Breaking BP habits.

RPthrowaway123 · 2014-05-16T00:45:20+00:00

Same thing I always say in these sorts of posts: read No More Mr Nice Guy! Its the perfect starting point

DanReggins · 2014-05-16T00:56:05+00:00

Keep in mind that you are #1. You always come first.

Did you know that in a rescue situation -- any rescue situation -- you're supposed to stay the fuck back if you'd put yourself in significant danger helping someone else?

RP doesn't mean that you're automatically Rico Suave. It simply means that you don't provide for a woman (financially, emotionally, etc.) until she's invested into you.

But we also don't wait for others to help us. The cards are stacked against you; you have to make your own life better yourself. Granted, we're here to advise, but it's you who ultimately has to exercise, learn/advance, and respect yourself.

Even if you swallow it and become a MGTOW, it's still better than being some woman's emotional tampon and pocket book.

steadymotion · 2014-05-16T01:11:35+00:00

I'd advise you start doing things for yourself. Can be little things or big things, doesn't matter. Ask yourself, what do I want to do right now? And do it without asking anyone else for permission or anything, just go do it. Teach yourself to follow your instincts.

Walktillyoucrawl · 2014-05-16T01:50:16+00:00

Be ok with walking away. It's the best tool you have. Don't dwell on others or the shortcomings they have.

kempff · 2014-05-16T02:03:56+00:00

Keep a daily journal of what you did and of what you think, and be sure to include sober, factual, objective narrations of blue pill incidents. Re-read entries at intervals, such as a week ago or a month ago. It will be like watching hidden video and it will make you cringe. Take advantage of the cringe to catch yourself on the verge of doing blue pill things in the future.

Title	Breaking BP habits.
Author	alclarkey
Upvotes	8
Comments	7
Date	May 15, 2014 8:48 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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