I deserve a man with consistency. Who shows up for me and his family with leadership, intentionality, and purpose. It’s been a roller coaster for my SO and I and he led me to believe we were both going to push forward and thrive. Then he had a bad dream one night which led to two days of the cold shoulder and back to square one. I don’t deserve that. I don’t want to be with anyone other than him but I cannot continue to live this life on this roller coaster of ups and a lot of downs. This “well you would have done the same if you had the dream and I reacted the way you did” Like what? We are not living in a “what if” scenario. We are living in the now. We are living with positive intent. And he should be setting the example of how to act if the roles are reversed no? The dream- I was driving my exs car. Who I have a child with. (Something I think deep down he will never accept based on his reaction) When he woke me up at 6am to tell me This dream (after we went to bed well after midnight and I had to be up at 7:30 to get both kids up and ready for school and now I’m up for good and won’t be able to go back to sleep) my response was “well that sounds like fun” eyes closed half asleep and aggravated I have to be up in an hour and a half and could really use the sleep. To me- that’s a total red pill response I’d get from him. A dumb answer to a dumb statement. Like if I said “are you cheating on me” He’d be like “which night of the week” type response.