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Red Pill Theorysteadymotion/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 08:35 PM
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-You know that nagging in your mind always telling you to make more friends? Pick up another hobby? Start a business? Kiss the girl? JUST DO IT. Even if you fail, you have learned from the experience and the satisfaction of just having tried WILL feel good. and -Do and excel at things for the love of doing them, not because you think it will make you more appealing to women. Are especially good points. To be able to truly listen to yourself and do what you really want to do, without hesitation, …
/r/ThankTRP16/05/14 01:17 AM
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I'd advise you start doing things for yourself. Can be little things or big things, doesn't matter. Ask yourself, what do I want to do right now? And do it without asking anyone else for permission or anything, just go do it. Teach yourself to follow your instincts.
/r/askTRP16/05/14 01:11 AM
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I'm a big fan of Manson's stuff. I never liked the idea of putting a lot of effort into game/specific tactics. I just put effort into my lifestyle and try to approach girls I find attractive and screen them for a compatible personality, and just try to be natural. That's the way I've found to actually have fulfilling relationships and sex. You can get sex by being very sexual and using game because girls will be turned on by your confidence alone enough to sleep with you, but I don't even enjoy …
/r/trpGAME16/05/14 01:06 AM
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Wow, this post was really helpful to me, especially the parts about straighttalk and nothing being beneath you. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 05:39 PM
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It makes a big difference, doesn't it. You feel like a normal healthy person instead of being numb and depressed all the time. All from listening to your desires and acting on them.
/r/ThankTRP15/05/14 12:51 AM
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So physical attraction is very important, but there is a separate attraction (call it mental attraction I suppose) which is also a necessary condition for you. Fair enough. I agree, but it gets messy talking about this kind of thing because things aren't so clear cut. It's blurry. For example, when a girl tends to blush or look down or other submissive behaviours around you, does that make you more physically attracted or mentally attracted? It's a physical action from her, but it portrays a sub…
/r/askTRP14/05/14 05:51 PM
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I don't get why you'd assume you're going to disappoint her. My first time was beautiful. I fucked her like a god. And no, don't mention your inexperience. Don't explain yourself at all to her. Just chill out and have sex (assuming you find her hot enough to want to fuck her).
/r/trpGAME13/05/14 08:54 PM
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Forget alpha, beta, and your value. Focus on her value. Whether she's good enough for you. You as a man are already good enough how you are. Your job is to find the females worthy of you, and then pursue them relentlessly until you have amazing sex. All that matters to you should be her value. Your value is a given, you already know you're valuable. She is a stranger who you don't know yet. When it comes time to have sex, you're only going to enjoy it when you find her so incredibly sexy that yo…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/14 08:38 PM
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Who cares about your father, your brother, or her roommates. Fuck loudly and proudly. Don't ever be ashamed to have sex around other people. Fuck the roommates. Have sex with the door open and be extra loud so there's no denying what you're doing. Hell, have sex in the kitchen right in front of them while they're eating dinner.
/r/trpGAME13/05/14 08:29 PM
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Actually you might be rating girls too highly. 8s should be attractive enough for you to just enjoy talking to them (because it doesn't matter what's being said, you're just enjoying her sexiness). If you find yourself easily bored with them they're probably 5s and 6s. Aim for sexier women, women who make you so horny you just enjoy being with her. Don't even bother gaming a girl if she doesn't turn you on big time. You shouldn't be bored with girls you're gaming. If you are, game better girls. …
/r/askTRP13/05/14 04:51 PM
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I'm not good looking and I do fine, just as well or better than my good looking friends. I don't feel like I use much effort either. My natural behavior does the work for me. I guess my game is good. Edit: something to note is I live in Canada and I have a feeling there's less of a focus on looks here than there is in the US.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 04:43 PM
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Doesn't matter. I guess if it's extremely small or extremely big you might have problems. Height and weightlifting don't really matter either. Behaviour is what girls actually care about.
/r/askTRP12/05/14 12:03 AM
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If she's lost interest for whatever reason yes you should leave it alone. Don't waste time on someone who isn't going to give you their time.
/r/trpGAME09/05/14 11:02 PM
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You didn't really give us enough info, but you can just ask her if she wants to hang out. If she doesn't reply or gives some bullshit response just drop it, she's not interested, and she can re-initiate if she changes her mind. But if you haven't really talked or had any moments of good eye contact/smiling then chances are she won't want to hang out with you because she doesn't sense any chemistry. Tbh you shouldn't really want to hangout with her either unless you've had some chemistry with her…
/r/askTRP09/05/14 09:19 PM
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If you're being who you want to be and she loses interest, you've gotta let her go. She wouldn't be fun to have around anyway. If you're putting on an act to sabotage the relationship, that's on you. You might have a fear of vulnerability.
/r/trpGAME09/05/14 09:07 PM
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Actually I think you're right. That's probably a better way of defining settling. But I think your perspective on what women want is somewhat shortsighted. Women want a lot of different things at different times. They have a dual agenda, both to get high quality male seed and to secure provisioning for their children. But that agenda changes over time. When they're young, girls are attracted mostly to alpha males because their bodies are primed for reproduction. As they age and their fertility b…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 08:25 PM
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Being a vulnerable man is being able to crack open your stoic exterior to display that your interior, too, is strong like stone. Then you have shown her you are a full man. That's why it's so incredibly sexy. You're showing her that you have nothing to hide because you truly are a man through and through. What she sees really is what she gets. No tricks. If you just put on a stoic exterior but your inside is soft and mushy, she'll find out you're faking it and attraction will be lost. Either she…
/r/askTRP09/05/14 06:49 PM
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When a woman gets older she actually does change her priorities. Nothing blue pill about it. On average as women get older their priority will shift towards getting commitment over sex. And as the woman ages and her value goes down, she will have to bring down her expectations in partners. This isn't settling, because settling is when a high value person gets with a lower value person. In this case the woman actually is low value, so when she chooses a low value male she isn't settling, she simp…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 05:28 PM
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Lol dude, don't ask questions like this. The very act of asking them puts you in the wrong mindset right off the bat. You're asking us to make a personal decision for you, and we can't do that. You have to refer to yourself for those decisions. Just something for the future. Do whatever you want. Would you take pleasure in bringing your guitar over there and teaching her? Has she expressed interest in it enough to make you excited to teach her? How would you feel if you brought it over and she t…
/r/trpGAME09/05/14 05:16 PM
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Just be yourself has a deeper meaning that actually makes it good advice. I made a post on this recently that got downvoted to oblivion, but it's still true. If you are able to be yourself at all times, doing whatever you want, whenever you want, simply because you want to, without ever doubting your right to do it, without ever asking for permission or referring to someone else for what to do, then you are one alpha motherfucker. This, I truly believe, is what girls mean by "just be yourself" a…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 06:14 PM
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I totally agree with you. But if I said Alpha's don't need to do anything they just do whatever they want whenever they want (which is true), then people will misunderstand me as if I'm saying Alphas should never do any work at all to improve themselves, when all I'm actually saying is they should only do the work they want to do, because for an Alpha, whatever he desires comes first always, and he doesn't do something just because people like it or because people tell him to. In fact, I think t…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 01:28 PM
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The nature of women, let's see: they have a biological impulse to have the most reproductively successful children they can get by mating with the most reproductively successful men they can get, and they have a biological impulse to secure as many resources to support their children as they can get. Pretty simple and not very depressing if you ask me. Once you're informed there's nothing to be sad about. All you have to do is play your game to get what you want, knowing all the while that women…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 09:27 PM
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You text too much. You're giving her your masculine attention without getting anything in return. Well, you are getting attention from her, but I'd imagine you want pussy, not attention. Your call tho.
/r/trpGAME05/05/14 08:43 PM
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That makes sense when you apply it to your external things like your job, house, money, skills, etc. You need to put effort into those to get what you want. But not your internal self. You don't need to compete with others to have a better "internal self" than them. That's ludicrous. The best state of mind is just "I'm OK". You know what I mean? "I'm fine right now. There's nothing wrong." That can just come naturally. Nature takes care of it. You don't need to put in some big conscious effort t…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 09:25 PM
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I don't know. You could ask her what's wrong. She'll probably say "I don't know", and then that would be that. What matters is whether this is a deal breaker for you or not. Don't try to change her. If you don't like it just get sex elsewhere.
/r/askTRP04/05/14 09:20 PM
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Yes, you don't get a choice whether to change or not. You always will, that's how nature works. However, you can and do influence how you change. I'll edit to clarify.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 09:14 PM
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Hm, what makes you think I'm putting pussy on a pedestal?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 05:54 AM
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Maybe I am mad, lol. I dunno.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 05:40 AM
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Lol, you think? Hm, guess my delivery was off.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 05:39 AM
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It's only creepy if she's not into you and you're trying to get sexual anyway. But the thing is, if she thinks you're being creepy then that means she knows you want to fuck her, so if you're being considered creepy you're not really doing anything wrong. You're doing a good job making your intentions clear, she just isn't attracted to you. But the next girl might be. So don't worry about creepy. Creepy isn't up to you, it's up to her. All you have to do is be sexual, and then she decides if she…
/r/trpGAME03/05/14 07:10 PM
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Probably the hardest was all the wasted time. It was painful as fuck to look back on decades of years lived with blue conditioning. You find yourself going back over old memories and thinking what you should have done and how stupid you are to have wasted all those opportunities. I cried a lot to get over the pain and it felt good to cry, lol. Then I manned up and said to myself I'm not gonna waste any more time and started putting in work. Now things are so much more fun and I'm grateful that I…
/r/askTRP02/05/14 12:10 AM
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Easy question. What did you want to do? Do that. In fact, just always do whatever you want to do without thinking whether it's the right thing or not. Just do it and let the chips fall where they may. This is seduction, not rocket science. You don't need to think. I just gave you the key to success with women.
/r/askTRP01/05/14 10:46 PM
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If she doesn't respond to being asked for her opinion, it means she doesn't want to be asked. She wants you to decide things. She wants you to man up. It's up to you to decide if you want to do that or not, but if you don't, then I doubt this relationship is a good one for you.
/r/askTRP01/05/14 04:14 PM
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Very simple. You go for the panties, and if she stops you (first of all make sure she's actually clearly saying "no" instead of putting up token resistance like "sex is a big deal for me", to which you could just respond "clearly" alluding to her wetness and keep going), you get up and go do something. Anything that doesn't involve her. If she doesn't come around soon after that you ask her to leave. You soft next her. Then you wait for her to come back to you (and this time there better be sex …
/r/askTRP01/05/14 02:42 PM
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Well you're going to get the advice you expected to get, because it's what works. In order to be confident approaching women, you need to practice approaching women. Remember that the "fear" never fully goes away. You'll always get that tingly feeling when you're about to open a girl. But you can learn to be comfortable with that feeling instead of running from it.
/r/askTRP01/05/14 02:20 PM
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Nah, you don't quite get it. There's nothing bad about showing emotions. It's showing weak emotions that's bad, because it demonstrates you're weak. I show my emotions all the time. I have a fucking good time playing around and laughing with girls. I smile really big sometimes, and other times I'm stoic like a statue. I get really passionate and kiss them like crazy and tell them how good their pussy feels to me and how good it feels to have her body all to myself. I get rough in bed and turn in…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 07:35 AM
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But even still, if you don't tolerate bad behavior in women, it doesn't mean you have hatred for women. Hatred for women in general is senseless. Hatred for a woman who kills your family, that makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 05:10 AM
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lol dude, you didn't play this well at all. you caved hard. Her: I'm not a little hoe Me: "neither am I" or "glad we cleared that up" or "that's gonna be a problem cause i like my hoes to be little" and continue as if she never mentioned it. if she insists on talking about it, just keep playing it off with jokes n stuff like she's being weird to even bring it up. people who aren't hoes don't need to tell people they aren't hoes. it should be a little weird to you that she said that, but you can …
/r/trpGAME30/04/14 04:13 AM
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You're paying so you probably get to choose who does the work.
/r/trpGAME29/04/14 12:09 AM
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These are the worst kinds of situations, where a girl will lead you on by responding to the things she wants to respond to, but whenever you actually say something fun and sexual she ignores it. She's trying to keep you as an orbiter. The proper response is to realize she's fucking boring because she refuses to say anything exciting or interesting, and find the chicks who will flirt back with you. You need to have higher standards for what you spend your time on. A girl who doesn't "play the fli…
/r/askTRP28/04/14 04:26 PM
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Well of course you can't take a woman's advice on women. As a rule, you shouldn't emotionally or physically abuse women. Abuse doesn't make you a bad boy, it just makes you a mentally unstable fucktard. By this I mean you shouldn't actually hit your women to injure them and you shouldn't emotionally fuck them up with constant put-downs and yelling at them and shit like that. A woman who likes that kind of shit probably does have family issues. But you should definitely be rough and dominant with…
/r/askTRP27/04/14 06:18 PM
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Pook is my hero.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 07:09 PM
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Depends how serious you are with this girl. If she's just a plate, go with a standard "That's a possibility." If you're more serious about her you'll probably want to go a bit more emotional and do humor, like "You'll just have to turn me on more so my dick grows bigger." All depends on your personal style, really. Just remember that these kinds of concerns are just silly woman-fear, not legitimate concerns. Brush them away with whatever technique you like best.
/r/askTRP26/04/14 04:15 AM
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Yes, you've got it. But I might add that you must believe you are the prize, and you must actually be the prize. Both are necessary. One without the other doesn't cut it.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 02:20 AM
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You're thinking at least one level too low here. You're just thinking of how these things apply to your own life. Sure, for someone like you religion isn't necessary, but think bigger. Put yourself in the shoes of someone who is responsible for many people, someone who can see the lives of each individual and understand them: their motivations, their worries, their happiness. It doesn't matter what's wrong with religion or with monarchy or tyranny or whatever other method of control. What matter…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 11:45 PM
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The scarcity doesn't have to be artificial. If you are actually a high value guy then you are scarce, and people are lucky to be around you. Hard to believe, I know. Sounds conceited, I know. But it's true.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 11:40 PM
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Mark Manson is a successful guy and he does give good advice about life and women, so I think you're on the right track. Maybe one thing you could think about is exactly what you consider to be malicious and indifferent. Maybe you've put too many things in that category without really thinking it through. Maybe there's actually a positive side, or a "greater good" to doing some things that you currently view as malicious. Ignoring someone, for example, isn't just a tactic to create artificial sc…
/r/askTRP23/04/14 04:46 AM
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How you act is what elicits the feedback from people. So you have a few options. One is do the same thing you've always been doing and continue to get the same results. Two is find radically different people to interact with who give you better feedback in response to your current behavior (might be possible in theory but good luck on that one). Three is change the way you act in order to change the feedback of the people around you. I don't see any other options, do you?
/r/askTRP22/04/14 02:24 AM
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there is no good, there is no bad, there's no right way or wrong way, there are only those who succeed, and those who fail. Yep, you got it. I've been telling people this for ages. Drop your fucking ego and sense of moral righteousness and admit you're a sad sack of shit and you need to put in some work to make yourself more attractive so people will like you. That's real happiness. You can only be happy with yourself when you're happy with how you're treated by people around you.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 03:43 PM
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If you live in a cold climate it's actually functional to be a little fat. Not saying it's sexy though.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 03:34 PM
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If being a child rapist made me happy then I would be a child rapist, but it doesn't so I don't do that. My ethical system is very simple: do whatever makes you happiest. This requires experimentation to find the optimal things for you to do, but you get it right pretty quick once you throw away any reservations or limitations about what behavior is allowed and what isn't. Your self is your one and only guide for what behavior you ought to do and what you shouldn't. Don't listen to anyone else a…
/r/askTRP21/04/14 02:41 PM
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I don't think there's much I can say to help you then, other than maybe you haven't experienced enough pain to realize you're making a mistake. Give it time. From my perspective you're contradicting yourself. You insist on defining "truth and goodness" as something "objective" (what does this mean in this context? based on empirical evidence? if so how when has goodness ever been empirical, and if you're basing truth on empirical evidence, surely you realize the truth is that humans, particularl…
/r/askTRP21/04/14 01:18 PM
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I just say nothing. I deliver my line and do a smirk or a deadpan face with eyecontact and then let her hamster fill the silence, then I go off whatever she says. That's my usual strategy. Usually girls give you the most predictable responses like "What?? Why??" If she stays silent like she doesn't know WTF to say, I'll usually intensify the pressure with more negs or jokes, like "but I didn't expect you to be so shy". Eventually you'll get a response, and usually she either loves you or wants n…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 02:43 PM
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Twice so far. 50% success rate. 100% hilarity rate. Anything can work if it fits your style.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 03:35 AM
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"Do you like cheeseburgers?" If they say yes, say "thought so", and if no, say "cmon, be honest". Classic.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 02:48 AM
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As much as I can humanly bear, I'd like to be unhappy and good than happy and bad. Well it seems to me that's your problem right there. Humans aren't designed to function properly while unhappy. Happiness is what makes us function best. So it makes no sense to me that unhappiness can be good, since it limits your ability to function properly. You've gotta learn to be selfish and put your happiness first. What is good and bad? They are nothing until you decide to come up with a definition for the…
/r/askTRP19/04/14 05:27 PM
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Does this get easier over time? Absolutely. Keep on going, soldier.
/r/askTRP19/04/14 04:12 AM
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A female robot. That always gets them asking and I can throw in things like "total submission" and "yes master". Whatever you do, make it fit your frame and your style of humor, and you're good to go.
/r/askTRP19/04/14 04:01 AM
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Ok, but I'm happy with my results and you're not happy with yours, so maybe you have some rethinking to do. Whether you're gonna be beta, alpha, or whatever, that doesn't matter. What matters is whether you're happy with your results or not. I wasn't trying to convince you to act more like I do. I was just trying to shake your worldview by presenting an alternate perspective, since as you admitted you aren't happy with your results, so something has to change, and the world isn't going to change…
/r/askTRP18/04/14 11:00 PM
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Well, how is that any different from what you do now? You probably pretend your shit does stink and you're not all that amazing in order to appear as humble because you think people like that about you. You give people attention to make them feel comfortable around you because you think people like that about you. All of your mannerisms, the way you move, the way you speak, the way you react, are all psychological tricks that you have adapted in order to get people around you to respond to you i…
/r/askTRP17/04/14 03:38 PM
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Not everyone is cut out for being alpha. It's hard. If you want the rewards of respect from your peers and success with women, you have to take on the responsibilities and the effort required. Whether you do that is up to you, and you alone.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 04:51 AM
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No, being close to a woman you're not fucking doesn't mean you're a beta orbiter. A beta orbiter is close to a woman and does nice things for her with the hope that she'll reward him with sex. If that's not your mindset, you're not a beta orbiter. But she must be some unicorn if you value her just for her company. I find women are boring as hell if you take away the sexual component, hence why I wouldn't want them around unless I'm fucking them or things are heading that way. To each his own.
/r/askTRP14/04/14 05:57 PM
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Most important is courage. If you have courage you can get all the other good stuff.
/r/AlreadyRed14/04/14 02:02 AM
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If there is any negativity associated with TRP it is merely a side effect. It is not the intended goal.
/r/askTRP13/04/14 03:13 AM
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Leverage her jealousy to have hot, wild sex with her. Hopefully you're sexually attracted to her.
/r/askTRP12/04/14 09:53 PM
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Men are the ones who let this happen, by cracking under the pressure and refusing to discipline women properly. Women never learn how to be women these days, and it's the fault of men, because men are supposed to be the stronger gender. Women are like dogs, they need consistent leadership and discipline.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 05:23 PM
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In North America it is, and I'd imagine that they lose it even earlier in some countries.
/r/askTRP11/04/14 02:57 PM
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Are people still paying attention to what women say? I thought we were past this by now as a subreddit. Disregard words, observe behavior. And for the record, women do everything they do to try to make themselves feel good. One of their instincts is to make themselves attractive to men, and following this instinct makes them feel good.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 04:15 AM
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It's pretty common for girls to have lost their virginity by 15. So.. assume she's part of a majority.
/r/askTRP11/04/14 04:08 AM
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Most neuroticisms are the result of family issues or other traumatic social issues like severe childhood bullying or abusive partners. Yeah I know that sounds cliche but it's true. Most of my anxieties came from having a weak father who never taught me to stand up for myself and demand respect. Whatever your shit is, you gotta work through it.
/r/becomeaman10/04/14 03:22 AM
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This isn't really a test of you so much as it is ASD, a defense of her own image. She doesn't want to consider herself a slut, so she needs to say these things if she starts getting the idea that sex is going to happen early. Just let her know by your attitude that you don't judge, that you never had any suspicions that she's a slut and you're surprised she's bringing this up, but you empathize with her and understand her position. "I don't sleep with guys on the 1st 2nd or 3rd date." "That's cl…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 05:43 PM
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I always imagined him as a roided out Ronald McDonald in a neon spandex suit with a permanent hard-on.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 04:13 AM
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no thanks jeffery.
/r/askTRP07/04/14 03:31 AM
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There's no problem here. Stop worrying. Just enjoy what you have while it lasts. Don't form any unrealistic expectations. Stay smart and alert. As long as you never turn into an emotional bitch and always maintain frame, you're fine.
/r/askTRP06/04/14 06:50 PM
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"You're not trying to hook up with me are you?" "That depends. If you behave well tonight we'll see."
/r/askTRP06/04/14 03:56 AM
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Just chiming in to say that all the responses so far have been spot on. Do not apologize. You did nothing wrong. Her emotional shit is just that, her emotional shit. None of that is on you. Hold your frame.
/r/askTRP04/04/14 12:12 AM
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One of the biggest things we criticize is slut culture. We don't criticize anything. We observe and strategize.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 03:35 PM
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It's not really a point of view or a reason. It's an instinctual feeling. Men just don't value women who sleep around as highly as they value women who are chaste. Women don't care nearly as much about the partner count of men. It's just how we evolved to be. No need to explain it.
/r/askTRP02/04/14 01:07 PM
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I see TRP as a bunch of guys calling each other out on our bullshit. It's like having sparring partners for the mind. I agree that we shouldn't take ourselves too seriously, because once we start believing we have the "truth" we blind ourselves to future progress.
/r/AlreadyRed01/04/14 11:16 PM
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I'm an introvert because I need alone time to recharge my batteries (solitary walks through the woods are great for this). However, I love being social with people. I just have my own style of doing it. I don't speak much—I stay laid back and observe everything, and I'm constantly analyzing things and coming up with plans in case certain things happen. I'm an asset to the group because just having me around means you'll be safe in a crisis. I'm like James Bond or something. People feel like they…
/r/askTRP31/03/14 04:23 PM
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Fool. Use context to understand the underlying meaning of words rather than always taking their most literal definition.
/r/AlreadyRed31/03/14 03:30 PM
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I'm not religious, but if I was going to take a stance on "good and evil", I'd agree that we're all evil. And I like it.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 01:18 AM
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I've heard people saying just get a degree, it doesn't matter where you get it. I think it's more important where you get it. The degree isn't important, it's where you study and who you spend your time around. Choose a place where you fit in with the culture, where there are likeminded people with similar aspirations as you (if you want to earn a lot of money, don't hang around underachievers who don't give a shit). As for the major, just pick something that has job prospects that you can toler…
/r/askTRP30/03/14 03:32 PM
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Women are definitely the ones choosing, but they don't choose by a rational process, they choose by an emotional reaction. Of course men can choose the woman, but in this day where rape is not a good option, the woman's choice takes precedence over the man's. The thing TRP suggests is to influence her choice about you by making yourself irresistible.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 02:26 PM
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I probably wouldn't take a 5 with a degree in physics over a hot girl with big tits, but I relate to you on this. In fact I've been thinking about this lately. Beauty alone does turn me on, because I'd be lying if I said I wouldn't get a boner having a HB9 standing naked next to me as I typed this. But just because a girl can get my dick hard isn't enough for me to invest in her. Sure, if she makes it real easy for me I'll give her a fuck or two, but if all she has is beauty and she wants to mak…
/r/askTRP30/03/14 03:32 AM
3

I don't like discussions about "a perfect world", because I have no fucking clue what a perfect world is, and I don't see how anyone else could. It's just undefinable. I think it's fine to have whatever expectations you want, but expectations are just your prediction of what will happen. There's nothing wrong with having an expectation, and then being wrong about it. That's life. What is wrong is having an expectation, seeing it proved wrong, and then continuing to have that expectation, because…
/r/askTRP28/03/14 07:01 PM
1

Don't know what to tell you. I guess I haven't reached your level of steez yet.
/r/askTRP28/03/14 04:11 AM
8

In practice, amazing. In name, terrible. And practice is all that matters, anyway.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 03:59 AM
5

Nah, feminism just makes things harder. The best thing to do is not to give up, but to become harder, better, faster, stronger and push through it all anyway.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:47 AM
1

Nah, I'm pretty average tbh. My IQ is way above average, but that's about it.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 05:58 PM
6

Dude, he's above average. Deal with it.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 03:47 PM
1

lol.. HB (hot babe) is just a placeholder to indicate you're talking about a girl. You can have HB9s and HB4s, the first clearly being an "attractive HB" and the second not so much. Not everything makes logical sense. Deal with it.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 07:31 PM
1

Business is a sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 06:12 PM
10

Too true. If I get stuck in the same comfortable routine for too long, I start to get bored and depressed. I take that as a signal that it's time to do something that makes me nervous that I know would be good for me to do.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 07:38 PM
2

There's no going back to an LTR, but you can go for casual sex if your willpower is strong enough to resist her demands for commitment. A risky game, but it's possible in theory.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 04:29 PM
0

Who cares why. All I know is that they do, and that's what's important.
/r/askTRP20/03/14 12:03 AM
2

Try rock climbing. I know it sounds weird but I have a hunch that pianists tend to like rock climbing. Learning each new problem is like learning a new piece.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 02:51 PM
4

The book is long and laborious. Rand has a point to make and no qualms about repeating that point as many times as she feels is necessary to ensure her point is made. But on the whole, I must say that her point is a good one. There were many times during my reading where I swelled with pride and admiration for some of the characters. Other characters will have you shaking your head at their foolishness. The book made me wiser, particularly with regard to judging a person's character, and regardi…
/r/AlreadyRed17/03/14 10:21 PM
2

Cute weasel.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 04:18 PM
1

Some guy didn't like you and you feel bad. Move on, girl. Keep your head up.
/r/askTRP15/03/14 05:06 PM
1

Having good game is itself a form of power. Having and displaying good game is like displaying high quality genetics for intelligence and social aptitude, which is attractive, which is power. So like I said, women won't fuck men who have less power than them. On the other hand the average fertile women is more powerful than the average men because the fertile women are outnumbered. Agree with you there. The avg woman is definitely more powerful than the avg man (at least in Western culture).
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 10:40 PM
5

Well maybe that's what tends to happen, but men can powertalk too, and they can be damn good at it. Many men just don't do it because they were brought up to only consider the objective, face-value of words, which is a stupidly limiting thing to do. Also, if a woman holds power over you then I don't see any advantage in talking to her for the purpose of sex, because they're not going to fuck someone with less power than them (you could pretend you're a celebrity I guess). You'd be better off spe…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 06:45 PM
2

Christ no. Girls are maniacs.
/r/askTRP13/03/14 06:41 AM
1

Without courage, wisdom bears no fruit. I agree that men and women have different ways of "powertalking". Men's is more active and external focused, designed to cause someone else to obey. Women's is more reactive and internal focused, designed to bring her back to a comfortable emotional state.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 06:14 AM
4

She's not getting a fraction of that alpha male's sperm. She's getting the full deal.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 01:54 AM
3

I dry my hair with a towel every morning.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 01:53 AM
1

SHE CHOOSES WHO SHE'LL SLEEP WITH It's not exactly that simple. Really, it's more like the men she can convince to protect her give her the liberty of choosing who she'll sleep with. But if there were no men willing to protect her, it would be more like "Whatever man is strong enough to overpower her can sleep with her, and her choice is irrelevant." So in the end, in most cases she does choose who she'll sleep with, and your point is valid, but it's important to understand the conditions that g…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 01:47 AM
2

When you're playing video games and browsing the internet, you are NOT doing nothing. That's the problem. If you really were doing nothing, and I mean just sitting on your bed staring at a wall, or pacing back and forth in a hallway, then you'd find out pretty quickly how boring it is to do nothing all the time, and your mind would force you to come up with SOMETHING to do. The trick is to prevent yourself from doing anything "just to kill time" like video games or the internet. Do nothing inste…
/r/becomeaman04/03/14 05:55 PM
1

Is there such a subreddit?
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 07:58 PM
5

You'll have to try your best to find RP men in your life. If you ever meet a guy you respect, who just seems to have that aura of being a cool guy, look him in the eye, give him a firm handshake, exchange names, and see where things go.
/r/askTRP03/03/14 07:21 PM
7

yep. after the "OK" there's nothing more to be said. if the chick wants to fuck again, she'll let you know. spin plates.
/r/askTRP03/03/14 06:11 PM
1

The study is valid. You can clearly see the pictures of the men that are considered "prideful" for the purpose of the study. The study labels these men as prideful, and correctly reports that women liked them. The study makes no false claim. The women truly did like the men in the "prideful" category. :)
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 06:46 AM
6

I'm the king of generalizations. I stereotype without remorse. It works well, as long as you train yourself to recognize the exceptions.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 10:45 PM
12

Is it not possible that when they provide value to you they feel better about themselves? Certainly. When my mother cooks me dinner, she gets a good feeling from it because she respects me and loves me. And when you're comfortable around that person is that not showing them your trust in them, which is something to hold positively? Crying in front of them has nothing to do with trust. They are merely a witness, a receptacle of your crying. They will by default feel empathy for you, and in their …
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 10:31 PM
11

It's simple. You don't burden anyone else with your sadness. People already live sad enough lives. To provide value to them, you should make them feel good. You want people to always be comfortable around you, to feel like you're a source of positivity in their life. Therefore, as a general rule, you cry alone. And personally, it feels better that way.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 10:12 PM
5

Alone, preferably. That's the only time I do it. It feels dignified that way.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 09:50 PM
0

Personal choice.
/r/askTRP23/02/14 01:44 AM
0

I'm also considered an INTJ. Honestly this might not be the most optimal strategy, but it works for me. I usually just don't give a fuck about thinking of witty comebacks, thinking of what is the most alpha thing to do, etc. Whenever someone does something I don't like, I simply look at them calmly, shake my head, and say, "No," as if I was chastising a puppy or a little child. I have better things to do than engage in conversation with fools. People tend to leave me alone because I make myself …
/r/askTRP22/02/14 04:46 PM
4

Intrasexual*
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 04:21 PM
3

Beautiful.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 03:16 PM
3

I agree with this concept in general. I think people give too much credit to free will, and not enough to simple cause and effect. There's a lot of romanticizing about how humans are the ultimate rational beings who can choose their destiny and accomplish whatever they want. The truth is that humans are animals who have been successful at populating planet Earth over thousands of years, but we aren't Gods. We are still at the mercy of the physical universe. In the grand scheme of things, we are …
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 03:10 PM
11

Forever flapping.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 02:24 PM
2

It really is that simple.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 06:32 PM
1

I am the devil ;)
/r/RedPillBooks30/01/14 07:30 PM
1

I don't want to lose her friendship, but I'd like to try to keep it sexual if possible. There's your problem. You're trying to fuck her and be her friend at the same time. Doesn't work. If you're fucking her you should be more like her boss, not her friend.
/r/askTRP30/01/14 05:37 AM
5

Nice friend zone speech! That's lame as fuck. Never talk about the "friend zone". For your purposes, the friend zone doesn't exist. Don't even acknowledge it. If you're not feeling it I can't force you to Well, duh. This is obvious, and doesn't need to be said. but FYI I'm down to have sex with you anytime. Yeah, I understand you're a horny guy and there's nothing wrong with that, but never say something like this. It's like you're making a commitment to her that you'll drop whatever you're doin…
/r/askTRP30/01/14 05:33 AM
2

Your job is to provide good service. So do it. That's the alpha thing to do. When an alpha takes a job, he does it well. If people are bitchy towards you, be the better man, treat them like a little child acting up, and handle their shit calmly and with a grin. You shouldn't have to force smiles. If you have to force it, don't smile at all. Either be genuinely happy to meet people, or smile because you find them juvenile, as you would smile at a little kid doing something ridiculous. But don't f…
/r/askTRP29/01/14 03:41 PM
12

Bucks is slang for money. Betas give money/resources to women with nothing in return. Alphas get their dick wet. They're nouns, not verbs. "Fucks" refers to the sex alphas are having with women. "Bucks" refers to the resources betas are giving to women.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 01:04 AM
2

When I get one of those pussy hand shakes I grab their hand and tell them, "No, with more enthusiasm." and make them re-do the shake. Usually gets a giggle, and if the bitch is offended then she's not my kind of girl.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 12:33 AM
5

Yeah I feel like a bitch after a workout, but the next morning I feel like a boss.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 03:13 AM
3

"Together" is ambiguous. You could say you're "together" but still sleep with other girls (who you are also "together" with). She probably wants to know that you're not going to sleep with anyone else. That's for you to decide. If you're not ready to commit to her, then don't, and make sure she knows that you could be seeing other girls. Depends what you want. Either way, make sure she knows what to expect. Don't say one thing and do the other.
/r/askTRP26/01/14 04:35 PM
1

Ok dude, you're giving off some serious mangina vibes. Emotional blackmail is way too far of a stretch for what I'm talking about. All relationships are a power struggle, and when the man wins he gives the woman tingles. If you don't get that, you still haven't taken the red pill.
/r/askTRP25/01/14 11:41 PM
22

Demonspawn does it again. Challenging yourself is so important. Whenever I go out of my comfort zone I can immediately feel the positive effect it has on my frame. It's something I want to do more often.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/14 10:29 PM
1

I take enjoyment in building tension. It turns me on. I love the feeling of making her wait for her reward, knowing that she's practically dying for it. I use my power over her to create insane chemistry. Fun for both parties. I don't have a NEED for control, but when the guy is in control, the relationship is way hotter, so it's better that way. You feel me, nigga?
/r/askTRP25/01/14 06:11 PM
1

Need for control wasn't part of my post. You're grasping.
/r/askTRP25/01/14 05:49 PM
1

Ask yourself which person in the relationship NEEDS to hear "I love you." If the girl needs to hear it more than the guy, then she has less power in the relationship, and she will realize that if she wants to get her need met, she will need to concede by saying it first. If the guy needs to hear it more than the girl, then he will say it, hoping she will say it in return, and the girl will sense this as an act of supplication. When I have feelings for a girl, I could go my whole life without say…
/r/askTRP25/01/14 05:30 PM
8

Forget this girl. You're in too deep. There's no saving this one. Start fresh with a new girl. That's it. Plain and simple. As for how you should respond to her texts, just don't respond. If she sees you in real life and complains about it, just say you were busy and shrug it off like it's NBD. Don't lash out at her in anger. Don't get emotional. Act indifferent towards her, as if you don't give a single fuck about her. The more attention you give her without having fucked her, the more you dig …
/r/askTRP25/01/14 04:38 AM
8

You fucked up. When she saw the picture you should've projected the vibe of "yeah, that happened. So what?" And if she told you to get out, you should've just shrugged, said "Okay", and left. Then not contacted her until she contacted you first. "I'm sorry you saw that"? Fuck that man, she's a grown woman. She can handle her own shit. Ok, if it was a picture of her dead, rotting grandmother, then I can understand saying "I'm sorry you saw that." but if it's a picture of one of your conquests? Fu…
/r/askTRP25/01/14 01:05 AM
2

I know she wants to hear that I love her, and I do, but I'm scared that telling her will give her too much power. No, she doesn't want to hear it badly enough. If she REALLY wanted to hear it from you, she'd be the one to tell you she loves you. Never say it first. Even after she says it, I still wouldn't say it immediately after. I'd wait a while, then MAYBE I'd say it when the moment was right and I felt like it. I'd let her hamster run for a while, building the tension, and making it all the …
/r/askTRP25/01/14 12:18 AM
6

Yeah sure. Hard game is when it's really on between you and a girl, and you're either just getting her number for the purpose of escalating on her later, or you're escalating hard on her to get her sexually turned on and willing to have sex with you. Hard game is for when your intention is having sex with a girl. Soft game is when your intention is just to get the girl attracted to you, but you have no specific intention of fucking her. This is done because the act of getting girls attracted to …
/r/askTRP24/01/14 09:50 PM
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Hopefully they're hot girls. Use soft game on them. Soft game means never really committing to any one of the girls, never really escalating physically. Mostly just verbal and eye contact game. Tease them, be the center of attention, be the leader of the group, etc. Just have fun with them all, make them all like you (but if they refuse to like you, be cool with that too, don't be needy for it). This way you'll get insane pre-selection, your SO will want to fuck your brains out, and you'll have …
/r/askTRP24/01/14 02:42 PM
1

I suppose you could never think about it, but first I don't think that's realistic, and second I don't even think that's the best strategy. This might sound odd to you, but the best way of dealing with your height is by consciously viewing it as a weakness. Use your height as a motivation to propel you towards alphaness. Yes, forget all that bullshit about "height doesn't matter". It does. Every guy would prefer to be somewhere around 6'4". Fuck people who try to console you about a weakness of …
/r/askTRP24/01/14 02:33 PM
8

Tip: Always make it seem like your TRP knowledge and your resulting alpha persona just "comes to you naturally."
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 02:22 PM
1

The truth about being short is that when people see you they will assign you "negative points" for it (either only subconsciously or consciously as well). This is part of our nature. You simply have to compensate for this by making up for it in other areas. That's the plain truth. Like it or not, you will only benefit from realizing this truth and doing the best you can to raise your value. Only by completely accepting the truth, realizing there's nothing you can do to change it, and committing …
/r/askTRP24/01/14 03:04 AM
-2

No, that's not what anarchy is. Anarchy is a lack of public government. To say no government = little or no production is foolish.
/r/RedPillBooks23/01/14 01:52 AM
2

Your comment seems both aggressive and bitter. I'm an aggressive guy. Bitter, not at all. I quite enjoy the idea of a man working to provide for his family, while the woman doesn't earn any money. If she doesn't expend energy at a job, then she'll have more energy to spend on the tasks I would like her to perform. A woman who has come home from working in an office is going to be tired and stressed out. I want her to be perky and full of feminine energy.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/14 11:23 PM
2

I see frame as having a strong, unwavering mentality as a result of your own confidence in the accuracy of your judgement of reality. Having a good frame is like saying, "Here's how I operate. I have determined by my judgement that it is the best way of doing things. I'm not going to change that to accommodate you. I will listen to reason, but I will not be swayed by emotional appeals. If you want to be a part of my life, you must accept my way of doing things. I am the leader of my life. I am t…
/r/askTRP20/01/14 06:37 PM
2

No, this isn't quite right. It's not that women who have money don't want to spend it on their children. It's that women don't want to have to earn any money at all. That's the man's job. Once the woman has money, though, no matter how she has acquired it, she experiences no resentment when using it to provide for her children. Women want money given to them; they don't want to earn it themselves. But they have no problem spending it on their children. A healthy woman never resents her child.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/14 06:25 PM
3

Don't hang out with this bitch.
/r/askTRP19/01/14 06:22 PM
5

I'd say that the free market is the only place you'll find fairness. But I'm using a better definition of fairness than most people use. ;)
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 04:01 PM
1

I don't think men love women much, either. People always love their children because their children are carrying on their genes. But there's no evolutionary basis to love a person who isn't your child, except for a brief period of time when you are using them for reproduction. Maybe I'm just a psychopath, but I'd only risk my life for a woman who was carrying my child. Once we've finished having kids, the woman becomes a business partner (the job we're doing together would be raising the childre…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 12:01 AM
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OK, so you had stuff to do and couldn't come. That's it. No further explanation necessary. If she doesn't like it, she can take a hike. It's your life, you do what you want. She's along for the ride. But if you continually flake on her, don't expect her to stay around. If you really want a response to give her, just change the subject and remember to stay positive. Never get negative with a girl. It makes you look like a bitch.
/r/askTRP13/01/14 12:05 AM
10

If you're going through a lot of drama, you're doing it wrong. You can spin plates with minimal effort when done right. There's nothing wrong with LTRs, just make sure you don't have any foolish expectations. Make her earn your trust.
/r/askTRP13/01/14 12:01 AM
1

Obviously I meant that this would apply to people who are just "unhappy". The person who is unhappy is allowed to be unhappy and is allowed to leave, but they get nothing from the divorce. When there's an actual REASON for the divorce, then the courts would have to settle who gets custody, etc.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 05:34 PM
2

Doing meditation right is just sitting still and focusing on your breath going in and out of your nose. You focus on your breath to stop yourself from focusing on thoughts in your mind. Do it for 10 minutes minimum. Work your way up to more time. If you're having bad experiences meditating then it means that you will REALLY benefit from meditating. Just do it on your own and tough it out. You're not going to die from nasty flashbacks. The benefits will be worth it.
/r/askTRP12/01/14 05:28 AM
2

Lol, damn dude. I'd say that's a good reason to not joke about it.
/r/askTRP12/01/14 03:58 AM
3

Lift weights.
/r/askTRP12/01/14 01:55 AM
1

Your beliefs impose limits upon your self. Be free.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 12:02 AM
3

Try meditation. Meditation helps you to be unreactive. That's your problem, you're reacting to things. When I'm sitting in a chair and someone sneaks up behind me and touches my shoulder, I don't even move a muscle. I simply continue looking in the direction I was looking and say, "Hello." without even knowing who I'm talking to. I can do this because I've trained myself not to react to things immediately (although I can change this if there's a seriously dangerous situation). Meditation helps m…
/r/askTRP11/01/14 11:21 PM
7

I don't think the animosity is at all directed towards the married women who decide to divorce (or if it is, then it's completely misguided). I think people are mad at divorce LAW, because it favors the woman when it's the woman who should be punished for breaking a supposedly binding contract. People think it is unfair because they hold the assumption that simply by getting married they will not put their capital at risk. Let's say a woman can get a divorce whenever she wants, but she will rece…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 09:58 PM
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There is no should. There is no "side" we're on. There is no "it's okay to do this". Everything is amoral. There is no right and wrong. There are only actions and consequences. You do whatever you think is best, given the consequences of each option. You're thinking with lousy concepts.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 05:34 PM
20

This girl/ co-worker of mine probably has zero respect for me. How do I get it back without making things at work unnecessarily awkward? You don't get it back, because it doesn't matter. You move on with your life. From now on whenever you deal with her, you talk her to in an abrupt and impersonal manner, as you would any other co-worker. Treat her like a business partner and nothing more. You have a life and important things to do with your time. You're not interested in this woman, after what …
/r/askTRP11/01/14 04:56 PM
4

Whenever you're wondering "how do I answer?", what you should do is give her an answer she doesn't expect. So, if she was expecting you to say you loved it, you could say "No, it was shit." with a grin/or deadpan. But in this specific case I think she's kind of going to expect both answers (both "I liked it" and "I didn't like it") because many people will say they liked it even if they didn't, but she might also be expecting you to say you didn't like it since she knows you didn't, so you'll wa…
/r/askTRP11/01/14 02:16 PM
3

The best way to change your perception of your self (which is ultimately what determines how you behave around girls, whether you have approach anxiety, etc.) is to gain reference experiences. It is my firm belief that no amount of reading will change your self-perception (except that you'll think of yourself as someone who reads a lot, lol). Reading can give you a guide of how to gain experiences, but ultimately you have to go out into the real world and gain those experiences in order to chang…
/r/askTRP11/01/14 03:11 AM
4

I agree that this particular exchange between OP and Marissa was Win-Win. I also think that in the past Marissa must have found herself in a lot of Lose situations in order to end up where she is. If she wasn't interested in a LTR with all of the guys she fucked during her 20s, but then she changed her mind in her 30s to look for a LTR, then that means she would have been playing the wrong strategy the whole time (since women's sexual value decreases with time). She should've been looking for a …
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 12:44 AM
3

Is your ultimate goal to divorce yourselves from all human emotion? Nope, because the ultimate goal of TRP strategy is to be happy, which is a human emotion.
/r/askTRP07/01/14 12:03 AM
2

I'm not so sure that's true about two partner women. I don't think women care about partner count as much as you think they do. If the right guy comes along, they fall in love and there's nothing they can do about it. They're creatures of emotion. They can't just decide not to be attracted to me. Attraction is not a choice. But let's let the real world be the judge.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 08:07 PM
2

Ok, maybe chaste is too extreme. I'm not into religion. I don't believe in the sanctity of marriage. So if a woman is saving herself for marriage with a good Christian man, then that's not me. Essentially, I am a high value man with a moderate partner count (and rising) who is ultimately looking for a high value woman with a low partner count (2 or less) for a relationship. In the meantime, I'm banging sluts. I don't think a woman has any business caring about my partner count, but I sure as hel…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 07:55 PM
1

A good first step would be being chaste yourself No, I don't think so. That's bad advice. I'm not worried at all about my ability to attract chaste women. As RP theory states, a man's partner count only increases his value. And since society has already gone the way of feminism, I might as well enjoy myself with the available wares while I look for a suitable partner. What's different about today (versus 1940s) is that low partner count women are the minority rather than the majority. So one has…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 07:40 PM
3

Casual sex, yes. Is that a good thing? Not really. There are a lot of girls I could have sex with but I just don't want to because they're dumb sluts and not worth my time. I'd rather use my hand than some of these girls. I'll take chaste women over sluts any day. And I mean real chaste women, not sluts pretending to be good girls. But good girls are unicorns, so I usually end up settling for the least slutty of the sluts.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 03:43 PM
3

Lol. Do it. See how it turns out for you, Magda.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 02:34 PM
6

i feel like i can definitely take the principles i learn in Dark Souls and apply them to game. Or you could just spend that time practicing your game on women. I agree that solving problems in games can improve your mind. But the thing is that solving problems in real life is so much more productive. If you can't go outside because it's a blizzard or something, and you can't think of anything better to do, then I suppose playing challenging games is a decent way to train your mind.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 02:26 AM
2

Damn, dude. You're all mixed up in her frame. Just say exactly what it is you want, and it's not up for discussion. "No, let's do something else." Either she comes with you where you want to go, or she doesn't. Problem solved. She can come along with you, or she can do her own thing. If she's in your life, she plays by your rules. If she doesn't want to play by your rules, she can take a hike.
/r/askTRP04/01/14 11:52 PM
1

Height is an objective disadvantage. It means that the girls you'll be able to get won't be as hot as if you were exactly the same but taller. So if the 6'2" version of you gets 9s, the 5'9" version might get 8s, and the 5'4" version might get 7s. The numbers aren't necessarily accurate, it's just an example. I'm 5'7". When gaming women taller than I am, my game needs to be much better than when gaming shorter women. That's a fact of life. But I'm not bothered by it at all. I'm not salty about i…
/r/askTRP04/01/14 10:54 PM
12

I agree with OP. Gaming is a waste of life (unless you're able to get into eSports/streaming and you're making lots of money playing games.) Porn/masturbation should be a last resort when you're horny and need to get off. Watching sports is in almost all cases pathetic (maybe it's OK if you play the sport and you're watching to improve your own play, but practice is probably better in that case). Essentially, if you have some grand purpose for doing something, that's OK, but if you're just doing…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 09:50 PM
2

Disregard her feelings. Go about your life. If/When you want to bang her again just send her a text with "I'm coming over." or something direct like that, as if you were just on a break from each other but now the action will resume. Drama doesn't exist in your world. When you are with a girl, everything is simple, to the point, leading towards sex (or whatever other activity you want to be doing with her), and when you aren't with her, you are just living your life, business as usual.
/r/askTRP04/01/14 08:20 PM
1

You forgot to include important details about the sex. How much are you having? Does she give it up whenever you want it or does she turn you down? You want a relationship where you have sex whenever you need it (some exceptions can be made for sickness, etc.), and without having to put up with bullshit from her. Try to frame the relationship so that this is achieved. If it can't be done, next her.
/r/askTRP04/01/14 07:28 AM
2

Sounds interesting. I don't think I'd do that myself, but I'm not you. If you want to do it, I say go for it. Just be smart about it. Make sure you're not playing a losing strategy.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 04:36 AM
3

Treat them like female guys. ;)
/r/askTRP03/01/14 10:38 PM
1

Thanks, Demonspawn. The comments in bold are great.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 09:22 AM
1

Proud to be here. Let's make 2014 a good year.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 02:06 AM
1

Listen to what everyone else here is saying. Their advice is solid. Keep reading red pill theory. Read everything in the sidebar on the main subreddit. If you haven't done so, read The Book of Pook. That seems like just the thing for you right now. Models by Mark Manson would be a great book for you as well. And, this can't be emphasized enough, stop thinking so highly of this one girl. Start practicing your game on many girls. Never get tunnel vision with one girl.
/r/askTRP31/12/13 08:17 PM
2

Yeah dude I don't think dick size matters very much. It's probably something like a 3% advantage. Having a strong masculine frame is way more important.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 08:14 AM
2

I usually don't get interrupted. I think it's because I have a good read on the situation and I only speak when I know that what I have to say is so good that people wouldn't dare interrupt. Tone of voice matters too. The best tone is one that sounds so confident in what you have to say, that other people believe that what you have to say is worth hearing. When I speak, people usually turn their heads towards me to listen intently. I don't have a super deep voice. It's probably average deepness …
/r/becomeaman31/12/13 08:08 AM
1

Yeah, 95% of girls you won't find interesting. 5% you will find interesting some of the time. It's just a fact of life. Don't expect girls to be interesting. Just learn how to push their buttons to get sex. The good feeling you get from escalating towards and having sex is the main value you take from women, not having interesting conversations. As for men, it's a lot easier to find interesting things to talk about, but some men just have boring lives. Just accept that some people you won't care…
/r/askTRP31/12/13 03:07 AM
24

Yes, it matters. Everything about you matters to some degree. But the thing about dick size is that it doesn't really affect your chances at getting the first lay. Since they don't get to see your dick until they're basically already committed to sex, your dick size doesn't matter for the first lay. After the first lay, though, having a big dick can keep that same woman coming back, and can earn you a reputation for having a big dick, which can help you get with more women. But that's just one f…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 02:51 AM
1

This shit's gold.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 12:01 AM
4

Thanks for the FRs, Demonspawn. You're a role model.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 09:53 PM
1

Mmm.. if you can choose whether love exists, does it really exist? Either humans experience a certain feeling when certain conditions are met, or they don't. Your belief doesn't change reality. Concepts and theory conform to reality, reality doesn't conform to them. So the way I see it, there's no value in thinking about whether love exists. I just live my life, and feel whatever emotions I happen to feel. There's no need to have a "belief" about it. Since I don't find the need to talk about my …
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 05:53 AM
1

Ok, dude. Yes, as your perspective changes you'll see other men in a new light. But really, don't put much thought into it. Don't spend your time and energy looking at and thinking about other men. Don't focus on other men. Don't compare yourself to others. Just live your life, do your thing, and be happy.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 05:42 AM
3

Wouldn't that like... almost automatically put them in the "beta bux category"? Yes. The "ask her out on a date" advice is just beta bait. Just because a girl goes out with you on a date doesn't mean she likes you. If you're paying, she could just be along for the free lunch. Even if you're splitting, she could just be in it for the validation/attention. The way you can really tell if a girl likes you is if you escalate on her sexually and she reciprocates. This isn't to say that alphas never go…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 04:07 AM
6

It sounds like you've built your life around women. Your happiness depends on having women. Now you realize it's not such a good idea to depend on them, and you're left empty. Find things to do with yourself that provide you fulfillment. I recommend lifting weights if you don't already. Find other hobbies, too. Make your life great without women. Women should be an addition to an already fulfilling life. They can make your life more enjoyable, but they should not be the focus of your life.
/r/askTRP29/12/13 02:41 AM
8

It's easy. Women are programmed to do it automatically. Step 1: Determine which men are alpha, which are beta. Step 2: Alpha fux, beta bux. All advice women give to men is designed for the purpose of sorting the alphas from the betas, and encouraging the betas to give resources to women. Let's stop being surprised about this.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 01:36 AM
2

The ability to teach when it is a good idea to do so (benefits for both parties involved) is useful. The need to teach is dangerous. If you need to teach someone something then you're projecting your insecurities.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 08:04 AM
3

You're disgusted and angered by yourself. All negative emotions are directed towards the self for the purpose of adaptation. A perfectly adapted being (a god) feels no negative emotions because he has nothing to fear, and thus no reason to improve himself. If you feel bad, if you want nothing to do with women even when you know you want to stick your dick in them, it's because you're unsatisfied with your current level of adaptation. Women make you uncomfortable. Improve yourself. I speak to eve…
/r/askTRP26/12/13 10:16 PM
0

Listen to puaSenator. Your future self will thank you.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 08:58 PM
5

Downvote and move along, boys.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 08:48 PM
1

Words of wisdom.
/r/askTRP26/12/13 07:54 AM
3

2014 is going to be a great year for red pillers, since time works in our favor. As a red pill man, the longer you live, the more badass you get.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 06:49 AM
7

Yeah I feel you. I read it at just the right time in my life, when I was on the fence between socialism and capitalism, blue pill and red pill, etc. So I was able to power through the long-winded shit because I felt like I was getting a lot of value anyway. If you're already pretty red pill and understand the value of industriousness, free market capitalism, individualism, etc. then you might not find this book worth it.
/r/RedPillBooks26/12/13 06:32 AM
-1

A nice book. It makes good points about being assertive with women to cause them to behave in a feminine way.
/r/RedPillBooks25/12/13 06:57 PM
9

A good book. You can tell it was written by a woman (it becomes laborious with all the character detail and dialogue), but it's still good. The message is redpill, and when I read this at 17 it changed my life for the better. It was actually the book that started me down the redpill journey. 9/10
/r/RedPillBooks25/12/13 06:54 PM
3

I'm also 5'7 and I've had the same experience. If you're confident and don't give a shit about your height people don't even notice that you're short (or they just don't care). Maybe it's irrational, but I don't consider my height a disadvantage. Yes, women prefer taller men in general, but that only means my height is a disadvantage if I care about fulfilling a woman's preferences. I don't. I just try to have sex with them and I don't care about whether they like me or not. Some of the women I'…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 06:31 PM
7

You have at least mild oneitis, maybe more than mild. You sound too invested in this girl because you're thinking about what to say and when to say it (suggesting you're scared of fucking up). You shouldn't be scared of fucking up because if this girl doesn't like you, you can just go for another girl. Just say, "hey let's go out for _____". Idk about the whole break thing. I think I would wait until after the break, then resume contact, and then throw the "hey let's go out" line. But if you rea…
/r/askTRP25/12/13 08:42 AM
2

We're all here to better ourselves. Sometimes we need to fuck around with each other and get some things off our chests. None of us are perfect, and an anonymous internet forum is a good place to work on our imperfections.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 11:45 AM
1

I tried to think of an answer to your question, but all I can do is throw my hands in the air and laugh. That's the best I can do. I hope it helps. Sincerely, A man.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/13 05:31 AM
3

I love this website. The guy is so practical minded. He inspires me to take action.
/r/becomeaman22/12/13 07:48 PM
2

Hilarious book and good real life examples of dealing with women. 9/10
/r/RedPillBooks22/12/13 07:29 PM
1

Oh? I use adblock so I don't notice.
/r/RedPillBooks22/12/13 08:16 AM
1

victim, n. Definition #4. A person who suffers injury, loss, or death as a result of a voluntary undertaking. Sorry to lay down the dictionary on you, but I felt like your genuine question deserved a genuine answer. edit: Taken from http://www.thefreedictionary.com/victim
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 04:33 PM
0

Do you not agree that men cannot be harmed by women, but that men can harm themselves in any way they choose, and that they might use a woman as a tool to do so? Fine, forget the word 'victim' if you believe it is counter-productive. I'm not attached to the word. What I care about is getting to the truth of the matter.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 06:07 PM
1

I think the truth is that men can possibly be victims in relationships. The only time when they can be victims is when they choose it, when they permit abuse and encourage it with their own behavior. Essentially, when they place their own head on the chopping block. Victims of their own choices, using their partner in the relationship as a tool of self-flagellation. But if they don't want to be victims, they don't have to be. The choice is completely theirs. So yes, men can be victims in relatio…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 05:55 PM
1

I don't have a particular "passion." My passion is being alive. I'm in college for business administration because I understand business, have a liking for it, and I know I can get a job doing it. I don't care about getting a huge salary. I'm happy to live cheaply and save money. For me, what job I do isn't a big deal. No matter what I do, I will always be myself, and being myself is the greatest job I could ever ask for. Sounds cheesy, but shit, as long as I'm alive and healthy, I feel good. Pe…
/r/askTRP15/12/13 02:49 PM
22

Yeah, I tend to make her laugh more. And I'm no longer bothered by her little emotional squabbles.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 09:17 PM
2

"I miss you." "I miss your ass." "Who were you with?" "Are you getting jealous?" or "You're getting jealous." "I love you." "I love your legs/breasts/lips." (be creative and be honest) "Do you miss/love/like/need me?" "You're a good girl." Or if you don't want to give her so much validation: "You're alright, baby." or "You're mostly a good girl."
/r/askTRP14/12/13 08:35 PM
1

Pretty standard.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 07:41 PM
2

That's right. Let it out. Feels good, doesn't it? OK. Now maybe you won't be so mad next time.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 06:47 PM
2

And what's your point?
/r/askTRP14/12/13 06:32 PM
2

Damn, dude. You sound pretty mad in that post. It's ok, let it out.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 06:29 PM
0

Sounds like you've got what you want figured out. What's the problem, then?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 06:27 PM
2

Oh, marriage... well, glad you found it helpful. Best of luck to you.
/r/askTRP14/12/13 06:25 PM
1

Pretty standard.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 06:22 PM
-2

LOL. Dude, why the fuck are you even thinking about this shit. Who gives a fuck whether other people know how fat you were? The fact that you're even considering how other people will view you because of such an arbitrary thing like this is pathetic, man. Just get on with your life. Let's just pretend you never made this post. Just forget all about it.
/r/askTRP14/12/13 06:16 PM
6

Ok. Get your head on straight, bucko. You want emotion, but it only fucks you. So, do you want it or not? Make your decision. If you want it, then get into emotional relationships and get fucked. If you don't, then don't get into emotional relationships. Or you could go for the best option: master your emotions, so you're not worried about whether you'll get too emotional or not. Hookers are cool if you like them. I'm not a hooker man.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 06:09 PM
3

Whoa, man. You're taking this way too seriously. She's just a little girl. She's volatile. She's emotional. When in doubt, keep your head down, and keep going forwards towards sex. Ignore all bullshit. Laugh inwardly at her petty emotional problems. She's just a little girl. Keep calm, have sex. The fact that you allow any of this shit to phase you shows that your frame is weak and emotional. Be a rock. Disregard the bullshit, and have sex. If she won't give you sex, next her and move on. Simple…
/r/askTRP14/12/13 05:57 PM
11

It's just for the humour value. One thing I've found during my time in this subreddit is that most red pillers have a good sense of humour, and they like to joke around A LOT. Like 50% of the stuff we say is just for the hilarity of it, 50% is serious. Something like that. Welcome to the club. Also, watch out for /u/GayLubeOil. That guy is 100% comedy, 100% of the time.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 04:06 PM
5

Solid advice right here.
/r/askTRP14/12/13 04:02 PM
-2

Something you might want to try is using a fleshlight. It feels almost the same as a real vagina (like 90% the same), and it will give you confidence just knowing that you have basically stuck your dick in a vagina, so when you go to have sex for the first time, you'll be prepared for the experience and will have more confidence. Rather than being like, "Oh shit I'm about to stick it in for the first time!", you'll be like, "Ok, this is just something I do everyday. No big deal." Worked for me. …
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 03:35 PM
-4

Cum on human trials!
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 02:49 AM
2

Nice. High five.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/13 11:33 PM
-4

Well, shit, man. Best of luck to you. I guess I'm outgrowing this reddit thing. I suppose the pill has been fully digested. I'm tired of seeing people talking about women. Women this women that. Shit, women are nothing at all. They're just a walking sack of meat that chirps like a bird and has a warm, wet place to stick your dick in. We make too much fuss about them. They're harmless. They're crazy fuckers, but they're harmless. We demean ourselves by taking women seriously. They're just looking…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 10:51 PM
12

You guys are fools for reading this shit. She's just doing this for attention. Why even discuss something a woman writes? I don't get it. Do you think there's any value in it? No, I didn't read it.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 06:38 PM
-1

I'd say, "Self esteem is a scam anyway. Haven't you seen all the books? Forget it." or something ridiculous just to get her off my back about it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/13 05:35 PM
3

Self esteem is kind of a gray area with women. I've never really figured it out. It seems like women don't derive self esteem from within, rather they derive it from their relationships with people. So if a lot of people like them and give them attention, they will have high self-esteem. If not, they will have low. Women are kind of... adaptive in that way. They go with the flow of the environment. They're not like men. Men can have high self-confidence from inside, and they can feel good about …
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/13 11:28 AM
1

Women by Charles Bukowski might help. I'm not saying it's the perfect RP novel, but I found it quite useful in my dealings with women.
/r/askTRP12/12/13 07:16 PM
2

Suicide is a personal decision. If you have to ask whether suicide is right for you, then it's not. As for your problem, the reason you're here asking this is because right now you're struggling to adapt to an environment which you have recently perceived in a new way. It's normal to have a lot of strong feelings during a period of intense adaptation. Most people who take the red pill go through a period of a few months where they are angry at the world. But then you realize that there's no poin…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 11:40 AM
1

Sure. If your heart is in it, I say go for it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/13 10:34 AM
1

Give guys food and you're in.
/r/askTRP01/12/13 11:09 AM
1

If a man feels he needs to put on a fake personality throughout our relationship, it takes away from my trust that he is a valuable leader. If he has to consult a check list so that he remembers how to treat me when we are on a date, that gives some serious concerns about whether or not he will be able to handle it if a big issue arises where he does not have specific instructions to fall back on. This discussion was never about you or even women in general. It is about whether the 16 commandmen…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/13 02:36 AM
2

I didn't find the list so much horrifying as... just bad advice (if it was made for a long-term, committed relationship. I'm not sure that it was). The fact that many women want to look naturally beautiful is perfectly understandable. It doesn't come naturally to every woman, and the thought of trying to force it instead of letting it happen naturally is just gross to me. Men can sniff out a woman who's just putting on a show quite easily and it is NOT attractive. Am I being too harsh or missing…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/13 11:38 PM
3

The way you describe men faking their personalities reminds me of how women fake their appearance with make-up. But I don't see anything wrong with it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/13 10:34 AM
2

Life of Pi? Wtf are you smoking man? LOL
/r/TheRedPill30/11/13 01:28 AM
2

If having everyone else accommodate me worked as a strategy, I would employ it remorselessly. It's their fault for being dumb.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 02:15 AM
2

Yeah but I'd also do my best to land a beta provider. I'd just adapt my strategy to whatever worked at the time. If this strategy stopped working, I'd have to come up with a new one.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 08:28 PM
40

If I was a woman, I'd do the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 03:01 AM
-3

We're not "over populated" yet, but here's a source on how we're almost there: "The latest United Nations projections indicate that world population will nearly stabilize at just above 10 billion persons after 2062." -Taken from http://www.worldometers.info/world-population/#pastfuture
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 02:55 AM
5

Lol, dude, your comments make me laugh all the time. Keep it up.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 09:02 AM
21

Best of luck, dude. Don't say we didn't warn you.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 08:35 PM
10

Just keep in mind that if you don't have kids you are an evolutionary failure. Unless you can manage to become a very famous author or a president or something. Influence of that magnitude can have a larger impact on evolution than reproduction. But for almost everyone reproduction is the way to go.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 05:13 AM
3

From your texts it sounds like you're treating her too much like a guy friend. When I'm planning to do things with my buddies, we usually have some back and forth, negotiating the planning. This is because I respect my male friends and understand that their time is valuable. Women don't know what to do with their time. They don't have principles. They are just carried by the breeze. So when I'm talking to women it's more like, "Let's go tuesday. See you at 6pm." "But I don't know.. blah blah" "C…
/r/askTRP22/11/13 07:40 PM
3

The higher value she actually is (not just what she's pretending to be), the more shit tests I'll put up with. Some lowly skank shit testing me all the time will just make me laugh and walk away. Some hot, fit 19 year old with a fun personality can shit test me quite a lot and I'll still be down to play the game.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 10:13 PM
1

Leaning against walls works. I was outside of a classroom waiting for class to start, leaning back against a big window (basically a wall made of glass), and slowly but surely half the class formed a semi-circle around me (enclosing me in against the wall) and conversation ensued. One of the girls consciously noticed how I was the center of attention and commented on how I was "trapped" by everyone standing around me.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 10:09 AM
7

TLDR: it feels like its going to take a very long time until I don't feel like a (financial) burden to this guy and during this time I don't know if I can be there for him whenever he needs me to be. How did you do it? Lol. There's something missing here. You're presenting this situation as if it's him who has a problem with you, and that you're helpless to come up with a solution, but you haven't said anything to indicate that he's unhappy in any way. Does he even have a problem with all of thi…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/13 09:01 AM
3

It feels good to be in the presence of feminine women, even if it's online. There are sparse pickings out in the real world and I get hungry.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/13 04:02 AM
1

Thanks for the heads up. Registered.
/r/MGTOW18/11/13 05:16 AM
-1

Beautifully said.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 07:41 PM
1

Using girls for entertainment = beta orbiter. Right?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 06:43 AM
1

Lol. To say women should ease up on men severely overestimates the damage women are capable of doing to men. I'm not even phased by what women do. I say bring it on. Go harder on men, not easier. Have a field day. I'll laugh as you swing your womanly arms against my manly chest in a desperate attempt to claim some ability to hurt me. I might even pretend to cry for comedic effect. Let's find out who is really the one being damaged.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/13 05:11 AM
2

The only reason it could be a bad idea to get involved with her is if she's crazy enough to poke a hole in your condom so she gets knocked up in a desperate attempt to get you to commit. Protect your condoms and make sure you dispose of them in such a way that she can't have access to your semen afterwards. If that's not an issue, then fuck away.
/r/askTRP15/11/13 02:35 AM
1

So.. I don't see a problem with this relationship. All I see is a problem with your mindset. It seems to me that you're expecting every girl you fuck around with to want to enter an exclusive relationship with you. This is an unrealistic expectation. If you drop this expectation, suddenly there's no problem. The two of you are just fuck buddies. If you can't handle that and you need something more, then you should look for a different girl. She's made it pretty clear from her actions that she's …
/r/askTRP15/11/13 02:23 AM
7

That's just jumping to conclusions without evidence. Not really judgmental.. just ignorant. Stuff like that is cool as a joke (say it with a grin so it's obvious you're joking), but if you're serious then I'd recommend you stop since it makes you a fool.
/r/askTRP14/11/13 07:36 PM
3

This is women's spot to discuss objectively and realistically sexual strategy with the focus on long-term goals that bring long-term happiness. If you believe your strategy is going to bring you happiness in the long-term, or if you believe it won't but you're looking for a strategy which will, then you're in the right place to have a discussion.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/13 07:18 PM
9

Harsh but true. Indeed. My dad was beta and a mixture between "hands-off dad" and "angry dad" (he was essentially kicked out by my mom when I was 12). He sucked. Every useful lesson I learned I had to learn by myself, except for one thing: my dad taught me (by example) to not be like him, because of how pathetic he was in my eyes.
/r/becomeaman13/11/13 07:19 PM
1

It's possible.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 04:42 AM
3

Lol, yeah a grimace would definitely be disinterested. I meant more of a blank, "bored" look, as if nothing about you excites her. As if you were an item in a store and she looked at you briefly and said in her head "nope" and then moved on to the next item. If you're a low value guy you'll get this "nope" look from girls frequently. If you're a high value guy you'll get it much less, but sometimes you'll still get it. Not every girl is going to like you, and even some of the ones who like you w…
/r/askTRP12/11/13 07:29 PM
3

I don't recall reading much about signaling. Most of what I've learned has come from experience and intuition. It's pretty simple to figure out what a girl's motivation is by just putting yourself in her shoes. Imagine you were a beautiful but somewhat shy and passive person. You have inherent value for just being yourself, but you don't have the balls to take what you want. What would your strategy be for getting what you want while filtering out what you don't want? It would mostly consist of …
/r/askTRP12/11/13 03:30 AM
3

Most definitely.
/r/askTRP11/11/13 03:50 PM
3

Sure. You're sitting down, and she has a choice of where to sit and she sits beside you or directly in front of you so you have to look at her She holds your eye contact and smiles In a group of people, she stands close to you, or looks at you more than the others in the group She tries to get your attention by doing something flashy in your general vicinity You are in a public place and she initiates conversation with you for whatever reason, even just asking the time Generally anything which c…
/r/askTRP11/11/13 03:47 PM
9

Nah. Plenty of times girls have initiated the flirting with me. You just have to realize men and women often flirt in different ways.
/r/askTRP11/11/13 12:28 AM
1

That was extremely relevant to my post. You're a good girl for bringing this interesting website to my attention.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 06:24 AM
6

Well, there have been periods of time during my red pill awakening when I would suddenly become extremely tired and have to sleep for many hours, even if I had just woken up recently. I think my record was an hour 8 sleep shortly after waking from a 10 hour sleep. This would happen most often when I was working on integrating a particularly worldview-shattering concept or set of concepts. Changing your mindset at a deep, subconscious level can be draining. But it's worth it.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 06:06 AM
1

The post can be summed up in one sentence: Form whatever relationships you want and don't put a label on them. This person typed a lot of words but didn't say much of any significance. I'm getting the vibe that the post (possibly even the whole blog) is an act of asking for permission. Permission for what? I don't know exactly.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 05:48 AM
1

That was hot.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/13 04:04 AM
4

I agree that historically this has been the most successful strategy, however I think reproductive success is shifting away from having as many children as possible and towards having the best quality children possible, which includes raising your children in such a way that they will be successful in this modern world. I suppose maximizing both quality and quantity would be the best strategy, although that would take some serious masterminding.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 03:26 AM
9

Respect for Kelly Clarkson.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 10:51 PM
3

LOL. Both links are gold.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 10:20 PM
2

Remember that irrational does not necessarily mean bad. It means that which is not rational, meaning that which is not thought of. It is a confidence you feel, deep down, prior to any thinking. This means you cannot convince yourself to have irrational confidence, and that's what makes it so difficult to cultivate. I can't properly explain how to develop it. But I think everyone already has it on some level. I have a feeling that it comes from some sort of.. being in alignment with something pri…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 10:14 PM
1

You've made me think of that quote in a new light.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 06:58 PM
-1

I don't want to believe this is a biological imperative. Ok. That sucks for you. Are my abilities to be intelligent, bold, risk-taking and strong diminished due to my gender? Yes, you used exactly the right word: diminished. Is it possible for a woman to be anything but a liberal-arts-degree-holder in this age? What a silly question.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 09:39 AM
4

Both friendliness and femininity are good qualities to have. Keep yourself in good shape and wear feminine clothing when you go out (this doesn't mean slutty). Work on cultivating a genuine smile. Try to develop some hobbies; it's a good way to meet men and women who you are likely to connect with. If you're more of an introvert that's OK; try to find things to do that are social but aren't too crazy. Maybe yoga or some kind of dancing? Don't focus too much on your career. You want to project th…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/13 04:29 PM
6

You have to land your man in your 20s, because by 30 they don't want you. This is the general rule, yes. Your man is the "captain" (I think this was in the original post) and you have to make him feel like a "man". You don't have to make him feel like a man. He should feel like a man by default. What you have to do is allow him to be a man, and allow yourself to be a woman. If you're open to his leadership but he's just not giving it, then he's not marriage material. The men get to pick and choo…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/13 03:45 PM
44

He's your boyfriend. You're not married, meaning you have made no promises to stick with him and support him no matter what. You're only enabling his bullshit by not dumping his ass. You're 23, meaning you have 2 years (on average) before your sexual value begins to go down. Don't waste time.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/13 03:17 PM
3

What hate? I have no hate for PUAs.
/r/askTRP03/11/13 11:39 PM
3

Just re-read what I said. You'll get it eventually.
/r/askTRP03/11/13 11:33 PM
5

but giving people unsolicited advice never goes well. I agree.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 11:15 PM
5

Ethics? Lol. Thinking in terms of right and wrong is not best. Better is thinking in terms of effective and ineffective. TRP is about the latter.
/r/askTRP03/11/13 11:06 PM
1

LOL, whoops.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 09:43 PM
6

Nothing, man. Do what you want.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 07:18 PM
6

Well said, OP.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 07:02 PM
3

Nah. They're pretty simple.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/13 06:43 PM
3

Pull yourself together, man. Yes, OP has some learning to do, but you're not setting a good example.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 05:28 PM
36

What TRP provides that conspiracy theories don't is immediate proof of concept. You read about something on TRP, go to apply it in the real world, and it works. You see an immediate and direct improvement in your life after learning some new red pill knowledge. Maybe that's why this subreddit is better than Conspiracy. But it might be only a matter of time before TRP goes to shit.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 06:04 AM
-5

Ok. It was a woosh for the movie reference on his part. But in a way it was a woosh for you because maybe he wasn't trying to continue the movie reference, but was just trying to make a joke. Shit's complicated.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 03:10 AM
6

Well, since you established that you'd let the other person know, but she hasn't let you know about the other guy, then she's broken the rules. However, it's a shitty rule to have anyway. Why not set up the frame from the get-go so that she just assumes you're going to be seeing other girls, so that you don't have to "let her know" every time you start seeing a new girl? "I like what we have and I want to keep seeing you, but I don't want an exclusive relationship." That makes it pretty obvious …
/r/askTRP01/11/13 03:05 AM
-8

To you, yes it does.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 02:39 AM
2

While she's nothing special, the pre-photoshop picture is more attractive than the post-photoshop, which looks like a Barbie doll. Barbie dolls are creepy. At least without photoshop she looks human.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 02:33 AM
2

Rhye is a duo consisting of two men. The singer's name is Mike Milosh.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 02:29 AM
1

If you're not married, what would happen to the kids if she wanted to "leave" you, or you wanted to "leave" her? Who would take care of them?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 04:32 PM
2

Thanks for validating our position.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 02:04 PM
12

Yep. But he didn't need her. He just had the desire to fuck her so he stated his desire for her to come. He was persistent with his desire in the face of resistance. But if she really didn't want to fuck him, he'd be just fine. He didn't need anything. As a man, you state what you want relentlessly until either you get it, or you find out that it won't happen and you move on. Whatever the result, you are fine with it.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 02:00 PM
2

Lol, this game sucks.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 01:11 PM
0

You're understanding the red pill just fine. Yeah, you are running out of time. You're in a tough spot. Somehow secure yourself a red pill man as soon as possible, I suppose. You'd better be ready to prove how good of a wife you'll be. Most red pill men will be very hesitant to get married.
/r/askTRP31/10/13 03:42 AM
2

35 sounds like a good age. Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 02:58 AM
1

Yeah.. I might want to have kids in the future. That'll be interesting. I'll cross that bridge when and if I come to it.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 06:13 PM
2

Hell yeah. Using direct game reminds me of how the bravest boys used to act on the playground in elementary school. They just did whatever they wanted to girls and had a blast doing it.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 06:12 AM
1

Yeah, it's been over a year since I read Models. It was the first 'game' book I ever read. Changed my life.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 06:07 AM
1

Sex with whomever I want, whenever I want it.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 06:02 AM
1

Cool. I'm 19 so I have no idea what works in a marriage. I don't plan to get married either. Thanks for your perspective.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 06:00 AM
0

That's cool man. I agree with you about doing what works to get you what you want. I don't tell a girl she's pretty so that I come across as pleasant. I do it to make it clear that I want to fuck her and because I enjoy the power I have as a man to make her feel feminine and get her emotions stirring and her vagina wet. The point is that I want to fuck her and I'm going to make it known immediately and in any way I want to. Sometimes it can be done just with the eyes and with touching. Sometimes…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 02:24 PM
0

Dude, how often does a person experience true terror? I've never in my life felt that. I don't know if I ever will, even if I do get cancer or something like that. I'm able to express real vulnerability with a woman because to be honest, there's nothing scary inside of me. If you find yourself scaring girls when you open up, like literally making them feel horrified, then shit man.. that's fucked up. Maybe such a person should try to work it out with a therapist or something. I don't even know. …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 01:41 PM
5

I don't want unconditional love, dude. That's impersonal and off-putting. I want a girl to love me for my good qualities, and to stop loving me if I'm no longer good. That makes sense to me. Someone who loves indiscriminately makes no sense. Saying you're afraid of dying during chemotherapy doesn't have to convey weakness. If you're honestly afraid of dying, then admitting it isn't weakness. It's confidence. "Yeah I might die. Yes I'm afraid of dying. I don't want to die. But at the same time it…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 01:11 PM
3

Fuck yeah. I feel you man. Glad you liked it.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 10:17 AM
1

Sweet. Just remember that part of focusing on yourself means getting your desires met, which includes having sex. It's not everything, but it's a natural part of living a good life. Yeah man, Japan is pretty weird. You can definitely get pussy though. It might even be easier because there are so many betas everywhere and the women are starved for some alpha cock. ;)
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 10:03 AM
1

Nah dude. You can't regret a bad outcome when you knew it was a risk you were taking. That's like saying I went all in with Aces against Kings and then regretted my play after my Aces lost. Calculated risk. Joking aside, I get what you're saying though. There's a difference between not doing something because you're worried about what the girl will think of you, and not doing something because you're worried that you'll go to jail for it. Of course, use good judgement. But don't put up a shield …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 09:25 AM
5

Yeah it's likely one of two factors (or both): 1) You're afraid she'll reject you so you reject her in your mind first. Avoiding her to avoid feeling bad. 2) You don't trust yourself to hold frame and be outcome independent, and you'd feel bad about yourself if you went up to her and supplicated in some way, so you're avoiding her to avoid feeling bad. Either way you're avoiding her because you think you'll feel bad in some way for interacting with her. Stop it! (lol) I used to do that all the t…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 08:43 AM
2

Talking about insecurities wouldn't do any damage to you, it would just be futile. Women can't help with them. They won't be turned on by them (probably). But as long as you're not coming at it from a needy mindset, you can say whatever the fuck you want and you'll never be hurt for it. "I'm insecure that I'm short and have a small dick." "I'm worried that I might get fired from my job." I personally have no interest in talking about that stuff, but if you find that amusing to say, then why not?…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 08:30 AM
3

So im casually striding to the gym drinking my pre-workout listening to my Rammstien, having taken my epistane. Just having a wonderful time. Stridin' dirty.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 08:18 AM
6

Dude, I don't mean talking about insecurities. I would never expect a woman to be able to help me with my insecurities. That's like asking a clown for legal advice (lolwut). I just mean opening yourself up in the sense of not limiting your self-expression. Taking down your "male bitch shield" as another poster said. Not being afraid to say what you're actually thinking and display the emotion you're actually feeling. Back when I was blue pill, if I was open with what I was thinking and feeling I…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 08:02 AM
2

My point is that there are two factors in play. There's your "core" and then there's your "exterior". If you core is weak, meaning you're needy, then you'd better put up a strong exterior or else you'll be screwed over. Once your core becomes strong, however, you no longer need the strong exterior. In fact, it will just get in the way of having authentic interactions (which lead to sexy times). If you're truly rock solid, meaning you never break your frame, never allow yourself to be manipulated…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 07:55 AM
12

Yeah, that's the key. You must first be coming from a place of outcome indifference and non-neediness. Then when you honestly share yourself it's sexy as hell. Just make sure you're getting your own dopamine in return and not just doling it out for free, haha.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 07:15 AM
1

The red pill is about determining the best way to act in relation to women in order to get what is desired out of said relation. In my opinion, the question you've asked falls under the category of useless speculation. It makes no difference to me how much of female behavior is caused by feminism and how much by genetics. All that matters to me is what I can do in response to said behavior to get what I want.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 07:09 AM
1

u funnay
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 06:50 AM
15

Yeah man. I can see your perspective. I never judge socially awkward guys, because I was one myself and I know it wasn't my choice to be like that. It was indoctrinated into me to be like that from an early age. My parents taught me that girls should be trusted and treated very respectfully and you should do nice things for them. Whenever I didn't follow this advice, I would be punished. You can't expect a 5 year old to be able to reject everything he has been taught by those he looks up to for …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 05:57 AM
12

I'm glad you liked it. But man, don't allow yourself to think you will be manipulated. If you really think about it, the only way you can be manipulated is when you choose to be, based on the way you approach the interaction. There are no victims, only volunteers.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 05:21 AM
15

My "stonewall of indifference" is a completely blank expression and ignoring girls out of a fear that I no longer need to have. That's what I'm going to stop, because it completely kills any chance I have of having a good time around girls. Now that I've killed my neediness, I'm in the process of removing my self-imposed limits on self-expression. I no longer need to hold myself back when there is no danger of being hurt. Definitely, being indifferent to outcome is very important. It's the same …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 04:33 AM
2

You're demonstrating that the person you are talking to needs your validation, which shows that you are higher status.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 03:24 AM
-1

lol
/r/askTRP28/10/13 11:21 PM
20

I felt - and still continue to feel - not equal to my colleagues. Yes. There's a reason for that. You aren't equal to your colleagues.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 02:13 AM
1

I'm just worried about getting hurt. There's your problem. You would do well to solve this problem. Never should you be worried about being hurt based on your relationship with another person. Think about this for as long as it takes. Never enter into a relationship when you think you are in danger of being hurt. It means you need something from someone. Never need anything from anyone.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 10:53 PM
14

Yep. Women MUST try to destroy men so that they can find the ones who cannot be destroyed. It's the female biological imperative. The higher value a woman is, the greater her effort at destruction. This is undoubtedly a good thing, since it (along with it's counterpart, the male imperative to overcome all obstacles) is responsible for the evolution of the human species. We would have no ability to improve as organisms if we all just had sex with each other indiscriminately, thus the sexual proce…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 08:12 AM
4

The body has wet dreams (nocturnal emissions) for that purpose. There's no need to worry that you aren't ejaculating frequently enough.
/r/MGTOW21/10/13 08:15 AM
1

I'm about half your age, but just went through almost the exact same process—even the nofap part. I don't have much to say, because I think there is already an understanding between us. We both know how far we've come, but maybe I'm a little further along in the process. Back when I was Blue Pill and forcing myself to masturbate every day, I could only get turned on by the fantasy of females dominating me sexually. Now I can't stand the thought of being dominated. When I'm having sex and when I'…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/13 07:17 PM
1

If a woman compliments me straight to my face, I take it to mean that she's trying to gain power over me by having me care about what she thinks of me. I just brush it off, as if she didn't even say it, or I respond with my own power move to assert my dominance. I think it's uncommon for a woman to make this play because it's usually not very effective. It's easy to deflect. I think a woman with good game would want me to pass more rigorous tests than the compliment test, so they don't even both…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/13 11:18 PM
3

it only works if you're speaking with one who is a critical thinker, otherwise get ready for a barrage of moral platitudes, euphemisms, and generally "Gynospeak" as stardusk calls it. I said I try to guide them towards my way of thinking. I never said anything about caring whether they accept my guidance or not. I amuse myself while offering a helping hand to those who are plugged in. Their response to my offer is their choice and none of my concern.
/r/MGTOW18/10/13 07:25 AM
4

Agreed. You might also like to check out /r/RedPillWomen.
/r/askTRP18/10/13 05:03 AM
8

How do you respond to said topics (Do you avoid discussions, or attempt to argue with blue pill men/women)? I neither avoid discussion nor attempt to argue. I usually employ something like the Socratic method. I'll ask questions which are designed to reveal the ignorance of a person's standpoint and to guide them towards the enlightenment of my own standpoint. It's easier that way. Example 1 BP: "How can you think so lowly of women?" Me: "Did I say I was thinking lowly of women, or is that your …
/r/MGTOW18/10/13 04:53 AM
28

The "fortune" is the woman's sexual value. The first woman sluts around, and when she hits the wall she wonders why she can't find a suitable partner to reproduce with. The second woman picks her partner carefully at a young age and stays with him, having 4 children and a successful family life. It's an analogy to describe the red pill reality of why riding the cock carousel with abandon doesn't lead to a woman's happiness.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 11:27 PM
9

Beautiful analogy.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 11:24 PM
0

Yes it's a shit test, but for many girls they have gotten so "good" at it that they do it subconsciously. They don't even think to themselves consciously "Ok now I'll wait 3 hours to text him". Most women just build it into their lives to not respond quickly to opportunities, because they have been taught by their experiences that they will always have an abundance of opportunities, so they can wait until the last minute to choose among them. The ones who always text you back right away are eith…
/r/askTRP17/10/13 10:10 PM
2

Being dumb doesn't preclude the ability to stop being dumb. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. However you slice it, whenever you fall for manipulation, it was because you were dumb. But then you learn from your lesson and you don't ever fall for the same thing again.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/13 06:17 PM
4

If men fall for manipulation, they're just dumb! Well, it's true.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/13 05:51 PM
3

It would lead to referrals.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/13 05:47 PM
0

No. Why would we think about blame at all?
/r/askTRP14/10/13 09:48 PM
2

I'd laugh at her insecurity and focus on my work.
/r/askTRP14/10/13 07:46 AM
1

You betray yourself, OP.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/13 07:31 AM
1

LOL
/r/TheRedPill14/10/13 07:18 AM
8

You're trolling, but for the benefit of a sane person reading this: Telling someone they have to take their clothes off if they want to sleep in your bed does not preclude their choice to not sleep in your bed. Example: If you want to buy this grapefruit, you have to give me 3 dollars. Don't want to give me 3 dollars? No problem. No grapefruit for you. There's nothing "rapey" or non-consensual about it.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/13 06:56 AM
1

I agree with what you've said, but I think you misunderstood me. I'm all for being upfront about not wanting a relationship. It was just the "you can either walk away or stay" part specifically which I would've excluded. Saying something like that is like running a hotdog stand and saying to a potential customer, "I'd like to sell you a hotdog. You can either buy it or not." "Oh, really? I can either buy it or not? Gee, I hadn't thought of that." It's one of those things people already understan…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/13 06:34 AM
6

Great report. I don't like the "you can either walk away or stay" because it's redundant to tell someone what their options are when those options are extremely obvious. I get that you're trying to convey the "I'm cool with whatever you decide to do" mindset, but personally I'd just convey it with voice tone and body language. There's no need to state the obvious when she should already understand your cool attitude from your unspoken communication. How old are you? Even a ballpark, like "late t…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/13 05:12 AM
0

Yes.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/13 03:57 AM
3

I'm more inclined to take the advice of a person who has achieved some of the results I wish to achieve in my life, than the advice of a keyboard warrior. Therefore, OP's "place" is relevant to me. What merit does advice have other than its ability to give you the results you want? The result the advice is likely to cause is its merit, and a display of high value from an individual does inflate the advice that individual gives, but not "artificially", as you put it. Argument from authority is on…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/13 11:15 PM
1

Why the downvotes? This man is spouting red pill wisdom.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/13 04:34 PM
3

Cool OP. Best of luck tonight.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 10:48 PM
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