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Discriminationthebochman/r/MensRights19/09/14 03:22 AM
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Generalthebochman/r/MensRights31/05/15 09:09 PM
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thebochman/r/seduction21/11/14 08:30 PM
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Social Issuesthebochman/r/MensRights24/06/15 03:07 AM
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thebochman/r/AntiFeminists04/06/21 05:21 PM
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thebochman/r/seduction01/03/16 05:17 AM
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thebochman/r/seduction04/09/15 05:46 AM
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thebochman/r/seduction05/10/14 07:13 AM
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thebochman/r/seduction21/01/14 05:03 AM
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thebochman/r/seduction06/10/14 01:29 AM
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thebochman/r/seduction10/09/15 06:55 PM
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thebochman/r/seduction03/09/15 05:55 AM
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thebochman/r/seduction07/07/15 03:09 AM
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Generalthebochman/r/MensRights22/04/22 07:33 PM
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thebochman/r/seduction30/09/15 04:35 AM
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thebochman/r/seduction09/10/14 01:27 AM
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thebochman/r/seduction04/10/14 07:17 AM
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thebochman/r/seduction18/01/19 12:29 AM
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Because they’re getting the matches regardless. Most dudes are scraping by to get a handful of matches a week at best. Adding requirements to your profile is just gonna get you swiped left over dudes more willing to bend their wants to what is out there. I don’t think it is a good thing by any means, both sides should be able to be specific.
/r/seduction11/07/25 08:38 PM
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No one ever told Trevor Lawrence he needs to work on his personality
/r/MensRights28/02/23 05:25 PM
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I see post after post of women in r/dating complaining that men unburden themselves with unresolved issues of past trauma yet they complain that they want emotionally available men. The hypocrisy knows no bounds.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 02:27 PM
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The Always Sunny episode where Dennis is going on dates with girls in their 20s and failing is the perfect representation of this
/r/AntiFeminists28/07/22 03:30 AM
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This is such wishful thinking, go look at tinder studies, girls find like 12.5% of people on their attractive, vs guys it’s like 50%. Looks matter a ton and anyone saying they don’t is either physically attractive or lying to themselves. If it comes down to good looking guy A and good looking guy B, whoever has the better game will have the better chance, but some dude off the street looking like Danny devito isn’t going to be able to compete with a Chris hemsworth type on a regular basis like y…
/r/seduction25/07/22 10:02 PM
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This is a horrible take. Being against modern third wave feminism doesn’t mean you should be against egalitarianism. Everyone should be treated equal with respect to bodily autonomy and Roe v Wade being overturned puts women at a disadvantage compared to us guys.
/r/AntiFeminists06/07/22 03:34 AM
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Yeah this changes nothing for me lol
/r/MensRights28/06/22 02:27 PM
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This is the only correct answer, everyone saying she likes OP doesn’t know how often shit like this happens only for nothing to come from it
/r/seduction27/06/22 04:00 AM
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No guarantee, she could just like the attention/validation I’ve seen so many situations similar to this where the girl doesn’t like the guy enough to want him to escalate
/r/seduction27/06/22 03:59 AM
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If Ariana grande didn’t broadcast that to the whole world I can guarantee you he would not be experiencing the same level of success.
/r/seduction24/05/22 08:29 PM
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What leads this to happen culturally? Do Jamaican men tend to not interact with other Jamaican women in favor of foreigners?
/r/AntiFeminists01/05/22 03:34 PM
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Giving up on meeting someone special and focusing on making as much $ as possible is my current path. It’s not fulfilling but at least I’m not wasting my time getting the knife twisted in me again and again.
/r/seduction10/04/22 04:22 AM
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Bring a female friend if possible?
/r/seduction08/04/22 05:15 AM
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I had the idea of an iConsent app, only to see a bunch of them already exist but they don’t hold up in court apparently
/r/seduction08/04/22 05:14 AM
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Amen
/r/seduction08/04/22 05:13 AM
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Legbeards
/r/AntiFeminists02/04/22 06:19 AM
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It’s fucking sad the # of boxes you gotta check off to have success nowadays as a guy. Like of course having a solid social circle is incredibly important but for girls they could be a little overweight, move to a new city with 0 friends and go on dozens of Hinge dates with weeks of being there, while someone like your buddy ends up in a cycle of loneliness. I’m not saying I’m against self improvement but the question I’m asking myself constantly is why does it feel like I have to be perfect to …
/r/seduction27/03/22 04:10 AM
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Indian men 🤝 English women
/r/seduction25/03/22 11:52 PM
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Similar to people claiming transphobia if you’re uninterested in transwomen as a heterosexual male People like what they like, its ridiculous to force that on anyone. Like people will love to call guy’s incels and entitled to sex but is that not the same thing? No one is entitled to anything
/r/AntiFeminists23/03/22 06:32 AM
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She looks like the devil with those red lights
/r/AntiFeminists07/03/22 07:05 PM
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Angry white knights
/r/seduction04/03/22 05:14 PM
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Aziz ansari got cancelled over a “bad date”, it’s really not irrational at this point. It’s obviously not a good mindset to give up completely because of it but at the same time to dismiss it completely is out of touch.
/r/seduction04/03/22 05:22 AM
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Seriously people act like egalitarianism doesn’t exist, everyone should be treated equally. Don’t need to drag down men to make women feel better. They say feminism is about equality but laugh about guys getting raped.
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 05:57 PM
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Just once, and I consider it a fluke of luck because we just happened to have a mutual friend we both knew pretty well
/r/seduction30/01/22 02:57 PM
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My experience with Trojan bareskins is that they break easily, skyn is solid though
/r/seduction07/01/22 08:43 PM
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I think certain areas of stem are definitely more male dominated but the hard sciences are definitely more female dominated from what I’ve seen. Way more women in biology and chemistry classes than guys.
/r/MensRights10/10/21 05:10 PM
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Biology is stem lol
/r/MensRights10/10/21 03:16 PM
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Be attractive
/r/seduction30/09/21 04:33 PM
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“Being a mother is the hardest job!”
/r/AntiFeminists01/09/21 10:17 PM
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That’s the neat part, you dont!
/r/seduction23/08/21 05:55 AM
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She got the meat
/r/AntiFeminists31/07/21 05:04 PM
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This is the real right answer, thinking like OP will just cause you to internalize your failures, knowing that if it didn’t work out for you someone else will come in and have it work out for them. And that’s a horrible mindset to have.
/r/seduction01/07/21 10:21 PM
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I used to be active in this big telegram group and so many people thought they were the expert on anything. Eventually you gotta just go with what you think is best after weighing your options. Just because someone gives you advice doesn’t mean it’s good advice, and I’ve seen a bunch of really stupid shit upvoted here because it sounds good on paper or it worked for someone one time but isn’t sustainable in any way
/r/seduction19/06/21 06:21 PM
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Too bad covid makes it impossible
/r/seduction11/05/21 03:44 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/ This is a pretty solid overview
/r/seduction08/05/21 06:05 PM
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Yes but if you’re being flirty and escalating with kino and somehow misread the situation then you can end up in deep shit I remember in hs, girls would say that some of the guys in my grade at parties were “handsy” and I obviously think unwarranted touching is a non starter but if you’re both flirting and a guy becomes a little touchy and you get upset then I really don’t know what to say, because that’s the logical next step.
/r/seduction08/05/21 05:39 PM
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It’s a fine line to walk in the post #MeToo era
/r/seduction08/05/21 02:19 PM
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I stopped using everything except for Snapchat, has been much better for me
/r/AntiFeminists07/05/21 03:48 PM
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Idk how much of this is actually true, I appreciate her trying to advocate for men’s rights but I’ve also seen comments from people who know her that it’s all an act for clout and that she’s a known compulsive liar.
/r/AntiFeminists05/05/21 01:52 AM
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Ever since I’ve read and watched Gone Girl I’ve had that fear that something like that could easily happen to me because it honestly could with how things are today
/r/AntiFeminists01/05/21 05:42 PM
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What a psycho
/r/seduction21/02/21 08:37 PM
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Girls like guys who they perceive as attractive first, everything else is secondary. Not saying that’s free reign to be a massive dick but it’s disingenuous to get into these arguments over semantics of what constitutes as nice versus kind. If she finds you attractive and you’re a good natured person then it’s an added bonus in her eyes, but being the latter without the former isn’t gonna get you anything by itself. There was this excerpt from the book Election by Tom Perotta where one of the ma…
/r/seduction24/01/21 10:56 PM
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You mean you don’t walk around wearing cum stained pants proudly?
/r/AntiFeminists24/01/21 10:48 PM
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5 day account, very obvious troll
/r/seduction01/01/21 11:08 PM
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It’s more than that though you’re oversimplifying it, some girls play head games with them
/r/seduction01/01/21 09:47 PM
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I agree with what most of what you said but girls definitely do use shit tests on guys they’re not a myth
/r/seduction01/01/21 09:44 PM
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The other day in r/nfl free talk I said how anyone saying personality is just as important as looks when it comes to dating is full of shit, and everyone started calling me an incel and tried to get me to say i thought I was entitled to sex. Then the mod came in and said this isn’t the place for incel topics...
/r/AntiFeminists21/12/20 04:54 PM
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Lol it would be like if this sub made fun of girls who had small tits. Except it would never happen.
/r/AntiFeminists05/12/20 06:20 AM
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Maybe she can buy an upper lip
/r/AntiFeminists01/12/20 12:49 AM
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How did you use your trustworthiness to your advantage?
/r/seduction15/11/20 05:45 AM
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R/The_donald equivalent for feminazis
/r/AntiFeminists14/11/20 11:42 PM
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Yes. I started a chapter my junior year and while it was hard work I ended up meeting so many people, and really got a great college experience after a shitty first two years. Check out all the chapters on your campus, get a vibe for each, and rush a few. You’re not gonna click with each chapter you rush but I can guarantee you’ll be able to find at least one good fit, so long as you’re not at a super small school in Greek life. Would also very highly recommend reading Conquer Your Campus, there…
/r/seduction09/11/20 01:35 AM
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can't turn a hoe into a housewife
/r/AntiFeminists31/10/20 07:00 PM
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Dating apps and social media have forever changed dating for the worse. Below average looking girls that normally wouldn’t get noticed much or approached IRL now have access to a plethora of options on apps like tinder where the gender ratio is 75% guys to 25% girls. It’s this type of artificial scarcity along with the validation girls get on Instagram that makes them raise their standards to be equivalent to a girl that’s a 9/10 and reasonably experience success that would’ve been unthinkable p…
/r/AntiFeminists28/10/20 01:22 AM
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As someone that’s been in this sub since the beginning of college and in their mid 20s now there are definitely a lot of great resources but there are even more shitty ones and bad advice. I was pretty active in the Game telegram group 2 summers ago and the amount of horrible advice people would give and pass it off as words to live by because it somehow worked for them is astounding. For example, on the topic of losing weight and struggling getting into better shape I literally had someone try …
/r/seduction21/10/20 12:35 AM
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I just had my dermatologist apt pushed back again bc of covid, the soonest the doctor can see me is jan now. I’ve been doing minoxidil topically since March after my first apt before things shut down. My only other alternatives outside of a transplant, which I refuse to do, would be these laser cap stimulation treatment things that are like $800 a session. Shit’s expensive but ik my value will plummet if I go bald this young.
/r/AntiFeminists14/10/20 04:40 AM
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90% of the time its cuz theyre not interested but too cowardly to let him down upfront
/r/seduction09/10/20 03:40 AM
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Can i ask how he even got a date w you in the first place? I see so much shit about guys doing the dumbest shit that I wouldn't dream of doing yet they're somehow still getting dates, meanwhile I'll be lucky to get a match at all on tinder/hinge. Would you agree that 1) be attractive 2) dont be unattractive is the only thing that matters?
/r/seduction05/10/20 02:13 AM
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Just because it’s not easy doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. Check out Cherdleys on YouTube, he does a ton of skit videos with his friends and he’s fucked like every girl in his videos yet they still orbit around him because he’s the leader of their friend group. His vlog, Cherdleys2 shows all this stuff.
/r/seduction24/09/20 10:28 PM
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Conditional love seems to be the best we can hope for in today’s society. I’m sure there are people that are unconditionally loved by their gf/wife but I’d say it’s less than 10% of all relationships.
/r/AntiFeminists04/09/20 05:46 PM
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So you think just walking away from the situation is always the move and if they decide to find you at some point then that’s cool but if they don’t forget it? My issue with that is how do you know they won’t think you lost interest and as a result they don’t talk to you because you walked away?
/r/seduction14/08/20 04:01 AM
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To get a different perspective on things, what would you say is the right move for guy A to do if guy B comes in and blows up his spot after he’s built some rapport with girl A? I’ve found myself in that situation before as Guy A and walking away basically signals giving up, and I won’t hear back from them rest of the time at the party/bar.
/r/seduction14/08/20 03:36 AM
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I mean I hate having to compete bc if all it takes is someone swooping in to undermine the work I’ve been putting in then I feel like I don’t want to be with someone that responds to that. Having said that getting laid pre covid was a struggle for me bc if my unwillingness to do that and not willing to compete is gonna leave you empty handed unless the girl is really into you, which is usually never going to be the case.
/r/seduction14/08/20 03:29 AM
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Doesn’t the wage gap not take into account maternity leave either?
/r/MensRights12/08/20 05:02 AM
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rule 1 and rule 2 the only rules that matter sadly
/r/seduction10/08/20 07:40 PM
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eventually you'll get more experience and become more jaded and not care as much, sad but true
/r/seduction06/08/20 05:42 PM
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going on a tangent, had a long term fwb that i had no intention of making my gf at first until i started to get to know her better, but I was waiting for her to ask "what are we" / if i wanted to be her bf bc I was told that guys can't straight up do that, and that they lose any leverage if they do. Things eventually ended bc she thought i wasn't interested in her like that and never asked me but told me later she did want to be me gf previously but her feelings changed due to my inaction. What …
/r/seduction04/08/20 05:39 PM
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yikes
/r/seduction29/07/20 09:16 PM
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Been wearing Night since 2013
/r/seduction29/07/20 09:15 PM
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I was supposed to go but it’s been hard to book an apt where I live but that’s my thinking as well.
/r/seduction24/07/20 02:13 PM
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I haven’t had soda since 2013. I use MFP and eat at a deficit. Ik what to do and have been doing it, no need to be a smarmy prick because I’m not experiencing results. It’s like telling a depressed person to smile and they’ll be happy. Lot of people on this sub think that because what they specifically did worked for them it will work for everyone else, and if they don’t then they’re just “not trying hard enough”. I had someone last year from this sub try and tell me to wet fast as well as “dry …
/r/seduction24/07/20 01:58 PM
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Read my other comment
/r/seduction24/07/20 03:37 AM
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r/thanksimcured
/r/seduction24/07/20 01:00 AM
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It’s hard being active in a densely pop area, only safe thing I can do is kayak rn
/r/seduction24/07/20 12:46 AM
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Interesting perspective, I’m honestly so jaded at this point from everything. Plus can’t lose weight and get in shape due to the pandemic, so any prospects I have of finding anything won’t be for a long time.
/r/seduction24/07/20 12:18 AM
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but then they hold it against you later on in a relationship, my ex who I was trying to get back together with (had a loser bf that pretty much stole her away while she was in a vulnerable place) got pissed at me when I told her I hooked up w a couple girls when we weren’t together. There is no winning.
/r/seduction23/07/20 11:42 PM
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Or they think you lost interest and find someone else, speaking from experience
/r/seduction23/07/20 11:39 PM
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My ex who I’d been working on getting back together with has tried accusing me of similar things fabricated out of thin air. We were at a bar together having a great time and then she to sort of ignore me, we go to the bus stop and I’m like do you want me to go home it’s okay if you do and she just started crying and saying how she told me to leave with my friend earlier when all she said to me was keep an eye on him, and then he left when I was in the bathroom earlier. I didn’t raise my voice a…
/r/PussyPassDenied22/07/20 02:21 PM
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I think being on the Art Briles Baylor teams was the biggest thing going against him considering all the other sexual assault allegations going on, shame to see it happen to him though
/r/MensRights16/07/20 10:40 PM
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You’re underestimating how bad girls can be to guys they don’t find attractive, even if the guy made a harmless approach. I was at a bar playing tic tac toe with some girl when she put a circle over my x and I pointed it out in a half hearted manner and she called me a fucking retard. Shit like that stays with you.
/r/seduction16/07/20 04:54 PM
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My mom goes through all my shit so I could never get a journal but I have my own private blog which I use as one instead. Would recommend.
/r/MensRights12/07/20 09:41 PM
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This is my mom in a nutshell, i never let my guard down around her because of it. We go out to eat and she’ll be like you can get a beer you know I’m like no thanks, I would never feel comfortable drinking with her
/r/MensRights12/07/20 09:40 PM
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Reminds me of the pictures of Russell Wilson’s ex on draft day going crazy knowing she was coming into a big pay day
/r/MensRights09/07/20 05:02 AM
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Do you have a list of the books you’d recommend? I’m familiar with Manson, max, tolle but not the others. I got into this community start of college and I 100% agree that seduction now is way over saturated with conflicting advice/techniques/bullshit. Like the school of thought on trying to win an ex back, half the “experts” will adamantly say no contact is the way to do it while the other half say no contact will only cause them to lose interest. Coronavirus has really made it clear to me that …
/r/seduction02/07/20 03:32 AM
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I was eating dinner out (pre corona) and overhead 2 girls at a nearby table, both like 18-20 age, talking about their sex life and one of them is like yeah I think I’m gonna get a bf soon I kinda want one and it took everything in me to not loudly scream and leave. If I said that as a guy I’d be labeled a misogynistic pig that just wants to use girls as a means to an end, but what bothers me even more is the total different world where they can speak that into existence meanwhile I would have to…
/r/AntiFeminists24/05/20 03:28 AM
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This works if you also follow rules 1 and 2 otherwise it doesn’t matter how direct you are it won’t work
/r/seduction22/05/20 02:54 AM
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Dating apps reinforce the idea that you have to be perfect even to get mediocre results
/r/seduction22/02/20 09:09 PM
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Bloody Mummers?
/r/MensRights06/02/20 08:42 PM
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Yessir
/r/seduction22/01/20 11:27 PM
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EJECTO SEATO CUZ
/r/seduction22/01/20 08:12 PM
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Op is right. I feel like I’ve had to be perfect in terms of social status, fitness, etc, just to get mediocre-average at best. I started a fraternity, put myself out there a ton, read a ton of pickup material, and didn’t experience any of the positives until a while after, and now all those positives are gone and I have nothing. One of my old roommates was the most needy people I’ve ever met, never lifted so scrawny af, but had a girlfriend entire time we lived together until right before moving…
/r/seduction15/01/20 11:59 PM
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See I’m in the same boat as OP but I slowly lose my shit if I go extended periods of not getting laid. For me personally I’m working on getting in better shape again and I feel like the shape I’m in now is preventing me from getting the quality I want. It’s like how can I focus on improving myself if I’m losing my mind in the process?
/r/seduction15/01/20 04:24 PM
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Same shit with the telegram groups on it, so much bad advice and mixed messages from people on there
/r/seduction14/01/20 08:05 PM
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I haven’t either really I was referring to the netflix show
/r/seduction07/01/20 07:39 PM
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Lol I’m kidding I was just making a Witcher reference
/r/seduction07/01/20 06:20 PM
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Well what if he wants to invoke the law of surprise instead?
/r/seduction07/01/20 06:13 PM
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This might be the best thing I've ever read on this sub. As the year and decade come to a close, this is the inspiration I needed. My one question though, as someone who has been reading a ton of self improvement books, been in game telegram groups, read tons of articles online, I feel like there is just so much conflicting advice and it's hard to sift through what's useful and what's useless. What are your top books and what advice do you have on this? I'm at the point now where I feel like it …
/r/seduction31/12/19 11:54 PM
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Because of the implication?
/r/seduction24/12/19 09:32 PM
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Amen brother
/r/seduction15/12/19 10:04 PM
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It’s tough when you don’t live in a major city where it’s easy to socialize with people your age, which is why I rely on tinder now even though it’s getting me jack shit
/r/seduction05/12/19 11:36 PM
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No
/r/seduction28/11/19 07:14 PM
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VICTORY
/r/seduction28/11/19 03:27 PM
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Treat yo self
/r/seduction06/11/19 07:58 PM
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Send me a DM and I’ll give you everything
/r/seduction12/10/19 11:39 PM
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I was in your shoes and didn’t start my frat until I was a junior but it was the best thing I ever did, night and day difference for my social life.
/r/seduction12/10/19 10:17 PM
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Read conquer your campus and join/start a fraternity
/r/seduction12/10/19 10:14 PM
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Very, this is my ex exactly
/r/seduction11/10/19 05:47 PM
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Wow I needed to hear this
/r/seduction07/10/19 03:49 PM
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See people say this but I honestly disagree, I’m so much more at peace with myself physically and mentally after finally getting laid after a long drought
/r/seduction16/06/19 09:39 PM
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She was annoying af in Westworld
/r/MensRights13/06/19 03:49 PM
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Did she actually rape them? I thought she just robbed them
/r/MensRights29/03/19 07:03 PM
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I have trouble accepting getting friend zoned with hot girls that’s the thing so I don’t have many hot friends, I used to but they all had boyfriends which was why I was ok with it
/r/seduction13/03/19 12:50 AM
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Right? I’m not doubting OP but staying aloof never works for me, then again I’m probably not as good looking as OP
/r/seduction12/03/19 04:37 PM
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I’m aloof as fuck yet shit like this never works for me :(
/r/seduction12/03/19 04:16 PM
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Well said
/r/seduction31/01/19 07:35 PM
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Read No More Mr Nice Guy, i'm reading it now and I cannot recommend it enough, i resonate so much with the message
/r/seduction14/01/19 05:36 AM
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I resonate with this so much and would also like to know
/r/seduction09/01/19 10:57 PM
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He went full Dennis Reynolds, never go full Dennis
/r/MensRights01/12/18 04:19 PM
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Good shit my dude, I need to get back on the horse myself. Although I need to get in shape first before I really have a chance attracting the type of girl I want.
/r/seduction01/12/18 12:53 AM
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My man
/r/seduction14/11/18 10:21 PM
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Same, yikyak will always have a special place in my heart for getting me puss
/r/seduction07/10/18 08:05 PM
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Vice on Snapchat is literally cancer now, every day it’s like Why this Transastral Porpoise is an exhibitionist and what the means for the environment, it’s aggravating cuz Vice used to have a lot of good shit now it’s just wacky SJW bs
/r/MensRights16/09/18 03:44 AM
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being a trump supporter and pro men's rights are not mutually exclusive
/r/MensRights16/01/18 07:21 PM
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even if you had two girls in the picture?
/r/seduction29/12/16 07:05 PM
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I always thought it would be too needy to ask them that if someone s trying to ghost me out of the blue, but maybe it's worth it
/r/seduction29/12/16 07:04 PM
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I don't plan on giving up
/r/seduction29/12/16 07:05 AM
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that's the thing though, most of the time when I fuck up I honestly don't know what could be done better, whether it be tinder or IRL, I've read and applied a TON of stuff on here the past couple years but at the end of the day my success rate has never really improved
/r/seduction29/12/16 06:20 AM
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I've pretty much given up on tinder because no matter what I pick I just hardly ever get matches, and it honestly lowers my self esteem more than anything
/r/seduction29/12/16 06:03 AM
1

in your opinion what's the best way to demonstrate social credibility/desirability with tinder pictures?
/r/seduction29/12/16 05:50 AM
2

that makes sense but at the same time doesn't it demonstrate social credibility/desire
/r/seduction29/12/16 05:03 AM
5

Then why is it bad to have pics on tinder with you and some girls in it?
/r/seduction29/12/16 03:12 AM
2

I can't fix my face though
/r/seduction04/12/16 02:55 AM
2

I really just think looks are a lot more important in the college setting than a lot of posts on here recognize. You can dress nice, wear solid cologne, have semi-decent game, be involved on campus, and 90% of girls at college will either brush you off or ignore you if you approach if you're not attractive. And to anyone who's going to say I'm bsing, I'm currently living it.
/r/seduction04/11/16 01:29 AM
1

We threw a party only for the security on y street to blow it up, and the British girl I've been trying to hook up with all semester left
/r/seduction30/10/16 03:03 PM
1

You're god damn right
/r/seduction22/09/16 08:11 PM
0

INB4: "THESE ARE ALL GENERALIZATIONS AND NOTHING FOR ME TO ACT ON!" but seriously good post brah
/r/seduction22/09/16 03:30 AM
2

I know this was coming the moment they announced that they were making this movie with them
/r/MensRights10/06/16 07:05 PM
1

Models says that the whole "fake it till you make it" attitude only leads to short term improvements though and that it leads to False Confidence
/r/seduction04/05/16 03:51 AM
14

her vagine hang like sleeve of wizard
/r/seduction19/04/16 08:03 PM
1

I literally was just about to ask this question today. I met a girl at my neighbors party who doesn't really hang out with them as much so it would be hard for me to see her soon so I feel like DMing her would be good, just not sure how to go about it.
/r/seduction04/04/16 11:09 PM
1

I want to do this to the girl I've been talking to the past week and has been literally giving me the most mixed messages I've ever had from a girl
/r/seduction14/03/16 09:11 PM
1

Well id probably go with my face
/r/seduction01/03/16 02:22 PM
1

Didn't know that when I posted
/r/seduction01/03/16 02:17 PM
1

I'm restarting a fraternity/am the president and that hasn't even helped my case. As someone who read and highlighted the key points in Conquer Your Campus, I don't believe it's social status as much as it is looks. I know kids who do jack shit and get so many girls, all based on looks.
/r/seduction01/03/16 06:05 AM
1

I have lowered my standards to below average last semester and was disgusted with myself. My standards are at average - a little below now. What's the point in doing anything if I can't attract at least average looking girls?
/r/seduction01/03/16 06:04 AM
1

give Tom Segura a watch/listen when you get the chance, very funny guy reminiscent of Louis C.K.
/r/MensRights09/02/16 04:14 AM
1

This is hammered into my head so far from Conquer Your Campus and the beginning I've read of Models
/r/seduction07/10/15 06:29 PM
1

Just read Conquer Your Campus and am currently reading Models. If you're in college then I'd recommend the former, the pdf is free online.
/r/seduction05/10/15 03:06 AM
12

PC UMass bro! literally
/r/seduction28/09/15 01:20 AM
6

eh I feel like this isn't foolproof, plenty of people have shitty parents that they have to put up with
/r/seduction28/09/15 01:19 AM
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20 lol, I'm at college
/r/seduction06/09/15 06:52 AM
1

The whole thing is I just have nothing to say or add, and can't think of anything that I could add.
/r/seduction04/09/15 07:45 PM
1

I've met girls who I thought were pretty into me, tried getting to know them over time, and all I do is get led on. I'm tired of having my time wasted so I just gave up. Sure I'd like to have a gf or fwb, but I just don't see it happening. I've lost weight, dressed nice, worn cologne, read up on this subreddit, and tried my best to implement the advice of it, but honestly there comes a point where you just have to cut your losses and accept things the way they are. I've learned over this past ye…
/r/seduction27/08/15 07:07 PM
1

Tried* I gave up completely last semester and just focused on my schoolwork.
/r/seduction27/08/15 06:02 PM
2

I go to a big party school and all I ever get is lead on by girls
/r/seduction27/08/15 04:27 PM
3

Is there a pdf of it on here somewhere? I know there's like a Dropbox with all Seddit stuff I just can't find it.
/r/seduction27/08/15 04:22 PM
38

he sounds like a fedorafag
/r/MensRights13/07/15 05:54 PM
1

My feminazi AP US History teacher would give me shitty grade after shitty grade on my DBQs and I ended up with a C in the class (and up to that point I was mostly an A/B+ student), and I spent so much time on that one class that all my other grades went down and it seriously hurt my chances of getting into the schools I wanted, (I only got into 1/9, but they were all top tier schools with the exception of the one I got into which was a safety school). I ended up getting a 4 on the AP exam showin…
/r/MensRights13/07/15 12:21 AM
1

I struggled taking off the bra of my first gf last year (we didn't go out long) and one time I was taking a little longer than usual but not that long, maybe over 2 min, and she's like well I guess I'm not having sex with you then. And she legit made me stop trying and go back to watching tv. Looking back I'm glad things were as short as they were given how everything was such a damn process with her. I always remember the words a wise man once said, "There's no cure for being a cunt."
/r/seduction03/07/15 11:26 PM
1

That doesn't make sense
/r/MensRights24/06/15 06:25 PM
1

Well Paul had to take a viagra just to get it up for his GF so I think it's safe to assume that he didn't accept the offer
/r/MensRights24/06/15 05:47 PM
2

No it was AC.
/r/MensRights20/06/15 09:55 PM
12

I go to UMass Amherst and heard about this. So basically what I know is that the dude got his dick sucked without his consent and this crazy bitch accused him of rape and even though through texts the girl says it wasn't rape or what not the school will not change their decision regardless. I've heard from AC students that Amherst College has pulled shit like this in the past because they're super obsessed with the school's image. It's really disheartening. If you have any questions feel free to…
/r/MensRights20/06/15 09:55 PM
1

Zoe Quinn, a shitty game developer, blew some dudes to get good reviews for her indie game Depression Quest, people found out and exposed her, she cried misogyny in the gaming industry, feminazis like Anita Sarkeesian backed her, posts about the truth on reddit or 4chan were banned by SJW mods, etc.
/r/MensRights12/06/15 05:41 PM
9

It's called hentai. Check your privilege shitlord. /s
/r/MensRights25/05/15 07:06 PM
1

Pot
/r/seduction30/04/15 10:47 PM
1

I drink but people look at me weird at school for telling them I don't smoke. It's insane how common it is at my school.
/r/seduction30/04/15 05:41 PM
4

idc about what's more macho, I don't use nicotine/tobacco
/r/seduction30/04/15 02:56 PM
1

Sounds interesting, I feel it would be kind of a process though if whatever girl you're with wanted to smoke shisha/hookah with actual flavored tobacco
/r/seduction30/04/15 03:40 AM
1

yeah this actually interests me considering I don't mess with nicotine or tobacco
/r/seduction30/04/15 03:31 AM
43

lmfao, this is so out of place in the comments here and made me actually laugh out loud
/r/seduction30/04/15 03:26 AM
5

Can you explain to me what these are exactly? I don't smoke but OP's idea isn't that bad so this actually intrigues me.
/r/seduction30/04/15 03:25 AM
3

I don't smoke so this wouldn't work. I remember reading a post on here about a month ago about a dude who has a huge collection of dvds along with netflix, and was saying how his john mayer live DVD worked wonders. So I went out and bought it (I'm a huge John Mayer fan myself) but haven't had any success yet, however I haven't been out at parties that often until recently because the weather's been terrible where I live.
/r/seduction30/04/15 03:22 AM
0

Do you really need to turn what I'm trying to say into a joke? I mean things like if a girl is really pretty but her nose is kinda big proportionally to her face. Obviously she's still pretty but keeping things like that in mind bring girls that can be perceived as "the hot chick" down to earth.
/r/seduction19/04/15 07:02 AM
8

Everyone has one flaw that can otherwise take away from being a 10/10. It's just a matter of looking for it and keeping it in mind.
/r/seduction18/04/15 08:22 PM
2

Did she really get a job at huffpo? Jesus Christ
/r/MensRights11/04/15 01:50 AM
1

Hopefully Warren runs.
/r/MensRights11/04/15 01:16 AM
5

Very insightful comment dude, I've seen Models get mentioned a lot in this sub lately and I think I may just have to get it.
/r/seduction08/04/15 04:07 PM
4

This is honestly one of the best comments I've seen in this subreddit. 100% true.
/r/seduction28/03/15 06:04 AM
1

Progress!
/r/MensRights28/02/15 10:29 PM
1

just goes to show how quick people are to judge, your professor sounds like a douche for not trying to ask you what you meant
/r/seduction05/02/15 05:01 AM
1

Was the instructor straight up hitting on her while you guys were there? I mean it's good that they got with each other but the instructor sounds like a douche to hit on a girl that's clearly on a date with someone else.
/r/seduction05/02/15 04:57 AM
2

Anger is the best motivator and honestly only true motivator for me. It sucks because being angry most of the time isn't any way to live your life but not much of another option other than packing it in and giving up.
/r/seduction14/01/15 04:16 PM
1

I found my "song" or "songs" in this case to pump me up before I had class with this girl that I've been crushing on and finally got her number. The songs are Can You Take Me, Summer Town, and Tattoo of the Sun, all by Third Eye Blind, with the main one being Summer Town.
/r/seduction27/11/14 01:56 AM
4

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2ipw0f/finally_talked_to_this_girl_in_my_class_today/ this also has a link at the bottom if you wanna read it, but i'll try my best to summarize what has led up to today. I'm a little drunk right now so forgive me if this comes off as shittily written. So I'm taking medical ethics this semester (I'm premed) and there are a ton of gorgeous girls taking this class with me. It's a relatively small class, 54 kids as opposed to my 480 kid orgo class. And thi…
/r/seduction23/11/14 10:33 PM
1

I'll try my best to post everything in full tomorrow, I got an Orgo exam at 7 tonight that I need to study for
/r/seduction21/11/14 09:55 PM
2

This is excellent dude, just read some of your other articles and they're also very enlightening. Noticed you're based in Boston too haha, represent!
/r/seduction14/11/14 12:20 AM
1

Jesus christ, if I could one day be able to pull this off then I'd be a happy man. Props man.
/r/seduction16/10/14 09:26 PM
1

I would've but she was the one who came in after me. And at the dining commons she was with a guy friend and I thought it would be weird to do that.
/r/seduction10/10/14 07:36 PM
1

if any of you are interested I posted an update
/r/seduction10/10/14 07:13 PM
1

Anything specific from the side bar/top posts? I've saved a good amount of links and went through them but I'll go through them again and pay extra attention. I've read about kino and know a fair amount but I could probably look at that again.
/r/seduction10/10/14 12:29 AM
1

I get self conscious eating in front of girls so this makes sense. So could you give me an example of what I should say or do next time I see her?
/r/seduction09/10/14 01:10 PM
1

I was planning on asking her to study and from there maybe a chipotle date. What would you do instead of asking her to study as well as what I did earlier?
/r/seduction09/10/14 03:42 AM
1

Barstool sports in a nutshell
/r/MensRights19/09/14 07:39 PM
11

American Football Conference
/r/seduction18/07/14 08:05 PM
1

Yeah but his confidence and seduction techniques are very real and I think you could definitely learn a thing or two from watching it, plus the show is hilarious.
/r/seduction25/06/14 03:22 PM
7

Watch Hello Ladies on HBO if you get the chance, one of the main character's friends is in a wheelchair and he gets mad pussy.
/r/seduction24/06/14 09:39 PM
1

She should be shot
/r/MensRights21/05/14 10:12 PM
6

Down like a clown Charlie Brown
/r/MensRights20/05/14 07:08 PM
9

This is heartbreaking
/r/MensRights24/04/14 02:04 PM
4

I thought OP was gonna turn it into that scene lol
/r/seduction19/03/14 08:23 PM
46

I guess you could say there's something about Mary
/r/seduction18/03/14 11:24 PM
1

I could only imagine pulling this off
/r/seduction04/03/14 06:51 PM
1

the whole thing is it's tough to go to parties without having a ton of girls with you, most parties at the frats on campus are like that
/r/seduction21/01/14 04:05 PM
3

He was also a king
/r/seduction30/12/13 07:34 PM
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