Difference between flirting and gaming a girl?

Murfdigidy · 2015-09-10T20:34:05+00:00

I thought flirting was gaming im kinda confused too.

I flirt with all girls, if done right it doesn't come off as flirting, the girls just subconsciously become attracted to you

ericblobb · 2015-09-11T01:00:33+00:00

I honestly think Mark has a distorted view of "game". He probably defines it as "doing" something rather than "being" something, which is what good game should be. Flirting is a part of game, but so are other things like leading, escalation, comfort, and getting logistics/screening.

katastrofe · 2015-09-11T02:55:51+00:00

From a girl's perspective, flirting will feel natural and conversational because it is. It's just a conversation that's flirty. "Gaming" someone, you're trying to get a specific result which will feel forced and unnatural. The conversation won't feel sincere because it's being directed in a certain way so he can "win" at the game.

I'm sure certain guys are good enough at gaming that they can do it so it feels natural, but even then it's not a sincere conversation because they're directing it to have a certain outcome.

Title	Difference between flirting and gaming a girl?
Author	thebochman
Upvotes	3
Comments	3
Date	September 10, 2015 6:55 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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