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Yup just lonely apes. I think about the solitary male orangutan a lot
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/12/21 07:37 PM
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Yeah everything is relative. Four partners to me is a lot.
/r/seduction09/12/21 12:01 AM
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Yeah speaking about being mentally ill... I think it’s also a social thing. I don’t know if that’s doable for me. I’ve literally made no friends. None. Not one new friend since I was a teen. I mean if I could sleep with 100 different girls that’s sounds awesome and who wouldn’t want a lot of sex. To get up to your speed I’d need to bang a new girl every month and it takes me basically a month or more to even start getting past platonic with someone. I literally just introduced myself to someone …
/r/seduction04/11/21 05:14 AM
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Just apes fighting and clawing away... But we have words so we’re all “socialized” and shit ahaha
/r/seduction03/11/21 05:31 AM
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Yeah these posts much more often just depress me rather than help me. This is coming from an average guy at least which I assume most men on reddit are. So we average dudes come on these subs and compare ourselves to dudes in the top of the pyramid, so to speak. I mean banging 100 women ? If that’s even true that is sooooo much sex like I can’t even comprehend... And we take advice from guys in just totally different worlds lol. Seriously like I live at home I’m 27, mentally ill, don’t have some…
/r/seduction03/11/21 04:55 AM
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Yeah I’m in the best shape of my life now but I’m gonna die a virgin. Confidence is everything
/r/seduction28/08/21 08:56 PM
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I don’t get over them
/r/seduction26/08/21 10:31 PM
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That’s awesome man. For me it was the opposite though. Getting fit changed nothing
/r/seduction09/08/21 06:01 PM
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How do I go further than just getting attention?When in my head I feel like a fraud. I know some guys and maybe most guys out there would just do whatever they can to get laid. I’ve never had that drive. I guess cuz I don’t know what to like to fuck. Anyways, In my head I’ll be thinking im a liar cuz they don’t know I live at home. And that I don’t have a lot of money. Stuff like that. What do you think :(
/r/seduction31/07/21 08:07 PM
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No :/ the only place I talk to women is online, thats it. Last time I approached in person was probably college so like three or four years ago Edit: I’ve kind of stopped trying. Mental/social health got worse certainly with the pandemic and even without the isolation it would have been bad. I guess I started to convince myself I couldn’t have success with women at some point. Now I’m just a disconnected, nihilistic, basically alien shell just trying to get some hits of dopamine before dissolvin…
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:17 AM
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Yeah I’ve been hitting rock bottom lately and I think I’m starting to realize this. Everyone just cares about themselves. I’ve literally convinced myself to not try with women. For years. I’ve wasted years. To worrying and overthinking! Now I’m starting to realize the gravity of this. But I’m probably past the point of return. I said I’m at rock bottom. I’m 27, no job or career, no place, no savings, virgin, hate myself, etc. I honestly feel like everything is chaos and just fucked. I’m not gonn…
/r/seduction30/07/21 10:41 PM
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Hm. Yeah I’ve heard this and it’s a wise quote. But the question is does the last line of your comment mean I should just try dating or something regardless of my life situation. Idk I have no reference point in my adult life... Or does it mean I should forget about dating relationships and sex and focus on other things? Maybe there’s no answer
/r/seduction14/07/21 02:33 AM
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Why is it so fantastic
/r/seduction02/07/21 01:23 AM
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I’m in a similar predicament as a 27 year old virgin. I’ve had plenty of time to think about regret and it all comes back to this, sadly. “Marry, and you will regret it; don’t marry, you will also regret it; marry or don’t marry, you will regret it either way. Laugh at the world’s foolishness, you will regret it; weep over it, you will regret that too; laugh at the world’s foolishness or weep over it, you will regret both. Believe a woman, you will regret it; believe her not, you will also regre…
/r/seduction07/05/21 09:42 PM
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I’ll take this with me to the afterlife 🕊
/r/seduction03/05/21 10:17 PM
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All I can say is do something different now. I’m basically you if you do nothing in the next 4 years. I don’t mean to scare you or anything but I feel the need to be honest. It only gets worse if you do what I have done which is nothing.
/r/seduction05/04/21 07:48 PM
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I don’t get it how do you be a sexual person just talk about sex
/r/seduction19/02/21 05:52 AM
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What if your so far behind and so far down a dark hole that everything seems impossible
/r/seduction01/02/21 08:11 PM
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Assuming post covid 19 ever comes
/r/seduction13/06/20 11:06 PM
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It’s the same as before so I don’t really have to cope necessarily it’s just business as usual
/r/seduction21/03/20 11:56 PM
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I am and I am not. I absolutely love parts of it. Being able to do what I want, not having to worry about another sentient beings feelings and emotions all the time. Just an overall feeling of freedom with no pressure. But I hate not having any intimacy whatsoever. Still haven’t in 5 years
/r/seduction21/03/20 11:41 PM
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Well yeah I’m important because I allow interesting people to exist but what does that mean for me? Isn’t that like telling the serfs that they’re an important part of the fabric of a fuedal society ? They are but what about them ?
/r/seduction22/12/19 08:35 PM
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Well I feel like I have a purpose now
/r/seduction22/12/19 04:41 AM
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There’s gotta be some boring people to balance the universe out though right ?
/r/seduction22/12/19 04:17 AM
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Yup. Only ways I could be considered successful is school I guess and my physical appearance. I live at home and have no job or career prospects and I’m a virgin
/r/seduction19/12/19 10:59 AM
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Yup I guess that is why. Damn mentally jerking off is all I fucking do.
/r/seduction26/11/19 09:46 PM
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Yes to Stutterer2101!! Episode is called the Pez Dispenser
/r/seduction28/09/19 02:24 AM
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So you’re saying OP’s gotta get hand
/r/seduction27/09/19 06:16 AM
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I remember when I thought a year long dry spell was long... I’m on 4. Wait 5. I’m losing count
/r/seduction12/09/19 08:06 AM
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Yeah, sometimes I get existentially terrified about it but I’m mostly used to it all. To answer the question as to why? I guess I would just say because it’s easier. It’s easier to give into anxiety than it is to fight it. It’s easier to make a post on reddit to talk about it than going out and doing something different. Its easier to be closed off to others than it is to open up. I can apply that theme to so many aspects of my life. It’s easier to just be this way and I think it’s going to keep…
/r/seduction07/07/19 01:45 AM
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I’m at the complete opposite end and I can’t fathom why I ever would. I’m 25 still a virgin and I just feel like my time has passed. It’s to the point where I’m accepting my fate already. I’ll die this way and I think about that a lot. It’s a topic I’m kind of fixated on and it’s such a strange thing. Being an organism that is literally made to reproduce that never will. It leads me to wonder does it even matter? The man that fucked 100 women and the virgin will both end up turning into dust eve…
/r/seduction03/06/19 01:19 AM
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Why don’t people realize we’re just pretending then?
/r/seduction25/04/19 09:44 AM
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”I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi.” This is probably due to the massive overthinking that rules my whole life, but to me this just sounds so weird to say... well at least I just can’t picture myself randomly saying it to a girl, know what I mean? It’s so damn simple I almost cant believe it really works. Hopefully I get the balls to just try it one day.
/r/seduction12/04/19 12:21 AM
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Honestly curious how are they so different?
/r/seduction04/04/19 08:43 PM
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No way is it too late. I don’t think its too late for anyone tbh. It’s all up to us to change something, improve, put ourselves out there and try if we really want it.
/r/seduction04/04/19 08:40 PM
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I’m in the same spot. Wish I had some advice. I’m probably gonna check out the YouTuber one of the commenters suggested. I definitely relate to the wasting first half of 20s part. Fuck man.
/r/seduction01/04/19 05:08 AM
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If you hang out with women to learn hw to socialize you will just become gay. Sounds good to me
/r/seduction16/02/19 05:56 AM
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Making friends. Man I swear if I’m honest a ton of my problems stem from my inability to do that. I’m just not enough of a social person. I just make all these posts and questions and thoughts to deflect from that. It really is my core problem
/r/seduction01/02/19 08:00 PM
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While we’re on the subject lol I’ve been working out for a while but mostly running to burn fat. I actually have an average body type now thanks to that. But I want to get to the next level aka ripped or toned. What are good workouts to tone the upper body? Right now I’m just doing planks/pushups really
/r/seduction01/02/19 06:58 PM
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I know lol. It honestly feels like my only chance sometimes though. Appreciate your help and knocking sense into me
/r/seduction01/02/19 06:41 PM
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My plan is to literally just go on tinder, have some shirtless pic from the beach or something or idk even just make my bio “I have abs” and just see what happens. There’s got to be some shallow people out there. My odds won’t go up at all if I’m ripped though?
/r/seduction01/02/19 06:33 PM
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I think I can. I mean when I have to I can hold a conversation and ask questions and listen and stuff. But while I’m doing this I’m always questioning if what I’m talking about is interesting enough. My thought process is kind of like “what about this conversation is really that interesting for her?” “Would she and why would she want to talk to me again?” Etc. I’m a massive over thinker like a lot of people here I’m sure. But I know that just having a conversation isn’t enough. Or is it? I reall…
/r/seduction28/01/19 08:16 PM
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I basically just gave up on romance. Funny things is that giving up was probably the best thing I did to getting myself out of the ‘forever alone’ hole This is exactly where I am. After the last relationship I had a few years ago (yikes) I was so bent on finding somebody and losing it and it was always at he front of my mind. That got me nowhere. I think I was tying too hard and that was a phase I went through. Now I don’t feeling like I’m trying too hard cuz I’m not trying at all I know, but I …
/r/seduction21/10/18 04:53 PM
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If he was unconfident and too shy to go out and try to interact then it wouldn’t be easy for him. That’s the kind of social anxiety I was talking about and I should have made that clear. People making it sound like hot chicks just fall into hot dudes laps even if they were horribly awkward and very unconfident in themselves and I disagree.
/r/seduction23/08/18 09:06 PM
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If he had social anxiety to the point of not having enough confidence to go out and interact in some way then no he probably wouldn’t. That’s the kind of social anxiety I’m talking about which I didn’t make clear and people are misunderstanding.
/r/seduction23/08/18 09:02 PM
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I feel like I did. I think that time like around the end of high school is a crucial point. If you don’t figure out shit with girls then it’s just going to get harder as you get older.
/r/seduction23/08/18 01:52 AM
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Good advice. Thank you.
/r/seduction23/08/18 01:50 AM
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Agreed. Coming from a socially awkward person I think a lot of people in this thread take those simple social skills for granted.
/r/seduction23/08/18 01:48 AM
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If Brad Pitt was visibly socially awkward, unconfident and shy I don’t think he’d have success.
/r/seduction23/08/18 01:38 AM
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As long as they have the confidence to go out yes. I should have mentioned extreme social anxiety I guess.
/r/seduction23/08/18 01:37 AM
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That’s exactly the point I was tying to make. I should have mentioned extreme social anxiety which I don’t think a lot of people understand. Exactly you have to actually initiate something confidently no matter how you look and that’s something I just haven’t been able to do lately.
/r/seduction23/08/18 01:33 AM
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Yeah confidence is everything. Which is kind of what I was trying to get at with this post.
/r/seduction23/08/18 01:31 AM
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I’m 24 which I know is young but I missed out on a lot of crucial things. Instead of dating multiple people and messing around and gaining experience I got into a way too fucking long term relationship instead. So in that crucial time of 16-21 instead of gaining experience I’m with one chick that I don’t even like who’s also pressuring me to do shit I don’t want to do. You can see my other posts but i developed a fear of sex thanks to my upbringing which also seems to have really fucked me over.…
/r/seduction22/08/18 06:21 PM
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The guy with zero game has enough confidence to go out and try to be social though. And idk I think no matter how hot you are you have to have some sort of social skills to make something happen. To meet the girls in his hotel room you have to have communication and conversation skills over tinder to make that happen for example.
/r/seduction22/08/18 12:43 PM
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