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| 1 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardIts more like "why am i not the one flirting with her. he's not more handsome than me, yet he is doing it and I am not" | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 09:10 PM |
| 3 | After studying attraction for 7 years and spending over $20,000 to learn from "the best", here's what I've found that men can do to attract women naturally without approaching or trying hardThis is great, thank you for this. I've realized the points you made months ago, but cant seem to practice them. I catch myself feeling jealous why the cute chick at my gym is flirting with another guy, even though I never met her. It's so stupid. Im an attractive guy, its not a self deprecating thing, like why am I not as handsome as he is. How do I shake this feeling? How do I be happy when I see a couple | /r/seduction | 23/01/17 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Help me realize where I screwed up and what should I learn from this.It sounded to me like she was one of those women who just can't stay alone, and have to be in a relationship whatever the price might be. Assume for a moment she wasnt that type. She didnt want casual sex. Where did I screw this up, if she was the LTR type of girl? | /r/seduction | 06/01/17 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Help me realize where I screwed up and what should I learn from this.I dont think she wanted a one night stand or just sex with me. Her bf lives in another country. I assumes she still loves him, but wants to try dating and forget him with another serious relationship | /r/askTRP | 05/01/17 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Help me realize where I screwed up and what should I learn from this.As soon as you meet for the first date, after she said those things about showering and having babies, you needed to hug her, and kiss her on the cheek. Yes, as soon as you saw her, you needed to be physical with her. Of course I did that. I grabbed her by the waist, pulled her close and kissed her both cheeks. When we met and when we left. Even though she had a dog which wouldnt let me go near her XD. Did a massage of her neck, because she told me it hurts there. I was not a complete awkward wo… | /r/seduction | 05/01/17 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Help me realize where I screwed up and what should I learn from this.thanks for this. makes a lot of sense basically, I fucked it up by not fucking her? | /r/seduction | 05/01/17 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Help me realize where I screwed up and what should I learn from this.Might be true, but I thought it might appeal to her type. She hinted a lot if I wanted to spend time with her, if I liked her with texts like "why didnt you text me last night", "I wanted to know if you wanted to date me or to just watch a movie with someone" etc etc. I thought by being more "stoic" and "indifferent" I might lose her. I did play that game at the beginning (not texting first, forgeting her) and it payed off. She asked me out. Then I felt confident, enough with this game, she's no… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/17 02:41 PM |
| 3 | Help me realize where I screwed up and what should I learn from this.Just because they reach out to you, isn't an IOI. If this is true, then everything makes sense now | /r/askTRP | 05/01/17 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Help me realize where I screwed up and what should I learn from this.props for Friends reference :D I admit that might've been lame, but that conversation was longer, She was opening up, I was opening up | /r/askTRP | 05/01/17 02:29 PM |
| -1 | Help me realize where I screwed up and what should I learn from this.I did not invest 8 months. I mightve texted with her for 1 week total but spread over 8 months before asking her out. Both times when I cut contact with her, she was the one initiating (congratulating my new job after 6 months of zero contact with her and wishing me happy birthday after I cut contact after her refusal) | /r/askTRP | 05/01/17 02:27 PM |
| 8 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.I failed to mention something though, not justifying her. She barely accepted the date, citing problems with her ex "Id love to date you but am at a very complicated situation" she said. Then after some texting she accepted. Now, after we "broke up" I straight asked her whats stopping you? She said "you know my situation". I think she still loves him. She would mention him until I said "stop talking about exes" | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 07:11 PM |
| 7 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.yeah, I told her jokingly "shut up with your ex" she said "sorry" I hope she was a lost cause | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 02:47 PM |
| 9 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.yeah, but the rejection was not 100% because of me not escalating. first she barely accepted the date, citing problems with her ex. and she still mentioned them after we "broke up" saying "you know my situation" | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 02:36 PM |
| 6 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.it's not 100% not escalating what ruined it. She barely accepted the date, citing problems with her ex. | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.yeah it did. Every text made sense after she said that. | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 01:52 PM |
| 7 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.yeah I fucking needed that. Serves me right. I thought "oh she's nice and pretty and shy, better not screw this up". While in fact she was waiting for me to kiss her. fuuuck this is redpill101, how did I screw this | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 01:10 PM |
| 24 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.why dont you cut contact with her? It'll just hurt you more. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 12:49 PM |
| 6 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.I know. I fucked up. I was starting to like her and get emotionally invested. Got blinded. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 12:26 PM |
| 17 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.please do. How was your story? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 10:41 AM |
| 43 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.Im so fucking angry at myself right now. I was emotionally invested in her because she was the exact type of girl I liked. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 09:55 AM |
| 5 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.No. Im feeling angry at myself right now. I was blinded, she was exactly the kind of girl I like and I fucking ruined it, cuz I was too much of a pussy. | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 09:53 AM |
| 1 | How to work with shy/introvert/bookworm types?Damn you know your shit. Can I ask you some personal advice? | /r/askTRP | 21/12/16 10:14 PM |
| 0 | She never texts first or asks questions but seems to enjoy our dates. What should I do?"I'll go to [store] to buy a secret santa gift for my coworker. Join me to watch [movie] we've been postponing for so long?" | /r/askTRP | 20/12/16 01:13 PM |
| 2 | When she never texts first or asks questions what do you do?I might act needy but only over texts (Things were fine til I asked her for a third date. She refused twice (once she was with her parents, one she was sick. She still is) but didnt offer any alternative.) On dates the theme was more "me giving advice to her about her job". I regret not escalating, dates were very short. Thats a great advice. She actually asked me out (after refusing first), after I opened up and told her "I thought you were smart and cute. Too bad we cant date. See you in anoth… | /r/seduction | 20/12/16 12:13 PM |
| 0 | She never texts first or asks questions but seems to enjoy our dates. What should I do?I agree. So just ask a third time and next her? | /r/askTRP | 20/12/16 12:05 PM |
| 0 | She never texts first or asks questions but seems to enjoy our dates. What should I do?This "problem" really started with me. Things were fine til I asked her for a third date. She refused twice (once she was with her parents, one she was sick. She still is) but didnt offer any alternative. I will ask her a third time and then go radio silent, but I want to convey my angriness too "Im asking you this one last time because you had some valid excuses, but do not waste my time" | /r/askTRP | 20/12/16 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to not escalate on the first couple of dates?True that. I was thinking about hiking. I feel very confident in nature. And autistic as fuck in a table at a bar. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/16 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to not escalate on the first couple of dates?I know I fucked up. Is a movie date a good enough venue for escalating? | /r/askTRP | 16/12/16 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to not escalate on the first couple of dates?I got scared because I realized I might like her. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/16 03:17 PM |
| 1 | I need your input on this. What type of girl is this?she drove 30 mins in the cold to have a cup of coffee with me at my offices. what does this say? | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 03:26 PM |
| 1 | I need your input on this. What type of girl is this?she drove 30 mins in the cold to have a cup of coffee with me at my offices. what does this say? | /r/askTRP | 15/12/16 03:26 PM |
| 1 | I need your input on this. What type of girl is this?not yet | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 12:16 PM |
| 1 | How To Get Out Of Your Head When Talking To Girls, By Training Your Focus [xpost from /r/socialskills]It’s also difficult to get anxious when your mind is aware. It's the complete opposite for me. I am very anxious when my mind is aware and less soo when I'm distracted. What am I doing wrong? | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 08:07 AM |
| 1 | A fucking girl made me wait for 1 hour before flakingShe's right. Who invites someone for dinner after 2 hours of tweeting? | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 02:56 PM |
| 7 | "Different kind" of girls. Do you game different girls differently, or basically all girls are the same?For example, I went to the christmas office party yesterday (its my new job) and danced and had fun. Also danced with a hot coworker. I didnt hit on her because she's a 10/10 and Im too much of a pussy and Im still the new guy here. Anyway I just wanted to have fun and had fun. Today, another new coworker told her "Your dress last night gave me a hard on". Word for word. I was shocked, I thought he overstepped his social and work boundaries but she thought it was funny. Laughed and told him "Ok"… | /r/seduction | 21/12/15 06:53 PM |
| 1 | One of the challenges in goodlookingloser is hi five 10 random girls on the street. How is this not cringy/creepy?I mean saying "Hello" to complete strangers on the street. "Hello" for me is a way to start a conversation. You can't just say Hello, and leave | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 03:04 PM |
| 1 | I lack the sex drive to pursue a girl.I haven't for a month. No change | /r/seduction | 18/12/15 02:34 PM |
| 14 | This is the most important advice you'll ever read. I call it "The Trick."right but I dont think most of guys struggle with the first line. They struggle with the second line. "Hey, how's it going?" "Hmmm.... ok" "................hyperventilates" | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 07:16 AM |
| 1 | I am not worried that I don't have a girlfriend.I do like being around girls. I think whats "ruining" me is that I don't care about not having a gf. I like parties, I like dancing but only when the oportunity presents itself. I am lazy I think | /r/seduction | 06/07/15 03:56 PM |
| 7 | Calling Bruce Jenner a Woman Is an Insult to Women (And Men)He might very well think he's a woman and I might very well think he's an ugly woman | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/15 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Am I fucked for life?I have just ONE advice for you: DO what makes you uncomfortable. Chase the awkward situations. Chase conflict and debates. DO NOT avoid confrontations. DO these and you'll grow emotionally | /r/askTRP | 29/05/15 11:20 AM |
| 1 | "Do not think you are better than the others" shit test.well yeah the problem was that she lives hours away with her roomates. It was 3am and I am sure she just said it to be filrty a little. We both knew that nobody was gonna come over to nobody | /r/askTRP | 20/03/15 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Can't find the will to pursue hot girls if I don't like their personality.I am not at any risk of being fired. Her internship finishes this week. My "problem" is more general: No matter how hot she is, if I find her dull and boring and generally not enjoying her company, I cant bring myself to ask her on a date. And of course, vice versa. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/14 10:14 AM |
| 9 | ALL women are apparently beautiful now.This comment made me lol "how do you know they are out of shape? do you know their doctor?" hahaha, they're fucking obese thats how I know | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/14 08:24 AM |
| 7 | How a car changes EVERYTHING!no. for two reasons. She was VISIBLY dissapointed. And she could've stayed anyway because I told her it was my friend's car. If she just wanted a ride, she could've stayed | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/14 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Going on a first date with a girl I am not really into, just to test things.well, im not interested in serious thing. I am interested only making her sexually attracted to me, and fuck her | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/14 05:34 PM |
| 4 | How to react when a girl shares her secret with me?"the problem" is that she's quite nice and friendly. She's not some delicate mean high-class girl. She's down to earth, does not wear make-up, does not dress sexy. Which makes it very difficult for me to think of her as a "total bitch". Should I open also, or act cold? | /r/askTRP | 04/02/14 09:11 PM |
| 1 | The sister paradoxyes, of course ,I dont think about my sister when Im with a hot girl or a friend. Just let the testosterone do its thing. But later I think: whats the best for her, and certianly a guy who sees her as an object, is not the right guy THe paradox here is, I want to be that guy, but I dont want my sister to end up with that guy PS. now that I read my intro, I LOL'd too | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/14 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Ok RedPill. Screw my White Knight - self! How do I get to have sex with her?thats why Im asking advice. I feel embarrassed for myself. Should've asked her out in the beggining when she really liked me, but being a beta, I thought should respect the fact that she just got out of 6 years engagement. Also. Asking for relationship advice from another girl? Stupid idea | /r/askTRP | 23/01/14 10:12 PM |
| -6 | Ok RedPill. Screw my White Knight - self! How do I get to have sex with her?she actually has added value to my life: made me realize a lot of things as a friend, and I am grateful. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/14 08:39 PM |
| 0 | Ok RedPill. Screw my White Knight - self! How do I get to have sex with her?THe good news is: I know I made a mistake treating her like a god. I wanna change my comportament toward her. I want her to fucking need me. Bad news is: I probably screwed up too much. I dont know how | /r/askTRP | 23/01/14 07:55 PM |
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