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speed3_freak/r/askTRP20/03/15 06:05 PM
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speed3_freak/r/askTRP31/12/14 07:26 PM
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Steve Hofstetter has a pretty good response to a heckler at his comedy show that speaks to this. The main point comes around the 1:50 mark. Whole thing is worth a watch though. Just because someone doesn't have a first hand knowledge of something doesn't mean that they can't empathize with what it would be like to live the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/19 10:23 AM
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If a woman isn't enjoying sex while you're having sex with them, someone is doing it wrong. There is nothing better than having a woman in your bed where she is getting 10x the amount of pleasure out of the experience than you are. Unless you're bad at sex, then everything after you actually get them into bed is easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 09:23 PM
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Women enjoy the shit out of sex. They don't even need to orgasm to be totally satisfied with sex. When sex is good, they like it more than guys do. They just don't desire it as much as men outside of the actual act. Women also use sex as a tool to get their way because they know how much men will give up in order to get it. That's why it's so important for guys to not only know how to create the desire outside of the act (like being in good shape, dressing well, and acting in a manner that is de…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 03:23 AM
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So your question is more about why don't you like casual sex? Personally I've never slept with someone on a first date, and I've never had sex with a woman once. Every single woman I've had sex with I've been with at least 3 times. Most more than that. I've had casual relationships with women, but I've never 'spun plates'. TRP should be more about doing what you feel is best for you than it is trying to be what the world thinks you should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/19 04:23 AM
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Absolutely not. The guys who are attractive, well-rounded and emotionally available and don't have casual sex have sex with their partners because they don't have problems finding girlfriends. Sure, they may bounce from relationship to relationship, but it's always about trying to find the one and isn't casual at all. The other guys who are attractive, well-rounded, and emotionally available have casual sex because casual sex doesn't bother them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 02:35 AM
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Exactly this. People are going to people and because of all the variables that come with individual behaviors in each person then you will most likely end up with a normal distribution. This chick is an extreme outlier. The reason you teach AWALT is because the chance of you meeting and attracting that .01% is highly unlikely. AWALT because you're dealing with the 99.99% 99.99% of the time. Guy won the lotto; that doesn't mean you need to start buying lotto tickets to plan for retirement.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 05:37 AM
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One of my best friends was talking about thinking divorce only a couple years ago because his marriage wasn't 'great' and that's what he deserved. His wife wasn't participating as much as he wanted in the marriage that he'd built for himself in his imagination. He wasn't unhappy, just not as happy as he should be. Our buddy was full on beta for the woman that was leaving him and my man said he would never put up with that shit. About 6 months ago he found out that his wife had been having an aff…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 04:29 AM
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showing some gym effort is much better Jesus Christ yes!! A 25 year old woman who has worked her ass off in the gym to stay decently fit is WAY sexier than some skinny ass 21 year old who thinks running for a mile once a week is what keeps her skinny ass in shape. Effort matters way more than people believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 04:14 AM
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It's not only possible, it's human to have empathy without sympathy. I feel bad for them because they're in a bad place, but at the same time I know if they truly had the motivation to be better they could. That doesn't mean I don't feel bad for them. Edit: Motivation is wrong, replace that with willpower.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 03:05 AM
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There is a large number of people that don't challenge their potential. This isn't any different today that it ever has been in history. That's why, to me, it seems so easy to be better than most. I try.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:11 AM
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That's like saying we could improve the costs of healthy eating choices if people suppress their desire to eat cheap unhealthy shit. It's a factual statement, but reality is that people be hungry, and people be broke. People are going to eat the cheap shit regardless of what's better for the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:09 AM
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I suppose my point is that learning for no purpose other than the sake of learning is not a waste of time. Sure, knowledge about football or video games may not get you a job or promotion, but it may make you more relatable to people who have great impact in that area. You never know what topic you could bring up to have a really interesting conversation with someone. Contrary to popular belief, video games and sports are things that women enjoy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 10:08 PM
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but knowledge that no one gives a crap about or can't make you money isn't going to help you in life. That's just how it is. I wholeheartedly disagree. First off, there is no way to know what knowledge is going to be relevant or not until the time comes and you either have it or you don't, or you have it and the time never comes. Second, just the act of learning makes you a better thinker, which absolutely translates to your everyday life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 12:47 PM
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such as you ultimately study things to help yourself, but really you're helping someone else who will pay you so you can help yourself I love to learn about about laminar flow, the Germans who got lost in Death Valley (seriously read this, and his post on the hunt for downed airplanes), how ISIS formed, and an understanding of how people interpret data not because it will pay me, but because it makes me a smarter person. Your own intellect is not most beneficial to you because of what words you …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:52 AM
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Focus on being your best self. Focus on trying to impress yourself rather than others, and others will be impressed as a byproduct. Don't lift so you get hot, get in shape because it's good for you. Don't read a lot so you can sound smart to other people, do it so you can better yourself through learning. Don't do a hobby because you think people will think you're cool, do a hobby because you like the challenge, it interests you, and you are being productive with your spare time instead of being…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 10:10 PM
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Can I pick how old I am? Biggest mistake of my life was dating the same person from 19-25. It was an amicable split, but I was the one who initiated it. If we had gotten married, we'd be divorced by now. Same-ish age, option one sucks, but it won't kill your life. Same-ish age second choice will kill your life. Now, if I'm 40, second choice doesn't seem so bad. Just for posterity, I'm late 30's now and never married. Most of the women I date are late 20's and early 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 04:55 AM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 03:40 AM
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Sure nuff, but you good people :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 03:39 AM
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Based on a quick look through your post history just because I was kind of curious, you only post on PPD, but I like you. You got your shit together, and that's in rare supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:30 AM
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That's awesome. Reason I asked was because a lot of jobs that people do that keep them in good shape are great for their muscles but terrible on their joints. I've been very close to a lot of people late in life that have had physically demanding jobs, and while they were able to pay the bills, their bodies suffered for it. I'm glad you aren't one of the ones who had an in shape husband who couldn't enjoy retirement because they hurt all the time. Edit: People who have sedentary jobs and don't w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:06 AM
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What does he do for a job?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:53 AM
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Do you see this man? He has never seen the inside of a gym. This guy works out every day, but instead of doing it to keep in shape, he does it to put food on the table. Sexy AF, sure. What happens when he's 55 and his joints give out?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:53 AM
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Wise man says, when you look through the world with rose colored glasses, all the flags look the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 03:17 AM
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Every guy I know who has been blindsided by divorce has just been oblivious to all the signs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:56 PM
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They got married before he made the money. She didnt marry some rich guy for his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 08:04 PM
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It's not in our interest to get married, so don't get married. It's not very smart to create a partnership and go into business with your brother who is a loser, but if you sign that contract then you don't get to back out just because it went sideways. Bezos was a legal adult who entered into a legal contract. It's asinine to say that it's not morally justified that he has to abide by the contract that he signed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 06:06 AM
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What incentive? That's how it has always worked. Do you folks not understand what a legal contract or marriage partnership are or how they work? You can do whatever contract you want; it's called a prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 05:47 AM
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It doesn't matter. It's not his money, it's their money. It doesn't matter who made it, and it doesn't matter how much it is. If you get married and then you make $100 and your wife makes $50, if you divorce then you both get $75 unless you signed a contract that says otherwise. If two people marry and the wife wins $50 million playing the lotto, do you think she should be able to divorce her husband and not have to give him half? People that have the issue (rightfully so) about losing half thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 04:26 AM
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A lot of times it's way worse on the kids to be in a home with two unhappy parents than it would be for them to have a mom and a dad who separated but happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 04:18 AM
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Yes. They are youth and fertility, they're not a proxy for fertility and youthfulness. We like them because they're hot, not because we think it makes us hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:10 AM
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I'm typically pretty neutral on here, but men needing young women to feel fertile is laughable. Have a baby as a 50 year old woman and you're on the wiki list for oldest women known to have a child. Have a baby as a 50 year old man and enjoy raising a high school kid in your late 60's. As for youthfulness, men are attracted to young women because they're hot and it's possible to get one to sleep with you. The reverse isn't anywhere close to as true. When was the last time you heard of a 50 year …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:44 AM
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People can call themselves whatever they want 100%. I also have the right to judge the shit out of whoever I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 06:22 AM
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It's fine to be friends with a woman as long as you treat them exactly like you treat your guy friends. If you can't do that, then you don't need to be friends with her. If you want to have sex with her, then you aren't going to treat her like your guy friends.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:37 AM
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You need a pilot and a copilot in a relationship. As long as the guy is ok with being the copilot, it works like a charm. My sister married a guy like that, and my best friend from college is the same. My buddy and BIL are both very passive, and the women are both very assertive. It's not the norm, but it works just fine. Problems arise when you have two people who want to be the captain or two people who want to be the copilot. In the former, you get a power struggle that often leads to argumen…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 02:15 PM
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That's a bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 01:18 PM
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It doesn't have to be an addiction for something to be too much. I completely agree with everything else you said. That's why women are judged when they have a high N count.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 01:17 PM
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People in general are really bad about considering future consequences when they make choices that aren't 'terrible'. That's why there are so many people who do drugs, drink a lot, fuck people they probably shouldn't, and eat too much. The difference is that people who drink too much or do drugs can quit and it's seen as a victory. People who get fat can lose the weight. People who fuck too many strangers can't unfuck people. Don't judge me for who I was, judge me for who I am. The only problem …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 06:03 AM
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Honestly, I came into this post with the assumption that I was going to say, 'whatever, it's porn'. Then I read your first paragraph and I was like, 'yeah, that's a no from me'. After some self reflection, I would say it probably just surprised him. It's not anything he would ever get any benefit from sharing with you. Learning that you watch porn (which is a huge plus in his mind) but you only like porn that would never do anything for him (which is a huge turnoff) kind of pissed in his cereal.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 03:56 AM
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Absolutely this. Don't date women that you work with. Period. I wouldn't even have said anything. Just look at her and walk away. There is nothing you could possibly say in this situation that would make it better for you.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 04:25 AM
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MGTOW are still allowed to voice their opinion and say why they're MGOTW. Are you saying that people who choose to live outside the social constructs that society presses upon people means that they shouldn't voice their opinions about the society that forced them to make that decision? I'm not MGTOW, but this just sounds like a statement that says if the people that don't agree with me would shut up I'd be a happy camper.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 04:10 AM
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7 on 7 off would be great. I work ~7AM - 6PM M-F and sometimes on the weekend, but I work at a hospital so I constantly have to deal with stuff even when I'm not there. I probably haven't gone a day without at minimum checking my e-mail a couple of times in the past 7 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 11:15 PM
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It sounds to me that you are enjoying doing things, even if the enjoyment comes from being productive rather than the actual task. Nothing wrong with that if it fits your personality. I spend nearly all of my energy at work, so it's worth it not to have to spend what little I have left on menial chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 11:08 PM
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Fuck that in the ear. You aren't paying someone else to do something that you can do, you are purchasing the amount of time that you are saving by not doing it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 10:56 PM
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I think the problem is that x% of reported rapes are false is a fact, but it's also a fact that there is no way in the world anyone could purport that they know what the value of x is. The title of the post is accurate regardless of what is in the text box.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 12:34 AM
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When you talk about the homeless, in jail, or dying in a war you are talking about 'a man', not the collective 'men'. The vast majority of men are doing just fine, have a place to live, aren't in jail, and have never even experienced war. Men do have, and have always had it better than women. Even today, the collective women are largely subordinate to men, have to endure pregnancy and childbirth, bleed once per month, have hormones that drive their bodies crazy, and eventually have to deal with …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 04:22 AM
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The first answer I presumed was that men don't actually want to make money they only do so to attract women but it can't be that simple. That's just disingenuous. Everyone wants to make money so their life is better. It's just how much you prioritize it over other things. I don't place a higher value on a woman's monetary success because I already have the ability to achieve monetary success. Sure I wouldn't mind having more money, but it isn't a priority. Think about Maslow's hierarchy. I have …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 02:40 AM
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This is just human nature--to use all the tools and advantages at one's disposal to achieve one's own self interest. This is completely true It's also human nature to eat all the calorie-dense foods available in case of famine, and to kill your enemies. This is also completely true, but you left out the part about 'to achieves own's self interest'. People who are starving are going to eat all the calorie dense foods they can. People who are currently being threatened will try to kill their attac…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 04:22 AM
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The trick is that you dont walk around hitting on women. The best pickup line is, how are you today?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 02:00 PM
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Dozens every day. The vast majority of the time it's just a hello, how are you, but sometimes it evolves into a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 01:59 PM
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And yet women expect men to have the confidence to approach women, women are too god damned scared to take the same risk and talk to a man, yet clearly as we can see the best a man can hope for is to be called a creep for his troubles. Sure, but even if that's 80% of the time (which it's not), that still leaves one out of 5 women who are willing to have a conversation, even if it feels forced. If 1 out of 20 of those women seem interested, then that's 1 out of every 100 women that you speak to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 04:38 AM
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They dont understand this only happens to the top 1% of men, that the vast vast majority of men do have to actually try to find love. Yeah, but you say it like it's a difficult thing. Trying is sometimes as little as telling people you're single and looking. Your friends at work, friends at school, and even that person you barely know all know single available women who they'd love to set you up with. Be in decent shape, have good hygiene, be psychologically balanced, have goals, have hobbies, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/18 11:39 PM
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Interesting question, and I cant really answer to an actual reason, just give examples. Two parents, both 36, both have decent jobs and are in good shape. They get a divorce and have 50/50 custody 7 and 7. Who do you think would have a better chance at getting into a relationship with a quality partner, the single mom, or the single dad? A lot of guys dont consider dating single moms because we'd have to compete with the father, she would never put us over her kids, and best case is you wind up …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 02:42 PM
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If you read the whole thing I said guys do too, but women dont seem to care nearly as much as guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 12:54 PM
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Of course my retort is full of empirical evidence, but men definitely age better than women. Sure there are plenty of sexually desirable women in their 30s, but there are nearly no single attractive women. Either they are married or in long term relationships. The ones in their 30's who have neither, yet are still attractive, have serious baggage. A lot of men in their 30's just haven't settled yet. A lot of them also have baggage, but women don't seem to mind nearly as much as guys do. Also, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 02:15 AM
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I'm a moderate, but I see the appeal of conservatism. The reason that people who are older are more conservative is because progressives are basically telling them that it was terrible during the time they grew up, and shit has to change. Conservatives think, well we all turned out ok, so why not keep things the same. For example; the rebel flag. I grew up in the south, and the rebel flag is just something that symbolizes the southern country way of doing things. It symbolizes hospitality, farmi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 04:21 AM
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In college I was dating someone who went to a different university and they had this roommate who was a little crazy and would always hint around about wanting a threesome with us. After a few months, she was actually able to convince me and my gf to go through with it. There were some rules laid out (which I would have rather not had), but all in all it was a good time for everyone. We only did it once, and I would say it's probably pretty overrated, but I'm glad I was asked for a threesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 04:49 PM
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In the real world, this should just be advice for being in a professional work environment. And if someone else brings it up, just nod in agreement and don't add anything. If it's controversial, don't nod and don't add anything. The amount of personal info you share should be kept to 'normal people facebook' levels. I got a new car. I went to Florida and it was a great trip. I have two dogs. I've been married for 10 years. I grew up in whereversville and went to college at State. How bout that f…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 10:52 PM
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Depends on the company whether promotions are worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 06:34 PM
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I'm not talking about take a half day off. With that, theres no problem. I'm talking about needing to leave an hour earlyfor something as a salaried employee. I get looks when I do it, but if someone with kids does it its completely acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 06:33 PM
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If you're angling for a promotion, you bet your ass the people making the decisions know whether you're single, married, gay, or have a gf. In my experience, it is much more about how you carry yourself, how you do your job, and if your coworkers like you. The only thing I really ever get held over me as a single guy with no kids, is it's always expected that I never have an excuse to be a little late or leave a little early. People with kids always having to leave to pick the kids up, take a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 02:12 AM
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Sounds like someone needs some /r/Stoicism
/r/askTRP29/09/18 02:58 PM
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I work in a hospital. Treat them like you would your mom. Be very respectful and nice. Make sure you emphasize your empathy towards your patients, and that you're willing to be a team player. Considering the current shortage of nurses, you shouldn't have any problems. DO NOT BE MASCULINE. This is probably the only thing that you could do that would hurt you.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 04:41 AM
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Because it's not that bad. We're regular persecuted now, not super persecuted. Men in general have more in prison, have worse prison sentences, have family courts against us, and have to prove we're not guilty in a lot of situations instead of being assumed innocent. We can vote, aren't slaves, can eat and shit where we want, and still can climb the corp. ladder. Realistically, it's kind of like the shower is too hot so you turn the handle to keep it from burning you. Right now, MR activist are …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 02:54 AM
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When I've had a woman ask me to leave my shirt when I leave so she can smell me after I'm gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 02:45 AM
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Bathtub, my man. Bathtub
/r/askTRP22/06/18 10:21 PM
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we already have an 80% chance of making it. That's a 20% chance of not making it in something that is life changing. That's still a large risk unless the payoff is really big. But on the scale of divorces, it probably wouldn't be nasty. Nasty divorces fuck people over for life. 99% of divorces are extremely life changing events. There are almost no not bad divorces. Maybe, but societal pressures are a drive for virtually everyone. I can't really fault him for that. Yep, but in this case it doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:50 AM
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So it wound up being a shitty decision. She married the wrong guy. It happens. People accept the wrong job, buy the wrong house, fuck with the wrong person. It happens all the time. You can't sit here and say your mom made a good decision marrying your dad. She didn't know it at the time, but she was making a bad decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 04:38 AM
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But the child is accustomed to watching HBO
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 12:34 AM
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It’s living with your best friend and putting each other above all us. You can do that without a legal document.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 12:30 AM
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He has full confidence we won't divorce. So do the vast majority of people who get married. Even if we do, he doesn't think divorce would be that bad. That's ignorant. Even the people who's divorces were financially amicable wouldn't want to go through it again. Divorce is like breaking up with someone x100, even in all but the most ideal scenarios. He also thinks it would look shitty to just be forever dating me. It's immature to care what it looks like to other people. I think it's a sweet ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 12:29 AM
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Honestly, you can't. You can try to make an informed decision, but it doesn't mean that it won't turn out to be a bad one. Life is full of decisions, and being an adult means you have to live with the good ones and the bad ones. OP said a shitty decision, not a stupid one. Also, you should be able to have a good idea who you will be when you're 30-35 based on your moral compass. You might not know what situations you're facing, but you can know what kind of person you want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 12:16 AM
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Hindsight. We've all made shitty decisions in the past, and we have to live with it. Maybe you should have seen it, maybe you couldn't have known. Either way, the outcome makes the decision a good one or a bad one. That's called life. When you make a decision and it winds up being the wrong one, a responsible adult will say, "Hey, I made a shitty decision. I will do my best to make my situation better and learn from my mistakes." Someone with the mindset of a child thinks, "This shouldn't have h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 12:14 AM
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She tried multiple times to have her payments reduced, but the courts said she needed to get another job if she needed to supplement her income. Totally up to the judge. The judge in her case told her that since she had all the free time from not working all of that overtime, she should get another job. Can it happen, sure. Does it happen, not always. Not by a long shot. Child support is not always based on your income; it can be based on your potential income. The judge decided that she could m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:30 PM
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That has no baring on whether or not it was a shitty decision. How many people have you seen get married and thought to yourself, "this isn't going to end well"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:11 PM
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the courts can’t force you to pay what’s no there. I can't argue most of your points because I think you're arguing the issues from your perspective, and I don't think there is anything wrong with looking out for your best interests. This, however, is patently wrong. The court determines the amount of support based on the initial income, and if your income goes up, they can adjust it accordingly. However, if your income goes down, it's still your job to figure out how to pay it. Take a pay cut? …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:06 PM
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Getting married and having kids with the wrong person is a shitty decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 08:55 PM
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AWALT changes with age. Hypergamy becomes less and less of a threat when women start valuing consistency and companionship over Alpha traits. A billionaire playboy who is 25 could hit on my mom as much as he wanted to, but she isn't going to leave my dad. They've been together for over 40 years, and I would bet $1m to $1 that neither of them have cheated. My whole point is a reaction to your original post. Are women over 30 permanently damaged? Same as men; some are, some aren't. I realize that …
/r/askTRP14/06/18 12:23 AM
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as we've all experienced hypergamy I agree, but why get mad at water for being wet. That's kind of my point. You can be upset, but don't waste energy being mad about it. AWALT is a real thing This is kind of what I'm talking about. AWALT is not a real thing, it's a philosophy. Guns are always loaded is a warning to treat guns with respect, not a true statement. All women are like that is saying that you should assume all women are capable of it and to be weary. It's not a supposed to be literal.…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 10:07 PM
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I was referring to the sub, not necessarily the philosophy. Its not all anger phase, because it comes from people who are regular contributers too. The anger phase shouldnt last forever, and once you learn to play the game you should start focusing on the good qualities that women have, not just the negatives. And by the positives, I dont just mean someone to stick my dick in. Finding and spending time with a smart, funny, good looking woman who is honestly attracted to you is a wonderful thing,…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 01:47 PM
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This one is just for guys Shouldn't the same advice be given to the girls too?? I agree it's not bad advice, but that preemptive remark makes me want to smack her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 03:43 AM
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No, women over 30 aren't permanently damaged. Yes, women who have surrogate cat children drink box wine every weekend, have empty eyes, and no soul left are just shells (but guys who are like that are too). If they have banging bodies, it's much more likely that they're dead inside. CC is real, and it fucks women up in the long run. It's a completely different world when you're a single man in his 20's than a single man in his late 30's. A guy in his 20's thinks that anyone over 25 is old. A guy…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 03:37 AM
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I'm not really interested in pursuing anything at this time. Thanks for the date, and I wish you the best. Copy this, paste it in your messenger app, send it to her, then never think about her again.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 08:45 PM
5

100% agree with this. This is like some neckbeard guy who spends 99% of his time playing WOW and MTG railing on about how you shouldn't call him a neckbeard or a dork, and how you shouldn't judge him for his hobbies and for doing what he loves to do. That's great and all, but unfortunately you don't get to set the standards by which other people judge you. Just like that guy isn't going to make the girls swoon (because having hobbies like those typically don't increase your SMV), actively sleepi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 12:16 PM
1

Absolutely not true. I've been with multiple women who were sexually adventurous. Some were with men before me who only wanted vanilla and they weren't comfortable forcing the issue, and some just never had the opportunity. You can't have a sexually adventurous woman in bed who doesn't have a past which involves having the same sex with other men. I am the other man. I can't change you view as far as you're concerned, but this is other men's problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 01:55 AM
8

Why does a fat person hate ice cream but keep eating it? The 'dislike' and 'love of' come from two completely different places.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 04:58 AM
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Sure. Just remember that it's not unconditional, and it never will be. The conditions of attraction lessen over time (lots of time), but you always have to be strong on your game if you want her to keep feeling that way. All she has to do to keep you feeling that way is for you is to make you think that there aren't better options. If you're a worthwhile man, this means she has to be on her game too. It's basically the unspoken goal of TRP.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 04:55 AM
21

yet still a kissless virgin, help. This is you. You're afraid of asking out someone because you identify as this. Don't ask a girl out because you want to kiss or fuck her. Ask a girl out because you want to spend time with her. You don't say hi to a guy in a bar because you want to go to a baseball game with him. You don't say hi to a guy because you want to be best friends. Don't think about the end game. It's not, 'shit, if I say this, what will happen', it's much more I say this because it's…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:00 AM
3

That's not what respect is either. You can respect this person in many ways. Acknowledge him silently and be on your way, share your wealth with him (give em a dollar, a water, or whatever), or the best show of respect would be to treat him like he is a human who is defined by more than just being homeless and a druggie. That is what respect is. Now, I definitely am not saying that everyone is deserving of respect, and I'm not saying that respect should not be taken away swiftly if that person s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 11:00 PM
4

I believe being honest with someone is one of the highest forms of respect. You think telling a druggie bum that he's a druggie bum and to get help and get a job is respect? Respecting someone in that sense is more about realizing that you have never walked a mile in that person's shoes and you are drawing broad conclusions based on a very small sample size. Social penetration theory says that it's very rare to actually know who someone is on the deepest level. Respect isn't treating someone how…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 10:44 PM
1

If his dick fell off tomorrow, and his SMV went from 1 to 0 on a ten point scale, I would miss that dick, but I would love him no less. What if you found out he had sex with your sister? Or that he had sex with a kid? I'm sure there is something bad enough that you could find out that would change the way you feel about him, but like you said, you've been together long enough that the bar is very, very high.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 01:25 PM
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Unconditional love is almost impossible to attain. However, conditional love comes in many different degrees. My mom's love for me is conditional, but it's easy to meet those conditions. Basically, it's don't become a drug addict and don't kill anyone. The conditions for that love for someone you've been married to for 10 years in your 30's is much different if you've been married for 40 years in your 70's. The conditions of this love vary greatly based off of the person's view of you. Higher SM…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 05:37 AM
4

The Greeks split love up into 8 types. You're talking about passionate/playful love which can and will turn you into an idiot. You also have obsessive love, which is kind of stalkerish, friendship love (I love my friends), storage love (I love my grandmother), agape (empathy and unconditional), and self love. Then you have what most people are looking for in a relationship, which is committed love. That is what this sub argues about the most. This is the kind of love my grandfather has for my gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 12:39 AM
2

I agree that it's not always fair and not always black and white. Sorry for the confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 12:15 AM
1

In extreme cases, yes, the employer should be able to fire their employee for giving them a bad reputation. The issue is that it isn't a legal matter. Who decides if the case is extreme? Say you have an employee who jumps another employee in the parking lot after work. The parking lot isn't company property. Would that be any different than if an employee beat up a coworker at their house? No police report filed, and no criminal charges brought. What if one employee was bullying another employee…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 11:04 PM
1

This is the way things should be depending on your view. It's not the way things should be depending on everyone's view. Imagine you run a small business that sells pizzas. Now imagine that your main chef gets on local TV talking about how much he hates black people, gays, and Jews. Now you're known as the pizza joint that employs people who hate black people, gays, and Jews. Should you not be allowed to have any recourse? This guy didn't do anything illegal, he's been great at his job for years…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 10:43 PM
1

They cannot kick you out for any old reason, because without being able to show that you broke a known rule, they will be destroyed in civil courts when expelled students try to recoup the money they paid. This is kind of tricky because colleges can be private or public. If it was a public school then you could sue for reinstatement, and it would basically be like calling corporate when your local manager fired you. If it's a private school, then they have the right to do whatever they want to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 08:47 PM
1

When you belong to a group you represent that group. When you have a job, you represent that company. They have every right to terminate you for things you do when you arent at work. Get a dui over the weekend, if your employer find out about it they can fire you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 07:16 PM
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Getting kicked out of a school is the same as getting fired from a job. The only difference is that there is some reparations in the form of unemployment if you get unjustly fired, and if you get booted from a school its a stain on your record. Sucks, but it's the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 03:51 AM
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He didn't go to the police, he went to the college. There is no legal grounds for false accusation. She could sue for slander, but that would be a very high bar for her to jump. The college has a legal right to determine if someone is of the character that they want representing the school as alumni. I agree with you on principle that two college kids getting drunk and having sex shouldn't have anything to do with the school, but that's not the world we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 03:44 AM
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So without having any more information than we got from the article, not only are you saying that the girl could not have raped him, but that he should be locked up. Would you feel the same way if the genders were reversed?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 03:38 AM
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So you are saying that unless substantial evidence is proven in a courtroom to prove someone guilty of breaking the law that a college shouldn't have a right to say someone isn't of the character that they're wanting to represent them as a student?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 03:36 AM
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Ive never seen a guy be shamed for not dating women with kids, but I have had people expect me to explain myself as to why I don't date women with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 01:06 PM
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Absolutely not. Your spouse should be the most important person in your life. You are a couple before the kids and will be after they're gone. You can care for more than one person at a time, but no one should ever trump your husband or wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 12:54 PM
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The biggest and only reason is that you'll always be second to the kid. I don't want to play second fiddle, and if you find a single mom who puts you first, then they aren't a good mother. It's a shit ton of work to be a good step-dad, and I don't want to put that extra work in on a kid that isn't mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 03:14 AM
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number 2 is number 1
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 03:08 AM
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2 is #1
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 03:07 AM
3

Yes, this is the correct answer. Going up to a woman and saying, "the tongue is the strongest muscle in the body; wanna fight?" is just cringe worthy and horrible. Instead, go up and start a conversation that is applicable to the situation. Within a few seconds you should be able to tell the interest level. As long as there is some interest there, continue to escalate.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 10:13 PM
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I think you need to re-read what I wrote. paying and paying and not get zilch back "but I need some form of reciprocation and gratitude." she should be mindful of the expenses and not demand five star outings. "I want someone who wants to be someone I would buy meals for." If a woman demands things of me, then it's not going to work out for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 12:23 PM
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I don't mind paying for dates, but I need some form of reciprocation and gratitude. I pay for dates, surprise her with spontaneous gifts, use my talents when she needs them (like fixing her sink), and she cleans up my place when she comes over, actually wants to have sex, and sometimes picks up the tab. This isn't a tit for tat trade, but it's more like I do those things because I want to do them, and she does her things because she wants to. When people have expectations of the other like 'he s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 09:35 PM
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My response wasnt disingenuous. I dont have kids, so I cant speak to that, but when my dog dies I may cry a little, but I wont wollow in self pity and miss a week of work. Life isnt fair, and its full of joy and sorrow. Keep on an even keel. The highs are never as high as you imagine, and the lows don't last as long as you fear. No use in getting overly emotional about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 02:21 PM
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Don't cry over spilled milk. There's no reason to display emotions over something that can't be changed. It's a waste of energy. Put those emotions to work doing something productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 03:15 AM
3

TRP is law of averages. You'll always have an outlier or two, but the standard principle still stands. AWALT isn't literal. It's about knowing that the girl you're going out with is highly likely a middle of the road MLB player and not Mike Trout. If you treat every player like Babe Ruth, you're going to get burned every time. Better to treat every woman like your average woman and you'll not only not be disappointed, but you'll get the best out of them even if they're an all-star.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 02:13 AM
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Absolutely. There are a lot of people that conduct themselves out of logic and rarely get overly emotional in situations. You've probably wondered if your a sociopath at points because you don't see the point in being emotional, except sometimes you feel strong emotions (like when a person you love dies). This is the same way with me. I'm much happier if I understand the reasoning behind something despite what the outcome is. If it makes logical sense, it makes sense to me and there isn't any re…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 03:32 AM
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Basically, the best case scenario to fucking someone you work with is that you have a good marriage. To me, fucking someone you work with just tells me you're lazy. Repeat after me: I will not show any interest in anyone I work with.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 03:12 AM
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That's everyone, not just women. The only problem is that you gloss over a ton of forms of value with your etc. You don't hang out with people that don't give you some form of value. Friendship, advice, mentoring, being funny, being pleasant, telling stories, sharing hobbies, listening, etc are also all forms of value. As long as neither party wants to fuck, it's perfectly normal for a man and woman to be friends. You can even be good friends with a woman that you want to fuck, as long as you ar…
/r/askTRP20/04/18 10:32 PM
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36 Read, but make your own decisions. People that follow TRP and use it as a be-all, end-all are just letting other people tell them how to live their lives. Read TRP material. Read feminism. Read conservative, liberal, religious, secular, and every other opinion you can get your hands on. Take what you want from each and formulate your own life philosophy. Get uncomfortable. Try new things, go new places, and strike up conversations with as many people as you can. When people get stuck in the s…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 04:39 PM
1

I don't judge them, I feel bad for them. I still use them, but I it's like seeing someone that could be so much better of a person if they would just have a little more self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 04:14 AM
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Nope. This is basically telling her that you were sexually rejected by a woman that at one time thought she wanted to spend the rest of her life with you. That only makes you look bad. Keep it a simple, 'it didn't work out', and let her create a story in her head.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 02:42 PM
1

We'll just agree to disagree. It took me 8 seconds to come up with no worries, or about the amount of time it would have taken you to come up with I'm busy right now, bye. Only difference is that you are acknowledging that you received her text and don't care instead of ignoring it and making her probably assume that you're still upset about it. Also, your frame as a redpill man isn't to focus on your mission etc, your frame should be that you can do whatever you want as long as you are proud fo…
/r/askTRP23/11/17 06:24 PM
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I would think that a lack of a reply to something like that would more indicate that you're still upset about the situation and you're refusing to talk to her. Something like No worries would indicate that you aren't butt hurt and have completely forgiven her and moved on. She knows he got the message and if he isn't still upset then he obviously read it.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 03:35 PM
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That's the dumbest thing I've probably ever read on reddit. Some chicks are cool as shit, and you're either lying to yourself or you don't actually have any real world experience with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 03:36 AM
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"No worries" That would be my reply. You got the text, you read the text, you think she's apologizing for something she shouldn't apologize for because you're doing great. You're not a terrible person so you aren't going to ignore it (this is someone you cared about at one time), but you aren't going to waste the energy talking about it or thinking about it. No worries, have a great Thanksgiving. Any reply after that shouldn't get anything but a one word answer, or even better just a 'k'. Rememb…
/r/askTRP23/11/17 03:17 AM
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Same reason as some people use words like cisgender instead of saying normal, mansplain instead of condescending explanation, or misogyny instead of woman hate. People who belong to a group tend to develop and use lexicon that is shared within the group. It's not any different than a soldier saying pucker factor when talking about how tense a situation was or a baseball player saying golden sombrero. It may be weird to people outside of the group, but when someone who knows TRP lingo sees "I neg…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 01:50 PM
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This is the correct answer. No chick is worth getting into an actual physical altercation over, and posturing isn't going to get someone like this to back down. The last fight I was involved in I wound up hurting my shoulder and having to do PT for 6 months before it got right again, and I wasn't even fighting. All I did was pull a guy off of my buddy.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 03:00 PM
1

One of my best buddies has been married to a vile woman for the past 10 years. I just don't hang out with him while she's around. You don't have to make other people's relationships your business. I let him vent about her, but he knows I don't really care about that part of his life. Hes still one of my best friends and we always have a blast when we hang out together.
/r/askTRP08/09/17 01:06 PM
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If someone is on an obviously destructive path, say a hardcore heroin junkie, and you try to persuade them away from it, and they ignore you.. no, that's no longer a friend. Same here, just a different drug. You are making the argument that your friend being in love with someone is the same as having a friend who is addicted to heroin. I've never had anyone who I considered a friend break into my place and steal my shit so they could afford to take their girlfriend on one more date. That shit is…
/r/askTRP06/09/17 09:30 PM
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Lets not compare doing heroin to dating some bitch. If your friendships are so fickle that youre willing to drop someone because theyre dating someone you dont approve of, you don't really have a true friend. Even if they marry them. Friends dont let friends drive drunk, but its hard to keep them from making mistakes in their relationships.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 01:47 PM
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I'm going to have to disagree with you on this one. Everyone has stuff in their lives where they know they're right and you're wrong, and there's nothing you'll ever be able to do to change their minds. That doesn't mean that they don't still consider you their best friend. Let me put it this way. If he had to pick between you or the girl who would he pick? That's a terrible way to put it. A true friend doesn't put ultimatums up over stuff that isn't going to kill them. Both of the guys who I co…
/r/askTRP06/09/17 04:10 AM
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One of my best friends in the world is a woman who would be kind of how you've described. She prefers hanging out with guys because she would rather play golf and shoot pool than sit around and talk or shop. She is fun to hang out with and doesn't like drama. She is actually still pretty feminine and is married to one of my best friends. She had her friends and he had his, so she didn't go after anyone 'in the group'. When they started dating, our groups combined and are mostly what makes up our…
/r/askTRP15/07/17 12:30 PM
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Reply, "it's too late, I'm returning the ring I bought you tomorrow."
/r/askTRP15/07/17 12:14 PM
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It's supply and demand. The more people that are attracted to you the more options and standards you can have. That's why TRP works. Sure, I may not be making myself more attractive to the BP women on reddit, but I am much more attractive to the type of women I actually want to meet IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 01:41 PM
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I consider myself redpill, and I'm a left leaning moderate. People can agree on one thing and disagree on another. Just because I think it's better to have a masculine/feminine duality in my personal relationships and I think that the 'everyone wins a trophy' 'whatever you do don't hurt anyone's feelings' society that is being pushed by the radical left is not good in the long run doesn't mean that I think conservative government is the best way to run the country. Now you'll have to excuse me, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 12:35 AM
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That's an unproductive comment. Really showing off your skills there. You're confusing personal strategy with macro social benefits. Regardless of whether you think its right, fair, or moral, its always personally beneficial to be in that top 1%. It may be bad for society as a whole that everything isnt fair and balanced, but because of human nature we can be sure that it will never be fully fair and balanced. Because of this, it behooves to do what is within my ability to strive to reach as hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 03:40 PM
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In actuality, Redpill isnt concerned about what is best for the group, just what is best for the individual. TRP wouldnt be very beneficial if everyone subscribed to it, and is absolutely much easier to be successful when the goals of the competition are not alligned with yours. I couldnt care less if some guy I don't know is being used by a woman for his security to raise children, especially if theyre good parents because thats the kind of thing that makes the world better. I couldnt care less…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 02:48 PM
1

Trust me, the difference in work and responsibilities is not a huge jump. Just different. In all actuality, as a manager I work fewer hours than a lot of my workers, because a lot of them work tons of overtime to make extra money. In one specific instance the woman we approached about being a supervisor declined it, but she works a a second full time job at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:50 PM
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First of all, I'm definitely not talking about money anywhere near the place that people's happiness is not increased. I'm talking middle level management like around $50k per year for a manager, $35k for a supervisor, and $28k for a normal employee. While this is still in one of the lower cost of living areas in the country, it's still definitely improve your quality of life type money. So why do men still pursue higher positions at a higher rate? Same reason women that want to attract a certai…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:57 AM
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Some of us don't get a million chances a week, hell some of us don't even get a chance PER YEAR so you have no idea how people like me feel. I get it dude, I really do. If this is how you see yourself, this is how she sees you. Why would you want something that no one else wants? Abundance mentality is the mentality you have when you deal with these things. I don't agree about nexting after the first time they flake because life happens and people have to break appointments. "Enjoy your nap, you…
/r/askTRP01/05/17 12:56 AM
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Sort of off topic, but I would like to mention that I manage and hire people to work in a department of ~100 employees in a hospital. The total number of times that I have ever been approached by a female about how to be promoted to a supervisory or management position is zero. I have never had a woman bring up advancement into management in an interview, and I've never had a woman ask me for a promotion. There are no female managers in my department (3 managers total) but 2 out of the 7 supervi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 11:51 PM
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Nope. I don't not support them either though. Just sounds like a lot of first world bitching to me. Circumcision isn't really a big deal, and lots of chicks prefer it. I dont have, nor want kids, if I choose to get married I'm accepting the risk that it will end badly, and I have never found myself in a situation dealing with the police that wasnt completely my fault. Being a man is much better that being a woman in this world. I think TRP teaches us to do the best with the opportunities we are …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 03:42 PM
1

Smoking is bad for your health. I don't like to make generalizations. I've met several people who are 80 years old, in good health, and have smoked since they were 12. Generalizations are what have kept the human race alive for so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 03:35 AM
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I try to make generalizations as little as possible as I don't think they are useful. If I think someone might fit into a certain category, I investigate to find out if they do before I make assumptions. You think you do, but you don't. That's not how the human mind works. You are constantly minding your surroundings and making decisions based on generalizations. Even if you don't act on those generalizations, you're making them subconsciously. Imagine you see a guy in a middle of nowhere west T…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 08:57 PM
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Generalizations are extremely useful and you use them every day. Redpill guys are assholes in a lot of bp minds, so if someone youve never met before told you he was on trp, youd probably assume he was an asshole instead of getting to know him first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 07:55 PM
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Completely normal to do it. Every straight guy thinks about every hot woman naked. And a lot of mildly attractive women naked. And a lot of ugly women. Completely normal as long as you can maintain boundaries, there isn't anything wrong with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 03:05 PM
2

Yep. Thats how you turn it into a situation where 'your money' is 'our money', and 'her money' is 'her money'.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 02:54 PM
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Real men pay because they want to, not because they feel obligated or because she asks him to. Yes, buy her dinner, movie tickets, and pay for all the dates or presents that you want to. Don't buy her things she asks you to buy for her (unless its her birthday or something), never ever give her cash, and never ever pay a bill for her. The one caveat is if it's an honest to goodness emergency, then I've given money, but only in a situation where I'd do the same for a friend.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 02:19 PM
0

I've fucked women while they had a buttplug in. Does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 02:13 PM
2

When I was 25 I was in a long term relationship and had my focus on having kids, a family, and the whole shebang. What I want now as a 35 year old is a LONG way from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 12:41 PM
1

Not really sure how I got attracted to trp, but its not much different than how I was raised. Ive never had problems with women, and I love women and think theyre great, but I dont think a man should take relationship advice from them. There is a lot I dont like about trp, but I dont think its horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 08:06 PM
1

Most women who know me would describe me the same way you just described the guys you know as far as angry or bitter. In fact, I do ok for myself and most would describe me as a pretty normal guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 04:00 PM
3

Science rarely proves anything, but it disproves a lot. Basically, science is 'this is our best guess from the information we've gathered'. Nothing can ever be proven as true or real, just as this is what weve observed. Many people (including Elon Musk) believe that nothing is real and we're all just a simulation of life working off of a code someone or something created.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 03:58 PM
3

Left leaning moderate here. I defend Muslims when people say they're all terrorists just like I would if someone said all Christians are Klan members. I dislike Christianity because its the bases for a lot of oppression in the country I live in. If there were Muslims trying to use the Koran to impose new laws or defend removing outdated laws, id be speaking out against that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 03:53 PM
2

You do realize that its really hard to 'prove' something. That's not what science does.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 03:43 PM
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People being picked up help the person doing the picking up more than most people realize. Just because you can pick her up when you hug her doesnt mean you could carry her to a car if she was passed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 02:06 PM
3

I was the ex. I broke up with my gf after 7 years because I decided I wasn't ready for marriage (boy am I glad I did that). We still saw each other and talked for several years after we broke up, occasionally sleeping together. Regardless of what you've read here, I hung out with her because she was fun to hang out with and we'd had almost a decade of history together. We were friends that would sometimes bump uglies when neither of us were seeing someone else. She started dating a guy and we ke…
/r/askTRP27/03/17 10:19 PM
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Exactly. Nothing wrong with women who ride their way through their 20's and then decides to settle down with someone when she's 30 as long as it's not me she's settling down with. Along the same lines of, don't date single mothers and raise someone else's kid. That's advice because I wouldn't want to do it, but at the same time I know a lot of people who have awesome step dads who raised them, and drastically improved the situations they would've been in had their moms not ever been able to find…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 04:12 PM
1

Definitely false. Tons of people including men and women desperately want to be in a relationship, but can't find anyone who wants to be with them. The reasons are almost endless as to why that may be.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 03:17 AM
1

I realize that typing on the internet allows for reflection and a certain breakdown of what's possibly going on. In real life relationships you have people that make you feel good and you enjoy their company. Women are awesome. Women aren't a hole to stick your dick in. Yes, they're different from us, and yes, you'll be a better person and more successful in dealing with them if you follow what this sub can teach you. However, they're nothing but people. People can suck, they can be judgemental,…
/r/askTRP18/03/17 01:05 AM
1

Everything everyone ever does is trying to serve their own interests. There isn't anything wrong with having a mutually beneficial relationship between a man and a woman. I have several friends who are women, and theyre great relationships because there is no sexual desire on either part.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 06:45 PM
1

Some chicks are actually pretty cool people, and good looking chicks not only have good looking friends, but a lot of them like to play matchmaker.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 05:36 PM
1

Girls can be your friend as long as neither of you see the other as a potential sexual partner.
/r/askTRP17/03/17 03:28 PM
2

Sounds good,omw
/r/askTRP17/03/17 02:52 PM
5

Completely agree. This is not 'normal' typically, and you need to get your hormones checked.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 04:39 PM
6

You do see a push for women to be firefighters, police officers, and soldiers. Just saying
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 01:43 AM
5

It's actually a mammalogist, and it's a stem career. What exactly do you think of when you think of high status career?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 01:41 AM
5

Not high status, but neither is lab worker, graphic designer, and certainly not banker. I know a girl that is a bat biologist that barely cracks $40k per year with a masters degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 01:37 AM
3

Well, first of all you said they aren't good jobs. They are very good jobs. Second, it's only low status because of opinion. Who the fuck cares what people think about your job status. My job is probably 'low status', but I make way more than most people would guess, am more or less my own boss, have a college education, and really like my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 01:29 AM
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I absolutely think they are good jobs that pay more than you think they do. What is your idea of a high status job. It's not CEO, but it's a hell of a lot better than barista or wedding planner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 01:26 AM
5

That's a very elitist viewpoint you have there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 01:24 AM
3

My buddy is a plumber and makes $70k per year in east Tennessee. Those are actually pretty darn good jobs, it's just that they're looked down upon because you have to get dirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 01:22 AM
3

I don't think sexual kinks would be included in the submissive man department. Plenty of the most powerful men in the world like to be dominated by women in the bedroom. https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/confessions-of-a-dominatrix-009
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 06:41 PM
6

I think you missed the point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 12:57 AM
15

I knew an extremely promiscuous woman in college. Her N count was in the 70s when she was 22. She is now 30, married, has a kid, and is by all accounts a great wife and mother. My buddy married a woman who was promiscuous, but nowhere near the level of the other woman. After a couple of years she left him for a guy who was married with an infant. He divorced his wife to be with her, then about a year later he broke up with her. After the breakup she got back together with my buddy (they never ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 06:06 PM
3

It is, but I don't really think that's the number one reason. The biggest reason I can think of is that we don't have a nice place to go to where everything is up front. Because it's illegal, most of the prostitution you see around smaller cities is the street walking, blow job in the car, methed out of their mind types. I'm sure there are high class hookers somewhere around here, but you probably have to be pretty wealthy to even begin to know where to look.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 04:55 PM
1

I'm not going to give you shit for dating someone still in school. I dated a 16 year old when I was 19 and we dated for 6 years. Her parents wanted to wait until she graduated before we got married even though I was already out with a good job. As her graduation date got closer and closer I began to realize that even though we were really good together and I loved her, I wasn't sure I wanted to make a lifelong commitment to her at that time. We decided to take a break and see other people. The b…
/r/askTRP04/03/17 08:58 PM
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15/16 year olds aren't children. You just think they're children because the government told you so. There is nothing wrong with a 20 year old dating a 16 year old.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 08:47 PM
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That's all fine, but doing things you don't want to do to make yourself more attractive doesn't equate to putting something on a pedestal. You wear a suite to a job interview, but that doesn't mean that you don't think you deserve the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 11:34 PM
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I don't think it puts women on a pedestal at all. Two rules; Be attractive, don't be unattractive. Taken to the extreme, it would be like saying that showering to be attractive to someone is putting them on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 05:43 PM
1

Pool is like chess without a board and where it takes skill to move the pieces. It's extremely fun if you and the person you're playing against are above average players (instead of just whacking the balls around). Darts you get to throw sharp things at the wall. Both are awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 05:26 PM
3

There have been plenty of times in my life where I've seen a text, but was too busy to answer and then forgot to respond. My go to is always, I just saw this. Don't attribute malicious intent unless it becomes a pattern. Ignore it.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:32 PM
1

I'm not subbed to theredpill anymore because its shitposts and anger. I use trp in my life to make the relationships I have better. I'm too old to go clubbing and try to ons a bunch of women, but when I do get one I know I am able to keep them as long as I like. If I posted a field report then it would probably be too boring to read. I don't do anything stupid crazy, but I don't have a problem striking up a conversation in a grocery store and getting a number. Only difference is that I usually w…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:09 PM
1

60/40 with a contract. He gets $8k for doing nothing.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 04:58 PM
1

Maybe she sees you as more than something casual and is trying to get a commitment out of you. Either way, if you want to go out with her, go out with her. If you don't, don't. No one can help you make that decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 12:58 AM
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Depends on the definition of Rape. I would never willingly force myself onto another woman. However, if I go out to a bar with a girl on a date and everything goes well and we find ourselves peeling off each other's clothes in a mad fit of drunken passion, make crazy love for hours, then pass out in each others arms, but the next day she wakes up and it turns out she was too drunk to consent, then yep, I guess I'm capable of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 11:41 PM
2

attention and drama. It makes people think about them, feel sorry for them, and gives them something to think and talk about with their friends.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 08:53 PM
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You need to go back and reread his original statement. He said that the fact that most of the big news stories turned out to be fake, that left an impression on a lot of people. Also, he asked where they get the 4 in 5 women have been raped statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 03:09 PM
2

Text only for logistics. Then you won't fuck up
/r/askTRP03/02/17 05:09 PM
1

Communication is 90 percent nonverbal, so if you want to get into deep conversations you want them to be in person, not over text. Text is for communication that isn't really saying anything, just making them imagine who you might be. If you're in a LTR, texting should be for only surface contact, but most guys who are good with girls automatically have that intuitively. When you text anyone, woman or man, personal or business, you should think of them reading it in a 1990 robot voice.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 04:49 AM
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This is where my opinion differs from the rest of TRP- texting can definitely be used to build attraction, as long as it's done correctly. I've always been of the opinion that trp is telling guys what they need to hear, not necessarily truths or hard rules. Guys who are needing to read 'text only for logistics' are the types of guys who are going to fuck up if they text as much as they want. More like a follow the rules until you get confident enough to where you can break them to help you. No r…
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:04 AM
4

Don't shit where you eat. It is entirely possible for men and women to be friends. Even single men and single women can be great friends as long as neither of them has any sexual feelings for the other. This is obviously the case. Treat her like a coworker, not a friend.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 09:12 PM
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I wouldn't consider that a woman who is selfless. Think of the guy like a business and the woman like an employee. If you're a shitty business then you aren't going to attract good workers. If you're a great business then you are going to attract good workers. Just because you attract good workers does not mean they're selfless just because they're working hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 04:36 AM
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IMO, RP teaches selfish man and just expects the woman to be selfish as well. In all actuality, altruism does not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 04:11 AM
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Not shallow: Dating a man because he has the personality, drive, education, experience, and skills to provide a stable life. Shallow: Dating a man because he has money. Lots of people who are in example 1 are not wealthy. Lots of people in example 2 didn't work for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/17 03:56 AM
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I would think it more refers to the guys that get dates and get laid, but always falls head over heels in love and the woman dumps them after a couple of weeks. Those are my buddies who are beta fucks. Good looking, good jobs, and not socially awkward, but they immediately start fantasizing about how they're going to spend the rest of their life with the chick they met at the bar last weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 08:07 PM
1

Think about how many socially awkward, well paid, highly intelligent IT guys are on reddit. I know several guys who work at the nuclear testing facility in Oak Ridge that make fucking bank but have zero confidence when it comes to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 08:05 PM
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Yes there are tons of beta fucks out there. I have several friends that get set up on dates because they have friends who just know the perfect woman for them. They go out and everything goes great. They not only connect on a personal level, but it almost feels like their souls were meant for each other. They start a relationship, fall in love, start talking about their futures together. This all happens over the course of about 3-4 weeks. After a couple more weeks, the new wears off and his con…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 08:01 PM
2

useful, strong, goal oriented men who will end up picking up the pieces of society that feminism has shredded Bluepill men can be useful, strong, goal oriented men too. Redpill is focused on sexual attraction, not activism or accomplishments. Also, I don't necessarily view feminism as having 'shredded society'. Although there are lots of bad that has come from feminism, there is also a lot of good. People that think everything is bad and it should go back to the way it was are basically saying w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 04:43 PM
1

I guess I should have put quotes around the "The world's not fair, we need to change the world to where it is." Sure there's nothing wrong with trying to make the world better, but it's not what RP teaches. I was more talking about the whole bitching about the world not being fair instead of improving yourself to thrive in the world. I wouldn't consider feminism weak either. The movement is obviously very powerful. It just doesn't have anything to do with RP. RP is, 'sure the world isn't fair, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 03:16 PM
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Yep. MRA is just like feminism. The world's not fair, we need to change the world to where it is. RP is the world's not fair, find out how to change yourself so you can take advantage of the way the world is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 02:33 PM
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(Goal here is make your beer the best product to sell people) RP: Every customer on the planet wants a Budweiser. That's not literal, but if you treat it that way then you're going to be able to sell a ton of it. Everyone says they hate Bud, but millions of people buy it. BP: Not everyone wants a Budweiser and it's shitty beer. Nobody really even likes it. Your carrot flavored beer is unique and special, and if you keep looking then you'll find your market. My friend had a blueberry flavored bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/17 02:28 PM
1

There are no goalpost, only examples of someone that isn't physically attractive that gets hot women to sleep with them because their SMV is tied to their wealth, power, and success and not their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 10:51 PM
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My buddy is not in very good physical shape even though his wife is pretty good looking. I guess it's obvious she isn't sexually attracted to him and is just attracted to him because he has a good enough job so she doesn't have to work. I don't disagree with your take on ANS, it was obvious. However, you cannot possibly believe that being successful doesn't greatly benefit a man's attractiveness regardless of what he looks like. Silvio Berlusconi has top 10 hottest women he's fucked lists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 06:56 PM
1

Anna Nicole wanted his billions so she slept with him to get it. You assume
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 06:44 PM
1

Dude, get a safety razor. Change the blade once a week for $20 for 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 06:42 PM
1

I paid $60 for a nice safety razor. The blades are $20 for 100, and it's actually a much nicer shave than a disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 06:41 PM
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Sexuality is what someone feels inside not what someone does. If it's purely about how someone feels inside and not what they do, then how in the world could you ever know who someone is sexually attracted to? There's no way to know whether or not Anna Nicole was sexually attracted to that old billionaire unless you are her. You can't even ask someone because people lie. The only way we can guess how someone feels is by watching how they act. Would you consider a prostitute that has a lot of cli…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 06:37 PM
1

For our purposes, what's the difference between being or not being sexually attracted to someone if she has sex with them. There are vast amounts of people that have sex on a regular basis without sexual attraction. You're talking about lust. Madonna is surely an outlier. How many thousands of powerful men are out there with good looking girls on their arms even though they're not physically attractive? Look at Hugh Haffner. He doesn't get any of those chicks if he looked the same but was a plum…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 01:10 PM
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Looks are way more important to women when you're talking sexuality. An old chick with loads of money doesn't marry a young attractive guy. This is never reversed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 04:06 AM
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Sonder You need to accept that what you see from other people is a very faint glimpse into their overall life. That attractive dude you saw has problems, insecurities, doubts, fears, hopes, dreams, and everything else you have. He's not 'an attractive guy', he's just a regular ass guy who happens to be good looking. The person that dropped out of college did so because that was the decision they made for their life. Women who sleep around do so because that is the decision they think will improv…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/17 09:00 PM
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Just throwing a couple of things out there; RP is a philosophy, not a group of people. It happens to be a philosophy that is often sought after by guys that aren't historically good with women. Of course there are a lot of members of RP that come off as creepy. I'm sure that a good amount of them come off as creepy IRL. RP is there to try and help with that. The best way to decrease your overall creep factor is by self evaluation and trial and error. Both of those things are preached in TRP. Als…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 09:21 PM
2

As a guy, I would much prefer to have sex with a less attractive woman who was skilled in bed over a hotter chick that just laid there. IME, the uglier/fatter the chick the more effort they put into blowjobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/17 09:08 PM
2

There's really no fair or unfair when it comes to things in life like this. There's only what is or is not. Accept it and try to make it benefit you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 05:59 PM
2

Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/17 05:56 PM
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I'll approach this in a different manor. It depends on the context of the relationship way more as an adult than it did in highschool. In highschool, all that mattered was looks and popularity. You wanted to be lab partners with that hot cheerleader not because you respect her ability to do chemistry, but because you want to see her naked. In the real world, I work with an absolutely wonderful woman who is very nice, intelligent, well put together, and hard working. She is also extremely obese. …
/r/askTRP07/01/17 09:50 PM
1

No, I would not enjoy being groped by someone who I found unattractive. Would you like a random unpleasant stranger groping you? This was your question. Why are they unpleasant? Are they drunk and annoying, but hot. Sure, the groping isn't what would bother me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 01:19 PM
1

like /u/squidracer said, it depends on who's doing it. If someone is extremely attractive they can get away with a ton more than someone that is offputting. That's why the extremely attractive guys tend to be way more confident and forward when it comes to escalating with women, especially women they don't know. It has worked so often in the past that there really isn't a reason not to do it. It's a learned behavior, but the reason that it's learned is because, despite what you believe in your m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 01:13 AM
2

It depends on who's doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 12:56 AM
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This was my immediate thought. Respect is earned. Not being disrespected should be a given. Smacking someone on the ass is being disrespectful; not smacking someone on the ass doesn't have anything to do with respecting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 12:55 AM
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I'm still subbed to this subreddit because it's interesting sometimes. I am not subbed on TRP because it's always the same posts over and over. The philosophy is good/works, hard rules should only be followed by new people, and I think women are fantastic. Women aren't the princesses we were all raised to be, they're just people. They are different from men in a ton of ways, and they have their great qualities and their bad qualities just like men. Every woman is unique in their own way, and par…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/17 12:03 AM
5

Yes, my parents have the traditional relationship. My sister is very outspoken and likes to be the one in charge. However, when her husband disagrees with her decision theyll discuss it and he geta the final say. He doesnt typically disagree though. When it comes to what theyre eating for dinner, what color the house is going to be painted or where to ho for vacation he lets her decide. When my sister bought a new car she didnt get the one she wanted, she got the one he advised her to get. As fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 01:46 PM
4

Mostly red, one younger sister. We both learned more from our parents than we did from each other. Dad worked and mom stayed home until we were all out of highschool. My sister married a man who was raised mostly by his mom, sister, and grandmother who lived next door. He grew up being told what to do by women, and my sister is very assertive. If my parents hadn't raised her she probably would be the type of woman that TRP rails against. As it is, she thinks marriage should be a partnership, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 06:04 AM
5

I'm extremely picky. I think you'll find the people who tend to be more picky with who they go out with tend to be the people who are fine being alone. That super nice girl who is smoking hot and just my type flirting with me? No chance if she works where I do, is a friend's ex, or has kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/16 02:48 PM
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Food for thought: This sub isn't the best for navigating your current situation. This isn't about seduction, holding frame, or bettering yourself, it's about a set of parents trying to protect their 18 year old daughter from a situation they think is bad for her. You aren't going to strong arm them, walk out, or power trip them and improve your situation. There isn't any way you're going to get them to leave the meeting and say, "welp, I guess he was right." You could either do what this sub say…
/r/askTRP25/12/16 03:16 PM
1

Na. I know fat guys that slay. That's your own insecurities talking there buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 10:38 PM
1

What would you consider to be the most important? Personality? If a woman has the personality of a saint, but she weighs 500lbs she's not getting asked out. If a woman is the smartest woman in the world but she looks like a troll, guys aren't knocking her door down. In the dating market, if a woman wanted to pick the one thing that gave her the best chance of finding a man to have a relationship with (dating is literally getting dates and crossing people out until you find one you want to be wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 02:48 AM
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That is your opinion. That is not fact. You personally think a woman's looks are most valued because that is all you care about. This is what you said. We're talking about the dating market, not how long you spend with the person. Personality only matters after that initial meeting. If I'm not physically attracted to you then you have zero shot at going out with me regardless of any of your other assets. That's the way guys think. That would be the opinion of any guy who actually has options. Lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 02:36 AM
1

So you agree. The most important trait to a guy is physical attraction in the dating market. It's the thing on the resume that is most important for getting the interview. It's the number 1 thing guys look for. What the physical attraction is is irrelevant (big boobs, nice hair, nice legs, tattoos, nose ring, fat, skinny, whatever), but the most important thing to a guy is what she looks like. If he isn't physically attracted to her then nothing else matters. If he thinks she's ugly, he isn't go…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/16 01:58 AM
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Looks are important for the first approach regardless if it's a one night thing or they wind up getting married. If a guy isn't attracted to a woman's appearance he won't approach. The other stuff is the more important stuff when determining if it's a ONS or a relationship. And like I said, OP is clearly talking about the dating scene, not being in a relationship or marriage. In a lot of marriages looks don't matter at all. I know plenty of people who still absolutely love their wives even thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 10:30 PM
1

It's not about whether or not they're attracted to someone else, it's what brings about that attraction. The most important thing a woman has going for her when attracting a guy is her looks. There's not even a close second. The number one thing that a guy has going for him is all over the map. It could be his arms, his style, his money, his power, his friends, his previous relationships, his parents, or any other number of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 09:14 PM
2

Are you trying to tell me that a woman has the ability to not be rational with her decisions? Also, she very well could have thought she could do better but by his leaving indicated to her that he was better than she was giving credit.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 08:34 PM
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Women are all over the place when it comes to what they find attractive in men. Women will absolutely attach themselves to men that they don't find physically attractive. Men are attracted to women that they find physically attractive. They don't attach themselves to women who has a look that they find unattractive. Sure, some guys are attracted to fat women. The average guy isn't. The dumb hot girl will have a lot MORE chances than the smart ugly chick. It's not black and white, it's a ranking …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 08:17 PM
2

Lets use a food analogy. Taste is food's most valued asset. There are tons of other important assets like if it's healthy, how many calories it has, what the texture is, what it looks like, etc, but if something tastes bad then you aren't going to eat it if you have an alternative. People individually have different tastes in food, but overall humans tend to enjoy the same types of tastes. People would pick a raw apple over a raw potato. If the women are food and the men are people who are eatin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 08:02 PM
2

The vast majority of men aren't attracted to a woman that they don't find physically attractive regardless of their other traits. Maybe it's not fair, but it's definitely true. It's not the only thing that's important, but a hot chick who is dumb as shit is going to have a lot more guys who are interested in her than a fat chick with a great personality and education.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 06:36 PM
1

Still no 2 alike regardless of type. There are a lot of differences on the molecular level
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 11:22 PM
9

Snowflakes: If you look closely, every one is unique in it's own special way. If you look at them from a foot away, they all look the exact fucking same.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 01:39 AM
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Hey, I didn't mean to mislead you. I was under the impression we were both non exclusive. I'm not emotionally ready for a relationship at the moment, so if that's what you're looking for we should put things on hold for now.
/r/askTRP25/11/16 04:05 PM
5

You will get unemployment if you're telling the truth. Matching on tinder and asking to hook up isn't any form of sexual harassment. Sounds like a load of bullshit to me.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 09:10 AM
3

Very nice
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 04:55 PM
1

Tingles man. Regardless of how much money you give a hooker, you're not going to make that gina tingle. I prefer my women to actually want and enjoy me plowing them. Also, you need to read the sidebar if you think spending money on a woman is the way, or even necessary, to make her attracted to you. Be a skittles man
/r/askTRP07/06/16 12:46 AM
0

If this was a survey about Bob Smith's relationship, where would people fall than?
/r/becomeaman07/06/16 12:28 AM
1

There's a huge difference between a girl that wants to have sex with you and a girl that is just letting you put your penis in her body because she has to in order to get what she wants. I'll also say that I completely disagree with people who think women are just penis sleeves. I'll never understand how people can't like the feeling of have a relationship connection with a good woman.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 10:04 PM
5

It's like asking when is art pornography. You can't describe it, but you know it when you see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 10:56 PM
7

Some of the hottest chicks I know have some of the lowest self esteem. People may think she's a 9 when she thinks she's a 6. How many hot chicks do you see fucking losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 01:24 AM
4

Rule number 1 of RP is you don't talk about RP.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 12:49 AM
1

I agree with the first part, but helping people through depression is what guy friends are for. Be a rock for your women, but every guy should have at least one guy friend who they can open up to without judgement.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 12:04 AM
1

A smart man is never the smartest man in the room.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 10:06 PM
1

How do I tell her? I think that marriage and long term commitment aren't mutually exclusive. I personally don't like a lot of the red tape that goes with signing a marriage license, especially because people change over time and who knows where we'll be in the future. I'm not saying I'll never change my mind, but going through the actual legal process of signing the documents is not something I see myself doing in the near future. I think people can love each other, raise a family, and spend the…
/r/askTRP24/05/16 12:36 AM
6

Must suck to be your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/16 12:22 AM
2

Listen to how she acts, not what she says.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 11:48 PM
9

Standards. There are women out there who want a relationship, and just want someone to pay attention to them. If you're a 4, you're not going to be landing 6's to plate, you're going to be landing 2's. The good thing is its a lot easier for a guy to move from a 4 to a 7 or 8 than a woman. It just takes hard work. The problem comes when a guy is a 4 but his standards are at least a 6. That's where a lot of folks on reddit seem to be. "I'm single and I've never kissed a girl and I'm 26". What I he…
/r/askTRP13/05/16 12:33 AM
13

I'm RP and I think women are fantastic. They can be funny, charming, warm, great people. I'm extremely great friends with several of them, and one of the two closest people in my life is a woman. Men and women are different, but I enjoy being close and open with my female friends as well as my guy friends. If you think they're just a hole to put your dick in, you probably are just butthurt because a girl was mean to you one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 03:51 AM
9

Yep. Grandpa said people used to do that to get out of PT on really hot days when he was in Korea.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 10:51 PM
0

You keep saying it like you're trying to con someone. You're not trying to be someone they want you to be, you're trying to become someone you want to be. Everyone is capable of changing who they are, and it's not that hard. You're a different person when you're around your parents, when you with friends, when you're with coworkers, when you're talking to a customer, and when you're talking to a stranger. If you have severe anxiety talking to a stranger in the supermarket, just pretend you're co…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 10:29 PM
0

That's the thing though. If you really want it bad enough, you'll keep faking it until you eventually aren't faking it anymore. It's great advice for someone that isn't happy with who they are and wants to change. You're basically saying that if you're not confident, then you shouldn't pretend to be confident because you aren't confident and people will judge you if they find out. Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 09:37 PM
0

You're being silly right? It obviously can't work for something that has real physical barriers or requirements. That's not what the phrase means. Faking being a millionaire won't make you rich, but faking being an extrovert for a long enough period of time will help you become an extrovert if that's what you want. It's a tool to get over anxiety, help with depression, and instill confidence. It's also great for fitting in. If you decide you want to hang out with everyone for the football game o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 09:17 PM
1

https://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are?language=en If you pretend to be who you want to be long enough you'll become that person. It's excellent advice for someone who wants to be confident or outgoing but isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 07:22 PM
1

There was a thread somewhere I saw the other day about an anesthesiologist who was always calm and collected regardless of the situation. He said that in situations where normal people would freak out he pretended he was an actor on a show where he was playing a guy who was calm. That helped him remain calm, even if just to someone watching him work. Same goes with approaching. Fake it til you make it is basically saying to act like someone who is who you want to be. Some can do it, others can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 02:16 AM
1

She's a D list celebrity who's movies are watched around the clock 24/7 by millions of people.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 02:12 AM
-1

I'm going to disagree with everyone else here. Alcohol is not your problem, you're just not in control of your emotions. You need to check some books on emotional intelligence and maybe look into some meditation. Shitting your feelings out of your mouth when you have two beers is a symptom, not the disease. You've got some issues you need someone to listen too, and when you get a little buzz the guy in your brain stops feeling inhibited about who your willing to open up to. As much as I hate sug…
/r/askTRP24/04/16 06:16 AM
1

Outcome independent. You just want to have a good time. Stop planning shit.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 05:50 AM
-2

I may be in the minority, but a lot of chicks like gno to hang out with their friends, and don't care anything about getting hit on. Personally I'd think it would be a red flag that she asked you instead of assuming it'd be OK with you. If my girl asked then I'd assume gno means going to a club dressed like a slut and dancing instead of going to a nice dinner at a fancy restaurant and going to see a show.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 02:11 AM
2

HTWFAIP is exactly what you need. Great book.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 01:52 AM
6

You're wrong. I've know good looking guys that were attracted to obese women. Baby got back? Back that ass up? Shake your jelly? Hell, every guy has options when it comes to what porn to watch, yet many many guys still go for the BBW. Personally I think really fat chicks are gross, but really skinny chicks are just as bad. I want a nice healthy 25-30 bmi on my women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/16 12:35 AM
3

Tell her, "I like you, but I'm not in like with you."
/r/askTRP09/04/16 05:42 PM
2

Naa. I'm not going to go out of my way to help some guy I briefly met at a bar and never hung out again. He's not my friend, he's just someone I met who needs something. He can call Uber or one of his real friends, just like she can.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 03:19 AM
2

Say you have the following situation. A man see's another man at a bar, and goes up to chat with him. They have a good conversation, and they exchange numbers. The man, then later that day or the next asks the guy if he wants to go to the baseball game saturday, which he says he does not. About a week after this, the second guy see's her car has two flat tires, about 30 minutes before he needs to get to a job interview. He suddenly calls the first man, asking him desperately to give him a ride t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 12:43 AM
2

True, but the OP was referring to bystanders being sexist for calling out assholes, not the women who were attracted to them. Bottom line, nobody likes a legit asshole or bitch. Be a decent person, but be confident, don't be a pushover, and don't live your life trying to please other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 10:01 PM
5

They can if they're not attracted to them. It's the same as being a bitch. I know she's a bitch, you know she's a bitch, her coworkers know she's a bitch, but her boyfriend is oblivious. He'll retroactively agree with his friends after they break up though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 09:28 PM
7

They want a driven successful man who doesn't take shit from anybody. That's definitely not what I think of as an asshole. An asshole is someone who will go out of their way to make someone else's day shittier just to be mean, not someone who is confident and looks out for themselves first.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 06:54 PM
2

I'm RP, but it's not misogynistic to tell a woman to stop being a bitch. It's not sexist to say a women shouldn't be bitches. It's not sexist to say men shouldn't be assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 06:52 PM
1

Is your stuff at her place or at home? If it's at her place, you live there and should help with the bills. If your stuff is at home you have two choices; either dump her or tell her you'll pay half but you're officially moving all your shit in. If she doesn't like that, peace.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 10:31 PM
5

RP in a nutshell: Men and women are different. Women aren't attracted to guys who put them on a pedestal and treat them like princesses which is contradictory to what most older women have taught you your entire life. Women want men who are complete without them, confident, and have high SMV. Here is what you need to do to get there. If this doesn't fix you, you're doing it wrong. If this did fix you, then congrats, you're now the prize, make women earn your love. The rest is just the details. T…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 05:07 PM
4

That's a lot of anger coming out there. It's absolutely fine to open yourself up to a woman as long as you maintain frame. You're equating love to putting them on a pedestal. That's not what it is. Don't let your emotions dictate your actions, but you're a pretty odd human if you can just not have emotions. Enjoy them but don't have feelings for them sounds sort of sociopathic.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 09:41 PM
13

You are either interneting too much or in college. In the real world, there is just as much to hate about guys being guys as there is about women being women. There are a lot of shitty people in both sexes, but there are also a lot of awesome people in both sexes. Some of my best friends are women, I know women who are awesome leaders and bosses, and there isn't much better than curling up with a woman who truly wants to be with you. RP is frame. It's knowledge. The knowledge of how men and wome…
/r/askTRP06/04/16 06:07 PM
5

Are you going to marry a chick before you sleep with her? If not, then women who wait for marriage doesn't mean shit. People that wait for marriage are usually either very young or very religious.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 05:59 PM
2

I'm in my 30's so if I find a girl who is a virgin then my first thought is, "what the hell is wrong with this one."
/r/askTRP06/04/16 05:57 PM
14

Love women for what they are, don't hate them for what they aren't.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 05:52 PM
1

16 and had a great experience. She wasn't a virgin, was 18, and her parents were out of town. Fooled around in the pool, then took it upstairs. Both of us came. 18 dated a 16 year old girl and I took her's. Christmas night with her parents downstairs. We fucked for an hour and a half altogether. It was great. Dated her for another 7 years; one of my only regrets was dating the same person all through college.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 08:57 AM
10

LMR means that someone is enthusiastic, but puts on the breaks at the last minute like they've been debating in their mind the whole time and it's been going back and forth 49%/51% whether or not to have sex. The no wins at the last minute, but it typically doesn't take much to swap it in your favor. I've only had one LMR where the no meant no, and it was because she really didn't feel well (sick). I've also never pulled the 'I'm leaving if we're not having sex' card. That to me seems too pushy …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 08:21 AM
-2

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Be a man and own up to what you did.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 04:09 AM
42

Quite literally though, if he didn't want a kid he should have wrapped it up. You should be in charge of your life and if you fuck up it's on you.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 08:38 PM
1

"Women have less empathy than men." When I say this it is only dealing with the context of sexual relationships. Women are much more likely to just think about themselves in sexual relationships than guys are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 05:36 PM
3

If there is a concern here, it should be what has gone wrong with society that so many men are finding themselves forming tribes that are filled with anger and rage, not so much that they are forming tribes at all. A large collective of guys who get together and play D&D every night and weekend are neckbeards. A large collective of guys who get together, party, sell drugs, use drugs, carry guns, and commit felonies on a nightly basis are almost certainly fucking chicks too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 05:54 PM
1

You're not 5'6", your at best 5'3" and I bet you use lifts. You're a lifter.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 05:44 PM
3

RP in a nutshell: Men and women are different. Women aren't attracted to guys who put them on a pedestal and treat them like princesses which is contradictory to what most older women have taught you your entire life. Women want men who are complete without them, confident, and have high SMV. Here is what you need to do to get there. If this doesn't fix you, you're doing it wrong. If this did fix you, then congrats, you're now the prize, make women earn your love. The rest is just the details.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 05:25 PM
1

definitely try the hailmary. Sounds like it could work.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 04:57 PM
4

But that's literally what marriage is unless you're doing it for religious reasons. There isn't any reason you can't have the same exact relationship, have kids, buy a house together, grow old, etc without ever actually signing any documents.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/16 03:13 AM
5

Realistically, this is just the point of saying to make sure you keep a look out for non-verbal cues. It's also a lot of the reason that we preach to 'text for logistics only'. You can't have a full conversation with someone purely over text messaging unless you know each other extremely well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 06:20 PM
3

A lot of the RP posters are in their teens and twenties, so this would make sense. Also, you have to admit that there are a lot of adult women out there that still conduct themselves like they were in high school. My buddy is kind of dating a 30 year old woman, and Friday she came to his house and told him she talked to her ex and is confused because she, "can't give him her whole heart right now." He said she cried for 15 minutes and he kicked her out. She got mad because he told her to leave, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 06:16 PM
5

Do the benefits outweigh the risks. Tax and legal benefits are the only actual, tangible benefits to marriage. Why bring the government into your relationship. Signing those papers have no actual effect on your relationship unless you let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 06:09 PM
4

A lot of people that do believe that when they get married end up getting divorced because they realize that it's retarded to live your entire life completely unhappy just because you said vows and signed a piece of paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/16 06:06 PM
1

Heterosexual, why?
/r/askTRP23/03/16 12:38 AM
1

The opposite of fat acceptance is not fat shaming, it is motivation to lose weight, education about diet and exercise, and friendly encouragement when people make positive changes. I agree that HAES is absolutely moronic and anyone with any logical sense knows that it's just something that SOME fat people tell themselves so they can feel better without having to put in any work. However, I can tell you from personal experience that ridicule and shame will not motivate people to change, it will j…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 05:29 AM
0

Regardless, those kinds of fighters just don't exist anymore. What boxers do you want to see fight each other?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 02:04 AM
2

See u/abdada response
/r/askTRP22/03/16 01:36 AM
-1

For the most part boxers don't change weight classes to fight. It's not rigged, it's just that people don't box anymore. The guys who would be the equivalent of Frazier, Ali, Holmes, Tyson, etc. just wind up playing different sports. Boxing is dying, and it's because they don't have the quantity of athletes for the cream to rise to the top anymore. We haven't had a truly great Heavyweight champion since Lennox Lewis who retired 10 years ago. The Klitschko brothers were entertaining, but they wou…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 11:55 PM
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Men don't hate on guys who get lots of girls easily because we envy them. Sluts are shamed because most guys think that their partner having dozens of previous sexual partners is not a preferred trait to look for in a woman. This makes sense. If women treated sluts like guys treat 'studs' then it would be viewed the same. They don't. Women like guys that easily get lots of girls, and they hate on sluts worse than men do. Also, 'players' do get a good amount of hate in social groups. There is a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 06:14 PM
1

A very defeatist attitude. What's funny us that there are women out there who feel the exact same way. I'm hideous, no one will ever love me, my personality is shit, I'm gross and disgusting and worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 08:56 PM
1

Plastic surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 08:27 PM
6

I think that's a terrible analogy. 0.0000002% of people in the world are billionaires. I did the math. Billionaires aren't billionaires because they trade stocks, they're where they are because they are extremely lucky that the exact right situation happened and they are the exact right person in that situation. If Bill Gates had been born 100 years before, he would probably have been successful, but he wouldn't be a billionaire. If he was born 100 years later, you'd get the same situation. Walm…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 04:46 PM
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Loads if guys are FA because they choose not to bother themselves with the dating market. Everyone could find someone else if they were willing to lower their standards enough, regardless of sex. It may take longer for the guy, but it's definitely possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 05:18 PM
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Completely depends on the job. I'd say if it's dealing with children, caretaking, or appealing to men then I'd take all women. If I'm opening a breasteraunt or hospice facility, I'd prefer a staff of all women. In most instances, I'd prefer men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 12:03 AM
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Working in a hospital where most of the employees and most of the bosses are women, I'd say that women are fine working for women if they're a good boss. There are multiple women in leadership positions who are universally liked and respected by hospital staff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 11:59 PM
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BP folks hate trp because of the stupid shit that a lot of posters in the sub write. There's so much anger in the sub that keeps getting up voted that it really detracts from the message.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 11:52 PM
3

Only apologize if you know you are responsible for fucking up. You broke the coffee table, apologize. She had a bad day at work? Don't apologize. Also, if you'd do the same thing again if given the same situation, don't apologize. You got stuff to make tacos, but she wanted pizza, no apology necessary. If you're not absolutely positive the situation warrants an apology, then don't give one.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 10:22 PM
3

As far as women go, learn to appreciate them for what they are, not hate them for what they aren't.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 10:18 PM
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A couple of my best friends are women, and they're awesome. They're fun to hang out with, funny as shit, and are awesome at giving fashion advice. Also, they have other women friends who they'll introduce you to. Never be friends with a woman you have any interest in hooking up with, never do anything for them that you wouldn't do for a guy friend, and brush off any relationship or 'what women really want' advice. Follow those rules, and women can make great friends.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 06:16 PM
1

Alpha and beta aren't about looks at all. A guy could look like gronk and still be beta as fuck, while one of the most alpha males of all time was a fat black guy. An omega is someone who has no qualities that women are interested in. They may be completely out of shape, stink like shit, be living in their parents basement, or play video games by themselves for 16 hours a day, but the overriding theme is that they have given up or just stopped trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 03:16 AM
1

A good way to think about it is that BP people are regular normal sized people who have always been in good shape. RP people are people who have either been really fat an lost a lot of weight or they are on a weight loss journey. RP has all these rules about logging and measuring every single piece of food that you put in your body, severely limiting your carb intake, no sugar or soda whatsoever, preparing all of your meals at home, making a schedule and preparing the meal at home, getting a PT …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 04:47 PM
1

There definitely is a disconnect between the philosophy and the actual members of the sub, and the anger is probably the main thing. Dislike shouldn't come into play with redpill philosophy. It's should be, "this is how things are, and this is how you should handle it." I don't understand why the sub turns into basically hating on women a lot of the time. I love women and one of my favorite things to do is to be intimate with them. The whole sub is based around the fact that women tend to act, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 11:38 PM
1

It's a tried and true method for success. Also, you have to understand that it has to be so far to the red side because it's hard to get the blue guys to commit. Once you figure out how the game is played then you are absolutely better off being blue sometimes. Take the whole "text for logistics only" redpill truth. This is aimed at guys who typically text immediately and have long extended conversations via text messaging which sends a message of desperation and turns her off. By having a hard …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 11:02 PM
1

Penetration of the vagina or anus is sexual intercourse. It doesn't matter who it's with, or how much you liked it, the definition of virgin is someone who hasn't had sexual intercourse. If you want to say technically a virgin in regards to anal, I'm fine with that, but I count it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 05:58 PM
3

I think you're way overthinking this shit. Are you getting something out of the relationship? Are you at least getting as much out as you're putting in? Are you doing things for her that you wouldn't do for a friend, and is she asking you to do things for her that a friend wouldn't ask? An orbiter hangs out and gets taken advantage of. That's all you have to ask yourself. Is she taking advantage of me? If you objectively fell like the answer is yes, drop her. If you feel like she's just stopping…
/r/askTRP07/03/16 05:54 PM
2

Yes, very much this. Then when you think about what TRP is actually for and about it makes more sense. TRP is really here to provide direction to success for guys that haven't had success in the past. Come here, read, learn, lift, and turn yourself into a traditionally successful male and you will have success with women. BP is progressive and non-conformist and they don't like to see men being guided back to the traditionalist mold, so they don't like RP or what it stands for. They are more wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/16 05:42 PM
0

That's MRA stupid shit talk there. Women have jobs and work just as hard as men do. We don't act or think alike, but to say that all women are just helpless government leeches and all guys are either BB or AF is just ignorant to reality. Women make good money and pay taxes just like men do.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 10:46 AM
1

Because women don't pay taxes?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 04:11 AM
2

I would agree that this is true in America, but I'm not sure about Sweden.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 10:11 PM
9

Exactly. This decision is an economical decision by the state. The small investment of paying for insemination for women who want to have children will be repaid in taxes many times over through the course of the baby's life. Purely economically motivated.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 04:20 PM
1

Look at it from something that is provable. No actors marry famous people. A lot of the actors I know are married to famous people. If you think actors don't marry famous people, then you must not know many actors. I know 50 actors and none of them are married to famous people. Do you see the difference now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 07:11 PM
1

Anecdotal, but my mom was/is attractive and college educated, but she didn't even start working until my younger sister went to college (28 years after she graduated). Now she works at a bank and makes ~$13 per hour. She only works to get out of the house and for a little extra spending money. She pays for the groceries, vacations, and the rest is hers to do with as she pleases. My father pays for everything else just like he always did.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 06:47 PM
3

Education is just like money. It doesn't seem that important if you have it, but it's everything if you don't. Your statement is just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 06:25 PM
1

Doctors, lawyers represent the elite and hence are very appealing to women.And by elite I mean educated, informed and wealthy, not just wealthy . Yes. This is an elite man. good personalities, are attractive, and are intellectually stimulating. This is an elite woman. I think we're on the same page now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 06:08 PM
2

You have to be very intelligent and dedicated to become a doctor in Europe too. I definitely wasn't implying that you don't, I was just explaining why we treat hairdressers and doctors differently. We value artistic and non-scientific jobs We tend not to for the fact that they don't make money. In America it's all about how much you can produce, and that production determines how much money you make. Famous people are valued on an entertainment level, and because of that it allows them to make m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 06:02 PM
2

Europe (probably with the exception of England) and America are very different culturally when it comes to stuff like this. America is still a very Hofstede masculine country. It takes 10 years of education to become a doctor in America, and it takes 9 months of training to cut hair (2 years if you want an associates degree). You have to be very intelligent and dedicated to become a doctor, and neither of those are requirements to cut hair. It's just the difference in cultures, and each have the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 05:49 PM
1

Established men prefer women who have good personalities, are attractive, and are intellectually stimulating. The fact that now days most women who fit that profile are college educated is the reason that guys prefer college educated women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 05:34 PM
2

Yes, the owner is a Doctor, but he doesn't practice anymore. He didn't care anything about her accomplishments or successes, just that she was smart, funny, beautiful, and they got along really well. Personally, I think she's a bitch. He has to be 35 years older than her or so, and he left his wife for her. His first wife he married in college, but she didn't graduate or ever work. The fact that women aren't willing to do the same thing isn't wrong, it's just what it is. People should do what al…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 05:27 PM
3

Gotcha. Something about reddit makes me always initially assume everyone is American unless they say otherwise. Every culture is completely different, and treats relationships differently. I wouldn't know the first thing about how these things work in Italy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 05:13 PM
1

Anecdotes are completely acceptable when someone says something doesn't ever happen, but to even suggest that accomplished guys don't ever drop their wives and marry their secretaries is just a stupid notion. The owner that I referred to is my friend's father. His step mom is a year younger than he is and he has a step brother that is 30 years younger. His dad is 'owns his own plane' rich. She was working at a normal hair cut joint when they got together.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 05:08 PM
1

Depends on what she looks/acts like. Personality and looks are what accomplished guys are looking for, not accomplished women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 05:00 PM
1

I never said hair stylists were garbage. You shouldn't ever judge someone like that because of the job they do. Many lawyers don't make shit, but I absolutely don't believe you if you're trying to tell me your hair stylist is loaded. The top pay in the country at a really nice salon in Washington DC is just south of $60k. The vast majority make less than $30k. If she owns the place, then she's a business owner who does hair, not a hair stylist. As for hair stylist equaling garbage man, see my ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:57 PM
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Youre right, hairstylists arent the equivilent of a garbage man. Hairstylists have an average income of $28000 and garbage men earn and average of $35000 per year. I'd love to meet a hairstylist that can afford a $400k house by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:44 AM
7

If you've never met a male doctor who has a trophy wife then you must not know many doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:23 AM
25

Seriously? Half the male doctors that work at my hospital have trophy wives who's overriding contribution is they're hot. The few women are either unmarried, or are married to Dr.s. One is married to a lawyer. The owner of the company our doctors work for divorced his wife and married a hair stylist who is 25 years younger than he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:12 AM
3

AWALT is about recognizing the capability, not treating them like they've done everything. Just because women cheat on guys doesn't mean.you should treat your gf like she's already cheated on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:06 AM
4

EQ/EI is what it's called I was talking more about him asking about Asperger's and her being logical and not spending time on frivolous things. That's rare for most women now days. Either way, we can't do anything but guess when you're trying to sum up a human person by a 200 word synopsis written by someone who barely knows her anyway.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 12:22 AM
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EQ, not IQ. Emotional intelligence. People with low EQ's tend to be less touchy feely, more logical, and overall just less emotional. There are many different types of intelligence, and we all have different strengths and weaknesses.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 12:11 AM
1

This is the correct response. She may just not have a high EQ, and not empathize well. It's up to you to determine if she's someone you want to spend time with and get to know.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 12:05 AM
2

White people are more likely to shoot police officers because there's like 6 times more white people in the US than there are blacks. This is the main point of people saying the criminal justice system is racist against blacks. There are still thousands more white people in prison than blacks, but the percentage compared to the US population is staggering. Also, I know what a self fulfilling prophecy is, but this is just a post hoc ergo propter hoc fallacy that you're making. The chick covering …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 11:44 AM
3

I am white and from the States. Great video about not talking to the cops from a law professor and a detective. Skip to 27:30 to see the detective's side. Protecting yourself is not a self-fulfilling prophecy. It's not any different than a girl asking her friend to watch her drink before she goes to the bathroom. Sure, 99.9% of the time she realistically has nothing to worry about, but it's that .1% that'll get you. Women cheat. Women get turned off when they get bored and marriages wind up with…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 06:43 AM
3

Every woman likes different things, and there's someone out there who would be attracted to you exactly the way you are right this very moment. The problem is, how many women would be attracted to you at this very moment, and what are your odds of meeting one? The number and odds go up exponentially if you're in good shape, dress well, and are smooth with the ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 04:52 AM
2

Nope, it's a classification, not an object. Instead of guns are always loaded, how about the old adage about never talk to a police officer. Sure they're people, and lots of them won't try to get you to say something they can use against you, but you should treat all of them that way to protect yourself from the ones who do that kind of stuff. Even though most officers are good, you should always be respectful, but you should also not talk to them without a lawyer. Or on the flip side of that, p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 04:44 AM
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The thing that a lot of BP folks don't understand is that a lot of the TRP sayings and lessons are what guys need to believe in their head to be true so that the approach is correct, regardless of whether they're actually true or not. She wouldn't have done that to Brad Pitt, so the problem must be you. This is the attitude that says you still need to work on yourself. Who knows if she would have done that to Brad Pitt or not. i'm sure he's been rejected tons of times in his life, but if you com…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 07:25 PM
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No. Once a cheater then there is the possibility that you made a mistake and it was such a bad one that you would never think of doing it again. Twice a cheater, always a cheater. That said, if she cheats on you, she shouldn't get a second chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 01:01 AM
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This is terrible advice. You're just being a dick to her. What if she just got a big promotion at work, but she's still in the meeting. What if she just found out she's pregnant and wanted to say something, but doesn't want to tell him over the phone. This just comes off as being an asshole. The correct response is, k.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 07:33 PM
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Don't pay attention to what women say, pay attention to what they do. It's not a red flag, it's just a word that they think looks good on their profile.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 07:28 PM
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Hot people are attractive to the opposite sex? As someone who gained a lot of weight in college and held on to it for a solid decade, I'll just tell you straight up that you're wrong. Men will fuck anything; Chad will fuck a fat girl if he's looking to get his dick wet. Some men will. The vast majority of men have standards. Women definitely pay more attention to guys who are in shape rather than the ones who aren't, but women are absolutely attracted to attitude, influence, and personality just…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 11:16 AM
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Past high school, most adults don't talk about other adults' sex lives. ? I'd love to meet your friends, co workers, and social acquaintances. Regardless of where I've lived or worked, everyone always seems to gossip about other peoples lives, especially their sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 11:56 PM
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N count isn't really what matters to me; for me it's more about attitude toward sex. Is sex something that they value and see as an emotional connection between two people who generally like each other, or is it something that she goes to a bar looking for because she's bored on a Friday night and wants to get laid? You may not be able to tell right away if she's lying, but it's not hard to find out. You're being naive if you think that reputations don't follow you. I'm in my 30's, but there are…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 11:34 PM
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"No worries" then go have fun. Sometimes people have to work, sometimes they flake. Typically if a girl breaks a date without trying to set up a different time it means they're having second thoughts or are not interested.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 07:03 PM
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I would go more along the lines of society is the problem, but the solution is for me to change, not for society to change. Taking responsibility to fix a problem that you didn't create.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 10:16 PM
1

I'm not a troll, you can check my post history here in TRP. I'm almost always upvoted. This is just an unpopular opinion in this sub regardless of whether I'm right or wrong. It's just a case of find the instance of the bad woman fucking over the guy because feminism.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 07:16 PM
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Sometimes guys actually do rape women. From all the information I've seen, this seems to be one of those times. You have a lot of anger.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 05:08 AM
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There isn't a good reason to punch a defenseless woman. There are reasons to punch a defenseless man. That's probably the biggest reason I wouldn't step in, other than just being raised that way. Obviously it would be different if it was an old man or something. It's the way I was brought up. I'm definitely redpill because there are absolutely big differences between the sexes and men and women both have strengths and weaknesses. I hate the family Court system, think that the law sides with wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 03:45 AM
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This wasn't a party with a 'rape room'. It was a party where two guys had sex with two chicks that were far past the ability to consent. There was enough evidence for the DA to prosecute probably the best player on the Vols. If there wasn't a great case, no way he would be going to trial. Shit that our players do that gets swept under the rug is astonishing. Not just sexual assault either, a few years ago a couple of players almost killed an off duty police officer. Edit:http://www.timesfreepres…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 11:49 PM
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Text for logistics only is really only applicable to the kind of guys who are going to word vomit and have long drawn out conversations via text. There's a large gulf between only logistics and not having conversations that are going to kill tingles
/r/askTRP16/02/16 10:24 PM
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Men are competition. If it were a friend I'd absolutely step in, but if you're a man and you've found yourself in the situation then you should have done things differently. When it comes to physicality I think of women like I think of children. I'd step in if I saw a man hitting a 10 year old too. The correctness in this situation about me doing what is right is based solely on my morals and opinion. The whole equality thing that you're talking about is feminism, and I'm not a feminist. In rega…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 09:45 PM
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Like I wasted my whole life. Chill. You've barely wasted a fifth of your life, and that's if we don't have any medical breakthroughs. You need discipline son. Google that shit, fit it into your head, and work at it. You're a much younger man than most of the people on the self help subs. You need to sit down and make a list of one week goals, one month goals, six month goals and an overall 1 year goal right now. Who do you want to be a year from now? Make it realistic, and make your whole life d…
/r/askTRP16/02/16 09:16 AM
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Lmao
/r/askTRP16/02/16 01:40 AM
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Best way to get over a girl is to get under a different one.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 10:55 PM
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Devils advocate, I have stepped in in situations where a male was becoming violent towards a female, but I doubt I'd step in to save a guy from a female. I do it because it's right, not because I want to get laid. I've been called white Knight for explaining that before. Personally, I would think of it the same as seeing a man hit a child. There isn't hardly anything a child or woman can do where I think it is ok for a man to hit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/16 10:51 PM
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Tell your friends to have fun. She's nothing more than a plate.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 02:48 AM
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Well I just think it's an interesting fact about me because you actually have to kill 3 separate people at different times in order to technically be a serial killer. Then I probably would talk to her anymore because a bitch that responds to a joke that way isn't someone I'm going to enjoy being around anyway. She failed my sense of humor test, I didn't fail shit.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 02:45 AM
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There is nothing wrong with a person having sex or one night stands just because they're horny if that's what they want to do. However, if you choose to do that then you are showing me that you don't respect the act of having sex enough to place any importance on it other than physical gratification. The difference between making love and having sex is just what you call it and who you do it with. You can tell someone that you're making love to them, but then a year later tell someone else that …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 11:50 PM
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Promiscuity (at least to me) is way more about attitude and situations than it is about the actual number. Can you explain to me how a woman that values herself winds up sleeping with 20 different guys in 3 years but still having high standards? That's the thing about almost everyone who has really high partner counts; they have low standards (this goes for girls and guys). I want a LTR that respects themselves enough not to drop their standards just because they're horny. Once or twice isn't a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 07:05 PM
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You value doesn't decrease if you get laid a lot because "it's easier for you to get laid". The buyer determines the value, not the seller. If a woman wants a LTR with me, but I know she's been with lots of other guys, then by definition getting laid a lot has decreased her value. Sorry, but if a woman values herself so little that she'll let a random stranger fuck her in a bathroom in a bar, that's not someone who I'm looking to spend the rest of my life with. To me, it's a deal breaker. To a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 06:16 PM
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Jesus that one again. You can argue the analogy all you want, but you can't argue the reasoning behind it. There is absolutely zero chance of you making an argument that it's easier or just as easy for a guy to get laid as it is for a woman. Nearly every single woman can go out tonight and get laid if that's what they want. Granted, it may very well be with someone they don't want to, but they can get laid. Even dropping all standards there are tons of guys out there that aren't getting laid unl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 06:03 PM
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Drink lots of water
/r/askTRP10/02/16 04:26 AM
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I think texting for logistics only is only if you can't control your frame and word vomit all over her. I've never had a problem texting a chick too much. Kiss method. Don't try to have meaningful conversations, but your damn right I'm going to text her when I saw that Asian lady run over the cheese display with her shopping cart.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 03:02 AM
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Get yourself tested bud.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 12:30 AM
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There are definitely times when something is big enough where it's just human, and it'd actually be weird if you didn't cry. Seriously injured, someone close dies, a loved pet dies etc. I'm more talking about crying after an argument with your SO, or crying because something doesn't go right at work, or crying because your friends didn't invite you on their trip. A guy wouldn't be turned off by this, and he would probably try to fix what was wrong. A girl would think its cringe worthy and would …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 11:55 PM
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It's not really unconditional love, it's just the conditions themselves. It's not low standards to still love a guy because he cried when he got laid off, but lots of women will get VERY turned off if they saw a guy cry when shit got hard. The fact that never being weak is a condition for women's love is what we don't understand. The same as we don't understand a super hot chick staying with, and loving, a guy who goes from high school athlete to a 325 lb office worker just because he's a good h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 03:21 AM
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TRP doesn't concern themselves with what other people do. They only concern themselves with what they themselves do. TRP looks down on you failing on your goal, but doesn't waste time worrying about if other random people failed at their goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 02:54 AM
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I did address your comment. TRP isn't bashing single women to bash single women, the audience in all three of those links you posted is men who read TRP. The point of all three is that single guys shouldn't date single women. Those weren't written because TRP hates single women, they're written because it's a bad idea to date single women. The amount of baggage that comes along with a child is enormous, and if she's a good mother at all then the relationship will be focused around the child. As …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/16 02:12 AM
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Men and women are different. That's one of the fundamental principles of TRP. Single dads aren't viewed as going out dating so they can find a woman so she'll cook and clean for him. Single moms settle a lot of times for guys that they wouldn't look twice at if they didn't have kids. They do this because (a) most high SMV guys won't settle with a single mom, (b) they want the intimacy that comes with having a partner, and (c) they want the security/money/protection that comes with a husband. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 11:06 PM
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I'm pretty sure TRP is pretty hard on nice guys too. I very rarely see anything bad about single dads. Also, what does TRP "blame" them for?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 10:35 PM
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Some parts of America are 'third world country'. But isn't India an industrialized nation?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 08:50 AM
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There's a vast gulf between what feminist in America call being oppressed and the actual oppression that happens in places all over the world. Not even third world countries necessarily, look at Saudi Arabia. Also, is India a third world country?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 06:34 PM
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TRP is a buffet. You can use or disregard anything you want if you find it doesn't work for you in your situation. The reason for the different subs is so people in those specific situations (being a woman, being married, or parenting) can discuss things that a lot of people in the main sub don't have the experience to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 06:29 PM
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I knew 2 guys in high school that got cheerleader scholarships. One was totally gay, and the other needed a snorkel he got so much pussy.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 04:32 AM
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I was more thinking of College competition squads. You know, the teams where huge muscled guys throw petite chicks through the air and hold them above their heads.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 06:36 PM
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Actual cheer competitions is just as much of a sport as any kind of gymnastics. Cheering on the sideline at a football game is not a sport.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 06:11 PM
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You should never ever make a multi-thousand dollar purchase and even consider the opinions of women who are imaginary in your head. Get the kind of car you want, and do it because it's what you want. Be pragmatic, do your research, be thorough, and but the one you want. Buddy of mine traded his shitty truck that he was happy with for a $30k tundra because his wife liked it. They're divorced and he has the payments. Another friend wanted a benz, but got a truck instead because it was cheaper, mor…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 02:21 AM
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Does driving a very (obviously) expensive car and making good money at a boring job automatically make girls classify you as BB? The fact that you care enough to ask this is what being beta is about. Why should you care what some chick thinks about your car. Buy/Drive the care that you want to drive, and drive it for yourself, not to impress someone. The reality is that people are going to have different opinions about all of the stuff like this. Being alpha means making your own decisions, and …
/r/askTRP31/01/16 08:42 PM
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Or you're telling the world that while you weren't romantically compatible for whatever reason that you still see enough value in them to keep them as a friend. Why cast someone aside if them being around benefits you?
/r/askTRP27/01/16 04:32 AM
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I've never heard of ASBOs before, but for the most part they seem pretty reasonable. I only read what was in the article which basically says that the guy got arrested for rape, had this sexual stipulation placed on him while he was being tried, was found not-guilty, but they refused to lift the restriction after the trial. This still baffles me. I read about ASBOs on wiki, and what really gets me is that basically if the police don't like what you're doing then they have a means to get a court …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 07:55 PM
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They'd have to do check ins, or it would put the police at risk. Could you imagine if he raped a chick, but told police that he was going to do it 24 hours in advance and they didn't stop him?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 07:44 PM
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How in the world does the government requiring a 24 hour notice prior to you being intimate with someone else not equate to a punishment? This is the first time I've ever heard of this. As an American, this blows my mind that someone that's never been convicted of a crime is basically on parole. What if this guy gets into a relationship with a woman. Does he have to send them a notice before every time they have sex? It's not about this guy. I'm sure this guy is a creeper, and maybe he just got …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 07:25 PM
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Who gets to decide if someone may commit a serious crime? This guy was found not-guilty. He has never been convicted of a crime. If you get arrested for a DUI, but are found not guilty in a court of law, there is no way in hell the court should be allowed to install a breathalyzer in your car. This guy has not been found guilty of a crime, he should not be under punishment of the court. That is also against the Universal Declaration of Human Rights. It doesn't matter who the person is, you canno…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 07:04 PM
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Freedom of expression is a basic human right as defined by the UN in the Universal Declaration of Human Rights. If freedom to have sex with someone without giving a 24 hour notice to the government isn't infringing on your freedom of expression, I don't know what is. Would you be ok if they just applied this rule to everyone? That should be fine if it's not violating anyone's rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 06:48 PM
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If he informs the police that he's going to have sex, doesn't this give him more credibility if he does rape someone? I'm having sex with this chick tomorrow, she's cool with it, then the next day she changes her mind so he rapes her. When she tells the police, they're like, well you signed off on it yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/16 06:41 PM
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Good. Write out some short, medium, and long term goals. Actually write them down. Also, write down why you want to achieve these goals, not just where they are. Read and update it often. Reinforce your 'why' consistently. Work on discipline. Motivation is fleeting.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 08:47 AM
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That's why men are disposable. Men who are worth something are rarely disposed of, men who aren't successful are disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/16 04:28 AM
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It's because the perceived default is for men to have power. Some women have power too, but it's not the default. Men without power are failures, women with power have succeeded against all odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/16 04:59 PM
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Why are you even considering getting involved in your friends relationship? If it falls apart, be there to help him pick up the pieces. Other than that, let things be unless he specifically asks for advice. Act redpill, but speak bluepill. Also, if she really did branch swing on dude because he wasn't giving her any, you can't really blame her. Sure, she should have broken up with him first, but they tend to not let go of one branch without having another. It's not necessarily indicative of her …
/r/askTRP19/01/16 03:00 AM
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I definitely know quite a few 'liberated feminist' women who definitely aren't marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 04:25 PM
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When the outside affects what is going on inside you, respond with logic rather than emotions.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 08:25 PM
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If you get hit by a bus or when Lil Sebastian died are the other two.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 12:49 AM
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Just saying that it's unlikely the sister is going to hit on him. Women don't tend to be forward with guys who've shown no interest, whereas guys are. Obviously it depends on the person though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 10:34 PM
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Completely agree, but who wants to be OK with a situation where someone is hitting on your so, even if you trust them to say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 10:30 PM
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The point is that no one wants to see their SO in the situation where they're alone with someone who is pursuing them sexually. Since typically it is the male who is the instigator in the situation, the default is to assume that the guy is going to hit on her. The default is to assume that the sister isn't going to be sexually pursuing him, if you trust him not to pursue her then you could be OK with it. Double standard and all, but guys tend to be less picky about who they hit on than chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 08:35 PM
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If a person is found to be doing this, they will be sentenced to 15 years in a maximum security prison. This is idiotic. Maximum security is there for the most violent offenders, not the most punishment. Also, suggesting a mandatory minimum for free speech? And 15 years? That would cost the tax payers ~$1 million with the current price a little over $62k per year per inmate. How about we just let the actual police do the policing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 07:00 PM
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I think there are two possible outcomes for a woman running dread game on a guy. One: the guy is confident, sees that you're turning your attention elsewhere, so he does the same. He starts hitting on other women. Two: the guy has his confidence killed because he thinks she's going to leave him. He starts falling all over himself so he doesn't lose her, which drives her away. As for the older brother/sister situation, I think what he's saying is that there is a good chance the brother sees you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 06:35 PM
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I'm going to completely agree with /r/everydayimrustlin here. I wouldn't, haven't asked a girl her N. When I've been asked I typically say that it's not none, and it's not outrageous, but the past is the past and the future is now. I've gotten some blow back, but they usually let it be. I don't care what a girl's n count is because n count is not indicative of someone who is promiscuous. I care more about how she selects her partners and how selective she is about who gets to go down that road. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/16 05:48 PM
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This could be a case of her changing it from a date to coffee to see if this may be a branch she wants to swing to without putting her in a position where someone could say she went on a date while she was still with her bf.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 11:29 AM
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minor league/amateur sporting events. It's cheap, it's entertaining, you can people watch, and you can talk to each other without having to scream. $5 berm tickets to see the smokies play is one of my favorite dates.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 06:15 AM
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lack of self confidence about her personality? Sounds like the whole, "do you think I'm fat" thing that women do. I'd probably just ignore it. Obviously you're going to have a bad time if you respond negatively or get mad. However, if you try to validate then she will just keep coming back for more in the future. Amplification may work well here. "Billy asked me to come over to his place because they are sacrificing orphans to the Aztec God Mictlantecuhtli, but I chose to hang out with you inste…
/r/askTRP09/01/16 10:20 PM
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They call em plates because they eventually fall and break.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 09:47 AM
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Serious question, do you think that spousal abuse by women against men isn't glossed over today?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 06:42 PM
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That's bullshit logic. We don't live in a black and white society. Plenty of women are amazing people regardless of whether or not they choose or can have children. Personally, I'm a man that doesn't want to have children. I still attribute more to society than a lot of men that have kids. A woman has the same ability. Sure we are valued differently in society, and it sucks, but it is what it is. I don't get the pressure and questions that a 32 year old single woman gets, but when you put us in …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 08:37 AM
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Sperm is cheap and eggs are valuable. I'd agree with everything except this point. I'd say that eggs are important and valuable in their own right, but society values the high value sperm much more than the eggs which are more valuable than the low value sperm. I'd say that all women have value for their baby making ability, but who the father is and what the father does is the decider of the future of the child. If Bill Gates marries some nameless whore and has a kid, the kid is going to be vie…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/16 08:32 AM
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I think the most important thing about TRP is that it tries to get men to reframe their thinking to where they see themselves as the prize, and not the woman. Too many guys grow up today thinking that they're lucky because they got a girl to go out with them instead of thinking that the girl is lucky that he chose to go out with her. Lifting, dressing, and being confident are the means to achieve this goal. In the end, if you know that you are the prize then you will be happier in your life. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/16 10:34 PM
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If I snapchat a girl, my ex would of threaten to leave me but in her mind it's okay for her to snapchat guys. The ability to walk away without regret gives power. The principle of least interest means that the person who is the least dependent on the relationship has the ability to define the relationship. In this case, you're afraid of what would happen to you if you left her. Would you regret it? Would you ever find anyone like her? What if you're making a mistake? In your mind, she'd think, "…
/r/askTRP01/01/16 11:13 AM
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Because girls do live with a different set of rules. The sooner you accept that and learn to use it to your benefit the better you'll be. Accept that it is the way it is. Don't get angry or bent out of shape about it, that's worthless. Use the knowledge to channel yourself, and someday you could be the person who gets to dictate the rules. That's the endgame. The sooner your realize the way the world actually works, the sooner you can win.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 09:43 AM
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If you don't think that the richest families in the US run this country, then you're just being obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 07:00 PM
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Of course there is
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 06:32 PM
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I would say a ruling class white male has it better. A white male who was born into a ruling class family in a western civilization is going to have way more opportunities than some white chick from the burbs. The vast majority of middle class white women still have to work and wind up with some beta bucks guy that they don't respect. An affluent white male is going to have every single advantage you could think of, all while having inherited a higher SMV than most men could ever hope to attain …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 06:10 PM
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Best friend makes $45k. Wife makes $80k. She has over double in retirement. She cheated on him, he filed, judge didn't give him any retirement or alimony, just let him keep the house and equity. He got maybe $5k in equity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/15 09:33 PM
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Absolutely. My grandmother rules the household with my grandfather and it works for them. My father rules the household with my mother and it works for them. As long as there is mutual love, respect, and a genuine desire to see the best for the relationship, I truly believe that president/vice-president is the best way to work a relationship. You can't run a company with two CEO's having equal power regardless of how much they liked each other. Personally, I know my type, and I couldn't have a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 06:15 PM
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Completely agree. However, if you're in a position to tell someone what to wear, you're probably doing it from the position of relationship rather than sex. If a father tells his daughter she can't wear a skirt, even though he's only saying it because she's a woman, he's really only saying it because he's her father. If he says that to some random woman on the street the I'd agree it's misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 06:59 AM
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There shouldn't be a ruling gender, but relationships are typically better when there is a leader and a follower regardless of which gender is which.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/15 06:55 AM
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Being an asshole to a woman isn't misogynistic anymore than being an asshole to a black person is racist. It's just being an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/15 10:57 PM
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It's not a strawman argument, it's a relevant point. I also agree that both are ok. Why would it be wrong to tell someone what you want to see them wear as long as you don't take away their ability to say no. Telling a woman what to do isn't automatically misogynistic any more than a white person telling a black guy what to do is racist. In order for something to be misogynistic there has to be some forms of contempt or prejudice to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/15 10:15 PM
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Not all guys on trp want to sleep around either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/15 10:09 PM
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In your bio put, "Finishing up my residency." And swipe 100 chicks and see how many matches you get.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 10:08 PM
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Person one says it's misogynistic for a man to tell a woman what to wear. Person two says it's taken for granted that it's OK for a woman to tell a man what to wear. You said a man is an adult and can say no. (Thus implying that because of this, that's it's ok) I said women can say no too. Either it's both misogyny and misandry, or both are ok because the other person is an adult and can say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/15 08:44 PM
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Women aren't adults free to say no too?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/15 08:31 PM
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Marriage isn't worth it for men. The risks don't outweigh the benefits. TRP is different stuff to different people. Some people want to get married. I don't, but I also don't "spin plates" and wouldn't have any issue with having a serious LTR or live with the right woman. I just have no desire to make it a legally binding relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 05:37 PM
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We don't live on an island like that. It's not a double standard between men and women . I have a set of standard between men and women, it's a standard between people I'd be interested in a relationship with, and people I wouldn't. I don't care about n count of a 50 year old lady, an 18 year old girl, or a lesbian either. If I'm not sleeping with you, or at least a possibility that some day we might, I really don't give 2 shits who/what you sleep with. It's none of my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 05:14 PM
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4 partners by a 20 year old would be considered high 60 years ago. Now that's nothing. Relativity hasn't changed much in the age of the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 05:04 PM
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A high number is only high when compared to others. Do all 20 year olds have a number like 36? What about the one who has had 3 partners and has been in a committed relationship for the past 2 years? Because these people still exist, and because not every girl is on tinder looking for a hook-up, yes it's a high number. I couldn't care less about a number count for a chick I am just sleeping with. Use protection and try to stay away from the crazy. If I'm considering a LTR with this girl, her sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 10:17 AM
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There are discussion subs and debate subs. Come here for debate and for to asktrp for discussion. TRP is for canon and such. Dissent would only muddle the message.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 11:00 PM
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Same reason feminist subs ban trp folks and make/publish lists of all the usernames of subscribers. Also, it's not a discussion sub, it's not a debate sub, it's a teaching sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 09:18 PM
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You're correct. It just seems like 90% of the people who post are stuck in the anger phase and it turns into a women suck circle jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 07:45 PM
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This is what TRP is supposed to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 07:38 AM
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Then why the fuck do you consider yourself redpill? Why don't you just hire a surrogate and have your own kid, then go incel. Women are fucking awesome. They can be kind, funny, warm, loving, respectful, and loyal. RP teaches you how to make them attracted to you, and then how to be the type of man that will bring those qualities out in a women. You're still firmly in the anger phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 07:35 AM
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Then she asked where I am going tonight. I told her where I was gonna go and that was it. Ball's in her court. Go out and have fun just like you would if this chick never existed. It's kind of like Swingers; there's nothing you can do to make her want to go, only things you can do to make her not want to go.
/r/askTRP20/12/15 03:01 AM
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I was wondering though is it blue pill to have special feelings for someone? Regardless of what others around here may say, you're a human and have feelings. There is nothing wrong with having a crush, and there is nothing wrong with having feelings for a chick. The bad part is when/if you let those feelings control your actions. Why the fuck would someone want to limit or be embarrassed because they have those feels for someone special. It's a great feeling, especially when it's reciprocated. J…
/r/askTRP20/12/15 02:50 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S9RVS8cjNN0
/r/askTRP19/12/15 11:14 PM
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Alpha is doing what you want to do and taking care of your personal responsibilities. Beta is letting other people use you. Have a wife and a kid? A real man provides for them. Meet a nice chick and then find out she has a kid. You have no responsibility to help them , and you shouldn't feel bad for telling her to hit the bricks.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 11:06 PM
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Sucks you're in this situation, but learn from your mistake. Don't stick your pen in the company ink. I'd honestly keep plugging along, but keep your resume updated.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 10:48 PM
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"Nothing want to go see star wars?" She says she cant she has to "see what her sister is doing" "Sounds good. Let me know if you change your mind." Then go see star wars by yourself. You should never derive your happiness from other people. Who the fuck cares if she isn't with you on your birthday. Now you're trying to punish her even though she is asking you to do the exact thing that you were mad about her not wanting to do in the first place.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 10:42 PM
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Honestly the hottest thing I did with her was put a plug in one hole and fuck the other. Highly recommend that. I as well. Dildo assisted DP.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 09:53 PM
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I work with thousands of women, and there are definitely some fugly trolls in there. The thing is, even the trolls get matches on tinder and messages on POF. One in particular, very large, hideous land beast is currently juggling 3 guys. Granted, all of the guys are very overweight, older, and all but one have no career going for them. The stories she tells are cringworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 06:44 PM
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Nope, just a pragmatic guy. If it's your thing, go for it. If it's not your thing, it just makes a mess. If you're like me, not all of it's going to land on her face anyway, so easier cleanup just to nut in a condom, in a sock, or in her mouth.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 06:28 PM
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Tell her you're going to do it while you're fucking her hard. Honestly, it's not worth the cleanup. I once had a chick scream and cry because I got some in her eye. It's one of those things that looks great on porn, but unless you get off on humiliating a chick (which is cool if that's your thing) then there really isn't an upside.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 04:46 PM
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This is one of the rules that I've never followed. Texting is easy, can easily be ignored when you want, and can be used to help re-frame. It's a much bigger deal for her not to get a response for 8 hours to a text if you typically talk through that medium than if you never text. Easy way to keep the old hamster wheel turning.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 09:54 PM
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TRP is amoral because it allows each man to use his own morality to determine what is right and what is wrong in regards to sexual strategy. This guy is asking for opinions on what he should do. There is nothing wrong with saying what you would personally do in this situation.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 06:02 AM
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This guy's definition of a crush is someone that his wife cheats on him with, but he never attained 100% proof. It was just a crush because she didn't actually leave him.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 05:40 AM
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Meditation will help you keep frame. Make your mind your allstar, and focus on things that you know you'll be able to maintain even during later stages. As far as relationships go, this may be one instance where I would advocate marriage. Despite the AWALT frame of reference, there are lots of women out there who desperately want to feel needed and like being in charge of situations. Many disabled guys find that they are able to secure a loving wife despite their handicaps. It would probably be …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 08:46 AM
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Yeah, just spit balling at what OP was talking about. I'd guess that the count for lesbians would be higher than gays though, because I know a lot more chicks that tried it one time than guys that did. Maybe they just don't talk about it, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 11:30 AM
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Lesbians?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 11:13 AM
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Yep, that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 02:35 AM
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There is too much anger and not enough stoicism in TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 02:02 AM
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Why would anyone limit themselves? You only get one go round on this space rock, you should be the best person you can be. RP is about understanding the differences between men and women and using that knowledge to be more attractive to the opposite sex, not about pining for the past. Women have every right to do everything in their power to self-actualize.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 04:32 PM
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Yes, I know
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 09:02 AM
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I would guess that you'd get more than 1-300. Anecdotal, but of the women that I'm good friends with I know 2 that were raped, and one that could be considered sexual assault. The 2 that were raped were both molested as children by friends of the family. Both of them are good people, but have severe issues with intimacy. The one that was assaulted was on vacation with her husband's family and her father-in-law got into bed with her naked and tried to kiss her. She kicked him out, and I honestly …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/15 10:40 PM
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While I agree with you, it's interesting to think of how many people I knew growing up as a kid that had really awesome stepdads who really did a good job raising 'their kids'. One of the best men I know is my buddy's stepdad.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 07:32 PM
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I definitely wouldn't go monk mode. That is for people who've been on the wrong path for a long time and need to seriously reflect and fix their life. You're a kid. You have tons of time, and no one expects you to have 'figured it out' by now. Make the changes gradual. Make a list of things you want to change and pick one thing every couple of months and give it an honest effort for 60 days. Where you are in your life you definitely want to stay social. If I could pound one thing into your head …
/r/askTRP08/12/15 07:23 PM
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Her: I already have a great pair of black pumps, and I 110% don't want to spend any money on new shoes. I'm just browsing the black pumps on Amazon because I'm bored and sometimes I like to look at the new styles. I'm totally not going to buy another pair though. You: Let me show you these new black pumps we just got in stock.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 07:09 PM
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vast majority of women I speak to in real life don't have a qualm with being approached and would prefer it if more men did so. This is only accurate if it's the right type of man approaching. If an attractive, well dressed, well spoken guy goes up and talks to a chick at the grocery store then they aren't going to have a problem with it. If a neckbeard troll did, they'd be annoyed at the pestering.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 03:40 AM
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If you're a tall man you can use that as confidence when you approach, and if you aren't a tall man then you know you need to compensate in other areas that women find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 04:35 AM
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Just because you don't see how something is relevant doesn't mean it's useless. If you can't make any generalization then you can't use any data unless you have literally gone through every specific data point. Even then, you could never be certain because of the black Swan effect. The fact that men are taller than women can show us that historically women have chosen taller men as mates because it is an attractive asset. This is also seen by the rising average hight of men over time. This data …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 01:39 AM
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Even if it's not useful, it's affective. Women prefer men who are taller than themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 12:46 AM
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Yea. She sounds like a winner.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 12:41 AM
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That's sort of like AWALT. It's a good mindset to have, but if you think it's literal then you're a moron.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 06:31 AM
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Jesus Christ on all these freaking responses. This is Woman class 101. She sprobably sensed that you had thought about making her a LTR, and she decided to force your hand. "Since you aren't taking this seriously, we should take a break." You handled it exactly how you should have by saying OK and walking. Her frame of mind went, "Oh Shit. I've fucked up, now I have to fix it." You now have all the power. You can do one of two things. Use her and abuse her like /u/trudatness has said. No one wou…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 11:09 AM
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And in this response I didn't make any reference to feminism either. I agree with your premise that those web sites exist and addressed why they may not be as hated or vilified as they deserve. I don't think it's deserved. It's entertainment for some, a different way 9f looking at things for others, and I largely ignored by everyone else. TRP teaches men that they should be manipulative the way women are to be successful in society, basically taking the same strategies that they hate when women …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 11:22 PM
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I never said they were feminists. I said there are websites that teach women to manipulate men, and they aren't hated or vilified. At worst, people make fun of them. Feminism doesn't teach women to manipulate men. It doesn't need to. Trp is about changing the person to be successful in the society we live in. Feminism is about changing the society we live in. Feminism is like MRA, not TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 10:15 PM
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I was responding to the person I responded to, not OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 09:53 PM
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MRAs and this thread aren't about people being upset about women manipulating men, it's about being ok with exploiting men. Saying things like if both partners are intoxicated, then the man raped the woman isn't about manipulation. Saying that the women are paid 70 cents on the dollar is about trying to exploit the situation for your own gains. When a man calls the police when he is being abused he is more likely to be arrested than the woman he called about. That is the kind of stuff people get…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 06:04 PM
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That can't be right. Sure they passed child labor laws, but women are adults. If a company wanted to hire an adult to work, why would the government stop them. holy shit, you're right Guess women are more valuable than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 05:25 PM
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No, that doesn't exist because nobody cares when women try to manipulate men. Honestly, even the men don't care. If I let a woman manipulate me into marrying her, then I suppose I deserved it. I'm responsible for the decisions I make in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 05:14 PM
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So TRP is ok, PUA is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 05:06 PM
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Do you ever go to the lovepanky debate subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 05:04 PM
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Be real, none of these websites exist to provide women with manipulation strategies. If there was a website designed for that purpose (which there probably is), it would be every bit as hated and controversial as TRP I was responding to this comment. You can buy a magazine at the checkout line in a grocery store that literally provides women self improvement tips and ways to manipulate men into doing what you want. They aren't hated or controversial, they are ignored by everyone except people wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 04:54 PM
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Why do you think I give a fuck? Where do I even remotely suggest that? You sure spend a lot of time in PPD for someone that doesn't care whether TRP exists or not. I don't get worked up. I'm a fairly unemotional person and it takes a lot to get me mad. This is just a conversation I'm wasting time with while I finished watching the football game.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 05:49 AM
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Out of the 3 million subscribers to cosmo, I guarantee that more people take it as life advice than are subscribers to TRP. You realize that all of those articles were found with less than a minute of googling? "How to get your man to commit" has 33million returns on google. "How to manipulate a man" has 36.8 million returns. "How to manipulate a woman" has 20 million returns, and 2 of the top 10 results are written to women about how men try to manipulate them. The reason that we joke abut Cosm…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 05:27 AM
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Using strategies to achieve success is manipulation. Working hard at your job and making good decisions is just a ploy to manipulate your boss into giving you a raise and a promotion. I stopped trying to argue that point long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 04:48 AM
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Every one of those links that I posted are sites that get millions of unique views every month. Show me the outrage. Show me ONE website that has advice for how women can manipulate men that have any outrage at all. Seriously, you're just refusing to accept the fact that your statement is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 04:45 AM
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Everything has it's haters, but most people that don't like cosmo aren't outraged by it. It's a joke. Manipulating men? Haha, can you believe this? Manipulating women? OMG, that sub is a cancer and should be shut down for hate speech. This is why guys hate cosmo. Watch while we get some comedians to talk about how funny it is to try to use these tips to manipulate guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 04:43 AM
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One of the ones I listed is Cosmo, and they have hundreds of articles like that. The magazine has been around as a women's guide to fashion, sex, and dating advice since 1965. It currently has a circulation of over 3 million (that wouldn't be including the website). Regardless: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/terri-trespicio/how-to-get-a-guy-to-commit-if-thats-what-you-want_b_7525378.html Huffington post http://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/advice/a8725/how-to-get-a-boyfriend-the-easy-way/ MarieCla…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 04:15 AM
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none of these websites exist to provide women with manipulation strategies and http://slism.com/girlstalk/how-to-get-him-to-commit.html This is a specific article written about how to get a man to commit. That is literally a how to manipulate a man into committing to a relationship. There is even one that literally is titled HOW TO MANIPULATE A MAN Was your brain in your bucket?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 03:55 AM
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LOL. That's some funny shit right there. http://slism.com/girlstalk/how-to-get-him-to-commit.html http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a1893/will-he-ever-marry/ http://www.secretsofdivorce.com/home/ http://www.yourtango.com/experts/dave-elliott/how-make-guy-fall-love-you http://www.wikihow.com/Manipulate-Men (from the wikihow) How to Manipulate Men Manipulating men doesn't mean you're a bad person. It's just a simple skill that women must learn in order to keep a man happy (without knowin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/15 03:43 AM
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Add in the fact that these chicks know on some level that it's the makeup, clothes, and whatever the hell else they do to add points to their smv on a daily basis that's truly selling the goods. Don't necessarily pass this stuff off. It definitely takes some dedication to make sure you wake up 2 hours before work every morning to do yoga or run, and then spend all that time doing makeup and hair to make sure you look good. I can role out of bed and be ready to go to work in 20 minutes looking sh…
/r/askTRP22/11/15 07:48 PM
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I never said or implied that it's more common than historically, just that there are more people associated with it. When we stopped tolerating slavery, it didn't go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 07:00 PM
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It's a fact, not a meme. I get what you're saying, but it isn't relevant in this case. We aren't talking scale or percentages here, just the fact that it still exists despite it not being tolerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 06:40 PM
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Oh, I gotcha. Sounds like you have fundamentally different goals in life. Those types of relationships typically aren't going to work out. Two of my best friends got married; He wanted kids and she didn't. They've been married for almost 10 years; He still wants kids and she doesn't. There isn't anything to do to change that, but he's decided that having her is more important to him than ever being a father. Sometimes you make huge concessions for the woman you love. Sometimes you don't.
/r/askTRP19/11/15 06:32 PM
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Precaution is always the best method for prevention, not trying to re-engineer society to make it completely "safe" for people who make foolish choices. It's called common sense. That is TRP in a nutshell. . No, re-engineering society is the answer. It's not about making it safe so much as making a stronger more cohesive society - for everyone. My point wasn't that there isn't a smaller percentage of people that are terrible, my point was there are still tons of terrible people out there. It doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 06:08 PM
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Really, you need to ask yourself what you really want. If you just want to get married because that's what you're supposed to do, you're probably going to have a bad time. If you really love this chick enough to want to start a family and get married to her, this probably shouldn't be a deal breaker. In the US, marriage is a business contract between two people and the state. She is saying that when you remove the ability for the other person to easily leave, then you've made it to where you don…
/r/askTRP19/11/15 11:19 AM
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Also, although it's certainly not tolerated, there are more people in slavery today than at any other time in history. According to Wikipedia, the slave trade makes an estimated 35 billion dollars a year. Maybe not all slave owners were bad people, but I would be willing to bet that the good ones didn't rape and beat their slaves. I would say yes, if you're willing to own another person so you can make money then that makes you a pretty shitty person. If they reinstated slavery today, how many g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 04:09 AM
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Do you really think there aren't slave traders anymore? https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/worldviews/wp/2013/10/17/this-map-shows-where-the-worlds-30-million-slaves-live-there-are-60000-in-the-u-s/ Even if you were to stop all slave trading, the people with a set of morals that would allow them to be slave trades are just going to find something else to do. They aren't going to magically become good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 02:42 AM
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Life isn't fair, and there are lots of bad people out there that will take advantage of you if they're given the opportunity. This is how it is in real life regardless of how much people wish it wasn't and want to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 12:31 AM
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Sluts are great, I'm just not going to marry one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 10:12 PM
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Fire your PT. Find someone on Craigslist or something to come to the gym and critique your form for a one time payment. Follow starting strength and continue to work on your form.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 10:06 PM
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If it's not lock down there isn't much they can do you stop you. The biggest concern wasn't getting to see the patient, it's being able to get information and having input when decisions are being made. It's extremely rare that we have someone who wants to visit a patient but we can't allow them to, and it's almost always an ex spouse who the kids won't let see their parent in the ccu.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/15 09:40 PM
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Too many people seem to just be comfortable living in the anger phase. I don't get mad at my dog for barking when the doorbell rings, why would I get mad at the idea that a woman would want commitment from the man she's been giving sex to for 4 years? If she can't get that commitment, why would she not want to use what little of her prime is left to secure someone else who will commit? It's a woman's natural tendency, and honestly what is best for her to do if she wants to protect herself for th…
/r/askTRP18/11/15 01:45 AM
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She is probably just trying to protect herself. She feels like she is getting close to the wall, has found a nice guy who she likes, and wants to make sure that he will commit to her before he drops her for someone better. There isn't anything wrong or surprising here. This comment sounds just like a woman telling her friend that if her boyfriend breaks up with her because she won't have sex with him that it's his fault.
/r/askTRP17/11/15 10:59 PM
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Someone explain to me what she learned about herself exactly? This was actually a well written and well thought out piece by her. I took that as that she realized that she would have done that anyway, but she would have done it because she was selfish, not because she is a bad person. This is literally what AWALT describes. Women doing things like this doesn't make them bad people any more than a guy doing things with the goal of getting laid makes him bad. It's just human nature.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 04:33 AM
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No, that's not a thing. Anyone can see someone in the hospital unless the patient/family members have specifically said that someone couldn't see them, or if they have a password and the person doesn't know it. The marriage thing is more for making decisions when the patient is unable to, and sometimes riding in the ambulance. However, if it's bad enough that they don't want you in the ambulance, then it's probably better for the patient that you don't ride in the ambulance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/15 10:14 PM
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I played darts in college (steel tip), and when I moved to my new city afterwards I started playing tourneys. After a couple years playing that I reached my peak potential. It got to the point to where I didn't have the talent to beat people that were better than me (though I was still in the top 100 in Knoxville). After having my darts stolen for a second time I bought a pool cue. I worked my way up to a 7 in TAP league (2-7 is the handicap). Life changes and whatnot; I don't get to play as muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/15 09:02 AM
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One of my favorite past times is billiards. I prefer 8 ball to 9 ball, but I'll play either plus a lot of other things. I enjoy it because it's mentally stimulating, difficult, and competitive. I love golf for the exact same reason. To me, these activities are MUCH more fun than laying around by the pool or going shopping. I enjoy the challenge aspect of it, and that's what I like to do for fun. If it's not mentally stimulating and easy to do I get bored very easily. How is being bored fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/15 09:17 PM
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I think this is a good question because a lot of the stuff that gets posted is by newer people. Gleen most of your knowledge from the sidebar, trp endorsed users, and never accept anything as absolute fact without scrutiny.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 10:23 AM
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Isn't roissy from there too?
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:18 AM
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Wouldn't national outcry be society saying it isn't boys will be boys. Did you see how it took national outcry for the Catholic Church to do something about the pedophilia?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 11:40 PM
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an incident where the two guys who did it were prosecuted and sentenced along with several adults who knew about it but didn't come forward? My issue was the fact that it doesn't support her case, not that it's anecdotal. This isn't a scientific study, I am just looking for something to back up the claim that: I am saying that bad behaviour in men (especially young men) is very frequently rationalised as high spirits. in the case that bad behavior = forcible gang rape. If I say drug dealers get …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 06:38 PM
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Yep, and there are a lot of people who make alter boy/priest jokes and don't really seem to care all that much about the child molestation that has happened in the Catholic church. The higher ups in the church also tried to cover it up. That in no way, shape, or form should be taken as the general society condoning pedophilia by members of the clergy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 06:27 PM
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So your one piece of anecdotal evidence that rape is passed off as boys will be boys is an incident where the two guys who did it were prosecuted and sentenced along with several adults who knew about it but didn't come forward?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 11:21 AM
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wombat
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 11:07 AM
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No, you are being disingenuous and saying that forcible gang rape is sometimes passed off as boys will be boys. That's just asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 09:46 AM
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The issue that you are having us that you are attempting to use logical thinking to determine what the message is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 07:09 AM
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This is your fault. Women don't act that way to me. In all seriousness, you need to do some self analyzing to see what it is about you that causes these reactions.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 07:06 AM
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Yep. Most single mom's I've run across know they're damaged goods and even though they do stupid/crazy stuff still have good intentions, and truly want to create a good home life for their kids. I always am up front about not making it anything serious, and If they're older than 5 or 6 avoid meeting the kids like the plague. If she get it into her mind that she can convince me to love her, usually they will go above and beyond until it inevitably end after a few months.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 06:10 AM
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I can't change your view because I think you're correct, but I believe the reason that people say that is because of the stigma that comes when women do have lots of casual sex. They are trying to say that just because a girl has had 20 partners in the past 3 years doesn't mean she's a slut, that she has low self-esteem, that she has daddy issues, or that she's crazy. They are trying to make it seem that it's just as normal as a guy who has 20 partners in 3 years. Keep in mind that I'm not sayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 04:10 PM
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There are lots of women who can have logical debates as long as emotions aren't involved. One of my best friends is a woman, and we love arguing about politics, religion, and sports. She is seriously one of the most fun people to debate because she is very intelligent, learned, and well spoken. HOWEVER, don't ever get into an argument if it's even remotely emotional. When the anger or tears come out, logic goes out the window.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 08:20 AM
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You must not have many female friends. Either that or the ones you have don't see you as a catch. Women LOVE to play match maker because 1) yay, a fun couple that me and my boyfriend can double date with, and 2) I set you up so I am part of your relationship so she will have to tell me EVERYTHING.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 11:32 PM
1

You'll get past it eventually. Don't buy into the dislike that people on this subject have for women. That's the worst part about this sub. Women are fantastic in a different way than guys are, but they are also just a varied. There are smart ones, dumb ones, ones that like to have adventures, ones that ride motorcycles, climb mountains, play video games, and everything in between. Use what you learn here in order to get closer to women and understand them better, not to make you bitter because …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 12:03 AM
3

The human condition is enough to interest me. Every single person that you meet has had a whole world in which they've grown, lived, thrived, struggled, and are trying to figure out. They all have different experiences, goals, fears, stories, jokes, and personalities that are at least subtly different than every other person you've ever met, and yes that goes for women too. I realize that you are probably going through the anger phase right now, and you are pissed because all of these "basic bit…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 03:32 PM
1

First off, AWALT is a warning to guys, not an indictment of women. It's like treating salespeople like they're trying to rip you off. Sure there are a lot of salespeople out there that are completely honest and trustworthy, but if you treat them all like that then eventually you're going to get screwed. That doesn't mean you treat them poorly, or don't do business with them, it just means to be careful and mindful of what's going on. Secondly, beta bux is the guys problem. Women don't want beta …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 08:06 PM
2

You never know what you'll feel like when you're older, and you never know who you'll meet. Guessing you're 20ish, I planned to be married with a family by now. I'm in my 30's, not married, no kids, and I wouldn't want it any other way. You will change so much over the next 10 years that you probably won't recognize yourself. Don't worry about if she was a slut or not, women can change too. Just make sure you don't get emotionally invested in the relationship, have fun, abundance mentality, and …
/r/askTRP26/10/15 05:10 PM
2

If you're dating a 19 year old then you are too young to have a serious LTR. Don't worry about it and don't get too emotionally invested in her. Have fun, but don't think about what kind of house you'll have after you get married.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 04:24 PM
2

It's my mom's birthday tomorrow. How does a RP man give his mom a present?
/r/askTRP25/10/15 07:03 PM
1

A woman who is looking for financial stability is definitely not being a gold digging cunt. As I've said in the past, a gold digging cunt is a woman who's ONLY qualification is wealth. She is the 25 year old that marries the 70 year old millionaire. A woman that wants a man who makes enough so that she won't have work (and no kids) would probably qualify, but there isn't anything wrong with a woman wanting a guy who has a good job and can make sure the bills get paid. It is always prudent to lim…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 06:05 PM
1

You can never do anything but sue a hospital that skirts the law, and your insurance situation is nothing but monetary. All inheritance is monetary. FMLA, and you are right about spousal confidentiality, but there isn't a whole lot more than that. Absolutely marriage makes everything easier, but each man has to decide if it's worth the risk. My best friend is about to go through a divorce right now. She cheated on him and he has proof. He is still going to have to give her half the equity in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/15 05:05 AM
1

I was more referring to benefits that are not strictly monetary. You could have had great insurance, you just would have had to pay more. There really aren't that many that you can't cover through and attorney even if it is a lot more expensive. The only big one that stands out to me is FMLA doesn't cover you if you have to take care of your girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/15 05:20 AM
1

I agree with everything except the marriage part. I think that marriage these days has been changed into something it wasn't supposed to be, and there aren't really any benefits that it gives a man that couldn't be had through other legal documents. You can book a chapel, have a wedding, have a party, cohabitate, have kids, and have a long and healthy life, all without signing any legal marriage documents. Maybe it's not normal, but people do that all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 11:48 PM
2

That short, bald guy with the ugly wife? beta bux to the maxxx. Alpha as Fuck Alpha is about attitude, not physical traits. Also, his line of thinking is what most RP thinkers believe. It isn't in our best interests to be misogynistic. Edit: should believe*
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 11:41 PM
2

Let the anger go man, it doesn't do anything good for you if you already have the motivation to improve. There is no reason to wish the past had been different, just work on yourself moving forward. The most important thing is to remember not to be angry at chicks for the way they act. They are only doing what comes naturally to them. Use what you learn here so that you can protect yourself from being manipulated, but always remember that chicks are pretty cool and you are only here because you …
/r/askTRP23/10/15 04:04 PM
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As much as some of the posters on here can't seem to understand, women are human too. Why the fuck do you want to punish her? Would you want to punish your best friend if he fell asleep while you were making plans? The best way to handle this is that it didn't bother you in the least. If she brings it up as an apology, tell her "no worries, I figured you needed some rest when you didn't respond so I went out and had a great night." If she doesn't bring it up, "hey babe, you missed some awesome t…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 08:39 AM
2

ample time to tell me unhappy and asks why can't we just hang out and must we always have sex Dude, she wants something more. She is looking for some kind of commitment from you and sees herself as more than just FWB material.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 08:24 AM
1

The big question here is has she ever truly liked giving you head? A lot of times when you first start out a relationship you will do things you don't enjoy to make the other person happy, and that makes you happy. If you wind up in a LTR, then to continually be expected to do those things even though you dislike them can absolutely become a chore. This part that you should be focused on is that she continues to give them to you even if she is unenthusiastic. I would be willing to bet that she d…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 12:22 AM
2

Interestingly enough, I'm redpill because I grew up in an emotionally healthy household. My father is a man's man, and my mother is a supporter and was proud to fill her role as a stay at home mom. My parents divide their relationship instead of having equality. My mom isn't allowed to mow the grass, take out the trash, or get the oil changed in the car. My father sees those as his responsibilities, and would feel like he was failing if she had to do those, or even if she asked him to do them (m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 05:00 PM
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I'd say that backfires because you are assuming they want to have sex with you, and you are saying it out loud. You are basically calling them a slut. The LMR is to let them save face, not to make it harder on you. If this works on a girl, you could have smashed her without using it anyway.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 05:06 AM
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"we don't always have to have sex". Sometimes she'll phrase it differently by telling me "That's not the only thing you care about is it?" If this is an LTR then you respond to the first one by light-hearted dread game like, "Then just let me know when those days are so I can call (insert name of her friend) and line something up" or I personally like to put on my best caveman voice and say something like, "Bungo need sex now!" and just kind of go after her playfully. As far as the second one, I…
/r/askTRP22/10/15 04:57 AM
2

listen to what she says. Lol, no. Never listen to what she says, watch what she does. Sometimes you don't have to have sex, but you can tell if the attraction is still there or not without having to ask her.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 04:52 AM
2

This is a good thing. You have a good 15 years left before you need to even start considering finding someone for the long haul.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 05:21 PM
0

I wish I had any musical talent, but I don't. I couldn't even play the recorder in third grade. I would have to put a ton of effort in just to be shitty, and it's not worth the time.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:30 AM
0

They absolutely do
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:07 AM
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Lucero is my favorite band and they're extremely BP. Who the fuck cares. I don't take life lessons from lyrics of songs I like anymore than I take direction from movies. The basis of red pill teachings is to have a backbone and confidence not to give a fuck what other people think. Good music is completely subjective. If you like Nickelback or Taylor Swift, own that shit.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 10:48 PM
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This exactly. There's going to be some drained dudes out there, and your average schmuck isn't going to have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 04:35 AM
1

/r/legaladvice Everybody pays the tax sometime. Just be glad she did this before you were married with 80k in debt with 2 kids.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 01:16 AM
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If this guy actually made his money himself then I would agree with you. A guy who inherited enough money that he can sit around doing nothing, making nothing, and contributing nothing to society is a loser. The only thing he did to earn his financial freedom was to be lucky enough to be born into a family that had money. That said, this is a very small snippet of his life being told by a woman who broke up with him. From the information we have about him, he sounds like a loser. He could be a m…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 11:07 PM
1

Anger: It's not just a phase anymore.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 10:20 PM
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I'm going to go against the grain here. This chick isn't a gold digger. Gold digger is a term that we should reserve for a particular type of women, not just use it for all women. A gold digger is someone that will only date someone with money, and the money is the only qualification that he needs to have. She is the 25 year old that marries a 70 year old billionaire. This chick just wants security like all other women. An analogy would be a guy who just dates for looks. There are plenty of guys…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 06:07 PM
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Don't get married. Ever. I don't want the government dealing in my personal life anymore than necessary. Why the hell would someone want to invite the government into their relationship. Almost every single benefit that you receive from getting married you can get with other legal documents. If you're already married, that's when TRP married advice comes into play.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 05:13 PM
1

A 25 year old virgin is going to be super religious, extremely sheltered, socially awkward, extremely ugly, or a combination of any of the above. She's not going to be someone that's in demand. Possibly you can get away with this if you're also extremely religious, but if your just a normal guy you won't be getting a quality woman. Being a 25 year old who's never had a sexual partner says something about you the same way that having a 50 count does.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 06:02 PM
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I understand, but that's not the world we live in today. If you find a 25 year old female that's a virgin then she is either religious, sheltered, completely unfit for a relationship, or a combo. I will admit that I'm looking at this from the eyes of a 34 year old man. Any high quality chick that is truly LTR material is going to be married by the time they're 25, or at least have some pretty serious relationship baggage. Since you aren't going to find that unicorn woman who is attractive, sweet…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 04:48 AM
2

Average relationship. I would expect a decent LTR candidate to withhold sex for 3 or 4 dates in order to establish a rapport and make me earn it without being a prude. So I would guess 2 to 3 weeks would probably be a good time frame. Maybe she goes out with two or three guys over the course of a 4 or 5 months before she finds a guy that she dates for 2 years. That could be 4 guys over the course of 2.5 years, and that adds up to 1 every 8 months or so. You can easily see how an in demand female…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/15 02:02 AM
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I think it's unreasonable to assign a number to it. If a woman has a 10 count at 25 years old, then that's an average of almost 10 months per partner if she became sexually active at 18 years old. Being a slut and having a high partner count don't always go hand in hand. An ugly fat chick could have a 3 partner count, but she's still a slut because she has fucked anyone who's asked without thinking twice. Most women would think highly of a man who had 15 partners by age 25. This guy probably has…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 06:48 PM
1

I think we agree. It's more of people that complain about shit hands that life dealt them instead of working hard to get their goals in spite of those shortcomings are pathetic. Sure there are people out there that won the lotto when it comes to life, but there are still billions of people out there who have it way worse. The most important thing to realize is that complaining only makes it worse. No one cares about your issues, they're too busy trying to fix their own. People like confidence, n…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 06:10 PM
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Short guys aren't pathetic, short guys who bitch that they can't get chicks because they're short are pathetic. Life's not fair, stop bitching about it, change yourself if you don't like it. Verne Troyer can get laid because he's successful and famous. Sure it may be harder for you, but it's possible and complaining about it won't make it any easier. Just makes you look pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/15 05:32 PM
2

I've never had a ONS. I've slept with people the first time we went out, but I've never not gone out with them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/15 06:17 PM
5

You can't trust what they say. Pay attention to what they do. If you have so much distrust for someone that you want to install a key logger, then the relationship is over anyway.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 12:43 AM
3

I pity beta guys who can't get any attention because they're just doing what they've been taught. For the women, there are plenty of guys out there, and they just need to lower their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 07:51 PM
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I guess it may depend on how you actually said it, but reading it just seems like you're being sarcastic and butt hurt. Apathy is the angle you need to come at this with. Nothing is worse to a woman than not caring. "You're right. I'm not the right partner for you. You need somebody you can trust. Be well." hampster hampster hamster: Wait a second. Do I have trust issues? Why is he willing to give me up like this? Is he better than me? Maybe I've underestimated him, maybe I can't do better. "You…
/r/askTRP02/10/15 05:32 AM
1

Better off Ted. I think it's on Netflix. One of the funniest shows ever and it died too soon. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LZcUukgkZZM
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 12:02 AM
1

there are scientists
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 11:49 PM
2

Then why the fuck do we want to encourage a behaviour that women do not like and which isn't even useful for males ? Guys who cat call are idiots. No one has ever gotten laid by saying, "damn dat ass" to a random woman. I don't agree that it's as big of a problem as it's made out to be by some, but people who are active proponents of it confuse the hell out of me. I don't think cat calling is one of the tools in the PUA book.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 03:51 PM
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He made the chick that gave him a blowjob famous
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 11:44 PM
5

I don't care if she was 32, if the potus wants to cum in your mouth, he gets to
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 11:41 PM
4

Nope. I'm me. I like me. If you like me too, then lets hang out. If you don't like me, good luck too ya. People have this view that redpill guys are swindlers and con artists who do everything in their power to steal pussy. IME, redpill guys are people who don't take shit from people, and aren't butt hurt if someone doesn't care for them. I've never been a dick to a girl just because she turned me down, because I know there will be another one right around the corner who may like me for who I am…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 06:39 PM
3

Like any true redpill man, I really don't give a fuck about what other people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 05:42 PM
1

Yep. Either way you go ahead and do it. A real man takes care of what is necessary and learns from his mistakes. It was necessary for you to take care of the salad and make sure your potluck was a success and that your guests had a good time. Learn from your mistakes and never invite her over again. Amused mastery, and I would have kept teasing her about the salad the entire rest of the night.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 05:28 PM
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Personally, I would never LTR a woman w/o a degree because I prefer my women to be intelligent and learned. I want her to be able to have a conversation and formulate her own opinions, and the women that I know that didn't go to college mostly work in bars, restaurants, and nail salons. They aren't the brightest of the bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 05:08 PM
3

Ephebophilia. Pedophilia is used for prepubescent generally 11 and under
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 05:00 PM
3

This is ephebophilia and is actually very natural and is only recently become taboo. Typically speaking, in the past a woman was considered a woman and ready for marriage after she got her period. This doesn't mean that it's good or even ok, it's just the way it was. Our culture today has said that this isn't ok (except in many countries where the legal age of consent is 14), and that's why it doesn't sound right. In my opinion, a 39 year old doesn't have any business being around a 15 year old,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/15 04:51 PM
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A guy who thinks that just being nice to everyone will get them what they want. Passive, doormat, when they are upset they are passive aggressive. They use covert contracts, then get upset when you don't hold up to what they think should be your end.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/15 03:26 AM
1

are you just constantly out there, talking to women, trying to fuck them, though? hundreds of women approached over how long of a time period? Yep. If I see a woman I find attractive I speak to her. I don't hit on her, but if the reaction is positive I'll definitely be a little flirty. I prefer "day game" where I talk to women at the grocery, gas station, gym etc. If I go out to a bar it's to have a drink with friends, not to pick up some skank. If that is honestly true, then I'm glad you realiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 08:56 PM
8

You're 18, college is right around the corner. Learn from this. If you're already in college, transfer.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 05:47 PM
2

IRL, I don't know anyone over 15 who actually believes you can ruin a vagina by having too much sex. You can stretch one out by having a kid though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 05:10 PM
1

Ten. After ten it wasn't about notches anymore, it was about enjoying the company of the woman. When I see a woman that I think is attractive I try to talk to her. Out of the hundreds I talk to, maybe I go out with a few. Of the ones I go out with, it goes one of three ways. She doesn't like me so we don't see each other anymore, I don't like her and we don't see each other anymore, or we both like each other and usually we end up putting our nasty bits together. Sometimes it's a one time thing,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 04:58 PM
1

I stopped counting when the number became unimportant to me. What about women who don't know their number? Do they hate men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 12:02 AM
1

Like throwing a hotdog down a hallway. It's just a way of saying it's seen extensive use. It's not literal, and if someone literally believes that then they're a moron
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 11:53 PM
2

Not a chick story, but my buddy and I went to a football game in Nashville a few years back, and we ran into some of his friends from high school. Well when he went to college he decided to start going by his middle name. They all knew him and called him by his first name, and we all knew and called him by his middle name. It was more of a mindfuck than you think it'd be.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 06:58 AM
4

OK, I'm going to have to disagree with you here. Playing with loaded guns can be freakin awesome.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 06:38 AM
10

There is nothing wrong with helping your neighbor. You have to ask yourself, if she was a guy who offered to buy you breakfast for a ride would you have given him a ride for free? If you would have, you could have gone ahead here. Then you don't come off as a creep and just maybe she comes to you when she decides she wants a Chad. The responsibility is on you to make sure that you don't do it with any expectations, and you don't do anything you don't want to do. A better thing to have done is to…
/r/askTRP23/09/15 08:08 PM
5

I can Uber for enough money
/r/askTRP23/09/15 08:02 PM
1

I'd like to say the same way it was handled in true detective. Beat the shit out of his dad and tell the kid it was his fault. But honestly, teach the kid how to protect himself.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 12:19 AM
4

My exposure in the hospital industry has afforded me the opportunity to have a pretty large sample size. I've worked in ~10 different hospitals with short stints in about twice that amount, and I've worked with thousands of nurses. I would say that the traits that you can saddle them with is emotionally unbalanced, substance abusers, jaded, and mean. You have to understand that nurses typically work 12 hour shifts along side between 10-30 other nurses who are equally overworked and tired. They c…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 05:53 PM
3

Jesus Christ that's right. I actually have responsibilities over the entire hospital, and part of my job is maintaining a working relationship with staff in other departments. After getting to know all of these nurses even just a little bit, the amount of lying, cheating, gossip, and back stabbing that goes on is absolutely insane. The guys are pretty cool even though most of them are gay.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 03:11 PM
1

http://48laws-of-power.blogspot.com/2011/05/law-5-so-much-depends-on-reputation.html This type of thing does matter, but /u/abdada is probably right in that they won't remember it for long. I'm going to assume that this was in high school or college and not a work party, so this isn't going to be something that affects you for an extended period of time. Use this as a learning experience for the future. In the adult world you don't want to be "that guy" at parties. If you're still in school, fuc…
/r/askTRP21/09/15 05:35 AM
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besides "nurse", it seems like most of the results on the female page are narcissism or basically the bad qualities and deal breakers of these "women" Actually, Nurse is just another word for Crazy. Source: I work in a hospital.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 05:25 AM
1

You can show emotion and empathy when dealing with your guy friends and women you have no interest in sleeping with
/r/askTRP19/09/15 08:30 PM
1

I'm a very unemotional person and that's the way I like it
/r/askTRP19/09/15 01:36 AM
2

Yep, and only animals that are kept captive by people and abused (not like pets and zoos and shit). Empathy is something you should simply learn to fake so you can use it as a tool.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 04:28 AM
1

Instead of directly asking him if he suspected I'm a thief or a criminal, I went "mmm" and walked away. Practice, but I'd say you handled this well. There is really no need to escalate. I would have probably just laughed, said ok, and walked out of the store.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 04:22 AM
2

What if it were VR where everything looked and felt real physically and emotionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/15 11:16 PM
1

RP is only a bible until you understand the whys of it. After you understand the rules and philosophies behind TRP then you can feel free to add and subtract those that do or do not personally work for you. Think of it more of literary rules. Everyone who can't write needs to learn the rules of writing, but once you know why the rules are in place and become a successful writer you can choose which ones to bend and break to suit your own style.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 04:26 PM
3

There are ~3.5 billion women in the world. If you met a new female every second of every day it would take 110 years to meet every one of them. Say the average person meets 100k people in their lifetime (which is probably way more than actual), and this guy strikes out 999 times out of 1k. One in 1000 women will sleep with him. Lets say he lives to be 100 just to make the math easy, so he meets 500 new women every year. This guy is meeting 1.3 new women every single day, but will only find 1 eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 05:37 PM
1

In actuality, there is still the scale that exists for men, and this scale would just be shifted. The bottom of that top 100 would no longer be in the top percentile. The guys at the top would still have all of the women fighting over them while the guys at the bottom would have to take the spillage. The ratio would probably wind up somewhere like it is now with the bottom barely getting laid and the top going through different women every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 05:21 PM
6

In all fairness, I've seen a lot of posts from women about Asian and Indian guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/15 05:02 PM
1

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/05/19/be-a-skittles-man/ Why should they know how much you make? Who cares if they make more, condoms are cheap.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 04:27 PM
2

The only way to get over a girl is to get under a different one.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 04:21 PM
1

Really depends on your career and where you live. The opportunities are less after college, sure, but they're still there. Also, don't better yourself so you get into the cool parties and everyone thinks you're cool, better yourself because you want to be the best you you can be. If you have that mindset, you will be more fulfilled because you're looking to yourself for happiness, and everything else will come naturally.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 09:22 PM
2

To each their own
/r/askTRP01/09/15 05:19 PM
3

I have no issues with day game. Like I said, the last girl I went out with I met on my lunch break at the grocery store. I didn't have 20 minutes. I had to get home, unload the groceries, grab a quick bite, and get back to work. I am far too busy to take my full hour most of the time, much less add an extra 20 minutes. I don't know what you do or where you live, but you must be a pretty awesome guy for women to regularly stop what they're doing or where they're going for 20 minutes to have coffe…
/r/askTRP01/09/15 04:54 PM
2

My last LTR of 4 years I met coming off a train at 7:45. Invited her for coffee and she said "oh I need to be at work at 8". So I said " I'm sure you're a responsible adult, walk in a few minutes late for once". I guess it's a good thing she didn't have a meeting at 8. That's just a really weird rule to have, and I don't believe you. Not that that matters on the internet.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 04:02 PM
2

delay her current plans for 20 minutes to have coffee with me. And how often does that work in the real world? Also, how busy are you if you always have an extra 20 minutes to randomly grab coffee with someone? That seems like a rule that sounds good on the internet, but would be impossible to follow in the real world if you ever wanted to go out with a chick.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 03:46 PM
3

First date, 20 minutes for coffee. Must happen within 2 hours of meeting her. Even if I met her online. How in the hell does this work? Are you always available? Last girl I went out with I met at the grocery store on my lunch break. It was damn near 2 weeks before we went out.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 03:29 PM
2

So she tells me she's having a hard time moving on from her last guy. She was in a relationship for 4 years and says she struggles with it on certain days and doesn't know if it's still too soon Let me know when you're over him. Stop giving her attention. Next.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 03:27 PM
1

People have shitty days regardless of if they're men or women. If she's sorry about it, then she's recognized that she did wrong. Nobody's perfect, and you shouldn't hold her to that standard. Let her apologize and carry on.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 03:24 PM
1

If you want to be friends with a girl, treat her like a friend. If you want to fuck a girl, treat her like you want to fuck her.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 02:33 PM
2

The difference is that I don't want to fuck the lady in accounting. If I want to fuck someone, I'm going to try to fuck them, and if given the opportunity I will. Why would you not strive to get what you want?
/r/askTRP31/08/15 08:07 PM
1

I'd like to think most, but it's more because I'm not adolescent who wants to stick my dick into anyone who'll let me.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 06:07 PM
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Depending on where you are in life, 22 is vastly different than 17 or 19. I can definitely remember when I would stick my dick into anyone that would let me (as long as they were even mildly attractive). I'm 33, and I have reached a point in my life where I have the ability to have more standards for who I share my life with.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 03:51 PM
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They're just kids, but at least they're kids on the right track.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 03:37 PM
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She doesn't do it for me. She's not ugly, but meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 02:36 PM
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I guess that's fucking semantics then. I don't want to fuck any of the women that I work with because I don't do that. I find many of them attractive, but I still don't want to fuck them. Personally, there are tons of people that I don't want to fuck that are still visually appealing to me. Maybe that's because I have higher standards (not talking about looks) for the women that I actually fuck.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 02:18 PM
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Insecurity is a huge turnoff for me. I want someone who earns my time through more than just looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/15 02:50 AM
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Lets put it this way. When I want to fuck someone, to me that means that if given the opportunity to fuck them I would take it. There are plenty of people where I find them physically attractive, but given the opportunity I wouldn't choose to fuck them. You could find your best friend's wife attractive, but that doesn't mean you want to fuck her.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 01:41 AM
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You can be attracted to a woman but not want to fuck them. I am very attracted to several women that I work with, but I don't want to fuck them because I don't put my pen in the company ink. If you have a great LTR, it's absolutely possible not to want to fuck other women.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 10:13 PM
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You get it. Women can be amazing, and I love them. Sure they aren't rational creatures, and society is tilted to benefit them, but the amount of pure contempt they get on this sub is disappointing.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 08:33 AM
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I really thought about bringing that up, but it was so outside the discussion of what I actually witnessed, I didn't. Really good point though. i work my ass off, but of the 10 hours I'm actually at work, a good chunk is spent chit chatting and networking with other hospital employees. It helps me in my ability to do my job, but is absolutely not what I'm paid for.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 08:30 AM
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No one ever became great trying to do things for other people's approval. Everything you do should be done for yourself. Being great for greatness sake should be your goal, women are a byproduct. Being great to get women to sleep with you is the beta's goal.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 08:34 PM
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AWALT is not literal. AWALT is a defense mechanism that we use to keep us in the mentality that all women are capable. Not all women will cheat and branch swing, but you should always treat your woman like she's one of the ones that will. My mom definitely has her issues, but not being a very hard worker isn't one of them. There are exceptions to every rule, you should just act like there arent.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 07:04 PM
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Completely depends on the person. That's the same as saying the modern day man works for 8 hours and then comes home and plays WOW for 10 hours. There are absolutely women out there who are willing to put in effort. Sure, they're harder to find than they were 40 years ago, but they still exist.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 05:50 PM
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If you could travel back in time and watch what your mom did, you would realize that she did not work more than 4 hours a day. My point is that I was 18 when I moved out of the house, and I still know my mom. My mom definitely put in more than 4 solid hours of work every day. This isn't something that I'm trying to recall from when I was 5. My father didn't do any work at home when I was still living there. My brother and I took care of most of the yard work, but if something needed to be done o…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 05:47 PM
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I'm not a kid. I am fully capable of understanding the amount of work that my mother did while I was growing up. There are tons of things that I didn't mention that she did like gardening, making sure all of the cars were serviced, and helping with homework etc, but my mother didn't watch TV or play on the computer while my father was at work. She stayed busy. Maybe your point is that she could have gotten by only working a few hours per day, but she didn't stop there because she isn't a lazy wo…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 05:20 PM
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So let me get this straight. You want to become "undeniable" so that your whatever's friends cannot punch holes in your SMV to her, and so she won't decide that she can do better? This whole goal of being undeniable is to make sure you impress the people your woman listens to. FUCK THAT. I don't need to prove myself to anyone besides myself. I have areas of my life where I'm undeniably skilled and talented, but I didn't put in the work for anyone besides myself. All of the work that I put into m…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 04:56 PM
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My mom was/is a housewife, and she worked her ass off. She always made sure my dad had a hot breakfast, lunch ready, and his clothes laid out and ironed for work. She took care of the three of us all the time, running us and watching us play sports and do all of our other stuff. She made sure the house stayed clean, spent time going to the hospital to see the elderly people at church, and volunteered to help out with the schools. She took care of ALL of the shopping and finances, and made sure t…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 04:15 PM
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How would I dodge the crying and interrogating bullshit? Say I was busy, then don't say anything else about it. She will probably get pissed, throw a fit, and cry, but if you refuse to talk about it then one of two things will happen. She'll either calm down and apologize for overreacting, or she won't and you will know that you need to break up with crazy.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 06:11 PM
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This needs to be at the top.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 06:08 PM
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TRP is self betterment applied with a salve of glass half full. We teach people that all is not as you actually believe it is with a side of you need to make yourself better. Natural red pill people typically aren't TRP because they think why do you actually write that shit. Sure it happens, but don't point it out. True BP guys that actually are in relationships with women who love an accept them for who they are, and would never cheat on them because of social unacceptance or lack of self worth…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/15 07:51 AM
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In that case, do you point out to poor minority people that are getting married that they're far mare likely to get divorced than the 43%would indicate?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 07:35 PM
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20% is still a 1 in 5 chance of having to go through a divorce vs the 0% chance if you just never sign the paper. Nearly every benefit to marriage can be acquired through poas and wills
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 07:25 PM
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That's discounting if you also have factors that raise the percentage such as religious factors, parter count premarriage, number of children, one vs both spouses working, man vs woman being main source of income, and thousands of other factors. There isn't a calculator you can fill out to determine your exact percent chance that your marriage won't end in divorce, but everyone goes into marriage thinking it'll last forever, and you're naive if you think it cant/won't happen to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 07:01 PM
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That definitely doesn't mean it's uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 04:25 PM
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The divorce rate also goes down the older you are when you get married. Trp: get educated and don't marry until you're in your 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 04:24 PM
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Another thing. The divorce rate being 50% is actually a misnomer because serial divorcers are counted multiple times. Even still, first marriages have a 29% failure rate in the first 10 years, and a 43% failure rate over the first 15 years. That's a 43% chance that the person you agree to spend the rest of your life with is gone before the marriage would have graduated high school. How long have you been married?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 03:32 PM
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As far as divorce and infidelity, it isn't common to the point where it happens in most relationships, but it isn't uncommon to where it isn't/won't happen to people you know. TRP is a glass half empty approach where you expect the worst and hope for the best. The reason that TRP is against marriage is because we see what women and the courts are capable of, and it isn't that hard to protect yourself from it and still have a great relationship. What would really be the difference in your life if…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/15 03:26 PM
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You should never lie to a woman. If you're put in a situation where you should lie, make a witty/funny comment and change the subject. A real man is as honest as he can possibly be with all of his dealings.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 06:23 AM
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Sorry dude, but if any of those women knew you were a red piller (and read the vomit that is on trp) they would no longer hug you or want to do anything for you. Well, you're wrong. I don't hide what I believe. I know that a man should be a man, and a woman should be a woman. There has to be a leader and a supporter in a good relationship, and I choose to be the leader. Some folks have relationships where the woman is the leader, and that's absolutely fine for them. One of my friends is a very s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 04:54 PM
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Have some interesting stories, but seriously 90% of it is just asking a question, asking followup/leading questions, and just let them talk. Bitches loves to talk
/r/askTRP22/08/15 05:20 AM
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Women absolutely don't live the first 30 years of their lives on easy mode. Yes, it's a ton easier for women when dealing with relationships, but you're crazy if I'd trade places with a woman. Nearly everything in life is easier as a man as long as you put a little effort in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 10:55 PM
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TRP doesn't hate women, a lot of the subscribers do. Just like feminism doesn't hate men, but a lot of feminist do. From the intro on the sidebar... I am here to say, for better or for worse, the frame around public discourse is a feminist frame, and we've lost our identity because of it. But this isn't the end of the world. The world is changing, but men are still part of it. We just need to make sure we're changing with it. It's too easy to blame feminism for our troubles. Men, our happiness i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 03:51 PM
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I honestly believe that if every guy were taught that, and willing to follow that growing up, there would be no need for TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 06:46 AM
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I think that most rp philosophy is solid, but a lot of the rp subscribers are pretty terrible. When you tease a girl, if she feels like you're being mean to her, you're doing it wrong. Being a jerk to people only attracts people with no self confidence. Why would I want to attract someone who doesn't like themselves? Also, treat a girl like a friend if you want to be friends, treat them like you want to fuck them if you want to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 09:46 PM
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I feel that the basis of trp is to maximize the positives of both, and minimize the negatives. I would say that neither or those lists even remotely comes close to describing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 09:07 PM
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Men and women are different. Everyone wants friends, and a lot of women can't stand most other women. Yes it's very uncommon for a strait man to hang out with a bunch of women, but it's extremely common for the opposite. From your perspective, trust her, but never stop paying attention to what's going on. Remember AWALT and keep abundance mentality. She has orbiters which is completely natural, but you don't care because you're a man with options. If she chooses to leave you for one of her frien…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 04:00 PM
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Gut feeling is a misnomer of sorts. It isn't like we are listening to a different part of our body that is thinking differently than our logical brain, it's just that we are picking up clues subconsciously that we don't know we are. It's still all our perception, we just don't always know exactly what signals we're picking up to give us the message. How long until you were in tune with your gut again and trusting your instincts This is really what it's all about; trust. You have to trust your in…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 03:50 PM
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I don't fucking care. I like ppd for the mental stimulus, and I think it's important for people to be able to see the logic behind trp argued, but I couldn't give 2 shits about anyone's feelings on here. You telling me to fuck off? I really don't give a fuck. You're offended by my philosophy? Yep, don't give a fuck. I literally have no idea why any rp person would ever visit bluepill.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:39 AM
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Nothing good happens after midnight - mom Tons of awesome shit happens after midnight. I need church/family/god in my life to be happy. Screw you, I make my own happiness. You need to marry that girl. Mom and Dad. Thank god I didn't listen to this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 05:08 AM
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We're neither. We're a democratic republic. Your local officials have more impact on your life than who the POTUS is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 03:21 AM
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Democracy is a philosophy of government. How is it not real? If you mean in America, we aren't a democracy, we are a Democratic republic. We elect representatives to speak for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/15 03:15 AM
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A lot of TRP folks think that men and women can't be friends. I'm not one of them. I actually love having female friends (two of my best friends are women) because they introduce me to women that I otherwise wouldn't know. On top of that, they get in their ear about what a good guy I am and talk me up when I'm not around. For the most part, I don't do anything for them that I wouldn't do for my guy friends, and I absolutely don't think I'm being taken advantage of. They're just friends. The reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 10:41 PM
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It's true though. And women are far better at it than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 03:13 AM
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How many of them have you slept with?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 03:09 AM
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Obviously a gender studies degree. You also become an expert on lattes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 03:07 AM
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Pretty much, but that's a pretty cynical way to look at it. It's more about changing yourself into someone who makes people want to give you what you want from them. Use getting a guy friend for example. You go to a bar, get bored and strike up a conversation with some guy. You start talking about sports, eventually ask him his name, shake his hand, play some pool, etc. There's no pressure here, cause you'll probably never see him again, but he seems like a fun guy to chill with. By the end of t…
/r/askTRP18/08/15 02:55 AM
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I was RP because I was raised that way. I was taught that when you win you win, and when you lose you lose. I was taught that she's not going to like you just because you're nice to her. If you're just nice to her and don't have a backbone she's going to use you. I don't agree with everything TRP teaches, but I do know that most of it works. People that actually pay attention to the material should understand that TRP doesn't hate women. We don't dislike women. In fact, the basis is that we like…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 12:32 AM
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I've realized that nobody wants to interact with me because of who I am. They all want to interact with me because I have something to offer, something they want. Dude, that's everyone. How many people did you look at and just like without ever wanting anything from them. You look at a chick and think, maybe she'll like me. You want something. You talk to a guy, maybe he'll be cool and we'll wind up friends. You want something. Even if it isn't exactly what you're consciously thinking, people ar…
/r/askTRP18/08/15 12:22 AM
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Personal experience tells me that you are incorrect. You're just like when my grandma tells me that Muslims are horrible people, and their religion is toxic. Sure, maybe some of them are horrible people, and maybe sometimes people use it to justify doing horrible things, but that doesn't change the fact that you don't know what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/15 12:01 AM
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I have always treated every gun in my home as if it were loaded, and no one has ever been shot. I have never treated any of the guns in my home as if it were loaded, and no one has ever been shot. Which of these things do you want to teach to someone who is buying his first gun?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 03:17 PM
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It's the same reason ministers still preach on the corner of the street. It seems pointless and stupid to you, the atheist, but they aren't after you. They are after the person who is on the fence about which side to believe, and this is important to us. You may think, "Why do you care what other guys think?" My answer to that is that I'm tired of seeing my friends get turned into pussies by their wives, tossed aside for new cock, and then I have to deal with them afterwords. I want to try to sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/15 03:14 PM
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Power dynamic. Whoever needs the other person the least has the most power in the relationship. This includes if it's your first time going out with someone. If the chick has other viable options, then it's up to you to prove that she isn't wasting her time with you. If she doesn't and you do, then the pressure is on her to be nice and flirty. Entertainment doesn't go both ways. Women want men to stimulate them. Men want to be comforted and loved. We tend to not look to women for mental stimulat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/15 05:47 PM
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If a girl is 24 years old and wants to bring a friend on a date then she is either super insecure and scared, or she doesn't think it's a date. A&A is a powerful tool, but if she doesn't think it's a date, you're going to look like an idiot, and if she's that insecure you will either scare her off, or she'll come alone and probably be a terrible date.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 03:21 PM
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I agree with this. if you're 24 and she wants to bring a friend, fuck that. If you're a junior in highschool, whatever.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 02:28 AM
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Its the same as what trp teaches to men. How to make your woman happy and get her to do the shit you want her to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 09:54 PM
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I have zero problem with this. If it works, why is it bad? If this lady figured out a way to get her guy to do what she wants and still be happy, why is it a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/15 05:35 PM
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Til, in California I'd be a pimp. Knew a hooker at a var, and she bought me beers before. Pimping is easy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 10:37 PM
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Still no source.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 09:55 PM
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Because his whole point was that her husband is a pimp because she pays for his school. Do you have a source where all you have to do to legally be a pimp is for a hooker to give you money? That would make anyone who recieved a gift from a prostitute a pimp (which is a felony). You have to facilitate it in some way shape or form. If a prostitute randomly walked up to you and gave you $20, that would not in-and-of itself make you her pimp.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 07:52 PM
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I completely agree that there are horrible pimps who basically don't do anything, but you said her husband is her pimp. She didn't sayin anything to indicate he was pimping her out. He's her husband, and is no more her pimp than her kid would be. He's a cuckold, but her pimp is the person who owns the brothel. Hoes don't have 2 pimps.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 04:54 PM
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Pimping is a felony in the US. I'm pretty sure being married to a prostitute and having her pay the mortgage is not a felony. You'll need to provide me a source on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 04:48 PM
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That wasn't from wikipedia, it's from the dictionary. There are enough sources/interviews out there that are written by and of actual pimps that it shouldn't be all that hard for you to read up on it. The owner of the brothel makes money, provides a place for her to do business, helps arrange the johns, and would provide protection if someone didn't want to pay or wanted to hurt her. That is her pimp. The pimp is the employer, not someone who she gives money to. This is regardless of what your p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 04:41 PM
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The prostitutes he works for. Has nothing to do with arranging clients. This is the part where you are wrong. If you go by your definition, her kids would be her pimps too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 06:15 AM
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She'll like you back for $50
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 05:12 AM
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You are incorrect. A pimp is someone who facilitates prostitution be it through organizing the johns for the girls, running protection, or providing them living conditions. For their work, the prostitutes compensate them. Being a pimp is a job. The person that owns the brothel is her pimp.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/15 05:11 AM
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Can't help who you're attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 08:11 PM
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I'm a white guy, and I don't think I would ever consider dating a black woman. I have absolutely nothing against them as people, but I've never really found any of them to be attractive unless you're talking about the top .001% like Beyonce.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/15 06:33 PM
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Work out and work M-F. Saturday I usually play golf or do something with my crew. We like to get lots of people together and cook out and shit. Basically, other than that I do whatever the fuck I want. If I want to smash after work on Tuesday, I find someone to smash. If I want to go downtown on Saturday night, that's what I do. If I want to go to Atlanta for the weekend, there isn't anyone stopping me. As far as hobbies go, I like baseball, play dodge/kick ball, go to local sporting events, tra…
/r/askTRP05/08/15 06:27 PM
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Buddy, if you can teach a woman like this common sense then you'll be a billionaire before you know it. If you do figure it out, let me know. I'll help you monetize it and ride your coattails.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 06:07 PM
1

One thing to keep in mind; never underestimate the power of remaining silent. If you think you're coming across as being bitchy, then it's your body language that's probably talking the loudest. Also, you can still be a fun, nice guy while still dominating the room.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 05:28 PM
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There is nothing wrong with rapport. There is nothing wrong with being friends with women. I have lots of women friends, some I would want to be with sexually given the right circumstances (I don't fuck chicks I work with, and I wouldn't do a buddy's ex wife), some that I have no interest in what-so-ever. These women see you as non threatening, and not a potential partner. The important thing to consider when being friends with a woman is not to let them manipulate you. Keep in mind that it's a …
/r/askTRP05/08/15 04:57 PM
1

Extremely beta acts like this do absolute wonders for LTRs if they are used extremely sparingly. I've written letters before, prepared impromptu picnics in the park, and I even broke into a girls house so I could wake her up with breakfast in bed. All of these things made the panties drop because it was something completely unusual, unexpected, and I was already in a relationship with them. None of these things will ever get you a girl, or benefit you if she isn't that into you. However, letting…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 05:30 PM
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I think a better question is why DO women want to get married. There are all kinds of perceived benefits for women getting married. People tend to judge women based on their relationships. Women who never get married are seen as having something wrong with them, while a man is just career oriented. It goes the other way with having a job. Women lose their looks over time, and because that is something highly valued by men, their overall value tends to decrease over time. Women typically want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/15 05:05 PM
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I was being facetious.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 05:39 PM
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I was being facetious, but too drunk to consent has more to do with how drunk they say they were the next day than any conversation having abilities. I remember one case where the girl texted her friend that she was going to this guys room to have sex and was excited about it, cried rape the next day, and the school found she was too drunk to consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 05:37 PM
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I actually like a lot of her old stand up. She's pretty un-PC with a lot of her jokes. Her show is fucking terrible. The whole women can't be funny thing is stupid. Amy Poehler and Tina Fey are both excellent comedians. Sure, they aren't as funny as a lot of male comedians, and there definitely aren't many that make the list, but women can be funny.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 05:32 PM
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Even though I was pretty drunk I remember almost every interaction I had with him. his lips felt when we kissed, how his hands felt on my ass and waist Seems to me like he sexually assaulted you. Sounds like you were too drunk to consent to all this kissing and butt feeling. Edit: I was being facetious about the whole, remember ALMOST everything
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/15 05:02 PM
1

Best way to get over a girl is to get under a different one
/r/askTRP01/08/15 01:01 AM
2

The outlandish beliefs actually work, the bitterness seems pretty well guided to me, and after people work through the bitterness they shouldn't be a misanthrope. I use redpill in my daily life with women I work with, women I date, and women I interact with but don't know. It works. I realize that women value men that give them value, so I do that. I keep and AWALT mentality so that I understand when a woman does what she does. I realize that they don't always make decisions based on logic. I un…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 05:19 PM
2

There's a difference between being "in love" and being clingy. Don't be clingy. I'm not talking about being clingy. I'm talking about sick puppy love. The other person may not know you exist, or may not know you feel that way at all. Guys who have a best friend who's a girl, but she just thinks they're friends, but he imagines getting married and growing old together. It's the person who is so hung up on this one person that they don't even consider that there are other options. If you're dishon…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 05:06 PM
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I fixed the grammatical error for you. Although sure they're buzzwords (I figured in this setting it was fine to use RP Jargon) they aren't meaningless. Oneitis means that you are fixated on one person, and need to do anything to keep her. If you lose her, then you will be crushed. That's like my buddy who's wife left him for another guy. He fell into a deep depression when she left him, but a year later when that didn't work out and she had some money troubles, he gladly took her back. He think…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 04:10 PM
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Yeah, that's not what I said at all. I said, when it comes to relationships between men and women, RP uses facts and logic, BP uses human emotion. BP sees relationships by way of love and caring, RP thinks that love and caring isn't real, and people just act that way. RP: If you're in love with someone, that's called oneitis. You should have abundance mentality. BP: If you game a girl just for the sex then you are using that her. Both are true if that's your viewpoint, and both are false if that…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 05:08 AM
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Honestly my guess is because you can't really argue emotions against facts. TRP says, logically this is how the culture and people in the culture function, so this is how you can use that information to benefit you. Tbp says, you can't pigeon whole people because that's wrong. Both sides have their merits, but logic will win in debates
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/15 02:25 AM
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Pretty sure people make a buttload of money off of feminism stuff. Does that make feminism a cult that was created to sell people stuff? I don't agree with a lot of the stuff that TRP says, and I honestly think a bunch of the folks who post there don't really understand what the material should be used for, but lots of the philosophies really do work in the real world, and do make it easier to understand and interact with women on a daily basis. It's not a cult. I've never one time been asked to…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/15 06:20 PM
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It very well could be fake, but I thought the story rang pretty true. It's not far fetched at all for someone to have PTSD from something like that and alienate the boyfriend. Shit like that fucks people up. It's by far not the most implausible way for something like that to go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 05:07 AM
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You don't have to be any of these things to be a top 20% man. Being a man isn't about looks, it's about charisma, attitude, hobbies, and lifestyle. You do have to be in shape, but not muscular. Here is a 5'2" black man that is definitely in the top 20. Since he does have good style, I'll also throw this up here. To be a top 20 guy, you have to be your best self and do what it takes for you to believe you belong in that top 20%. When that happens, women will believe it too.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 05:47 AM
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I hope you like older divorced women.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 03:55 PM
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why can't girls change? Women do try to change, they just don't do it like TRP men. TRP says the world is this way, change so you fit in it. Women say we are this way, change the world to fit us. Feminism. Women don't have to refuse sexual acts to get LTR's if they can convince everyone that there isn't anything wrong with being a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 03:37 PM
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What if she just wised up and realized that faeces were going to start permanently dribbling out if she kept putting a man's appendage into a woman-sized anus? That sounds like self-interest to me. I think there is a big difference between not doing something because you didn't like it the one time you did it, and not doing something so you seem like someone who wouldn't do it. I've done anal with a couple of chicks (personally I don't like it) and I've never heard of anyone who had to wear diap…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 03:32 PM
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No true altruism exists
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 03:17 PM
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This was my first thought. Since when did women become rational thinkers?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 03:22 AM
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This can't be real, tight? A comedian once said all a woman has to do to get laid is have a vigina and keep the weight off. I have a hard time finding a 35 year old athletic woman has a hard time getting a guy to sex her. Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/15 01:46 AM
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You remember that time that feminist took responsibility for that bad thing that happened? Me neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 11:42 PM
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I meant a trp style sub for feminist women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 07:45 PM
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That's not entirely correct though. TRP doesn't talk about how the world should be, or how to change society to make it better. It says, "this is how the world is, and if you want to be successful in it, this is how you go about doing that." Feminist say, "this is how the world should be, and we're going to fight to make it that way." The problem with that is it puts all of the responsibility of the situation on society, and doesn't put it on the individual. If there was a TRP for women, it woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 04:23 PM
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He would have to show that they willfully withheld evidence at his trial. If they gave all of the facts and a jury convicted him then he wouldn't have a leg to stand on anyway. Justice system is fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 07:13 AM
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I think there are definitely a lot of lower SMV guys on TRP. There are guys who have never been laid, have been walked all over by women, and who've had their hearts ripped out and shat on. They stumble on TRP and like what they read, enjoy the brotherhood, and want to contribute even if their personal lives don't actually have anything for them to offer yet. There are people trying to come out of their shell, and find that it's easier to talk about picking up women and the dynamics of having a …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 05:03 AM
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As was I. Usually I have sex with chicks I date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 12:46 AM
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Crazy chicks are the BEST in bed. You just have to be careful and not get your tires slashed. In my past, I usually go full on beta until they don't want to see me anymore, that way they don't get pissed at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 12:34 AM
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Nice girls are where it's at. A lady in the street and a freak in the bed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 12:32 AM
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I always used great personality to describe ugly or fat chicks. It's like saying, sure I'd like to be friends with her, but I'd never go out with her
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/15 12:32 AM
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To me, don't get married is more of a, "don't ever sign the paper and get married in the eyes of the law" type deal. It's shitty for the guy, and the benefits don't outweigh the negatives. Why bring the government into your relationship? You can still have 100% of the relationship (even calling her your wife) without ever actually getting married.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 04:01 PM
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I don't debate with trolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 08:57 PM
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There are a lot of things that are written for a certain audience that aren't understood by people that aren't in that audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/15 04:10 AM
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I agree. I was just making the point that you can't have a sub about a topic like this without the vocal minority. I wasn't comparing trp with feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/15 04:31 PM
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Because these are public subs, and it would turn into the same thing. Same reason you can't find a feminist sub that is just about equality for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/15 04:22 PM
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Yep, I agree with all of this. Also, I would like to point out that the opposite of Love is apathy, not hate. If You father is really as bad as he comes across in your post, sever ties with him. If that's not possible, just ignore the fact that he exists. Hating someone just wastes energy
/r/becomeaman09/07/15 08:04 AM
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You will almost NEVER get "we should slow down" or "some time off" from a woman who's into you. The only thing I would point out is that she may be into you, but she's into someone else too. Looking to branch swing, but wants a fallback in case the other guy isn't who she thinks he is, or isn't into her. This doesn't mean she isn't into you, but the other guy seems to have higher SMV. You could be Chad Thundercock, but if George Clooney talks to her at a bar you could very well get the "take a b…
/r/askTRP30/06/15 05:56 PM
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is that men have more positive traits than women. I feel that this is not the case at all. I think that men CAN have more positive traits than women, but it is something that you have to recognize and work towards. Women are manipulative and men are ignorant. This is by nature, not by choice or even preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/15 05:06 PM
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Why does this matter? Have you asked her about it? Is it important to you? Just because a chick starts or stops something doesn't necessarily mean that she lost respect for you, she's looking to branch swing, or anything like that. Ask her why she stopped. Obviously the answer doesn't really matter at all because it probably won't be the truth, but it will give you the opportunity to tell her that it's important for her to do it. Then you can see how far she's willing to go to please you. I woul…
/r/askTRP25/06/15 01:39 AM
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My mom is pretty awesome. She is outgoing, outspoken, and is fun to be around. My father is a man's man, and she respects that and knows her job is to support him. He treats her with love and respect, but there us no mistake who "wears the pants" in that household. They celebrated a healthy 35 year marriage just about two weeks ago. You are incorrect in assuming I have any mommy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 09:10 PM
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I was just providing a scenario where there is no compromise. That was what you'd originally asked for. Compromise is a great thing, it just doesn't help 100% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 12:16 AM
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No kids. He wasn't happy knowing he wouldn't ever be able to leave tennessee while he was with her, and she wouldn't be happy if they left. It was a situation where no compromise could be reached where everyone would be happy, and/or no one would be extremely unhappy and resentful. They got a divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 11:33 PM
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Not saying that I agree that there is no compromise, but there definitely are situations where you cannot compromise. Man and a wife living in Tennessee. Woman works at her family's company which is a small local lawn care business. She doesn't make a ton of money, but she does alright. The biggest benefit is that she gets to work with her family who she is very close to. Her Husband is just informed that he has the ability to take his dream job where he will be making a large amount more than h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 10:27 PM
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Yes. I read that kind of like a karate instructor tells a student who comes in to learn to fight. The instructor will say that you learn karate so you can protect yourself, not so you can bully the people who have bullied you. You learn so you won't fight
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 12:23 AM
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Why do guys date fat chicks. Turn it around and you have your answers. Some people's just prefer that, the person changed over time, and low self esteem (lucky just to have someone) would probably be my top 3.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 09:33 PM
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I use this a lot too.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 12:21 AM
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Oh shit, don't get mad. I'm too pretty to die this young.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 03:30 AM
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warning that short haired girls are more likely to be 'strong independent womyn shorter hair are likely to have a higher number of sexual partners, This is the whole correlation vs causation and conformation bias. The desire to have short hair doesn't mean that you are a feminist, but being a feminist probably means that you are going to have short hair (rebelling against the establishment). A chick with short hair should be a warning sign, not a stop sign. OP's GF isn't going to change who she …
/r/askTRP16/06/15 05:54 PM
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I think you underestimate how hard and important it is to raise children in the right way. In fact, I would say that it's one of the most important things that anyone can achieve, and it is also many people's proudest achievement. I don't want to do it because it's too hard and costs too much money, but I absolutely hold people who do a good job at it in high regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 05:36 PM
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It would also have a lot of self improvement stuff, but nearly all of it would be about improving your LTR and how to look better. They would probably even use catchy titles like (all taken from cosmo): Why You Should Be A Jealous Bitch: And 6 Other Relationship Secrets Meow!: Why Acting Just Like a Cat Will Get People to Come To You 78 Ways to turn him on: These words will make his pulse pound hard What Guys Secretly Think of Your Hair & Makeup: The truth revealed! The Secret to Getting Any Guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 05:34 PM
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I think it's more that you can call yourself whatever you want, but if you're a moderate then you aren't the ones people care about. It's kind of like being a moderate republican. Sure, that's a thing and you can be that, but that's not what the word republican has come to represent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 11:57 PM
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The sexual market isn't an actual market. I can't purchase you with my ability to lift heavy things. The economic example was merely an example of collective subjective being used to determine worth. It's no different than using other people's parents as a yardstick to figure out if you had bad, average, or great parents. In a vacuum, you wouldn't be able to tell if you had good parents or not, because without anything to measure them against they are just the only parents you know. If your SMV …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 10:51 PM
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All market valuations are subjective. This is called the collective subjective. source In short, we can see that prices are determined by the opinions of individuals. These opinions are therefore subjective. A sensible position is that although aggregating those opinions can correct for their errors, it can also magnify those errors. And going from one subjective opinion to a collective subjective opinion does not change this. In fact, we can say subjective economic perceptions (well founded or …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 06:44 PM
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Ok, I have no problems with that. Who decides after the fact that you've improved yourself, and at what point is that determination made?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 05:02 PM
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This is an example of someone's short-term goals harming their long-term ones. That really depends on their long term goals. There are lots of things that people do to try and improve their situation that they wind up regretting. My friend decided she wanted to improve herself and run a marathon. She did, and immediately wound up in the hospital for several days. She almost died and has had to deal with medical bills. That doesn't mean that she didn't do it to improve herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:50 PM
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Improving yourself is determined by the individual and his/her own goals and aspirations. It is not determined by what other people say/think. To me that would be an example where somebody gets what they want, but is definitely not improving themselves. "To me" is the operative phrase here. To me, someone getting more in touch with God and their spiritual side is not improving themselves. It's the same as with TRP. You may not see it as self-improvement, but we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 04:10 PM
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How does getting what you want not mean self-improvement? How often do people want things that are going to make them worse off? Sure, their goals might not align with what you think they should be, or realistically what they really should be, but even if they have the wrong goals they are still (in that moment) improving themselves. Even the drug addict who really wants his next fix sees getting that H and shooting up as improving where he was before hand. He may regret it later, but getting wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 03:43 PM
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Think about how many people you know who have stepdads
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/15 03:04 AM
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Fat girls are way worse off than fat men. Even before I lost weight I still did ok because I have a good job, am outgoing, confident, and dress nice. Not a lot a fat chick can do to increase her smv besides lose weight. Also, single mom's aren't terrible if they're hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/15 01:58 AM
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Doing chores and taking care of a family is absolutely doing work. You are compensated for this work by not having to pay bills or pay for food, expenses, entertainment, etc. When you get a divorce, you either quit that job or were fired. You shouldn't continue to be compensated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 03:08 AM
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Absolutely it doesnt dictate your value as a person. It does, however, say something about you. If you're 18 and have been with 50 guys, that says something the same as if you're a virgin at 45. It doesn't dictate you're value as a person, but it can dictate your value to me because I'm allowed to set the parameters for what I deem to be of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 01:24 AM
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Not sure what that's meant to imply Just a joke on the name Bethany. I've known 2, and neither of them were quality. approach to morality is, in my opinion, too hard a road to travel and simply not pragmatic. Honestly, there are gray areas everywhere, but I believe on listening to what my gut tells me is right or wrong. I suppose the only scenario that I could imagine where I'd be ok sleeping with a married woman is if I was doing it to hurt the other guy. I guess you've made me reconsider a sma…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 04:26 PM
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Bethany sounds about right This was actually more or less my point and why I feel unable to judge someone else for their behaviour - because the point is you just don't know what the circumstances are most of the time. The fact that you need any more information to make it moral is your opinion. I disagree. There is no time in which personally I would feel morally justified going to bed with a woman whom I knew to be married. how do you know it's not more immoral for a woman to remain in a marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 08:37 AM
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However, cruelty to animals is not morally equivalent to a (presumably) single man and a married woman hooking up together and/or having an affair. My point was more asking who draws the line where it is appropriate to feel morally superior before crossing the line to being a pretentious asshole. Personally, I think it is morally wrong to sleep with a woman that you know is married unless they are separated. Period. I know that this is one of the RP values that I disagree with, but I do not thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 05:42 AM
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Immoral indicates that it breaks their personal moral code. Everyone chooses their own moral code. Ethics is based on the general morals of the community. Something that is moral to you may be unethical at that particular time and place. When people say, "It's immoral" what they really are saying is, "in my opinion, it violoates my personal moral code."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 12:01 AM
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Personally, I think it's all about experience. I never go for women who aren't at least in their 70's. They know exactly what they want, and exactly how to please a man. They've been around the block a time or five. Also, no risk having kids. All that sag, I don't understand why some guys are so intemidated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 11:53 PM
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Morals are personal, Ethics are community based. It is not unethical because you aren't the person who made the vow. In my opinion, it is immoral because you are knowingly hurting some other individual. I try to limit the amount of harm I do to others even if I don't know them. If I wouldn't do it to a friend, I wouldn't do it to a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 11:33 PM
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No, but I would consider anyone who felt that morally superior to others that they could judge them openly to be someone who you was completely untrustworthy. And a bit of a little shit. I definitely feel morally superiour to some people, and judge them rightly (IMO). I am very trustworthy and am not a shit. A great example is an obviously bad pet owner. There are lots of pet owners who don't do anything illegal, but still do things that I think are morally cruel. Like someone who keeps a lab in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/15 11:29 PM
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Band-aid, buddy. Rip it off. Don't think about it, just do it. It may be hard, but in a week or two you will be much happier
/r/askTRP18/05/15 08:13 AM
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Would you be cool with it if I raped your mom?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 11:58 PM
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convincingly suggest that the more men she has slept with, the more unlikely she will be to remain in a committed relationship. I think you need context here. I would completely agree that partner count is important for LTRability, but there is a huge difference between a 25 year old who has been with 30 guys than a 50 year old who has been with 30 guys (especially if she's never been married). IMO, it's not the partner count that makes the slut, it's the slut that accrues the partner count. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 10:52 PM
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So, my question is: how can I know if a woman is good enough for a LTR? What questions should I ask her? You are the only person qualified to answer those questions. What do you want in a woman? You should probably ask her questions that will tell you if she is the type of chick you want. How can I determine whether she is looking for real love in a LTR, or just a BB who will be her piggy bank? You probably need to check the sidebar again. TRP is all about how women approach relationships vs how…
/r/askTRP09/05/15 09:55 PM
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I would advise against it, especially if it's your first time. It doesn't matter if you're afraid or whatever, that's a large part of swallowing TRP. You need to make yourself get out of your comfort zone. Maybe you need to consider why you are afraid of sex, and then work on that aspect. Are you worried that you won't be any good and word will get around? Try going to another city and trying to find a girl there. Are you worried about being rejected? check this out (skip to the 4 minute mark or…
/r/askTRP09/05/15 09:45 PM
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I think what /u/whisper is saying is that in his experience, from his observation, and from the scientific data he is aware of, peace, harmony, productivity, and happiness, both in sexual relationships and in society in general, are maximized when the male is the clear leader, as opposed to when the woman is the clear leader, or when there is no clear leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/15 11:00 PM
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If you think plates don't sleep around when you haven't committed you're retarded
/r/askTRP04/05/15 01:07 AM
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You'd better go to MGTOW then. If you think plates don't sleep around when you haven't committed you're retarded
/r/askTRP03/05/15 02:54 PM
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Next time you talk to her, hopefully after several days have passed and in person, tell her that you were thinking about it, and her friend is probably right. Tell her that you think maybe you're getting too serious and need to slow it down a bit. Turn her into a plate and find yourself some strange. If you can't bring yourself to do that, then you have the oneitis for a chick that will cheat on you if she hasn't already. Hard next. Delete her number, never talk to her again, delete her on faceb…
/r/askTRP02/05/15 06:19 PM
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Sorry, but that doesn't help at all. Unless you are in a dedicated monogamous relationship you should always use protection. This issue here is that this chick needs to be downgraded to plate status, and if that's not possible then next her. No need to be bringing STD's into the conversation. That's a given.
/r/askTRP02/05/15 06:14 PM
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Honest question: would it change the way you look at you gf if you found out that before you were together she dated a wealthy 70 year old man? What if she'd been with 4 guys at the same time? What if you found out she had done 10 professional porn movies? I'm not talking about the lying aspect, I'm asking if you still would have the same relationship if she was up front about this in the beginning?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/15 12:43 AM
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My number is 16. I spent all of college and the majority of my 20s in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 02:48 AM
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How is that relevant? Even if i gave you a number, why would you believe me?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 12:46 AM
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I'm already past thirty with no real desire to settle down. If it happens it happens, but it's not something I'm desperately trying to find. Why would you not have expectations about your partners sexual history? Sexual history says a lot about a person. Did they sleep with anyone who wanted to sleep with them (black snake moan type), did they cheat on partners in the past, are they a 28 year old virgin? These answers say something about a person, but if I decide to get serious with someone then…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 12:44 AM
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My answer is the same as art vs porn. I don't know what number makes a girl a slut, but I know it when I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 12:37 AM
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It completely depends on the person and the situation. 100% unconditional love would only be able to be proven if you were able to put it through all of the conditions to test it. My mom loves me unconditionally, but would she still love me if I was strung out on crack? Maybe not. Does the fact that I will never be strung out on crack make her love unconditional because the condition that would cause her to no longer love me doesn't exist? The Titanic was an unsinkable ship until it sank.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 01:47 AM
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This whole discussion was because you basically said that blue pill advice is good relationship advice, and TRP is advice on how to trick women to sleep with you. You said that all RP advice is about manipulation, dread game is about making your partner insecure, and maintaining frame is just another way of saying not to care about anything your GF says. My point was that I use RP advice in my relationships and I (nor they) don't ever feel like I'm manipulating anyone. I'm just here to discuss w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 08:37 PM
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Club bitches were never my thing. I've always preferred day game, so I guess that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 06:29 PM
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I find it completely unnecessary in a mature relationship. It would just never cross my mind to tell my boyfriend that. If you need to be reminding your partner how worthy you are, I'd say red flag. Lots of mature relationships have problems with partners losing respect for one another. Women use dread game too. "If you go out tonight, I'm not going to be here when you get home." If everyone is happy and being a respectful partner, you don't need dread game. It's just a tool that can be used to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 05:41 PM
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Got to disagree with this. Many women are actually willing to work for it. Sure my dad paid all the bills, but my mom worked her butt off making sure that us 3 kids were taken care of, the bills were all paid, a hot meal was on the table when he got home from work, and the house was always kept clean. My mom rewarded my dad for providing for us, and he rewarded her for being a good wife/mother. An even exchange isn't a meal ticket anymore than you're using your job as a meal ticket. This bitch i…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 08:11 AM
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Personally, I always found negging to be stupid, and much prefer to tease a girl. It has always worked out better for me. Also, I think dread game is much more about pointing out the fact that I have value and am desired, not telling a girl she's worthless. It's not saying you don't deserve me, it's saying if you don't want me plenty of women out there do. Calling that manipulation is about like calling it a threat when you inform someone of the consequences of their possible actions. I complete…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 04:20 AM
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That's what I was asking. Do you believe that women manipulate men in relationships, and if so, could you give an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 01:31 AM
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I was asking what your standard was. If we go by definition, how is a padded bra not dishonest?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 01:25 AM
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So your standard of manipulation is making the other person feel like they have to give you sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 01:21 AM
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Devils advocate, do you see push up bras, spanx, and makeup as manipulating men into wanting to have sex with females?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/15 01:12 AM
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A couple of things I didn't consider is that I don't want kids, and I also didn't realize being attracted to a different race is hereditary.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 08:23 PM
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I don't really get that. I'm going to assume that you're American when I say this, but I think there is a much larger culture difference between education levels than skin color in this country (as long as they've been here more than a couple of generations). I would have no problem dating a chick that went out with a black guy who was a teacher or something, but I wouldn't if she dated some drug dealer gangsta. Then again, skin color for each wouldn't matter much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 06:24 PM
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I can't argue that the average woman probably has it easier than the average man, but I believe it is far easier for the average man to raise his SMV to level (or even turn) the playing field. If you think it's too hard on the average guy, don't be an average guy. Work on yourself, and work on your understanding of how male/female interactions really work and you will find that it much easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/15 06:11 PM
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Watch out for lemon stealing whores
/r/askTRP21/04/15 12:32 AM
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Don't reply at all. Say nothing.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 04:03 PM
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They acknowledge the RP psych, but RP teaches men to accept it and how to thrive in the current environment, and the people making the video want to change it back to the way it was. It's not weird, it socially conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/15 06:17 PM
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Http://Deanhunt.com/proof-that-women-are-evil/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/15 09:06 PM
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My guess is that it's because religious people tend to be social conservatives. They prefer the classic definitions of gender roles. Some of the more common teachings are that women don't teach men past childhood, men are the head of the household, and women should be respected but have more of a support role. Also, there are many strong male role models in most conservative churches, so even if you have a child being raised by a single mom they still get the male influence. RPers seem to be mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 04:25 PM
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Yes I'm aware. There is no point to sarcasm if you have to indicate it was sarcasm. The point that was originally made was the reader should have caught the sarcasm even without it being stated. Personally, I think saying something about rp women enjoying being pushed down the stairs is poor tact, and makes no attempt at a good faith intellectual debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 01:37 AM
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You said it has a place in debate. I'm saying it doesnt
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/15 12:20 AM
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Actually, sarcasm is an intellectually dishonest debate tactic. http://www.johntreed.com/debate.html Sarcasm is #34 It's great when you are having an argument with someone, but not useful when having an intellectual debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/15 10:40 PM
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Progress : to develop to a higher, better, or more advanced stage Better : of superior suitability, advisability, desirability, acceptableness, etc.; preferable:
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 04:09 PM
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Honestly, 99% of slut shaming I've seen in real life comes from women. Most guys will say a girl is a slut as a matter of fact piece if information to let another person know that she has a reputation of sleeping around. "That girl is a slut. I know 4 guys she's been with this month." When women talk about it, it's more of a "eww gross, I can't believe you made out with that slut."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 12:40 AM
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So not progress for society. Progress is inherently changing for the better by definition
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/15 12:27 AM
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This is WAY overstating it, but an easy way to see his argument would be to think 1930s Germany. The goal is to get rid of the jews, and you disagree that that is a good thing. Are you still ok calling the process of rounding them up in ghettos progress? Again, just using this to explain why we don't see the steps as progress, not comparing to killing jews.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/15 11:19 PM
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If you amplify enough it isn't self deprecating, just playful sarcasm. If you go far enough people around you will see it as funny and that it doesn't bother you
/r/askTRP10/04/15 08:09 PM
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I am a big proponent of setting your own happiness. I have nothing in my life that makes me happy other than my own satisfaction that I'm doing the best I can. Sure there are things in my life that give me pleasure, but there isn't anything I have that would negatively affect my happiness level if I lost it. I'm happy because I choose to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 12:35 AM
1

And if she says that you have to wear one, you know it's safe to go without. Seriously though, that's a great rule to have.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 05:18 PM
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Naa, some chicks will actively remove men from their prospect pool unless they are way above average, but I've never heard of a guy not dating a chick over breast size unless they were way below (or above) average. I would say weight would be a better equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/15 11:44 PM
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I agree with the other folks here, but you might also be overestimating the ability for a woman of that age to get pregnant without actually taking treatments. In the chance she does get pregnant, a 40 year old woman has around a 33% chance for a miscarriage.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 04:43 PM
3

If a woman says she has a boyfriend but is showing you interest she is either looking for an upgrade, lying about having a boyfriend, or has some alpha guy banging her who she wishes was her boyfriend. Unless you know this dude, boyfriend doesn't have any claims to a girl. Fiancee or husband, yeah I'll respect your claim, but if your gf is showing me ioi's then you should have done a better job.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 04:35 PM
2

Wouldn't you like to upgrade to a manfriend?
/r/askTRP02/04/15 04:31 PM
0

You can absolutely be a slut and be married. You can also have lots of sex while not being married but not be one. Sluttyness is about not having discretion about who you sleep with. It's the number of partners that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/15 12:05 AM
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Honestly? I'd want to know why prostitutes. I think this is a good male version of the argument because it focuses on the lack of effort. The only effort your typical female needs to rack up a high number is to go out on a Saturday night and go home with the first guy who approaches her. If a guy has a large number of willing partners, he is going to have to put in the work, approach large numbers of women, and have the social skills required for them to find him attractive enough to bed. If he …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 04:43 PM
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I disagree that his unattractiveness would come strictly from being a virgin. Most likely his lack of social skills, confidence, and SMV that has kept him a virgin would be what the turn off is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/15 04:30 PM
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/u/thepillwastaken took the post the wrong way. It was intended to be more like an askreddit post where I gave the line I used and was curious what other people would put. He put his opinion down and we disagreed, but I don't think either of us was being confrontational. That's one of the best things about being a guy, we can disagree and have logical arguments without emotion getting in the way. Just like this post here.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 01:29 AM
1

I did know how to respond. See my original post. My game is pretty solid and I do well for myself. Just made this post because I was bored at work.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 10:57 PM
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As I said in my edit, I wasn't really looking for advice as much as just seeing how other people would handle it. Just a thinking exercise if you will. My game is pretty solid and I do well for myself. Thanks for the input. Never skip leg day.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 10:52 PM
2

I completely agree. You don't have to worry about me becoming an orbitor. I'm kind of an asshole like that.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 09:43 PM
1

I did not know this, but it wouldn't have changed my reply at all. She is still friends with me on facebook, and she still has my number stored in her phone. It'd be like a hole in 1 contest on a par 4. Sure the chances of you making it are extremely small, but you lose absolutely nothing by taking the shot. On a side note, that app sounds fucking terrible. I would feel like shit if my best buddy sent me a happy birthday and I found out it was a robot that sent it.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 09:41 PM
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I never delete numbers. It's networking. You never know when you may need something from someone, and you never know what someone will become later in life. Found out a chick I hadn't talked to in 5 years got a job with the Braves last year. I sent her a text, and bam, she sent me 4 free tickets. Delete the number only if it's someone that you literally do not ever want to speak to again. Usually when I split with a chick for whatever reason it still ends on good terms.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 09:38 PM
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Women's prerogative is that they can change their minds at any time and for any reason whatsoever. When a chick dumps you, ghosts you, or simply rebuffs your advance it means that you are not the person she is interested at that time. That can change in an instant. The only chicks that I permenantly next are ex's, crazies, or if they actually had something wrong with them. The downside of 'who is this' is that it isn't playful at all and gives her an opportunity to go silent again without conseq…
/r/askTRP20/03/15 09:32 PM
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Who is this would work, but no response doesn't make any sense if I want to see her again. This isn't an ex, or someone that I am hung up on, it's just a chick that I'd like to plate.
/r/askTRP20/03/15 06:23 PM
5

Are you the stig's American cousin, or his truck driving cousin?
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 03:27 AM
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No, women do lie about rape. It's just that when they do it doesn't matter because it actually does happen sometimes too.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 06:24 AM
1

Ehh. Some chicks would be sluts if they could. Hambeast
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/15 04:06 AM
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"I want to see you again before you leave." You are trying to get with someone who doesn't even live in the same city, who cares what you come off as. She isn't looking for a relationship obviously, so if she wants to sleep with you she will, if she doesn't she won't. Either way, it won't matter at all come Monday.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 12:53 AM
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That makes complete sense. You wouldn't go back to some random guy's place just for drinks, then get weirded out when he tried to get physical with you. That's what I got from your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 06:55 AM
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You can't be serious. Come back to my place for a drink does not mean "let's have sex tonight", but if I ask a girl to come back to my place for a drink it obviously suggests that I find her attractive. I am going to escalate contact with a woman I find attractive unless she tells me/gives me signs that I should stop. If I invite a woman back to my place and she comes (just the two of us in this context) then I am going to make the assumption that she is attracted to me sexually unless someone m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/15 06:39 AM
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Upvoted this and downvoted everything else (even myself) just for posterity
/r/askTRP07/03/15 09:32 AM
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I do not doubt this study at all. Looking throughout history, men are way more apt to use/abuse people for gain than women are. If you come up with the 100 worst people in history, the vast majority (if not all) are men. The difference between this study and red/blue pill is that it is looking at all relationships vs sexual relationships. You can have a man that will scratch/claw/cheat/kill his way to the top of a company, but still be subservient to his woman because he lacks sexual confidence.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 08:46 AM
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I completely agree. Men are absolutely WAY more narcissistic than women. The difference between the study and RP teachings is that the study is on all relationships, and TRP only focuses on sexual relationships. No one ever claimed men are more empathetic/nurturing than women (who is the nursing field dominated by?) we just argue the psychology behind sexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 08:33 AM
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Not all men are like that though, therefore the study is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/15 01:44 AM
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Spot on man
/r/askTRP07/03/15 12:04 AM
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BTW, if McDonalds used your dumbshit logic, then they would only serve Chicken McNuggets. Last time I checked you could get a happymeal with a cheeseburger. Why? Because McDonalds knows that only some children like Chicken McNuggets. But they do serve McNuggets. If I say all kids like McNuggets then what is the point in arguing that McNuggets is bad, selling them is bad, and we shouldn't make them simply because it isn't true that all children like McNuggets. If I'm only selling them, it's fine …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 06:20 PM
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Why would I blame feminism for the actions of all women everywhere? I don't blame feminism for anything. I understand that it has changed the world, and I have to adapt to what the world has become. You're the one railing against people you don't agree with. I was just pointing out that you are mad that a movement has the power to change things in a way that doesn't suit you, and I was just pointing out that someone could say the same thing about feminism. Then you went on to say that demonizing…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 05:54 PM
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I just copied your post and changed trp to feminism. Reread everything you just wrote but exchange trp and feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 04:14 PM
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Nope, this is not about "my feels." It's about this idiotic destructive behavior which has real world consequences for people. Why am I concerned? Why do I care? For the same reason why I care when people in Texas try to teach creationism in the class room as science, or when some asshole blows away a bunch of endangered red footed falcons as target practice - because it fucks up the country. What you people teach has a demonstrable negative effect on the lives of young people. Simply put, femin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 09:42 AM
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No, it attracts some women. Stop generalizing. It makes you sound stupid. That's like saying just because some kids like chicken nuggets doesn't mean kids like chicken nuggets. Sure there are kids that don't like chicken nuggets, but that's not what McDonalds concerns themselves with. Same with the RP doctrine comment. Women are children Honestly, I appreciate /u/redpillschool and think that he has a lot to offer, but that post needs to be taken in context. That post isn't meant to tell women th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 09:35 AM
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Congratulations on your wonderful relationship. I truly hope it stays that way for you. You can't point to any other couples and know that they are doing great though. It's the whole, look how awesome our neighbors have it when they are looking at you and thinking the same thing. It can be jaw dropping when you hear about A cheating on B when it looked like they were the perfect couple. I'm not sure where in TRP materials it says that you can't respect a woman, and I'm not sure where not stickin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 01:28 AM
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So you are seriously saying that you cannot assume anything about anyone before you get to know them because they are completely different from anyone you've ever met before. If this is the case, for self preservation you must assume that everyone you meet is only out to take advantage of you, lie to you, steal from you, and possibly kill you. Obviously we can infer certain things about people because they are human beings just like the rest of us. It is safe to assume that when you meet someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/15 12:54 AM
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I agree, it's not ALWAYs true. I actually had to take a gender communication course in college and my professor was a retired COO of a very large regional company. Although she was definitely a leftist feminist, she always made sure to listen to my points fully before refuting them. We had many lively debates in that class, but she always showed respect for other people's views and never got emotional. She always said I would come around to her way of thinking eventually, but I really don't thin…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 12:20 AM
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If you spend your life looking for a woman that never lies you're going to have a bad time. This isn't a lie big enough to break up over, but you should use this as an opportunity to set boundaries and expectations. I would have told her that I don't approve of her being dishonest, that I'm disappointed in her because I thought she was better than that, and told her that if she is dishonest with me, I can't trust her, and I can't be with someone that I don't trust. Then give her the opportunity …
/r/askTRP05/03/15 06:34 PM
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No, it attracts some women. So you agree that it does attract women. Glad that clears that up. Some women are turned off by emotional displays. Some women are turned off when a man gives voice to his weaknesses. Some women are gold digging whores. Again, you agree with RP doctrine. AWALT is not literal, it is the understanding that women are capable of doing these things so you don't put them on a pedestal just because they are women. When you have a literal AWALT mindset you protect yourself fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 06:15 PM
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I was very well aware of what your analogy was trying to convey. Re-read my post. TRP most definitely teaches that all women are to blame for the actions of a few - AWALT, correct? This is not correct. Stereotypes and generalizations are central to RP thinking, because they are very important tools to risk aversion. If you were to walk into a shady bar in the worst part of the worst town then you would probably be on your guard and paying attention to everything around you in order to be safe. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 05:46 PM
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I agree with everything you said, however, wouldn't a social justice war criminal be the ultimate social justice warrior? Someone who is willing to do terrible things in the name of social justice? I would think the opposite of SJW would be social justice pacifist or apathist. Just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 05:04 PM
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With over 3 billion points of data, don't you think that there would be some nearly universal psychological concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 04:58 PM
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Lets phrase it a different way. Women are much better at communicating in every way, listening, and picking up on social cues than men almost 100% of the time. Women have a pretty easy time determining exactly what men want, and this makes it very easy for women to manipulate men. It doesn't mean that all women do manipulate men, but it does mean that they have the tools to do so if they choose. RP teaches men this so that we can be more aware and can pick up/deflect when women do things like gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 04:46 PM
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Being cynical is not a bad thing. Cynicism is an attitude or state of mind characterized by a general distrust of others' motives believing that humans are selfish by nature, ruled by emotion, and heavily influenced by the same primitive instincts that helped humans survive in the wild before agriculture and civilization became established. It seems to me that this is a pretty logical pathway to take because in large part it works. I am a firm believer that true altruism does not exist. People d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 04:38 PM
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Pretty sure that's a terrible analogy. Men don't rob people because they're black, they rob people because they are shitty people. Also, I probably wouldn't be too far off track to say that KKK dislike black people very much. TRP folks don't dislike women at all. On the contrary, we like women very much. That's kind of the point of TRP. It's just educating men about how to be aware of the tactics that women use to manipulate men, and how to use them to your advantage. I am not saying that all wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 06:36 AM
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Claim that they're better at manipulation and deception, ala TRP? I honestly wouldn't frame it as them being better at manipulation and deception. I would frame it that they are miles better at using all forms of communication and picking up on social cues than men are. This gives them a distinct advantage that some women will use to manipulate and deceive. TRP advocates that men should be aware that women are all capable of this, and BPers choose to take it as, "all women are manipulative terri…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 05:37 AM
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TRP is based on the idea that the "other party" is always being manipulative and can't, not be manipulative. TRP is just emphatic about making you aware of the risks. As a manager, one of the first things I was taught is that all employees will cut corners, slack off, and break the rules when given the opportunity. The emphasis was on "ALL" employees. Now obviously this isn't true, and I have wonderful employees who don't fall into this catagory, but I still have the mindset that they will. This…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/15 04:39 AM
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I know this is over a week old, but I just wanted to point out that a large population of RPers are men who were nice guys, good fathers, and blue pill, but then made a change after the love of their life cheated on them, turned their kids against them, and/or divorce raped them. TRP is the effect of this, not the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 07:23 PM
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If I want her, then sure. By definition I don't have any say over what she does when she's not with me. As long as she's not banging sketchy dudes or drugies then I don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/15 03:07 AM
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2 to 3 words. I like No worries
/r/askTRP04/03/15 03:02 AM
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My exact thought. My response is No worries.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 03:01 AM
1

I didn't feel fulfilled when I first took trp. I didn't feel fulfilled because I didn't have a woman, a wife, a family, a life like I was supposed to. Thank god for the Internet because chateau heartiste woke me the fuck up. Now I'm fulfilled because I enjoy who I am. Women like who I am, but that's not why I like me. Women are a perk to the overall package. I'd be happy without them, and when you get to that point they want to be with you. That's what the red pill endgame should be
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/15 10:05 AM
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If you know them it's not within 10 minutes of meeting them.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 06:16 PM
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I dunno man, 10 minutes by any standards tells me that he probably didn't need any game at all. He probably said hello, and she said howboutsomefucks.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 06:14 PM
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Just because a woman is attractive doesn't mean you want to have sex with them. This is actually even better for social proof. If you have sexual desires for one of them you should make it known. If you get shot down, move on. I'd you don't have feelings like that, women can be great to have as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/15 05:07 PM
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Absolutely men and women can be friends. The only caveat is that you can't be sexually attracted to them. It sounds to me like you aren't attracted to J and F, so why wouldn't you want to be friends. If nothing else, it's social proof that females like being around you, and will help you get women in the future. Having women as friends is only bad if one of the people want a relationship and the other doesn't. That is how you get manipulated into doing things you wouldn't do with one of your nor…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/15 07:48 PM
2

In some countries, paternity tests are illegal
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 07:59 AM
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That's like 2x women saying that men just want to have sex and using a serial rapist as proof.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 03:40 PM
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Women want healthy, attractive, successful children. The best way to give yourself the chance to have one is to find a healthy, attractive, successful man. It is far more important to a woman than a man because of the resources required to have a child. Women are limited in the number of times they can reproduce. Men aren't. Men's goals is to reproduce as many times as possible . Men just want to pass their genes on. Men are only limited by the number of women they can get pregnant . Obviously t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/15 02:53 PM
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Yes, there are always exceptions regardless of what people say. Some women prefer doormat guys that they can boss around. They are the exceptions that prove the rule. However, in this case I believe the other folks here have pointed out that if you run over and dominate someone then they won't want to stay unless they have no self esteem or absolutely no other choices. TRP is push pull. Pull only and you're needy beta; push only you're a butt hurt, try hard, asshole. Push pull keeps their hamste…
/r/askTRP28/02/15 02:39 PM
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Women who are feminine. We don't want a woman who can cuss like a sailor, fart like a water buffalo and drink us under the table. Cursing is just words, it doesn't bother a lot of people. Chicks who can drink are great as long as they know how to (at least somewhat) control themselves while drinking, and what situations it is inappropriate to get drunk. Women who are pleasant. We don't want a strong, "opinionated" woman who likes to argue and have the last word. Arguing is fine as long as you ca…
/r/askTRP27/02/15 05:39 PM
2

There's a wide range between being a virgin and being a slut. Personally I would be wary of a girl who is 24 and is still a virgin. That screams religious, prude, or loser to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/15 12:00 AM
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And yet, when people say they want to get married, or are looking forward to marriage, for some reason they're not talking about the contract side of things. When people talk about getting married, almost everything they talk about could be obtained without ever getting the actual marriage certificate. Literally the only thing that the certificate actually does is enter two people into a legally binding agreement. It would be like having to get a best friend's license from the government before …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 10:10 PM
1

mar·riage ˈmerij/ noun noun: marriage; plural noun: marriages 1. The legally or formally recognized union of a man and a woman (or, in some jurisdictions, two people of the same sex) as partners in a relationship. In the US, it is also a legal contract to the courts, the government, the IRS, the healthcare system, and everyone else. Be clear, when we debate marriage and it's worth, we are talking about the legal contract. If you want to stand up in front of your friends, family, church, and god …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 06:44 PM
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Marriage doesn't prevent people from up and abandoning families, it happens all the time. If you're the kind of person who is willing to leave your family, I really don't think you're going to stop and think, oh crap, I have this legal obligation. The one caveat being people who are afraid that if they do leave, then the wife/husband will get sole custody of the kids. If that's the case, you aren't trying to leave your family, you're trying to leave your spouse. I completely disagree that it pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 06:35 PM
1

So what exactly is the value in marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 05:52 AM
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Be careful. Blue pillers will say you're player shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 04:17 AM
1

Why go through the process of getting a prenup when there isn't any value to getting married. The only reason I would get married is if I choose to have children, but that's just me. To each his own, but I don't feel sorry for guys who get divorce raped. You make the decision and live with it. Same with feeling envious of guys who have great marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 04:15 AM
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Yep. I love sluts. I also don't want a LTR with them. They are like party girls, great fun to hang out with, but not responsible enough for me to want to build a family with. Wind up like Peter running into guys who refer to his wife as loose lois
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 03:20 AM
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Sorry, but the possibility of having to deal with divorce far outweighs the need to conform to social constructs to "prove" I love someone. There are many other ways to do that. Marriage is a legal contract, not a pledge of love. If it was just a pledge of love then you wouldn't think it was weird when 2 people get married after knowing each other for weeks. The marriage contract should be treated like a business, and the relationship should be outside of any legal contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 02:58 AM
1

Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 02:52 AM
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Completely untrue if he has options.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 02:50 AM
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She's got a great personality is code for no one would ever want her sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/15 02:49 AM
1

Honeymoon is a good thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 11:26 PM
-1

I don't know any of my friends who've recieved gifts from their wives with the exception of one who paid for the honeymoon herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 11:22 PM
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I can definitely see how you misunderstood me, but I'm not the actual friend that this happened to. I have a similar situation with a couple where I'm the single friend. Their parents love me, and his mom would never do anything this crazy.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 12:38 AM
1

Thats the same thing I read.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 04:21 AM
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Probably going to get a lot of hate for this, but I am the single friend in this situation. I've been great friends with K for years, but we've never had anything sexual. Even before she started dating her husband and we were both single, I never made an attempt because I see her as more of a sister. Her husband is also one of my best friends and we hang out a lot. It would not be out of the ordinary for me to crash in their guest room without her husband there if I'd had too much to drink to dr…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 04:20 AM
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I get your point, and that's not why I'm saying this, but that has been a pretty big problem in the past (not necessarily the selling part). OB areas in hospitals are extremely locked down, each baby has a bracelet linked to the alarm system, you have to have special permission to be in there, and we do "code pink" drills to make sure if someone, somehow gets off the wing that we can shut the hospital down to keep someone from taking a baby. This is on top of all of the other security that a hos…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 05:02 PM
10

"Ok, I'll play. What else do you have to offer me?" Said in a playful tone.
/r/askTRP19/02/15 02:56 AM
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I'm not a psychologist, but we evolved to be social animals. We all have an inate desire to belong to a social group. Because this belonging is so important to us, the more the group thinks that something is right, or the way it should be, the more pressure is put on us to conform if we want to belong to the group. I absolutely think that social validation is how we realize if we belong and are accepted, so I believe that it is biological. The social programming is a result from the biological n…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 02:26 AM
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I think that TRP does blame their problems on the nature of society as it exists today and the nature of women. The difference is that we teach that in order to fix these problems you must change yourself. It doesn't matter who caused the issues, there is a way to fix the situation and it's through TRP. BP and feminism say that society has created the problems, so I'm going to complain loudly until society fixes them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 12:26 AM
1

Wanting validation is biological. How you get that validation would be social programming.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/15 12:03 AM
0

That's like asking why men care so much about looks. Why does a bird sing? Why do dogs turn circles before they poop? It's just the way we're programmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 10:32 PM
1

I bought my car because it makes me happy. I love my car and would even 8f I was the only person left on earth. It's fun to drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 10:30 PM
1

I think that women want the shiny things so they can show their friends, not because of the actual item itself. A diamond ring has no more value than a copper band other than it looks better and other people can see it. Women may purchase more consumer goods, but the majority is paid for by the income brought in by the man. 35 and single as a woman is way different than 35 and single as a man. The same could be said as a 35 year old woman without kids who is married but doesn't have a job vs a 3…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 07:29 PM
1

TRP is missing positive female interaction to the point of thinking it can't exist I completely disagree with this. I think that TRP takes a hard line on their view of women more to get the pill down the throats of the new people. Once you understand the concepts and reasoning behind it, you shouldn't have any issue finding and attracting a woman that will be a positive/loving person in your life. If positive female interaction can't exist, then what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 06:17 PM
3

Is thinking that people should be decent to one another no matter what is in between their legs white-knighting? There is a huge difference between treating people decently and treating everyone the same. You can also treat people decently while still looking out for yourself as your main priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 06:12 PM
4

The point is that if you just get angry, but don't do anything about it, people will notice that they can take advantage of you. When they do this, you become the victim. Women are way better at subtle communication than men are, and tend to be better at manipulating people to get what they want (usually not maliciously or consciously). That is why men wind up getting put into orbit doing things for women while they sleep with other guys. The term for this is "friend zone".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 06:09 PM
1

Women want flowers on valentines day for the same reason they want a wedding ring. One, so that they can see that you care about them enough to follow through with traditional customs. They are taught that if someone is in a relationship with you then it is the right thing to do to buy chocolates and flowers on valentines day. If that is the right thing, then not doing it is the wrong thing. Two, because it is a symbol that you are good enough to be in a caring relationship. Men tend to define s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 05:53 PM
16

Yes, actually, women ARE bombarded by oppressive voices at every angle by people who don't take them seriously. Primarly TRpers or MRAs. No, you mean primarily assholes. Assholes are the people that do that, regardless of what subs they are subscribed to. I've seen feminists say some pretty nasty shit to people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 05:40 PM
6

While I agree that the actual answer is censorship, I would say the censoring of all dissenting voices is a byproduct (over protection) rather than the main goal. The reason that censorship exists is because people really can say some fucked up shit to people. If some chick is asking advice on some really serious topic, she probably shouldn't have to deal with the "show me your tits", or the "you should go kill yourself" crowd. That said, I do agree that they take it too far. I've had comments d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/15 05:39 PM
1

being religious doesnt require the bible, but the bible helps if that's your goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 09:44 PM
4

If they gained the knowledge that black people were inferior through the scientific method, repeatedly tested and confirmed by independent parties through observation and experimentation, peer reviewed, and published in a scientific journal, then yes I would. Somehow, I think they would probably have a pretty difficult time doing that. That's the thing about science; we have a method that seems to work pretty well that lets observations and outcomes speak for themselves, regardless of who is doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 08:51 PM
2

I think guy would be more benefited from local support/self improvement group forming. going to the gym talk shop and bullshit. Way better than the red pill. I don't know what to say except you're wrong. You don't/won't accept RP ways, so you have no way of knowing what it can or can't do. I can emphatically say that it helped me more than any self improvement group or talking to guys at the gym could have. It's not a how to better yourself as much as it's a why you have to better yourself way o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/15 06:07 PM
5

I don't want to be treated exactly as a man would, but I don't want to be treated as a fleshlight or a child either. I completely agree, and you shouldn't. I don't want to be treated like a wallet or a doormat either. I was for years because that's what I was raised to think a man should be. The thing is, you have the choice to not be used. Feminism (or at least what it's become) and men's rights want to stop the other side from what they see as abuse, while TRP is telling men, "this is how it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 11:28 PM
5

Sales tricks are meant to deceive. TRP says you shouldn't deceive women, you should improve yourself so you don't need to. If she ain't buying what you're selling, there are plenty who are so move along. PUA seems more like how to trick a woman into sleeping with you than how to change yourself so women want to sleep with you. Also, thinking women and men are unequal does not mean that you have a dislike or that you think one is better than the other. I don't think men and women are equal, but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 09:56 PM
1

PUA and TRP are not the same thing. As the first post states, PUA is learning to be a better salesman, TRP is learning to make a better product. As for the misogyny, I really don't think that TRP is misogynistic in the true definition of the word. Misogyny is a dislike of women. TRP guys (once they get through the anger phase) are not angry at women, and they don't dislike them. If you want that, try MGOTW or MensRights. TRP is about taking people who think life should be one way and showing the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 07:39 PM
18

If you agree that feminism is fine because it raises/benefits women at the expense of the low value men, would you also agree that TRP is ok because it raises/benefits men at the expense of low value women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 06:28 PM
4

I don't see most men giving much of a shit, and certainly not to the point where they expect chastity. Most men do give a shit, but to me it's more about if that particular girl would be LTR material. If a girl is 28 and a virgin, to me that is just as bad as someone who is 22 and has been with 50 different guys. Both of those traits tell me something about them. I don't judge either of them as people based on those facts, but I can tell they wouldn't be right for me as a partner. 2) Don't judge…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 06:23 PM
2

A bunch of them are written as if they are what a 17 year old would imagine would sound good. I don't read them anymore because I would say that if you take the time to write it down, you will automatically change some aspects to make it more entertaining and make you sound good. However, I've absolutely seen the difference myself between me before TRP and after being introduced to TRP thinking. I would never write a FR though because who cares. It's like talking about your fantasy football team…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 04:16 AM
1

But you can tell the difference between a great deal and getting ripped off. Sometimes people over pay when they feel like they have no other choice. You can tell if someone owns a nice home without having any idea what they paid for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/15 04:47 PM
2

I completely disagree that smv is abstract. while true you cannot absolutely pinpoint someone's absolutely value, you can make judgement calls. An in shape, 30 year old, put together, businessman absolutely would have higher smv than a 50 year old alcoholic that lives in a single wide. My point was that you rarely see a guy who has a LTR (at least that works) where the woman is clearly out of his league. That's why scenes like the other guys where will Ferrells wife is smoking hot is so funny. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 04:51 PM
0

I honestly would prefer the one on the left.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 06:36 PM
4

Actually, this is the message being sent to everyone. Women wind up with increased self-confidence, while men are raised to treat women like a princess just because of the fact that they are a woman. In effect, this raises the SMV of all women. This skews the playing field towards the higher SMV males and we wind up with a society where the top guys are sleeping with multiple women, while the bottom guys are basement dwellers or MGTOW. It is a rarity that you see a guy end up in a LTR with a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 06:32 PM
1

1 not rape. 2 assault, but not rape. Could be reproductive coercion. Also, is considered rape in some places. 3 not rape. This is reproductive coercion. Unfortunately this is not a criminal act in the US 4 depends on where you are if it's illegal, but it's not rape 5 not rape 6 not rape 7 this would depend on her intent I would guess. 99.99% of the time not rape If lying to someone to get their consent to sexual activities is rape, then you could make a case that basically all sex is rape. Would…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/15 10:03 AM
3

This guy said everything I was thinking when I read op's question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/15 11:45 PM
1

Hell no. It's extremely rare to find a girl who is willing to just have sex and keep the emotional stuff out of it. I've only ever had one girl who I would truly consider a fuck buddy, and we wound up having to stop because she kept getting the feels. Maybe it would be easier if the girl was in an open relationship, but I live in the south and we don't typically do that kind of thing around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 10:09 PM
1

I suppose, but I would just call a situation like that just fuck buddies. Plates are typically referred to when you're talking about a girl that you actually go out with. Usually these end when the woman breaks it off because she (a) doesn't find the guy as relationship material (b) finally realizes that she's not going to get the relationship she wants out of him and leaves. The b option is usually accompanied by some kind of ultimatum, or fake breakup. I tend to get the "this arrangement isn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 09:57 PM
1

My point is that sexual attraction is the foundation of the start of a relationship for guys. You're telling him that he needs to lower his expectations of looks to find someone interesting. That's not logical. Obviously personality is what makes a LTR work, but guys don't ever (99.99% of the time) date women that they aren't attracted to. I guess the exception would be a guy who is just afraid of being alone, but in that case the girl could have the personality of a wet paper bag. Your advice w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 06:45 PM
1

And there are happily married couples where the woman finally went on a date with that guy she never liked "like that" because she was frustrated and out of options. The bottom line is that physical attractiveness is more important for men than it is women, and telling a guy to stop caring so much about looks is about like telling a woman to stop caring so much about sexual chemistry. And before you reply, I never said that physical attractiveness isn't important to a woman, and I never said tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 05:43 AM
2

While I basically agree with this thought there are a few differences. If there is no relationship desired by the "plate" she is just a fuck buddy. If there is no sexual desire by the guy then he is just a friend. Women tend to be a lot more up front with what they want and will ask over and over again for some kind of reaffirmation that the whole plate thing is moving towards a relationship. Guys know the difference between a plate and a FB nearly all the time. When the plate realizes that she …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 02:02 AM
0

That is like telling a girl who wants a relationship that she should just date one of her "guy friends". Why would a guy want to date someone that he wasn't physically attracted to? Using a girl for sex without the relationship is the mirror relationship of the "friend zone". With the friend zone, women use men for the relationship without having to give up the sex. In both instances I use the word "use" very losely, because person A in the relationship is happy, and typically person B in the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 12:37 AM
1

Personally, I think that the attractiveness of muscle size is non linear. It matters a lot more on the lower end because a guy who is super skinny may not have the functional muscles to do what is needed (move a couch for example). However, the person who works out can probably do most things that a guy should be expected to do (muscle wise) and also shows that he takes care of himself. The benefit in the relationship between this guy and a guy who is jersey shore big isn't that consequential. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/15 12:28 AM
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So I have this plate that I work with, and I really want to sleep with her. We went out once a few months ago, but she stopped returning my calls. I definitely have abundance mentality, but I really want her back because I think we are great together. Her best friend is a feminest, and I was thinking of showing her this sub to get more feedback. What should I do?
/r/askTRP29/01/15 12:17 AM
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My first thought was, "Fuck that, I could give a shit who sees my other posts." I didn't even think about someone intentionally going through doxxing people though. Time to get an alt
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 05:05 PM
1

Commiting a crime doesnt exactly make you a bad person either. I guess ultimately it would depend on the context, but continual theft probably means you're a bad person. People get judged by the things they have done in the past. Thats all you can really judge a person on. Absolutely agree with this. Having 70 partners absolutely disqualifies you from a LTR with me. I just don't think that the analogy to criminal history is the same. Credit history, work history, or sexual history sure, but thos…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 04:33 PM
1

Sluts aren't lying to themselves anymore than BP guys are. They just can't understand why people can't see that they would be such great partners. The biggest difference would be when/if they actually acknowledge why they aren't. BP guys can change who they are and how they act, but women have to lie about their past. Don't get me wrong, I don't know what the number is to disqualify a girl from LTR possibility, but I know it's less than 70. I just don't like equating this chick with someone who …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 04:22 PM
0

Guarantee I'll get some shit for this, but I completely disagree that sexual history and criminal history are the same. Some chicks like sex, and that doesn't make them bad people. Sure I'm not going to LTR a chick like that, but I'm not going to think less of her as a woman for it. Criminal history is intentionally hurting another party who (probably) doesn't have it coming to them. There are three things in this world that I absolutely hate, and those are a liar, a cheat, and a thief. Sluts ar…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 03:02 AM
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LMAO at adamryanx if he ever tries to cheat the system by showing up to the lab with a pocket full of some other dude's trouser gravy.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 10:09 AM
13

Fucking right, and it goes both ways. I work with a woman who has 2 kids and has to pay her ex husband child support. Dude is a deadbeat, and she had to work 2 extra 12 hour shifts to buy her sons school supplies because the dude spent the money on a new gun. Shitty people are shitty people and shouldn't get to use their kids to support them.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 10:04 AM
1

Day of the meeting I would shoot her a text and let her know something came up and you cant meet her. That's it. Never text her/talk to her again. If she hasn't been a really good friend of yours, and you aren't trying to sleep with her, why do you want to have coffee with her. You don't (that's your answer). You need to focus on what makes you happy.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 05:56 PM
1

I'd suggest Black Swan too if you haven't read it.
/r/RedPillBooks22/01/15 05:20 PM
1

I love NT. Black Swan is one of my favorite books.
/r/RedPillBooks22/01/15 05:19 PM
1

If you're raising this kid mainly because you love the kid, I think you're good. If you're doing it just to please mom, you've got a problem. Do it because it's what you want to do, not because it's what you think you're supposed to do. Everyone has friends who have step fathers who are almost indistinguishable from "a real father". One of my best friends calls his step father dad, and the guy is definitely someone that you would want to be raised by. One caveat would be to make sure the child i…
/r/askTRP22/01/15 05:17 PM
1

It depends. Couple's therapy saved my friend's marriage. He was a big time beta and it drove his wife to cheat. They went to therapy as a last ditch effort to save their marriage, and the guy basically blamed my friend for his wife cheating. He told him AWALT and that if he wanted to fix it then he needed to stop being a pussy and be a man. He guided him towards becoming the leader in the relationship, and now they are doing better than ever. I would say for the most part it is, but it depends m…
/r/askTRP18/01/15 10:02 PM
0

Lying to the police is not necessarily illegal. It really depends on what you are lying about, and what the ramifications of the lie are. With the extent that this went the best he could probably do would be slander. However, they should have let her fill out a report before they told her so she would get a felony out of it.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 02:23 AM
1

The first part was more of a joke, the second part is completely my opinion. To each his own, but I don't see any upside to sending a girl a pic of my junk. If I want pics of her, it's easy enough just using words.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 07:21 PM
1

In my experience with people my age (early 30's) it has been far more often the women that have affairs both emotionally and physically.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 07:15 PM
3

Sounds like the perfect time to go into MM. Isolation will help you focus on yourself, and you when you do decide to go out and make it a point to start socializing you will be in a better place to meet better people
/r/askTRP09/01/15 07:11 PM
2

Although I think just about everything here is great advice, I went about this a little differently. I used it as motivation. Fuck that bitch, she doesn't know what she lost. I am going to do everything I can to prove to her that I am better. I will make her regret leaving me. I will prove to myself that I can be a person that she doesn't deserve. Lift, read, posture, stretch, focus on work, focus on eating well. After a month or two all of the hard work will change the way you look at things. E…
/r/askTRP09/01/15 06:38 PM
1

My first thought was that something happened when she was a child. She obviously overreacted to you looking at pics of her when she was young, and flipping you off because you said she was a cute kid is just not normal behavior. Sounds like abandonment issues as well.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 06:22 PM
3

Congrats, some dude is probably jacking it to your pic now. Never send dick pics for any reason. If she wants to see it that bad, tell her she can get a good look as it's going in her mouth.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 06:16 PM
16

Abortion clinic game. You know they put out and are willing to take the necessary measures
/r/askTRP09/01/15 02:43 AM
1

Patience. I looked around every day for about 6 months before I found exactly what I wanted.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 01:17 AM
1

I bought my speed 3 for $20k. Leather seats, nav system, bose speakers, push button everything, and top speed ~160. Why anyone would spend more than $20k is beyond me. Used 1 year with 10k miles
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 12:12 AM
3

You don't have to join a frat, but definitely join clubs that you are interested in. Use college to network. My two biggest regrets in life are spending my entire college career with the same gf, and working/spending time with her instead of using college to build a network. read this (the main point I like is the intro before he gets into the list) One of the best things you can do for your life is to dedicate yourself to learning how to build a network. Read Digging Your Well Before You're Thi…
/r/askTRP07/01/15 07:14 PM
1

Toastmasters, basketball leagues, vollyball, apa pool, hiking club, dart tourney at the local pub, freemasonry, and on and on. Be warm, open, confident, and willing to step outside of your comfort zone. True friends are hard to come by, but regular guys to hang out with and improve yourself are easy. Check Craigslist for stuff going on. Also, you don't have to completely abandon your old friends, just don't let them affect your path.
/r/askTRP07/01/15 01:30 AM
5

Devil's advocate. If a girl fucks you on the first date it shouldn't automatically disqualify her as a LTR if that's what you're looking for. Maybe she's had a drink and it's the first time, maybe she's just that into you. It's a red flag, not a brick wall. 6 months is a long time to go in a relationship without sex, but it's not crazy. Maybe it's because I live in the south, and most around here are very religious, but just because they aren't having sex doesn't mean that they aren't doing anyt…
/r/askTRP06/01/15 06:37 PM
1

I actually wrote that I would not fuck any of the women that I am friends with, but changed it to I am not looking to fuck any of the women i am friends with. Sure there could be a set of circumstances, but I am not thinking about sex when I am hanging with them. I am actually going to a bar with a buddy's wife for the Vols game tomorrow because he has to work and we don't. When we are hanging out together there will be no sexual tension, and we will both be completely comfortable. My buddy know…
/r/askTRP02/01/15 05:48 AM
3

I am friends with women who I think are attractive. A man should never be friends with a woman that he wants to fuck. I am not looking to fuck any of the women that I am friends with (for various reasons)
/r/askTRP02/01/15 02:25 AM
0

I agree with you. I'd have been fine if he'd slapped her.
/r/askTRP01/01/15 05:02 PM
1

Men and women are different. If a man punches a man then he should expect to get the shit beat out of him. If you feel there is no difference then is OK for a man to punch a child? What if it's an 11 year old that weighs 120 and is 5 foot 4? What if it's a chick that is 5 feet and 100 lbs? Bare in mind I'm talking a punch to the face.
/r/askTRP01/01/15 05:00 PM
1

This is my line of thinking. When I said hit a woman I literally meant punch in the face. I would have been fine if he'd slapped the shit out of her.
/r/askTRP01/01/15 04:57 PM
1

Ok. Definitely not trying to draw negative attention to the sub (lord knows there's enough of that). I was just honestly curious. Also, I wasn't really asking about domestic violence, I was asking about using violence against a woman in self defense or as a reaction. I guess it is more or less the same thing, but I was referring to this gif in particular.
/r/askTRP31/12/14 07:53 PM
3

Sometimes it sucks, but abundance mentality. Next.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 06:19 PM
2

College isn't for everyone. There is nothing that would stop you from having a successful career as long as you continue to learn and improve yourself. That said, it is typically much easier to make good money with a college education. Know that without it your life will probably be much harder. If you still think that you don't want what college offers, look into vocational training or an apprenticeship. Find something that you love doing and figure out how to make a living. I met a guy once wh…
/r/askTRP27/12/14 08:57 PM
2

I know it really sucks but you have to let her go. Even if she did take you back there isn't any trust anymore. Live and learn.
/r/askTRP23/12/14 03:37 AM
5

Two things in life that are free, air and pussy. Focus on doing what is best for yourself, not trying to buy smv. You should probably talk to a fee based financial adviser, or at least get some feedback from /r/personalfinance depending on how much you recieved. Beyond that, don't focus on spending money to increase your smv, focus on doing things that will increase it. Money matters, but the main benefit is allowing you to have an easier go of improving yourself. You could hire a PT, someone to…
/r/askTRP22/12/14 05:52 PM
2

problem is that if they lose that 100 lbs their body is still busted due to sag.
/r/askTRP21/12/14 04:27 AM
-4

It's not that I don't know that she compares me to her previous guys, it's that I don't care. Women with the qualities that make for a good ltr naturally will have lower numbers. If you think the reason they would make a good wife is because they have less guys to compare you to, then I feel bad for you.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 05:02 AM
-4

You've got it backwards brother. I'm not looking for validation from any chick I'm banging. I've been with enough women that I know I do a good job and take care of business in bed. I also know that I have other qualities that women want besides just good sex. If she wants to leave because some dude was better in her past, then who the fuck cares. There's always another one around the corner. You need to change your mindset from competing for a girl to girls competing for you. She's lucky to hav…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 03:21 AM
4

I fell into one in college with a pair of roommates, and honestly I'd say it's vastly over rated. I'm glad I had the experience, but I prefer to be with one at a time that way all of the attention is focused on me.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 05:51 PM
-4

I agree with you. Some chick may have gone down on a guy in a movie theater when she was younger, but will refuse to do it with you because she isn't 18 years old anymore. What if she had a 3 way in college that wound up screwing up her relationship with her best friend so she decides that no matter what happens she won't ever have a 3 way again. I would argue that it is also completely acceptable as far as the money situation that he described. Maybe you realized that it benefits your life more…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 05:47 PM
2

I prefer, "Don't stick your pen in the company ink." College is fine unless possibly you have the same major and will be in the same classes for years. If you have a career to consider, don't do it.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 04:11 AM
9

Michael Jordan $168 million, tiger Woods $100 million, mick jagger $40 million
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 12:26 AM
23

A very attractive nurse at my hospital just went through a pretty nasty breakup. One of the security guys called her and asked her what kind of coffee she liked. 30 minutes later he shows up with a vente latte from Starbucks (it was his day off). I happened to be standing there talking to her when he came in and my response was a very enthusiastic "omg how cute is that." Yesterday I overheard her telling a coworker about how weird it was for him to show up with coffee out of the blue on his day …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 10:34 PM
1

Basically I would say that something this small isn't worth tossing a chick that you like. Just make sure that if it is a sign, you keep your eyes open. Maintain your frame and let it go. It doesn't bother you because there are tons of other chicks out there just as good as her.
/r/askTRP16/12/14 06:57 PM
6

I honestly think you're overreacting. If you're willing to drop a chick because she liked a photo on facebook of an ex who she has now cut communication, deleted his number, told him she couldn't see him anymore, and unfriended on facebook then she shouldn't be anything more than a plate. If she is just a plate, you shouldn't care anyway. I'm not saying you shouldn't have brought it to her attention, and I'm not saying you shouldn't be wary of future signs, but she liked a photo probably out of …
/r/askTRP16/12/14 05:00 PM
1

this is a great post to start with
/r/askTRP16/12/14 04:26 AM
2

They typically spend upward of 50% of their gross on liability insurance though. Source: work at a hospital and am friends with mda/crna staff
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 09:36 PM
3

Thanks. Who is this?
/r/askTRP10/12/14 01:44 AM
9

I was thinking the same thing. I've been really good friends with this chick for ~8 years or so, and we were always just friends even when we were both single. She's stayed over at my place, and I at hers on multiple occasions with 0 sexual tension on either side whatsoever. She got married to someone I knew but never hung out with. Now he is one of my best friends. I think you can have a completely platonic relationship with a woman as long as each person has no sexual desire for the other. Som…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 01:16 AM
1

Well I would disagree. Very few companies actually outsource to other countries, it just seems that way because the major corps do. The company that I work for has ~20k employees and is located solely in east TN. The company I worked for before that is a national company that has ~1k employees located on a single campus. Business administration- Business administration is the application of this process to a formal organization. An associate degree in business administration provides the foundat…
/r/askTRP27/11/14 11:25 PM
1

Agreed. I would advocate getting a degree that is applicable in many fields. Businesses administration with a minor in communication studies here. I've never had a problem getting a job (knock wood)
/r/askTRP27/11/14 08:50 PM
1

Change your major. You say that you have ideas that you want to implement; take classes that will help you make those ideas come to fruition. I chose a path and went down it with a certain expectation, and I kept working at it long after I realized that it wasn't a good fit for me. I had a come to Jesus moment when I decided that I needed to change even though it was very late in the game. I wound up going to college for 6 years instead of 4, but it was definitely worth it. Get the degree that w…
/r/askTRP27/11/14 08:05 PM
3

Naa. This is a publicity stunt
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 08:41 PM
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