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CMVTermAggravating8043/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 08:32 AM
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Can you link the study?
/r/MensRights30/07/26 08:42 AM
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They are, for those that come forward. The issue is, these men are victims of other male perpetrators, not females. Unfortunately that’s the fact lots of men don’t realise
/r/MensRights30/07/26 07:55 AM
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My dude. Science doesn’t ignore facts because of personal bias. That’s the beauty and simplicity of science. Your looking for something that’s not there
/r/MensRights30/07/26 07:53 AM
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Lol dude, there was a tweet in 2014 from game of thrones that got hijacked by incels as an apparent attack on men. Remember “all men must die”? It was corrupted. You can’t be serious using this as feminists calling for men to be hurt
/r/MensRights30/07/26 07:50 AM
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Ok let’s go through then, Firstly, I’m sorry to inform you that your source is from a corrupted website. Therefore any data even if it was legit at one point is now considered fake https://www.researchgate.net/post/Fake_works_in_researchgate There are only 2 countries in the world where women have equalish rights to men but a male only draft. Infant circumcising is decided by both parents mainly through their religion. It’s apparently done because it’s healthier for the boy when he’s older. It’s…
/r/MensRights30/07/26 07:48 AM
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I didn’t say that, but I will point out there’s already a lot of gender laws in place, just not against men
/r/MensRights29/07/26 04:44 PM
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Yeah no, scientific studies don’t show that. It’s still overwhelming male perpetrators
/r/MensRights29/07/26 03:53 PM
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I think they already do, but the vast majority of rapists are men, even against male victims
/r/MensRights29/07/26 12:42 PM
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I mean your rape figures are awful https://asiapacific.unwomen.org/en/countries/india/violence-against-women/fact-and-figures I’m not surprised the focus should be on getting more rapists locked up
/r/MensRights29/07/26 12:10 PM
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That’s kinda cherry picking though isn’t it? Have you got any about the west?
/r/MensRights29/07/26 11:44 AM
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How? Have you got any links?
/r/MensRights29/07/26 10:15 AM
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You are not responsible for other adults lying to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:12 PM
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“All it takes for evil to succeed is for good people to do nothing” Are you actually asking me why I call out rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:10 PM
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My comments aren’t the ones getting deleted dude. I think it’s telling when rapists get caught out and try to use the DARVO approach to get out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:09 PM
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Why? This sub has exposed at least 2 rapists now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:08 PM
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It’s not an offering when your pressuring them into saying what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:07 PM
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It would have meant she understood why he didn’t want to continue snd given her the chance to learn from it. How is that a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:06 PM
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You didn’t want the relationship but you still Wanted sex, that’s why she tried to enforce a boundary against her rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:03 PM
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That’s not dominating. That’s called having a boundary and sticking to it. What you are doing is weaponising commitment, if you don’t want to date that person you don’t have too, but lying to the person to get sex or telling them it’s “dominating” if they won’t have sex with commitment, is rapist behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:23 PM
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No, if you value sex and only have it in a committed relationship and were lied too, you deserve justice
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:19 PM
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Yes, but if we’re basing the relationship on someone who waits for sex then the relationship is going to be fairly long term
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:14 PM
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No, I make it very clear that I will only have sex in a committed relationship. That’s called a boundary. You think it’s ok to lie to someone so you can exploit them. That’s rape
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:12 PM
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What kind of sex are you having that you can see their internal organs?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:10 PM
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Why? I’ve never raped someone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:01 PM
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No, you want justice fir being raped. You wouldn’t have invested if it wasn’t under false pretences
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:01 PM
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More person insults? Do you often invent stories to avoid dealing with your own shitty behaviours?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 01:00 PM
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It’s pretty universal shitty behaviour if you can’t explain to your partner why your dumping them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:59 PM
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Guessing I’m not the only one. Your victim probably does too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:58 PM
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I’m not taking any advice from a rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:56 PM
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Literally on another sub guts admitting they raped someone through lying. I honestly can’t believe some of the men on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:55 PM
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Did she only say yes after saying no many times but now she’s been bullied into that? Lots of rapists bully their victims into saying yes, that’s what the op means, she can say no without being guilt tripped about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:54 PM
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It won’t happen because the rapists lie about consent, and unfortunately this is how the majority get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:50 PM
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Been married 16 years now so I’m ok thanks. But let’s not make things personal. If you lie to get sex, your a rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:50 PM
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All the rapists in jail together then. Makes the world a slightly safer place
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:43 PM
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The fact she had to bargain with it to get you to be with her. I don’t hate men, I hate rapists
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:42 PM
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He’s certainly a pos of he can’t talk to her about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:41 PM
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The first time sex was so godly awful they can’t talk about it and it changes the entire relationship that has been growing for weeks?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:40 PM
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No I’m just not indulging the “what iffs” cause it’s a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:39 PM
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I was 14, so yes it was rape. And I’d said no at least 6 times but he used the relationship against me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:38 PM
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If you were only in the relationship to get sex then you were exploiting her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:36 PM
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It picks out a lot of slim balls yes, but that’s where lots of men are wishly washly sbiut answers about commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:35 PM
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I think people that lie to others for sex are rapists
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:33 PM
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So you admit it too? You didn’t need to be in a relationship with this women, you choose to exploit her so you could use her for sex. Christ this sub is full of you lot
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:19 PM
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We’re not discussing the quality of sex. We’re discussing how is rape when you have to lie to get it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:17 PM
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If anyone is lying to exploit others, Especially when it’s something that puts them at risk, they should be called what they are and face consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:17 PM
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Again, I didn’t misuse the word. I used it correctly. And you jumping in to try silence me is telling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:16 PM
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Are these women in the room with us now?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:15 PM
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They aren’t the ones on this sub confessing theyve lied to women so they could rape them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:09 PM
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You just admitted to lied to get sex. That’s rape. You can make as many excuses as you want and you can throw whatever personal insults at me all you want but I’m still calling this exactly daft it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:07 PM
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Sounds like I triggered something, the other guy has just admitted he’s a rapist. Guess lots of guys here don’t like being called out for what they are
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:06 PM
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I’m not, I’m calling out a rapist. What you are doing is a disservice by trying to silence me for calling him out. Then again. That’s what predators do isn’t it? Pretend their own. That’s why jefftey got away with it for so long, lots of other rapists ready to jump in and silence women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 12:04 PM
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Men shouldn’t have sex with people they don’t want to be in relationships with. Talk some accountably for your own actions
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:59 AM
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Of course it matters. It’s one thing to tell a stupid lie to a stranger in a pub, it’s another to spend months growing feelings with someone only to drop them later
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:58 AM
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They don’t. Oh so you happily admit your a rapist? I’m shocked. I can only hope your victims manage to get justice one day. Unfortunately your probably one of the many cases that get away with it because you’ll lie about consent too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:56 AM
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Change his mind after months of being together and starting to grow feelings and intertwine your lives together the first time they have sex he drops her but it’s ok, hE cHaNgeD hIs mInD Come on dude even you can admit that’s shitty behaviour I’m saying if you just want s relationship for sex, date someone that wants that too. Don’t date someone that sees sex as something as important to them and lie about your intentions
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:53 AM
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Let’s not get personal This is simply actions have consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:49 AM
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Except it’s not just a lie though is it? It’s months if behaviour to back up your lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:48 AM
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Exactly, so when these guys argue “he just changed his mind” they clearly don’t give a shit about the damage done
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:46 AM
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No, we’ve got over this, your excuses were something only a rapist would use. Dropping someone after you’ve had sex with them is rapist behaviour and he should be held accountable for it. He shouldn’t be allowed in a relationship, he should be in prison
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:44 AM
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Your question doesn’t make sense, that’s why I’m ignoring it and given you a better answer. If a man is going to lie to get sex, he is a rapist, it’s as simple as that. She is only consenting with the false information he is giving her. And yes, he should be held accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:43 AM
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No I want them called out for what they are, at best pos and at worst rapists. You don’t need to lie to get sex from someone and conveniently changing your mind when nothing about the relationship has changed is cruel and you should be held accountable for that. If he doesn’t want a relationship, he shouldn’t be doing relationship things with someone that does
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:40 AM
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No it’s an important step, and if he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with someone he shouldn’t be lying to her sex from them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:37 AM
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They are if the relationship is growing under false pretences
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:36 AM
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No, most people that see sex as important aren’t having it at 3 weeks. It’s months in. It’s not being treated as transactional, it’s treated as something important.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:35 AM
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Given the respond of men on this sub, it’s not inaccurate. Men don’t care how they get sex, if the result is sex they only care about negative results like being called a rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:13 AM
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Conveniently only after they’ve had sex when nothing else has changed about their relationship? No, it’s either lying, a rapist or a pos human being
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:10 AM
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You talk to each other before sex right? Most people also see the environmental they live in, meet families, their also slightly imitate together too, so yeah you would know all these things, these are again things a rapist would say to avoid accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 11:08 AM
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And again, you don’t think these losers are braced and supported by the others around them? They wouldn’t put up with them if their wasn’t feelings involved. The loser is literally using his leverage to take advantage of the people who are putting up with him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:40 AM
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Wish? Half the teenagers on Reddit don’t work and live off someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:36 AM
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As expected, This would be all stuff you would have been aware of before having sex. And we both know nobody brings up fetish the first time. This is just excuses rapests use to avoid accountability for their own actions
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:36 AM
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Well don’t date someone like that then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:32 AM
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Your trying to tell us, you’ve never heard of guys that live rent free at either their parents or bang maids houses smoking weed all day? It’s half the men on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:32 AM
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Even then, if he’s had previous partners he’s clearly a slut or he has problems with commitment We should make it a rule that only virgin men get sex after they’ve offered full commitment and all of their assets now belong to the women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:27 AM
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I think a lot of men don’t care how they get sex and believe it’s only a rape if a man physically held her down
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:24 AM
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I’d argue it’s rape too But no, sex is important to a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:23 AM
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Ok I’ll meet you half way. Your seeing a women and it’s all going well, you take the next step by having sex together. What exactly would make you change your mind or feelings for this women that would make you stop her after you’ve have sex together? And please respond with something tangible
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:22 AM
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Sex is for a lot of people, is love making. Something very intimate you enjoy with a person you really care about. If your lying to get sex your either a rapist or a pos human being. Just have sex with women that enjoy casual, it’s not hard
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:20 AM
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And again, if they lie to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:18 AM
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But if their lying to you, or changing their mind after your in, it’s a trap then isn’t it? You changed your mind? But only after you’ve had sex, something very important and intimate for her? No, that’s either rape, or your a pos human being
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:10 AM
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Nothing about your relationship has changed except now you’ve seen her at her most vulnerable and your dropping her. That is cruel. And if she makes it clear it’s important to her and not something she does lightly, you are raping her by lying to her to get sex. I don’t get what the big problem is. Lots of women enjoy doing casual sex, you don’t have to lie to women that don’t. Just don’t be a rapist, it’s fairly simple
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:02 AM
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Same. But it went in for months. I really really liked him but I wasn’t interested in sex if we weren’t a couple. Well he must have been desperate after a while because he finally said he’d be my bf and updated his status to “in a relationship” Of course the next day the deed was done and when I offered to plan a date for us he turned around and said it’s not working and dumped me. He went on to rape a few more people but he got caught eventually and spent some time in jail before he died
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:59 AM
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The op has caught himself out in another thread too. It women are to use this warning as all men bad and only have sex with commitment is offered or even getting a potential third party involved, then she’s being misandrist. Honestly can’t win
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:49 AM
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Because sex is important to her, she wants to know your committed towards her as a person. Sudden changing your mind after you’ve been intimate is cruel, sex is a serious step in a relationship for lots of people, your basically telling her something about her body was so awful your feelings toward her have backtracked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:46 AM
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So before a women has sex with a man, they should get a third party to ensure the man wasn’t lying? Can’t we just hold men accountable for their own actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:41 AM
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The key is to know each other fairly well before it crosses the familiar line. Friend of a friend type thing, seeing each other in a regular basis like college or work or a club. Rather than being helpful or friendly, you try teasing them and see how they respond, if they banter back it’s ok to start flirting and see if they hold your eye contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:34 AM
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Did she agree under false pretences? Almost definitely. There was a guy in his sub a few days ago that admitted to lying to women and not one single dude called him out for it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:30 AM
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Thank you for being honest. Cause I suspect this is what happens 99%. I’ve been on dates with guys who are wishy washly when it comes to straight answers like commitment. Then they act shocked when I don’t want to hang out on their bedrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:29 AM
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Typical of this sub. Women are supposed to take accountability for mens actions against them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:24 AM
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If you are lying to exploit someone they are only having sex with you under false pretences. That is rape. And it’s telling of men on this who who think it’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:12 AM
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You didn’t answer my question, what part of my comment was Misandrist? Let’s not react right personal insults please
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:09 AM
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Feminism is about equal rights, choices snd freedoms for women, that’s it. The freedom that a women can choose to have sex with whom they want. That’s nothing to do with the mindset of selfish sexist men, who don’t respect women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:46 AM
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Not under a false narrative no
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:55 AM
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Yup, definitely the sign from a guys who’s now panicking
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 09:58 PM
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You didn’t correct anything. Your panicking because you’ve been caught out as a potential rapist. See when they talk about most takes being unrecorded, this is what they mean
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:43 PM
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Your just arguing strawman now. Rape is manipulating someone into doing something you want knowing they wouldn’t do it without a lie it’s telling you don’t like this fact
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:21 PM
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Their are no stats
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:53 PM
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Rapist by definition are people who either force or manipulate others into having sexual with them through a false narrative. This isn’t hiding a weird trait, it’s straight up rapist behaviour. I’m Calling it what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:53 PM
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You are raping them, because if you were honest, it wouldn’t happen. Again there is a massive difference to lying to someone so you can rape them, to wanting to share someone’s feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 04:00 PM
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You attached any stats. So yes, that does change things
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:58 PM
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There is a massive difference to using someone to exploit them, and not being honest to why you don’t want to date them. You are essentially raping that person. Because if you were actually honest with them, they wouldn’t have sex with you. It would be better to say I just want to use you for sex because your ugly, so that the person and everyone else knows your a selfish pos
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 02:25 PM
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Yeah no, the stats don’t say that, attractiveness depends on the individuals viewing them. So to clarify, women standards and feelings is what’s stopping men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 02:21 PM
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Absolutely nothing for the women, but what does it matter? Her thoughts n feelings don’t matter. She’s just a hole to be used for sex. They’ll never admit it, but this us the kind of thinking from lots of guys here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 02:03 PM
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I wish other guys would call this kinda shit out. Opening admitting to lying to women and using them but when women complain about guys, all the men are straight to point the finger at her saying she “should have chose better” Absolute double standard from guys here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:57 PM
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Natural selection then?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:53 PM
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No, I’m asking them what’s stopping them from doing this if they think it’ll make their lives better
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:53 PM
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I’m confused, what’s stopping men from having hordes of casual sex with loads of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:08 PM
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It’s still a job then isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:52 AM
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Well if you’ve done it it must be true then, except when parents probably discipline their kids from a young age, they grow into good decent people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:40 AM
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Who said it didn’t? I’m pointing out being pretty doesn’t pay bills, even in a customer service role you are still doing work
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:39 AM
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But working on a computer makes me more money and doesn’t put me a risk from shitty men or customers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:15 AM
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It’s really not. People that expect bills to be paid require actual money to pay for things like bills and taxes. I can be as pretty as I am but I still have to work and pay my own bills
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:59 AM
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Op, I don’t know where you live, but having a pretty face has never paid the bills
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:23 AM
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It would when he realised he would be punishing for hurting others
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 09:22 AM
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I didn’t say hit, I said punished
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 07:32 AM
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And yet, had he been probably punished the first time he physically hurt someone (because of course there’s always previous) he might not have attempted to murder a baby or needed At least 2 adults around him whenever he was in society
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:52 PM
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Physically abusing them yes, but if your kids are wee shits and grow into terrible adults, that’s on you too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:51 PM
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On average, women do more unpaid work including childcare and care work. If that work Was included the numbers would be a lot different
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 07:49 PM
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I live in s country where a man with learnings difficulties through a baby into a crocodile pit at a zoo. Fortunately the baby survived. I’m not saying physical punished should be normalised, but even a small child understands that hurting others is wrong. At what point does a person not care because they won’t face any consequences of their own actions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:58 PM
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If we were to bring in climate change I would absolutely agree with you, young peoples future seems unstable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:55 PM
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People aren’t owed anything, if their part of society they reap the benefits of it and they have the same opportunities as everyone else for a romantic relationship. There is no law or rule against these men, they just personally fail at doing it. The average man is not a ceo and is married. This is the point it about comes back too, at what point does that become entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:51 PM
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Well then I guess we don’t have anything to worry about. Problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:48 PM
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It’s not assault, is punishment for bad behaviour (and I’m agreeing it shouldn’t be physically) but it needs to be more than what it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:47 PM
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That is a very good point, there will always be some authoritative figures that abuse their positions and because it’s meant to be an authoritative position, any challenge is seen as being disruptive. However, I do not agree that certain men are seen as something we need to get rid of. If an abled body person doesn’t want to contribute to the society around him, he is a hindrance, there is no nice way to put it. Their are lots of mens mental health groups and the majority of people already tryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:29 PM
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Of course adults get beaten up for consequences, just not in the traditional sense. You do not need to physically hurt kids to teach discipline, but the middle grown isn’t very middle anymore. If parents aren’t coddling their children they are viewed as neglectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:23 PM
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So was their discrimination at the college level? I agree if there’s more men that apply then it makes sense it’ll be more male workers. But I have experienced sexism a few times in jobs. Bosses letting slip they don’t hire women for jobs “because they just get pregnant” Giving a job to a man over a women even when she was more qualified because he had a family and needed to provide for them, ignoring the fact she also had a family. Don’t be complacent about women in the workplace. Your study is…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:53 PM
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And how do you know it wasnt blatant sexism? If girls were 50% of the students with similar grades yet only men were getting hired then somethings not right there is there? We’ll know it’s not sexism when only the work is considered and the genders aren’t leaked
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:32 PM
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What part of my comment was misandrist please? Anything that doesn’t coddle men apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:27 PM
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I don’t think so, my sister got hit once, and it was enough to ensure the both of us behaved. We’ve grown up fine, the only mental health issue was postpartum during covid, which I think is fair. My sister was a little shit throughout our childhood, the one slap on the arse was enough to teach her when she’d gone to far and even though she was still a little shit she learned when she’d gone too far. Some of the behaviour from other kids at my daughters school is horrible and as a parent, my kids…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:26 PM
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Yeah I don’t like physically punishment either, but I don’t agree we have a generation of soft boys. We have boys with lots of mental health problems and anger issues, we have young men who are not afraid to lash out because they’ve never experienced punishment. My generation was only hit a few times but we grew up respecting authority. I don’t agree with it personally but young men nowadays can’t seem to take responsibility for their own actions anymore, nobody is telling them off or holding th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:18 PM
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Not really, if boys start out performing girls it shows their systems work, that’s a good thing and maybe the girls need to adapt to that too. Maybe kids should be more separated for certain classes more, I don’t agree with all boys or all girls cause kids need to learn to interact together. But boys having a teacher more focused on them in smaller numbers occasionally might be a good thing for them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:09 PM
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Regardless of what their studying, they do it and work full time. The boys leave school and just work the bare minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:58 PM
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YouTube generation? I will happily except the downvotes for this cause I agree it’s a fucking awful thing to say, but I think there’s an element to this. Until recently, children were physically disciplined, especially boys when they acted out in class or didn’t pay attention or didn’t behave. Now we try a much softer approach, getting children to talk about feelings and obvious no physical discipline. I can’t help but think some men and boys might prefer a more military style upbringing where t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:56 PM
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How? They literally have every opportunity handed to them, they just have to work for it like everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:44 PM
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I do. I work with a lot of younger people and there is a noticeable difference between the boys and girls. The girls work full time whist studying. The boys just work and do as little shifts as possible. Me and a lot of others end up carrying or making excuses for them, their late, they show up stinking of weed, they phone in sick every 2 weeks. Even on the job doing the simplest of tasks they fuck up a lot, but the worse part is their attitude, They never own up to it or apologise and generally…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:43 PM
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That’s not excusing the fact that most men who get harsher sentences have had previous convictions. This is not an injustice against men, this is done on an individual case
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:50 PM
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Women are also less likely to have previous convictions, which are including when the sane crimes are done over and over
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:35 PM
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And with redpolls attitude, how do you think a guy who’s already ignoring his desperate wife is going to act?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:29 PM
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Yes you do, you trap them raising your kids. Knowing they’ll always be back and forward for you because of them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 05:28 PM
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Did you miss the part on your own source that says women are likely to be killed 30% by a male partner than 3% fir guys? You’ve clearly ignored the parts of your own source you didn’t like. Unfortunately, science direct is a corrupted website, you can use the numbers because they are likely to be fake https://www.elsevier.com/en-gb/connect/the-cost-of-fraudulent-research Snd no, YouTube is social media. That’s not a source of science
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:57 AM
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It’s not personal, if the website is corrupt you can’t tell what numbers are true or false, you have to toss the lot. It’s as simple as that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:40 AM
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The problem is when their is a female bread winner she still ends up doing the majority of choices, https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20220406-women-breadwinners-why-high-earners-compensate-at-home They also increase their chances of being a victim of domestic abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:35 AM
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No that’s called trapping someone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:23 AM
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Still no links to back up your claims? Yup, we both know his is not real now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:22 AM
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Doesn’t matter, if the website itself uses any fake articles, you have to toss out the whole thing. That’s how science works. You can’t chance fake data being used to corrupt real data. You have to start again. It’s fake because it’s fake, and it sounded fake from the start because it contradicts every other piece of data on the subject. Didn’t take much to prove it either. The problem is you want to believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:55 PM
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Reddit is a social media platform. It’s not pretending to be scientific to push an agenda. If men don’t report it, you can’t push imagery numbers. If you link anything that’s not corrupted, I’d be happy to read it, you want to help men? Don’t use fake numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:32 PM
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Can’t find your sources? How convenient If you can’t even find them then they don’t exist and you shouldn’t push numbers that are fake because you don’t like them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:29 PM
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No dude, it’s fake because it’s a corrupted website so anyone could have posted anything. There’s nothing more to it. The only thing I posted in regards to female victims, was to counter your argument that more men in Canada were victims rather than women, a quick Google search showed the modern numbers dint agree with this. If you want to help make victims. Don’t use fake websites. Simple as I have agreed with you that their are probably more male victims than we realise, but using fake website…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:01 PM
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Why are you ranting about feminism now? Feminists didn’t make up these numbers, they publish them to get help for women. Why can’t men do the same thing without using fake numbers to help male victims? Just like typical incels, instead of helping men, you want to attack women. That’s why you your blaming feminism for your numbers because we both know male victims are more likely to be victims of other men, just like women. But instead of helping these men, you are using fake websites to push you…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 07:44 PM
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You’ve never heard of a man getting a women pregnant then abandoning her to raise the kids alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 07:38 PM
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Yeah I’ve seen that too. The wife needs to not use feelings and just do the constant work required of her to keep the family going. My heart broke reading a post from a redpill women a few weeks ago. She had a newborn snd a toddler and was ready to throw herself in front of a bus because she was so tried and hubby wasn’t helping. In fact, he was playing 5-6 hours of video games a night whist she barely slept longer than 2 hours and hasn’t showered in days. The response from other redpill women? …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 07:37 PM
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The non fake corrupted websites publish the real numbers and ways in which victims are finding themselves in. That’s how you help them. Making up numbers and using corrupted data because you want women to be the main perpetrators, is not going to help real male victims
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 07:32 PM
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Actually more Women are likely to stay in abusive situations, and more men are likely to be abusive. But even when there’s no abuse, the women is more likely to be stick because she has no control over money, and she’s always got kids hanging off her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 07:29 PM
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No, their more believable because they don’t talk about having millions of $$$ to spend so easily on a clearly shitty bf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:41 AM
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No, I’ve just been around this sub long enough to know when it sounds too good to be true, it is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:39 AM
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No, I’ve just been around this sub long enough to know when it sounds too good to be true, it is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:39 AM
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Some might be yeah, but they are at least more believable. This is your classic incel story about the guy who paid for everything including fancy handbags and holidays for the girl who couldn’t keep a job. The average person doesn’t have close to anything like that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:20 AM
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It’s not about the kids (as quoted to me by a guy here) It’s about control over women. Women and babies are dependable as they know it’s a full time job to look after one and they know it’s expensive. Get a women pregnant and she’s kinda stuck with you. You can make her feel guilty about going to work, or not going to work. Either way, you keep her dependent on you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:28 AM
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He’s deliberately chosen a sub where he can make up an evil ex gf and how he was the prefect bf so we all need to agree women are evil and take advantage of men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:23 AM
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Nobody is doing that, but using fake numbers from corrupt websites is not going to help them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:19 AM
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It’s always the way isn’t it? They want kids but they want someone else to raise them for him, he just wants his name on it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:59 AM
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Calling out corrupted websites does not stop make victims coming forward
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:58 AM
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No I think it’s more like the 2014 paper was written by a women hating incels and now this document has just passed about on websites like that other fake one. A Google searched proved you were wrong. I actually agree with you that lots of male victims don’t report abuse, but it’s still not nearly as much as female victims
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:56 AM
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Men want kids the way kids want puppies. Unfortunately, until more men are proving themselves to be good dads and actually stepping up to parent their kids, less women are going to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:52 AM
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Maybe this is why more women don’t don’t to be mothers? The dads do shitty behaviour, ignore the kids and let mum do all the work, then blame her for his behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:51 AM
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This is going to bed banned
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:47 AM
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I’m going to say it’s fake again. One google search shows your numbers are wrong in 2025 https://www.canada.ca/en/women-gender-equality/gender-based-violence/intimate-partner-violence.html
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:42 AM
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Mate, I feel it’s only right to inform you most of your sources come from a website that uses fake “studies” where anyone can make up whatever they want from their own bedroom. https://www.researchgate.net/post/Fake_works_in_researchgate Nobody approves of misandry but it’s still not half a problem as misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 04:38 AM
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It’s not though is it? It’s clearly made by incels and then swapped about
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 09:42 AM
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You have no way of knowing who wrote it because we can’t see the context of where it came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:37 AM
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Or men could just step up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:09 AM
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For the 3rd time. It’s fake because it’s from a website that anyone can post anything. So no, you can’t take these numbers seriously. The fact you keep pushing this and have become just shows you know it but you have your own agenda as usual
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 08:08 AM
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It’s not (and should never be) in your nature to rape someone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:17 PM
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If we’re talking us, they don’t have a draft. And they haven’t implicated selective service since the 1970’s. Your source didn’t prove it did
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:06 PM
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Nature doesn’t dictate that you should rape someone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:04 PM
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No, it’s fake because the sources are made up online by anyone. It’s not science when you can’t prove where it came from. It’s fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:04 PM
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A good man respects his partner as a partner. There is no power or lording in the relationship. He doesn’t believe he should be in charge because he’s the male
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:02 PM
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For the species maybe but that doesn’t mean every individual needs to mate. So no it’s not. We don’t need to but we want to. We want to date and mate with people we actually like. Those that don’t will die off and natural selection will continue. You either adapt or die
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:01 PM
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Personal insults? By your own comment, you and redpill men believe in the wall, hypergamy, afbb and settling. How is that not cold or transactional to your partner? Your only with each other because you are currently useful, that is not human care for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:58 PM
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I think we’ve both got confused with what arguments we’re having with others. Bit no, the wiki source didn’t prove anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:56 PM
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Oh they can straight to jail then. If you can’t behave in our society, you’ll be thrown out. Simples
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:54 PM
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Then why are you with a man that treats you as a tool/child/pet and argues “that’s just how men and women are”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:22 PM
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You can try to treat women however you want. The individual will decide what she likes and what she’s willing to put up with. However, I really don’t think a female human is going to find a male human pretending to flap with fake wings, attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:21 PM
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Well no it’s not. You argued selective service is still a thing yet you couldn’t prove it was within the last 50 years. So no, you were wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:18 PM
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Every time I ask redpill women this, this is what they do. They can never answer it. They tell me these men are human and care about them but also admit these men only date them when women are useful. I would love if someone could explain why they’d want to be in a relationship like this and a with a man who treats them like this. A good man doesn’t want to lord over you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:17 PM
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Natural selection is not just about survival. It’s about picking a mate we enjoy spending time with and maybe want to grow together. It doesn’t always work and that’s why we date to see what we’re compatible with. If no one is coming near you, you are clearly not datable snd need to adapt yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:14 PM
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Yes because it was made by other women hating incels that share the same “links” to spread hate. If the research is fake, it’s fake, and you are only spreading hatred by pretending it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:12 PM
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Even monkeys don’t treat the other adult monkeys like pets or babies
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:11 PM
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You can value and trust them but that doesn’t mean you have basic respect for them and still believe they are only valued right there and then fir what they do/provide for you. It’s transactional and it’s cold. And no, it doesn’t sound like they actually care about you because they argue dating dynamics and “sexual natures” instead of treating their spouses as an individual. If you as a women were to get into an accidental and disfigured yourself, your redpill man would dump you in a heartbeat b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:10 PM
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Again no, a man could be born into the right family and have the vote from birth, or he could work enough and become success enough that he could earn it. He was never not allowed it because he was male. Being female meant it didn’t matter what you did or where you were born because you just belonged to a man
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:45 PM
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Women typically want have experiences with guys they like, it’s up to men to do the bird dance and make yourself someone she wants to be around. It’s called natural selection
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:38 PM
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Do you need more to realise it’s a fake website? https://www.researchgate.net/post/ResearchGate_fails_to_act_on_a_serious_and_obvious_example_of_scientific_misconduct_fraud_scam_case_report_2 However, my bad, I thought you were someone else but as the other person pointed out, this guy was 50 years ago. You can’t pretend it’s still relevant. Selective service is bs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:35 PM
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Again, that’s just more misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:32 PM
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No, it’s based on facts. Like not being able to vote or control your own money
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:31 PM
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We should reword it. Feminism fought to get women paid and in control of their own monies for the work they always did
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:30 PM
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That’s really sad, for both men and women. Snd quite shallow and I would argue it’s harsher than kind. We all age and change but the foundations of your relationship should be a genuine fondness for each other as well as trust. The trp argument seems to be this is just how men and women are, so suck it up. Which sounds awful. I’ll never understand why anyone would stay with someone that treats them like they are disposable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:26 PM
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How is it misandrist? There’a guys saying women should obey men, of course women are going to argue back, how could anyone not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:17 PM
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From the fake article https://www.researchgate.net/post/Fake_works_in_researchgate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:16 PM
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It’s a fake paper dude. https://www.researchgate.net/post/Fake_works_in_researchgate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:15 PM
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Your link is from a notorious fake website https://www.researchgate.net/post/Fake_works_in_researchgate This isn’t me not liking facts, this is deliberate fraud to push fake numbers. Feminism pushed for equality for women, because men already had rights
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:15 PM
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Yeah that’s not naming a man or a case dude
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:46 AM
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Feminism is fir women, since men have never been oppressed, and no, men are mainly victims of crime from other men Snd no, your source is cherry picked and is over 10 years old. And again, it doesn’t specify that’s it’s only heterosexual We’ve done this over and over, take your hate back to 4chan
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:14 AM
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It’s not based on heterosexual couples, doesn’t say that in your source. Feminism is about equal rights, choices and freedoms between men and women, that’s it. Yes we all know men are victims too, but it’s mainly from other men. You’ve done this before and bean caught out too, women are rarely the problem for men victims
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:24 AM
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What’s going on on this sub recently. The hate against women is becoming ridiculous. In just 2 minutes, I’ve seen guys telling women to obey their husbands and how it’s humiliating to plan a date for one. Like, no wonder y’all are single
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:04 AM
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This is again more cherry picked examples. We’ve gone though this before, you hate women we get it, but stop spreading made up numbers, you’ve pulled these from prisons before
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:53 AM
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Where are men dying in theatres then? Cause you chest picked one. How about All the hundreds of other times women gave yo their life or freedoms for men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:17 PM
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I dont need to do anything. The blue moon doesn’t mean it’s a normal occurrences. It’s still a tiny percentage that’s women ,
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:14 PM
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Personal insults?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:11 PM
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Because it’s 1 women. It’s rare, I could look at the news today and see a dozen from men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:44 PM
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Nobody likes doing work for free and these jobs are notoriously underpaid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:43 PM
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No I didn’t, read again
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:58 PM
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Read again, I said I’ve never heard of one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:01 PM
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Read again, I said I never heard of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:01 PM
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It’s not but this is an element of person responsibility here. The op knew her boundaries, knew she’d had lots of kinky sex in previous relationships but still decided to hang around and is now bitching about it online. If this is real (which I very much doubt) he’s no one to blame but himself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:32 PM
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No we’re talking about facts. Which is still mostly men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:26 PM
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Yes I am, because I’m pointing out how rare it is compared to males. So pretending women are just as violent as men is ludicrous. My point is women have the same tools and opportunities to be as violent as men are and they simply aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:23 PM
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Does he not have eyes? Can he not see the trash is full? Iif he’s in the middle of doing something then fine ok, but I shouldn’t be instructing s grown man how to pick up after himself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:24 PM
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Really? Can you link anything? Never heard of one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:13 PM
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Have you? I’m talking about shootings and the majority of murders, which are from men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:13 PM
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No, just pointing out the obvious that you don’t need physical strength to hurt a lot of people. And yet women still don’t do it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:11 PM
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Yea they do. Given the majority of carers, nurses and even in mens mental health are women, it’s dafe to say the majority of heros are women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:10 PM
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Well if I’m wrong, please send links
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:03 PM
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Only the first year, when their post partum. Every year after that it’s men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:32 AM
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Doesn’t take a lot of strength to pull a trigger, snd yet there’s never been a female shooter
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:28 AM
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Oh look, you can use real facts. You just don’t like it when you can’t claim the perpetrators are not female
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:32 AM
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No, anything that’s fake or made up shouldn’t be used as fact. Their are male victims, of course their are, but it’s not close to female victims and they are usually victims of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:25 AM
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Because women protect on a daily basis, but if it’s not a hero throwing themselves in front of a bullet or a train, nobody cares https://thegritandgraceproject.org/purpose/this-is-why-women-are-great-defenders-of-the-helpless https://www.instagram.com/p/DTqJD5_DDWw/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:21 AM
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Your source is fake and your link is just rants. You need to stop spreading made up shite because you hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:15 AM
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I’m fairly sure I was asked to unblock users too after they’d been reported as it makes it harder to find them? I don’t block anymore snd haven’t had any issues since
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:08 PM
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Yehhhhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:15 PM
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I’m going to back the op up because I’ve noticed this too. But it’s also on subs on Reddit. Guys commenting about a women dressing respectful etc and being a good wife, yet these same guys have links to some of the most degrading porn acts (borderline CP) and discussing it including the “actor” and her body
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 03:48 PM
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Or if she wasn’t married
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:22 PM
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Fir long term their needs to be elements of give and take but the foundations and start of your relationship should be simply enjoying each other’s company. “What do you bring to the table” is toxic and not a healthy start
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:24 AM
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This explains why the majority of redpill men are single then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:38 PM
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I hire professionals to get something done that I don’t want to do. I don’t care what gender they are. That doesn’t change the fact that women shouldn’t be picking up after a lazy partner
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:54 AM
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Your title contradicts yourself, I shouldn’t have to pay a grown ass adult to clean up after themselves or pull their own weight
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:45 AM
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Relationships are not give and take. That is transactional and again, it’s not healthy. If you don’t like your partner for who they are, you shouldn’t be dating them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:56 AM
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“What they bring to the table” That is not a healthy relationship, that is a give and take, transactional. The start snd the foundations of your relationship should be simply enjoying each other company, not what you can expect to exploit out of them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:14 AM
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Even the best welfare, the best maternity leave and child benefits doesn’t amount to a full time paid job. Children are just not worth the change and sacrifice to raise. Until more fathers and men start stepping up to show they can be partners and good parents, it’s not worth given up your independence and freedom
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:58 PM
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If you think relationships are transactional, you are not high quality, particularly for dating. Speaks volumes for the quality of young men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:40 PM
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People aren’t cars or any other object, they can take accountability for their own actions
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:38 PM
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That’s your algorithm then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:38 PM
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At most they are complaining about the quality of men, and I don’t really blame them, look at what young men are demanding from women these days
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:14 PM
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Women aren’t the ones complaining about dating or having a loneliness epidemic. Everyone can want what they want, there’s no rules that say if your only a 5, you can only go for men between 4-6. If you can’t get what you want you either improve yourself or you live content being single. Again, it’s not women complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:22 AM
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It’s fact dude, this isn’t personal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:46 AM
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Anything to avoid accountability for the guy right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:46 AM
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If your going to pretend the draft is something that actually affects you as a man, you can do your own leg work and read what actual countries are affected by this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:55 PM
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Again, if he is actively lying. How are you supposed to vet probably? You are entirely blaming the victim here. This is why we pick the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:53 PM
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With that logic, every rapist is a winner
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 09:52 PM
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But again, if he is actively lying , how are you supposed to magically know??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:03 PM
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It’s telling you need me to hand feed you, because you know I’m right and the draft is a lie cause fir men pretending to be victims
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:02 PM
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I only need to point out that world wide there are only 2 countries in the world were women are equal but men have the disadvantage of the draft. So trying to pretend this counts as most men is as ludicrous if I was to say the women in Afghanistan are a representative of all women. Snd who’s going to look after these children? Cause it certainly wasn’t the fathers. If women don’t go for stem we need to ensure it’s not because they are being discriminated against by personal bias, which unfortuna…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:33 PM
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And as I pointed out, these two were irrelevant since they are not real
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:30 PM
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Your longest relationship then, still doesn’t change my point, it’s creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:29 PM
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This is t bitterness, it’s encouragement. You guys keep complaining your going to leave, whelp, I’ve got the door open for you but you keep coming back
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:42 PM
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How are they supposed to bet fairly if the op admits to lying to them? How about instead of blaming women, you call out the assholes who do this kind of behaviour in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:40 PM
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I’ve said it 3 times already. Only 2 countries in the world have equalish rights between men and women but a male only draft. So that’s nonsense. Many countries still don’t allow women to work or earn the same level as men, if we’re going to cherry picking from certain countries how about we look at Afghanistan where women aren’t allowed to leave the house without a man. If a man was the primary carer, he’d be given full parent rights, men don’t like to admit we had to put laws in place because …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:39 PM
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Agreed, there are no extra rights fir women. So men can stop pretending their victims Sorted
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:32 PM
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How so? It makes sense. If your not having any luck then try something she’s. Just acknowledge if your only successful because you literally have more power over a women due to culture
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:31 PM
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I call it winning the debate since you can’t answer any of my points and now have adapted to personal insults
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:30 PM
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That’s called straw manning. You didn’t answer my original question which was what rights women have that men do not. You do not tell me what I will or will not choose. Given how they have treated enemies and prisoners in the past, being in the frontline is definitely an option. Again, what do you mean by draft technically speaking? Because the English dictionary says it’s either a draft piece of work or conscription
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:59 PM
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And you don’t think war affects women? They would also die on the battlefield but they’d also be burned alive in churches after being raped a few times. Not to mention spending the bulk of time protecting children, old people and the disabled, whist still being shot at. Given the choice of my country was attacked, I know what I’d prefer if I was given the choice (which women weren’t) What did you mean by “draft” then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:44 PM
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Again, only 2 countries in the world have equalish rights between men and women but a male only draft. They can also choose abortion if they want but they can’t take control of another persons body.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:41 PM
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There’s only 2 countries in the world where women have equalish rights to men but a male only draft. With your logic, if it not fair to say women need mens permissions to go outside since they do that in Afghanistan
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:19 PM
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Waiting for the guys here to get involved and tear the op a new one. They complain they can’t get any women yet this op happily admits to cheating on a wife not to mention every partner he’s had. And with his actions he puts off so many women from even trying dating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:40 AM
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If you have to lie to get anyone to do something for you or something with you, you are a manipulator and I certainly don’t have a high opinion of that. Particularly when you make it clear you don’t care about hurting or scaring the other person. You also admitted in another comment you cheated on your wife. This honestly feels creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:34 AM
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I ask this every time snd never get solid answers. What rights exactly do women have that men do not? The system is now designed so that men and women have the same equal opportunities, freedoms and choices as each other. That’s it. Women are over taking men in education I agree with you there, but there’s not a law or rule that’s stopping boys from doing the same thing. Men are still making more money than women but women are still doing more unpaid jobs and childcare. And as we can see when wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:52 AM
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Completely agree as a women Take yourself out a system that doesn’t suit you snd stop complaining. If you can’t make a relationship work when women have equal footing and the same freedoms as choices as you, you either need to go somewhere where women are disadvantaged so you have power over them or you pay for it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:42 AM
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And yet most child support isn’t paid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:01 AM
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The old incel sub on Reddit is a great example
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:31 AM
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Men can do whatever they want, their just responsibility for their own women, that they happily keep oppressed. They can’t have it both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:46 PM
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Did you know Muslim girls can’t work to provide for themselves? Men can feel victimised because they have to provide for their families but if they live in a world where women are literally not allowed to earn their own money, then they don’t have a leg to stand in here. Hate it all they want, they still enforce it and it still suits them a lot better than it suits women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:00 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:05 PM
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It’s horrible isn’t it. I lived briefly in the Middle East, my mum wasn’t allowed to go to the shops herself, she was regularly grouped and sexually assaulted because since she didn’t cover her hair, she was “fair game” and the police wouldn’t even talk to her without my dad. We even had to stay at the embassy because my dad was away for a few weeks and they wouldn’t renew my passport without a man’s signature. This kinda shit has never happened to men. There is no point in history where men nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 12:04 PM
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Unfortunately there seems to be more from manosphere groups ploughing into mens mental health and telling them if a women isn’t offering you her pussy hole the instant she meets you then she isn’t attracted to you. “True” desire can’t grow and women can’t control their female instincts when she’s actually attracted to a man. This was quoted to me by a guy here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:57 AM
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Actually the original incel group was founded by a women in the 90’s. She started it for awkward people like her could chat and try figure out what they were doing wrong but it was also a good way to meet other awkward people. It sadly got taken over during the 00’s by female hate groups that argued became women could “get” sex easier than men, they were no longer included and slowly started spreading more hate stories. The term incel became viral when Elliot Rodger was named “king of the incels…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:52 AM
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This is what young men need. And I agree it seems ludicrous when you have to spell out what’s obvious and get them to start communicating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:37 AM
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This is actually a very good point. Only in western countries can women even think about living alone and not dependent on a man. In still half the world there are laws that restrict womens basic rights but never mens. Almost definitely this is why women celebrate being able to live this way because they know how it is in other places of the world and they know from their own grandmothers etc it wasn’t that long ago it was in the west too. But fir guys, that’s nothing different to how men have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:35 AM
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Exactly, but it’s popular among men, so that man being seen as happily single is just lying to himself as far as most men are considered. A guy on this sub quoted one that men are always in competition with each other. So genuine help for an individual man is rare unless they’ll get something out of it. Even help groups for men is 90% of women volunteers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:27 AM
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I disagree, you are more likely to be forgivable when you can see the person as a human in real like scenarios. Height might be something you traditionally go for but they guy you met was such good fun snd company that you didn’t even notice he’s shorter than your usual type. I doesn’t change my opinion for men that rely solely on dating apps and blame their heights for not getting any matches. You are barely putting any effort into making a connection and your bitter that your height means you …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:22 AM
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You mean history?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:15 AM
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Because everything in the manosphere, mgtow, incels, redpilled etc are all about controlling/dating /getting a women and this is what men are going for. The difference between these groups and groups like 4b, is women cutting men out from their own personal life snd learning to live independently and in contentment with themselves. Mens groups are always about women and that’s why a lot of these self help groups for men end up getting closed down because they start hating women and start celebra…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:14 AM
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If this was about dating apps only then I might agree, especially the kind when you know nothing about the person other than the basic facts. But that’s telling of the quality of the person who makes no effort other than their basic facts and expects to get results from that. So, again, it’s no surprise they struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:07 AM
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Shitty guys with shitty personalities pretending their height is their problem does not it experience or realities
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:05 AM
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This, it’s always height isn’t it? The one thing they can’t change about themselves that always means their a victim. I do not believe any women has rejected a guy purely cause of his height. I 100% believe she dumped him because of a victim mindset snd main character syndrome but he’s now turned that round said “it’s cause I’m short right?” No dude, it’s cause your an arsehole. Lots of women agree they prefer their man to be taller then them, but when the average man is already taller than the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:47 AM
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Because I’m not, it’s not the same, I don’t understand why you guys aren’t getting that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:30 AM
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Ok. Another one fir you https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=IuCpD0mquWI&ra=m It does come across as negative because this is now the third source I’ve attached snd you still don’t seem content to except it , snd st the end if the day, does it really matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:07 PM
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But I don’t, I appreciate it, enjoy it, then go back to real life. How is that not obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:05 PM
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It doesn’t mean their lying either. Most people want to be millionaires and live in a mansion, doesn’t mean they want to give up their homes they spent years building
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:04 PM
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Then we agree to disagree, my husband doesn’t like my books either, but he likes that I’m happy and it usually means our sex life jumps up a bit. Just like I don’t like his heavy mental music but if it makes him happy then I fully support it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:34 PM
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Ok, here’s another one fir you. https://www.quora.com/Why-are-ladies-more-interested-in-Loki-than-Thor But both me and the op agree, I don’t understand why guys get so upset over this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:31 PM
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Does it matter? Both myself and the op agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:30 PM
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Again, how do you know if you’ve never dated? Your making up stuff over things you’ve read online, that is not experience, at best thats “trust me bro”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:29 PM
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If you seriously believe Elliot Rodger was innocent we can go no further.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:28 PM
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Ok https://gracelafferty.com/writing-personal-opinion-pieces/10-reasons-most-women-prefer-loki-over-thor/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:00 PM
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If you haven’t been in a relationship, you shouldn’t be commenting on them. No experience is no experience and trying to pretend it is is ludicrous. Any guy that have experienced relationships should be looking at himself snd what’s wrong with him, instead of blaming others by being a armchair detective
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:51 PM
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Showing truly you’ve never read a single one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:50 PM
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She’s innocent fir a start. She was made the scrap goat of a lot of other problems but that’s fir another days When you use mental illness as a reason why someone did unspeakable acts you are excuses them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:49 PM
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Again though that’s only for someone that can’t separate fantasy from reality. I do love reading those kinds of troupes but I’ve never based a relationship on them snd certainly wouldn’t describe any of my partners as “powerful” I like the romance of it. There’s not much else to it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:47 PM
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2 things that blow your argument out the water If they have the main characters spattered all over the front cover, the spoil the book snd the ending fir readers, They also make reading these kind’s of books awkward in public. Most erotic doesn’t have any pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:44 PM
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You claimed that when you said “mental illness” That is completely excuse the part that he was fully capable and in control of his own actions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:32 PM
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“Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:28 PM
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Someone with experience to someone with no experience but cherry picks stuff from the internet to back up hateful conspiracies against women. When your car has a problem, you take it to a car mechanic to help fix it, you don’t take it to someone who’s read about fixing cars on the internet do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:28 PM
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Not really. He was evil. Most people that have mental health problems don’t use that as an excuse to murder children
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:25 PM
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Well I read them and enjoyed the romanticism of it but no I didn’t care for the bdsm, ironically I think you might be reading to much into this. Lots of people read them just to see what the fuss was all about. Its not always about sex and healthy relationships are built on much more than just sexually compatibility. It’s a absolutely fair if you took that as a red flag, I would take that as a sign of insecurities and we would be incompatible so problem solved regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:25 PM
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“Male” because there’s not a default look. They are all different
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:18 PM
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I do read them, and 70% of the time the covers are deliberately misleading in the best way. Most of them just have basic coverings so as not to spoil anything snd do you can read them in public
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:01 PM
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Is it a control thing for him though? That’s where the compatible thing comes into play, and it might be the fantasy is nice but in real like it’s awkward. It would be sensible for people to communicate of course but that doesn’t mean write each other off because of it Like 50 shades, lots of women read it because of the smut, and lots read it because they liked the powerful man completely falling for the average girl, the romance of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:59 AM
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More excuses
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:52 AM
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I’m happy to admit I’m probably a red flag for lots of guys. But I’m not the one complaining I’m single
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:52 AM
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Again, no you don’t, when you actually read the novel, you realise this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:51 AM
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The most ironic thing is, most of these book covers don’t have the characters on the front or even any pictures of them. Good authors keep physical descriptions to a few words about the male character because they want the reader to make their own interpretations
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:50 AM
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Well I hope it comes back around for you and wish you well, we’ll still be here if you fancy another gender war in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:46 AM
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No, it’s the men themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:44 AM
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It’s awful , she’s only 27 and he was young, fit and healthy. He had been training for months and he completed the race but his heart just stopped snd they couldn’t get it to start again. I just can’t believe the family are doing this, and I agree this is one of the reasons you should get married when you buy property and assets together
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:43 AM
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Again though I don’t think that’s fair, lots of people read stories about the titanic sinking and still happily get on boats, or like the other guy said, they read 50 shades of grey but don’t like bdsm. Would you say the same for men that play shooting video games? They have a fantasy about murdering people in real life? Most of these things are for entertainment, they are not to be taken seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:40 AM
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No, it means only idiots base real life on fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:34 AM
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Because thor is designed for the male gaze, loki was fir the female gaze, but lots of men struggled to realise or believe this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:33 AM
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It shouldn’t be the default either. A fantasy is a fantasy, it’s not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:23 AM
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Cool story bro. I absolutely believe every word of it. But what I’m saying is actually true, there’s certainly something to think about https://gracelafferty.com/writing-personal-opinion-pieces/10-reasons-most-women-prefer-loki-over-thor/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:22 AM
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I want to help, that’s what I’m trying to do. I’m sorry if it feels like an attack on your person, it’s not but I appreciate that’s how it’s coming across from strangers off the internet picking apart your personality. I think like many women here, we get sick of guys shitting on women with redpill nonsense then complaining why their single. So the shields are naturally up. I get there’s not much help I can give you as a stranger over the internet, but I don’t know if somethings happened in your…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:20 AM
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As someone who reads erotica I assure you, it’s it’s catered to different women just as porn is to men. And just like porn, they use the most stereotype versions in the mainstream. My point is, you don’t base a real life relationship on what a character you’ve read in a book or an actor you’ve seen on porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:12 AM
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It’s still a similar mindset, he also blamed consequences because he wasn’t handed a gf but he was handed everything else in life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:07 AM
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You wouldn’t, and that assumption is telling on your part too. And you should be able to describe her, what’s her name, where does she work, how did you meet etc. your also back tracking a bit here, earlier you said as long as she doesn’t have any physically deformities, your good, now your saying you like her but admit you don’t know anything about her, “you don’t have boxes.” Well clearly you do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:05 AM
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My dude, I don’t write this to be cruel but you’ve kinda answered your own problem here. Generally hooks ups and fwb are one off things usually done during periods of stress and mental health problems. It wasn’t about you, you were just good enough snd in the right place at the right time. 5 years ago we were all still dealing with covid and we were all in a bit of a mess. This isn’t snd it never is meant to be an attack, I agree with the other guy that you seem to be reflecting a lot more which…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:01 AM
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No that’s a mindset/attitude thing, not consequences. Elliot Rodger had good looks, money, high status , fancy cars and plenty of resources. But he had such a horrible personality nobody wanted to be around him. Instead of trying to better himself he decided to “punish” people around him
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:49 AM
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I would call that shallow personally (let’s not go through that again) I don’t want to waste my time with a guy who doesn’t know what he wants from me and just wants to go on a date because I tick enough looks boxes for him. If I’m going to go on a date with a guy it’s because I know he likes me and wants to spend time with me and all going well we’re going to start a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:47 AM
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They get married in late 20’s after dating a few years. Come on dude that’s just straight up incel shite. People date to find someone their compatible with. The single dudes that focus on being masculine still end up single because their chasing approval from rapists like Andrew tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:44 AM
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Well a guy on Purplepilldebate debate for a start. Someone that always uses logic instead of emotions, someone that thinks dating is like a market and it’s just a numbers game he can’t win. All points to signs of someone highly autistic with no empathy for others and is generally awkward to be around
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:35 AM
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Kinda of, in the sense that some people prefer blondes. But again when guys have the attitude of anyone will do, it doesn’t make me think very highly of that person and how they treat others. It feels very transactional and selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:33 AM
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Right, I’m gonna be honest snd it’s not meant to be personal. But I would argue someone like this is not an average man but someone with a lot of obvious red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:25 AM
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No offence but this would be very offputting as a women. If anyone with a pulse and no obvious deformities is enough for you, your never going to really like the person for who they are, just a pretty face to add to your life instead of a partner you can build something with
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:21 AM
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Because they do, your average man and women are married or in ltr by the time their in their 30’s. You take a few years to realise what your compatible with and sifting through the undatables
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:16 AM
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And then when I go back outside and see all the average looking couples around me? Dude, erotica is fiction, same as porn. Adults are not basing their real life relationships based on twilight
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:12 AM
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Of course it would be, it’s brutal because people aren’t “settling” they only date people they want to date snd leaving the bad potential partners behind
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:05 AM
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Again though. Why do you believe that even some them do? That’s just putting your own agenda here and refusing to believe facts that don’t fit it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:04 AM
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Well it’s a no win situation for everyone then isn’t it? Except we’ll continue living happily with our partners whist you claim we’re lying snd no one will be happy unless their with a giant manly manly man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:41 AM
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We already do, but you never believe us, you claim we’re just lying about loving our average husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:28 AM
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How though? What men seem to think is the ultimate man certainly some women agree with but most women aren’t with a Henry cavill. The thor snd loki debate sums this up nicely, most men believe women will pick a guy like thor because he’s literally a very manly manly man, yet most women admit they prefer loki
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:25 AM
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My poor cousin is currently going through this. She lost her fiancé after he suddenly died of a heart attack at a running marathon. He was 28. They had bought a lovely house together and we’re supposed to get married in October this year but now his family are trying to force her through courts to sell the house so they can get 50% of the sale since they weren’t married before he passed. They argue this is what their due for his sake. Absolute scum bags because we all know he would have never ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:11 AM
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They always protect their own
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:31 PM
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Your actually right, because when a women married a man. Everything she owned now belonged to her husband. A prenup was invented so the woman’s family fortune was not lost to the marriage and if she had to divorce him she managed to keep her families assets
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:46 PM
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Exactly, but they think as long as it was agreed before the marriage date, it still counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:38 PM
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Of course you ask for a prenup, when you have assets to protect. But that’s rarely the case is it? Most of the time it’s guys wanting a prenup in order to reap the benefits of a marriage but ensure they gain everything incase she ever decides to leave . Regardless of what she brought to the marriage or how much unpaid labour she did
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:05 PM
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Monogamy is not supposed to be about the individual, it’s about society. Society creates couples to build reliable safe homes to raise kids together in. Men and women are supposed to pair up, reproduce and take care of their offspring and future leaders of the village. Human babies are literally the most vulnerable creatures on our planet and take years to grow before they are capable of looking after themselves, therefore it’s selfish when an individual that wants a family etc puts his own self…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 10:23 AM
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Most men don’t want virgin women because they don’t think of women as used goods in which the more sex she has the more spoiled she is. They see them as other people living their own lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:49 AM
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50/5 is best, *when both parents aren’t abusive and pull their weight
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:04 PM
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Because they are consistent and reliable, evict is what a child needs. Again, it’s about what’s best for the child
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:36 PM
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It’s not about you, it’s about what’s best for the kid
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:01 AM
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Women do more childcare, that’s facts not a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:03 AM
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Sometimes I feel sorry for guys here when they complain their single snd no one gives them a chance. Then I read stuff like this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:46 AM
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How many neural third parties are available to most families? Not enough Most of the time only 1 member of the couple is accused of abuse and there’s some evidence to back that up. Not only that, the child gets a string say in where they want to live. They can’t just go “he/she’s abusing the child” based on nothing without making themselves look unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:19 AM
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Dude, you should read your own sources. All of what you’ve linked just proves that when men go for joint or full custody, they usually get it. You just don’t like the term “win” None of these shows a bias against men from judges or women. Because women are 90% the primary carer, they usually get default custody to help protect the kids. That again is not a slight against dads as they can easily dispute that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:16 AM
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I’m not saying their not. Again, I’m saying you are already in a notorious environment for young people getting together. Maybe there’s another reason your struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:12 AM
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No because otherwise you are just spreading hateful shit against women without any evidence to show you are correct
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:11 AM
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So now your changing your numbers again. But again, they can adapt work to do more childcare. That is not the fault of women or judges
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:10 AM
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This is a YouTube my friend. It’s not numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:24 PM
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Shock. You don’t link real sources
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:21 PM
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No I’m pointing out that your literally in an environment where loads of young people are regularly fucking each other and there’s loads of petty drama always going round. Except for the older ones doing it to raise their pensions, or the weirdos who can’t get on well either others. And no, respect is earned, not given. You should have a job, you are an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:18 PM
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If you can’t seriously make 2 clicks to back up your own shite, why do you expect the rest of us to do so? (Unless you know it’s fake/lying/shite) It’s supposed to be 50:50 but if one parent isn’t capable or willing then it’s not going to be us it? ThTs not bias against men, that’s pointing out how lots of men don’t step up. It’s 50/50 unless stated otherwise, which unfortunately is common Allegations are exactly enough to protect the child, and yes, lots of men falsely accuse the mother of misc…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:12 PM
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You’ve just linked the Reddit comments. That is not a source. Yes you need to prove abuse, bit not at the expense of the child. you don’t put a child in danger just incase their lying. If there is no abuse the situation will resolve quickly, but you don’t risk the safety of the child. You are reflecting now. 80mph is fine for that part of the road. But it’s subjective to the driver
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:51 PM
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(No offence meant to any severs here I have done it fir years myself ) But this the kinda job teenagers do, it’s not a job that’s meant to be taken seriously. Work relationships are great, their casual, quick and everybody moves in quickly from the latest drama. That is just an excuse in your part
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:47 PM
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Yeah, do you own leg work and link it for us all to see. Otherwise it’s just flat earth shite. They are upholding because it’s a case by case bases. Allegations are enough to protect the child and this is also not a gender issue either. Your source also came from parent groups, not just women, so that’s just you trying to start a witch-hunt
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:44 PM
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It’s not dehumanising, if you had a good character, somebody would stick. You think your a good person, well a lot of women don’t agree, and the fact you feel entitled to complain about it afterwards backs that up too. Out of these 41 women you persuade, what have they all got in common? And it’s not that your a lesser person, it’s that your casting a net expecting to get a catch if you do it all the right way That’s not how people snd dating work. Women don’t want to be treated like a fish. Res…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:27 PM
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Lol and did you see how the debate about the tree ended? Men were offended again because women told men to pick the tree. The bear vs man debate is a metaphor, sometimes being alone with a bear is safer than with a man. “I’ve heard” isn’t evidence I agree, but it’s backed up by the fact that women are still the primary parents and how little men actually step up to parent after a divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:19 PM
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Still no links between I see 50/50 is the default unless proven otherwise, subject fir the child is the best possible way, you do not prioritise the child’s safety because one parent might get offended. If there is abuse, there will be paperwork involved, not to mention the child itself gets a say on where it lives. 80mph isn’t subjective, it’s about the driver
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:16 PM
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You have provided a single source, again “I’ve heard” isn’t good enough, back up your own ridiculous claims before this can go any further
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:13 PM
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“I’ve heard” Isn’t evidence. Back up your own claims with actual evidence and not just “trust me bro”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:42 PM
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I’d love to actually see that thread because I remember it and didn’t see anybody criticise the op wanting to be a stay at home dad with 50/50 Let’s all remember the default everywhere is 50/50, judges for by what’s best for the child. Lots of men just don’t like to admit that children are hard work and a full time job, they want someone else to raise their kids for them but don’t want to pay for it either. Of the 5 couples I know that divorced after kids, only 1 stepped up to have his child 50/…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:37 PM
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When men leave their jobs, it’s usually the result of bad performance or addictions. When women leave their jobs it’s to raise kids or care for relatives. This the usuall victim mentality with no accountability, and yes people assume between a predator and a victim that the man is the predator because unfortunately it is fact that men do commit more crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:07 AM
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I’d love to actually see that thread because I remember it and didn’t see anybody criticise the op wanting to be a stay at home dad with 50/50 Let’s all remember the default everywhere is 50/50, judges for by what’s best for the child. Lots of men just don’t like to admit that children are hard work and a full time job, they want someone else to raise their kids for them but don’t want to pay for it either. Of the 5 couples I know that divorced after kids, only 1 stepped up to have his child 50/…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:00 AM
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I believe she was hot dude, but (and I don’t mean to offend you either) it’s literally her job to talk to people, especially men that come in alone. She knows those tips on the other tables aren’t going anywhere so she can spend a bit more time in you. That being said, she gave you her number, congratulations. That does cross the processional line. So take the win, don’t leave it too late, send her a message that you really enjoyed her company and wonder if she’d like to join you for a drink tom…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:25 PM
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How come your not allowed?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:13 PM
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I’ll never understand why these guys think about aborted foetus wouldn’t just be the same as every other person who avoids them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:13 PM
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Dude, she was working and you were a customer clearly happy to pay more. This has nothing to do with pills
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:11 PM
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Almost definitely this was a build up and a straw that broke the camels back. Sorry this happened to you dude, hope everything’s worked out ok now
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:10 PM
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Yes… so am I. When you get rid of laws that oppress women, they don’t conform to traditional gender roles do they? Which strip fly suggests, this was never natural
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:09 PM
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Do people in the third world not date? And again no, it wouldn’t be a source about young men if it cherry picked where the data might come from. I would agree this is an attitude usually found in third world countries, but I’m not surprised it’s also in countries like the US. Women have been talking more about about the young men they encounter and this data matches up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:07 PM
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Yes I can and I did with my source. So no, it’s not because men are just more awkward, or not completely anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:02 PM
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That’s probably the jist of it, If men aren’t rewarded with a gf they act out like toddlers. They chain they’ll never be loved yet don’t do anything to make someone love them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:55 PM
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It also includes many first world counties, including the US
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:53 PM
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Exactly, women want partnerships where both partners work towards someone whereas a lot of men just want a gf for having sex with and don’t give a shit what she’s like as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:53 PM
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No, laws of the land meant women are literally dependent on the men around them and had to pick their partners based on income snd not for who they were
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:51 PM
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Historically, women didn’t have much choice in picking their partners so of course it was easier for men, even toxic ones. And no, more and more young men are becoming more toxic, violent and sexist. https://www.kcl.ac.uk/news/almost-a-third-of-gen-z-men-agree-a-wife-should-obey-her-husband Their lonely because they don’t want a partner, they want a bang maid, and their pissed off women aren’t going for it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:34 PM
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If it was natural then there would have been laws that oppressed women from jobs and money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:26 PM
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Trp is about male superiority over women. That’s why they push for gender roles as it gives women less power over her own life as a man will always be financially in control over her. They push for body count arguments because it shames women for having sex easily and not waiting until marriage which again means she needs to wait until a man offers commitment and it stops her viewing sex as something she should also enjoy. They believe men are natural leaders and women followers (again very conv…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:04 PM
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Nah, I think most men would rather not rape a women who’s only having sex with him due to a superpower. Most men would prefer a connection with their partners and know she’s choosing to be with him This is like that film obsession, she’s only with him because he wished it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 10:33 AM
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“Quote me! QUOTE ME” That is not a sign if someone here in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:53 PM
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For the 8th time When you said it was her responsibility for her own safety against his actions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:51 PM
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Blaming her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:47 PM
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Because you were dancing around it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:45 PM
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You didn’t. That’s why at the end all you could come up with was “quote me! QUTOE ME!”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:43 PM
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No, that’s called being good at debating, and shutting down the incels that try to goat you into their stupid ideals
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:36 PM
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I didn’t say you were wrong. I said you excuse abusers And then you walked into your own men are like thieves analogy Hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:30 PM
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You’ve lost mate, I can’t even take this remotely seriously anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:23 PM
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Caught you. You made an analogy about a thief snd a house break as a relationship, And didn’t even realise you painted men as dangerous because you believe thats just in their nature so women should prepare themselves by locking themselves away every night or they too accept some of the fault of the break in. And that’s it. You excuse men because you believe dangerous men are normal and it’s up to women to always take precautions against them Thanks for that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:22 PM
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(7th tone) By claiming she’s responsible for her own safety, you are blaming her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:17 PM
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You haven’t. You’ve excused the abuser over and over and desperate to claim she’s responsible for the abuse against her too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:16 PM
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Are men supposed to be dangerous? Are you comparing men to your average thief by claiming women should always be on guard around all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:16 PM
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(6th time now) We don’t wear seatbelts in relationships do we? People aren’t cars. Men aren’t supposed to be dangerous We know getting into a car can be dangerous. Getting into a relationship is not. You are blaming her for his actions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:14 PM
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Find it yourself, I’ve already had to repeat myself over and over already
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:11 PM
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It doesn’t. If your house got robbed every night as a pattern from something that couldn’t make decisions, you might have a claim. But it’s not. A locked door helps deflect a chancing robber, but that doesn’t mean the victim is at fault if they forget to lock the door
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:11 PM
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It doesn’t. The car itself didn’t go out it’s way to hurt you even though it caused the damage If you refuse to wear a seatbelt and drive stupidly and break your car, you are responsible If you are driving normally and someone else deliberately uses their car to hurt you, they are responsible You are trying to blame victims
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:08 PM
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(Fir the 5th time) When you said she’s the only one responsible for her own safety
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:06 PM
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People aren’t houses. Or cars
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:05 PM
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Is the car and adult human that can make the decision to hurt you or not? People aren’t objects, take some accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:05 PM
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A conclusion that we are accountable for our own actions and not those of others? Seems pretty logical. The illogical argument would be she’s somehow responsible for his actions again her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:04 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:02 PM
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It does. By claiming she’s responsible for her own safety you are saying she should accept blame if something else happens to her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:02 PM
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You said she’s responsible for her own safety
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:59 AM
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Great, so we both blame the abuser and agree she’s not responsible for this situation at all. We should always hold the abusers to account and never blame the victims Finally
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:59 AM
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She is not responsible for the situation, he is. Again, so you blame her?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:57 AM
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You answer mine, you blame her then? The victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:56 AM
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So you are blaming her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:56 AM
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So you blame her? Is this you admitting it now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:56 AM
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She is not in control though is she? She is not responsible for his actions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:53 AM
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Fir not removing herself from the situation. Instead of blaming him for his own actions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:52 AM
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No, you answer mine. Your desperate to blame the women in this situation for not magically knowing he was an abuser or not being able to get herself out the situation, yet you refuse to acknowledge she shouldn’t have been in it in the first place. You are excusing the abuser. Again
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:52 AM
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No. Because your still looking to the victim to blame her too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:50 AM
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Is hurting her done by herself or someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:48 AM
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If we started holding assholes accountable Nate as if blaming victims, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:47 AM
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Again, when you said she’s the only one responsible for her own safety
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:46 AM
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Better yet, hold assholes accountable and not waste everyone’s time and money
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:46 AM
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She’s only responsible for her own actions, she’s not responsible for his. By claiming it’s up to her to get herself out the situation you are excusing the man of creating it in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:40 AM
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But you went straight to he victim first Can’t possibly just hold men accountable for their own actions, got to ensure a women is dragged down with him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:38 AM
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He shouldn’t be. That’s bottom line and we shouldn’t blame the victims of abusive men by claiming they are somewhat responsible too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:37 AM
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Well it wasn’t since you’ve spent 2 days trying y to argue she should take some responsibility for it too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:33 AM
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If he’s not supposed to be a threat, she should not be even thinking about her safety because he’s a grown adult in charge of his own actions. If he starts to hurt her, he is wholly responsible for it and should be held accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:32 AM
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Yes, it is blame. Because you are looking at the victim to say what they should have done differently instead of holding the abuser accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:31 AM
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Why should she need saving? Why can’t you just hold the person accountable for their own actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:28 AM
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When you claim she’s responsible for her own safety against another adult. Who’s not supposed to be a threat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:28 AM
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And yet you blame her for not leaving
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:27 AM
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No, you are refusing to step back and realise what your doing. People are not supposed to be dangerous, he is not supposed to be a threat. By claiming she’s the only one responsible for her own actions, you are excusing this adult male of any accountability by claiming she should have just left
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:26 AM
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When you said she is responsible for her own safety, from another person
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:24 AM
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When you said she’s responsible for her own safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:22 AM
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You are trying to argue she’s the only one responsible for her own safety. And since he is the only threat to her, she’s somehow responsible for him too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:22 AM
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And there it is, he’s the dangerous one yet it’s still somehow her fault As per usual on this sub, full of incels that want to blame women for everything
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:21 AM
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There you go again, you excuse the abuser
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:19 AM
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If he is the danger to her, why are you trying to blame her for his actions by claiming she’s the only one responsible for her own safety
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:19 AM
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Because your trying to argue that she’s responsible for own safety If he is the danger, why is she responsible for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:16 AM
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I would argue being overly selective is always better as your more likely to find someone your more compatible with. Of course these things don’t always work out, there’s no guarantee of anything but your more likely to be happier and more likely to want to make the relationship work. It also means you don’t stick with bad potential partners because your more content at being single. It also helps avoid the male brigades that come out to tell women they should have chosen better when she’s more …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:16 AM
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We’re going round in circles now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:08 AM
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Again, she is not responsible for his actions, By trying to force this on the women, you are excusing the abuser
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:08 AM
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That’s hilarious, Ladies, don’t worry about actually liking the guy you’re with or vetting him, just pick a random guy and everything will be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:06 AM
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Men who hate women and believe in male superiority, they think women are evil
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 11:04 AM
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Because he can just pay for it or buy a blow up doll
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:46 AM
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You got your answer, there’s no ok in my continuing if your nothing but an incels view of women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:41 AM
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Doesn’t take that much physically strength to hold a gun or fly a drone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:10 AM
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With children yes, I think we can all agree that children should never be in a war. and many millions also choose to stay and help too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:04 AM
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Because women love their country too, I would have thought that was obvious. I love my husband but if anything happens we’re both going to war together. This is my country
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:54 AM
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Movies that show the world from a women’s side
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:30 AM
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No because you are trying to change the questions because you want the women to be responsible
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:26 AM
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Again, your desperate to put some responsibility on the women here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:25 AM
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No, you can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:24 AM
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Then there’s a common denominator here then isn’t there
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:24 AM
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You are, by implying the women has a responsibility to get herself out the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:33 PM
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That’s exactly what your trying to do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:32 PM
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Your trying to imply it’s the victims responsibility to get themselves out of a horrible situation instead of holding the abusers accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:32 PM
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Is this another “not all men” things?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:31 PM
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Your gfs actions against you are not your responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:29 PM
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Are these women in the room with us now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:29 PM
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Then your gf is an asshole, why do you have to make it about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:26 PM
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Because they are clearly a shallow person, it’s ok to call them a cunt but it’s honestly not worth the effort, ir height is something so important to them, they clearly have issues, don’t waste your time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:25 PM
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Dude you’ve just told us that your single. And you couldn’t make your longest relationship work. This isn’t personal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:23 PM
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No, because again there’s a difference between bitching about a gender and talking about your previous partners
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:22 PM
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Are you seriously comparing adult males to food? Their not. She is not responsible for others peoples actions against her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:51 PM
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To be fair, I’ve said it, I’m happy to admit that. But not against making the first move, it’s usually when Im doing something and my husband says “I should do his way” Whelp, now of course I won’t snd I will continue to do it my way until he disappears, then later when the kids ask why i didn’t just tell him that his way was better “im not giving him that satisfaction”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:29 PM
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Because they say “Women do this” as opposed to “my previous partners”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:43 PM
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But again, your trying to make up a situation where you can go “ah ha! So you should take some accountability” If people aren’t responsible for the actions of others, why are you desperate to ensure a women is somehow punished for a man’s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:43 PM
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But why would you want to even try pass such a shallow standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:38 PM
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Am I responsible for his behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:35 PM
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That’s because he’s complaining about quality of women for him to pick from as opposed to previous partners
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:33 PM
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There is no situation, this is just an example, and you’ve done what every guy does is look for a reason that she can be blamed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:03 PM
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Again you are adapting the situation so she’s an fault somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:03 PM
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Except he doesn’t have hordes of women telling him “to choose better”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:02 PM
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And now your changing the situation so it’s her fault
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:01 PM
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Exactly, and that’s why it’s high. You’d be surprised at the amount of people that hate cats
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:01 PM
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I would agree they have a low standard if height is such a major one for them, they’d be missing out on a lot of good guys. But then again, a good guy would see something shallow like that and avoid these women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:59 AM
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And if you don’t have the resources to leave, which most don’t, then your not Like I said, easier to pick the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:58 AM
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Wow, you guys always try to find a way to blame the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:56 AM
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Your straw-manning now But I’ll bite, I love cats, always had one. But when I met my bf he is unfortunately allergic to them. However, he still likes cats, he still strokes them when they come up to him, he still speaks to them, he even fed my cat. He just takes a tablet and washes his hands throughly when he’s been around them. I haven’t dropped my standards for a guy liking cats because he does and he proved to me he was responsible enough not to own one and take sensible precautions when arou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:52 AM
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I disagree, people with low standards (and usually low send esteem) don’t care anything about the person other than they’re good looking. They don’t care about anything deep, their that shallow it’s a matter if anyone will do
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:42 AM
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Exactly, but then they get angry when the placeholder has feelings too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:29 AM
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No, because the first thing your doing, is looking for a reason why his behaviour is her fault
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:21 AM
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And yet, most men can’t meet them. It’s not about loving pets, it’s about proving you are responsible to know if you can or can not look after another living creature
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:20 AM
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But again, if all you value is them being attractive, you’ll drop your compatibility. The standards each human has depends on the individual, but if you only low standards like looks then your saying you don’t really care if you and their person actually like each other or not
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:18 AM
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You need to remember your talking to people who’ve never been in relationships, and haven’t realised that couples dont just get together and stare at each other. I’d like to say it’s just naivety, but conversations with guys here are very much common that they don’t care anything about their potential gf, other than she’s thin and pretty. They dont give a shit what she’s like because they don’t see womens value as anything other than looks. She’s simply there for him to fuck and coddle when he w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:15 AM
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But if you didn’t have high standards, you’d be able to drop all these because the person is attractive. Compatibility doesn’t matter if all you value is looks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:03 AM
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Someone who makes process towards having a family by 30, by ensuring they have a god job snd only date people with a similar mindset. Someone who loves pets and animals but understands the responsibilities that comes with them. They have a pet and show the work that does into looking after it Someone who realises politics are important and how you vote (or don’t) will show what you value Someone with a wicked sense of humour but will always apologise when gone to far I think these are a few good…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:01 AM
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And if their going to get blamed for the other person behaviour then it’s just easier to pick the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:53 AM
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And there it is, “you choose him” never any accountability for the bad partner’s behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 09:51 AM
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Not really, It’s the difference between “I’m glad you were able to leave your abusive partner” “You picked him, you should reap what you sow”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 08:56 AM
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That hatred of women will always be challenged
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 06:58 AM
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This is the 3rd time you’ve mentioned emotions, I’m sorry if you get emotional over our debates but you shouldn’t take these things seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:01 PM
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“All it takes for evil to succeed is for good people to do nothing” Nope I will continue to challenge incels and their spread of hate against women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:00 PM
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More reflection, just a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:58 PM
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Then why are you even commenting, this is a waste of everyone’s time
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:18 PM
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But why? It’s a waste if money and resources. If your unsure you can individually get one, but doing it nationally is just about control
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:12 PM
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It is about controlling because rather than just believing the women you are doing a dna test in the kid. She can not be trusted as a human adult apparently. If the individual msn wants to check to ensure his linage, he can easily do so, why should the government pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:01 PM
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Exactly, good old misogyny, keeping women in a no win situation where he has complete control
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:58 PM
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Of course it’s about the women. Your only testing the man she claims is the father to see if he actually is. How is that not about control?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:56 PM
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Nope, this is actions have consequences However, I will ask because I’m curious of your response, why do you think government mandate tests wouldnt be about control over women, when the individual couple can easily get one?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:39 PM
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And there it is again, this is why your comments get removed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:11 PM
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You didn’t dude, you went straight to personal attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:03 PM
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In other words, you can’t argument them Thanks for that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:00 PM
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None of this has anything to do with paternity testing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:59 PM
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You’ve taken my words out of context And not even a single argument against my points
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:58 PM
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Sure go fir it, we’re not stopping you, but don’t be surprised if your ltp doesn’t want to stay with you afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:50 PM
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Oh yes, she gets such control looking after all theses kids, knowing that she’s likely to be abandoned with them. If it was government mandate, she arguably couldn’t get upset with her husband, because it wasn’t him doing it, it wasn’t personal He a man is suspicious he is more than welcome to get a test, but if he’s only getting one because he doesn’t trust females, he’s likely destroying the foundation of his relationship and it’s unlikely to continue. This is nothing about hating men, please …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:49 PM
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I didn’t mention the US. 30% in couples that were already unsure. does that make sense now?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:46 PM
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No it doesn’t, I’m fairly sure you understand how reproduction works yes? You need an egg and a sperm, therefore a man needed to be involved in the getting pregnant part. The carrying the foetus is on the women and whether she wants to put her body through that or not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:39 PM
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I’m not. Women are allowed to do what they want to their own bodies, the foetus has no rights till it’s born. Testing the dna of the kid once it’s born is a matter of trust between the couple, these are not remotely the same
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:34 PM
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Because men don’t get pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:32 PM
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No it was 30% in the only study that actually did this and it was with couples who were already unsure. Don’t lie
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:30 PM
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Cause it’s about control over women (always is) They could easily get one but then they’d have to face the real consequences of the wife then leaving him because she’s been hurt by his actions. They want it run by the government so the individual man doesn’t have to be responsible for his own actions but they also hope it’ll mean more women and kids are out starving on the streets because she cheated on a good guy Basically punishment for those slutty slutty sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:29 PM
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That’s a lie, half of parenting tests do not come back negative. The only study done showed that even in couples were unsure already about the father is was 30%
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:24 PM
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I would. The blatant lack of basic trust in me is enough to start the resentment, especially if was done so casually like this too. I’d move away, stay with family for a while and decide no, if the foundations of our relationship are that unsteady that he’s going to get a dna on his kids then we weren’t meant to be. If he had reason to dna like I’d cheated previously then fair enough, but testing his own kids because I’m a female and females can’t be trusted is not the mindset of a man I want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:22 PM
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In an not responsible for an another’s adults behaviour, you seem to think of you do everything right, everything will work out, People aren’t products that you can prepare for and even the ones that look good on paper or worked out a few times will change. You’ve got a very young persons head, I do hope things work out for you, but victim blaming will never get you far
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:25 AM
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You can’t literally have the same performance, it’s a quality of work, if a man got B then clearly the women did better than him at the test Your clearly making up stuff now, or bsck this up with actual education links that shows this Single women work more than men, hence why they are buying more houses So you also agree the decision was mostly made by a man? You are blaming feminists for your own shortcomings, you were given the sane opportunities but you’d rather pretend it’s caused women wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:15 AM
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A construction company in Eastern Europe? It was never going to have a lot of women working there in the first place was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:54 AM
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Because you are contradicting yourself You say you can do everything and hope the pendulum swings in the direction you want, but then also blame them if it doesn’t. You are putting people in a classic no win situation. Again it’s a very childish mindset because most adults understand people change, especially with time. Blaming them for not predicting the future is stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:54 AM
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Performance is what these decisions are based upon, not gender, so we can scrap that “discrimination” So you also weren’t denied any opportunities or classes, the girls were given better grades because they studied harder and performed better. That is also not discrimination Girls wee offered more changes to study? Again this is based on performance, not gender. Women do more unpaid work, if men stopped dumping kids and care work on female relatives, they’d be able to work more paid jobs. You ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:51 AM
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And destructive toddlers, constantly finding new ways to destroy your home, hurt themselves and sabotage anything your trying to do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:57 AM
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So we can agree that you can never predict these things? You can vet, you can study, but that doesn’t mean the outcome is what you want especially after a few years. You can put yourself in the best possible situation but that doesn’t always mean things work out. This is unfortunately what happened to the couples I know, these men were never lazy, had decent jobs and looked like good husbands, but they just didn’t step up when kids arrived and left everything to the mum
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:55 AM
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Question, was this a company that employed women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:21 AM
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Question, do you feel you were discriminated against because you were male or because the other person was better? How were you discriminated against at school? Were you not allowed opportunities or forbidden from certain classes? You pay the same taxes as others in your age and wage bracket, those taxes are their fir people who need them including yourself. Yes women end up using more taxes because they are often abandoned with kids, by men. And going to need to see evidence your entire male wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:20 AM
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Yeah on paper they can look great, but that doesn’t tell you how they react in emergencies or stressful situations. And even their closest friends and families will say “yeah he’ll be a great dad” because they like him and believe he’s step up but it’s fairly common they don’t, or they think just being “present” is enough. It’s a very childish mindset that believes if you just vet enough, everything will work out, that’s not how life works.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:14 AM
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How the hell are you supposed to know if he’s gonna act like a child before you had kids? Before kids, you only had yourselves to clean up from snd you weren’t interrupted a million times while trying to do so. If you both took time to game or watch tv for hours, it didn’t matter, because no one was dependent on you doing something for them. I know 5 couples that broke up after kids and it was the same story, dads just not stepping up to the new life that is parenthood. He might do the dishes if…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:32 AM
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They are not victims if they are lying
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:22 AM
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They would risk it if they knew they weren’t lying, it happens to women all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:01 AM
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They wouldn’t be scared if they know they’d be taken seriously, but if their lying that will come out too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:53 AM
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Erm, no. If you guys want women prosecuted for false accusations, then that goes both ways and this women is very much entitled to compensation. The greater good would be more rapists being locked up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:26 AM
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Because the amount of female abusers again at men is tiny, men are more likely to be raped by other men. You should be helping victims first and locking up abusers but be realistic with who they are
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:18 AM
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Now your just doing bad faith
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:48 AM
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Yes, snd the fact you deny this snd make up posts about men being victims is also very telling
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:56 AM
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No, that’s moving goalposts, you have a terrible problem of rape in India against women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:49 AM
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There’s always going to the odd case, I could find reports for today for rape against women, Can you link real reports (that weren’t just typed up in your bedroom) that show this plight against men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:49 AM
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My dude, if even 1% of what you are trying to claim we’re true, you’d be able to link all the details very easily and this would be in the news. It’s clear you want to be a victim of feminism, your not
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:46 AM
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You are reflecting domestic violence against successful women with child suicide, which is not what we’re talking about, that is you trying to steer the debate to your own agenda I get you don’t like the fact that lots of men are pos, and even when they are the primary parent, they go in to hurt their partners because you have a romantic idea about men, but facts are facts
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:43 AM
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But that doesn’t mean the page wasn’t just typed up, that’s why you link the entire studies and not just the bits you like
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:40 AM
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No, you have a terrible rape problem https://www.statista.com/statistics/632493/reported-rape-cases-india/?srsltid=AfmBOorx7k1qDr6bahR4E7wl3EOFfXpQ-tyv_PM17cGtQCMvyR_Hz7cR
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:38 AM
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You linked a page with no details as to where it came from, from all we know, that was typed up in an incels computer
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:31 AM
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How convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:24 AM
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No dude just link your own evidence or stop spreading shit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:24 AM
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Which also doesn’t say men can’t be victims, I will also point out this is from India, a country with extremely high rates of rapes against women and children. I can understand the priorities are to stop the thousands of male rapists first
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:23 AM
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Looks fine to me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:18 AM
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Yeah that’s one page of clearly a bigger document, where’s the details of where it came from, what it’s in reference too, etc there’s not even any dates in it You can’t copy/paste Cherry picked data to pretend your a victim
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:17 AM
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But if women aren’t the ones with the problems or complaining, why would they change?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:13 AM
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Where’s the rest if the document?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:12 AM
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There you go again, trying to reflect the debate. The fact is, when a women does better than a man, he starts to physically hurt her, let’s call these men and these facts out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:09 AM
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It’s not women complaining is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:07 AM
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I’ve linked it in my other comments, and no, women don’t initiate more domestic violence
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:53 AM
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Then maybes it’s up to the man to change himself instead of blaming women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:46 AM
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Women wouldn’t need these shelters if men didn’t start beating them for being successful
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:38 AM
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We’re not talking about single parents, we’re talking about the fact that when a women out earns her husband, her chances if him being violent towards her increases, don’t try to charge the subject because you don’t like it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 03:37 AM
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You clearly do if you have a problem with talking to women but not men. They act a certain way because a stranger is talking to them, why is that not obvious? Cold approaches are fine when done under the right circumstances and you pay attention to their body language
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:37 PM
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The dynamics of treating women different than you treat men are gross, Men and women are only different in the reproductive sense, that’s it. And the fact you highlight this is telling, and why you struggle. If their interest is the same as yours, thats what your commenting on, not the person. Most people are happy to talk about their passions, if your clearly making it about the person, they will pick up on that and won’t want to talk to you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 05:24 PM
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Maybe that’s something you need to work on, I do with everyone, it’s not about the other person, it’s about the t-shirt
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:49 PM
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That’s the kinda mindset that even older chubbier women are going to regret
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 04:19 PM
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It’s fairly simple actually, you don’t view them as “women” but as people, you don’t view any interactions with them as having a purpose or goal. If you see someone with a Star Wars t-shirt, you simply say “hey nice t-shirt” and leave it, but if she wants to talk to you, she’ll happily tell you where she got it etc and that’s when you can upgrade the conversation to something like, “what’s your fav film” “what did you think of phantom?” It’s only impossible if your stuck on overthinking what wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:18 PM
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It’s really not, but then again, your just gonna ignore facts you don’t like anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:42 PM
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Your changing the goalposts, in a third world country, women wouldn’t be allowed to work, let alone outearn her husband
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:31 PM
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No the complaint is that when women start out earning her husband, he’s more likely to start beating her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:13 PM
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So you’ve got a problem with wording? As opposed to facts?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:05 PM
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What’s the point in even being here if anything you don’t like, your just going to ignore
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:50 PM
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No, because it still highlights the increase in domestic violence against women when they start out earning them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:48 PM
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That’s still very young to be married
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:27 AM
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Because the men start physically beating them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:09 AM
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That’s because when a wife starts out earning her husband, the rate of domestic abuse against rises to 35% https://www.smh.com.au/politics/federal/when-women-earn-more-than-their-male-partners-domestic-violence-risk-goes-up-35-per-cent-20210329-p57ewb.html It’s only a jealous thing because the man feels emasculated and starts beating his wife
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:23 AM
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Because men still make more money than women, but it’s rare for women to just quit altogether, most cut down hours or find flexible work
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:19 AM
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The person who makes the most money (or loves their job) should be the breadwinner, but the other person should try to do part time work too That’s what most families do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:17 AM
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Some men are just so bitter and so hateful of women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:15 AM
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Gens are teenagers, of course their single
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:27 AM
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The 80/20 numbers are from a dating app 12 years ago When I go outside, I see plenty of couples and families. The world is fine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:42 AM
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Wow, and you wonder why some women say “not single enough”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:21 PM
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I love your honesty, and I completely agree. I didn’t sleep for 4 years, I gave up everything and I just am pretty much everyone’s carer. The difference between my life and my partners after kids is enormous, I remember I hated him because he could just leave the room whenever he wanted and didn’t have to ensure everyone and everything would be ok if he stepped out for a few minutes, but if I did the same, somebody would get hurt or something destroyed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:51 PM
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I don’t need to tolerate anything thank you. Men need to learn how to behave
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:45 PM
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I would argue this is not fair, or a bad faith answer, if your a sahm then your partner must be working full time to support you 3. You want to convince us he works full time but still comes home to look after the baby so you can go out with your friends? Somethings not adding up here Motherhood is better when you have a supporting partner, I don’t disagree there. But the difference between only looking after yourself and another adult is so much different when a baby is involved. To just say “y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:43 PM
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You asked the question snd got an honest answer back, it’s bath fairy if your just here to shame her for something lots if women go through
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:37 PM
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He was exactly minimising threats “You shouldn’t feel threatened, because that’s how I met my gf and we turned out great” Ok! I guess all those million of other times where some got raped and murdered they were just being overdramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:28 PM
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Still don’t believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:26 PM
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Yeah sure, cause guys here are having so much luck already
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:26 PM
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Ladies, please remember this is the response from guys on this sub. You were never sexually harassed, you were just being “pestered” Not lonely enough quite right
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:25 PM
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I didn’t say anything about Brad Pitt, your looking for reasons to make this your own agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:24 PM
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Itis their fault, they started a horrible hate campaign against women, but it’s still the individual man’s responsibility if he chooses to stick his head up their arse or not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:58 PM
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Was I supposed to back into a corner and start crying? No dude, he had well past the point of just asking a few questions, when you start following someone round a building, you have an agenda This is again absolutely arrogance from guys here that even when presented with evidence, it’s not the guys fault or responsibility. If I started crying or got security, I’m a bitch who got an innocent man done for just being friendly, if I ran back to my car and locked it, I’m being dramatic, Can’t win, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:56 PM
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I wouldn’t agree with that either, arrogance has turned me off what I thought was an attractive guy. There’s a difference between being confident in yourself, and happy to exploit others as long as it suits you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:53 PM
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I blame the individual, take some personal responsibility for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:46 PM
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I already did explain how my shopping story, and no, I don’t think he was a respectable man, I was alone, 21 and he was clearly 10 years older than me and didn’t take my obvious hint that I was trying to shop alone. You and I also disagree what we think about average respectful men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:46 PM
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Right, walking someone out to their car and looking like they might jump on is “pestering” yes? The thing is, has this guy jumped in, pulled out a weapon and me, you’d all be saying it was my fault for not screaming blue murder when he first started following me in the shop
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:38 PM
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That just sounds like sheer arrogance to ignore womens concerns because you want sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:36 PM
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If that worked for you, then great But that doesn’t dismiss what happened to me or what happens to lots of women What you’ve just done is minimal a common threat to lots of women by saying “well it worked for me”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:35 PM
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I disagree that arrogance means success, i personally find it disgusting. If it works for you then hey, but I doubt it works the majority of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:33 PM
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I’ve been cornered in a grocery store. The guy asked for help finding the bags to put individual fruit into, I pointed them out to him and said “have a good one” He ignored the bags and started following me, asking me what I was buying, how often I come etc I was polite but I was trying to make it clear I just finished work and just wanted to get my things n go, he wouldn’t take the hint and followed me round the whole ship including when I paid (he started talking at me about his life) and foll…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:27 PM
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Sorry op but I don’t believe in your 26 years of life, you never met another female
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:21 PM
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Of course the “where” you approach is important, some places we don’t want to be and we don’t want to talk and others it’s fine to make casual conversation, that’s a very arrogant mindset, people don’t owe you your time just because they left the house And incels do approach, their generally pretty rude and end up calling you slurs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:20 PM
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At social events, it’s ok to approach strangers and try make conversation, but if your going to force yourself into her time and demand her attention, of course she’s going to tell you she busy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:17 PM
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The problem is where are you approaching women and are you paying attention to the response? Approaching someone in the gym or whist shopping is rude, their busy. Approaching someone in a social setting like a bar or a social event is fine, but pay attention to her busy language, she might be interested but it’s likely she’s just being nice, especially if you are a stranger. And I disagree, respectful men still approach but their better at it snd more subtle than your standard incel who glares a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:04 PM
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You just said on your post that your no longer single, so it can’t just be the girls can it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:48 PM
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I would agree that if a man could prove he did everything possible to avoid an unwanted pregnancy, he has a vasectomy, he uses regular birth control that can be backed up with doctor’s records and he has written confirmation, texts emails etc from the women he’s seeing that they do not wish to have kids, then yes, he should be able to opt out if any financial ties to the women and the child But we all know that would be too much personal responsibility for a man to take, instead it’s easier to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:00 PM
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Wonderful, happy to meet a redpill man that’s the exception
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:04 AM
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Ok so you respect that some women choose the bear then even if you don’t agree with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:49 AM
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What a lovely mindset, at least your honest Although this does make sense why most redpill men are single
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:48 AM
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Exactly, good old misogyny, the only people you’ll take seriously is other men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:45 AM
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Exactly you try to manipulate them into doing what you want because you don’t respect their choices, but if they were men doing the same thing, you’d respect that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:44 AM
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I disagree, redpill doesn’t take women as people seriously or respects womens choices. They don’t see them as “the enemy” or even their adversaries, they see him as less than men and unable to look after themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:03 AM
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When you literally restrict women with laws about how they have to depend on men for money, of course they need a high status man, but again, hypergamy has been irrelevant since women finally started getting equal rights
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:33 AM
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Hypergamy has been irrelevant since Victorian times, now that women are in control of their own monies, they don’t need to marry to do so. Women and men are equal (at least in the west) this is why it’s about superiority over women, you guys don’t think women should have any pick of their own partners
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 06:00 AM
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Trp is about male superiority over women, every single redpillers including women all argue fir men to control women (they call it leading) because they believe women are incapable of looking after themselves When we all know it’s actually the other way round but keeping women dependent on men through law means an easier like fir most men Edit I seem to be having technical issues as I know someone’s trying to comment but it won’t let me see it or respond, but no grown adult should be led
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:32 AM
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Because they were not the same question, it’s fairly simple
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:20 PM
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My comments are a response to the questions asked, what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:16 PM
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I mean, If the shoe fits?.?.?.?.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:54 PM
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From my experience of men on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:50 PM
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Good fir you? But the argument of who’s a 6 snd who’s a 9 is a matter of opinion And women know, guys say shit like this all the time, but when presented they always go fir the hotter women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:32 PM
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No, I’m being realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:36 PM
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As long as she’s hot, fixed that for you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:36 PM
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No most men like confidence too, and the guys here are backing up that no response is no response, if she’s not actively getting back to you and meeting you half way (which requires confidence) then don’t bother I think I guys gave this romantic idea that they’ll pick any girl even the shy ones, but shy girls know this is shite, if she’s not hot she’s invisible, and if she’s not bubbly she’s a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:09 PM
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Well I’ve had that too and unfortunately these manipulators are good at knowing the right words to say to stop you leaving, also we’re all going n stupid at one point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:06 PM
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He would be seen as normal at least, depending on how well he can carry conversations will determine how much confidence people think he has
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:04 PM
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How is women paying for themselves saying that men are not decent? I didn’t twist it, I spelt it out for you, just because you don’t like being held accountable for your own actions, doesn’t mean I’m a troll You have twisted my words, she/he is an idiot if their being told they will unlikely get s relationship but they keep trying But they are being manipulated if the other person isn’t honest and tells them what they want to hear so they can keep exploiting them This isn’t a gender thing, you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:49 PM
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Not really, confidence has always been something everyone likes, not just romantically either. Somebody that can start a conversation with a stranger, speak their mind, stand up for themselves, all desirable traits and we all have variations of it with different people and different circumstances It’ll only be a disadvantage for men that never leave their bedrooms or talk to real women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:45 PM
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Most women do pay for themselves (your lack of knowing this is telling) You were trying to buy her affection, instead of listening to what she said, you decided to ignore it and starting hoping she’d change her mind after all the gifts and outings you took her own If the guy is telling her he doesn’t want a relationship with her but she keeps sleeping with him then she’s an idiot, if he’s telling her what she wants to hear so he can keep sleeping with her then he’s a bad guy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:42 PM
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Well he is, nobody in any kind of relationship should be paying for everything, you were either trying to buy her affections or your lying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:31 PM
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I notice you didn’t answer my question So either, she did pay for herself or she paid her part towards it, or (more likely) your lying because you like to make up stories about evil women Notice how I never mentioned money when I let guys down nicely, but you already have your own agenda so you’ll pretend it is to keep your own narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:40 PM
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Did she ever pay for meals/drinks etc? If not you completely were an idiot. She didn’t take advantage of your feelings, she took advantage of your stupidity. But most of the time when girls say this it’s so they don’t hurt your feelings, lord knows I’ve done it loads of time. It’s not taking advantage of because you genuinely don’t want to hurt them, but they either ignore what you say and keep hanging about, or they hope you’ll change your mind. Either way, they don’t respect what you tell them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:25 PM
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I don’t doubt there are some women that do this, but honestly what’s the benefits of stringing along somebody you don’t really like? It’s awkward at best
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:19 PM
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Is it taking advantage though if she believes he’s her friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:56 PM
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But that’s not her taking advantage of him, that’s him ignoring what she’s telling him because he has his own agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:53 PM
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I’ve heard a line for a poem recently that seems to fit a lot of guys narrative about women “You wanted a women, You got a soul And you were disappointed”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:41 PM
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No I would argue that’s either a really selfish creep who’s ignoring her blatant “go away” and hoping if he grates her down enough he’ll get sex eventually, or a really really pathetic guy that hopes of he follows her around, she’ll change her mind Either way, not a healthy adult
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:39 PM
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I don’t blame them, at that age, your everyone’s carer, you don’t get your peace back till after the parents have died and the kids have moved out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:28 AM
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Did he give you permission to be online talking to strange men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:21 AM
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Is be curious to see the response other than just “females” are here to service men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:53 AM
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Majority of women here are in king term relationships Why wouldn’t be posting here? We like to debate, all it rages for evil to succeed is for good people to do nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:55 PM
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Exactly, this notion that only a wife or gf will help you, and it doesn’t matter who the girl is or anything about her because she as a person doesn’t matter, just that she’s there for you Fortunately my boy already understands women are people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:05 PM
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What a lovely view you have of people. That’s exactly what I’m ensuring he doesn’t end up like that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:00 PM
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Exactly, that’s why I like to stay on top of it I don’t want my son to end up an entitled selfish little dick Maybe the young people here should listen to the people already happily married, and they’d have more luck, dating apps didn’t change courtship that much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:48 PM
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Not quite yet, fun hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:38 PM
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Lol same with me too, but my work is only part time so I get a few days off here n there which I like to clean the house and wind up incels
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:34 PM
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It does, I know using as hominem is in poor taste in a proper debate, that’s why I used it under the auto bod, the place used exactly for them I would have thought that was obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:25 PM
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Opinions are neither wrong or right
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:24 PM
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That’s a matter of opinion though eh? And they’ll be times when someone can be on social media for a while and others when they can’t,
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:45 AM
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Ok? Each to their own but that doesn’t mean that when people get into relationships they stop using social media
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:31 AM
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It doesn’t change my question
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:29 AM
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That’s why I did it under the auto bod
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:28 AM
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I’m not dude I’m married I like talking shit on Reddit and poking holes in incels arguments while the kids are at school
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:28 AM
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Ok, don’t believe me, but the majority are. And yes, lots of people are on social media throughout the day, it’s a good way to stay up to date with friends and share funny stories
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 11:18 AM
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I disagree, that’s why lots of guys here like to bite back, they know the majority of women in this sub are in happy ltr and they hate it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:53 AM
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Yeah I wasn’t worried dude
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:29 AM
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If you can’t answer my points and instead call it “derailing” then you have shown you are either not a good debater and this is just a rant to spread your shite about women, or you’ve lost. Have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:28 AM
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I didn’t mean you personally, I mean if a guy struggles to even get 1 women, he’s going to really struggle to get hordes after him
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:17 AM
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I like to debate, and this sub in particular keeps me ahead of incel and redpill arguments, but I’m not the one blaming an entire gender because I can’t get a date
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:15 AM
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Yeah good luck with that, but if your struggling to even get one women to begin with, it’s can’t see it working out well for you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:14 AM
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If “socially” you are not doing well, is it not better to try something else instead of blaming everyone else, or is that too much effort for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:13 AM
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But if your not having any success then maybe dating apps aren’t for you? Maybe instead if blaming women you could try meet them the old fashioned way?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:53 AM
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A bunch of loser men are going to opt out of dating and leave women alone? Oh no!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:51 AM
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Come on now, he wants women to be begging men like him to keep dating and promise they’ll give him lots of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:50 AM
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Women are not as shallow as men or objectify everyone around them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:46 AM
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My experiences with men in dating apps have not been great, full of cheap men looking for cheap quick results, I’m not looking fir vast amounts of men I can fuck asap, I’m looking for someone decent, and I’m not going to find him on a dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:07 AM
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No it doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:45 PM
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No. Your making a spreadsheet to hurt her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:51 PM
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Yeah there’s definitely an element of this, men want to force women to always do 50/50, which most women are happy to do, but it won’t make you stand out from other men. but a man that wants to treat a women in an attempt to woo her is usually attacked by other men because they hate the though of doing anything nice to women and don’t think women should ever get special treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:28 AM
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Women making their own money doesn’t make men poorer, bills are mostly spilt and most women are happy to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:25 AM
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Nope it actually is majority from other men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:19 AM
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Men paying was only the norm because women couldn’t control their own monies. If a man took her out he had to pay for it as she literally had none of her own money because it was all Owned by her father
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:19 AM
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I didn’t push anything, I’m pointing out most women are happy to split the bill, (although I will add it’s stupid to go out for a meal with someone you barely know) again, your looking for reasons to complain, we all know most guys here haven’t been forced to pay 100% for a 3 course fine dining experience with someone they just met, most guys here have never been in a date, yet they bitterly complain about taking a women out for a coffee
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 11:03 AM
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Why can’t you guys ever take accountability? The op literally listed sources that most women are happy to go 50/50 and even redpill women who seek traditional relationships are happy to go 50/50 at the start. Your looking for reasons to complain
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:58 AM
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Firstly your assuming he did treat his wife nicely, but it’s fairly obvious if he decided to start a spreadsheet of all the times/reasons he didn’t get sex, he’s being spiteful rather than talking to his wife or trying to do something different to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:35 AM
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No, if he actually treated his wife nicely snd did the odd romantic gesture, she might be up for sex, making a spreadsheet to shame her is going to have the opposite effect
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:08 AM
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It is coincidental circumstances, your not always in the mood are you? And someone pestering you every day makes you dry up even more. This is been made a weapon against her and honestly if this was his attitude, no wonder she was never in the mood, he needs to take accountability for his actions here and realise he drove his wife away
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 04:35 AM
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How it is accountability if she’s being made to feel guilty about her choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:09 PM
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If Jenny was a boy, there would be no chance he’s let the new kid with clear learning difficulties sit next to him on the bus. And as a child of incest rape, yeah unfortunately men and women go off the rails in different ways, if they weren’t looking for new ways to hurt themselves, they end up hurting those around them. It’s likely they would have avoided each other. If forest was a girl, she wouldn’t have been allowed to join football which set up his life and career. She wouldn’t been allowed…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:06 AM
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The reason is irrelevant, if your using her “no” as a way to make her feel bad, it’s a weapon
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:19 AM
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It’s not excuses, she doesn’t want to have sex, you shouldn’t be using that as a weapon, that’s a form of rape
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:46 PM
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No that’s punishment, deliberately designed to shame her for all the times she wasn’t up for it. Snd yes, that’s probably what would have happened because that’s generally what happens in ltr sometimes, he doesn’t need to document it to hurt her. If he doesn’t like the lack of sex, he can neither do better as a partner, or move on
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:19 PM
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I would too, it’s a lack of care or support to your partner. It’s one thing to joke about these things together but if this is actually have you refer to each other, it’s horrible. And it implies when they are no longer useful for their said duty, you’ll drop them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:03 PM
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That’s why you have an abortion before it’s born, it doesn’t have any rights until it’s born
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:36 PM
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You keep saying “structurally” disadvantage, but you don’t explain how, there is nothing stopping h you from dating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:59 PM
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That’s not what I asked How do you feel you are being discriminated against?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:56 PM
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It’s not, you want empathy? But you don’t want to give it, and if you don’t get what you want your going to lash out I notice your avoiding every question that actually asks you how you are discriminated against
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:58 AM
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Again, how are you being discriminated against? Are you restricted from using dating apps or going to socialise with people? There is no structure that’s stopping you from doing any of this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:46 AM
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Voting for parties that that actively say they’ll start looking at woman’s rights with politicians that outwardly say they think women should be restricted
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:44 AM
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That’s what you mean though? I’ve had this conversations with guys here all the time, “We’re just lonely guys that just want some empathy and for people to realise we’re in pain from the laws of society, but at the same time, we can’t be blamed for lashing out either violently or threw politics against people (women) because we weren’t picked and we didn’t get empathy”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:58 AM
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You want to be coddled by people you actively say you’ll happily vote away their basic human rights if they don’t date you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:35 AM
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Feminism just means women don’t need to be stuck with shitty men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:25 AM
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When it’s almost everyone you meet there a common denominator here then isn’t there? Take some personal responsibility and look at yourself, what makes you a good partner and why someone want you as a partner? Pity parties are not attractive Edit to your edit, yes of course people should vet in what’s important to them and yes if you believe in hateful bs then your going to be judged for that, that’s not discriminatory, that’s women choosing better
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:14 AM
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Politics are important to a lot of people and this is to show your partner has similar values to you to get compatibility. I don’t understand why guys say women shouldn’t vet like this but then tell her she should have chosen better You can’t have it both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:12 AM
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It’s never the man’s fault is it? Realistically, we know she’s unlikely to be dating 40 of the exact same guy, it’s likely 4-5 different men, but you’ll still always blame her fir the relationship ending
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:09 AM
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I have to ask, what inequalities are you actually talking about? You can date whoever you want, the only rule being they have to want to date you too. That’s literally it. I am exhausted by entitled men complaining because they don’t have hordes of horny women throwing themselves at him. Yes, relationships and families are a privilege that you work for, they are not a basic need
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:06 AM
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Called out? She needs data to be punished fir refusing him?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:20 AM
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This reminds me of the guy who made a spreadsheet for every time and reason why his wife wouldn’t have sex with him over a year 🤢🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 04:01 PM
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No, it’s because they say they are bi, but they just have not accepted they are actually just gay and are standing to experiment I know 3 guys that went through this, I had a relationship with 1 of them but it was clear I wasn’t what he wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:59 PM
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An average if 1 out of 3 young men believe women should be obeying their husbands. That tells us a lot about how entitled and selfish young men are
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:15 AM
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Someone ranting because they don’t like facts against men does not mean it isn’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:41 PM
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It also includes western countries like the US. That’s telling
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:40 PM
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Yes they do, they have access to weapons, poisons etc they can easily hurt men if they choose to do so, but they don’t. And no, intimate partner violence is still 90% men over women or prove me otherwise with links
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 07:40 PM
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I have said nothing but facts, not sexism, it’s telling when men try to paint that view because they don’t like negative facts that don’t paint them in a good light. Women are less violent. That is a fact. They have the capability, they have the opportunity, they have the motive, and yet it’s only a tiny minority that actually do any violence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:59 PM
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Unless you can link it, I’ve never seen women believe they are superior to men that wasn’t obvious rage bait. There’s literally places around the world where women are not allowed outside
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:34 PM
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I seen 6 women had acids thrown in their face today. Theirs female murderers I don’t deny that, but those are also personal and in an individual level (not excusing it) bit still nothing compared to the way men murder innocents
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:30 PM
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Yeah there’s always individual cases (and more so with men too) But there’s never been a big case of a women seeking revenge by hurting lots of innocent people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:29 PM
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1/3 is still a lot of young men At that point, it’s up to the individual man to show he’s different
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:25 PM
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You can declare yourself all you want, These were other sexist pos’s that decided to call him king because he murdered a bunch of people. Women have wronged people, I won’t deny that, but misogyny is about believing in male superiority over women, which we see very clearly on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:24 PM
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No they haven’t. Incel used to mean involuntary celibate when it was founded by a women as a self help group. But when Elliot Rodger murdered 7 people because women wouldn’t throw themselves at him, he was declared “king of the incels” and the term took on a whole new meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:16 PM
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And yet, there’s never been a female shootER, wanting to punish men for not fucking her, or women throwing acid in mens faces, or women injecting random men at festivals with needles
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:14 PM
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If there weren’t incel or misogynistic, nobody would care
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:10 PM
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With facts like this https://www.kcl.ac.uk/news/almost-a-third-of-gen-z-men-agree-a-wife-should-obey-her-husband
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:08 PM
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Is this the Indian janitor guy again?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:57 PM
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No thank you, I think of sex as love making and wish to keep it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:19 PM
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No, that’s the wealthy women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:23 PM
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Let’s be honest, they want to be the leaders because they want to be in charge, but they don’t want to do any work. They want someone to raise their kids, pay half the bills and keep the home tidy but they want them to come ask permission to buy a $3 coffee or go out with friends
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:23 PM
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Nobody but men is pushing for the traditional relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:35 PM
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But women don’t want to do these roles anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:28 PM
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Well the argument from trp, is that women are supposed to be the followers, be friendly, agreeable, light and ready to welcome the men home, meet his hard man attitude with a feminine nature. It’s very hard to be feminine, sweet and light when your cleaning up after everyone and fighting off kids. But if he’s doing 80% of chores then she’s got more time to pamper and make herself pretty. Can’t have it both ways guys
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:02 AM
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Gonna need some links to actually probe this refers just to women because most of these countries are about men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:22 PM
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I would argue the average man is not a man that’s on PPD. These men are 99% autistic but without the intelligence to try to blend in and try to continuously argue about “fairness” . Also they stupidly believe too much from porn and think everyone but them is having infamous amount of casual sex, this is not real life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:22 PM
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I would really love to know where any culture celebrates girls getting their period. I can’t think of any that do but I can think of many that see it as an act of shame
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:18 PM
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I didn’t say it was awful, but I’m still saying being along with cats, wine and books sounds like fucking bliss
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:38 AM
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I know, we’ve been together almost 20 years Those are the standards I had whilst single and it suited me fine. That being said, of course ltr are work, but this notion that women will only be happy being someone’s wife and mother needs to die. There are many times I am very jealous of single cat ladies, mainly because they are not everyone’s carer and can put themselves first, that’s not something I can often do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:11 AM
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Well I’m not having any problems so I’m quite happy with my red flags and I would recommend most women do the same Lots of guys will use these as an excuse but then still blame you for not choosing better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:04 AM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:02 AM
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Spoken truly like an incel There’s a reason why more n more women are content being single
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:01 AM
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No I say that as a married women with a husband and kids, Being alone with cats in a tidy organised house with an unspoiled garden sounds like fucking bliss You guys have a romantic idea of what life as a wife and mother is actually like
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:18 AM
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Don’t threaten me with a good time, sounds like fucking bliss Pass the wine, get the books out and cuddle up with a cat
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:09 AM
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The incel sub was removed due to the glorification of violence and rape
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:03 AM
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She wasn’t a lesbian at the time, she only realised she was gay later in life. But thanks for confirming my point, women can be so lonely too they start self help groups to help themselves. Guys just go on shooting sprees
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:02 AM
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Why should they? If their content being single until the meet Prince Charming, so what? It’s your choice whether you want to improve yourself enough to become Prince Charming, or make peace with who you are
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:01 AM
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And these are the excuses they will use too And even better, when he does end up using me for sex or as a bang maid or doesn’t work or clean up after himself, guys will say it’s my fault for not vetting probably. It’s called learning dude, I’m the kinda person who only dates for a ltr, so I’m looking out for red flags like this early on so I’m not wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:59 AM
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And these men do, good men are in relationships This is why these men are finding themselves more and more single, not many women are letting men treat them like shit so more n more men are complaining their lonely or women standards are too high. You guys have this fantasy that their are chads out there fucking left right n centre, the reality is less and less people are having sex snd women are becoming more content at being single
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:55 AM
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Don’t you think that that’s exactly what women want in a partner too?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:51 AM
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It might interest you to know that the original incel group was founded by a women. Of course women can be just as lonely as men, being used fir sex by someone who doesn’t particularly like or care fir you has the same appeal to a man who pays for a prostitute or a gf experience. It’s fake, it’s not exactly enjoyable and it’s still lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:47 AM
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Yes this. It’s clear these questions are not done in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:08 PM
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No, it’s called lying
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:50 PM
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they don’t believe they are lying or that they are pos, they argue they do want a serious relationship they just don’t when or with whom, but they know they want sex and a gf experience right now so anyone will do and they’ll deal with the outcomes later
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:47 PM
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Because they have your way of thinking that it’s all about looks, and they believe they are just your normal average guy who wants a relationship. But like anything, it always depends on the situation. We could agree we want the same things snd start dating, once they have the safety net of feelings for each other, they don’t expect you to drop it because they’ve stopped cleaning or because he’s started gaming more
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:36 PM
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Nobody is saying some women aren’t lonely, the original incel group was founded by a women But you all have a romantic idea about average lonely single men, if it was simple as picking a man up while your doing your shopping, we wouldn’t have any problems. But a lot if these men are horrible. He just wants sex - not for me He doesn’t want to work -not compatible He’s addicted to gaming - not for me He wants to see other women - I’m one women kinda person He believes in trp - absolutely not He wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:16 PM
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There is some, but the majority of rape against men, is from other men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:34 AM
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But their not doing that either unless it’s to protect women or children That case guys like to pretend was evil feminists shutting down a shelter for men, was people shutting down a base for sex offenders next to a school. But oh yes, feminism is evil
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:52 AM
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Feminists don’t do any of this. Most of what you claim is against men is made up shite. There is nothing stopping a man from getting a dna test (he just has to do it and pay for it himself) Prison sentences are done by individual cases (and men don’t like to admit that men commit more crimes) Their are already shelters for men (unfortunately most of the men in these places also struggle with addictions and don’t help themselves) There are only 2 countries in the world where women have equalish r…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 07:30 AM
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Yup. She’d be a total “pick me” until one of them sexually assaults her and the rest blame her for it too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:59 PM
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I do think there are a lot of incels, particularly among younger men. And these are certainly not average men. Misogyny is more common than we’d like to think, but it’s not as simple as men hating women, it’s simply that a lot of people believe women to be somehow incapable of making decisions or looking after themselves. Women included. I’ve recently had a debate with a guy who believed he wasn’t sexist because he didn’t outwardly “hate” women, but he later admitted he did agree that women shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:58 PM
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I think Erica would get an absolute shock about how being treated like a women actually is in some places and realise the no, women are certainly not on easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:47 PM
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Any proof of what your on about? Or do you just want to believe it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:44 PM
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I wouldn’t call it magic, they’ll be in the same groups already, probably same churches and have the same algorithms together too. Makes sense. Most misogynistic men are single, hence the incels
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:30 PM
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Whist I hate to admit it, there are also misogynistic women out there who also preach that women shouldn’t have rights (irony I know) Look the Wilson’s, their both misogynistic assholes that can’t practice what they preach but together their happy in their hatred of women So the majority of women do avoid these men, but there’s always someone (usually with mental health problems) that puts up with it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:21 PM
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It’s not common in normal adult conversations, but in redpill incel as manosphere places it is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 05:55 PM
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You are not wrong, and yes this is how most adults think and act. But I will back up op because I have seen this more than once from guys here. My interpretation is, men have to work (although we all have to work) and they build up their careers usually getting to their 50’s when their still arguably “young” but they’ve now got money, status, influence and “power” All women have to offer a relationship is her youth and beauty, so she peaks at 18/19. So. In a “fair” (autistic incel) world, this i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:15 PM
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Not everything is about American politics
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:08 AM
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They don’t want to, that’s what your not getting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:19 PM
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Well that’s what most women are talking about Like I said, nobody cares when it’s just 2 adults and the house isn’t gleaming, it’s when only 1 person is keeping the house liveable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:29 PM
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Why do Americans always make everything about themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:32 PM
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I did, you want to men to threaten women with removal of basic rights if women don’t start solving mens problems? Basic start letting me rape you willingly or we’ll vote that we can do it legally. Cause there no other “rule” or “problem” that is affecting men by women having the same rights
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:27 PM
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This is similar to what the other guy is saying. You want women to care about mens problems because otherwise men will threaten against womens basic human rights? Maybe I think better of men than you, (or maybe the other guy is just more honest) but most men don’t view not being able to rape or control women as a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:22 PM
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This sounds like a fantasy on your part, even if they do vote in to restrict womens rights, they are still going to find themselves lonelier than ever. This is movements like 4b is happening. If you think voting to restrict peoples basic human rights is going to help, you are literally shouting yourself in the foot. Turkeys voting for Christmas
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:14 PM
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Who are you talking about???
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:02 PM
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They will continue to be alone as the majority of people don’t wish to go back to being cave men and women or restrict women. If they get voted in, people will leave or rebel. Nobody will actively choose to be around them. You seem to have this fantasy that these men who live in their mums basements are somehow going to get themselves organised
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:47 PM
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Exactly, really showing how much of a good guy they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:43 PM
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No dude that’s seriously what it’s about It’s like racism, you don’t necessarily have any negative feelings of anger or hate towards black peoples but you believe you are above them, more important, they are lesser than you and not really capable of looking after themselves without you or another you, guiding them. Slavery wasn’t that bad, maybe not the beatings but people were in the right order. Misogyny is the same, except it’s against women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:38 PM
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I have told you over and over. These are adult men making a decision, if they choose to hurt others, they will be held accountable. It’s as simple as that. They are adults. Telling others we need to care about them because otherwise they’ll eventually hurt you just shows these people should already by locked up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:32 PM
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Yes sure. They push for traditional and leadership roles, which we all know means the women is doing all the housework and childcare because that’s her “role” and he only has to do 40 hours a week at a job
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:29 PM
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Again, if he got redpilled we would have divorced instantly. Let’s not pretend redpill men are the partner type husbands here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:25 PM
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“Until it’s too late” Your acting like these men don’t have a choice, that’s why I keep bringing it up. They are not walls, they are people. If they choose to hurt others they will face the consequences of that, and if you tell the others “well you should have seen it coming” you are dismissing the deliberate actions the individuals chose to do. You are excusing bad behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:24 PM
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That doesn’t sound healthy either He got therapy for a few issues which helped his way of looking at the world and our relationship dynamic changed a lot. Had he got redpilled we would have divorced instantly, he needed to better at getting involved rather than trying to be traditional which is what started hurting us
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:03 PM
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No it doesn’t, it’s about superiority
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:57 AM
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I know, it did work for me. Been married 12 years to a guy whom when I met, (although roughly knew him already) by pretending to be from a very popular girls film making me and all my friends laugh and then asked if he could tag along with us, he was awkward but it was sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:57 AM
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Again though, these men aren’t objects, you hold them accountable for their own actions. You don’t make excuses or comparisons as if they aren’t making a consensus decision themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:53 AM
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I almost left my husband when our daughter was 5 months old because he wasn’t just unhelpful but he’d make stupid comments and didn’t understand that he needed to take over sometimes. He got therapy and he did get better, when our second baby got here if was so different and it was wonderful. I hope yours got better too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:52 AM
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No this is misogyny dude
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:48 AM
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That’s called excuses, these are adult men capable of making their own decisions, not cars. Gold then accountable for their own actions Snd no, there plenty of none racist sexist scumbags that believe women are humans and deserve equal rights
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:32 AM
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It is misogyny mate, it’s not about hate, it’s about believing males are superior to females. Women are only here for men to use etc and you’ve highlighted it against by claiming a women not wanting to have sex with a man is somehow a threat to him And what exactly is the trade here? Why can’t women just live their lives alone? Why is that a threat to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:29 AM
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This, I almost punched by Bil in the face after they brought their baby home after a c-section and he expected her to bring the baby and all their bags out the car Then complained later that he’d have to go get the shopping in because she still wasn’t allowed to drive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:25 AM
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Please link the science to prove this before any of us can take this post seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:23 AM
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Yeah in which case they are highlighting that they are just racist sexist scumbags
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:22 AM
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Why? If they want to hurt people because they can’t use them, they’ll end up in jail
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:18 AM
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They threaten men with no sex and leaving then alone? Are you serious? Are women just supposed to be here for men to allow them to live so men can rape them? (Thanks for the blatant misogyny here btw. Guys deny it all the time but your quite happy to admit this is how they wish it was)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:18 AM
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Yes, people are different and not everyone likes awkwardness and even in a social setting of the guy is acting like a weirdo it’s not going to work for him is it? You need to learn to read the room and social ques I had a guy I thought was just socially awkward but kinda cute so thought we could have a drink together and see how it goes. About 20 seconds in he starts telling me he sometimes gets the red mist and he doesn’t remember what happened snd one time he hurt someone. Ok, that’s enough to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:15 AM
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Being loved probably would help these men, but at what cost? If your having to take away someone’s basic rights to force them to be dependent on you, you are essentially a kidnapper. We need to stop pretending these men “in pain” Are all decent men who haven’t been given a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:11 AM
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No one’s saying we don’t care about mens problems, if you look at mens mental health and suicide charities, they are run by female volunteers. The movember moment is run by women. The only “problems” I see is men complaining they can’t rape women and then claim they want empathy for it “or they’ll threaten your basic human rights” -quality guys right there
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:09 AM
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Women aren’t threatening mens basic human rights because they can’t control them, so no, women are not the selfish ones here And no, it’s not a negotiation, women don’t want anything from men, they want to live their own lives without being discriminated against Men want sex and relationships? So do women, and that’s what we have now, you can date and fuck who you want with the only rule being they have to want to date and fuck your too, that’s it, and that’s why men are threatening womens right…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:06 AM
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I’m after a relationship with someone I can have s family with and grow old with, I want that person to be kind yes. Kindness is shown through actions not words, and it’s something that will be reflected in his personality as we get to know each other. If he’s interrupting me as a stranger when I’m clearly busy then he’s already showing me he’s not kind but selfish, he thinks it’s ok to distract me without any other reason than he wants to talk to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:02 AM
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This is where I think we can’t take these men seriously. You assume a man alone is in pain, only having a romantic partner will solve all his problems. There is never any reflection about why this man is alone and why it’s women who are supposed to live their lives to accommodate themselves men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:52 AM
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You know their are lots of places already like that? And their usually run by female volunteers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:47 AM
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Because It shows the outright audacity and selfishness of modern men. Women expected to solve mens problems or men will use scrap whatever they have to take away woman’s basic human rights. And then when you ask about mens problems it always comes back to men not being able to rape women You keep telling us your good guys and then you say stuff like that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:46 AM
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Because it depends where we are and how we know each other already
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:42 AM
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I mean if we’re in a social setting and he’s trying to make conversation and he’s fumbling around a bit I don’t mind, it’s quirky. But if he’s a complete stranger and I’m clearly trying to do something and he’s asking me outright stupid questions just to keep my attention it’s awkwardness to the point it’s rude
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:41 AM
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We don’t mind awkwardness when it’s clear the guy is only trying to be nice. Unfortunately that’s not often the case
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:19 AM
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Because …….. no sex
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:03 AM
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Almost definitely. This sub is getting ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:14 AM
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Hypergamy has been irrelevant since Victorian times. When you go outside and see people, there are mixed groups of couples n family’s everywhere. This redpill “idea” is clearly from sub men off the internet that want to raise hatred against women by pretending “hypergamy” is actually happening, poor men etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:13 AM
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You know in business deals when one partner wants a long term partnership, they want to “gift” the other person more to get the deal because they know long term it’s worth it? Relationships are kind like that for men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:16 PM
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Except women are financially doing more doing 50/50 but men aren’t doing the same in regards to unpaid domestic work and childcare
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:58 PM
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Well seriously, that is amazing and you have a great positive attitude which helps so much and you are absolutely right that girls live a goofball. Not often I agree with guys here but I definitely do here. I wish you well
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:43 PM
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Firstly, that’s amazing you did that. At the same time, that’s what we all should be doing. I appreciate it’s harder for others, especially when autism is involved and yes it seems to be a main factor. But lots of guys seem to use this as an excuse to be bitter and hateful towards women instead of doing what you did. I think there’s an element of intelligence involved here. Those that learn to adapt will thrive, those than don’t, won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:45 PM
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Then do as women do, and take some personal responsibility for yourself. Don’t date someone who expects a 3 course dinner, honestly, it’s not hard
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:32 PM
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What’s divorce got to do with looking after your own kid? The courts favour the kid, and the primary parent who looks after them. Of the only 7% of fathers that go for joint or full custody, 70% are awarded it. If men actually parented their own kid, they would be the ones staying in the family home and probably wouldn’t be getting divorced in the first place. Boohoo a man is supposed to prioritise his kids over himself, that’s called being a parent. It’s telling that men expect everyone includi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:30 PM
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But bitching about womens basic human rights is not going to help them. I used to have a ton of sympathy for anyone that struggled to date but after hearing some stuff from the manosphere, the sympathy is long gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:22 PM
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I wasn’t making this personal dude. I know most guys don’t have this problem at all. You can’t deny there are some men on this very sub that are outright furious about women having any sort of control over their own lives and expected to put any kind of effort to get a girl to life you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:48 PM
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It’s hard for guys who never talk to women and just endlessly bitch in the internet about how a women has never come to his mums basement and offered to take him out for a 3 course dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:38 PM
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I feel like this post could easily be solved by watching “the break up” Both partners work, she comes home, cleans the house and gets a big dinner ready for a dinner party with friends. He was asked to do 1 thing and fucked it up. Before friends arrive she asks him to help which he ignores because he needs to relax. The friends arrive, they all eat have s nice time, but once the friends leaves, he again abandons her to play video games leaving her to clean the kitchen/dishes. They fight because …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:17 PM
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More fathers abandon their kids than mothers. So yes, to much responsibility for them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:09 PM
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This exactly, and that’s why resentment builds. “I’ll do the dishes later” is fine when it’s just 2 adults that can take care of themselves and nobody cares if the kitchen is a mess. But at 2am when you need clean bottles ready for a night feed you need to ensure there’s bottles ready and when it’s only 1 person doing the childcare this is not fair to dump even more stress and work on the person that’s doing a major part of parenting because you can’t be bothered doing some dishes. If you want y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:05 PM
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How are men protecting women? They are literally the biggest threat to them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:11 PM
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Well apparently not, when given the choice to live in a feminist world where they don’t have to obey, the majority choose not too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:21 PM
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If you want to actually read the thread it came from, the other dude called the husband a safety net, so my question was why would a women marry a safety net. It’s the implication that women only marry to exploit someone, that’s what I’m questioning
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:20 PM
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No I didn’t. The main difference now is women can choose their husbands and have the freedom to leave if the relationship doesn’t suit then any longer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:47 PM
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Yes, snd that’s why I answered it with it’s weird you think women only marry a guy out of desperation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:46 PM
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Redpill is about male superiority over women, so yes this is the kind of relationship they want. That’s why they hate anything that gives women control over their own lives because they think a man should always be in charge of her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:46 PM
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Ok, but that’s a really weird opinion to have about human adults
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:43 PM
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Yes, because she gets to choose him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:41 PM
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How are they drowning? Looking at the world, women are more stable than men these days
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:41 PM
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Women “I’m going to date guys, watch out for red flags and hopefully find someone I’m compatible with Men “you hoe” Women “ok, I’ll do as my grandmother did and marry the first guy that asks me out, hopefully he won’t beat me or cheat on me” Men “if he does it’s your fault for not vetting him probably” Seriously can not win, no wonder women pick the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:39 PM
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So you just want to lord over this person and have them take care of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:35 PM
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Yup, and we always wear them abroad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:52 AM
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The tartan army has arrived
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:21 AM
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No it doesn’t, it’s just a hateful view of people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 03:26 PM
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You’ve pulled that figure out your arse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:41 PM
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I don’t mean this to sound offensive but I’m guessing your single right? There’s this romantic notion that you never want to spend a minute apart, but in reality you both enjoy doing separate things away from each other every now n then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:36 PM
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I thought we weren’t talking about a specific person? It would be reflected on their dating history, that doesn’t mean other things made them incompatible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:24 PM
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Nothing, you carry on with life and hope it does happen for you one day
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:23 PM
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Loved ones definitely help, but when your “on” all day, it’s normal to crave a bit of peace
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:23 PM
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When you’ve been at a demanding job all day, you come home and now have to start the second shift of dealing with kids, housework etc you do want to spend some quality time with your partner but you also want a few hours of nobody talking to you, not having to think of others snd just do your own thing for a bit without interruption. Between jobs snd family, your time is limited and sometimes you want that time for yourself. There’s not much more to it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:47 PM
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I’m a women, I’ve done it, so therefore it does sometimes happen Therefore your theory if it never happening goes out the window
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:43 PM
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I’m sure everyone would prefer to finish first but if you don’t physically meet your person until later on in life, you can’t complain they dated before they met you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:42 PM
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No I’m sting your ignoring anything that doesn’t fit your own agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:33 PM
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But people are not nets, Do you honestly believe these women have no real love for their partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:58 PM
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So your choosing not believe it? That’s telling
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:57 PM
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Why would anyone marry a safety net?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:29 PM
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And there are good men dating women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:28 PM
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I’ll be honest and say I don’t like bald men, I would swipe on you. But I also don’t do dating apps. However if we met through mutual grounds and you were funny and we had a lot in common then attraction can grow and the baldness wouldn’t be an issue. The offputting thing is, when your clearly bitter towards women already and the baldness is just another excuse to be a horrible person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:27 PM
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What matters? She choose her husband that says everything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:21 PM
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Again, sure dude. He’s not talking bollocks at all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:21 PM
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None of what you wrote was fact. Those are called opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:20 PM
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But it has happened to lots of men and lots of women are telling you they’ve done it too. Your choosing to ignore them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:04 PM
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It really didn’t. It just shows how delusional you guys are
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:03 PM
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What does it matter? She choose her husband
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:03 PM
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Why? That doesn’t change redpill view on women, if it’s just about getting sex from women, their not men most people want anything to do with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:02 PM
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That’s great, but that’s why I’m asking you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:01 PM
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I’m asking you why so many women are married to decent guys that are loyal etc if they also didn’t find him attractive in some way too?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:39 AM
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Ok, he’s still single though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:36 AM
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If your going to assume everyone’s lying because it hasn’t happened to you, that’s telling more if your Own personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:35 AM
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Not really, that’s why more women are content at being single
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:34 AM
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Nothing you’ve said changed what I wrote. These men are not as good as they think they are
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:34 AM
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Then why would so many women be married if they didn’t find their partners loyal etc and attractive? Or do you just never believe women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:33 AM
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Or you’ve got them on a pedestal and can’t see the realities
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:09 AM
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Most women do. You are quoting figures from a dating app 11 years ago. There’s a reason why we all keep telling you to go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:07 AM
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No, they are not nice people, and the blame it on being sexually undesirable or socially awkward. Or the my start claiming “well women date bad boys!” Yeah those are not nice traits, they don’t take personal responsibility, have main character syndrome and everything is always someone else’s fault
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:06 AM
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“High quality” yeah there’s the phase the manosphere uses all the time. A high quality man, is not a guy that sleeps around, women don’t want to date sluts with 3 baby mammas either
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:04 AM
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But the majority of people are married, doesn’t this then mean that the majority of women prefer these beliefs then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:03 AM
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Sure dude. I bet he tells you that as well
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:02 AM
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Sometimes they do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:01 AM
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If you have a horrible view of lots of people, your not really a good person are you? And others are t going to want to be around you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:56 AM
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Yeah that’s a person who can’t maintain a relationship and will always be perpetually single
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:54 AM
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It depends on the people and how things change with lifestyle, children for example
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:54 AM
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And again, it’s delusional, if you think someone that wants commitment is going for someone that’s sleeps around, you are being delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:53 AM
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Not really. People aren’t products, they grow and change and adapt. You can’t presume the future
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:37 AM
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“He mostly dates” That is a person who is perpetually single because they don’t have maturity to maintain an adult relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:37 AM
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You’ve just said he’s single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:25 AM
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No that’s called being unsuccessful. Thinking everything will work out well in the future is delusional. If your not actively working towards what you want, it’s childish to believe it’s going to magically work out for you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:25 AM
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Yes, they have a horrible view of women. Ironically they think their nice guys, just not sexually attractive to most women. the reality is, their horrible men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:23 AM
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No. You misunderstood, these men you believe are nice guys, are usually not. There’s a reason why nobody dates them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:21 AM
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He can’t be that successful if he’s still single though can he? It’s one thing to say I’ll settle when I’m ready, we all know nobody wants to settle for someone like him
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:40 AM
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Nah, those guys aren’t as good as you want to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:39 AM
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This really shows a horrible view of women from redpill men. What about couples in long term relationships, married etc, how do you think they managed to make it work all those years?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 08:37 AM
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How is anything I said about hating men? Calling someone out for shitty behaviour is not a discrimination
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:40 PM
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I was hoping someone would have the link. It doesn’t matter what women wear, men still rape women wearing full burkas to nappies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:14 PM
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Do you just try to label any slight anything you don’t like or agree with as misandry?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:13 PM
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No, it’s not cope, it’s fake. You can’t do a scientific study on human behaviour in such a tiny window. (And the fact they didn’t do it on men either) This is clearly fake written by incels on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:00 PM
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The test lasted only 5 hours. That is not a scientific study to show testosterone makes a difference to someone’s personality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:51 PM
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If this is happening in all your relationships then there’s a common denominator here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:41 PM
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No that’s fact. There are a lot more shitty men out there than ones that believe in a duty to their family
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:31 PM
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If he had a valid reason to doubt me, like previous cheating or we had only been together a few weeks then yeah, no problem. If he needs proof just because I’m female (and he can’t trust me) then there’s no point in continuing this relationship. The trust gone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:30 PM
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If you know im not cheating, why are you asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:16 PM
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You think a lot if men believe in duty, that is a romantic notion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:14 PM
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Assuming your partner will always cheat because she’s female then you shouldn’t be in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:06 PM
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No. You just need to stop this romantic view of men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 03:05 PM
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So your family is supposed to be involved in your sex life? It is normal for teenagers to fall in love and start dating. What you don’t do is be bias against women for mens shitty actions against them and pretend it’s because she was being promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:27 PM
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It’s not about the kids, it’s about a women potentially having power over a man by secretly lying to him about the kids being his or not. They are obsessed with not having completely control over women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:22 PM
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How is that a problem? You’ve got to have your first at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:20 PM
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He accused his wife of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:19 PM
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Sure dude I totally believe you. Of course you can link this study to back yourself up. Otherwise we all know this is just a misogynistic rant
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:18 PM
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She didn’t destroy the family, he did by not trusting his partner. Why can’t men take accountability for their own actions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:53 PM
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More men will be held accountable for their own actions. You can see it with Jeffrey snd Andrew, everyone’s quick to try shut them up and disassociate with them incase their own history’s get brought up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:48 PM
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Given that false accusations are less than 3% and 99% of rapists don’t spend a night in jail, no. The system is already designed for men to still have power over women And fun fact for you too, At that special time of the month, the main hormone released by the body, is testosterone. So women are acting more like men do on a daily basis. Women should be in more powerful roles, they are more likely to think of the greater good and what’s best for the majority rather than just making their billion…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:47 PM
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No there wouldn’t be, she’d most likely be casted out as “damaged goods”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:39 PM
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Of course they are, their usually tour firsts for everything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:09 PM
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Of course they are, teenagers aren’t the ones out doing casual
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:59 AM
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If you actually want to follow the thread, you’ll see he never actually answered
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:57 AM
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It’s always telling when guys assume you weren’t serious with a guy or it wasn’t long term. They don’t like to acknowledge that men in relationships still treat their partners bad sometimes. They’d rather pretend it’s because you were just being used by Chad so it was partly your fault
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:44 AM
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Or because you never actually got the test
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:11 PM
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Well clearly not since you asked her for proof. You can admire her, I doubt she feels the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:04 AM
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No thank you, I am not a doormat had my husband asked me that I wouldn’t have stopped him but the resentment would grow snd doors would start closing on our relationship and then eventual divorce. I’d prefer not to treat my partner like an insecure child
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:32 AM
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It’s not misandrist to point how accusing someone of cheating is offensive I would the say “well you don’t trust me then”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:20 AM
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You know how sex works yes? You need a man and a women to grow a baby, if you don’t think your the man that got her pregnant then your accusing her of cheating This is absolutely so telling when guys start trying to hurl insults when they’ve been caught out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:24 AM
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No, if he’s going to accuse his long term partner if cheating with no evidence then he needs to understand actions have consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:47 AM
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If you need a dna test because you have concerns your partner has cheated or because she became pregnant very quickly no one will judge you. If your going to demand a test off your wife 10+ years simply because “she’s female” your An arsehole that shouldn’t be in a relationship and your wife will almost definitely leave you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:24 AM
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Of course there is Your being accused of cheating simply because your female.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 05:20 AM
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It’s not dude, even trying to meet you half way your coming across as delusional. Everything is the suit if feminists even though it’s men that came up with these laws and even when women couldn’t vote/work it’s still must be the fault of women? Come on dude we both know your just trolling and spreading hateful shit now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:10 AM
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Right, now your just being desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:56 AM
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Far to long to read
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 04:08 PM
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Ok I’ll meet you half way dude. Say your studies are right, and men snd oppressed /discriminated against. It wasn’t done or forced by feminists groups was it? It was other men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:01 PM
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More men in jobs means less work for women, why are men special? You are allowed to do casual sex yes? You just personally suck at it. You don’t need to do tradition at all, you do what suits you. You don’t restrict others basic rights so it makes life easier for you. The world isn’t here for you. Live your own life without impacting others
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:32 AM
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They want them to exist but just like they want women to exist, as sex slaves for them to pick and choose from. It’s that silly thing called human rights that keeps getting in the way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:28 AM
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No because that takes choice away from women. You can choose how you live your own life but you can’t dictate to other people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:26 AM
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That’s up to her, people are weird. The bottom line is you don’t make their choices about you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:19 AM
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(Sign again then) Feminism is about equality for women. Having the same rights, choices and freedoms as men. That’s it. Apart from ensuring their people get treated respectfully snd equality, they are not the same. One could argue LGBTQ groups ally more with feminism and feminists groups because mens groups actively hate them along with women. “Enemy of my enemy is my friend”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:18 AM
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“Accepts his place” This is where it’s never going to work, women want to be with someone that makes her happy. Guys just want a gf, don’t care about her as a person just that he has one. Women are content to stay single until they meet the right person
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:12 AM
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Those are bias studies, hence the sub you cherry picked them from. You have your head in the sand from hatred
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:11 AM
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Your version snd my version of top and bottom and very different
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 08:10 AM
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It’s not a game
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:28 AM
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From a bias sub, this is called cherry picking
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:15 AM
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That pick who they want yes, the men they want to be with, no number you try to allocate to them is relevant. Would it not be more productive to try to become the kinda man a women wants to be with rather than trying to play numbers games which nobody will stick too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:09 AM
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Have you got anything that’s not a bias rant? Maybe like actual facts?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 07:07 AM
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Not protected because they got stuck looking after the kids, the elderly snd the disabled. I know given the choice what most people would prefer They do not get worse grades for being male, that is ridiculous, they get the same opportunities, that is fair If your unhappy with your counties laws then write to your government, but don’t blame feminists for something men do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:36 AM
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It’s only becoming harder for young men because these men are becoming more n more entitled and selfish. You own comment kinda highlights that, women can date who they want because their not forced to be with men for survival anymore, and you imply that it’s a problem because women sometimes make poor choices. Of course they do, so do men, we’re all human. But you don’t force people into a system against their freewill
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:23 AM
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I knew you were sorry. And yes your right, it’s already fair in the sense of we can all date who we want, these guys just seem pissed of that their expected to make some effort
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:19 AM
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The thing is, they could line themselves up and have everyone number them and they could try in do it back too. Nobody’s gonna stick to it, it’s like their trying to force dating to be “fair” when it already is, but it’s based on feelings and emotions, not autistic logic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:45 AM
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That’s very shallow, what if the guy in his 40’s is rich and hilarious and the guy with a nice chin is a junkie? What about people who don’t use dating apps and again, why should anyone accept this? Call anyone with an ounce of self respect s number and they’ll tell you where to go and carry on with life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:43 AM
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I would argue many men believe they are the prize or they believe they are average enough that an average women should be giving him a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:24 AM
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Who gets to decide what number the person should be allocated, and why should the person accept it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:22 AM
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No it proves misogyny, that they felt women were incapable of even belong in a war. And no again, boys n girls get the same opportunities And again, Finland is only one of 2 countries that have equal rights but a male only draft. You also have been in a war fir 80 years
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 05:13 AM
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But none of those decisions came from a women (or prove me wrong) they came from other men. Both boys n girls getting an education and girls doing better is not an oppression against boys. They get they same opportunities. When did women in Finland get the vote? And when was the last time Finland was in a war?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:57 PM
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Yeah dude, that’s called cherry picking, or care to explain how any of that is that oppressing men? I asked fir laws, links or facts that show how women are privileged, women doing better with their own lives, isn’t at the expense of men or prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:35 PM
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As a women, I also know no one is coming to save me, and I learned that the hard way too. I have happily given up my seat to the elderly and disabled, (never been the case for a pregnant women yet) and I would do the same again. But as someone who’s been pregnant more than once and travelled with young children, I am happy to report the only people giving up their seat was other(usually older) women. Men and in particular young men, are isolating themselves from society. Whist it used to be a se…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:06 PM
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Right. That’s just more personal rants too. Again there’s only 2 countries in the world where women have equalish rights, but there’s a male only draft. So again, what privilege are you talking about? Because there’s places in the world who are literally not allowed to show their faces in public. As a man, how has feminism actually hurt or offended you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:57 PM
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Congratulations, you are part of one of the only 2 countries in the world that have a male only draft and women have equalish rights. But it wasn’t feminists that came up with that law was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:42 PM
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Ok, I’ll meet you half way, can you link any sources, facts or laws, about why you think women are privileged. Quoting feminism doesn’t change anything, men have been made equal with women it was the other way round
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:46 PM
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I think it’s safe to say you have an agenda here, and whatever I tell you you’ll just say it’s wrong. I do hope you read the following and at least consider that your views maybe wrong and perhaps you don’t realise you are spreading hate https://nationalwomenshistoryalliance.org/history-of-the-womens-rights-movement/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 03:05 PM
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No it’s true in the west as well, women couldn’t get bank accounts as late until 1980’s, they couldn’t buy property without a man’s permission, they were discriminated against if they got married and had kids, that’s why they had to bring in the equality act. How you never spoke to an older women and asked her what was life like for women? History books would back this up too Edit, fun fact for you too, the handmaidens tale is all based on facts that used to happen to women, she didn’t make any …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:41 PM
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And how/why do you believe women has it easier? You know women were considered property until recently?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:42 PM
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But not for being male though have they? If men didn’t have equal rights, I’d support equality. But they do, more so than women in lots of places around the world
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:18 AM
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It is not egalitarian because being “male” has never been oppressed, so no, it’s feminism and it’s not evil unless you hate the thought of women having equal rights
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:11 AM
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Most long term relationships are
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:37 AM
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Of course, but if you want it to be a long term thing, birthdays, etc might involve you buying the occasional gift
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:35 AM
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Feminism is about equal rights., choices and freedoms for women. That’s it. Not many people apart from a few incels agree it’s a good thing that half the population should have their basic rights removed. And not one single source about evil feminists, never is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:24 AM
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Lying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:53 PM
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It can do yes, especially if your using false promises
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:43 PM
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If your lie is going to hurt others, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:35 PM
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It’s not, although this mindset does explain why so many men abandon their sick wives. If she’s no longer useful, even for a short time, better to abandon her and try get a new one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:12 PM
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Let’s not make things personal. If you have to lie to get something, your scum
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:10 PM
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Great. But if you do, you are
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:19 AM
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But if you have to lie to have sex with them, you are using manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:14 AM
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If your lying to some to use them, it’s manipulating them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:08 AM
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It is. Your only telling her that so she’ll have sex with you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:01 AM
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It is. Your telling them something untrue to get what you want out of them. It’s manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:47 AM
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Yes, it’s called lying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:40 AM
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Young men that are in the dating age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:40 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:23 AM
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Guys are always different between women and other men, especially when their alone. I went to school with a guy that always seemed off and a bit weird to me as a women, but all the guys thought he was great, and told me I needed to give him a chance. I just avoided him personally. He went on to rape 2 kids and now he’s in jail, the amount of people (particularly guys) that said “we never seen it coming, he was a great guy” No he wasn’t, you just seen what you wanted too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:34 AM
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And you can link these threads fir us all to see yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:25 AM
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Exactly, you can’t trust any men, therefore it’s better to pick the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:45 AM
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Misogyny is about power over women, superiority, not hatred. It is a belief that men somehow know what’s best for an individual women, not herself. Men who don’t have misogyny, understand that women are people, some of them will be horrible and all of them will make mistakes. Just like men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:25 PM
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Mens issues are usually solved with common facts. That’s why they resort to personal insults and “what if”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:20 PM
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But it is a “glory” when he is the only one recognised fir it and it’s his name that gets the money and his name in the news. She might get paid but it won’t be half as much as him
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:32 PM
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No, the only difference is a childish squabble snd a rape
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:21 PM
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How? The situations are completely different
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:19 AM
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I would argue it’s the worst part, because whilst I don’t expect to be raped etc, I do expect when I go for help or expect justice for what’s been done against me, I won’t be blame or held accountable for the actions done to me. Think of it like if you got burgled, it’s a horrible thing done against you that you want justice for. But your home insurance are now refusing to pay because you only had 3 locks on your door and you shouldn’t have had an expense tv or jewels in your house so they won’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:35 AM
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It’s not based on emotions, it’s based on facts. This is what many women have gone through and even guys here point out she should take some responsibility for being raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:07 AM
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Ok, here’s a break down for you for womens basic rights around the world and when they started to get the same rights as men https://www.sbs.ox.ac.uk/oxford-experience/blogs/rudina-suti/womens-influence-leadership-through-history And that’s another male response, personal attacks. You couldn’t steer the debate into your own agenda, you didn’t like the facts that male led countries and companies exploit those underneath them, you want to keep your romantic daydream that men are superior (your own…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:00 AM
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It is wild isn’t it? But unfortunately true. How often have rape victims been told “well you had red panties on, clearly you were asking fir it” being hurt by a bear is of course horrible, but then being told it was somehow your fault is even worse
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:55 AM
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I didn’t make any claims about the American presidency. I pointed out that women weren’t even allowed a higher education until recently, you tried to steer the debate to suit your own agenda. So look up your own numbers. Yes a typical male response, he doesn’t like the fscts given him so pretends everyone is emotional. We are humans, we are emotional (at least we’re supposed to be) logic men that make decisions are called psychopaths, because they disregard everyone round them and use people. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:41 AM
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It’s not just physically violence from their intimate partners. It’s when strange men tell them “well you chose him” It’s a sign from men that’s it’s not just the odd bad one that she unfortunately ended up with, it’s that a lot of men will blame her for mens actions against her. Whatever he does it’ll somehow be her fault. That’s why it’s easier to pick the bear, it’s most likely going to leave you alone and the other bears aren’t going to blame you if it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:12 AM
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Another job where the man gets the glory snd the women is running the logistics to make it actually happen. How convenient. Nobody asked your opinion, that’s the point. You may think you are simply offering an opinion, yet you fail to acknowledge this opinion has been traditionally forced into women for years. When given equality, women are not choosing this lifestyle, and single men need to stop pushing it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:08 AM
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And rapes kids
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:13 AM
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The bible was written by men, of course it says whatever suits men. Just like every single religion. Men are human, and will fuck up. Some more so than others. To put the responsibility of 2 adults on a already insecure head because “he’s the man” is ludicrous. This is why mens mental health is horrendous. Please don’t tell others what they should or shouldn’t feel. Deep down their is a desire not to be treated like a child or a pet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:13 AM
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No it doesn’t, it shows women are more likely to get help than men and less likely commit suicide. Look up your own stats. Women couldn’t even get their own bank accounts until the 1980’s. What your asking me is a person opinion, if I had to pick a few I’d say New Zealand, Scotland and Germany did fair during the pandemic, the Uk, America were typically masculine and waited until the last minute then had to do knee jerk reactions. My point is, there is nothing biological that shows men are bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:07 AM
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You’ve heard of the man vs bear debate yes? The women that picked the bear did so because their previous experiences with men showed them they couldn’t trust men and would actively choose a bear over being alone with a strange man. And then men that got angry about this proved her point that using caution and boundaries around strange men means they’ll going to take it personally and lash out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:43 AM
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Women do want partners, not leaders, we’re not Labradors
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:38 AM
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Looking at mens mental health and suicide, this doesn’t add up. Anger a strong emotion that most men can’t control themselves with and lash out. The only reason men have been leaders previously is because they made it law that women couldn’t. If we were to take the most recent covid pandemic, the countries with a female leader did better in regards to death snd keeping the economies running as oppose to male leaders
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:36 AM
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Because it’s fun
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:21 PM
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If he’s avoiding the social areas then it’s kinda his own fault
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:48 PM
1

Ok. Peace
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:37 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:36 PM
1

Ok, we weren’t asking you personally
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:33 PM
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Yes, and that’s why not many people agree with it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:05 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:05 PM
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Involuntary celibate, founded by a women in the 90’s, taken over by male superiority groups that idolise killers like Elliot Rodger and jake Davidson. Yeah that’s plenty. 2 guys is more than 2, (and the others not on this thread) thus proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:27 PM
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He hasn’t, hence why it’s being thoroughly debunked. If you can’t see the point then maybe this is not for you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:23 PM
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It’s not that important to most men, even other men are telling you this now. And yes, it is only from incels who hav me this obsession with sex and getting it. Most adults see it as a fun activity to do together rather than a demand or need. I wasn’t making things personally. Only to those with that mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:20 PM
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Yeah and that comes down to the person and what it’s worth. Your gf of 6 months doesn’t want sex anymore compared to your wife with young kids that can’t get a minute to shower. There is a difference and it’s up to the person what’s more valuable to them or not
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:13 PM
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It’s important to you, not to all men. The only men calling it a need are the incels who think womens only value is for sex. If it’s important to you to the extend your happy to cheat or bully someone to it I wouldn’t think highly of your character and we wouldn’t socialise
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:35 PM
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The point is the op doesn’t want to put in the effort to avoid a sexless marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:32 PM
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That’s telling of that man then, and no I don’t think that’s womens issues, we put up with what we will and if a man is happy to cheat on you because he’s not getting enough sex, then that man is not a good character snd it’s best the relationship ended. Sex is important in a relationship but it’s not the foundations of one. It’ll come n go throughout. If your going to drop something special rather than trying to work on it, your flaky, and probably best you don’t get into relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:40 PM
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Yes. Guys here are always the first to argue cheaters are the scum of the earth. If redpill men want to argue it’s fine because it’s just sex, then be honest about it. And even if she doesn’t know about it, it means still means redpill is about using people Edit, oh look crickets. They never want to admit they might be the bad guy in this situation. And then they’ll make another post later asking why women date cheaters and abusers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:32 PM
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Does your wife know you regularly cheat on her?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:23 PM
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If the only reason you want a relationship with a women including marriage is for sex, and to you, a woman’s only value is the sex she gives you, Why not just stay single and use prostitutes? It’s a lot cheaper for you and doesn’t waste everyone’s time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:23 PM
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That’s a difference of 3 women. You can not possible push the narrative that looks are just as importantly to men as to women based on this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:19 PM
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Yeah mate can you point out the part that data looks are the most important for women? Looks might help, I won’t argue that, but it’s not going to be main issue snd the level of how attracted you are to the person, it’s going to vary depending on their personality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:11 PM
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The only people that see looks as an important dating factors are men. So no, women would be more likely to use charm and try make the person laugh. And they would be better at noticing body language
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:57 PM
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Everyone’s employment is important, it’s how you pay your bills
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:28 AM
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It’s a cultural thing, I’ve had Americans call me “cute” names which I’ve knocked on the head. As well as clicking fingers, not reading menus and demanding refills. The difference is, Europeans aren’t doing the service for tips, we get paid a decent wage. I’m happy to do a good service for someone but I will point out when their wrong, rude or inappropriate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:14 AM
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Asking for advice and venting is one thing, and there’s loads of places to do that and get help. The problem is when these men are no longer wanting advice but wanting to shit on women instead. When they start completely about womens standards or making up conspiracy theories about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:34 PM
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Except you are. And we both know you want to sound clever if you’ve not been able to pull it off
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:51 PM
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I’m going to treat all my partners the same even if some of them I am taking a chance on. That’s up to you how decide you are happy being treated
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:57 PM
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Of course women can. Men were only able to built stuff because they Made laws that says women couldn’t and ensured a women was always stuck raising babies. Looks what happens when the opportunities are the same, women are ahead of men now in most fields
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:46 PM
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The solution is simple. Make childcare free and flexible. Snd more focus on dads doing more parenting. Maybe more education for boys at schools about care. The facts are, children are a giant responsibility with no monetary value. It’s a loss of a career snd years of sleep deprivation, loss of hobbies and a general life so if someone’s going to do it, they want to know it’s worth it. And right now, it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:44 PM
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I mean, someone that’s trying to put murder and bad tweets on the same page…. There’s not really much else we can do for you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:10 PM
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That’s ok, we both know it was a stupid question anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:06 PM
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Sorry but Americans are loud and annoying and they have a terribly selfish mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:03 AM
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Where did you live? Cause I would argue Europe is beautiful, food is amazing, people are lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:02 AM
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I mean, there’s plenty of other ways to shit in America
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:00 AM
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Exactly, you aren’t abused by random women. You’ve met some shitty people but because of your own misogyny you ignore any mens shitty actions and focus on the women and then blame them for your own shitty decisions too Thanks for admitting it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:49 AM
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No I just asked if all the women you know that “abusing” you by going about their days, have ever been hurt by men before so that’s why they avoid men. And you made it about yourself, it’s telling
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 10:29 AM
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