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[–]JacobMoogberg69 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You have to create a certain energy, a vibe. Basically you want to be sexy girlfriend and not boring wife or worse A SISTER! Many people who have been together a while act like each other's siblings almost. All sexual energy is killed off.
To do this, do things that make you sexy. Like wearing a specific pair of jeans and heels, always having lipstick on, revealing cleavage, etc. always treat him like you are dating and not like you've been married for 10 years.
[–]1990MeWuzBorn 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]Noob_elk 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Eye contact!
[–]nupollution 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Second this, especially when in a group setting. Keep your eyes on the person of your interest, even when someone else is talking.
[–]nupollution 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Withhold the “automatic” smile. Only smile when you’re genuinely tickled by something. Your smile will be more valuable and noticeable if you’re not beaming for no reason all the time.
Edit: after re-reading this I think my tone might sound accusatory; not my intention! I am someone who used to always have a smile on as a nervous response. I found doing less of that and and more intentional smiling brought more money, respect, and power into my life. Always good for tuning up the heat!!
[–]theosamabahama 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Move your hands over his body from time to time. Like his arms, legs, chest, back and face.
[–]1990MeWuzBorn 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Strong eye contact and physical escalation.
[–]Bhardwaj-littlesub 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Send him cute selfies with little skin showing here & there
[–]Man30798 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There are books, video's (YouTube) and probably even classes on this so I suggest you look there.
For me it's a combination of body language, eye contact, dress choice, tone of voice, ...
[–]soccer-boy01 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Any sort of physical contact.
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