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The last girl I was with told me other girls had warned her about me. Unfortunately, this is one of the best things that can happen to you. It makes girls' thoughts go wild when they hear that someone isn't good for them.
/r/seduction19/01/13 09:14 AM
2

dunno why you're hating so much. chill out bro.
/r/seduction05/01/13 12:08 PM
1

"Nice guy" is code for a multitude of dating sins that many men commit. You're doing well to want to avoid that label.
/r/seduction12/11/12 11:16 AM
6

You've got hella limiting beliefs. What are your views on women?
/r/seduction12/11/12 10:58 AM
-1

You're overthinking this. Just get out there and open some girls, talk to them.
/r/seduction11/11/12 11:21 AM
2

Do you want to game her or get "sick burnnnnn" from everyone?
/r/seduction17/08/12 06:11 PM
-2

You're being friendzoned and now she associates negative emotions with you.
/r/seduction17/08/12 04:47 PM
1

What are you guys "sexting"? Pictures of yourself?
/r/seduction16/08/12 04:59 PM
1

I'd just calibrate and probably go with 'hey! I'm one less drink away from having sex with someone from this bar ;)'
/r/seduction16/08/12 04:42 PM
1

Going to meetups where everyone else is also probably a geek and socially anxious - or worse - socially retarded may not be the best way of breaking out of your shell. Plus the conversation is usually extremely stilted at forum meets. Maybe LA Reddit is different, idk. I generally tend to avoid geeky meetups.
/r/seduction14/08/12 06:28 AM
3

Women hate betas. Nice guys don't know how to get with women. Nice guys are a proxy for betas. Thus, women hate nice guys. As men, let's not get on the "nice-guy" bashing bandwagon.
/r/seduction14/08/12 06:26 AM
1

lol, I'm also still learning. :)
/r/seduction14/08/12 05:06 AM
0

Over 9000.
/r/seduction13/08/12 09:37 AM
1

No, that doesn't really work.
/r/seduction13/08/12 09:37 AM
3

If you don't like bars, parties and clubs, your bigger problem will be finding women to date in the first place. There are PLENTY of women who don't really like drinking, and even at a happy hour or a party, they will pour themselves a red bull or coke or fruit juice and just go with the flow otherwise. Or they cut themselves off at one or two drinks. You can easily find a girl at a party that isn't a party hound. You and her can connect based on how you were both dragged here and clubs like thi…
/r/seduction13/08/12 09:29 AM
2

I don't agree. Its good social graces to say excuse me when you speak to someone, especially in a non-club environment. Day game would be impossible without "excuse me" or some other polite way of getting her attention. You greet your friends with hi, but that doesn't mean you can go around saying hi to everyone willy-nilly and expect meaningful responses.
/r/seduction13/08/12 05:03 AM
3

So... you went and approached other women right? If this was your only approach of the night, then I wouldn't call it a success, but it was a good first step. Part of seduction is genuinely bouncing back from a rejection and going on to open another set. THEN, even if you get blown out, you're being successful. I've been in that situation before, where I was just happy to approach one set and be like "WHEW I'm glad I got that over with. Damn my heart is still pounding." I'm still working towards…
/r/seduction13/08/12 05:01 AM
1

Its awkward already. Have you said more than two words to her?
/r/seduction13/08/12 04:56 AM
2

You do know that women do the same thing, right?
/r/seduction13/08/12 04:53 AM
2

I wouldn't really count that as three number-closes since you can't pursue all 3 prospects. Or maybe you can and I'd love to know how you pull that off because I've been in this kind of situation more than once.
/r/seduction13/08/12 04:46 AM
2

lol. It'll be hilarious when you bring him out and he runs psycho game on her, and then she leaves you because she sees you associate with people like that.
/r/seduction13/08/12 04:44 AM
1

A conservative third world country. PM me if you want more information.
/r/seduction10/08/12 08:32 AM
4

Dude that's not a close. ahahha
/r/seduction09/08/12 12:31 PM
2

That only applies for the first date. After that you either split, pay your own, or alternate. So maybe I pay for rock climbing and she pays for dinner after. You may be getting taken for a ride if.. you're paying for everything past the first round of drinks.
/r/seduction09/08/12 12:02 PM
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One thing I took from 60 days of challenge is that it doesn't matter what you text. The more elaborate routines you try to play out over text, the more neediness you'll show. As long as you've built enough attraction in person, just text her "hey it was nice meeting you the other day." Go for the callback humor one or two messages later in the conversation. If you haven't built enough attraction, it doesn't matter what you text. It might drag it out longer, but she'll still flake.
/r/seduction09/08/12 11:09 AM
4

I thought this would be about dapper as fuck gentlemen and gangsters in the Roaring 20's and the tips to seduce the dames they shared over cigars, whiskey and fine coffee.
/r/seduction09/08/12 11:06 AM
4

What. Is an H-close.
/r/seduction09/08/12 11:05 AM
3

Lol, my LTR began with me taking my girl and her friend out to coffee. When the time came to pay, I paid for my girl's drink and not her friend. Later on she told me that she appreciated that. It made her feel like I wasn't a pushover and wouldn't just pay for whoever.
/r/seduction09/08/12 11:03 AM
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You'll look back at stuff like this and that's how you know its likely to be a shit date. Get more experience. You asked her to pay for the second date when she was broke for the first, virtually guaranteeing no second date. She didn't talk much with you, guaranteeing that she wasn't gonna develop feelings for you. No kino. Biggest indicator that this date was meant to play you after the fact that she was broke. Both those factors together mean that you got taken for a ride. One of those factors…
/r/seduction09/08/12 10:58 AM
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Yup, totally. They will even excuse players if they seem to be fucked up somehow, by something outside of their control. They use that as a way to try to "heal" them. With their pussy, naturally. :D
/r/seduction09/08/12 10:47 AM
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In Whatsapp, I see three symbols... a clock symbol, a tick mark, and a double tick mark. I just checked the Whatsapp FAQ, and this is what the symbols actually mean... http://www.whatsapp.com/faq/#g4 What are those green checkmarks next to my messages? We are glad you asked. These green checkmarks are actually very important since they function as message delivery acknowledgement indicators. Here is what they mean: ✓ - message successfully delivered to the server. ✓ ✓ - message succesfully deliv…
/r/seduction09/08/12 10:45 AM
1

Nice. Didn't know you could do that. I'll try it on my iPad.
/r/seduction09/08/12 10:38 AM
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Yup. One thing that really struck me a while back was that women love a guy who can get women seemingly without trying. This is why PUA is anathema to women - the idea of not only going up to as many women as possible is revolting enough for them, but to actually study it and make notes and stuff for something that is supposed to just happen is just completely beyond their pale.
/r/seduction08/08/12 05:32 PM
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It makes you look too available, which is a turn off to girls. As with any other situation, you have to calibrate. If she is texting you all the time, you can't text late all the time because then you can't hold a conversation. But don't reply immediately all the time. Give her the gift of wondering what you're doing.
/r/seduction08/08/12 03:27 PM
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popcorn looking forward to the update!
/r/seduction08/08/12 02:57 PM
0

Thank you. It seems that every decently cute Asian girl in the States already assumes every guy hitting on her has yellow fever. Even the Asian guys.
/r/seduction08/08/12 02:50 PM
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When I'm counting a woman's partners, I count every man whose dick she has touched, but when I count a man's partners, I count only those he penetrated. Double standards much? lol!
/r/seduction08/08/12 07:41 AM
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If she opens you then you game her. Don't go nerdraging on her on behalf of all the women who have ever accepted drinks from guys and then never slept with them. Say that you usually don't buy drinks for girls, but what's she doing out here, where are her friends, you think the way she came up to you like a lost kitten is cute, assume attraction etc.
/r/seduction08/08/12 07:38 AM
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How are they seeing you texting other girls? Lock up your phone.
/r/seduction08/08/12 07:12 AM
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I agree. It takes a lot of willpower to not reply immediately, plus with apps like WhatsApp or iMessage, they can tell that you've read the message. Its a minefield out there. Of course, sometimes you can play that part up as well - so you read the message, and don't respond. She'll go nuts trying to figure out why you aren't responding. There's another reason to not have a text tone on your phone though, and that's to make sure that you don't get caught out on your dates or something. A little …
/r/seduction08/08/12 07:06 AM
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This is a good FR and you make good points.
/r/seduction08/08/12 07:02 AM
0

She wants everyone to cater to her view of how things should be. Either that or she's frustrated more alphas don't show direct interest in her.
/r/seduction07/08/12 06:34 PM
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who the hell cares jeeez
/r/seduction07/08/12 05:55 PM
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Whenever things get sexual in any context, there's a chance that someone will come off as creepy. Whether they were creepy or not is another story, but as of right now, workplace sexual harassment rules are vague enough that 'creepy behavior' is enough to get a man harassed by HR and have his life ruined. Also, that shit never applies to women and is sexist by default. The last thing we want is for other places like bars etc to have similar rules. Sure, it works great for women because it weeds …
/r/seduction07/08/12 05:52 PM
1

For sure. There may have been a million things about him that we'll never know.
/r/seduction07/08/12 05:47 PM
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a) You're giving her your number when she didn't ask for it. b) You are doing it under the pretense of filling out an application for a savings card. At least be a little alpha and tell her to give you a little blank paper off the receipt roll and then write it on there.
/r/seduction07/08/12 01:16 PM
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I'd ask for the meaning of your username but I'm afraid that I'd end up on some watchlist.
/r/seduction07/08/12 01:12 PM
1

Commuter huh? Make friends on the train first. When you have made friends with all (or most of) the regulars, then you can start hitting on the new girls. The Caltrain was wonderful for this. Just before I stopped going, I found out that there was a happy hour every week (or was it every day?) and a friend of mine knew the girl who was at the center of it. Perfect opportunity to make new friends.
/r/seduction07/08/12 12:02 PM
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You can't do anything to prevent flakes. Sometimes you can convert them, but its better to have an abundance mentality in the beginning and just stop worrying about them. The connection is made in person and anything you say via text doesn't hold the same meaning. Here's how to mitigate the worst kind of flaking - the kind where they just don't show up. If she doesn't respond to your texts on the day of, she's not gonna come.
/r/seduction07/08/12 11:59 AM
2

So, Thursday evening works for me. Where are you coming from?
/r/seduction07/08/12 10:59 AM
2

The way you're going about this is retarded. You come up with a needy "Can I ask you question pwetty pweeeeaase?" frame (and going even further into needyville by making them promise to answer it no matter what it is) and then follow it up with a "spit or swallow?" thing? Do you not see how that is incongruent? Its one thing to ask a question like that for the hell of it, and its another to follow it up with an overly sexual opener when you're not cocky enough to pull it off. Leave the cocky, ov…
/r/seduction07/08/12 10:52 AM
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Not if they kept going home with PUAs XD
/r/seduction07/08/12 10:47 AM
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His short term success with the hottie doesn't necessarily mean she'll stick around once she gets bored of hearing about him.
/r/seduction07/08/12 10:21 AM
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This is nowhere near as bad as that woman that Roosh linked to in his twitter. Hideous woman, and she's made an art of living off of men's pocketbooks. All because obesity is such a rampant epidemic in America.
/r/seduction07/08/12 09:10 AM
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Be true to yourself. If you want glitter on your face, put glitter on your face. If you don't, don't. Corollary to that: If you only let her put glitter on you because she wants to and you don't, guess what - you're not getting laid.
/r/seduction07/08/12 08:35 AM
1

Here's what you can do, now. Go back to the same store. Buy a snickers and make sure you go through her register. Start small talk. Tease her, see how she responds. At the end of it, you should have reached the hook point and she'll want to give you her number. Say that you don't know if you'll be back to this store soon but you want to get to know her more, and discover her secret apple pie recipe or some other callback humor. Text her the next day with an "it was nice to meet you" and roll fro…
/r/seduction07/08/12 07:19 AM
1

"Being supportive" is barely one step above "Just be yourself" and we all know how well that works. Sometimes you need to change things drastically. Sometimes all it takes is a mindset flip. No one said poets don't get laid. But guys who write shitty poetry for girls they aren't banging often end up in the friendzone. Also, if I compare a girl to a tepid bath it would be as a neg, not in a poem. EDIT: I may be coming across as more acerbic than I feel about the OP. OP, read a few things from the…
/r/seduction07/08/12 07:12 AM
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10001 ways to a beta life.
/r/seduction07/08/12 07:08 AM
1

There you go.
/r/seduction07/08/12 07:07 AM
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go away you dumb fuck
/r/seduction07/08/12 06:59 AM
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repeatedly.
/r/seduction07/08/12 06:59 AM
1

They want the woman to come and talk to them. Its never gonna work, but that's their motivation.
/r/seduction07/08/12 06:59 AM
0

Every time a girl goes out after putting on her no-line panties, her bombshell bra and her hot dress, every time she puts on fake eyelashes and mascara, every time she goes for the lipstick that makes her lips plump even though it stings a bit, she's playing the game. One would be foolish not to recognize it. Or have the rationalization hamster of a woman.
/r/seduction07/08/12 06:58 AM
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Downvoted for this: As for hands brushing your butt, that's pretty plainly sexual harassment I think? The rest of your comment is fine, but the last thing we want is for women to think that workplace sexual harassment rules apply at the fucking bar. Jesus. Do you like not getting laid or something??
/r/seduction07/08/12 06:55 AM
11

DP means dance party now?
/r/seduction07/08/12 06:51 AM
1

Speak through the painful voice of experience, lol.
/r/seduction06/08/12 05:30 PM
4

And then take off the makeup, and Gaga is really average.
/r/seduction02/08/12 06:19 PM
8

First, make friends.
/r/seduction02/08/12 05:58 PM
3

Were you escalating kino throughout?
/r/seduction02/08/12 04:27 PM
2

Jerk off in front of her. I actually am aching to try this after reading about it.
/r/seduction02/08/12 04:08 PM
3

fix the formatting dude, wtf
/r/seduction02/08/12 03:56 PM
2

"Excuse me, I think I know you... are you from one of my classes?"
/r/seduction02/08/12 03:52 PM
1

You chatted up the bartenders because they were paid to serve you and to talk to you. And then you didn't talk to anyone else. Pussy.
/r/seduction02/08/12 03:06 PM
2

Well then should I still tell her how I feel? No. That only works in the movies
/r/seduction02/08/12 03:04 PM
1

lol at telling someone writing sappy poetry that he won't have a problem finding someone
/r/seduction02/08/12 03:03 PM
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I thought this would read "give her an inch, if she accepts it, start working the rest of it in"
/r/seduction02/08/12 02:55 PM
1

When you say you should have said: "Ye i do that all the time, i love talking to people" do you mean say it sarcastically? Or agree and amplify? I don't know if that would have the desired effect... in my view, she was basically saying that I'm a charmer or at least that I was charming her. I don't want a player vibe (been burned by that) so I said that I'm selective in who I direct my charm at. I didn't think I was being beta or making excuses. I do see a definite challenge in her next text tho…
/r/seduction02/08/12 02:40 PM
1

She mentioned the food that I am actually going to make tonight. So I told her that, and she jokingly said, "maybe I should come over and eat..just kidding". Here's where you should have bantered some more. Flirt with her, talk about random shit, make her laugh, tell her "Nooooo how do I know you won't eat all my ice cream and drink all my wine??". Build a connection. Then you can say "hey I'm only planning to cook for one tonight, but let's go out for drinks sometime." Don't take this the wrong…
/r/seduction02/08/12 01:01 PM
3

And you won't ever get a call.
/r/seduction02/08/12 12:43 PM
3

Also, lick your lips a tiny bit when you look at her lips.
/r/seduction02/08/12 12:39 PM
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Mystery's favorite (used to be??): "I'm trying so hard not to kiss you right now." I just don't say any words. If I'm feeling it, I go for it. One time, I hooked up with a Chinese girl (major ASD). I knew it was on the moment I hugged her and ran my hand through her hair, but I didn't kiss her then. I then had her get in her car and follow me to a deserted parking lot, we got out and then I opened her back door and indicated to her to get in. She got in, and I sat down. I complimented her interi…
/r/seduction02/08/12 12:15 PM
2

Thing about a group outing with both of them is that I feel that the ASD is strong in this culture and I'd turn into the entertainer. Let's see how things go, but I rather have her out alone.
/r/seduction02/08/12 12:09 PM
1

I don't want to beat the drum over and over again, but it icks you out because you're a woman. When you're a man, you'll understand.
/r/seduction01/08/12 09:43 AM
1

Lez game is very different from hetero game, even though the objective of both is to seduce a woman.
/r/seduction01/08/12 09:42 AM
3

You're probably not opening enough. How many girls have you opened in the last week?
/r/seduction01/08/12 07:13 AM
2

lol
/r/seduction01/08/12 07:12 AM
1

Check your intentions. Why do you want to invite her to the gym? So you'll be closer to her and maybe she'll see you in a different light? bad. So you'll get to see her more and bask in her presence? baaaad. So you'll have someone to chat with between sets and pivot off of to other girls? Good.
/r/seduction01/08/12 04:42 AM
1

Why should he be open to "the possibility of friendship"?
/r/seduction01/08/12 04:12 AM
4

Every community has its jargon.
/r/seduction01/08/12 04:00 AM
2

Asia game is sooo different from Western-world game, its not even funny. Check out my post on how I got a girl to open me without "running game" on anyone and just being a friendly guy. You've got to be a lot more outcome independent, safe and friendly.
/r/seduction31/07/12 04:16 PM
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Imperturbable.
/r/seduction31/07/12 01:13 PM
2

Close in 30 seconds? I'm racking my brain to figure out what kind of meaningful close I could get after half a minute of conversation.
/r/seduction31/07/12 12:32 PM
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She's probably used to her friend getting hit on more. Here's the frame: You're the man, you go for what you want. Now, there are two ways to do this, based on whether or not you are hanging out. The first way, if you're all hanging out, is to friendzone Sarah first, say that you like having a friend like her, she's an awesome person, blah blah. Then take Amy aside and talk to her, say that you like her style, and she's cool, and would she like to go out sometime. The second way, if you're not h…
/r/seduction31/07/12 10:29 AM
1

I don't know who's teaching you, but: a) Only girls were supposed to wait till marriage. b) Nobody waits till marriage anymore. Oh wait, some people do. They get married at 16 and are divorced by 20.
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:34 AM
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I recently joined a foreign language class. Our registration was in a huge study hall, where we were supposed to wait until our turn was called, and then we could go and register. When I got in, it was deathly silent. Nobody was talking to anybody. People were sitting all over the place in their own little islands, almost as if they were avoiding human contact. Was I going to do the same? Get in a chair and sit, quiet as a church mouse? FUCK THAT. I sat down next to a guy, and promptly opened hi…
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:32 AM
1

Better normal than.... drumroll... PARANORMAL!!!
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:20 AM
1

That means you want sex. So go out there and hit on women and get it. I get that you want to settle down, but you're 20. Very few women are going to consider settling down at your age. And you'll still need some experience to find the ones who do want to.
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:18 AM
1

You make good points.
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:17 AM
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Don't worry about it, don't take it personally, its all good. Be the unflappable rock.
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:12 AM
9

Don't tell me you've never done that :D
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:06 AM
1

I don't just want sex, I am a virgin.
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:00 AM
2

Look bro, I know the feeling. Part of you wants to help from an altruistic viewpoint of "Let's get everyone (or at least all my buddies) laid!" and part of you is more ego-driven "Once he realizes that my advice got him laid he'll be beholden to me!" Truth is, a lot of this stuff is not only red pill, but also something you realize you have to get to yourself. You have to know that you're ready to go down the rabbit hole, not knowing where you'll end up. You could get rejected a 1000 times, or y…
/r/seduction31/07/12 06:56 AM
1

It is obviously a great thing and you should enjoy it and leverage it to the max. Don't listen to any naysayers and asocial shut-ins.
/r/seduction30/07/12 11:36 AM
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You do realize you can leave at any point, right? You don't have to make it less awkward for the girl. Just remember that you have feet and you can walk, at any point in the interaction. And you don't even have to say "it was nice talking to you" if it wasn't.
/r/seduction30/07/12 11:20 AM
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You can go direct and not over-invest by using an opener such as "Hi, I'm XNAME" or "Hi, I was over there and I saw you and I wanted to talk to you. Who are you, what is your name?" Direct doesn't mean complimenting her appearance all the time. It just means you want to talk to them and you're not afraid to show that. I actually used to think that direct meant telegraphing interest right away. I've since realized that it doesn't. Few girls like guys who telegraph a lot of interest right away.
/r/seduction30/07/12 11:18 AM
1

And how do you open in bars and lounges?
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:44 AM
1

Yeah, she looked at him once so he knows its on.
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:43 AM
1

A boyfriend can either be a disqualifier, a shit test or a real boyfriend. As time goes on, you'll realize which is which. In the beginning stages of your game, you'll get it a lot as a disqualifier. Don't worry about it, and don't keep pushing forward anyway. No need to keep gaming girls who disqualify you like that. Go mack on another girl. Once a girl has said that she has a boyfriend, she has invested herself in that statement. The more you try to convince her otherwise, the more she'll dig …
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:37 AM
1

Who cares. Cool story bro.
/r/seduction30/07/12 06:30 AM
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I'd question a) the quality of the woman, and b) how many women it failed on before it worked You are the first woman ever to say these things when you find the seduction community. You get a cookie!
/r/seduction29/07/12 03:32 PM
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What the hell? Have you ever used this technique?
/r/seduction29/07/12 03:24 PM
2

lol!
/r/seduction27/07/12 06:21 PM
1

Well, like I said earlier, you play up your differences. If you start losing your identity just so you can play up how you too can dress like an Asian man, you're going to lose the girls who would have been attracted to the foreign you, and you're a pale (literally) imitation of an actual Korean who dresses well. Its best to stand out in your own way -- that's part of your identity, so own your identity.
/r/seduction27/07/12 06:18 AM
2

If awkward looks is in your head when you're at the bar, you're gonna have a bad time.
/r/seduction27/07/12 05:57 AM
3

I play a tough guy on the internet but really I'm just a big softy
/r/seduction27/07/12 05:52 AM
2

My e-pen0s is huge
/r/seduction27/07/12 05:51 AM
3

I agree. Let me keep going for a sec, though... Girls you meet can be put into basically three categories. They can be attracted to you, ambivalent, or not attracted to you. The ones who are not attracted to you will obviously put you in the "not a love interest" category. The ones who are attracted to you may wait for you to make a move. Its the ones who are ambivalent that can put you in the friendzone if you don't act at the right time.
/r/seduction27/07/12 05:50 AM
1

No
/r/seduction26/07/12 08:31 PM
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Yup, other cultures are a mindfuck when you've been in the US, where you have to make a move quick bc the girl is just aching to put you in the friendzone. Also, with some of these girls you aren't worrying that you're buying the cow when others have gotten the milk for free.
/r/seduction26/07/12 07:26 PM
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Start a game of telephone with her. Intentionally misunderstand her. Gradually get dirty.
/r/seduction26/07/12 07:02 PM
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There's definitely finesse involved. I don't mean shove your foreignness in their face, just remind them that you're used to dealing with a more open culture. The point is that if they like you, they'll fall in your frame and accept you as a friendly guy who just likes to talk to people (and get in girls' pants but don't tell anyone that!). Just like how when you pick up a girl on the street, its good to say "OMG I can't believe I'm doing this, just having a random conversation out of nowhere" -…
/r/seduction26/07/12 06:38 PM
2

Not really. Even attractive guys without game won't get a lot of compliments.
/r/seduction26/07/12 06:32 PM
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lol, its all good. Like I said, you make good points about how the game works in Asian countries.
/r/seduction26/07/12 06:08 PM
2

Regarding your last paragraph, careful. You are never going to be a Korean. It behooves you to work the system, so that if you were Korean, you would go for the Korean way of doing things and get accepted. If you're not, and you're never gonna get accepted as a Korean, just get your willy wet whichever way works. Sometimes - actually fuck that - MOST times, the foreign asshole gets laid a lot more than the lickspit domestic beta.
/r/seduction26/07/12 06:05 PM
4

You make a lot of good points, but dear god you write like an ADD middle schooler. Is English not your first language?
/r/seduction26/07/12 06:03 PM
2

I'm sure this works great for Asian guys and all, and Imma let you finish, but I can't even tell whether most of them are girls or boys. That blog would totally not work for me.
/r/seduction26/07/12 05:36 PM
1

I like this idea. Give her an elaborate coupon for one free massage.
/r/seduction26/07/12 05:33 PM
10

Drop the myspace-speak. We're all adults here, start acting like one.
/r/seduction26/07/12 05:28 PM
-5

This is the perfect time to pull out your "I'm a furriner and this is how they do things in my country" card. Go indirect, ask about something, and then say something like "You know, I was thinking about something. I'm standing here talking to you, and we're having a good conversation. Its always that way in the States, people are so friendly and talk to each other all the time!"
/r/seduction26/07/12 05:18 PM
1

I also agree, and that's why I don't date at work. I feel that I have to be buttoned up, and that doesn't lead to the best game. It subconsciously cramps my style.
/r/seduction26/07/12 12:16 PM
1

I feel you, brother. You moved from a place where you were getting comfortable, had probably built up a social circle, and were gelling with people, maybe had some girls showing interest, and now its all gone, brother. You're in a new place, you have to start all over again, make new friends, get some new females, its hard work. I had the same thing happen to me. Its frustrating because you're like "I was at Warp Level 8-3, now I have to start all over again at Chode Level 1-1? Booo!" But them's…
/r/seduction26/07/12 11:39 AM
2

Only thais.
/r/seduction26/07/12 10:57 AM
1

Seriously. What is it with yoga and hot girls!
/r/seduction26/07/12 10:57 AM
1

Bitches with their mimosa brunches
/r/seduction26/07/12 10:56 AM
1

The Eternal Solipsism of the Female Mind.
/r/seduction26/07/12 10:54 AM
2

wtf?
/r/seduction26/07/12 10:38 AM
7

A birthday card? Dude, if you already hinted at getting serious and she wasn't down, you'll lose her if you act more invested than she is. Just get her a card if you're invited to her birthday dinner and write on her facebook, that's it.
/r/seduction26/07/12 10:32 AM
0

You can't use it. Unless you got promoted from cleaning boy at the local adult video store to gloryhole stand-in.
/r/seduction26/07/12 10:21 AM
2

Playfully teasing is fine, it is awesome actually. But if you've been friendzoned by the hot girl in question, you'll probably be friendzoned by her friends. Unless you never made a move on her and she's seen you with other girls. (EDIT: I re-read the post and it seems you're asking about friends of a girl you've gotten with. In that case, treat them the same as ugly people, run light game on them -- don't start getting into doing the Cube 5 minutes after meeting them, yaknow?? Girls love guys w…
/r/seduction26/07/12 10:20 AM
2

Having a decent (don't mistake that with flashy) car that is kept clean and neat and smells good inside is worth more than having a really slick car that isn't. Funnily enough, an old Jetta with faded paint and nicked alloys is probably gonna be worth less than a Fit. But if you're getting a small car, get one with a personality. How about a Fiat 500? I used to have a BMW and a Miata. Yeah I got plenty of looks (from both girls and guys lzololzlzolzllls), but your cars don't start getting you la…
/r/seduction26/07/12 10:19 AM
3

I don't think deploying a parachute at 30 feet is gonna do much good.
/r/seduction25/07/12 12:16 PM
3

So I see that you've been "browsing" seddit for months. Months. That's how many days when you could have taken action but chose not to? How many missed approaches is that? How many practice conversations, failed approaches, kino opportunities and such is that exactly? And now you want to browse seddit some more, maybe get some karma points. You want other losers (or preferably winners??) to tell you how they got out of their slumps. Dollars to donuts that the answer won't be "I kept browsing sed…
/r/seduction25/07/12 11:16 AM
1

Dude, if she liked you, its not too late to make a move. Whatever your style is, do that. It could be asking her out on a date, it could be taking her out to a happy hour and kissing her while you're doing shots, it could be anything really. Just show your intent.
/r/seduction25/07/12 07:38 AM
3

Your first sentence made me go "Gaaaayyyyy" but then it actually turned into a beautiful flower of a post that brought a single tear to my left eye. Also, girls are never not immature.
/r/seduction24/07/12 01:57 PM
1

So....? You're going somewhere with this, right?
/r/seduction24/07/12 09:11 AM
1

Its either oversimplified, or its wrong. Make up your mind. Instead of just saying that its oversimplified or whatever, why not post or link a better explanation? I'm not convinced that its wrong anyway. Prove it.
/r/seduction24/07/12 09:11 AM
1

So... I read all the way. Where's the pic?
/r/seduction23/07/12 08:49 PM
8

This is one of those things... 20% of the time, it works every time. Regardless though, its all about calibration. If you feel that you can get away with it, you probably can. If you aren't then you're just trying to ram a square peg down a round hole, and how's that for imagery. If you do this when you haven't built up the right kind of frame or attraction, you'll probably scare the cat.
/r/seduction23/07/12 07:40 PM
8

Its not lying, its flirting!
/r/seduction23/07/12 07:38 PM
2

This only works if its in a power pilates class. FR incoming.
/r/seduction23/07/12 05:08 PM
1

But I am interesting in a pen15 pal ifyaknowwhatimean wiggle wiggle
/r/seduction23/07/12 05:07 PM
2

"for some reason".. yeah.
/r/seduction23/07/12 05:05 PM
-2

Ok, cool. Well see, guys have a LOT of testosterone in our system at any one time, and that makes us very horny all the time. Testosterone is also the hormone that makes girls horny, so understand that when you're horny as hell, and "soo frickin wet," it doesn't hold a candle to what a guy is feeling pretty much any time of the day. This is why guys are motivated by the desire to get sex. Plenty of women are sexual camels, in that they will pretty much shut down their sex drive when they are not…
/r/seduction23/07/12 05:03 PM
1

Well, social proof works on guys too. Talk to a few women non-sexually, its easy as pie, and then talk to the guys. They'll have seen you talking to girls so they'll know you aren't gay, and will warm up to you. I've also made the mistake of talking to guys first, and their first reaction is always suspicion unless you are seen talking to girls as well. Also throw in a few "Damn that chick is hot huh?" comments, just make sure its not anyone's sister, haha.
/r/seduction23/07/12 04:57 PM
1

Your comment reminded me of that Ciara song - do it to it do it to it. And now its stuck in my head. Great.
/r/seduction23/07/12 04:55 PM
1

You should do a write-up, dude. I think it would be awesome. :)
/r/seduction23/07/12 10:51 AM
2

Why do you think its a circlejerk? Disclaimer: I've found that SS works.
/r/seduction23/07/12 10:05 AM
-2

Well, it can be open to females, but wtf really? Just how much testosterone do you have coursing through your veins ya mandingo?
/r/seduction23/07/12 10:04 AM
1

Don't delete your facebook, too try hard.
/r/seduction23/07/12 09:58 AM
1

Sometimes lying can be a good social lubricant and it won't trigger her ASD when she's giving out her number (especially in more conservative environments where she might be afraid of getting judged). Check out this story... I was eating lunch with my coworkers at the cafeteria, and there was this other girl there whom I didn't know also sitting at the table. I opened her with "Are you in XYZ project?" She said she wasn't but we started talking. Now, its work, and my coworkers are literally clam…
/r/seduction23/07/12 09:53 AM
1

This. Why are you so worried about their feeewwwings? They haven't even invested in you.
/r/seduction23/07/12 09:05 AM
1

Even if you're not attracted to them, there's no reason you can't talk, flirt and generally be a fun guy. Just stop short of actually hitting on them if you want to remain open for a girl that you do find attractive. I had a similar thing happen at a party the other night. This girl was into me, and I thought she was ok, but didn't make my fireworks go off, you know? I took her number but then never called because I told myself that I won't be slumming it.
/r/seduction23/07/12 09:01 AM
3

Tell her she can buy it from you at $X. That way she gets the book, you get something out of it, and you keep your image as a guy who doesn't get walked all over.
/r/seduction23/07/12 08:58 AM
1

Teenage dynamics are very different from adult dynamics and very different than the environment I was in as a teen, but this: I messaged J and said " hey, next time you and your friend are down you should stop by the house again some time, nothing serious." . . . I messaged it to her when she was offline, so I havent received a reply yet. This looks like you put the ball in her court. That's kinda passive. I wouldn't do that. Don't be passive. Be assertive and get her (whoever that is, J or S) t…
/r/seduction23/07/12 08:48 AM
1

What does he do? I'm at work so no youtube. :-/
/r/seduction23/07/12 08:40 AM
1

Fuck nice, just go to a motel. Don't invest a lot. Make sure you split the bill, or tell her to bring the booze. Tell her (in different words) that you'll upgrade next time if she's that good. Also, look into doing it in your car.
/r/seduction23/07/12 08:39 AM
3

What's snakebites?
/r/seduction22/07/12 01:09 PM
1

I hear what you're saying dude. You're saying that your life should have balance and no one thing should define you. If you don't feel like not working out today because you want to keep reading this book then read the book. This though is a cop-out for a lot of people, and I just want the folks out there to recognize it. Especially when reading that book is easy, going to work out is hard. When watching that youtube video of krauser is easy and going out to talk to people is hard.
/r/seduction21/07/12 12:12 PM
1

I've had that same mindset problem too, thinking "Once I get more cut or put on those 5 more lbs of muscle then I'll really go out and sarge"... as if that's even visible or noticeable to some random people on the street.
/r/seduction21/07/12 12:09 PM
2

She's just looking for attention.
/r/seduction20/07/12 10:55 AM
1

Great work. Moving on further, do you think this is a persona that you want to keep up? When you go back to your little house on the prairie are you going to fall into the same patterns with the same friends, or are you going to find ways to grow and totally become the new you?
/r/seduction20/07/12 10:44 AM
0

There's so much stuff you'll come up with on the spur of the moment if you just assume that she's attracted to you and is waiting for your approval. That's the frame you need to have, and if the moment is as you describe it, then its true. In that frame, even a "Nothing" and a mischievous smile or wink or serious gazing into her eyes will work. Context.
/r/seduction20/07/12 10:39 AM
0

Don't use "creepy" in a conversation with a love interest, at least in the first few minutes. Even if you're using it to refer to someone else at the bar.
/r/seduction20/07/12 10:37 AM
1

Did I miss something? What the fuck is the question? What's the context? Without those, how can you know how to respond?
/r/seduction20/07/12 10:35 AM
1

Don't be too hard on yourself, betas can get laid too. That aside, its a spectrum. Everyone has some beta and some alpha behaviors. I consider myself a beta, and I was (in addition to being asocial), but I also remember a lot of the stuff I said and did with my girlfriends, and how, in retrospect, it was alpha and came across as non-needy.
/r/seduction20/07/12 10:33 AM
1

I've also heard of something called "Seattle Freeze" - ie people are very cold and unfriendly towards new people. And there was even a post I read on reddit where an attractive 20-something woman (also from the East Coast) was having a hard time making friends despite joining groups and SWPL pottery classes and whatnot. If an attractive young woman can have trouble making friends, you know that place is as cold as a witch's tit.
/r/seduction20/07/12 07:04 AM
2

You're putting girls on a pedestal here. Guess what, they see you doing that and they don't want to have sex with you. Girls are people too, and they like sex too. Whether they're in a bad emotional state or not. He's not "tricking" them - that is a limiting belief and if you really feel that girls can only be tricked into having sex with you, then how will you live with yourself when you do finally lay a girl? You'll feel like shit and probably justify it somehow in your own head. Girls can hav…
/r/seduction20/07/12 07:00 AM
1

I wouldn't recommend it. It would either result in no number or a flake. Better for him to learn from this experience. Game is not just about getting the number. You have to have something solid, a good 5-10 minute conversation at the very least to get a useful number. And a lot of those even don't go anywhere. The number means jack shit in the big picture. It shouldn't be thought of as a goal, since its just a waypoint.
/r/seduction20/07/12 06:15 AM
2

Yup, pretty much. Read Ricky Raw's series on the Game.
/r/seduction20/07/12 05:47 AM
1

Troll?
/r/seduction20/07/12 05:25 AM
5

Read the FAQ dude. You need Game 101.
/r/seduction20/07/12 05:11 AM
1

Downvoting because men and hobos are not really a valid comparison and its bad inner game to compare yourself to someone who begs for change. Also, no hobo ever gave a businessman a diamond ring.
/r/seduction20/07/12 05:07 AM
2

Plenty of fat chicks have. There's an entire fat acceptance movement around it.
/r/seduction19/07/12 09:21 AM
1

Save your money. The loft would be nice, but it'd take up too much of your income right now.
/r/seduction19/07/12 06:52 AM
6

Do you use google?
/r/seduction19/07/12 06:45 AM
1

Get your butt over to the recommended reading thread.
/r/seduction19/07/12 06:41 AM
2

Are you getting ONS's?
/r/seduction19/07/12 06:08 AM
0

So you've studied (by which I mean fucked) 100% of the men in the world to come to that conclusion?
/r/seduction19/07/12 06:07 AM
1

I think you just asked for an oxymoron.
/r/seduction19/07/12 06:06 AM
3

Giving a gift to a stranger before they've earned it, even if that gift is a refill of their beer? Dude, seriously wtf? That's so weird and needy. If people appreciated gifts from try-hard betas, try-hard betas would be getting laid like gangbusters.
/r/seduction19/07/12 05:54 AM
7

I'm in the "when I don't pursue, is when they come' mindset now...
/r/seduction19/07/12 05:33 AM
3

Women are definitely everywhere, but I can totally see how it can be a "Water, water everywhere, but not a drop to drink" kind of situation - you see all those women, but they're going somewhere, talking on the phone, waiting for a friend, etc. I know the feeling. OP, what you need to remember is that you have value. Now, the value you have is different from a girl's value. She has choosing power and beauty value -- and as a girl, she at minimum has reproduction value and society protects her. I…
/r/seduction19/07/12 05:31 AM
1

Like it or not, those bullshitters are getting ahead. People feel closer to them (even though they may not be disclosing anything of real value) and they appear more trustworthy. Our society has gone from praising the strong and silent type to "you gotta be careful of the quiet ones. They're the most dangerous"
/r/seduction19/07/12 05:12 AM
1

Ok, this one is kinda easy once you think about how opposites attract. You want an extroverted female partner if you're introverted, and especially if you're introverted and browsing seddit. I think that the male and female energies should balance each other in a relationship, and guess what happens in a relationship between two introverts? Its exceedingly hard to make a connection because neither of them communicate, and humans crave social release, which includes conversations, babbling, touch…
/r/seduction19/07/12 05:09 AM
1

Now I'm interested in getting this book. However, I don't currently live in the States and don't know where the fuck I can buy this book. But I do have internet...
/r/seduction18/07/12 07:44 PM
1

No need to bring up how much you're saving. Girls don't care unless they're thinking of marrying you, and even then its only a few girls that'll care.
/r/seduction18/07/12 09:31 AM
1

I can see both sides of this. Until a couple of months ago, I had my own place, freedom to come and go, two cars etc. I could bring back a girl any time of day or night, and that confidence showed. We could be naked in the middle of the day, start some hanky-panky while drinking wine on a Sunday afternoon and no one could tell us not to. Girls really get off on all that spontaneity. Now I'm living with my parents. I pay the rent since I'm earning, but its still their place and I respect them. Ho…
/r/seduction18/07/12 09:30 AM
1

This... is an interesting comment.
/r/seduction18/07/12 09:23 AM
1

You're welcome. :D
/r/seduction18/07/12 09:17 AM
3

I'm 29 now, and I basically realized a lot of this stuff about three years ago. I was pretty content with being an introvert before that, and I never used to work out, was happy with my girlfriend, etc. However, there was this nagging feeling that I needed to improve parts of my life after I graduated college and didn't have any friends, and I started lifting weights, being more social and active, dressing better, learned game to keep my girlfriend happy, and all that jazz. I chanced across a re…
/r/seduction18/07/12 09:13 AM
2

I guess I shouldn't be surprised, when a girl can claim she's a virgin when she's done anal (and oral, and and and). Rationalization hamster 9000!
/r/seduction18/07/12 07:27 AM
1

A lot of people read the Game as their first introduction to the pickup world, and come away feeling an irrational hate for Tyler Durden and RSD, because Neil Strauss talks shit of them. And why wouldn't he? He went on to start his own seduction enterprise. I think Tyler Durden, RSD etc should be evaluated on their own and not through The Game's lens.
/r/seduction18/07/12 07:24 AM
1

How old are you?
/r/seduction18/07/12 07:19 AM
7

Girls are weird. Since when did heavy making out, titty sucking and all become ok when she has a boyfriend already? If my girlfriend told me she let some guy do all that with her and she stopped him after he put his hands down her pants but she let him finger her through her pants, what am I supposed to do? Give her a medal for being fucking Chastity personified?
/r/seduction18/07/12 07:12 AM
3

Kumar, I'm sure this is just a joke comment, but to the white knights: Its pretty obvious that its not a question of consent. Anyone else: If you want to jerk your dick to rape fantasies go to r/srs. He's asking for advice on escalation when the girl is into it but doesn't want to be seen as a slut, there's even a term for it... its called last minute resistance (LMR). OP, I don't know if you're facing the same kind of barriers that I've faced, but I've had girls who were open to any and all esc…
/r/seduction18/07/12 07:08 AM
2

My parents are the opposite. When I was growing up they used to discourage making friends and meeting people, and kept guilting me into staying at home because my grades weren't the best. Add a naturally introverted personality on top of that and you've got one major clusterfuck. You're lucky.
/r/seduction18/07/12 06:57 AM
1

Introverted hot girls? Those are probably rare, because if you notice one thing about attractive girls, everyone wants to talk to them. Guys, girls, old people, young people, everyone wants to get to know them. This is not something that suddenly starts happening when they are 18 or even at puberty, but from birth. Research shows that attractive girl babies get picked up and cooed at more out of all possible permutations. When you've spent your entire life responding to and talking to people, yo…
/r/seduction18/07/12 06:55 AM
1

I was pretty much the same way. I even took a Meyers-Briggs test about 9 years ago (one of those online ones, nothing formal) and was an Introverted Thinker. Now? Extroverted and feeling. The brain is surprisingly malleable and you have the power to decide where you want to go and who you want to become. Its not going to be an easy journey, but you can make it. Why do I say that you have to make it? Because like it or not, extroverted people are seen as more fun, more social, easier to get along…
/r/seduction18/07/12 06:50 AM
-4

No means yes. Yes means anal.
/r/seduction18/07/12 06:00 AM
2

I'd have started a conversation about something else... go in indirect when the girl is trapped like in this situation. Your desperation and nervous energy probably came out in the words you said. She was probably smiling so you wouldn't rape and kill her (yes, plenty of women are always fearful of strange men interacting with them). Either way, smile doesn't mean anything. First she rejected you covertly, by ignoring you. Then overtly, by telling you to stop. Don't take this the wrong way... I …
/r/seduction18/07/12 05:57 AM
2

There are hobbies that are DHV's and if you're good at them, girls will like it. In this category - rock climbing, snowboarding, sailing, collecting yachts. Not in this category - Magic, WoW, Dungeons and Dragons.
/r/seduction18/07/12 05:38 AM
-6

I cosign this.
/r/seduction17/07/12 07:02 PM
8

The Game is definitely entertainment more than a pickup manual. I'd put in Roosh's Bang and Day Bang. Dunno if you've read them, but Roosh has a very clear and analytical mind, and his books are more suited to non-magicians than the Mystery Method, which I also recommend, if only to get an idea of the basics. Routines Manual was just way too much blah-blah-blah for me. I thought that the time you'd spend memorizing all that shit would be better spent in the field or bettering yourself in some ot…
/r/seduction17/07/12 03:28 PM
1

Maybe. But ain't nothing wrong with practice. Inner game is a necessary and vital part of your core being, but too much of it sounds like new age mumbo-jumbo to me. I'm a firm believer in the fake-it-till-you-make-it category, because then you're doing something (faking it) instead of sitting on your butt eating ice cream because it helps your inner game. As men, we are used to having our self-esteem and self-confidence go up when we do something successfully. In that sense, too much of a focus …
/r/seduction17/07/12 02:49 PM
2

yea dude, seriously. I put it up because its by far the best newbie book, its practically game-by-numbers simple. I even prefer it for newbies over night/club game because you don't have to have your entire fucking ego invested in dolling up and pumping yourself up to chat up some clubrat.
/r/seduction17/07/12 02:42 PM
1

I was actually thinking of starting a topic on indirect vs direct day game on here (Krauser model vs Roosh model) but day game seems to have a lot of haters here. wtf,,,
/r/seduction17/07/12 02:42 PM
1

gottagetlaidgottagetlaidgottagetlaid haha edit: in my defense, it was a while later, and she had drank some water and juice.
/r/seduction17/07/12 02:31 PM
1

Nope. One of my acquaintances is a big guy, pretty much the same as you height and weight wise. He is so not muscular at all, but he plays basketball. Oh, and he's Asian, and only goes for little cute girls half his weight. Guess what, he pulls major ass. And they're always cute. Think of your height and weight as being able to protect her. Play some sport or learn MMA to help you with that badass feeling. Or, you know you could lift some weights. What's stopping you?
/r/seduction17/07/12 12:02 PM
3

Buy Day Bang by Roosh V.
/r/seduction17/07/12 11:57 AM
1

Interesting story, and you should totally use it as a DHV story next tmie you're out. It has pre-selection, social proof, adventure and mystery all in one. Now about the pickup: It was a lost cause. When a girl says something like that you know she's just playing you for the attention. Either that, or she's watched one too many rom-coms. It would be massively beta as fuck to show up to an exhibition "randomly" and look for her. Remember, that's her environment, she's the princess of the day and …
/r/seduction17/07/12 11:56 AM
1

or should I still passively work on it? Still too nice, ie passive. Forget her, immerse yourself in the world of game and become a better man.
/r/seduction17/07/12 11:48 AM
1

That's where you bring in "your buddy" ie a solitary guy you'd already talked to and DHV'ed yourself to. Any other time it'd be an insta-wing but if you're just having him eat lunch with another dude, I dunno what I'd call it. lol
/r/seduction17/07/12 11:46 AM
6

Who said that its all that matters?
/r/seduction17/07/12 11:18 AM
2

Don't wait a whole year! There are tons of conventions and car shows throughout the year if you want to talk to girls who are dolled up and have their estimation of themselves shooting through the roof. :)
/r/seduction17/07/12 11:16 AM
1

My buddy was actually pretty sick of OG at that point and had texted me saying let's gtfo. I told him to hold on, I think I'm getting somewhere. With OG being the way she was (belligerent and aggressive) and my girl being the way she was (drunk as fuck) there was no way OG would have let her go. Plus there basically hadn't been any escalation. If we had been making out before she threw up, I would have tried to make a go of it. Its interesting though, because I hadn't even considered taking her …
/r/seduction17/07/12 11:14 AM
1

Read the first item on this page. It'll get you the girl.
/r/seduction17/07/12 06:03 AM
3

Rehearsed openers are a crutch. Not in a bad way. Think of a baby - does it just get up and start walking one day, out of the blue? No! It does its time in a walker, it gets held up by its parents, and then finally, one day it learns how to walk on its own two ickle feetsies. Pickup is similar. Having a rehearsed opener goes beyond the opener - it gives you something to springboard on to, ie a routine. Once you have sufficient experience with opening random women and know what works and what doe…
/r/seduction17/07/12 05:54 AM
4

OP, I hear you loud and clear. Not only is seddit being overrun by white knights who downvote innocuous comments they think are Hurting Women(tm) but we have too many "there's this one girl who i kinda maybe talked to once, what's the magic phrase I can say to her to make her fall on my dick?" posts. For this subreddit to be useful, we have to have some tough love sometimes. Life is not all inclusiveness and rainbows.
/r/seduction17/07/12 05:47 AM
10

They're like beating Mario on your first life. You're gonna need practice.
/r/seduction17/07/12 05:44 AM
-1

When your goals are trifling and meaningless and safe, all you will achieve is nothing. I see your overall point, but we shouldn't insult ourselves with holding ourselves to low standards.
/r/seduction17/07/12 05:43 AM
0

White knights.
/r/seduction17/07/12 05:39 AM
2

You can't be all things to all people. We need to decide whether seddit is going to be a player/PUA lifestyle support subreddit or another relationship_advice where everyone tells you "just be urself trololollzol"
/r/seduction17/07/12 05:37 AM
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That's a good tip. I was afraid that if she passed out I'd be left holding her the entire night in my car, so I kept her awake even when she was about to pass out, haha. I hear she passed out as soon as the car started moving.
/r/seduction17/07/12 05:06 AM
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Yeah, I got her number, and we texted for a while. But then she went to Europe for a bit and I lost interest. There wasn't really that much comfort built anyway, so the chances of a day 2 were slim.
/r/seduction17/07/12 05:05 AM
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Your room doesn't matter. She'll do you whether or not its dirty if she likes you.
/r/seduction16/07/12 09:40 AM
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k hun
/r/seduction16/07/12 09:13 AM
1

Just like an indirect opener is a great tool in the hands of a PUA, so is an indirect re-opener. There are ways to re-open via innocuous texts. However, if she's let the conversation die once, she'll probably let it die again. If you hook, then move to have a date soon. Girls just take a while to get invested and her investment level won't go up over text or facebook.
/r/seduction16/07/12 07:32 AM
2

Dose must be administered rectally first thing in morning and prior to any interaction with colleague.
/r/seduction16/07/12 06:34 AM
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What the fuck dude? Do you have literally one girl in your college? Go out and hit on some more, jeez... why are you after this one stale pussy? Just treat her as an acquaintance when you start the new job. Don't care one way or another what she thinks, I guarantee she is doing the same.
/r/seduction16/07/12 06:33 AM
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Your approach friendzoned you. You instantly painted yourself as Jesus, the guy with the halo who'll save her from all the wolves. Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't that what you did? When you paint yourself as the one guy who doesn't have any sexual interest in her at a bar, I don't think she's gonna see you sexually, buddy. I'm no pro at lines, but maybe a better one with the same seed would have been "The rest of the bar is just staring at you like a piece of meat. I'm actually a vegetarian …
/r/seduction16/07/12 06:28 AM
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If you've lived your life in the feminist west (hello downvotes, yes, even in seddit!) you will be shocked and appalled at how well alpha gestures can work. All your life you were told that being nice and a fuzzy wuzzy teddy bear was the ticket to getting a girlfriend and getting laid, when its the scumbags and assholes who finish first. Stuff like... holding eye contact and not letting go grabbing an arm as she's walking by stubbornly macking on her even when she makes it clear she doesn't want…
/r/seduction16/07/12 06:13 AM
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Reject her as a sexual prospect (say let's just be friends) and move the fuck on, buddy. Letting her play you will only lead to heartache.
/r/seduction16/07/12 06:07 AM
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Prostitutes cost money.
/r/seduction16/07/12 06:05 AM
1

This comment and the one about rough sex have it. No matter what you do, if you have good sex, the girl is gonna get bonded. How many relationships have there been where the guy is a tool but the girl loves him because he f**ks her brains out and keeps her happy in the sack? I think part of being shown the light is that women genuinely and truly do love sex and attach themselves to a man who has shown an ability to make them come. This goes back to evopsych theories, some of which have been prov…
/r/seduction16/07/12 06:04 AM
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You're doing great buddy, don't let up. What you're going to see as you become more social is that people who had pegged you at (x,y) coordinates in their mental map have a hard time adjusting when you start to move. So if you were on the asocial/loser side of the quadrant, don't be surprised if they start hating when you start your journey to the social/winner side. With the first one, it depends on her body language and expression. Was she smiling and receptive when she said it? Then it wasn't…
/r/seduction16/07/12 05:10 AM
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Lol, don't hold your breath for the electrical engineering degree to get you mad poosy.
/r/seduction14/07/12 11:46 AM
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Yeah, I agree. Tony Stark is the guy whom you won't go wrong trying to channel in real life. There's probably more material in Archer, if what you want are witty ripostes and smart lines.
/r/seduction13/07/12 06:55 PM
1

Yeah I can see that. I think it makes his character more believable in a way. James Bond is your man if you want an international spy who never goofs up and always gets the girl. Archer is the guy who's irrationally self-confident and thinks he's king cock even when he fails.
/r/seduction13/07/12 06:53 PM
1

The country I'm in has Archer on Comedy Central. I'm going through the watchseries link, watched one episode today. I love it!
/r/seduction13/07/12 06:51 PM
5

Please tell us you did it by banging ten other girls.
/r/seduction13/07/12 09:44 AM
3

If you don't have signs you can always do a riot. I hear those work too.
/r/seduction13/07/12 08:54 AM
3

They only want the provider after they've hit the wall and the alphas don't want them anymore. Regardless, if you're on /r/seddit you are not an alpha and you should earn yourself some money. Just don't use it to attract women because it doesn't work the way you wish it worked.
/r/seduction13/07/12 08:53 AM
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Yeah, there are some things you can't get away with unless you're ruggedly handsome and modeled on Burt Reynolds in his heyday.
/r/seduction13/07/12 07:28 AM
1

True this. Offering advice when its not needed shows that you are seeking external validation - the validation that you get by having someone follow your advice and being able to say "Yo, I told you man! First kino, then escalate and break the chode crystal and you're not an AFC anymore!"
/r/seduction13/07/12 06:54 AM
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Girls are sexually aggressive in two circumstances. One is when they are in a long-term relationship, are still attracted to their partner and want to get busy. The other is when they meet an alpha, local celebrity or whoever gets their motor running. Read up some stories from celebrities, Beatles concerts, Tucker Max or even club DJ's to see how women throw themselves at them. Now, women will almost never be as sexually forward as men, and thank heavens for that. Their advances will always be "…
/r/seduction13/07/12 06:01 AM
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Your grandpa grew up in a different time. Back then women were actually worth wifing up and knew how to cook.
/r/seduction13/07/12 05:10 AM
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I did read it, homie. I was talking more about the classic "I have a boyfriend" line. The first point I made applies even if she doesn't actually say it herself.
/r/seduction12/07/12 05:32 PM
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Yeah dude, post it up.
/r/seduction12/07/12 05:53 AM
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I just wanna say that the IHAB line can be any number of things. It could be that she does legit have a boyfriend. She was just biding her time, and if you're cool then she may just want to talk to you because people like to talk to cool people. (The dark version of this is that you're entertaining her until her bf shows up but let's not go there) It could be that she wants to let you down easy and the IHAB is a classic. It could be that she doesn't know how to flirt and sabotages herself even w…
/r/seduction12/07/12 05:50 AM
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OP, you done good, but this is just the beginning of your game. Don't make the same mistake a lot of AFC's do, and put all your stock in this one girl. That'll make you outcome dependent and bad game will leak out, especially at this stage. Go out and flirt with ten other girls, and then text this one (and the rest). Abundance mentality, remember?
/r/seduction12/07/12 05:45 AM
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The easiest way to find out what's up is to flirt with another girl in front of her and gauge her reaction. If she's meh or encourages you, she's not into you. If she gets jealous, she may be into you. If she gets covertly jealous and develops a black mood without letting on what's going on, she's probably into you.
/r/seduction12/07/12 05:42 AM
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Pretty soon you'll learn to stop giving a shit about the haters.
/r/seduction12/07/12 04:55 AM
1

Naw dude, he said his friends don't smoke either.
/r/seduction11/07/12 11:21 AM
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upvote for field testing.
/r/seduction11/07/12 11:20 AM
4

Better this than some slut going "I slept with 500 guys! Its so easy!!"
/r/seduction11/07/12 11:17 AM
1

Sounds like she used you for some cheap validation and to stop the other guys from hitting on her bro. I'd say learn from this experience and don't go after a woman like this. The line that would've made me do a beeline for the door was "she has an on and off boyfriend who she doesn't want to wait on anymore" you know what this means? Her "bf" is an alpha, and she is likely his FWB. She just wants to think she has a boyfriend. Also, please never use "does he treat you right," that just marks you…
/r/seduction11/07/12 09:39 AM
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Shouldn't you be in /r/sandwichesgonewild or something? Its one thing for women to come here asking about help with their love life from men, its totally another, and completely uncalled for, for some woman to show up wagging her finger and saying shit like "don't pick us up guys, we hate it, we'd much rather be munching carpet". In short, you aren't welcome here.
/r/seduction11/07/12 09:28 AM
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Read the thread about picking up at yoga classes on rooshvforum. Its illuminating. Basically, a couple of guys field-tested this whole "go to yoga classes, that's where the hot girls are" thing, and came up with a verdict as to whether its worth it or not.
/r/seduction11/07/12 09:12 AM
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Dress contrary to the stereotype. Like so many Pickup books say, pick a style and go with it. Always dress well and be stylish - easier said than done, but you can get started by posting on some style forums (someone help me out - is there a men's fashion subreddit?) and getting people to critique your looks. Work out, for sure. Jeez, its the easiest way to bump up your looks +1, lift weights and eat big, grow some goddamn muscles and you'll get eye-fucked way more often. Its not for nothing tha…
/r/seduction11/07/12 07:59 AM
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Could be one of two things... They were attracted to you in the beginning, but they let it die down after they didn't get escalation from you. They thought you were a cute cuddly wuddly teddy bear (ie they never saw you as a sexual threat). Was it like either of these scenarios?
/r/seduction11/07/12 07:49 AM
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She totally asked for it. But the heat of jealousy often translates directly into the heat of the loins. Nothing like a little dread to make the relationship more exciting. OP, I'd say you handled it very well. There are always two ways a pickup can go, and getting blown out with her watching would have sucked (for your relationship). It looks like you recognized it as a shit test, and this is a good reminder that there is more than one way to pass a shit test.
/r/seduction11/07/12 06:54 AM
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Fuck that shit. The last thing seddit needs is more white knights who think we're terrible and that we use women.
/r/seduction11/07/12 06:43 AM
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