Title sums it up. I feel that overall I just sort of give off a "needy" / "nice guy" vibe. I'm very social and make friends everywhere I go, but have always sort of struggled with women. In the past few months I have decided I want to change that and have started going on dates with women in an effort to improve. I know for a fact I don't come off as extremely confident, cool, calm, etc. It's a slow process to improve, and quite frankly, I'm still not meeting enough women to consistently be able to practice this. However, I do have a third date with a girl tonight. During our second time hanging out, we drank wine at her place, cuddled and watched some shows, made out, etc. I did all the escalating, and it definitely wasn't the smoothest. But at least I did it. During this time, I'm sure I still gave off a vibe that came across as a little needy. And I feel that her attraction level has dropped since then. However, she still agreed to meet up again tonight. We are going ice skating. Assuming she carries through and doesn't flake on me, how should I be so that I can improve from last time?