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| – | The more I get rejected, the more I lose confidence in myselfDude the girl who hugged me was at the mall, during the day time. so I'm supposed to fucking physically escalate??? She hugged me AFTER i got her number and said i would text her. I had already escalated and got the number pull, or whatever the fuck the pua lingo is. Running kino on a girl during the day at the mall is fucking creepy and weird. What can I expect from the PUA community though | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 03:20 AM |
| 1 | how to find wingmen?I feel like i would be bothering people if i just randomly introduced myself to them. people usually go to bars to spend time with their friends | /r/seduction | 10/04/19 03:16 AM |
| 3 | Are looks really my problemYou need a haircut. What the fuck is that hair dude. Get a dope hairstyle. Besides that you look fine | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 03:07 PM |
| – | The more I get rejected, the more I lose confidence in myself" At what point in the interaction are you getting rejected? " :: From the 10 approaches I did daygame, it was never right away. It was after talking a little bit and once I asked for number. 3 of the times,I got the number but never got texted one back. Even one interaction went REALLY well, the girl hugged me and seemed like I made her day, and she never texted back. Like what the fuck man??? " What is your body language like are you steering creeply? " How am I supposed to know this without… | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 09:38 AM |
| – | how to find wingmen?How do you even get started with that shit without giving off the vibes "im here out alone trying to get laid" like what the fuck do you even say or get started this shit seems so impossible man. Sometimes I dont know what im doing wrong is it my looks, what im saying, my body language, my posture like fuck man. | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 09:35 AM |
| – | The more I get rejected, the more I lose confidence in myselfI can only write down what I and the girl said. Obviously that is not enough, I don't know what im doing wrong as far as everything else, body language etc. And having my approaches recorded is creepy and really difficult to do anyways. | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 09:33 AM |
| – | how to find wingmen?Fuuuuuuuuck that. You tried that? | /r/seduction | 06/04/19 04:11 AM |
| – | The more I get rejected, the more I lose confidence in myselfHow will my process become smooth. Because I'm not learning anything from getting rejected. I'm not seeing what Im doing wrong. Just makes me more and more angry and frustrated | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 07:57 PM |
| 1 | The more I get rejected, the more I lose confidence in myselfWould appreciate if you could link me a video showing how to learn from rejection . With each rejection I grow deeper in bitterness,resentment, frustration anger. I get no value or learned lessons from getting rejected. Seems like there's no growth happening That's my main problem Thanks | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 07:55 PM |
| 2 | A reminder why you should approach every women you’re attracted toAgree to disagree | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 05:23 PM |
| – | A reminder why you should approach every women you’re attracted toCold approach is a huge waste of time due to the ratio of success-failure | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 05:18 AM |
| 3 | Why Cold approach is a waste of time100% agree. This sub won't though | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 01:22 AM |
| 1 | He has a pointI feel like hardcore pickup dudes will never understand this. Especially RSD "students" | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Thinking about letting plate go to be happyLol get the fuck out of here with that bullshit | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Which movies have redpill content?Real alphas listen to whatever the fuck they want to | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 03:45 PM |
| 0 | Thinking about letting plate go to be happyWhile we're talking about energy, lets eliminate the negativity on this sub cause there's a lot. Starting with the stopping of referring to women as a fucking plate. Don't care if that's what everyone says on here, what a dumbass idea to begin with . | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Thinking about letting plate go to be happySo your mom is a sexual object? | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 07:06 AM |
| -3 | Thinking about letting plate go to be happySeriously though, anything is better than fucking "Plates" | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Thinking about letting plate go to be happyGirls/women is preferable | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Thinking about letting plate go to be happyCan we stop calling women plates? They're not fucking objects | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Should I get a Nintendo Switch or PS4 w/ VR?It's better if you don't, you could potentially end up getting hooked | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 02:17 PM |
| 0 | The pill is a bit too muchJust stop thinking of the whole blue pill red pull bullshit. What's the point of it, to make us feel special? | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Advice for 24 year old virgin who maxxed out his SMV to get laid?NoFap does not make your fucking voice deeper | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 03:12 AM |
| – | Getting women is 95 percent luck.Yeah, Dan Bilzerian, read this thread! | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 04:30 PM |
| – | Some good old conversation points!Think LESS. Worst thing to do when socializing is be in your head and not present | /r/seduction | 04/01/19 04:02 AM |
| – | Hey Chad, all Alpha Males, calling all men with big swinging dicks: stop being assholes in this forumI don't see this a lot on this forum. Definitely more on the bodybuilding misc forums That being said, chill out you sensitive pussy | /r/seduction | 01/01/19 03:56 PM |
| 61 | I just had a MINDBLOWING realization and I have to get it out.Everyone understands concepts in their own special unique way. It's called internalizing. | /r/seduction | 30/12/18 11:37 PM |
| 2 | approaching feels pointlessOr I could improve my looks. Who fucking knows what it is | /r/seduction | 27/12/18 07:27 PM |
| – | approaching feels pointlessWhat's the point? | /r/seduction | 27/12/18 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Update: why does it hurt when I get rejected?Evolutionary psychology | /r/seduction | 16/12/18 08:10 PM |
| – | I always get frustrated/jealous when a girl i like meets other guys. And the i stop pursuing her. What to do instead?I don't get it. I can wash my car and it's still usable | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Socializing is boringIf I just let loose and be myself and not give a fuck, then I do have more fun and it's easier but then eventually I end up offending someone, doing something socially inappropriate or just alienating myself because of how uncalibrated/weird I seem. And then that forces me to self conscious/self aware so I'm not doing anything that's socially appropriate. But then im not being myself and I'm constantly analyZing shit which puts me in my head. I can never fucking win. | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Socializing is boringI didn't say I'm bored with life, I said socializing is boring. I can have fun while being a loner with my hobbies. | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Is penis size/shape important ?Google pe gym, you can make it bigger naturally. Also Bathmate | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Is RSD a scam?They overcomplicate game to sell products | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 05:11 PM |
| 1 | The 3 ways of getting girlsYea | /r/seduction | 22/11/18 12:15 AM |
| – | The 3 ways of getting girlsEven PUAs are starting to say that social circle game is the best. RSD Luke has no game (probably just average social skills) and gets better results than the rest of the RSD crew. | /r/seduction | 21/11/18 04:47 PM |
| – | How to stop being bitter/angry/resentful?....It's not like I haven't tried being social. There's no direct way of improving social skills. There's no manual for this. I don't even know what I'm doing wrong, what I'm doing right. No matter how much I socialize it doesn't seem like I'm improving. It's just the same interactions over and over. | /r/seduction | 20/11/18 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Any tips on how to improve sexual health?Sounds like you want to get laid without putting in any effort. See a hooker | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 10:19 PM |
| – | Socializing is boringI see what you're saying but what if the problem is me? What if the successful people won't like me either? | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 12:51 PM |
| – | Socializing is boringIt's like people just don't like me. I've got into fights and arguments with every friend I used to have. I seem to annoy people. I seem to irritate people without even meaning to. And now I just don't like people in general because I associate them with unpleasantness. | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 06:22 AM |
| – | Which pua coach should i have 1 on 1 training with (UK)And Deepak isn't... | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 04:24 AM |
| 1 | College game tips?There is no game needed in college. It's called being cool and being apart of cool social circles | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 11:07 PM |
| -1 | Tips on flirting?Flirting is something middle schoolers do. | /r/seduction | 11/11/18 11:00 PM |
| 1 | I went out 3 times this week, yet got disappointed.Its not just lifting and making money, its working on your personality, charisma, getting cooler friends, being more positive. That's not necessarily learning game. Its becoming a more pleasant person. What's the point of being able to attract women into your life only for them to find out you don't have much of a life to share? | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 12:11 AM |
| – | I went out 3 times this week, yet got disappointed.More efficient and less painful way to approach this is to work on your lifestyle and personality/mindset first to where you're a cool guy that naturally attracts people. The pickup community is a little hung up on "learning game will fix all your problems" , it's just not efficient. And obviously that idea exists to sell pickup material. Very akin to how a buff fitness youtuber will say you can achieve his results simply by buying his program/supplement. When in reality there are other factors … | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 10:43 PM |
| 3 | Tips on soloing bars and clubs?Unless your a really cool dude Yeah dont | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 07:21 PM |
| 5 | What are some of your daily goals to beat social anxiety before you go out?I wasn't going to comment in this thread, but it's just that I am harsh with people who recommend drugs to treat anxiety/depression because it's such a terrible idea. And I consider Phenibut a drug, not a supplement. To me, protein powder/vitamin d/probiotics would be examples of supplements. | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 10:15 PM |
| – | What are some of your daily goals to beat social anxiety before you go out?Yes, out of all the possible solutions to beat social anxiety, let's choose the one that involves absolutely no discipline or commitment and consists of taking a synthetic substance that we have to continually rely on to be in a anxiety free state. Resulting in you not actually making any deep internal changes to the way you think, your stimulus response to other people, or your ability to manage your own emotions. And who cares if the substance is addictive and I build up my tolerance. Why even… | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 09:55 PM |
| – | What are some of your daily goals to beat social anxiety before you go out?Yes, rely on a drug to fix your deep issues. | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Improve your social skills before cold approaching100% agree | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 09:19 PM |
| – | Autistic -- there's no hope....It's not like when I talk to someone working at Starbucks, they hand me an evaluation report afterwards and say "hey here's how you did talking to me" where I can see exactly what I was doing wrong, if I didn't make enough eye contact etc etc How the fuck do I improve social skills if I am not aware what I'm doing wrong? The only way is if I had a cameraman follow me around everywhere | /r/seduction | 20/09/18 04:40 AM |
| -4 | How do you start the actual hooking up?I read the post | /r/seduction | 15/09/18 02:27 AM |
| 7 | How do you guys hook girls in clubs?Sounds like a recipe for being a creep | /r/seduction | 15/09/18 01:54 AM |
| – | How do you start the actual hooking up?You're a girl you don't have to do anything | /r/seduction | 15/09/18 01:48 AM |
| 1 | How I cured social anxiety and depression after 9 gruesome years.I already cut out dairy, sugar and gluten but cutting out meat?? How would that help | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 04:26 PM |
| 2 | How do I become more aware of how I'm projecting myselflolwut | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 01:54 PM |
| 2 | How do I become more aware of how I'm projecting myselfHow is meditation going to help me see how I look when socializing? | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 07:30 AM |
| – | I, a previously 20 year old kissless virgin, just had sex last night thanks to this subredditHow'd you meet her | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 01:49 AM |
| – | I Think I'm Cursed with WomenThe way you wrote this post is probably how you talk to yourself in your head and that's whats fucking you over. Get out of your head and stop listening to these thoughts | /r/seduction | 08/09/18 10:46 AM |
| – | Where should a newbie start?Solid advice man thanks. I just saw a thread on /AskWomen "how do you ladies like to be approached" and like most girls were saying through social circle/acquaintances, and that they don't go to bars to be picked up by strangers but to hang out. So im really conflicted...then I read stuff like daygame rejections are not as harsh as night game so its better for noobies? I personally have done like 5 approaches in my life and they were all day game. It just seems easier to me for some reason. Prob… | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 02:21 AM |
| – | Does height matter in dating?Never said I was short I'm saying my opinion is that of someone who is not short so I'm not biased | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 10:53 PM |
| 2 | I cannot handle rejection anymoreI'm done with college | /r/seduction | 03/09/18 04:59 AM |
| – | I cannot handle rejection anymorewhere | /r/seduction | 03/09/18 04:56 AM |
| 1 | I cannot handle rejection anymore4 years of therapy actually * | /r/seduction | 03/09/18 04:39 AM |
| 3 | I cannot handle rejection anymoreI went to therapy for 2 years, 2 different psychologists. Talk therapy can only do so much man. | /r/seduction | 03/09/18 04:34 AM |
| -2 | I cannot handle rejection anymoreMan up | /r/seduction | 03/09/18 03:43 AM |
| – | I cannot handle rejection anymoreSocial groups where? I have no idea what social groups you're talking about . | /r/seduction | 03/09/18 03:42 AM |
| – | I cannot handle rejection anymoreFuck you | /r/seduction | 03/09/18 03:21 AM |
| 10 | 21 year old kissless Virgin, idk how to change this.He literally says that in his post so how the fuck is this a helpful comment | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 02:41 AM |
| – | Does height matter in dating?Yes, looks absolutely matter, and height is a part of looks. It's just human psychology , we can't help it. Anyone who tells you different is being fed some PUA marketing nonsense and doesn't have enough experience in the real world. This is coming from someone who is 5'11 btw.. I'm not some butthurt short guy making excuses for myself, lol. | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 02:27 PM |
| – | You can have all the looks in the world but if you’re socially awkward, timid, and unconfident nothing will happen for you.You guys in the comments don't understand that being socially awkward is a huge turn off, not just to women but people in general. Being good looking will get you attention and initial attraction, sure, but after that you're fucked. You're left with nothing but a ego boost from the attention you get. You won't be able to develop any kind of relationship. | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 03:40 PM |
| – | Blood, sweat and fucking tearsAnd someone didn't ... | /r/seduction | 17/08/18 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Watching RSD makes me depressedThat's how they pull you in son $$$$$$$$ 2000 dollar bootcamps and constant video uploads rehashing the same few basic pickup principles. | /r/seduction | 16/08/18 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Glenn Ackerman - opinions on this guy and his program with RSDspiritual wuwu ass | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Is RSD changing for better or worse?RSD philosophy constantly contradicts itself | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Beware your bitch (redpill confirmed once again)They're almost as bad as the incel/foreveralone motherfuckers. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/17 09:19 AM |
| – | Beware your bitch (redpill confirmed once again)I really pray for you red pill niggas | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/17 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Can only approach girls who are aloneThe problem is, its my last year of college and I'm still a virgin and haven't kissed. I feel all this pressure to finally hook up with a girl and so when I go to parties/clubs/bars I can't relax and have fun because I have to like figure out what Im supposed to do and push myself. And if I go in with the mindset to just have fun and not worry about getting laid, I'll have fun but I'll never actually make a move on a girl. This shit is driving me crazy... When you really need something to be don… | /r/seduction | 05/10/16 06:18 PM |
| – | Can only approach girls who are aloneI feel like I don't know how to talk to a girl/girls without giving off the intention that I'm hitting on her or I want more than friendship. I've actually never had female friends | /r/seduction | 05/10/16 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Theres no point..Seems like youre projecting your own failures and attitudes onto me! No thanks, stay away | /r/seduction | 16/04/16 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Theres no point..I wasnt either | /r/seduction | 16/04/16 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Theres no point..I should embrace my awkwardness, and then the hot blondes will see this and think wow, hes awkward but he clearly doesnt give a fuck! What a confident man:) Thanks for the advice manigga! | /r/seduction | 16/04/16 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Seriously need help, maybe wrong subredditive smoked more than enough weed man...its stupid advice. it makes people lazy, complacent and kills motivation. | /r/seduction | 10/11/15 06:47 PM |
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