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/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:23 PM
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Post this to r/dating_advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:56 AM
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I think part of it is that people assume that Frat/finance bros are usually conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:23 AM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:36 AM
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Do you have any desire at all, to have kids and start a family? If you don't...then yeah, might just be better for you to stay single. You kind of remind me of my friend, but he wants to have kids soon. Which is the sole reason why he wants to get a girlfriend and get married.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/26 06:30 PM
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21 year old guys are competing with other 21 year old guys and older men, for 21 year old girls. They're usually not trying to date older woman. But 30 year old guys can date women their age, and women younger. The number of options is simply greater, the older you get, assuming that women won't date a guy younger than them. I'll also say that I was broke in my early 20's, and didn't have a car and couldn't afford hobbies. Then after I graduated college and got my first job, all of those seemed …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:28 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:01 AM
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In person interactions are just way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:51 PM
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This is a modern phenomena, driven by the excessive rise in cost of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:55 AM
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It could be due to location or other factors, but I think I have more opportunities now as a guy at 30, then I did from the ages of 18-25.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:38 PM
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Yup, location is one of the biggest factors in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:52 PM
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"Hoeflation" is just one of the side effects of rampant capitalism. The rising cost of living, dating apps, and social media have resulted in women having higher standards than ever. Not all of the blame can be put on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 02:37 AM
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Because it's not politically correct to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 08:20 PM
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I think if you're on the spectrum, but you're really, really good looking, you can kind of compensate for it and still get casual sex, if you're able to mask your behavior to some extent. Otherwise, you're at a massive disadvantage. The reason they lose out on casual sex, is because of the lack of social etiquette.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:31 AM
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^
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 06:45 PM
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Birth rates are down, partially due to the increased cost of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 12:31 PM
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Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:35 PM
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Yup...some guys aren't going to agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:12 PM
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If you don't meet the looks threshold, you won't get past step 1. A "good personality" only helps you, if you make it past Step 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:04 AM
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I blame the chemicals in the water.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:08 AM
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Yes lol...thanks to inflation and the fact that both genders are now expected to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 06:45 AM
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Both are equally important for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:07 AM
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If you're a girl, yes. If you're a guy...then it depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 12:28 AM
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Maybe it's not 40%...but it's definitely more than 10%, and more than likely above 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:27 PM
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You'd have to change how young people, or more specifically, young women in general think. And I'm not sure if that can be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:25 PM
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Right...unfortunately, I don't think the demand for sex work will ever go away. As long as there are guys with money who struggle to get laid, and as long as women are picky with who they have sex with, there will be a demand for it. I don't think that women should be forced to have sex with guys that they're not attracted to, or forced to have sex when they're not aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:33 AM
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Interesting...which dating app was that? Tinder? I've matched with bots on Tinder, but I've never matched with a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:24 AM
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^
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:18 AM
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Dating apps are good for a select few. But horrible for everyone else...sort of like capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:53 AM
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No, as long as you make a decent salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 11:49 PM
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It's hard to tell, because some people may lie about it. They might actually be a virgin, but don't want to admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 01:37 AM
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Yes...otherwise we would just remain as friends lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 12:25 AM
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Maybe it's for the better. If birth rates drop, then climate change will slow down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 07:36 AM
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25 20 20 30
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:09 AM
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We're already there. It's just not blatantly obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:05 PM
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Nope...it would lead to a decline in birth rates and societal collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 11:52 PM
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For a man? I would say 25, at least in the modern age. If we go back to a different time period, I would say 20 or even 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:47 AM
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Handmaiden's tale
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:48 PM
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I believe in a free market...I don't this is a real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:50 PM
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Which country?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:13 PM
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The government doesn't care, they're never going to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:50 PM
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It's "awesome" in the sense that it leads to less competition here in the states.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:04 AM
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They are just going along the path of least resistance. If they were rich, they would just be sugar daddies or marry a gold digger. PPB is the poor man's version of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:01 AM
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Yes, but they believe that women and society in general doesn't see them as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:35 AM
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Not all women love casual sex. But the ones who do, are usually picky, for good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:30 AM
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So...the ability to have one of your basic needs met, is not an advantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 10:09 PM
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My friend would say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:32 AM
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Nope, the best way to make the U.S. a quasi-socialist country would be to get rid of the billionaire lobbyists influencing Congress.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:01 AM
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For hooking up, yes. But for wanting an actual relationship? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:49 PM
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Because women's standards went up over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:39 PM
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Enter r/passportbros
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:18 PM
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I think this depends on the country you live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:33 AM
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Money does bring women, if you have enough of it. Take that as you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:37 AM
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The true Red Pill is accepting that dating is similar to capitalism, but actively trying to become a "high value man", or the equivalent of a rich person in the dating world. It's not necessarily rooted in being a staunch believer in capitalism, it's apolitical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:05 PM
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Okay, so for the sake of argument, let's assume that oral sex, mutual masturbation, and playing with sex toys counts as sex in the context of #4.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:56 PM
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The easiest way to get into relationship is to have high SMV, regardless of whether or not you're a "good person". But if you're a good person, that relationship is more likely to be successful. Telling someone with low SMV, who might actually be a good person, that they're not a good person because they struggle with dating is just gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:51 PM
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Give up on online dating and go out in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:32 PM
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Thought experiment: If a woman pays a man for sex, then which one is worse? If a man pays a woman for sex, then which one is worse? If a man pays a man for sex, then which one is worse? If a woman pays a woman for sex, then which one is worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:27 PM
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If WWIII happens and all of those men are sent to war and die...then maybe OP has an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:17 PM
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"Liberal virgin minority" doesn't have the same ring to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:26 AM
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Once a week for a couple of months can get expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:24 AM
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I haven't given up per say. I'm going to try again, once I move to a city with more favorable demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:33 AM
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Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:00 PM
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Some of them know, they just don't care. It doesn't affect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:07 PM
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lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:49 PM
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They're not overrated. The people who are in the top 0.1% live in a different world than the rest of us. And that goes beyond just dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 12:36 AM
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I never even said that. Yes, a lot of male celebrities, athletes, and CEOs would still be successful with women, even if they weren't rich. But Elon is *not* one of those people. He is a 53 year old out of shape man who claims to be on the spectrum. I would guarantee you that all of those women he has been seen with would not give him the time of day if he wasn't rich and famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:36 PM
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Those women wouldn't give Elon the time of day if he wasn't rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 01:28 PM
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^
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:39 AM
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Things were a little different when the founding fathers wrote the Constitution. Brothels and prostitutes were very common and some people viewed women as property. And women didn't have the right to vote or own property.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:10 PM
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I 100% agree, but it will never happen under a Republican administration...Republican congress, or with a Republican dominated Supreme Court.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:30 PM
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No, they wouldn't lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:33 AM
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Some people will never meet someone who loves or wants them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:07 PM
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I think IRL approaching has worked better for me, than online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:59 AM
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Sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:20 AM
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I don't agree with everything Andrew Tate says, but there's a reason those men are listening to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:28 AM
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Arranged marriages are a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:03 AM
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And who will foot the bill? Taxpayers?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:54 PM
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Yes...I've seen guys making 7 figures a year complaining about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:05 AM
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Liberal guys will be fine. This really only affects conservative guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:19 AM
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I'd prefer high quality, and a lot of matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 11:41 PM
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Is the marriage not an open-relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:00 AM
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Sure, but how does that help guys who want to be in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 06:10 PM
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Maybe the housemates want to sleep with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:28 AM
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It matters to some girls, especially those who only date within their own race.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 07:05 AM
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I would not share, unless asked. But if you're asked, don't lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:34 AM
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Welcome to capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:03 PM
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It's going to be a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:37 PM
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Hooking up with your coworkers is a luxury many people don't have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:53 PM
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There's tons of guys who do all of those things, that's not the reason why they're being ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:59 PM
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Looks definitely matter. That's like saying your credit score doesn't matter when you're applying for a loan from the bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:54 PM
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The male equivalent of an attractive girl who sleeps around, is an attractive guy who sleeps around. And the male equivalent of any other type of girl who sleeps around is a rich "punter".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:52 AM
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Yes, but they won't, so it's a moot point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:58 PM
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Yes, if I found her attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:01 AM
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They can, they just might not want to. Is a doctor or lawyer willing to date a waitress, just because she's hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:39 AM
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"farts more" 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:59 AM
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Not true in all cases. Hot men will still be sexualized.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:03 PM
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Because of simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:44 PM
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Women just need to stop having children altogether. s/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:32 PM
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They aren't hot or rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:28 AM
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Some of them, maybe, but not all of them. A few of my friends who aren't successful on dating apps do see escorts, I wouldn't count that as giving up. They're getting what they want, but obviously, they'd prefer to get it for free. Or at least, after a dinner date or a coffee. But you do have some people out there who aren't successful in dating, who don't want to see escorts. Some of those guys are content with watching porn, but I'd imagine most of them would prefer an interaction with a real …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:20 PM
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^
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:43 PM
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Dating apps and social media ruined people's standards. Banning pornography won't do anything to change people's standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:15 AM
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Because it doesn't work for the majority of the guys, only the top 20% or so. The other guys are better off just talking to girls in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:49 PM
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I will say: Attractiveness is important, at least in the context of modern dating, and dating apps. "It" can be learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:41 AM
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Actually they have, it's called prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 10:30 AM
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💀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:47 PM
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Some of them have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:26 PM
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Most men are getting rejected before they even have the opportunity to have sex with the woman. Penis size usually doesn't matter, unless you're a "bull" at a swinger's party.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:31 PM
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If a guy is not getting any matches on dating apps though, even after improving his profile, then it can't be the best way to approach. Anything else would be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 10:07 PM
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I think that it's still better to approach, and let the girl reject you, rather than you rejecting yourself or not trying at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 10:01 PM
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Because on dating apps, girls tend to be very picky, sometimes pickier than they are in real life. Your chances of meeting them in person aren't that high. Even if you match with them, it doesn't guarantee a date. In real life, you're potentially a little bit closer to securing a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 09:59 PM
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There are high-end escorts who willingly choose that trade. Obviously, that's not the majority, but my point is that some people choose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:21 PM
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Prostitution should be legal in America (outside of Nevada). If it's been 2 consenting adults, I don't see anything wrong with it. Not all prostitution is related to human trafficking, which the government should crack down on. You can argue about whether or not it's immoral, but my stance on this is similar to abortion, the government shouldn't be able to tell women what they can do with their bodies. If you think that the men that engage in this activity are...unfavorable, then that's fine. Ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:12 PM
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But if you're good at something, why do it for free? Especially when there's a demand for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:59 PM
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He's getting sexual experience, that he probably wouldn't get otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:57 PM
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That's only if you go around telling people. There's a lot of celebrities who pay for sex, from high end escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:56 PM
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Was she at least average looking?...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:20 AM
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How did you meet her and what happened after that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:17 AM
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💀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:47 PM
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It wouldn't change it that much. Sugar dating sites already exist, and aren't illegal. And even though it's illegal, plenty of people see escorts/prostitutes and fly under the radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:54 AM
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I personally don't think that #6 and #7 should be considered hot takes. Those are the 2 most important things to consider, especially on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:32 PM
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For some people, it's either that or nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:42 PM
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Interesting thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:41 PM
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This reminds of what happens in arranged marriages. And why they actually are more successful than traditional marriages, at least, statistics wise. But even some arranged marriages fail, because the incompatibility is too much to overcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 12:05 AM
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It stands for online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:44 PM
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It depends, is the first encounter grinding on each other at the club?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 03:14 PM
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There's still other things in life, like hobbies and friends, from where you can get fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:50 PM
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Maybe not happy, but happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:42 PM
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Unless they have a sugar dating type of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 11:19 PM
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If it's a guy, then it's probably: a) He's rich. b) Has a big dick. c) Or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:39 AM
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Unless said people have a lot of money, and said women are gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:29 PM
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Natural selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 10:58 PM
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Just get escorts OP. That would be way cheaper than what you're doing right now...lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 07:51 PM
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I would argue that not all guys have low standards. And some of them actually do look for those characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:16 PM
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How'd you meet him? On a dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:04 PM
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In western societies, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:18 AM
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No lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:25 AM
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Tell him to try sugar dating, but not to treat it as a real relationship, but as a situationship. Unless he's dead set on getting married and having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:39 PM
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I think that people were having more casual sex 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:57 PM
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There are "sugar babies" on sugar dating websites that do this. They are essentially escorts, and I think that the number of girls who are doing that is increasing. But besides that, most girls on dating apps and real life probably aren't doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:30 PM
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This post belongs in r/downbad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 04:16 AM
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Maybe the wife is crazy? Maybe the husband is abusive? There could be so many reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:15 AM
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Was with you, until I read the last 3 😂
/r/TheRedPill19/01/24 06:42 AM
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I would say yes, as you can't really measure intelligence on dating apps, and dating apps have taken over dating. Looks are the first thing you see on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:31 PM
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No, as the recipient will usually assume that the context is sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:18 AM
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That is true, but it depends on the city and whether or not OP has connections locally. But if there just aren't that many dating prospects for his age demographic, there's no sense in staying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:44 AM
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This man pulled a KD/LeBron.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:36 PM
1

Maybe you can try moving to a bigger city? That would help with the demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:33 PM
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I'm 27, and I've done this for most of my life. I don't think that it really works, I've never been in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:03 PM
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I think that in reality, most people have no idea what the "average dating experience" is like for guys, they're just going off of personal anecdotes. Maybe everyone in your friend group is having an above average experience. Or maybe, they're actually having a below average experience, and the people on here are having an experience that is significantly below average. Do you really know for sure what "average" is here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:51 PM
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No, it's not. That's like saying having no food at all is the same as having a lot of junk food. If you ask that question to any person off the street who hasn't eaten in days, what do you think they'll say?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:03 AM
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There are some OF models who double as escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:00 AM
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No, they shouldn't. They should actually fix their problems, instead of just putting duct tape on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:34 PM
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There's people making 100k or more who are "doomed''.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:25 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:40 PM
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Women, by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 01:04 AM
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I would advance my career, spend time with my family and friends, travel the world, and enjoy my hobbies. So nothing too different, except for not having kids. But even if I did end up getting married eventually, maybe I wouldn't have had kids anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:22 AM
1

No, it's better if they're in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:27 PM
1

How dare you disrespect Johnny Sins like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:19 PM
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Nope, women just have high standards due to more options.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:48 AM
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Because it's not politically correct to say that, and people don't want to offend other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:31 AM
3

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:18 AM
1

In general, I agree, but depending on where you work, you may be able to get away with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:11 PM
1

I think that the survey is just including high school seniors who accepted their offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:44 PM
1

Only 60%? I expected it to be higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:49 PM
1

Enter Ryan Fitzpatrick.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:45 PM
2

You still have more options than most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:14 PM
1

No lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:45 PM
1

Short answer: Yes Long answer: This depends on your viewpoint. I don't think any girls are out here giving signals to guys that they're not attracted to. But on the flip side, the guys in question might not be considered that attractive by a random girl on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 07:45 PM
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He's almost there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:22 PM
4

Just use dating apps, meeting people in person is a waste of your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:38 PM
3

I don't count the "Great Depression" as the real fall of America, as the country didn't immediately collapse afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:32 PM
4

I believe this...OP's uncle might be a rich Muslim.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:21 AM
3

Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:32 PM
1

Because one is available at your fingertips, and the other one is hard to get, for the majority of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:13 PM
12

Most guys would prefer a real woman over porn, if given the option. But most guys do not have instantaneous access to sex. The ones that do are either rich, attractive, or both. And they're probably not using porn as much as the average person, because they don't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:50 AM
2

You would need to have all guys do this, and not just a few. That's going to be hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 12:40 PM
1

Which country do you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:23 PM
1

Some girls are dating older guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:39 PM
13

Everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:44 AM
2

No, unless eugenics becomes legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:01 AM
1

A lot of them don't, that's why some girls will ask you to use a condom or buy birth control. My friend has bought birth control for a lot of girls because he wanted to raw dog it and not pull out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:29 PM
1

Nope, that's not why.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:27 PM
4

It's not important at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:12 AM
1

You can't blame it all on capitalism, but yes, it is partly to blame. Let's say that hypothetically, the U.S. was a socialist society. Do you think that looks wouldn't still play a huge factor in dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:02 AM
1

Define what you mean by "getting" money first? Would that be 80k? 100k? 150k? 200k+?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:59 AM
5

That's a horrible idea. Boys who are more academically inclined will see no benefit from this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:02 AM
10

You can't, or rather, you shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:01 AM
2

Personally, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:35 PM
1

No...that would just make the problem worse. That would in turn make the standards of women go up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:11 AM
1

No, those because don't care if they're getting "played". They're usually doing the same thing to the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:02 PM
1

I think that most guys would prefer that to nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:01 PM
3

Yes, but it's only because they have to put in a significant amount of effort to get results.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:12 AM
8

They tried...lol. And they weren't successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:17 AM
57

Guys who are rich and attractive are doing quite well in the dating game. "Normal" guys have it worse than most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 12:51 AM
5

It sounds like the plot line of a porno.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:20 PM
8

Ah, I see that Tinder is trying to copy Seeking. Can't blame them...but maybe they should try to lower the price.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:01 AM
29

The job market is better than the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:43 AM
0

In today's world? No. Back in the day? Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 09:53 PM
5

For girls in general, the bar for sex is really low. The bar for a relationship is significantly higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:01 PM
10

I think that really attractive dudes do get cold approached by women. I know a couple of guys like that in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:23 PM
1

The 1st 2 rules of r/Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:22 PM
3

Except it wouldn't. Someone who just wants a relationship wouldn't benefit from prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:19 AM
1

Once a week is a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:46 AM
1

It's probably a little more than that now, because of inflation. And there's plenty of guys doing it, they're just discreet about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:45 AM
1

I think that you left out people on Wall Street. (Investment Bankers, Hedge Fund Managers)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:44 AM
1

Too skinny (visible ribs) is off-putting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:36 PM
3

No...but, I'm also a skinny guy and I'm interested in girls with a similar body type to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:42 AM
1

We live in a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:57 PM
1

Nope, there are plenty of rich men of average intelligence or below average intelligence (athletes). And there's plenty of broke, but brilliant PhD students out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:37 PM
1

Zetsu*
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 10:02 PM
4

I struggled throughout all of high school and college, currently single.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:51 AM
1

The "Jannies"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:49 AM
3

I can't really answer this without knowing what you look like. But I don't think or expect for you to show any of us what you look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:45 AM
3

I see it as a bad thing. And for reference, I'm a guy, with high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:30 PM
1

A lot of men don't have options. The only real choice that they have is to either remain single, or settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:59 AM
0

lul
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:41 AM
1

They're actually having less sex, as dating apps have made it harder for certain people to get laid. And the people who can get laid try to get the best that they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:20 PM
2

They bring them on the show for views, and to potentially sleep with some of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:48 AM
26

Papa Roach!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:23 AM
1

Well, anyone who does meth won't stay hot for very long. But anyways, no, I wouldn't, even if she was to hypothetically keep her looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:54 AM
1

I only know of one guy like this, but he doesn't always have them on rotation. Sometimes he's in a serious relationship with one of them or just goes through a series of one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 01:15 AM
1

Yes, but that doesn't necessarily determine all of that person's life outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:10 PM
6

Nothing caused it because it doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:34 PM
3

If everyone was "Attractive", then women's standards would just increase. Unless you mean that everyone was at the same level of attractiveness. Or they would place more emphasis on other things besides looks.
/r/AllPillDebate01/03/23 11:37 PM
1

I think that it's a combination of dating apps, social media, porn, feminism, and women themselves having high standards which discourages guys from doing that stuff. There's not much reward for the risk anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:50 AM
1

If you're a guy, then dating is just not feasible if you're struggling to make ends meet or living paycheck to paycheck. It's an investment of time and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 09:07 PM
1

Because of WWIII, perhaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:12 AM
1

lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 02:58 AM
1

There's no correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 02:57 AM
-1

Ahh...to be young in the 90's.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:16 PM
1

There are a lot of skinny dudes out there who are single too though lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:12 PM
3

Hypothetical situation: Let's say that there's this guy who is seeing an escort, and he has to give her money in exchange for her "time". But after they're done having sex, the guy takes the money and runs. Do you think that she was manipulated into having sex with the guy? I think that most people would say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:14 PM
6

For research...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:04 PM
1

If they're 2 consenting adults, and he's happy, then who's to judge? Besides his living arrangement isn't that different from rich dudes who live with gold diggers. The only difference though is that in that case, the rich guy is probably not doing chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 09:00 PM
1

When I graduated college and was no longer a broke college student who couldn't afford to travel or have hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 02:34 AM
23

They definitely don't make posts like this anymore nowadays.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/23 03:26 AM
1

If you're in the top 1%, yes. At that point, the rules don't apply to you. Everyone else, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:37 AM
5

So, let's say that his body count was 1, and he's only ever slept with 1 prostitute. Is that still a deal breaker to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:00 PM
6

Be rich and hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 10:36 PM
1

No, tall women can always find a taller guy who's interested in them. Being a tall woman isn't that much of a disadvantage as being a short guy. There are plenty of guys out there who have an Amazonian fetish. But a tall guy can't always find a shorter girl who's also interested in them.
/r/AllPillDebate28/01/23 06:04 AM
1

I guess that gay guys don't exist anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:00 AM
1

Did you meet her online?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:54 AM
2

To me, even 30 is a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:53 AM
8

This post would do well over at r/TheRedPill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:44 PM
5

I actually don't think that most "Entitled sex starved men" want sex with someone who isn't attracted to them. They just want to be "Chad", or someone who can get casual sex very easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:06 AM
1

I'm just curious, what is the sample size of these guys that you know? And how do you know for sure that they're "average", when they might actually be above average?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:25 AM
11

Except he's not a rich playboy, unlike Bruce Wayne.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:01 AM
1

Because some people either don't care or they think that it's pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:56 AM
1

They are though, look up Chris Girard and Jackie Murtha.
/r/AllPillDebate10/01/23 05:34 PM
1

Just marry someone within your tax bracket and don't ignore red flags just because someone looks good. Yes, I know that people's tax brackets can change over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 08:59 PM
1

He's 6'2", is 25 years old, is Ethiopian/Black, and isn't particularly attractive or unattractive. He's maybe a little overweight, but I think that he's lost some weight since I last met him, but he doesn't workout at all. He still lives with his parents, and had a job in retail and now has a job as a high school teacher. And he also lives in a suburb in a really expensive city. I will say that he doesn't go to clubs/bars a lot and just doesn't interact with women a whole lot in general. I would…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:44 PM
1

That's a...strange image.
/r/AllPillDebate07/01/23 11:26 PM
4

Because this was a news headline, this is the 76ers cheerleader who got proposed to at a game, and he is the guy who proposed.
/r/AllPillDebate07/01/23 06:09 PM
3

Or the guy just buys Plan B.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:26 AM
1

At least 40%, if not more. Hard to say, 30%, maybe? I'm inclined to believe that it's definitely less than 50%, based on other people's experiences, even 30% is being generous. ​ My friend who is in his early 30's has a triple digit body count and says that he got away without using a condom with many of them (but I think that he lost track of the exact percentage). Of course, he did get STDs from one girl, and has ended up paying for birth control on several occasions. He claims though that non…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:24 AM
3

Coronavirus has entered the chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:35 AM
1

That's not what Tinder actually is for most guys, but maybe it's like that for the top 5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:46 AM
1

There are other ways to do that though, like legalizing prostitution and trying to offer mental health counseling to people who are more likely to engage in those behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:52 AM
1

She's probably lying about her age...lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:13 PM
12

This is an L for both genders, no matter how you spin it. It's essentially 3D porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:14 PM
1

Brb, putting bleach in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:52 PM
2

I personally wouldn't care that they swiped left.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:53 AM
11

It's probably 1% satire, there's definitely people in real life who do this and don't get caught, or at least, haven't got caught yet.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/22 12:09 AM
6

Lol...he should have just spent that $400 on an escort.
/r/AllPillDebate18/12/22 02:55 AM
1

No, he could probably do better.
/r/AllPillDebate13/12/22 06:55 AM
2

I gave up on it a while ago, but only because I'm busy with work and have a couple of health issues. I don't think that most guys have given up on it yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 10:54 PM
1

It's already like this, it's just not as exaggerated yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:16 AM
1

I wouldn't even consider that "dating", compared to modern dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:18 AM
3

Well, It's only going to get worse, not better lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:11 PM
4

They all have nice facial features, are either white or passable as white, tall, and are in good shape, if not shredded.
/r/AllPillDebate09/12/22 08:09 PM
2

High value men are rarely "loyal".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:39 AM
2

Nope, but they are willing to settle out of fear of dying alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:14 AM
1

Sure, but doing that is equivalent to having a diet that consists only of junk food, and claiming that your basic need for food has been met. It won't kill you (or at least, not right away, in the case of junk food), but it's definitely not ideal. And consuming "junk food" is still better than starving to death, in the same way that paying for sex is better than masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:16 AM
1

Well, I'm very picky with whom I decide to date, so I would hope that's not the case...lol. On a side note, did you just want to do those things alone? Or did you not have anyone to do them with? Even if you're single, you could probably just do those things with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:00 AM
1

I'd say yeah, because a lot of these girls still want a guy who outearns them, even if the guy is attractive. Especially if they want to start a family or go on expensive vacations. And I'd argue that if you have a lot of money (millionaires, billionaires), you can bypass the looks barrier, but you might be end up with a gold digger. As a personal anecdote, I'm a 26 year old guy, who does makes 6 figures, albeit at the lower end, and I do agree with what you're saying about the looks threshold. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:45 AM
1

So, I think that they still matter, just not as much as looks do. Looks matter more now than they did before online dating and social media became popular. But a lot of girls out there still want to date a guy who makes more than them. If anything, guys need both money and looks now to do really well, although there might be exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:10 AM
1

It's probably because the American diet is shit. Your grandparents probably eat healthier than most Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:03 AM
3

Probably because she was with her parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 11:57 PM
3

I think that the word that you were looking for was "promoter".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:14 PM
1

This really depends on where you live and where you're going.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:13 PM
6

I don't think so. I don't think that there will be a lack of women per say, but a lack of women who are willing to date their male counterparts. And maybe that will cause a decrease in the birth rate in developed countries. But it probably won't cause society to collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:06 PM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:20 AM
1

That's the neat thing, you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:02 AM
1

I think that it comes down to gender. Guys do this stuff all the time. Girls? Maybe not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:31 PM
1

It's expensive, far more expensive than food or water. It doesn't do anything to help guys who want to be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:01 AM
2

I think that it's uncommon, but if this is the case, then the reason is usually a lack of time and/or high standards. They don't have the time to meet people and find someone who meets their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:38 AM
3

No 6-pack?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:07 PM
3

Sex tourism (without engaging in human trafficking) either abroad or visiting escorts here in the states. Or going to a brothel in Nevada.
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/22 11:07 PM
1

It sort of depends on you. When I was in high school and college, I was broke and skinny, and didn't know how to talk to girls. At the age of 26, I would say that I'm in a much, much better position financially, I have my own apartment and I'm looking to buy a house soon. I can finally afford to eat healthy on a consistent basis, and I do workout, but I'm not yet "shredded". And I can at least hold some type of conversation with people of both genders. I would say that in terms of "aging", I sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:06 PM
4

Even if race was a social construct, way too many people believe it to be real, including racists. It does matter somewhat in dating and other aspects of life. Plus, it's not like anyone can identify as any race that they want. If it was truly a "social construct", being transracial would be a common thing. (Ex: A black person identifying as white.)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:23 PM
1

It's always been sort of transactional, plus it's hard for guys who are average or below average to get laid. So they are willing to pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:49 AM
–

Per the Red Pill, women can do whatever they want, but there will be social consequences for certain types of behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:11 AM
3

Do you mean a medical student, not a doctoral student? And out of curiosity, how did you two meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:29 AM
1

Meeting people in real life is way better than using dating apps, unless you're a guy in the top 1% of attractiveness, in which case you can have your pick of the litter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:25 AM
2

Most people have no idea what "average" actually is. They're conflating it with what can actually be considered "above acerage".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:11 PM
5

No, but it doesn't have to be fair. Most of human history hasn't been "fair" to most of the humans, regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:22 AM
6

The standards are "on the floor" for high value men, and are near the ceiling for below average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:03 AM
2

r/Tinder in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:38 PM
2

Because of the self-respect that I have for myself and my morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:13 AM
1

Be tall. Be rich. Be jacked. Have a big dick. Have a photogenic face. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:14 PM
1

No, I wouldn't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:27 PM
2

There's an endless supply of simps out there though, and always will be, no matter how "mainstream" the Red Pill gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:31 AM
6

Abortion not being legal in every state. Roe v. Wade should have never been overturned. Also, there's the issue of some rape victims not getting taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:13 PM
33

I like how everyone here just automatically assumes the worst about his personality or social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:10 AM
1

There's already a few women like that. Of course definitely not the majority, but they're out there. And that is good for guys who just want to hook up, but don't want a relationship with those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:13 AM
1

Elon is rich and famous, which gives him high SMV by default, and compensates for his other shortcomings. If he was some average Joe though, and this happened, I would probably be scratching my head then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:11 AM
1

I would argue that there is at least some logic involved. A model isn't going to randomly fuck a homeless person. But she will hook up with an attractive guy at a bar, because she's attracted to him and is in the mood because she's drunk and he might be too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 08:08 AM
4

Best comment here...lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 07:47 AM
2

It really depends on your values, what your SMV is, and what your standards are. Generally, larger cities with even gender ratios improve your odds, unless you have below average SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 12:57 AM
2

The feature of not existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:37 AM
1

I would prefer a relationship, assuming that the woman has all the traits that I'm looking for. Provided that she is attractive and we have sex regularly, I don't see why I'd want to hook up with other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:52 AM
1

Currently? Or ever? I would say currently, zero, since I don't really leave my apartment much (it's really hot out here) besides for work (I don't think consider dating at work at option for me) and groceries and I haven't met anyone I like from dating apps. I also hurt my neck over a year ago and I haven't been working out on a consistent basis, and have been avoiding certain outdoor activities that I would be doing otherwise. If we're going by ever, I don't know for sure. And are we counting p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:46 AM
1

I'm like the opposite of you, moved around a lot, but I would say that I've never really gotten established anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:40 AM
1

Is money a factor though? That would limit some of your options 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:36 AM
5

Human trafficking is wrong, but not everyone is forced to do sex work. There are high class escorts who do it voluntarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:12 AM
3

Easy: Be hot. Be rich. Don't be unattractive. Don't be poor. Go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:42 PM
1

It's not stupid if that's what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:53 AM
3

You mean interpret?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:53 AM
1

It's a combination of luck and their location.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:22 AM
5

Hot dudes > Hot women >>>>>>>>> Average women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:14 PM
3

If you're attractive (and of above average height) and a guy, or are at least above average and are a girl, then yes, it's worth trying them out. For everyone else though, yes, it's really that bad. Also if you're a guy who's not white and you live in a predominantly white/conservative area, good luck getting matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 09:04 AM
-1

What is considered "quality" sex for a man? I'm assuming that it's more than just him having an orgasm. The woman could just lay there like a starfish, and he could still have an orgasm. But I would say yes, women do have access to more "quality" sex than men, simply because an abundance of options implies that they have at least a few "good" options. Maybe not all women, but that should be true for most of the above average and the attractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:58 AM
1

Process Engineer, but there's actually a decent number of women here, some are my age. I wouldn't consider dating any of them just because of the company culture and how messy it would be if we broke up. I would say a lot of people here have some sort of relationship or family. Personally, I don't have a lot of freetime outside of work to pursue the hobbies that I enjoy, so I don't meet a lot of women outside of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:52 AM
0

It won't mean that much, condoms and birth control still exist. And also, abortion will still be legal in some states. And even in the states where it's illegal, you'll probably have people who will still try to find someway to get one anyways, like go to a state where it is legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:16 AM
2

It's a waste of time for most people, besides the guys who get hundreds of matches and are just trying to hook up. If you're not one of those guys, you're better off just meeting girls in person. And girls who are looking for a relationship are much better off just meeting guys in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:06 AM
0

Nope, because that's one of the things that I want in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:32 PM
1

I kind of get what OP is saying here, but he's talking about 2 separate, distinct situations. There are certain girls who are interested in certain (attractive) guys, but those girls don't show a lot of interest and want the guy (who they assume, likes them) to pursue them, maybe pursue them aggressively and the guy may or may not already be pursuing the girl, but this is a minority of all situations where a guy or girl is pursuing someone of the opposite gender. Most situations are where a cert…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:35 PM
2

Sugar dating was just the most obvious example. There are much more mild/common examples out there, like a guy taking a girl off of Tinder out on a date, and the girl just intends to use him for free food and then after the date they just go home and she ghosts him afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 12:09 AM
4

Most men of what age group? And betabucks is most definitely not a fantasy, look at sugar dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:39 PM
2

Because most young, attractive guys are going to go after young, attractive girls. They don't necessarily care about money. And older women with money don't necessarily have to pay to sleep with younger, attractive dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:18 PM
0

There's other things in life besides dating someone and having a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 05:44 PM
1

Dating apps and most social gatherings where the ratio of guys to girls is greater than 1:1 can show you all the proof that you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:48 AM
12

I liked the shows You and Castlevania.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 08:53 PM
1

Beta bucks, and alpha fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:58 PM
1

I guess that the first guy is BB, and the second one is AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:29 PM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 04:02 PM
78

No, women are hypergamous and men are hornier.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 12:50 PM
3

There is no effective solution that will work for everyone without also infringing on some people's rights. If online dating isn't working for someone, then that person needs to try meeting people in real life. Also, a lot of people of both genders need to either lower their standards, or else they're going to end up dying alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:16 PM
2

Even if you focused on dating, there's no guarantee that you'd end up being "partnered". So you could have ended up being alone, along with being in the 60th percentile of pay. It's not impossible to find someone after college. For some, it's even preferable, since some people might move halfway across the country for a new job.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:15 PM
1

I know of a few guys from my high school who were in frats in college and also engineering majors, and I don't think that any of them struggled with dating. But that's also not the norm, as most people I knew in college who were engineering majors were not involved with Panhellenic fraternities, but some of them were a part of engineering fraternities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:24 PM
1

Nope, never prioritize someone over your income or career. It's rarely ever worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:06 PM
2

It's not difficult, but it's very expensive and the process itself could be easier due to reasons OP already mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:45 PM
1

There would be less casual sex, maybe. It won't stop people from dating each other though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:14 PM
2

This is my favorite comment lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:26 AM
2

They will if they want that green card. Enter 90 Day Fiancé...🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:19 AM
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That book/TV show sounds like an Incel's wet dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:30 AM
1

Hmm...interesting 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:14 AM
4

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:12 AM
1

I guess that simping works...sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:09 AM
1

Oh...yeah, that explains it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:07 PM
1

Don't forget how they view minorities and POC.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:40 PM
1

I think that dating in the workplace is fine if you're in a big company and that person is in a different department than you. It used to be more commonplace, but societal norms have changed so it's now more frowned down upon and depending on a company's HR policy, may not allowed at all. I've seen it happen at work, but in all instances, none of them reported to the same manager. Where I work, I haven't seen anyone with "work spouses".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:37 PM
2

The 2nd one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:40 AM
1

There's a huge difference. If you pay an escort then you are guaranteed to get laid, unless you get scammed. With Tinder, there is a chance that you won't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:20 PM
1

Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:17 AM
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For 3, what else is important to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:05 AM
1

Because it feels good and satisfies a biological need.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:02 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:53 AM
2

First date? What's that?...hahaha...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:49 AM
3

Out of curiosity, what ethnicity?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:47 AM
1

Yes...it's very hard for it not to change things because of hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:45 AM
11

And they wonder why young people these days aren't as sexually active.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:39 AM
9

Are you just using dating apps, or are you meeting women in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:31 AM
3

Entry level jobs in the Oil & Gas, Investment Banking, or the Tech (Computer Science majors who work for Facebook, Amazon, Apple, Netflix, Google, or Microsoft) fields can all yield you a 6 figure salary straight out of college as a 22 or 23 year old. Granted, it's not that common and you have to take COL into account. I know several people who got those type of jobs at that age. Most of them are below 6 feet, and almost none of them have a 6 pack, or if they had one, they lost it once they star…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 06:08 AM
2

Not always the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:58 AM
7

lol...what is this comment section? 🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:34 AM
4

There are escorts who do it willingly, but charge a premium. Do you still consider them "victims"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:28 AM
14

What if the guy "can't get laid", and doesn't go for an underage girl and doesn't do anything that could be deemed "deviant" or "violent"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 05:27 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:39 AM
1

With regards to a relationship, probably everything you mentioned, plus physical/facial attractiveness. I think that those guys use dating apps too, but they get lots of matches and don't voluntarily stay single for very long. For the type of guy that you mentioned but has everything except facial/physical attractiveness, they're probably not getting "snatched" up that quickly and may or may not have success on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:14 AM
1

I personally don't think that's accurate, or at least, it's not accurate in the modern day. Society is more liberal now than ever before. There might be some guys like that out there, but it's definitely not a majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 01:09 AM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:39 PM
1

So that's what it means to go down under.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:19 PM
1

The same reason why people smoke and eat junk food...endorphins. Also oxytocin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:16 PM
1

But that's not actually "Red Pill", that's just something else. The Red Pill tells guys to not spend money to give women validation, and lot of "Red Pill" guys look down on or make fun of those guys who pay for OnlyFans.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:04 PM
1

They're celebrities, they're not going to act the same way as normal people. You can "get away" with a lot if you're rich and famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:15 AM
2

If that was really the case, no one would be making money on OnlyFans or simping over female streamers on Twitch TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:08 AM
5

Also Bill Burr.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:04 AM
1

If that's your definition of a "high value man", then yes, they use online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 01:02 AM
2

Maybe it was just for "diversity".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:54 AM
3

My plans were to work and take a nap after work, which I did successfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:49 AM
2

I don't know man, it's hard to "fix" something that really can't be fixed. Maybe just let natural selection take its course? Which would result in more people dying alone, less people having kids, which would impede population growth, if not eventually stop it altogether. Unless you can convince people to start having arranged marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:15 PM
1

"In unrelated news, Snoop Dogg was spotted a few minutes before the Superbowl Halftime Show lighting up a joint."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:01 PM
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You could just compromise and choose Hentai.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:09 AM
4

I guess OLD is solved now. Guys just need to put that they're very good at making girls orgasm in their bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:46 PM
0

I don't know, seems kind of sus bro...jk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:43 PM
1

MGK could still pull if he wasn't a millionaire. Pete Davidson might be a different story on the other hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 09:46 AM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:47 PM
1

But they're getting matches, so they're at least more successful than other people who aren't getting matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:38 PM
1

There's no way to "fix" online dating. You can't convince the guys that are doing these things to suddenly stop doing it overnight. There are also a lot of guys who don't do these things who don't even get matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:28 PM
1

I do care at least a little bit, but for me I don't mind if they make a little less than me, I just don't want someone who's completely financially dependent on me. If I had a choice, I would go for someone who makes at least as much money as me, and has all the other traits that I want in a partner. It's my assumption though, that most girls like that are either already taken or probably wouldn't be interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 08:36 PM
1

I would argue that it depends on where you live and your upbringing, as that makes the logistics of it harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:01 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:59 PM
1

If you don't mind me asking, what race are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 10:13 PM
9

I would make the argument that a lot of males on here are actually middle class or upper middle class economically, but not socially. Or at least, they don't have a huge social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:34 AM
1

She looks average in season 3, and then look above average in season 4 when she changes how she does her makeup and her hair style.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:32 AM
1

Did she factor for age?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:30 AM
3

You can be in shape (or at the very least, not obese), make above the average income for your age, and be at least slightly above average height, and still struggle with women for other reasons. There's other things like personality, facial features, location/proximity that play a role in your dating options.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 05:14 AM
2

They exist, there just aren't that many of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:17 AM
1

I don't know if society will collapse in a few decades, but this reminds me of a quote from George Carlin: "That's why they call it the American Dream, because you have to be asleep to believe it."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 06:58 AM
1

Hypothetically speaking, if a man was only seeing "high end" escorts, but not any of the other 99% of prostitutes, would you still consider it immoral?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:42 AM
1

Yikes...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:43 AM
1

Nope, you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:26 AM
1

Maybe it will work for some people. But you would probably see a lot more people dying alone without having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 07:29 AM
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It's essentially what gets you in the door, so I think that it's pretty important, if not the most important thing. Because if it's not there, you have a 0% chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:59 AM
2

Maybe they're including escorts?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:40 AM
1

If they legalized it and removed the stigma around it, I think that it would change the dating world, in the sense that guys that are frustrated on dating apps and are just trying to get laid would utilize it. You would see a decrease in male sexlesness, and you would see women stop withholding sex from guys that they're in a relationship with, maybe in fear that he will look elsewhere for sex. But it wouldn't really change anything for that guy who genuinely wants a relationship, but can't find…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:41 AM
0

Steve Harvey and Derrick Jaxn are huge simp lords. Steve Harvey is Darth Simpius.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 08:02 AM
1

Monetizing sex just has to be regulated and become legal, and only happen between 2, consenting adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 08:43 AM
1

Some girls are also scared of it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 08:12 AM
1

Yeah, that's definitely why girls put "no hooks ups" in their bio. Granted, a lot of them are still open to do it no matter what is in their bio, some of them are 100% serious and aren't looking for validation. And I can respect that, even if I don't think that they'll necessarily find what they're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 09:55 PM
1

Miss me with that gay shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 07:30 PM
8

Their standards are higher and they probably are tired of unwanted male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 07:19 AM
2

It's all fun and games, until you get an STD from a call girl/glorified prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/20 07:15 AM
2

Because each side thinks that the other side is beneath them and doesn't want to "settle".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 08:27 AM
1

All of those couples are pretty similar in terms of looks, with a couple of exceptions. The first and last ones were the only one where I'd be surprised if you told me that they were a couple. And another thing is that this is high school, most people have lower standards in high school than they do in their 20s. The dating pool is relatively limited in comparison. I'm a guy, but my standards for what I consider an attractive girl now are way higher than they were in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 07:49 PM
1

Very rarely. They might date down in terms of looks, but the guy usually has high social status or is wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 04:48 PM
1

Maybe through social programming?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 04:45 PM
1

They do matter, any guy can't date any girl and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 07:44 PM
0

"But...but, they only want Chad!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 07:32 PM
3

The gatekeepers of relationships are usually women. Attractive guys are the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 07:13 PM
1

Weight requirements for guys mean nothing. Maybe body fat percentage requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 04:58 AM
2

The third way is actually the fastest, just not the safest. And several, but most definitely not all of the people in the first group, fit the description of people in the second group.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 04:52 AM
2

Tinder is where I go to find cringy bios which I can make memes off of, not where I go to find people that I would date or marry. Half the "girls" on there are either bots or are real, but are just looking for more Instagram followers. And I would imagine that most of the guys on there are just trying to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 08:26 AM
1

Social media, TV shows, and movies have set the bar so high that everyone has an unrealistic image of what a real relationship should be like. But in your case in particular, you probably aren't going to develop a meaningful connection unless you meet the guy in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 08:22 AM
1

The second one is far better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:20 AM
2

It wouldn't change gender relations at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:19 AM
1

By that same logic, you could argue that women actually do have higher standards. And that if they didn't have higher standards, incels wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:35 AM
1

It's definitely both of those things, men are hornier on average, and have lower standards overall. There are some girls out there who have a higher sex drive than most guys. But on average, guys are at least slightly hornier.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 04:16 AM
1

I have pretty high standards on online dating apps compared to most people, but I would describe myself as average looking. But I am 24 years old, 5'10.5", excercise regularly, and have a decent paying job. I prefer someone whom I find attractive who is also intelligent, loyal, and also has a decent paying job. They don't have to make as much as me, but I probably wouldn't want to date someone who just wants to be a housewife or works a job which makes less than half than what I make, because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 12:33 AM
1

I'm a guy, and I don't think that I'd ever do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 07:41 PM
1

You don't want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 07:39 PM
4

Relationship sex, or really any type of sex without a condom where you know that she's on birth control and you have a 0% chance of getting STDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 09:07 PM
1

It helps a lot that girls have makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 03:48 AM
2

In real life? Most of the better presidents in history, George Washington, Abraham Lincoln, FDR, JFK. I would also say certain professional athletes, Michael Jordan, Tom Brady, Tim Tebow, and LeBron James. In fiction? I think of several DC/Marvel comic book heroes that fit the description. Superman, Batman, Captain America, Ironman, and Thor would be some examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 04:11 PM
2

I think a lot of that is subjective though, or at the very least, that subreddit isn't a very good representation of how people view each other in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 03:40 PM
1

Tinder/Bumble/other dating apps/Instagram
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 06:08 AM
2

Tinder is the free version, prostitution is the more expensive version.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:59 AM
1

There are certain websites where escorts and call girls advertise it. You can find someone in your city and state. Look at r/sexworkers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:48 AM
1

Yes, men in the U.S. still see escorts. However, since it's illegal, there are certain nuisances they must deal with. These include: catfishes, undercover cops, getting robbed by "pimps", and the cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:46 AM
8

It's not "PC" to admit the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:41 AM
2

Everyone who just wants to hook up would be happy. People who want a genuine relationship would be unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:39 AM
1

I would argue that the last one isn't necessarily true, or at least ideal. Ideally, the kids should have their father in their life, for the sake of their mental/psychological health.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 05:37 AM
1

24 M, N = 4 I have never been in a relationship and lost my virginity when I was 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 03:35 PM
8

Male looks have always mattered, and will continue to matter for a long time. It's all part of natural selection. They don't matter as much as incels claim, and status/money/game is important as well, but they do matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 03:32 PM
1

Those men have value to society, but weren't valued that much by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 03:26 PM
2

Attractive men have it better than everyone else. They are at the top of the food chain.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 08:01 AM
3

r/seduction is the most normal one of all of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 07:30 AM
6

Well, I'm trying not to get coronavirus.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:47 AM
1

Demi Rose Mawby
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:09 PM
2

Harvard: You want a scholarship, OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:38 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:36 AM
1

This is...a true statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:35 AM
2

He probably wasn't even that "ugly" though lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:55 AM
1

They would eventually adapt, and lower their standards a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:54 AM
1

Seems legit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:40 AM
2

Purge week is when people bring out their KKK robes...lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:32 AM
1

Even in India though, dark skin is looked down upon and most Bollywood actors are of fair complexion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:30 AM
1

If he's 24, then I'm 15...lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:29 AM
1

Because of "whitewashing". They think that white girls are the most attractive and see dating them as a symbol of social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:26 AM
1

Mods are gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:22 AM
2

Are you talking about real life or on Instagram?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:22 AM
1

There is still a market for in person work. The thirstiest of guys don't care about coronavirus as much as their desire to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:09 AM
1

Can't tell if this comment chain is satire or if it's serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:25 PM
1

Girls accuse "Chads" of sexual assault all the time. The most notable example is what happens at frat parties on college campuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:23 PM
1

For a second, I had to make sure that I wasn't in r/conspiracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:19 PM
1

Debate requires certain rules and a mutual sense of respect between 2 parties. Purge week has no rules, and mutual respect is thrown out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:17 PM
1

Hmm...🤔🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:52 AM
1

What about a 6 pack? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:04 AM
1

Do you ever "travel for work"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:03 AM
2

Hi, I'm Chris Hansen with dateline NBC. Why don't you take a seat right over there?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:59 AM
1

Gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:56 AM
1

Not all of them are like that. The ones who do simp only do that because their parents didn't teach them any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:51 AM
1

Chemicals in tap water.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:46 AM
2

No, not a single one of the millions of non-religious young girls fit that description.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:39 AM
1

"Low Value Man"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:33 AM
1

When I was a kid, my dad used to hit my mom. He'd also tell me how she's apparently had a few abortions. My parents hate each other and got a divorce when I was 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:30 AM
1

It's time for a crusade.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:26 AM
1

fuck you op, you cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:22 AM
1

Pullout game not strong. He's not actually Chad lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:58 AM
2

Playing FIFA with your bros is the "Chad" thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:57 AM
2

Shit just went from zero to one hundred real fucking quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:53 AM
6

As a non-white guy, this is so savage lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:12 PM
6

"The 49ers" 🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:09 PM
1

All dudes on the internet are thirsty as fuck. That is common knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:06 PM
1

That's because society has "whitewashed" people who aren't white, most people in America are white, and most people here, regardless of race or ethnicity, are attracted to white people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:59 PM
1

And water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:50 PM
3

I'm a 24 year old guy right now, and I don't think that my dating prospects will be better in 10 years. I think that being 24 as a guy is the ideal age for dating young girls. You're still young enough to date girls in college as well as girls your own age without there being a huge difference in lifestyle or anyone judging you for being "creepy". I got a good paying job right out of college. In terms of actual dating prospects, I could have more if I had more money, but that's true at any age. …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 06:23 PM
1

I know of at least one person who is 21 and fits that bill, but she is religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 05:40 PM
1

They exist in the sense that they are "sluts" for hot guys. They will not have sex with anyone, they'll only have sex with certain guys. Whereas most people think of sluts as willing to hook up with anyone. Those type of sluts don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 05:39 PM
2

Guys who just want to hook up strongly dislike labels.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 08:15 PM
1

We live in a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:59 PM
2

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:47 PM
1

No, I wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:46 PM
1

Yes, they exist, but they might be uncommon. Tim Tebow is the most famous example I can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:21 PM
1

If anything, it's the other way around. Your political opinions might affect who you date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:18 PM
1

Betabux still exists, the standards for how much a guy has to make now are just higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:59 AM
1

I agree, if you're up front, but aren't rich, attractive, and/or have good game, it's not going to work. Think about all the girls on Tinder who have "Not looking for hookups." in their bio but are actually willing to hook up. They'll just reject those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:52 AM
1

I don't think that all men are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:16 PM
1

Are we talking about those we saw in passing? Or those that we had a meaningful interaction with or considered a friend/acquaintance? In the first scenario, I don't always know or ask the exact age, and I've seen so many attractive girls in college, I can't narrow it down to the most attractive one, but I could do top 5 or top 10. There are a couple of encounters before and after college that I'd include in there. But I'm going to assume that most of them are in the 22-26 age range right now and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:53 PM
1

If OP was a bisexual male, I wonder if they would have a different opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:29 PM
1

Nani?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:27 PM
1

Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:27 PM
1

The "real red pill" doesn't really exist. There's no consensus on what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:30 PM
6

I think that you underestimate female hypergamy and standards on dating apps. This is coming from a guy who is above average in height.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:44 AM
2

Get married, buy a big house in the suburbs, have a couple of kids (with questionable paternity, unless his wife's a "unicorn"), get promoted at work, eventually retire, grow old, and die. All while believing that all is right with the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:22 AM
5

Nothing, just let natural selection run its course. Which isn't very PC, but there's not really much you or me can do to change whom millions of women are willing to sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 07:32 PM
1

It's illegal and there are catfishes/police stings out there. STDs. It's expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 07:28 PM
2

It's the world biggest sausage party. And that's not a fun party.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 07:17 PM
1

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 04:59 PM
3

Legalize prostitution. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 04:56 PM
1

Those who pay for it either can't get it at all, or want to sleep with a 10, which they can't do without paying for it. For them, not getting it all is no fun either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 04:54 PM
1

Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 04:45 PM
1

You can manipulate both genders's sexual preferences through mass propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 05:58 AM
1

Sugar mamas exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 09:55 PM
7

You don't know what his face looks like. He might be higher than a 4, but there must be some reason why he thinks that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 09:52 PM
0

What you consider a "9" and what he considers a "9: are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 09:50 PM
2

Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 09:41 PM
6

That is a true statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:34 PM
1

It's not a requirement, only a small percentage of women care about it. And even then if you have the other things that they like, it probably won't matter if you don't have a master's degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:50 AM
1

No, but they didn't say "appearance of men," they said "appearance of men over 35".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:44 AM
1

It's supposed to be sarcasm, but there's some people on here who genuinely think that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:45 AM
1

Gender roles still exist though, or at least they did for the last 20 years. Now they're a bit more loosely defined. Yes, women can make their own money, but a lot of them (non-gold diggers) still seek a guy who makes a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 06:40 PM
4

The "average men" in question had kids in spite of their looks. They had something like personality, money, or social status to compensate for their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 06:36 PM
6

Depends on the guy. Guys who shoot for the bottom of the barrel don't always find the girls they try to hook up with attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 06:33 PM
1

The average man has way less SMV than the average woman. To be a "cute guy", the standards are quite high. To be a "cute girl", the standards aren't quite that high. And also, girls have makeup and what not to make their faces look more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 04:49 PM
2

There is a slight problem, most guys can't just go out there and get in a relationship with a girl he finds attractive for whatever reason. You still have to be somewhat attractive to have high RMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 04:32 PM
5

They'll pass you by if you're unattractive. Some girls are looking for relationships exclusively but in general, if you're attractive and looking for hookups you'll be successful in some capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 04:24 PM
0

I personally want some combination of A and C.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 04:11 PM
2

Loyal Attractive Intelligent Nice personality Not insane I don't care about height (unless she's ridiculously tall 6'2"+), her hair color unless it's dyed blue or some other flashy unnatural hair color, whether or not she has tattoos, the color of her eyes, her race/ethnicity, her religion, or what political affiliation she is. Having a nice ass or big boobs is a plus, but not a necessity, but I must be attracted to the face. I expect her to be in shape just because I am as well. Body count does…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 05:27 AM
1

Both are essential, but water is more essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 05:01 AM
1

Friendship. You can always buy sex, but you can't buy real friendship. I would say though that it's way easier to make a new friend though than it is to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 05:00 AM
2

Those actually are reasonable standards. I might also be biased though, because I meet all of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 05:32 AM
1

18 - <5 21 - <10 25 - <20 30+ - Don't really care what it is unless it's higher than 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:34 AM
1

TL;DR: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pareto_principle
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:32 AM
0

Most of those jobs ($120k) are in high COL areas like San Francisco and New York. And also, there's only a small percentage of college grads making that much, only a certain percentage are STEM majors who find jobs right out of college.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 06:25 AM
1

Florida is a strange place. You have a lot of wealthy retired people, but you also have a lot of homeless crackheads.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 05:50 AM
1

It's essentially "bro science". Some of the stuff is probably backed up by evidence, but not all if it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 05:25 AM
1

There's not really anything that anyone on here can do to "solve" the problem with modern dating. Some people on here even think that it's perfectly fine. There is no consensus here on what exactly is wrong with it. But the problem itself isn't scientific in nature, but social. And even if everyone of us on here tried to change anything, we wouldn't be able to fix anything on a massive scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 09:03 PM
3

I personally wouldn't do it, not just because it's cheating, but because you don't want to date/hook up with coworkers. Don't shit where you eat.
/r/seduction10/03/20 04:02 AM
1

It's not an exact system and is somewhat subjective, but you could get some idea of where you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 03:43 PM
4

It negatively impacts it by a lot. But how much exactly depends on the severity of the Autism. In severe cases, they probably won't have any sort of dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 06:20 AM
2

I agree with most of your post. But I think that something people forget is that throughout all of human history, only a certain percentage of guys (and a different percentage of women) have reproduced, for whatever reason, probably shortened life expectancy. That percentage is probably the highest that it ever has been right now because of advances in medicine and technology. But it's still not close to 100%, nor will it ever be. And that's not fair. But there's not much that me or can do about…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 03:34 AM
3

There's a difference between "getting laid" regularly and having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 02:48 AM
3

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 02:31 AM
3

Not really, I'd assume that it's in the range of 6-8, compared to other guys in their 20s. If you want to find out how attractive or unattractive you are, just take good photos of yourself and use a dating app and see how matches you get. Or just post pictures of yourself online and ask strangers to judge you, or brutally roast you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 02:26 AM
1

If that was true, what determines which guys get a lot of matches on Tinder? If women weren't sexually attracted to any men, then why do attractive guys on dating apps get more matches?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 05:11 AM
1

Yeah, luckily I do know some people here from my college who also got a job here whom I've hung out with. But I'd still like to expand my social circle. I haven't tried meet ups yet but I don't think that it would be what I expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 05:13 PM
2

Ever since I moved across the country almost 10 months ago for my new job, nowhere besides work. And I'm not exactly eager to date girls at work unless they're in a different department than me. But when I was in college, I was a lot more social and would go to house parties or club/bars if I knew someone there or if one of my friends wanted to hang out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 04:35 AM
11

No amount of money will make a woman happy in a loveless marriage. Seeing other guys would make her happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 04:27 AM
1

If anything, it's even more important now. What used to be an advantage is just now the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 08:44 PM
1

If you're not Chad, then you're probably obscenely rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 07:49 PM
1

Just because you don't think that they're "alpha" doesn't mean that they're not alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 06:29 PM
3

That's because the chances of people finding their future wife on Tinder are so small. Someone who can barely get any matches and can't find a girl to hook up with is not going to think that they can meet the love of their life on Tinder, and isn't really going to be looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 06:25 PM
1

Can confirm, I'm super picky on Tinder and don't really get any matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 06:10 PM
2

I think that online dating and social media have skewed people's standards. They're more picky and have higher standards than they did 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:57 PM
1

It's hypergamy, gay guys are not nearly as picky as straight girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:52 PM
0

I've actually never seen the 2nd example, but I'm sure it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:36 PM
3

It's quite difficult for some people, usually those with low SMP/RMP. It's very easy for those with high SMP/RMP.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:34 PM
2

The recent college grad who makes just under 70k not including benefits/bonuses? No. But maybe the guy in middle management making 200k+. But that's also way above "slightly above average".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 09:00 PM
2

But they probably aren't good either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 08:44 PM
1

Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 04:56 PM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 01:54 AM
1

It's both to some extent. I would argue that nowadays it's more social than biological and that in modern society, unless you play sports professionally, being tall has no actual advantage besides getting more matches on online dating apps. A girl seeking a guy taller than herself makes sense to me, that's a biological instinct. But a girl who is under 5'10" who "needs" a 6'0+ guy and refuses to date a guy who's 5'10" or 5'11"? That is social conditioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 08:41 PM
1

I have to disagree on the "changing looks is the easy part". You can change looks to a certain extent, like working out and dressing better. But what incels care about (not necessarily society cares about) are facial features and being a 10/10 Chad. Which is hard, if not impossible, for them to become without facial reconstruction surgery. What is possible though, is them changing their outlook on life, changing their view of girls, and changing their attitude. They're just not likely to do that…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 08:36 PM
10

Yup...suicide and depression rates are at all time high.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:47 PM
1

Yeah, why not?
/r/seduction19/02/20 04:10 AM
2

Maybe, maybe not. I would just go for it.
/r/seduction19/02/20 03:55 AM
1

This is the truth. If I had the money in college, I would have probably joined a fraternity but my parents would never willingly pay for that kind of stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 07:45 PM
1

Depends on what tier the sorority is in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 07:40 PM
1

I'm a 23 year old guy and I've only slept with 2 women, but I've never dated anyone yet but I'm definitely interested. I don't really care much for saying my n count is much higher than it really it is and I assume that most girls don't care as long as it's not 0 or "really high". So no, I wouldn't lie about N count. But I definitely wouldn't go into details about how I lost my virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 07:34 PM
1

I think that a lot of girls would be able to tell if you're lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 07:31 PM
1

Nope, those girls still have some form of standards. They're not going to settle down with just anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 07:24 PM
1

Men are more shallow when looking for relationships. Women are more shallow when looking for hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 07:00 PM
4

Hmm, maybe r/AskWomenAdvice then? I think that r/seduction is mostly guys so you might not get that many answers.
/r/seduction17/02/20 04:36 AM
1

Perhaps try r/AskWomen.
/r/seduction17/02/20 04:25 AM
7

The most obvious reason would be if you want to have kids. If you want kids, you should get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 05:49 PM
1

I would say that almost no one cares about it for the purpose of casual sex. It's easy to see how attractive someone is in 3 seconds. It's not easy to see if they're a decent person in 3 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 04:39 PM
1

Having a good job is just an expectation now, not really a huge advantage. And a lot of "Western women" are getting these jobs too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 04:06 PM
1

I was swiping through dating apps looking for a girl who was lonely. I was unsuccessful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 04:00 PM
1

I don't see many real life examples of this. But part of it is just luck, the guy found a girl who cares about looks less than the majority of the population and cares a lot about his personality. There's always exceptions to rules like "You shouldn't go out of your league." Another part of it is that attraction is not 100% objective, maybe the girl actually thinks that the guy is attractive even though other girls don't. But besides those things, any other instance of what you're describing is …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:35 AM
1

Do you think that girls might be higher than guys or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:23 AM
2

I'm a 23 year old male. I would say that I'm a 9 on the lookist scale and have very high standards, at least relative to other guys. Girls, probably not so much. For hookups, I don't really care about personality or anything besides looks as long as she doesn't have STDs and won't rob me. For relationships, I'm still picky but I won't overlook major red flags. I won't date a crazy girl or a girl who's a genuine horrible human being just because she's hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:21 AM
1

If I was rich, single for most of my youth, and all of the sex workers were a 10/10, I would be doing it all the time. I think that it should be legal, but if I were you, I definitely wouldn't mention it to any potential girlfriends or even regular friends because of how society views it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:13 AM
1

The thing is that no game is fun if it's too hard and you keep losing. No game is fun if it's super easy either, it needs to be in the middle. For a lot of guys, they're playing the game of dating apps and approaching girls in real life on "hard mode". They're getting rejected by every girl that they're attracted to. There's not really much thrill in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:06 AM
2

Chad, he is a man with all of the dating advantages of girls, plus he can't get pregnant from casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 01:32 AM
0

No, if anything, dating will just get more competitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 01:25 AM
3

I think that the last girl is above average in attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 04:28 AM
3

No, because in that case I know that she definitely isn't in it for the money. If anything, that would be ideal if we ever wanted to start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 04:23 AM
1

Neither guy is "Chad".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 07:40 PM
93

Nope, because women don't compare men to women. They compare men to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 10:37 AM
1

The first one is more effective, but is less moral.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 04:04 AM
1

Yes, they do, and part of it is technology but not all of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 03:52 AM
1

Question, how did that "skinny hippie" looking guy meet his girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 03:44 AM
1

The truth is somewhere in the middle between those 2 extremes. But no, it's not "easy" for the average man if he just tries and puts in effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 02:00 AM
1

I don't know, do girls really like "good men"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 01:53 AM
2

Straight facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 09:17 PM
1

In general, women are far more pickier than men. But some men are very picky and others, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 08:47 PM
3

It only works on a certain type of girl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 07:10 PM
2

No, there isn't someone out there for everyone. If there was, you wouldn't see this many people on the internet complaining about being forever alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 06:36 PM
1

Just ask her, don't overthink it.
/r/seduction31/01/20 03:23 AM
1

I'd prefer that she knows what she's doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:54 AM
1

Without even looking at the rest of the replies I would just say that there would be 2 main reasons: The guy wasn't attractive. The guy was too thirsty. If it's just hooking up, then looks are the most important factor. But attractive guys will still find a way to mess up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:45 AM
3

It works for certain guys but not others. It doesn't work for the majority of guys because they either aren't attractive or have no game.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:32 AM
1

If I had to pick one, it would be the second one. I once asked a guy from in college what his body count was. He said that he slept with more than 40 girls. I then asked him how many of those girls would he consider a 9 or 10. It was no more than 5, and to me that's very strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 05:32 AM
1

Being in a top tier fraternity or being a D1 athlete, preferably basketball or football.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 03:48 PM
1

Some women want sex, other women want relationships. Some men want sex, other men want relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 03:42 PM
1

Tall (> 6'), fat, doesn't shave anywhere, saggy boobs, and a (relatively) flat ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 10:45 PM
1

Probably not by that much besides online dating. I can see less people using online dating just because they don't get any results from it and everyone else's standards are too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 08:40 PM
8

Yup, in reality, sluts don't "fuck every guy" or "sleep with half the town". They just hook up with hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 08:33 PM
2

I thought that purge week was over?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 08:11 PM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 08:10 PM
9

It depends on the particular person. But being "thin" and skinny isn't that hard in comparison to being muscular and having a low body fat percentage. There are a lot of skinny and skinny fat guys out there who don't really have to workout or anything because they have a fast metabolism. Then you have people who are a bit older, follow fad diets and exercise, but still struggle to lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:47 AM
1

It's probably changed things related to social interactions like dating for the worse. But it has improved our lives in every other aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 08:09 PM
1

This reminds of applying to jobs online vs. handing your resume to recruiters in career fairs. The people who get the job offers after applying online usually have high GPAs and multiple internships and often times hundreds or thousands of people will apply for a single position. A lot of potentially good applicants get filtered out when applying to jobs online. And in the same sense, only the most attractive guys get real success on Tinder. There are a lot of guys who might not be super attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 08:08 PM
1

Everyone should be nice in a perfect world. But in reality, not everyone wants to be or is nice. Just like no one should be homeless, no one should starve, no one should be without access to clean water.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 07:44 PM
1

She might reject you and tell your parents.
/r/seduction31/12/19 05:06 AM
2

I'm just going to assume that this is a troll. But are you from Alabama by any chance?
/r/seduction31/12/19 05:04 AM
2

Yes, because they'd probably get laid more often than.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 05:39 PM
2

That's a lot of viagra.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 07:52 PM
3

You can't tell me what to do, you @$#!% noomer!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 09:14 PM
1

Something that I've always wondered is how important is game vs looks when hooking up with girls. Can a guy who's not attractive (maybe even "ugly") bed an attractive girl, or even an above average looking girl, within a few hours of meeting her, based solely on his game? Of course, I don't know how attractive the commenters on this post are, but besides a comment made by someone who used to be an escort, most of these guys who hooked up with girls were considered "hot".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:04 AM
1

No, M, 23, been in 0 relationships, but not a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:57 PM
1

In reality, that $1,000 ring is worth way less than $1,000. And I see what you're saying. But high maintenance girls do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:25 PM
1

No, I don't really buy anyone presents. But that's just because people in my family don't really celebrate Christmas. We rarely buy each other presents. And I've never had a girlfriend around this time of year. If I ever get married and I have kids, I would probably buy people presents.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:14 PM
2

Some of the girls this happens to actually want a relationship, or something more than a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:39 PM
1

The first one for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 05:01 PM
1

Not necessarily. They might struggle less in general, but that's because they are dating women who are of the same socioeconomic class as them, and usually the same race. They'd struggle if they went after attractive girls who weren't lower class. The social dynamic in the "ghetto" is different than the social dynamic in middle class, upper middle class, and the rich communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 05:01 PM
1

Man boobs...I mean a 6 pack. Except you can't see who has a six pack when they're fully clothed and you can always get a boob job as a girl, but you can't get a "6 pack" job as a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 04:25 PM
1

^
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 12:31 PM
1

I'm going to assume that you work at either Facebook, Google, Apple, Amazon, or Netflix. But to me, no it doesn't matter. I actually think of that as a plus. But I think that some guys would be surprised that this girl wants to date them. Because I thought that most girls want to date someone who makes more than them. But it also brings up a different question(s). Are you willing to start a family? Will either person put their career aside to take care of the kids? Will it be you or the guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 12:01 PM
1

Because some girls are not comfortable doing that. They don't want to sell their bodies. Or they find it demeaning, and there's also the social stigma associated with being a sex worker. In most cases, they probably don't want their friends and family to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:55 AM
2

Guys on the red pill subreddit are primarily talking about getting laid. As a girl who is above average in attractiveness, you can get casual sex pretty easily. You can't get a relationship very easily. But neither can most guys. Those guys would prefer to have casual sex with many girls, and not a relationship. Btw, is it just me, or did this post almost seem like an elaborate thirst trap?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:44 AM
1

I sometimes wish that I was in my teens or early 20s in the 90s or early 2000s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:33 AM
1

It will be nonexistent and people will have sex less and stop having kids and the human race will eventually go extinct. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:27 AM
1

23 year male...when a girl asked me dance at a night club, if that counts. Otherwise, never. And I wasn't interested in her at all, I turned her down.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:20 AM
2

I can't wait to visit Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:17 AM
1

Physically attractive, smart, loyal, not crazy, nice personality, doesn't sleep around but doesn't necessarily have to be a virgin. College educated with a job. Works out regularly, but doesn't have to be in great shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:12 AM
3

Nope, he's too insecure, out of shape, and reliant on money to get people to do what he wants. Many members of his own party don't even respect him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:01 AM
1

I actually don't care unless the girl is covered in tattoos and/or the tattoos are what I consider to be dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 10:37 AM
1

Traditional conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 10:34 AM
0

Because they are "more desperate" to get laid or get in a relationship than an attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 09:41 PM
1

Then millions of people die without ever finding them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:32 PM
1

Zipf's law/the Pareto principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:27 PM
1

Pretty sure that people of both genders do this, and it's hard to determine which one does it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:01 AM
1

I think that some of them are 10s and then other ones are slightly above average looking. Photoshop, makeup, and filters go a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 04:08 PM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 03:50 PM
1

That reminds me of Dan Bilzerian, except the number is more than a 100 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 07:54 AM
2

Not being bottom shelf =/= Being top shelf
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 07:44 AM
4

It's competitive because of hypergamy. Attractive guys who are financially successful aren't that common. Let's say that makes up less than 30% of the male population. Most girls prefer that type of guy, even though that might not be realistic. Those girls make up way more than 30% of the female population. The average Joe isn't as bad off as those guys that you mention in the post. But he doesn't really have an advantage, girls still have their own standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 07:37 AM
1

I think that in a perfect world, no one has to settle. I definitely don't want to settle. But for a lot of guys out there, they think that they only have 2 choices: to either lower their standards, and remain forever alone. But that's not really the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 12:57 AM
1

I think that another interesting question would be how many unattractive rich people in the world wished that they were attractive. And how many attractive people who weren't rich, wished that they could be rich. And which one of those people wants what they don't have more. But anyways, I think that I would choose being rich over being attractive. It just leads to an overall high quality of life and being attractive just won't fix as many of your problems. I have a decent paying job and I'm my …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 06:56 PM
1

A lot of the girls who use Tinder are actually on there for validation of their ego or more Instagram followers. They're not actually looking for a boyfriend or to hook up, but they're not really there out of desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:44 AM
1

There are escorts in the U.S. Yes, it's illegal, and yes, it's expensive. But they exist...just look at r/SexWorkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:18 AM
1

It depends on where you start out. Some people will never be considered attractive no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:56 AM
2

Late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:53 AM
2

Definitely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:51 AM
1

M, 23, Purple, and slightly left leaning moderate. And it depends on what you consider "luck". By that, do you mean winning the genetic lottery? I'd argue in that case, "luck" would be at least 60% of it, if not more. Otherwise, I'd say that it's 50% effort and 50% luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:29 AM
2

Everyone in my family has had an arranged marriage. I can't relate lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 06:15 AM
1

Yes, unless "Chad" is rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 07:22 PM
1

I'd rather be rich, loved by women, and be able to appreciate the other benefits of being rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 06:48 PM
1

Poor guys...who are probably attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 06:46 PM
1

Girls take it too seriously. Guys don't take it seriously enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 06:19 PM
1

Having just graduated earlier this year, I wish that I dated in college. I would have very likely have broken things off though since I moved 2,000+ miles for a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 06:11 PM
1

Go on dating apps. Get maybe a few matches over the course of several months. Matches who never respond and/or aren't that attractive. Reset Tinder, and maybe change my bio and add new pictures. Repeat steps 1-3. Try approaching girls in clubs. Stops approaching said girls in clubs after getting rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 03:57 PM
2

Prostitutes, yes. E-thots, no...they are usually more likely to scam you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 11:30 PM
1

What about the women who actually want casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 04:46 PM
2

No, I wouldn't want to become a woman. It might make it easier to have sex, but it wouldn't really make my life better otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 04:38 AM
4

Yes.
/r/seduction24/10/19 01:07 AM
1

Uhh...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 02:40 AM
1

It might not become level for a long time. Any changes that would actually affect anything would be hard to do on such a large scale. You'd have to force guys to be less thirsty and raise their standards. You'd have to somehow make women be less picky. Stop people from using dating apps and force them to meet people in real life. Somehow raise the SMV of all guys and close the gap between the "high SMV" and "low SMV" guys. (I don't know how to do that last one without eugenics, which reminds me …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 02:39 AM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 12:52 AM
1

Yup, all situations where they don't care that someone else is getting cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 12:48 AM
1

Whenever guys start having sex. But I'm a guy who doesn't value female virginity that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 12:47 AM
1

Yup, there are lots of white people who believe in waiting until marriage. And there are "foreigners" who aren't virgins and haven't gotten married yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 12:40 AM
1

https://i1.wp.com/conatusnews.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/A-utopia.jpg?fit=2000%2C1270&ssl=1
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:10 PM
1

I'm guessing that Todd V. is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:04 PM
1

Incels don't think that it works because they're either bad at it, or go for girls that are way out of their league who have rejected them before the conversation even started (if you're below a 5 in looks and go for a 10, just having amazing game won't help you). Women claim that they don't think that it works because they're either unaware of how to tell if someone is using it or just don't want people to believe that some women are susceptible to some "PUA bullshit".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:48 PM
1

Some of it is just trolling though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:36 PM
1

Women can never understand what it's like being a guy who values sex a lot. And guys will never understand why most women don't really value sex as much as most guys. The 2 genders can never truly be equal, they have innate differences. Yes, there are only 2 genders. Every guy isn't the same, and every women isn't the same. There are both shitty people and nonshitty people of both genders. Racism will always exist, as long as different races exist. But as time moves forward, society in general b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 06:12 AM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:57 AM
3

It's messed up, but it's a social status thing. It's not just the U.S. either. In India, when people get an arranged marriage, a strong emphasis is placed on the the bride having fair skin. Fair skin used to be associated with belonging to a higher caste. But even though the caste system is now antiquated, people in India are still obsessed with fair skin. And you can draw a parallel in America when you look at pop culture and the skin color of the girls used in rap music videos in recent years.…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:54 AM
2

18, I'm a 23 year old guy right now. But as I get older I will probably be less willing to have sex with 18 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:47 AM
1

No...it could get awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:46 AM
1

I'm a guy, but I don't think that blonde girl was just being friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:46 AM
1

I think that's the best answer here, you can never know for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:38 AM
1

People who say that looks don't matter at all are just as bad as incels who think that looks are the only thing that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:36 PM
1

Just curious what you mean by "brown". Hispanic or South Asian?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:35 PM
3

Meanwhile, Dan Bilzerian is both a millionaire and gets a bountiful amount of casual sex. How does that make you feel, OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:49 PM
6

In theory, Chad's game doesn't matter because his looks make up for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:37 AM
1

Sure, but girls can't see your dick game on Tinder. This is good advice for keeping a girl, but not getting her in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:27 AM
2

Congratulations!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:24 AM
1

Sure...but a poor girl can attract more mates than a poor guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:14 AM
3

The 80/20 rule is called the Pareto Principle, and holds true for several things, not just dating. The average man isn't exceptionally attractive, athletic, or tall. That's why he's average. The average guy on Tinder isn't really getting dozens of matches. He's probably still getting a few here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:30 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:25 AM
1

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/8b/e9/a0/8be9a0df6345a2ef046ebf8f24f96a17.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:20 AM
2

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:17 AM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:36 PM
1

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/8b/e9/a0/8be9a0df6345a2ef046ebf8f24f96a17.jpg I don't disagree with you though on how women treat attractive guys differently than unattractive guys. It's obviously better to be an attractive guy when using dating apps. I just don't think that this particular guy is a 10/10 with perfect facial features. And yes, 2 different mugshot pictures may not have the same angle or lighting, it's possible. But no I don't think that they have selfie sticks, ring lights, or fil…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:26 PM
1

So...eugenics?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:15 PM
4

Eugenics is not politically correct. But you have a point. What if technology let you choose how tall, what hair/skin/eye color, how intelligent, or how athletic your kids would be? I doubt that most people would choose to have a kid who's short or not smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:14 PM
1

Unless you get a breast implant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:10 PM
1

Sure they can. Anyone can buy sex, it's called prostitution. It may not be legal in the U.S. beside certain parts of Nevada, but it's still an option. But you can't "buy" a genuine relationship, no matter how rich you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:07 PM
1

I'd assume that most of the employees are BB, and not incels or "Chads".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 09:03 PM
1

I thought that the lighting/angle in that viral picture was fake and there was another picture of him where he wasn't quite as good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:58 PM
2

HA! GAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:54 PM
-4

"I’d say we’re both lucky. But I’d be wrong. Unfortunately a lot has come to light since making this post. She’s actually a tinder hoe that fucked and sucked every dick under the sun before setting her sights on me. Oh well. I guess I need to tell her Reddit told me the truth about her ways and we need a divorce. It’s a shame cuz I really liked this one lol /s"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:53 PM
6

I prefer the perfect balance between how a lasagna looks and how it tastes 🧐.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 07:28 PM
1

Depends on height and body type.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 07:25 PM
5

It's not 😏.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 07:22 PM
1

Dating in America is just different, at least a little bit, if you're not white. Anyone who thinks otherwise is either uninformed or trying to push some political agenda. Of course, if you're a minority who's attractive/tall/rich, you'll be successful regardless of your race. But a lot of people want to date only within their race, and this significantly limits the dating pool if you're a minority. And in some cases, someone might find someone of a different race attractive, but not be willing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 07:18 PM
3

Or maybe it's both?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:55 PM
7

Yup, there's some bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:43 PM
3

Looks matter to 90% of people, regardless of what people actually say. It's just a question of how much they matter. Women definitely consider looks, but they're not the only thing. But they're still the most important thing. You must meet a minimum looks threshold first before other things like your personality are taken into consideration, just like how when you're applying to jobs straight out of college, you must meet a minimum GPA requirement. A lot of the guys who complain on the internet …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:32 PM
1

👀
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:00 PM
1

Usually girls won't randomly grind on you, you must initiate. Try to dance near them first and engage them. That girl must have been an exception, I'm assuming that she's the one who initiated. Some girls will get drunk and just grind on anyone, but they aren't serious about going home with you.
/r/seduction13/10/19 05:19 PM
3

These...are true statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:43 PM
0

Guys who like "nerdy girls" want an attractive nerdy girl, like Jessica Blevins. Those are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 06:36 PM
3

r/MGTOW isn't really for MGTOW, it's been invaded by Incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 06:30 PM
1

Women don't have that much to lose in marriage, usually. If the couple gets divorced, the man, who more than likely makes more, will lose half of his stuff. So in that sense, marriage is worse for men than it is for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 06:26 PM
1

The second one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 04:49 PM
1

2 low SMV individuals can still have kids who are high SMV (or at least, higher) and vice versa. But that's rare. There are a lot of other problems in the world that have nothing to do with your genes that I would consider just as important when deciding whether or not to have kids. (i.e. climate change, overpopulation) But personally, I would say no, in the case that "shittty genes" actual means that you have a higher genetic predisposition to certain illnesses and not just being "too short" or…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 04:44 PM
2

Sure, but there's something exceptional about those guys in the first place. Or rather, those women see something exceptional in those guys. It might not be being rich, having a big dick, being good in bed, or anything stereotypical, but there's still something there. But there a lot of guys out there who don't have anything like that going for them who want to date girls who are 10/10s. And most of those guys don't have a realistic chance.
/r/seduction08/10/19 12:01 AM
2

Mostly the first one, which in turn causes the second one to become true as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 01:01 AM
1

You're calling a decent percentage of young men mentally ill then. I don't think that's the case here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 11:38 PM
1

I think that most young men would prefer to be popular and attractive, and they think that it's important. But I think many of them think that other things are more important and/or also think that they can't be popular no matter what they do, and end up with a defeatist attitude. Young men, or the nerdy guys in high school are also under the impression that money is important, and their parents tell them that the best way to become wealthy and successful in life is to focus on school, go to col…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:32 PM
1

Yup, guys can still get robbed or shot in the ghetto. And in places that aren't the ghetto.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:00 PM
1

Probably...a lot of these "gender norms" are reinforced by the opposite gender. You have to act a certain way in order to have sex or get in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:57 PM
3

Sure, but really you're making the problem worse. Not all guys are willing and/or able to "experiment".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:47 PM
1

I've been single all my life. The first and only time I had sex was when I was 21, I'm 23 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:35 PM
1

For some people, the only thing wrong with their mental health is that they don't have anyone who wants a relationship with them or to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:19 PM
1

5+ times a week. The bare minimum would be 2 times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 06:57 AM
1

Tinder is just one dating app that is a reflection of the current dating culture in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 03:35 AM
1

You can ask the same person to 10 people, and all of them will give you different answers. It reminds me of politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 03:21 AM
1

My friend who is a Muslim is very religious and told me that he's waiting until marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 03:19 AM
1

Depends, most of them, probably not. But some would. Very religious people who are waiting until marriage will do this. Tim Tebow is a noticeable example. But I'm a guy, and personally, I wouldn't stay in the relationship because of my sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 03:18 AM
2

Every guy is different in this regard. Obviously the guys on TRP would rather undershare than overshare.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 03:14 AM
1

Most girls aren't too keen about saying that they want to hook up in fear of slut shaming. And usually, a girl won't hook up with a guy if he's super straight forward. They prefer to be "wined and dined" first.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 03:09 AM
2

Incels claim that the answer is yes, while PUAs will say no. I think the answer might be dependent on the "beholder" in question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 03:05 AM
1

Yup, everything on TRP is "marketed" towards straight people. Gay and bisexual guys don't quite have the same problems as straight guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 02:57 AM
3

There's no way to know for sure over the internet where we can't see that guy interact with women. It's definitely not just his insecurities. It's either just his height, or both insecurities and his height. Being "confident" won't magically get him a girl who only goes for 6'+ guys, but it's better than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 02:21 AM
8

Marriage rates will decline, less young people will have sex, and dating apps will fall in popularity because people will be having less matches. All of these changes will be gradual, but most of them are already in motion. There may eventually be a push to legalize prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 06:42 PM
1

But don't hot guys have at least a slight advantage?
/r/seduction22/09/19 05:02 PM
1

False: Everyone knows that there aren't any girls on the internet 🤔
/r/seduction22/09/19 04:57 PM
2

Congratulations! You are now HIV Aladeen!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 08:12 AM
1

I personally wouldn't do it, but it's ultimately up to you. For someone who's never had sex before, it might be a culture shock. But I also don't know how many guys will be there, how old the people there are, or how hot the girls there are.
/r/seduction21/09/19 10:07 PM
1

No, some men want a genuine relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 09:00 PM
4

You can do everything right and still fail. It's called being unlucky. Not to mention factors out of your control, like height or race.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:52 AM
3

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:46 AM
1

In some cases, women can be the gatekeepers of both sex and commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:43 AM
3

I think that those posters don't view it as wanting to be treated like women. They view it as wanting to be treated like high value guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 05:41 AM
2

Nope, it's the women's fault. And if it was the other way around, it's the man's fault. It's not like the guy gave her no other choice, but to cheat on him. She did so of her own free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 04:56 PM
1

The last one made me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 04:52 PM
2

It's a conundrum, girls are picky because guys are super thirsty. We could tell all guys to stop being so thirsty tomorrow, but the girls would still remain picky without lowering their standards. So you end up with a bunch of guys not getting laid as much because they stopped being thirsty and going for girls that are less attractive than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 04:34 PM
3

I think that it's "hard" for people of both genders who don't have high SMV to find genuine emotional/romantic interest that leads to an LTR. I don't know if it's equal, but most guys definitely have no real advantage there. Girls will be often be used by high SMV guys for hook ups when they thought that they found someone who had an emotional/romantic interest in them. On the other hand, guys who don't have high SMV cannot get commitment from a girl whenever they want. They must look a certain …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 04:27 PM
1

Not a 10/10, not rich, I have high standards, and my parents got divorced when I was 10. They had an arranged marriage, and the reason why they divorced was because my dad was physically and verbally abusive. I'm 23 and have still yet to be in a relationship. I can't ask my parents about relationship advice so I'd have to ask my brother or my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 03:01 AM
1

Not every girl is a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 02:57 AM
2

I think that it depends on which city you're in. In college towns it's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 01:41 AM
3

Rich parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 01:40 AM
2

So, what you are essentially saying is that attractiveness is a social construct? Just asking for clarification here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 08:40 AM
2

Because you have all these people like PUAs who claim that "looks (the face) don't matter," and that you just need to work out and have good game to bed any woman that you want. Then you also have people on the internet who claim that they have seen average looking or even below average looking guys date or hook up girls who are a 10/10. But this is the exception, not the rule. Some people believe that they can get lucky, and that they will be the exception because they are nicer, smarter, or mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 08:05 AM
3

Yes, nothing lasts forever. Eventually, even the most attractive man on Earth will become old.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 07:03 AM
1

Well, a few of them still chose the 2nd option...lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 06:58 AM
3

Because they aren't those men, and they want be those men. If they had an option, they would choose to be those men. But they can't be, and probably never will be in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 06:50 AM
3

3 problems with this: It's illegal in the U.S. outside of certain parts of Nevada. You have to avoid getting caught by law enforcement, who sometimes set up stings. It can get expensive, very quickly, especially if you go after high end escorts. You have to worry about girls who have fake pictures, are scammers, or might have STDs. Although, most high-end escorts probably get tested somewhat frequently. But that brings me back to 2. And then eventually, let's say that you do get in a LTR with so…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 05:37 PM
9

There are plenty of people who get new social circles in college or after they graduate college and get their first job and move to a new city.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 03:22 AM
3

This 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 08:49 AM
2

I would prefer it if we both worked. Otherwise, I'd be bored most of the time. I just graduated college and accepted a job for almost 70k a year. I would okay, maybe even prefer, if a girl I dated made the same amount, if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 02:09 AM
1

Because our biology makes us do it. When you get in a relationship with someone, the expectation is that eventually, you will have sex with them. Maybe not immediately, but somewhere down the road. Humans are still creatures with primal instincts, not all of our actions are based on logic. And then on top of that people watch TV shows and movies where most of the main characters in relationships are conventionally attractive, this just reinforces that idea. While some people claim that they don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 06:28 PM
1

Not necessarily, there's so many other factors besides "poor character". A guy who's not white could have a lack of success in the SMP/RMP of a certain city but be really successful in a different one, which has nothing to do with his personality. Some guys may have "poor character ", but there are a decent number of guys with good character who are either not very attractive and/or are just very passive in their interactions with women. These guys usually aren't that successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 03:10 AM
1

It's strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 03:03 AM
1

The 3rd one, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 03:02 AM
1

If having sex whenever you want is what you mean by "better", we already passed that point a while ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 02:54 AM
1

It's better than nothing, but it's just not that great.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 02:46 AM
1

Every woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 02:44 AM
1

Tell that to the incels on the internet.
/r/seduction29/08/19 02:31 AM
1

Well yes, this is a nice anecdote, but I usually assume the same thing. Anyone can approach anyone, but ultimately you won't succeed unless they're attracted to you. The guys who do the same thing that OP does probably won't post about it because it's not a success. Some guys might approach a 100 hot girls and get rejected by all of them. But maybe this girl wasn't quite a 10/10, and OP considered her more attractive than she actually was and she just happened to be attracted to him. But there's…
/r/seduction29/08/19 01:50 AM
3

Those young women are fucking young non-celibate attractive dudes, for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 04:06 AM
3

Everyone in my recent lineage has had an arranged marriage.
/r/seduction18/08/19 06:05 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 06:01 PM
1

Some of them, maybe. Others, not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 05:54 PM
2

Guys who are actively trying to hook up and are successful do not make up the majority of the population. A lot of guys under 30 do use dating apps but some of them aren't trying to hook up and not all of the ones who are trying to hook up are actually successful. The guys that you're talking about are a subset of the male population. Also, what do you consider the minimum sample size that's "statistically significant"? 100? 500? 1,000? I would argue that your sample size isn't statistically sig…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 01:56 AM
1

F
/r/seduction18/07/19 11:43 PM
1

Money may also be a factor, but really, if they wanted to do it, there's websites out there where they can escorts. And if they're careful, they won't get caught or scammed. Some of them might not be too worried about the legality from it. They might genuinely want something besides just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 03:16 PM
1

Do you have two specific girls in mind already?
/r/seduction26/03/19 01:05 AM
1

Is this a troll post? It's a bad idea.
/r/seduction09/03/19 06:13 AM
2

Green light for sure...lol.
/r/seduction02/03/19 05:24 PM
2

Just go for it without being too crude, and if she thinks that you're creepy then go for someone else.
/r/seduction02/03/19 03:09 AM
3

I wouldn't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 11:36 PM
1

Doing those things will make it more likely that a guy who has nothing else going for him will attract a woman. It won't make his face a 10/10 or make him have "good game," but it isn't meant to. Having those things makes the guy better off than he was before. He won't be on the same level as a guy who's attractive, fit, wealthy, and has good game, that would just be silly. There are just some things that you can't change, and the RP doesn't try to change those things. PUA focus on a guy's behav…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 01:50 AM
1

Yup, I wish I did college completely differently.
/r/seduction23/02/19 07:27 AM
2

No and no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 08:58 PM
3

That doesn't apply to guys with high SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 09:35 AM
1

💯💯💯
/r/seduction26/01/19 05:26 AM
1

That's interesting, considering that there a lot of Middle-Eastern, Indian, and Asian guys who are turning to PUA or becoming "Red-Pilled" whom aren't really "alt-right".
/r/seduction19/01/19 05:28 AM
1

Fairly common.
/r/seduction19/01/19 02:25 AM
2

It usually works if the guy is hot I think. But I'm not a hot guy and I've never asked a girl that on Tinder.
/r/seduction19/01/19 02:20 AM
1

?
/r/seduction31/12/18 01:48 AM
3

If those guys are just going up to girls and asking to dance, it probably has to do with their looks.
/r/seduction30/12/18 05:51 PM
1

It could just be by coincidence, or it could because of how you look. I don't know how you look so I can't say.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 04:57 PM
3

A woman who is socially conservative and wants to have a low body count. A few of these are saving themselves for marriage, or at least "saving it for someone special".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 10:46 PM
5

I don't think that Tinder Gold is worth it. Chances are, those likes are from people who were traveling and are outside of your match radius now.
/r/seduction29/12/18 03:16 AM
1

I'm a 22 year old guy with a body count of 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:48 AM
3

Oof.
/r/seduction27/12/18 08:55 PM
1

Hot slut...because hot sluts 😍... But really, in this scenario the difference in attractiveness is so high that I'll have to ignore the body count or at least not consider it as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 03:51 PM
3

Yes, women can do this very easily, especially very attractive women. They can literally walk up to any heterosexual single guy on the street and ask him if he wants sex and he'll probably say yes unless he's saving himself for marriage. Some guys are thirsty, but even the non-thirsty guys will consider that offer, albeit they'd be more skeptical. But most women would never do something like that, and no attractive girl would ever think of doing something like that. And the guy would probably be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 03:15 PM
1

28 year old virgin, but I'm assuming that I won't get married until I'm around that age. I'm 22 and I've only had sex once. Otherwise, I'd prefer to marry someone around my age with an N-count that is similar to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 06:05 AM
1

I'd choose the 10 that loves me. But since that isn't a choice I'd just choose solitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 03:59 AM
5

Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 08:13 AM
1

I think it depends on the guy. I have been told that I have "high standards" by my roommates, one of which has low standards and the other one I'm not sure if he has any standards at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 10:23 PM
1

How hot are the girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 07:40 AM
3

^
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 03:17 AM
8

I think that for a guy, dating in 2018 is harder than it has been in the past. Or at least, for most guys. For guys who are considered a 9 or 10 in terms of attractiveness, it's probably easier than it ever has been for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/18 07:52 AM
1

I've fantasized about all of the attractive ones. But I don't fantasize about them that frequently, or at least now I don't. It's far less frequent now than it was in high school. If I was given the opportunity to, I would have sex with a few them, given that it was kept under wraps.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 10:14 PM
2

I think that for most people, it may not be the ideal body type. But they consider it an improvement compared to how they already look.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 04:33 AM
2

Savage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 06:33 PM
0

Because society considers it creepy. Also, 18 year olds care a lot about looks and are far more likely to date a guy who is their age or at least in his 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 05:25 PM
9

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 08:17 PM
1

Then who does?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 01:30 PM
2

Most of what a girl is attracted to is in the face, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 10:15 PM
1

Never, unless they were to become a guy for a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 08:18 AM
1

By that, do you mean an arrangement that's not mutually beneficial?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 01:23 AM
0

Seems legit 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 04:19 AM
5

"Nah-uhh...Chad gets laid every night!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 04:19 AM
2

It's only "easy" to have sex as a man these days if you're considered conventionally attractive. Social media and dating apps make it easier for those guys and harder for the average guy. Of course, it's "easy" for the average guy or below average looking guy to have sex with an escort, provided he pays a fee and doesn't get into any legal trouble. But I don't think that's what that article refers to. If it was "too easy" to have sex then there would be way less incels complaining on the interne…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 04:27 PM
2

It's not always obvious to the woman that Chad doesn't want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 07:31 PM
2

Yes, because guys with no standards or low standards will give them attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 07:29 PM
1

Some guys shame other guys for being virgins because it's seen as a lack of masculinity. Usually, the reason itself doesn't matter, whether it's religious or simply just because the guy isn't attractive enough to find someone who meets his standards. Look at Tim Tebow as an example. One of his ex-girlfriends broke up with him because he was saving himself for marriage and then people on the internet questioned both his masculinity and sexuality. "He didn't sleep with a girl that hot, he must be …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 05:22 PM
1

I'm a guy in college and I've only taken out a girl on a date once. I wouldn't think any less of a girl who would put out on the first date, but I'm definitely not expecting it. On the other hand, if I was dating a girl who wasn't waiting until marriage (or saving it for "someone special"), and we went on 3 date and still didn't sleep together. I would question how interested she was in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 09:10 PM
1

To clarify, I'm a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 09:22 PM
2

I think it depends on the age and how experienced the guy is. I started watching porn when I was in middle school and didn't lose my virginity until I was 21 (which I still am), and I have never been in a relationship. Prior to that point I had no idea of what sex would actually be like besides what I watched in porn videos and whatever strangers on the internet said about it. Someone else who is my age, but whom has been having sex since before they were 18 and either has a higher body count th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 08:10 PM
4

I can't really say, but it was probably better than the alternative. My parents got divorced because of domestic abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 07:55 PM
1

Nah, only 10's count. For most guys, they don't consider sex with a "land whale" to be an achievement. They consider sex with an above average looking girl or a hot girl to be an achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 09:27 PM
4

"Oh lol that's a unicorn and everyone knows that unicorns aren't real."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 04:11 PM
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