Autistic -- there's no hope....

pre_internet · 2018-09-20T03:40:43+00:00

Embrace your inner weirdo. Fuck social norms. Normals are boring as fuck. Repetition is boring as fuck. Damn it brah, it’ll all be over soon. It’s gonna sound a lot easier than it really is but just open up your fucking mouth and speak your truth. Don’t hold back. Be insane. Fuck it, it’ll all be over soon. Stop setting the base line of how you judge yourself by how you think other people judge you. Like I said, it’s a lot easier said than done as soon as you start thinking about it. I don’t know if I’m on the spectrum, but my entire life everyone has always noticed I’m a bit off. I deal with it by drinking a lot. It’s not something I would recommend, but it is one way to live. PM me if you ever wanna chat it the fuck out.

z4ck-z · 2018-09-20T04:30:27+00:00

Dude, 75% of the posts on here are something to the effect of 'I'm autistic, I'll never get laid.'

Uhhhh, no. You have poor social skills. Work on them. No it's not easy. Nothing worth having comes easy. Try to honestly think how hard it was to learn to do something you can now do effortlessly.

Seriously, think. Was it easy to learn how to ride a bike? How fucking long did it take you to learn how to walk? Think about it. I'm not saying you'll remember this, but really think how fucking hard it was for you to learn how to poop in a toilet and wipe your own ass properly.....

Pretty sure that took you a while. And now? It nothing.

Read the books, stay on the sub, and try. Fail. Repeat. Get better. That's the only way to make progress, not excuses

ForsakenTower · 2018-09-20T10:05:11+00:00

dude try acting classes

jaraf540 · 2018-09-20T04:46:46+00:00

Also socially awkward here with very very few close friends (quality/quantity?), but that hasn't stopped me from meeting, hooking up, and dating girls. When they first see you, they know nothing about you or your condition, with that in mind you should be ok and even better with the benefit of being attractive. I personally play it off like I'm just introverted (not shy, shyness tends to put others on a pedestal which can make others uncomfortable, which you could also be doing idk).

My brother is asperger (maybe some of it has rubbed off on me), he tends to make jokes that can be inappropriate or he might share/write something on Facebook to prove a point but it ends up rubbing people the wrong way. Maybe you might to reflect if you do any of these?

Lastly, don't ever stop trying. You need to just live your life even if it's a little edgy.

BigBeardDaddyK · 2018-09-20T21:33:39+00:00

Hey, I feel your pain. I'm a 24 yr old male with Aspergers as well. I've gone through all of those tough feelings as well. You're going to have to put in alot more work than the neurotypical. It took me years to finally get laid/start to get comfortable with women. I lost my virginity at age 23. You absolutely MUST get out of your comfort zone and talk to girls to get better. You're going to suck at first but don't give up. I'm still not the best with game. Learn from your mistakes and make small changes until you see results. I'd suggest finding someone you trust that's good with girls and that you trust to disclose your disability too. I learned game from one of my best friends that was very understanding and patient with my disability. It'll take hard work and effort but if you stick with it you CAN do it. Some miscellaneous tips;

-Lift weights and get muscular. It'll help tremendously with your self esteem. (If girls find you attractive they often will give you slack for mistakes with game)

-Learn to dress well.

-Occupy your time with something you're passionate about so you won't think about females all day

-Go to a meetup w/someone you trust for an event you're interested in. Much easier for me to make friends going to an anime/videogame meetup then making friends at work. Things just flow smoothly

-Check out Phenibut. Almost annihilates anxiety. Be careful with this and do tons of research on this beforehand.

-Focus on yourself and stop worrying about what others think of you. People think I'm weird but I still can make friends. Their loss if they don't like me. Develop that kind of mindset and you won't trip off of this kinda stuff nearly as much.

-Get out of your comfort zone at least once a week. I'd recommend going with a friend. Even with all my experience new events can be scary.

-Learn about female nature. I'd recommend even guys w/o aspergers to do this. Search up "Alpha Male Strategies" on YouTube. That's been a game changer for my game with women.

Feel free to direct message me if you have any questions or just want to chat about this.

Title	Autistic -- there's no hope....
Author	tgod1811
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	September 20, 2018 3:07 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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