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| -2 | What do women bring to the tableOkay, I'm sorry for all of this trouble and whatnot that I've caused. I just approached this place as somewhere i could learn how to be a woman and a good partner and it's really confusing to hear so many mixed messages about submission and service from people in this sub and not knowing what to feel. I'll work on finding other spaces that I won't make messes in... I just wanted help being a good girlfriend and good person in general and i understand that i may have abused my space here by posti… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/21 06:54 PM |
| -4 | What do women bring to the tableAlso if you guys want me gone that is okay and I will STFU and leave, I was preparing to delete my Reddit anyway and it isn't okay for me to make a disturbance here if that's what's happening. I'm sorry for any drama caused by me but I appreciate everyone here who was kind and helpful but I'll probably be leaving now | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/21 06:11 PM |
| -17 | What do women bring to the tableWhatever I bring, it will never amount to what he brings. You can give yourself any job title and a pat on the back, but remember to know your place. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/21 05:45 PM |
| -3 | What do y'all think about a guy who wouldn't let his wife stay home until she has children, and would make her go to work once they're in school?I don't place any amount of worth or lack thereof on that. That is the man's decision IMO | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/21 03:23 PM |
| 3 | This is a reminder to stop golddiggingA guy who truly-truly loves you will recognize the importance of stability and put that first. If my man gave me stuff that wasn't necessary, I would assume he's irresponsible and a simp, not to mention damaging his/our financial stability. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/21 12:47 PM |
| 5 | This is a reminder to stop golddiggingMy man constantly compliments my almost entirely thrifted (like $5 dresses) wardrobe. No excuse for spoiling | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/21 09:45 PM |
| 10 | This is a reminder to stop golddiggingWait, but who's out here asking for $1000 items? I've asked for dinner like 10 times in two years and he's always heavily rewarded. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/21 09:34 PM |
| 2 | This is a reminder to stop golddiggingReally I'm the lucky one for being allowed access to the life of such a wonderful HVM 😁 | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/21 09:26 PM |
| 5 | This is a reminder to stop golddiggingAaah we needed a post like this! I know I sure did. I recently caught myself wanting gifts from my man, but why? To feel validated in comparison to other women? What you said about engagement rings and weddings is so true. Some men are scared to propose because their girls pressure them into an expensive ring. My man knows I don't even want/need a ring, but he's still nervous about meeting that immense societal pressure to waste money on a woman just because she's female and somehow entitled to … | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/21 09:22 PM |
| 0 | How do you avoid getting nasty feelings when you see other women being rewarded for doing so little?I understand where you're coming from, but I'm doing everything I possibly can to make sure he knows how loved and respected he is | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/21 03:42 PM |
| 0 | How do you avoid getting nasty feelings when you see other women being rewarded for doing so little?For me, it's not all about stuff, though. It's rough seeing some girls having their men totally obsessed with them instead of seeing them as an accessory to their life. Now, it's probably healthier to be with a man who has an important and meaningful enough of a life that you aren't a main priority, because men who obsess over their women probably don't have much else going for them, but I can't help but wonder what those girls must feel like to be worshipped like that. In reality, though, it's … | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/21 08:54 PM |
| -6 | How do you avoid getting nasty feelings when you see other women being rewarded for doing so little?Girl don't underestimate how downright evil misbehaved kids can be 😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/21 04:31 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid getting nasty feelings when you see other women being rewarded for doing so little?No, like the "he just ordered me food without me asking hehe! he just gave me money to go spend on whatever! he gave me an unmerited gift unrelated to a holiday or accomplishment! hehehe!" edit: it's not just material stuff but also "posting" her to show her off online, or showing her off to people in person like she's on a pedestal, or showering her in love, even though she doesn't actually put much (or any) effort into femininity and submission | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/21 03:48 AM |
| 10 | How do you avoid getting nasty feelings when you see other women being rewarded for doing so little?I read it and didn't realize anything was wrong until the second time I read it. I was screamed at every day for 18 years, and it was so shocking to realize that some people don't grow up that way! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/21 01:02 AM |
| 3 | How do you avoid getting nasty feelings when you see other women being rewarded for doing so little?Because everything in life must be earned. Men like spoiling women who meet their standards of submission and femininity as a reward for their feminine labor. The idea that you can't expect anything to be handed to you without work applies to relationships, too. I worry that "inspiring yourself" creates an artificial perception of self value, which relies on how badly you want something rather than what you have done to earn it. Allowing your man to be the source of the things you are given, ens… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/21 01:00 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid getting nasty feelings when you see other women being rewarded for doing so little?I'm sorry but your "I'm not RPW" shows in your statement and makes it difficult to agree with you. RP asks, WHY do you think you deserve it? Do you really deserve it at all, or did society just tell you that being a woman gets you special love points for free? Sometimes women don't get things because we don't deserve them, plain and simple. That doesn't mean we can't improve ourselves and earn them, though! Communities like these help women brainstorm how to better inspire men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/21 12:29 AM |
| 0 | How do you avoid getting nasty feelings when you see other women being rewarded for doing so little?You're right. I guess I'll just keep working at creating that grand reason! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/21 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Is there an end point to the femininity glow up? When (if ever) is it safe to stop?Yes, I've been searching for a diagnosis for over six years. I'll journal and see what can be improved about my behavior | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/21 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Is there an end point to the femininity glow up? When (if ever) is it safe to stop?Dragging myself from a four to a seven has been mentally and physically draining. Maintaining vibrance and enthusiasm with a chronic pain condition, researching style and color, finding money for clothes and looksmaxxing, and just the emotional labor of submission..... I'll look into what you said about ruling out the unnecessary, but it already feels like I'm at the bare minimum. I also was abandoned by my mother and have no feminine influence. Starting from scratch automatically puts me light-… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/21 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Is there an end point to the femininity glow up? When (if ever) is it safe to stop?I know deep down that it can and never should stop, but sometimes I just want a break.... Sometimes I break down from how exhausting and painful it can be to maintain and perform femininity like I'm supposed to. I guess the work needs to be on sucking it up and strengthening in the process? | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/21 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Why Buy the Cow When He Can Get the Milk For Free...? Right...?Yes it is ALL inspired by respect and love first and foremost 😁 | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/21 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Why Buy the Cow When He Can Get the Milk For Free...? Right...?What do you mean by "fake submit"ting? Isn't it always real submission, since submission is an action or a collection of a certain type of actions? Eg. domestic work, sex, deference, et cetera. Doing all these things are real submission, right? | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/21 03:37 AM |
| 0 | Why Buy the Cow When He Can Get the Milk For Free...? Right...?Luckily I truly desire to do as much for him as possible ☺️ lucky how that worked out! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/21 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Why Buy the Cow When He Can Get the Milk For Free...? Right...?Yeah! We've been together almost two years, and he says he can see himself marrying me once things are more put-together in his life. Deep down, I want to do every single thing I possibly can for him.... But it isn't always sensible. I do a lot now but it might inspire him more if I up my ante even further! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/21 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Why Buy the Cow When He Can Get the Milk For Free...? Right...?Wow, this is something I probably needed to hear. I've always been scared of giving too much and submitting too hard and having that reduce his likelihood to marry me. You're probably right that giving him as much unrestrained love as possible is more likely to secure him. I'll test out totally unrestrained love and "benefits" and see if it has any positive impacts on our relationship... I sure hope it does!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/21 01:27 AM |
| 1 | How does chronic illness detract from femininity, and what can be done about it?Thank you for this-- it's easier to understand peoples' discomfort now. I am a native English speaker from the US, and I meant what I said. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/21 12:55 AM |
| 0 | How does chronic illness detract from femininity, and what can be done about it?I'll work on presenting him in what you described as a positive way, then. I personally find nothing negative about the portrayal I showed, and I presented the situation exactly as it happened, but I understand now how it can bother some people and look bad. I love him more than anything and see nothing wrong with how he was forced to handle this unfortunate situation. I'll work on being more perfect for him and less so perfect for men in general. Please understand that femininity is very diffic… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/21 11:01 PM |
| 0 | How does chronic illness detract from femininity, and what can be done about it?What happened? I personally never deleted my post. Was it removed? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/21 02:02 PM |
| 2 | How does chronic illness detract from femininity, and what can be done about it?He doesn't need anything extreme like that exaggeration, either, though. He just needs a girl who can walk around town and exercise with him. He pushes me to do my best and get out of my comfort bubble 💞 | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/21 01:07 AM |
| -1 | How does chronic illness detract from femininity, and what can be done about it?Thanks! Just know that he doesn't have to be actively supportive in a situation that annoys and upsets him. Thank you still for sharing your experience! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/21 12:55 AM |
| 1 | How does chronic illness detract from femininity, and what can be done about it?That's still quite an extreme thing to assume though, don't you think? I honestly just think it's rude to rewrite someone's words to say "what they actually meant", because I said exactly what I meant in the first place. I'm sort of confused in general about why this Red Pill space is so hypercritical of men who don't meet female standards... | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/21 12:14 AM |
| 1 | How does chronic illness detract from femininity, and what can be done about it?Wow, that's definitely something to consider! I should be grateful that women get more excuses and accommodations for weakness | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/21 12:10 AM |
| 1 | How does chronic illness detract from femininity, and what can be done about it?It's okay. Everyone has different expectations and tolerances in a relationship. For me, his refusal to stoop to my level encourages me to push and improve as much as I can. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/21 12:08 AM |
| 1 | How does chronic illness detract from femininity, and what can be done about it?We are not married. I did not ask for people to tear apart my amazing boyfriend, but for advice on staying feminine in spite of chronic illness and pain. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/21 11:54 PM |
| 2 | How does chronic illness detract from femininity, and what can be done about it?Wow, thank you so much for this inspiring and detailed response. You're so right that femininity should be catered to your man specifically and not to HVMen as a group in general. It's hard to remember that, sometimes. For him, being and feeling respected seems to rely most strongly on having his needs and desires met, and being unobstructed from them. That's where my illness gets in the way of respecting him. I think you're right that attitude is key, and that being funny, happy, and cute regar… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/21 08:44 PM |
| 2 | What exactly is “submission”Why don't you want to hear another opinion? When might this happen? How do you truly know that you're right, and how do you define right? Being correct about an objective fact is very different from having a "right opinion". Is he, by chance, any older or better-educated than you? If so, it might be a good sign to STFU (not using that to insult you it's actually the name of an RP method of respectful communication) | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/21 08:24 PM |
| -4 | How does chronic illness detract from femininity, and what can be done about it?I have flare-ups quite often, though, so it would be selfish and irrational to expect him to bow down to me each time. It's totally reasonable for him to reach a breaking point every now and then and need to retract himself from the situation to not be exposed to it. He isn't invincible, and he has the right to put his wellbeing first, too. I'm happy that you and your husband seem to have something that works well for you! This is what works for us. Please don't feel bad for me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/21 08:23 PM |
| 13 | What exactly is “submission”Some things that I do to submit: smiling and saying "yes honey" whenever I feel the urge to disagree or argue with hi reminding him how much I trust and respect him, whenever the chance shows up physical acts of servitude, like performing all of the domestic duties for him never rejecting his sexual advances, no matter what (this is a big one!) allowing myself to be small and vulnerable around him, especially emotionally asking for his advice and opinion before making decisions, big or small ask… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/21 08:17 PM |
| -9 | How does chronic illness detract from femininity, and what can be done about it?You don't need to be. For context, he took me on an extremely beautiful and quite expensive vacation. He made all these plans to see sites that held personal significance to him, but due to my poor pain management skills, I had to lay in bed for a day and a half. He didn't want to go alone, so he had to sit around and do nothing in the hotel with me, wasting his own time and money. I used it as an example to hopefully find solutions for when my pain prevents me from feminine behavior. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/21 07:59 PM |
| 5 | How does chronic illness detract from femininity, and what can be done about it?I don't know, unfortunately. I'm still in the process of seeing different specialists and ruling things out (and by things I mean basically every disease including rare ones that I had to do special testing for). Thank you for your concern! There are a few lifestyle things that are slowly giving me a little bit more quality of life. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/21 06:48 PM |
| 3 | How does chronic illness detract from femininity, and what can be done about it?Thank you for this. I really like what you said about playing up the dainty woman stereotype while still doing as much work as possible to stay strong, rather than giving into it entirely. Mindset is so important, too! I try to avoid seeing myself as "a chronically ill person", or applying any similar labels, but it can be difficult sometimes when so much of my life is occupied with strict diets, doctor's appointments, and everyday symptoms that are basically a part of who I am at this point. It… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/21 06:36 PM |
| -16 | How does chronic illness detract from femininity, and what can be done about it?Can we please not moralize and put words into other people's mouths? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/21 06:27 PM |
| -5 | How does chronic illness detract from femininity, and what can be done about it?As much as it takes from a man's masculinity.... So, enough to ruin it? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/21 06:13 PM |
| 9 | “Do things feel different now that you’re married?” …yea they kinda doThese sound like beautiful situations to be in, so happy for everyone here 😊😊 | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/21 09:15 PM |
| 1 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?Hmm probably five years until now )-: | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 08:41 PM |
| 1 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?I understand what you're saying, but idk what more I can do to help you understand my perspective. A man who is not having his basic, fundamental, biological need met by his woman has zero obligation to stay with her, no matter what, end of story. I don't understand the need for so much discourse around this fact. It has nothing to do with loyalty and everything to do with the man's right to have his basic biological needs met. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 06:20 PM |
| 2 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?No. I get what you're trying to do, but isn't that a false equivalence? I would simply find some income or go back to (or stay at) work, because I love and support him. There's a way out of having no money. If a man gets stuck with a barren wife, the only way out of the situation is to leave her and find someone capable of mothering his children. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 05:43 PM |
| 1 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?"What if" he just plain requires a fertile wife? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 05:39 PM |
| 1 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?All those signs of ovulating are still there, just at different times in my cycle than prior to the jab. I can usually pinpoint a time in my cycle when I have cervical mucus, increased energy and good mood, a "squishier" vaginal canal, and overall libido. Is that a sign that my ovulation is still occuring in a healthy way? Could I experience those things and not actually be ovulating the right way? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 05:29 PM |
| 2 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?Thanks... It would be absolutely devastating if I do have fertility problems, and even worse to have to split with the man I'm building my life around, but it's selfish to the point of evil to force a man to stay with you when you're incapable of meeting his basic needs, regardless of "why" or whose fault it is. I'm just hoping and praying I'm not barren now due to the vaccine. I'll work on all the testing mentioned above, plus a fertility diet! | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 05:26 PM |
| 1 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?Yes, thank you | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 01:52 PM |
| 1 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?It's been like this since April )-: | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 01:52 PM |
| 1 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?Okay. Not that men are actually obligated to pander to women in the first place. I just refuse to have unrealistic expectations for him | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 12:58 PM |
| 0 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?I'm fine with it. He doesn't owe me anything (-: but thank you for expressing your concerns | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 12:54 PM |
| 1 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?Oh gosh... Right now looking into how to make sure I'm ovulating each time | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 12:51 PM |
| 7 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?I think it's less emotion and more rational concern about meeting his needs... And being denied a child is definitely not a "frivolous" reason to get a new wife, but rather totally sensible for the man. I guess it just depends on if you really value him more or not | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 12:48 PM |
| 1 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?Oh wow, definitely a good idea to get it checked, then. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 12:45 PM |
| 2 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?I thought TRP in general was more critical of catering to women's feelings? Plus, if I were a guy, I really doubt I would stay with a woman who couldn't give me a family, so it makes sense where he's coming from. It doesn't really matter whose fault it is if it just plain doesn't work anymore. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 12:43 PM |
| 1 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?Huh, interesting! Which one did you get? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 03:07 AM |
| 2 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?I have really a really solid of my cycle of going back about three years, but taking that temperature is a new idea for me. I'll have to try it, and reading that book y'all keep mentioning! Thank you | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 02:17 AM |
| -4 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?Men have no obligation to stay with women who can't fulfill their role in the relationship-- for any reason. I am chronically ill and also have to accept how that could affect my ability to live up to his needs. IMO this is baseline relationship etiquette, but people can feel differently about their own relationships, and that's okay. He doesn't believe in IVF, artificial fertility, or anything like that, so I'll definitely take your advice and start ordering up some tests! I'll also start worki… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 01:59 AM |
| -3 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?It's more than just a hardship, though. It's a major incompatability. He has wanted biological children his whole life. He does not believe in adoption. This is a gamble we are willing to take, but it would be unbelievably selfish of me to coerce him into staying if I ever do have fertility problems. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 01:46 AM |
| 4 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?Why is it concerning? If we have a right to vet for common life goals, so do men. He shouldn't be trapped in a relationship with someone who cannot give him a baby, especially when it's a major life goal of his to produce one. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 01:33 AM |
| 0 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?Why should a man be obligated to stay with a woman who can't give him a child, especially when he has always wanted one? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 01:32 AM |
| 5 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?Exactly! This was a very difficult and painful conversation for us yesterday, but I just couldn't expect him to stay if I can't give him a baby... Becoming a biological father is an indispensable life goal of his. I personally want to be with him forever no matter what, but he has a right to a fertile wife and a biological child... | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 01:21 AM |
| 2 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?Thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 01:18 AM |
| 3 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?Absolutely none, unfortunately. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 01:17 AM |
| 8 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?Some women haven't even had it in their systems for nine months. We don't know yet. Please be patient. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/21 01:17 AM |
| 9 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?Great advice! I've been off all forms of BC for almost two years now and I've never felt better! | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/21 07:23 PM |
| 6 | (please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case?I got the J&J at the beginning of April. My body normally adjusts to a weird period after two months. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/21 06:19 PM |
| 24 | I can feel my sex drive DIE when my BF vents about his insecurities :|I’ve invested a lot of time into this relationship and it’s scary to think of starting over. Don't let "sunk cost fallacy" get in the way of you seeking the life and relationship you truly want <3 | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/21 11:03 PM |
| 4 | Dangers of clinical psychology infected by feminism: the profile of the modern woman forced into the minds of patientsNot at all!! My academic advisor is ~sooo worried~ about me wanting to be a SAHM after graduation that he spent a whole half an hour telling me about how I'm wasting my life and should be doing something more important and special. That totally made me feel capable and "enough" (-: (Even though I know his job is to make students think they're not trying hard enough, but still. He even told me that using my extra credits towards animal husbandry, textile design, etc is "wasteful" and that i shoul… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/21 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Dangers of clinical psychology infected by feminism: the profile of the modern woman forced into the minds of patientsWow, this is wonderful work!! Thank you for putting this all together | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/21 02:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you find good therapy as a woman with traditional values?Thanks- you too!! My PT seems to be replacing my issue with a new one. "Subscription service medicine" seems to be the hot trend. We'll see what happens | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/21 11:23 PM |
| 3 | How do you find good therapy as a woman with traditional values?Actually... Same. My treatment plan is just pictures of exercises, now that I think about it.... I guess the bar for doctors is just that low | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/21 11:17 PM |
| 4 | How do you find good therapy as a woman with traditional values?I'm actually totally fine with that person's comments and find them quite helpful ❤️ therapy isn't always the best option or the only option, and i appreciate being given alternatives | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/21 05:24 PM |
| 4 | How do you find good therapy as a woman with traditional values?That's a good idea! I'll have to draft something up. I've actually been focused purely on self-motivated growth for the past four years or so, and I sometimes talk to my boyfriend and female best friend, but they don't deserve to hear about my problems when our relationships should be more positive. Therapy is definitely my last resort. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/21 04:52 PM |
| 7 | How do you find good therapy as a woman with traditional values?Yikes!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/21 04:50 PM |
| 5 | How do you find good therapy as a woman with traditional values?I totally agree with you, and that's why I'm concerned. It sounds like a nice idea to talk about my issues with someone with master's level expertise in human dysfunction, and it's too bad that most of them are just pill shills or feminists. Somewhat unrelated fun fact: at the medical doctor, immediately insisting that you will not take pills is a good way to get them to ACTUALLY take care of your problem and find you a lifestyle-based treatment plan! | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/21 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Was I right to intervene or should I have STFUI'm not a parent, so I totally respect you and where you're coming from-- your insights have more weight than mine, in some senses. Please don't take anything I ask you as confrontational or anything, it's just meant to be a way of learning. Do you feel like children cry for attention because they have an unmet need, or is it purely for the self-gratification of attention seeking? I was always taught in child dev courses and literature that children only act out like that if they aren't having a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/21 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Back to Basics September - For Women Only SexI'm at a loss for words. I don't even have sexual goals or desires, so it's not a matter of them being separate from his. Mine can adapt to wherever his are. Guess I'll just go to a doctor and beg to get on some nympho pills asap. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/10/21 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Back to Basics September - For Women Only SexIs desiring to make him happy and fulfill his needs not "the right type of desire", then? He is quite handsome and beautiful, but I have never viewed anyone as sexy. I still initiate sometimes (though it is rarely necessary) to ensure that he feels desired. Sex is a priority no matter what. We talked about it before, and while it was a difficult topic for him for a while, we settled on the idea that I should "work on being more sexual" without just giving him duty sex, which he finds to be very … | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/21 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Responding gracefully to conviction from menI didn't know RPW only promoted submission to your partner. I was trying to find ways to submit to men in general instead of being overly strong willed with them. Thank you for the clarification! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/21 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Responding gracefully to conviction from menThank you for this comment! Luckily I almost never have this problem with my boyfriend-- it's just with males I encounter out in the world, especially if they're older than me. It's so easy to defer to him and let him have his way. Sometimes I still struggle with feeling like he's wrong, but I only ever tell him if I feel it's severe enough that he might need to know a second opinion. This has only happened twice in our two years | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/21 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Responding gracefully to conviction from menWhat? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/21 11:42 PM |
| 2 | If your man told you he needed sexual variety and wants to sleep with other women, but still being dedicated to you, would you be okay with it?Eeeh, it would, but I'd just have to get over it | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/21 08:26 PM |
| 2 | If your man told you he needed sexual variety and wants to sleep with other women, but still being dedicated to you, would you be okay with it?I am always up for sex and willing to do anything he wants. I'm free use. How is that hurting his self esteem, having me any time he ever wants? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/21 07:14 PM |
| 0 | If your man told you he needed sexual variety and wants to sleep with other women, but still being dedicated to you, would you be okay with it?Probably, yeah... I would just have to work on not being jealous. He deserves to have his sexual needs fulfilled. Even though I never deny him and always put out, it becomes exhausting and painful, so it would probably be okay if he could spread out his sexual endeavors... and yes, if he is the head of the household, he has a right to his desires being met. Part of me feels uncomfortable and sad to imagine him with another woman, though, but it's ultimately about HIS needs | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/21 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Responding gracefully to conviction from menWhat you quoted was almost exactly what I said to my friend in that situation, is that bad? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/21 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Responding gracefully to conviction from menI immediately defer to other women and let them be right. I can't recall a time an argument arose between another woman and I, because it never seems worth it to defend myself. It shouldn't be so hard to extend the same attitude to men!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/21 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Responding gracefully to conviction from menIn general... I have a horrible issue with disrespecting men whenever I feel like they're questioning me | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/21 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Responding gracefully to conviction from menThe issue is that I only end up doing it with men )-: | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/21 03:32 PM |
| 11 | What are some give away signs that a woman is really nurturing/caring?I feel like 1 and 3 are negotiable. A woman can put herself on the back burner and do even better at nurturing others for this reason. You don't have to believe in the whole self love narcissism thing to love others. Saying "but how will you nurture your future children?" seems kind of judgemental. You can excel in nurturing others even when you don't believe in nurturing yourself. It's two different things, two different people. You can care about someone else's health without regularly visitin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/21 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Subreddits more specifically for submission? (Non sexual)Aaah that all sounds like such a dream come true!! I'm so happy that you're in a situation like that and it works! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/21 10:59 PM |
| 8 | Subreddits more specifically for submission? (Non sexual)He actually gets "free use" out of me, so it is a sexual relationship. I personally just have zero interest in reading about anything sexual and would rather involve myself in communities that only talk about stuff like "my husband's favorite packed lunch recipes!" and "how to defer in a disagreement" and that kinda thing. It's not submission play, but the whole submissive lifestyle. It's way more headship and way less d/s. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/21 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Subreddits more specifically for submission? (Non sexual)Yes-- my long-term boyfriend, who plans to marry me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/21 03:07 PM |
| 7 | Subreddits more specifically for submission? (Non sexual)I'm just heavily interested in the lifestyle of being totally submissive to a man, deferring to him, never challenging him, putting him on a pedestal, and serving him. I want to find other women who share this interest. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/21 03:00 PM |
| 17 | Subreddits more specifically for submission? (Non sexual)Ugh, tradfemsnark is so disgusting. Glad someone else is rolling their eyes at it too! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/21 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Other women never antagonize me for wanting to be a SAHW, no matter their own career aspirations. The people who do are always men. Why?Thank you! We're actually waiting to get married, since I'm still in school, but I hope my "training" and discipline pays off when it happens! | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/21 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Other women never antagonize me for wanting to be a SAHW, no matter their own career aspirations. The people who do are always men. Why?Of course!!! Cooking and sex is the absolute bare minimum! I promised my man that I will be as industrious as possible while staying home. Honestly, I'll probably end up doing way more work than him-- for free. I expect my days to be full of manual labor, constant childcare, cooking three meals a day, daily cleaning, gardening, and animal husbandry | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/21 08:43 PM |
| 2 | My boyfriend gets upset at me for being "self critical"No anxiety or extreme emotions, but a healthy amount of self hate and self blame is needed until I can be absolutely certain that I won't continue to act up as I did from 4 to 17 | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/21 02:40 AM |
| 1 | My boyfriend gets upset at me for being "self critical"I haven't done anything bad since high school. I didn't decide to become better until I moved myself out. Saying a 16-and-up-year-old's behavior is CAUSED by an adults "abuse" is seriously pushing it, but that's my last two cents in this thread. Clearly we have different opinions, and I appreciate you explaining yours to me, but we can just go on with our own ways of handling a situation in whichever way works for ourselves | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/21 02:02 AM |
| -1 | My boyfriend gets upset at me for being "self critical"For your last question, that would be an absolute disaster. He was so spoiled and treated like a perfect little angel constantly. I know what you're getting at, though. You want me to blame my parents and start seeing myself as a poor little "abused" child instead of an independent human with the ability to make right and wrong behavioral decisions. Why? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/21 07:33 AM |
| 0 | My boyfriend gets upset at me for being "self critical"I get where you're coming from, but this type of thinking can be abused by people who want to convince themselves that their childhood selves have zero blame, because it validates their victim mindsets, and makes them feel more secure in themselves. However there definitely are plenty of kids like you described who are a product of their environment, warped by actual parental mistreatment. This was not the case for me, even though it is common in others. No matter what, I will own up to MY actio… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/21 06:30 AM |
| -1 | My boyfriend gets upset at me for being "self critical"I think it's really situational. Some children corrupt their parent's lives into a living hell, despite knowing what they're doing is bad. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/21 05:16 AM |
| -1 | My boyfriend gets upset at me for being "self critical"I'm sorry but that is pretty presumptuous and incorrect... I almost never criticize him for anything, even if I feel like I want to. I actively avoid even thinking thoughts that criticize him. I praise him unconditionally. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/21 04:47 PM |
| -1 | My boyfriend gets upset at me for being "self critical"This is a really thoughtful and helpful responsive, but I am 100% criticizing myself and my childhood actions ecause it needs to be done. I have only myself to blame as the catalyst for things that happened to me. He actively tries to stop me from blaming myself, and to "let myself deserve things" when I definitely don't yet, and that's why I'm upset about it... | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/21 02:42 PM |
| -2 | My boyfriend gets upset at me for being "self critical"He deserves to know what he's getting into in every way possible so he can make an informed decision about staying with me or not | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/21 01:12 PM |
| -9 | My boyfriend of 6 months is on the verge of abuse when it comes to my diet; yet is very charming and affectionate at the same time. How would you react?IN MY OPINION, as a fellow health and diet nut, he's just doing you a favor in his own weird way, and it will serve you well in the long run to eat more like he does. The only weird thing is that he's not discussing it with you more politely first. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/21 01:48 AM |
| 2 | How can a woman be more selfless and sacrificing in a committed relationship?I can't wait to do those things! He's out of the country for the next 9 months. While we're apart, I've been making sure to be available EVERY time he wants to call, sending love letters with little gifts, sending daily heartfelt messages, conversing with him about things he cares about whenever he wants, and doing "camera stuff" for him. While together, I clean his room, prepare breakfast, and all that kind of stuff, including NEVER rejecting his needs for intimacy! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/21 01:22 AM |
| 1 | How can a woman be more selfless and sacrificing in a committed relationship?There are a bunch of things. I feel a moral calling towards it. I'm also blessed to have a wonderful man in my life who deserves everything I can possibly give, and more. He's letting me stay home once we're married, and I want to prepare myself to be able to repay him in everything I do. I'm also becoming a mother someday and need to be more self sacrificing then. I have an issue with taking too much time for myself, especially when dealing with chronic pain issues. I need to be able to be ther… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Today, I am Grateful.Aah so you did have to ask? I'm glad that worked out for you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/21 10:49 AM |
| 3 | Today, I am Grateful.You are so lucky! Could you describe what you've done to inspire a surprise dinner and drinks night AND brunch from him, among all the other stuff? | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/21 09:44 AM |
| -1 | What is about me? Trying to embrace virtue and can't seem to be less boy or man crazy.I've been in a relationship for two years and it came naturally. It's all about your character | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/21 01:25 PM |
| 0 | What is about me? Trying to embrace virtue and can't seem to be less boy or man crazy.Yeah you definitely need to work on that. In a committed relationship, you should be able to not think twice about attractive guys. They basically disappear when you truly love one man. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/21 01:47 AM |
| 2 | So how does a man lead a woman without getting branded a misogynist?Your comment history says that red pill disrespects women, so I'm not sure why you're here in the first place. No, it does not feel oppressive and stressful to us, otherwise we wouldn't be here | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/09/21 03:44 AM |
| 25 | Other women never antagonize me for wanting to be a SAHW, no matter their own career aspirations. The people who do are always men. Why?It makes me so happy whenever my man tells me about the urge I awaken in him to make sure I'm protected and cared for 💓😊 whenever he talks about it, it feels like I've really succeeded in life! | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/21 02:11 PM |
| 7 | Other women never antagonize me for wanting to be a SAHW, no matter their own career aspirations. The people who do are always men. Why?I'm in college, so people are always asking me what my career goals are. I'm honest and say that my boyfriend wants to marry me after I graduate, and that I'll stay home soon after | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/21 02:07 PM |
| 2 | What is the importance of a stay at home mom in sociality as a whole?Me too. It's hard when your best will never be as good as a woman with a mother, but it's absolutely necessary to try as hard as possible | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/21 04:27 AM |
| 2 | What is the importance of a stay at home mom in sociality as a whole?It's VERY rare that a woman without a mother will be a good person. Edited to be specifically about women. Men can do fine as long as their father is still solid | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/21 04:12 AM |
| 7 | What is the importance of a stay at home mom in sociality as a whole?Absentee mother kid chiming in to say you are absolutely correct. I have to check myself every day, and every hour, to make sure I'm not wreaking havoc upon the people around me. Motherlessness stains you with a filth that everyone can see. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/21 04:11 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you realize that you are a Femcel?My life didn't suck, I just had a bad reaction to it. Once I realized it was my choice to be happy or not, things improved. It would be interesting to see stats on how much "chemical" depression is from poor lifestyle choices and thought patterns existing within an otherwise "healthy" environment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when you realize that you are a Femcel?do good thing make good brain chemical | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/21 07:18 PM |
| -1 | What do you do when you realize that you are a Femcel?I brought myself from suicidal to thriving without the use of medication. The five plus antidepressants I tried only distracted me from the emotions caused by my environment and lifestyle, which I chose to change after becoming sober of pharmaceuticals. The power to overcome is within the mind. The pill is only a sometimes-effective way of tuning out emotional distractions, but that only works until they become too difficult to ignore. When that happens, they usually up your dosage. Rinse and re… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/21 05:12 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when you realize that you are a Femcel?Anti depressant pills will not help you. Your glow-up journey will bring you joy as you intentionally heal and improve in all aspects of your life. Improve your situation as much as you can before even considering relying on a substance | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/21 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Being poor and marrying an HVM: how do you avoid sinking his standard of living?I like this!! I never ask or demand anything, and all he does is so immensely appreciated. Luckily my joy comes from sources that aren't linked to money so he will always have access to it!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/21 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Being poor and marrying an HVM: how do you avoid sinking his standard of living?What power am I walking into, that I have no right to? I'm staying home when I'm married so I won't have my own finances anyway | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 10:47 PM |
| 0 | Being poor and marrying an HVM: how do you avoid sinking his standard of living?I don't have an attitude like that, I am always happy while the thing is happening, and I show as much gratitude as I know how to. I just feel guilty afterwards and beforehand | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Being poor and marrying an HVM: how do you avoid sinking his standard of living?All through his childhood, he inspired his parents to take the best possible care of him. He has always been immensely gifted and they chose to invest in him. Sure, some people don't "earn" the money they inherit, but he deserves everything he has because his brilliance convinced others he is worthy of having it all | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 10:36 PM |
| -12 | Being poor and marrying an HVM: how do you avoid sinking his standard of living?I'll never get people like you. Glad you're happy but it's not how my world works (not meant to be rude or insulting) | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 10:33 PM |
| 3 | Being poor and marrying an HVM: how do you avoid sinking his standard of living?He does seem to be very similar. He doesn't understand that every dollar is a survival token. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Being poor and marrying an HVM: how do you avoid sinking his standard of living?I'm excited for it, I really wish I had a mother-type-woman in my life | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Being poor and marrying an HVM: how do you avoid sinking his standard of living?He says "because it will be fun" and "because we'll remember it forever". So will be a safe and comfortable life with savings | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Being poor and marrying an HVM: how do you avoid sinking his standard of living?I don't have a mom anymore and his doesn't speak English but I'm taking a course in her language soon | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 10:05 PM |
| -10 | Being poor and marrying an HVM: how do you avoid sinking his standard of living?I'm content already. Why should I force myself to want more and more? It tends to upset people that my happiness is less stuff-reliant than theirs, it seems | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 10:04 PM |
| -7 | Being poor and marrying an HVM: how do you avoid sinking his standard of living?Thank you for this reply. I hear stuff like that all the time, but I have NEVER understood why it's bad to turn down gifts. There are perfectly free ways to show your love that are far more meaningful. A gift is just an item. An expensive gift is just a liability. People always get mad at me when I say I don't want gifts because I don't want to burden the person giving them. Why is it so bad that I want to spare people the trouble? Why can't they just love me for free? Am I so hard to love that … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 09:48 PM |
| 4 | Being poor and marrying an HVM: how do you avoid sinking his standard of living?He already took me on a wonderful two week vacation! I grew up on one every four years or so and I am deeply satisfied by the amazing generosity he poured out on me this summer. I don't need him to waste any more on me, he already filled me. Why is that bad? I'm still not quite getting it | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Being poor and marrying an HVM: how do you avoid sinking his standard of living?A wedding isn't a gift, it's a status display for others. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 09:28 PM |
| -1 | Being poor and marrying an HVM: how do you avoid sinking his standard of living?I wasn't brought up that way at all. It's just planning for long-term. I'm scared of them because so many people here in the US go into debt for weddings and for other forms of keeping up with the Joneses. A wedding can cost as much as a down payment for a cozy home. A small wedding could cost as much as the ER visit you might need unexpectedly the month after. I don't believe in wasting large fortunes of money on things and events that exist almost purely as forms of social signaling | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 08:12 PM |
| 0 | Being poor and marrying an HVM: how do you avoid sinking his standard of living?A. I think he is! He is a very smart spender, but I just am not comfortable with his insistence upon having a wedding and vacations. I don't think those are reasonable expenses. He's pretty frugal in other ways, so I'm not worried B. He could've done better, yeah C. He's very upfront and I'm comfortable with his family's financial situation and the fact that he will be doing much of his own earning when his career starts next year D. I'm not entitled to the lifestyle he earns through his own wor… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 07:17 PM |
| -10 | Being poor and marrying an HVM: how do you avoid sinking his standard of living?I want to, but he wants the whole wedding ordeal, yearly vacations, etc. That's the only part I don't trust. He's very responsible otherwise, but all of those things (ring wedding honeymoon etc) are merely threats to financial stability. I get that he finds them socially necessary but yikes | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on the "great conspiracy" to stop women from staying homeYou're very right, but getting someone to stop hurting your loved one is very different than my bad habit of being rebellious and snippy when men criticize me, which is what I was referring to. I appreciate this comment though, because you're absolutely right about "challenging" being used to defend the vulnerable when necessary! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/21 01:26 PM |
| 2 | How do I tell him about my childhood ?This is solid thinking. It really is of consequence to him, because he will inevitably have to deal with your baggage at some point. Don't you think he deserves to know exactly what you're going to bestow upon him? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/21 10:09 AM |
| 2 | How do I tell him about my childhood ?I think he deserves to know what he's getting into. My man knows almost everything, and we've been together for one and a half years. He deserves transparency about who I really am and where I come from. This way, he can get out before he becomes too entrenched in me, if needed. He chooses to stay, despite my previous life situations and family problems, but most wouldn't (who would?). I feel better knowing that I don't have to lie to him. I also feel like it's important to be as transparent wit… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/21 10:08 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts on the "great conspiracy" to stop women from staying homeI'm very confused. I always count working hard in the home as staying home. Are we on the same page? I think being very industrial and productive with home-based domestic duties such as gardening is still considered being a stay at home wife | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/21 02:43 AM |
| 0 | Thoughts on the "great conspiracy" to stop women from staying homeIt's okay I tend to challenge men too often and I really need to stop, it's not good of me | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/21 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the "great conspiracy" to stop women from staying homeOkay I'm sorry for challenging you, I really don't know enough | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/21 02:05 AM |
| 4 | Thoughts on the "great conspiracy" to stop women from staying homeThat's everything I just said | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/21 01:57 AM |
| 12 | Thoughts on the "great conspiracy" to stop women from staying homeYeah, the stay at home WASP who watches soap operas all day is new, but women largely stuck to domestic labor or handiwork throughout history. The first women in primitive societies stayed in or close to the home. I also would appreciate if you refrained from insulting me, or any other woman in this community💗 | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/21 01:46 AM |
| 23 | Thoughts on the "great conspiracy" to stop women from staying homeI love your last paragraph, especially the first sentence! Funny how so many "anti-capitalist" young women are vicious feminists. If only they knew that the very late capitalism they claim to despise is running on the adamant singleness of girls just like them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/21 01:24 AM |
| 7 | Giving up on being feminineAlso, why do you feel like "less than human" for taking care of a man? Who wants you to think that way? Who exactly benefits from your labor, instead, when you convince yourself that a loving husband doesn't deserve it? There are other forces (corporations) competing with provider men for female labor. They will convince you not to find happiness in homemaking, because they want to use your labor to fuel the constant death spiral of industrialized society. Who really deserves you more? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/21 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Giving up on being feminineIt's never too late to learn homemaking skills!! Take it from someone who grew up eating microwave dinners on the floor in a hoarder house. YOU CAN SUCCEED AT MAKING A BEAUTIFUL HOME! It's absolutely necessary to go in with a positive attitude towards creating, maintaining, and beautifying your sanctuary! You will be so much happier when your environment improves, and it's up to you to change it. Whenever you cook or clean, think of how grateful future you (even like tomorrow you) will be for ha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/21 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with the sexual aspect of my relationship - feel like a man eater.What do you mean? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/21 06:48 PM |
| 4 | Struggling with the sexual aspect of my relationship - feel like a man eater.Your English is great, don't worry! I wasn't aware of that rule, so thank you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/21 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Struggling with the sexual aspect of my relationship - feel like a man eater.You are right that these are conclusions without proof. I just think it's very important for women to be understanding the potential reasons behind a man's ill behavior before blaming themselves, or worse, convincing herself to accept it. They're just ideas for things to consider, not solutuons for a problem I'm not a part of | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/21 02:15 AM |
| 15 | Struggling with the sexual aspect of my relationship - feel like a man eater.Why don't you want to break up with a guy who obviously makes you miserable? I was once in a similar situation with a guy who either denied me for weeks, or forced me when I didn't want it, with almost no in between. I stayed partially because I thought it was my fault, and I tried to convince myself to be okay with it. My current boyfriend and I have no issues at all. Just by merit of being a woman who cares and tries, you deserve to be desired. You deserve to be cherished and hunted. You deser… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/21 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Good non-political bra brands?Oh sorry! I meant reusable, not disposable! I've been using disposable this whole time and was wondering what you do with reusable ones. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/08/21 09:35 PM |
| 0 | Good non-political bra brands?Eww, girl I almost forgot about Flex until now. Who on earth is so unquenchably horny that they can't wait four days? My Google account is set up to not show me any form of targeted ads. Sure, they're probably still storing and selling my data, but at least I get the same generic ads as your typical grandma on a library computer. What do you do with non disposable pads when you're out of the house all day? I'm not married yet and have to work, so I haven't switched to cups or reusables yet. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/08/21 08:33 PM |
| 22 | Good non-political bra brands?For real! Maybe it's just a branding trend that will go away soon. I get these weird off brand organic tampons from the crunchy store. It's better than the mainline brands trying to shove it down my throat that I "shouldn't let my period stop me". What if I want to take a brief season of ~feminine rest~ with my periods instead of constantly grinding with an overtired body? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/08/21 08:24 PM |
| 58 | Good non-political bra brands?This is the thread I didn't know I needed! It's so hard finding "lady supplies" that haven't gone woke. Can we just have plain old tampons that aren't trying to "empower" us? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/08/21 08:17 PM |
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