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Pragmatic benefits from my ex-wife outside of the emotional feelz. 1) Keeping track of birthdays and getting presents for extended family so I didn't have to. 2) Weekly meal prepping, especially when I was working late. Way better then fast food. Probably the thing I missed the most. 3) Laundry so I always had clean cloths and didn't have to unwrinkle my work clothes when I forgot them in the dryer. 4) Remembering to write the rent check because despite the fact that it's 2024 most apartment com…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:14 PM
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My guy there is a very famous book I can recommend to cure all your ills. Its so famous it's even required reading amongst managers. It's called "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. It's so famous it inspired an entire genre of self-help for how to be more social and popular and just be a more friendly person. So if you can't make friends, do the work, put in the time. And learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:07 PM
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If you are retarded, sure. That says more about you then the average person though. Even the average autistic person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:36 PM
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Hey! You get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:36 PM
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Counterpoint. Men want a submissive woman until they have one. Then they realize how exhausting they are so they switch gears and want an agreeable woman. Then a couple years go by and they realize an agreeable woman who is agreeable with everyone can easily end up in a compromising position, so they go back to wanting a regular as woman with a hint of girl boss. Then the cycle repeats.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:38 PM
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The bear is only safer if you dont understand statistics. When you control for encounter rates, there's an order of magnitude or more danger with the bear than with the man. I fucking hate this meme so fucking much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 07:13 PM
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You know that's a self reported study, right? You know women have always historically delulued themselves into thinking a FWB relationship exists when it doesn't actually exist, right? Women have also historically dated older men. Age gaps of 5ish year's are pretty common. So ignore the clickbait headline. It's misrepresenting the source data.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:52 PM
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If men where really more aggressive then women, then every man you run into should start a fight, but they don't. Curious 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:33 PM
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So you are so afraid of failure you fail from not trying. The longer you wait the worse that gap gets dude. At this point you need to go to the next town over and strike out for a bit making incremental improvements until you can talk to women and ask them out. A black dude who drives a motorcycle and parties and makes people laugh doesn't have a problem getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 06:58 PM
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So were mine. Have fun hobbies and be a pleasant person to be around and you won't have dating issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:46 PM
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If you think racism is the issue being black, you are hopeless. Honestly. Keep that locus of control external if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:59 PM
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Wait until he finds out some of the people here are happily married and black.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:55 PM
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Casual sex often leads to casual relationships and some of them become serious. It's a spectrum that changes and grows as you get serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:54 PM
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So you don't believe there is a dating crisis at all then. That today's world is fine for dating. Because observationally, bars are still thriving. Party culture is a thing. People are still hooking up and marrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 01:16 PM
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So then since men lie about how much sex they have, all of the data from that survey get to be ignored right? We don't have a 66% relationship less rate, right? That was the same survey two years previous. We don't have a 33% virginity rate right? It was the same survey 2 years previous. No, OP. You don't get to cherry pick which years you think the survey had good data that happen to coincide with covid just to fit your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:51 PM
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Almost half of men under 25 have not approached a woman in the last year. Of fuckinf course they aren't getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:23 PM
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Because 48% of men below the age of 25 have approached a woman in the past year to ask her out. That's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:49 PM
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5% of men under 45 have a vasectomy. 4.2% of women under 30 have tubal litigation. I'm not sure what you are trying to say here. Try cutting the sarcasm and having a discussion.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 04:44 PM
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A bunch of women posting about how they are going to be in their villainess era, with various song backgrounds of empowered women. And in the end you realize they are just learning how to say no for the first time. "I'm going to be in my villainess era from here on out. Telling people no, and insisting on getting what I want and need out of relationships." You mean having normal healthy adult boundaries? You consider normal healthy adult boundaries to be VILLAIN behavior? No wonder women lie all…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:43 PM
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And in some states it's illegal without the wife's signature.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 03:39 PM
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More likely at 28 instead of 24. 30 isn't an absolute cut off, it's a just a general observation.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 03:39 PM
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By doctors? No. It didn't happen.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 03:37 PM
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Strawman. Meth use is a small percentage of the population. The number of women who are incapable of stating their own needs because it makes them feel bad is large enough to fill an entire self help section and a multigenerational girl-boss "rebellion" movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:13 PM
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Everyone is intellectually lazy. To pretend otherwise is to not understand how the decision process is performed in the brain. We make 1000s if not 1000000s of decisions a day. With a baseline of pattern recognition and assumptions and feelings, people would be stuck with analysis paralysis all the damn time and nothing will be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:12 PM
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It's literally the only way people treat other people. When you have no information about someone you make assumptions based on pattern recognition. It's basic human cognition, normal, and expected. People who can't adopt from the pattern recognition base slate to the person in front of them over time are foolish and annoying to deal with. I will agree with you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:49 PM
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I respect that. This is why the villainess era amuses me on tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:37 PM
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Blame your sisters. The number of women who say they don't like oral, and then complain when oral doesn't happen is non-zero. As a rule, when a woman tells me she doesn't want something, I assume it's a lie the first time. If it gets repeated I'll back off. For a less provocative example, picking up food and the eternal "I don't want any".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:35 PM
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Where is that? Most places I know with laws against sterilization young affect both genders.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 04:25 PM
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Incorrect. There's a strong bias against surgical sterilization of both sexes. A lot of men get told no when they go in for vasectomies.
/r/MensRights15/09/23 02:18 PM
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1) Oral sex rates 2) Fantasy fulfillment. 3) Toy use. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:45 PM
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Based on the fact that he's married?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 07:36 PM
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This is a classic case of men and women using two different meaning for "attractive". When the manosphere says "attractive" they mean sexual attraction. When women say it, they usually but don't always mean relationship attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:56 PM
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Technically correct, although not for the reasons you think. Yes that means there's no sexual attraction there. No, it doesn't mean you are ugly. Chemistry is as much about vibes, charisma, and smell, as it is about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:39 PM
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Most huge dildo purchases are done by gay men. Also, insertable length matters. A dildo that is 8" is going to be held by 2-3 as it's inserted. And finally, men are rarely going balls deep in porn. They are short stroking 9/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:39 PM
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You are telling on yourself if that's what you think is required for good sex. I've never had a woman complain I was too small, in fact I get the opposite complaint. They also really love fucking because I care about them and make sure we both have a good time. You don't need a fucking 9" coke can to dickmatize.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:33 PM
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There were several issues with the methodology. It specifically asked about committed relationships, and was conducted via cold call. The number of people available to answer questions in the middle of the day skews heavily towards married religious women and NEETs of both genders. A committed relationship was not well defined, either. So people who are fucking but had no intentions of LTR would still answer no to that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:46 PM
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Nothing you described was pick me. You just described normal western dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:33 PM
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Tell me you don't understand what dating is for without telling me you don't understand what dating is for. It's to check compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:19 PM
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Do you mean Rollo Tomassi's writings? Where he says you should not commit to one women Or Chateau Heartiste's writings? VII. Always keep two in the kitty Where he advocates for a plate system and never commiting, and says you should always be willing to walk away? Or Rollo again, stating that redpill is amoral. Or from redpillschool, another one of the early endorsed contributors, again stating that redpill is amoral Redpill has been amoral and a sexual strategy for fucking women, preferably mul…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:54 AM
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You've been in the red pill community for years, but can't access the red pill sub because it's private? You expect people to believe the shit that comes out of your mouth?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:03 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3b2cpu/comment/csi7zul/ I'm going to leave this here for the newbie. Check top comment. By an endorsed contributer, and a mod.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:15 PM
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If you took out all the things that make (insert action) enjoyable. Then (insert action) would be enjoyable and therefore people wouldn't do it. This means that it is valueless. Damn. We really dug deep for that piece of wisdom, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:43 PM
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I'm not reading all that. Sorry that happened to you. Or congratulations. Whichever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:11 PM
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That is a thing that some women believe in various phases of their life (especially young). Its rarely held onto forever. Regardless, why does that matter? If she's pining, move on. Get a new one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:01 PM
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There is no such thing as one true love. You really are terrified of being inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:54 AM
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No. No it wasn't. The pew study didn't address sexlessness at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:28 PM
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They didn't use sexlessness. They used self reported relationship status. So part of the issue is that men are saying "no" because they in situation ships, but the women are saying "yes" because young girls are sappy and dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:33 PM
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Protect yourself from "The Plume"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:59 PM
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I'm not reading all that. I'm happy for you. Or that's sucks. Whichever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:29 PM
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1) The pew research data is misrepresented. If you look at the sources "Single" is qualified as "Not married, engaged, or in a committed relationship". This means that any guy who is asked if he is in a committed exclusive relationship says no, he gets put into the single column. So men in a FWB scenario that don't think its that serious, but the girl does... (a tale as old as time) looks like women are in polygomous relationships with a very small number of men. And this is not the case. 2) OLD…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:26 PM
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It's an information source. And not a primary one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 06:29 PM
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Bullshit. If you are actually 37 you would remember all the PUA shit and self help gurus in the late 90s and early 2000s. That specific approach is older then Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:22 PM
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I'm not reading the whole thing. Ingot halfway through and realized you just have a lot of issues. Lack of confidence, self loathing, and inability to understand that people don't see things you do or the way you do. Figure out how to deal with your anxiety, talk to more people, and learn that blue collar work, ribbing is a part of comraderie, and if they didn't like you, they wouldn't do it. They are trying to help you with women. Fucking ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:57 PM
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Her parents are a useful comparison. People either try to be like their parents, or unlike their parents. If she shares traits with her mom, and her mom disrespects her dad. Even if she hasn't disrespected me yet, that would be a red flag because she will likely do it in the future. In that same scenario, if she is very unlike her mom, it would not be.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:53 PM
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Well, off the top of my head: 1) No societal slut shaming 2) The ability to walk around, and be single for longer (societal expectation of being married doesn't kick in until mid 30s or so) 3) Generally less of a care what society thinks. 4) The ability to get better game, or status and boost attractiveness through methods outside of looks. 5) The bar being on the fucking floor. So being top 20% of men is easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:33 PM
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This assumes the paternity fraud rate is the same across intact and non-intact families. Which isn't the case, intuitively.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 04:18 PM
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Wait until you learn about the two definitions of the word "attractive".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:50 PM
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test
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:02 AM
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Citation needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:55 PM
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No, it's because she's been ostricozed from the female community and will no longer recieve support from them for undercutting the pussy cartel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:12 PM
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Not really. Becky calls Sally a whore, not because her husband bill hates her, but because her husband bill likes her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:10 PM
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Fem brained black pillers run the n count scoreboard here yah.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:47 PM
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Most of the manosphere is made up of men who cannot get women because they do not think like men, they think like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:28 PM
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Men dont shame women for having sex. Other women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:12 PM
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Only you are making that claim. You are taking a positive statement and adding your personal bias that assumes it implies a negative. "He wants to work hard for his family." =/= "He never spends time with his family because he's at work." Thats your personal bias creeping in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:58 PM
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Nothing there was coercive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:46 PM
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Nothing in that said the father was not loving, or not involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:20 PM
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What is this blackpill nonsense? It blue pill for ANTS!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:17 PM
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This system is immently broken and stupid. You can crack the whole damn thing open by min maxing. Take a look at other point buy systems before proposing something like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:58 PM
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"If the men find out we can shapeshift, they'll tell the church!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:32 PM
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PPD is to debate to redpill concepts. You gotta understand to base material to debate dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:41 AM
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I will save braincells and not go looking for it. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:47 PM
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It's amazing that pre-selection is a new concept on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 04:09 PM
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Multiple kf these can overlap. Kids make great free weights and they cackle the entire time. Prep dinner, get it to simmer, go downstairs to home gym, knock out a set or super set, go up and check on food. Social activities can easily be physical and replace gym time on a 1 to 1 (Me and the bros regularly take half a day and see how many miles we can ruck. I dont go to the gym that day, or the day after.) Quit being rigid, and be more creative with your planned output.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:15 PM
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I'll bite the concern troll and assume this isn't a larp. It sounds like you forgot about rule one, didn't leave your ego at the door, and are far too emotionally damaged by a previous relationship to be any kind of Captain to this woman. Honestly, you sound like a whiney bitch. I'm trying to figure out why she's with you or why she hasn't picked up how losery you are yet. Do better. Be more confident. Her N-Count doesn't matter if you are the best guy she's going to get like you've been asserti…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 10:36 PM
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I agree on those points, but frankly, that's a deeper level of analysis than the OP is likely going to follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:55 PM
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The operator honestly doesn't matter, as long as it's a positive one. The point is that because of the positive operator, by definition of having to spend more of one resource, it means you by default have less of another.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:45 PM
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Its not entitlement. Its aspie math and different values. Men value sex so they see it as: Sex = Hotness + Commitment/time So, if they have to give more commitment or time for sex, they take it as being perceived as a less valuable or less attractive men. That's it. That's the end of the issue. It's not sex entitlement; it's math and value differences. Women tend to not see sex as valuable, so they have a different equation. Probably something like: Commitment = Sex + Congeniality + Reputation S…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 02:44 PM
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What kinda sad sack self-defeating crock of shit is this? She's giving you runway lights through her legs via handing you a date on a silver platter (watch said movie) and you think it's a sign of desperation because you guys share a dorm? Let's be real here. You know for a fact that people tend to date people they have mutual circles with and interact with on a regular basis right? Dorm buddies is a shared circle and you know that. Your self esteem is so far into the gutter you're chickening ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:27 PM
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Its not men who pedestalize women. Women pedestalize themselves. If women said that en masse there wouldn't be all the mega insulted men. The anger tends to come from a perception of dishonesty. Women dont state looks as a requirement for two reasons a) its implicit, and men dont always get that. b) if she did she loses social points amongst other women for being "shallow". Frankly until meeting incels here, I've never met men who call women shallow. I've only ever heard women call other people …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:33 AM
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Depends on age honestly. Sub 30? Probably (age-18)*2 roughly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:28 PM
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Your explination for the tweet then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:47 PM
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They do have standards, the goal is sex not relationships, but the walk away principles can be applied to relationships too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:29 PM
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Are you unfamiliar with the ENTIRETY of Redpill, the ideology that started this debate sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 11:22 PM
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yup
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:56 AM
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Show me a relationship without arguments, and I'll show you a relationship doomed to fail and rife with silent contempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 04:29 PM
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Its thousands of micro fractures across your entire pelvis to make room for the baby. What did you expect it to do? Pinch? 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:43 AM
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How are we judging each? Sidebar, top contributor? top post? Frequent post?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:34 PM
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Pickme is just the new slut shaming. It reduces the collective power of women in general by raising men's standards across the board. "Susan does it, why can't you!"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:24 PM
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There's a LOT of duplicates and throwaways. I had 3 on MRP before I got banned for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:22 PM
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They really aren't. They are two sides to the same coin. TRP is about men reaching their goals (casual sex) in an amoral context, and comes across as woman hating and mysogynistic as a result. FDS is about women reaching their goals (marriage to a HVM) in an amoral context, and comes across as man hating and mysandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:21 PM
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Nothing in there was about how or why the women are attracted to men. It was all about how they use the phrase "Your husband material" if they called the asshole fun guys they date and sleep with husband material, it wouldn't be perceived as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:42 PM
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Redpillers view as an insult because while a lot of women use it as a relationship rejection, all women use it as a sex rejection to make the man wait. Abs Redpill is about getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 01:18 PM
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Actually no. Because its not just RP that views it as an insult. Its the context in which its used. Women have been using it as a soft rejection for a long time now, so of course men view it as an insult. Its the "OMG I wish I could meet a man just like you, but I still won't date you." meme cranked up to 11. If it wasn't used like that, and women would actually date, marry, and fuck the men they called husband material it wouldn't be an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 12:46 PM
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Its not that being considered husband material is an insult, its the context in which its used. I'm sure you've seen the meme "OMG, You'd make the perfect boyfriend!" or "I wish I could meet a guy just like you!" And yet the same women who say that won't date or sleep with the guy in question? "Your husband material" is that exact same meme cranked up to 11. If the women who said that actually dated/married/slept with the man in question then it wouldn't be an insult. Instead women use it as a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 12:41 PM
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I hope it goes well for you and the baby. You'll be in my prayers. We can discuss this more much later.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 12:55 AM
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But WHY is it a bad idea? I thought we liked this sort of stuff? Nesting vs. Arousal. Being pregnant throws women into overdrive when looking for a domestic partner and the same behaviors that trigger arousal also trigger anxiety for nesting. Harvard did a study that touched on it. It found that womens preference dangerous traits increased when single and/or ovulating to get pregnant, but once pregnant they preferred safe stable men as a provider (until the child was a little older anyway). The …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:03 PM
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Or you can try to figure out where there’s a lack of sex. With me it was the treatments and the looming fear that I could die, that our baby could die, that both me and our baby could die or we’d have to pick between termination or continue cancer treatment. We've already talked about how dread gaming a pregnant spouse is a bad idea. Extenuating circumstances are going to exist. You also arent going to be pregnant and/or in treatment forever. Working out isn’t going to scare anyone except for an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:54 PM
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He did. You admitted as such in another post. He: wasn't butthurt about a lack of sex because of nausea, he had a hobby outside the home, he's in decent shape, he didn't turn into a slob, and he enforced boundaries on sex (He didn't want you hurting yourself over it.)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 08:37 PM
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In other words, for most guys, Level 1-5 are personal and social self improvement so that your "Dread" is at the level that it should be. To clarify, these are sequential. You don't go past level 5 if you are happy in the relationship. You don't "cheat" until you have tried everything else and the marriage is already over. Move up these levels one at a time, slowly, and carefully It was right there in your own quote. Dread level one: Quit being butthurt about a lack of sex. Make an effort at sed…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 11:00 PM
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> Also if you have to dread your partner into staying interested in you, the relationship is already lost. Showing, yet again, you have ZERO conceptualization of dread. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2lpafb/the_12_step_plan_of_dread_book_excerpt_from_my/ BPP is a retard, but he got that much right. And doing a quick overview, looks like I had smashed a couple levels together. Nothing through 6 is remotely offensive, and men rarely have to go past level 7 or 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 09:37 PM
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I'm an old school MRP, which makes me more purple than say old school RP, but more red then new-school RP. I found MRP/RP the way most men have. By googling "Why won't my spouse/women in general fuck me?" You know what the first thing I read was? What the first thing on the sidebar at the time was? What the dominate thing all the mods were preaching? "It's because you suck ass, quick sucking ass, here's a cheat sheet for spergs to not suck ass." It has and always SHOULD be framed as my fault. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 01:59 PM
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What a load of shit. Seriously. "You know, this cherry pie is shit because it's got cinimmon on it, it's not supposed to be like an apple pie." "tHaT mAkEs It ImPoSsIbLe To LiKe ApPlE pIe." That is the argument your professor is making right now. Things are supposed to be different, and when object A is too much like object B at the expense of necessary object A traits, that makes it a defective object A. There is ZERO morality applied in that classification, and it does not mean that object B i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:57 PM
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1) You are going to get ghosted. It's not a bad thing, it just happens on both sides. 2) Only have sex when you are ready. You will weed out guys, but that's the point. The ones that care about you will stick around (probably fucking other girls). It only becomes an issue if you demand exclusivity and still don't put out. 3) Guys are concerned about sexual interest. If you make it clear you are sexually interested in him, but still want to hold off on actual sex, it's usually not a serious issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:52 PM
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indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:28 PM
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Current supply chain issues show that to be a lie. If the supporting structure stopped, FEMA has shown that we would be starving in as little as a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:42 PM
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The one discussed in the body of the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:28 PM
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Then the question is retarded and moot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:39 PM
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Its a play off of All Guns Are Loaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:35 PM
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Good summary.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:26 PM
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Petting cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:39 PM
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BPD is extreme feminine brain. So it still works on women, you just, you know, don't be autistic and moderate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 08:30 PM
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This is a hot take, but I would split. Sexual compatability is a MAJOR component of relationships imo, and I'm not a sharing kinda person. So opening the relationship is out. I don't like the idea of putting myself and the person I supposedly love in a situation where one of us HAS to be unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:22 PM
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Wilco. I'll resist the urge to be a smartass, just for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 04:21 PM
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She's risking her body by having your kids. A lot of men don't seem to realize that pregnancy is DANGEROUS for women, even with todays current medical health. On top of that, childbirth is generally expensive. If she has your kids, and you two aren't married, she's getting a raw deal. Plain and simple. In addition, there's a whole lot of legal benefits to being married. Being able to see a loved one in a life-threatening situation. If you get life-flighted to a hospital, and she doesn't have the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 01:39 PM
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https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/news/20041007/sex-toys-more-common-in-women-in-relationshipsSo among young women 51% have USED a sex toy. Even if we are generous and assume 100% of those women also OWN a sex toy. Only 80% of them own a vibrator. So we are down to ~40%. So ~40% of women own a vibrator and have used it at least once.So even making the most generous assumptions for your case: Every women who has used sex toys owns at least one sex toy. Every women who owns a vibrator was pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:53 PM
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Do you have a stat for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:36 PM
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Economic factors effect an economic situation. News at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:17 PM
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They want relationships and they want men "equal" to them. So college educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:17 PM
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Total? How much is left outside then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:04 PM
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Read that stat. That's 80% of sex toy owners. Not 80% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:57 PM
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I was shadowbanned from most pro women subs without ever having posted there because I identified as purple-red here. They don't care about fair or honest. They just boot out anyone who raises an objection to deep throatinf ideology with no critical thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:18 PM
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Do you have ANY idea how much of a skewed sample that is. Do you even statistics bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 05:49 PM
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As a dude. Its a red flag. He might be a shut in with no friends who spends his days on reddit complaining about being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:17 PM
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So go to a hobby hangout and make some. I moved to a new town in april. I'm the quintessential MtG playing, D&Ding, wheel of time anticipating nerd. I went to local dnd shops and card shops and made friends. Then we hung out at houses to avoid the whiney bitches at the shop. Then we went to pool haul for a change of venue. Its not rocket science. And in today's casual acceptance of nerd culture, you can easily make friends who share your interests. You dont even have to be extro. There are many …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 04:13 PM
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Yup, this is totes real and, like, totally written by girl. Definately not written as a LARP. skskst and all that babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:03 PM
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Mid tier or top tier?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 11:50 AM
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Decent looking is the looks equivalent of "not bad" Which means its not repulsive, and the implication is that its not great either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:02 PM
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If we aren't having sex, we aren't in a relationship. This is a friendship, and you will be treated as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:47 PM
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Big loud thing strong. Strong can protect. Like big loud thing. Small weak thing cute. Cute needs protect. Stay in hut to stay safe. Never leave. Like small weak thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:57 PM
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> one girl even sent me pics of her in her underwear in several angles, asking me if I thought she was fat, and she said she was going to stop eating. Jesus fucking Christ. How much a clearer signal do you need!? > Did i completely drop them like an asshole? No, I usually comfort them and so on so forth and they end up dropping me later on for a hotter guy. No, they ended up dropping you for a dude who had some balls to actually fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:55 PM
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It was probably the no sex before marriage that was the sticking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:52 PM
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But what if I want to whine? I don't like loosing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:09 PM
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Not even in the slightest. She does the bulk of them and prefers it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 07:25 PM
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She gets the domestic stuff. I get the big stuff/outdoor stuff. Dunno if that's a compromise so much as division of responsibility. Outside of that it's just day by day, moment by moment. If Raven doesn't like something, she can speak up and we'll hash out it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 04:36 PM
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Because its an abortion "equivalent". Birth control does get talked about. It just doesn't get talked about as often as "financial abortion". Right now, a woman has SOLE rights and responsibility regarding whether a child comes to term. Men do NOT get a say in it at all. I get why, and I'm not here to argue that point. But for having a child, the male decision tree is: Woo girl -> Have sex -> Her choice -> baby. Does birth control stop it upstream at the have sex part? Yes. Don't women get to de…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 09:41 AM
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Oh I probably almost 100% agree with OP. But this is super intellectually lazy and is the definition of confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 07:39 PM
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How about you link the original psyche essay, rather than a screenshot of a transcript of a rollo tomassi article from 2019? Then we can have an actual discussion on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 02:30 PM
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Majority? No. A large chunk? Yes. Enough that's he's been called creepy in his life? Also yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 07:13 PM
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To that specific woman. There is no man that is 100% universally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:56 PM
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1) Chad gets called creepy too, he just doesn't care. 2) Chad gets called creepy too, he just doesn't care. 3) Chad gets called creepy too, he just doesn't care. 4) Chad gets called creepy too, he just doesn't care. 5) Chad gets called creepy too, he just doesn't care. 6) Chad gets called creepy too, he just doesn't care. It's a society wide shit test, and you're failing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:29 PM
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Well Caligula was famous for fucking pre-teens. As were most men in power historically. So I would argue it doesnt matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 11:43 AM
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Sure. but 99.999% of the population does. And if you aren't social, you'll never meet the 0.0001% that do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 11:09 PM
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Misery loves company but it will never get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 08:28 PM
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Further complicated by the fact that most of those are ummarried men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 12:57 PM
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Plastics fucking up the endocrine system. Hormonal birth control fucking with fetal development. Obesity. A lack of physical exercise. A lack of sleep. Less time spend around other men and more time spent around women. Pick any of the above.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:36 PM
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And apart from the last part, that was why and how redpill came about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 07:54 PM
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A lot of 90s and early 00s dating advice was put your partner first, don't be arrogant, and looks don't matter. Its funny how people don't realize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 04:48 PM
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And I think that distinction is what drives a lot of disconnect. When women say "that makes him attractive" they mean relationally (usually) when men hear "that makes him attractive" they are thinking sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:02 AM
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attractive Which one, masculine attractive (I wanna fuck) or feminine attractive (I wanna marry) because the two lists are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:40 PM
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It becomes a lot harder when reality is also telling you what fantasy is saying. Plenty of boys get a lecture from a female authority figure or three (teachers, mom, aunt) that girls when the girls "grow up and realize what's important" and stop chasing bad boys, they'll realize what a catch you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:40 PM
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I just needed to wait a few years for girls to "grow up" and realize that guys like me were in high demand because of our personalities. Don't you just love those lies, especially when perpetuated by the media we consume? X-men always got me for that reason. But even on it's surface, it's still shit advice. Who wants to be second place? Why should I have waited for girls to "grow up"? Why should I be unhappy and patient and wait for them to realize I'm a prize? How does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:37 PM
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Red Pill was designed to help the AFC the average guy who was struggling. It wasn't really for autistic people and 3rd world foreigners. That being said, the core of red pill, is "be the best version of yourself, put yourself before your partner, and develop competence and confidence." It's an oversimplification, but hey. The real red pill is learning that women use attractive differently then men, and learning that being dangerous is a good thing. For whatever reason, with women, the juxtaposit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:33 PM
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Not to get on a tangent, but this is the problem with TRP. They think they're such masters of psychology and revert to mental shortcuts like "AWALT" when they can't even grasp simple concepts like "different women like different things" and "a girl who is fine with her man not doting on her 24/7 doesn't mean she likes neglectful assholes." Do you know what a heuristic is? Have you ever handled a firearm?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:28 PM
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Dullness isn't attractive. Just like the gotcha question I linked to in the OP, TRP likes to self-sabotage their own theories by throwing in unattractive traits like dull and boring and then claiming that women pass on nice guys because they like abusive guys. The things that make a guy nice, also tend to make him "dull". Future Term Orientation, conscientiousness, a desire to please a partner before themselves. These things all come together to make "dull" men. The confident, exciting, sexy guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:25 PM
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It's slate, so it's about the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:16 PM
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Male ENTP blue -> red -> muave
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 08:42 PM
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Now set up a meeting time and see how many actually show up. For women, the validation is the goal, not the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 01:06 PM
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Its a shit test, and you ate that shit sandwich with a smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 01:04 PM
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You grew up around non assertive and effeminate men. Its psychologically unusual.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:22 PM
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doing it in a place that demands "decorum" for one reason or another. I have never met a man that would let something they found offensive slide on that. If someone is causing me grief I can and will cause a scene. It shuts that behavior down real fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:26 PM
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You already said hinge has better ratios. Congrats, your closer to the top of the options on hinge then tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 11:13 PM
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It does affect it, but tinder is a legitimate waste of time if you aren't good with photoshop. Most online dating is bad because most men don't know how to take flattering pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 05:33 PM
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No they won't. The current sausage to clam ratio on tinder is 4:1 by the last study I remember reading on gender tracking metrics. That puts ALL the power with the women. If it was a 1:1 ratio, men would have a much better chance just based on basic economics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 05:19 PM
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Rhianna Chris Brown is the high dominance male
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:37 PM
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The other thing to think about is women are attracted to "go-getters" and waiting for a man to approach them weeds out those that don't meet that baseline minimum requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 05:52 PM
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Opportunity. Head bitch get's first chance at batting eyelashes and showing cleavage. Head bitch can also ban other bitches from expressing interest, forcing head asshole to choose her because she's the only giving receptive signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 02:27 PM
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Sure. What happens when you map those inputs into a similar but different game. Like Doom Eternal? Do you still win? No, because the games are similar, have similar controls, are in the same archetype, but have different maps, enemies, and traps. Hell we can even go one further. What happens when you stick to the EXACT SAME GAME but change the difficulty? You don't win either. Because enemy movement and position changes. Finally, unless the game was completely piss-poorly-designed (and has no tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 02:12 PM
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Hot and crazy attracts high dominance men who like competition for long term relationships, and that's about it. For celebrity examples, look at Chris Brown and Rhianna. So if that kind of long term relationship appeals to you, then absolutely go for it. It'll attract almost any guy for short term fun though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 02:04 PM
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No one is entitled to the work of another. No man is entitled to have a spouse who cooks and cleans for him. No woman is entitled to sit on a couch eating bon-bons while her husband works and she does nothing. Glad we agree. People need to grow up and act like adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:42 PM
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Thanks for agreeing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:27 PM
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No a man's value is determined by how much value he provides. A man who doesn't provide value for a woman is almost universally not providing value at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:21 PM
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A lot of women do now. Its a more or less self regulating cycle. It just means we'll have even more dudes bitching about women only wanting chad, when they want a man, not a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:44 PM
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A lot of women do now. Its a more or less self regulating cycle. It just means we'll have even more dudes bitching about women only wanting chad, when they want a man, not a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:41 PM
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Double check your assumptions about my genitalia my guy. Obviously one needs to self select. But a guy who takes care of himself and his household is the bare minimum floor. Do you like to eat? Then you need to know how to cook. Do you like not stinking at work? Then you need to be able to do laundry. Do you like not being sick? Then you need to be able to clean the house. Its not a difficult concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:37 PM
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You're funny, I like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 05:33 PM
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Because in most cases, the woman doing the domestic work is assumed. Balance of probability and all that. The women who complain about mental/emotional/domestic labor are not the ones who sit on a couch eating bon bons. Thats a strawman fallacy. Its the women who work 40 hours a week, like thier husbands, but still do all the laundry, most of the cooking, and most of the cleaning, while keeping track of the kid's social calendars (plays, projects, games, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:51 PM
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They are tied together. See my other comment to the guy who tried to make that point. The bulk of "mental labor" is just worrying that the tools for the job are in place for domestic jobs to run and function.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:40 PM
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If thats what you got put of my statements, then you need to up your reading comprehension. I said nothing about catering and being a doormat. I said everything about companionship, cooperation, and providership.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:38 PM
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You want to check your assumptions about my genitalia. A lot of women do want to play support roles, doesn't mean they want to do it all the time. The entire conversation started because women were getting frustrated at a lack of assistance. There's a big difference between cooking dinner for a husband who lets her stay at home, and cooking dinner for a husband who exists her to when they both get off work while he fires up skyrim.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 07:44 PM
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Then you have a healthier outlook on relationships than most here. But we were not discussing a SAHW at all. We were discussing a marriage where both parties work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 07:40 PM
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Eventually the desire to leave a legacy and create mini-me's will overpower the desire for strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 07:11 PM
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Most of the mental and emotional labor revolves around the housework. Do we have dogfood? What will Johnny want for dinner? Do I still have bleach for that stain? Did I remember to mail the electric bill last time I picked up groceries?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 07:10 PM
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Most women are extremely reactive by nature. You'd be surprised at how much you can change woman's behavior by changing your own. So if she's a nagging harpy, most of the time, its because she doesn't see you as a competent person. If she doesn't see you as competent, ask why and fix it. If she's stressed and terminally exhausted, ask why and fix it. Do more work around the house, get a promotion and hire a maid, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 07:09 PM
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You missed the point of my sleep deprived angry rant. That was literally my point, help out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 07:06 PM
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Most men expect that though. It a combination of two statistics. The first that women are outpacing men in education, and starting outpace men in earnings. The second that most people believe housework to be the woman's responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:27 AM
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Generally, yes. Responsibility sucks. Oh well, shoulder it and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:25 AM
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Its cute you think thats what my marriage is like. If thats what you believe then thats what you believe. No one is forcing you into marriage, but this is a common tune that changes in most men. Considering you type like your 22 at most, I give it a decade to see if your mind changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 02:24 AM
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Its a strawman character to point out how ridiculous asking for a source on equitable asset distribution in divorce proceedings is when its literally the law in every state. I thought it was pretty funny, but clearly you don't get humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 12:18 AM
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Then power too you. I have sexual novelty and everything listed above. I just make sure I'm the best me possible. Honestly I dont understand NOT being the best version of yourself, but 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 12:16 AM
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It is. It takes a man to make a man. As iron sharpens iron, one man sharpens another. Pair underdeveloped social skills with a lack of a father figure, and you get a very dull and boyish piece of iron.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 12:14 AM
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They usually do. Have you not heard the joke: "I was married with two kids, and now I'm divorced with one. MAN life is so much easier." I'll also like to flip it on you. If housework is so easy, why can't you help her out?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:53 PM
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Then you grew up the right age, you just grew up relatively "normal". The guys who find red pill are the same guys that didnt date or dated very little in highschool, and they were the less social types.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:51 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:48 PM
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Then keep grinding for strange. That's just not my priority. I can have fun creative and new sex with my wife, and I got a little badass to boot. I'm not saying it's for everyone. If you don't like it, don't get married. I'm just saying don't be blind to the reality that women do the most housework and mental load, regardless of whether they are working or not, and that does have value, so don't bitch about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:31 PM
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Its me, I'm the authority. Also the sky is blue, and I'm the authority on that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:28 PM
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And most men find redpill between 18 and 25 when they are sorting that shit out. The harsh language jostles them out of the innocent lies phase, and they take the good advice, internalize it, and bounce.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:27 PM
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It's not lowest bid. I was matching crudity for crudity. If you get bored, or she nags, that's on you. Women are water, they fill the container you put them in. If she's shit, quit being a toilet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:37 PM
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You can be loved for being yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:36 PM
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Yes, but paying for a prostitute, someone who will bat their eyes and tell me how awesome I am on a regular basis, someone who will keep the house and laundry clean, take care of frivolous things like family birthday gifts, and look at investment properties while I'm at work gets expensive fast. I'd rather have one that I can just pay with dick, food, and a roof.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:31 PM
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Assets are being split equitably less than 10% of the time in the study you linked? I don't even have to read it to know that's a lie. If you need a study to know that western civilization in general and US divorce law in particular has a 50/50 split of assets at time of divorce nearly 100% of the time, then I wonder how you know that turning a doorknob opens the door, and if so, who provided the study confirming it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:29 PM
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That's a valid reason if all you care about is the physical chores being done. But if you also need/want someone to play personal assistant, you are going to need to pay more than $8/hour for an illegal. Or if you find the entire thing distasteful. Do everything yourself and refuse the ignominy of having someone do things for you. You know, be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:24 PM
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The surface level answer is respect for the effort needed to attain that musculature. The deeper lizard brain is: The request for advice is a veiled attempt to get the strong guy to join your "tribe" because if he's strong, it's better to have him on your side threatening your enemies then on your enemies side threatening you. It's the same reason men will defer to the largest man in the room usually (because he's the most capable of kicking your ass) and why men will instinctively size up a roo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:22 PM
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God fucking damnit you guys seem to be some whiney fucking shits. Yes, women provide mental and emotional labor at a much higher rate then men. Yes, if your wife is making as much as you she's getting a raw deal and you should feel like the shit-weasel man-child you are. If you are getting this butthurt over the idea, then simply be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:15 PM
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Legal precedent and a quick trawl of divorce settlements. Where men get burned is child support. Wives get the house (because of the kids) but she has to buy out the husband using the other assets. (She gets less retirement/savings money)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:13 PM
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Also tax breaks. I'll gladly accept doubling my tax-free contribution limit please and thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:11 PM
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A lot of men don't like it when you try to contribute to conversations or have thoughts and talk about anything really. There is a very solid % of men who want someone to sit there, listen, and laugh when appropriate and will be upset by anything more. And even good men will go through this in spouts. Raven will tell you that it's not uncommon for me to just go on a rant or long winded spiel about whatever has caught my attention and expect her to follow along. I rarely have the patience to exte…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:07 PM
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It's a bonus but not a priority for most men. Largely because women tend to not be funny. (Amy Schumer comes to mind). It's not that it's not appreciated. It definitely is. It's just that it's not important enough to artificially restrict one's dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 09:54 PM
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Are muscles important to finding a relationship? No. Is physical fitness important to finding a relationship? Sort of. Is not being fat important to finding a relationship? Yes. Is the confidence you build as a man from being physically fit necessary to finding a relationship? Yes. Is the anxiety reduction you get from knowing you can handle yourself if a dangerous situation arises necessary to finding a relationship? Yes. In short, it's not the muscles. It's the semi-tangibles and non-tangibles…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:37 PM
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It's two different guys. One is high testosterone (and also used to be a lot more common) the other is low testosterone (and is rapidly becoming more common). It's a combination of swaddling our youth, obesity, less inter-male competition, and the cultural withdrawal from physical fitness that happened with millenials. As a rule of thumb the hypersexual men are gen-x and boomers with some gen-z thrown in, and the no-fappers are millenials with the rest of the gen-zer's.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:51 PM
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It's fine when it serves my interest, it's shameful when it serves yours. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 03:28 PM
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I'm pretty solidly red, and because of that, it brings me around the to the feminist point of view ironically. Because of the differences in physicality, it's more dangerous for a woman to approach strange guys then the reverse. Worse a man is going to get is a hurt ego. A woman can get physically hurt. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:21 PM
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So the whole "I'm going to get called creepy for approaching so I'm not going to do it" shtick is nothing more than cowardice and failure minded thinking imo. Winners fail. Failures never try.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 03:00 PM
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I married a woman with a pretty face who was conventionally unattractive. I wasn't a smoke-show myself at the time either, but I saw someone who I could grow old and improve with. She had every other quality I wanted though, in addition to being madly in love with me. In the grand scheme of things, working on weight-loss with her isn't that much of a sacrifice. I imagine women who date broke students in lucrative career paths see something similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:44 PM
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swipe through tinder for a bit. The number of single moms who won't date someone with kids is too damn high.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:36 PM
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There are a handful of things at play here. First and most important, danger is EXCITING and therefore emotionally charged. So a man who's dangerous elects tingles. I've experienced this myself. Second, dangerous men also have the capacity for protection, which is important in a scarcity mindset woman who doesn't trust the state for protection (lower class women). Thirdly, there's an inherent desire to be the one that he DOESN'T cheat on. Because it means she's special. So she'll jump in anyway …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:32 PM
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Rules 1 and 2 vary from woman to woman is my point. There is no man with a 100% success rate in approaching. Even celebrities get called creepy from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:23 PM
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This, but unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:21 PM
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And then you'll still get called creepy by women who don't agree with you on one or two. No one has a 100% batting average. You just keep swinging.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:19 PM
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Yes. This is the part that I don't understand why people don't get it. Even "Chad" gets called creepy from time to time. You shoot your shot, and if it fails, you get called creepy. Different women find different men attractive, you shrug and move on. "Can I pee in your butt?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:19 PM
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Who ever texts back the least is the more important one. Therefore, for every 3 texts/snaps/dms/calls/contact attempt she does, I do 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 03:04 PM
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Sure, but they are still intuiting a LOT of it. I've got younger friends who are working through school right now, and I've heard them toss around the 2/3 rule, and the "if it's not FUCK YES! It's a no". The broad strokes are there, but no one is perfect down to the last detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 02:12 PM
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It's a turn off, because as much as the modern woman hates to admit it, they are turned on by strength and power. A depressed man exhibits none of those things. On the whole, women want a man who can protect them. A man who can't (whether it's because he's flakey, a lump on the couch, or decided to run his car off the road that day) tends to be a turn off. Some women can love them through it, especially if the men are getting help, handle the problem, and still exhibit competence and protector/p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 02:04 PM
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Blue pill is largely ill defined as "not red" or "antithetical to red". In pragmatic terms it means they believe in some combination: In some or most aspects of blank slatism (men and women are largely the same, Dimorphic differences are physical at best, Gender is a spectrum, etc.) You need to listen to what women say when they talk to you to be successful with them. Rewarding good behavior and "punishing" bad behavior is some form of emotional abuse Women can do anything men can do (see blank …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 01:35 PM
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Maybe back in the day, but the average bloke today isn’t aware of most of this stuff. Because people aren't hanging out in person anymore. I guarantee the one's that are know this stuff, and are fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 01:26 PM
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My face looks like I've been hit with a flaming shovel. I do just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 01:23 PM
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TRP was developed from old school 90's PUA to help the AVERAGE GUY who was sexually frustrated be sexually successful. In that sense, looks do not matter nearly as much as attitude and actions. Because we are talking about people within 2-3 std deviations of normal. In addition, most men can improve their SMV 2-3 points (+1 point for being not fat and/or strong, +1 for dressing and grooming well, +1 for attitude) so a 4 can become a 6 or 7 a 3 can become a 5-6, and 5-6 is pretty much the thresho…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 01:21 PM
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The 40% is for first time marriages, the 50% is for all marriages. But when you seperate by education/income, 20% of first time marriages amongst college aged people end in divorce. 50% of non college educated or low income marriages end in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 07:26 PM
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And one of the cooks doubles as a dealer and is best friends with the kitchen manager and/or GM because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 07:16 PM
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And how many of them involved the police?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 10:02 PM
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I have eyes and I talk to people. Plenty of men will get into a street scuffle and never talk to police about it. Much less report it in a study. Most studies are pulling law enforcement data and complaints anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 09:39 PM
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Talking to women. Seeing what media people tend to consume and remembering that art is a reflection of life. etc. If you need examples Friends and Sex in the City have plenty of examples of the "fuck it" moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 09:37 PM
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no. Men are less likely to report an attack especiallyattacks that got a bruise and not much else, which lowers the total number of known attacks, and increases the % of damaging/lethal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:02 PM
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Its usually a switch. There might be a gradual shift, but there is an epiphany moment where most women go "fuck! why am I doing this!?" That switch.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 06:01 PM
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I'm 28, not 48. I'm fully aware of tinder and its repercussions. I still hang with buddies who are still in school, and there is still a cycle of meeting up, vibing, checking the vibe later, then fucking. 18 y/o might not be doing that, but its still happening in mid twenties and up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:59 PM
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Doing fantastic, just grinding it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:57 PM
1

Do you have stats showing that greater % of men are seriously injured in individual attacks? Does it account for unreported attacks?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:55 PM
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Its bad enough I'm on here! Ya'll are too much fun to hang out with!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:35 PM
1

Can you do math? Because this has already been addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:05 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 06:04 PM
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You are most likely young, and what you see are women (who are serial monogamists) being picky about sexual partners (spouses, fuck buddies, etc.) in their younger years. As women get older, there is a switch that flips and they get anxious about having a good long term partner. The portion of women that switch never flips for is growing, but its small (<10% as a spitball). Objectively you are correct. There is no incentive to find a spouse. But Human's are hardly objective and rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 05:42 PM
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You aren't comparing the correct things. You should stop looking at absolute attack and absolute damage metrics and look instead at relative survival. If 10 women are attacked and 9 women died, and 50 men attacked and 40 of them died, men are attacked more and die more, but the %chance of walking away is twice that of a man's.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 05:35 PM
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How fragile are you? How much of your life have you been coddled? Intra-male competition and bullshittery are a simple fact of life and expressed in most social groups. I'm pushing 30 and my college buddies and I still wrestle, play fight, and compare life achievements whenever we get together. It provides incentive to DO better in life, and an easy way of getting acknowledgement when you complete a difficult task. As far as strangers getting butthurt and glaring at you? Let 'em. Their opinions …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 04:02 PM
2

.... Define date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 03:34 PM
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Do you not possess higher than a 3rd grade reading comprehension? Lmao! That's the dumbest strawman I've seen in a while. Especially when it is the exact opposite of what I said. Feel free to quote me saying that. When you can't, reread the actual comment and comment on its contents.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 10:02 AM
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The first is flat out wrong for the men and situations I'm talking about. Most of the problem with men like that is their issues are self inflicted. They aren't party people, so they are never in situations where casual sex is up for grabs. I do agree with the second, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:35 AM
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Statistically thats about what it is. Going by normal sex frequency and pregnancy rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 02:32 AM
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More likely than you think. Women are more likely to seek casual sex when they are ovulating rather than when they are not. Even assuming you are more correct, if I told you that every time you pressed a button, you would experience a euphoric high for 5 minutes, but every time you pressed it, you had a 1-2% chance of losing 1/3 of your paycheck for the next 18 years, would you press the button? Because the answer to that is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:42 PM
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The problem with your math, is that you assume they can have sex on the first date. The average guy doesn't. Unless something has drastically shifted in the last 10 years. On average it's 3 or so dates. These are also the same guys that try to treat a date as a formal affair. Dinner and an activity. Dinner at a chain restaurant is usually around $50 after drinks, apps, and tip. An activity can be anywhere from $30-$50 (movies, etc.). Add cost of transportation, and you can safely say $100 per da…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:35 PM
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Which? Because the divorce rate is currently floating around 50%
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 09:29 PM
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Doesn't Matter Had Sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:30 PM
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If you want an outgoing extrovert who wants marriage rather than sex, you are going to need to hook up with a tradcon and/or religious man. Those are your options, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:06 PM
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Marriage minded guys your age are either going to be long term thinking college students (grad school, doctorate track) and/or religious people. If you're religious, go to meet-ups that are tied to your faith (if you have one) or a faith you find non-objectionable (if you don't). And I don't just mean church meet-ups, I mean local community events, Christian concerts, charity drives, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:01 PM
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What kind of strawman is this? I don't know any men who complain that a woman wants a man who has stable finances. The opposite is usually the problem. They complain that women prefer jobless Chad to stable employment AFC.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 01:57 PM
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Well put.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 03:06 PM
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Do you have eyes? Women want men who are bigger and stronger than them as a evolutionary mechanism so they are protected from threats. In addition, smaller dainty women evoke a protective instinct in men so its evolutionary advantageous. It also aids in attracting male attention. So the women who "revel" in it as you so horribly put it are simply enjoying the good fortune of their genetics and enjoying a wider selection of potential mates to choose from. When you see a large preference from one …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 03:04 PM
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pick an SSRI, any SSRI
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 12:51 AM
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So has this faux "I worship the ground you walk on mi'lady" ever gotten you laid once? If so, has any girl slept with you twice? Or do you continue to perform and hope?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 03:23 AM
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If hes rich and takes care of her, yes. They want commitment and financial security. They have a pool boy to keep them from having to lie back and think of England every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 12:17 PM
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No they have tech blinders on. If you work in manufacturing or processing you can still make great money in bumfuck. I say this because I make 6 figures in bumfuck. Even then, most tech jobs can easily be done remote.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 12:10 PM
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The difference is tone. You and I both know that parental and advice and friendly advice have different tones when given.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 11:58 PM
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Because my mom telling me how to live my love life is a great way for her to meet her grandkids when they are 5 years old and we just got back to the states. If my dad did it, I'd probably call him to take the vagina he just grew back to the store. I'm an adult, not a child. They don't get a say anymore. If I want advice, I'll ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 10:16 PM
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Its not weird to me. Humans are humans are humans. Its biology and biomechanics. I KNOW I'm the weird one though. That's the difference between us. I'm not bothered by buying unmentionables for a spouse or family member or even a friend. That makes me a freak. Almost universally woman would be horrified if a male family member or male friend did that for them. And most would assume there's something sexual to it. That's how normal people react. And for much the same reason, mothers don't want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 07:38 PM
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Most of my friends have kids, and my wife and I have been taking care of kids since we were pre-teens. We are well aware of parental dynamics. Its also a hell of a lot easier to guess a cup size. Both because its easily visible even with cloths, and there are thing in the wash that have exact numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 07:32 PM
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No they absolutely do, but they do the normal an polite thing of being intentional about not noticing genitalia. No adult is noticing the bulge in sports uniforms or the junk their kids have if they walk in on them naked. They very intentionally don't do that. The only place where people are observing and taking notes is porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 07:20 PM
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I'm going to be charitable and assume you're lying. The alternative is to assume your stupid and don't understand social norms nor how they interact with memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 07:13 PM
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So you don't know a single non-religious mom who doesn't know her son's dick size?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 07:11 PM
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She thought I was out with friends and was trying to put clothes in my room. It was summer and the A/C was broke. I just grabbed a towel to save embarrassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 07:11 PM
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Do you not know how people react to someone unexpectedly seeing them naked? Do you not know how people react when they accidently see someone naked? Both parties do everything in their power to avoid seeing genitals, and they are incredibly successful at doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 07:03 PM
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Excellent dodge. You answered nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 06:44 PM
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So your expecting that mothers who accidently walk in on a teenage son when he's changing even sees his dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 06:19 PM
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Intentionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 06:14 PM
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Then you're bullshitting out your ass that women see adult sons naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 06:08 PM
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Vacation destinations are often 2nd world shitholes that have been made pretty for the rich people that come by. People in Fiji wash clothes in a river. So it doesn't surprise me that that they've seen adult children naked. Its not common in any western 1st world country. Its actually frankly disgusting. As a final point, mommy dearest still wouldn't know how big the dude is erect, because its not like he's getting a boner from showing off for mummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 06:05 PM
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What shithole are you living in that thats the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:37 PM
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Not really. You have to remember that red pill was specifically for men who were behind on the curve. There was also a strong culture in the 90s and 2000's that emphasized that looks didn't matter. So you have some oblivious dudes who take things at face value and don't look for subtext. You also have men who were raised by their mothers with few if any positive role models. And sometimes those groups overlap. Gen Z's rejection of blank slatism and emphasis on looks is a return to normalcy from …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 02:28 PM
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I'm good with everything from 20 to 35 depending on the presence of other curves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 01:59 PM
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This is the right answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 01:13 PM
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I don't have the source immediately at hand, but there have been studies that have done sex mapping in smaller communities, and they found that the same 10-20% of men had slept with 80% of the women in town at one point or another. There might be an old timer here who actually had to foresight to hold onto that study. I think it started as an STD tracking study IIRC.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 07:09 PM
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Ruthlessly cold-hearted and "I would kick this bitch to the curb in 2 seconds" have a pretty wide gulf between them. You can have and enforce boundaries and still be empathetic and care about others. You are confusing the ability to be soft towards others, and letting them walk all over you. Honestly it sounds like you have a shit frame, and need to read more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:09 PM
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Cubit Zirconia is a cheap ring that looks real in a photograph and costs a few hundred at most. Easily affordable for the posturing crowd. I've seen the same socioeconomic class spend that much or more on shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:44 AM
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No, no it's not. It's LC and WC women who are finally figured out in their thirties that Johnny BigCock the Murderer does not make a good long term partner. It's literally a sub full of women who are "hitting the wall" and realizing that they need to switch from AF to BB, with a smattering of younger women who are rapidly becoming entrenched in their hatred of men. It's a beautiful inversion of redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 10:34 PM
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From you! I had a little extra time this week and poked the subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 01:33 PM
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No, I just tend to reiterate points so crayon eaters can understand. Didn't seem to work this time. Me not attacking someone doesn't have anything to do with respect, otherwise I would kick small children like footballs. Have you read ANYTHING I've written?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 03:54 AM
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A woman who can kick my ass isn't likely to do so unless I initiate said ass kickery by swinging at her. Even female UFC fighters don't go around trying to physically intimidate people. Compare assault charges among female athletes to assault charges amongst male athletes. If I saw Rhonda Rousey in the streets and I didn't know who she was, she wouldn't be intimidating. She'd be a impressively fit girl that I would want to fuck. https://www.gannett-cdn.com/-mm-/24d33f8b5c7ee91e63b1d6dac1a464aa8c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 03:02 AM
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Have you ever seen the funny videos of a small child raging?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 02:55 AM
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When I show vulnerability my wife's sex drive goes down. If this continues long term she treats me like a child and scolds me. No thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:21 AM
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hahahahahahahahaha. No. Not even close. Are there women out there that can kick my ass? Sure. Are they physically intimidating? No way in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:19 AM
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You do, its just unconscious. Think about when you walk down a busy street, people get out of YOUR way, rather than the other way around. It's also why most executives are 6'1 or taller, as are most successful sales guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:18 AM
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Each to thier own. It goes back to a fight my wife and I had early on in my relationship. She was (understandably) pissed that I found her anger amusing. It's not intentional, it just is. When we both calmed down, I stated that I, like most guys, percieve anger as either non-threatening, and therefore funny, or threatening, and react accordingly. Out of those two options, which reaction did she prefer? She chose the former. I still can't control that I find her rage amusing, but for her sake I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:07 AM
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I find it amusing that you repeated what was side by me and the guy above me, and then immediately got disgusted. Male hierarchies are dominance based, and this plays into that. Its why guys are always giving each other shit verbally. Why older men will still wrestle at the barbecue. And it's why when things get out of line, and the whip crack of "enough" echoes across the friend group, shit stops. You can either be something to care for (and the implied helplessness that brings) or you can be p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:20 PM
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Whose perspective are you talking about here, and which type of "respect".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:56 PM
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In practice? No. I'm too hopped up on oxytocin to not cuddle, so prepare for teddy bear status for the next 5 minutes or so. I also take care of my own, so it's something I give freely. In general? Yes. I despise attempts to control or dictate my actions by people who I have not given my respect to. That includes the BDSM community.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:55 PM
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Define "consent". That's where it gets murky. As well as the double standards that get applied.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:02 PM
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BDSM is a feminine attempt to experience masculine dominance while still controlling it. That's why aftercare is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:01 PM
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That's a very detailed answer. It's also an accurate one. For men, respect goes hand in hand with competence. Love does not. I can love my nephew (4) and cherish and protect him. I don't respect him. He hasn't earned it, and actually has done several things to "lose" my non-existent respect. But that's just because he's FOUR and I don't expect him to have that core level of competence. A lot of men love women the same way. They don't expect the same level of core competence from their wives, erg…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 09:50 PM
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If thats what you got out of that you weren't listening. Be FUN! Only be stoic when shit hits the fan. Be the happy go lucky guy that makes her giggle, scream, or just feel on top of the world. If you feel like shit, just say your dealing with stuff right now and you've got it handled.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 07:39 PM
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Not just fair weather fans. Women will tolerate negative emotions and vulnerability in small doses if you've proven yourself competent before. Just spend those masculinity tokens sparingly, don't go into vulnerability debt, and expect the sex to dry up until you get your shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 12:41 PM
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She wants the vulnerability of being able to experience emotional highs around you. She wants you to admire a sunset with her, crack jokes, share the joy of a pregnancy together. That's what women want when they say they want "vulnerability." They pretend crying is a part of that dynamic, but it isn't. They don't want weakness or negative emotions, they just want you to be a source of ups for them, rather than a constant and unending brick wall of stoicism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 10:07 PM
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We do absolutely need social interaction. There's a reason there's a limit on solitary confinement. It can permanently rewire your brain, and even cause death. That being said, the conflation here is sex with social interaction, and the reason is simple. Most guys who don't have sex, usually also don't have regular positive social interaction, especially with tactile reinforcement. It's not just a matter of "being sad." It's a case of both sides of the argument missing the forest for the trees.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 04:54 PM
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If you're going to walk around low-class areas, you need to master your dead-eye look. Also, never keep your thumbs in your pockets.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 03:04 PM
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laughs harder There are trade offs. High income, stable, and romantic is already top 10% or less. What are you going to bring to the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 07:28 PM
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laughs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 05:22 PM
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Some, not most
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 10:21 PM
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I hate to say it, but you would be wrong. I found TRP and MRP at the beginning of it's decline, and even back then (2013-2014) you saw a MASSIVE influx of middle eastern and indian guys there. And when they got derided, they started hiding the fact that they were indian, middle-eastern. I wouldn't be at all surprised to find out that they are EC's now, and spouting bullshit to boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 04:54 AM
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The entire collective hivemind? The great and all powerful princess swarm feeding the collective queen bee beckie that is all women with complete uniformity and no deviation?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 01:45 AM
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Essentially yah. They are valuing the sexual experience over the emotional. The only additional point is the "waiting" problem, which just comes down to simple math.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 07:04 PM
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UMC women in NY are having trouble finding dates and bitching about it. Because they want men who make more then them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 06:50 PM
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The rash of women who are unable to find acceptable matches in NY would disagree with you. As would the plethora of Huffington Post and NYT articles on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:51 PM
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Emphasis added of course. Being inside one's own head isn't sexy. It's creepy. Mentally going over a routine is try hard. Just be the best version of yourself. Don't overthink it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:50 PM
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When women say "just be yourself", they aren't JUST saying "just be yourself". The full context of the statement is "be the best and most attractive version of yourself. Have the confidence say no to things you don't like, and the confidence to do what you enjoy free of the judgement of others." Women don't communicate directly. There are always layers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 06:02 AM
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I think its going to be my default response to all future retarded social engineering program.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 07:50 PM
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https://xkcd.com/592/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:32 PM
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Coercion to sign. This seems to be hard to prove, or even downright impossible if the prenup was reviewed by an attorney and notarized. This is where the crux of the arguement comes from. There have been several cases in the US court system where a refusal to marry without a pre-nup was ruled to be coercion, and therefore, unenforceable. There have also been cases where pre-nups are modified after the fact, but that generally only happens if there's a large windfall or income shift over the cour…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 02:07 PM
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I didn't say you were. I said you could be. You are entirely too young to be this myopic, and incel culture is to blame. Get off the femcel boards, ask your girlfriends for tips on looking cute and flirting, read up on how to give IoI's and your life will get better. I promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 09:19 PM
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6's get a couple of pursuits a year if they are single. They have to put themselves out there to find guys, but why does that matter? Most average people do. 6 is still above average. If your whining because you aren't genetically blessed enough to have a multimillion simp following on only fans I've got zero patience with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 12:17 PM
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Yah, I'd bet if you lost 5 lbs, and dressed better you'd be girl next door cute. Honestly 120lbs at 5' 1" is still better then most girls, so you might be a 4, but you aren't a 3. Which means with effort you can hit 6. At 19 everything is hell anyway and people are figuring out who they are. I bet your pretty cute now. Don't let instagram lie to you, the bar is a lot lower then you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 04:27 AM
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Women are catty as fuck and will always tear you down. Always. Two(ish) questions. How old are you? What are your stats? (Height, weight, bf% if you know it)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 03:41 AM
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You know your self loathing perception. Its not objective, and the negativity gets amplified in incel spaces. Its why I don't believe incels when they say anything about how they look. Its narcissism and self-loathing creating an antichrist of a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 02:48 AM
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It's a superiority complex. They are offended that you had the gall to approach because it implies you thought there was a chance she would say yes. Which means you think she's in your league. If you're in her league, then she's ugly by the transitive property. That's where the disgust and offense comes from. You're supposed to have the good grace to know your place and not speak to her. Ugly peasants are supposed to be ignored and never heard from after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 12:53 AM
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Either you haven't looksmaxxed, or you're lying about your looks. We can test it. PM me a pic, and we can go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 12:43 AM
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So you admit asking for sources for something so basic is retarded?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 05:05 PM
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You need sources to know that older women have higher n counts then younger? You need sources to know that single women in thier 40s and 50s have likely already been married and divorced multiple times? Do you live under a rock and not talk to people?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 12:58 PM
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Its not even twice or more. If you take a study of women ages 30-60 say, and get n count, and divorce rates, it shouldn't be a surprise that a woman who goes through 7 guys to find a husband, then divorced him, then took another 8 to find husband #2, then divorced him. It looks like n count of 15 is causing the divorces, when its actually her just being a shitty person. Its not the cause, its just another symptom.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:43 AM
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Think about this for a second. The study says nothing of first marriages. Women with N counts that high are also likely to be three or four times married and divorced. Shocker that people who divorced before are likely to divorce again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:34 AM
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Sweet. So you read it, you just didn't understand it. So better then I expected. So heres the deal. You familiar with the Overton window in politics? There's something similar with peoples attractiveness nowadays. We'll call it the Fatass window. Because such a large portion of the population is overweight or obese (60%), everyone is ugly. simply getting in shape is going to boost you way way up in attractiveness. Not the full 60% depending on facial structure and attitude, but a massive massive…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 02:11 PM
4

Yes? Your point? Did you read the rest of the post and understand it? Or did you fixate on the most insignificant part and decide to throw insults because you're too stupid to do anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:54 PM
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Flawed question. If she's looksmaxxed she isn't a 3. The bar is so low in America that a plain Jane who is in shape is still going to hit a 5 or 6. I personally can't think of any sub 4s I've met that weren't incredibly overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 01:47 PM
3

"Women are the gatekeepers to sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 02:24 PM
2

The only thing you've forgotten is receptiveness to being approached. Women who wear make-up are signalling they are more receptive to being approached, and men pick up on that, so they approach more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 05:23 PM
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You're correct. I won't, because I'm not selling myself as the pinnacle of what men should be. And since you conceded some in an edit I will as well. I was getting back in shape while going back to school, went from 310lbs 150 Bench, 175 Squat, 175 Dead, to 220lbs 250 bench, 345 Squat, 415 Deadlift. Got a good job in my field, and made the mistake of letting work become my life and getting boring and pudging up. I'm working my way back down to getting in shape now. Even at my best I was "good en…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:48 AM
4

I'm not going to watch or listen to any "redpill" video/podcast where they just overlay their voices with insta-thot pictures. When the inevitable reveal happens you'll be an overweight dude in his 40's who thinks too highly of himself and needs to stroke his own ego with fake superiority, rather than killing his ego. Hell most EC's just ego-stroke and amog to hide their own insecurities, and ban you when you call it out. If you won't prove you walk the walk, your just making noises with your mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 02:39 AM
1

Thats fucking retarded. Self perception is the least reliable metric. That's how we get redicilous notions like Cuban heath-care is better then American healthcare. External factors matter for judgment. Internal weakness does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 12:48 PM
2

Its actually not hard at all. There's a pretty obvious hierarchy with respect to easier or harder external factors. Internal weakness making one's life feel worse doesn't play into it. REGARDLESS OF DRUG ADDICTION, the person without food has a harder life then the person with food, and its petulant to assert otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 03:29 AM
1

That was my point, completed with a study breakdown below. Did you reply to the wrong comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 01:03 AM
1

Having access to a nice facility means you have an easier life. Whether or not you lack the internal security and fortitude to recognize it, your external circumstances are far better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 01:01 AM
2

In most cities it's Salvation Army or nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 06:57 PM
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Because I'm familiar with the quoted source material. It's a 1998 survey done by the National Violence against women survey. It was looking for female specific violence, and in the survey itself a few gems are found: Physical assault is widespread among adults in the United States: 51.9 percent of surveyed women and 66.4 percent of surveyed men said they were physically assaulted as a child by an adult caretaker and/or as an adult by any type of attacker. An estimated 1.9 million women and 3.2 m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 06:48 PM
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One in six is a stat that means nothing because its based on sexual harassment not rape. People need to stop conflating the two, it makes the argument weak. From that same study, they compared rape and sexual assault attempts for females to rape attempts for males. Its massaged data.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 06:30 PM
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Congrats on wooshing yourself. You completely missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 06:24 PM
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Women are liquid that fill the available container of men they are attracted too. A willingness to change a name is reflection of that. It would be a massive red-flag to me unless she was already published or well known professionally under her maiden name.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 10:18 PM
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Yup. Top 15% in height are also top 10% in intellect iirc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 07:32 PM
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Welcome to the sub, and you're already making the same mistake a lot of basic stats people do. You are assuming those variables are independent, and they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:44 PM
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Bots are just accounts with scripts running. Its no different then you joining a sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 09:42 PM
2

Except more mass shooters end up being democrat or liberal then republican, and the rest do not have solid political views. Furthermore, there's anti-fa. A known hate group known for attacking people with various weapons on hand, and various leaders who have been recorded on microphone asking their members if anyone can get a AK-47 to shoot up various protests.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 09:37 PM
2

Bot makers make their bots subscribe to as many subreddits as possible except for the ones they get banned from.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 09:28 PM
0

I don't do it because she didn't found me attractive in the past. I get that she doesn't control that. I do that because of something she can control. She could have decided to invest before I became attractive. Do you not see the how that's detrimental to her? "You aren't attractive now, but I'll tie myself down to you in the hopes that maybe you'll get better someday." Fuck that. I would never do that to a girl, why the fuck would I ask a girl to do that to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 09:19 PM
1

Whats overly broad there? By comparison only 35% of legal residents fall under that same overly broad umbrella.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 04:51 PM
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https://cis.org/Report/63-NonCitizen-Households-Access-Welfare-Programs tldr 65% off illegal households are on some form of welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:10 PM
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Legal ones
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 02:43 PM
1

Its because the men end up on mrp or just giving up. About half the dudes on mrp ended up there from db because they advocate chore play.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 02:40 PM
1

How would you control for that? Do you have a link?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 09:21 PM
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It's because your body produces test as necessary. If you eliminate contact sports, and eliminate aggressive behaviors, test drops as a result. Take a test level test. Then go pick up a contact sport for 6 weeks, then take another test. Your levels will change by a surprising amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 07:49 PM
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remove all contact sports, all outside play, stick him in front of a X box It's been proven that violence and confrontation raise testosterone levels. It's a biological response. Our bodies are lazy, they just do the bare minimum for your environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 07:47 PM
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Not really, it just proves that it's difficult to deal with emotionally, and when you're starving and being shot at you don't have the luxury of taking on extra burdens. We have that luxury in the developed world. So while the dude is going to have problems dealing, he's not just going to want to immediately bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:46 PM
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Hey! This report on a shit-hole country in Africa has total value for informing perspective in western, 1st-world, industrialized nations!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:40 PM
2

This one's old. About 2 years iirc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:38 PM
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or just get snipped
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 01:47 AM
1

Its soft and non confrontational.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 08:14 PM
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Classic masculine stereotypes are classic because thats what was genetically passed on by men who were fucking. Women are inherently attracted to the dichotomy between danger and safety. Men need to be capable of violence but gentle with her. Women don't want to get beaten. They do want a man who can protect them. They don't want a man who has no emotions. They do want a man who keeps calm and controlled and isn't ruled by his emotions when it matters. Women don't want men who never relax. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 08:14 PM
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"I don't like classic masculine stereotypes that most women are attracted too and pretend to have moral superiority to them because I wish the world was different."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 08:00 PM
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Because french are faggots. French culture isn't feminized. French culture is feminine. There's a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:58 PM
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Since you don't seem to get it. China lies about their numbers. China kills most of their prisoners. Yes the USA is ridiculous, but trying to use China's self claimed numbers as a basis of comparison is foolish. Pretending the Chinese judicial system is better is even more foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:25 PM
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Has more prisoners then China https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hicC53AhZ6Y Also. You can't count prisoners if they're already dead!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:05 PM
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Jesus fuck dude. Insecure much? If I'm picking up a vat of insecurity from your text, then I can only imagine what she's picking up on. Somehow she still seems into you, so ride it well. She hid the details of her HS self because she could tell how nuerotic you were going to be about it and was trying to protect your ego. If you had killed it like you're supposed to you would have known from the start. Let's look at this. She travels to you. Cooks for you. Spends money on you. Sex on tap. Fantas…
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:03 AM
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Now see, that was clear and well typed English. I understood that thought. Props on learn iij ng a second language, that's one more then me. That being said this is a sub that talks about intersexual dynamics in a post sexual revolution culture, so rants from ethnic groups who haven't experienced that revolution yet muddies the waters to a frustrating degree. So what were you trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:26 PM
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So in summary: 10% of divorces end in alimony. 3% of alimony recipients are men. 40% of marriages have women out earning the men. So assuming the 40% tracks across to divorces as well, then men are definitely underrepresented in alimony recipients.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:49 PM
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Color me shocked :-P
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:45 PM
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No change. We both work in necessary fields. Actually that's a lie, we're both pulling 60+ hour weeks so we're seeing a lot less of each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:45 PM
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Most Redpillers don't read the sidebar. Lurk more and you'll realize that. That being said, this arguement has been made before, and it's been found that most of the redpillers and blackpillers who debate here haven't read it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:41 PM
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Some people do the bare minimum, or not even that. I understand where you're coming from in that regard, however there's another aspect to consider. If you ask someone to do something and they agree, they usually just add it to a mental to-do list. Here's the catch. Its not going to be on the same level as of importance for them, so they often will be doing it on their timetable, not yours. Nagging comes into play when the reminders are consistent and repeated because the nagger perceives slothf…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:26 PM
2

I'm rolling that was great!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:08 PM
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You're off by a hair. There's a saying "If you can't get another girl to fuck you, you aren't faithful, your a loser." To many men claim faithfulness when they've never had options. So its not that men with options always cheat, it's that formerly "faithful" men never had options before, and people blame the new options rather then a character flaw that had been hidden until now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:05 PM
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One of the few redpillers on this sub. I would probably agree with you if you could form a coherent English statement, instead I have to deal with another blackpill incel foreigner who pretends to be red and gives me a bad name. Jesus fuck, I'm begining to remember why I quit coming here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:56 PM
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No. No its not. Type in English or get off the debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:18 PM
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Then it's probably garbage. u/atlas_b_shruggin has a good link if she's willing to share.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 05:21 PM
2

I can't wear mine at work. I'm a manufacturing engineer and I need to be available to stick my hands in machines.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 02:02 PM
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Morals or IQ. And yes obviously you need to bee smart enough to understand how you can reach your goals what I am saying is that you don't need above average intelligence Did you read what you wrote? Do you not understand how stupid average is? Those two statements are a contradiction. Finally your personal failure as a single exception does not negate the rule of thumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:51 PM
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Yup, but I didn't want to have people get stuck on numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:50 PM
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I don't care enough about an one stranger's attempt to sway me to for his job for him. Unless you were going Snarkus, Lord of Edge.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:49 PM
1

Reasonably if you take an official one for a college study, and you haven't taken it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:47 PM
1

You can gain or lose 5-10. but that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:02 PM
2

If you had a study with a decent sample size I'd entertain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:01 PM
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It is though. You don't have to be the smartest in the room, but you do need to be smarter then most in the room. There's a sweet spot where you can be too smart and can no longer communicate well with the masses, but if you hit that you usually end up in some sort of academia which is still "success" in my book. Ambition agression and discipline are important sure, but without being intelligent (or extremely lucky), you'll just end up in jail. Case and point, its the smart kids that change soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 07:01 PM
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Yup. In 3rd world countries it's the difference between being Mayor and losing a leg because you did something stupid to the wildlife.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:18 AM
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The second more then the first. There was a study that was done (I forget where) where they found that you COULD in-fact live off of a minimum wage like you did back in the 70's? 80's? if you lived like they did back then. One car for the entire family. Never eating out. No cable. No Internet. Mending your own cloths (darning socks anyone?) Etc. It was a fascinating read.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:56 AM
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With respect to easier or harder, I would point you towards Nora Vincent's book "Self Made Man". She pretended to be a man for a year, and spend more then a year in a mental institution afterwords to deal with the "trauma" in her eyes. She was appalled every day by the lack of things she considered basic respect, and was unable to cope with the social distancing of being kept at arms length because she was now perceived as a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:52 AM
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For me it's about deviation. Intelligence wise, I'm above average, which means that if I was born as a woman (assuming I'm still "me") then I would end up being less intellegent. Looks wise I'm strictly average, so I'd get a small bump there (the average female is more attractive then the average man). In my opinion that's not worth the trade off. I wouldn't gain enough advantage from a boost to my attractiveness to offset the loss of intelligence. I suspect a lot of redpillers are thinking alon…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:48 AM
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The sex work hate is coming from Indians and Asians who are 1st or 2nd generation US citizens. They never experienced a sexual revolution over there and still have a lot of pre-sexual revolution stigma. That's where 99% of the disgust is coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:44 AM
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No. It's universal. The driver is IQ, which is where you can see the greatest delta between the extrema between men and women. IQ has the highest correlation to success in a civilized world, not even just a developed one. The only difference is the distance between the highest and lowest in a village is much difference between the highest and lowest in New York.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:40 AM
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When did we as a society become concerned with the emotions of others? Other peoples people's discomfort is their problem. Other people's emotions are their problem. If she's uncomfortable she can speed up, carry a gun, or walk in a group. Its up to her to do what she deems necessary to protect herself, as long as it doesn't infringe on the rights of others. Seriously, if your uncomfortable walking alone, don't. Or call someone, its not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 09:55 PM
1

Belief that one can achieve better results through hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:00 PM
1

Dont get complacent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 12:21 AM
5

So what your talking about isn't a romantic relationship, but rooming with a friend. No. I did enough of that in college
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:02 AM
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You can keep believing that. But it's not men who are shaming unmarried women. It's other women. You can keep letting yourself be blinded by misandry though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:57 PM
1

Marriage isn't a patriarchal institution anymore. It's a FSM institution. Men don't care if women are married. Women care if other women are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 05:13 PM
1

How much porn do you regularly consume?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:48 AM
5

I applaud your honesty and acknowledgement of how petty that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 05:10 AM
1

People get pets for furry doses of dopamine, and to channel their parental urges. There is no right or wrong reason to get a pet. Pets are property, not people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 10:12 PM
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Better then finding a dick. Even if the tattoos are bad (and those absolutely are), I can distract myself with tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 12:39 PM
2

I know right! Its like she likes taking dick or something. Smdh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 12:38 PM
3

I didn't even look until I saw your post and D-:
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 12:36 PM
2

Profanity is a way of life around here. It's nothing more then an attention getting adjective for emphasis. If you get offended by that, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:57 PM
1

she convinces him by methods of attacking his masculinity...that is still considered rape because at the end of the day he didn’t want to have sex. You were disagreeing with that quote. Your disagreement is blatantly wrong according to your own link. Don't mistake assertion for anger. I can imply stupidity without getting angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 03:34 AM
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Yes, did you bother to fucking read it? It literally agrees with everything that I stated above. Notably: In R v Jheeta [2007] EWCA Crim 1699 where the defendant had deceived the complainant and pressured her into having sexual intercourse more frequently than she would have done otherwise, the conclusive presumption did not apply because there had been no deception as to the nature or purpose of sexual intercourse. The only given example is lying about gender or condom usage. Both of which wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 02:46 AM
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In English law, the Court of Appeal in R v Linekar [1995] 3 All ER 69 73 ruled that the basis for such claims is "very narrow", ruling that refusing to pay for sexual services was a fraud not rape. Cases demonstrating the law on consent as set out in the Sexual Offences Act 2003 include R v Assange (aka Assange v Swedish Prosecution Authority)[Notes 1] (if consent was conditional on the use of the condom during intercourse, and the condition was deliberately disregarded, that was capable of amou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 01:19 AM
1

10% not 0.1%, but essentially yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 12:15 AM
2

And rape by deception doesn't mean what you think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 12:14 AM
2

As in, pretending to be a physically different person. Like impersonating a doctor, lawyer, or celebrity. Not about lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:31 PM
3

Very very few. Even the top percentiles of women can only overpower the bottom percentiles of men. That being said, guns are a pretty good equalizer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 09:45 PM
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Not really. The strength difference between men and women is insane. I've seen estimates that the top 10% of women are only stronger then the bottom 10% of men. I don't know if it's that egregious, but I've seen twinks take hits that knocked larger women out. And I've seen women real from hits from small men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 09:44 PM
1

He specifically wanted to keep masturbating. So I gave an answer within those parameters
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 10:06 PM
0

Do the Mark Manson. Only masturbate once a week. And do it without porn, and to the thought of a real woman you know and wanna fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 01:27 PM
2

Your welcome. Keep on keeping on. And don't think because you've got some success, suddenly you're Adonis. It's a painful lesson, but we all hit that branch rolling the boulder up the hill.
/r/askMRP20/11/19 02:23 AM
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So you've got some recovery to do. Get sub 15% bf like I was said above, give it another six months. And get some Viagra and do some duty sex. Even if you don't feel it.
/r/askMRP19/11/19 06:09 PM
2

How long ago did you cut porn and masturbation. And at what age did you start? As a rule if you started in your 20's it's 3 months no porn before libido bounces back. Late teens it's 6 months. Early teens a year. Something to keep in mind.
/r/askMRP19/11/19 04:48 PM
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Overhead Press and slightly imperfect form will do more to damage your bad disk then a proper deadlift and squat. Assuming it's lower back (it usually is), work on your core. Cut your pride, and start doing body weight squats. The stronger your abs and obliques get, the less your disk will bother you, the more you'll lift. I know because it's exactly what I did. I would also swap out rows for pull-ups if you can do at least 5. The time hanging will give your disk room to breathe, and still work …
/r/askMRP19/11/19 04:43 PM
2

It's less right and more not-wrong. It's deceptively hyperbolic in the downplay. But an orgasm is 3 minutes of general bliss (at best), a desire to snuggle, and a desire to sleep. It's more a pressure release valve then anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 02:38 AM
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For me it's quality time. Which is Mrs. Siv's biggest. So of course there's issue with that. I receive touch and service best. I tend to give touch and affirmation most with gifts being a close second. I give service regularly but I still feel like I'm doing something. Hanging out doesn't really do that for me at all. It's just kinda meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 04:45 AM
2

So you're from Quebec, which is basically France. Not surprised to don't have a firm grasp of slang.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 01:24 PM
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Not our fault you're a foreigner who doesn't have an intuitive grasp of English and doesn't understand basic slang that was still around in the early 2000s.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 03:50 AM
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I'm saying it's being debated on red pill subreddits. So they are aware of the dichotomy of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:10 PM
4

You do know mrp is a sub right? And there were LTR post on the rp sticky?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:57 AM
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Good job is the emphasis there. Also, hippie has general connotations of not wanting to work for the man, and you know, work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:20 PM
2

Dont cut yourself now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 04:35 PM
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He also could have settled down and got a good job. It is what it is. Your blinding hatred for the man has made it impossible to see the obvious. Which is both of those men seem to be on the af side of the dual mating strategy, which isn't surprising given the backround.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 04:11 PM
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So your telling me men who do drugs at raves, game women, and play in a band can get women? Color me shocked! In all seriousness your missing the incredibly obvious dual mating part of the dual mating strategy. The above describes the alpha fucks stage of dating. You haven't seen Greg I almost two years before he got married? A lot can change in that time frame. Especially if they are in their early twenties (which this reads like). This is not some magical new revelation. It just proves existin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 03:22 PM
1

So stop being so defensive in your post. Are you trying to convince us or yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 06:33 PM
1

It's a common belief amongst Protestant Christians. Nothing foreign or arranged about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 04:44 AM
1

What kind of feeling do you get when you look at a woman you love? Is it admiration, pure lust, happiness, tranquility, passion, or what? All of the above, with differing percentages from time to time. How much of it is based on logic/choice, and how much of it is like a "spark"? I believe we can't choose who we have chemistry with, but we can choose who we love. The emotions are a "spark", living with the bitch when I wanna break her neck is love. The spark will come back. The vows just get you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 10:58 PM
6

I'm recalling an article that advised tortion...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 11:27 PM
1

But the increased mass means they aren't disadvantaged from other men who suck at violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 10:43 PM
1

To other men who can more easily defend themselves, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 09:57 PM
5

I highly doubt any of this. But even taking you at face value, this isn't normal behavior from anyone, male or female. So why would this be more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 05:40 PM
2

Then yes, but those men are idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:45 PM
3

I mean, it is. But's not a lie that matters. The issue is the dipshits that apply moral weight to the lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:50 PM
1

No no, the proper response is "show me your genitals, your genitals"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 03:16 PM
10

That's right! I just have sex with them!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:02 AM
1

A few days to read 10k words? Weak!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:56 PM
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92% Masc 17% Fem
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 02:23 PM
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http://imgur.com/a/TlPLoiE I suck at selfies, but have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:43 PM
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Perhaps it's my ego? No. I'm answering your question directly. SSRI's are shitty, but they beat the alternative. And there's a big difference between making haywild assumptions, and noticing what you don't say. When you buried the lead with the fact that your child needed to be resuscitated FIVE times is telling. That little question is telling. The fact that you just bitch back at anyone who doesn't stroke your ego and tell you it's not you, it's your wife's ssris is telling. You asked. I answe…
/r/askMRP14/10/19 03:26 PM
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Then you buried the lead. You have a disabled infant son that needs around the clock care, and a wife that has been through one of the more traumatic things that can happen to a woman. She's going through hell right now, and your concern is that she isn't having orgasms? You need to leave the ego at the door and do what you can to help care for your family. Hell I'm surprised she's going through the motions for you at all, because I'm not seeing a captain, I'm seeing a petulant child complaining…
/r/askMRP14/10/19 02:41 PM
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Which would make it less burdensome. Otherwise you'd be dealing with an infant son and a vegetable.
/r/askMRP14/10/19 02:37 PM
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bad bot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 10:54 PM
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if you can enjoy dancing Some people hate their preconceived ideas of how things are rather then the thing itself. Regardless. He needs to find a coed activity he does enjoy. Preferably a physical one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 06:29 PM
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Most women do. If you can enjoy dancing its a great way of playing the numbers. Don't artificially restrict your dating pool unnecessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 05:26 PM
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Then you don't like dancing. But you need to find someway of being able to demonstrate physical competence if you want to date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 03:47 PM
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Actually no. Because it refers to someone who is unable to change, or to adapt, because they are too rigid. It's people who hold onto yesteryears and ideals and act within them rather then adjusting to and responding to the world as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 03:43 PM
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Because they're unable to go with the flow. It's a 1950's insult iirc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 02:37 PM
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Absolutely insane. He abdicated the throne completely, showed a complete disregard for the people he's supposed to be taking care of, and has the audacity to be angry that someone called him on it. Holy fuck. Short of slapping his wife, I don't think he could have done any worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 07:36 PM
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Jesus fuck. He destroyed his wife. In public. Among friends. And he didn't understand why the other woman went for the jugular?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:30 PM
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Linkseys I never saw it in my time there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 01:25 AM
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There's a lot to dive into here. Let's start with the question. Men primarily want sex in general. For men it's one of the things that defined love. If I'm not fucking a girl, we aren't in a romantic relationship, period. That being said it seems you want a more "beta" type guy. They aren't going to pressure you as much for sex, they're libido is lower, and as a rule, they're going to be in worse physical shape and less "exciting". More apt to want to vege on the couch watching Netflix. Less lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 08:47 PM
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And she'd be right. You just shrug and accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 08:39 PM
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Men are privileged. They can commit to and marry hundreds of women tomorrow, if they wanted to". No. Just no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 11:26 PM
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Genetics plays a part in culture, culture drives education
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 12:43 AM
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your temper tantrums blocked 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 06:03 AM
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The point is that most men who say that aren't saying that because of barely legal porn. They say that based on the factors outlined above. The fact that you are unable to grasp that fact shows an extreme prejudice that is making you sound like an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 03:04 PM
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This isn't new. Men want a good girl who's bad only for him. Women want a bad boy that's good only for her. They're tropes for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 02:44 PM
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You still seem to be missing my point. This: Most 18 year olds don't look like children Is a refutation of this Men who say a women's smv peaks at 18 It's 18 because they are still smooth skinned and bubbly, but have an adult body. Generally speaking. The smv comment has nothing to do with pedophilia. If it did they would say the kid peaked at 10
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 02:25 AM
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No actually. Dispite what porn would have you believe. Most 18 year olds do not in-fact look like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 09:04 PM
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I'm not talking legality. I'm talking sexual development. Women are attracted to curves, and there are teens with curves. Being attracted to a grown woman's body shape does not make one a pedophile.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 08:15 PM
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Digging into the methodology, the basis for unattractive was men that they weren't dating or trying to get his attention for a date. It was literally "women wear heels on dates"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 04:23 PM
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3 days. Sperm lives for 3 days. Also, are you familiar with a triangle lock? It's a well known lock that is difficult to break. Women locking ankles basically does that. My wife likes to mess around by doing that when she's wants more cuddles. I can literally just stand up from it without breaking the hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 03:51 PM
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So you linked a meme image, not the article. And he article doesn't have a link to the source. Google turns up circular references, with none of them being the original. So we're gonna have to make assumptions. Single == not married (since they got their data from the government). So this trend is easily explained by people getting married later in life, and therefore a nothing burger.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 12:36 PM
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Yes, because being attracted to sexually mature bodies is pedophilia. You got em.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 11:36 AM
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He's not talking the fairy tale pipe dream. He's talking a normal life. So you divorce at 30 or 40 and find a new chick a little wider then the last time. It's called the mating game.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 11:34 AM
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I'm a man. just past the age of 13 "One of these things is not like the other." So you are just starting puberty, haven't been hit with the full effects of testosterone, and read like a brave-theist edgelord. Yah, you've got no business debating this. FWIW, from a purely rational standpoint, you are correct. More time does imply a greater attraction. We aren't talking about rationality. We are talking about the complexities of human relationships and why (grown) men care a lot more about how muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 07:36 PM
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It's a difference in values. Men value how much sex you are having. Women value time. You are expecting a man to value what you do, and most don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:57 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:08 AM
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Welcome to the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 08:09 PM
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Historically women who were between plain and pretty where called handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 06:04 PM
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You must be quite delusional if you think men truly love you That's largely where I was drawing that assumption from. That's a typical attack to make someone seem less then human, but whatever, I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. I'm not wedded to it. You still haven't addressed my point that the definition of romance includes sex naturally leads to a lack of romance without it completely invalidates any kind of point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 04:20 PM
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Plain woman is another option.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 03:44 PM
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It has everything to do with what you're saying. It reframes the entire argument from "men are only in romantic relationships for sex." to "sex is what defines a romantic relationship". Which takes the gender argument out entirely, and moots your bizarre attempt to demonize men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:39 PM
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Your missing my point that sex is what differentiates friendship from romance. That's what "chemistry" is. Sexual tension. The other thing is called Platonic love. You know, friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:08 PM
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Because sex flows out of romance. If you ain't fucking your just friends. "I do love your personality, but that ass sure is a bonus"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 02:00 PM
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No, that's a deep-fake of someone hacking together audio clips. The copypasta is from some incel or incel-light subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 07:36 PM
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Goddamn. I never considered that before. You're right on the money. I was always asking the wrong questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/19 10:38 PM
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I see you're only looking for cases where someone actually went thru the legal system. If the complaint is that society or the legal system is biased and complaints from men aren't taken seriously, looking at the numbers after any such bias has been applied is not the way to make your case. The data you're pulling from is incredibly biased. DV rates on by women on men are even more underreported then rape. CDC data on rape. CDC only defines rape as "forcibly penetrated", so shoving a carrot up j…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:22 PM
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That's a lot of nothing mouth words for some very solid points that just about destroy your arguement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 03:32 PM
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So no. Cool. You do realize that people in LTR's tend to have sex 2-3 times a week in the first couple years, and then it slowly drops off to 1-2x a week as you get older and have kids. (These are mid-range numbers btw). So the end result is that after 5 years, you've had sex 700+ times right? You stay together for a decade an you've cleared a 1000. So "high sex count" is about as meaningless a phrase as you can get. Get a relationship. Get some experience. You don't know shit about them, so wat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 11:18 PM
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Have you had a long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 10:37 PM
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Congrats, you just played yourself. That would be any person over the age of like 40. (only that high to include the fundies)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 08:34 PM
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Where did you see sexism in that. Or only valuing women for fuckability? Everything said was in the context of casual sex. Everything in this thread has been in the context of casual sex. It's been pointed out multiple times here that men stop dancing when they feel the juice stops being worth the squeeze, so if that is happening to you a lot... Maybe look at yourself a little more critically.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 02:16 PM
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Are you familiar with a hueristic?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 01:22 PM
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I mean, sure. But it's a lot less likely. It's a numbers game after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 10:45 PM
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Looks: A close second to most important. She needs to be good looking and needs to maintain those looks as best she can. (Don't just gain 30+lbs out of nowhere, don't smoke, etc.) Personality: I'm a mercurial man, so I can't honestly answer this question. I like several conflicting personality types, and often bounce between which one I want at that particular time. It's also the most important thing for me, funnily enough. That being said, my wife meets my personality requirements about as perf…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 02:16 PM
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Close. She can have her own feminine hobbies, I just don't want to hear about them. It's cute to watch her do them though. Then I can enjoy knowing I keep my woman happy like the benevolent dictator I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 12:29 PM
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Sableye has shit stats, can't do anything. Gardevior is pretty and can break minds. It's a more subtle intimidation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 06:12 PM
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Yah, I've played through ruby. Played the gen 1 remakes and the gen 2 remakes. I've got a copy of Ultra-moon somewhere that I started because I liked the nostalgia of old gen 1 pokemon with different forms.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 01:41 PM
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Gardevior. Maximum type coverage defensively. Minimal resistances offensively. In Gen 1 and 2 (in the remakes too) I solo'd the elite four with a level 70 Alakazam. Now that fairy is a thing, I guess I'd have to switch to Gardevior.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 01:40 PM
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Pokemon swings both ways. My wife doesn't evolve hers because she likes em cute. I of course evolve them all for maximum curb stomping.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 09:03 PM
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As open as Fort Knox to Robin Hood. With about the same reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 01:52 PM
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Not BMR, TDEE. BMR was about 1300 IIRC. But that's my point. If a nutritionist honestly believed you were bulimic or lying about your food journal, your metabolism is so far outside the norm that it isn't useful to bring up as a counterpoint in a discussion about heuristics. Which is what this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 01:37 PM
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You either have a godlike metabolism or you're lying about one of these details. The math isn't perfect but a deviation of 33% is not likely. 5' 8" Female at 32 and 110lbs is about 1500. 200lbs is 2000 calories. A male with all the same numbers is about 1700, and a male with a high metabolism I'll buy at 2k. Are you trans by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 10:15 PM
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Those three inches make a large difference in skeletal muscle mass and organ size. Thereby increasing caloric needs. I would also bet money you are decently active. Running, lifting, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 01:19 PM
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the anarchist decide for themselves what the rules of inclusion and exclusion which is one of the primary responsibilities of government.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 06:25 PM
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So a small democracy in the true sense of the work. In other words, a government.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 05:43 PM
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So a small group of people who look after the interests of the rest of the anarchists?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 08:06 PM
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So what force should control those people?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 06:39 PM
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by someone else* should probably be in there too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 06:38 PM
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So certain people should be excluded and controlled?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 06:37 PM
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Every anarchist wants anarchy right up until they or someone they know gets raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 02:16 PM
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Have more upvotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 07:29 PM
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A) the correlation is pretty strong B) Your entire premise assumes there's a correlation there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 01:35 PM
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I'm not considering correlating attributes Then you're entire premise is flawed. The only reason those things aren't true is because there is some correlation. When you muliply percentiles you assume a standard distribution in the smaller chunk. E.G. take 100 men. If you take the top 10% in looks and wealth, you end up with the best guy. Because the math is assuming in the top 10% of wealth, you have one each of a 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10. You can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 10:25 PM
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Pre-Selection. Multiple articles have been written on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:55 PM
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Retype this without the William Shatner voice over and I'll bother to read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 03:52 PM
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MGTOW is just red pill stuck in the anger phase. If you get taken for a ride it was your fault for not leading the house, or choosing a piss poor first mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 02:11 AM
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You absolutely can. Hence in the red pill communities it's always your fault. MGTOW just likes to ignore that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 02:09 AM
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it is also not normally a divorcee I think you missed that bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 02:07 AM
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All I'm seeing is a lot of mouthwords to defend yourself. Not gonna lie, I stopped reading about 2 paragraphs in because it's all just blather. I do find it curious that you decided to through my post history from years ago in some attempt to valid yourself that I was wrong. Keep doing you man. I honestly don't care.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/19 02:03 PM
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If I said muscle I apologize. I'm 172-176 lean body mass. Including skeletal structure. And skeletal frame and calories are force the upper limit for muscle growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 11:11 PM
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You turn a post about the success of being a the rock for your family in to a public "look at me I'm awesome" and I'm the weak one? Cute.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/19 01:41 PM
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I'm not upset about him. I don't give two shits about him. I'm just calling him on his bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/19 01:40 PM
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Off the top of my head: Kim Possible Ned's Declassified School Survival Guide Johnny Bravo Hanna Montanna Wizards of Waverly Place
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 11:23 PM
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I think there's a combination of factors at play. The first is that there are boys who grow up believing that they should believe what girls say. And due to the implicit/explicit dynamic between the genders, when girls say explicitly "We like x,y,z" and implicitly "if your physically attractive", some boys just don't here the second implicit part of the message because they take things at face value. This is further exacerbated by the plethora of shows on tv that show the "homely" people, both m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 10:21 PM
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This post is trite by my standards, but legit by the standards of the universe. He saying his standard are higher then everyone else. Which is fine if true, but unnecessary info and a way to publicly self aggrandize. I have the body of a Greek God. Seriously. I've worked so, so hard for it. Irrelevant in context. And a fit body is minimum. Again, no one cares. You can be me. And be strong. "Get on my level scrubs" you better get your weak-ass "Get on my level scrubs" part 2 If he cut the trash a…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/19 06:03 PM
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This post is trite by my standards, but legit by the standards of the universe. All I see is an arrogant fuck who needs to preen in front of others. Kill your ego dude. You've learned nothing.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/19 02:43 PM
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Credit card is plastic and the water adheres to it more. You get more water off that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/19 01:31 PM
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As far as statistical validity, 100 isn't much better then 10. Ideally you'd want 10,000+ That being said. I'll bite. Quote me anywhere where I disputed that caliper's fold test wasn't more accurate then the tape test. I'll wait forever, because I'll have to. I never said it wasn't MORE accurate. But the tape test is accurate enough for me. "While scientific researchers dealing with elite and usually smaller populations will — and should — find the tape test to be less than 100 percent accurate,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/19 01:40 PM
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and in nine out of 10 cases, the tape method measured troops' body fat percentages higher. Did you even read you're own article? I'm dying over here. The start of this argument was that the Inbody is overestimating muscle and underestimating fat. Good job proving my point that it wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 10:38 PM
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True, but I'd rather be strong and not as pretty, then pretty and not as strong
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 06:31 PM
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The bulk of poly relationships are non-exclusive. Trios are rare, and so are quads. His arguement still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 02:57 PM
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Considering the Navy Tape test is accurate within something like <8% I'll trust it's measurements. Yes the machines that you only stand on are dog-shit because they only have 2 points of contact. However, InBody has 4 points of contact, which greatly increases accuracy. And since it's within ~=5% of the navy tape test. I'll trust it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 12:38 PM
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You shitting me? I have hung out with them. They still have to approach and close. You're just a dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 12:36 PM
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You wanna tell me that powerlifters don't have big muscles? They aren't cut, but they have big arms/legs/shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 12:35 PM
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I have a lean body mass of 172-176 depending if I'm constant about working out and if I'm on a cut. The numbers are correct. There was one freak of a month where the the machine recorded me as 180lb lbm, but I assumed that was a glitch because it dropped back down. All of which verified with Navy Tape Test btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/19 06:51 AM
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I mean, south eastern american. And I grew up in poor areas so most dudes did some kind of labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 09:52 PM
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I'm not that far outside the normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 09:09 PM
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And it's dogshit for larger frames. I'm 6' and if I had 12% bf I'd be 200lbs. I'm still building muscle mass. Now if you wanna say 12% bf is overwieght, well...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 09:02 PM
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I powerlift. If you have actual pain rather then just lactic acid burning when you lift you're doing it wrong. Denying yourself does take energy, you know that, you've been on a cut I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 08:57 PM
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Sorry you think 155lbs at 5' 9" isn't underweight? Do you have any muscle mass at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 08:55 PM
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No. Maintaining a stricter diet is as hard as going to the gym and maintaining a not-fatass diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 08:39 PM
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I agree with you nominally. But most women don't want to lift weights, and a majority of guys generally don't go for the hard-bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 08:38 PM
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Average Female TDEE is 1200-1600 Average Male TDEE is 2200-3000 Yes it absolutely is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 08:37 PM
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No you can't. I can go to any resteraunt chain and find a 2k calorie meal. That will gain most women weight. Now if you said one meal a day and ate a healthier resteraunt meal, then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 07:38 PM
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Completely misconstrued what I said. Good job. How the hell did you get "can't cook at home" from "never eating out". Also, are you social at all? Do you not go to resteraunt with friends family or co-workers? Finally, why does every idiot on here think I'm absolving responsibility? No where do I remove agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 07:36 PM
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The hard part is the gym part. Men have extra steps, women have a harder baseline.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 07:33 PM
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Sail rabbit bmr. It really does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 07:07 PM
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I keep things as friendly as my debate opponents. Everyone does know that Western diet is awful. Changing habits takes effort. The idea that it's easy to completely change a lifetime of behavior is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 05:56 PM
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My dick's bigger then yours Aren. I'm 6' and decently muscled. The TDEE requirements being so much lower is my point. Due to calorie density of food nowadays being so high on average, my point is that women have to eat a lot less, and therefore less often. Which means hungry more often. Which is taxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 05:42 PM
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And? I never said men didn't have to do work. Feel free to quote me saying that if you want to try and prove me wrong. I'm saying that women have their own difficulties, just of a different flavor, and deluding yourself to thinking they have it easy because they don't have the exact same struggles you do is asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 05:20 PM
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Me culpa. I realized I was looking at BMR. So you never suffered from hunger trying to maintain that weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 05:17 PM
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Slight error on my part. I was looking at BMR by accident. Correcting that I'm seeing 1400 though. What did you input for age?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 05:15 PM
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Except it is easy (to start new habits) Yes. That's why there aren't multi-million dollar industries on starting new habits of any type. Yah, you're just out of touch. Good talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 05:10 PM
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https://www.sailrabbit.com/bmr/ You need to check your math. 5' 5" woman whose sedentary and trying to stay below 130lbs needs to stay under 1300 kcals. It still drastically changes the math.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 05:03 PM
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https://www.sailrabbit.com/bmr/ For a 30 year old woman who's 5' 5" and trying to maintain < 130lbs needs to stay under 1500 kcals a day. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 05:00 PM
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Fuck off with your pity. It's a useless emotion that's patronizing at best. Do you have any idea how many calories growth takes? I'm saying comparing your daughters eating habits to that of a grown woman is almost as foolish as comparing a man's to a woman's.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:58 PM
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You are correct. They aren't. But it is difficult to start a new habit. I'm not saying anything is impossible. I'm saying that it's difficult. And claiming it's "just that easy" is asinine and misses the bar entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:57 PM
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My daughter's 11 and 5' And there it is. She's in the full swing of puberty and needs those calories to grow. I bet money she's eating more then your wife is assuming she's just not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:54 PM
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That's a tall woman. 5' 7" or so. So drop about 200 calories and you're closer. So with that in mind, the healthy meal you just suggested, is one meal, that takes up half of the daily calorie intake. So she would have to eat only twice a day, and both meals had to be completely healthy. No starch, no bread, no cheating. Forever. That's completely unsustainable long term. There's a reason dudes go on cut//bulk cycle. Imagine eating like your on a cut FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. Because that's effe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:40 PM
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donuts, French fries, and caesar drenched salads So you basically don't eat anything else on those days I'm not saying it's impossible. I'm saying it's not easy. It's actually hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:37 PM
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Calories burned during walking are based on time and weight. You get wildly different results. a 120lb person walking for an hour burns about 120ish calories a 200lb person burns about 210ish calories. So even walking they burn less while exercising. I'm fully aware of the differences. Not being fat as a dude is easy as fuck. All I had to do was only eat out once a week. My wife? She's going through hell, and I know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:36 PM
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Small men have a lower BMR too Not to the same degree. For equivalent heights the man still burns an average of 40% more calories just due to muscle density.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:30 PM
3

More actually. Check my numbers elsewhere in the thread if you really wanna be pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:28 PM
6

No. Lifting 4x a week the average dude has a TDEE of 3000+. 4000-5000 if they are in some sort of powerlifting program. Women have to eat less then 1200-1600 depending on height just to be "not-fat". They are very comparable in difficulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:27 PM
2

700ish cal What do you think the TDEE of the average woman is? Just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:26 PM
12

Yes. Smaller lunch. 10 almonds and a yogurt. Then she can afford to eat a chicken breast AND half a sweet potato at dinner. Easy peasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:25 PM
0

At no point did I remove responsibility. I'm simply pointing out that it's not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:23 PM
3

Even lighter meals are 600 calories. Which is between half and 2/3 of the daily intake depending on the woman's height.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:23 PM
-1

Why do you have to eat all of it? I take you didn't grow up poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:22 PM
2

Not even, it's two. Especially for a girl of your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:21 PM
17

I agree that it's a choice. But saying that it's easier to be skinny then fat is just patently absurd. I did a calorie plan for my wife once at her request. I crunched the numbers, ran the math, and when I got to the final product I felt appalled at how little food she was getting a day. I knew I couldn't maintain that kind of pattern for a week, let alone a month. For the record: I'm a 6' somewhat muscled dude. She's 5' 3", so her calorie needs where less than half of mine. While she was on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:19 PM
1

So a fat woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:07 PM
16

Are you a dude? Because the average male has almost double the TDEE of the average woman, due to testosterone and muscle mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:03 PM
13

Did you read what she just said? An average restaurant meal is over 1000 calories That's one meal out with friends, taking up 2/3's to 3/4 of her daily calorie allotment. It's not even "not eating out all the time". It's basically "never eating out at all"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 04:02 PM
1

No, they have girls giving them IoI's. They still have to approach and close.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 03:31 PM
1

So you're insecure, and have been spending too much time in incel type discussions, which fed your insecurity. Now you've decided to vomit your feelings all over the internet? Just chill dude. Get offline, tell your girlfriend your sorry (DON'T give her the abandonment spiel), and gets some air and Vit D.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 03:24 PM
1

You didn't say social gatherings. You said parties What the hell do you think parties ARE?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 03:22 PM
1

I'm not against the theory, but I'm a pragmatist. It's going to close a bunch of doors. But again, if the miniscule chance of a chain of events is enough to scare you away? You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 06:30 PM
1

Lets follow this all the way down shall we. You have to guess wrong -> She has to be extremely offended/threatened -> She has to actually press charges -> Police need to find evidence -> the DA actually needs to choose to press charges -> Your defense lawyer needs to suck ass enough for you to be convicted. No. You're just afraid of her wrinkling her nose in disgust. Don't even hide behind anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 04:45 PM
1

It's an infinitesimally small chance. But if that's enough for you to just avoid sex, enjoy your celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 04:32 PM
3

To quote Mark Manson. "If it's not FUCK YES. It's no"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 04:14 PM
1

Then you run the risk of making her uncomfortable. And maybe she says something to someone. Oh well. No risk, no reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 04:09 PM
1

I want 100k and a blowjob.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 02:35 AM
2

He probably doesn't want to be seen in public with an obsessive neurotic mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 12:55 AM
1

Most don't. Have you not noticed the shift in sexual culture since porn became easy, public, and widespread? Oral used to be something that only sluts do, now it's common place. Anal wasn't even a thing. Now both are considered "normal" and there are multiple circles where refusal to do one make you prudish.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 07:16 PM
1

No, I've simply spoken with other men at length about the effects of porn on perceptions of sexuality. You're also overlooking one very important thing. If porn is the only sexual experience that is experienced. Why would you NOT believe it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 06:08 PM
1

Porn obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 05:21 PM
1

Then nothing happens. But I read Big words but I seriously doubt that. And I guarantee his career, his business, would be over if he ever tried. As a threat, one that does have teeth if followed through on. That's all I was pointing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 04:21 PM
1

Felons convinced of assault lose their business licenses in most states.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 08:52 PM
1

That is false equivalence. With repect to pregnancy surgery is required to have the baby or to not have that baby. If anything most abortion procedures are less invasive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/19 12:34 PM
1

Abortions are a thing and solely the purview of the mother. Having a child is 100% the woman's choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 09:56 PM
1

There’s also a fair amount of “she’s irresponsible, emotionally unstable, she’s lazy, but she’s hot and/or willing so I’m gonna fuck without protection anyway.” I never said their wasn't. Deadbeat's gonna deadbeat. But the deadbeat has effectively 0 reproductive control. The entire process of choosing to have a kid belongs to the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 06:03 PM
1

A) It's a comment on the parent not the child. I don't think any kind of way about the kid. B) Choosing to have a child under difficult circumstances is a bad decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 06:01 PM
1

People who put effort into being parents are better at being parents. News at 11. That's neither surprising or being debated. We're talking about general cases and heuristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 05:57 PM
1

No but people do go. "He doesn't have a job/hasn't committed to anyone before/cheated on me in the past, but my baby will fix our relationship". There's a lot of red flag waiving that gets ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 07:23 PM
1

I never said having kids was demonstrative of poor moral character, I simply stated that it shows a history of bad decision making. And you can't have a kid "on accident". It doesn't happen. At some point along the way there's a conscious choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 01:25 PM
1

The context isn't failed relationships, it's making lifelong choices (kids) with an unsuitable partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 01:24 PM
1

With how ubiquitous abortion is, while accidental pregnancies happen, accidental carrying to term does not. And honestly, if you roll the dice on something, be prepared to deal with the consequences of them coming up snake-eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 01:23 PM
1

That goes to show that parents who adopt tend to be of a higher caliber then their counterparts due to to their desire to raise offspring not their own, but we're still talking about less then a percent of single mothers adopt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 09:34 PM
5

That's such an infinitesimally small percentage of the group that they don't matter when discussing trends or heuristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 08:00 PM
11

But not everyone has a kid. It shows a track record of choosing someone for a lifelong commitment poorly. Kids dont just happen, they are a concious choice every step of the way, and acting like there arent consequences for choosing to have the baby of a deadbeat is asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 03:15 PM
17

So single motherhood isn't caused by relationships ending? They're just correlated? Get the fuck out of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 01:57 PM
19

The thing that most people seem to forget, is that unless the single mom is a widow, the mom now has a proven track record of being unable to successfully choose life partners. That casts doubt on all future decisions, among them the ability to raise kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 01:45 PM
8

You post man-hating screeds here almost daily, yet wonder why your love life sucks. It's almost as if thier related... Nah, I'm probably over thinking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 02:15 PM
4

Congrats you summarized Models, which is in the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 01:48 PM
1

Get back in man, go play some cutthroat modern and establish dominance. Or just play chill EDH with some buddies. Either way, it's a fun game. Lots of strategy, planning and interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 07:21 PM
1

Of course my man, gotta nerd it up with the best game.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 06:46 PM
1

You go to the WAR pre-release?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 06:06 PM
4

Kids shouldn't come first even in two parent households. Kids are to be cared for and raised for two years, but after the kids are gone the spouse is still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 02:00 PM
3

The unicorn naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 08:21 PM
1

broken
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 01:18 AM
1

You do know they need a few more inches to hold onto right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 04:38 PM
1

Keep in mind these are from studies based in big cities like New York or Los Angeles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 03:47 AM
1

42%ish men 39%ish women. So a gap of 10%. Not negligible, but not really significant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:38 PM
15

Not pumped and dumped, but having someone who wants to have sex with you in general is a compliment period.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 03:22 PM
1

Lurking mostly. There hasn't been anything interesting to reply to honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 02:08 PM
2

MacMuff*
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 03:23 PM
2

My dick's too big, and it ends up ripping shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 02:09 PM
1

Why are you kink shaming!? There are people who are into force-play!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 02:02 PM
1

Hugging someone shorter than you is a beautiful feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:54 PM
2

You either die tall and hickory, or live long enough to see yourself become a pile of splinters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 05:02 PM
1

source?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 12:30 PM
1

Simmer in the rage of others? Why would I go digging for outrage porn, it's a waste of my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:03 AM
1

It's not pessimism, it's a quote for a reason. It simply is what it is. Better to accept the world for what it is rather than getting indignant for what you wish it would.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 01:55 PM
1

False advertising is what dating is about. You obfuscate your bad qualities and enhance your good ones. Raw honesty is the opposite of sexy. "Men fall in love with their eyes, women with their minds. It's why women wear make-up and men lie."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:02 PM
1

Who am I mistaking you for then? GtD?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 05:43 PM
1

and not good, and noticeable. You also didn't address the issue of them being two seperate people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 06:43 PM
2

First, they're both women. We've talked over discord. Second, arthurmacarthur has a history of making alts with military general names when she gets bored or paranoid. Atlas doesn't give a fuck so she sticks with her username.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 06:22 PM
1

From the Intro: Biologically, women have a lot more to lose than men when it comes to sex. As a result, they’ve evolved to (usually) be far pickier in choosing their sexual partners. Whereas most men will stick it in just about anything if given the proper opportunity and context, women hold out -- often against their own urges -- to make sure they feel comfortable and secure with the man before they have sex with him. That feeling of comfort and security is when she recognizes she’s with an att…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 08:18 PM
2

Take a spin around mrp amd look up comfort tests. Bam done. or check the fucking sidebar like every other dipshit before they start posting. Married Man Sex Life Primer, and Models both deal with it directly. It's generally not discussed because as been pointed out to you by numerous reds and purples, alpha game is discussed because most men there already have high beta game. You don't do squats when your bench sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:54 PM
6

You've obviously never seen guys interact without women present
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 07:48 PM
2

What the hell are you doing whore! It was........... A male LARPing as a girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 09:21 PM
2

Am proof, getting more sex, still want more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 12:41 AM
6

Not really. Even in clinics you usually need to be below 400 in the US. Which is the average test of a 60 y/o man, before they are willing to put you on some form of TRT. The issue is the acceptable range is so fucking large. 300-1100. And even then they only perscribe enough to get you into the 600-700 range. If you overshoot that then they bring your dose back down. Despite the fact that there have been no studies documenting problems with levels above 1100.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 02:22 PM
0

Shits and giggles. Trolling. Look at 4chan's history of pranks to see why.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 10:59 PM
3

There's the real answer
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 10:31 PM
2

"Girls want a bad boy whos good only for them, boys want a good girl whos bad for only them"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:30 PM
3

some wrap up in trash bags and wipe away sweat with a credit card. On top of fasting all day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 12:55 PM
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The one with the veto power is the one who is leading. And the one who bears responsibility for failure. There are plenty of men like that yes. But she doesnt want the responsibility if you look at the other responses
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 09:06 PM
1

To find a guy like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 05:11 PM
1

And that is tangentially related what I said, but it doesn't directly refute anything I said. What part of my arguement do you actually disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 08:08 PM
1

Alright. Start over because you aren't making sense based on context. What exactly is your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 07:42 PM
4

Because it was their first time together and it was right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 07:30 PM
2

You can’t isolate it. You can actually. Whether they are having sex to be happy or just to test run an experiment for different PUA techniques or to see if you can collect all the STDs, the reasoning behind the action doesn't really matter to the material. The rest is just moralizing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 07:19 PM
1

And that's idiotic in the extreme. Go AMOG your boss and see what hapens. Red Pill is a sexual strategy, no more, no less. Assertiveness (which is all your describing there) isn't RP specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 07:16 PM
1

Because A) that's ot the case with the majority of wives/girlfriends. The "but we had sex last week" is a meme for a reason. B) The goal is variety usually, not necessarily quantity. C) You're female aren't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 07:14 PM
1

In those specific instances yes. Becauae she asked about those types of examples. There are dozens of times where I forgo things so she doesnt have to. Several months of 60-80 hours a week so she can go to school. Having a 2 hour commute to keep hers at 15 minutes, etc. But I wasn't asked about those, I was asked about specific instances of her getting out of the way of my leadership.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 07:12 PM
1

So you didn't read the last line at all? For MANY men. Not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 04:28 PM
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No. You're reading way to much into it. It's about getting sex from women. Many men are unhappy because they decided that sex with multiple women was something they desired and they werent getting. The concept that pleasure == happiness is a very hedonistic one, and often incorrect. Drug addicts are a fantastic example. Drugs bring them pleasure, but they aint happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 03:36 PM
2

That's a given, but one isnt a leader for gratitude. It just is. If she's acting shitty, then in many respects it's my fault because I'm fucking something up. It's all my responsibility and that's fine. I can deal with hate. At any point I can stop being the leader if I decide it's not worth the effort. It's still a partnership. With all that entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 03:34 PM
1

I never said it was. Let me repeat for you since you seem to be a crayon eater. THE RED PILL IS ABOUT SEXUAL SUCCESS NOT ABOUT INTERNAL HAPPINESS.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:34 PM
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I'm ok with being wrong. I'm a hell of a lot more assertive. I don't suffer from decision paralysis, I just make a decision that's best based on current info and if it changes I can adjust course. I'm a big picture guy, while she's more detail oriented. I commonly say I'm the what and why and she's the how. We split the when. This isn't a master slave relationship btw. If she thinks I'm in the wrong or forgetting something she speaks up, and if I am I usually listen. But I reserve the right to o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:24 PM
1

I would say your a natural submissive. Which is an amazing thing. Just remember that if you let your spouse lead, and they screw up, its their fault, not yours. There's quite a bit of freedom in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:20 PM
4

Oh I've got the perfect example two in fact. There was this fitness thing call Life Transformation 360 that was a lifetime subscription. Cost 2.2k for both of us. Not back-breaking but not insignificant either. She thought it was a bad idea but followed my lead anyway. The program was good and formed a good basis for our current weightloss, but she was right, we don't utilize the resources enough to justify the cost. That was three years ago, and while I was wrong, ultimately it didn't hurt us i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:15 PM
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Or is it just a way of getting more sex, which becomes an end in itself? Ding Ding Ding! Took you 300 words but you finally got it! Red Pill isnt about happiness, or financial success or anything else. It's a sexual strategy to get laid. That's it. No Mas. Ultimately pursuing happiness for its own sake is self-defeating. CPGrey has an excellent video on this in fact. Do things that give one a sense of accomplishment amd let happiness flow after. For many men sex is the sense of accomplishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 01:57 PM
2

So yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 01:53 PM
1

You've gotta pick one. LNBH and I went 10 rounds on this. Ultimately it was about trust for her and she had to choose to trust me and let go. Overall she's happier now without the dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 01:53 PM
1

Except in your own reply you admit that they capped it at 50, and there's a discussion right now about a girl with 80. When you cap the high numbers artificially, you skew left too. The exact skew, whether resting to the left or right (though probably still right) is up for debate unless someone has the raw data. Finally, I wasnt saying the data was skewed period. I was pointing out that the pareto principle applied to sex as well, which is why those that engage in casual sex are so shocked that…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 01:22 PM
4

Not every, but a chunk. I've tutored idiots who cheated thier way through school and are plant engineers because dad. This isnt an internet thing. I've seen and experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 06:17 PM
0

Because we know that whatever you're doing it's to get sex. That is so fucking annoying, you know? Damn, sucks you aren't attracted to your spouse. Seems he needs to do less sweet shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:57 PM
1

One doesn't go looking for red pill because one is in a happy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:55 PM
1

This
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:45 PM
3

It still has the stem-lord stereotype. Might be a regional thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:41 PM
1

Women LIKE the build up and anticipation. Ot might not even be malicious, she might he's enjoying being would as tight as she is. He needs to make it clear that it's NOT fun, and "punish" her for doing that. That opens up the chance for change.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:39 PM
2

Even then engineer is iffy. I might leave it blank or just list the company but no position.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:34 PM
2

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA. No, not really. You'd get dumped for trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:33 PM
3

You don't know engineers apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 01:43 PM
2

Yup, there's a large chunk of virgins or 1-2's that drop the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 01:43 PM
8

Yup, about half of which will be employed through dad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 01:40 PM
4

Unless you have kids or have been together for a decade theres no reason for sex to be is infrequent. If she's doing this right now in limeremce then she's going to dry up completely long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 02:18 PM
23

Don't beg. Make it a statement. "Nah, I'm not in the mood to be teased." When she tries to make out with you. Then physically remove yourself from the situation. Don't make out at all. Do that periodically when she does the teasing shit and either the teasing will slow way down, or the sex will start creeping up. Right now she's getting all the affection for none of the sex. Start withdrawing affection and changes happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 02:16 PM
1

Did you miss the 2 decade long affair? Because this affair happened a decade ago but went for DECADES.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:11 PM
4

this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:59 PM
2

But what about the dog children? Why arent they protected!?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 03:40 PM
2

Financial or legal cost. Alimony, housing etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 06:01 PM
1

I'm still used to seeing be the norm for kiddos
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 06:47 PM
1

I'm not surprised. Actually I wpuld be worried if he wasnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 06:47 PM
1

I can't remember, is thing 1 the boy or the girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 05:56 PM
1

Parents I know tend to start buying juice for their kids though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 05:43 PM
1

Sweet. TIL. I'm used to milk or juice being the norm. LNBH plan on trying for kids soon, and we're both the information and research types. Since we're both from prole backgrounds though its interesting to see how the other side lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 05:38 PM
1

A steakhouse
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 05:30 PM
1

So its just milk and water?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 04:31 PM
7

Got damn. Do you demand blowjobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 03:18 AM
6

I second requiring a story
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 03:17 AM
5

And the rest of the rebuttal? The harmony at the end, the obvious way shes just playing coy (which is still a common practice, its not dead yet). I get it, you wanna be offended by a song, feel free. Its just fucking stupid to be so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 01:54 PM
3

I did 7 years in restraunts. So I hate christmas music too. I'm only recently starring to be able to listen to country again now that a few years have passed and newer songs are on the radio.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 01:30 PM
6

The joke is thst theres nothing in the drink, not even alcohol. So no, its really not even that. Only when you devoid the song of its context entirely does it become a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 01:28 PM
3

except German men are having issues getting dates because the women want men who work 40+. There was a study shone here a few months ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 03:43 PM
1

yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 03:39 PM
4

So what I'm seeing here is after decades of fighting to be one of the boys, women are now insulted that they are being treated as such. This is really funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 03:27 PM
11

The issue is they decided to burn down the entire orchard over a handful of bad trees. They shouldnt be surprised when farmers arent willing to let them back into the new orchard. It's a common sense reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 03:25 PM
10

Poe's law
/r/MensRights27/11/18 07:57 PM
8

The fact that she felt gross, and then did nothing about it for 8ish hours says that she didnt actually feel that gross. Theres no getting around that if its not an outright lie, then its an exaggeration to avoid what she obviously sees as a chore. Secondarily, if your spouse chooses a movie or a friends rerun over you, then the attraction, if not the relationship is dead. He simply recognized it and told her so before severing ties.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 06:31 PM
1

Expand on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 09:08 PM
8

Yes edit for follow-ups: At least once, the pretty ones stick with me for a couple weeks. None. I'm married. Don't know, and probably about the same. None. I'm married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 05:38 PM
4

have a cookie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 03:05 PM
1

So economic growth and unemployment being at record highs and lows and still going in the correct direction is nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 05:53 AM
1

Her pic Not yours, hers. The only reason to post that is to "prove" you actually got a hot chick. For validation. Why do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 04:43 PM
2

I'm betting decline because she soesnt want to have sex while under emotional duress.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 12:49 PM
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Dude, back to the sidebar before she dumps your needy ass. Why the fuck are you posting her pic on here for the validation of strangers? This is cringey as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 01:03 PM
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Came here to post this. Have an upvote!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 02:47 AM
1

So let me get this straight. Your FtM, and gay? So you're a straight woman who opted for odd cosmetic surgery? Huh, TIL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 09:42 PM
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I was replying directly to your comment, which means your comment is the only source for the "it's" definition. What else could I have possibly meant? The only possible reference I could have made was to I can only imagine what /r/full communism did.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 01:15 AM
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You ok? Pop in and talk to us we wouldn't mind a chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 01:11 AM
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Basically, that's what RP is. What do alpha's do? Then mimic that behavior until it's natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 01:03 AM
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Yes, that was entirely my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 12:57 AM
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sighs Yes, that was my point. r/fullcommunism is the left wing version of r/SubofPeace (which is right wing). They are both meme sites dedicated to their extreme beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 12:57 AM
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You default to website browser then, rather then mobile.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 12:55 AM
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You know, I could see them linking to The Art of Manliness (it even has it's own sub r/theartofmanliness) as an alternative, but the one they listed is literally completely antithetical to RP and most who got there have already tried to do all that shit to no avail.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 12:52 AM
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The top page talks about women and how men should get involved in the feminist movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 12:47 AM
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On mobile access or the app it's blocked completely. You have to load the full desktop version for it to even be an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 12:47 AM
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it's the left wing r/SubOfPeace
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 12:43 AM
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I mean The_Donald isn't being considered for quarantine because the users buy and use so much gold, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 12:41 AM
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I'd gild you but we aren't allowed to do that anymore.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 11:21 PM
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Asking for Lunch/Coffee is friendzoning yourself. So the advice is bad because it includes lunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 08:57 PM
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And clearly I'm focusing on the lead that was buried here. Anymore random statements?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 06:45 PM
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LUNCH. LUNCH LUNCH LUNCH. Since you can't read. Lunch is a solid friendzone choice. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 10:40 PM
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coffee or lunch? yes. dinner or drinks? no. The above poster specifically mentioned lunch or coffee
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/18 03:53 PM
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NEVER. Your advice is to intentionally friendzone himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 02:56 PM
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Reported for circlejerking :-P
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 01:30 PM
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not 0, but 10 =>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 03:26 PM
4

She's offensive but still correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 09:33 PM
1

Then what exactly is it that's attractive to women? What do you think "Be yourself" means? It's an implicit call to confidence. A lot of it is just attitude. Then you just need body language to reflect attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 05:59 PM
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You are on here, but don't know about mrp?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 05:57 PM
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He'll learn rejection is no big deal, get confident. Start being attractive. Get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 10:53 PM
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Yes. No. In order to be confident one has to be comfortable with failure. One can only do that by failing. It's the great crime with how the millenials and homelanders now too have been raised. And then we wonder why people need safe spaces. After he does that a few dozen more times, he'll realize that rejection is no big deal and move on. Hell even players get told thier creeps in clubs by some women, and told they're the hottest guy there by others. It's all numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 10:49 PM
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Before you wall of text me, re-read that interview. He has been holding out for a woman he has a special emotional connection with. I bet money he was raised some form of christian, and was originally holding out for marriage. If he was just trying to get laid, he'd succeed. But he's not. He's now post hoc justified that by looking for a deep emotional commitment from a woman before sex. That's basically the female stance. In short, his morals gave him a non-masculine stance and he's surprised i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 10:48 PM
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Did you see his outfit, posture, and hair? Dude was lacking confidence and building up that thick skin. Good on him for picking up that first dumbbell as a fatass. That's all he did there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 10:04 PM
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This doesn't explain how he came to be virgin at 26 in the first place. You're just saying he is unattractive for that fact alone. Well at one time, he would have been an 18 year old virgin. And that's not something you've explained. He explained it himself. He held out. Theres nothing to explain. He is now just dealing with the consequences of his morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 09:57 PM
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The successful ones have stopped posting for the most part. Jack of ten hearts is a primary that comes to mind. There's a reason r/mrp is a dead sub. Once you get it you quit posting and go live your life. And you can't post in mrp unless you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 09:56 PM
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The successful ones have stopped posting for the most part. Jack of ten hearts is a primary that comes to mind. There's a reason r/mrp is a dead sub. Once you get it you quit posting and go live your life. And you can't post in mrp unless you get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 09:54 PM
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Watch what they say, not what they do. The simple fact of the matter is RP is a philosophy for getting casual sex. It's not for relationships outside of maintaining a high level of sexual attraction. Women on the whole want commitment more than sex. So they see something that denies thier denies thier desires and has an "offensive" tone to boot. That's all it is. As to why men follow it? It works. And I watch what they do and ignore what they say. Because we communicate differently, and women do…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 09:50 PM
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So I don't care about celebrities secondhand stories. The first guy is broadcasting insecurity on a physical level that is screaming how little confidence he has. He doesn't look brood he looks like he's waiting to be beaten like the worthless piece of shot he believes himself to be. THAT'S why women are not attracted to him. The last guy, well virgin at 26 is a red flag. It either shows an archaic value set that will only be appreciated by women who share those values, or it shows that he has s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 01:03 AM
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This is autism. You aren't romantically unsuccessful because of whatever that is. It's because you can't seem to hide your autism well dude. Sorry to break it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 12:30 AM
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South east US. It's rude not to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 03:44 PM
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Tedx's are special interest groups that aren't good enough for the main brand. So no. Besides it's nothing that keto/Atkins people haven't shown me before
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 01:32 AM
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Doesn't change my point at all. You don't need a "good" grocery store. Wal-Mart has non precooked food too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 01:29 AM
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I never said whole food. I'm talking the cheap chicken at sam's that's $2 a lb that you have to trim the grisel off first (takes 2 minutes tops) A free gym is perk, but there are $10 a month gyms all over the place. That's less then 2 packs of cigs. Even if you dont have sam's, Wal-Mart is every fucking where and thier meat isn't horribly expensive. We actually save money by buying food and cookong it. Getting fast food every day costs a LOT of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 06:18 PM
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I never said it was. Cutting out an entire macro nutrient is retarded. (Carbs protien, fat) but people don't realize when they sling a quarter cup of olive oil in the pan with thier chicken they add 500 kcal to the meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 06:15 PM
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No I absolutely shove food in my mouth like a fucking pelican. It's what you shove though. Chicken, broccoli, rice in moderation, peppers (fajitas), spinach, stir fry veggie bags. It's all the butter and oil that kills you calorie wise. 1800 calorie cut. I was eating 1.5lbs of meat a day and a lot of veggies. No oil or anything. For your average fat dude the dat will melt off. Six meals a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 04:43 PM
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Fucked the absolute hell off with that environmental bullshit. If that was the case then there would be no fit teenagers and we know that isn't the case. Are foods classically dense? The cheap premise shit is yah. You know what's cheaper? Raw food. Toss chicken in the oven for an hour at 350 (I like crispy chicken breast) with season salt and pepper. Toss a microwave veggie bag in the microwave. That's about $5 by the way and 4 meals. Since I lift weights that's a days worth of food. If chicken …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 04:30 PM
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It just cracks me up that it's being cited as BP dating advice, when it's part of the core tenets on game.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 08:30 PM
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Models is in the RP sidebar...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 03:38 PM
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Good bot!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 11:04 AM
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Your right, mobile quoting dropped some of that. So I fixed it. My point doesn't change at all though. In case you missed it. I learned a behavior because it's useful for maintaining my relationship. There's the utility. But it's still about feels and not reels.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 05:26 PM
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My wife doesn't do this, but I've seen other women do it. I've listened when her friends do it on speaker phone. shrugs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 04:13 PM
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See here's the thing. If I go on a rant, And I don't get an external thought process. Not even a full solution, but a different perspective that I can brain storm solutions about, in my mind, You weren't listening and you don't care. Because you did nothing to help solve the problem. If it's just venting, a "that sucks" is all that's wanted or needed, And prying for details is annoying, because they're irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 03:47 PM
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Masculine != all men I also didn't even say never. But there's a world of difference between: "Everyone at work is an idiot" "That sucks" And: "Blah blah Becky in marketing and blah then I told Jill in sales blah" You know, I don't even know what the response that goes here even is. That's how odd this entire exchange is to me. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=RzJs5qxoXtk Bill Engle has a good bit here. First 90 seconds or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 03:39 PM
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You really like putting words in my mouth don't you? Twisting them for your perception? Inability to understand the utility of commiseration Understanding and empathy are only tangentially related at best. In as much as the first is a prerequisite for the second but there's still I wide gulf.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 03:31 PM
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I care so I entertain it. Otherwise it would just be annoying and I'd either tune it out or tell her to shut up. Did you miss the entire chunk where I said I learned the behavior she needed even though it's completely foreign to me? You must have. I care why she's upset, so I want to fix the source so it no longer bothers her. Comiseration does nothing to fix the source and thus the feelings continue unabated. That's the traditional masculine line of thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 03:09 PM
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Your conflating two issues. Problem solving is meanful dialogue. Being able to talk about interests and teach one another is meaningful diaglogue. Having long conversations is great! But the concept of "validating emotions" is a feminine one. Most guys dont have the patience for it. Most trans men stop having the patience for it when they start T too. It's really funny actually. There a few articles on it. It's why the rp concept of "fix her feelz, not her problems" exists. Hell, variations of "…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 03:02 PM
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You know that's not autistic, that's masculine. What your describing is an extremely femenine perspecticve. It's so ubiquitous it's a meme. "Its not about the nail" is a funny YouTube video that encapsulates it entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 02:33 PM
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At least we know we're windbags
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 04:53 PM
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concise summary 1000+ words 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 06:27 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 07:21 PM
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Mine obviously. Does that mean I don't care about hers? No, of fucking course I do. But going back two - three years ago I looked around and realized my life was shit and I wasn't getting the sex I wanted and it was my fault. So I started improving myself. Dressing better eating better and exercising. I lost 40 lbs after a year of several false starts. Sex still wasn't happening. Then the wife and I had a conversation. I told her point blank if i'm married my wife and I would be having sex a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 03:16 PM
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It's common in religious private schools. I suspect private schools in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 12:15 AM
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It's like she's never heard of an M.R.S. degree...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 01:59 PM
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Start with No More Mr. Nice Guy -> When I Say No I Feel Guilty -> Models Attract Women Through Honesty -> The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 05:05 PM
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I was trying to reply to NPR up there, hit yours instead, didn't wanna leave a rando deleted comment. TYL
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 04:10 PM
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A) values are similar B) similar social class Fixed that for you. SAHM's need to be educated to better raise their kids. Keep in mind this is EXCLUSIVELY UMC and UC, MC and LC don't give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 04:00 PM
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Wrong reply button, ignore this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 03:59 PM
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What else does title 9 do?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 01:20 PM
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https://www.eeoc.gov/laws/types/sexual_harassment.cfm The question is how isolated the comments are. But in general, yah. There was also the question of sexual assault but that seems to have blown over.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 01:09 PM
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There are 3 primary issues. 1) Colleges aren't law courts, so title 9 needs to go. People need to be filing these reports with local police 2) Often for male perpetrators action is taken before there is even a verdict. Male students get suspended and pulled out of classes at the accusation stage, often failing classes due to lost work even if they get exonerated. Or even losing job offers due to the accusation. Essentially guilty until, or even in spite of, proven innocence. 3) In this case, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 12:50 PM
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She got what amounts to due process. She got a full 11 month title 9 investigation and was found guilty and suspended. It's still stupid that title 9 is a thing. It needs to be criminal charges, but whatever. What I find interesting are the "real" feminists saying that title 9 and me too is to stop male perpetrators only. Fun to finally have that out in the open.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 12:17 PM
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You push her boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 08:50 PM
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Touching especially in a sexual fashion. But women have responsive sex drives. Of you don't show he you find her sexy she can't feel sexy. So you need to touch her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 07:52 PM
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So simple test. Can you feel muscle or fat when you touch yourself? If it's the later start exercising. I would say lifting, but blind makes learning form difficult at best. That being said, you are in the perfect kino position. You already have to touch her regularly, so make it loving and sexual whenever possible. Linger on her upper arm, stroking her, etc. That's at least a place to start. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 07:23 PM
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??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 01:09 AM
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We've been together since HS, and she's been with me through the worst things the world has to offer. A lot of my defining moments have her in them. While female companionship will always be welcome, the depth of our emotional connection will never match up to the one I have with my wife now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 10:53 PM
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Honestly? Take the insurance money and bank some, clear debt, finish school/work. Some combination of working 80 hours a week and being an absolute man-whore. I broke every single rule I had for that woman, and no one will ever be as wonderful and as beautiful as she is. Even when she's being shitty. Replacing her is out of the question, at that point you just stay busy to keep away the pain. We don't have kids yet, and while they are a possibility on our future, until rhythm is established i ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 10:49 PM
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I like my kitties with claws. It's more fun to break 'em.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 01:37 PM
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Shy isn't a mental problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 01:24 PM
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Only if you're a mouth breather. Realistically she elevator's you. Wrinkles her nose and day's "Eww".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 08:05 PM
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More reasonable. But red pill has only been around since 2008 at the EARLIEST and mrp is even younger. PUA's been around since '98 ish but that's not the same. They're related but not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 06:31 PM
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So let's judge the long term success of a movement that is younger than the definition of long term success. Very SMRT I'm impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 06:21 PM
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You've clearly never hit on women in a public scenario. Try that out and post a field report. I wanna see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 03:15 PM
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Underrated commentary.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 12:24 PM
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Nix the second part. Assume he does. It's not viewed as a "authentic" because she had to ask. Go check relationships if you don't believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 01:40 AM
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At the same time. My favorite was the guy who was gilded for realizing 10 YEARS later this one chick he was crushing on was dtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 01:37 AM
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Because inexperience or shyness isn't a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 01:36 AM
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Between pd and paternity fraud
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 01:32 AM
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Ya. People don't think it be like that but it do. People are idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 12:49 AM
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It was curiousity. Either you or a stalker. So just so we're clear, your discrepancy is malicious fraud?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 12:47 AM
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Gotcha. I hadn't realize I had said fraud a couple replies up, that ones on me. I was trying to be intentional about discrepency rather than fraud, apparently poorly. Btw, have you been down-voting me?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 12:39 AM
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See I can see this one. And it would fit the data, but you don't think the guy would get a test done first before assuming responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 12:31 AM
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You never bothered to address that one. You skipped over it completely for your strawman. If you wanna start from there 15 comments deep, we can, because that's the convo that i'm having with stor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 12:30 AM
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Paternal discrepancy (PD) occurs when a child is identified as being biologically fathered by someone other than the man who believes he is the father. The first two sentences of the abstract.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 12:07 AM
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The issue is paternity fraud and it's cost. The study is about paternity fraud. All of your points are special cases that can be considered paternity fraud, but aren't because reasons, and should be knocked off the 1/25 statistic because of that. By the way, literally NONE of which are in the study about paternity fraud about which this entire post is based. So, wanna start over now that you can't weasel anymore? For the record, I didn't realize the numbers where that high, and didn't catch your…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:57 PM
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I'm trying to figure out if you wanna have an honest debate about the subject matter or want to hijack the thread. Because you've flat out admitted that you consider the study, which forms the entire point of the post, irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:49 PM
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I dunno, why's a funny looking guy in a labcoat matter when he tells me I have cancer. Especially when I'm debating whether or not cancer fits my preconceived notions of how it's contracted?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:38 PM
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Check my edit and we'll go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:28 PM
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Ted is the father, but it's actually Jim and no one's the wiser. Explain this without cheating please
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:22 PM
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It's not involved in the study at all. Undeclared father's are not considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:15 PM
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I would guess that a large percentage of these kids would have totally mysterious paternity, not necessarily being pinned on an unknowing father figure Then you doesn't read the paper at all. It only deals with cases where the biological father is not who it's stated it is. So step-dads don't apply at all. Neither do children with undeclared fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:13 PM
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Not in the 0.01 seconds So you were wrong when you made this statement earlier? Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 09:21 PM
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That's how you mitigate reflexive emotional responses by "flipping the switch" if you will. Cognitive response on emotions only refers to a protracted emotional response, not a reflexive one. So literally not what we are currently discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 08:21 PM
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Since you keep dancing around the entire arguement, lets try one more time. Plainly. Joe blow off the street gets rejected. He immediately has a flash of something. Some odd mixture of anger and pain. What is this feeling? Why does it hurt so bad. Why does it hurt more than being told you aren't wanted on the football team (another kind of rejection). Because on a genetic level, your lizard brain is interpreting this as being declared unworthy to pass on your genetic lineage, which is why this f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 08:17 PM
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No we're simply defining the initial wash of emotions that come over a person the instant they are rejected. Plenty of time to think about such a reaction in the 0.01 seconds you have there to contemplate what just happened. But sure, this is the same thing about dwelling on and thinking about how your father died.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 07:43 PM
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Every psychology expert will tell you it goes emotion to cognition especially with reflexive reactions. Check the guy who had a damaged hippocampus (decently certain it was hippocampus) and couldn't feel emotions. He was unable to make descisions at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 05:11 PM
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Dude's an incel. For him, simple homely Becky is a hottie. I'll stick with 1 in 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 02:26 AM
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http://nymag.com/betamale/2016/05/women-are-now-cheating-as-much-as-men-but-with-fewer-consequences.html Have fun. Seems since the sexual revolution female infidelity has SHARPLY increased. Seems once women got out in the world and started enjoying sex they decided to start cheating too. There are 3 studies linked by my count. All the other studies only show a massive difference between the genders in older generations, 40+ or higher usually. The generations before slut walks and positive sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 02:25 AM
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It's a neocortex explanation of a lizard hindbrain emotion. Surely you can understand that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 02:09 AM
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LOL, no they’re not. By that logic, I’d a woman has sex with you; but insists on using contraception, they’re saying the same thing, and yet men typically don’t feel their “existence” is nullified by that. This statement right here. It completely falls apart when you consider that the what's being talking about is instinctual genetic level, not actual fucking rational thought. But keep moving the goalposts, this is fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 10:52 PM
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But intentionally misleading. When one is 35% and one is 34.3% with a margin of error of 1.2%. Are you always this dishonest?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 10:51 PM
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When you reject a man sexually, you are biologically saying "Your genes aren't worth passing on. You should never have been born. You aren't worthy of reproducing." You literally fucking quoted one of his more famous lectures. I even linked the joking short one where he repeated the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 10:45 PM
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Are you really suggesting men should be coddled?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 10:43 PM
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Dude! You are a dude right? How many chicks you think are hot when you leave your house? 1 in 3 AT FUCKING LEAST. Now even if you hit on only 75% of the women you find attractive, that's a FUCKTON of chicks. Think, please. Quit parroting, and badly at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 10:42 PM
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That's quickly changing. Studies are now showing effectively equal cheating rates. 1/3 for both IIRC to having cheated once ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 10:40 PM
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Are you not aware of how the brain is structured at all? The back of the brain where it connects with the spine is literally from our lizard ancestors and is in charge of a lot of our instinctual drives. Hindbrain https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hindbrain https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brainstem Whole Brain https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_brain There are a number of studies by psychologists, brain surgeons, and everyone in-between, that show instinct and rational thought are completely separate…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 10:36 PM
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It boils down to lizard hind brain screaming, not actual rational thought. He's bastardizing JP's argument, and claiming it as his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 10:05 PM
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So anything else you wanna rip straight from JP's youtube lecture while your here to debate? Don't get me wrong, I think it's a fine staightment, and correct, but we're MEN. Not women, not children. We don't need to be pandered to or protected. Dealing with rejection is normal, and frankly a skillset every guy should have. Asking to be coddled is weakness. Just suck it up and deal. Oh, and don't plagiarize. Here's the joking one, not the serious one. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JVKfH5XSdM4
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 10:03 PM
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Masculine? Yes. A good example of masculinity? No
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 12:02 AM
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It's weka-anal you prude. Geez! Get it right!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 12:25 PM
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Location, location, location. Take chest tats. No one is gonna see that in a professional setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 02:07 PM
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I'm stopping at the words on the page as written. If she's trying to imply that then sure, but if the wife stops working he becomes sole supporter. The interesting thing is I think it was u/exit_sandman already explained this to her with his link to a German study.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 02:45 PM
1

I don't see how you got that from what I wrote at all. cons: you have to make more money and that money becomes family money. You need to make a good income to support your family in a safe neighborhood or you will be marked a failure as a man. Most men already do that. That just has a primary breadwinner. Not sole household supporter. Bit with a pay increase from women leaving the workforce, sole supporter easily becomes the thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 12:08 PM
26

You don't. If they are unhappy and resent you, by that time it's over. You improve yourself and prep for the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 05:07 AM
1

Men in marriages usually are the primary breadwinner and that money already goes to the household. And if 50% of the workers quit working then wages will rise. Drastically. So supporting a household on her hypothetical would be easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 05:03 AM
1

Jesus your an idiot. I'm done wasting time here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 05:01 AM
1

From what pool of people not working? Do you really not understand how supply and demand work?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 02:57 PM
5

Right? She acts like this is a gotcha when most men already have the cons without the pros. Sounds like an improvement to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 02:56 PM
1

What do you think beta orbiters are dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 02:03 PM
1

There's you problem. Pull her off the pedestal. You're the prize dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 06:12 PM
2

Why are you letting her dictate the conversation or jumping through her hoops?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 10:42 PM
2

Honestly? It's control vs. not. A person has far more control over their personality and behavior then they do about looks/height/genetics. So you are only supposed to judge someone based what they have control over and are capable of changing. Skin color, hieght, etc. are uncontrollable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 03:21 AM
1

That's a virus link in the OP, on android mobile at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 11:04 PM
0

Anyone whose past the anger phase does. The reason it's parroted so much is basically. "She cheated on me and I thought she wasn't like that!" "AWALT" "Shit I forgot." It's a catechism and a reminder to the idiots that forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 09:59 PM
2

So someone else should pay because YOUR marriage failed?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 07:42 PM
1

Penis haver. I cracked the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 07:40 PM
2

With federal loans helping it can. You don't work to pay for school so much as to pay rent and eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 07:39 PM
3

I mean high end escorts are just upgraded sugar babies. The primary difference between a prostitute and an escort is her ability to make her John believe she's actually his girlfriend. Thats how you go from $50 a ride to $10k a night.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 07:37 PM
2

Yes. Gay dudes make up 5ish% of the male population but it's completely equal opportunity for male and female heterosexuals. Are you seriously that fucking blind? I'm not saying this needs to he or can be changed. But let's be honest here. Sugar parents are a strictly female option with the exception of super model looking dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 07:34 PM
2

I was explaining the perception. Nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 07:32 PM
2

Yup. My favorite was the 14 year old child in GA
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 07:30 PM
3

Well if you've been out of the workforce for 15+ years to run a household it'll take a while to find a job. Your old job might not even exist anymore. So then you need to train for a new one. Etc. Alimony properly applied isn't a big deal. But too often it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 07:29 PM
2

Where do Italians sit in that for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 07:15 PM
3

As a rule people take the ones who work for thier education. More seriously than this who don't. That's all he's implying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 06:14 PM
2

Hahahahahahahahaha. No. Functionally no. Look at all the sugarparents. They are 70+% male. I don't even have to look at them to know this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 06:13 PM
5

The idea is it gives the unwilling spouse time to find a job at thier income level.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 09:38 PM
1

He doesnt go scott free in any western country. And ketamine affects dudes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 09:36 PM
3

While you are correct. So is Atlas. You got all of the wife qualities correct. You missed out the on the most important girlfriend quality. Too often sex gets left by the wayside and 90% of husband's are too afraid to say point blank that good sex is number one on wifely qualities. Because it's number one on girlfriend qualities. Wife doesn't replace girlfriend it's an upgrade package. As a husband I would have mentioned all that. But sex would have been mentioned first and emphasized. Not tucke…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 06:51 PM
1

Only reason I own one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 02:38 PM
1

Dude, that statement is so full of shit it's not even funny. The ONLY western group where that would cause an issue is WASP elite culture, and even then it's only if she gets PREGNANT. Literally no one cares outside of light social teasing if their sister ends up some back-alley slut. It does not effect your college choices. It doesn't effect your career (they barely care about YOUR social life, let alone your sisters). It doesn't even effect your marriage prospects. (You don't even meet the fam…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 06:38 PM
1

Why would it deeply effect you? Why would it be shameful? How do her choices affect her too? Frankly, why do your friends care AT ALL about what your sister does?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 06:33 PM
1

Then why do you care who her boyfriend is?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:53 PM
2

That is such an alien view. I know no one who actually feels like he has to protect his sister unless their boyfriends turn abusive. Bruising abusive. Your sister's her own woman. Let her live her life. You live yours. Help her pick up the pieces if she has a broken heart if you feel the need to do something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:44 PM
3

Tazers are great too. And in some jurisdictions easier to train with and get should of.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:54 PM
1

They are sharp and stabby. Make good knuckles in a pinch if you hold them wolverine style.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 03:51 PM
1

I mean, if you have boobs to be played with I can see why you might be having bedroom troubles. That being said, most guys don't have the all over erroneous zones that women have, so nipple and leg play does jack and shit for them. Teasing would need to be of the direct variety, and most guys are ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 06:45 PM
2

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 11:51 PM
1

Did.. Did you just complain about playing with boobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 11:41 PM
1

Yes well. The stupid American spelled it phonetically :-P
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 05:31 PM
1

Bad french
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 01:31 PM
3

You seriously think a debate sub is a male safe space for introverts? Sounds entitled to me. Did you read the sidebar? You want to meet girls? Get laid? You do what the girls here are recommending. You act normal. It's the entire point of Bang, Day Bang, Book of Pook. Doesn't matter if you can fathom what they are talking about. It's how it is. Expecting matters to change for your benefit is the definition of entitlement. Learn the system and game it to your advantage. Ce le vei
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 05:03 PM
1

English. Please and thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 06:26 PM
2

Lemme guess UMC?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 03:20 AM
1

A lot of stuff that's been said above, but I'll add 1) Dumb. If you can't engage in witty banter, or you can't follow a simple conversation then I lose all sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 06:01 PM
1

Damn that's savage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 05:09 PM
2

You do realize that the US isn't actually leading the world in gun related homicides right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 04:38 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 04:36 PM
5

It was there to be stolen. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 09:09 PM
4

Then still edit it. Edit: Guys I fucked up here, I was trying to be nice and bring positivity to the community rather than simply be mean to people all the time. I'll be leaving this up for transparencies sake but I regret my actions, as I now realize the harm that it has caused.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 08:29 PM
2

Yes! Those people have clearly failed at their (volunteer) jobs! I want to be just like them!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 08:25 PM
4

Editing is a thing, no one quoted you. The others would probably back off a wee bit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 08:22 PM
6

"This is a prime example of a good quality post that we want here on PPD" possibly add "Have a gold star :goldstar:"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 07:59 PM
1

And I fail at geography. I was apparently thinking of Peru.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 07:50 PM
2

Dude, you need to come to America. Your anecdotes from Portugal reallly don't apply here. It's not just overall fitness level, it's also the cultural shift. There is a MASSIVE difference between Latin American cultures and Western ones. Broaden your worldview, then come try and argue the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 02:43 PM
1

"Protect & Provide"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 04:41 PM
2

Alright, are some swauve mind reading fucker? Or are you an anxious kid with 11 years of blue balls from staring at your middle school crush's ass? I'm getting conflicting messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 01:13 PM
1

Which means the men keep up the seduction, and the women keep up all the wild kinky sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 06:15 AM
1

Good answer. I wish more women thought like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 06:13 AM
1

No. If a guy is going to bail, he's going to bail regardless of whether or not you have sex with him. Very few guys that I now of are going to not LTR a girl they otherwise would have because she slept with them on the first date. N-count could be an issue there (and probably is) but it's not the "sleeping with him on the first date" part. It's the "unwilling to LTR you" part, or possibly the "high N-count as a result of the sleeping with several guys on the first date" part.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 06:07 AM
1

Alright. I've made my case. At this point you're being incredibly dense, or just trolling. Either way, I'm done. Since you won't make your case, I'm going to assume the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 04:55 AM
1

How does it stop that possibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 09:28 PM
1

The joke doesn't spring out of a vacuum. The fact that you've heard of people getting caught means it happens. Which was my entire point. This hypothetical doesn't negate that. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 09:23 PM
1

I'm negating the implication that cheating would be impossible for men. Because it's not. Men have multiple wives. It's a fucking meme at this point about the dude with two wives from multiple cities. Supposedly it's illegal and can't be done, but frankly, they don't check all that well, especially across state lines. You want to pretend that it's some magical utopia solution but the real world doens't work like that. Pull your fingers out of your ears and actually pay attention. If you honestly…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 04:52 PM
4

There's a temporal and financial cost. Most dates are paid for by the male, so that can be enraging. I personally haven't seen guys give a fuck about women who consistently go dutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 02:50 PM
1

yup. And A1 and A are married. And A and C don't know each other, because A1 is a lying asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 08:30 PM
1

She won't. He'll have sex with woman C, and man C1 just doesn't find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 09:56 PM
1

You had no footing to stand on, and you know it. My point was that the claim that men would be unable to cheat was bupkiss. Because it was bupkiss. Resorting to logical fallacy doesn't change that. Would it be frequent or omnipresent? No, it's not even that now. Would it reduce such measures? Most definately. Would it prevent it entirely? No. You'd have to change male personalities as well in magic fairyland, you can't just change the female. Jesus fuck, it's like none of you can think through t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 07:36 PM
1

Not mentioned in OP. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 07:21 PM
2

Multiple marriages, each one where the wives are lied to about the others. Plenty of ways around this. It's far from a fool-proof system.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 04:18 PM
2

Sure, make a moral judgement of my character because the premise is inherintly illogical. Here's a thought, since you need me to spell it out for you. What would stop a man from marring multiple women? There's nothing stopping him from telling them he's not actually married, and keeping two spouses in separate cities. Or just two houses, and being away on "business" a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 04:18 PM
6

Is there a prohibition on lying? A man could just claim he's single and marry multiple women in different cities. It's been done before.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 02:19 AM
5

That makes no sense. There's a breakdown here. Why would a woman's refusal to cheat keep a man from cheating? Fairy dust?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 02:10 AM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5JJFBtHcBnM I'm just gonna leave this here my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 09:18 PM
3

Personality modifies the boner test. It's not a driver. It can make the yes turn into a "Hell, yes!" or even make the yes turn into a "Fuck no!", but I've never seen it turn a no into a yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 03:20 PM
1

Lost if I'm reading this right.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 03:18 PM
5

Then they should explain it to the guy. Not "I did anal with Billy once." Try "I got drunk and let Billy try sticking his dick up my ass, and I don't know what happened but I shit the bed."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 03:17 PM
6

You can't prove a negative Lewis. It's on the positive assertion to make that claim
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 11:18 PM
1

Is irccloud down or something? I keep getting an error
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 03:11 PM
1

I would be a lot closer to people physically. More touchy feely. Personal space and physical contact are no big deal to me and a regular part of social interaction. People sitting in laps. Cuddled up. Casual back-neck-shoulder rubs. All of those things are in my non-verbal lexicon, but I that intimidates and scares a lot of people, especially with me being a 250lb 6' dude. Throw in the fact that I'm married and my wife would hardly appreciate it. I've learned to tone it down. Especially because …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 04:25 AM
2

None of that was represented in your study. That claim is just flat pulled out of the air.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 06:55 PM
2

At some point I'll get fit enough that I'll be able to cosplay Matrim Cauthon, even though he's otterbody, and I'm... well.. not. Meh. He's still my favorite, and I'll end with a Naginata, so I win regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 05:41 PM
2

He's refering to the the Big 5 personality types. Women on the whole tend to score higher on agreeableness. This is turn can cause them to make less doing to being unwilling to ask for higher salaries for fear of rocking the boat. The same is true for agreeable men. but perhaps the role of the breadwinner is stoking women’s sense of urgency and confidence in salary negotiations. That was the reason given for young women to successfully ask for raises. Which means they were less agreeable and neg…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 04:44 PM
1

I barely play well in the sandbox, so the swingset is a no-go for me. Too much worth rides on social perception of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 04:06 PM
2

You sound like me and all of my guy friends. It's kinda cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 08:30 AM
2

Upvotes for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 07:31 AM
2

It would give men a place to get off the street too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 06:05 AM
2

Not really, no. More than half of homeless shelters in the US cater exclusively to women. The only male exclusive shelter that I know of is the Rescue Mission, which is a non-profit run exclusively on donations because they can't get federal or state grants for being "sexist" despite fuffilling a need for 75+% of the homeless population.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 03:43 AM
-1

You can infact be awkward and spend a lot of time alone, even if you are extroverted. It makes it worse actually. You always feel tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 03:41 AM
2

Damn, you have it down to an artform. I'm also going to put this up because it's a assumed, but it never hurts to say it. Rule 1. Rule 2. Make sure they apply first
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 08:40 PM
1

I don't. Others might. In that context than yah, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 07:40 PM
3

Alright, you didn't even read it. Good talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 06:54 PM
1

Not really. I mean, in case 2, why the fuck is she working 60 hours a week for 50k when I'm making 100k? She'd be doing that out of desire, not need. So she can pay for a maid or housekeeper or what ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 06:51 PM
1

Honestly curious as to how?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:12 AM
2

I missed this earlier somehow. Completely spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:11 AM
1

It's a direct reference to NOT terminology.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:09 AM
1

It wasn't relevant to the original post. OP wasn't about sex or sexual strategy. It was about love. I'm not saying they're exclusive, but they aren't synonymous either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:03 AM
1

Happiness is a fleeting emotion that is largely controlled by external factors. Satisfaction, and the joy of living well are much more important and I have that in spades.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:55 PM
1

Comparison to loads of other relationships. The fact that we are still together, and extremely happy with each other. I know her, she knows me, and we compliment each other well. We also share old school values and recognize that "happiness" is a short term fleeting emotion. The world sucks. People die and abuse other people. If you can honestly tell me that you've never been angry at your partner, or spent time wondering if you picked the right person. You are either incredibly naive, sheltered…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:53 PM
3

Have you studied the Big Five? I'm talking about the results from that without all the pretty language. Here: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3149680/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:45 PM
3

Women are taught to live like that from a young age. It's actively encouraged and pushed. I don't really understand the question. Women don't go walking alone in the dark for fear of being taken advantage of in the physical realm. Red Pill teaches men to not going walking alone in relationships for fear of being taken advantage of in the emotional/relational realm. It's the same thing, just a different axis. Poeple are people and potential is there for great harm. You acknowledge the harm and pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 08:26 PM
1

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 08:05 PM
13

I was talking about work exclusively. We were talking about the pay gap after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 08:00 PM
16

As in contrary. "Hey boss, you should pay me more." Aggressive. Assertive. More are more likely to not want to rock the boat and risk offending the group or thier boss by asking for a raise directly. Same with shy and nice guys. It's statistically proven that assholes get paid more, and men are more likely to be assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 06:02 PM
2

I'm literally rolling. I'm a dude. Have been and always will be. I do understand. You haven't said anything to contradict me here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 06:01 PM
26

You also forgot that woman have higher agreeableness and assholes get paid more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 04:52 PM
1

And? That changes literally NOTHING about what I said. So you have to select better as a dude. Boo fucking hoo. Sack up an verify. There are women out there like that. Not all of them are college-age Stacy's who read Cosmo. You keep digging and looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 04:37 PM
1

Incorrect. Red Pill states that telling her doesn't mean anything. You tell her things because those benifits are for you. You are reminding yourself. Not her. Going on action dates and doing fun things together is a core tenent of RP as well. Acta non-Verba. I never once in there mentioned movies or dinner, that was intentional. Most importantly you take charge and move forward. You direct the dates and the outcome, and that is how you call out her spark of love and affection. More importantly,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 04:33 PM
1

GENITALIA!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 04:29 PM
1

Does she suppress her internal hyper gamy. But that's the RP perspective. You can't test this anyway but through fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 04:27 PM
2

Sad. You should never meet your heroes. Still fantastic execution though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 11:43 AM
2

You forgot sex! And that's like most superest most importantest part! You neg. Get sex. Then sandwich. Viola. Red pill!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 11:36 AM
1

I have faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 11:34 AM
1

But it's a common blue pill catechism that only idiots believe disney.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 02:40 AM
2

Why do youth do that now? They didn't used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 02:06 AM
1

Relevence?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 02:02 AM
1

What makes you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 11:26 PM
4

I posted something, reconsidered. And finally I have to ask. Why does any of that seem blue? I initially just took you for correct, but re-reading that, there's nothing in there that contradicts RP. For what it's worth, I'm Muave because I don't believe in sulking at the gym when you could talk to your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 11:15 PM
5

I snorted have an upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 05:43 PM
2

shrug They were old and sick. I'll see them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 05:40 PM
3

Yes. It also has a large female demographic
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 05:38 PM
3

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 04:04 PM
10

Calling my wife. My grandparents have passed unfortunately. I just remembered I've been super busy this week and haven't told her how important she is to me in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 04:01 PM
3

Everyone is buying the "true love" bullshit. Just look at the Cosmo poll responses
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 03:45 PM
3

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 03:44 PM
17

Women too. With that fell out of love bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 03:44 PM
1

??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 02:50 PM
4

I mean Oedipus was a thing. An the story still resonates in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 01:07 PM
5

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 12:40 PM
7

Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 12:14 PM
12

Others usually say what im thinking better and or beat me too it. This one just set me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 11:54 AM
132

All I see there are a bunch of dumbasses who don't know the difference between affection and love. Love is work. It's a fucking full time job that also has some happy bits scattered around. It's proven time and time again that the attraction and affection fade at 1.5 to 2.5 years. Why do you think so many relationships don't make it past that point? The brain quits releasing oxytocin at the sight or thought of your partner. So you stick it through. You choose your partner. You brush off the new …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 11:48 AM
2

You fucking typed them all. Google or memory?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 11:33 AM
3

My wife and I tease each other all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 04:56 PM
1

Funnily enough that's my argument for "Why does God restrict sex to inside of marriage". It's biblically supported and much better than just because you get in most churched.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 09:27 PM
2

The witty snarky bitchy one. This ones just snarky and bitchy an reaches for low hanging fruit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 04:45 PM
1

I like you. All of my previous objections typed out with a bonus solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 06:17 AM
2

It's bad When I not only followed that but started a diagram in my head to mame sure there where no errors in the proposal method. I need to graduate soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 06:11 AM
1

Bats? Just combat roll up with your Glock! But for real it's this. I also get to add paranoia to my list.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 05:46 AM
1

Hooray! You know a number of exceptions to the general rule of thumb. I know a lot of tall Asians. Doesn't negate the fact that they tend to be short.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 05:35 AM
1

Paragraphs please?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 05:26 AM
2

Be a DINK!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 11:51 AM
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Yup. The same is true for men who don't wish to be financially sucessful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 07:19 PM
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They've been promising us this since 2016 my man. I'll play it when it comes out. Probably the last video game I'll get all excited for, but I've excepted it's probably going to be on Gen 5 systems at the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 04:22 PM
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It's not going to happen. You're flair I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:45 AM
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A bullshit thought that doesn't prepare children for the real world. Dreams should be left where they are. In dreams. As parents our responsibility is to teach our kids how to deal with the real world in safe non-crushing ways. We shield them from the worst of the issue. Not all of the issue. You still have to let them suffer a little bit so they have emotional and mental capability to dealing with the actual real world. I never saw that. I saw the kids who put in the most effort getting those m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 07:05 PM
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Ah, nevermind. I'm male, so I can't speak to the female experience, but I've seen others post various things. Usually on r/sex and such. You were saying it's ineffable for you. I thought you meant a blanket statement. My apologies if that came out harsh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 03:53 PM
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Because they aren't effort medals, they are "my mom dragged me here and I don't care" medals.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 02:15 PM
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No one thinks it does a damn thing either. It's annoying. Any glimmer of hope you had at getting a trophy is quickly quashed when you see them passing them out to everyone. And you just suck. It does shit. Not getting picked from the team sucks as well, but it also teaches a life lesson, that you need to work for the good things in life. That damn trophy tells kids they are all equally acceptable and loved and that's frankly horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 02:14 PM
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ineffable Today I learned a knew word. I also think your full of shit. You can totally use words to describe it, it's not some big massive thing like love.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 02:07 PM
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Indirectly. Read the other comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 02:03 PM
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Ok. Foreigners moving to Japan and having kids increases the population of Japan but not the Japanese population. That just leads to the British issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 10:04 PM
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I had to be the man I wanted to be. Not the man I "should" be. I had to learn the subtle art of not giving a fuck. I then just waited for her to realize I'm strong enough for both of us and she could trust me and relax again. Ya. Definitely my favorite post marriage memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 10:01 PM
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How does opening the borders fix the negative Japanese population growth?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 08:15 PM
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I was browsing Imgur one day, pissed because my wife and I hadn't had sex since we'd been married (about 15-16 months or so at that point). Followed a heated argument chain. There was a link to one of Rollo's articles. This one to be precise. Things started clicking. I realized that the problem was me, not her, and started correcting my behaviors. I've bounced around RP subs and books ever since, and our sex life and interpersonal relationship has gotten so much better. She sobbed on my chest la…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 06:16 PM
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Meh. A manager has more status than a grunt. There are ways to get status that aren't tied to the other things that were listed. Hence "Go climb a ladder"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 05:05 PM
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Just making sure. I got a buddy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 12:53 PM
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Deny Excuse Explain Rationalize. The biggest give away that the conversation isn't in your frame. Go read No More Mr. Nice Guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 12:09 PM
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Thanks Becky! In case it wasn't abundantly clear from before, I'm not ok with half naked heterosexual couples making out and groping each other's crotches in public either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 12:08 PM
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So naturally red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 12:03 PM
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You forgot status. Start climbing a ladder.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 12:00 PM
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Japan's negative population growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 11:54 AM
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I regret that I only have but one upvote to give.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 11:47 AM
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Have an upvote
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 01:34 AM
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TIL about something new. Still probably a no for me. Who the fuck downvoted my above comment. I gave an opinion. There was nothing to debate nor was there any judgement there. It was a personal opinion statement that was as blanket as blanket can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 01:27 AM
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I don't like things of a sexual nature being flaunted in public spaces personally. So that's why gay pride parades are a no for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 11:10 PM
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So you stopped because you didn't like it. Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 06:19 PM
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Did you actually have to ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 06:12 PM
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Checking for bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 06:02 PM
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Ah. I've never read it. Too many teachers gushing over how awesome Shakespeare was in middle and high school coupled with my contrarian nature meant I skipped him when ever i could and barely paid attention when I couldnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 05:48 PM
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Ah, my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 05:03 PM
1

Yah, the geeky guy that hires the asshole and then Bianca
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 05:02 PM
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You do know I'm married right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 04:41 PM
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You misunderstand. I'm not going to ask some chick who just rejected me why she did that. It's rude (or so I'm told). I'm referring to a conversation with a female friend later.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 04:27 PM
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Yah. I'm also starting to spend to much time on Reddit in general. I think I'll be turning the computer off and switching to a private OYS. Also known as a Journal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 04:25 PM
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It is annoying to have an inbox full of random bullshit though when I post on OYS. It's my fault for assuming is a self-help//group-help thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 04:20 PM
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Mmm. Yah, I know. I was DEERing right up there. It's a bad habit of mine, but I can tell the difference. Essentially who's frame are with in? I have had multiple conversations in my frame with my wife where we discussed "feelings" but I've also had multiple conversations in hers. I acknowledge this. It's just to the point where I simply shrug it off from the guys over there. After all, I am my own judge, and they are just fuckwads over the internet. I'm not going to throw anyone under the bus. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 04:14 PM
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I know this. I never had and issue with it. There are a shit ton of endorsed contributors in both that can't tell the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 04:05 PM
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Are you in MRP? or TRP? Make any post where you admit to sitting your wife/LTR/fuckbuddy and saying, "I'm angry about X, Y, or Z and this behavior needs to be corrected for your, my, and the relationship's health" It'll quickly be derided as "verbal intercourse", DEERing, or a victim puke depending on how much reading (in)comprehension various users have. They will be quick to point out that you are supposed to simply withdraw time and attention and your wife/LTR/fuckbuddy will magically figure …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 03:56 PM
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Kids are little shits in Middle and Early High School. So when you are effortlessly "better" they get suspicious of you and hate on you. When you have an asshole persona, they feel justified that they have the moral "high ground" and thus it cancels out your looks, so they feel less of a need to bully you an put you down. Source: it's the same with intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 03:42 PM
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I didn't think you were, I was just clarifying. I suppose this is my irrational hatred of Shakespeare coming back to bite me then. Is the secondary relationship in Taming of the Shrew as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 03:38 PM
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You changed your flair! When did you change your flair? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 03:36 PM
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I'm purple because I believe communication in a relationship is a good thing. (Which goes against everything that RP ostensibly stands for. Acta Non-Verba and all that). That's really kind of it for me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 03:33 PM
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Depends on the guy. Platitudes piss me off. If I have asked you a direct question then I appreciate a direct answer. Not some wishy washy bullshit. But a lot of guys are too ego invested, so I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 03:30 PM
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I was referring to the secondary relationship going on in the background with the younger sister. But yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 03:24 PM
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I'm going to have to put reddit down for a while. I'm hitting crunch time with classes, and I have 5 projects up in the air right now, along with 20 hours of classwork too. So I think I'm going to end up vanishing for a while. I'll see you guys over the summer!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 11:59 AM
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A lot of it is, but you don't find RP by accident. You find it by being disenfranchised with dating and the sexual market place as a man and trying to figure out why. You don't google "how to fix a radiator" if your car never starts blowing steam.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 11:52 AM
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It's rare on the internet. shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 11:42 AM
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There about a dozen verses that back you up on that, off the top of my head alone. It's the primary calling to Christian people. you are being held to a higher standard, so set an example that proves your way of life is better than those without faith. This way you guide people to faith because they want what you have. It's phrased as transitionally, but it's the central tenant involved. I'm probably not the best example of Christian faith though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 04:03 AM
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I'm using it in the pedantic everyman sense where it simply means extreme aggrivation or rage inducing. I don't think I've ever felt actual honest to God blood boiling, happy to see you die fire kind of hate. That being said, "Love the sinner, hate the sin" is a popular church phrase, so there is that as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 03:26 AM
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I googled popular rom coms and typed out stuff I remembered from them after looking at the titles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 02:38 AM
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