1. My burning issue is that I cannot show my interest in a girl without not showing too much interest that I should (if u know what i mean). This is almost always because I don know what to say when I am escalating and showing interest. I have read lot of blogs. Push Pull is almost always a needed principle and I dont seem to do it that well. That thing of taking two steps forward and one back. In my experience its the single most thing that makes a hell of a difference. Can anyone give a solid good examples of how to do this ?

  2. I am not sure if its lack of attraction or lack of emotional connection although I feel its the latter. I not good (even in general) making emotional connections with people (as men we are almost always forced not to do that). At what point do I know there is enough connection to ask her out for a drink and go deeper there ?

  3. I have had so many girls show interest in me and for me to only fuck it up ! I am not sure what exactly does the girl want from me to allow me to escalate. I have seen naturals do it effortlessly. And its almost always what they say and imply in their conversations rather than all the so called body language ! Thoughts?