Hi Guys I (37, M, 5'6" slim brown guy; but look like 10-12 years younger; got ID'ed last week at a club). I have been on and off in relationships with no more than 7 women my entire life. I have been told I am very friendly, smart, cultured, slightly above average on looks, have a great sense of humor and I can make women laugh at times (usually girls below 7.5). Only had one 9 in all who was my GF for a while. The more I learn game and I go out I get a feeling that it all boils down to either looks, height and quiet surprisingly race (not always but 90% I would say; being short is like a curse in itself; the rest I can handle it). I live in Ireland and I find it very hard to chat up Irish or Caucasian women in general. I mostly game Latin or southern European girls as they seem more open but then there is not too many of them. Also the dating scene here is terribly linked to alcohol. As I am short I almost never make it to the radar of girls. I have given up almost on going to bars and clubs as no matter how much I try the cure girls (8 or above) will always have better options than me of someone who is taller than me (which almost every guy here is) and who is Caucasian. Even if I try I get so overwhelmingly cock blocked by tall big guys in the bars that I almost stand no chance. Do u really think that improving game or getting coaching for improving game is really helpful. I have a feeling it does not help unless you have crippling anxiety or so. Its inherent in women to choose a taller guy no matter what. In short any good looking girl will choose a tall dude over a short dude no mater how much the smaller dude is better in any facet. What are your thoughts? Thanks guys