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Pure shit post here. No tie to sexual strategy of any kind here.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 01:47 AM
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So covert contracts are at play here. He seems to think that you owe him free work because he gave you some business. In fact, you both benefit from him throwing you business. If his associates get good work, it makes them happy. He's making his friends happy through you. You might be able to trade him something, buy don't work for free. You might say yes, but ask about your position in the credits. I don't know how the business works, but recognition can be as important and valuable as cash. As…
/r/askTRP11/10/14 11:53 PM
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Social proof via fame and success are signals that a person has genetic superiority.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 12:56 AM
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No.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 10:56 PM
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Like "Nemo" dodging bullets, lol. It is funny. Like Neo, once you understand the simple rules behind human nature, it seems far less complex and much more predictable.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/14 11:41 PM
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Holy crap that's dark. Showing her that from 10 years ago? That kind of trauma inducing act can't be healthy. I wish it broke a law.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 08:49 AM
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I get it. The place where Jonny got it wrong was in having dreams rather than goals. If you want something, plan for it. Don't sit there wondering what would happen IF.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 05:25 PM
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Congrats!
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/14 03:46 PM
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I've got kids. If morning sickness is an issue, she may need to eat more often. Also, you might change prenatals and drink ginger honey tea. One advantage of the preggo state is that you can indulge her hamster. Let her know that her behavior is due to being pregnant. Use amused mastery to calm her worries. Hold your frame and she will mirror your ease.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/14 02:13 AM
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It's not that out there. Women smell lack of confidence like dogs smell fear. Maybe you are putting off subtle hints of insecurity.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 04:08 PM
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You will get pretty far by not having an uptick at the end of your sentances. That's how women talk. Take your time as you speak. Cadence is as important as tone.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 04:01 PM
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Mmm... You might have been better off without calling her an idiot. That's entertaining drama. Huge props apart from that. Also, did you write down who's day is who's? You might introduce a calendar to add some order...
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/14 12:50 AM
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Yep. It's likely a combination of both. Reality does not bend itself to be more understandable.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/14 06:13 PM
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I'm reading these. Thanks for posting.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/14 03:18 PM
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I think there is a kind of dual strategy at play here. Just like women have AF/BB, there are two things TRP looks for in women regarding sex. (1) she puts out. (2) she only puts out for you. Now, you can see how if (1) is true, it makes it harder for (2) to be true. So, in many cases, the point of having multiple women is to start with (1) and look for (2) among them. If you can find both in the same girl, they are promoted to an LTR. To me, this question is very similar to asking why women say …
/r/askTRP02/09/14 03:04 PM
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It sounds like she is looking for drama and you are giving it to her. If you are getting angry, throwing up your hands and surrendering to her reality, you are not holding frame. You should encourage rational discussion about household issues, but not tolerate drama. The whole point of agree and amplify and amused mastery is to be above the influence of drama. A better response would be to ask her where she expected you to step in and help with childcare that week. If she didn't tell you about i…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/14 07:33 AM
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Krav is like martial arts crossfit. They focus on endurance over form. I think BJJ is more technically focused, but it's mostly grappling rather than strikes.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 01:38 AM
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Maybe you could get a session with a financial planner. You could "buy" investments of stock or mutual funds, 401k. If you introduce it as an opportunity to invest, rather than "oh no, stop spending money", it makes you look wise instead of a spendthrift.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/14 12:08 PM
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Look at the book "Mastery" by Robert Greene. In it, he mentions a strategy for starting a new profession. As a new hire, your first 2 months are expected to be transition related. You don't have to impress anyone. You just observe for now. Look at who is most successful in that context and emulate them. Find a way to bring attention to yourself. That's it.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 11:58 AM
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I can't tell what you want from your post. I can tell you that if you are unhappy you should make changes. Do you take a night off once in a while? If you did, she should be able to experience normal chores without you. That might help. About the sex, I can't tell if you are happy or not. If you just want more sex, i suggest adding it into your routine. Shower sex is great. You have to stop expecting great sex will just happen to you and take charge.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/14 08:04 AM
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When I go through a resume, I look at it for about 15 seconds. It should convey your skills in that small amount of time.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 01:45 AM
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Here are things I like to do to let my wife know I appreciate her: Verbal praise. Foot / shoulder / back / butt rubs. Coffee or tea. Talk about a date we should go on.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/14 02:01 AM
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Isn't third base "down the pants"?
/r/askTRP23/08/14 07:58 PM
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I can empathize with the the feeling of others not really being smart enough to be interesting. However, some of the burden is on you to ask the right questions and find the right people. You want to stay challanged. It sounds like you are trying to play it safe in life. Find a group of people that challenge you. Get a job that's more difficult. Also, don't get drunk or train too hard. Steady progress is better than a hangover and slipping workout days.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 02:27 PM
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You started to call her out on listening to you, but you didn't follow through. I asked my wife if she remembered me telling her not to buy the medicine. She acknowledged and basically gave me a fuck you look. I maintained form on that one and walked away. That sound like all it takes from her is a look and you run with your tail between your legs. You almost started in a good way. It might have worked better to follow through with something like. "Do you remember I told you not to buy the medic…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/14 02:32 AM
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I would need something more specific, an example of a time that happened, to offer advice
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/14 12:26 AM
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I'm religious. I also waited before I was married to have sex. Now, this was a choice that I made. I would not have said I was "obligated". No matter what choice you make in life, you need make it not out of obligation or desperation, but from a position of power. I didn't get married so that I could have sex. I became married because I wanted a partnership with someone who had a proven track record of a virtuous life. I looked at all aspects of life: family, religion, beliefs, health, reputatio…
/r/askTRP21/08/14 03:48 PM
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You should search TRP subs for "covert contracts". It sounds like you have expectations that you are not explicitly communicating to her. As men, it's easy to expect tit for tat, but it's really kind of dishonest. In short, avoid doing nice things for her with an implied agreement that she will return the favor. If you taker her on a date, it should be because YOU want to. Rp theory also encourages rewarding good behavior. If you get a good bj, maybe it's a reminder that you can set up a new dat…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/14 06:17 AM
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Weather is chaos too; but no one is surprised when it rains or is sunny. Women have a range of emotions far broader than actionable behavior. So, keep your eye on what they do, not how they say they feel.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 06:46 PM
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Contribute to or start your own open source project on github. One of the things I look for in new hires is strong side projects.
/r/askTRP19/08/14 01:37 AM
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Mmm. Maybe if you start at fatter it's worse. My wife's tits still look great after 2 kids. Stretchmarks nowhere near nsfl territory.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 04:15 PM
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The most obvious womanly influence is that don, the alpha, comes from such a troubled past. He'a not a womanizer because he can be. He's a womanizer because his mom was anprostitute. Why would any unbroken man want to have more than one woman?
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 03:48 AM
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So this was easier than calling her out for being a pill?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/14 02:05 PM
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They don't really account for selection bais. Dudes who can jerk off well don't have prostate problems. Men who have prostate problems don't find sex as well and may lack motivation for jerking.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 12:22 AM
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Something I try to do is to periodically ask myself, "who is leading the tone of this conversation." If your agenda is not even being considered, they aren't really talking to you. Redirect actions and words to your frame.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 12:10 AM
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I really like the approach of this post. Of course, as with most decisions, there are tradeoffs. I will add that if you have a mission in life, which should NOT revolve around fucking a woman, the energy saved not spinning plates can help you focus.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 05:08 PM
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Uh... Safe how. I mean, punching yourself in the face isn't safe, but it's not bad boy. I would think bad boys go against established social norms, acting in self interest.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 04:57 AM
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The advice is this post gives one cancer, if followed. I wonder what non-cancer causing vices can give the same bad boy appearance.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 04:50 AM
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This sentiment goes along with the idea that hitting your woman is like keying your own car. Why would I do that?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 03:32 AM
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Depending on the school, being a professor can be very prestigious. It's more about being able to do what you want than to make tons of money.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 03:53 AM
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You are really missing out. My "how not to rape" class was as useful as my "how not to stab yourself in the face" class. I have never raped others nor stabbed myself in the face. 100% sucess.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 05:15 PM
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It's a prethought crime you may be committing without even knowing it.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 04:06 PM
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Don't be unattractive. Have a mission. Maybe two missions.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 03:42 PM
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Good post. Marries man here. Once I knew my wife wanted to defer devisions to me, it made life easier. While I've never been a whiner, I have learned from here that it's better to explain your solution to an experienced problem. It says, "sure I have problems (at work etc), but I am well able to take care of them." The biggest change in my behavior was to stop apologizing. Now, I do not apologize for making her feel any particular way. If her feelings get hurt because of something stupid, I don'…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 10:10 PM
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Each of my sisters opted to cut their kids. I don't know why. It must be hip or something. I think part of the problem is how feeling of circumcision is described: the same as the difference from the front vs the back of your hand. For a woman who has not worked on a ranch, constructions, hard labor in general, there is not much difference. Mens' hands tend to have far more callus.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 07:28 PM
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Downvoted, but lol.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 02:22 AM
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I'm glad they do. I still think that hamstering / sopilism makes it difficult for women to rate hotness objectively. I'm just as interested in WHY this is the case as I am about knowing it is the case.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 08:59 PM
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I think it may have to do with hamstering. Basically, womb interpret the question as, who would you be the most attractive for a RELATIONSHIP for you. If they don't think they can bag a 20yo as a 50 yo, they wern't really /s attracted to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 05:48 AM
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Dark Horse by Katy Perry shows an rp truth. The gist id that she knows she is going to have an ONS with an alpha, but claims to be able to get him to commit. If the sex she gives is great, he will be addicted and become her's. Sloots are gonna dream.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 07:27 AM
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Not much alpha cock among cs degree seekers. Maybe that's why women do not get cs degrees. But really, you find all kinds of incompetent people with meaningless jobs who end up with degrees. Resume VS performance is highly variable. Note the movie office space. Many people with jobs have no impact on amything. People bs their way into jobs they are not qualified for all of the time. I know i try to. Don't get hung up on others' undeserved success.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 02:49 AM
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Well, it's a novel perspective. I wish I had transcripts of the dates. What I do not see, which I expected to see, is anything about women measuring status. Perhaps it's conflated along with "integrity"? At the same time she argues that women try to look at a man beyond looks alone, she paints a visual of burly, manly men.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 03:15 PM
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I've been through 2 successful pregnancies with my wife. The whole experience is really worthwhile. I realize that much of TRP and society in general avoids having children like they are STDs. From my perspective, having children is the way you, your ideas and literal cells, live past your lifespan. Pregnancy is the ultimate expression of femininity. Her tits get bigger, curves accentuate, and as she nears full term she might be get a "glow" and become happy and cheerful. At the same time, hormo…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 12:01 PM
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Physical acts that show you are capable of providing are key now and then. My wife loves the occasional dip kiss and wrestling that she always loses. I remind her that I'm stronger than her, and I think she finds comfort in that. I've been learning benevolent dominance gets me more and better sex. For me, it that looks like, "Come to bed right now. You will feel much better after I have my way with you." This is much more effective than prior poor framing of "I really want to have sex, it's been…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 05:02 AM
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Yes. With kids, you can influence the world. I believe my outlook on life and work ethic benefit society; my kids will be the same. In China, kids are expected to take care of their parents. I respect my parents. I know that I will have to take care of them one day. In turn, my kids will take care of me in old age. La familia es todo.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 05:32 AM
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"If I didn't like it, it wasn't sex."
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 05:22 AM
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"It was fun to drink so much, but I want to stay healthy so I can't do that every time."
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She might say "God" if pressed. I'm far less philosophical than I once was. But the point is to live under God given constraints. Essentially, there is some order that God made. Embracing this structure makes everyone happier.
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Happy guy here. We have traditional family roles. I work. She stays home with the kids. I make the important decisions. She grew up poor and religious. She has a perfect reputation of being a good person and not slutty. She treated her parents and family well (parents stayed married. No daddy issues). We married young (20, 19). Had kids a few years after that. As a Christian, she and I believe that God has established me as the head of the household. Practically, this grants me more perceived au…
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