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skyrunner22 · 2021-11-03T02:37:19+00:00

This all seems legit because I can agree with most you said, only thing I kinda laughed at is when you said game is a bit overrated then said all it takes is social calibration, ability to approach and tease with proper escalation.......

ummm..

Thats essentially some of the top pillars of game! lmaoooo.. I think when you have been in it soo long and dont have those issues anymore it becomes a blind spot and you sorta become a natural like yea just be socially calibrated bro, you dont need game.. Well the guys looking for this stuff have NONE of that and the only place they can learn it is thru "game"..

The word is loaded nowadays and many people have many different definitions but what you said all you need is dam near the fundamental foundation..

susumaya · 2021-11-03T04:34:14+00:00

Are you super good looking? Do you have a nice place? Nice car? High paying job? Rate median girl you’ve slept with? Are you white? How many 10s / <4s have you been with?

fulgurdeus · 2021-11-03T04:53:19+00:00

Question, what IS being bf material? What is that middle sweetspot? And can these turn into relationships, I am not interested in sleeping with lots of women, just one I date a lot of times.

Additional_Effect840 · 2021-11-03T02:07:08+00:00

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antonthecad · 2021-11-03T15:16:01+00:00

I'm around 140 women now and I pretty much agree with all of this.

I would especially agree with that game is overhyped. Game is missold as some weird routines and things you need to do to trick a woman into bed, when really you just need to be socially calibrated and know when and how to escalate. Game is just about being as socially calibrated and "cool" as possible.

The one thing I'd add to this is that you need some balls. I always found that the dates where I failed in the past was because I didn't make the move I knew I should be making. Women aren't going to hand you their pussy on a plate(usually) and you'll have to go throu

margoelle · 2021-11-03T01:48:34+00:00

100 ladies in the past weekend? Goodness me! I keep thinking of those STD’s just waiting

KingPerezz · 2021-11-03T04:34:24+00:00

What type of job do you have? Are you financially stable? This is my biggest insecurity right now while in college and shit

Pedadinga · 2021-11-03T00:45:28+00:00

This isn’t seduction

jbo99 · 2021-11-03T12:14:04+00:00

Did you find most women were down for the casual hookup or were a lot of them confused and thought you wanted more

oscarony · 2021-11-03T17:11:49+00:00

this is basically the best tips and i’ve been employing a lot of them this year.

every man that’s looking to level up should read this (even if you want a committed relationship)

Teamtoast · 2021-11-03T17:35:42+00:00

Very good post thank you! Agree or disagree on his choice of lifestyle, but there’s some solid advice here for dating in general.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-11-03T06:09:28+00:00

The black pill and incels are out in full force today.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2021-11-03T13:06:36+00:00

Love how this is exactly the type of content that this sub is designed for and yet all the incels and feminists can't help but come out to attack it lmao.

You've reached the 100 tier, well done my man! I also hit 100 when I was 25 (I'm 28 now) so you remind me of me haha (although I lost my virginity at 18, not 15).

Great advice, the only things I'd say is, as someone else mentioned earlier, "game" is not overhyped, almost everything you described is game. What's overhyped is PUA tactics and one-liners, which I think is what you were trying to say.

Also, your 95% first date lay rate is kind of a crazy stat. Lots of girls just won't do it on the first date out of principle, even if they really want to (not talking nightgame, talking actual first dates). As long as you're understanding of this, getting the 2nd date lay really isn't an issue.

I used to have the same mindset as you, if a girl doesn't sleep with me on a first date, then she's disposable, but you're actually limiting yourself with this because most girls who give you LMR on the 1st date will be very open to having sex on the 2nd date.

My recommendation to you is that if a girl doesn't fuck you on the first date, don't toss her away. Think about it this way: your chances of getting laid on a 2nd date with that girl are much higher than getting laid on a 1st date with another random girl. Therefore, you should actually be prioritizing those 2nd dates. This has worked really well for me and I suggest you consider it.

Anyway, I'm happy for you bro! Shoot me a chat message if you want to connect and share ideas/discuss strategies. Always good to connect with like-minded people.

MrColfax · 2021-11-03T06:37:00+00:00

Make it about her or talk about things as opposed to interview style questions

Any tips re this?

How to make it less like an interview?

1990MeWuzBorn · 2021-11-03T19:14:27+00:00

I agree overall. But I’ve slept with girls the first time meeting them meeting up in the middle of the day for burgers, walking in the park, coffee, etc. Definitely drinks are my favorite though.

TrueAna-rchistdotcom · 2021-11-03T21:00:21+00:00

How tall are you? I'm 5'7 and dead insecure about my height. I feel I'll just get insulted on my face and have a hard time recovering from it. The only girlfriends I've had were 5/6 outta 10. I'm 21, about average looking and not in the mood for relationships. I want to delve into the casual sex world. I don't live in the US but live in a place where people are open about sex, so it's comparable. So, is any of your advice even relevant to my case? Or is it not cus I easily fall out of the top 5-10% of guys?

KSLProds · 2021-11-03T07:56:12+00:00

100 lays? My mane loves his chips!

GroundbreakingBus138 · 2021-11-03T02:30:07+00:00

Ok you either have lots of hot girls in your area or you are one disgusting porn perv

Prixster · 2021-11-03T09:03:07+00:00

this post can only impress a person who is below 21 year old

_dusTy96 · 2021-11-03T11:03:08+00:00

jesus

vLeskur · 2021-11-04T00:10:52+00:00

You a hoe

dobbs1997 · 2021-11-03T07:24:30+00:00

This is not the flex you think it is
Quality > quantity
How is your relationship with your mother?

abundance-lover · 2021-11-03T09:19:20+00:00

Thank you for your post.

Now I can spot pick-up artists more easily :)

JohnZoffman · 2021-11-03T16:19:32+00:00

Can you give good examples of proper teasing and escalation that you have used ?

What do you talk about, on approach, dates and at the house before sleeping together

canuckle1211 · 2021-11-03T17:00:06+00:00

My twenties was my boom years for sure. Had 3 girls in a 24 hour span. All spontaneous texting and meet up with some girls I’ve been dating.

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TheCaribbeanRedditor · 2021-11-03T23:39:30+00:00

Useful post

Sultmaker_9000 · 2021-11-04T00:19:19+00:00

Plenty of women have rules about no ONS, or have a set number of dates in their head, so I'm calling BS on that claim, as well as other logistical problems for it not to happen same night.

I'm always suspicious of guys who want to make a deal out of their numbers, its like a rich guy , who needs to go around claiming he's rich.

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