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| 1 | Advice for solo traveler?Word. I'm doing the same thing right now in Europe. If you're staying in airBnB, then get used to eating your meals and shit alone, going out alone, etc. Enjoy it. Focus on your food. As you meet people, your schedule will fill up. But the question of meeting people--well, IDK, introduce yourself. As other's are saying here, use the fact that your a tourist to your advantage. "Do you speak English" is a great opener. ("because I'm from... Hi, I'm ...") "where are you guys from?" is another one, … | /r/seduction | 08/11/13 06:11 PM |
| 1 | FR and question about a "shit test"lol | /r/seduction | 05/11/13 10:52 AM |
| 1 | FR and question about a "shit test"word. I think this is really good advice. I did go to the club with her. She opened me a couple hours earlier with my Aussie friends and convinced us to go out. I guided the group to pub and club, and at the pub, I opened another group and had them join ours. | /r/seduction | 05/11/13 10:52 AM |
| 2 | FR and question about a "shit test"word | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 10:47 PM |
| 7 | FR and question about a "shit test"wow. Really? you would drop that high strength one? | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 10:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Seduction with a Fresh Attitudelol. Word | /r/seduction | 02/11/13 05:45 PM |
| 1 | I am ashamed of seduction (or rather, myself as a seducer)great point | /r/seduction | 25/10/13 05:30 PM |
| 0 | I am ashamed of seduction (or rather, myself as a seducer)great. consider it torrented | /r/seduction | 25/10/13 10:53 AM |
| 0 | I am ashamed of seduction (or rather, myself as a seducer)Thank you gentlemen, All very good points. I wonder though, how do you guys actually deal with the seduction stuff in your lives? i.e. do you tell anyone that you've been involved with this etc.? | /r/seduction | 25/10/13 10:10 AM |
| 1 | My "verbal-game" is pretty solid, but I feel pretty hopeless every time I get to a dancefloor...thanks. | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 12:53 PM |
| 25 | Common Dating Error: Giving Away Your Interest Too SoonNo offense to OP, but I think byfar the best part of this post is in its sidebar: "approach excitement." What a novel idea. Instead of calling that butterfly feeling anxiety, which has a negative connotation, frame it as excitement, which has a positive. | /r/seduction | 04/07/13 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Solo Sarging -Tips from experienced PUA's?this is really solid advice. salsa or swing--way better to be alone. telling people you're alone: never done it, but I've always wondered what to say to that question. of course, the truth! | /r/seduction | 26/06/13 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Trying to smile at girls/people more, but they don't seem receptive in passing. Advice?keep doing it. I have no reliable scientific source for this, but I think smiling actually makes you feel happier and more confident. Yes, it will get better. | /r/seduction | 24/06/13 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Jezebel: An Easy Guide to Fending Off Pick Up Artists (This is hilarious.)I would love it if a girl followed this advice. The make up thing is hilarious. If any girl knew how to play along like this, I'd marry her. | /r/seduction | 21/06/13 11:55 PM |
| 1 | The 40 Most Important Rules Of The Gamebummer that this was posted same day that everybody checked out r/seduction vis-a-vis the jezebel article. I did a CMV and everybody linked to this post. Personally, I think OP is trying to be funny and informative, but when taken out of context from the tradition of seddit to be a self-improvement and healthy dating habits hub, it looks pretty bad. Oh well. They don't have to subscribe. IMO, I hope I'm right about the intention of humor. If so, great work. | /r/seduction | 21/06/13 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Kickstarter Apologizes for 'Allowing Above the Game': 'We Were Wrong' to Fund Rapey Project'Don't know. I hope they don't kill this though. It's super important to talk about on this subreddit. Maybe they are making a comment thread on this or something. | /r/seduction | 21/06/13 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Kickstarter Apologizes for 'Allowing Above the Game': 'We Were Wrong' to Fund Rapey Project'Quickly, I'm going to share my opinion. I will write a longer piece later, but this is just to start the discussion: This is a total bummer. The thing about Tofu's books is that it is not really that misogynistic. It is actually written for sensitive men and it is all about expressing sensitivity and inner awesomeness in an attractive way. Throughout the book, attractive is synonymous with classy, respectful, honest, etc. Since I started studying pickup, my resentment towards women has become vi… | /r/seduction | 21/06/13 06:34 PM |
| 4 | Above The Game Part 8: RelationshipsAlso, thank you. This is fucking awesome. This whole series is awesome. Thank you for everything and best of luck with your new book project. | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 10:06 PM |
| 10 | Above The Game Part 8: Relationshipshow do you break up? | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 10:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Burning bridges and anxiety at a small collegelol | /r/seduction | 19/05/13 05:08 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Burning bridges and anxiety at a small collegeright on, dude. congrats. | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 11:35 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Burning bridges and anxiety at a small collegeWord. Fuck it. My prob is that I am too excited about things that are probably not a big deal. These conversations are pretty trivial. I am probably overestimating myself when I shouldn't be estimating myself at all. I should just be enjoying. | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 11:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Burning bridges and anxiety at a small collegeone-itis times five agree completely. But I reckon it can only help to overcome the approach anxiety. I really don't care what happens with these girls. They are striking, so I am trying to talk to them. But thank you for supporting that mindset. | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 11:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Burning bridges and anxiety at a small collegeYou're right. I ought to consider seeding and trying to sell this shit better. I think part of the problem with all of these girls is that I have assumed they are attracted, and then I have been kindof distant. I didn't even consider that that girl might not be into hanging out in the woods. I just figured I sweep her off her feet. | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 03:29 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Burning bridges and anxiety at a small collegeFunny, but to address what I take to be the message of your sarcasm seriously, these ideas are not so bad in context. There's a lot of wooded area around my school. That's my favorite part of being here. Any girl I would even consider dating needs to be comfortable or at least excited about chilling outside. And in context, (with the exception, maybe, of the last), none of these are that threatening. | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 02:45 PM |
| 4 | A clear-cut summary of one anon's transformation, what women are like, and tips for outer and inner game.I agree with this thread. The bitter mentality displayed in this post will get you laid. I don't believe this guy about high quality girls though. I think a guy with this mentality will attract a certain demographic of women who are disloyal, and Anon tells it as he sees it. He may fuck a lot of hot, married women, but I doubt he can fuck any hot, married woman. I'm not saying I believe in the kind of love he describes at the beginning, but I think his cynical attitude is misleading, out of line… | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 02:14 AM |
| 2 | I have trouble coming up with openers so I say *anything* but it usually turns out insulting or weird. How can I improve the quality of my approachers?Actually, your openers are fine. If you are approaching and it just isn't working out, it probably has to do with your body language and vocal tonality. There's guides for this stuff, but very briefly: eye contact, stand up straight, rapport breaking ("downwards") vocal tonality. | /r/seduction | 11/05/13 05:50 PM |
| 1 | How can I get over my scarcity mindset when I live in an area of scarcity?You're not "having trouble." You're doing fine. It's a long term process. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 11/05/13 05:14 PM |
| 1 | [FR] fifty shadesBAS for life | /r/seduction | 11/05/13 05:12 PM |
| 3 | [FR] - "How are you so good at talking sexy?"I was just thinking about this while writing a paper. You are so fucking lucky, dude. I'm about to graduate college, and I've never had an innocent, awesome moment like this. (there is a certain innocence--an organic connection). I've talked to tons of girls; I've fucked a handful of them; but I've never had a moment where it just clicked as it did in your FR. I forgot about all the little things I learn reading seddit This quote was particularly inspiring. Hopefully I can seddit myself into a p… | /r/seduction | 11/05/13 05:11 PM |
| 6 | [FR] - "How are you so good at talking sexy?"This is fucking awesome, dude. Congrats. It must have felt awesome when she told you your game is good. | /r/seduction | 11/05/13 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Something that accidentally humbled and HELPED me.what app do you use to record? | /r/seduction | 11/05/13 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Something I've picked up on since my seddit journey began 6 months agoModels is particularly helpful, I think, if you have already had some experience going into beast mode and getting laid. His approach on the next level--how to get more out of every relationship. I agree with your post though. For an intermediate, it is definitely a tremendously inspiring book. | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 11:21 PM |
| 2 | (Micro FR and question) Finally made an approachDisagree. Look, its up to you how ballsy you want to be. There is no such thing as "level" though. This isn't a video game. If you have the balls to try something like kiss a girl when you are attracted to her, power to you. It's always better to get rejected than sit around, pussy footing, thinking about "level." TL;DR when you want to kiss her, that's the right time. The best way to do it is whatever gets it done | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 02:00 PM |
| 1 | How can I get over my scarcity mindset when I live in an area of scarcity?Seriously, change your environment. I can hear how shitty your lifestyle is in the voice of your writing (vis-a-vis pickup). Get a car; get a new job, anything. In the meantime, patience. You know you're in a scarcity mindset. That's all your oneitis is. Take decisive steps to change your life. Invest in yourself, and the ridiculous obsession with this shitty sounding girl will vanish. This may take a while, but you have the right idea. | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 02:41 AM |
| -2 | (Micro FR and question) Finally made an approach"your pretty, I'm kissing you." BAM. As soon as it pops into your mind. If she says no, try again the next time the thought comes around. | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 02:31 AM |
| 2 | "Are you dating anyone?" shit testdon't think of it as a shit test. Ask yourself. Why do girls ask you that? If you get it a lot, you must give off a vibe that says "hiding a gf." Maybe you are standoffish or hard to read. Next time a girl asks you that, tell her, "girls ask me that all the time. I don't think it's normal. What is it about me that makes you ask that?" She's not testing you, she's trying to figure you out. "How old are you" is a shit test. | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Meeting Hot Girls On The Street (Video)killer, dude. very calm and cool. Tip: try suggestions as well as questions. "You're from north carolina, aren't you." "No. I'm from brazil. Why did you think north carolina?" "I don't know, I was just guessing. why are you in the states?" "To study." "International studies, I bet." "Dios mio, how'd you know?" etc. | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 02:15 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Sort of rejected by a girl who I could swear was into me.This is solid advice. If she has a bf, she won't fuck you unless she already wants to cheat. Just go have a good time. Plus, if you play your cards right, you'll have a wingwoman. Talk to her, be open with her, get feedback on your game. This is a thousand times more valuable than anything on seddit. | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 02:02 AM |
| 3 | College game is a totally different animal, and from what I've experienced so far, I think it should be approached differently. Agree/disagree?You have approach anxiety. Your post is a limiting belief. If a girl is hot, you should fucking talk to her. You should tell her she's hot. You should see if you vibe. End of story. Further advice: get a better date idea. You're right, college girls are not mature enough for dinner as a first date. It's your job to think of something fun and exciting. e.g. I went to college near a river. "Let's steal a canoe from the ecology department and explore the other side of the river." | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Limiting Belief: I am a creepIt is kindof funny, but frustrating too, as you might imagine. Thanks for the advice. | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Limiting Belief: I am a creepword. I don't blame her. I'm not sure I blame myself. It is a pattern though, with several girls. I think its just a limiting belief, but I wonder if anyone else struggles with this and could give me a pep talk about how its bullshit. | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Limiting Belief: I am a creepthanks, dude. | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 02:39 AM |
| 17 | Gentlemen, I present to you... the complete memoirs of Casanova. A seduction classic.Where's the TL;DR? | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 03:51 PM |
| 6 | College Seduction challenges - limited girls, important reputationDude, I was in the same situation. 1000 people in a small/nonexistent town. Girls in your little pressure cooker have the same anxiety about reputation and limited options as you. They won't blow you out unless 1. You are a total asshole; 2. They are a total bitch. Just practice game as normally would. There's nothing wrong with getting outside your comfort zone, with trying things, fucking up, etc. Some people will like you; some people won't. That will always be true. Your game should not hing… | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Above The Game Part 2: Fundamentals of Attraction: Authenticity, Desire, Excitement, LifestyleI really like this guide. Really, there is a lot of wisdom. When will the next section come out? | /r/seduction | 18/04/13 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Mathematics of SeductionLook, I don’t know what to say when I first approach a woman. Nobody does. I do know two things. First of all, you feel more comfortable with each subsequent approach. Warming up is extraordinarily powerful and important, and after you overcome the barrier between being a lonely, lurking, creep at the bar and making an approach, for better or worse, you always become increasingly comfortable. The other is a mathematical argument. The amount of women you sleep with can be modeled by the following… | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 10:34 AM |
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