Very nice overview there ! So thanks for that. However nothing in detail or nothing new there. Almost all posts tell u to do the same thing. Go out and be confident and be physical ! This is not going to help people who are here seeking advice on the actual conversations lines you need to use in such situations. Physical proximity without the right conversation is just creepy !
/r/seduction03/11/16 11:01 AM
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You say u have 2-3 really close friends ! That's what more than most people have in a life time. Really close friends are very very rare ! Keep them close and never let them go. Acquaintances come and go and social groups come and go as people move ! At your age most social groups form around good looking women unless its a bunch of lads who truly like hanging out with each other and are genuine friends and fantastic wing men. (very rare to get a good wing man) Its family and close friends that …
/r/seduction03/11/16 10:49 AM
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No one mentions rejection stories ! We need more of that rather than the chest thumping success stories that are told here by PUAs without ever mentioning the multitudes of rejections they face as well. Quiet a lot of theses guys are actually good looking muscular hunks and they simply play on peoples insecurities to give them a false sense of hope without ever telling them the truth. They make it seem like there is a secret formula. Yes there is. Be tall and/or good looking and/or rich with ave…
/r/seduction03/11/16 10:13 AM
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Sending u a PM there dude. This is getting to be long conversation. thanks
/r/seduction01/11/16 01:29 PM
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You asked a great question: "What topics would u suggest for me to bring up in a conversation to connect emotionally ?" However, I can't personally answer that as everyone is unique. Honestly, the best way to answer that is to pay attention to what topics scare you. Sometimes these are things you're even afraid to confront internally. I see where u are going with this. Let me give u an example and u can tell me if I am going right about this. e,g: Girl I meet in a salsa club. We dance togather. …
/r/seduction31/10/16 02:44 PM
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I see your point ! There is no alternative to good game. Just that in the dance scene I do not have to DHV. It comes automatically to me unlike bars and pubs where the physicality seems to matter more. On the vulnerability side I get that its not about being a sob kid either but more of a revealing desire without being needy. Do u have any good conversation examples/videos of this type ? I ask this as this has the single biggest problem I have. For e.g: lets say I know a girl kinda likes me and …
/r/seduction31/10/16 02:42 PM
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"In the dance floor at socials and such you need more than just the dancing. It's like a bar and daygame" I am not sure I understand. So u mean I need to up the game if I want to ask girls out from the social dance floor ? "Your dancing life will mostly impress non dancers to be honest." I partly agree that its impact on a non-dancer is much powerful ! But given that many if not most girls who come to socials are casual dancers unlike me they are easy for me to impress ! "This is a hard one beca…
/r/seduction30/10/16 11:57 PM
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Dude this is quiet confusing for me. I am a dancer too and I in fact even teach some lessons time to time. You are spot on that it helps to get used to having touching women around you. I used to be terrible 5 years ago but now I am much better. However Kino in dance lessons or dance floors (salsa and so on) is more formal and the touch does not really mean anything to the girls. They dance a song with u and move away as nothing ever happened. Its so strange at times that a girl i dance with ver…
/r/seduction30/10/16 11:11 PM
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"She may have been unhappy in the relationship or I was a new and exciting opportunity for her, either way she was interested. Men and women both want the best they can get (whatever they happen to think that is). So I'm not surprised that girls who have boyfriends will cheat fairly easily. " If you are unhappy have the balls to break it up and move on ! I almost despise women or men who stay in relationships till they find a boat to jump off on ! It shows terrible lack of character ! Unfortunat…
/r/seduction30/10/16 10:05 PM
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Sound advice. Thanks ! Let me dive a bit deeper. I have posted this before here but I never get response to it but maybe u have some good insights. Here it is : *Almost no one talks about the sort of conversation you are having when you are making these physical escalations. Most suggestions are "talk about personal stuff blah blah and so on" but I am lacking concrete examples on how an entire conversation will go along with the appropriate KINO in each phase. (initial banter, chit chat to more …
/r/seduction30/10/16 09:23 PM
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Thanks dude. Now to even get to this point would you already be very close to her. I am asking that since its hard to judge if the girl is even attracted to you to that level that she will let u near her.
/r/seduction30/10/16 05:09 PM
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A belief is not "limiting" if its the norm. Its not a "belief" that women prefer taller and well built guys; its a fact ! As much as is the fact that women also prefer confident guys. But confidence comes easy when you are already desired ! I never said that you should not give it a shot, I am saying u are going to have a hell-of-a-harder-time not being the stereotype desired male ! I like your optimism dude . Keep it up !
/r/seduction30/10/16 05:07 PM
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And so have I. In fact I have a thing for all girls. But I am talking numbers here dude !
/r/seduction30/10/16 04:26 PM
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Exact same question !
/r/seduction30/10/16 03:57 PM
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good for u buddy ! There is a huge difference between barely 6'0 and 5'6" !!
/r/seduction30/10/16 03:51 PM
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When it comes to hot girls most aggressive guys will be cunts ! Good intentioned people always end last. My only hope is they end happy !
/r/seduction30/10/16 03:48 PM
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Sounds like u dont want to hear the truth ! Don't get me wrong. Its still possible for a guy to not be "tall and/or buff) and still make it ! But its statistically rare without the obvious traits !
/r/seduction30/10/16 03:47 PM
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That's what I was getting to. She does not reject straight away as he fits in the "tall and built" things most women prefer ! No girl knows how ur personality is and she clearly judges you by your height and build ! only then she allows u a shot ! So if u are neither the chances she even lets u speak and make a case for yourself is almost none !
/r/seduction30/10/16 02:47 PM
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As always the guys in videos are tall buff guys ! Lesson learned ! What chance would anyone who was not tall and buff have with those girls ? None. Its all about the looks at the end of the day ! Statistically speaking !
/r/seduction30/10/16 01:55 PM
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Youtube videos are really good but most of them lack very critical phases and do not go in full depth. Now I know u have to make mistakes buts its better to have a coach than no guidance at all.
/r/seduction30/10/16 01:52 PM
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Of course but I am talking more on the kinds of a coach to have to talk to about your sticking points.
/r/seduction30/10/16 01:51 PM
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I dont exactly understand what u mean by vulnerable. I cant show her my inner most feelings as most girls will find it too open ! I am looking for what vulnerability you guys are talking about here. As to what I like and think of stuff like music and my jobs and so on or more deeper feelings as to how i feel about my life. Vulnerability is a very strange term in this sense. I will give u an example. If I am talking to a girl for instance about dance (i am a dance instructor) I can get into the d…
/r/seduction28/10/16 11:13 AM
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Pretty much. I almost never get any responses to critical questions !
/r/seduction27/10/16 12:38 PM
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In my experience in Europe as a short guy, the only way I meet girls is by picking up hobbies and joining activities. Women in bars and nightclubs wont even bother to notice u if u are below 5'9" ! Unless you lower ur own standards are go for 6s or 7s ! I have been trying to learn the game for 2 years now and this is my conclusion. Also even in those places where u are good at something like a photography club or things like that u will still have to compete with taller guys ! The world is unkin…
/r/seduction25/10/16 09:45 PM
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You could use the forums online. Just search for PUA forums. The MPUA forum is pretty much higher levels.
/r/seduction25/10/16 09:35 PM
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As i suspected no answers !
/r/seduction25/10/16 09:32 PM
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Excellent article there. Covers a lot. But I have a question as to what comes with the touching. Almost no one talks about the sort of conversation you are having when you are making these physical escalations. Most suggestions are "talk about personal stuff blah blah and so on" but I am lacking concrete examples on how an entire conversation will go along with the appropriate KINO in each phase. (initial banter, chit chat to more deeper connections and physical escalation). Depending on the pha…
/r/seduction21/10/16 04:17 PM
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Dude I am gonna PM u the whole story. Thanks !
/r/seduction05/10/16 10:55 AM
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Thats some excellent tips dude. Thanks ! I am also reading Models. What are ur thoughts on that ? I am not sure I like the video link to be honest. I am a much older guy(35+) and i usually do not hit on girls below 25 as I simply cant match their energy and lack of attention span. My game is mostly social from my dance scene. But the guy has some skills in terms of keeping the girls on their toes. It wont work on mature girls (he seems to be picking up 20+-2 or so year olds; not my demographic).…
/r/seduction11/09/16 11:33 PM
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Also what do u think of the book Models. To me its feels too idealistic and does not account for the realities of the world.
/r/seduction08/09/16 10:57 PM
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Thanks man ! "Once they are comfortable around you let them know subtlety that you are a man and you want to fuck" Thats is what i find the hardest to do. I have seen guys making girls so quickly comfortable around them that I am like what the fuck is he saying. Do u have more details on this how to do it. I have seen one Italian guy do it so well but I think we was using a lot of push pull. (plus he is tall and well built). How do u get "ubtlety that you are a man and you want to fuck" ? do u h…
/r/seduction08/09/16 10:56 PM
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I dont understand this notion in the PUA community. Why do u always assume that the girl will always be right in choosing the man who is the most confident and has the most game and not care about the looks and height. It is the biggest BS this community sells to men. Every girl will have her own notions about her mate and believe it or not most girls will have a heavy influence on them by cultural and media norms (tall good looking guys are always funny even if they suck at their jokes). Hence …
/r/seduction08/09/16 03:22 PM
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Cool dude. Thanks for the tips. My issues are that most women I try to talk to are taller than me and the very thing that I am non-threatening in a way makes them think I am harmless and wont be perusing them sexually. I almost never do day or night club game as I am a bit older to go to such places. The social dynamics in such places is much more biased to taller, good looking white guys as in my experience. I am an avid dancer and I use that to meet girls. However even there the tall guys and …
/r/seduction07/09/16 11:30 PM
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50+ women in 7 year for an asian guy who is 5'5". Now thats what I would call game. You need true game to overcome the race and height prejudice. I am hoping you contribute more to this forum and help other fellow short men like me to take control of things. As for the thing you say about finding a true partner, I think you are still young and the more you grow as a person in time you will come to terms to what you are looking for and attract the women who are really looking for a true mate. Wha…
/r/seduction07/09/16 11:24 AM
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If she call u cure, u call her sexy ! If her reaction is positive she thinks you are cute in a sexy way ; if she is grossed out she doesn't like u sexually in the first place
/r/seduction07/09/16 11:03 AM
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Honestly I have read the book once and feel its a bit too idealistic ! Yes there is a great message in it but everything he is saying is not going to get you laid with girls you want to. Because the women that will be so solid and strong in their search for a true stalwart come hardly by. if you are looking for a long term relationship then yes use that book as your model and its great. But if you want to get the hot girl you been eyeing, the chances are not very good. Also he does not mention m…
/r/seduction06/09/16 10:21 PM
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Could you use these principles even on a date or on first few interactions with a girl you meet lets say in a quiet bar or in dance place where there is no alcohol or loud music involved (unlike here in a noisy night club; i usually stay away from clubs) BTW u seem like an attractive guy; well built and so on. How much a role do u think that plays in your interaction ?
/r/seduction02/09/16 09:05 PM
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So now u agree to what i have been saying all this while. Well good then. Gotta try to be more attractive.
/r/seduction01/09/16 02:43 PM
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Cause I am much older than 25 year olds man ! Seriously ? "Civilised nations are a product of white Europeans" lol...read ur history kid !
/r/seduction01/09/16 02:41 PM
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Its not about what I want to hear. I am analyzing the video in the context that insecurities are unfounded and the mere confidence can really overcome all obstacles in your path. It seems like a lot of nonsense that you can overcome societies prejudices by really becoming comfortable with your shortcomings. The point is the society will still treat u the same no matter how confident you are or not. It however is good for your own benefit as it makes you immune to these things and move on. Noneth…
/r/seduction31/08/16 10:48 PM
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and now this from Krausers website : Do looks matter? Yes, massively so. The dirty secret in the community is that almost all of the name players who get laid can fit into one of these categories: Tall good-looking guy who really ought to be getting laid alot even without game. Scenester who has an in with rock / indie / hipster girls. These are highly promiscuous social circles where no game is required. Hard worker with no standards. This guy is relentlessly churning out sets and will fuck any…
/r/seduction31/08/16 08:14 PM
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No it does not ! yes if a tall guy as abysmal game the girl will obviously move away but if he even has some bit of it she will prefer him to a shorter guy who might be way better at game than the tall guy. Have u taken a look at the stats in the links i posted. What do u think of that ? Its made it very clear.
/r/seduction31/08/16 07:55 PM
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Thanks. That still doesn't answer my question. I was looking for a PUA that was like 5'6" or so (just below average). I dont think other factors matter as much as height does. Also its very easy to impress early 20s girls like 22 to 25 maybe. after 25 ur game has to be much better ! As for Krauser, this is from his website: "I see the world as it really is and generally speaking what we call “civilisation” is really the product of a tiny group of historically great white European men. Nowhere el…
/r/seduction31/08/16 07:43 PM
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All of this is well and good until you see the flaw in the argument. Yes being comfortable in urself is primal but if a girl is given a choice of a short average smart guy vs a tall handsome guy she is almost always go for the latter. I have heard girls say this a thousand times over and over again that they will not date short guys (money and looks seems not to matter that much as height. So in all this is a good video to boost ur self image but its nowhere near to how the real world works. Che…
/r/seduction30/08/16 04:06 PM
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Why do almost all pickup videos I have seen have white guys who are at least moderately good looking and at least above average tall ? The good looking guy/rich guy/tall guys have it much easier. Can anyone show links to field footage from truly average or even below average looking guys who are short ? Those guys (if they exist) have true game !
/r/seduction30/08/16 03:19 PM
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Awesome man ! good luck
/r/seduction21/08/16 07:45 PM
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