So, met a HB8.5 through OkC. Had a coffee date with her on Sunday and it went great. Talked for 3 solid hours. Sat across a table so my kino was pretty shitty but managed a small amount and almost constant eye contact. She mentions to me that she just had a divorce and while she doesn't miss the guy at all (she initiated) things have been weird for her lately. She apologizes for laying this on me but whatever, I don't care.

Set up a date for tonight and went to pick her up. Went and ate and had a real great conversation again. Took her for ice cream and went for a walk a little bit around the neighborhood. Lots of kino: hand holding, brushing her hair, sitting with my legs in between hers (facing each other) she never pulled away.

Get back to her apartment to show me something on the internet and I am keeping up with the kino and eventually I face her and set her up for what is obviously a kiss.

She stops me and apologizes and explains that this is too soon for her. She says she is weird about relationships right now because of the divorce and is internally freaking out. She embraces me with a hug (puts her head on my shoulder) apologizes again, and says that we will have to "hang out for awhile" or something to that effect. It might have been "hang out for now."

I ask her if she is subtly trying to get rid of me. She says no, she wants to see me again. I say ok, wish her a good night, and leave.

Not sure if she is trying to friendzone me, she legitimately feels the way she says, or what. She was actually SUPER fucking cool, smart, etc. and one of the few people that I've actually made a connection with out of the 8 chicks I've met/dated/slept with over the past 2 months...so I want to pursue.

Advice?

TL;DR - date(s) go great but when I attempt to escalate HB8.5 tells me that due to recent divorce she is uneasy. How do I proceed?