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1

The brutally honest truth is that she’s not sexually attracted to you, my man. Women also get horny and want sex, so it’s a red flag to me that she’s being so unaffectionate after so many dates. Move on and find someone else who’s interested in being intimate with you, as you deserve that.
/r/seduction18/12/21 05:15 PM
4

I’m 31 and I seem to only get with 25-28 year olds for whatever reason, but I do also look about 2-3 years younger, as I’ve been told.
/r/seduction18/12/21 12:27 AM
14

Best: bars, lounges, breweries, coffee shops, and walking at the park. These are best due to being very one on one and forcing you to engage in verbal as well as non-verbal communication. Worst: movie theaters. Neutral: amusement parks and restaurants can either be good or bad, but this 100% depends on who you’re out on the date with.
/r/seduction17/12/21 01:37 PM
4

Meet up for tea then 🤷🏻‍♂️. You can still meet up and get ice cream, but you’ll have to physically escalate to build up sexual tension, which would’ve been much easier to do in a bar.
/r/seduction16/12/21 04:33 AM
2

If they’re under 21 then meet up for coffee. If they’re at least 21, meet up for drinks.
/r/seduction16/12/21 04:14 AM
4

I agree.
/r/seduction16/12/21 01:36 AM
8

Except the women are literally creaming themselves around him.
/r/seduction14/12/21 11:45 PM
9

Go on YouTube and type “Russell Brand flirting”
/r/seduction14/12/21 06:40 PM
8

^
/r/seduction14/12/21 04:25 AM
14

Also, most girls are shit-tier at texting.
/r/seduction14/12/21 04:25 AM
3

She’s simply inundated with messages from other men. Jk. You just haven’t built up enough attraction irl. So try to set up a irl meet up asap.
/r/seduction14/12/21 04:24 AM
0

Kys.
/r/seduction11/12/21 10:27 PM
2

I think it’s creepy tbh.
/r/seduction10/12/21 07:19 PM
5

Talk to them in the same way you’d talk to a guy. There’s no difference. And quit putting them on a pedestal.
/r/seduction10/12/21 04:29 PM
3

Yeah for sure. I used to be scared of “losing muscle” if I cut down to where my abs are actually visible, but losing muscle is total bullshit if you’ve built muscle naturally and train/diet properly. In fact, you’ll look bigger.
/r/seduction10/12/21 02:33 PM
3

Yeah man, after experimenting around quite a bit over the last year, I’m convinced that I’m capable of dieting and hypertrophy so long as I eat at least 1g of protein per pound of body weight — in a 500 cal deficit even.
/r/seduction10/12/21 02:02 PM
24

A chiseled face from cutting body fat is definitely the way. The vast majority of men would look so much more aesthetic. I’ve been guilty of being ~25% body fat thinking that “but bro, I can deadlift so much tHeReFoRe I’m attractive to girls bro,” but it was only when I was leaner (with muscle visible due to not having a layer of fat covering it) that women started paying me more attention when out and about in public.
/r/seduction10/12/21 01:56 PM
-1

No, you’re incorrect and grossly uninformed.
/r/seduction09/12/21 11:39 PM
0

Not true at all, lmfao. Above average levels of testosterone is associated with all types of positive health benefits. Read about it.
/r/seduction09/12/21 11:38 PM
1

I’m getting downvoted now lol
/r/seduction09/12/21 10:22 PM
0

So a group of low testosterone effeminate men will produce the exact same outcome as a group of high testosterone masculine men?
/r/seduction09/12/21 10:21 PM
0

Weak men create hard times… You want that for the society we live in — a bunch of weak, feminized men? But that goes against the laws of nature, so explain your reasoning, please.
/r/seduction09/12/21 09:44 PM
2

I was referring to instances of divorce and child custody. The man is always fucked by the system.
/r/seduction09/12/21 09:42 PM
1

There’s multiple reasons. One could be that she’s more experienced than you and now views you differently. Another reason could be that she was just shit testing you, didn’t want to know, and now has lost interest. Or maybe she’s very inexperienced and is intimidated by your body count and has now gone cold.
/r/seduction09/12/21 08:20 PM
4

Not only that, but the court system almost always sides with the woman. Men are consequently punished.
/r/seduction09/12/21 08:17 PM
76

Feminism has affected every single man born into a Western society.
/r/seduction09/12/21 06:26 PM
119

Because no girl would EVER dare approach a guy at random and and then proceed to ask them questions, unless she liked you (which even then that’s a rarity they’d do that). So she clearly thought you were cute and approached you.
/r/seduction09/12/21 05:52 PM
106

Yep, she was into you.
/r/seduction09/12/21 05:28 PM
3

One thing to make it seem “less weird” is getting some food. But in all actuality, it’s definitely not weird. Also, I’ve never had a girl at the bar ask me who I was with.
/r/seduction09/12/21 03:04 PM
14

I hear ya. You’re just overthinking it. Just apply what you learn here every day and you’ll make progress.
/r/seduction08/12/21 09:31 PM
98

21 is young, bro. I started sleeping with the most women around 25. I’m 31 now and have multiple plates. Men get better with age — just take care of yourself MENTALLY and physically.
/r/seduction08/12/21 09:15 PM
2

A woman will almost never approach a man. In fact it’s so rare, it’s better off safe to simply assume they won’t ever approach you.
/r/seduction08/12/21 06:48 PM
3

Not that, just that you need to maintain a masculine frame and basic principles of game/seduction/whatever you want to call it even in a relationship. That’s where a lot of dudes fail. They get in a relationship and then slip up and become complacent, needy, or beta-acting. You still have to continue leading and maintaining a masculine frame.
/r/seduction08/12/21 02:54 PM
1

“I had fun and would be interested in going out again sometime soon”
/r/seduction08/12/21 02:23 PM
4

No. Even then, you still have to game her the same way you would if she wasn’t your gf. In fact, you need to be on your toes and keep from slipping up.
/r/seduction08/12/21 02:13 PM
3

Ok cool. Just avoid oneitis at all costs. No matter how cool or amazing or chill or pretty you think the girl is, there’s always another elsewhere. 👍🏻
/r/seduction08/12/21 02:07 PM
4

Tbh, I would talk to other girls. I’m not saying ignore this girl completely, but you want to find girls who are sexually available and interested in hanging out with you.
/r/seduction08/12/21 01:51 PM
3

I think you need to start lifting weights and get some testosterone surging throughout your body, then the urges to talk to girls will easily come. Plus, you’ll be more confident and dominant with women.
/r/seduction07/12/21 01:57 PM
3

Just build some quick rapport and ask them to meet up for drinks or coffee within 36 hours of matching. Sometimes I ask sooner — other dudes are doing the exact same thing and will ask before you if you take too long.
/r/seduction07/12/21 09:59 AM
2

She lost interest because you didn’t even go for the kiss. Don’t feel bad about yourself — it’s a learning experience, but it’s better to go for it and get rejected than to wake up the next day feeling regretful.
/r/seduction07/12/21 09:51 AM
1

Wtf would a “model” be doing on a train?
/r/seduction06/12/21 11:40 PM
38

The “pressure” is an illusion. On an individual level, nobody truly cares as we’re all individuals.
/r/seduction06/12/21 08:08 PM
0

Ultimately, the system’s going to collapse and new boundaries will have to be redrawn — which will be a good thing in the long run since why should be have to be subjected to these assholes who feel they have a right to come live where we live (and ruin things for us) because they turned their places of origin into miserable shitholes?
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:43 PM
3

The future of dating is in cities in Texas, Florida, and red states… The problem is people are fleeing these blue state shitholes and voting for the same exact policies which made them flee these liberal hives and move to red areas to begin with. It’s. All. So. Tiresome.
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:15 PM
0

NYC sucks.
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:02 PM
1

Implies people need to inject fat into their vocal cords in order to attract women lmfaoooo.
/r/seduction05/12/21 10:46 PM
2

Make sure you maintain high amounts of T in puberty Buahahhah!
/r/seduction05/12/21 09:48 PM
7

They are referring to Atlantids and handsome Meds. NOT Nordic, Nordic pheno You mean Germanic phenotype? Highly disagree with this lmao.
/r/seduction05/12/21 07:14 PM
2

In the fun areas and places to be in Charlotte and Atlanta, nobody cares about vaccine IDs and masks at clubs or bars despite both being very blue cities.
/r/seduction04/12/21 03:07 AM
2

^ just talk to them like a male friend but at the same time make your intentions (that you want to have sex with her) known. (No, that isn’t creepy either — not making your intentions known is creepy.)
/r/seduction01/12/21 08:32 PM
1

^ This. Also, you sound like a decent person, but fuck the dude who low key had feelings for her. She was very clearly sexually attracted to you and you could’ve paid $10 for an Uber to get her home after you smashed.
/r/seduction28/11/21 09:23 PM
2

Tbh, she’s probably a pretty chill person, certainly knows what she’s doing in bed, and she’s rich. Plus, she doesn’t look all that bad for an almost 40-year-old who lived the style of life she lived for so many years.
/r/seduction28/11/21 02:25 PM
5

I would just be blunt and ask for her number.
/r/seduction28/11/21 01:11 AM
2

Models
/r/seduction28/11/21 01:09 AM
1

You just need to get out there and meet women who are open to just being FWBs.
/r/seduction28/11/21 01:02 AM
0

Minka Kelly
/r/seduction27/11/21 08:24 PM
1

^
/r/seduction27/11/21 08:19 PM
2

Strong eye contact and physical escalation.
/r/seduction27/11/21 08:19 PM
2

My last one was about 10 months.
/r/seduction27/11/21 06:30 PM
14

Strong eye contact, not being too serious about things, and physically escalating.
/r/seduction27/11/21 02:48 PM
1

See if she’ll meet up with you at a dog park or something like that.
/r/seduction23/11/21 12:54 AM
1

Dude, I was literally going to bring up the Brad Pitt example — there’s women who don’t think he’s attractive simply because he isn’t their type or doesn’t have a personality they like or whatever. At the end of the day PUA and similar types have some sort of “system” or product to sell you. They’re simply businessmen.
/r/seduction22/11/21 05:31 PM
3

I’d definitely meet them in public first to ensure they’re not batshit crazy.
/r/seduction22/11/21 04:35 PM
2

Exactly. They only show their successes and never their rejections. I agree that looks isn’t everything, but at the end of the day people need to realize they still matter and every woman has their type.
/r/seduction22/11/21 03:23 PM
2

Yeah, you cannot force attraction. She’s either sexually attracted to you or she isn’t.
/r/seduction22/11/21 03:07 PM
10

It’s not your race, they’re just not attracted to you.
/r/seduction22/11/21 11:59 AM
2

Just talk to them like you would a dude. Why overthink things or try to come up with some clever or witty remark?
/r/seduction22/11/21 10:31 AM
1

Do you lift weights? Having muscle mass automatically makes a man look more masculine. (Yes, even very effeminate men.)
/r/seduction18/11/21 11:23 PM
2

^
/r/seduction18/11/21 03:31 AM
32

Always go for a hug. I’ve never had a girl to refuse a hug and if she did then I would consider it a red flag.
/r/seduction17/11/21 12:31 AM
3

I mean, it’s one of her relatives. What if instead of her cousin it was her uncle. Would that also be weird?
/r/seduction16/11/21 11:20 AM
1

It was a joke, but thank you for posting a link.
/r/seduction15/11/21 08:14 PM
1

High numbers of sexual partners for women effects their ability to pair bond. Cry about it.
/r/seduction15/11/21 04:11 PM
1

High lay counts only effect women. This is a biological fact.
/r/seduction15/11/21 01:24 PM
5

Adidas track suit, usually black or navy blue.
/r/seduction15/11/21 12:33 PM
2

Car, public restrooms in remote places (like the back of a department store in a big mall; parks), in nature, hotel room.
/r/seduction14/11/21 06:02 PM
2

I’ve literally said “hey, wanna come back and watch funny fail compilations on YouTube?” a few times and had no issues bringing them back to my place. I definitely wouldn’t overthink it. If she’s into you, she wants you to take the lead and facilitate an arrangement where sex can occur.
/r/seduction13/11/21 03:20 PM
5

Exactly this. If the girl is into you and dtf, it will be very simple to seal the deal. You’ve just got to be assertive and lead the interaction there.
/r/seduction13/11/21 02:52 PM
1

Good advice/suggestion that works here ^
/r/seduction13/11/21 02:52 PM
1

Uber or taxi.
/r/seduction13/11/21 02:51 PM
4

The “let’s go back to my place for a drink” most definitely works, as another poster suggested. Alternatively, I will bring up during the date the topic of movies or tv shows and I’ll suggest towards the end of the date that we ought to go back to my place and “watch x, y, or z.”
/r/seduction13/11/21 02:51 PM
38

Being a “nice guy” is a mindset, which can be easily broken via reframing and rethinking about things. Have you read “No More Mr. Nice Guy” by Dr. Glover? It’s highly recommended if you haven’t already.
/r/seduction13/11/21 02:48 PM
2

Everyone’s different, but I need to have sex with my gf multiple times a week. Plus, I like going out to breweries and bars and just having fun, so normally I’m out on a date with my gf at least 3-4 times a week and/or we’re at either her place or mine hanging out.
/r/seduction13/11/21 01:31 AM
1

4-6 beers or around 5 shots.
/r/seduction13/11/21 01:15 AM
27

No girl is going to allow herself to be alone with you in a place where sex could occur if she didn’t want to get fucked by you to begin with.
/r/seduction12/11/21 10:10 PM
9

Yeah just ask him to “come over.” That’s all you need to say.
/r/seduction12/11/21 07:21 PM
44

That advice was “somewhat” more realistic back in like the 1950s, when people were forced to interact with others face-to-face on a regular basis. So it would make sense that the likelihood of simply “stumbling upon” a good match would occur. But in 2021, I agree that advice is absolute garbage. We have to take action to get action nowadays.
/r/seduction12/11/21 01:57 PM
8

It’s something you’ll just sense — stronger eye contact, more receptive to your presence, etc. A girl who’s not into you simply won’t give off the same vibes. But also remember that all of this is a numbers game. Even if some of the first few girls are simply being nice, there’s another girl out there who’ll find you attractive and will be open to having sex with you.
/r/seduction12/11/21 01:12 PM
15

You don’t need to say anything special. Literally walk up and start a conversation with the girl like you would with another dude. If she’s into you it won’t be hard to tell and getting her to “come watch a movie later” won’t be that difficult of a task.
/r/seduction12/11/21 12:53 PM
2

Breweries, beer gardens, wine bars, lounges, Target.
/r/seduction08/11/21 10:20 PM
2

Yes
/r/seduction08/11/21 07:27 PM
2

No. In fact, the best years I’ve had dating is now (31).
/r/seduction07/11/21 01:57 PM
1

This.
/r/seduction06/11/21 11:23 PM
107

I like doing the high-five and then interlocking your fingers with her’s and holding hands momentarily. It’s very subtle, but a girl who’s not interested won’t be willing to let her hand “linger” like that.
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:02 PM
1

Talk to girls.
/r/seduction04/11/21 04:44 PM
1

Do you use the “hey, wanna come back and watch a movie?” or “hey, wanna come back and have some wine?” style lines? I almost always use a combo of the two and I’ve never had a girl refuse. Plausible deniability is the way.
/r/seduction04/11/21 02:47 AM
1

So do you always try to bring the girl back to your place or do you sometimes get them to bring you to their place? I’ve always just gone to my place since I’m more comfortable/it’s in my comfort zone, but that’s me.
/r/seduction03/11/21 09:39 PM
2

I agree overall. But I’ve slept with girls the first time meeting them meeting up in the middle of the day for burgers, walking in the park, coffee, etc. Definitely drinks are my favorite though.
/r/seduction03/11/21 07:14 PM
1

I wish I could live through the 90s but starting at 21. Yes, 2020 sucked ass.
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:11 PM
1

Take deep breaths from your diaphragm and focus on being in the moment and present.
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:10 PM
1

It’s far more nuanced than that, though. But in general I do agree overall.
/r/seduction02/11/21 01:19 PM
2

In theory this may be correct, but some of the most loyal gfs I’ve ever had were more than willing to have sex on the first meetup.
/r/seduction02/11/21 01:15 PM
3

Remove the “Hey you look great in that costume” (she already knows she looks good in it), but keep the rest of it.
/r/seduction01/11/21 08:16 PM
1

Because they’re probably not 100% sober and/or find you physically attractive?
/r/seduction01/11/21 07:54 PM
1

I’ve encountered racism, but I’m not a little pussy and don’t allow idiotic beliefs to get under my skin.
/r/seduction01/11/21 06:26 PM
1

You’re framing this as if “racism” is something only white people can dish out and something which white people are also simultaneously unable to experience. I just think you’re a little bitch.
/r/seduction01/11/21 06:10 PM
1

Do you live in the U.S.? If so, you live in one of the most racially diverse countries on the planet and yet here you are crying like a little punk.
/r/seduction01/11/21 06:08 PM
13

She wants to get fucked by you. Just be assertive and go for the kiss and things will progress from there. Trust me.
/r/seduction01/11/21 01:00 PM
4

Dude, just use dating apps as a “supplement” to life. Plus, all of the baddest, hottest women are not on dating apps — they’re out living their life in the real world.
/r/seduction29/10/21 06:29 PM
1

Find another girl who’s into me.
/r/seduction29/10/21 06:12 PM
1

Lmao
/r/seduction28/10/21 12:04 PM
2

“Hey I’m gonna be about 5 mins late”
/r/seduction26/10/21 01:39 AM
1

Approach and talk to her like you would a guy. If she’s into you she’ll help you out.
/r/seduction25/10/21 01:15 PM
4

I was in target earlier and saw a few gilfs and a couple of milfs. It’s real.
/r/seduction24/10/21 08:32 PM
1

Are you being serious? I always heard/thought that site is filled to the brim with bots and only a small percentage of the women on it were real human beings.
/r/seduction24/10/21 07:41 PM
8

A more mature version of a MILF ;)
/r/seduction24/10/21 04:54 PM
36

Grocery store. Target (I’d go here first). Bookstores. Gardening sections of stores/etc.
/r/seduction24/10/21 04:53 PM
1

Dating’s a numbers game.
/r/seduction24/10/21 01:39 PM
78

Hotel bars
/r/seduction23/10/21 07:54 PM
23

In what type of locations?
/r/seduction22/10/21 10:43 PM
5

Go to her door and ring the doorbell. Look her father in the eye, introduce yourself and shake his hand.
/r/seduction22/10/21 10:38 PM
5

Lol. Very true comment, but also funny.
/r/seduction22/10/21 10:36 PM
1

I disagree. Whether someone “isn’t attracted to white guys” or “isn’t attracted to black guys” is a personal preference.
/r/seduction21/10/21 08:53 AM
1

This goes both ways — there’s plenty of black or brown women who would never date a white man, but that doesn’t make them “racist.”
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:14 AM
1

Either you’re handsome or you’re not. It is what it is. Simply being white doesn’t make a man more attractive than a handsome black man with a chiseled jawline.
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:12 AM
1

Performance anxiety
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:09 AM
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