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Subreddits more specifically for submission? (Non sexual)

sister-goose · 2021-09-21T01:18:52+00:00

Are there any spaces for submissive females to hang out and...

sister-goose

September 21, 2021

19 upvotes

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Title	Subreddits more specifically for submission? (Non sexual)
Author	sister-goose
Upvotes	19
Comments	16
Date	September 21, 2021 1:18 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/ps8cyi/subreddits_more_specifically_for_submission_non/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWomen/subreddits-more-specifically-for-submission-non.1075287 https://theredarchive.com/post/1075287

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[–]Wild-Second-6852 21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]sister-goose17 points 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Ugh, tradfemsnark is so disgusting. Glad someone else is rolling their eyes at it too!

[–]Wild-Second-6852 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Hopeful_Pay_6685 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]LateralThinker134 Stars 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

[–]sister-goose7 points 4 years ago [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link

I'm just heavily interested in the lifestyle of being totally submissive to a man, deferring to him, never challenging him, putting him on a pedestal, and serving him. I want to find other women who share this interest.

[–]LateralThinker134 Stars 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link

You'll find a few here who will advise, but... you might get more traction in a sexually submissive, servant, or subservient forum, even though you said it's nonsexual. It's not a large niche.

Yeah, if it's not about submission in a (sexual) LTR, a lot of the folks here likely can't help, but stick around and you'll find a few. Plenty of RPW are into various kinks. No shaming of that here.

As a point of clarification, this is what you seek, yes? Basically to be subservient to a man in a nonsexual manner? That is a very specific, narrow focus that'll be hard to nail down. Any man? Or one you have a relationship with?

EDIT: Sorry, brain just caught up on me. Not awake. Go to any large BDSM site. Seek out the pure Dominance/Submission forums. That's what you need. There are plenty of nonsexual D/S relationships. And as always, vet heavily.

[–]sister-goose2 points 4 years ago [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link

Yes-- my long-term boyfriend, who plans to marry me.

[–]LateralThinker134 Stars 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]sister-goose8 points 4 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

He actually gets "free use" out of me, so it is a sexual relationship. I personally just have zero interest in reading about anything sexual and would rather involve myself in communities that only talk about stuff like "my husband's favorite packed lunch recipes!" and "how to defer in a disagreement" and that kinda thing.

It's not submission play, but the whole submissive lifestyle. It's way more headship and way less d/s.

[–]KittyKim35 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Hello there!!! After reading the thread to get a full understanding, RPW is going to be the closest subreddit you'll be able to find. Also, feel free to reach out with any questions!! As someone who pretty much lives this type of lifestyle, I'm happy to connect with you!!

While my boyfriend and I do have a sexual D/S relationship in the bedroom, I do submit in a non sexual way outside of the bedroom. He handles finances, major decisions, pretty much everything, etc. and my job is taking care of the home and serving him in whatever way he needs.

Now let me preface/explain a few things before you decide to jump into a relationship like that. 100% agree with everyone on vetting, really know the person you're choosing to submit to. Make sure they won't end up taking advantage of or not appreciating the submission and all you do. Make sure they know you can and will take away any form of submission if you feel taken advantage of, not respected, appreciated, or if they are not working equally as hard for you in return. Having a strong foundation of trust and respect is CRITICAL, as well as communication. This type of lifestyle takes work and you need to ease into it bit by bit, otherwise it can be overwhelming giving up so much control at once.

It can be tough at first, but once you get into a routine and consistently communicate, it's a wonderful thing and so so so freeing! I'm incredibly lucky to have a man who works hard to provide for me, who's patient and kind and understanding and pushes me to be the best version of myself. He works hard to also make sure I'm healthy physically and mentally. He is a man worth submitting to and my daily goal is to go through each day knowing that everything I do is an act of love and respect and submission to him, and that he does the se for me with all his hard work. We're a team and work together to show each other we love and appreciate and respect each other ❤ THAT is the kind of man who deserves submission.

To make a long story short, welcome! and please reach out with any questions!! 😁

[–]sister-goose2 points 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Aaah that all sounds like such a dream come true!! I'm so happy that you're in a situation like that and it works!

[–]KittyKim35 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]LateralThinker134 Stars 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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[–]JustaTcup 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link