How do I learn from my mistakes?

Pit_Sweat · 2014-12-09T02:47:10+00:00

Record yourself. Audio is all it takes although getting a buddy to film you is obviously better. You'll be amazed at the little things you'll pick up about how you're coming off. You can buy a recorder and mic on Amazon for less than $30 total.

Secondly, make sure you're being honest with yourself. Are you really that clueless as to what you're doing wrong, or is this just a defense mechanism?

SexySmexxy · 2014-12-09T17:55:30+00:00

You probably need a FRIEND or a MENTOR not a fucking coach.

Don't pay a single penny to an asshole who's business model is you depending on them for advice.

IpickupGrandmothers · 2014-12-09T15:19:41+00:00

Learn about the general principles behind good seduction, and from there, you'll be able to ask yourself questions like:

Was I being needy/outcome dependent?
Was I creating rapport/attraction/comfort/etc.?
Was I being self-amused and holding my frame?
Was I creating a real connection?
Was I being sexual (whether through conversation, kino, overall vibe, etc.)?
etc.

On one hand, getting a lot of practice is good. On the other hand, getting practice without knowing what you're supposed to be practicing isn't the best way to learn.

blitzik · 2014-12-09T15:41:19+00:00

Write detailed field reports for every time you go out and share with seddit. The feedback will help a lot, plus you'll start to notice your own patterns.

At the end make notes on what you did well, what you did poorly, and what you can improve on. This will help IMMEASURABLY.

Title	How do I learn from my mistakes?
Author	tgod1811
Upvotes	6
Comments	4
Date	December 9, 2014 1:09 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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