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"Life isn't perfect and I don't feel good about that" ---> "If I don't feel good then I must feel bad" ---> "I don't want to feel bad but I still do, so it must be someone else's fault" ---> "I feel bad and it's someone else's fault, and since my husband is the one with the most impact on my life it must be him" And so the hamster wheel goes. You describe yourself as a career beta and you just lost your job. If this is the first that you're hearing about this supposed resentment about having kid…
/r/askMRP11/04/26 03:36 PM
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Since you're clearly looking for a shortcut, learn some basic text game and how to get her worked up while you're away. It's not going to change the fundamental problems here but will get that 3-4 times a year number considerably higher.
/r/askMRP13/02/26 02:47 AM
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You accidentally discovered the magic of manufactured drama. Women run on emotions and you puts hers on a rollercoaster.
/r/askMRP28/12/25 03:37 PM
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The answer to this one, like most things, is that it depends. Are you actively avoiding confrontation? Are you choosing methods of "enforcement" that ensure you get to do so covertly? If so then you're being passive aggressive. If she's spending too much on trivial things, the answer isn't to ignore her for 3.5 weeks and hope she gets the point. You tell her to quit fucking spending so much, and if she continues you separate your finances and budget out who pays for what. On the other hand, some…
/r/askMRP27/12/25 12:39 AM
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"A man is basically as faithful as his options" - Chris Rock Your moralizing about cheating is meaningless when we all know that you couldn't pull it off anyway. Even your wife knows it. You refuse to cheat in the same way that I refuse to buy the Gigayacht. Until you have women actively trying to fuck you, and until I have an extra $200M laying around, we don't know whether or not we're actually refusing these choices.
/r/askMRP19/12/25 03:41 AM
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I'll ignore the elephant in the room and give two pieces of practical advice. First, the line between conversation and flirting, and the subsequent line between flirting and cheating, are not set in stone. Push as far as you're comfortable doing. I promise you that no one is going to come along and force your dick into a woman against your will. Second, anyone telling you what you should be doing with your life is most likely projecting their own wishes into you. "Red pill says I should cheat so…
/r/askMRP19/12/25 01:18 AM
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Reasonably happy is a fleeting emotional state, and if you ask 1000 people what it means you'll get 1000 different answers. So, approaching this like the 5 whys game, what would it take for you to become reasonably happy? As for free, unless she has a gun your head you're already free now. You just have to come to terms with the fact that every decision has consequences and then decide whether or not you can live with them. If so then great, if not then own the fact that you chose not to act. No…
/r/askMRP07/12/25 10:24 PM
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What do you want? You've laid out the problems, but I have no idea what the solution looks like to you, and no one else can figure that part out for you. I can't tell you if you're in the right place if I don't know your reason for being here.
/r/askMRP06/12/25 02:41 PM
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Translation: I'm going to write an entire post saying I don't care if plates come and go, but I'm panicking because a plate might decide to go. You spent so much time and effort bullshitting us (and yourself) that you don't care, and have so much ego invested into the thought that you deserve a 24 year old baddie who worships the ground you walk on (you don't), that you never bothered to mention what you actually want. Do you even know?
/r/askMRP23/11/25 02:20 PM
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I don't have anything to tell you that isn't already on the sidebar. Your path ahead is as straightforward as they come: get to the gym and lose the weight, stop acting like a bitch at home, and cut the coke use to whatever level you need to make sure you have it under control and not the other way around (if that means cold turkey then so be it). Do all that and you'll be fine. You'll either restore order in this relationship or be in prime position to start another. Just remember that this isn…
/r/askMRP14/10/25 05:15 PM
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It doesn't have to be about the destination, and in fact I'd say it's better not to be hyperfocused on that. Lots of guys pick some ultimate goal thinking that if they can only attain that, they'll live a happy and problem free life (sound familiar?). That's not how the human brain works. That said, there has to be some part of the "jouney" that you find preferable to others. Some direction you want your life to be heading. This can even be something as simple as "I don't know exactly what I wan…
/r/askMRP20/08/25 04:33 PM
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You don't need Reddit for OYS. If you think weekly reports will help then write them for yourself. If they aren't helpful then posting to OYS would just be masturbatory anyway (with or without the ban). Advice would be to figure out what you want based on what you can actually control, and then reverse engineer a path to that endpoint from where you are now. If it's really important to you that your girl isn't watching Instagram videos, then how can you make that happen? You can have a gf that d…
/r/askMRP02/08/25 04:56 PM
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Blind spot #1: total lack of frame Blind spot #2: you're letting life happen to you instead of shaping your reality to align with your wants and goals Blind spot #3: counter to #2, you are trying to control things that are beyond what you can influence. You mentioned in another comment that you won't set the boundary about liking these videos/posts because your gf will just watch without liking them. Guess what? Women will find other men attractive from time to time. You will NEVER be able to sh…
/r/askMRP02/08/25 01:54 PM
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Personally, I think you're acting like a little bitch. But what I think doesn't really matter. Why the hell are you asking random people on the internet whether or not you overreacted? It's up to you to set the standards in your life. Do you actually care about this, or are you trying to live up to some standard of "never tolerate x bahavior" that you heard some other retard spout off about online? If you do care are you mildly annoyed, totally disgusted, pissed off, something else or something …
/r/askMRP02/08/25 01:31 PM
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It's almost like you should ignore what she says and instead watch what she does...
/r/askMRP02/07/25 11:08 PM
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"No." Your entire post can be solved with a simple 2 letter word, but you're not going to take the easy answer. Instead you're going to twist yourself in knots trying to convince yourself (and anyone who will listen) that your situation is unique and that it requires some overly elaborate 11th dimensional chess sort of response... all because you're terrified of conflict.
/r/askMRP04/06/25 08:58 PM
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Plate 1: Never met her. Plate 2: I have been with her about 2-3 years and seen her twice... I promised to marry her. I have been loosely following TRP for about a decade There's no possible way this is real
/r/askMRP24/05/25 08:25 PM
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There are 2 types of men in this world. Those who say things like this: It sucks to now know that if they want it bad enough, there's no excuses And those who realize: It's amazing to now know that if they want it bad enough, there's no excuses. I don't need to tell you which group you're in right now.
/r/askMRP19/05/25 08:58 PM
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The advice is going to be slightly different due to the masturbatory nature of this post: have you tried rubbing your own butthole?
/r/askMRP09/05/25 06:46 PM
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Petitioning to include "maintained frame", "used to be alpha", and "RP aware" as well
/r/askMRP08/05/25 08:00 PM
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A manipulative try-hard is the type that flirts with the waitress in front of his wife in order to make her jealous. This usually ends with the wife thinking he's pathetic and the waitress laughing at him with her coworkers. Dread is when you're an attractive guy and the waitress starts flirting with you. This usually ends with the wife blowing him on the ride home. Which of these two scenarios do you think most closely matches your report? Edited to add: if you aren't thinking strategically the…
/r/askMRP27/03/25 07:56 PM
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What was your endgame? Was there a strategic motive behind any of this?
/r/askMRP27/03/25 04:03 AM
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You're missing the forest for the trees. Amused mastery, agree & amplify, fogging... they're all just tools to help you from taking these tests too seriously. If you're at the point where using them is causing you enough distress that you're coming here to post about it, then you're taking them way too seriously and you've already failed the test. Stop looking at these tools as if they're permanent solutions to your problems and take them for what they are - training wheels while you learn to st…
/r/askMRP14/02/25 04:13 AM
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"How should I react to my wife..." Your biggest problem is that everything you do is a reaction to your wife.
/r/askMRP15/01/25 01:07 PM
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Do you find it necessary to have a conversation every time you decide not to have a glass of water? How about when you decide not to stop for gas on your way home? Does it merit a discussion every time you choose not to take a shit in the kitchen sink? I sure as fuck hope not. But how is choosing not to do the laundry any different from choosing not to do any of the above from only your perspective? Remove her expectations (and your expectation of her expectations) and it's just another of 10 mi…
/r/askMRP15/01/25 02:59 AM
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Verbal intercourse is optional
/r/askMRP15/01/25 02:40 AM
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Basic push-pull dynamics apply here. Why would she bother coming to you when she knows that if she just waits it out that you'll come running? Given the current dynamic, what does that say about who is the prize? Yes to both conversation and boundaries, but not in the whiny bitch way that you're probably thinking. Stop asking and instead tell her to meet you at home if that's what you want. "Hey, I get off of work at (time). Meet me at my house - clothing optional." If you get pushback once, let…
/r/askMRP08/01/25 02:37 PM
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Your response was over the top with the hugging, weirdly following her, allowing her to go on and on about it, etc. Literally every reply here locked onto one thing, that you're way too concerned about managing this chick's emotions. Maybe we're all reading too far into it, but at the very least the way the scenario was described makes you appear extremely needy. A simple, "Oh shit, sorry about that" would have been fine. If you were meeting people you tell them "some asshole ruined her pants" w…
/r/askMRP28/12/24 05:11 AM
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Why do you assume she needed comfort when you were the one insistent on hugging her and telling her it's all okay? The above comment nailed it. You couldn't handle the fact that she was upset and immediately went into savior mode. Sometimes you just need to acknowledge that you made a mistake and then drop it. If she insists on harping on it longer than necessary then there are tools for dealing with that. That wasn't the case here. So to answer your question, no. This was not a shit test, not a…
/r/askMRP27/12/24 04:40 PM
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What is your endgame? It seems like you're trying to hone your dancing monkey skills to ensure you hit the perfect order and timing on the steps, when the answer to your question is basic boundary enforcement. The problem is that you're terrified of her emotions so you're trying to do all of this covertly. That doesn't work, especially when she's already taken a giant steaming shit right on top of what you tell yourself is a boundary. I think you're also terrified of finding out that there was m…
/r/askMRP26/12/24 11:11 PM
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You're asking the wrong question. Can you do it? Yes. You're under no more obligation to DEER to a counselor than you are your wife (i.e. none at all). You could book the sessions and broken record the entire hour, you could make a big joke of it, or you could play along in earnest but only divulge what you're willing. So yes, it absolutely can be done. Here are the questions that matter. What benefits will you get out of attending versus the costs (not speaking monetarily here)? Do you even wan…
/r/askMRP17/12/24 01:11 AM
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Get tuned up with your leg day workouts. Your squat and deadlift numbers suck.
/r/askMRP26/11/24 05:28 PM
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When I was in high school I worked construction jobs during the summers, and even at that age I recognized that most of the kitchen remodels that we did were only happening because the cunty wife hated her doofus husband. The husband had already bought her the house, given her carte blanche on decorating, and ceded control over any of the household decisions. I saw lots of "man caves" out in the garages, and on the rare occasions that the residents were home I mostly saw men who were getting lai…
/r/askMRP19/11/24 02:48 PM
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Trying really hard not to psychoanalyze the hell out of this. All I will say is that it seems like you're wanting validation from surrogate mommy by telling her all of the things you want to do for actual mommy - which is unfortunate because surrogate mommy is still under the impression that she's your wife.
/r/askMRP19/11/24 01:57 PM
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"No." If you feel guilty about saying that then you need to go back to square 1 and actually do the work this time.
/r/askMRP05/11/24 05:17 AM
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That's a lot of words and a lot of responses over a very basic shit test. You just got the married version of when your date randomly says "you know we're not sleeping together tonight, right?" Amused mastery and then smash when you get home. Unfortunately you did the complete opposite, which is probably why your sex life sucks.
/r/askMRP30/10/24 03:00 AM
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You sound like the type that would spend a full 3 minutes DEERing if you ordered dinner and wanted to modify the meal. Is this a big deal or not? I honestly can't tell from this post because I read lots of feelings and foot-stomping but nothing actionable. Was this something that is potentially a miscommunication or was this deliberate? What sort of resolution are you seeking? No one can help you without any of that information. I have been distant, and maybe sulking a bit (OI... not) since whic…
/r/askMRP27/10/24 02:00 AM
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You sound boring and insufferable to be around. I'd also be willing to bet you've spent the whole time at your in-laws' place (and probably the 1-2 days prior) pouting like a petulant child, and it's been obvious to everyone even if you think you've been keeping it to yourself. Then i start thinking about redpill sentiments like “would chad tolerate this” or “would she act like this to chad” and then it makes me feel like a beta. Hiding behind RP lingo isn't going to change the fact that you're …
/r/askMRP21/10/24 12:45 PM
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my self-steam has tanked, feels like I would never get another girl. I would appreciate if you can post examples or posts of men going through this trauma, but got better and are happy. Reading posts about other men won't fix your self-esteem. It will just allow you to temporarily feel better about your situation without requiring any real action. You've been lifting for a while now. When you fail a set, do you go online and watch Youtube videos of other guys doing it successfully, or do you reg…
/r/askMRP10/10/24 07:57 PM
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Women will act as shitty as you let them. You've tolerated this nonsense until now so that's her baseline. She understands her "place in this world and this relationship" just fine. She can act like an entitled cunt and still have whatever she wants. That is her place because that's been her reality. You (and probably most of the other men she's been with) have built that reality for her. YOU are the one whose perception and reality aren't aligned. Where she defines her "place" by what is actual…
/r/askMRP07/10/24 12:29 PM
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All threats are honored. Go ahead and file for her. You can always walk it back later if necessary.
/r/askMRP19/09/24 12:02 AM
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"I was reading a section of Rollo's book which clearly outlines that my relarionship and my problems are not unique, but everyone come help me examine why my relationship problems are unique."
/r/askMRP10/09/24 08:55 PM
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Where are you now? Where do you want to be? Are you closer now than you were last week? Last month? I have no idea how poorly you're doing because I have no idea what it is that you want. Do you?
/r/askMRP29/08/24 01:41 AM
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You're on Reddit. If you were expecting something other than words in an online comment section then yes, you very well may be an idiot.
/r/askMRP21/08/24 01:59 PM
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I'm curious what opinions are about a wife posting nudes on reddit, and then DM'ing and sending more nudes to random thirsty dudes. . . all done behind her husband's back. Drop the phony "asking for a friend" BS. You can admit that it's you. All of the posts were on non-geographic subs, so it doesn't look like the posts were an attempt to fuck someone else. You also don't have to make excuses for her. If she wanted to fuck someone else she could go to a bar and leave with someone in 10 minutes. …
/r/askMRP13/08/24 03:14 AM
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She started cheating on you a long time ago, and she's looking for ways to retroactively make it your fault.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 04:28 PM
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Her past is just that. Whether or not it matters is a question that only you can answer, and ideally one that should be answered when you're coming from a place of abundance. Your current dissatisfaction with your sex life prevents that. Are you really upset at her past, or is this a case of FOMO (either from missing out on other women or from missing out on your wife's best)? You probably cannot answer that question yet. The good news is that this gives you a MAP. Work on fixing your sex life, …
/r/askMRP20/05/24 10:14 PM
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Yes, and most of them are blue-pilled to the core. I only mention that because I've seen threads like this in the past where guys are convinced that their friends need to be RP as well. That's not the case. Plenty of BP men have their shit together, live interesting lives, and make great friends. Just don't take relationship advice from them and don't offer unsolicited advice to them.
/r/askMRP18/05/24 10:00 PM
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WISNIFG ---> Fogging, negative inquiry, negative assertion would all be effective tools here.
/r/askMRP09/05/24 01:50 PM
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"Would not this risk either tipping my hand that I'm trying un-beta myself, potentially reinforcing my betaness?" Who is the judge in this example? Why are you making that person the judge? Does this person have any idea that they've been given this power or the reason as to why? That's your covert contract. The reason that I say it's still best not to tell her is because you'll never become your own judge if you're handing that power over to your wife. You'll still be in her frame, living out t…
/r/askMRP06/05/24 03:14 PM
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Your instinct not to lean on your wife is correct, but your reasoning is a covert contract. You'll see that as you work through NMMNG, and once you've finished I'd suggest coming back and rereading your post. It will be eye-opening for you.
/r/askMRP04/05/24 02:16 PM
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So she's setting up the hoops and you're jumping through them? Or is this more covert contract territory (i.e. "if I take care of the house, she'll forget the divorce and our problems will go away")? Bringing up the fact that you don't actually want the divorce is a pretty fucking crucial piece of information. So crucial, in fact, that it's impossible that you just accidentally left it out of the main post. If you want any value at all from this place you need to be honest about what's going on.
/r/askMRP04/04/24 11:51 AM
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I'm saying that it doesn't matter. Every possible benefit or setback that could come from saying anything at all about red pill is derivative of some other strength or shortcoming in your life. In your case, you seem to desperate to appeal to some authority rather than standing as your own point of origin. Talking about red pill will shine a spotlight on that. Your theoretical wife would instantly see that you're just following someone else's script and not living your own life. She'll end up wi…
/r/askMRP27/02/24 04:01 PM
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It doesn't matter whether or not your wife knows about red pill. You mention Rollo, and then completely neglect to consider that he's been married 2+ decades and his wife is well aware of what he does. Then you talk about your worries of "keeping your intellectual life a secret". Have you read Glover, the very first book on the sidebar, and what he calls hiding the badness? I mean holy fuck, you spent half this post DEERing to a wife that doesn't even exist. So yes, YOU would run into problems, …
/r/askMRP27/02/24 05:13 AM
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That's the problem when you offload responsibility for your own life onto others. You tend to get conflicting results. Your post in the marriage sub probably triggered a bunch of soccer moms that aren't exactly thrilled with their own marriages, so the "advice" will reflect that. You can post in the relationship subs and you'll have 250 people telling you to divorce, some because of her actions and others because they'll say you're controlling and you don't deserve her. Again, mostly bitter and/…
/r/askMRP19/02/24 04:38 PM
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She told you exactly what would work best to manipulate you. If people here can read 3 sentences and figure out that you're completely ego driven, then your wife assuredly knows that as well.
/r/askMRP19/02/24 04:23 PM
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Let's take just the information that you've provided so far. The two of you are laying in bed about to go to sleep. She already hates her job and is feeling some uncertainty about her future in her career, and now her weekend is being cut short because she has to go in on Saturday as well. But at least for now she doesn't have to think about all that because she's comfortable in bed. She mentions to you that she has to work because it's a break in the routine (i.e. logistics), and now she can go…
/r/askMRP17/02/24 03:40 PM
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It was a stupid question though.
/r/askMRP17/02/24 01:42 AM
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The key, I think, is to share vulnerability when you feel you need to share, but do so in a way where you aren’t: Secretly expecting some form of validation Labouring over and over (vent or share, discuss the solution and then move past it) Whining consistently (these should be limited to a handful of times a month max) The last 2 bullet points are just extensions of the first, and the first is a covert contract. Fwiw, the people on the opposite end of the spectrun (i.e. if I never show vulnerab…
/r/askMRP31/01/24 02:52 PM
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If you can afford the gym membership and the gas to get to/from a gym that's out of your way, then I'm sure you can afford to finance a home set up. Find a credit card offering an introductory 0% interest rate, buy what you need, and set aside $150/month to pay it off.
/r/askMRP10/01/24 03:38 PM
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Think about this for a moment... why are you this concerned about whether or not a random Reddit user thinks you're fat? You've put a lot of words and energy into arguing that point, when it really doesn't make a difference when it comes to the relevance of the advice given in the initial comment. If you had frame, you'd have taken the comment for what it is, glossed over the parts that don't apply and focused on the parts that do (which you admitted was just about all of the rest of it). Instea…
/r/askMRP10/01/24 01:31 PM
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She sounds like she's bored with her wife. Honest question, who typically takes the lead in the bedroom between the two of you?
/r/askMRP03/01/24 03:47 PM
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She's prodding for holes in your frame. Stay the course and continue running your MAP. As long as you're being intentional and you're acting in a manner that's congruent with what you want, you don't need to worry about going Rambo.
/r/askMRP03/01/24 03:33 PM
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The field report is for you. The audience can help you to find your blind spots.
/r/askMRP28/12/23 01:34 AM
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The better question would be why the hell would you want her back when she's fucking someone else?
/r/askMRP18/12/23 08:39 PM
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She she she she she... You have no frame and your pathetic revenge fantasy is a whole bundle of covert contracts wrapped up into one massive one. I honestly DGAF, Bullshit. You wrote a whole entire post complaining that mommy won't pay attention to you, so stop insulting everyone's intelligence by pretending that you don't care.
/r/askMRP10/12/23 07:19 PM
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Get familiar with the difference between a shit test and just plain bitchy behavior. Two totally different things coming from two totally different places (attraction vs contempt). From this and your previous post, I'm 100% sure that you're getting the latter. Short answer, she thinks she's better than you. She knows damn well that you aren't her hypergamous best option, but she can't come out and say that (and probably isn't even thinking it on a conscious level). You deal with this by followin…
/r/askMRP24/11/23 05:41 AM
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if she's not going to give me sex. Re-read those 8 words until the point sinks in. You've made her the prize, you've supplicated yourself, and NO woman wants to fuck a guy who's beneath her. at this income level where I live (not the US) I could easily find a younger and more obedient replacement, but I don't want to blow up the family. Leading with your wallet will, at best, put you right back i to the same situation you're in now. That's if you can actually even get this far.
/r/askMRP22/11/23 12:14 AM
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The guy who's fucking her while you're working will surely be disappointed, but only until she takes half of everything from you on the grounds of financial abuse. Someone at your income level should be able to think strategically. Is this really the best plan you can come up with?
/r/askMRP22/11/23 12:06 AM
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This one time on vacation we got so lost it took us two hours just to find our way back to the hotel. Luckily I was navigating or he'd probably still be out there!" This example sounds like playful teasing and nothing more. A decent chuckle or a light-hearted zinger in return are fine. As for actual public emasculation, you set that boundary right from the beginning and if she crosses it she shouldn't be surprised when you demote her to a plate.
/r/askMRP19/11/23 08:00 PM
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The best way to leave a BPD chick is to start acting super needy toward her, and then put her in a position to meet your replacement. If she thinks the breakup was her idea then she'll disappear cleanly and leave you alone.
/r/askMRP19/11/23 07:48 PM
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If your wife was a cunt prior to being sick, she's not going to magically stop being a cunt now. Her sickness, while unfortunate, does not change the fundamentals. Lift, sidebar, stfu.
/r/askMRP19/11/23 07:44 PM
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Literal copium? Lmao no....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:31 PM
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Because at its core feminism isn't an ideology or a movement. It's a tactic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/23 12:47 PM
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What part of the betaization process makes me so prone to giving in to such requests? You're a validation seeking pussy. You're afraid of your wife's emotions, and you're also hopelessly dependent upon her approval. You don't need to read another 150,000 words on conversational techniques. You need to stop giving so many fucks what your wife thinks about it when you choose not to engage in a conversation.
/r/askMRP27/11/22 04:22 AM
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This reply is your entire problem in a nutshell. You want someone to spoon feed you the answer, and you want that answer to come to you in a way that requires no risk. That's not how life works. You want a book for building confidence, try this one. Women build confidence by reading books and telling each other that they're amazing just as they are. Men do it by getting off our asses and actually accomplishing something. Stop looking for shortcuts.
/r/askMRP23/11/22 04:49 AM
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Make an appointment with a divorce lawyer, and do it whether or not you're serious about pulling the pin just yet. Be as honest as possible with your lawyer about your current situation, and what you want post-divorce (if it comes to that). If you walk into marriage counseling blindly, you're going to get fucked over. Like u/SteelSharpensSteel said you've made someone else the authority in your marriage. Worse yet, that authority figure has a financial incentive to keep you coming to marriage co…
/r/askMRP04/11/22 11:54 PM
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the point I reflected on is we do all of this self improvement so that we can perform in these split second moments So you acknowledge that you're following the dancing monkey plan?
/r/askMRP27/10/22 11:34 PM
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You sound like an overthinker, the type that won't actually do anything because you're waiting for the perfect path ahead to present itself. Let me save you some frustration: the perfect path forward doesn't exist. There will always be tradeoffs, and there will always be the promise of some new plan that guarantees better results than the old. With that said, just pick a plan and go. If you fuck it up then you take a step back and choose a different one. You'll either get it right the first time…
/r/askMRP11/10/22 04:15 AM
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It also made it easier for me to pass shit/compliance tests and stay in my frame because I didn't care if she got mad or not as I wasn't going to ask her for sex anyway This is the only useful sentence in this entire post. At least you recognized the point behind temporarily ceasing initiations, even if you only got there as an aside buried halfway down. That subtle shift you felt wasn't your frame**, but it is at the very least you refusing to operate in hers. That's what you should take from t…
/r/askMRP30/08/22 03:09 AM
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Hate to break it to you, but that burning sensation that she gave you isn't oneitis...
/r/askMRP27/08/22 01:26 AM
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So last night the LTR denied sex and it's been becoming a more frequent thing compared to before Cool, sounds like it's time to go get a new one. Why the fuck would you stick around in a dead or dying bedroom if the door is wide open for you? There are guys here with kids, houses, decades of intermingled finances, potential alimony.... they have reasons to try to figure shit out. You can just leave if you're not getting laid how you want.
/r/askMRP27/08/22 01:21 AM
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I'll flesh it out a little bit. The core problem is that you're currently unhappy with your sex life (frequency, enthusiasm, variety, etc). You essentially have two paths that you can take: Effectively neuter yourself and learn how to cope with being miserable (in which case, r/deadbedrooms would be the perfect place for you) Acknowledge that you're unhappy and work toward fixing the problem Nothing groundbreaking so far. By coming here you've chosen option #2. But what does work even mean in th…
/r/askMRP10/08/22 09:39 PM
5

Speaking of lost, why did you come to a sub full of married guys to ask about a chick you haven't even fucked yet?
/r/askMRP09/08/22 07:07 AM
2

Wife's upbringing made her very stand offish in so many ways Even when we were at our best doing things like taking pictures and being available wasn't something she was interested in ...with you. Add that to the end of every sentence when it comes to how your wife conducts herself sexually. I know I'm late to this post so you may not see this, but the biggest problem I'm seeing is that you've turned "honest" into an identity. Not just for yourself but for your wife as well. And as such, you'll …
/r/askMRP19/07/22 12:38 AM
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If you had any semblance of frame, you'd have a loyal wife that would fuck off and get back to work the minute you were done having your way with her, bringing home bank for you in the process and leaving you the hell alone for most of the day. Could be living the dream, my man.
/r/askMRP13/07/22 04:57 AM
9

Nice covert contract you've got there.
/r/askMRP13/07/22 04:43 AM
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I fear that this might make her day... She can have her cake without having to fuck me. There is so much contained in just this one sentence. - How is the above any different from what is happening now? - Why does it matter whether or not it "might make her day" if this is a course of action that you have decided may be beneficial to you? Are you trying to punish your wife, or are you trying to unfuck yourself? That's not a rhetorical question either. Dig deep and ask yourself truly what's drivi…
/r/askMRP03/05/22 01:38 AM
3

Stop letting life happen to you and instead take deliberate action to get the outcome you want (if you even know what that is, because there isn't a single word in the post that would indicate that you do).
/r/askMRP16/04/22 06:23 PM
4

I have to hide a lot of shit from her (tattoos, motorcycle, etc) not out of fear of her response, but more so because I rather not waste time on arguing and I rather put my focus into important things. This is a good place to start. Stop hiding these things while also refusing to waste time arguing or defending your choices. WISNIFG will give you all the tools you'll need.
/r/askMRP16/04/22 06:09 PM
4

She = 14 Her = 9 Frame = 0
/r/askMRP20/03/22 09:40 PM
4

Tell me you have oneitis for a codependent chick without telling me...
/r/askMRP12/03/22 05:08 AM
2

There's nothing to handle. If you don't want to cheat on your wife, then don't fuck her best friend. (I would suggest not fucking her best friend even if you do want to cheat, but that's beside the point). Maybe she's flirting with you. Maybe she's bored with her shitbag husband and is seeking out any male attention that isn't from him. Maybe she was shy the first few times you met her and this is her real personality. It really doesn't matter.
/r/askMRP11/03/22 05:05 AM
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What was the outcome that you were you hoping to achieve? I doubt it was to be humiliated and left fuming over an incident that the other guy has probably forgotten by now. So no, you did not handle it correctly. I suspect that you can't even answer the above question. I'll bet you're also the type that thinks you're so much more rational than women because "they think with their emotions first."
/r/askMRP08/03/22 02:24 AM
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my dilemma is that if I want to go out, I have to ask the wife because she will insist that I must first secure and pay for a babysitter. She is unwilling to look after our toddler herself Step 1: Make plans Step 2: Find sitter, drop off child Step 3: Be social Step 4: Retrieve child, pay sitter I fail to see where your wife even enters the equation here. Stuck at Dread Level 6 Only because you skipped the first 5. You have no frame, you aren't actually lifting, you have no social life, and no o…
/r/askMRP04/03/22 02:41 AM
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You made a rule, your wife went along with enforcing that rule, and then you changed it up in a manner that directly undermines her in front of the kid. Advice on leadership? How about the very fucking basics, like getting on the same page as your second in command and presenting a united front. You just taught your son a great lesson in dividing and conquering, and told your wife that you'll throw her under the bus in an instant if it will get you cool points with the kid. I've dealt with your …
/r/askMRP14/02/22 06:00 AM
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You spent the better part of 2 paragraphs DEERing to a bunch of strangers on the internet about this 18 year old. I can only imagine how bad it was in person... She just dreaded herself That's not how dread works. I really don't even like the term because it's so commonly misused, but if you insist on sticking to the lingo, don't think of it in terms of "I'm going to instill dread in that woman," but instead "I'm the type of man that any woman would dread losing."
/r/askMRP29/12/21 02:33 AM
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This isn't a religion. Take what works for you and ignore the rest. If going out for a solo hike sounds more appealing to you than shooting the shit with friends, then do that. The caveat is making sure that you're legitimately following your interests and not simply avoiding any situation that may cause you discomfort.
/r/askMRP29/12/21 02:14 AM
9

You went full retard.
/r/askMRP24/12/21 08:34 AM
1

Idk... "DEERing For Dummies" maybe?
/r/askMRP06/12/21 11:35 PM
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Im ready to put together a MAP and start improving, but my experience has been that my improvement just leads to my wife being more insecure and more unsafe. I'm probably missing a key piece Yeah, the colossal covert contract that's underlying everything you're doing.
/r/askMRP04/12/21 10:51 PM
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I made sure I was up at the time I knew the bars would be closed so I knew she was home and not fucking about What do you think this accomplishes (aside from fucking up your own sleep)? If she wants to cheat she could suck off the entire Dallas Cowboys roster and still make it home in time to blow you a big sloppy kiss over Facetime. Your biggest problem is that you're a gigantic pussy that seems incapable of taking ownership of anything. You blame your ex for your previous dead bedroom, your cu…
/r/askMRP16/11/21 01:36 AM
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Eight paragraphs of text and the only thing I know about you is that you're afraid of your wife.
/r/askMRP12/11/21 10:15 PM
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She was horny. Are you going to overanalyze the hell out of it every time she gets hungry too?
/r/askMRP04/11/21 08:13 PM
2

If you'd read the sidebar, you'd know that worrying about A & B is a waste of time. You'd also know that you should already have C & D lined up. You came to MRP and started asking questions about hard mode, but you're playing on easy right now. A is an ex and B is a plate. There's no reason that you should be putting this kind of effort into either of them.
/r/askMRP30/09/21 11:45 PM
5

It may not be, but acting as if Briffault's Law were true generally leads to the best outcome by keeping men from overinvesting.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 11:53 PM
4

Your friend's situation is a great example of signaling, and ultimately a lack of frame. He (presumably) cares about his wife having the same last name because it signals to a whole lot of people that don't matter that he has a submissive wife. The reality is something else entirely.
/r/askMRP14/09/21 11:47 PM
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Personally I wouldn't give two shits. If you do care, you have two options: "My wife is going to have my last name" - and then it's on her to decide whether she wants that to be her or someone else Don't get married and it's a moot point Bottom line is that if you're needing to come online and ask strangers whether or not this is important to you, then it probably isn't.
/r/askMRP14/09/21 11:44 PM
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That's why it's better to disregard what women want and put your own needs first. If you're going to be the asshole anyway then it's best to do it on your own terms.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/21 03:34 AM
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- she’s had 20+ sexual partners (eventually got over this) No you didn't. It's literally the first thing you chose to tell us was a red flag. It's clearly an issue for you. - more guys friends than girlfriends in her hometown If she's hot she's going to have orbiters. Hell, if she's a perfectly average 5/10 chick she's going to have orbiters. You should have healthy boundaries and if this is one of them then more power to you, but fwiw I can smell the neediness coming off your post so don't thin…
/r/askMRP27/08/21 02:12 AM
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So let me get this straight. You're young, in the best shape of your life, financially independent enough to support yourself, and just started working with the company you've always wanted... and you're thinking about handcuffing yourself to a woman just because that's what everyone else is doing? I'm going to level with you, being "late" in this instance is probably the best thing that ever happened to you. What kind of marriage do you really think you'd have with mindset you've had for the la…
/r/askMRP22/08/21 10:54 PM
1

I don't really have any specific activities for you because I don't know what your interests are. But as a general piece of advice, I'd say be careful with how you choose to define what's "productive" and what isn't. Personally I base productivity on need. If I only got 3 hours of sleep last night and I've been dragging ass all day, the most productive thing I can do is take a nap. If my joints are killing me and I've plateaued on multiple lifts, the most productive thing I can do is deload. If …
/r/askMRP07/08/21 12:00 AM
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I am an attractive 34 year old in a big city Obviously not that attractive. Sorry lady, but nobody owes you attention.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/21 04:19 PM
1

There is not a good answer, Bullshit. I just didn't want to go out with her this week See, you just gave a perfectly good answer right there. I try to focus on what I want and not her feelings This entire post is about her feelings and I have absolutely no idea what it is that you want. So once again I need to call bullshit.
/r/askMRP22/07/21 04:28 AM
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Solipsism at its finest. She's not really disputing his answer on a logical basis. She's saying that his answer can't be right because it makes her feel bad, and anything that makes her feel bad is wrong by definition. Best advice for her is to stop asking questions when she doesn't really want the answer.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/21 04:55 AM
4

Basic tenet of leadership, everything that happens on your watch is your fault. My wife and I have not been the most loving couple the last 5-7 years of our marriage You had, at minimum, half a decade's warning that there was an iceberg ahead. The fact that you waited until impact to do anything about it is 100% your fault, regardless of who the "bad guy" may be (LPT: no one cares). If you want a bunch of people to tell you you're a victim then you're in the wrong place. If you want to unfuck yo…
/r/askMRP25/06/21 01:29 AM
4

https://heartiste.org/2009/05/19/be-a-skittles-man/
/r/askMRP19/06/21 12:17 AM
11

To be fair, he didn't say anything about attractive. He mentioned her huge tits with no other descriptors, which pretty much always = fat.
/r/askMRP18/06/21 01:16 AM
3

Other than your wife, how many women could you call or message right now and set up a date?
/r/askMRP17/06/21 11:53 PM
3

We have a nice meal, great conversation, really good bottle of wine. We catch an uber home and head to the bedroom. She goes into the bathroom for a little while and I think she is changing into something sexy and I go ahead and change into some my nice boxers that she likes me to wear for special occasions when we have sex Food, conversation, and wine do not replace escalation. Did you give her any indication where your mind was at during all of this? Did you game her at all at any point before…
/r/askMRP11/06/21 11:53 PM
5

I've never seen someone consider parenthood as a covert contract before. Congrats on having the most ridiculous post of the week.
/r/askMRP03/06/21 11:52 PM
1

she says... from eating... When I 10second kiss her... Her mouth clearly still works. Just sayin'...
/r/askMRP03/06/21 12:17 AM
3

I know not to react or show any emotion when she says this. IDGAF is the only way to play it. The problem is that you're playing it instead of living it. You do give a fuck... clearly.
/r/askMRP31/05/21 11:08 PM
4

Dear women, the absolute most surefire way to ensure that I ignore what you say is to preface it with "dear men" (or some variant of it).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/05/21 04:34 AM
7

Ma'am, you won't be able to attract ANY men Disagree. Gravity is proportional to mass, so she's quite capable of attracting all of us at once.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 03:19 AM
2

Tbh, I think she created the entire profile to sell Herbalife. Product front and center, screening for disposable income, and dropping subtle hints to potential customers (i.e women like a "strong" man so try my protein powder with your next workout). The only thing missing is the one part I'll bet she thought she was fulfilling, the attractive model to present the product.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 02:59 AM
2

Fuck her, fuck her well, and fuck her how you want to. It sounds like you've been waiting on her to take things up a notch, when most likely she's also waiting on you to do the same. So take the lead and break the stalemate.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:47 AM
43

Not true, I also like sandwiches and blowjobs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 03:21 AM
1

You're asking for an answer without mentioning what it is that you want. Figure that part out and the answer will most likely become obvious. One question to get you started. Do you actually care about whether you're married or not, or is it your ego getting bruised that she doesn't want to get married?
/r/askMRP12/05/21 09:28 PM
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I'm 31, she's 7 years older... her weighting ~40lbs more than when we met...Judging purely by the physical ... she'd be a 5-6. In what universe is an overweight woman that's approaching 40 years old physically above average? Serious question, because that's a universe I really want to avoid. Here's your problem. We can spoon feed you answers to whatever shit your wife throws at you, but it won't make the slightest bit of difference. It's not about the words but the man saying the words. You're s…
/r/askMRP07/05/21 11:47 PM
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GF wants to have a baby. I do like kids but I stopped reading right there because I knew that everything that followed was a DEER. You don't want a kid right now, but you're afraid to tell your gf that.
/r/askMRP22/04/21 12:37 PM
3

Definitely not rich by any means. In fact, I'm less than a year removed from being on the brink of bankruptcy. I'm in really good shape for my age (6'3 195 and about 11% bf) and admittedly look a good bit younger than I am. I'd imagine that preselection works in my favor as well. And probably most importantly, I give zero fucks about the outcome of any single approach. I enjoy bringing women home, but if I woke up tomorrow and just didn't have it in me to pull it off anymore, I'd still be comple…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 10:48 PM
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I'm 42 years old and married, and I still pull 21-25 year old women regularly. It's incredibly easy, and if you take care of yourself and prioritize your own success, you've got decades before that ship sails for you. If you're in the US, most of the women you encounter are going to be overweight. In 2016, the average woman in the US weighed 171lbs and had a nearly 39" waist (despite average height being just under 5'4"). The average BMI of 29.6 was at the very upper range of overweight (with 30…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 10:17 PM
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Complains about men treating women like prostitutes, proceeds to talk about money being spent on her as a prerequisite for sex. You can't make this shit up lol...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 09:50 PM
3

is it better to... extend my timeline for searching for that great love, or is it better to lower my expectations of finding my life partner and find someone reasonably solid to build a family with? AF/BB, straight from the horse's mouth. I'll save her some time, the answer is going to be pick the second guy while she continues looking for the first.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/21 12:32 AM
3

The post literally begins with STFU and ends with STFU, yet somehow you forgot to STFU.
/r/askMRP05/03/21 12:10 AM
5

I also feel that our culture is one step behind from what takes place in the US. Yes, there's monkey branching, trickle truth, frustrated chumps - the whole nine yards. It's just not that extreme. Maybe in a generation things will have "progressed", They aren't that extreme in the States either. The issue is that the only way to get the point across to the target audience is to dial the autism up to 11. If you can see the nuance in this then you're already ahead of 90% of the people that make it…
/r/askMRP01/02/21 05:02 AM
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Her past is her past and you're NEVER going to know everything. So I want you to do a thought excerise. Forget anything she's told you already and pretend that this is the first time you've ever discussed past partners. She tells you her count is double what her age was when you met, plus a bunch of other "almost" scenarios. Would you still want to be with her? Follow up question, do you really think that makes her different than any other woman you'll meet? she did give away her best to randos …
/r/askTRP22/12/20 01:44 AM
1

The standard advice is to go fuck ten other women. Depends on what you're looking for as to whether or not that's good advice for you. At the very least, game enough women to know that you have options. We all screw up so don't worry too much about it. The best comparison I can make is to treat it like sales. If the sale you want to close the most ends up falling through, you can be upset but you can't dwell on it. Get back to work and close the next one, and if the one sale you lost comes back …
/r/askTRP15/12/20 07:38 PM
3

Soft next doesn't mean that you stop contact and then secretly hope she re-engages. It means that you move on but leave an olive branch. How many other women can you contact right now and (at the very least) set up a date? If that number is anything other than zero, you should be messaging right now. If that number is zero, you should be doing everything you can to change that. Either of those are a much better use of your time and energy than trying to come up with the perfect response to a 2 w…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 07:17 PM
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Will I get the respect to have the financial final say on big purchases without being called a cheapskate if I become a stronger man or is the materialism too ingrained? If you become a stronger man, you'll stop giving a fuck what she says or does and will make financial decisions based upon whether or not they align with your goals. If you become a stronger man, you'll realize that you don't need to ask permission as to how you want to spend YOUR money. If you become a stronger man, you'll real…
/r/askMRP13/12/20 07:45 PM
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Three most common ways to fail a shit test: take it at face value, jump through whatever arbitrary hoops she asks you to, get butthurt about it after the fact Congratulations on hitting the trifecta. I'm going to ignore all the other fluff get to what matters. Do you want to see her Saturday or not? If so, text like nothing happened and set it up. Nothing good ever comes out of revisiting these things, so take the L and move on. If you don't want to see her, then simply next her. Plates break ev…
/r/askTRP10/12/20 03:17 AM
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You know what I think? I think you've already decided what you're going to do, know that it's an absolute shit idea, and instead of owning that shit idea, you want to pawn it off on a bunch of internet strangers. Fuck that. Make a goddammed decision and own the consequences. If you can't do the latter, then you already know it's a dumb choice that you've resolved yourself to making, and you'll deserve everything that comes of it.
/r/askMRP08/12/20 06:52 PM
1

why do we say "man up! I'll lead with this. The phrases "man up" or "a real man..." or anything else of the sort are ALWAYS manipulative, and ALWAYS used to serve the interests of the person saying them. There may or may not be some decent advice wrapped up in there, but understand that it isn't being offered with your best interest in mind. Take what you find valuable and ignore the rest. To answer your specific question, I would say that it is making yourself your own mental point of origin, b…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:03 PM
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The problem I have is that I’m not really interested in being around women that are more than a decade younger than me... I find a lot of them (20s girls) to be draining and not as fun to be around long term. You answered your own question.
/r/askMRP17/11/20 05:17 PM
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All of your problems are fixable if you get off your fat ass and do the work. Your weight, your job situation, your relationship (or lack thereof) with your kid... all of it. Unfuck yourself and then find a new 18 year old thot if that's what you're into. After all, a new crop of them come around every year.
/r/askMRP16/11/20 01:04 AM
2

Just go work on yourself and lift and things will fall in order . What am I missing? That you haven't worked on yourself and you aren't lifting. Here's the best shortcut I can give you to building some semblence of a frame: it is more important for a father to be in full possession of his balls than it is for him to have full possession of his kids. You're a hostage to both your oneitis and to your fear of splitting up your family. That would be your undoing even if you were doing the work and l…
/r/askMRP26/10/20 07:46 PM
3

Pretty sure NB = nonbinary. It certainly explains the overreliance on makeup, filters, and awkward camera angles. For her sake, I hope Romeo likes sausage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/10/20 06:33 PM
8

I'm actually impressed at the amount of bullshit you were able to fit into a single post. When you're ready to kill your ego and stop lying to yourself, you might just find what you need to help yourself.
/r/askMRP24/10/20 10:29 PM
9

You're afraid of your wife. Nothing that anyone here can tell you will materialize into action until you come to terms with that.
/r/askMRP24/10/20 10:12 PM
14

Signaling. In the form of protecting her reputation ("I know it's a hookup app, but I'm not THAT kind of girl. Look at my profile!). In the form of a shit test. Any guy who lets that deter him is obviously too weak to consider. In the form of ego protection. If she happens to regret random dick #358, it wasn't her fault. She was looking for "something real" (whatever the hell that means) and this fuck boy tricked her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/20 02:35 AM
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At least the response was appropriately dismissive. I was expecting it to be one of the "you go girl" brigadiers telling her that her husband is worthless and that he needs to "man up" and pay.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/20 07:17 PM
2

This didn't cross your mind when you moved in with a chick right after she took a "break" to go fuck someine else? Your consequences are still almost nothing compared to everyone else here. Get a second job and start stashing money. It helps you financially and gets you out of the house. Most of the time you can pay a lump sum to break a lease (typically 2-3 months rent), and you can also look into subletting if there's more than one bedroom. Have you even read your lease or asked your landlord …
/r/askMRP22/10/20 11:04 PM
3

Been with LTR for 1 year 9 months. The beginning 6 months were okay. Ups and downs. Then after 6 months shit started getting rocky. So 21 months total, and only 6 were okay. You're quite clearly clinging to her because no one else will touch your dick. If you had any other options you'd have dropped this chick a long time ago. The rest of this post (as well as the rest of your history that you tried to delete) is just confirmation that she's right to call you a pussy and a bitch. As for the comp…
/r/askMRP22/10/20 08:32 PM
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Get started on your MAP (male anal pleasure) & STFU (slide the finger up).
/r/askMRP21/10/20 07:54 PM
1

Just to other women.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 03:04 PM
16

Picture this for a minute. You're 20 years old and you just got a dog. You get super attached and love that dog like family. Are you thinking about the fact that, at best, you've got until your mid 30s with him until he dies? Are you thinking about the fact that while dogs are extremely loyal, that it is on the condition that you keep feeding him? If you stop feeding him but your neighbor leaves a bowl out, sooner or later he will become your neighbor's dog. You don't worry about those things be…
/r/askTRP19/10/20 03:31 AM
1

Probably a weak transverse abdominus. Do dead bugs every morning in addition to regular lifting and that will flatten out.
/r/askMRP18/10/20 09:08 PM
16

So many contradictions... One of my plates I have reduced contact with the other two and is currently only seeing her How is she "one of" anything if you've cut contact with all the others except her? One of my plates she will not have sex with me if I am "interested" in other women; which I and okay with. Coincidentally, last time I was over at her place we didn't have sex She's not a plate. You don't play house and make a habit of staying with plates. You don't even entertain it if a plate say…
/r/askMRP17/10/20 11:54 PM
3

For people that are just starting out, the best split is the one you'll stick with. Once you've cleared that hurdle, it will just depend on your goals. I've recently been doing 12 week cycles that are split into three 4 week sections. First is high rep & lower weight, the second is moderate weight and slightly fewer reps, and finally the last is heavy weight and low reps (with a few added sets to keep overall volume sufficient). Deload the week after and then repeat. Also, your workout routine a…
/r/askMRP15/10/20 09:08 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3qm961/verbal_intercourse_is_optional/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share Read that, both the post itself and the top comment. I mean really read it. You posted almost the exact same question THREE FUCKING YEARS AGO and got all the answers that you needed.
/r/askMRP11/10/20 05:25 PM
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Date nonexclusively and do not give your commitment away until a woman has truly earned it (if you aren't sure yet, then she hasn't). Establish boundaries early and treat them as sacrosanct. Also, DO NOT blabber on about what you're looking for in a woman. Anyone can pretend to be something that they're not for a year or two, and women are especially great at telling you exactly what you want to hear. This is another reason you don't emotionally invest too soon. And speaking of investment, the r…
/r/askMRP09/10/20 12:05 AM
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My chief complaint is that I struggle not to be resentful that she can't do something for me (oral, anything). It's not that she can't, but that she won't. Acknowledging that distinction is step one.
/r/askMRP05/10/20 06:23 PM
12

Farmer's walks. Simple and effective
/r/askMRP03/10/20 11:09 PM
3

Why do 35+ women think that just by providing their presence they deserve everything? The short (and correct) answer: who gives a fuck? Deserve is a meaningless word and why is usually a pointless question. The longer answer: a woman's investment in you is a direct reflection of how much she values you as a man. If all she's providing is her presence, she investing the absolute minimum. Take from that whatever you want.
/r/askMRP30/09/20 03:07 PM
4

Did your wife give you permission to post this victim puke here? Seeing that you let her feelings dictate what you do on your phone, it seems like a valid question. I'm also wondering if you're actually gaming your wife. If you had spent the ride home working her up, pinned her to the wall as soon as you walked in the door and given her a proper fucking, I guarantee she wouldn't give a fuck about some pictures of strangers on your phone.
/r/askMRP28/09/20 05:44 PM
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I care less about the marriage than she does Bullshit. Unbelievable bullshit, and the rest of this post is proof of that.
/r/askMRP28/09/20 05:08 PM
4

Find another peer, or if that's not possible then go to your superior. "Before I go I need to get this info to (ex) so she can pass it along, but she's (on the phone, taking a shit, fucking the janitor, whatever it is she does to avoid you). Can you make sure this gets into the right hands for me? I'll follow up with an email just to keep everyone else in the loop." Now your ass is covered and her avoidance is brought to light. Easy as that. For fucks sake, if people are having to call you to ge…
/r/askMRP25/09/20 05:10 PM
1

How do I stfu on the phone? By shutting the fuck up on the phone
/r/askMRP25/09/20 02:16 AM
16

It's also the norm for households to be buried in debt, men to shove their poorly groomed dad bods into poor fitting tees and cargo shorts, their wives to eat their resentment and get fat, and for everyone to float through life without any sort of direction. If you've found this place, then what the fuck does the norm have to do with you?
/r/askMRP17/09/20 09:08 PM
15

Wtf did I just read? Do you want a kid or not? If yes then reverse. If not, don't.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 11:01 PM
7

They already did... 3 months ago when he posted there about searching her phone and finding messages where she talked about needing to get fucked properly. Maybe it will get through this time, but I wouldn't bet on it.
/r/askMRP10/09/20 04:27 PM
3

Everything was going good until week 2. Holy shit, I didn't realize the bar could get this low.
/r/askMRP06/09/20 02:58 PM
2

At the end of the day it doesn't even matter to me what a girls N number is anyways So why'd you bring it up completely unprompted and then spend another 3 comments DEERing over it?
/r/askMRP21/07/20 05:17 PM
1

she would be happier if my wife was alone than with me. Why do you care?
/r/askMRP18/07/20 02:11 PM
7

So you're asking for ways to mate guard without giving the appearance that you're mate guarding?
/r/askMRP18/07/20 01:59 PM
2

The relationship is her job, not yours. Your job is to be a high value man that doesn't have time for this petty bullshit, and if she wants to come along for the ride then she'll put in the effort to make that happen (and no, her being "submissive" does not change the dynamic). Ask yourself if the time you're spending in this woman's head is really the best way you can be spending it? If not, then be somewhere else. If this is the best use of your time, then the issue isn't her being distant but…
/r/askMRP08/06/20 01:07 AM
1

All of those things are on the table if you live elsewhere. Btw, BobbyPeru is 100% correct in saying that this is a relationship. I asked a question about a living sitiation and in response you handed me her girlfriend resume. You're going to do what you want to do, but at least take extra care to be sure you're walking into this with your eyes open. And above anything else, have your other living arrangements sorted out before you ever step into her home.
/r/askMRP30/05/20 12:27 AM
1

I read this entire post twice. I know all about why you think she wants you to move in. I know all your rationalizations as to why you could make it work. But I still have absolutely no idea why you would want to do this. It's the only thing that matters, yet it's conspicuously absent from the post.
/r/askMRP29/05/20 11:41 PM
1

Assanova
/r/askMRP09/03/20 01:15 AM
6

She would take any concession from me as a great feminist “strong woman” victory and rub it in my face. Who cares? If your motivation was actually about the kids, then why do you give a fuck how your shitty ex reacts to it? It sounds like you've come a long way in rebuilding your life, but at least on this issue you're still lying to yourself.
/r/askMRP01/03/20 03:12 AM
6

Title should be Wife thinks her SMV is a couple of points higher than mine and wants to take advantage of her good lucks while she still can, thinks I probably won't mind or can't do anything about it. Tbh that could have been the entire post.
/r/askMRP30/01/20 06:50 PM
1

A year ago, your excuse was that you said that there was no point in ending it because you could just fuck other women on the side (context here). You were blaming your kids for your shortcomings back then as well. start having fun with hookers as that has a low chance of getting caught failure FTFY. You're afraid of talking to other women, just like you're afraid of your wife, so to avoid any inkling of discomfort you've rationalized staying with your wife and figure you'll just pay someone els…
/r/askMRP22/01/20 06:22 PM
8

Since last september I've had this nagging feeling that she's cheating on me You had a comment from right around September saying that you weren't married and hadn't even proposed yet. Did you actually go though with the marriage because you thought it would stop her from cheating?
/r/askMRP22/01/20 05:20 PM
4

was mad at me because I left oil on the stove from the breakfast she took two bites of and didn’t appreciate. I stopped reading here, bitch ass status confirmed.
/r/askMRP19/01/20 03:46 AM
3

At one point in this post, you managed to use the word "she" 15 times over a span of 10 sentences. I'm going to let you figure out what's wrong with that.
/r/askMRP19/01/20 03:34 AM
1

Even if she is half as attractive as she believes herself to be, I can see why her matches fall off after a few messages. It took her all of two comments to start spewing unsolicited advice and telling all the men reading it to start changing themselves in order to suit her. Hard pass, regardless of what she looks like (which if I had to guess, probably a 5 with the potential to be a 6 if she lost 10 lbs).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/20 03:38 PM
2

Is there a filter that just completely eliminates the people in a picture and replaces them with an equal number of better looking people? If so, these two should try that one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/20 03:24 PM
72

He's playing it smart. The only way to break it off with a narcissistic woman and not deal with months (or often even years) of blowback is to make her think it was her idea.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/20 03:08 PM
2

https://therationalmale.com/2017/12/11/zeroed-out/ I still am struggling to come to terms with reality. I think a more accurate way to phrase this would be that you built your identity around a woman, that woman eventually resented you for it, and when she jumped ship she left you without any sort of identity of your own. So now in it's place, you've built an identity around the wreckage she left behind instead of doing the hard work of rebuilding yourself. In short, you doubled down on the fail…
/r/askMRP25/11/19 07:04 PM
4

*Nostradumbass
/r/askMRP23/11/19 05:29 PM
1

My question is at what point is what appears to be a reasonable request actually a shit test? When the information is readily available in the side bar but you still expect others to spoon feed it to you.
/r/askMRP21/11/19 04:26 PM
6

Relationships are their job. If the emotional labor is too much, then she knows how to find the door.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/19 05:42 PM
6

FDS: Ugh, men are so boring Also FDS: Proceeds to create one of the most boring threads in the history of the internet In case any of them are lurking... the men in question are sending short, nonspecific messages because they're copy/pasting them to dozens of women. I know you want to feel special and think that he's taking the time just to message you, but he isn't. He's throwing as many baited hooks into the water as possible and then waiting for a bite. In most cases, the lack of effort you'…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/19 03:23 PM
9

Side note: I wonder what the correlation between video games and useless men are. I swear most dudes on FDS Superfans are active in gamer subs. Plus useless men my friends date game too. I'm not a gamer and haven't been since middle school, but I still get a good laugh at women's obsession with guys playing video games. They act as if the women that sit on their ass and watch endless hours of TV or spend the day fingering their phones are any different. Basically, they're bitter that the men in …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/19 04:58 PM
39

At least I had to sort by controversial to find the deluge of comments calling OP an incel. It's not too long ago that those would have been front and center. That's progress.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/11/19 06:29 PM
3

The answer is to walk away without saying a word and strike up a conversation with the hot little 20 something working at the hotel bar.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/19 03:21 PM
30

But if she does that, how is she going to make sure that everyone within earshot knows that she speaks five different languages? All those people may not be aware that she is, in fact, better than them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/19 01:08 PM
3

A recent study found men simply can't handle it if a woman outshines them Calling BS on this "study" that purports to quantify an immeasurable concept (i.e. how men "handle it") wrt to a vague, or at the very best subjective, set of criteria ("outshines them"). Kate believes this is why she's still single I'm sure she does. I can choose to believe that the only reason that Emily Ratajkowski and I aren't engaging in regular rounds of genital tag is because she lost the directions to my house. Doe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/19 12:57 PM
5

I don't understand why guys do that. That's fine, your approval is not required nor was it requested. Contrary to what you've been led to believe for most of your life, no one has to justify their choices to you. What's so good about dating a girl who is 25 opposed to 45? If I told you, you'd just ignore me anyway. Instead, let's focus on why you're infantilizing a 25 year old woman that is old enough to make her own decisions in her dating life. The sex isn't better. Yes it is. She doesn't look…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/19 03:18 PM
4

Translation: "Prove your worthiness to speak to me, pissants!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/11/19 01:29 PM
11

Doesn't take Nostradamus to see this guy's future: "I feel like such trash, but this guy is amazing to me. He really loves me!" --> "I can't believe he's still with me, He's really great..." --> "Or, is it that he just can't do any better?" --> "Ugh, he's still here. He's so needy. I'm way too good for this guy. It's not like I'm just trash... Hey, I wonder what Chad the ex-bouncer is up to? He was such an asshole but I'm sure he's matured since then." --> "Sorry babe. I was out with my friends …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/19 04:36 PM
1

Over analyzing 100%. Point by point... Confirmed n-count of 11 (she specifically mentioned this number to her best friend) I didn't know her n-count prior to this, not sure how to feel about it being 11 I used to worry about things like this as well. I knew it was silly, so the way I got past it was to just assume that every woman I met had a notch count of double her age. Whether it was true or not was irrelevant. The point was to stop thinking of women as the Madonna or the whore. She's neithe…
/r/askMRP05/11/19 01:50 PM
21

Shaming language from beginning to end. Pathetic, but hardly surprising.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/19 01:29 PM
3

I think it probably started as a troll job, but after skimming a few posts they do actually seem serious. Doesn't really matter though. AFAIC the sub is basically a runaway shit test.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre01/11/19 02:21 PM
5

Tl;dr Be the guy she fucks without commitment. Nothing really new in that sub. It seems that they read TRP, interpreted it in the most spergy way possible, and then tried to apply it to the standard female manipulative tactics that have been around as long as humanity (weaponizing sex, extracting resources, infidelity, the betaization process, and the optimization of hypergamy). As it's always been, the type of guy that's either dumb or desperate enough to fall for it isn't a guy that they reall…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre01/11/19 01:29 PM
1

Sounds like a fatfish.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/19 01:45 PM
3

"the only apology he gave me was 4 days later and a lot of "I'm sorry, BUT" which is not an apology Right, because nothing that he did warrants one. Relationships aren't her birthright and she isn't entitled to his commitment. She felt that he was "the one" but obviously he didn't feel the same way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/19 01:17 PM
3

That fucking bitch I dated in high school fucked me up Dude, you're almost 30. Whatever that teenage girl did to you a decade ago... let it go.
/r/askMRP21/10/19 12:14 PM
10

The central argument holds that women have effectively been duped by a sexual revolution that persuaded them to trade away the protections of (and from) young men. Here it is in plain English. Stop being a fucking simp and let her change her own damn tire when she gets a flat. I know that everyone here understands, but it's amazing how the typical guy still insists on holding up his end of a bargain that was thrown out decades ago.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre12/10/19 05:26 PM
1

Please tell me you sent her a Towelie meme from the road.
/r/askMRP10/10/19 05:20 PM
3

I'm not sure I have the frame to manage a plate quite yet. I'm sure that you don't. From your OYS post: Still no sex, but no initiations by myself or the wife. Still not ready to initiate as my ego is still too fragile If you're too scared to fuck your wife then a plate like this will eat you alive.
/r/askMRP09/10/19 02:06 PM
13

You've just experienced a detour like everyone else on the planet The abject stupidity on display here is surpassed only by the heartlessness behind it. The worst part is that the greatest hardship this idiot has ever experienced is probably something like getting regular milk instead of soy in their $9 morning coffee.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/19 01:31 PM
19

28-30 years old? Check Evidence of a string of poor decisions in her 20s? Check Looking for a stereotypical alpha-type to scratch that biological itch? Check Preemptive shaming of anyone who may not "man up" and date her? Check 4/4. She's a living, breathing personification of the epiphany stage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/10/19 02:56 PM
3

That line is the most potent here. "Looking for a friend maybe more 33-45", she is trolling for a buxxmaxxer that can take up the slack The requirement that he be single is a dead giveaway. If she just wanted dick then she wouldn't care if the guy was single, married, also in an open relationship, or any of that. Sexual fidelity doesn't mean anything to her, but financial fidelity is everything.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/10/19 06:57 PM
3

My head and my dick say leave, but my emotions are all "don't crush her bro, she's a great person". Do you normally make potentially life altering decisions based upon emotions and pity for others? Assuming that you're actually telling us everything, it seems like this is an easy choice and you're just looking to unload the decision onto someone else so that you don't have to be the bad guy.
/r/askMRP01/10/19 03:30 PM
1

You sound like the guy who sits and waits for life to happen to him. Things never go well for that guy...
/r/askMRP01/10/19 01:11 PM
2

Her: "I'm not meeting you halfway" "Okay, no worries. If you're ever in (city where I live) hmu and we'll grab some drinks" This is an instance where anything less than "hell yes" should be treated as a no. She demonstrated that she wasn't willing to make any effort at all, so you pull back and move on to someone else. The "why" is irrelevant here. If she won't at least match your effort... next.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/19 12:31 PM
17

He should have stopped responding the minute she expected an explanation for how he chooses to get to work. It's not like she was making conversation or that she was genuinely interested in why he takes the train. No, I could feel the contempt coming through the screen with that one word response.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/19 06:32 PM
3

Haha, I didn't even think about her kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/19 11:46 AM
41

Please look like your pictures! For her sake, I hope she doesn't look like her pictures.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/19 06:12 PM
3

If you're just inexperienced with women then getting a few notches might help you realize that pussy on its own isn't a worthwhile goal, but in the original post you said that you were fucking a lot of women before you met your wife. I want to feel the abundance. I think fucking other chicks will make me feel strong, happy. Am I wrong? What you're talking about here is validation seeking. You're putting women in control of your happiness and sense of self-worth, which is completely wrong. Rather…
/r/askMRP19/09/19 03:54 PM
1

I didn't dig that up to embarrass you, but because it's relevant. The reason you insist on keeping this a secret has nothing to do with her jealousy or divorce. It's that you're terrified that she'll go tit for tat and want to fuck another guy. Your hamster is all over the place here: In fact, I don't have the balls to get divorced I think she would divorce me if I want threesome So is it that you want to get divorced and don't have the balls to do it, or that you don't want to get divorced at a…
/r/askMRP19/09/19 02:43 PM
2

Not according to one of your previous (now deleted) posts: ** My English is not very well, so please correct me if I'm wrong ** I've met her in Tinder and now we have a relationship, but I realized something that she has a demand to look other guys. We almost have sex every day, and she never rejects to talk to me at the workplace she works in. The problem is not that. The problem is that we're good, I mean we're almost having sex and we're enjoying while we get together etc, but how can it be p…
/r/askMRP19/09/19 02:05 PM
7

She did put special emphasis on the word package.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/19 12:36 PM
1

Anyone who can hold a conversation for longer than 5 min these days, I will be shocked! People are perfectly capable of conversation. The fact that you send them running away in under 5 minutes says more about you than them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/19 12:35 PM
3

$20 for a trip today, $40 for school clothes next week, and before you know it she flat out expects this guy to raise her kids. Have to establish this boundary immediately.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/19 03:25 PM
3

I'm guessing that this is for some sort of research project, and that skipping answers screws up the formatting on the spreadsheet this will all be uploaded to. The fact that I can see a list like this and not be 100% sure though tells you everything you need to know about dating in 2019.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/19 12:44 PM
3

I see several good reasons to hire her as my maid, but none as to why she'd be worth a relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/19 12:29 PM
3

I'll keep it even shorter... nope!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/19 12:16 PM
1

I really want to continue pursuing this business~~, but if I continue to fail I'll continue being weak and vulnerable to those comments by her~\~ There were a whole bunch of useless words after the comma so I fixed that for you. Women will test you when you're at your lowest. This isn't a secret. If you don't want to hear it, just spend less time with her and more time trying to grow your business. Unless you're afraid that mommy won't approve...
/r/askMRP27/08/19 12:22 PM
2

Why doesn't "just end it" apply to her though? She was the one that wanted to change the terms of their relationship, then she was the one that couldn't handle it. Doesn't really sound like he was the one with the problem.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/08/19 05:58 PM
1

I disagree with the notion that men who "play the field" are not frowned upon. Yup. We're just a bunch of "fuccbois" and "man-whores" who are "afraid of commitment" and will die old and lonely. Nope, no derision there at all smh...
/r/PussyPassDenied26/08/19 05:48 PM
2

Just send this footage to Vince McMahon and she's good.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/08/19 01:56 PM
2

TIL calories are sexist
/r/PussyPassDenied20/08/19 05:33 PM
191

Guarantee that she wouldn't date a guy under 5'5 because that's gross "she likes to wear heels."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/19 03:58 PM
4

If you had a Ferrari or even the means to acquire one, you wouldn't have written this post. And you do care, to an unhealthy degree: it would be painful to see that whole process play out with her understanding the reality of her diminished prospects for anything longer than ONS You know that your Taurus is a shitbox, but it's the shitbox that you've been driving for decades, and you're so attached to it that the thought of selling it so that someone else can drive it through the mud a few times…
/r/askMRP19/08/19 05:49 PM
7

I liked the one right after her, who was basically giving fitness advice while waving a cigarette at the camera.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/19 12:09 PM
7

What's funny is that I'll bet every last man commenting here would concede that absentee fathers are a major problem, and would do so without qualification. Yet the mere mention that toxic mothers are also a problem immediately draws "yeah, but (insert excuse here) therefore it's men's fault" every single time. A decent parent must have (among others) these two traits: Ownership of their situation; i.e. I'm a parent and responsible for another human life, and should keep that in mind at all time…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/19 12:06 PM
2

She'll be the one fucking all her son's friends when he's in high school.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/19 12:38 PM
4

Of course size matters to her. Anything under 10" won't even get past her drooping fat folds.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/19 12:31 PM
9

I think he was saying that if she hadn't caught him cheating, this woman would have been perfectly content to keep living the lie and letting him think the kid is his. Probably right up until she reached high school age and his services were no longer needed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/08/19 12:22 PM
12

It's weird because I want to be social but whenever people start conversations with me I always just want it to end because I simply don't care about anything those people have to say in most cases Learn to lead the conversation to subjects that you find interesting. I lift and jog almost every day and have an athletic body; and dress well but my social skills obviously suck and I'm not motivated to improve them. I'll bet that when you started lifting, you were weak as fuck and dealt with DOMS r…
/r/askTRP15/08/19 05:24 PM
2

She seemed okay until she conflated crystals with quantum physics. But at least now I know where to swipe if I need to buy some essential oils.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/08/19 12:55 PM
3

I pointed this out and that she could confirm it by consulting the handy dandy security system LOL, this is even better than spreadsheet guy!
/r/askMRP06/08/19 03:38 PM
3

Quick, someone distract it with a Baby Ruth bar!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/19 11:55 AM
3

Without even looking, I'd be willing to bet my entire net worth that the comment section is filled with a bunch of triggered simps deliberately missing the point of the comparison. Edit: I'm pleasantly surprised. Sure there were lots of simps, but a good number of the people commenting actually understood the analogy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/19 02:08 PM
3

Why do you care what some retard on the internet thinks about you? Forget about him, because I promise he's already forgotten about you. BTW, canned chicken is about $1 a can at Target if you buy their brand. Mix it up with a pack of Ramen and a can of whatever veggies you like and you have a meal for under $2. Not the healthiest thing in the world but enough to get you through a rough patch.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 01:35 PM
5

This has future open relationship written all over it. Give it 6 months...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/19 03:28 AM
3

She mentions his second career, his support of her through her medical issues, and his honesty. She doesn't say a damn thing about what she brings to the table other than a list of complaints. We all know how this goes: "I'm not haaaapy" --> divorce --> hops aboard the CC --> 6 months and a few dozen dicks later, realizes what she's lost and tries to get him back --> he tells her to fuck off --> "Where are all the good men!?!?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/19 04:33 PM
3

Sad that the only surefire giveaway that this is a parody is that they would have used some euphemism for "riding dicks" in order to make it sound like just another normal job function. But otherwise spot on. AITA might be the most cucked sub on all of Reddit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/19 02:54 PM
10

That was the one that set off alarm bells for me too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/19 05:00 PM
2

Every time someone brings up mental illness, reframe it to them calling you a chicken fucker or some other nonsensical insult. You can do that confidently because most of these armchair psychologists have no idea what the fuck they're talking about, so their unrequested diagnosis on your mental health is of no more consequence than any other gibberish.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 03:07 AM
25

I see multiple cats in her future.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/07/19 02:01 PM
1

"Tall drink of water" Must have been sourced in Flint.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/19 01:11 PM
1

1st sentence - AF 2nd sentence - BB She's not even trying to hide it lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/19 05:12 PM
4

For all the shit you hear about the male ego, imagine a guy saying that if women don't throw themselves at him, they must all be broken. There's never been a man in the history of the world with an ego that big and fragile, yet it's become almost commonplace among women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/19 02:24 PM
4

He should be encouraging her to pick up a few more sugar daddies in place of the stripping gig. She's already a whore, he may as well be her pimp and max out their earnings.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/07/19 03:21 PM
63

Stats: newly 29 yo, unmarried, 10 month LTR, live separately, no kids Didn't read past this. No marriage + no kids + no shared home = zero reason to stay with a cheating woman
/r/askMRP02/07/19 12:31 PM
3

You don't rescind an invitation because you won't get laid at the end. Funny, because I thought it was agreed upon by all that consent can be withdrawn at any time. Why wouldn't that apply here?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/19 01:55 AM
1

Just read as many of the comments as I could stomach, and damn that sub is one big collection of entitled women and white knight enablers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/19 01:51 AM
1

She says her friend is a huge fan of the singer and I should take her instead of my coworker who doesn't even like the band but only wants to go because she likes me. How dare he spend his evening with someone that actually wants to spend time with him rather than someone that was just using him for personal gain!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/07/19 01:48 AM
1

Notice that the entire Conversation Starters section is focused on the negative perspective (don't bother, non starter, etc). The subtext is important. She's either so boring and unoriginal that she doesn't have any idea of what does make a decent conversation starter, or she's so convinced that the men on the site are beneath her that she expects them to line up and dance for her attention. Thankfully, I'll never have to find out which one it is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/19 04:49 PM
1

The difference is in expectations. "If I stay cool and display a bunch of DHVs, my wife will fuck me more" - covert contract "Engaging her silly argument is pointless, so I'm not going to take the bait" - STFU
/r/askMRP26/06/19 05:47 PM
6

I don't think the problem is an unwillingness for people to accept their place, but that they don't want to put in the work to improve their lives. There are certainly limits in place as to how much people can improve themselves, but very few people actually come close to reaching it. "Accept your place" is classic victim mentality. Better to show men that they can improve themselves rather than promote the learned helplessness inherent in accepting that a shit hand in life is an impediment to t…
/r/askTRP21/06/19 03:15 PM
8

Buys you food Do Skittles count?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/19 03:56 PM
6

A man that is taken is off limits. This means the intention of slutting around is to enter into a relationship. I read this differently. Lat's say that girls A,B, and C go to a bar and see guy D. B sees him first and calls dibs, but that doesn't apply because the guy is clearly more interested in C. Had the guy approached and showed interest in B then the other two would back off, but since her interest in him wasn't reciprocated he's fair game for all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/19 03:55 PM
387

"Because I don't want to." Period. Fuck anyone that thinks I have to justify my dating preferences to them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/19 03:34 PM
8

I don't have a problem with her kid, but I have no interest in helping her raise him. Male agency... the ultimate fly in the ointment of open hypergamy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/06/19 04:17 PM
2

Who gives a fuck about fairness? Getting into the top half is as easy as not being fat, working somewhere that doesn't have a drive-thru, and not being a complete social retard. People love to cite that OKCupid poll, but the fact is that a man that is average in all three of BMI, income, and social ability is probably near the top 20% overall. Don't blame women, thank men for making it so easy.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 02:12 PM
2

How would a salesman approach the age issue? With fear about what could go wrong, or by selling the advantages? Abundance isn't just for pick up.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 01:46 PM
1

That look on her face says it all. She'll kill your pets if you leave her on read.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/06/19 02:31 PM
55

"The past is the past. My dating life before we met is none of your business! Pig!" also "I would never date a guy that has only had short term partners in the past. He's probably afraid of commitment."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/19 01:41 PM
1

The only reason to specify that you aren't interested in crackheads is because you keep attracting crackheads. She should take the hint as to what level of guy has any sort of interest in her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/19 12:15 PM
4

It's case by case, but I think there's some baseline level of attractiveness needed to pull off 3 and 4. Number 3 implies that she was at least average looking when she was younger, and I doubt that this woman was ever anything close to that. I would think #4 applies to the typical HB3, i.e. ugly but not repugnant. Lots of guys will go for the sure thing first but even the thirstiest, most pathetic guy has his limits. I'm leaning ego protection via self sabotage, but it definitely could be #2 as…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/19 02:43 PM
10

I'm not sure this one is really entitlement. I'm thinking self-sabotage. Subconsciously, she knows that she's a repulsive land whale and that she's going to have a very hard time finding anyone. Rather than face the truth, she's setting unrealistic expectations to preemptively buffer her ego against the inevitable rejection. That way she can tell herself that it's not that no one wants her, but that she's unwilling to compromise her standards. Side note: it's not all that often that you can be s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/05/19 12:14 PM
2

It is a long and very annoying reason why I got married. No, it really isn't. You were Captain Save-a-Ho for your oneitis, and now you regret it. The first step toward living like a free man is admitting to yourself that it isn't your marriage that is preventing you from doing so.
/r/askMRP28/05/19 11:44 AM
3

Talk about delusional. This woman has one of the largest persecution complexes I've ever seen, yet is able to make a living by writing articles about flatulence.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/19 11:35 AM
23

She's speaking kindly about him because she still thinks she can weasel her way back in. As soon as she gives up on that she'll find a way to label him as being abusive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/19 11:57 AM
1

Skip the clubs and work on day game. It's a more laid back vibe and you get to the conversation quickly (and without all the expectations attached).
/r/askTRP16/05/19 05:47 PM
4

Who the hell leads with basically "I look like a child" in a dating profile?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/05/19 12:22 PM
5

Easygoing, Drama free... I could be a bit harsh Does not compute.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/19 04:53 PM
12

I do have piece-mealed relationships but they are so hard to maintain. Good sex with one. Good laughs with the other. AF/BB
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/19 04:44 PM
5

More likely that "abusive" in this case means "occasionally got upset when I berated him for hours on end."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/19 11:35 AM
36

Nope. Fuck her and the cock she rode in on. As an aside, this is a pretty clear indicator that she's not happy with the new guy and another branch swing is imminent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/19 01:08 AM
6

They're still living rent free in your head, and will be as long as you keep up the revenge fantasies. The bottom line is that you were a bitch, they treated you like a bitch, and you learned from it. They exposed your weaknesses when the consequences were minor, and now you're prepared for the higher stakes of adulthood. Don't waste another second worried about how you were treated by a bunch of kids.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 04:58 PM
8

Why do you want to share a home with two women that won't fuck you?
/r/askMRP10/05/19 04:37 PM
8

She isn't looking for an answer. Even this blithering idiot could have come up with a response to those very reasonable questions, something like: "I was engaged, it didn't work out, and being that I was already in my 30s when that ended, I've had a difficult time meeting people." This whole post is just an excuse to bitch about her love life, how it couldn't possibly be her own fault, and that it JUST ISN'T FAIR that men have standards and won't date her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/19 12:10 PM
20

Let's take a look a her history: I don’t add a specific height but I do state that I am 5’10 and would like someone taller than me. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that I agree that there's nothing wrong with standards, but they do narrow the field. How many of the guys that she friendzoned were put there for this reason alone? We attract a mirror of our deepest thoughts and subconscious. If you are depressed you attract depressed people. This is true. I am on meds now for my depressio…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/19 03:50 PM
27

It is unlikely that you will do many things better than me. This woman is the walking embodiment of Dunning-Kruger. She has it all figured out, she's better and more accomplished than anyone, and with such unmatched intelligence and drive nothing can stop her from living the exact sort of life she wants. Oh wait...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/19 07:34 PM
58

This was actually pretty funny.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/19 02:32 PM
6

It's case by case, which is why you should never offer commitment outright. Spin plates for a while and let the problem cases filter themselves out of your life. If one sticks around for long enough for you to evaluate that there aren't any red flags, then you can move on to an LTR.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/19 01:19 PM
3

When women sacrificed their future earning potential to stay home, it made sense for there to be a safety net. But the issue is that the safety net only protects one side, and in the age of no-fault divorce, that net is provided regardless of circumstance. I don't think I could possibly disagree more with what you said about child support. Just do a quick search on the number of men paying child support for kids that aren't theirs. Or men that have been given the privilege of paying the women th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/19 02:14 PM
8

After generations of being screwed by a family court system that is stacked entirely against us, there are only two rational responses: Avoid women entirely Take the same cold, zero-sum approach to protecting our assets as that which has been used to seize them I think risk mitigation is the less bleak option of the two. How far you want to take it is subjective. I don't personally subscribe to the cult of virginity that you sometimes see around here, and really I'm not all that interested in ha…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/19 01:49 PM
5

Those pineapples aren't featured prominently in the picture by coincidence.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/19 12:13 PM
8

I'm not sure I completely buy the n count argument, but this is strictly about risk mitigation. Insurance companies do this all the time with correlation being a high enough standard.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/19 12:02 PM
23

When you rely on another person to validate your emotions, this is where you end up. Guarantee that she's a serial monogamist that has no idea how to function without being in a relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/19 11:32 AM
7

Just say no homo and you're good.
/r/askMRP01/05/19 03:04 PM
6

I just sat there and let it happen to me OP would describe this as "maintaining frame"
/r/askMRP30/04/19 02:25 PM
11

I’m supposed to be happy, upbeat, Why wouldn't you want to be happy? well-dressed, Yes, people over the age of 10 (all of us, not just women) are expected to look presentable when we leave the house. thin but not too thin, To the extent that this is even true, there's a pretty sizable range that would be considered acceptable. But even that probably gives to much credence to her argument, because in the era of "body positivity" fat women are told that it's men's fault for not finding them attrac…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/19 03:19 PM
9

I'm going to tackle this one a bit out of order. Stuck in a loveless, broken marriage. To a classic beta provider. She's probably never been attracted to him, and his provisioning is not what she was expecting. The bills get paid and they lack for nothing, but she isn't getting the princess treatment. With no attraction and substandard provisioning, the "love" has dried up. Outgoing, social, adventure loving woman... Seeking excitement... and that tingling feeling when a new message arrives Bill…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/19 02:53 PM
2

She's not a dom, she's a brat. No self-respecting dom would talk about their temper or feel the need to preemptively explain their massive bush. This is all about pushing the right guy to challenge her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/19 03:24 PM
3

It's a shit test... treat it accordingly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/19 03:16 PM
5

Holy shit, it's truly pathetic just how far some of them will go.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/19 11:50 AM
4

And, if anyone else is in Chicago...... This is the cue for the betas to give her the validation she's otherwise missing and, quite honestly, probably the main reason that she posted this crap. Between that and "it's my birthday, everyone celebrate me!!" I can only imagine how many orbiters she has in her PMs right now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/19 06:25 PM
3

Seems like it could be a coping mechanism in response to trauma, where they disassociate by "becoming" someone else and witnessing the event from the 3rd person. I've only met one person who claims to have this disorder, and she was a mess in other ways as well. Really good looking too, but as soon as she started talking about "Roxy" coming out when she drinks I got the hell out of there lol.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/19 06:02 PM
3

I can't take credit for inventing the word but happy I could share it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/19 04:21 PM
3

i have a disorder called MPD (multiple personality disorder) I like how she buried that on page 24 of her womanifesto.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/19 12:28 PM
11

And if anyone were to use the word in that context, it would be "proof of rampant misogyny." I can practically hear the screechtards: "When it's a man he's either ambitious or persistent, but a woman is ruthless. Why do they hate us so much?"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/19 12:10 PM
6

Relationships often pussify men, and women despise men that act like pussies. No big mystery what's happening here.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/04/19 12:05 PM
6

In a 2016 study from the journal Evolutionary Psychology, showed that many women prefered altruism over physical attraction when choosing a long-term mate. Yet when a woman is looking for a mate, she's far more likely to hit up the gym than the local soup kitchens where she'd find tons of altruistic volunteers. Always judge by actions, not words.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/19 01:20 PM
26

What's funny is that most of them would turn around and accuse the men on the other side of the screen of cheating on their SO and the contradiction wouldn't even register.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/19 12:20 PM
70

No paternity test because her ex was black. OP was also clearly betabux: I asked her if she still loved him and she paused for a minute then said yes but not in same way she loves me and that you don't just stop loving someone that love changes. Read: alpha widowed. "Love" for betas, on the other hand, can be flicked off like a light switch.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/19 06:17 PM
141

Checked his history, he ended up divorcing her. Good man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/19 06:04 PM
99

Every relationship has gone to shit and everyone she matches with is awful. The problem is clearly the dozens upon dozens of different people she references and in no possible way could it be the one person who has been the common denominator throughout.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/19 03:33 PM
1

He's already been preselected as a beta by the woman who cucked him, so his only function in their eyes is to be an ATM for their fuck trophies. If he's not doing that, he's worthless. Notice how none of them (in that thread or anywhere else) say that they wouldn't date the guy that knocked her up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/19 11:43 AM
1

I actually don't hate that idea, because it throws the mother's "think of the kid" tactic right back in her face. I wouldn't do it and I doubt OP will, but it's better than the cucks encouraging him to share custody.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/19 11:40 AM
17

Hard pass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/19 02:24 PM
4

They comment on her instagram with “🤤😍” like she’ll actually reciprocate lol. And you know this because you're quietly stalking her IG rather than gaming her in person.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 12:06 PM
3

... but thus far I have said no to him each time he's asked. If I was 25, I'd have said yes in a heartbeat. This is the giveaway. She's currently dating the betabux guy but still wants to leave herself wiggle room for an "it just happened" moment with the younger guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/19 11:53 AM
5

Need pics to see if she needs them or not.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:42 PM
12

Who gives a shit if it’s impersonal? Dating’s a numbers game, right? More numbers, more chances! *Rolls eyes*. This is just a complete inability to understand life from a perspective other than her own. She has no idea that men have to manufacture our own abundance, that we have to weed out the ones that would be more than happy to waste our time without a second thought, that the "numbers game" she purports to despise is actually the primary reason why the playing field is so tilted in her favo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/19 01:44 PM
1

Feminists are already angling to weaponize the courts on this, calling it rape by deception.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/19 12:01 PM
25

And you already know who it is that she'll be fucking. She says more about her ex than she does herself. She'll be fucking him again the minute he needs an easy lay.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/19 11:50 AM
6

Because despite her numerous statements to the contrary, she's deeply insecure about her ever expanding waistline and she knows that OLD is a goldmine for spineless simps that will compliment anything with a vagina.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/04/19 02:15 PM
20

Way too many ESH responses on the original thread. He did nothing wrong morally, and since this wasn't in the US he may also be in the clear legally. The guy didn't realize it, but he was just a stepping stone to a better provider anyway. His job was to get her through medical school, at which point he was to be discarded so she could chase after doctors.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/04/19 07:57 PM
1

Woof... you'd need an entire can of spray paint to hide those jowls.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/04/19 03:32 PM
19

She came about as close as I've seen to taking ownership of her situation and seems to have improved herself without taking the standard "Will Fuck For Food" route on Tinder/Bumble/OKC. She even acknowledged that her bf may not ever want kids without resorting to any "man up" shaming tactics. I'll give this one a pass (though to be clear, she is 100% responsible for her current predicament).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/19 01:07 PM
5

As I said on the original post, the fiancee got downgraded to plate as soon as she brought up the open relationship, she just wasn't aware of it at the time. Now that the plate is causing more trouble than she's worth, he let it break. He even found a new LTR to complete the branch swing reversal. Well played sir, well played. This is the only rational response when a woman approaches you about an open relationship after you've already been monogamous for years. Don't end the relationship, just …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/19 12:20 PM
2

She's projecting. She wants a loudmouthed asshole that will inevitably leave her, so she portrays herself as such in her profile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/19 12:12 PM
78

The strategically placed map to hide the fact that she's currently pregnant is a nice touch.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/19 12:10 PM
11

Good catch. She thought she was just shaming all the men who agreed that marriage is a shit deal for us, but in the process of doing so she made her own motivation for seeking commitment crystal clear.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/04/19 04:00 PM
12

He's still in shock. The anger hasn't hit him yet, but it will hit him with the impact of a freight train when it finally does.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/19 02:26 PM
11

That's his new LTR, and she's now just a plate. She just doesn't know it yet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/19 02:20 PM
2

She actually had the audacity to tell him that he needs to sacrifice what he values (sexual fidelity) while still respecting what she wants (emotional security), so he did the only sensible thing and demoted her to a plate. What did she think was going to happen? He's lucky though, because a smarter woman would have waited until he was legally bound to her before pulling this shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/19 02:18 PM
28

AF/BB x4 (possibly 5, paternity test pending)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/19 02:02 PM
240

The wife's reaction says it all. The kids are grown, the house is paid for, and her pension has been secured. His betabux duties have been fulfilled and she no longer has any use for him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/19 01:54 PM
18

Four of the kids are grown and fully aware of the situation, and even the youngest is a teenager. Leaving his wife is no impediment to maintaining a relationship with any of them. He wants to remain in the marriage because he's afraid of his wife.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/19 01:51 PM
1

My guess would be that this was a guy having some fun. Pic could be his ex.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/19 01:35 PM
1

If Chris Farley was an unfunny woman...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/19 03:33 PM
3

I think everyone can look for whatever they desire. Well, unless one part is middle aged and the other hasn't even had their frontal lobe mature yet. (Meaning 40 and 20) Translation: "Since men preferring younger women affects me personally, I disapprove of that specific preference."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/19 03:44 PM
5

It seems like every profile says the same thing ...she says, at the end of a profile replete with all cliches you'd expect from the standard post-wall hag.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/19 03:15 PM
18

More likely that some guy with a 5 incher told her that it was 8 and she believed him.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/19 01:58 PM
13

Right. I remember being really proud about both when I was a junior in high school, but as a functioning adult I can't imagine why either would be something to brag about.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/19 01:53 PM
11

It doesn't start off all that badly, but once the train goes off the rails... Holy Shit!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/19 01:31 PM
2

There was the soccer player who called me his girlfriend for one whole day. Read: P&Ded by the athlete she thought she could lock down There was the lost soul I travelled to London for in the hope that our hot mess of a dating scenario would turn into something more serious (spoiler alert: it didn’t) The mysterious foreign guy who turned out to be pretty boring once she spent some time with him the journo I left for a slightly older TV presenter, Hypergamy in action. Journo is lower on the corpo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/19 01:27 PM
32

What she beings to the table: - Capable of feeding herself - Owns a car - Employed ...and apparently that's it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/03/19 12:56 PM
3

Why bother with multiple pictures when they're all the same dumb look from the same shitty angle?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/19 03:57 PM
4

Pretty much the same for me. I was giving all my fucks to her when that's not really what either of us wanted. Biggest lesson was that "happy wife, happy life" has it completely backwards. Now I just focus all my fucks on myself and figure that everyone in my life will be happy as a result (because if they aren't, I just cut them out of it).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/19 01:46 PM
2

Her profile does mention that she comes with a package...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/19 11:58 AM
2

Intent: isn't seeking a relationship or any kind of commitment and then: About (blank): ...I need a man who is loyal and willing to give all his love and attention to me... So she wants her orbiters to be 100% committed while she indiscriminately rides the CC? "Diva" sounds about right...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/19 11:54 AM
5

Sometimes divorce is exactly what a guy needs to just stop giving a fuck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/19 11:32 AM
8

I know the type well. She created this entire Tinder persona as a form of catharsis because in real life she's always the one catching feelings for the unattainable guys.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/19 12:16 PM
45

This will become the new norm for failed branch swings as these sorts of relationships become more widely accepted. She took a new dick for a test run, either wasn't impressed or got dumped, and then manufactured some drama to close the relationship back up. I don't think she actually cared that he had multiple women fucking him, and if anything it raised his status in her eyes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/19 05:12 PM
1

Exactly. All she's asking for is plausible deniability.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/19 05:33 PM
5

What I mean is that you're the one she's fucking, so who cares what she says about some kink? Either she's shit testing you, or she's comfortable enough with you to be overtly sexual and open up. Both are ultimately ways of flirting.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 05:22 PM
5

Ignore what she says and watch what she does. Who is she fucking, the lumberjack or you?
/r/askTRP18/03/19 04:49 PM
2

I think the premise is what's unreasonable. If a woman is trying to attract a partner by posting a list of demands to social media, she shouldn't be surprised when she ends up getting a barrage of messages from spineless, supplicating simps. Those are the only guys that are going to see a list like this and respond positively.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/19 11:32 AM
14

The most puzzling thing is you actually call these men who wont commit as "great guys" like what the hell? This is like calling a player a confused caring man. From one of the commenters. It actually triggered her to see a post where OP doesn't automatically bash the guys as if they're broken for not wanting to commit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/03/19 02:06 AM
48

Women will treat you as poorly as you let them. Sounds like the step-daughter took her mother's lessons to heart. Not really related but I found this gem in the comments: As a woman who got dealt a deadbeat addict, abusive piece of crap for my sons father I'm amazed. I found a great guy who has been there for us. She was "dealt" a POS (i.e. wasn't her fault) but "found" a great guy (she deserves credit for his contributions).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/19 01:43 PM
2

I don't know, that last line sounds quite a bit like when women tell friendzoned simps that they're a "great guy" and how someday all the women he's after will come around. Like the internet equivalent of a side hug + shoulder pat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/19 12:55 AM
5

Why not the 3rd question? Why should a guy be required to waste time when a potential deal breaker is staring him in the face? I can't tell by the pic, but I'd bet my entire savings that "the weak, the scared, or the insecure" is a betaboy white knight that's been living in this chick's DMs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/19 12:42 AM
18

Even putting the poor planning on her part aside, this is not a difficult problem to solve. Just broach the subject early on and see what kind of reaction follows. The same way that men polarize in a pickup scenario to make sure that we aren't wasting our time, she can do the same. Of course that means that she risks rejections, so she'll probably just continue what she's doing and then blame men when nothing changes for her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/19 12:38 AM
1

This woman has been beaten with a small forest's worth of ugly sticks and still has that better-than-you scowl on her face in every picture. Every sentence is negative and not a goddamn thing mentioned about what she brings to the table other than enough kids to fill a youth basketball team's starting line up plus a sub. Can't pass hard enough on this one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/19 12:11 PM
13

My guess would be that she's unhappily married (the "look, no ring" pose is a little too obvious), away on business, and looking for an out of town AP to fund her weekend getaways.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/19 06:36 PM
1

Why doesn't she just find some 20 year old guy that's down on his luck and could use a decent lay? She'll hamster something about maturity but she knows damn well that it's because she isn't attracted to men that age.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/19 02:05 PM
1

Help Wanted: Looking for a simp that is smart enough to earn a living but dumb enough to let me leech off of him for the next 12-15 years. Position requires 24 hour on call availability. Compensation is routine duty sex, paid monthly. Message for more details, but be advised that unoriginal cover letters will be ignored.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/19 03:07 PM
1

If someone is walking close behind me, I'll hold the door long enough for them to grab it from me. If that person is elderly, injured, or disabled then I'll hold the door and let them through. I fail to see where gender even enters the equation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/19 02:58 PM
3

The paradox of choice is very real, so there's some validity to the claim that dating has its difficulties for women and/or extremely attractive people. However, that claim becomes laughable once people like Friar Cuck start comparing it to the experience of a bottom 80% man. Think of it this way. A person can walk out of a restaurant extremely dissatisfied if they're given too many menu options, because the opportunity costs outweighed the satisfaction gained from what they ultimately chose. Bu…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/19 02:50 PM
1

Yup. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/19 01:11 PM
9

I'm not just gonna settle for some guy That's fine, aim as high as you'd like. My question for her would have been about what she's bringing to the table so that she isn't just "some girl" that she expects her perfect guy to settle for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/19 04:50 AM
9

She got the alpha seed that she needed so now she wants to find Billy to raise it. Pretty straightforward. Actually about as close as you'll get to an outright admission of the dual mating strategy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/03/19 04:42 AM
13

What species is that?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/19 06:02 PM
3

She's morbidly obese, she has a face so hideous that her chins appear to be running from it, she has 4 kids... yet she still offers nothing in her profile but the usual shaming tactics. Just sad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/19 05:24 PM
27

This is an inability to see the world from any perspective that isn't her own. The guys she's personally dealt with recently are indifferent toward her and unable to make accommodations for her, so she assumes that men as a whole are the same about everything. She had her well defined plan for her life all laid out, and right around 35 is when Mr. Perfect was scripted to walk into her life and instantly make her the center of his universe. With every passing day she's starting to realize that he…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/19 04:02 PM
2

I love how she's found a way to make herself the victim when describing her ex's contemplation of suicide.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/19 06:43 PM
21

She won't respond to low effort openers like "Hey" but was so lazy that she copy/pasted the Conversation Starters section... entitlement run amok.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/19 01:28 PM
22

you can afford to be a little bit directionless in your 20s. ...when you know that some simp will bail you out in your 30s.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/19 07:20 PM
3

"Solid friendship that will eventually lead..." Instead, she wants to keep a small cadre of backups as she sorts through her options and selects the one that best suits her needs. Hard pass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/19 02:52 PM
2

She can be assured that I've never sent a dick pic to the military or cops. Comma usage is important.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/19 06:20 PM
5

He's how I would woo her. I'm 6'3 with 11% body fat and conventionally good looking. Profile pictures include a beach pic of me with my surf board, a "respectable" way of showing my abs and tattoos. Also explicitly says I'm married but like to play. Opening message... it doesn't matter. Messages aren't for filtering potential matches. They're supplemental feelz that she isn't getting from the guys she's fucking. She'll fuck the guy she's physically attracted to, then read all her lovey dovey mes…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/19 06:13 PM
4

"What did I do to you to cause you to not be a gentleman?' ...as she screams in his face, attempting to shame him for the crime of failing to show proper deference in the presence of Almighty Woman. This is why you don't take shit tests seriously. She wanted to pick a fight, get a response, and then play the victim. Everyone's refusal to engage was the worst possible thing that could have happened from her POV.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/19 05:45 PM
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She truly believes that she can plan this sort of thing out perfectly, as if everything will fall into place at her appointed time. Why wouldn't she believe that? Modern feminism has taught her that she deserves to have it all, and any impediment to her having it all must be sexism. Furthermore, she has always had hordes of men and women catering to her for her entire life. It's rational to assume that everything will work out as you want it to when your entire life experience has consisted of p…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/19 05:39 PM
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"Post wall mother of four seeking plowhorse to fund gambling problem."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/19 07:26 PM
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What the fuck is that?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/19 03:10 PM
3

The sad part is that I came away from this impressed at her ability to use capital letters, type in complete sentences, and limit her grammatical mistakes. It's really sad how low the bar has gotten. Find me on FB and IG!! The real point of creating her Tinder profile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/19 03:06 PM
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Because they’re getting every benefit of a relationship A tacit admission that she brings nothing to the table but a set of warm holes. without having to actually commit. Translation: I'm appalled that men are spending their lives tending to their own wants and needs instead of immediately bending to my will. Don't they know that I, as almighty woman, am entitled to whatever I demand and that his only job is to cater to me?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/19 06:00 PM
1

Is vs ought. I agree that things should be equal, but they never will be because women hold the biological trump card. Given the current state of affairs, I actually expect things to get worse for men, not better. I don't think I'm hiding from the problem so much as taking responsibility for myself. It's not just in regard to sex but anything. Leave as little to chance as possible and never put my well being in someone else's hands if I can handle it myself. It's a harder way to live, but my pea…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/19 01:35 PM
1

It's almost like I addressed that exact point in the comment above... we need to look out for our own well being because, as men, ultimately no one else really gives a fuck about us. Ideally a woman would at least consider the man's input when deciding what to do with the pregnancy, but that's fantasy. We have no reproductive rights... If you want to continue to put your future in the hands of a woman based on the fact that she "can" do something about a pregnancy, go right ahead. I'm going to c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/19 12:40 PM
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Disagree with this line of thinking. Men take responsibility for themselves, and in this instance it means that he should have wrapped it up. If this was an LTR and she was using BC, he should have made sure that she was keeping up with it. I'm not saying that it's right or wrong, just highlighting the reality that we need to look out for our own well being because, as men, ultimately no one else really gives a fuck about us. Ideally a woman would at least consider the man's input when deciding …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/02/19 03:15 PM
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And if she got lonely or horny, the solution was 1 swipe away. She may not have "dated" in the conventional sense, but I doubt that she was alone that whole time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/19 02:58 PM
1

Because what's going to eventually happen is that she's going to decide that she doesn't want to suffer the humiliation of parading (at least) 5 guys in to be DNA tested, and she's going to pick the one who she wants to be the father. She'll lie and tell him that he was the only one she fucked that month, and do everything in her power to prevent him from doing the DNA test. If he insists, she'll paint him as abusive so that he's still the asshole for leaving her behind. Then it's on to her seco…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/19 03:09 PM
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Yeah, this one nailed it in once sentence: There is not a shortage of princes… there’s just an abundance of rather average (and now common) career women who think they’re all princesses because 40 years of feminism said you’re all princesses and you’re all going to HAVE IT ALL. ​
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/19 02:44 PM
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Yeah but those guys are losers. Men that ride the bus don't even register because they should own a car, even if they don't want one and live in a city where a car isn't practical. Women who ride the bus, on the other hand, can be assumed to be "intelligent and successful" without any other information. Because sexism...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/19 02:37 PM
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Meanwhile I have been here almost a year and I basically have yet to go on a SECOND date (like a real date, not breakfast the next morning) It couldn't possibly be due to your shit personality and entitled attitude. Nope, clearly the reason you can't get a second date is sexism smh. Unbelievable...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/19 02:32 PM
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The offer to split is pretty gracious on his part given that she asked him to dinner. That said, I don't really fault her for trying. It's not like she got him out to the date and then "accidentally" forgot to bring some method of payment. She was extremely upfront about her intentions, and any simp that goes along with it deserves what they get.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/19 01:11 PM
16

I'd settle for merely handling their daily obligations without complaining, taking ownership of their missteps, and paying their own debts.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/19 12:58 PM
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I rarely think of the "real man" idiocy as actually being intended for men. To me it just seems like they're pandering to the "you go girl!" brigade in their efforts to blame men for their own shortcomings. Can't find a date? It must be because there aren't any "real men" out there that can "handle" being with a strong, independent woman.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/19 12:55 PM
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Translation: I wish just one of the many great guys I turned away while I was "finding myself" (i.e. riding the CC) would come back around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/19 12:33 PM
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I mean, if we're going to go full pedant, we'll go to the dictionary definition. Specifically, these two: 4 any offense, serious wrongdoing, or sin. 5 a foolish, senseless, or shameful act:It's a crime to let that beautiful garden go to ruin. I think my point was obvious enough though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 06:09 PM
10

Pretty much thought crime then. Sorry but this just screams insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:59 PM
8

Where do you draw the line? Does it need to be full on porn, or is the softcore Cinemax stuff just as bad? Is reading erotica and masturbating also cheating? What about thinking about a past hookup while masturbating? How about an attractive person that you don't have history with? I'm trying to figure out what it is about porn specifically that makes it so that an activity you practice on your own is somehow cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:48 PM
3

You know, because equality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/19 05:31 PM
1

There is some truth the version of the nice guy you're rejecting though. It's not always malicious, but the idea of tailoring their "nice" behavior based upon the expectation of some future reward (i.e. covert contracts) is widespread. - If I'm nice to the attractive young woman in accounting, she'll give me a chance - If I always go out of my way to help my friends even when they don't ask, they'll do the same for me - Instead of asking my boss for a raise directly, I'll just work even harder a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:28 PM
2

I've just realized how much of the advice people give to men is always a way of attacking them and making women feel like the victim. Every fucking time, it's got to be a deficiency in men. Women can do no wrong. This x 100. I've even heard it described as "toxic masculinity" when women slut shame other women. People mostly suck... and that applies to men and women equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:12 PM
1

Dylan took the picture. Why should he pay for the abortion when she can get Billy to do it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/01/19 05:02 PM
2

Most women are extremely empathetic as long as they can realistically see themselves as being in that same position at some point. If not, zero fucks given. That's why a guy can find out after 17 years that his kid isn't actually his, that his entire adult life has been a lie, and that at this late in life he'll never have kids of his own, and she'll just shrug her shoulders and say he should appreciate that he got to form a bond with some other guy's kid (and that he's the "real" dad anyway).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/19 01:33 PM
2

It's simple math given that it's about a 50/50 male-female population split . If older men are dating all the younger women, then by rule there's a large pool of younger men available for these older women. Yet not a single mention of this as an option in the article. Who's really invisible here? Older men have a preference toward younger women: shame men for having preferences Older women ignore younger men because that isn't their preference: you go girl! Never settle for less than you deserve…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/19 01:21 PM
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I noticed that most of my one night stands or multi night stands...the two guys I slept with On rare occasions boys I just meet really like me and even fall for me, despite after sleeping with me...the two guys I slept with I mean I like most men I sleep with. I end up liking them, even though I know theyre not right for me...the two guys I slept with They dont know that i sleep around...the two guys I slept with most of these men we wouldnt be seeing each other for long after one night. We met …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/01/19 02:39 PM
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I don't really care about the number, but I do wonder how she would have reacted if the roles were reversed. If she had asked him and his response was, "I'm not entirely sure, but more or less I've been fucking a new girl every month for the past 7 years," would she have just shrugged and left it in the past? Doubtful. More likely that her ensuing screed would have been about "fuck bois" or "players" and the white knights commenting on it would have been falling all over themselves to placate he…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/19 01:11 PM
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I usually figure it's that their "approach" wasn't an approach at all. She thinks that holding eye contact for an extra half second and fixing her hair counts as an approach. When the guy doesn't immediately jump at it, he's "rejecting" her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/19 01:25 PM
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" Given his lifestyle i wasnt overly worried hed be hooking up with all these random girls " Translation: "I know that this arrangement goes against his better interest and puts him in an incredibly awkward position, but that's not my problem. We're both following the same rules, so what's the problem? It's also not a competition and he should just be happy that I'm getting to experience thi... WHAT?!?!? He's getting laid? How could he do this to poor innocent me?" I hope he pretended to play al…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/12/18 07:08 PM
1

"In the toilet" with the rest of the turds. I'm trying really hard to find a single redeeming quality but so far coming up blank.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/18 07:13 PM
1

If she doesn't want to fuck you, no amount of favors will matter. If she does want to fuck you, no favors will be required. In any case, if you're doing favors for sex, you're wasting your time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/18 06:27 PM
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it occurs to me she may have had a kid in the past year and this is a cat fishing/ ego stroke as a single mom Ding ding ding, we have a winner. Pics from "the last year to year and a half" is the dead giveaway.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/18 03:38 PM
1

A woman's income is at best a secondary consideration for me. It's a nice bonus, but would never be a determining factor in whether or not I would want to date her. And if the financial income came at the expense of having enough quality time together, then I probably wouldn't be interested. All of your reasons for why a woman's career success should be more highly valued are completely rational, but the problem is that for men attraction is not rational. Actually attraction isn't rational for a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 07:47 PM
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In most cases they don't want you to actually open up, they want you to go through the motions of opening up while saying all the things that they want to hear. It's all about validating her ego. In this instance, you're supposed to validate two things: That she's such an incredible woman that even the stone cold alpha melts in her presence, and she gets to experience that inner softness that no one else does That she's such an attentive partner and her "woman's intuition" is so keen that she al…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/18 03:56 PM
1

Chivalry, in the sense that feminists use it, is nothing more than an a la carte approach to gender roles. It's entitlement run amok.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/18 04:31 PM
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"Women have always been the primary victims of war" - Hillary Clinton That quote sums it up about as cleanly as possible. Not the billions of men that have been slaughtered in combat. Not the tortured POWs. Not the commanders that knowingly had to send people they've grown close with to their death. Not the 18 year old kid drafted right out of high school, sent into a war that he couldn't even vote on since the voting age was still 21 (but Hillary could!), permanently disfigured and mentally ang…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/18 06:12 PM
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Better yet, walk to the bar and find a different girl to take home. The one he came to the club with just disqualified herself from being his problem any longer.
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