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It's like mediation for post divorce issues. When its just you and the court, you basically have to file a motion to get anything enforced. Having the parental coordinator provides an arbitrator for issues that can result in immediate feedback, even as simple as 'mrs. X, if you neglect to 'thing' one more time, I will give mr. Y my complete support if he files a motion for sanctions', meaning if you show up with a motion to a judge with the court assigned parental coordinator already on your sid…
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 09:56 PM
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to our judge's credit (a woman), by time she had 'seen enough', she was literally yelling at my ex's attorney in court for trying to continue my ex's false narrative. 'Patrick... JUST STOP!' as patrick (her attorney) kept trying to make stupid claims, and when he tried again judge had a meltdown and yelled so loud my parents heard her outside the court room and down the hall. She was absolutely pissed this nonsense made it on to her docket. At the final hearing before the trial, everyone went ba…
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/25 02:09 PM
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You're clearly correct about the rule. I have PTSD from trying to follow the rules all the while my ex couldn't follow a court order to save her life and nothing ever came of it.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/25 06:26 PM
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Yea, this is one of those situations where 'FU Money' is technically 'correct', but it's a posture that gets you ran over and your ex runs away with your shit.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/25 03:14 PM
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tbh, I would ask chatgpt!
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/25 03:06 PM
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Firm schedule. Parental coordinator on retainer. (basically a post divorce custody mediator) *knowing I can just call 'susan' and inform her of my ex's misgivings (to ex's credit, she's been great lately) the same day it happens, versus having to call my lawyer, file a motion, get a hearing, etc. is priceless. Having Susan lay down the law within 24 hours of an incident has been absolutely priceless.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/25 03:05 PM
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Ok. It was very much a strategy in my case and to avoid trial, with GAL and my attorney both arguing in open court 'dad has tried to settle this multiple times' and last attempt was incredibly generous. Maybe it's just indicative of how family courts are a free for all. But even if the offer itself isn't 'admissable' the knowledge can still get to a judge and be used as a larger strategy. It was also used in my ex's psych eval as evidence she was being intentionally high conflict. People, if you…
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/25 02:42 PM
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Settlement offers can be used strategically to establish you were the party trying to settle and keep this case out of court. So when you end up at trial you can posture your opponent as the reason the court is necessary.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/25 04:59 AM
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Bring the issue up at the next hearing. Maybe even file a motion expressing your concerns and say you need the authority or the court to stress to mom how things work. You could ask for an order allowing you to inspect moms vehicle to check her work. Other than that, play nice and ask politely to help Mom make sure the kids are all buckled up. Get her reaction documented and use it at the next hearing.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 03:54 AM
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Delete hinge. Don't do that. I could write a lot but instead I'll say a messy divorce is awful. Instead of pulling back due to dissatisfaction, remember what it is you loved about your wife and sit with that. Then give her like 3 months of unconditional love and affection. Do all the things. Imagine you were still dating and trying to convince her you are a good potential husband. Just try it. Let all the resentment go and just love the fuck out of her. See what happens. If it's still sour, go. …
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/25 03:41 AM
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there were multiple incidents in my divorce where my attorney advised we hold off on confronting my ex wife and instead let her keep lying.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/25 03:46 AM
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Mine has had the usb cable for the dash cam that is supposed to be tucked along side the A pillar trip hangin out in clear view in what was our minivan for the past two years. Literally no attempt to fix what is a 3 minute job. I bought the same minivan and it literally took me 3 minutes to get the wire for my dash cam tucked away.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/24 01:33 PM
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I mean, even what your lawyer tells her or her attorney. Do everything by the book. Refute lies with facts, say as little as possible.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/24 12:36 AM
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War path needs to be subtle. Keep quiet on any scorched earth plans, and save those for the final inning if the game is close and needs a hail mary. Otherwise, if she's desperate enough, she'll most certainly try and frame your war path as signs of habitual abuse and that she was right all along.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/24 11:58 PM
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True, but consider that if two rational adults aren't engaging in a hostile divorce, they likely filled out some forms online and settled the divorce in like 6 hours. Those people don't need support forums. Almost everyone here is getting fucked and dragged through the mud one way or another.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/24 03:59 AM
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The hard part about moving past denial is the anger stage is a valley since it's difficult to not be angry when you're constantly antagonized.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/24 03:58 AM
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Could be worse. I got forced out. Similar family dynamic as yours but 3 little kids involved and it turned into a massive brawl for custody. Not trying to one up you at all, just give you some reasons to say 'it could be worse '. Pivot hard, show her you're better off without her and her family.
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/24 04:40 AM
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There's no way she paid $7k to contest $38.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 03:39 AM
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Court ordered
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/24 07:39 PM
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Same with my ex. I'm almost certain my ex is bpd. Just spent $11k on a psych eval. I actually told the evaluator that I learned about BPD from r/bpdlovedones and my ex has behaved exactly like everyone describes on that subreddit. That when trying to make sense of my ex, nothing makes sense, but when I read that sub, it's remarkable how relatable it is. I was also able to use the DSM-5, that I ironically had access to when I was dating a therapist who specialized in treating BPD, and organized e…
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/24 05:52 AM
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My wife went bonkers after starting Adderall. She thinks she's fine and everyone else is the problem. She's absolutely out of touch with reality. I just spent $11,000 on a psychiatric evaluation (results not yet in) and the cost of the eval is due to how crazy she's been since we separated. She's like a wacked out meth head but hides behind the Adderall being prescribed. I believe she will end up in jail.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 05:29 PM
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I'm just a random guy, but for what it's worth, I've found physical therapists to be significantly better at being chiropractors than chiropractors are at being chiropractors. I won't go near chiropractors anymore. Anything they can do, my PT can do, but with a wider skillset to consider a broader set of possibilities. Big ups on therapy. Therapists aren't our friends. They can be honest/real with you w/o fear of fucking up their friendship with you. Friends/family just can't offer that. Plus ve…
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/24 03:41 AM
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"Look, admit it or don't admit it. I know you cheated. Our marriage is over. If you want to deflect blame to me and drag me through the mud, I'll be happy to oblige the fight, and the only thing you'll win is more people knowing the truth"
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/24 02:25 AM
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A chat app will only get you so far. The door has opened for you to reinvent yourself. I probably sound like a broken record here, but focus on yourself and your physical and mental health. Go to the gym, sign up for a class, etc.Find a local church. Even if you don't believe, surrounding yourself with friendly people with loving attitudes can keep the darkness at bay.Go get a massage. It's intimate and it will help satisfy your need to be touched. (serious).
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 11:21 PM
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Aggressive attorneys arent always good attorneys. My ex's is 'aggressive' but he's also a clown. Got yelled at by the judge at our last hearing in a way in which you could see the judge instantly lose all respect for the guy.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/24 05:34 AM
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Yep and then they put your name and face on the strawman they create in their mind to scapegoat for all the problems they created. It's like they fabricate a villain for some false hero's journey they go on to misdirect attention away from their own unstable behavior.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/24 05:26 AM
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How someone who makes $20k per month and stands to owe that much alimony isn't lawyered up already is beyond me.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/24 05:21 AM
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Yes, right now. W/o consequence, not only does she keep doing it, but as she gets away with it, she'll be more encouraged to do it more often. Then when you finally bring a long list of violations into the court, the judge asks why you didn't say anything sooner and might assume you don't care.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/24 07:47 PM
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I haven't changed it yet but I was thinking something like 'The Main Character'
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 11:22 PM
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Yea mine had pretty severe post after three back to back pregnancies. But it seemed to cause permanent damage which now manifests as BPD. This is what psych evals are for tho.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 03:26 AM
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She sounds BPD. Check out r/bpdlovedones If the stories are relatable then look into BPD. The disorder is often the only thing that explains the unexplainable.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 03:17 AM
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No problem! Best of luck. If you have the budget, consider requesting psychiatric evaluations. One for you, to get a clear bill of health, and two, for her, so you can show all of your evidence of wrongdoing to the evaluator in hopes your ex will catch a diagnosis.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 02:30 AM
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I would get a motion for psychiatric evaluations and use your evidence there. What you might see as evidence of your ex breaking the law against you, might be better purposed as evidence of your ex having a psychiatric disorder.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 02:26 AM
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One thing you CAN use this evidence for is psychiatric evaluations. You'll very unlikely get any reasonable time to show evidence in court. Even if you show it in court, it's to legal minded people who aren't going to make a diagnosis. Consider learning about psychiatric evaluations and how you can present a case to your evaluator that your ex is violent, deceptive, and willing to defraud the courts to mess with your life. Then even if you don't get a good shake in court, you might still walk aw…
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 02:25 AM
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I caught false DV accusations as well. I place a lot of my anger on the plethora of shitty, violent men who have created the precedent that if there's DV accusations being made by a woman against a man, statistically, she's telling the truth, and law enforcement has to lean into that. What's evil is the women who use that statistic to their advantage.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 02:21 AM
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Pets are family. I don't see bitching, I see grieving.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 02:18 AM
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When I threatened to leave my ex, she first told me that if I didn't take my cat, she'd let the cat out the front door and 'hopes that she dies'.. and said that in front of our kids. And then after that texted me that if I didn't take my cat, she'd take her up to the vet and have her put to sleep. While the threats aren't really anything more than harassment (sorta illegal?), if she had acted on either threat in my state, she'd have gone to prison.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 02:17 AM
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I'm not a lawyer, but I would talk to a lawyer and have them draft up a settlement offer that is as close to what the court prefers of two reasonable, healthy, willing to coparent respectfully adults. Be willing to cut some losses to move on with your life. At minimum create a trail of attempts to settle the divorce out of court with very reasonable terms. If she doesn't respond or do anything, you can pin the need for a trial on her because she'll have to prove reasons why she should't have set…
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 02:14 AM
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This is a long game. You let her talk shit now while you keep your head down and do right by your children. Eventually people will learn she was full of shit and that's where the karma comes in.
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/23 01:17 AM
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This is parental kidnapping. If you're the custodial parent and you don't have custody, and someone else has the child without your permission, the child has been kidnapped. File a missing person report, and if your ex is going to violate court orders like this, take the gloves off. Make sure to tell the police your ex is mentally ill and has threatened to kidnap the kids before.
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/23 07:35 PM
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that sounds like a horrible idea
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/23 12:53 AM
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If she's already made you aware she felt unsafe in the home, she's 100% setting things up for false DV accusations and you might wake up the next morning with order of protection that evicts you from the home with no opportunity to gather belongings or anything. Then she spends the next 90 days or so (until you get the OP thrown out ) alone in the house, selling YOUR shit on craiglist to pay HER attorney.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 10:22 PM
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If it's contested, it will be a LOT more than $2500. I make $60k per year, and I've already spent $40,000 and am looking at another $10,000 for my ex wife's psychiatric evaluation. And she's been so crazy the evaluation is probably going to be the best $10,000 I'll ever spend.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 10:21 PM
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When I was a bachelor with an alcoholic roommate, even with having to cleanup after that guy, it wasn't 'that' much work. As a stay at home parent with 3 little kids and 4 cats who were constantly trashing the place, 'housework' was actually significant. Remove the 3 kids and 4 cats, and I agree, it wouldn't be that much.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/23 02:31 AM
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I didn't pick the wrong woman, she just changed and became the wrong woman.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/23 02:04 AM
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Just setup cameras everywhere. Also setup dummy cameras too just to add to the impression you can see everything she's doing. Get a cop to do a civil standby.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/23 02:30 AM
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Mine won't agree to curbside exchanges because she's scared of me, but when I get a court order that says I'm the only person supposed to be at the bus stop to drop off my kids before school, she still shows up, tells me I'm not allowed to be there, in front of other parents, and starts filming me while yelling that I'm invading her personal space. Fucker can't agree to let me pickup or dropoff the kids at the marital home because she's scared of me, but not scared enough to not violate a court …
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/23 03:21 AM
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If you get on apps, consider a brutally honest approach of stating you're going through a divorce and you're wanting to date casually. The dating world is hard so if you're going through a divorce and NOT focusing on physical fitness, You're going to have a hard time. Join a gym, find a therapist.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/23 04:13 PM
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Yea, if she's that far gone, you should be more focused on preventing false DV accusations. You might be jolly thinking about quietly moving out and moving on with your life, only to wake up to a restraining order with a dozen or so patently false statements about you beating the shit out of her, etc. and not even getting a chance to move your stuff out, because you can't come home, and by time you get back to the house, she already sold your shit on craigslist to pay for HER lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/23 03:33 AM
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I wish I never cried in front of my ex. She had PPD and cried all the time. I cried once and she brought it up in her deposition as evidence I was unstable.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/23 09:46 AM
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Unless you can prove your ex is an absolutely heinous individual, which is hard to do, 50/50 is what's best. Kids need their mom and dad. Being a single parent with sole custody is incredibly difficult, so unless you're rich AF with a majorly impressive support system, having full and sole custody might be 'bad' for the kids in the court's eyes because they'll think there's a higher chance you'll fail the children due to the burden. If you're worried she'll try and alienate you, it will be hard …
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 03:33 AM
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You really need to document each and every instance she doesn't do a court ordered exchange. Consider filing police reports if she doesn't show up. You really need to have a lawyer file for an amendment to the parenting plan. Do exchanges at a public place, like the school, etc. Use OFW app to document all communication. When you show up for an exchange, use the OFW GPS check in feature to show that you're there. Document everything! That way when you show up in court it's not just a verbal 'she…
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/23 01:59 AM
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Don't fuck around with the GAL. You have to play their game. Watch videos on youtube about GALs. Watch a lot of them. They'll drive home that you MUST cooperate if you give a shit about your case. If they want a drug test, just do it. Yes sir, Yes mam the shit out of this.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/23 01:54 AM
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Failed to recognize that my wife's eating disorder would get really bad after 3 back to pack pregnancies caused her to gain a lot of weight each time, and constantly starving herself after each pregnancy and abusing stimulants caused her to legit lose her mind after the 3rd pregnacy.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/23 02:22 AM
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She's checked out. Now, you need to protect yourself. If she's neglecting her kids, once it comes time to talk custody, she's going to accuse you of everything she's doing, I 100% guarantee it. So start taking notes, recording shit, keeping a record of everything now because it will be impossible to remember all at once when she finally says 'he doesn't even watch the kids, he's abusive, he shouldn't have custody, I want the kids 100% of the time and he needs to pay massive child support costs'.…
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/23 03:16 AM
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Histrionic personality has some of these features "Those with HPD thrive on the attention of others and go out of their way to attain it. They may embrace the role of “damsel/victim in distress” even in the most benign conditions." Fishing for reasons to claim abuse is inline with this. They're wanting a reason to be the victim.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 04:21 AM
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Happened to me. She didn't cheat that in aware of but she basically went batshit and thought I was emasculated for being a sahp. Constantly antagonized me, harassed me, and eventually got physical. The moment I had enough and started to stick up for myself, BAM, false op, feigns victim hood, lies about DV, and gets me kicked out of the house.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/23 04:32 AM
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Consider having your attorney call her attorney every day. Or at least send the same email every day. Are you allowed to contact your ex?
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 11:55 PM
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1) Tell him you appreciate his advice, but if he doesn't take action within 72 hours of you making a request, you're finding a different attorney because he's neglecting your case. 2) And say, while I appreciate your advice, if I give you instruction to file something, I expect it to be filed. If a request goes without action, I will find another attorney. ​ And then find another attorney.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 11:50 PM
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Abuse of TROs in contested divorces should merit jail time, imho.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/23 05:20 AM
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You need to request the records via discovery as part of a request for production. And then if she doesn't produce it, you file a motion to compel. Don't wait, this stuff needs to be done asap.
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/23 03:06 AM
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I added 63 pages of size 10 Arial font text to my Interrogatories about all the crazy shit my wife did just during the 18 or so months we had been separated. She's crazy and should be in jail.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/23 03:50 AM
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smells like depression
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 04:37 PM
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Document everything. As they're older and more able to handle 'bad news', let them know exactly what their mom was doing to you. As long as you keep loving them they'll eventually realize mom is bad news, may even hate her, and you can enjoy the kids for the rest of their lives.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 01:20 AM
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You can at least file a police report. You also have her email. Then you MUST talk to your attorney. It will be less expensive to get on top of this now. Otherwise, she'll keep doing it. Also consider using the Our Family Wizard app and refusing to communicate through anything but that.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 01:17 AM
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Kids have killed their parents over video games too. Everything you just said tells me your wife is the problem, not thc.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/23 12:35 AM
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Completely anecdotal and there's a million other things that can happen from 16 to 49yo that could create the problems you see, especially those that she was genetically predisposed too. For every person you can find to claim cannabis ruined their life, there's 10000 people that include it in their daily routines without any complications whatsoever. THC is non toxic to the brain and if doesn't impact brain chemistry any more significantly than carbs.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 04:21 AM
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antidepressants completely complicate the situation more. I got sick as fuck from taking just one lexapro. That shit was 100x's more gnarly than anything weed could be. Again, clinical depression and other factors are the issue. Being mad at weed is just keeping you from acknowledging it was a problem with the person. It could have just as easily been a fortnite habit.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 04:03 AM
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It is not a safe recreational drug. Yea, it's almost as dangerous as soda. You're speaking reefer madness. Daily consumption of soda with all the sugar, caffiene, etc. is going to do more damage to your health than using cannabis, especially if you avoid smoking it as an intake method. The GAL and judge in my divorce case literally told my ex to drop her accusations about weed because they didn't care and had no reason to assume even daily use would impact my ability to properly care for kids. M…
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 03:55 AM
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Sure, especially if it keeps them from dealing with their issues, but lots of things don't get well with clinical depression. Mine's had major depressive disorder for years (which I think is like worst kind of clinic depression) and got hooked on Adderall. It was a one way ticket to psychosis. Adderall works for people, so I'm not really mad at Adderall, but my ex sure didn't respect it either and doesn't want to admit it's typically not good for people with major depressive disorders.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 02:15 AM
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Weed's not really a thing to scapegoat. It's like tea or soda. It's not even close to being on the same level as alcohol. Blame her. It'd be no different than finding empty cans of mountain dew everywhere or something. Throw the stuff away and move on with your life.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 02:06 AM
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My wife insisted I try antidepressants, so I went to her psychiatrist (mistake) and the asshole started me on 20mg of Lexapro. It made me sick as fuck, and since it was my wife's idea she went into straight up denial and accused me of faking being sick. I ended up going to the ER after she had a meltdown and threatened to kill my cat after I threatened to go sleep at my mom's so I could actually rest, and since I basically had a nervous breakdown in the ER after starting on a high dose of Lexapr…
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/23 06:36 AM
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The family court system is so fucked up I honestly feel compelled to get involved with government at the state level and take actions that could actually bring about change.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/23 06:29 AM
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Don't talk to opposing counsel. That's your lawyer's job and it's possible some jurisdictions prohibit it.
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 04:25 PM
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I wear a body camera when dealing with her in person. I keep two GoPros in my car in case I need to set something up. All communication goes through Our Family Wizard. I record any video calls I have with my kids. Case in point: ex tried to claim I followed her home after we exchanged the kids and that she felt unsafe and had to wait for me to 'leave the premises' before she could go into her home. Even had her attorney draw up a threatening letter and send it to the GAL. The hilarious joy I had…
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/23 04:04 AM
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A false dv accusation from someone that was supposed to be your best friend is an absurdly unforgivable act of betrayal.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/22 07:41 PM
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Yep. I know it's not always the case, but in mine the GAL has totally worked in my favor. I've been professional, honest, and reasonable with him and that combined with my STBXW's autistic antics has left him arguing in my favor. And I recognize he's not on my team, but as my kids' attorney he has obviously realized it's in their best interest that the court recognizes I'm a damn good dad and mom's too blinded by petulance to coparent like a normal human being.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/22 07:39 PM
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Move back in, set up cameras every where.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/22 07:35 PM
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Yep. What they feel guilty about is the palette they paint with. Accusations are admissions of guilt.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/22 07:34 PM
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My STBXW has clearly been lying to and withholding key facts from her attorney. At her deposition, her attorney looked like a deer in headlights so many different times that it was clear he was hearing stuff for the first time. He wasn't aggressive about defending her either. He let her ramble on so much at one point my attorney snapped at him and said 'you could tell her to stop talking ' after her attorney complained about the phrasing of the question only after my STBXW said entirely too much…
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/22 02:46 PM
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You would be in the house one day before she makes something else up or tries to kill you. If she's willing to file a false tro, you are not safe under the same roof.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/22 09:38 PM
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Play the long game. Keep your hands clean, stay calm and civil and be the more rational adult.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/22 08:00 PM
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Get everything you possibly can out now! Call friends and family to help. Film the entire property too.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/22 04:12 AM
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I had to get a court order for a civil standby to get my shit. Get a body camera for when you go. Have your attorney file first thing tomorrow morning a motion for a civil standby for property inspection. Film everything. It could be months before you get back into your house. Buckle up.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/22 04:10 AM
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Then get an attorney, and get a GAL involved, make your case for abuse and that you want to be an involved father, and take control of the divorce. The single act of just 'fighting' to be an involved parent will speak volumes to the judge and you'll get wayyyyy more than your wife's attorney is offering. In fact, her offer might offend the judge!
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/22 11:46 PM
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Pretend this is a house fire and you need to rescue your kids. Fight that hard.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/22 11:44 PM
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Did the antidepressants make you sick? My wife insisted I get on some, I tried Lexapro and it was a nightmare. Another psychiatrist who disagreed with me being given it in the first place basically told me if I had needed antidepressants, it would have helped instead of making me sick.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/22 05:29 AM
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The sooner you get divorced, the less alimony you'll have to pay. Even if you get divorced, you won't feel free from her until that last alimony payment. It varies from state to state, so you'd want to ask a lawyer for specifics. I'd start now so you have some clarity in your thoughts. Many do free consultations, so write out some questions before hand and call a few lawyers. No kids? No child support to worry about. bullet dodged. Is she depressed? You might have been rock bottom, but if she's …
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/22 01:54 PM
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What is grey rock?
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/22 04:45 AM
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