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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | I need some advice as to how to make this into a real relationship.I'm no expert but I think you're overthinking it. You say you want more than just sex from her. Well, to show that, it's going to help if you aren't giving off such a "player" vibe. With this girl, I had no problem showing respect, being a "gentleman" per se, and toning down my sexuality while still being able to express my interest. There was nothing beta about it. Touching her while making jokes. Take her hand while walking across the street. Putting my hand on her knee while I was driving. Th… | /r/seduction | 10/12/17 11:17 PM |
| 1 | I need some advice as to how to make this into a real relationship.Maybe take her on a nice date and don't be overly sexual? I am seeing a girl that's also quite old-fashioned. The second time we hung out I got too sexual for her tastes and it turned her off, she almost didn't talk with me again. She (somewhat) reluctantly agreed to a third date, and I toned it way back. I still occasionally would touch her and playfully flirt/tease, but nothing too overt by any means. I wasn't "touchy feely" the whole night. At the end of the night, I simply kissed her and sai… | /r/seduction | 10/12/17 10:39 PM |
| 2 | How to avoid overthinking early on in the dating process?Hey thanks good sir :). I'm seeing her in like an hour so I'll let ya know how things go! | /r/seduction | 04/12/17 01:01 AM |
| 3 | How to avoid overthinking early on in the dating process?So far I feel like I've done a good job of at least trying to display want, and not need. I do initiate dates, kissing, have long convos, etc. I don't say crazy shit like "you're the one". But sometimes I wonder if I give emanate a bit of a needy vibe naturally just because I do want her pretty badly. When I think back to our dates, I can picture many times where I could have done things or said things that would have bee more "masculine", perhaps. It's all a learning process. But I agree and ap… | /r/seduction | 04/12/17 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Probably came off as a bit needy on the second date, and since then I'm sure her attraction level has dropped. However, she agreed to a third date tonight. Anyway I can overcome the mistakes of the last one?That’s exactly what I did tonight. I backed way off, was playful, occasionally would touch her but not much through the night. At the end of the night I kissed her. And she had a really good time. I feel my overall vibe was much better tonight and it resulted in an overall better connection between us. | /r/seduction | 27/11/17 09:16 AM |
| 1 | How the hell do you meet up with girls on tinder?This. I've been a number dates as well. I like to make the first one very laid back. You've met online and likely hardly know a thing about what this person is actually like. Go somewhere you can chat for awhile. I usually ask if they like coffee / smoothies or the like, and go somewhere no-pressure just to get a feel for them as a person. If things get too awkward, you can always leave. If things go well, schedule a second date and go somewhere more engaging the next time | /r/seduction | 10/11/17 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Did I screw up somewhere?Seems a bit shallow in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Did I screw up somewhere?I not sure I would call that at minimum a set in stone rule but what makes you say that? What if the girl is more old fashioned and doesn’t seem keen on making out with a guy she met just an hour ago in the middle of the day on a weekday? | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 06:17 PM |
| 1 | How long should you wait between dates?Sounds good my man, thanks | /r/seduction | 03/11/17 04:02 PM |
| 3 | I think pick up has fucked me up and I don't know how to go back.I think this is the truth. I’ve always been a super social guy (at least from high school and on) and I never have problems making meaningful friendships anywhere I go. Girls have been a different story, as I always seem to get in my head with them. The more I read into this stuff, the less I learn. It all seems common sense, intuitive, honestly, and all boils down to “get out of your own way”. You see another human being you find attractive? Great. Go say hi and have a cool conversation to see … | /r/seduction | 03/11/17 01:44 PM |
| 2 | How long should you wait between dates?Wow, thanks for the detailed reply. I usually don’t have a problem keeping it cool, but this girl in particular is one of a kind and I may have cake off a little too needy at times. Up to this point we’ve casually exchanged a few Snapchats throughout the day, but she’s stopped responding to some of them. Are you saying I should not talk to her for a couple days and hit her up later this weekend / next week to see if she is up for meeting up again? | /r/seduction | 03/11/17 01:31 PM |
| 1 | How long should you wait between dates?Care to elaborate? I met up with a girl at a coffee shop 3 days ago and she turned out to be an absolute sweetheart and is super cute. My style of girl. The date went quite well, and I’ve chatted with her some over Snapchat since then. How on earth do I balance the line between showing my interest and “being a challenge”? I’m worried I’ve been doing too much of the former and it may be hard to recover. | /r/seduction | 03/11/17 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Solution to avoid all the pussyfooting around with females. Stop trying.You're a sad, sad human. | /r/seduction | 22/10/17 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Keep This In Mind And You'll Be Able To Approach Nothing But Hot Women Very EasilyI can't take 99% of posts seriously here. I feel like the majority of them are guys who honestly do nothing, or very little, and try their hardest to come up with and rationalize their way to "profound insights" like this. Not saying that's what OP is doing but it feels like what the majority of posts on this sub are. | /r/seduction | 22/10/17 08:04 PM |
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