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How do I improve those social skills
/r/seduction31/01/22 11:20 PM
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...and, if the vast majority of people don't know what they're doing, but still manage to mostly lose it by 20, how is figuring life shit out going to help anything? I don't see the correlation Yes it makes sense that life will improve in general, but relating that to sex makes zero sense when everyone has sex anyway
/r/seduction30/01/22 07:16 PM
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Those same humans lose their virginity at 17 on average
/r/seduction30/01/22 05:37 AM
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Lying about the outcome is still lying about the outcome, it might happen. Who cares if it happens or not?? If I get to 30 and it didn't happen, that sounds like a pretty miserable existence, especially being surrounded by people who find it easy. The results are important because skinship is an important part of human life. How many people needed therapy because of quarantine? Now multiply that by decades.
/r/seduction29/01/22 08:19 PM
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Sounds like a good way to never learn anything
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:56 PM
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How do you know that exactly
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:52 PM
-5

"Sort of comes together" In a thread about how to do that What the hell dude
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:50 PM
-4

Yeah okay troll I keep being disappointed by this sub
/r/seduction27/01/22 05:14 AM
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Sweet thanks
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:38 AM
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How do you get good at sex then?
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:33 AM
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Do either of the 2 dating books talk about social skills?
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:24 AM
1

Ok how do you escalate
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:22 AM
1

You have to be good at sex before you pursue sex? I'm so screwed
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:21 AM
-1

How do you take advantage?
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:17 AM
1

Uh what are some examples of a mission? It would be easier to act on actionable advice and not a frustrating set of buzzwords.
/r/seduction27/01/22 03:35 AM
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Did the confidence boost lead to more success?
/r/seduction27/01/22 03:28 AM
1

You literally said in an earlier comment that OP's vibe would change. Direct quote: "your life and your vibe will change." You predicted that. I'm not the delusional one here. If you want to help... what did your interactions with women look like afterward? What were some times you succeeded, and what were the specifics? I can't go off of stuff so vague Edit: oh good. Yeah having to explain anything in detail, or even backing up something he said was gospel truth, was too hard
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:24 AM
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Okay so you also can't just predict whether I'll be successful or what my vibe will be, bro I'm sorry, I wanted to believe so hard that you weren't just another drone parroting the same advice... but at the end of the day what you said was all vague and unusable. And you completely ignored what I said about body language and social skills. Your advice is not a cure, don't pretend like it fucking is.
/r/seduction26/01/22 06:08 AM
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Okay well I'm glad for you. I can't do that myself. That was 3 times tonight. I have nights I'll ask 10 or more people Thanks for making me feel like shit
/r/seduction26/01/22 05:59 AM
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I don't believe you at all about the vibe dude. Even if it's true, that's meaningless. Didn't I tell you that even when I was out doing stuff people didn't gravitate toward me? It's not like your body language or social skills immediately change. Mine didn't. And "vibe" is pretty much a meaningless idea that you can't even explain, even though something explainable changed I just went to the bar and got rejected 3 times, I'm out there trying buddy. It's just luck.
/r/seduction26/01/22 05:53 AM
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But how will they be able to pick up on it? Don't be spiteful now
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:49 AM
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I don't really know exactly what to do to work on my social skills outside what I'm doing, practicing with friends and at bars. It sucks. I'm glad you made it and are having a good sex life, but I'm here for real specifics and tips
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:48 AM
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If you can't explain it, how will others pick up on it It is a set of behaviors so it should be explainable.
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:35 AM
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Really? I did everything you said to do originally in the post, all the way through college. Had good friends, had outgoing behavior, went to a few dance clubs and dance bars and was in DnD groups and did board game clubs and went to parties and made friends in class and met girls and talked to new people all the time... No hookups. Rejection did sting less, but it didn't get me anywhere. The vibe didn't actually help. You can't explain it because it's feel-good advice that doesn't fix shit.
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:31 AM
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How will I know when I've hit the right "vibe"
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:29 AM
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That has nothing to do with what we were talking about
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:10 AM
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It is something you can explain if you described it as a certain "vibe" And how will I know when I'm experiencing it?
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:08 AM
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Why not?
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:03 AM
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The only thing that changes is you'll have more to talk about?
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:00 AM
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How does it lead to behavior change and what is the behavior change?
/r/seduction26/01/22 03:44 AM
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"Your vibe will change" Explain how and I'll believe this
/r/seduction26/01/22 03:37 AM
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Isn't this sub about looking for a viable solution? I think it's more a circlejerk of feel-good cliches that are way too simple for people who can't get laid
/r/seduction25/01/22 10:23 PM
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And just get a better job if you can't move bro It's so easy bro
/r/seduction25/01/22 10:21 PM
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If the number of rejections didn't matter, then the amount of approaches doesn't matter. You're not gonna say that's true. Skills can be explained, but how to get laid cannot be explained, because it's luck based. So not much of a skill. People don't work like other things do. Playing an instrument is clear-cut. Not flirting with someone.
/r/seduction23/01/22 10:59 PM
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"Flow in your clothes" and "make women laugh" are not remotely in the same ballpark as "lift weights and calculate the right diet for you." There are no guides for making a girl comfortable. Unless you can find one, I can't really. "How to manage my ego" did return specific tips about it, thank you, didn't realize it would. But flirting with women and getting laid doesn't have that same kind of direction.
/r/seduction23/01/22 10:57 PM
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I have gotten 700 rejections in my lifetime, not like I'm not trying my dude. Just that there's no more details out there. Geez man, not everyone was blessed with your social skills. And everyone who has them doesn't know how to explain them
/r/seduction23/01/22 10:04 PM
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High level guidance isn't the way to teach a skill, so he shouldn't be claiming it's a skill
/r/seduction23/01/22 10:03 PM
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I don't have any idea how to change those variables and your post didn't help anything. How do I flow in my clothes? Beats me 😂
/r/seduction23/01/22 10:01 PM
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If you believe it's a skill, teach me
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:30 PM
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Cool, something I know from getting rejected by over 700 women! You too, I hope you appreciate having a good sex life.
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:29 PM
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But what you promised is that this is a skill. That's not the conclusion I can come to with this post. I think an attitude problem is the most vague and overgeneralized answer possible, and it goes a lot deeper than that. I was happy in college. And had friends. But didn't get laid. Knowing how to make a girl laugh and escalate would have helped.
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:27 PM
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Then the part about "flow" and self consciousness is just a cloudy mess for which there is no amount of detail that can teach you how to do it. If fashion was the issue, he should have left it at that.
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:23 PM
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Without details this is just leaving me to guess what to do He said it was a skill, he should be able to explain how to learn it
/r/seduction23/01/22 08:58 PM
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Those aren't things that can be taught step-by-step like other skills, so it's disingenuous to say they can be learned like skills. By "letting go of ego" you just mean focusing on improving the experience instead, but there's no insight into what the experience is, except "make her laugh" and "emotionally connect with her." I'll search for 8 style attraction triggers on YouTube and get back to you. Here's the funny part about that analogy about making money... no matter how hard you try, maybe …
/r/seduction23/01/22 08:11 PM
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How do you let go of your ego? How do you "flow" in your clothes? If those are skills that can be taught, fucking teach them. The mini-steps are the skills that you glossed over, and won't bother to explain. Please make the post to explain how to make her laugh and be comfortable around you I am that 23 year old virgin, and I've been rejected by 700 women, from everywhere.
/r/seduction23/01/22 07:51 PM
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Okay, once all that is solved, it still won't be easy at all to find anything close to sex I did those workouts in college, had a ton of friends, but I didn't have very good social skills compared to them
/r/seduction13/01/22 01:36 AM
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Ok got you. True. I'm sorry
/r/seduction12/01/22 08:13 PM
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Go get therapy? Will that make me any less physically starved? I will look harder for someone like that but the last few flaked out on me
/r/seduction12/01/22 08:12 PM
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"Just talk normal" yet asking for sex is taboo and flirting is complete bullshit that's not straightforward at all. Nothing about this is normal or sensical bro.
/r/seduction11/01/22 10:14 PM
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Okay I have time. I have time to keep getting rejected over and over and over and over and over and over and over. While people all around me get hugs, kisses, sex, and a shit ton of other stuff my physically starved ass will never get as long as I'm alive. And I'll get to watch it. What's so hopeful about that? That sounds fucking miserable. Why do I want to live that life, anyway? And when did you lose your virginity
/r/seduction11/01/22 10:11 PM
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Okay so why the fuck would he want to be with her if she could decide one day, any day... that if she doesn't feel up to being a good partner and helping him, she should just leave him in the dust? He didn't friendzone himself if she wasn't attracted to him, like you said. She could have made moves. She didn't actually want him. Dude... he deserves a partner who respects him. Only giving him a chance when he's hot? She already knew who he was, but didn't give him a chance before. Yeah no, he's w…
/r/seduction11/01/22 10:04 PM
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Okay let me get this straight... He can't expect any support from his wife when he's depressed? I don't think that's how marriage is supposed to work. You're talking like women shouldn't give men an ounce. In a loving relationship, you work to make each other's lives better. Each person is responsible for their own mental health, but geez, you obviously don't give a shit about a partner's mental health. No way would I crawl back to someone who didn't give me so much as a chance in the first plac…
/r/seduction08/01/22 11:05 PM
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How so? No one's ever wanted to before
/r/seduction08/01/22 10:59 PM
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A lot of people in this sub like to pretend this isn't true
/r/seduction08/01/22 07:58 AM
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24 in March
/r/seduction08/01/22 07:56 AM
1

Thank you!! I'll read all these tonight I really appreciate it.
/r/seduction08/01/22 07:52 AM
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What are you even talking about
/r/seduction08/01/22 07:52 AM
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Are they wrong though? This has been my experience too
/r/seduction06/01/22 06:21 PM
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That means she didn't really like him for who he is. What happens later in life when things get hard and he falls into another depressive state? Is it fine to just lose all attraction again and say "I'm outta here"? He shouldn't put any more time into her than pumping and dumping. I'd say not giving her any more time and focusing on his new self is a way bigger moment of growth.
/r/seduction06/01/22 06:14 PM
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And you still might get rejected, no?
/r/seduction06/01/22 06:05 PM
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What kinds of expectations do you set for people? Like, not responding to them if they flake on you or insult you?
/r/seduction06/01/22 05:56 PM
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Easier said than done
/r/seduction05/01/22 09:20 AM
1

But there are step-by-step instructions for swimming. You can learn tons of strokes in a matter of minutes.
/r/seduction05/01/22 09:18 AM
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It's a skill you can learn. Where can you learn how to do it? Can you explain the steps?
/r/seduction05/01/22 09:17 AM
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Okay but how do you calibrate?? Do t just leave us hanging. What is the difference between creepy and not creepy? How can you tell when they're uncomfortable?
/r/seduction05/01/22 09:16 AM
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And you lost your virginity at 15 and learned how to talk to girls early because you went to a public high school. You had lots of friendships and had fun with a lot of people... that I never had. I'm sorry you lost them all, but I never really got them until college, and even then I was mostly the outcast or the odd one out. The POINT of r/seduction is to seduce people. I'm baring my soul to you, you know a deep dark secret about me that nobody in my life knows. I'm trusting you to tell me what…
/r/seduction05/01/22 09:10 AM
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Sex isn't going to be easy for people like me then. Would you tell me "it will happen"? Listen. I'm physically starved. Either it happens, or I'm just not putting up with this life any longer. Simple as that, and what's so bad about putting an end to a life where I never got a lot of those wonderful things? I had maybe two meaningful friendships and that's it. Not gonna live through another year watching people touch friends and be easygoing with friends and laugh freely with friends, while I'm …
/r/seduction05/01/22 08:45 AM
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What I'm saying is true and you're giving me platitudes that have nothing to do with flirting or social skills
/r/seduction05/01/22 08:37 AM
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Because it's not constructive, it's some variation of "be confident" or "be yourself". Even the comments that say "flirting is a skillset" don't back it up by saying what the skills actually are. What do you want me to do with the info you gave me? I'm gonna keep failing for an awful long time and that's unacceptable to me. Just how it is.
/r/seduction05/01/22 08:35 AM
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Are there 100% odds I'll have sex with a woman on any of those days even if I do that?
/r/seduction05/01/22 08:32 AM
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All those upvotes might be from people who already have this figured out, and who learned good social skills young and never had to learn. Applying this knowledge is also not simple. Do you want me to try giving a detailed answer? If I do, I'll get a bunch of detailed answers about what's wrong, and nothing more constructive. It's actually happened a few times, even talking about specific approaches in DMs. I'll be able to work on this in a couple of hours.
/r/seduction05/01/22 05:53 AM
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What is this going to accomplish
/r/seduction05/01/22 05:24 AM
2

"You will attract a woman in the meantime, trust me" Got any proof for this? I studied abroad and nothing happened.
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:56 AM
0

Literally non-advice because there's zero detail
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:54 AM
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80% of women sleep with 20% of dudes, it is that hard
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:50 AM
2

How do you make them emotionally excited
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:49 AM
1

I mean I'll try, but most other people will chalk it up to an attitude problem and never explain what the skills are.
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:44 AM
1

Okay. So you promised to explain good social skills and flirting, and left us hanging, and suddenly it's my fault. It says something about your character if you don't explain those things anywhere in this post
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:43 AM
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I want to learn how to flirt and have good social skills. I'm sorry I gave your advice valid criticism, and my tone was aggressive. I'll listen if you want to explain details.
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:41 AM
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More like we're still stranded and you told us to just go find water 😂
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:39 AM
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Yup not willing to leave your narrow bubble to help others have good social skills, or learn how to flirt. I really need to learn to stop expecting much from this sub
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:36 AM
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It really sounds a lot more like you can't explain the skillset 😂 Also wow "stop overthinking" man we should be playing r/seduction bingo, I'm halfway to winning. I can cold approach people, I did it hundreds of times the last couple years
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:31 AM
1

Okay... so it might not be slight? Then maybe it isn't slight and the post is bullshit. Who cares if it's putting the cart before the horse? You still need to learn those skills. If mindset is the issue, then why did you bring up the skillset at all? And why the hell wouldn't you even attempt to explain what the skillset is? It's like you're trying your hardest to make this as frustrating and confusing as humanly possible. Either there's a specific skillset that differentiates nice guys from nat…
/r/seduction05/01/22 03:58 AM
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The difference between nice guys and naturals is very slight And the answer is apparently to change your entire life path and put in years of therapy if that's what it takes. That's not "slight" at all. It's a skill set Then explain the skills and how to get better at them. This post is very vague about how to actually do it. Your reading comprehension is way worse than mine is!
/r/seduction05/01/22 02:57 AM
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So how does one import a confident, masculine mindset? We don't know, you didn't explain it lol
/r/seduction05/01/22 02:24 AM
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Blaming people for rejecting me? Yeah, that sounds about right. I'm not in control of what they say. If it's a delicate balancing act, it's a very hard thing to pull off, right? I went to the gym the past couple weeks, have been looking for a job, have been approaching girls, and have been looking for therapy. All rejections. If your advice doesn't work for me, it's not my fault. What kind of posts do you want to see me post in r/askseddit? Everything will be obvious in hindsight. And we should …
/r/seduction02/01/22 09:42 PM
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"Try something that works" r/restofthefuckingowl
/r/seduction01/01/22 09:22 AM
2

Would that ever work on an average person today? Wouldn't make much sense
/r/seduction01/01/22 09:10 AM
1

It leaves me with nothing useful to go off of
/r/seduction01/01/22 07:41 AM
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Examples?
/r/seduction01/01/22 07:41 AM
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So many drones saying this. There's no timeline for "eventually"
/r/seduction01/01/22 12:44 AM
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Bye, if you have something useful and specific, feel free to DM me
/r/seduction31/12/21 11:32 PM
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This is the part that no one is talking about, and we're about to go in the same circle that I just went in with this dude. "Spiked with sexual intent" I have no idea what you're talking about because you're also going to tell me "don't just ask." You're going to tell me to flirt without making direct sexual comments or jokes, but also flirt agressively, but not too aggressively.
/r/seduction31/12/21 11:26 PM
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This has nothing to do with talking to girls
/r/seduction31/12/21 11:23 PM
1

Also what is "the work"
/r/seduction31/12/21 10:58 PM
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I mean you're telling me I can just succeed no matter what just by putting in some work That's not how it works
/r/seduction31/12/21 10:56 PM
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I like how this got no response 😅 this guy couldn't get any more specific
/r/seduction31/12/21 10:54 PM
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MAYBE girls after
/r/seduction31/12/21 10:43 PM
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I'm sorry, I just don't know what people expect beginners to do with this advice. Except none of those things help at a lower level because you can still fail a lot at the lower level. What you're saying by "be both DTF and not DTF" is contradictory and literally meaningless. If you get one tiny nudge wrong in push/pull, the whole thing falls apart. That's been my experience. It is a matrix: a bingo board of contradictory things that don't belong together. We're also living in a culture that's s…
/r/seduction31/12/21 09:21 PM
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Never mention it THAT IS HIDING IT. You are full of shit. Or at least horrible at explaining this. That literally still is hiding sexual interest. So I don't know why you said "don't hide it" and "don't come across as two-faced" if you're literally supposed to hide it and make her wonder. You are hiding what you want. None of this makes sense. And earlier you said she already knows you want to fuck, so why would it suddenly be a mystery? Those things can't coexist either. Also there have been ze…
/r/seduction31/12/21 08:55 PM
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We could talk. Would you want to be my girlfriend or FWB?
/r/seduction31/12/21 08:40 PM
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But if you straight up mention having sex then you're creepy. Could you give more detail about that balance please? James Bond never mentions sex and depending on the Bond, girls would be turned off by the level of forwardness. I've never succeeded by being forward
/r/seduction31/12/21 08:39 PM
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Then how are you supposed to build that rapport in the first place? You kind of need small talk and shit
/r/seduction31/12/21 08:34 PM
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"Don't ask straightforwardly" Not helpful without tips on how to do it
/r/seduction31/12/21 08:32 PM
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The odds of this are so fucking low
/r/seduction31/12/21 08:31 PM
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I've asked out so many girls lately. Hundreds. Ain't nothing free, but the work might not pay off
/r/seduction31/12/21 08:29 PM
2

Here's my point: you can try anything, but every girl is different and you can't read their mind. "Stepping that game up" in my experience is totally based on luck.
/r/seduction31/12/21 08:05 PM
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What are some of those do's and don'ts? That's what we're doing here after all
/r/seduction31/12/21 08:00 PM
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Does that mean eventually you're guaranteed to win?
/r/seduction31/12/21 07:56 PM
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These posts always go like this: "I'm taken but I appreciated it" "I wasn't looking for anything but I encouraged him to keep going" "If I was single I would have said yes" But we never see success posts that follow these same rules
/r/seduction31/12/21 07:54 PM
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You're fine with any guy that's average but you just ignored me lol
/r/seduction31/12/21 07:49 PM
1

Why is this any different than those YouTube videos, really? By your logic, hard work should pay off eventually no matter what you're doing. You can only change things up so much, and people are unpredictable.
/r/seduction31/12/21 05:44 AM
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Thank you!! If you've tried to do something 500 times and haven't succeeded, maybe you can't really do it. This sub will tell you otherwise. "It'll happen if you're just confident." False positivity everywhere, and here we finally get a shred of realism.
/r/seduction31/12/21 04:01 AM
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That hasn't really been my experience outside a couple girls
/r/seduction30/12/21 09:35 PM
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No more flaky than other girls, but generally that depends on your social skills and how attractive you are, right? So at the end of the day it doesn't change much.
/r/seduction30/12/21 09:21 PM
1

And then those people will be flaky. This actually happened to me, one of my friends had a party, recommended me to her friend, and then she was a horrible texter... she turned me down, and then I stopped giving her attention. I got no closer to what I wanted.
/r/seduction30/12/21 08:18 PM
1

Okay how did you make it happen?
/r/seduction30/12/21 05:19 PM
2

Glad we agree!
/r/seduction30/12/21 08:10 AM
2

But they also need good social skills and experience to actually pull it off. It's not that simple
/r/seduction29/12/21 09:50 PM
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Imagine beating someone up for creating good YouTube videos and trying to get organic views. By that logic, people who can't get laid should just stop trying to get laid. I haven't managed to do it after 500 tries, it's too late, may as well give up.
/r/seduction29/12/21 09:48 PM
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And we don't owe them attention, validation, or friendship. Simple stuff
/r/seduction29/12/21 09:45 PM
1

Yeah no shit. Just kissed her out of nowhere?
/r/seduction29/12/21 04:59 PM
1

Okay I mean we could talk. Also I didn't realize you offered that to someone, you're the exception to the rule. But even then you'd say no to a lot of stuff. And you've probably got some experience anyway, some people just never get that
/r/seduction29/12/21 12:53 AM
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There's a ton of cons when it comes to dating, at least someone will initiate conversations with you. Looking through your comment history you only hit on some dudes who had muscles and were way taller than most people here
/r/seduction29/12/21 12:42 AM
1

How?
/r/seduction29/12/21 12:28 AM
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So there's literally no theory, it's still all bullshit, and if you keep practicing and keep failing, well you might never make it
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:02 PM
1

Every single dude? What if I'm not one of those dudes. You're saying I don't exist haha
/r/seduction28/12/21 09:53 PM
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So there's literally no difference in the times you were successful vs unsuccessful? I don't buy it 🤣
/r/seduction14/12/21 07:31 PM
1

Okay. I'll post some field reports today and tomorrow. I'll link them here. We will inevitably have a different idea of how useful the advice is, because you'll know how to apply it and I won't.
/r/seduction14/12/21 07:04 PM
1

If it's super easy, please explain how it's done :)
/r/seduction14/12/21 06:36 PM
1

How will the details of that interaction help in other interactions? I thought no two people were the same. Also... the community will say "work on flirting" and "do the same thing again" I've seen it before, the same thing would happen.
/r/seduction14/12/21 06:34 PM
1

I've gotten rejected a ton of times, now what
/r/seduction14/12/21 06:30 PM
1

Okay, if I write a field report, what are the actual chances I'll get helpful advice for the future? I am 100% positive people won't try very hard. I have quite literally seen "work on your flirting" under a field report, and it got hundreds of upvotes
/r/seduction14/12/21 06:17 PM
1

I am so fucking ready. Just tell me how to get laid and I will!!
/r/seduction14/12/21 04:50 AM
1

Which ones? Maybe in terms of happiness, but it'll have nothing to do with what we're talking about
/r/seduction14/12/21 04:49 AM
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I would expect seduction advice in a sub literally about seduction. Every other sub can give good advice, why can't this one? And if what you're saying is true, why did you just tell me with no evidence that I'm not beyond being helped?
/r/seduction14/12/21 02:28 AM
1

I have a couple similar things on my profile, but they don't go into much depth. I'm probably beyond being helped, and just going to kill myself before I get rejected a hundred more times out of college.
/r/seduction14/12/21 02:07 AM
1

Yeah
/r/seduction14/12/21 12:50 AM
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Hygiene is good, I splurged on some Mont Blanc cologne and shower everyday Fashion could be a lot better, mostly just solid Carhartt tees, I do have some solid button ups though, and I'm always in jeans I need to work out more but I'm probably not bulking up fast anytime soon. Very skinny with a stomach that's just now filling out
/r/seduction14/12/21 12:47 AM
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I was that guy in college and it didn't happen.. Worked out MWF, had hobbies, flew planes, had friends... just didn't have very good social skills and was oblivious to flirting
/r/seduction14/12/21 12:44 AM
1

They are all very vague and are half-assed
/r/seduction14/12/21 12:44 AM
1

How?
/r/seduction14/12/21 12:42 AM
2

Haha I'm sorry dude. It's kind of frustrating seeing the same kinds of posts over and over again, and they never really work for me. There's just no way for me to win at this. I can probably help you though. I've had a girlfriend who didn't want to have sex with me at all, and just wanted a cute boyfriend. If the girl you like is into romance, or is just more traditional and introverted, take her on a bunch of cute dates like the shit high schoolers do. My first college date was a board game lou…
/r/seduction14/12/21 12:31 AM
1

Would Mike or Jack have a naturally easier time seducing someone though? And can Jack ever be like Mike? No, maybe Jack would need some real advice about how to relax and have good social skills.
/r/seduction14/12/21 12:17 AM
1

Could you help us out with advice on how to be a fuckboi?
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:51 PM
2

Most people here aren't trying to help the rookies, they're just trying to make themselves feel good
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:45 PM
3

As a virgin who really wants to get laid but can't, wow, thanks!
/r/seduction13/12/21 05:53 AM
1

> That's not what I like necessarily. Do you like him for who he is more? As someone who has always been the same way, take initiative. As a dude it can feel impossible to know when to break those barriers when a girl isn't showing any interest.
/r/seduction13/12/21 05:52 AM
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How do you develop a social circle? And how will a woman know you spent 7 hours on attractive shit? If you just tell her, will it be that attractive? Also get that "tough love" bullshit out of here, at the end of the day you don't give a shit who succeeds in here
/r/seduction12/12/21 08:40 PM
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Yeah!! Every girl I text or match with is just missing out. They don't know what they're missing. I'll never find someone who wants to follow me, but that doesn't matter, I was the fun train the whole time
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:03 PM
1

Kiss someone when I feel like it regardless of what they think?
/r/seduction06/12/21 08:35 AM
16

More like, "most successful people don't have to work this hard, and I have a life outside of getting laid"
/r/seduction05/12/21 03:35 PM
1

Guess what? I do that at places I shop. I make smalltalk with the cashiers. I can make basic conversation with women anywhere, it's on them to keep the conversation going. It's having fun that's the hard part. I am down that hard, and I am suicidal over it. You can't offer anything better than you just offered.
/r/seduction05/12/21 09:26 AM
2

Won't that creep them out? That's usually the result
/r/seduction05/12/21 08:26 AM
2

Sweet thanks! I'll keep trying
/r/seduction05/12/21 06:10 AM
2

Okay being outcome independent makes sense. What doesn't make sense is... you are telling me to close... but actively refusing to tell me how to close. There is no script. But there are moves, aren't there?
/r/seduction05/12/21 06:02 AM
1

What were your conversations with them like? Did you escalate with them all the same way?
/r/seduction05/12/21 06:00 AM
1

This is my experience with dating as a dude. The answer? Sounds like you have an attitude problem.
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:52 AM
1

Okay. HOW do you do that? You just stated the obvious. Can you offer anything better?
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:49 AM
1

What do your approaches look like?
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:45 AM
3

I do this already. I'm just trying to get to know them. Nothing.
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:43 AM
2

So they will just teleport into your bed after that? What will a good approach look like?
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:42 AM
0

That will never get some people laid. Just say some people can't do it.
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:37 AM
1

How did you find your FWB?
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:36 AM
4

Bingo!! It's saying absolutely nothing and does nothing productive for people who need to learn. It only serves to make successful people feel good about themselves.
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:34 AM
1

"Just be confident" How do you learn style just from being confident?
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:34 AM
1

And somehow you know I'm gonna make it. I tried all the way through college and failed. How did people actually do it?
/r/seduction29/11/21 04:44 PM
1

I mean, I don't know how I'm going to apply that information at all. If I could just flip a switch and make it happen, I would have already done it. How do you know I'll make it if I try?
/r/seduction29/11/21 04:34 PM
1

Ok well thanks for the help, and hope you enjoy getting laid
/r/seduction29/11/21 04:08 PM
0

There weren't any details "Play the game" "I climbed the mountain"
/r/seduction29/11/21 04:07 PM
0

Yeah, things work out for everyone else, at least a few times. You climbed the mountain and apparently don't remember the path you took. Did you go anywhere specific to practice?
/r/seduction29/11/21 08:05 AM
1

I have tried doing lots of stuff, you want me to explain what I did?
/r/seduction29/11/21 08:03 AM
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That's not exactly what he said, but it's true that it's a necessary condition and not a sufficient one
/r/seduction29/11/21 01:32 AM
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Look at that... no field report given 🤣 Literally what am I supposed to do with the info this dude gave me? There were parts of college where I was perfectly happy and I just never managed it. And this dude is talking to me like I'm an idiot.
/r/seduction29/11/21 01:11 AM
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The fuck? No you didn't. How is that a guarantee of anything happening? It's not. You gave me a stick and told me to make a key out of it. Can I do it without flirting? Would you explain what some of your encounters have looked like?
/r/seduction29/11/21 01:05 AM
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Yeah because you never wanted to put any effort into explaining anything. I don't get the people in this sub. How hard is it to explain how it happens so often? How am I going to figure out how to flirt if I never figured it out earlier in life? I keep failing!!! Enjoy being able to have sex.
/r/seduction29/11/21 01:02 AM
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It's not about sex, so that means getting to the sex part is unexplainable? A lot of people like to talk very loudly about all the sex they're having, and about how easy it is, and about how it should be a necessary part of life Also, if it's not about sex, what are we doing in the seduction sub in the first place?
/r/seduction29/11/21 12:56 AM
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You're saying a lot of shit without saying anything at all. I had friends in college. The sex doesn't magically happen, like you may think it does How did it happen for you?
/r/seduction29/11/21 12:54 AM
1

Okay, in college I had no self-pity, and I did hang out with friends, go to clubs, go to parties, all that good stuff. And that means someone will teleport into my bed? Lmao
/r/seduction29/11/21 12:52 AM
6

Okay, once I'm happy, what do I do
/r/seduction29/11/21 12:49 AM
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People rejected me when I wasn't desperate
/r/seduction29/11/21 12:47 AM
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Counterintuitive, and how are you so sure that's true?
/r/seduction28/11/21 11:53 PM
1

"Eventually" it'll work
/r/seduction28/11/21 11:52 PM
1

I struggle with the micro level stuff. Come on. Everyone in the world is complaining about guys being creepy, and my advances get rejected a lot. Wtf do you think people are doing in this sub? What is the micro level stuff?
/r/seduction28/11/21 11:51 PM
1

What makes you so sure the whole list will lead to success? Do you want me to send you descriptions of encounters I've had?
/r/seduction23/11/21 03:56 AM
5

"Let it naturally occur" is also pretty lazy because that might never happen, and it's leaving out a ton of variables
/r/seduction22/11/21 11:29 PM
1

Okay then what
/r/seduction22/11/21 05:50 PM
3

"Let it naturally occur" I've tried and it hasn't happened
/r/seduction22/11/21 04:47 PM
1

That all makes sense! I appreciate it. "Somehow" is just an easy way out of putting in effort
/r/seduction22/11/21 04:03 PM
1

Having fun at parties has never led to anything casual
/r/seduction22/11/21 04:00 PM
1

Yup that's what I just said
/r/seduction22/11/21 03:59 PM
1

Okay I appreciate it
/r/seduction22/11/21 03:59 PM
1

Okay I'll try that next time thank you
/r/seduction22/11/21 03:58 PM
1

Okay well if it's easy then how do I do it
/r/seduction22/11/21 03:57 PM
1

Ok thank you
/r/seduction22/11/21 03:57 PM
1

Just asked her to go back with you and she agreed? Were you making fun of her or just talking? Seriously I'm clueless
/r/seduction22/11/21 03:28 AM
1

But what actually happened with the girl? What am I supposed to trust?
/r/seduction22/11/21 03:11 AM
1

What actually happened?
/r/seduction22/11/21 03:02 AM
2

Ok I will try doing more of that
/r/seduction22/11/21 02:47 AM
1

Can you help with that at all? I can describe several experiences in detail. DM me
/r/seduction22/11/21 02:43 AM
1

Okay how did you fk one of their friends
/r/seduction22/11/21 02:36 AM
1

Sounds good, I will, but it won't be too detailed I suppose.
/r/seduction22/11/21 02:35 AM
1

They wouldn't be having this conversation, but there's no way for you to prove they've gotten laid It's not true, it's just feel-good advice that is overly broad
/r/seduction22/11/21 02:05 AM
1

Even after that I can't control whether they say yes or no. I was pretty happy and confident in college and still didn't get laid. It's luck. Unless you want to describe some of the conversations you've had with girls
/r/seduction22/11/21 02:03 AM
1

No, losing weight isn’t a secret, if you did run 5 miles as suggested and had a healthy diet there’s no way in earth the results wouldn’t show. It is counterintuitive. Same applies. People are unpredictable and you can't control them. That's been my experience. People are actually counterintuitive as all hell. So the same really, really doesn't apply. You can promise me that running 5 miles will burn body fat because it works every time. But you can't promise me that anyone will say "yes" to me.…
/r/seduction22/11/21 02:02 AM
1

I'm talking to them at the student center at my university, at bars, at clubs, on the way to clubs with their friends, and sometimes cashiers. I will sometimes get their numbers, and got two dates, but not get any farther. And lately things have been getting worse. I can't put my finger on what the smell is, and no one in here is helping me
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:55 AM
1

You were lucky. That's why you can't explain how you know girls "will" approach me
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:53 AM
1

I'm just trying to figure out more specifics and no one is giving them. Thanks for the actual attack on my character
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:51 AM
3

Just some examples of how it happened... if there are thousands of ways. Yet you explained none of them. What does good escalation look like for you?
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:50 AM
1

I told you I'm doing pretty much everything you suggested... I did all that in college... and it didn't happen. If you're expecting me to have an open mind, why aren't you explaining the "why," and expecting me to take it as gospel truth? I've gotten rejected hundreds of times.
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:49 AM
1

"Let them occur naturally" But they never do. You aren't making any sense I have those natural conversations with women and they don't lead to what you're saying they'll lead to. I get rejected every time. But "it will happen"
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:48 AM
1

Guys I promise you it’s not as difficult as it seems. Take it from someone who was insanely shy for most of his life. Practice makes perfect and ultimately it comes down to whether you TRULY WANT TO CHANGE OR NOT. No one can force you to, only you have that power. I told myself enough is enough. Put yourself out there and live or look back with regret for doing NOTHING. Go out there and make a fool of yourself but DONT TAKE IT PERSONALLY. Learn from it and move on. It’s been a long journey but I…
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:45 AM
-1

But who initiated it? Someone didn't teleport into your pants
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:38 AM
1

All I did was ask leading questions I seriously just don't understand at all why "trust me, it'll happen if you adjust your mindset" is the best advice out there. I have never gotten laid when I'm out having fun with friends. :( I would love to know if there are any patterns in the conversations you had with people you slept with. Is that so hard to ask for?
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:34 AM
1

I've made plenty of moves that haven't worked 🤣 got any useful details?
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:31 AM
1

Got a better timeframe than "eventually?"
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:30 AM
1

I'm really not joking, wish I was. The day is set. I only failed at that one thing after a horribly abusive relationship where she threatened suicide constantly and refused to have sex with me. Been reading a chapter of War and Peace every night for half a year, and it's a really good book. Also read some Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck. Working at my college full time, as in 40 hours a week. However, not making much, and once I graduate I want to move to a big city. Lmao. "Believe me?" You've g…
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:26 AM
1

Got any more details? I've talked to and gotten rejected by hundreds of women
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:19 AM
1

Tell me how to do it, and I'll gladly do it!
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:11 AM
1

Idk what to tell you, I am at a college campus where there's a lot of that same energy and it happens all around me
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:08 AM
1

"Doable" only for people who are good at it
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:07 AM
1

Then why are you telling me it will happen if I follow your advice? Will you eat your words you just said and stop expecting me to trust you if this doesn't work in the next month?
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:06 AM
3

But how does that help? More detail pretty please
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:05 AM
1

"Somehow" lmao. Even though that's kinda the point of this sub? Could you find it in yourself to try to explain that part?
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:04 AM
1

I'm at my parents' place, on a college campus every day and going to bars every weekend, about to graduate when I get one class done, and going to commit suicide if I can't get a job, leave this town, or get laid
/r/seduction22/11/21 01:03 AM
1

The fuck does this mean
/r/seduction21/11/21 11:45 PM
1

Why does everyone say "trust me" and then not eat their words when they're wrong 🤣
/r/seduction21/11/21 11:38 PM
1

I am 23 and did those things for 5 straight years in college, will it eventually happen for me?
/r/seduction21/11/21 11:36 PM
3

I dance at crowded clubs, genuinely have fun by myself... but people around me don't really gravitate towards me
/r/seduction21/11/21 11:33 PM
7

Ok true. Thank you!!
/r/seduction21/11/21 11:32 PM
1

Ok but where are you going? Are you still going to bars and clubs and initiating conversations?
/r/seduction21/11/21 11:18 PM
1

Can you give more detail please?
/r/seduction21/11/21 11:13 PM
1

And it's infinitely frustrating when people then say getting laid is easy... no, it's luck
/r/seduction21/11/21 11:06 PM
2

How do you stop overthinking things tho... cause that will really help me.
/r/seduction21/11/21 11:04 PM
1

More detail please? Even if you're just on the dance floor by yourself not talking to anyone? Cause I've done that
/r/seduction21/11/21 11:03 PM
2

Except if it's bad
/r/seduction21/11/21 10:57 PM
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But what if they're not receptive to you talking to them? When I go alone and try striking up convos, I usually get ignored pretty quickly
/r/seduction21/11/21 10:49 PM
4

Yeah that sounds ridiculously effective "The only to make it happen is to quit trying"
/r/seduction21/11/21 10:48 PM
3

The fuck? "Girls will approach you instead" even though maybe they won't approach you. If you're not near the most fun person there, no one will want your attention no matter what you do
/r/seduction21/11/21 10:47 PM
1

It's not helping me, but being positive didn't give me results :)
/r/seduction21/11/21 01:37 AM
1

But there is no guarantee that anyone will ever give you an opportunity, and every person is different
/r/seduction21/11/21 12:49 AM
1

I can tell you about some of the times it's almost happened, or I got rejected... but it would only be specific to those times. I posted about it on an alt account before and got some pretty obvious answers in hindsight, but recognizing opportunities in the moment is hard I could describe a lot of rejections in a ton of detail if you want. DM me
/r/seduction20/11/21 11:11 PM
1

"Some work" I put in 5 years' worth of work and didn't get laid And there's no clear specific answer about what the work is Fuck that positive shit.
/r/seduction20/11/21 10:05 PM
3

What if that thing is body language
/r/seduction20/11/21 09:52 PM
1

You've slept with over 100 people... and you're telling me there was zero pattern in how you talked to them other than "have confidence and they'll chase you." I think that's just not really right, and I wish there was just a way to learn.
/r/seduction18/11/21 06:33 PM
1

Okay, I'm sorry you are afraid of the word "how"
/r/seduction18/11/21 04:49 PM
1

Oh boy... how do you know there's a way out? Can you explain it perfectly? No you fuckin can't
/r/seduction18/11/21 04:47 PM
1

Oh did you not realize that people do this constantly on the college campus I'm on too? The reason I participate in this sub is because it's supposed to help with getting laid and teacging social skills. Shouldn't people in a sub all about seduction be able to explain how to tell a good story? Shouldn't it be obvious how to explain hooking up in college if so many people do it? Why does it always have to be so vague? I enjoyed hanging out with my college friends and now they're gone. I enjoyed p…
/r/seduction18/11/21 04:42 PM
1

I'll have to listen to everyone talk about how easy sex is in the meantime lol
/r/seduction18/11/21 04:26 PM
1

No that's not happening. Life isn't changing, I'm not gonna get mindfucked into seeing a pile of shit a different way Anyway this isn't your business at all, I've gotta just prepare over the next couple weeks. Later :)
/r/seduction18/11/21 04:23 PM
1

What, talk to an IRL person? Yes, I talked to over 100 of them this semester and they all rejected me
/r/seduction18/11/21 04:20 PM
1

Oh sure, now I shouldn't care at all about getting laid. The words of someone who has sexual success and doesn't have to worry about it. If I had even a little sexual success or social proof, which I don't get even after putting a lot of work into it, I would have more confidence. If I put in a bunch of effort and don't get the things I want out of life, that will be a miserable existence I would have rather not lived. I'm still in my hometown, can't get a job, all my friends have moved away, st…
/r/seduction18/11/21 04:17 PM
1

Vicious cycle. This is even after putting in a ton of work. The answer now is suicide
/r/seduction18/11/21 03:54 PM
1

It seems like most people in this sub got a lot of social practice young and have never had to deal with overactive brains. I never learned those skills growing up, and honestly have no idea where to turn to find out if the people here don't even want to explain it. Thank you for at least not giving vague fake platitudes like "eventually it'll happen" or "girls will chase you"
/r/seduction18/11/21 03:52 PM
1

I had lots of friends in college and didn't get laid. You don't always get chased just because you're popular with some of the people there. Also went to a lot of hostels in Europe and didn't get laid
/r/seduction18/11/21 03:44 PM
1

r/restofthefuckingowl
/r/seduction18/11/21 03:41 PM
1

Lmao one of his field reports just says "I can't remember what we were talking about, my game was pretty shit" And of course... "I took her back to my place, you all know how it goes." If I did, I wouldn't be looking for info in the seduction sub. I'm not here to circlejerk, I'm here to learn
/r/seduction18/11/21 03:35 PM
1

"How to escalate your conversations so you close more" r/restofthefuckingowl
/r/seduction18/11/21 03:32 PM
1

Ok dude. I did over 100 approaches this semester and didn't get laid a single time. What do your approaches look like?
/r/seduction18/11/21 03:29 PM
1

How do you tell a good story?
/r/seduction18/11/21 03:24 PM
1

What does that look like
/r/seduction18/11/21 03:23 PM
1

r/restofthefuckingowl
/r/seduction18/11/21 03:20 PM
4

Wow that second paragraph hit way too hard, and it's still affecting me to this day. I wanted to lose my innocence, but my parents and school made sure that wouldn't happen. I was literally clueless
/r/seduction05/11/21 04:15 PM
1

Just be true to yourself Except I am usually a doormat when I'm being myself. This is bullshit A definite farce with no logic to it
/r/seduction05/11/21 04:13 PM
1

Okay how do I socially calibrate myself? Also I've gotten rejected going for a kiss several times
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:00 AM
1

I'm 23 and on a college campus. How do I get laid?
/r/seduction04/11/21 12:59 AM
1

What is the work that you need to put in?
/r/seduction04/11/21 12:58 AM
1

"I'm interested in you" Would that work?
/r/seduction04/11/21 12:56 AM
0

It's not just a confidence issue dude.
/r/seduction04/11/21 12:54 AM
1

Okay how do you say it?
/r/seduction04/11/21 12:48 AM
2

I can't wait for the false positivity that will magically appear under this comment
/r/seduction04/11/21 12:47 AM
7

What does that look look like?
/r/seduction04/11/21 12:45 AM
5

But how do you know those were missed opportunities? Some of them weren't
/r/seduction04/11/21 12:45 AM
1

How old are you
/r/seduction23/10/21 12:22 AM
4

Such a helpful and productive comment It's kinda not worth trying anymore
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:58 PM
3

Ok well thanks for the false sense of hope and patronage
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:49 PM
2

And just how do you know girls will be flocking? I was pretty confident in myself in college. Had a lot of friends, was in some clubs, and wasn't really pressing for human connection. But no girls flocked to me.
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:45 PM
6

just be cahnfident!! it'll hyappen
/r/seduction21/10/21 11:59 PM
1

How do I increase my sex appeal
/r/seduction21/10/21 10:12 PM
0

It's discouraging when they're literally all rejections
/r/seduction21/10/21 03:32 PM
0

We will probably never see the script or anything close to it 😂
/r/seduction21/10/21 03:30 PM
1

Okay, then how do you do it?
/r/seduction21/10/21 03:29 PM
5

How do you work on your social skills
/r/seduction21/10/21 03:21 PM
2

How do you hold basic conversations and make friends?
/r/seduction21/10/21 03:19 PM
21

Everything in this sub is vague and unobtainable. "Have confidence and girls will flock to you." Yeah thanks. 😂
/r/seduction21/10/21 03:18 PM
0

In English it is a literal guarantee that it will work. Sorry for misinterpreting what you meant, and I hope that helps you in the future.
/r/seduction19/10/21 08:56 PM
2

Yeah, "it gets easier and easier with time." Lol. I've been improving for years and I still suck at it.
/r/seduction19/10/21 04:34 PM
1

I will guarantee you you will get better. How are you gonna guarantee this? Want to make a bet on it? Or are you just talking out your ass?
/r/seduction19/10/21 04:30 PM
3

And you're not gonna explain the game 🤣
/r/seduction17/10/21 08:14 AM
3

Ok I go out and talk to people. Doesn't mean I succeed. And girls don't teleport into my bed 😂
/r/seduction17/10/21 08:13 AM
2

What did you do on Tinder?
/r/seduction17/10/21 02:21 AM
19

And girls teleported to you, got it.
/r/seduction17/10/21 01:25 AM
6

"Don't overdo this shit" But don't underdo it, that's what I did in college and didn't get laid
/r/seduction17/10/21 01:24 AM
3

Ok how do you make someone laugh
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:42 AM
2

What chances?
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:42 AM
2

How did you do it?
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:41 AM
1

How did you do it?
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:40 AM
3

How did you do it?
/r/seduction17/10/21 12:40 AM
3

I mean nothing has ever worked so I don't know how that would help me in my goal of actually getting laid
/r/seduction15/10/21 04:49 PM
1

I'm 6' and have never gotten laid, care to explain how to do it?
/r/seduction04/10/21 08:34 PM
1

All right, appreciate it! I'm sure that will be the kind of experience you were talking about
/r/seduction04/10/21 06:33 PM
1

Cool thanks!! Now let's back up a little bit. How do I find a girl who is willing to do that with me?
/r/seduction04/10/21 06:25 PM
1

I'd do it if I knew how! Could you explain how to do it please? :)
/r/seduction04/10/21 10:01 AM
1

We were at the bar, there were a lot of people crowding it, and I noticed a girl trying to get up to it. She was already fairly buzzed, and getting in my face. I asked her "you trying to get a drink?" And she said "yea, will you buy me one?" "Sure, what do you want?" "Lemon drops." I order her a lemon drop, and she promises me that she wants to see me again, and adds me on Snapchat. I ask "are you sure?" She says "yeah!" I say, "want to kiss on it?" And she does. Then she said she needed to go m…
/r/seduction03/10/21 01:00 AM
3

Give some better advice, with examples, of conversations and approaches that have worked in the past, please.
/r/seduction02/10/21 07:28 PM
8

"Girls will come to you" = pure luck. Don't lie to us. You're a girl, you naturally have a much easier time, because guys approach you.
/r/seduction02/10/21 07:26 PM
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1000% this!!!
/r/seduction02/10/21 07:25 PM
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Yeah I've had to force myself out of the house several times to get remotely close to starting to be okay, and still literally don't know the basics of escalating. Specific advice, which you guys call "game," is working for me. Guys like me exist. I literally didn't think that asking for what I want was an okay thing to do, because this whole thing is so messy, and y'all are saying "it'll happen naturally." But I asked for a kiss last night and got one. No amount of "just be yourself" is going t…
/r/seduction02/10/21 07:23 PM
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It makes me sad that you guys don't see how unhelpful these comments are.
/r/seduction02/10/21 07:19 PM
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How do you know girls will come to me? I've been in a lot of social situations, clubs, and parties. Also had a lot of friends who were girls... nothing ever came of it. Can I borrow your crystal ball?
/r/seduction02/10/21 07:17 PM
1

That are specifically related to escalating? Because I would love to be pointed to a good guide on that
/r/seduction01/10/21 05:53 PM
2

Ok sorry I misread that I'm sorry. I literally have no idea how I'm gonna escalate or ever get laid. The stuff in here is way too vague This feels like rocket science when half the advice I see is just, "it will happen"
/r/seduction01/10/21 06:23 AM
1

Good bot
/r/seduction01/10/21 06:02 AM
1

...what is A response he should be going in with? Y'all are the kings of r/thanksimcured
/r/seduction01/10/21 06:02 AM
1

How are you supposed to tell strengths from weaknesses, and how did you escalate?
/r/seduction01/10/21 05:49 AM
1

Yeah uh how do you go further?
/r/seduction01/10/21 05:46 AM
2

You literally just said it's a numbers game
/r/seduction01/10/21 05:44 AM
2

What's the response that he should be going in with? How does he work on it?
/r/seduction01/10/21 05:43 AM
1

Explain why, please
/r/seduction26/09/21 05:28 PM
2

Oh gotcha. Just as soon as she bails move on..that is good advice for sure
/r/seduction25/09/21 07:54 PM
3

So keep relentlessly pushing for a date and call her out when she doesn't want to do it?
/r/seduction25/09/21 07:32 PM
5

Lmao. I had a lot of friends who were girls in college and enjoyed their company. Never once got a chance to have sex with them. What are you talking about? Not actual facts.
/r/seduction25/09/21 05:30 PM
0

I'm 6', early 20s, and a virgin. Tell me exactly how to sleep with hundreds of women. Hell, tell me exactly how to sleep with one woman.
/r/seduction25/09/21 01:28 AM
1

How do you know it will?
/r/seduction25/09/21 01:28 AM
1

Ok then what?
/r/seduction25/09/21 01:25 AM
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