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I get pastoral counseling and let me tell you it changed my life. My family’s life also. They’re not asking for money. Never once. And spend hours upon hours focused on the health of our relationship. Just mind blowing.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/24 11:41 PM
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I totally get this!!! lol some nights I think to myself, “oh you poor thing, that must not taste good” when he’s kissing my face or neck 🙈
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/24 11:40 PM
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Not worth the argument.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/24 04:13 AM
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We are not married. We have a 2year old son, about to be 3
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/23 08:57 PM
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Oops, I’m so sorry, I thought that’s what I did. Thank you for the tip!!
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/23 08:55 PM
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❤️
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 12:43 PM
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I definitely am and it’s been so wonderful. So much weight was lifted after cleaning up my side of the street and recognizing so much past behavior I was unaware of. Now working inward and upward. ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 12:43 PM
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❤️
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 12:41 PM
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❤️
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 12:40 PM
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❤️
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 12:40 PM
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Wow! Thank YOU! I love this.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 12:39 PM
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The mindful attraction plan - by Athol Kay
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/23 03:05 AM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/23 11:52 AM
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Would def benefit from reading the surrendered single! Good luck on your journey!!
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/23 03:25 PM
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She wrote a book called “the surrendered wife” She has since changed the name to “the empowered wife” due to the sort of controversy over the word “surrendered”. It’s a great book and she has a fantastic podcast as well. The coaching/therapy is very expensive but worth it if you’re really looking for guidance and help with yourself and your marriage. Also wrote a book called “the surrendered single” also misleading by the title- its on how to date your husband again. She teaches in depth about t…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/23 01:13 PM
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Thank you for that explanation. I completely didn’t pick up on that and missed the opportunity to see he was looking for comfort since I was in my own feelings of frustration of being tired af and wanting to sleep. The ups and downs- two full weeks of him putting effort into the relationship. Being kind, thoughtful, playful sweet, to then months of the opposite. He’ll go through the daily routine of being helpful as a house mate- helps with dishes, putting our son to bed, things around the house…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/23 01:35 PM
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I am sorry that you’re bed bound 🥺 I’ll give you tons. Lemme know when you’re sick of me 🤣
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/22 03:13 PM
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I appreciate this. I think I’m troubled with things that come up and advice on how to handle them. I’d prolly annoy this group with constant questions
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/22 02:00 AM
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I appreciate your view & response 💯
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 03:31 PM
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You wouldn’t care a photo like that is on the internet?
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 03:44 AM
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FUNNNNN ❤️ I love this
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/22 01:30 PM
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LOVE
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/22 12:16 PM
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I love this!!! I need to do more of the outfits for sure!!!
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/22 12:16 PM
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SHEIN And they have free return shipping if it doesn’t fit well 🥳
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/22 07:48 PM
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I love all of this. Sounds so fun!!
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 10:25 PM
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“people are freaking out about young boys looking up Andrew Tate, but totally fine with young girls looking up to Cardi B and the Kardashians” SMH I am very worried for the future of our daughters.
/r/RedPillWives29/08/22 05:04 PM
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My challenge was to not bring work problems home with me. I have all this stress and pent up anger. I would bring it home and take it out on my SO. By being angry.. snappy.. disrespectful. Ect. I was bringing all that negative energy into a place that is supposed to be safe. I feel like I did a better job by not venting about everything. But rather discussing some issues that arose mostly bc he has great advice on how to solve them. Something to be mindful of and work on improving.
/r/RedPillWives29/08/22 04:59 PM
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👏👏👏
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/22 05:41 PM
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Awh, thank you❤️ Yes, I can def find friends to go with me and if not, I think I need to be okay in my own skin with going alone. Question… do you think if I find an event that I should just go ahead and buy two tickets and ask him to come with? “Like hey I really want to see this _____ and I bought two tickets. I’d love for you to come with me but if not that’s totally cool I’ll ask ___” Or is that not a good idea
/r/RedPillWives23/07/22 01:45 PM
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Mind me asking your age? I’m in the same boat and unfortunately have no great advice for you. I crave sexual attention so bad that I literally have vivid dreams I wake up in a pool of liquid. I made sure to blow my man every day for almost two months straight and I got nothing in return. Realizing he must be satisfied which is why he isn’t going for anything else- I completely pulled back. And realized I still wasn’t getting any initiation from him. And he’s jerking off to porn as usual. Pretty …
/r/RedPillWives21/07/22 03:06 AM
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Second this
/r/RedPillWives20/07/22 03:07 AM
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May I ask what you do to bring passion and connection?
/r/RedPillWives08/07/22 05:55 PM
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🤯 awesome advice. Following.
/r/RedPillWives08/07/22 05:35 PM
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The surrendered wife by Laura Doyle
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/22 05:40 PM
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I don’t have much advice for you but I must say… Being a SAHM can be very lonely too. Drowning out some of the toxic thoughts can be a job in itself 😂 What book are you reading right now? I find when I’m not reading- I’m going backwards. Downhill. And self care. Write a list of 25 things that make you HAPPY. and challenge yourself to do 3 a day. Can be as simple as Put on makeup. Go for a walk. Read 10 pages of a good book. Drink a cup of tea in a quiet space.
/r/RedPillWives05/07/22 04:27 PM
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Really trying to dissect my feelings and I must say it is HARD. First- there are so gosh darn many 😩 I’m realizing how much I do have these hidden covert contacts in my mind that I’ve denied having. Example: looking at a mutual bucket list thinking… Gosh, I’ve booked, paid for, surprised my guy with different events that were high on his list- how dope would it be if he did the same for me just once. Like hey I know how much this means to you SURPRISE. lol I realize now this thinking is so WRONG…
/r/RedPillWives05/07/22 04:21 PM
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Can you share links or how to find the Patrice Oneil advice?! 🙏🏼
/r/RedPillWives05/07/22 03:46 PM
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He’s not going to care. bring a bunch of beef jerky to share with the group 😂
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/22 02:07 PM
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This is so sweet. My guy use to put the coffee pod in the keurig machine and my coffee cup under the spout so it was ready for me to brew 🥹
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/22 07:53 PM
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THAT is so sweet 🥹
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/22 07:51 PM
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Same 🙋🏼‍♀️ I got off completely
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/22 11:58 AM
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I love your input. Thank you for sharing. I have so much work to do on myself too. This is so helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/22 03:06 PM
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This!! 👆🏻👆🏻👏 We need the support of other like minded women. It can be easy for us to jump off our page and try to be “helpful” when it’s really just being disrespectful. Reading from other women helps hold myself accountable.
/r/RedPillWives24/03/22 01:17 PM
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I believe you said it in a very appropriate way and wouldn’t cause any offense. You’re a better woman than I bc- not that I wouldn’t tell him what to do/not to do on social media…. But I wouldn’t tolerate it in general. Period. He clearly doesn’t feel safe to tell the truth at this time. Will he ever? 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/22 01:43 AM
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They said…. “A good ole fashion blowjob” I believe.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/22 02:49 AM
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Couldn’t agree more.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/22 02:16 AM
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🚗 💨
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 09:08 PM
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loves me to cum first Of course I love your entire response, but heck yes! Amen sister!
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 09:08 PM
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You both totally will! Until then, work on yourself daily to be the best you for your forever mate!!
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 09:06 PM
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So glad to hear you have an awesome support system. That sickness phase will pass!
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 09:05 PM
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He makes 75% of our income so I can work on a farm which I love doing. This is literally my life goal😍
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 09:03 PM
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Puts between 50-100 cash in my wallet every time notices I run out. Woah mama!!! How sweet!
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 09:00 PM
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I don't know which one you'd like best or would be in the mood for so I got options Oh my heart!!! 😍
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 08:52 PM
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I think this is proof I got the better deal. 😅 This is the sweetest disagreement I’ve ever read ❣️
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 08:52 PM
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wise men know a woman in a bathtub will not talk to you during live sports] This is so brilliant!!!!!
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 08:48 PM
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This 🥰🥺
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/22 11:58 PM
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ah, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/22 11:27 PM
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Do you two read together? If so- buy the book “Mindful Attraction Plan” by Athol Kay and read together. If not- maybe read it at night when you’re in bed together and mention here and there how enlightening it is. It’s an eye opener for sure and would hopefully help spark motivation for him
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/22 09:32 PM
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Thank you for sharing!
/r/RedPillWives21/02/22 03:47 AM
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Laura Doyle group??? Please share details. (I’m currently reading her book)
/r/RedPillWives21/02/22 01:40 AM
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Thank you!!
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/22 01:33 AM
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OYS. Own your shit 🤗 basically checking in with your stats. Goals. Progress.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/22 11:30 PM
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Bjs 😀 once a day or at least every other day.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/22 11:28 PM
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