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MALE DEPRAVITYstripesonthecouch/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 03:01 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYstripesonthecouch/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 06:24 PM
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🙏🙏🙏 I hate the whole concept of “kink-shaming”, violence is violence!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/23 12:45 PM
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It’s not a “but women do it too” thing. It’s about how it’s important to recognize that some women hold up the patriarchy as well, saying every woman is a victim is taking away agency from them. Some women choose to be bigoted towards other women. They uphold the patriarchy as much as men do. There are just as many pro choice men as there are pro life women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/22 09:34 PM
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You’re giving men too much credit. There are plenty of powerful anti-choice women and they need to be called out and shamed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 03:27 PM
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It is even more of a betrayal for women to actively take rights away from other women. Men are on the sidelines of procreation but women are right in the midst. Women need to support each other. It is not confusing that men act certain ways, but it is definitely mind blowing that women harm other women and needs to be discussed, just as much if not MORE than how men harm women. We already give men plenty of attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 03:26 PM
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There are plenty of anti-choice women who help these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 09:03 PM
91

Also all the women who are anti-choice. Even more baffling and angering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 09:02 PM
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Rights ARE being taken away. And it’s not just men, it’s anti-choice women. We need to hold them accountable too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 09:00 PM
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Don’t shave it - ever. It’s a bunch of patriarchal misogynistic bullshit that women have to be hairless to be sexy. I stopped shaving all parts of my body over a year ago. No regrets. The right man won’t care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/22 05:22 PM
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Yep exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 01:58 PM
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I mean, men who vote for women to have the right to choose do have a BIT of a step up from men who vote to force transvaginal proves on women seeking abortions or banning it completely. I think it is disingenuous to say men on the right are just as bad as men on the left. Yea any man can be LV, but let’s get real, men on the right have a special hatred for women. Adding this: I think it’s safe to say there are NO HV rightwing men. They don’t exist. It is impossible for them to exist. They small …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 09:14 PM
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Last frame = 🤮🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 03:50 PM
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Best thing you can do is move on and live your life and treat yourself like the queen you are. Don’t spend time wallowing in it. Get your emotions out then pick yourself up and keep moving forward. Don’t let him take up anymore of your time and energy than he already has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 09:58 PM
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Ultimately it doesn’t matter what the explanation is. Autism, Asperger’s, asshole vibes, whatever. If the vibes are wrong, they’re wrong and you trust your gut and block and delete. Save yourself the time and energy overanalyzing trying to decide exactly what it is. Just know that it isn’t something you need in your life and walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 10:26 PM
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“You don’t slow down at a red light, you STOP.” Wise words that save lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 08:30 PM
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In academia this is called “internalized oppression”. Like when you see black people on fox news. They have a deep self-hatred. She might just be a narcissist too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 07:07 PM
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Yeah don’t worry about being polite. Say what you really feel, she needs to hear every bit of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 05:51 PM
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And yet somehow that is “empowering”…. Sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 06:47 PM
65

The shittiest boss to have is your husband
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:31 PM
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DON’T ALIGN YOUR FREEDOMS TO RELATIONSHIPS needs to shouted into every woman’s ear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:29 PM
5

Yeah for real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 11:55 PM
8

Exactly! When I first clicked on it I thought of so many cute things it could be and was severely disappointed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 11:54 PM
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That is amazing, I can’t wait until my niece is old enough and I can tell her, “SAY IT WITH CONVICTION!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 05:29 PM
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Agreed thank you for saying this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 02:42 PM
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Yeah they act like it’s some huge revelation to be proud of 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 01:56 PM
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You mean, if a man gets you, personally, pregnant. You have a right to not get an abortion. But it blows my mind to see a woman on this sub saying that all women should be forced to carry all pregnancies to term against their will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:45 PM
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“I don’t mind if you don’t orgasm” what a vile piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:40 PM
3

Exactly this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 04:19 PM
93

Preach. Definitely not having kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 11:55 PM
21

Seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 09:39 PM
22

I’m doing ODL but the first thing I say is to ask them if they support a woman’s right to choose. Makes it easy to sift through men lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 10:27 PM
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Omg crackin me UP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 01:50 PM
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You should be so proud of yourself for the path you are on now. Continue building yourself up as a person in general ways: follow interests, start hobbies, volunteer, self-care, daily routines, etc. Stray strong queen 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 08:20 AM
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Yes I have noticed that and it’s always a downvote from me. Besides being objectifying, it is just not creative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 04:51 PM
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I was mid twenties and he was “40” I later found out was actually 47 when we started dating. Almost married him but luckily I didn’t!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 06:51 PM
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You can do it! And you are not alone! We are here for you queen 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 07:14 PM
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My wrath would be unleashed if that happened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 02:07 AM
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Yeah I got a DM cuz a man was offended when I said semen is gross. It cracked me up, like why do you even care dude? And yes I’ve seen my own vagina, it’s beautiful thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 10:12 PM
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Ugh I think it’s the worst. And semen is absolutely disgusting. I’m straight but damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 11:52 AM
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“I’m totally insulting you but I wish you the best” 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🙄🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:41 PM
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Good for you! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 07:57 PM
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Thank you so much for this. I needed to hear this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:32 AM
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Right on sister!! Be proud of yourself. I am on a similar journey and finding FDS has been huge for me as well. 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 04:34 PM
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“Supporting someone doesn’t mean you allow their poor behavior to slide.” Key statement right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 01:50 PM
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I’ve stopped shaving every part of my body and I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 10:22 PM
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Same, it’s disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 10:20 PM
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Don’t let him walk you home. From now on tell him that you will walk yourself home. That has probably been making him feel more familiar with you. Even so, asking to join your Tesla appt was definitely wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:51 PM
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Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:23 PM
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The Taliban are just incels born in a different part of the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 05:04 PM
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They hate that we're comparing notes so that we can discover their tricks before they have a chance to hurt us. Yup this is it, they don’t want us banding together and getting smart(er).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 02:53 AM
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Another whiny man child goes on a shooting rampage. Incels need to get over themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:57 PM
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Yeah what the actual fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 05:28 AM
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their actions are performative I think that’s a good way to sum it all up. They’re not really HVM, just pretending and putting on what they think is a good show
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:58 PM
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My first thought… not only is she 19, she looks 12 😖🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 10:41 PM
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It’s also a safety and health strategy🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 01:12 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:50 PM
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Preach sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:02 AM
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No no no women do not fuck up your bodies by doing shit like this, this is a capitalist patriarchy telling you to be a Barbie doll, ugh I hate shit like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:01 AM
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What about what you deserve!! What an effed up mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 07:54 PM
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This needs to be the widely-held modern view of sexual activity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 10:14 PM
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😂😂😂 but seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 01:02 PM
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Ggggggrrrrrooooossssssssssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 01:14 AM
8

Men are babies lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 06:39 PM
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Yes thank you, it’s just further objectification… we’re saying we want to be objectified… and be held to the same standards of rich, famous women?? Wtf? To me the whole purpose is we are human beings beyond the concept of beauty. Women do not exist to look attractive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 03:54 AM
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Yeah that was my reaction too… seems like it’s crossing coworker boundaries. I don’t hug any of my coworkers, male or female
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 09:15 PM
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Good for you sis!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 12:05 AM
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How do you even live like that. I feel lazy on a normal two day weekend doing chores and running errands and /then/ relaxing. Don’t they get bored? Geez
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 10:54 PM
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Yeah and cop no less
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:41 PM
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“Men just being men” 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:50 AM
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Yeah like somehow ‘drama’ = ‘passion’ = ‘love’ which is bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 09:15 PM
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This is exactly how women need to handle these situations! Good for you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 05:51 AM
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I think I’ve spent a lot of my life looking less attractive on purpose... I hate male attention. It is threatening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:47 PM
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The only person worth finding is myself. 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:11 AM
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Hugs sister
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 10:47 PM
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Implants horrify me. The idea that a woman would pay tens of thousands of dollars to have her beautiful natural breasts cut into with a scalpel and have shoved full of plastic is soooooooo fucking saaaad. No sis that is not for you. It is because patriarchal society pressured you to look like a porn star.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:35 PM
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Well said sis 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:33 PM
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hearing from teh menz that we're all "fat old ugly spinsters nobody wants" or something. There are a lot of posts here that are something along the line of "no, we're all hot!" Which is, if you ask me, the wrong response. The right response is "fuck off, my appearance is not a reason to treat me poorly!" That is such an important point to make, thank you!! Focusing on our physical appearance and meeting beauty standards is playing right into the patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:23 PM
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Thank you for posting this!!! Women have ridiculous beauty standards we are pressured to adhere to. Fuck that shit. I don’t wear makeup on a daily basis (once in a blue moon for an occasion if I feel like it) and I don’t shave anything. I’m saving tons of money saying fuck you to society’s standards. It feels great. I don’t exist for men to look at. I exist for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:18 PM
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Sometimes I final myself thinking nostalgically about a relationship I had in my mid-twenties with a man twice my age that I was engaged to... then I realize I probably dodged a huge bullet by ending the relationship before marrying him. He was already trying to tell me I couldn’t go to the bar once a week with female coworkers... He was Hispanic and I had this feeling he would end up being controlling and I didn’t want to live like that. I’ve now had two previous engagements but thankfully ende…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:27 PM
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I think to them, apathy/ no attention is almost worse than negative attention lol 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:41 PM
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Yep this was my last relationship. He was convinced I had cheated and was leaving him for someone else. Nope. Just want my free time back and dont want a man child co opting all my time, energy, and money. Also he was way too attached to mommy. Glad I got out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:36 PM
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I would never trust a cop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:03 PM
1

<3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:13 PM
1

Same here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:47 AM
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I have my dad’s last name but my mom didn’t change her name and I’ve always loved that she didn’t!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:45 AM
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This should be how things work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:44 AM
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Exactly!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:43 AM
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Never changing my name if I get married. Why are women expected to go through all the bullshit of changing their name and never men? Because we are supposed to be subservient to men. I am totally against it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:41 AM
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I don’t think we’re missing out on his rEaSoN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:28 PM
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I’ve been more conscious lately of the fact that as a white woman, I can get away with being less groomed, less shaved, wearing less makeup, than women of color can. That is part of the white privilege I have - privilege that is unearned, undue, and racist. So I totally respect your self preservation and understand that society/people judge us differently. Love to you, sister 💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:25 PM
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Thank you for posting this queen. I’ve stopped wearing makeup and stopped shaving. Those things are arbitrary social standards. Also there’s this wonderful feeling of your leg hair blowing the breeze ☺️ We are just all conditioned to do certain things. As u/proletarot mentioned, it is all about capitalism. But it is also about women being sex objects in society. If women took all that time, energy, and money and put it into other things and themselves... well the possibilities are endless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:17 PM
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Preach sister
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:13 PM
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Well said queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:55 PM
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Damn straight sister! 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:34 PM
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Yeah cooking is not even the thing, like eat an orange twice a week, how hard is that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:56 PM
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And who would want to communicate with a guy that lashes out in anger like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:50 PM
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Wow just straight up saying he’s looking for a submissive woman... at least he’s honest lol! Allowed her to not waste any time with him haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:01 AM
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Yup I had that happen. Became obsessed with me, then angry, broke things, ended up having to block my door with furniture at night so I could sleep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:13 PM
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Thank you fellow queen 💜💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:15 PM
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I’m in a similar position at 31, had a lot of mental health issues, was in psych facilities, finally waking up and like you said, getting out of that fog. We’re doing it sis! The best is yet to come! Also love your username because pistachios are awesome 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:46 PM
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At 31 I’m just finally fully being stable, being myself, recovering from so much shit in a real way. I know I still have growth but that is part of the journey. For the first time I know I have years to look forward to. It’s amazing for me to say that even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:42 PM
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I have dealt with this and honestly felt so much guilt, shame, and disgust at myself. I have stopped watching porn/reading erotica and instead basically have been retraining my brain to get off on thinking about positive sexual experiences and just enjoying the masturbating experience. I have never talked about this with anyone ever. Thank you so much for posting 💜💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:32 AM
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Love to hear it!! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:08 PM
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One of my elderly residents just told me about her!! My resident is amazing in her own right, she is 95 in her own apartment and plays these amazing piano pieces from memory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:08 PM
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Stopped shaving my legs and pits, a little apprehensive to show it off in public but also I can’t wait 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:52 PM
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Yup he never cared about having a child or being a parent, he just wanted to control her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:20 PM
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That’s why you just get the abortion 🤷‍♀️ he will probably never stop trying to involve her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:18 PM
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What the actual fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:20 PM
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Seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:45 PM
6

Wow yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:40 PM
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This has been a huge huge struggle for me in my life. Only recently I feel like I’ve turned a corner in my mindset of trying to focus on myself and take care of myself first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:53 AM
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Thank you for this reminder. I broke up with my ex about a month ago. I know without a doubt it was the right thing to do, but it still hurts sometimes. Some of my stuff is still there and I’m afraid to go get it but it’s just stuff. No matter what happens I will stay strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:20 AM
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Yeah that is not healthy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:53 AM
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I was recently reading some of Helen Keller’s writings. In 1915, she wrote a piece on women’s suffrage. This stuck out to me: “For my part, I should think that man's chivalrous nature would cause him to emancipate the weaker half of the race. Indeed, is seems strange that when he was getting the suffrage for himself it did not occur to him to divide up with his beloved partner. Looking closer, I almost detect a suspicion of tryanny in his attitude toward her on the suffrage question. And can it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:11 AM
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Conservatives value rapists over women. Because no matter what, in their eyes, men > women 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:05 PM
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This is exactly why I subscribed. Heard someone mention it as a ‘toxic’ subreddit and decided to check it out. It’s about knowing you are worthy on your own and shouldn’t have to give any part of yourself up to be with a man. Also, I’ve identified as a feminist for a long time but always felt uncomfortable with the libfem ‘sex positive’ perspective supporting porn, prostitution, kinks... all that shit is unhealthy. I’m glad to have found a community of strong women who don’t agree with that shit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:48 AM
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Same here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 03:37 PM
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