Old photo

buni223 · 2022-09-14T14:57:50+00:00

That sucks. I think we all can imagine what it’d be like to find a picture like that. Actually, I see guys talking about it more often. Like a guy accidentally finds an old pic of his girlfriend with another man - it can short circuit anyone’s mind for a moment.

To deal with it, I’d ignore it because it was from forever ago. And if he’s not your first, it’s not like he did anything most couples haven’t done. Maybe to make it easier, you should try to imagine if he found your old pics (even if you don’t have any). I’m guessing you would want him to trust that this was long before him and you forgot to delete the pic 🤷🏻‍♀️

Edit: wait lol he posted it on the internet??? Like it was a screenshot of a post he made or do you meant it was on the cloud which is the internet? If he literally posted it on a website…idk. If you’re cool with posting nudes publicly, then I would ignore. If you’re not and you didn’t know he posted nudes on the internet for other people to see, then I’d talk to him super calmly and just say you found the pic. That way you won’t hamster ball in your head.

sunglasses90 · 2022-09-14T13:38:13+00:00

I’m confused. Is this a private or public photo? If it’s private delete it and forget about it at this point. If it’s still public that could cause issues if he’s family/friends/employer can see it. I would remind him it’s still online and he should probably take it down.

Young people do stupid things. Fortunately for some of us the internet was a little before our time because it’s way too easy these days to share stupid stuff and upload it forever.

anothergoodbook · 2022-09-14T09:39:21+00:00

Yes. You’ll have to figure out a way to move past it. He wasn’t cheating. I can understand why you’d feel all the feels. But, sorry - it isn’t fair to hold it against him.

Edit: if he still has it posted online (and especially if he’s identifiable) then that’s a different issue. I would ask him to remove it from wherever he posted it.

babyegirll · 2022-09-14T03:28:32+00:00

What is the issue/what would you confront him about? "Why did you have sexual partners before me?" I genuinely don't understand the issue.

MoreMorbidThanYou · 2022-09-14T07:18:14+00:00

This seems like a non-issue. He wasn't cheating. It wasn't even on his phone.... I'm failing to see what the issue is.

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Title: Old photo

Full text: I’ve been trying to update to the new ios16 and I have zero storage bc I have like 9k photos. I was going through OLD photos trying to delete as many as I can and I came across one I found forever ago of my SO. He uploaded a photo on the internet of a girl sucking his 🍆. The picture and upload was done before my time. I remember screenshotting it but never brought it up. I’d love to ignore it and forget about it- as my phone is updating, I’m folding his laundry…. The exact shorts he was wearing in the photo 🤦🏼‍♀️. What would you do? Ignore it and wait for my brain to forget again?

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NinethePhantomthief · 2022-09-14T13:48:44+00:00

I can certainly understand that it can be weird/problematic seeing that photo but in all due respect wasn’t this before your time, shouldn’t that past not matter if it wasn’t within the current relationship.

---Starlight--- · 2022-09-14T04:30:40+00:00

I wouldn’t have stayed with him once I found it tbh. Now, I would delete it and try to move on. You’ve already made your choice to stay with him so best to let it lay.

Haunted_Bog_Water · 2022-09-14T15:36:30+00:00

I can understand why it might be a shock. It sounds like something you're not going to get over unless you communicate. If you really need to do so for your own peace of mind, I would go in knowing he didn't do anything wrong. Maybe you could say something simple like, "I came across this old photo online of another girl sucking your dick. I know it was before my time but it's making me feel a little off. You didn't do anything wrong, but I felt like if I was stuck in my own head about it, then I may go down a rabbit hole with my thoughts. I just wanted to voice that it was something I saw."

I would think about it the other way around, too. If he saw a picture of a guy eating your pussy on the internet, would you want him to confront you and how would you want it done? Best of luck.

Title	Old photo
Author	thesurrenderedwife
Upvotes	1
Comments	21
Date	September 14, 2022 2:49 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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