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Take the answers you will inevitably get here with a grain of salt. A lot of dudes are perpetually stuck in the anger phase, and others have swallowed the pill so violently that the Matrix they see consists of falling "AWALT" symbols. Love who you want how you want, just live for yourself. Don't define yourself by who you love. Do not make anybody else the center of your world. The people in your life are complimentary to it, not its focus.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 07:24 PM
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"Abs are made in the kitchen."
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 07:20 PM
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Assuming location tagging is supported by the device AND enabled.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 06:31 PM
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Women are objects. Treat them as such. I would not recommend this line of thought. Abundance mentality, not giving a fuck, not focusing solely on any/one woman, focusing on and improving yourself; that is all great advice. However, treating other human beings as objects is just bad advice. Treat people with respect if you ever want any in return, regardless of gender or any other factor outside of their control (race, etc).
/r/askTRP29/08/16 08:26 PM
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A lot of guys here have a sour taste in their mouths about marriage, and rightly so. Many of us have been through the ringer, or watched our fathers/friends go through it. Western civilization in general automatically sides with the woman/mother (although it is getting better very slowly in some areas of the US). It's a risk, as with any other big decision. You might find a woman who's worth a damn that you can actually trust, or you might find a woman who at least won't take you for everything …
/r/askTRP25/08/16 04:20 PM
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I stopped reading IFLScience when they started posting a ton of click-bait and ad-riddled garbage. 90% filler so you have to click next 5 times to get to that 10% content. /yawn
/r/seduction23/08/16 08:39 PM
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Probably true. I should have prefaced my post with a comment stating that one & two were geared more towards his question of "how did I let this happen?" It happened/is happening because he has allowed it. However, if he's just been sitting there taking it and getting mad about it, never saying anything, he's done nothing more than created a covert contract. "If she doesn't stop doing X, which I've never told her is a problem for me, then I'm going to do Y!"
/r/askTRP23/08/16 06:27 PM
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Some of these other commenters are stuck in the anger phase. I see three options. Regardless, never show your hand until you're ready; allow her to feel comfortable expressing herself truthfully without fear of being judged, and make your decision based off of that. One, A&A: "yeah, he is; threesome?" with a grin. if she agrees or shows interest in it, dump her. Two, semi nuclear: "continue disrespecting me like that and see how far it gets you." Follow through with hard next if it continues. Dr…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 03:35 PM
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100g of protein is a bit low, depending on your lean muscle mass. You weigh the same as me; I'm 6', roughly 10-12% body fat currently, and my macros are ~150g protein. Calculate your macros based on your TDEE; if you want to burn fat, eat below your TDEE (20% is a good starting point). If you want to gain muscle, eat above your TDEE (10% surplus is the number I see thrown around the most often and use myself). EDIT: Look into leangains (or ketogains) and intermittent fasting.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 09:31 PM
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First things first: I demanded it What the fuck, dude? Calm down. Nothing's going to dry a girl up faster than a dude whining about lack of blow-jobs. Second: if you bother to respond at all, a simple "Take care" is what I'd go with. Initiate "soft" next for a week or two; if she doesn't contact you within that timeframe, delete/block. Meet new women in the meantime.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 09:25 PM
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Learn mma This. If you're finding yourself in these situations, you need to know how to defend yourself. A "redpiller" in general would be in control of his emotions enough that he wouldn't start a physical confrontation, but would be ready/able to handle it if the situation arose. EDIT: Any type of martial art would suffice; ideally it'd be one that focuses on real-world applications, such as krav maga.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 07:51 PM
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Tons of chicken and turkey. Usually 2-6oz breasts of chicken and some deli turkey and I've mostly hit my protein goal, rest is filled with fattier cuts of meat, cheeses, and some veggies. If you're struggling to hit 80g of protein, that's more likely to affect your gains than fasting, imo/based on experience/reading/observations.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 04:52 AM
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Keto diet falls into the category of LCHF diets (low-carb high-fat). Most people on keto stick below 20g net carbs per day. It essentially forces the body to burn fat for fuel instead of carbs. Check out the keto and ketogains subreddits for more. A typical day for me would be ~150g protein, ~100g fat, ~15-20g net carb. (Net carb == total carbs - fiber carbs) For context, I've been doing keto/ketogains for 1.5 years, I've lost over 120lbs, if you factor in the significant muscle mass gains I've …
/r/askTRP14/08/16 12:53 AM
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I do the ketogenic diet, but I did unsweetened almond milk, 2Tbsp peanut butter, and a scoop of whey. Every now and then I'd toss in some cinnamon and/or pumpkin spice. It was actually the highlight of my day, in terms of flavor. Really, you should try to hit your macros from whole foods; protein shakes are not necessary, but can be useful to hit your macros. Beware of their sweetener (both natural and artificial) content.
/r/askTRP13/08/16 10:48 PM
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Sounds like your LTR was already in the shitter, dude. Normally I don't recommend jumping straight in for the nuclear approach (like responding "Ok" to her message...). HOWEVER, "now I'm gonna have a great time with [dude]" is definitely grounds for a hard next. Respond with: "This isn't working out, I'll leave your things in a box outside the door." Block all forms of contact, go out with previously mentioned female friend and fuck her brains out. Profit. Fucking random bitches may not work for…
/r/askTRP13/08/16 10:45 PM
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Depends. I've done both, results were always relatively neutral. One LTR simply started trying even harder, thinking she could convince me otherwise. I shut that down pretty quick and she "came to terms with it."
/r/askTRP13/08/16 10:29 PM
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In my experience, dudes in fighting gyms, regardless of discipline (MT or BJJ or what have you), are all very open and friendly once you actually talk to them. Hell, I'm in month 3 and most of the guys that were initially intimidating are the people I bullshit the most with now, and that help me out with form/advice the most now. The intimidation factor may be in part to the confidence they've gained from being in shape/a fighter. (EDIT: That and what another commenter said about your social con…
/r/askTRP13/08/16 08:13 PM
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If I'm with a girl who a) I'm fucking on the regular AND b) I enjoy her company, I'll listen to her problems from time-to-time. It all depends on your goals and relationship to this particular woman. If you feel like listening, listen. Usually they just want somebody to nod along and every now and then make noises of surprise or concern. If she's not fucking me, however, it doesn't matter whether I enjoy her company or not, I'll usually just say "Oh that sucks" and walk away while she's still co…
/r/askTRP11/08/16 04:21 PM
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Always send an "I didn't rape you" text the next morning. "Hey, I had a great time last night, let's do it again some time. :)" Focus on studies and self (lift, read, learn), women second.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 01:29 AM
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What this guy said. "Don't shit where you eat" doesn't apply only to the workplace.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 07:47 PM
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As with any group of people, the vocal minority are generally the poster children for the group. Sadly with TRP it's usually those still in the anger phase.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 05:15 PM
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Do not talk to her any more. Go to the gym to work out that aggression. Consider a contact sport like MMA. Internalize AWALT and "she's not yours, it's just your turn." If you have that assumption in mind when you enter any type of relationship with a woman, it's that much easier to laugh and shrug when it's over. Talk to other women. Today. Now.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 02:51 PM
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Fucked my girl and passes out around 11pm Good for you, bro. What does this have to do with your question? You're eating a lot of garbage. Pizza, chips, pastries... focus on clean foods, lots of healthy fats and proteins. Carbs are fine if you understand how your body metabolizes them. Stay away from sugar as much as possible. Read up on r/leangains (or r/ketogains if you're down with low-carb). Consider intermittent fasting, it REALLY does work and you can DEFINITELY gain mass while losing fat …
/r/askTRP30/07/16 02:45 PM
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Part of it is likely the "camera adds 10 lbs" phenomenon, which is nothing more than the result of a 3D image (real life) being translated onto a 2D space (your computer/phone screen). You allude to that in your 'fish-eye effect' comment. As others have said, everybody has anxiety about how they look. Find something that works for you and fucking own it. If you want external opinions, post some photos here asking for tips on style/etc. You'll usually get a good response. I have a huge (and frail…
/r/askTRP30/07/16 02:36 PM
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Not a fan of cologne's myself. I got introduced to beard oil by an ex-gf some time ago and that's all I wear. I'm a huge fan of the tea tree and peppermint scented ones. Smells great and makes my beard/face smooth AF. You can get a good-sized bottle of what I think is pretty quality stuff off Amazon for like $10.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 03:12 AM
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I recommend it 100%. There are so many benefits; strength, confidence, ability to fight (eventually) AND know when to do so, ability to analyze your surrounds / be a better observer, socialize with others/male camaraderie. I was not doing MMA beforehand, I added it in about two months ago after ~14 months of lifting 4x a week. It was a pretty big adaptation at first; you burn a TON of calories in muay-thai/BJJ. It's not uncommon for my average bpm over a 1hr session to be 160, and I was used to …
/r/askTRP27/07/16 08:25 PM
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I'm not an expert. Depends on your activity level and goals, and program. A typical 4 day split may be M/TU/TH/F training and W/SA/SU as rest days. 5 lifting days with running might be a lot. You're going to need to eat a lot to avoid losing muscle. Are you new? I'd recommend looking into something like stronglifts 5x5 in addition to your running. Everybody says that, but I've seen more progress there than elsewhere. It focuses on compound movements to build long term strength. Define your goals…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 06:02 PM
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Thanks. I did "lazy keto" for about 6 months, first 80lbs gone. Then I switched to strict keto, added in calorie counting and intermittent fasting and am still going strong. I actually have begun bulking instead of just cutting. Exercise, I started out with a home baked program a good buddy put together, which was great, but I can honestly recommend stronglifts 5x5 for building strength and beginners. Currently I do SL5x5 and MMA 3-4 times a week.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 05:53 PM
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I was close to 300 when I booted my ex out. 1.5yr later I'm around 160 with visible abs (although not a lot of definition yet). It takes dedication. A lot. Proper motivation is key.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 06:03 AM
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Never skip leg day. Looks to me like you're over training. Try take a rest day or two, and replace an ab day with legs. Squats and deadlifts will hit your core nicely.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 05:59 AM
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"Oh, yeah... I have a daughter. Didn't want to tell you ahead of time- I'm tired of girls dating me to get to her." I like this. I'm going to steal it.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 02:48 AM
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Things are different where I am, and observationally/from other men I've spoken with. A judge was assigned to my case; neither my attorney nor I had any control over it. I got lucky and had a very level-headed dude, but the infidelity was never considered. You're right, it all comes down to the human arbitrating your case.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 01:34 AM
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Do what you want dude. If you want to text, go ahead. I text when I want, and don't when I don't want to, and not just for logistics. I have zero issues with women. Be careful of the oneitis you're developing. Enter the relationship or whatever it becomes with AWALT and "she's not yours, it's just your turn" firmly internalized. Always remember you're the prize and you don't need any woman, let alone this one, to complete your life.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 11:11 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I'm inclined to agree to tell her
/r/askTRP26/07/16 06:23 PM
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Infidelity counts for Jack shit in American courts. Almost all states are no fault divorce nowadays.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 10:38 PM
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Go look in the spots you'd expect to find a unicorn.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 05:01 PM
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Then you're already on the path, brother. Keep on keepin' on.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 10:51 PM
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I'd pretend it never happened. If she brings it up, just say it wasn't a big deal; you do not need to explain/justify your actions. As you say, the goal is to not appear butthurt (well, the real goal is to actually NOT be butthurt, IDGAF, etc.). Perhaps time for some dread, pull away some and remove some affection and see her reaction, flirt with other women in front of her, etc. Really, it sounds like she's losing attraction for you, otherwise you'd not have been denied sex. WRT the friends/pla…
/r/askTRP16/07/16 03:56 PM
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I have to hire an attorney to get time with my kids and hopefully spousal support. Fight for your children. From this point forward, you exist for yourself and your children. Internalize that, and fix the rest of the shit in your life. GET A LAWYER NOW. RIGHT NOW. It's entirely possibly that she'll end up paying you child support AND spousal support, considering your situation, length of marriage, etc. A lawyer will be able to tell you more, just find one that has good reviews and has worked div…
/r/askTRP16/07/16 03:46 PM
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I'm right there with you, man. It's like the anger phase coming right back. I'm going to the gym, fuck this.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 03:38 PM
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Either to get some closure or manipulate you in some way. Block her, move on.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 04:54 PM
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I read about three sentences. Add some line breaks and some coherent thoughts and you'll probably get a few responses.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 05:11 PM
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I don't have a lot to add, but your silent mode option, minus #5, gets my vote. You did the right thing by refusing to leave. That can be used against you. Do not move out of your home unless ordered to by a judge. That being said, I am not a lawyer. Probably common sense, but don't trust a word she says. I recently went through a divorce very similar to how yours is starting. With the exception of me kicking her out (and her actually leaving), they could be clones. Fight for your child, and you…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 06:16 PM
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or is she going to divorce rape me there too? She will almost certainly try. Technically, at least in my state, joint accounts or not is irrelevant, it's all marital assets and she's entitled to half. Much like you're entitled to half. My advice for divorce... keep your fucking mouth shut (let her dig her own hole), keep records of EVERY THING, speak only via text/email whenever possible, do NOT move out of your home unless ordered, and try to make the break as clean as possible.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 02:10 AM
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I started keto a year and a half ago. Lost 110lbs and 25% body fat total (80lbs the first year), down to 170lbs/11%bf. Have a look at /r/keto, but be warned, if you're used to sucking down treats like ice cream and cake, you're going to have a hell of a time AT FIRST. Me, I only had to give up pizza and chipotle. Get a food scale. Seriously. Weigh everything. Use MyFitnessPal to track your calorie/macro intake EVERY DAY. Calculate your TDEE and then calculate your macros adjusting for goals (e.g…
/r/askTRP23/06/16 08:22 PM
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Listen to this dude. To add to the "some sort of control" bit, I've yet to be with a woman that didn't enjoy being thrown around to varying extents. Pick the position you want and move her into it.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 10:22 PM
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/thread
/r/askTRP15/06/16 04:03 AM
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Is it your kid? If not, how long have you cared for it? Do they live with you? Either way, do NOT blindly agree to joint custody. Once you do, it's EXTREMELY difficult to get it changed. Does she work? If not, "MAKE" HER WORK BEFORE DUMPING HER. It's one of the better decisions I made, was convincing my now-ex-wife that she needed to get a job and work on her career. I pay her $50 a month child support for two kids, and we share joint custody. It would have been 10x-20x that if she didn't work. …
/r/askTRP11/06/16 03:04 AM
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A dry pussy is often a sign of loss of attraction. Could be medical. Beyond that, the disrespect is an even larger sign. says she's had a stressful day, and she can make better plans on her own via text. Probable shit test. Going to the reunion is entering her frame and giving her the power. A simple "k" and radio silence for the rest of the day (at least) while you entertain yourself should suffice.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 04:24 AM
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And I guarantee the sentence would be much more harsh than 12 months.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/05/16 02:48 AM
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If you're graduating in September you have time to look for internships. When I did my internship, I was working 60 hours a week and also in school full time, on top of the internship. Excuses about not having enough time are BS. An internship will really help pad your resume; do well and you may get a letter of recommendation / reference or three out of it. Beyond that, any work experience is better than none. Hell, the ability to hold down a job for any amount of time puts you above the common…
/r/askTRP17/04/16 09:00 PM
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Opportunity lost for a solid "This really hit the nail on the head" post title.
/r/MGTOW17/04/16 08:50 PM
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These women are probably driving their husband's into this with their constant bullshit and nagging. That being said, if some of the things said about these dudes are half true, half the fault lies with them for allowing their wives to turn them into pussies.
/r/MGTOW10/04/16 10:28 PM
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Start small. Eye contact. Then add a smile. Then add a nod. Then add a "hey." Then add a "how are you?" Then add "My name is billiejeanrenault" and launch into the FORD technique. This is, of course, over a period of days/weeks, but it will eventually reduce your anxiety. Really you should focus less on approaching women and more on creating interactions with anybody and everybody. Old dudes, young women, people at the gas station, library, whatever. Low T-levels can be a sign of sedentary life …
/r/askTRP08/04/16 11:10 PM
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Here's how I look at my LTR... I trust her not to fuck around behind my back, because she'd be a fool to. I'm the prize here, but I happen to enjoy her company. I'm also happy with my life, where it's at and where it's headed. My life does not revolve around her, nor do I ever make a decision with her in mind. Therefore, if she were to fuck around on me, it'd be a simple "have a nice life" convo and I'd move on. You'll hear these phrases a lot: outcome independence, abundance mentality. You real…
/r/askTRP04/04/16 06:26 PM
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Don't. I'd try a simple "hey" in a day or two. If you get nothing, move on to the next one. Texting, in the beginning, should be logistics only. Texting can be fun after you've established an understanding of each other's personality and some level of comfort, but beforehand it's a total crap shoot.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 06:14 PM
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I game on PC only. Steam: [SR] Lews Therin Telamon Currently I'm mostly playing Rainbow Six Siege on UPlay (SN: rollhax), but just picked up Ashes of the Singularity as well on Steam.
/r/MGTOW03/04/16 05:11 PM
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Personally, I'd drop the old "This isn't working out, take care." on her head and delete her from my life. Alternatively, if you foolishly decide to stay with this girl, dread game.
/r/askTRP02/04/16 06:15 AM
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Overweight white knight telling a woman that men need to man up. There are no words to describe that level of retarded.
/r/MGTOW02/04/16 05:48 AM
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Typo, I think. You can't out exercise a bad diet.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 03:10 PM
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This is a valid option, with the caveat that you get a vasectomy (if you never want kids or already have) or wait for the vasal gel male contraceptive to hit the market. Never trust a woman completely about birth control; don't give her the option to lock you down.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 05:05 PM
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Don't mention it at all. It screams insecurity. Follows OP's advice. There are plenty of other women out there. Sounds like you've developed a little oneitis.
/r/askTRP27/03/16 09:08 PM
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Got mine 6 months ago. Very little pain during procedure (mostly just from the local anesthetic shot). Very minor dull pain for a week or two after. Was able to resume normal activities after a week. Fully healed in about a month, scar barely visible. Get a urologist. Mine was 100% paid for by insurance, but I'm in US.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 07:00 PM
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I like /u/Draki1903's answer. All you need to do is fuck ten women and you can then plausibly use that line. I'm not one to promote lying, but you could probably start using that line even if your count is below it. As others have said, never actually give a number. The hamster is powerful. And if end up breaking a plate or losing an LTR over it, no big deal, easily replaced.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 03:38 PM
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You will probably never know the real n-count of a woman, accept it and move on. The number who'll actually tell you the truth is likely so close to 0 that you may as well round down and call it AWALT. I was still finding out about dudes after 5 years of marriage to my ex. I divorced her ass not long after.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 03:36 PM
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Sounds like your plate thinks she's more than a plate (although, I'd argue there are multiple levels of platehood). If you're getting sex on the regular and she's an all-around agreeable person to be around, let her vent a little. When you're done listening to it, steer the conversation elsewhere, go do your own thing, or start taking her clothes off. /shrug The key is not to let it become a regular occurrence. It's okay to care. It's not okay to pedestalize. Learn the difference.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 01:28 AM
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Yeah, people really don't understand just how MUCH sugar is in one can of pop. I didn't think anything of 4-5 cans of pop a day. Now, I treat myself to a diet Mountain Dew once a week. Beyond that, it's water or LaCroix (work provides for free).
/r/MGTOW19/03/16 01:20 AM
1

Very interesting read. Such cognitive dissonance. One commenter states that the girl should proclaim wanting to cut her hair short, and judge the man's reaction to discern whether he's RP or not. What they all fail to realize is that any RP man would just shrug, and probably next her without a word (maybe after fucking her regardless of hair choice, depends on risk, but dat red flag tho), having more important man shit to concern himself with.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 06:44 PM
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Are you the one on the right? Not enough context, but if I read correctly you turned down sex....wat? Unless you were trying to be sarcastic. Doesn't work via text. Don't do it. Looking at your username, I'm asking whether you're in the right place.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 04:06 PM
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It's not. He's just projecting. If you like coffee, go on a fucking coffee date. Who gives a damn what others think of it?
/r/askTRP14/03/16 01:22 PM
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Must suck looking up at that pedestal. 3.5 billion women, and you're concerned about missing out on a few. Mind blown. Edit... If you haven't met within a week, maybe two, do yourself a favor and delete the number without saying a thing. (also can work in your favor when you have to ask who she is, drives the hamster wild)
/r/askTRP11/03/16 06:29 PM
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Regardless of your choice, this one's going nowhere; it has effectively ended. Try for the downgrade. I'd probably be slightly obvious about it, have a little fun applying dread.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 05:22 AM
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Is the friend cute? Go for it. Omlala has a pretty good guide written up. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3l310a/the_red_pillers_guide_to_online_dating/
/r/askTRP10/03/16 04:50 AM
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Now that I'm no longer married, the cynical/bitter side of me is actually enjoying watching the marriage-system burn, as more and more men choose to just say fuck it. Should be an interesting decade.
/r/MGTOW09/03/16 11:09 PM
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Your link seems to be broken, points to this post.
/r/MGTOW08/03/16 11:17 PM
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Then I defer to my original statement: "Ask nice." That or a simple "No."
/r/askTRP08/03/16 04:06 AM
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You should consider asking this question on /r/marriedredpill (in addition to reading the sidebar). Still attracted to your wife? Any real problems in the marriage, or just bored? Does your wife work/have marketable skills? Attraction can't be negotiated. Somebody either is or isn't attracted to another person, and attraction goes beyond the physical. Personally, having been married/divorced (and my ex attempted, and failed miserably, to divorce/child support rape me), I advise GTFO while you ca…
/r/MGTOW08/03/16 03:58 AM
1

Meh, most women act entitled, but you're right, white women more so than most in my experience. Still, it wasn't really relevant to your question.. I'd just ignore her and not do what she says (or if it's something you're supposed to do anyways, don't do it when she asks).
/r/askTRP07/03/16 05:29 AM
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white girl Why is this important or pertinent to the question? Let's see... she's not a supervisor, but worked there before. Sounds like some self-important broad who thinks she's better than everybody else because she used to work there (in reality, she probably wasn't good enough at her new job so had to come back). Or, if you're feeling frisky... I love to use this one on my LTR's... "Ask nice" or "Only if you're good" with a smirk. (Also works great on ex-wives.) (actually... second thought.…
/r/askTRP07/03/16 04:51 AM
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Do you live with this girl? If so, things just became a whole lot more difficult. If not, you can have a relatively clean break. Either way, you should understand she's going to fight it, she's going to want an explanation, and closure. She seems like a nice enough girl, and if you want to entertain it and give her a clean break, great, if not, don't. You don't owe it to her. She will probably resort to either anger/name calling or manipulation, or both; don't let it break you down. It can be a …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 03:45 AM
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She probably thinks you want a relationship. I'd be willing to bet that while she's telling you she just wants to be friends, she's getting slammed by Chad. Be Chad.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 01:10 AM
1

I see two options... do the church thing and don't take it seriously (who cares if you don't speak Spanish? Pussy only speaks one language, brother, and that language is dick.), or get emancipated and move out. I was forced into religion as a kid, although my parents weren't overly religious. It back-fired on them, as I now identify as agnostic on a good day, or raging atheist if I've read the newspapers lately.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 01:07 AM
1

Constant PDA ("mate guarding") is a beta behavior, and a lot of people see right through it. It screams insecurity. Treat him like any other bro. If he's at least marginally intelligent and can hold a conversation, converse with him. If not, do your own thing.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 08:36 PM
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Trickle truth. If it took her that much to admit to getting fingered, think of how much she's hiding still.
/r/askTRP05/03/16 08:18 PM
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If anybody ever asks you why you think fewer men are choosing not to get married, you now have exhibit Z (because you likely already have A-Y).
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 06:16 PM
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As mentioned here, being present and a good male role model will help her decide what makes a real man, and will likely allow her to weed out the betas and gravitate towards those with a healthy mix of alpha and beta traits, much like you should be displaying for her. If you can manage it, find a good solid woman to be a role model for her. I have a son and daughter, and was unlucky and chose the wrong woman to mother my kids, but got lucky when the woman I chose for daycare turned out to be ver…
/r/MGTOW04/03/16 06:04 PM
0

She is incredibly hard to get got to have the hottest sex I ever had with her So, which is it? Hard to get or easy? Answering this question may give you some additional insight into answering your other question.
/r/askTRP28/02/16 09:13 PM
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Oh gawd this was painful to fucking watch. Especially when Mr. Blue the Beta King addresses the overly aggressive white knight jackoff as "sir." Hopefully dude finds his way here.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 03:37 AM
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Yeaaaah, you'll notice I didn't link them. It wasn't because I forgot..
/r/MGTOW25/02/16 07:00 PM
6

By the time you start rubbing her pussy, if she isn't dripping wet you're doing everything wrong, including the way you carry yourself on a day-to-day basis. Basically, her slapping your hand away is her telling you that you don't turn her on enough. Never been with a girl who hadn't soaked through her panties by the time my hand got there. Granted, there may be exceptions to this (women with actual medical issues) but they are rare enough outliers to not matter. Lift, gain confidence, stop cari…
/r/askTRP22/02/16 10:19 PM
2

I tend to not ask questions that can be answered with a yes/no/maybe. Better: "what are your plans this week?" and if I get a half-assed response, either via text or face to face, I drop a "ok cool" and soft next. Open ended questions are best.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 08:51 PM
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I've always told my LTR's that if they're going to kiss a girl, I get to watch, and the other girl needs to be cute. Next the bitch. As /u/awkwardtouching points out, she was likely doing it for attention from men.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 05:40 PM
2

Sensationalist bullshit. They bully the other party assuming they have no facts to back up their case, when in reality the bully has no facts either, just emotion. It's a gamble, one that often works because most people don't have stats in their back pocket to whip out at any minute to prove others wrong, and checking Wikipedia mid argument isn't a solid choice.
/r/MGTOW14/02/16 11:24 PM
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It's not so much that it's fake, as that men and women do not love the same. Men love unconditionally, loyally, whereas women love conditionally. A woman's love can be switched on and off seemingly at random. This is possibly an evolutionary response, and an explanation for how women can branch swing so easily (a response to a need for a new mate, more security, more resources, etc. for their offspring). Like many men, you are likely equating what you think of as love to the feelings you held to…
/r/askTRP14/02/16 07:00 PM
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"I don't think she would cheat on me" is a sure enough sign to many that you haven't internalized TRP/AWALT yet. Always assume they will. Don't fault them for it, but be prepared for it. Also assume they will take that secret to their grave. They will lie and trickle truth you to the end of the Earth before admitting fault in themselves. EDIT: also throwing my opinion in... down-grade to plate, if possible. If not, take a long hard look at what this woman is adding to your life. Is it enough? Al…
/r/askTRP14/02/16 06:43 PM
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As somebody who just two weeks ago got divorced from a woman approximately 60% as bad as your mother sounds, I can sympathize. At OP +/u/thegr8b8m8, fight with every ounce of strength and every penny you have. I did, and my kids will be better off for it. Instead of yanking them out of everything they've ever known and getting me on the hook for child support, I fought and won for them to stay in their hometown (where I live), and she gets $50 (yes, fifty) a month in child support. It was very e…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 12:56 AM
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I'm 30 and have two kids. Got a vasectomy in September, confirmed sterile in December. Best decision I've made. It has basically freed me entirely from having to worry about being locked down ever again (as I have no plans to marry and/or care for somebody else's kids). It was 90% painless (mostly just a minor ache for two weeks) and every now and then I get a minor ache, which seems to resolve with time or sex. Worst part was taking a week off from the gym. Best part was my insurance covered it…
/r/MGTOW08/02/16 05:44 PM
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If you have to ask the question, you more or less already have your answer.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 05:37 AM
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Let others finish their piece and ACTIVELY LISTEN while they are speaking. Many tend to formulate a response while the other party is still talking, leading to you not listening and thus poor conversation. Listen to what they say, think on it for a second, and give your response.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 03:20 AM
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She's giving you excuses straight from the book. That's all they are, excuses to absolve her of any guilt she might feel for what she's done or about to do. A 4 month relationship, and you're writing this much? Dude. Just end it, walk away and find better.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 05:37 AM
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I'm more or less there myself, done with women beyond sex and some companionship. I'm seeing a girl, and she knows I'll never marry her. She doesn't, however, know that I'm snipped.
/r/MGTOW29/01/16 03:41 PM
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Sadly, yes, but my integrated graphics is plenty for what I use linux for (everything besides gaming).
/r/MGTOW28/01/16 09:04 PM
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Ah, a punograhpist! Have an upvote, sir. I'm working on my punography. You're not missing anything by being un-married. Really, women work harder to please a man while they're not married/hopeful to get married. Your refusal to marry will eventually kill the relationship, but who cares?
/r/MGTOW28/01/16 04:34 PM
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And I bet you get no amount of shit for it from your family.
/r/MGTOW28/01/16 04:30 PM
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I indeed got 50/50 joint with 50% parenting time. I fully expect relatively soon for that to go up to 60-70% parenting time for me as she chooses to go out more, etc. Don't ever badmouth her to your children. I agree 100%, and never do. Given some of the things my son has told me/said, I believe she does badmouth me to some extent. I generally just correct him in a way that doesn't badmouth her and forget about it. Words are just words. /shrug The monthly reminder thing... I hadn't thought of th…
/r/MGTOW28/01/16 04:27 PM
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In my experience, if a girl isn't willing to go down on you at random AND when you request it, she's not worth much time/attention (and it's a great indication of her level of attraction towards you; women will do anything for/with you given a high enough attraction level). You say she's using it as a reward... two can play that game. Remove affection and use it as a reward for blow jobs. Simple enough. Continue (or start to) working on yourself, both intellectually and physically RIGHT NOW. My …
/r/askTRP28/01/16 01:56 AM
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Put it this way... If she's showing interest, any boyfriends are at the back of her mind, if at all. All you'd be doing is reminding her, which is likely to send her running.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 10:41 PM
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Funniest shit I've seen in a year. Had to pause several times to catch my breath and/or pick jaw up off floor. I thought I was done being surprised. TIL Ginger is a race.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 05:08 AM
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But that's the part that I'm having a hard time wrapping my head around. That's part of the journey, man. Are you saying just wait until she does go to the club, and then tell her it was unacceptable? And then break up? I'm saying you should EXPECT her to cheat. If not now, eventually. Every woman. "She's only yours right now." Once you wrap your head around that concept, you'll have a lot easier time not showing weakness. Don't kid yourself, she made the choice to go to a club without you "to d…
/r/askTRP24/01/16 10:19 PM
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The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene EDIT: Wow I suck at reddit.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 06:54 PM
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No wonder she went to the club, she has no respect for you. Drop her. No explanation needed. This is your life you're living, not hers. Live it. That's not to say you handled it correctly. For future reference, telling somebody what they can't do is a surefire way to make them do it. Ask my ex-wife :D If the conversation doesn't warrant agree & amplify, or I'm applying some dread game, I've had good success lately with the following template: "It's your [body|life|whatever], do as you will with …
/r/askTRP24/01/16 06:51 PM
3

Get rid of your current lawyer (solicitor? whatever that is). If s/he thinks you're guilty, they cannot properly represent/defend you in court. GET. A. LAWYER. At the very least, get a second/third/fourth professional opinion. A lawyer who won't fight for you is not somebody you want standing next to you in front of a judge.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 06:40 PM
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OP, listen to this guy. Actions > words. I use FB to post pics of my kids for my mom. That's it.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 09:36 PM
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Bullet dodged. Not a shit test, she's just fucking crazy. Imagine if you did bed her, you'd likely hear cries of rape not long after.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 09:24 PM
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Don't believe a word she says about an ex. Women often talk shit about exes, most of the time not true, in an effort to a) beef up your ego (to lock you down...) and b) make themselves feel better (cognitive dissonance; "I didn't need him anyways."). I've had women tell me I'm huge, and after I walk they say I'm tiny. Who cares. I'm average, I'm fine with it, and I know how to use it. How I'd handle it... "k" and a soft next. If I was feeling charitable, "K, take care" and a soft next.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 11:20 PM
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The very same husband, indeed! I'd pay to see her reaction if he were to say the same thing about his own years of adventure fucking... but then again, given how much of a giant pussy he's likely to be, he probably never had any.
/r/MGTOW18/01/16 01:07 AM
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Here's the simple version, as I understand it (I may be/probably am off-base on some of this): Our bodies metabolize fats/proteins at a slower rate than carbohydrates. The energy we don't utilize gets converted to fat. So, logically, you'd want to be active right after consumption of any food, but especially carbohydrates, because they burn faster (and thus get converted to fat faster). The American diet, and a lot of the world really, is heavy in carbs, and habits are generally pretty sedentary…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 11:18 PM
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I do mostly strict keto with the occasional cheat day (pizza or Chipotle, maybe once a month).
/r/askTRP05/01/16 09:53 PM
1

I've done low carb for the past year and would say my energy level increased significantly.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 01:33 AM
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I'd disagree, anecdotally. I do intermittent fasting on a 16/8 split and I consistently burn fat, to the (current) tune of approximately 0.5% per week. My eating window is 12pm-8pm, but I generally only eat between 12pm-4pm, excluding my post-workout protein shake.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 03:47 PM
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I'm not a nutritionist, ymmv. This is all anecdotal. The simple formula for fat loss is calories in < calories out. Calculate your TDEE, cut that number by 20% and you have your target daily caloric consumption number. However, personal experience and what I've read tells me there's more to it. What you eat matters, but imho not as much as the quantity. Genetics also come into play. For me, the only way I've been able to lose the weight AND keep it off is with the keto diet (no/low carb). See /r…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 03:44 PM
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It says when you eat not what you eat
/r/askTRP04/01/16 02:37 PM
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Calories in vs calories out. Can't bring a lunch from home? Doesn't matter when you eat, just be sure to hit your caloric tagets and, if you're tracking them, macros. There are plenty of calculators online that will help you calculate this. Personally, I use /r/ketogains calculator.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 01:49 PM
1

Tea tree scented beard oil. The LTR goes nuts over it.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 08:24 AM
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Rules? Calm down, dude. You want to get her a gift? Then get her a gift. You're over thinking it, a sure sign of oneitis.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 02:48 PM
1

That is an excellent plan. I approve.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 06:22 PM
1

First time having sex after was a minor annoyance, really. I still fucked her silly. No jock strap, but only because my normal boxers are the athletic support ones, doc said that would work fine.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 05:28 AM
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No homo, just answers. Depends on the doctor. I was told to wait a day before showering. I had no pain hanging in the shower, or washing (gently, of course). Doc told me to wait at least a week before sex, which I did, but it wasn't enough. Ended up with some pain and inflammation. Kinda surprised the gf didn't notice while she was down there, but /shrug (no, I didn't tell her). It was more irritation from rubbing the wound than anything else. I was back to the gym ASAP (7 days) without any prob…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 12:25 AM
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Getting the last word in is a woman's game. Just disappear, soft next. If she tries to set something up, I see no harm in it. EDIT: chiding for unresponsiveness via text is likely not helping you any. You really need vocal inflection and facial cues for that to work.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 11:43 PM
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I got a vasectomy three months ago. HUGE weight off my shoulders, and I have some sick dream that I'll get some crazy bitch trying to claim I'm the father, and I can pull a Craigslist guy. Mostly painless, some minor discomfort the week or two after. The biggest annoyance was having to take a vacation from the Iron Temple for a week. For the record, I already have two kids, and will never marry again.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 11:21 PM
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A) She's still talking to that "friend" of seven years. She's just doing it in secret. B) As others have said, trust your gut. Take it from us; most of us, myself included, have at one point in time ignored our gut, when it was the only source of truth all along. Next.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 04:32 PM
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Kids? If so, track everything. EVERYTHING. Insignificant or not, track it. (this is helping my current situation by offering proof that my ex is only after money, and doesn't care about my/our kids) (edit: arguably you should track everything she does/days during the divorce, regardless of kids; keep a journal, fill it with facts free from personal thoughts on the situation) Communicate only via text, and only about the divorce (and kids if you have any). Ignore her. She'll likely try some emoti…
/r/askTRP19/11/15 11:19 AM
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I agree with everybody else: give no fucks (and I mean literally give no fucks, don't just pretend not to give a fuck so as to appear unphased). Read "The Rediller's Guide to Online Dating" by /u/OmLaLa. A lot of that stuff, specifically the "texting for logistics" can be useful in non-online dating situations, as well. He recommends, and logically it makes sense, to NOT confirm again after you've received initial confirmation. She'll confirm, or she'll flake. But, that doesn't matter to you, be…
/r/askTRP14/11/15 11:51 PM
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FYI, looks like you're trying to reply to comments, but are instead commenting on the main thread.
/r/askTRP14/11/15 04:09 PM
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You're pedestalizing what you haven't had. You'll see this sentiment a lot around here, but outcome independence is something you need to master. If you want to start small, begin innocent conversations with random people, not just (attractive) women. "Nice weather." "Nice ride. What's under the hood?" So on. That's where I started. I'm by no means a master, but it works. If you're like me and you don't care for the bar/night life, go join a group or club. Meet people, network, get introduced to…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 02:32 PM
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Make sure you save that text with her threatening to charge you with rape. In multiple places. That bitch is insane. Make sure you do not speak to her ever again.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 01:50 PM
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I'd take it as a bad sign, but really... who gives a fuck? Gonna marry this girl? If not, fuck her at your pleasure and drop her when you're bored and/or she continues to disrespect you. shrug
/r/askTRP31/10/15 04:17 AM
1

Dude, chill. Go to her work, get some pizza, flirt and invite her over for Netflix. Overthinking is a guaranteed way to fuck it up. Who cares if she knows you're there for her? If she says no, say "ok" and go do other shit, because you have other shit to do... Right?
/r/askTRP18/10/15 12:33 AM
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Do not. I repeat. Do not do that. Do not stick your dick in crazy. As a matter of fact, never speak to her again.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 02:11 PM
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Man, thanks for this. I'm really digging this Thorium guy and his commentary.
/r/MGTOW06/10/15 03:10 AM
1

Tea tree beard oil. Nothing better.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 07:12 PM
2

I thought that at first, but then decided it was too lame of a trolling attempt to be anything less than authentic.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 05:05 PM
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Did you read the sidebar? Do your own thing. If she doesn't like it, show her the door. 3+ billion women on the planet, take your pick. Live for yourself. Don't keep people in your life that add no value to it. (Re-)read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 04:02 PM
1

It really is mostly about diet. Calories in < calories out. "Abs are made in the kitchen." I've heard some estimates say that diet is about 80% of it, but I'd say that's a bit high (depends on your goals). I've removed 85lbs and ~20% body fat (down to 195lb/17% body fat) in the last 10 months doing keto and hitting the gym 4 times a week. Those numbers would probably be pretty similar without the gym, but I wouldn't have the bulk I do now. I only do sprints on the treadmill once a week, and some…
/r/askTRP02/10/15 05:03 PM
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Do not do this over text. Vocal inflection and shit-eating-grin are important here.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 05:37 PM
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"... it's gonna crush your pride like a meteor from hell landing on an ant... which still has more testosterone than you, apparently." I haven't laughed so hard in months.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 11:29 PM
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Makes sense. I'll keep that in mind, thanks! I'm back on the losing track and almost to my first set of goals.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 02:47 PM
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Bah! Thing is, I increased my intensity at the gym (schedule remained he same, 4 days per week) and kept caloric deficit the same. Still couldn't get below 215 until I added in leangains. 201 currently.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 05:14 PM
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Can confirm /r/keto: I've lost 80lbs, down to 18% BF (from over 30%) and noted a lot of extra muscle, in 10 months. I'm also now doing /r/leangains, which has gotten me over a plateau I was stuck at.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 04:32 PM
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In a semi-LTR for about 4 months now. Before I met her, coming off a divorce, I lost 80 lbs and put on a lot of muscle. I told the LTR in a passing comment: "Now that I've lost all this weight, I'm finding myself disgusted by fat people." Two days later she had a gym membership and goes almost every morning before work.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 02:38 PM
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This. So much this. I've sat my son down a few times (he's 4) and told him that he always looks people in the eye when he talks to them, among other things. So far, so good.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 05:51 PM
1

I could watch Stefan Molyneux videos all day, dude is hilarious and incredibly intelligent.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 12:27 AM
1

It's all about patience and self control, which is kind of the purpose of nofap. Start with a day or two. Increase to three, four, seven, and so on. It's the same as hitting the gym, you're not going to see results right away.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 10:33 PM
1

OP, listen to this guy. It's called kino. Basic premise is you make her comfortable with your touch and subtly push the envelope until it feels natural. Sounds odd, but it works.
/r/seduction13/03/15 11:43 AM
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Unsure if sarcasm or troll. If not... Step one... Stop calling yourselves feminists, come on over to humanism.
/r/MensRights06/10/14 03:12 AM
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This might be the pessimist in me speaking, but I have the feeling that the courts would allow it, because feminism.
/r/MensRights06/10/14 03:10 AM
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Good point. This man will likely spend the rest of his life struggling to get by, having lost his shot at both an education and an NFL contract. She all but ended this man's life.
/r/MensRights06/10/14 03:08 AM
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This is no excuse. We learn in kindergarten to treat others as we expect to be treated.
/r/MensRights18/07/14 10:21 AM
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Ridiculous. What's the point though? They "assure" this murderer has to think about what they did once a year, while the parents have to live with crippling depression every day until nature releases them from their suffering. That is, assuming the babysitter isn't a sociopath, which you'd almost have to be to do this. Seriously, fuck that girl and fuck that judge.
/r/MensRights15/01/14 12:15 PM
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While I'd have appreciated paragraphs, I must say I agree with most of this. Women will say they want to be independent and other feminist drivel, but in reality they (secretly) want the alpha who knows how to put them in their place. My wife was talking to her ex against my wishes. She changed her mind really damn quick when I said she was two seconds from being on her ass. You need /r/theredpill, OP.
/r/askTRP10/11/13 02:28 AM
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Two options... 1) walk away (best option) 2) make her stop I guarantee if you allow it to continue it will only poison your relationship.
/r/askTRP10/11/13 02:23 AM
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Seems to me you're being the beta. Make her cut it off completely. If she hesitates to do this, tell her to pack up and leave.
/r/askTRP04/09/13 11:48 PM
3

Cleveland. We really need more of him.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 11:55 AM
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Great analogy!
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 02:48 AM
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Eh, what doesn't giegerwasright's statement have to do with feminism or the content of OP's post?
/r/MensRights11/04/13 03:03 PM
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ALWAYS assume it is short term. Always KNOW that it's not the last pussy you'll be fucking. Because let's face it, yours isn't the last dick she'll be fucking. Once you internalize that, you will be able to enjoy your time with her much more. Because, it's just your turn.
/r/askTRP
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I think you're misunderstanding some basic TRP principles. You really shouldn't care, or you least don't let her know that you care. When she knows you worry, get jealous, etc, that shows weakness and reduces attraction. I get it, it is still painful. Doesn't matter. Deal with it and don't show weakness. My first relationship after booting my ex and finding TRP I had a similar experience. I simply told her she was throwing up red flags, told her "it's your life, do as you will with it" and the b…
/r/askTRP
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Not sure what else I can elaborate. I felt like ass for the first couple weeks but after that my overall energy level and willingness to do things increased. Again as below, anecdotal evidence at best and may be a result of healthier eating habits, fitness routine, etc.
/r/askTRP
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I skimmed your post. You're really asking in the wrong community, most people here, myself included, outright reject the idea of marriage (especially marriage backed by a government institution). As the victim of attempted divorce rape (on-going) and fighting a child custody battle, my advice to you: NEVER. GET. MARRIED. Pre-nups can be, and have been, thrown out by a judge. Keep that in mind. EDIT: Just read the bit about neither of you wanting kids; you have now lost the only legitimate reason…
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