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This this this this this, OP. "You make me want to do crazy, wild things I'd never do with any other guy. I don't like that." [straight talk] "PLEASE READ BETWEEN THE LINES YOU MAKE ME WANT TO BE YOUR LITTLE SEMEN DEMON PLEASE TAKE ADVANTAGE OF ME IN HORRIBLE WAYS AND LET ME EXPLORE THE LITTLE SLUT I AM. JUST LET ME HAVE THIS PLAUSIBLE DENIABILITY SO I CAN PRETEND IT'S AN ISSUE SO BOTH OF US KNOW I'M NOT JUST A SLUT, I'M A GOOD GIRL, THIS IS ONLY WITH YOU, AND IT'S NOT WHO I ACTUALLY AM" [powert…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 03:24 PM
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That's a really big, really important lesson. And it's nowhere near as important as not fucking letting her watch your emotions dismantle you. Instead of asking "How do I be the best protector for her?", you should instead be asking "Am I owning my shit day in and day out, keeping my lifting consistent, are my proteins/fats/carbs dialed in, do I get my eight hours of sleep, do I build and assert healthy boundaries, am I working towards my employment goals, do I treat my good friends right, do I …
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:59 PM
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I hear you and I understand what you're saying. The problem is that it doesn't matter whether or not you believe she can find a better guy. The problem is whether or not SHE believes she can find a better guy. I'm not going to research the sidebar for you, but reading up on "branch swinging" and "powertalk vs straight talk" are good places to start. Keep going from there, because these look like your biggest weaknesses. Women don't branch swing because they can logically find something better. T…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:24 PM
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You asked for help because you decided there was a possibility you were doing things wrong. You posted here because you thought something was missing from your mental map. You did that. Even if you don't like the advice you read, your growth depends entirely on your willingness to empty your cup and learn.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:02 PM
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Translation: "Emotions are hard. Don't worry. Even if you can't handle them alone and I have to fix them, that's okay. I care about that and I'm willing to shoulder that for you." Level 2 Translation: "I didn't think I had to fix his problems, but I have to fix his problems. I should reassure him this is okay, because he is sad." She's not gonna leave because you were a little bitch one time or two times or three times out of thousands. But every time you do it, you shake her confidence in your …
/r/askTRP18/07/19 12:59 PM
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The end goal isn't to sabotage your sleep, gym time, nutrition or work ethic with all your success. The success is the byproduct of all the things you're working hard on. Don't let them fool you into thinking it's okay to skip your obligations. Schedule one for the nights and smash, but send her home after. Have another one scheduled for the early morning to come cook you breakfast. That'd be pretty funny, huh. Or, just go to hers in the night, smash there, come home, and avoid the family proble…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 05:43 AM
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There's no secret. Books and other material really help, but eventually you start to realize that none of this shit actually matters and life is what you make of it. Someone makes a funny joke, I laugh. If it's at my expense I'll pile on and agree and amplify and probably laugh harder. Whatever I think is funny, entertaining or engaging in any given moment, I'm probably doing that Why have a filter in informal social settings? Why be scared? If you see something you like, comment on it. At first…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 05:01 AM
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"They sound jealous. Did you give them my number?"
/r/askTRP18/07/19 04:37 AM
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Unfortunately for your hopes, I graduated Summa Cum Laude from the University of Laying Pipe and I love wielding that degree like a foot long schlong and ramming it deep into the throats of small men. What I didn't do is graduate from the University of Actually Fixing Legitimate Mental Conditions Other Than Just Being A Pussy. The only reason I'm not piling on this guy is because I'm not qualified to offer any sort of advice or help, and neither is anyone else who isn't trained to do precisely t…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:37 AM
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Tell them that they've activated your trap card and they have now been banished to the Shadow Realm. Then whip this out.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:24 AM
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Since when did we start listening to hamsters when they talk? chompchompchompchomphamsternoises
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:18 AM
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"I've got rock solid frame, except for when I don't." I've heard this before. Experiencing powerful emotions isn't a problem. Experiencing powerful emotions because for some reason this delicate little fairy who swooped into your life and climbed aboard the Captain's ship to suck the Captain's dick and cook his food somehow got ahold of the steering wheel. The fuck is that, Chief? You let your woman change where the ship was headed? If she's giving you shit and it's so far under your skin that t…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:00 AM
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Woman want orbiter. You no be orbiter. You go bye bye. Find new sloot.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 12:39 AM
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Admit to nothing, take ownership of nothing, keep your head down, and move on. If questioned, your broken record answer is "We had mutual differences that we were unable to resolve, and so we went our separate ways." Don't write a damn letter because all these guys got you shook, mate. Especially don't acknowledge these faults in a physical, transmissible format. Next thing you know, that's what goes viral. How far do you fall then? Show them you respect her privacy by not divulging, but don't d…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 12:31 AM
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Go see a professional and handle your shit the right way. A great coping mechanism I learned from a very old teacher is as follows: take a little piece of paper, and write down three questions. Why am I feeling abandoned? Why is it out of my control? What can I do to fix it? Fold this paper up, and put it in your wallet. Any time you recognize these nonsense issues springing up, unfold the paper, read the questions to yourself, and answer them, one by one, over and over, until finally you feel a…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 12:21 AM
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This is a lot of writing for a guy who's outcome independent. She sounds unstable. If what you're doing is working for you and you're getting laid regularly, file the rest of this away in the shit-that-doesn't-matter pile and move on. Text her when you want to fuck. Minimize contact when you don't. It'll make it easier to escape when you try to end things and she tries to burn your house down.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 12:09 AM
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Tf bro? Text her in the evening. "So do you always give your number to cute guys in coffee shops, or just me? ;)" You're pretty. Own that shit. Feminist red flag man tf are you thinking fam if a girl breaks societal norms specifically to make sure you can call her then just follow your schlong to valhalla
/r/askTRP17/07/19 06:47 PM
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Well what is she gonna say? "Ah yes nice inside joke I do recall, please take me again my prince I'm soaked" "Need you rn. My fridge is full of bitch ass girly drinks and I don't like that shit at all. I'll pay you in tacos and dick" "I have a brand new handle of tequila and tomorrow night is movie night at my place. 9pm, bring popcorn. If you dress pretty you might even get free admission ;)" "Pool night, at <bar>. I'm doing drinks and blowing off steam. Starting at 9. Come out." "My place. 9pm…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 06:43 PM
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"I don't kiss and tell, final answer. And do I look like one of your girlfriends? If you're looking for gossip, go talk to them. I don't care for that sort of thing at all. We've been over this before, your girlfriends are for your problems, and I'm for breaking your little holes and fucking you rough. You know, maybe I should print out a flow chart. You could save it as my contact picture in your phone as a handy reminder for whenever you're deciding whether to call me....[continue escalating i…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 06:18 PM
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"I'm not your dude, brah." "I'm not your buddy, pal." "I'm not your guy, friend." Who cares? No need to read into it.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 06:11 PM
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I'm really not trying to tell you who you should be and I don't mean to put words in your mouth. You're you, only you know what you need. If they're toxic, backstabbing little manchildren, cut them the fuck off and slam the door, hell yeah. But maybe it's not always black and white. Maybe other men are sometimes weak and sometimes strong. Maybe they don't have their shit together yet, but they're trying. Maybe they're dumb as shit, but loyal, and will always take your side through hell or high w…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 06:00 PM
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"Let's go grab a drink at X bar and blow off some steam." "Just as friends?" "Chill. I'm not about doing anything we don't both want to do. Also, I'm seeing somebody new, so yeah. Anyway, you, me, blowing off steam. 9pm work?" Go to bar. Ignore all questions about friendship. Don't bring up any of these interactions. Don't logic her, mate. Put your hand on her thigh when you're laughing at something she said. (sit beside her in a booth, not opposite. there's psychological evidence behind this bu…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 05:23 PM
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This is a gigantic takeaway. The entire article is valuable and I really like where this series is headed, but this right here is a particularly big flashing neon sign of value. It's hilarious how even the girls themselves are surprised and taken aback by what a contrast you are to everyone in her past - and how easy life is now - when literally all she has to care about is bopping around in your oversized tee shirts, cooking your meals and looking as fine as she can. What's even funnier is how …
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 04:27 PM
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Maybe the value you might gain from masculine friendships has nothing to do with their knowledge, understanding or application of TRP, and everything to do with being able to sit the fuck down, open a beer, talk shit, and not think in womanese all the God damn time. In practice, "teaching men to be men" has a lot less to do with telling 'friends' that their approach to life is wrong, and a lot more to do with living a life so much bigger than they ever dreamed was possible, so that one day you m…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 04:16 PM
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Years ago, I was heavily into online dating and it was what led me to meeting and fucking countless women. I was also heavily addicted to vices such as technology and dopamine spikes from validation, spent a staggering amount of time on Tinder swiping, messaging hundreds of matches, and my phone was constantly buzzing and overflowing with New Dopamine. At the time, this made me feel like the King of the World, even though what was happening was I was constantly interrupting and/or ignoring The R…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 03:28 PM
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There is no Chad vs Learned Alpha dichotomy. These terms don't exist. There's Alpha and that's it. Why? Because "Chad" was born into a family and social environment that taught and role modeled everything he needed for success during his formative years and beyond. The "Learned Alpha" is doing the same thing, just later on, and trying to overwrite a different set of formative behaviors by choice. Every alpha is a Learned Alpha. And over time, the more of these behaviors you internalize, the more…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 03:57 PM
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Man. I like that you're posting info, I like the messages about validation control and means of manipulating attraction, and I like the breakdown from your eyes about the differences in behavior from this girl. But there are some other messages here that I can't get past, and this is coming from a guy who REALLY gets how amazing idealization from a BPD feels. It's coke times a thousand, and then still not even close. Lesson 1) A true borderline is a sleeper agent, and she may nuke you from orbit…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 02:00 PM
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Work on displaying high value behaviors and allowing women to draw their own conclusions. You're communicating in MAN language, but speaking to women. On a broader scale, this is straight-talk vs. powertalk, and women speak in powertalk. Ex. Coworker calls you a week into your vacation, at 9pm, while you're at dinner with friends and family. Option 1) You pick up immediately. He tells you that you forgot to finish (unimportant thing) before you left, and says that Boss wants you to draft and sen…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 01:07 AM
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Accurate, succinct, easily digested. Very good info here.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 12:43 AM
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You can't set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 09:32 AM
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If you really are the best, everyone will chase you. If that happened, would anyone ever be good enough? The thirsty 10s? What makes them different from the thirsty 7s? Better a 7 who's head over heels for you and can't get you out of her head than a 10 who's disengaged, unavailable, or otherwise distanced from you, even though you seem to believe that this would make you want her more. And for the record... The only numbers that matter are 1 (would bang) or 0 (would not bang). Anything else is …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 06:55 AM
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Your intuition is well founded. She's a waste of time. You shouldn't have fucked her again. Cut off contact and don't fuck her anymore. "Never dig through the trash once you've taken it to the curb. It's noisy, all the neighbours see you do it, and what you threw out is never as valuable as you thought it was."
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 06:50 AM
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The takeaway here is that women are happiest when a big strong oak tree of a leader is there to protect her and she believes that no matter what happens, he'll handle it. She doesn't have to believe you're flawless, or believe nothing will ever slow you down, but she HAS to believe that nothing will ever stop you. That you'll always find a way to overcome any challenge. Exposing weaknesses to her burdens her. It's a way of asking her to help carry some of the weight of a thing you're having trou…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 01:04 PM
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It's too overt and aggressive. Maybe it'd have the desired effect on a Bitch Queen 10, but 7s, 8s, even 9s would get defensive and insecure. You can't blast away comfort like that when what she's asking you for covertly is reassurance that she's not just another pump and dump. It's counterintuitive.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 04:17 PM
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You have so many self-limiting beliefs. You're like a minefield of canned aggressive responses, and you're acting very poorly in front of a community of men who have all stood in your shoes and are offering you advice and experience that you do not deserve. Most of these men, if you said any of this in person, would put you in your goddamn place in a manner that would likely bring that 6 face a few points down. If you want to learn, shut the fuck up and examine other viewpoints. If you don't, th…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 10:35 PM
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Covert dread is always better. Keep her guessing about everything. Overt dread exposes a host of other problems. It's okay to nuke her if she deserves it, but not for bailing on you. You can't teach good behavior when you fly off the handle with 10/10 severity to a 3/10 disrespect. You come across as butthurt and angry instead of calm and controlled. You should be training her to your ideal if you think she's worthy -- hardly any girls these days have a proper idea of respect due to feminism, so…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 03:19 PM
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You need to find a reputable dojo that puts the art before the money -- dojos that really love the art are always desperate for eager students who want to learn. Dojo owners will even cut you deals if they believe you want it badly enough -- better an eager student who can't afford the full costs than an unambitious slacker who's clocking in and clocking out. I paid $100/month and was going three to five hours a week for ten years, and competed nationally. Was I Bruce Lee? Absolutely not. But fo…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 06:20 PM
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Have you considered you might have the opposite issue? Consider: what if you're so focused on your life and its trajectory that when you don't express interest in these girls and don't compromise anything for them, they assume you're out of their league? What if they're framing you as the boyfriend type, tone down the excitement, and get extra serious to show you that they're good dating material and not as slutty as you might have thought? You gotta convey somehow to her that she's got a shot. …
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 12:55 PM
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This is enough of a truth, and counts as a form of preselection. Normal healthy women don't want to BF-up a guy who's never had a GF before, it's an invitation to allow an embarrassingly needy Beta into her life. To add onto this for OP, you could also just say "It's complicated." She'll get tingles and probably press you, and you can evade the question with "I've lived a good life. cocky grin Let's leave it at that." Or, "1000." "No, seriously, how many?" "Okay, you got me. It was 1000 if we on…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 12:50 PM
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Look up the video of Matthew McConaughey telling the "motorcycle story" on a talk show. He does a great job of this. He opens his story with a little dialogue about his childhood drinking beer and riding bikes, which leads one of the other guests to imterrupt with "See, we basically had the same life!" -- self-deprecating for the audience, since this guy looked like a BB head to toe. Matthew cocked one eye towards him lazily, and drawled "You gettin' laid?", continued to stare him down blankly a…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 12:29 PM
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1) Start lifting now. Lift your ass off. It isn't going to hurt you. Start slow, with the empty bar, video yourself, check it against form checks, xpost to a fitness subreddit for other opinions, once you're comfortable, add weight. Stronglifts 5x5 is the program I started with. Don't let fear or inexperience convince you it's okay to delay the Number One Thing You Must Always Do Forever. 2) No Zero Days. Do at least one thing to move yourself towards your ideal self, every day. Even if it's jus…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 12:56 PM
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Thoughts on Adderall/amphetamine-based stimulant use for ADHD-diagnosed individuals? I had my diagnosis a year ago, been on and off meds ever since. They suppress my emotions, I begin to miss them, I go off meds, can't focus at work or home, performance suffers, I go back on meds, begin crushing every aspect of life, and begin to miss my emotions again. I've cut down my dose as much as possible -- I'm on 30mg/day, one pill in the mornings, and still considering dropping to 20mg and trying to coa…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 12:42 PM
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There was a post recently from a user who found that opening women offensively and then crushing the retaliatory shit tests was an effective way to escalate into a same day lay, because of the enhanced opportunity to demonstrate masculinity. What do you think about the effect of a hypermasculinity culture where a man who is self-actualized and feels no pressure or societal burden to overtly display hypermasculinity unprompted may actually be disadvantaged and/or self sabotaging by not taking adv…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 04:36 PM
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This week, I learned some hard lessons about intimacy issues and AWALT. I had an honest emotional discussion with a long term plate that I have never opened up to. Dealing with certain issues has been hard on me, and she's a loving, family type. It had been a while. I decided to open up. And she was incredibly soothing. Eventually, we got through it, I showered, came back, escalated as normal...and I got all sorts of BLUE PILL resistance: "let's wait, you need your sleep, get some rest, let's ju…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 08:55 PM
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LOL. You were fuming? Dude, your former LTR is dumber than a bag of hammers. She's bailing early because she knows that the man you became could do so much better. Her self worth is contingent on being able to get a man of your stature. Breaking up with you validates her ego and lets her continue feeling she is worth as much as she thought. If she let you end it, she would have been forced to face not being good enough. The rest is just bullshit hamster rationalizing. Either she's psychologicall…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 08:04 PM
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I think it depends on your attitude towards Machiavellianism and your position in the power game. Machiavellian types will say "By not playing the game, you're just another pawn in mine", which is true, to an extent. If you are fully stoic and content within your own existence, what harm could come of sharing the full breadth and depth of your wisdom with others in order to help them grow along their own paths? Some bad eggs will rise up and try to overthrow you, sure. But you're the King. You p…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 02:55 PM
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I'm legitimately fucking blown away by this exchange, believe me. But the dude needs help and we have the tools to help. He'll listen or he won't, but maybe in 5 years looking back on today he'll go into that old Reddit account he barely remembers from back when he had at least a little motivation to try, and see the guy who used to be a little excited about being healthy, and find the site I mentioned, and at least have the tools to start. I agree with you completely, though /shrug
/r/askTRP12/03/17 06:51 AM
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I'm no longer addressing the actual question you asked, and I don't intend to make this an argument about you or your ideas. If you want to do it your way, do it that way, because it's better than not doing anything. When I see shit like this I worry about phytoestrogens and soys fucking up my hormone balance, I worry about not eating delicious fucking fudge bars when I feel like it, I worry about tasteless oily sludge as my only food and it sounds like a dismal fucking life. But I'm 12% body fa…
/r/askTRP12/03/17 06:49 AM
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This is literally how it works.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 06:39 AM
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Calculate your TDEE by looking up a TDEE calculator. Subtract 500 calories per day to lose 1lb per week. 1000 calories to lose 2lbs per week. Go get the app or use the website Eat This Much. It'll make you a grocery list. You can specify a keto diet if you like. Print out grocery list. Give to 16 year old neighbour who just got his driver's license. Give him $10 instead of giving me $100. So far you've invested about half an hour of time. Sunday afternoon, throw shit in the slow cooker, turn it …
/r/askTRP12/03/17 06:31 AM
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Sounds like a great way to blow $100 on something you'll be tired of even looking at within the month. Pick a meal for the week. My go-tos are pasta with meat, rice and beans, chili, slow cooker teriyaki chicken thighs shredded and cooked down, etc. Easy stuff to make in bulk. Calculate the ratios and macros you need to hit your Protein/Fat/Carb ratios every day. Add a shitload of veggies for your vitamins and minerals, and relevant mineral supplements to your morning routine. Multiply portions …
/r/askTRP12/03/17 06:18 AM
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There's so much needless drama here. Making "hold frame" into a conflict is unnecessary in most circumstances. She wanted to fuck. 9pm is pretty early for a night out and drinking. She was consistent messaging you, agreed to rush over right after yoga even though she had class at 7am, and you couldn't accommodate her a little? When she invests, you can invest minimally. She says she'll have to be late because she wants to do yoga. You say "no worries" and ignore any other texts and head to the b…
/r/askTRP12/03/17 04:50 AM
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You still struggle to rid yourself of the most blue pill of concepts: that you're able to idealize someone who hasn't proven themselves to you. Are they loyal? Slutty? With you, under your leadership? Do they lie? About little things, or big ones? Under your leadership? You've no idea, yet the infatuation forms nonetheless, and that's the idealistic beta you're trying to excise. You know what your weaknesses are already. The ones you gloss over or portray a little bit better than the reality -- …
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 03:46 AM
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This is a really good idea. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 03:24 AM
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Because it's written by pickup artists for pickup artists. TRP is more, and different from, that culture. PUA started when someone said "Shit, nobody wants to fuck me. I wonder how I can fake the behaviors of a guy with self-worth to get laid, and ditch the girls before they realize I played them." This led to "I wonder if there's an easy way to distill this into a system more people can follow. People would pay thousands of dollars a week to learn how to understand women, I know they would." TR…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 04:53 PM
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The Game by Neil Strauss will help show how PUA grew, where some parts of it began, and explain how some very early versions of Game were developed. Models by Mark Manson will teach you uncomplicated, non-Machiavellian Game and help you begin to build a frame. Bang, and the (even better) sequel Day Bang by Roosh V will answer the question you asked. Understanding the flawed but groundbreaking steps that brought us to modern dark triad game culture will give you a lot of perspective. While largel…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 07:06 AM
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I switched to bodyweight calisthenics about six months ago. Prior to the switch, I had a 295 deadlift, 275 squat, and 200 bench press. I'm a musician and play gigs at local nightlife events, which has led to a wide circle and solid preselection. I worked in sales and developed charisma, worked in men's fashion and dress the part, and foster multiple kittens and puppies. That's the meat of my SMV. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 05:54 AM
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I read somewhere once in an interview with a public figure, they said "Nerves? Me? On stage? No way. Are my hands shaking? Absolutely. But there are two ways to see it. Either it's anxiety, or it's a rush. I can't use anxiety. But I can sure as hell use a rush and I'll be even better than before for it." It's all gonna be okay. Life threw you some shit so you could have the chance to fail or succeed. Grow from it and you're one step closer to the ideal man you were always meant to be. Best wishe…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 10:47 PM
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Lift. Stronglifts 5x5 or Starting Strength. Put a goddamn barbell on your back and on the floor and in your arms and move it around until you can't. Next workout, add more weight and do it again. Once you're lifting heavy, with good form (video yourself and be VERY strict, guidelines can be found all over the internet), you won't be able to add weight every workout anymore. When that happens, switch to a hypertrophy (bodybuilding) routine. You'll know exactly what this is once you get there, bec…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 10:26 PM
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Be the value you want in your life. If you're deficient somewhere, address the weakness and correct it. Don't look to add a woman into your life to balance you out, because she'll just make you forget about all of your weaknesses and reduce your motivation to be better. "I'm on my own adventure, but you can come along for the ride" is one of the tenets I live by. This is YOUR story. She's just a supporting character, and while you're correct in wanting a woman who has value, if having a woman fe…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 10:20 PM
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"I'm going to fuck you for my pleasure, not for yours. I'm going to come inside you as much as I want. You're my little fucktoy, and you can come when I say so." Blow your load quick the first round, switch to oral, get her off a few times (and make her beg louder and louder for it), make her blow you until you're hard enough for a round 2, and after you've finished a few times, it'll be a struggle to get off faster than 20 minutes even if you tried. Added bonus being that after she's finished o…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 10:14 PM
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Limit contact with the friend. Don't give them any chance to argue or explain, just let them wonder why you respond to texts once every three days and with one or two word answers. Keep them on the back burner in case they have a connect you need in the future. Never let them into anywhere they could steal from you again, nor do them any favors or lend them anything. Let them stew in the guilt you never addressed, with no way of asking you if it's because they stole as doing so would be their co…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 10:04 PM
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This was absolutely the core message.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 09:53 PM
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Incredibly relevant. They're pretty much the same thing. Get a sales job, even retail, any sales job to start, and watch how things change. Uncle Vasya covers this very comprehensively in his informational posts, which I recommend you read if you haven't already. If I were to try to distill it down... Once you can sit down at the table and say, "If you weren't even a little bit interested in what I'm selling, you wouldn't be here. You're here, consuming your time with me, and you're a smart pers…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 09:44 PM
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Today, my former main plate messaged me after ghosting me for two weeks. She tried to punish me when I corrected disrespectful behavior by withdrawing her attention. I didn't text her one bit. Instead, I have an 18 year old first year pussy coming to cook dinner with me as a first date on Sunday, and a 20 year old coming over for the same thing on Monday. I've never met either of them. My problem was that the main plate drained my balls so much that I slowly let go of my abundance while we were …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 09:37 PM
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I posted under the wrong account, lol. Glad I caught that. I changed jobs because I spent most of my life in sales, and I'm a workaholic. I was in the office 60, 70 hours per week, pulling in very decent money but I didn't have time for friends, or family, and even scheduling plates was a challenge. I realized after a few years that I'd abandoned my former hobbies and goals, my strongest connections, and that I had more shower stuff and clothes in the office than I did at home. In my new role, I…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 06:12 PM
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To add on to this, I recently made a job change that's allowed me a lot more freedom in my personal life, cut down on hours dramatically, and I'm now fronting a rock band and studying coding while working, working out, getting my sleep and sticking to all of my commitments. But as a result, my work income is less than a quarter of what it was, and I have next to nothing to spend on myself. I barely make rent, I wear the same old dirty shoes, the same two pairs of pants, the same tees I bought a …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 06:07 PM
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Frame isn't an act you put on, frame is the subcommunication of a man's core beliefs through his actions. Here's an example: A FWB was in my bed the night before an event I was invited to. Said FWB is absolutely against anal sex. In conversation, she said, "I guess nobody else will be in MY half of your bed, since you're all out of condoms." [subcommunication: I want to be your only girl. Nudge, nudge. Pick me!] I said, "I'll have to run to the pharmacy before tomorrow night." [subcommunication:…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 02:23 AM
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I feel a lot more congruent when I'm honest. Usually, after a first date, I've overcome shit tests like "you must be like this with all the girls" or "how many other people have you used that line on" -- or she'll ask "How many people have you BEEN with?!" and I'll have said "Today? Or did you mean this week?". So it's almost inevitable that part of the LMR is, "Are you sleeping with other people? I don't want to be just another girl." Response: "They come and go. What matters is that sometimes …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 08:10 PM
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I agree with what you're saying. This is very similar to my pattern. Seeing that your example was so petty, I'll share mine, as it was petty as well and there's a common thread here. We were in the car, I said "Hey, check out this new track. It's by one of our favourite artists, and it's fantastic. You'll love it." I plugged in my phone, and before the song had even ended, she said "Also, this song's been on my mind a lot lately" and changed the song and blasted it, without even commenting on wh…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 05:09 PM
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Sexual Strategy ITSELF is amoral. I have to accept that pushing my sexual strategy in a way that is morally wrong to some but dominates hers more effectively will lead to a more secure situation, and better results, always. With that being said, I've been spinning plates for years, and my abundance is always there. So my attitude is "this is how I want our relationship to be. I'm informing you beforehand. You're fully informed. If you have issues you'd like to discuss, feel free, and I'll take t…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 04:59 PM
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AWALT stands for All Women Are Like That. Head to The Rational Male blog and read up on Rollo's posts on "Hypergamy" to get a more in depth idea. When we say "AWALT", what we mean is that blue pill men have a delusion that they've been with the "wrong girl" or "the slutty girl" and that they need to find a "good girl" to love unconditionally with their defenseless blue pill concept of love. This is fundamentally wrong. When we remind someone of AWALT, it is to remind them that every single woman…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 04:21 PM
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What's the best way to correct bad behavior without breaking frame? Occasionally, I'll see petty displays of bad behavior that don't matter now, but indicate she's testing her limits; if I respond too harshly, I'm met with "Why are you mad? It was just x" or "I can't believe you're so mad about this". I know I need to DEER, but she's putting me in a frame where her conclusion is that I've lost control. I'm concerned that she's rationalizing it away as me getting angry for no reason. For referenc…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 04:14 PM
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The reason why allowing small amounts of destructive substance into our system doesn't destroy us is because of our focus on the good substances. If one eats perfectly clean 99% of the time, a burger for the road when exhausted at the wheel will help much more than it hurts. As with pre-recorded music or other such minimally harmful vices. For example, I find that good music pumps me up, releases happy hormones, pumps my energy levels and helps me bring the party. Similar to martial arts and act…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 09:26 PM
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Yes. Ethics don't come into play here. This sub is about understanding female sexual strategy in the pursuit of optimizing male sexual strategy, and that's all. You can live by whatever moral code you want, but that's outside the scope of TRP. OP is killing the Betas inside of many men by showing them that hypergamy is forever. All Women Are Like That. Even the married ones with a conscience who know they're doing wrong. OP is not saying, "Look at my big dick. I can even sleep with married women…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 05:39 PM
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You're seeing things how they are now. Your beta isn't dead yet, but it's more dead than it was. In fact, six different hookups couldn't kill your beta enough to not lick at the heels of a high value woman. But you looked inward, you learned, and you're still here. What's the takeaway? You become a stronger, better man every time you fail, and you realize that none of this shit matters anyway: frame comes as a byproduct of believing in yourself and your mission. Confidence isn't knowing I'll suc…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 05:23 PM
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I agree with you, but the female nature of hypergamy is that it is unlimited, regardless of who you are or what commitments you've made. Telling OP to ignore bitches is the wrong move here. It wasn't that walking was necessary for her respect, it was that he demonstrated that he was worthless and she took his cues and treated him accordingly. OP needs to develop better cues. Cues are unconsciously expressed as a result of frame. Frame is his weakness and the root of this problem, and if he had f…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 10:07 PM
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Good job escaping the BP mindset that was slowly sinking its hooks into you. Everyone here has had experiences similar to yours along their paths to learning; the fact that this happened is cause to celebrate. You cannot truly internalize RP material until your beta is killed right in front of you. Until then, it's just words. You grew today, brother. Congrats. With that being said, you were so utterly frame-dominated that it is disgusting. Why would you ever even ask her where her position was …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 04:17 PM
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Great article, SPT. This particular skill is out of the conscious grasp of almost all men, and unconsciously practiced only by few (the knife-wielders). Disseminating your knowledge and experience over years will benefit a lot of people, myself included. The diagram you included for the four conversational archetypes was fantastic, but you wrote Condensation instead of Condescension. Quick fix. I recommend everyone study this diagram and commit it to memory. What a good framework. When you apply…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 08:30 PM
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This has nothing to do with abundance or scarcity. The OP is unlearning a bad behavior. You are equating "abundance mentality" to saying "There will be tons of other opportunities to take control of my life. I can just wait for the next one." All this does is reinforce a sheep mentality of "life is happening to me" rather than "I am happening to life." More sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 09:27 PM
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Agreed. It's not a statement of weakness/asking for help, it's a Captain delegating a responsibility to his First Mate. Subtext: "My time is more valuable than shooing away the fruit flies you will constantly attract. It's your responsibility to handle that, as my energy will be spent on more important things. If the fruit flies refuse to be shooed, and a conflict escalates beyond your ability to handle it, then I will take over and rectify it, but only then. My first mate must be able to stand …
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 09:37 PM
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Actually, what I think is that the guy who fucked her so good he made it into her news article had more game than a lot of men. I identified rock solid amused mastery. Look closer. He attracted her like anyone else, built comfort, escalated, she revealed her line of work, and he threw it in her face with a "you're cute, but this doesn't threaten me." Next, he proceeded to make it overwhelmingly satirical ("You want me to touch you? Yeah? Where? Your pussy? Say it. Tell me you want me to finger y…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 02:09 AM
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It eats at me that there is an overwhelming percentage of blue pill men who are reading that and nodding their heads in agreement. Just what have we gotten ourselves into? I read the article thinking it must have been satire, especially when I got to the quoted text, and it kills me inside that it wasn't.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 09:51 PM
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....Half your age plus 7? Is this middle school? If you're 20, date 18 year olds. If you're 30, date 18 year olds. If you're 40, date 18 year olds. If you're 50, date 18 year olds. If you want to. Or don't. Who cares? They turn 18 every day. The only reason to follow an arbitrary rule like that is out of fear of getting judged. If she makes you happy, she makes you happy. Maybe 18, maybe 21, maybe 25. I think we agree on the idea that you can date whatever age you want, I just hate the idea of i…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 09:07 PM
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I think you should elaborate on the concept of constructed social environments as artificial high pressure frame testing rooms, not just clubs but broadened to incorporate various social constructions, and the relevance and consequent popularity in a gyno-centric west. You have my gears turning, but there's a lot of places you could go with that idea.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 04:54 PM
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The thing is, you had to run a Tough Mudder. Men who regularly seek to exceed their physical limits will nod and say "Good job, bro" -- but the other 80% of men and 80%+ of women could not even attempt it. And when you think about having to run a Tough Mudder to measure up to just another pair of tits...
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 04:31 PM
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I was going to post a query about this, but you beat me to it, so I'm piggybacking. I have a hard time introducing beta traits into an alpha plate relationship. I see something cool that makes me happy, I think "damn, I should show Plate 1, she would like this" and then I think "Wait. If I was really a high value man, the people who I'd talk to about stuff like this are my CLOSE friends, not my plates. If I send her this, she'll think she's the closest thing I've got to a real buddy, and she'll …
/r/askTRP21/01/17 07:41 PM
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If you reach the top of the hill, you need a new hill.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 07:13 PM
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This is interesting. I would recommend elaborating further on this, and tying it into Machiavellianism and manufactured social proof (entourage game?), if you have more to add.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 05:52 PM
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My point stands. Reframing your argument as you have in this response transforms your argument into a much more TRP-minded, eloquent execution and insight into the value of charisma, capturing attention, and stimulating the imagination. This is wholesome advice and appropriate. Framing your opening argument as "If you don't have drive, you're lazy, or a slob, don't worry. Read some books and talk charismatically about what other people did that inspired you so much that you didn't change anythin…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 05:43 PM
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Excellent post, Wankalot. Shifting the focus from "Always be ready for a fight / always know what to say" to "Operate within a frame you generate to collapse the frame of your aggressor" redirects the concept away from consuming brain-power to figure out how to attack the argument, and relegates much of this process to a subconscious expression of the frame you consciously generate. Put more succinctly, spend less time thinking about what to say, and instead focus only on the task of generating …
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 05:28 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss. I appreciate that you chose to share this story with others. I will build on this with a quote from a very controversial writing that may help pass on this perspective to those reading along: "Reject the parable of 'Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.' Do only unto others AS THEY WOULD DO unto you, and no more." - Anton LaVey This is a reminder to keep the warmth and love alive in our hearts, but to award it only to those who have proven that they deserve …
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 04:51 PM
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Thanks. I'm happy my contributions are providing value to the community. I appreciate your insight helping me develop.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 03:23 AM
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My opinion would be that a woman whose actions show a penchant for loyalty (only three men, all LTRs) is likely to be loyal to you too. Also shows she hasn't divorced sex and love like a n-count of 12 (or 15, depending on what you meant) is likelier to do. Also, if she could stay faithful to a gangster, she's probably used to a proper level of subjugation and submissiveness to masculinity, which would probably make your job much easier. However, I've never been in this situation, so this is all …
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 03:18 AM
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Solid content. Sometimes it's the poor gangsters who sleep with all the women because they understand the basic responsibility of making sure there's food on the table and the consequences without. Their insistence on making the world as they need it to be creates a frame that someone who's had all of their needs met through no effort of their own, even in an attempt at "good parenting", cannot relate to. This happens across all economic and status gradients in the West, not just to the rich but…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 02:59 AM
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This is true. It's important to recognize that rationalizing behavior even when it is notably immoral is a key constituent of female behavior in the context of pursuing their imperatives, which is inherently dishonest. As a revision, it would be more correct to say that the function of the hamster is to fit the pursuit and execution of the female sexual strategy into a male blue pill narrative to avoid the disruption of blue pill men and encourage further male investment into the blue pill, whil…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 02:40 AM
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Spot on. Good read and good close. Every chick will abandon the crazy for the guy who won't have it in his life. There are a select few who let societal pressure force them into nasty retaliation, but filtering for a lack of crazy is pretty damn hard. I've fucked girls from all types of backgrounds -- strong fathers, beta fathers, no fathers, nuclear family, SJW, sluts, good girls -- and the only thing I've found to be true is that the second you try to convince yourself that it's okay to let do…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 02:21 AM
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Completely agree with this point, but I need to start somewhere, right? I feel like I have a complete mental block when I want to develop this kind of style - your style simply resonates with me. I started off the same way. Hell, sometimes I still read a line and think "This is great." and add it to the arsenal. It's all a learning process - maybe my material will help you realize that you can get away with saying any outrageous shit you like, and then your societal-pressure mental block will fa…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 02:10 AM
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Agreed, on the part of your examples and your analysis. I'm in the process of composing a post to go much further in depth on the concept -- your input highlights exceptions to the rule and reminds me not to write using absolutes. I would say, however, that men like you and I who end up outside of this absolute, swallowed the blue pill as "Machiavellianism and lack of conscience is how I get what I want while pretending I'm a good boy", which is different from the "typical blue pill" notion of "…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 01:33 AM
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I don't get why anyone is bothering with this post. You're young, but a smart kid, and you can read. Crush the sidebar over and over, as it contains every answer to the question you asked -- and the subreddit for questions is AskTRP. When you have something useful to share -- and I mean a realization you came to by applying principles, not by looking at a few posts and failing to understand them -- come back and post it here and add to the knowledge base.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 12:02 AM
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Interestingly enough, it dawned on me while reading this that women are more honest than we are, and always were: because they shamelessly pursue the best lives for themselves through the most effective means, inherently recognize it as amoral and a business strategy, and the blue pill deception is that we were taught to act dishonestly from the get-go in exchange. I know the anger will last for a while, and that's okay, but honesty always feels better, and it's amoral to do what's best for you …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 07:08 PM
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Good work on communicating charismatically and creating an emotional attachment out of a mundane topic. I think that you're on the way to natural charisma and that your input on the topic as you grow is valuable because of your ability to look back and see how you grew, what you internalized, and what changed, and the ability of others to study it. I do think this post has its priorities mixed, however. You're right that anyone can attract women spinning stories they've never lived, but it's at …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 06:54 PM
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Even if all he does want to do is fuck her, he's not immoral for it. It's natural and ordinary to want to do that. He needs to untangle his honest emotions from his idea of virtue.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 06:37 PM
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Shit, I've been doing it all wrong.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 06:35 PM
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Update: She definitely started pushing boundaries. I don't have patience for shit tests, and I corrected the issue, but she came over to mine at almost midnight, started escalating with me, then tried to prevent me taking off her clothes and told me we weren't having sex because of her period. I froze her out, rolled away, unlocked my phone, told her to go to bed and stay on her side, and she crawled back to me, put my hand on her bra clasp and of course I fucked her brains out. This morning, af…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 07:35 AM
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Update: She definitely started pushing boundaries. I don't have patience for shit tests, and I corrected the issue, but she came over to mine at almost midnight, started escalating with me, then tried to prevent me taking off her clothes and told me we weren't having sex because of her period. I froze her out, rolled away, unlocked my phone, told her to go to bed and stay on her side, and she crawled back to me, put my hand on her bra clasp and of course I fucked her brains out. This morning, af…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 07:35 AM
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This is an outcome dependent frame of mind. You postulate that the realist recognizes that he doesn't have a chance at some of his aspirations and rightly limits himself to what is possible; but who cares? In my experience, a sense of (arguably very delusional) self-confidence comes from the unshakable confidence in one's mental toolbox. Put me in the room, show me the task, show me the best guy in the room at the task and I'll do my utmost to find a way to do it better. It might take me years o…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 02:48 AM
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Either lay down the law: "I do not discuss past sexual encounters. I learn from them, and then file them away and continue to live in the present. It has always been that way, and that is the way it will always be. Discretion is an important value to me, and you are no exception. Do not ask me again." or do what I did the other day when one of my girls tried to put her foot down and demanded the whole truth: pressure flip with open dread. Her: "Who was that texting you at 2AM?" Me: "Booty call #…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 12:24 AM
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I would never allow myself to be tied up by anyone, let alone one of my plates, except for some sort of encounter with the law. I hate restraints in any form, really. When my plate took the 'dominant' role, it came across as a form of worshipping my body -- I laid motionless and enjoyed languid neck kisses, slowly being stripped, being blown and ridden to completion, and I didn't participate in her pleasure or do anything to influence it at all. She enjoyed pinning my arms above my head, but she…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 09:58 PM
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8 “I want to dominate you / tie you up / be in control [during sex] this time” Translation: Shut me down and prove that you’re the dominant one. (She doesn’t really want to dominate you. It’s similar to how some girls like to fight back during sex, just so you can overpower them. They enjoy being defenseless. It feeds into the rape fantasy that every girl has.) Interesting. I've read about this before, but decided to field test with one of my plates, who wanted the same thing. Her level of attra…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 09:28 PM
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This is a post for AskTRP. The main sub is used for discussion on sexual strategy with women, though I guess it could be a blue pill example... Why did you write an entire essay begging for us to validate your qualities? We're a bunch of strangers on the Internet. If you were alpha, you wouldn't give a shit what we thought. If you want to gangbang your girl, do it. If you don't, don't. If you want us to decide what your personal rules are for you, you're just another flavour of blue.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 09:11 PM
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For my own purposes and those of anyone else reading in a similar position, which resources are best perused for the ascension from '666' level to '777' level? I am in the process of reevaluating my own adopted values in my meditations as Machiavellianism does not seem to be leading me to any sort of lasting happiness - I recall myself years ago saying things like 'I'm only happy when they're wrapped around my finger' and to my knowledge, the problem has only worsened. Where prior to this journe…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 03:58 PM
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In general, there are times when the abstract nature of the concepts you use to explain your reasoning detracts from the comprehension of the readerbase you are attempting to educate. The concepts, however, are spot on. With that said, in this particular instance, I completely agree with everything you wrote. Essentially, "being your sincerest self" is sitting on the couch playing video games and eating Cheetos. It's expecting validation and acceptance and happiness without having to work or put…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 04:10 PM
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Agreed. This is good feedback to keep in mind.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 12:45 PM
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I agree with you that it's all down to calibration and delivery. Given my frame and the amount I'd been pushing her away prior to this moment, I thought she deserved a burst of good rapport, and the frame I held made sure she didn't hear "I want to start seeing you on a serious basis", instead she heard "Don't worry, I won't pump and dump you. Relax. You'll see me again." I was just about to escalate into sex, and I wasn't met with any resistance at all. Just a "do you have a condom" and "are yo…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 08:37 AM
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That's very kind of you to say. I hope my contributions provide ample value to the community.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 07:59 AM
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Thank you. I'm happy to hear it.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 04:40 AM
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Well, the scenarios that I included in the main post are all things that actually happened. I slept with every girl involved. I wouldn't have posted this if I hadn't been testing it extensively. Feel free to apply what I wrote if you like. You're hamstringing yourself by memorizing canned routines rather than learning to improvise, because they could go in very different directions than they did in my examples. Canned routines worked ten years ago, but women are getting very good at sniffing out…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 04:39 AM
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Nobody knows you have a phone, or that you know the area. You're just a face. You can say whatever you want, including all of your examples.
/r/seduction02/01/17 06:46 PM
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I don't know what the approach situation is like in India (from what I understand, the publicity of things like gang raped tourists there leads the authorities to respond with violence to unwanted sexual attention), so I understand your worries. None of that is stopping you from lifting hard, eating well, and studying ferociously, though. It'll both make everyone more receptive to you in general (appearance matters) and make you into a prize when it is the right time.
/r/seduction02/01/17 06:44 PM
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"You're still gonna have to pay full price, though."
/r/seduction02/01/17 06:41 PM
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Your mentality is fucking toxic. If you're going to appeal to your brothers for solidarity, input and advice, drop the self-defeating excuses as to why someone else had success and you didn't. It's not about proving us wrong. It's about all of us learning together how to be right. Lift heavy. GOMAD. Study hard in school. Bust your ass at work. Become somebody worth wanting before you complain that the product (you) that you're trying to sell is getting no response. It's not all about the routine…
/r/seduction02/01/17 06:23 PM
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Read up on overcoming last-minute resistance (LMR). I made a field report on exactly this recently, but there are many effective resources available to help you train the necessary calibration to read between the lines. Congratulations on the pull, man. It sounds like you have the essentials handled. It's time to look at the finer details.
/r/seduction02/01/17 06:13 PM
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This is an important lesson to internalize. Accepting oneself for one's faults as well as strengths and Internalizing the fact that having high expectations of yourself does not make you a failure for not meeting them Are crucial lessons that allow for an honest self-perception and a way to congratulate yourself sincerely on little victories, even if you really wanted big ones. I disagree with your first point, wherein you advocate making lists of positive qualities about yourself that are tied …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 02:28 PM
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This is a solid, broken down, quality post. I liked the brevity you employed in your descriptions as well as the clear and actionable advice you provided. This is the sort of thing that will provide those who've "swallowed" but failed to apply the Red Pill with an impetus to act. Good work.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 03:52 PM
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Look out for a post from me on this in the next few days.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:26 AM
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Generally, on first dates, my strategy is to build a shit ton of rapport and comfort while I sexualize to get a significant emotional investment out of her and give her something to cling to - and then I plan the second date while we're still on the first one. I bring up something that I'm up to in the next few days and invite her along. If executed towards the end of a good date where she's riding a high, my flake rate is practically non-existent -- assuming for logistical reasons that I couldn…
/r/askTRP28/12/16 04:25 AM
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Yes! The "just-in-case" condom strikes again! All you haters can suck it. Great job, man. She really made you work through that catalogue of push/pull, even right down to the freeze-out. It's pretty clear that she had a very strong "frame" that had been forced upon her, and she fell into yours because it was generated from within -- you broke down her perceptions of reality enough that she couldn't cling to the ideas she was force-fed about conservative behavior. I'm pretty sure it was Tyler fro…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 03:57 PM
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This should be its own individual post.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 03:55 PM
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There is a Tinder subreddit specifically for questions like these. You look great. You'll do just fine.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 07:21 AM
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You attempt to spread the word in today's SJW-laden, left-leaning anti-patriarchal rape culture-infused world and get labeled a rapist, misogynist and crucified in every single social circle you even breathe a hint to. Told a co-worker once that I was a "reformed dating coach". Even that was enough to get all sorts of beta hate because I could fuck the women he never had before he got married at 24. Imagine if some punk-ass bitch rolled into your life and told you your wife was gonna bang other …
/r/askTRP15/12/16 06:05 AM
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As soon as you start treating her any differently than any other random girl you meet in the street, you start to pedestalize. The solution is to be a genuinely intellectual man. If she has the capacity to riff off of that, she'll find herself stimulated by you. If she doesn't, she'll still respect you for it.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 05:20 AM
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Calm down. Stop fucking it up. Somebody said once that worrying is the same thing as dying twice - once when you imagine it, and again when it happens. So instead of spending all that mental energy agonizing over what WOULD happen, take all that energy and apply it to succeeding now. Analyze and execute. PS: If you put your GPA on a resume ever in your entire life you're doing it wrong
/r/askTRP15/12/16 05:16 AM
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It's all BS anyway. It's the rationalizations of a coked-up hamster trying to snowflake its way out of the realization that she wants to get dicked until her legs don't work, just like every other girl on the app. Don't pay any attention to what she says she wants. She's on Tinder. That's all the IOI you need.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 06:15 PM
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If she went home with you, accepted alcohol from you and got in your bed, she wanted to bang. In your shoes, I would have escalated in a "two steps forward, one step back" style, just like the old PUA routines. Once, I was Tindering and hit up a girl about random shit, she told me she was getting a late night snack at the local university at a place near her dorm. I knew the spot really well because I had another plate sleeping in the same dorm building (lol), so I told her I'd meet her there. I…
/r/askTRP13/12/16 12:03 AM
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Saved for future reference.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 04:47 PM
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So much woman hate in these comments. Part of flirting, part of conversational strength - fuck, part of everything is learning how to get past the bullshit and hit a real, honest-to-god conversation. Women pursuing makes them feel masculine. They don't like it. They don't want to feel like they're the architect of their fantasy. They want it to happen to them. It's not that there's nothing in their heads. It's that they're begging you to see through the vapid comments and cut to the quick like a…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 04:09 AM
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Her: How was your day? You: One of those days where you feel like there's hardly time to breathe. Always a lot to do, but I get crazy into it sometimes and lose track of time. You ever feel that way about something? You made it obvious that you program. Come on, now. You can flirt better than this if you believe you can.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 04:06 AM
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this is fucking great
/r/seduction30/06/16 07:44 PM
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It's not really a comeback, though. That would imply that she put you down, but she didn't, because her frame is dominated by yours, so you're unaffected. If she shits on you then I agree, just leave, but when I respond in ways that test wittiness I'm qualifying her, she's not qualifying me -- and girls are so quick to qualify themselves to you once they realize you can play ball.
/r/seduction27/06/16 05:42 PM
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Treat it like regular group theory. Win the mom over to create a social pressure for the girl to give you her number. Walk up, crack a joke about something indirect (the weather, matching outfits/shoes/jewellery, this music, etc) and then bond with the mom over commonalities (I like to talk about what my prom was like & how everything's different for kids these days -- I'm 21, but look a fair bit older). You can tell any sort of short funny anecdote, though. I sell ladies' fashion as part of my …
/r/seduction27/06/16 05:06 PM
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I struggled with this issue for most of my romantic life. No matter what I did, when I was in the mood, it could be like a 2 minute thing, a 30 second thing, uncomfortable pauses where I pull out and she wonders what the fuck is going on... and crazy confidence issues underlying it all. Nothing worked for me except this (and it's totally counterintuitive): have more sex. Not in terms of different women and more experience, I mean fuck more frequently. WAY more frequently. My last LTR had a libid…
/r/seduction08/06/16 06:14 PM
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You don't really have to pull anything off, though. All you have to do is be authentic! "Actually, I'm super shy, and I haven't met a lot of people around here, but I fucking love this music. You seem like a party girl, where are your friends at?" would work equally as well. I just don't get the whole "lie about friends" thing. Feels like it goes against the whole idea of attracting women through honesty. Why not just own who you are? Two cents.
/r/seduction08/06/16 05:59 PM
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I mean... they're always interested, because I'm the shit. I believe that I'm the shit because I'm confident in myself, I know what I want, and my life fulfills me. So the question isn't really how to tell whether she's interested... it's whether or not you're interested. Ask questions that tell you more about her. Figure out if you like her. If you do, spend more time with her. If she's boring AF, then you eject. Game's not about manipulating people into liking you so you can feel validated and…
/r/seduction08/06/16 05:45 PM
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You're thinking so hard about this! She wanted to continue the conversation with you and figure out what you were about, but you were analyzing her every word and judging the entirety of her character on it. Isn't this exactly what we warn new guys to /r/seduction of -- that the first few moments are critical to hook a set? And that outward appearance is something that they will judge you on before you can even open your mouth, so be well groomed? But you flipped it on its head and assumed the e…
/r/seduction29/05/16 06:38 PM
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From someone who's been down that road (multiple times), it seems like you answered your own question in the post. You moved cross country for this job. This is your last move. You're happy at this job and will probably put a significant amount of time into it. If you fucked it up, consider what you have to lose. It seems like you want people to tell you to do it because you want to do it and want reassurance. Consider how far you've come in terms of achieving your life goals. Did you get there …
/r/seduction29/05/16 06:24 PM
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Well, from another perspective, I'm a heavy texter. I love text flirting, I use it to build up tons of anticipation and I think it's equally valid in terms of seduction, but the risk is that if you give away the mystery then there's nothing to find out by meeting you in person. If you're going to text frequently, why not try pre-seeding the interaction very early with indicators that you'll meet? ("What are your hobbies?" "If we gush about our stories now, what will we have to talk about when we…
/r/seduction29/05/16 08:26 AM
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Sort of, but not really. The idea of "pickup" that's been demonized by pop culture is the idea of manipulation, right? The idea that "I am not good enough, so I need to manipulate women into sleeping with me." -- and stuff like The Game is what propagated these early ideas. So along that track, the idea that conveying lower value in a way that makes you seem more insecure or less sure of yourself to build comfort with a particular girl who only responds well to low value interactions is a losing…
/r/seduction29/05/16 08:17 AM
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