| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1369 | Client Sent Me A Nude At Work | MALE DEPRAVITY | snootdidanoot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 10:04 AM |
| 584 | Advice to my younger pickmeisha self | MINDSET SHIFT | snootdidanoot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:51 AM |
| 227 | Mutilating childrens bodies so men won't be attracted to them | MALE DEPRAVITY | snootdidanoot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 08:34 AM |
| 194 | THAT BITCH - BEA MILLER | FDS ANTHEM 🎶 | snootdidanoot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 11:20 AM |
| 161 | Don't wait for a "Special Day" to do or wear something... | QUEEN SH*T | snootdidanoot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 09:43 AM |
| 92 | Realising my "friends" of 5+ years are LV | RANT | snootdidanoot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 01:24 AM |
| 45 | Please be nicer to pick-me's | DISCUSSION | snootdidanoot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 06:55 AM |
| 9 | Acceptable Valentines Day Gifts? | snootdidanoot | /r/askFDS | 13/02/21 03:05 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 19 | Women who have high body counts because they want to, or because of the amount of promiscuous men who lie about their intentions?Sending you a huge hug 💙 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 06:28 AM |
| 25 | Queen Jess spitting sad facts todayIt's sadly true, almost every women I know has been abused by a man at some point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 07:05 AM |
| 30 | Don’t let family stop you from breaking the pickme cycle!!!At 17 my mum urged me to move in with my 27 year old drug addicted no job loser boyfriend, so I did 🤡 This is one of the reasons we don't speak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 04:42 AM |
| 8 | I have no wordsIt's interesting how he starts off explaining how important the hair towel is to her, then acts baffled that she's pissed he unpacked the item without her knowledge... how thick is this guy? First time my boyfriend did our joint washing with my hair towel in it he asked if I liked it washed a certain way and if it can go in the dryer 🙌 idk how I found him but I'm damn glad I did | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 12:33 PM |
| 68 | What do you think of MGK & Megan Fox? Apparently MGK cheated on Sommer Ray to be with her, then tried to make himself look like the victim when he was already dating Megan.Theres a lot of interviews with her where she states she is insecure 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 10:52 AM |
| 22 | Let's discuss! When did you first get assigned to sit next to a disruptive boy in class, supposedly to be a good influence on him?Wait omg I thought it was just me. I was always put at the back next to the "bad kids" to be a good influence. This made them angry at me so they bullied me at recess and lunch 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 10:15 AM |
| 75 | Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth.So it's gross for our anus to be close to our vagina but it's okay that he pisses out of his dick which he wants to stick into aforementioned vagina? Hypocrisy at it's finest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:56 AM |
| 6 | I can't believe this is the kind of advice that's out there 🙄So he won't buy sex because of his security clearance, not because he's married and loves his wife ? 🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 06:48 AM |
| 88 | So, how’s it going these days now that you have to make women like you to get their interest? Men:They need us, we don't need them and they're getting scared. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 03:45 AM |
| 11 | Excuse me?Aside from the fact he's starving his baby for his own weird fetish, formula tastes like shit?! I've accidentally gotten some on my lips a few times while raising my 5 younger siblings and it's pretty gross.. plus from the bottle like what? If you want to drink it at least dont be so decrepit about it and put it in a damn cup? Lord men are disgusting creatures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 06:30 AM |
| 6 | The entitlement to your partners body it’s probably why they don’t want to be intimate with you anymore. The total lack of awareness. 😪Or a real camera they've set up for revenge porn later | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 06:24 AM |
| 50 | He still keeps sex vids of him and his ex but going through his phone is the bigger violation of trust... 🤡"I'm sure you do too!" No ma'm not 1 single thing because I MOVED ON | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 01:51 PM |
| 198 | Guy that I went to high school with (I'm 31 now) still trying to sleep with me till this day. He's freshly married with a toddler. Mind you, these "talks" consisted of him saying pervy stuff while I tried to get away."Just being nice" jesus christ already trying to gaslight! I'd show this to his wife | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 02:26 PM |
| 166 | Along the same lines as the post about not being afraid to lie - saw this infographic on FB the other day, very helpful for the "too-friendly" of usI do the same 😅 I rotate a few male names so it seems like a house full of men room sharing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 04:12 AM |
| 53 | He proposed on our 1st anniversary. Success story!How did he propose? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 11:30 PM |
| 38 | He proposed on our 1st anniversary. Success story!Congratulations! 🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 11:29 PM |
| 44 | Being in a good relationship has made me realize how women are being gaslit on a mass scale to ask for lessI think a huge change I've noticed is how I see other relationships, and how horrible these men are to women I know! Relationships I used to think were solid and good, I can see through the bullshit now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 06:55 AM |
| 51 | In sickness and health.The way she's snuggled into him 😇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 04:18 AM |
| 20 | Time, awkward tasks & your comfortI needed this 3 years ago 😅 I hope it helps some women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 09:25 AM |
| 293 | Hello is this X? No, I don't know him 💀The boy was REACHING for you 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 09:22 AM |
| 4 | I effed upI'm so angry at him for hurting you! I'm so sorry this happened. Maybe in a few months and as time goes by you'll realise some red flags you didn't notice and note them for future. It's incredible how he didn't even take responsibility, it's entirely his fault. You're a Queen, don't forget it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 09:10 AM |
| 9 | How is this even funny? Just plain ass disrespectful.The smell pf that pozza was probably making it even worse for her too... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 07:46 AM |
| 12 | 👇Beautiful 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 11:59 PM |
| 5 | Gym CreepThis is 90% of the reason I hate the gym and prefer to work out at home | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 02:40 AM |
| 10 | An oldie but a goodieNot to mention twins and triplets are possible, so the number instantly doubles or TRIPLES | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 08:29 AM |
| 39 | All the men in the replies saying that it's unfair, getting immediately shut down 💅Yep. One guy I knew thought women who used pads and tampons were gross and lazy because they didn't just hold it in and go in the toilet as if we can control it like pee.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 07:52 AM |
| 21 | Following our recent discussion here about sending nudes, here is this man hoarding nudes of his exes years and years later....while also married.I dated a guy for a few months when I was young and dumb, sent him a couple pics. His next girlfriend was a friend of mine, they had an argument and she went thru his phone, she called and told me he still had my photos as well as hundreds of others from other girls, I asked her to delete them and she said she had already deleted everything she could find, she just wanted to let me know. He had also been showing other people these photos, not sending them but actually giving his phone to others … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 08:09 AM |
| 7 | Thought You All Would Enjoy This, I Know I Sure Did!Im in Aus and l9oked for them on spotify but theyre not available:c | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 07:55 AM |
| 91 | STOP 👏🏻PROCREATING 👏🏻 WITH 👏🏻 SHIT 👏🏻 MENIf anyone, let alone my husband dropped our baby out of negligence multiple times the neighbours would call the cops because I would be tearing him a fucking new one and kicking him out of the house!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Why is no one talking about the type of rape where a partner pesters you into having sex?I've been calling that male a sperm donor since early teenage years, he never earned the Father title. He's a terrible person and did horrible things, being called a sperm donor is probably even too nice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Who wants to bet this scrote wanted 50/50 eQuAliTy when dating but now cannot handle 10/90 split of responsibilities where he feeds his own dog while she does literally everything else. If ya can’t wipe yo ass no EqUaLiTy for you!It's incredible and sad how difficult a man finds one simple task yet a woman can juggle so many. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 01:43 PM |
| 43 | "Women don't orgasm during sex because female sexuality is more complicated." If this is true then it follows that women have a hard time orgasming during masturbation as well. How true is that🤔?I had no idea how good sex could be until my current partner, I thought I was just there. His main goal is to make me feel as good as possible, as many times as possible, and only when I say I'm done is when we focus on him, and by that point he's already close anyway. He was a virgin before, so it's not impossible for men to figure out how to make a woman orgasam, he just needs to fucking care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else look young for their age / have a baby face? How has this affected how men view you?Im 24 this year yet still look and sound 18, the attention I get from men both my age and older is just gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 10:16 AM |
| 23 | When you have internalized misogyny and proud of it 🤡Because when I'm polite to creeps they take it as a "yes" and start harrassing and following me therefore jeopardising my safety. When I'm rude and blunt they tell me I'm a bitch then they fuck off. I'd rather be safe than dead and brutalised thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 11:48 PM |
| 136 | I would absolutely leave if a man did this. LVM behaviorSide note she is drop dead gorgeous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 11:44 PM |
| 5 | “Doesn’t like men”I've been looking at adopting a dog and noticed this too... have looked at so many pet profiles and have yet to come across one that is afraid of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Do you want children? Poll.I've wanted kids for as long as I can remember. I've had opportunities to have them along the way but only with LVM so fuck that. I'm with a HVM now and we are both waiting until we can financially raise them comfortably. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 01:13 PM |
| 28 | Another reason why vetting is so crucial. Imagine passing away and the father of your children is so incapable that he uses your daughter as his maid & chef. Disgusting.My step dad is muslim and had 3 children with my mother. One is a female, the other 2 male. One of the boys is highly autistic and he acts like he doesn't exist, he treats the second boy like a king and ignores his daughter. I'm not very informed on muslim culture and the internet can have so much misinformation. If you have the time, would it be possible to flick me a message? I'm worried for my siblings and don't have many ways to learn about their father | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 11:21 AM |
| 58 | Good evening my fellow queensYou can't change people, but you can change who you surround yourself with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Please be nicer to pick-me'sI'm all for brutal honesty, it's something that works best on me. I was more aiming this towards commets thay blunty say "she's just being stupid" without offering anything of substance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 08:06 AM |
| 6 | Please be nicer to pick-me'sI was more aiming it towards the comments that bluntly say the woman is being stupid without any actual advice or help. I'm definitely so damn sick of the whole "be nicer" shit, especially to strangers that always take the niceness as flirting even though it's usually to protect ourselves from potential danger 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Please be nicer to pick-me'sOh hello fellow vegan 💚 I totally understand your point of view, everyone needs a different approach. I was more pointing out the "she's just being stupid" kind of comments where no actual help or advice is being given | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 08:01 AM |
| 3 | Please be nicer to pick-me'sOh absaloutley, it's one thing to unknowingly put yourself in danger vs not thinking things through enough and consequently putting vulnerable innocents in danger | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Please be nicer to pick-me'sThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 07:56 AM |
| 24 | Saw this on Facebook earlier. These replies, omfg.Wow... that is so sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 06:56 AM |
| 4 | Insecure short scrotesI'm average height, an ex of mine was the same height (he swears he's taller) and wouldn't let us leave the house if I dared to wear shoes that made me taller than him, even my docs weren't allowed 🙄 so insecure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 10:26 AM |
| 35 | I don't have a good title this is just hilariousSame, I used to be blissfully ignorant of this fact 🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 02:41 AM |
| 42 | Accurate representation of ladies dating gamersHahaha on point!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 02:39 AM |
| 36 | "Deadbeat" by TMG (Cody Ko and Noel Miller) had me dying of laughter this morning. I had to share it here 😂Hahahha just listened to it, pretty funny! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:40 AM |
| 133 | Women's lives need to stop revolving around menIt makes me immensely sad... then incredibly angry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 09:11 AM |
| 6 | Does anyone else find most men on OLD unattractive?How dare you have standards!! /s No but honestly, whenever I tried using OLD I just felt weird, I like meeting people in person and organic situations. And I definitely notice that it's usually the sleezy guys on OLD whereas more decent men tend to avoid OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 01:33 PM |
| 6 | beware of men that aren't over their EX and the subtle ways they let you knowSomething along the lines of "I'd still like to spend more time with you, I really like talking to you!" Even though we had never had an actual conversation and he knew nothing about me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 01:17 PM |
| 116 | Men who don't ask questions (99.9%)So true! In highschool I started dating this "really hot guy" who was way too old for me. What he called "having meaningful conversations" was really just me asking him questions about him and his life so he could just talk about himself for hours 🙄 he literally never asked anything about me, he knew nothing about me yet I knew the details of his life story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 12:55 PM |
| 63 | beware of men that aren't over their EX and the subtle ways they let you knowLol I went on 2 dates with this guy a few years ago, the entire 3 hours we spent together was him bitching about his ex. After that I just blocked him on everything, but he came by my house. I told him I'm not interested in dating someone that's still hung up on their ex, and thinks it's appropriate to say those things to another woman. Waste of my damn time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 10:35 AM |
| 338 | I hate when men, pickmes and fakefems say that "Men have just as much to do with creating life as women"Men - ejaculated Women - ovulation, not always guaranteed an orgasam (or even good sex for that matter) grows human life for 9 months, gives birth/major surgery, potential post pregnancy mental and physical issues, time off work, potential miscarriage.... And that's the most basic, dumbed down list. Oh yeah but men have just as much to do with it huh /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 10:31 AM |
| 31 | Valentine's Day Postmortem Discussion Thread: Did your man disappoint you on Valentine's Day? Comment your story below!Ahhhh I loved reading this, thank you for sharing 🥰 so happy you had a good day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:52 AM |
| 21 | Valentine's Day Postmortem Discussion Thread: Did your man disappoint you on Valentine's Day? Comment your story below!Disappointed :c I made gift bags for him, my sister, my mother and his sister. I'm working on accepting gifts (I used to feel guilty for asking for help, let alone receiving gifts!) and he thought I still didn't want any. When he saw how much thought and effort I put into the gifts he felt like shit and took us out for breakfast, and said he'd plan something more exciting next weekend to make up for it. I was disappointed he had nothing planned and no gift, but he saw that and is trying to make … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Realising my "friends" of 5+ years are LVI've already watched a bunch of beginners figure skating videos and I'm so excited to try :D in the meantime I'm working on my flexibility and cardio stamina so it'll be easier when I can finally get on the rink- covid needs to sod off already! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:40 AM |
| 3 | Realising my "friends" of 5+ years are LVThank you!!! This is so helpful!! It was definitely hard at first, but I'm kinda already over it! I've already almost let them go and re focused, realising tbat there are other people I can put my friendship energy towards. You're so right about people who only hang out woth each other, I see that now! I always thought I would have to find a friend group to fill into, but know I realise I can just make my own! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:32 AM |
| 3 | Realising my "friends" of 5+ years are LVWhen Covid is over I really want to explore my passion for ice skating, so hopefully I can meet some people there! Currently the rink is closed but hopefully will re open by end of this year. I'm glad you finally have decent friends! Apparently they are very hard to come by 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:24 AM |
| 3 | Realising my "friends" of 5+ years are LVThank you 😊 I recently found a few new people that I connect with way better already, when I say something has upset me they'll talk to me about it rather than just leaving me on seen. It's pretty nice! It's funny how myself and this new friend know each other far better than the people I've known for years. Making friends when your a bit older is definitely harder, but worth it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Want your friend to finally figure out that her guy is an lvm? Send her a beautiful bouquet for Valentine's Day.He sees marriage as useless, why marry if they already have a kid and a mortgage together that's basically what marriage is right? At least that's what he says.. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:17 AM |
| 68 | A cautionary tale.Yesterday my partner came over and we made pizzas at home. I had a shower and he cleaned my kitchen without me even asking, I was only aware he did it because he came in and asked if I wanted my leftovers in my usual work lunch box or in a container for lefrovers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 10:47 AM |
| 22 | Reminder to keep standards high this Valentine’s DayThis is my first proper valentines day, I'm so nervous/excited it's like christmas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 10:41 AM |
| 33 | Want your friend to finally figure out that her guy is an lvm? Send her a beautiful bouquet for Valentine's Day.Partly why I put so much thought into my sisters valentines gift, I'm sure her partner will only get her a rose or something clichè rather than something she would actually want. They've been together for 8 ish years, have a baby and have built a house but he has 0 plans to marry her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 10:39 AM |
| 60 | Cosmopolitan Magazine argues that cannibalism is acceptable nowWhat in the ever living fuck. I hope no one takes that seriously | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 01:27 AM |
| 61 | Men who get super salty that I have standardsEven though your list is much shorter it is apparently too much! Men are ridiculous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 06:23 AM |
| 9 | Thanks to FDS I realized I should not be dating at all and instead work on my self and my personal life.Proud of you for making this shift! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 06:22 AM |
| 13 | Post-FDS resentment toward familyI was mad at my parents before FDS. Still pissed at my mum for not standing up for herself and letting her children suffer for it, I could never! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 06:21 AM |
| 28 | He would rather have women settle for any old scrub who will give them attention. Sir, the "right" one largely means making sure he won't hurt or even MURDER me by the end of the night. I'd rather be alone on VDay and "touch deprived" than be dead.Thats what I thought! Sounds like he hates women and will eventually get so fed up he'll just kidnap and murder someone :c | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 06:18 AM |
| 34 | He would rather have women settle for any old scrub who will give them attention. Sir, the "right" one largely means making sure he won't hurt or even MURDER me by the end of the night. I'd rather be alone on VDay and "touch deprived" than be dead.Wtf! These sound like the words of a 30+ year old!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 06:17 AM |
| 13 | Guy a cheap date?Life is too short to deal with that shit and be that stressed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 06:13 AM |
| 13 | I always faked my orgasmsWell I'm glad you have them for real now! 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 06:11 AM |
| 145 | Top popular post of today on whisper lol my friend sent this to me 😂 now more women can discover this amazing group 💕Thanks for the free add lol People claiming this place is toxic is how majority of us found it and saw the opposite to be true hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 06:07 AM |
| 2 | THAT BITCH - BEA MILLERSo good hey! I'm making an FDS playlist and this was one of the first on it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 06:06 AM |
| 7 | A thank you note for my FDS sistersThank you for being here and contributing 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 05:50 AM |
| 18 | NOBODY can stop herRight! They say they care so little yet they take the time to think about what theyre going to say, type it, send it?! Why waste time on something you dont even care about? Makes 0 sense .. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Before FDS I told myself it was a *few bad apples*; even though in reality it was 90% of men I encountered. Ladies, these are not *a couple of bad seeds* in a sea of princes. HVM are rare. Remember this and vet accordingly.Yes! My bullshit tolerance seems to be 1-2 years, wish it was shorter before I found FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 11:30 PM |
| 2 | If he wanted to, HE WOULDHopefully if we have children we can teach our children differently 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 11:27 PM |
| 83 | PSA: You don’t owe anyone analWomen in porn are an exact replica of real life though! Every Latina woman on this earth loves anal because porn said so! /s 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 06:55 AM |
| 23 | Appreciation post for all you beautiful women of FDSI found this group the same way! Thanks idiot scrote 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 06:52 AM |
| 51 | One recent study found that 26.4% of males age 16-21 exhibited problems with erectile dysfunction. Studies analyzing time periods prior to pervasive Internet porn use reported ED rates between 2-5% for men under 40. Erectile dysfunction is becoming much more common, particularly among young men, anGosh that must have felt aweful for her :c | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 06:46 AM |
| 9 | The fallacy of the nice guy : The men of Big Bang TheoryThis was a great breakdown! Definitely good to keep in mind.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 06:35 AM |
| 2 | Brightening up my day with all the strong FDS vibes and the lessons learnt, here! Have an amazing day, you Queens! 🌸Those orchids are beautiful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 10:29 AM |
| 68 | Teenage girls are proud to be approached by college guys. They really believe they are ”the winners of the game”🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️I thought I was so cool and mature at 16 dating a 24 year old, my parents even knew and didn't mind?! So glad I found FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 06:29 AM |
| 28 | This is how we arrived hereThey ALL sounds like comments a rapist makes... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 06:27 AM |
| 45 | This is how we arrived hereIck, this comment triggered a memory. An ex of mine complained when I was recovering from depression because I didn't cry so much anymore, crying turned him on 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Can we talk about women who cancel on their friends so they can hang out with a guy?I had 2 best friends, one male one female, for almost a decade. They started dating and I thought it was the best thing in the world! Wrong. Once they started dating they acted like they were too good for me, spread horrendous lies about me and never bothered replying to my messages. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 11:51 AM |
| 11 | Guys making fun of noises you make during sex. Just why?Yeah still on a journey, my ex would call me a chimp if I slacked with shaving. Nowadays I think I shave so my tattoos show more clearly, but I'm not entirely sure that's true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 03:23 AM |
| 9 | Guys making fun of noises you make during sex. Just why?Hahha I'm the opposite! White af skin but almost black hair 🤷♀️ I tan really darkly though, no idea what my heritage is lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 03:20 AM |
| 26 | If he wanted to, HE WOULDDo you ever find yourself feeling bad when he does nice things for you? Struggling with that at the moment, my boyfriend does so many nice things (that I also do for him) yet when he does it I feel the need to apologise?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 03:17 AM |
| 16 | Guys making fun of noises you make during sex. Just why?🤚I shave my arms. I shave literally everywhere except my eyebrows and head hair. Partly because I don't like how it looks, partly because I get embarrassed because people used to point it out all the time and were grossed out, and partly because the hair tickled my skin and made me itchy/gave me rashes. Ever since shaving it all I get very few excma outbreaks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 01:27 AM |
| 89 | What are some of the most difficult realizations you’ve had about men ?You can be his dream girl, literally everything he has ever wanted and more. You can serve him and make him feel like a king. And he will still treat you like shit and cheat on you. Never, ever try to be the woman that enlightens his life or try to change him for the better. As people, we need to do that ourselves, in our our time and using our own oathway. Doing the above is only enabling bad behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 08:59 AM |
| 45 | Woman asks for the nicest way to approach asking her husband to stop leaving poop crumbs in their bedShit crumbs. He leaves shit crumbs in bed. I well and truly hope she divorces him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 08:55 AM |
| 21 | Woman asks for the nicest way to approach asking her husband to stop leaving poop crumbs in their bedI feel gross just seeing his face now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 08:54 AM |
| 20 | I feel soooo much better after blocking himI recently blocked a guy that made my life emotional hell for almost a decade. The amount of relief I had when I blocked him on everything and knew in my heart I would never speak to him again.... FDS is truly a blessing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 08:50 AM |
| 7 | The number of comments saying that the man acted this way “because he really likes her”. 🙄 this is not about affection - what you’re seeing here is the very early stages of controlling and abusive behaviour.This is exactly what one of my bosses does. He "jokes" that we cant have women empowering posters because "We can't have women in power around here! Haha" it's such bullshit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 10:43 PM |
| 12 | "15 Men React to the Idea of Taking Their Wife's Last Name." It's like the twilight zone reading how many are aware of their misogyny and still trying to justify their entitlement.I legally changed my last name as soon as I was able to. My "new" last name means everything to me... new beginning, cutting ties from toxic family etc. I don't want to change it again, that is my last name. I worked damn hard to be proud of it and make it worth something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 08:52 AM |
| 6 | It’s 2021Basically treating real human women as numbers... gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 08:44 AM |
| 14 | Actual photo of the number of red flags a majority of men haveFacts 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Are we sharing flowers today? I didn't bought them, my husband and I take care of our plants and flowers together.Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 11:23 PM |
| 8 | HeheSaved for future use thanks sis hahahah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 09:59 AM |
| 6 | Are we sharing flowers today? I didn't bought them, my husband and I take care of our plants and flowers together.Gosh your lavander looks way different to mine! I ended up yanking 3 bushes out because they just got so ugly after tradies walked all over them (installing a fence) Do you know what variety of lavender you have? I'd love to replant ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 09:58 AM |
| 51 | Dont politely laugh for a man, if he's not funnyOver time you'll pick up on these things quicker and stop yourself from those automatic reactions, just takes time 😊 I still sometimes do things automatically that I bloody hate, like looking down and being passive when walking passed a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 09:55 AM |
| 16 | Dont politely laugh for a man, if he's not funnyYup I've been working on this one! Was recently at a bbq, didn't know many people there. I somehow ended up being the only womam, truly was a sausage fest. There was 1 guy that kept laughing at his own "jokes" but none of it was funny? It was so awkward. Old me would have laughed along just so I could blend in with everyone else, but fuck that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Client Sent Me A Nude At WorkI'm not even the clients contact, I happened to pick up his call one time while his usual contact was out. He needed to get docs across ASAP so I asked him to send to me so I could file them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Client Sent Me A Nude At WorkOh god that's disgusting! I'm sorry your eyes had to see that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 10:55 AM |
| 203 | Client Sent Me A Nude At WorkHalf was verbal half was email. I'll have to double check the recording, but I think it's legal if all parties are aware. I'm nervous about looking for a new job for obvious reasons but also I've only been in this new job for 3 months. The person speaking to the client won't even be a senior, just someone on the floor the client is chummy with. I have no doubt the conversation will do nothing and at most the client will just stop interacting with me. You're absolutely right tho, this cannot be b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 01:13 PM |
| 5 | Pretty much sums up the lvm mindsetHow dare you leave him after he did such a massive favour for you?!?! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 09:57 AM |
| 11 | Reminder to check your security: Former ADT employee pleads guilty after spying on hundreds of customersAlmost 10,000 times in less than 5 years, that's multiple times a day! What a creep!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 09:40 AM |
| 50 | Repost: "People no longer marry other people, people marry the corporation they work for"Sadly true, I hope this changes. Its especially prevalent here where I live, FIFO is a lifestyle. People stay away from their family and friends anywhere from a few days up to months at a time, only to be home for a third or less of that time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 03:21 AM |
| 8 | FYI, Instagram does not allow prostitution or sexual solicitationThat's horrible! I hope your sister is okay :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Don't wait for a "Special Day" to do or wear something...Love this energy! 💙 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 11:20 AM |
| 4 | Don't wait for a "Special Day" to do or wear something...Not for no reason! Wear them because you're beautiful, you deserve to and you want to <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 10:03 PM |
| 25 | A HVM is gentle towards women. Not just someone who “can be” gentle every now and then, but someone who is gentle towards you and all women ALL THE TIME.Awww that is so sweet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 05:26 AM |
| 40 | I occasionally get messages from male lurkers asking for dating advice. I seldom respond because when I do, the conversation typically goes something like this:Exactly! Therapy is supposed to be uncomfortable. It's not just sitting there whinging and expecting everyone else to change. You have to change and put the work in. Therapy was the best thing that happened to me, my therapist pushed me to assess so many things and change my outlook for the better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 09:45 AM |
| 116 | I occasionally get messages from male lurkers asking for dating advice. I seldom respond because when I do, the conversation typically goes something like this:But why pay for a therapist when they can get it online for free at the cost of your time, effort and energy?! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 06:49 AM |
| 67 | Remember not to buy into the sunk cost fallacy!Wasted so many years, tried so hard, got fucking nowhere. Note to anyone reading; you can't change a man for the better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:08 AM |
| 112 | Internet pushing me to do porn?!So a youtuber recently made a video about the reality of OF, they currently have an affiliate service where if you get someone else to sign up, you will receive 5% of their earnings on OF for life. So if these women can get enough other women to sign up theyll have extra income for doing nothing... it's turning into a pyramid scheme! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Advice to my younger pickmeisha selfI still automatically say sorry when I'm the one thats upset. Luckily my HVM partner calls me out every time and tells me to take back the apology 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 04:54 AM |
| 2 | “You never loved me, you loved me losing my mind... Thank you for fucking it up. Thank you for cutting it off .You're nothing but a bullet that I dodged.”Thank you! X | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 04:53 AM |
| 3 | Absolutely heartbreaking. This needs to stop.Oh yeah 100% and I didn't even realise till after I left him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 04:52 AM |
| 55 | Study: Do women really like anal sex or do they do it for other reasons?God I used to watch porn just to try "learn how to have sex properly" You're absolutely right, women should never try compete with porn! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 12:32 PM |
| 7 | Social Media and including your partner in your display picture: Pickmes usually have this habit... are your thoughts on this?Yep. My mum did with her ex after he cheated for the billianth time in his sad attempt "to prove I've changed!" And then used it against her "your controlling me!" Even tho it was his idea 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 12:22 PM |
| 3 | Ashnikko - l8r boiI fucking love Ashniko what a queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 11:21 AM |
| 16 | "A Medieval Device for a Medieval Act" [Truly sad it got to the point of a Queen inventing this though] OldieButGoodieExactly what I was thinking :c | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 11:13 AM |
| 33 | Absolutely heartbreaking. This needs to stop.First memory that came to me, an ex wouldn't let me see my family. One day I up and left, didnt have a car so I took the bus and train. He followed me the whole way screaming about how I didn't love him because I put my family before him. He yelled and chucked a toddler tanty for 2 hours, because I wanted to see my fucking mum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 11:11 AM |
| 9 | “You never loved me, you loved me losing my mind... Thank you for fucking it up. Thank you for cutting it off .You're nothing but a bullet that I dodged.”I feel dumb for asking but how did you post this? Ive tried posting links to yt but it doesnt work lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 10:20 AM |
| 190 | Study: Do women really like anal sex or do they do it for other reasons?Story time; I was once dating a scrote that wanted to do anal. I had tried it with someone else and decided I didn't like it and so I didn't want to do it. He and his equally shitty friend explained to me that they didn't enjoy anal itself, more the fact that the woman did not want to do it nor did she enjoy it. It wasnt "fun" if the woman was consenting or enjoyed it. That was a huge red flag I simply couldn't ignore.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 10:20 AM |
| 8 | My aunt and uncle are setting my younger cousin up for low self esteem and I'm worriedGosh that situation sucks... the only thing I can offer is to always be there for her. Stay in touch, don't let her slip away. Always encourage her to love herself, be a source of inspiration! I truly hope she's able to overcome her situation. I can sympathise with her hair, mine is curly and growing up my mum always told me to straighten it because "it's more ladylike". She projected her shame of her curly hair on to me, and I've only recently in the last 2 years embraced it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 10:15 AM |
| 698 | Proud of myselfI am so proud of you! You did the right thing for yourself, and you only level up from here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 12:00 PM |
| 16 | I love this series on tik tokDOUBLE POPSICLE HAD ME CACKLING | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 11:22 AM |
| 14 | Advice to my younger pickmeisha selfShit. This made me realise the same. Once I started sorting through past sexual abuse I started hating anything rough in the bedroom, turned into an instant turn off and I'd start crying. Makes total sense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 11:19 AM |
| 19 | Advice to my younger pickmeisha selfYou can't turn trash into gold through the magic of love. One of my favourites, thank you for sharing x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 11:09 AM |
| 95 | Men troll harder when you're finally establishing standards 👀God they have nothing else to do?! They're trying so hard, I hope your group doesn't back down! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 12:57 PM |
| 7 | Being thoughtful, “just because”, without expecting anything in return is true HVM behaviour.Reminds me of my HVM partner :,) I don't wear any jewellery, he recently asked why. I told him I only want to wear jewlery if it really means something to me. So he went to his families farm and MADE ME ONE FROM SCRATCH. Like I'm talking full hammer and tongs hand crafted silver... he finished it today I'm so excited to see it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 05:30 AM |
| 1 | LMAOOO 😂😂😂 from r/wheresmyWAIFUI'm honestly shocked anyone in this century is able to believe that shit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 09:56 AM |
| 3 | Celebrate with me!Congrats Queen!! 🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 09:07 AM |
| 31 | LMAOOO 😂😂😂 from r/wheresmyWAIFUThis cannot be real... men are truly stupid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:35 PM |
| 10 | How did watching porn become normalized when this behavior would be absurd if acted out in real life?I seriously needed to see this, thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 11:39 AM |
| 6 | The urethra and clitoris are very different body parts. If she says it doesn't feel good dont double down act like you know better.My ex best freinds mother told her that discharge is disgusting and that because she has discharge she needs to wash her vagina everyday.... when she opened up to me about this I spent 2 hours with her educating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:08 AM |
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