I don't know how many people here work out. However, since its a self-improvement and seduction community, I'm going to assume you do. If you don't, fucking get to it!

Once you've been working out for a little while and lose your initial motivation, you tend to think "Ahh fuck it, I'll miss yogalates today and make it up tomorrow. Gimmedat macaroon!"

or

"I've been going so regularly, but today is rainy, plus Archer just came on, and I wanna sit here and watch TV instead of going to play basketball"

or, this is my personal favorite,

"I dicked around on the Internet too long after work, now its time to eat, and if I go to the gym and lift, I won't be able to fall asleep. Gimmedat cookie!"

Needless to say, one or two missed days are nothing in the big picture once you've had a few years of successful body transformation under your belt. But in the beginning, they can seriously hold you back not only because of that one missed day per se, but because those missed days add up. And the longer you don't go, the easier it becomes to not go.

However, sometimes you work up the willpower and go anyway. Sometimes, those are the best workouts. I've set deadlift PR's when I jerked it the night before and didn't get any decent sleep because I kept seeing weird dreams. I've set squat PR's when I was in the doldrums and thinking about some girl who didn't respond to me. I've had shitty workouts and great workouts and everything in between. But what all those workouts have in common is that I feel fucking great when I leave the gym, no matter how I felt when I came in. That kind of high should be regulated, I tell ya! :D

Well, it hit me yesterday that going out to meet new people is just like going to the gym. You might think "ahh fuck it, I just went out the other day" or "I'm drained" or "there won't be any interesting people"...

When you get out there and do your social bit and the night is ending, you will feel just like how you feel coming back from the gym. Victorious. Full of testosterone. With a grin on your face. :D Knowing you overcame the devil of lethargy to do what you wanted to do.

[tl, dr] Yesterday I went out to an event, talked to lots of new people including the two most attractive girls there, made new friends and all that when I wasn't feeling that great and thinking of missing it. If you're hesitating between going out and staying in to jack off to pictures of kittens*, always go out.

  • Nobody masturbates to pictures of cats, what are you a weirdo?