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I stopped wasting my time with her.
/r/seduction07/07/12 08:01 PM
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Bookmark for later on phone...
/r/seduction24/05/12 08:07 PM
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She actually came out last night and admitted that she felt I was moving very fast (being touchy feely, etc.) for her. I'm glad she was able to come out and express herself to me that way. Not sure how I feel about it (ie if I want to invest the time in this that it will obviously take) so I need to spend some time thinking about it. I think your assessment of her personality is spot on.
/r/seduction23/05/12 01:35 PM
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I know what you mean. What kind of population size are you working with? You definitely have to make a habit of not making yourself a regular at any sort of bar. Try to hit up somewhere different every time you go out to try and get some exposure to individuals you may be unfamiliar with. Take up some new hobbies, go new places, try new things. Maybe then you can meet some of the people that you haven't yet met in town. Honestly though, if the town is REALLY small, (like under 1,000 people small…
/r/seduction23/05/12 01:59 AM
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Really? I thought LA was super easy to have fun in. Probably depends on the neighborhood that you are in. Totally agree with you about Vegas though.
/r/seduction20/05/12 01:35 PM
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I like it.
/r/seduction22/04/12 04:37 PM
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She was a little bitchy, cocky, and fairly drunk, but I took them as shit tests. Her asshole-ish nature kind of turned me on to be honest.
/r/seduction22/04/12 04:36 PM
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Good point. Having a good "go to" joke seems useful though. I've had a few girls say "tell me a joke," and while it's probably usually better to deny her, sometimes I like to play along...especially if they are already on the hook.
/r/seduction22/04/12 04:35 PM
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I like it Grimey.
/r/seduction22/04/12 04:35 PM
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Awesome. Thanks man.
/r/seduction04/04/12 02:54 PM
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Baseball cap when you can, shave it when you can't. I rotate usually.
/r/seduction29/03/12 04:04 PM
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Good advice. I NEED to stop DLVing myself by asking stupid fucking questions like that. It's in my personality to want to KNOW everything about the situation so I can plan for the future. I need to just say fuck it, this outcome I'll shape my own future through my actions and attitudes.
/r/seduction29/03/12 02:37 PM
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I'm OK with that. I'm not going to get stuck in oneitis, but how can I play this so I end up attracting her while being sensitive to her needs? Is it possible, or am I doomed for the inevitable friendzone?
/r/seduction29/03/12 03:11 AM
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It could, or it could be playful. I guess via text it might.
/r/seduction03/03/12 09:48 PM
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It seems like a shit test to see how interested you are in her long term. If you are I'd play it off like you have a modicum of concern but aren't too worried about it. "Yeah, I did the same thing - remember? I bet he doesn't have (attribute about yourself) as nice/good as I do."
/r/seduction03/03/12 01:22 AM
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Some chicks are self conscious about kissing/making out in a public setting/in front of their friends. Almost EVERY girl is scared (to some degree) about looking easy. 9/10 girls I've fucked (as they are lying naked in my bed) tells me we're not having sex. Twenty minutes later we do, but they have to say that to rationalize shit in their heads. I'd just give them a sly smile and get a number at that point. Maybe try one more attempt at kino and if you feel like she just isn't going to let you t…
/r/seduction26/02/12 05:38 PM
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How old are you? What are these settings like?
/r/seduction26/02/12 08:34 AM
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Dude, just live life and apply what you've learned on a day to day basis. If that doesn't work, go out by yourself. I find rolling solo more rewarding than in a group anyway.
/r/seduction26/02/12 08:31 AM
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Take a day and rest up. You're tired. You are burning the candle at both ends and after awhile you need a quiet day to yourself. Take it. I guarantee you will be ready to go out and have some fun after.
/r/seduction26/02/12 08:28 AM
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Meant keep stopping at places that you find interesting.
/r/seduction25/02/12 09:00 PM
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Dude, just keep doing it. You will get to the point where you will PREFER to go out alone. I kind of hate hanging out with other folks now when I want to sarge because I feel like I have to babysit them.
/r/seduction24/02/12 08:32 PM
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I usually just look at them, and go "Ok" or "Not a big deal" and change the subject.
/r/seduction22/02/12 04:42 PM
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I would approach her before she starts her workout or perhaps when she is finished. Approach like any girl you would approach in a public place. I would use some form of indirect game for a few visits though. I think the potential for awkwardness is a little too high if you are very direct. I wouldn't worry about the not shitting where you eat stuff, if you are confident enough it shouldn't be a problem, even if she eventually shuts you down.
/r/seduction22/02/12 01:18 PM
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sure
/r/seduction22/02/12 01:08 PM
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My BAC is not .08 after 2 beers.
/r/seduction22/02/12 03:41 AM
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Depends on where the club is at. 10 pm is safe.
/r/seduction22/02/12 01:56 AM
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2 beers != drinking and driving.
/r/seduction22/02/12 01:55 AM
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Then just go ahead and give her a call and be upfront. Nothing to lose.
/r/seduction21/02/12 05:24 PM
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Act the same way you would during day game. If you don't drink go ahead and order a club soda with a lemon in it if you feel awkward without something in your hand. Don't go too early (no chicks), don't go too late (they are all drunken slobs).
/r/seduction21/02/12 05:09 PM
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This is for when they don't text back after you suggest you do something on a certain day/time. If they don't respond within a time you are comfortable with send the above.
/r/seduction21/02/12 05:06 PM
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Two options. Like I said to someone else, even if I make no plans I am certain I will see her around town within a week or two if I frequent a certain bar.
/r/seduction21/02/12 03:24 PM
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No.
/r/seduction21/02/12 03:23 PM
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You live, you learn, you'll find another.
/r/seduction21/02/12 07:20 AM
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Exactly. You just have to be in a silly fucking mood and ready to have fun. The best part is the euphoria the day after you've been in state. You just feel like a total badass.
/r/seduction21/02/12 07:06 AM
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Dude, I wonder if I found the brunette version of your girl. I posted a similar field report (I would rate her looks similarly as well.) You are on about the OKC stuff. Once you've got the girl hooked as long as you are somewhat aggressive and don't fuck it up you've got it made. I have noticed that all the OKC girls have been pumped and dumped by one or more guys before you so they always ask: how often do you do this? Do you meet a lot of girls on OKC? I just shrug and say a few, or joke and s…
/r/seduction21/02/12 06:42 AM
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Excellent point - this is why it works so well: I KNOW I will see this girl again in the future. Instead of being awkward about things, now I can just try again and at the end of the night try and set up another date...except this time she knows I'm in high demand.
/r/seduction21/02/12 06:13 AM
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Got her to text back, makes me fresh in her mind, and proves to her that I am in demand. Next time I see her or talk to her it will put me in a better place.
/r/seduction21/02/12 06:11 AM
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Already set up and was confirming.
/r/seduction21/02/12 06:11 AM
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Just lets her know that I am still interested.
/r/seduction21/02/12 06:11 AM
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Saturday night we agreed to go out on a date this coming Tuesday. On Sunday afternoon i texted her to confirm. She had not responded by Monday afternoon so I shot her the above.
/r/seduction21/02/12 06:10 AM
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Yep
/r/seduction21/02/12 06:09 AM
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No, I did it before she could totally flake. I gave her enough time so that I was confident she had saw the text and wasn't completely interested or had made other plans, but leaving enough time to let me reframe the situation so that I was the one who had something better to do, not her.
/r/seduction21/02/12 06:08 AM
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Was she sober?
/r/seduction21/02/12 12:55 AM
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I actually did go ahead and make new plans for the original night. I would NOT cancel new plans because she now said she was free. I dunno what my plans are for her yet. She gave the option of "hopefully seeing each other" this weekend or kind of having a double date w/ her friend and bf.
/r/seduction21/02/12 12:49 AM
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I'm sure if you could attend one cheaply or for free it would be informative and interesting. Other than that, I'd just get by through seddit, some forums, and trial and error.
/r/seduction20/02/12 11:32 PM
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Thanks man. I appreciate the feedback.
/r/seduction19/02/12 06:24 PM
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Excellent job dude. Good approach, building rapport, # close, etc. However, you had the benefit of isolation - ie, it was just you and her on the date. Next challenge: try and set up that date with a chick in a group setting at a bar.
/r/seduction19/02/12 05:47 PM
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Good FR. You've got the same problem I do. You peak interest in the girl and then things cool off a little bit and it's a steady decline from there, so you eject. How do we transition from that initial lull in activity into a k-close or f-close?
/r/seduction19/02/12 05:38 PM
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good tip. thanks. I was in a bad state tonight (hung over and on 5 hours of sleep so I sucked), but tomorrow I will work on this.
/r/seduction18/02/12 06:27 AM
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My group left and I kind of was bored iwth them, but you are right, I should have stayed. My goal was to just do a lot of approaches, which I did do.
/r/seduction17/02/12 09:20 PM
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Good points. I'm not sure why I did walk away so quickly. It was weird of me to do.
/r/seduction17/02/12 09:20 PM
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Ok, that's what I thought. Thanks.
/r/seduction17/02/12 08:54 PM
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huh?
/r/seduction17/02/12 08:53 PM
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Can someone give me a good link on the difference between direct/indirect as we are talking about here? Is it as simple as letting them know what your intentions are immediately? Isn't it kind of implied either way?
/r/seduction17/02/12 08:27 PM
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Good advice but this isn't really helping him pick up those 8's and 9's. I mean, eventually he will stumble upon an 8 or a 9 that finds him attractive/charming/witty whatever and be interested. But how can he make MORE of those 8's and 9's think of him that way?
/r/seduction15/02/12 09:03 PM
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Put much better than I did.
/r/seduction15/02/12 08:19 PM
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I don't have the time or energy for going out every. single. day. If you can work it into your routine - great - ie, go to the coffee shop, do some work, talk to some chicks. Stop at the grocery store at the way home, talk to some chicks, etc.
/r/seduction15/02/12 04:42 PM
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I totally should have - you are right. I was legitimately in a rush to get out the door because I had to get up early for a meeting, but next time, yeah, don't take the first rejection as the answer.
/r/seduction15/02/12 04:30 PM
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Yeah, I should have. I was feeling kind of lazy and felt safer with a "group" to fall back on. In the future I should just lone wolf it.
/r/seduction15/02/12 04:29 PM
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There is a special deoderant you can buy called Maxim that is super freaking potent. You apply it at night before bed and it burns like a mother fucker but it works. What's really weird is that I used it for a few months and then my armpits stopped pitting out entirely. I used to pit out horribly, now I never do. I don't know if it was purely psychological (once it stopped my brain/body decided I really wasn't that nervous or something) or that shit just zapped my sweat glands. I do sweat more f…
/r/seduction04/02/12 05:07 PM
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Good point(s)
/r/seduction12/08/11 04:36 PM
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If you are confident enough you don't need game. It helps, but I don't think it is necessary.
/r/seduction12/08/11 03:21 PM
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Guy with natural game = naturally confident PUA = guy who has taught himself to be confident A guy with no game = no confidence
/r/seduction09/08/11 01:58 PM
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