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They say that diversity helps minorities Giving someone an unfair advantage always "helps" them in the short term. That doesn't mean it's a good strategy for improving their outcomes without causing resentment and skepticism-of-actual-skill, or creating unfairness somewhere else.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 08:24 PM
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Real diversity is difference in background and experience, NOT skin color and gender. And yes, "PoC"s trying to get a job is fine exactly the same as straight white males trying to get a job is fine. The problem with typical HR department "diversity" isn't about POCs trying to get a job. I'ts about trying to privilege POCs within the process. It's not about creating real diversity for the benefit of getting additional perspectives on the company's strategy. It's about being racist against people…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/18 08:20 PM
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Even if I got her number, I have nowhere to have sex with her. I can't bring her home and I don't have a car. Getting a car is your best bet unless you live near a wooded area in a warm climate where spreading a blanket is feasible, or there are rarely used lockable public restrooms around. Short of those you'll have to hope one set of parents is cool. Logistics is your number one priority. If you can't fuck a girl somewhere, you can't fuck. Get this handled--have a plan for where you can lead t…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 10:55 PM
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I live in a fairly left wing blue pilled city Answered your own question.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 08:05 AM
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There are several valid ways to answer this... Most TRP advice is not precisely aimed at the guy trying to develop a monogamous LTR. If you assert "most men don't need TRP" you have to answer "need it for what?" TRP is about giving men more options--which is why it focuses on options that aren't usually available as opposed to the option that many BP men already have. It's not all counter productive on that front, but you have to learn what advice is good for what type of results. An obvious exa…
/r/askTRP27/08/18 06:43 AM
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Never ask "how bad was the sex?". Your question starts out with the assumption that it's bad prompting her to think about all the worst parts rather than the best ones. If you have to ask, frame it at least neutral if not positively. Porn is not a good demonstration of anything except how to visually present male visual fantasies. The anatomy is glamorized with makeup and photoshop. The positions are awkwardly contrived so the camera can see better, and the technique is what a man imagines he wo…
/r/askTRP27/08/18 03:31 AM
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am I just unlucky? Unicorns do exist, but they're rare. Something has to have broken the typical pattern such that they ended up ok. Some examples: They were chubby as kids (because their parent's diet was trash rather than because of bad genetics), so she grew up getting teased and had to develop a sense of humor and kindness. Parents were sea people and she grew up mostly alone on 30' sail boat. As a result she's weird in some ways, but at least she's not a princess. Parents and community/frie…
/r/askTRP24/08/18 04:11 PM
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Yes you did well. There's no reason to try to 'patch things up' with someone who was never your friend in the first place. Ignoring them is good because it's avoiding drama from which there's no potential upside. Think about it: the best case that's remotely likely to actually happen if you said something is that she's over it, but still doesn't want anything to do with you. Worst case is that all the bullshit comes back doubly strong.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 11:17 PM
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Thats not how it should be, right? Why shouldn't it? It's not morally right/wrong either way. Pair bonding isn't the simple result of mindblowing intimate sex though. Pair bonding, like any other committed partnership, is something that you build over time by focusing on one person for an extended period. Continually growing your n count will hamper your ability to pair bond merely because you're not focused. That doesn't mean you couldn't bond at some point in the future if you decide to do it.…
/r/askTRP18/08/18 03:26 AM
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We are an umbrella term for various subgroups who legitimately hate women (some MRAs & most Incels) and so through lack of understanding and differentiation we just get thrown in with the rest of them. MRA and Incels are part of TRP but the inverse is not true. We get lumped together with them by feminists, but we're definitely not at all like them. TRP is about maximizing men's sexual options through physical and charismatic self improvement. MRA is about denying sexuality and/or ignoring women…
/r/askTRP18/08/18 02:52 AM
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First a few points of order: Depression is a serious condition that is life threatening and makes everything else harder to fix. I've had it. Most people experience it at least briefly at some point in life. Getting this handled is your first and top priority. Some school counselors have training other than psychology. If so, go to the psychology department's clinic. You'll get treatment from a grad student as part of their training all overseen by their professor and it will be basically just a…
/r/askTRP17/08/18 06:41 AM
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Basically it just comes down to holding onto or bringing up that playful attitude whenever you're talking to a woman socially. Remember how that mood felt and make it a habit to mentally call it up any time she says anything.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 11:12 PM
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I don't think you understand what AWALT means. It's not saying all women will always cheat, or that all women are whores. It's saying that all women have an instinct that makes them want to get the best man they possibly can. It's shorthand for pointing out the downstream consequences of that fact. The solution is simple: be that best man. If she can't find a better man because you are continuously proving that you're the best man she can get, then there's no problem with her wanting the best ma…
/r/askTRP16/08/18 12:02 AM
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So you think that human nature will magically transform in your children's generation and none of the things you've learned will apply anymore? You're conflating a stable home for children with your desire for a guarantee of fidelity. Children need parents who demonstrate how to get along, how to handle their own problems, and to support them with finances and advice until they're able to do well for themselves. None of these things require mommy and daddy to never fuck anyone other than each ot…
/r/askTRP15/08/18 11:44 PM
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sign up for Google Calendar or similar app that goes on your phone and is internet accessible. put a link to it somewhere you'll see it all the time. Every time you realize you need to do something, ask yourself "when?" and put it on the calendar. dirty kitchen needs cleaning. When? I'll do that at 6:30 tonight after dinner. laundry needs doing. I'll put it in the washer at 7 and since the cycle lasts 40 minutes I'll put it in the dryer at 7:40 and fold it from 8:30-8:45. I need to write that pa…
/r/askTRP13/08/18 07:03 AM
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It's true that people have choice, but it's not really answering the question of "why is it weird". You're basically just replying "it's not weird," when for her it clearly is. An actual answer would be more like "women didn't used to wear pants much, but enough of them did anyway for a long time and everyone got used to it. So far, not many men have wanted to wear dresses, so that's still considered weird."
/r/askTRP11/08/18 05:41 PM
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omfg You can totally explain this to a 9 year old just fine. Learning that sexual dynamics exist is only unhealthy for kids if they're taught that it's all wrong and shameful. Teach them that it's just something normal but people like to keep it private and it's fine. They can't empathize with the feelings yet, but that doesn't mean they can't understand that those exist and benefit from knowing more about how adults think.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 05:36 PM
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Yeah this is the kind of unthinking dumbass answer that gets TRP labeled 'misogynist'. It's not about weak/strong. It's not that men are 'better' either. 80 years ago it was weird for women to wear pants. It became less weird because as women demanded to be able to join the workforce and other previously male only spaces and eventually we got used to it. Basically the reason is that there was a one-sided cultural change. If as a set of cultures we pushed for it, then in a few decades we could ge…
/r/askTRP11/08/18 05:32 PM
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It's always true. If you haven't cum in a while it's slightly more true rather than less. Also note that masturbation actually releases less sperm than sex because your body knows it's not actually fucking and adjusts accordingly. Your dick has billions of years of evolution behind it that means its sole goal is to get girls pregnant as much as possible. Don't ever forget that.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 02:33 AM
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The great part about making a schedule is that if you stick to it you can often ace every class and party. I didn't realize how much time I wasted until I started scheduling things. It lets you really see where the difference would be between normal people and hyper productive success machines like Elon Musk. ^(I mean, I still waste a lot of time, but at least I'm aware of it now.)
/r/askTRP09/08/18 02:29 AM
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Lift. And don't just go to the gym. Learn to diet properly, and gain some serious muscle. Find simple old school lifting routines like 5x5 and make a habit of planning and recording. Learn the habits of more conscientious people. Make a point of being on time to everything. Keep a calendar, and schedule your time for things like doing homework, exercise, going to sleep, and folding your laundry. Finish things you start whenever possible, and be reliable and responsible. Conscientiousness is the …
/r/askTRP09/08/18 02:25 AM
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So many reasons. First, muscle is so much easier to put on at 17 than at later ages, and it will also help optimize your body because you're teaching it that it needs to be strong while you're still growing and developing. Reaching your peak takes years if not decades. I'm 34 and really really really wish I'd been more consistent about lifting when younger. Also if you develop the habit at 17 you'll have had it for longer which will make it easier to stick with it when everything hurts more and …
/r/askTRP09/08/18 01:21 AM
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The red flag isn't that she's doing it to other guys, it's if she's not doing it for you. Get your shit together.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 02:31 AM
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Being paranoid won't do you any good. Lots of people are attractive for different reasons, but that's not the only requirement for cheating to happen. Just focus on maintaining yourself and handling your relationship well--that's all you have control over anyway because mate guarding only works against you.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 02:31 AM
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I can't walk forward blindly thinking she is just gonna be faithful 100% forever, You can't expect that on an arbitrarily long timeline she's for sure going to cheat either. My point is that you have to just get over the whole idea of fidelity in general. It's not generally very important unless you're trying to have kids that are yours or you're worried about her not wrapping up and bringing a disease home.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 05:57 PM
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I couldn’t reject because she was black and I thought I would be called a racist. Wat? don't let far leftist garbage thinking ruin your dating life. If you're not into someone, you're not into someone. You're entitled even if it were explicitly because black skin doesn't turn you on.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 05:45 AM
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Don't be depressed that people aren't magical angels who make promises in good faith and never break them. Be happy that you understand all people are flawed and can now focus on the good parts of life with less chance of being surprised by the story.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 01:05 AM
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You're angry because you still believe that monogamy is morally how things should be. It's maddening to see things be "bad". The simplest ^(not saying easy) way to dump the anger is to dump the moral hangup. Worrying about fidelity all the time is missing the point of relationships. Relationships are about you and your partner getting a benefit from each other, not about you and your partner promising to avoid everyone else. The promises and also jealousy are mostly just an artifact of evolution…
/r/askTRP03/08/18 12:46 AM
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It's funny, but don't actually do it. 2 condoms actually gives you a higher failure rate than just wearing 1 properly. (not to mention you can't feel shit through 2 of them)
/r/askTRP26/07/18 03:13 PM
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Time varies too much for an average to really be useful information for you. It really depends on how easily your natural temperament lets you accept/adapt to what you can learn here, and on your starting point. Things like the depth of indoctrination you've accepted and need to deprogram, how resistant you are to change, how averse you are to the painful parts, the amount of time you have available to learn/practice, and your discipline and work ethic all matter as well. For anyone who doesn't …
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:16 AM
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AFAIK toastmasters is more public speaking. It can help, but it's not precisely what you need. is there any quick way to improve my speech. Not really anything quick. But it will be quicker if you pick something that will solve one or maybe two issues and just focus on that for the day or that interaction instead of trying to solve everything during every conversation. There's a concept in psychology called Cognitive Behavioral Therapy which is a fancy way of saying that thoughts, behaviors, and…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 07:56 PM
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Yeah OP could maybe be read that way too. Totally depends on the exact wording and the tone to interpret which scenario it is. Given op's flawless prose, I wouldn't put big money on it being either way. Good thing the correct move is the same in either case. :)
/r/askTRP18/07/18 03:24 AM
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...suddenly she changed and every date we have she cancels it. Lastly she said i should see my "alternatives" after she canceled. She's done with you and/or has moved on to another guy. You should move on to another girl. Talking about going to see "alternatives" is usually blatant code for "I'm no longer interested and you should find someone else so I don't have to find the guts to flat out reject you." Take the hint and lead the split. should i confront her and ask her whats wrong or should i…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 07:53 PM
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Because yours was the weak argument, not mine.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 09:23 PM
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That there are exceptions (especially exceptions with the benefit of fame to their charisma) doesn't contradict what I said.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 07:04 PM
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A man's sperm count does decline and the rate of mutation goes up. The diseases this makes more frequent are the same as for women, but they're no less serious. Also if you have kids that late, you're going to be dying off by the time they graduate from college, you're going to have trouble keeping up with them when they're young, and overall you'll be unable to provide as good a parenting experience. Especially with the way many kids with normal age parents still gain a lot of help and advice f…
/r/askTRP03/07/18 02:28 AM
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If you're doing everything else right there're really no hard rules, so no need to worry about it. IFF you set expectations correctly going in, it won't matter whether you pay, she pays or it's a split. The most alpha thing is always to set everything up so that it all goes smoothly according to however you wanted/planned it. You'll know you're doing it right when you go out together, and when it's time to leave you both present your credit cards with no need to discuss, and no attempts at entit…
/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:38 AM
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Almost everyone wastes a significant portion of their life because they don't know WTF they want, don't know how to get it, and don't have the self-discipline to work on it to the actual maximal extent possible. Now that I am 29 I have a lot of pressure from my mother to get married. She thinks I am getting older and it will get difficult to get married once I am old. Your mother is imagining your SMV works the same way hers did. She's especially wrong if you start taking better care of yourself…
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:42 PM
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I could not have escalated before cuddling more - that would have been to fast, I should have applied dread instead If you cuddled, but didn't have time to escalate, you either cuddled for less than 5 minutes, or didn't do your work to get her interested earlier, or you're just dumb/wrong in thinking you couldn't go faster. As soon as a girl is in your arms, you should be rubbing her somewhere with your hand or finger bare skin is better, but the important part is to be alive. Don't be indisting…
/r/askTRP27/06/18 12:59 AM
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Never turn down a threesome. Even if it's the devil's threesome.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 02:14 PM
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To some extent youth is relative. 34 looks old as fuck when you're 25. But when you're 45, it's a cute age.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 01:56 AM
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Sometimes the reason for single-never-married-over-30 is that they were career focused, or spent their 20s on a boat away from eligible men, and are actually not any more silly than younger women. But it's certainly true that that the odds of a person being problem-free go down as you look at older women and older women.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 01:30 AM
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Not automatically, but they can be.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 04:53 PM
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Don't bother. If you go out of your way to have a talk it's just proving to everyone that you care about the whole thing. If he brings it up, be honest that you know what happened, but don't drag out the conversation or make it a big deal. Laugh off this silly drama. Shake your head and roll your eyes at the bad behavior of others.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 04:50 PM
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This situation is what the phrase "bros before hoes" is really about: don't let a woman destroy your close relationship with your bro. It's totally normal/natural to feel like this was weak, disrespectful and shitty on his part. It was. But you already know you're the overall winner in every meaningful way, so do your best to laugh it off. I mean, look at the facts: She's still into you because you're the more attractive man. He used shitty behavior to take advantage of her shitty behavior so he…
/r/askTRP07/06/18 04:48 PM
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Couple things to add to other posts: When you finish I'm assuming you ask, "how close are you" and try to get her off? No. And definitely do not use that wording. If she's close it will kill her concentration as she tries to estimate it, and make it harder to get there. If she's not close, then she either has to lie and fake something or give you a disappointing answer. A better question would be something like, "What gets you off?" or "What do you need to be able cum?" But ask this during a lul…
/r/askTRP05/06/18 08:26 PM
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If you can see her Facebook, how did you get to the first date stage without noticing at least a couple of these red flags? Anyway, if you're not into it then you're not into it. There's no shame in not feeling attraction because attraction isn't something you choose--it's something that happens to you. Yes it sucks that your first date ever wasn't with the perfect woman to keep for your life, (and same for her), but how much worse do you think it would be if you forced yourself to miserably pus…
/r/askTRP03/06/18 07:54 PM
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If you get in a fight, you're doing it wrong. If you get the shit beat out of you, double wrong. A fight will gain you nothing except lawsuits and hospital bills. I approached him Never respond to inappropriate words by moving physically closer to a fight. If someone says something inappropriate, your goal is not to join a primitive dominance contest. Your goal is to get them to fuck off or shut up so you can go back to enjoying yourself. You didn't want this conversation in the first place, so …
/r/askTRP29/05/18 04:20 PM
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Really? As of last summer, here is a list of 8 automated or assisted parking cars already in production. Parking, precise positioning and small maneuvers in a lot are the easy part. We're only a decade or two away from Tesla pulling an Apple and releasing a car that doesn't even have a steering wheel or pedals. And you'll be able to ask it to pull up for you on the curb with your phone.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 04:00 AM
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That some of the people who do it are socially clueless does not mean the job itself isn't a great choice for a redpill.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 02:48 AM
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Self driving cars are already licensable in Nevada. Ubiquitous self driving busses and trucks among new vehicles are at most 10-15 years out. This is not a long term thing.
/r/askTRP26/05/18 02:47 AM
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Clubs are stupid--especially when you're 18 and have no confidence. But that shouldn't stop you from working on the skill. It's all about charisma and you can practice that on everyone everywhere. That dumpy 45 year old checkout lady? Charm the fuck out of her. Don't stand their for 10 minutes trying to get her number because that's not the goal. Just stand confidently, smile, ask how her shift's going, give eye contact, then say thanks and mean it. Do the same even for the weird man putting tog…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 07:30 PM
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can you even regain frame to people that know you are a beta? Only after you spend years improving yourself and the dramatic change finally shocks them. It's not something to pursue directly in the short term (like, a year or two) because realizing you're a beta doesn't change anything instantly. Basically all you can do instantly is focus on improving yourself. Losing beta tendencies is not a fast or easy process. Thankfully this is what you need to be doing anyway to get to a point where you a…
/r/askTRP24/05/18 07:11 PM
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Social proof is mostly about creating the initial attraction. If she's already into you, you've got all you really need. She's not with you for the parties because there weren't any to start with. I wouldn't worry about it from an SMV point of view, but if you miss having friends that party, they do exist at older ages. I'm in my mid-30s and have friends in their 40s and 50s who regularly have parties. It's a great bunch. You just have to keep networking until you find a group of friends that fi…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 05:00 PM
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What is the difference with a girl who doesn't want to have sex on the 1st night? I have the impression that we don't want girls too promiscuous and give up easily. Or is it to separate girls who genuinely want to wait until they are comfortable from girls who use sex as a tradeoff? In this case I 100% agree. The rule isn't that you should never wait. The rule is that getting good sex is a bad reason to wait for sex because the sex isn't going to be better. If a woman makes you wait, you should …
/r/askTRP21/05/18 04:08 PM
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she made you feel small No you LET her make you feel small by considering her loud blustering seriously. This is a hole in your confidence that you need to patch. How do you deal with these women? Your frame has to be impervious to hers. If you get "sucked in", it's because you're not holding frame. Let her have her big personality while you maintain yours. how would someone game a woman like that? If you hold your frame and she likes you, she will game herself. It's really not that different ex…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:51 AM
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No this is like a pimp She's spot on with that one. If you listen to Patrice a lot (not just here) and then go listen to interviews with famously skilled pimps, you'll see a lot of similarities between their philosophy on women
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:16 AM
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Thing is, he's gold. So he probably doesn't care that much. There's really nowhere to trade up to from here.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 05:16 PM
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This. Find long term goals. Break those down into short term goals. Break those into immediate/daily actions, and learn to structure your life around them. I think this is the most important thing that new adults don't get done and aren't told to spend time on. Spend time on this. It's the single most important thing for getting through your life without tons of regret and depression.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 04:52 PM
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It's worse than that. Most shows suck. Even the "good" shows are mostly just good because they have more sex and violence than they used to. The plots are only circular on a seasonal basis instead of an episode basis. I mean, yeah watching a very blue blue pill is cringey, but the storyline was usually cringey to start with so /shrug.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 01:09 AM
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How can one get the courage to approach, even when their forebrain is screaming at them not to? "Just doing it" is right. It isn't the long term answer, but it's a necessary step to arriving at the right place. No beta blue pill just one day "decides to be a red pill" and instantly goes from having no game to being the flawless RP man. When your current situation is that there is fear and uncertainty at the idea of approaching, you have to do something to unlearn that. The only way to get the ex…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 04:24 AM
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Or he'll just end up married and shit on like 98% of other men. 8
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:17 PM
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I recently tried bringing up the fact that maybe we shouldn't see each other so often since I don't see a real future in the relationship. Why even say this? Instead of bringing it up, just be busy and unable to see her unless it's on your terms. You're not going to be able to be a RP man if you can't say "no" when you want to, so start saying no. Maintain frame. If you're going to say something, say it after she complains about not getting to spend as much time with you as she wanted, or when s…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:14 PM
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I accepted and am meeting him later WTF? Why would you do this? Not meeting isn't "running away from confrontation". There's just no reason to meet in the first place. You think her boyfriend is going to have anything productive to say? Really? What should I expect? Depending on the guy this could end up with everything from a stern talking to and a "please don't fuck my girlfriend" to you getting curb stomped by him and a bunch of his friends. Middle ground is he tries to beat you up solo. Real…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:26 PM
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From what I've seen the ideal is somewhere around 10% bodyfat. You don't want to be bodybuilder shredded, but ogre mode isn't good either. If you can faintly see your abs and the bottom of your obliques, you're golden. When women say they don't like bodybuilders, it's nothing you're going to get to without tons of roids, and they're mostly thinking of the shredded competition look of Mr. Universe at a super dry 5% bodyfat.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 10:48 PM
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Your body type is maybe 10% of your SMV, maybe. This is true if you're not very good looking to start with. Most men are ugly, so it seems true more broadly. But for the few men who really do look really good, this can be a huge factor in the responses they get.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 10:46 PM
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I hope I'm not just overanalyzing like a dork. You are, but that's not very important so long as it doesn't impede action. The only bad thing would be if you want her, but don't ask her out. Don't fret about what type of interest she has in you right now. The important thing is that she obviously has some type of interest because she's eagerly talking to you. Some type of interest can very easily become sexual/romantic interest. When she talks to me I get a sort of instinctual feeling like she's…
/r/askTRP03/05/18 08:13 AM
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Dude, I'm a molecular biologist. I know what the pills do. If they gave you some confidence and/or placebo effect, that's great. But they're not psychoactive medications. Maybe don't comment if you don't know what you're talking about.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 03:51 PM
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While you're right it's mental, viagra/cialis are not dependency forming.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 05:59 PM
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Viagra and Cialis only help solve physical problems. They don't do anything for desensitization or psychological issues.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 05:59 PM
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No. Target/Walmart is going to be stocking shelves, doing checkouts, retrieving carts etc and maybe occasionally telling someone what isle to find something. You want something where customers frequently show up, but also frequently don't buy things, or don't buy as many things as the company wants to sell to them. Someplace where part of your job is actually getting customers to buy things. This could be one of those carts in the middle of a mall, a cable store, car dealership etc. If it's comm…
/r/askTRP28/04/18 09:42 PM
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Then I asked 2 times is she still annoyed at me and sorry if it came out wrong. Don't ask whining questions that you already know the answer to just because you're hoping against hope for a different answer. That comes off needy as fuck. I mistakenly said I would make out with her friends. It came out totally wrong. lol How could you expect that to come out right? Boastful jokes aren't great material. The same moment I said sorry and explianed it came out. A joke that falls flat isn't going to g…
/r/askTRP28/04/18 03:23 PM
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Retail is one. Another is anything with the job title "Account Executive"--though some of those will be phone sales which won't go nearly as far to hone your salesmanship skills as in person communication would. If you want to go part time, you can look for a charity that goes door to door asking for donations. This is fairly poor sales experience overall, but really good if you're starting with lots of fear and low skill as charity will get you warmer reactions and higher success rates than str…
/r/askTRP28/04/18 03:07 PM
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600 is years and years of learning. Not everyone can spend a week reading TRP material and then walk out of their house a high value guy. It takes years of failed approaches, and introspection to gain enough experience to change yourself into someone who gets the kind of response you're talking about.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 04:52 AM
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I’ve also done my fair share of cold approaches, about six, which is for someone reason considered “autistic” in high school. I am oblivious as to why considering that it makes me stick it out. Good job on 6! When you hit 600, you'll laugh at calling that your fair share. But right now, take time to feel pride and appreciate yourself for putting in effort that most men your age don't. In high school anything different/unexpected/misunderstood stands out. You're exploring behaviors others are too…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 09:53 PM
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How often do I need to text her? Just whenever I feel like it? Pretty much. Read the Sidebar about handling The Talk. Read the TRP sidebar on maintenance (Some of the word choice in this post is not culturally compatible with my social circles, but the general ideas are sound.) Make it clear through your actions what the relationship is, and then avoid saying/doing things that contradict that.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 08:36 AM
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I asked her, what work did you do again? If she told you before, scroll up. Have her profile open in another window so you can instantly look up anything you want to know but forgot. From a pickup perspective, why are you asking boring irrelevant questions you can easily answer faster than she can type and reply? Stop wasting everyone's time. "ah, you can't remember with so many girls" In some previous part of your interactions, you stupidly bragged or bragged by implication about having lots of…
/r/askTRP26/04/18 10:49 PM
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You're overthinking this. Things come up sometimes, and if she's asking for a reschedule instead of canceling, she's obviously still interested. This isn't a test. Your one mistake was in being wishy-washy when you clearly prefer Thursday reschedule to Tuesday delayed-schedule.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 07:13 PM
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is it safe to assume never
/r/askTRP24/04/18 06:57 PM
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Most women aren't funny anyway. Like you sorta said, it was a dumbass attempt at a joke on her part. She probably just felt she had to make that kind of joke because it's such a cliche (that she hasn't actually experienced yet). Obviously she doesn't actually think it's too fast seriously otherwise she wouldn't still be fucking you. She's trying to bust your balls for something she thought you would obviously be secure about. 5-20 minutes is fine. I've seen studies showing most women start to ge…
/r/askTRP23/04/18 03:01 PM
1

how do you feel about implants? that's how my friend solved his wife's "problem".
/r/askTRP21/04/18 06:46 AM
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Passwords for shared finances are completely different from passwords for private entertainment and communication tools like facebook. Of course people share passwords for shared accounts, or things that effectively would become shared were you to die or whatever. There's no reason to ever share passwords for unshared accounts.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 05:35 PM
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People in my life who have my passwords have earned that right. How has she earned it? This isn't something that can be earned. No one should ever have your passwords unless your getting to an age where you can't remember them and your children are taking care of you.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 05:32 PM
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This sounds right as a long term solution, but does less to show the response to the immediate demand. I feel like committing to share FB passwords in the future will open a can of worms, not to mention infringe on my privacy in a way that I am not comfortable with. Absolutely correct. The short term reply to her question is a more carefully worded variant of "No, I never share passwords with anyone, for any reason. Let's find ways to maintain and strengthen our trust in each other that don't in…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 05:29 PM
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RP and pickup stuff can poison your soul if you only see the transactional nature of all relationships. Just because AWALT, doesn’t mean that they aren’t human. It is precisely because of their humanity that they are “like that”. You can focus on the irrational, hypergamous, and duplicitous side of that humanity, and you will go insane because you realize you can’t control it. You come to hate women because they are capable of harming you. The truth is, men are equally capable of harm, and all h…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 06:32 PM
1

Depending on your specific physiology, not ejaculating might mean there's no recoverable evidence. Some guys have sperm-containing pre-cum that comes out before orgasm during sex, while others don't let anything out until orgasm.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 04:01 PM
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When I first got a copy of the game Starcraft (the original back in the day), I played the single player campaign and loved it. Then I played some games against the computer and enjoyed winning that. I loved building a base and doing research to get upgrades and finding ways to win without a single lost unit. I felt like I had gotten pretty good. Then I found out that my friends played it too, so we had a big vs game between all of us and I got fucking destroyed. They completely owned me no matt…
/r/askTRP15/04/18 01:50 AM
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I only text for logistics (once per week). Is this "I only have to text for logistics" or is it "the only reason I text is for logistics". I do pair-bonding stuff with those that I see LTR potential in. This could mean a lot of things... -- Is there a hole in my game? Girls usually want commitment from guys who are giving them a relationship, not just sex. Are you having long conversations with the ones you want more than once per week (i.e. often enough to build attachment)? Is the image they g…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 10:31 PM
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This isn't really the right sub for this question, but the only real difference should be that your hormone levels are have a higher baseline. As I understand it, the main goal of nofap is to develop discipline. You accept that you're horny and continue that way for a few days instead of rushing to the computer for instant relief as soon as you're the least bit bored. This is supposed to leave you with time, motivation, and extra energy that are all focused on sex in the real world. There is som…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 09:10 AM
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She’s sent nudes to guys before. But not to you. As others have said, at this point you're an orbiter/validator. The way out is to make an unambiguous attempt to transition it into something worthwhile. The transition will likely fail, but if done right it will communicate that you aren't interested in just being an orbiter friend, and it will let you move on with no regrets because you gave it a real shot. She’s with her boyfriend half the time. She doesn’t snap me when they hang out. Well obvi…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 05:07 PM
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As in my top level post, I don't think he was clear enough for her to know what he's after. If she's smart she strongly suspects, but saying you "want to catch up" with an old friend isn't exactly seduction on its own.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 03:49 PM
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This is pretty much right. You don't have to talk about sex. You just have to flirt. You're showing you're attracted, showing your interest, remaining high status, and slowly becoming more blatantly sexual as she responds positively to less blatant stuff.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:29 AM
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I don't need three A gentleman doesn't kiss and tell Nothing good can come from that number so I don't keep count. Not keeping count doesn't work nearly as well when you're 19, but after 25 or so it works pretty well because it's totally reasonable for you to have had more than a handful of partners.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:20 AM
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Outcome independence doesn't mean getting a bad outcome by calling her stupid when you could have gotten a good outcome. It means going for the good outcome but not caring if you don't get it in spite of your making the best possible play.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:52 PM
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Feels against TRP Why? TRP isn't about lying or hiding the truth. It's about being a best you, and not letting others manipulate that. Direct answers can be bad when you don't know someone because to women they feel sudden (which from strangers is scary), and insincere or uncommitted. Like catcalls. It's like trying to fuck with zero foreplay--she's still dry so it hurts. Direct answers can be great when you do know someone because you can give them a view of you that is suddenly bold, unafraid,…
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:50 PM
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made it pretty clear it was a date setting with drinks. There's no difference between your a "date setting" and a "catch up with a friend setting". The difference would be in how you acted at the date, not in the setting. She doesn't know how you intend to act, so she can't expect it to be a date.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:33 PM
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why do you think is that a trick question Over text this could come across a bit of a put down like "are you dumb?" Choosing sarcasm really depends on knowing how the other person sees you well enough to know how it will be interpreted. The third one is pretty decent though. Humor works.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:31 PM
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She obviously knows why No. If your description is accurate then she probably suspects, but when you phrase it as "catch up over some drinks" that doesn't at all tell her that you're into her for certain. It's not always bad to leave uncertainty like that. The proof is always in how the date goes anyway. But at the same time you need to recognize the amount of communication you actually have and haven't done. I sternly said no to this invitation, and I said I wanted to see her and not her mate. …
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:23 PM
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In college ( at least at my school ) no one really takes girls out to get coffee or goes to get drinks, its all house parties. Doesn't mean you can't do it. If you want to hook up with a girl, sure you could daygame some random chick at starbucks or in the quad but how you'd do that would be to invite her to watch you play beerdie or invite her to a fraternity party. This is a self limiting belief. There are no rules about where/when/how you can/can't invite a girl to hang out. Start asking girl…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 06:39 AM
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Girls are a lot more forgiving of popping fast than of not popping or taking a long time. Play it off as "you're so hot I couldn't stop myself", and then distract them with kissing/touching until you can get hard again for the next round. She's going to interpret it how you interpret it, so treat it like it's nothing, maintain your confidence, and the mood won't break. Don't run off to the bathroom like you need to shit, just subtly wipe yourself off a bit when you take off your pants. Some girl…
/r/askTRP25/03/18 08:10 PM
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these days if you're making mobile apps with the goal of money, you have to make one for iOS probably in objective-C or swift, and for android in whatever language you suck least in or can port easiest with.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 05:21 AM
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As someone who's done some work with machine learning, full automation isn't really close enough to worry about yet unless you work a factory/assembly line job (burger flipping counts, but higher end cooking doesn't) or unless you're a driver of some sort. The AI required to do more complex tasks is exponentially more difficult to create. Also, robots are a big capital investment, but have the advantage of doing things continuously, precisely and often extremely fast. Some jobs benefit greatly f…
/r/askTRP21/03/18 05:05 AM
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Assuming those are sexy snaps? Your post isn't detailed, but if you think friend wasn't drunk and will likely do this again, you should probably tell GF sooner rather than later. If you ignore it, and Friend brings it up later, laugh it off like "I thought for sure you were drunk or something since you know I'm exclusive with GF, so I just deleted it. No worries." But make sure you set/maintain a boundary with friend's advances unless you intend to cheat. If your relationship with GF is solid en…
/r/askTRP18/03/18 10:07 PM
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I doubt you want to talk to him. What would be the point? Don't bother. Nothing good can come from it. As for whether you should also ghost her... Considering he lives 2.5 hours away, you could feasibly let her come back as a plate in a while. But she definitely needs a cooling off period and it's liable to blow up again because whoever knows about it on her end will be on high alert for her behavior now. Even if you give things a month or two to cool off, you're liable to face her trying to "cl…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 09:36 AM
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Your girl is ADVANCED shitty. She does it in front of you. She is disrespecting you, she knows she is, she assumes it brings you distress and anxieties because it would bring her those feelings if you did it, BUT she doesn't care and uses some technicality to dismiss or belittle your pain: "I'm not flirting, you're being a pussy, paranoid". OR she just becomes oblivious to him when a hotter guy shows up. Never attribute to active malice what can be explained by stupidity and selfish self-centere…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 07:34 AM
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Above a certain point better looks stop mattering that much. Sure you'd take a 9 over a 7 on first sight, but for dating almost all people would take a 7 who's funny interesting and gets along well over a 9 who's a jerk. Even if they're only a jerk in private. You're dating her so you know you're over the minimum looks-wise. Keep that up, but otherwise don't worry about it.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 10:40 PM
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I figured talking to female counselor might help me become more comfortable talking to women in general.. The goal of therapy is not to get comfortable talking to women. It can't be, because you're talking to only one woman, not many women. By the time you're comfortable talking to her, you're thinking of her in terms of her known personality and your known therapy relationship when what you need is to become comfortable talking to women where their personality and your (potential) relationship …
/r/askTRP04/03/18 05:14 PM
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That sucks. She wasn't doing her job. At the Uni I went to when I needed help, all the sessions were videotaped and reviewed by the PhD instructor(s) later. If someone had done that they would have gotten a very poor grade. That said, it's another good reason to choose a male therapist. The goal of therapy is to change your thinking and figure things out. The fewer possible distractions from that the better. You want someone who empathizes with your side of the gender divide, and who there won't…
/r/askTRP04/03/18 04:29 PM
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This is more of an /r/askseddit type question but here goes... I've been depressed for the past few years Start seeing a psychologist regularly immediately. This is not something to be ashamed about. Depression is a sickness, but for most people it's very curable. Go get cured. It's necessary, and it's now your priority one. You're not going to get anything done about anything so long as your outlook on everything is depressive. Fix that first. If you have a hard time affording it, you may be ab…
/r/askTRP04/03/18 02:58 AM
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he comes to stay in my house twice a year (for 1 month each) Is it really your house or do you still live with your parents? If it's your house, (yet for some good reason your sister lives with you rather than your parents--presumably when she's not in school?), the answer is simple. Tell your sister that her boyfriend is not welcome to live with you. Ever. Your house right? You can make rules about things you own. This is boundary setting 101. If it's your parents house, you're a moron because …
/r/askTRP04/03/18 02:21 AM
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It's always going to be unnatural until you've done it a lot. Even then there will always be a layer of first-time-with-a-new-person awkward. Take 5 minutes to sit, think, and ask yourself what you DO want in order to feel good. List out all the things you miss that you were getting in your relationship. Then spend some time thinking about those things and how you might be able to get them from people outside of a sexual/romantic relationship. If you can take care of all or enough of them, then …
/r/askTRP11/02/18 07:35 AM
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I'm really not seeing the problem. If you don't want to slut it up, you don't have to. Sex with relative strangers is not supposed to be "fulfilling" in terms of all of your needs. It's a way to take care of horniness if you're other needs are met other ways. If you'd just rather have a relationship, do that. Obviously it's not something you can just buy on Amazon with overnight shipping, but there's no reason to feel obligated to fuck around a bunch if you don't want to. If you'd rather play at…
/r/askTRP11/02/18 07:13 AM
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I think the one thing missing from this thread is that, if it does turn out to be code for "come over so we can bang", there's nothing wrong with actually helping with her homework too if she actually needs it (but only do that afterwards so you know which situation you're actually in).
/r/askTRP26/01/18 09:25 PM
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I'm with you on that. I pretty much assumed that if he's willing to hit up churches, he's either already religious or at least believes in god but hasn't thought on it to hard (leaving him flexible). Definitely a big commitment if you're going to the more conservative places to try to find a more traditional woman.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 10:41 PM
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I grew up in a Christian family, even got sent to church school and stayed through college cause christian college meant financial help. Here's the thing: Christians, and churches too, are not the same. Like not even close and that's just within one denomination, not even counting the differences between denominations. For example in the church my parents visit every week, it's mostly older folks. They sing hymns. They have a sermon about how prayer works wonders and god cares about you and shit…
/r/askTRP25/01/18 01:41 AM
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There are lots of reasons things can stop cold, and it makes more sense if you think of clubs as amusement park fantasy rides for adults. What can ruin a trip to disneyland for a little kid and cause them to stop everything and refuse to continue? the ride was too fast the ride was too slow/boring the ride ended early the ride took too long the ride feels the same as some other ride they're tired of they didn't want to go on a ride in the first place today friends weren't enjoying their rides So…
/r/askTRP22/01/18 11:23 PM
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For like the 3rd time, yes that's what I'm saying. A dick will not change a woman's tightness.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 01:35 AM
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Yes. Do your biceps get floppy if you stretch them to reach the cereal on the top shelf? No. Neither does a vagina.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 02:53 AM
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Comment above you here right, but if you don't believe him get an anatomy textbook. The vagina is surrounded by muscles. Muscles are elastic. They can stretch, they contract, but they always return to the same size afterwards. Even with childbirth, the only thing that might alter it is if it tears badly and scars. Have you ever pulled a muscle or know someone who has? Was the muscle permanently elongated or did it heal back to the same genetically determined length? It went back to the same size…
/r/askTRP13/01/18 11:38 PM
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It's an accurate description of a BP who's just found TRP and is lapping up all the info and jargon without grokking it, changing/improving anything about himself, or moving past the angry stage.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 01:26 AM
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Everything proves that unlike men, these bitches don't marry just for love The fact that her emotions aren't maintaining doesn't mean she doesn't love him or didn't at the time of marriage. It just means the sexual attraction is gone because the structures that continuously created it (his perceived relative wealth potential and resultant attitude/confidence) are gone. The lack of attraction is grinding down her other positive emotions for him, and she's too immature to work on any of it on her …
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 01:20 AM
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I can't tell him exactly how I feel either Nothing will change as long as this is where she is.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 12:57 AM
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That sucks man. My sister's at least generally ok on non-gender-related issues like vaccines and conspiracy BS. I hope they both come back to reality eventually, but I've not seen that happen yet anywhere. :/
/r/askTRP28/12/16 08:07 PM
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I think that when the actual movie comes out, most of the comments here will look really stupid. Do you really think they'd change Bond that much when they have the tried and true box office success formula in hand from previous movies?? Also there's nothing BP about fucking a woman as hot as Monica Belluci is at 50. Post wall? Post wall means she's old enough that BP men aren't throwing money at her for existing as often. It doesn't necessarily mean she isn't still hot, or that you'd pass her u…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 10:07 AM
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Which is why you create a new account for TRP before you ever post here. Yeah there's a bit of a waiting period, but like anything worthwhile it's worth waiting for.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 03:02 PM
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Text game is largely stupid. Teasing often backfires because the nonverbal cues aren't included, and what you intend is often not what is heard. Also, lying is fucking stupid, and you shouldn't be doing it. Be straightforward, get the meetup scheduled for a start time with ambiguous ending time. Lastly, don't initiate further contact until the meeting actually happens. I think you're misreading what she's interpreted you to be saying. You wrote: "I'm busy during the week. Friday around 7 pm, I'v…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 07:26 AM
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Like most big decisions, the right answer is a cost/benefit analysis. Sit down and write out all the pros and cons of both choices. Don't try to make them come out even, just list as many as you can think of. That's about as clear as the choice will get.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 06:05 AM
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I'm 31 and I've seen several of my friends live this... Your question doesn't have much context so I'll just say that this is a good idea if, and only if one or more of the following is true: Someone in your home is physically abusive Someone in your home is mentally abusive (we're talking real psychological abuse. It does NOT count if you're parents are just "anti-TRP", asking "why aren't you a good Christian?" or "You have to be home by 11 or we're going to ground you." etc. If they're just an…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 03:54 AM
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What do you guys make of this? I don't see anything here indicating she is "feeling entitled to you commitment". This is about her wanting you for dick and/or relationship and you ignoring her interest until she's frustrated. Then, since she's obsessing about it, she starts thinking maybe you're doing it on purpose just to fuck with her. Later she realizes that is a crazy idea and that it's much more likely that you either didn't know, weren't interested or were too much of a pussy to act on it.…
/r/askTRP18/08/15 05:22 AM
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She is not nice because she likes me, she is nice because she wants something from me: she wants to be popular and liked. So does everyone. So do you. So what? This isn't something bad. Stop making moral judgments of the new things you notice, and you'll regain the ability to enjoy life. TRP can wake you up to how the world works, but unfortunately knowledge doesn't instantly change your moral intuition. Smart readers will have noticed how the anger/depression etc phases parallel the stages of g…
/r/askTRP18/08/15 01:25 AM
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There have been several interviews of male porn stars around. They don't masturbate, take pills and even inject stuff directly into their cocks to stay hard as much as the job requires.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 12:46 AM
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I just need a place and right now I don't have a place we can fuck for logistic reasons (we're both living our parents atm). There's your answer. (or at least part of it). She doesn't want to give up her source of sex without a replacement. Also speaking from experience, not having a place that you can take a girl for sex is a huge SMV killer. It makes you look weak and dependent which are very unmasculine, unattractive traits.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 04:46 PM
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lololol @ Frank Thundercock. TBH honest I'm glad this is fake. I'm cynical enough as it is.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 06:45 PM
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and cannot be hacked BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHA That said, there are some celebrities who already do this to avoid problems for example Tucker Max. However the difference with celebs is that girls are already begging to have sex with them so much that they'll gladly overlook the total awkwardness of something like this app. For normal people it's weird and will probably remain weird for a long time.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 08:51 AM
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My goal is to invent methods for repairing everything that happens to us as we age. I want people who are 90 to be physically and mentally (experience aside) indistinguishable from people who are 25. I had an existing enjoyment of science news, and started looking more deeply into the subject after seeing Aubrey de Grey's 2009 TED Talk (now somewhat outdated but still the best intro to the field). I'd always assumed that youth, or at least "health span", was a primary goal of biology research. A…
/r/askTRP11/07/15 06:35 PM
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This bar was very quick to conflate a desire for equal prices with an unwillingness to treat women with respect. Be careful against this sort of rhetoric. "Being careful" is not useful advice because it doesn't give you any clue as to what actions or strategies to employ other than being fearful, so I'm going to correct it here: When you're in front of a crowd, your goal is to humiliate anyone who uses this tactic. Don't say this bar owner has good intentions, but is mistaken about the facts of …
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 08:37 PM
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Am I being a dick? Yes, you are being a dick. I get that it hurts, and a lot of us can sympathize because we have been or are in similar situations. Set your emotional boundaries better by realizing what parts of this situation are and are not under your control. It's ok to have feelings, but you can't let them control you without a fight. TRP is about learning to deal with the world as it is, not running away because you can't handle it. You are MGTOW-ing your parents right now. Stop that.
/r/askTRP03/07/15 07:52 AM
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It's more evolution than purposeful self preservation. The ones who weren't funny have all been killed off.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 09:26 AM
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But she did warn me about them wanting a very strong man. Nigerian woman says "do you even lift bro?". ;)
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 09:15 AM
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One aspect of being 'alpha' is to be a leader. This doesn't always mean you have followers, but it does mean you are leading yourself. If you're leading yourself, you're not following others unless you independently think it's the right choice to do what they're doing. This is a lesson everyone needs to learn whether they're raised by the most red pill surroundings or not. Followers are glass chameleons who, at most, distort some of their surroundings. Leaders create their own image regardless o…
/r/askTRP01/07/15 10:20 PM
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While I agree that all of this should happen, the whole thing is based on society and the courts using logical comparisons. I think you underestimate the ability of BP judges and other feminists to rationalize, come up with excuses and otherwise willfully deny reality. I do hope you're right, but I won't believe it until I see it.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 01:02 AM
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Sooo wishing this would actually bankrupt Gawker and force them to close. That site has been the blight of the internet for a long time.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 08:02 AM
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Unfortunately loss of function due to medication does not remove the inability to deny a pussy pass.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 07:50 AM
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9 strokes/min = 6.6 seconds per stroke. Yeah, that's a bit low. More like 15 (4s) if you go really slow to 60 (1s) if you're a jackrabbit. Call it 30 for lazy fucking. So the rest of the math becomes (4mx30s/m) = 120s, 120sx6in = 720in, 720in/12in/ft = 60ft x3w = 180ft/w x50w/yr = 9000ft/yr or about 1.7 miles. I saw one of these a while ago that incorporated average ejaculate to calculate miles per gallon.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 01:24 AM
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TL;DR You don't. If you being you isn't enough to make her completely overlook it, then you aren't going to be able to overcome it any time soon. Sounds like you have some one-itis right now. Put some ice on it and the swelling will go down in a while.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 07:28 PM
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If she refuses to meet up, she refuses to meet up. There's basically nothing you can actively do. Best bet is to soft next her. Only chance you'll ever get anywhere is if you run into each other occasionally via mutual friends--and even then probably only a few months/years down the road when you've had a chance to forget each other. Important thing to do right now is to reflect on what happened and determine what you think may have caused this, and then don't fuck up that way with the next girl…
/r/askTRP14/06/15 07:26 PM
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Grammar Goebbels, reporting in.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 05:16 AM
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I'm generally in favor of this, but seriously that handbook needs many many man hours of editing and rewriting before it's book quality material. SJW morons aren't the only reason TRP doesn't have wider acceptance. A lot of our best material has piss poor phrasing as well.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 05:09 AM
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I didn't say they were immune, but they are much less susceptible than someone who has to run for office every 2 years. And yes of course "change is always occurring", but the rate of change matters a great deal and the judicial branch structure helps keep things from being a chaotic free-for-all every 2-4 years.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 04:44 PM
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haha! There's good reason for it though. Of all the branches of government the courts need to be the most stable--they need to change the slowest in order to function correctly. If they changed all the time it would hurt the economy by creating a lot of uncertainty about what is and isn't going to be a business model that's both legal AND profitable. (there's already a fair amount of this uncertainty as it is because the legislative/executive branches change rules every time there's a party swit…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 06:51 PM
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Then we get Andrea Dworkin appointed to the Supreme Court and everything is on the table. :/
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 02:20 PM
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Your first assumption is a bad one. Most men don't use the rating system this way. I think there are a few good reasons why, but first let's look at some actual data. This graph is from OkCupid's OkTrends blog where the creators of the site have some fun with the site's database. As you can see 5s (2.5 on this 5 point scale) barely touch the 20% mark, rather than 39% with something like 6 or 7% falling at 0 and 9. Luckily their variation is still mostly normal, though if you look closely it is s…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 08:06 AM
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haha! But before anyone gets too excited: Unfortunately, the book lacks scientific rigor in some areas and diverges into pseudoscientific speculation regarding topics like astrology RP is about truth, so let's make sure we don't run off blaming everything on the nose prematurely.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 07:08 AM
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I'm 65% sure that a law requiring a gender quota would get struck down as unconstitutional in the US. Of course it could still have nasty effects for a few years while the case went through the courts. If you're a man in mangement, prepare to never be promoted
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 07:02 AM
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These things are not mutually exclusive. I'd say that when sex happens is half or mostly a function of her excitement level and your relative SMV, but there are oceans of distance between a guy who's been learning TRP, lifting and practicing seduction regularly for a couple of years--who is very skilled compared to a complete BP--and the top tier Chads out there who were born with all of it. There are any number of reasons girls make guys wait (including the RPW advice you saw), but that doesn't…
/r/askTRP08/06/15 06:25 AM
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If this goes through any woman can get a rape conviction on any man she can drag into bed by chugging 5 shots immediately post coitus and calling the cops. By the time she gets to the station she'll be drunk, and when the cops "calculate backwards" under the assumption that she's been sobering up since the start of sex... If this goes through I'm never fucking anyone in the UK.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 03:12 AM
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I'd add that part of being able to do the things you've mentioned better would be matching her on the money dimension. She obviously feels like blowing several grand in one night is not a big deal. If you don't also feel like that, then she's always going to make you feel inferior when she plays like this with money. Short of being rich yourself or actually not caring about large amounts of money (not like poors who claim they don't just to feel better about themselves) I don't know how to accom…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 02:13 PM
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This story left me speechless. After a few minutes reflection, all I can say is wow you should be really careful this girl doesn't get you sent to jail.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 01:54 PM
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There's a lot to know about steroids one of the biggest things that made me less against them was the fact that when most of the anabolics were outlawed in 1991, the DEA, the FDA and other arbiters of drugs and health were against the ban. They didn't see roids as a threat when used correctly. The reason that congress banned them anyway was because they'd been cast as a way to cheat in our national religion (sports) and some evidence that they weren't good for kids (who rely on natural hormone b…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 04:09 PM
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I disagree with that. Usually true of say 17 and 27 though
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 04:03 PM
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The (previous) existence of /r /jailbait proves that. (although admittedly there were also a lot of pedos on there.)
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 04:02 PM
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The only time a guy can be "too big" is when he's on steroids and has been lifting perfectly a looong time. It's damn near impossible otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 03:39 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pPOe2ypB5Qc
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 04:10 PM
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It's even worse than that. As a man in porn you're usually pushed to always be at maximum hardness. Nobody wants to see floppy dicks. You wouldn't think that'd be an issue, but shoots can take hours. So you end up taking viagra and eventually you're injecting things into your cock. Guys ruin themselves for porn.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 01:14 AM
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I still don't understand how any self respecting guy could date those women. Some men get off on having other men fuck their girlfriend and/or being cuckolded. We may not be able to empathize, but w/e let them have at it.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 01:10 AM
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White knighting v. Meddling in something that's none of your business on the side of a woman because you're attracted to her. Defending bad or wrong ideas because you're attracted to someone who you think believes them. You did neither of these things. You did what you did because you wanted him to close the door as a terminal value--not as some convoluted subconscious scheme to gain the girl's favor. If you did it because you wanted to cockblock him in favor of yourself or because he wasn't bei…
/r/askTRP30/05/15 06:17 AM
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That's fucked up of her. That said, you failed a huge comfort test--which is the reason she flipped out and stopped birth control to begin with. I'm not saying this is all your fault, but this is something that you could have handled gracefully by considering her emotional state better during and after announcing the new developments in your career. You need to get this girl's emotions back under control ASAP. This is going to require some serious skill, so I suggest you take time think carefull…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 09:22 PM
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It's not that it didn't happen 50 years ago (guess who those men were cheating with), it's that it wasn't talked about 50 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 07:12 PM
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Something from another place that this sub might appreciate: Litany of Gendlin What is true is already so. Owning up to it doesn't make it worse. Not being open about it doesn't make it go away. And because it's true, it is what is there to be interacted with. Anything untrue isn't there to be lived. People can stand what is true, for they are already enduring it. —Eugene Gendlin
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 08:02 AM
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A privately owned, but state protected, monopoly is no better than a whole cloth government monopoly. The point was about lack of competition, so if the government contracts its work to a private company, the situation isn't different--it's still effectively government monopoly.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 07:43 AM
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Most people who travel like this are young. They put their stuff in storage (preferably at mom's house where rent is free) and give up their apartment so they don't have any expenses back home.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 03:59 PM
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It's a fine line. The trick is to make it informative--talk about your mental state, the obstacles you faced, how you overcame them, why your strategies worked, and if you include dialog include both what was said and what was actually happening/meant... instead of just describing the scene. Good job on a quick pull.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 03:56 PM
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That sucks, but there are more appropriate subs than this one to post it in. This sub is about the path to alpha: self-improvement and solutions, not stories that make us feel shitty and hopeless. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 03:25 PM
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Doing a good job is still a good choice though because it gets you that next job (at a different company) really fast. It's much easier in general to get large pay raises by switching companies than by getting promoted within the same company, so I'd argue that should be the default strategy for guys who aren't afraid.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 02:43 PM
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Your friend isn't Mark Zuckerberg by any chance? Let this be a learning experience for you. If you want to control something in the future, never give up control of the access to it. (Keep property in your name. Keep formal signed written records of any transactions or agreements. If someone wants to run with your idea for free, agree to "hire" them for a dollar, so that you still own the result.)
/r/askTRP19/05/15 12:33 AM
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I never really understood the draw of baby names, and I personally don't use them outside of parody. But the same ideas will apply--are you maintaining frame or are you losing yourself in her world? Google says this? The problem with everything in that video is that, taken together, the guy has obviously started making his life revolve around hers rather than having his own life. He's doing everything she thinks of to do, and is even subverting his own wants for her whims. That's not cool. It's …
/r/askTRP18/05/15 02:40 PM
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TL;DR there's no magic interval you need to wait to optimize ILUs. You should be able to figure it out yourself based on your ability to say it while maintaining frame. There's nothing wrong with saying ILU when you mean it. The problem isn't the words themselves. The problem is the needy mental place they sometimes come from, and the unattractive tone and body language that that place creates. Betas will say "I love you" from a place where they have no self control and they're weak relative to …
/r/askTRP18/05/15 06:56 AM
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That's because you need to learn the difference between softly in control in the face of an out of control tirade and cowering silence in the face of an out of control tirade. These forms of quiet are not the same thing. Fundamentally this is about social situation control. When an alpha is loud, it's purposeful and he remains in control. Same when he's quiet. When this is done well anyone watching will instantly feel he has more control than the other guy. Also, stop bellyaching about being wor…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 01:37 AM
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I loved that Factual Feminist video because "Women Are Wonderful" abbreviates to 'waw' which is a great dismissive: waw waw waw waw-shut up
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 06:20 AM
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I'd recommend this more for the experience of physical escalation and technique than for the "practicing alpha-ness" bit. I don't improve my ability to not care about a Ferarri by not caring about a Yugo, but learning to shift and use the clutch properly applies well to any car.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 06:00 AM
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Mushrooms were my personal favorite. Take them on a sunny afternoon outside with some friends. Enjoy the new colors of the grass and the song on the wind.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 02:41 AM
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Yea, it's also reliant on the accuracy of self reporting, and is immediately questionable simply for being a sociology paper. It did get published though, so that's cool. This is a fun thing to see, but we have to be careful to only appreciate it for what it is.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 02:29 AM
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Read the entire sidebar (and at least some of the contents of the sidebar links) before you start asking silly questions. Among other essentials, there's a glossary link there.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 02:20 AM
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Yeah for sure. I'd compare it to practicing for a car race without ever shifting past 3rd gear. You can get really good at the take off, but it will leave your skill set very lopsided.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 01:54 AM
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she has stated to me multiple times that she cares strongly about saving her virginity for marriage Translation: I'm not a slut. She's stated that there's 99.9% chance I'd be disappointed if I wanted sex Translation: I'm not a slut. Is there anything I can do to convince her otherwise...? There's nothing you can do to convince her that she wants to be a slut, but that doesn't necessarily mean sex is off the table. whenever I finger her Since you're 18, I'm going to assume this happens with cloth…
/r/askTRP15/05/15 12:40 AM
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Some of this I'm not going to try to answer because I'm out of my depth, and unfortunately I think most answers you get will be from people out of their depth. That said.. I've lost maybe 20 close female friends since swallowing. and it's always a female that leaves. That seems high. Obviously you will make some enemies just by setting boundaries and being self-assertive when you weren't before. Some pre-TRP friends will fade out as they feel unworthy. But unless these were mostly friends from p…
/r/askTRP15/05/15 12:20 AM
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It's not, but since it is inclusive of people who think LTRs are a really bad deal, there's going to be some LTR hate. I think a lot of us have simply lost hope that any serious LTR would be worth the risks, and decided that a soft harem is a compromise with a better risk profile. Also, at sufficiently high quality of game it appears that plates have no downside. You can basically get the LTR loyalty you wanted, but you won't have to commit to giving up any opportunities you find later. (disclai…
/r/askTRP14/05/15 09:39 PM
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Yeah I really hated how the Hulk was turned into a low self esteem loser who ran away more because he was afraid than because he wanted to protect people from himself.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 04:19 AM
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It's not that men don't care for female-fronted action films. It's that you can't make a good female fronted action film by dropping a romcom star into a script written for Dwayne Johnson. If they cast maybe, Michelle Rodriguez, and didn't have any stupid "owwwie! I'm just a girl I want to go play jump rope" or "I'm gooder at fighting because I'm a woman! so there!" or "My muscles are as stronger even though they're smaller because i have heart!" moments in the firefights, they could make a grea…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 04:08 AM
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Birds of a feather flock together. It's not a conscious thing; it's just how social interactions play out. Everyone likes people they can look in the eye without looking too far up or down. (also: height, IQ and income all correlate which means there's a defacto gap--maybe you're the short exception, but if so your rarity means there will still be homogeneous groups of tall people.)
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 01:45 AM
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The reason looks/money are important is primarily that they feed into confidence/frame. It's hard to have insanely high self esteem when you're not taking good care of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 12:42 AM
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How many men do have a 6 pack? Abs mostly depend on bodyfat. About 10% bodyfat is what most guys will need to really show all 6. I couldn't find variance data for the US. This survey was conducted on immigrants in Canada, and has the numbers we need. Males age 31-40 have an average fat% of 25.1 with a standard deviation of 6.4. (Choosing this age group because almost no one makes 6 figures in their 20s, and because this is the age group where women hit the wall and want to settle down.) If we as…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 03:07 PM
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so, did he heal your sore throat or what?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:09 PM
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This seems to almost be the ad you're talking about, but the story isn't the same.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 06:20 AM
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One nitpick They drink because they know they fucked up and it's beyond the point of no return. It's the beginning of the rest of their lives, and not in a good way. If they actually knew that, they'd be (on some level) red pills and probably wouldn't be there in the first place. I think these guys get drunk because they're nervous, don't have much self control to start with and equate "party" with getting trashed. Basically this mostly happens at trailer trash weddings for all the obvious trail…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 01:43 AM
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I avoid /r/mensrights for two reasons. It's fucking depressing. I appreciate activist's efforts, and I'd support them if it ever got to the ballet box (or needed a signature to get there). But men's rights don't appear to be making much progress, and thinking about it all the time makes it worse. There's a lot of pure belly aching. Yes, things suck, but I only care about solutions and action plans. I don't want to hear about all the ways they suck without workarounds or sound advice.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 02:30 PM
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Why is it these guys are so oblivious when they are around only men all day? They're oblivious because they have no significant experience with women. Pretty simple.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 02:12 PM
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I think there's one thing missing from your list: Even if none of the things you listed were there, most people are incapable of giving good feedback. They don't consciously know what they want--they just know how they feel. They aren't thinking with purpose about any of it. If you want good feedback, you have to overcome this as well as all the things listed in the OP.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 09:59 PM
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That's truly why women go lower on SMV its total laziness. Confirming laziness. I rock climb as a hobby. I know women into their early 50s who climb all the time and as a result are still smoking hot. (for perspective I'm 31) The wrinkles tend to become quite noticeable by 45 and usually over take the conditioning by 55 or so no matter what. Still, older women could maintain a high SMV if they learned to work for it--look at the latest bond girl for crying out loud.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 05:36 AM
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The purpose of this video seems to be to show that Anarchy works well in the dating market and therefore we shouldn't disregard it when choosing political systems. This is a terrible arguement The vast majority of men are BPers. The vast majority of people get less sex than they want. Many people who desperately want relationships can't get them. Many people who have relationships are miserable with them. Anarchy has not worked well for the masses in dating. There are much much better arguments …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 05:18 AM
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I had similar problems until recently. There are two things that I was doing wrong that maybe you are also. Actually count/track the calories. "Eating yourself sick" is not the same as eating a lot of calories. Track what you're eating to see what your current calories really are, and then after that you can look for ways to increase calorie count. Eat normally and add the extra calories at odd times. Protein shakes, low fat cottage cheese with some onions and greens for flavor, or whatever else…
/r/askTRP30/04/15 05:07 AM
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Time management is pretty simple: Efficiency. If you're on task, going to the gym+working out+shower+going home can take less than 2 hours (depending on travel distance). If you're not efficient, it can take 4 hours. Think about how you can be 5% more efficient all the time and you'll be 100% more efficient soon enough. Combination. I eat lunch on the train so I don't have to spend 20 minutes eating elsewhere. There's usually something I need to read or watch for work, that I can combine with mo…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 02:17 PM
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This sounds like something you should do thoroughly and then get published in a peer reviewed journal.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 03:55 AM
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You sister sounds awful, but to get one term straight: 25 is not usually "the wall". Most women still look amazing until or even for a bit after 30. I'd put a lot of money on that your sister is looking shitty because she's partying too hard and not taking care of herself rather than that she's really hitting the wall.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 09:53 PM
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If everything is constructed, that means that Justice and all labeling of good/bad are simply created and have no solid foundations. While this is true, most times I've thrown this ball back at someone, it's launched a fucking unbearable meandering pseudo-philosophical bullshit session. Most people are too dumb to do philosophy and listening to them try after they've cornered themselves is painful.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 03:29 AM
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So? There's nothing abnormal about that. those girls ... are all whores Don't be redundant.
/r/MGTOW17/04/15 02:03 PM
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There's a difference between knowing the path and walking the path. The more you walk it, the more the need to talk it goes away.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 06:14 AM
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That was what struck me as extremely dumb the first time I heard someone try to explain their gender theory bullshit. Everything is a "social construct" to them. This is simply not supported by evidence. Biology and the influence of close peers has a much greater influence than anything cultural--especially at younger ages.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 05:58 AM
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Yes, and it can actually cause the condoms to fail.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 07:05 AM
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/u/Greentoads41 has been the only one to mention that all of this is worthless without storytelling ability. My life is very busy (I have a heavy school load plus lab work), and pretty boring. But I can still be interesting because I have story telling ability. SOMETHING interesting happens to almost everyone each week. The trick is that you have to notice, remember, and know how to share these few moments. Good story telling is a combination of knowing your audience, humor and conciseness. Figu…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 09:25 AM
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What kind of girls do you want? There is your answer. Males are near universally unattractive, but girls date us anyway., Ask out who you want in order of how much you want them. Skill and looks can help you, but even if you're an 11 out of 10 with perfect game, you're going to be rejected--probably often. The trick is to accept this, and get past it. Your job is to ask. Once you've done that, you've done your part. You've been brave. Their response is not in your control so it's not something y…
/r/askTRP14/04/15 06:18 AM
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I'm on my TRP throwaway and this is my first visit to this sub. I only came to see what was here, but dude... You say the girls were 'eyeing' you. That's not 'going crazy.' That's just trying to figure out whether that one dude (you) who hasn't hit on anyone is married, gay or chickenshit. Going crazy is when girls come up to you and won't leave you alone. Going crazy is when they grab at your dick unprompted and whisper in your ear that they want you to fuck them. Going crazy is when they get i…
/r/MGTOW13/04/15 03:32 AM
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As someone who went to the memorial service of a best friend who committed suicide, I concur that you should definitely have a service. I didn't understand why people had funerals until I went to one for someone I really cared about. They help a lot. And from the sociopath-sounding angle, it will be GREAT networking for you as an adult with all the people he helped. Have a signin/memorial binder/scrapbook where people can take a sheet of paper, write their name and contact info in the space, and…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 03:03 AM
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To go along with your assumption, that I can't talk because "not good enough at social interaction", that still leaves the dilemma of being true to yourself vs holding your tongue. Silence avoids conflict, but doesn't resolve the issue.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 03:34 PM
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Thanks this helps ♂ The friend angle is hard because I enjoy having friends I don't have to censor myself with--but those don't seem to exist--which makes me feel isolated. People where I am (I'm 31, in school again getting a second BS and headed for a PhD) tend to bring up this stuff constantly, so while I'm not called out directly much, I can't remain in conversations genuinely either. That's the hard problem.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 03:24 PM
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First of all, gayness has nothing to do with sex drive. If your sex drive is low, that doesn't make you gay. Quite the opposite: many gay men have very high sex drives. I'd rather just have a wank and read a book. This is basically the attitude of MGTOW. should I force myself to get more girls or plates? Ask yourself: What is your real objection to doing this? Is it really true that you'd rather wank and read than be with girls and have sex? Is the reason you're wanking and reading because of yo…
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18, don't know what to do with my life. Unfortunately this is completely normal. I'm 31, and I didn't figure out what I wanted as a career goal until I was 29. Figuring out what you want to do with your life is hard, but the biggest barrier is relative ignorance both about yourself and about your options. If you haven't already your first goal should be to evaluate yourself. Since you don't seem to have any particularly strong interests, find out what you're skilled at. School counselors at most…
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This makes the most sense to me so far. It still hurts, but thanks. ♂ I'm also realizing that a lot of my friends are people whom I'm going to have to start seeing as "unworthy of discussing these topics with", which is disappointing. We get along so well on other dimensions, and they care so much about these topics that they're always working them into conversation. The other advice here was to get new friends, I will keep trying, but haven't had any success with that. I live in a very feminist…
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As a man, you have no clock. This is not completely true. Viable sperm count lowers consistent with age in men making conception more difficult, and there are a number of disorders that have recently been associated with the age of the father (similar though less severe than the previous relationships shown between some disorders and older mothers). That said, you're right on about not settling, not giving up, and not letting worry control your behavior.
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lol Dude, your wording isn't dispelling the kissing cousin illusion here. (it is an illusion right? right??)
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I ran into this girl at a family get together ಠ_ಠ ...if you go to the family reunion to meet women...
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