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Field Reportthisornothing/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 08:52 AM
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thisornothing/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:30 PM
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The way bicycle is written, you can tell she fucked up the spelling the first time round. Presumably because a man corrected her.
/r/MGTOW14/10/19 06:55 PM
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It likely just came from mythological archetypes. There’s a fairly decent book that examines masculine archetypes in literature, and why/how they’re useful to consider - “King, Warrior, Magician, Lover”. I doubt the people parroting “we are warriors” are doing so in direct reference to mythological archetypes though, but it’s likely where it came from I’d guess.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 08:41 AM
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YES. I didn’t tell my friend and he married her, had a kid with her, she divorced him - turned out she’d cheated with a dozen or so guys and his 4 year old son isn’t biologically his. Warn him. It’s up to him how he responds.
/r/MGTOW07/05/19 01:53 PM
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That sounds like a fancy way of saying you’re just American.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/19 06:31 AM
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The bit that stood out for me was her morning commute being filled with “beautiful women” who she assumed were successful because they were also on the bus at 9am. By 9am you should be at work. I’ve been getting up at 5am for years, and make sure to be the first one at work each day, and it’s been acknowledged and rewarded. I never see women commuting at that time - or if I do, they’re either cleaners or women over the age of 50.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/19 06:08 AM
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It's sarcasm. It's not his best article but it's not meant to be even vaguely serious - I know the guy personally, and this isn't a reflection of his actual views. Have a look through his previous articles. It's depressing when people on Reddit can't pick up on nuance or sarcasm.
/r/MensRights18/01/18 01:56 PM
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Learn to read nuance and sarcasm. He isn't serious - he's written a bunch of ironic "pro-SJW" articles that take their logic to a ludicrous end point. That wasn't his best, but a lot of them are pretty funny. I know the guy personally, and I know his ideological viewpoint. The lack of reading skills here is depressing.
/r/MGTOW18/01/18 01:14 PM
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From the UK, I'll happily confirm that. Most men I know in London secretly view English women as utterly pointless, pathetic creatures.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 07:40 PM
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We're Neanderthals living in a Medieval society with God-like powers. There's no good ending to that.
/r/MGTOW21/11/17 09:01 PM
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As soon as you mentioned your bone structure, I disregarded everything else you said. Whatever shit it is that's putting women off, it's likely in your head. The more bitter, twisted and insular you get with it, the more it's going to be a problem. Take some time out. Work on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 04:07 PM
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You figure? Russian and Eastern European men seem to be slaves to their wives and girlfriends every time I've been there. There's a front they put up, but they quickly shrink when a female voice tells them to behave.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 03:57 PM
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Your brain is broken. Seek help.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 09:30 PM
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I think you meant to post this on the incel subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 08:51 PM
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Not advocating transcendental meditation, not advocating Buddhism and definitely not religious in the slightest. The purpose of meditation is not to "clear all of your thoughts" or to stop self-improvement. I don't know where you read that. Anyway, I feel the same way about illiterate angry retards. You're shitting the place up.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 06:54 PM
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You've really misunderstood meditation. Does Buddhism include meditation as a tool? Sure. But it's not limited to it, and you're way off in your assessment of meditation training you into complacency and passiveness. The main thing I've taken away from meditation is heightened focus and awareness. The reason Indian and Chinese men are more submissive on the whole is purely cultural.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 12:58 PM
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Agreed. I've only been lurking this place for the better part of a couple of years, and I've noticed a distinct shift away from self improvement and a focus on what you call byproduct results. It's all backwards.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 12:59 PM
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Eh, she did, but not in the way a lot of guys are saying. She actually tried her best to give me a lot of straight, useful advice - but me being a beta/bluepill idiot kid, I rebelled against more or less everything she said. She's got pretty on-point opinions about what a woman's role in a relationship is, how men need to act and behave in society, how to build yourself up, the importance of physical exercise, not letting women trap you, etc. I ignored more or less everything she said, because I…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 10:43 AM
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Gotta watch out for those shifty looking Hare Krishna's as well. Mormons too.
/r/MGTOW28/05/17 09:51 AM
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You really have to remember though, that nobody else is going to make you happy. Nobody. Only you can do that. So, if it feels like something's missing - it's unlikely that something is a person. By all means, go and seek out intimacy with women. But keep your distance and keep your independence. Never commit, in any way, shape or form.
/r/MGTOW23/05/17 12:08 AM
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Hah. At least I can respect the honesty of that reaction. Don't get bitter about it, just be aware of it. They don't love men the way we'd like them to. Reality is what it is.
/r/MGTOW22/05/17 11:55 PM
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Jesus. I had no idea it was so wide-spread. I'd heard of the odd case, but holy fuck. I barely post on social media anymore, now I might just outright delete my accounts. Fuck this country.
/r/MGTOW22/05/17 11:53 PM
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Definitely a strong element that it's because she's a woman, but she's also rich. A poor woman working in Walmart wouldn't necessarily get the same treatment. Or at least, I'd hope not...
/r/MGTOW17/05/17 11:04 AM
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I don't think she's been stupid at all. She got publicity in the mainstream media now, she knew exactly what she was doing.
/r/MGTOW16/05/17 10:25 AM
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Exactly. There's a phrase used in a lot of "news" organisations these days, that you play to your audience. The idea of balanced, objective news is gone. If you know your audience is largely supportive of feminism, then you give them stories that they'll click on. Of course, that's because news organisations are collectively shitting themselves about their ability to make money these days. So, it's intentional in the sense that they're creating content that caters directly to their demographic. …
/r/MGTOW09/05/17 06:42 PM
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All those reasons basically boil down to them saying - "it's men's fault" Oh, okay. Jesus Christ.
/r/MGTOW09/05/17 06:28 PM
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I'm blown away by how young kids entering the workforce seem to be under the impression that they're going to walk straight into a corner office after they've finished their sociology degree. My dad, who studied engineering, told me about his first day of work - how he walked in, telling his new co-workers about how well he did at University. They nodded, and then told him to go get everyone a coffee. Everyone starts at the bottom. Why don't they get this?
/r/MGTOW08/05/17 04:02 PM
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Source? I've lived in cities all my life. The only way you ever get to be "safe" as a man is when you're vigilant and aware. I don't walk through shitty neighbourhoods, I cross the street when I see dangerous/unstable people hanging around. There is no such thing as "safe". All you can ever do is watch your own back. I don't expect anybody to do that for me other than the police.
/r/MGTOW08/05/17 03:40 PM
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Wow, didn't know the brainwashing started so early over here. Depressing.
/r/MGTOW08/05/17 03:37 PM
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Yeah, he seems weird. Not MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW08/05/17 03:34 PM
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There was an underlying symbolic importance to religion which I've reluctantly come to acknowledge. I'm still an atheist, but I'm slowly beginning to think there's a huge importance in framing an individual's place relative to society, the world and the Universe. I'd suggest reading Joseph Campell's "The Power of Myth" and another book called "King, Warrior, Magician, Lover". Both address this.
/r/MGTOW08/05/17 03:31 PM
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They sure as hell do. I live in London, it's a city filled with women of every single nationality. The common sentiment among guys, if they're redpilled and looking for women, is to leave British women the hell alone. The women here are bototm-tier and entitled beyond belief.
/r/MGTOW08/05/17 03:27 PM
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That's funny, because I also once had an argument with a similar guy about communism. All I said was that, from the instances where countries have experimented with communism, it's gone really fucking badly. I didn't even go on to say that I didn't agree with communism, I was literally just pointing out examples of it's implementation. He threw a hissy fit, got wildly emotional and stormed out of the room. There's no hope for some of these people. They're brainwashed.
/r/MGTOW08/05/17 09:10 AM
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Fuck, I wish that was the case in the a UK. I lived with a woman for 5 years - I'm lucky, in a sense, that I only financially lost out by completely supporting her through her "Dance Therapy Degree" (I shit you not). So, 5 years of rent and tuition fees. She's at least with another dude now, and pregnant with his kid. Poor bastard.
/r/MGTOW02/05/17 11:19 PM
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I've never found a woman's job to be an attractive quality, ever. It can certainly make interesting conversation (once dated a girl who worked at a circus school - that was definitely fascinating to hear about, whenever she wasn't focusing on bullshit petty gossip) but it won't ever make me find them more attractive. Women know this. There's no changing it.
/r/MGTOW02/05/17 11:15 PM
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It's a tricky situation. You can lead a horse to water, etc, etc. The brutal truth is, it's probably too late for him to get out unscathed. You can mitigate the damage, potentially, but that'd involve a willingness on his part. Maybe share material with him about the dangers of women who divorce-rape men? Or just ask him if he's happy? Ask him if he isn't happy, what he thinks he might do to change that? Basically, it needs to be his decision to leave. Inception was a dumb movie, but the basic t…
/r/MGTOW02/05/17 11:13 PM
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I'm still confused why they even care. If a bunch of guys wind up fucking sex robots, how does that even impact them one bit? Those guys won't be dating them. They won't be interacting with them. I'd have thought that'd be problem solved for everybody? This shit is transparent. It's misandry, plain and simple.
/r/MGTOW02/05/17 11:09 PM
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I don't get it. She actually looks better in the first, but her skin is so clearly red from using the goddamn makeup. She looks DIFFERENT, but I wouldn't argue for a second that she looks better. Decent skin-care would take care of the redness. More than anything, it really exposes how she's just imposing this on herself. But I suppose that's just this "internalised sexism" crap.
/r/MGTOW02/05/17 11:08 PM
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Fuck. I know so many guys like this on Facebook, posting near identical, cringe-worthy shit. It's why I never really use the site for anything other than events anymore. One guy kept repeatedly APOLOGIZING, simply for being a man. Not for doing anything, not for being overtly sexist - literally just publicly apologizing for the vague and abstract crime of being a man. It's sickening.
/r/MGTOW02/05/17 11:05 PM
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And it's important to remember that women don't want to make you a better man, just a beta man.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 09:34 AM
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It's good for different people to constantly reiterate and articulate ideas though, testing and strengthening your understanding. I'm not a huge fan of Rollo's writing style, so I'm all for people just repeating existing ideas in new ways. Solid post either way.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 09:13 AM
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"Everything in the world is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power." - Oscar Wilde
/r/MGTOW12/04/17 01:04 PM
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What other value would a woman bring into my life, exactly?
/r/MGTOW12/04/17 11:47 AM
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On some level, you've taken this inadequacy complex about height and made it into part of your identity. You intrinsically view yourself as a "failure" and no, that's not attractive. Change the script.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 04:01 PM
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I don't think he said that at all - he's saying that he's honest about it, which is why it's sad that women do these mental gymnastics saying that their partner count doesn't matter, whilst simultaneously down playing it.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 03:35 PM
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I don't know where to begin here. Some truly terrible decision making abilities at work here.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 03:25 PM
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You're overcompensating a little there, bud.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 07:11 AM
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I'm not sure that you understand what a red pill woman is - or even a red pill man for that matter. At it's core, it's about understanding the biological/sociological drivers both sexes have when it comes to sex/dating, and the harsh but ultimately fair reality of it. Check out the sidebar, and the redpill women sub while you're at it. It's kinda refreshing to read women becoming aware of third wave feminist bullshit and choosing to reject it in favour of relationship dynamics that actually work…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 07:44 AM
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I dunno, don't Patrice O'Neil and Bill Burr basically talk about the exact same things? The only reason I can see that this might twist people up is if you're still worried you're going to get taken advantage of. I honestly find it kinda refreshing that we're seeing pockets of women openly admitting how this whole game works. Whatever gets us the fuck away from third-wave feminist gibberish.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 01:38 PM
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No, you working hard, getting a good job and not doing favours for a bunch of spoiled children is what I'd view as alpha. If they talked you into it, that'd be another thing. Don't be so bitter about the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/17 08:46 PM
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Oh hell, an ex of mine tried that years and years ago. I honestly can't remember how it came up and why, but the one female friend she suggested for a threesome was also clearly the ugliest out of any of her friends. Slightly different scenario though - I was getting bored and I think it might have been a reluctant attempt to keep my interest.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 12:05 AM
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How do you stop people from abusing anything? Weed, alcohol, cigarettes, coke, sex, porn, whatever. The government has no place telling me what I can do in my free time just because some sadbrain can't handle the concept of moderation.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 01:45 PM
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The whole "I'm a unique and special snowflake" argument. Women all sit on the same spectrum behaviour, sorry to burst your safe-space bubble. You can cherry pick information on here to make yourself feel better if you want, but you're dead wrong. You're right that TRP guys are easy to spot. They're the ones you've been fucking.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 12:54 PM
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Happy to see someone else exploring the nuance with the ideas discussed here. I'm a big believer in the balance between the masculine and feminine, and obviously we live in a world that's shifted towards feminism and it makes sense that you see this unsustainable anger come out on here as an immediate and understandable response. It's important to understand that anger can't last, but letting go of it doesn't mean letting go of the ideas and general discussion on TRP either.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 08:19 PM
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That guy still sounds pretty beta. He told her he wanted more than just a hookup, he took her for dinner and then he blocked her on a dating website. Not exactly impressive stuff.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 08:11 PM
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Yup. Life has enough obstacles without you psychologically creating imaginary ones.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 07:36 PM
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East. I'm in a creative discipline primarily, but I work in more traditional, corporate environments alongside that. Not really willing to go into more detail on here.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 01:36 PM
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Your views are inconsistent from post to post, so yeah, I'm not really paying attention to your inane nonsensical ramblings.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 01:34 PM
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This is only true if you're in certain middle-management or consulting jobs. Which, y'know, if you are - must suck to have no visible talent or skills. My condolences.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 12:59 PM
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London is fine. You're just burned out. Take some time out, focus on yourself. The problem isn't the city, it's you. I live here too and I went through the same thing. Don't do what others do and go for what you actually want.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 12:01 PM
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Maybe you vote for candidates that make your vagina tingle, but I think I'll carry on basing my decisions on, y'know - facts. Feel free to keep writing walls of neckbeard nonsense, though.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 04:48 PM
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You're dead-on, but you're also just re-articulating the reality of AWALT. Worth repeating though, and it's an interesting perspective.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 10:15 AM
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I once heard meditation as a "bicep curl for the brain". If you're already lifting, then consider meditation as simply an extension of your routine.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 09:49 AM
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To be honest, I'd have mentally checked-out by stage one. I used to blame myself for being paranoid, but now, I know I just value my time too much to waste it on women like that. Solid post.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 09:47 AM
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He's probably gay? Or, she made it up. You can't really trust this social media shit. Which isn't to say this doesn't happen (it definitely does) - but I'm sceptical of anything that goes viral these days.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 04:54 PM
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What the hell are you even talking about? Carry on making decisions based on your feelings, then. See how that works out. Utter horseshit.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 04:48 PM
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Pretty un-PC talk from a liberal. It's almost as if we're right about everything.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 08:25 AM
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If it keeps the discussion separate, I'm all for it. I'm wary to ever label myself as left or right (personally, it all just seems like petty tribalism to me - I'm interested in policies not politics) and the overlap between TRP and pro-Trump rhetoric has made this sub a lot less useful to me. If we can keep both discussions, without silencing either, it can only be a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 07:26 AM
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I didn't say all. But definitely the vast majority of guys I've seen here and in real life, sure. He appeals to the powerless, and that's what most guys are these days. Feelz are the reason idiots like politicians. Policies and plans should be your focus. Hell, not even just in politics - but in life, generally. It's weird that I need to explain that.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 11:41 AM
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Sound advice. You know what you want, don't waste your time chasing women unwilling to meet. 6 messages seems like the right number from my experience.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 11:26 AM
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I wouldn't bother with the whole battery bit. Comes across as a bit engineered - I know, because I said similar things myself to get a number like "I hate using this app". Just ask for the number, you both know why you're asking, don't apologise for it.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 11:25 AM
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Nah. I can disagree and be disinterested if I want. I'm just embarrassed by the faux-alphas on here that can't see that the only real reason they like Trump is because of the "feelz" he gives them.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 09:13 AM
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Could just be that you were consciously looking for reactions at first, then you took your focus off from that - you stopped caring - and they started paying you more attention. Just a theory, but I've had something similar happen myself.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 07:47 AM
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Fuck me. It's like you're not even aware of how you sound. Trump is irrelevant to sexual strategy. I'm not "concerned" about him, or this post. I'm disinterested in it. It's badly written garbage that doesn't belong in this sub. Try stringing a coherent point together sometime, and maybe I won't call you out on writing crap.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 07:40 AM
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Good reminder. Inactivity is death.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 03:13 PM
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Badly written garbage, that has next to nothing to do with TRP.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 03:12 PM
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I'm completely anti-Trump, but I agree with you entirely. I think he's incompetent and bad for business, but that's my own opinion, and I don't gain anything particularly through throwing hissy fits about it. What really bothers me is the Facebook style political posts, from both sides of the spectrum. The left and the right are all behaving like spoiled little children, and it's just pointless to try and get involved in that bum fight. Focus on your own shit, ignore the inarticulate masses shou…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 11:02 AM
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You're overthinking things. Start giving less of a fuck about what people (especially women) think of you. You'll naturally talk less, because you've nothing to prove to anyone.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 10:55 AM
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"Real" relationships? Sounds like a "no true Scotsman" argument...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 10:53 AM
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Hah. Good stuff, very predictable. It's cute that you refer to teaching your own language as a "career move"
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 10:52 AM
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There's more women than men in the world. Some guys are fucking multiple women. It's not hard to work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/17 07:09 PM
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I mean, to an extent. I like my apartment to be a reflection of the discipline I apply to everything I do. Plus I hire a maid. I guess I'm saying I think there's a difference between having your place the way you like it, and making the mistake of getting it ready for someone else. As long as it's for you, it shouldn't make much of a difference.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 05:40 PM
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Goddamn that was long winded. Well done, but you talk way too much.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 04:10 PM
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Hah. White guys who need to chase Asian girls are always chinless losers, no exception. It's adorable that you think you're different, little buddy.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 04:09 PM
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But... You just posted here??
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 01:26 PM
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Garbage post. You sound like a bitter neckbeard.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 09:17 AM
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Yeah man, and all those mass shooting sprees we have every other week. Oh wait. Get your fucking head out of your ass.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 09:07 AM
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Why does any of that bother you so much? You sound more than a little bitter. Change the things you can, accept the things you can't. Being short, ugly or broke will make things harder - but being bitter is going to dry up any woman you try to interact with.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 07:00 PM
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You're talking about England, not the UK. Don't heap Scotland in with those cultureless, beta bitches. Equally, every guy in Europe I've met was an effeminate loser obsessed with his mother, so maybe take a look in the mirror before you go hurling stones, Eurofag.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 12:53 PM
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Truth is probably somewhere in the middle. He's underestimating himself, or overestimating them.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 10:43 AM
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Nah. It's on you, not him. Be a man and take responsibility for your actions.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 01:10 PM
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This works both ways - I barely notice unattractive women. And really, if you're attractive and interesting, none of this should bother you. If you look and act like an IT geek / computer janitor, then you've got some work ahead of you to fix the vibe you're giving off. Don't let this upset or anger you, just use it as a motivation to improve yourself. Bitterness isn't attractive to anybody.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 04:22 PM
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You're a piece of shit, and a terrible friend. That's the only lesson here. It's easy to fuck sluts, but a man might take pause before betraying a friend like that, regardless of what the situation is. Grow the fuck up.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 10:45 AM
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You know that the definition of words can change over time, right? The etymology is interesting, but largely irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 09:47 AM
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There's careers out there - well-paid and with room for progression - that a lot of posters on here seem to miss. Find a niche only you can fill. I make six figures freelancing in a creative discipline I love. Though, the biggest side benefit is how butthurt the office drones get about how awesome my job is in comparison. Either way, don't be boring.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 03:11 PM
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Hah, Jesus Christ. Stop projecting your insecurities.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 07:24 PM
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New Years resolutions are for beta losers. Get your shit together, it doesn't matter what arbitrary date it is.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 06:28 PM
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Possibly you're right - I live back-and-forth between a few major cities, and the definition of the word "hipster" probably changes between them. I guess I always viewed it as an attempt to define a generation - we had goths, mods, whatever - and it's getting harder to define kids under one unifying banner. But y'know. I'm old. I don't get any of this shit anymore, or have the inclination to care.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 06:08 PM
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Oh, so you can't read either? I supported Trump, but he's not flawless. Keep going with your little bitch-tantrum, though. It's hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 06:04 PM
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Adorable, but transparent. You're an emotional little beta cuck. Don't pretend otherwise, it's embarrassing.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 05:49 PM
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Hipster is a near-meaningless term invented by the media to neatly categorise fashion trends among young people. Don't get hung up on it.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 05:16 PM
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Hah. I'd have voted Trump, if I could. Doesn't mean he's infallible, or immune from criticism. Get your head out of your ass.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 11:30 PM
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That'd be insulting if it resembled anything like the truth, or a coherent sentence. Thanks for letting everyone know what a sensitive little bitch you are, though.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 09:05 PM
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Because he's not a real alpha male in the slightest. He's the political equivalent of a PUA - some guys need PUA to get laid though, so I can see the appeal.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 12:42 PM
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Great point, and it's interesting how difficult it can be (especially in this day and age) to pause, take a step back, and reflect objectively on circumstances. It seems like a basic idea, but it's one that most miss. I work with a lot of large organisations, working on incredibly complex problems - and the first thing I always do is get them to stop working on the problem. It's uncomfortable, because our instinct is that you can only achieve results when actively working on the problem. But if …
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 10:50 AM
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I think that's at the lower end of that age range you're talking about, they reliance and use of social media. I'm 32, and even for my friends around 28 it's not that heavily used. People under 25 seem obsessed, though.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 02:26 PM
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Your insecurity is obvious to everyone you interact with.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 02:14 PM
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Then you're singling out posts that support what you already want to believe. There's a lot of guys on here who draw binary definitions of relationship dynamics, but its disingenuous of you to focus on them as if that's the entirety of TRP. Plus, you're 24. It's cute that you think you understand how the world works at that age.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 09:23 AM
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Jesus you're over-thinking all of this.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 06:14 PM
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Actually attractive women tend not to have profiles on there for long, simply due to being overwhelmed by a tidal wave of ugly losers. If they stay on there, they tend to have more "artsy/suggestive" shots. Most of them are off-the-wall crazy, though.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 06:03 PM
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Baseball. Think about baseball.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 10:40 AM
1

Palpable violence in London? Huh? I mean, we had those riots a few years back, but beyond that, I'm not sure I know what you mean. In addition, living in this city, all I come across are high IQ, high-earning alpha males. It's cutthroat down here.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 10:35 AM
3

Semi decent post until the OP decided to throw a tantrum about fucking anime. Jesus Christ.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 06:11 PM
2

People are "dissing" you because you're throwing a hissy fit about anime when nobody gives a shit. How did you think that would make you look?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 06:10 PM
1

You're confusing your life with John Rambo again
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 06:16 PM
2

I'd still say that you're not a psychopath, and that you're romanticising the way your brain works and operates a little too much. Either way, you're clearly intelligent and capable, and things seem to be working out well for you on all fronts. Keep that shit going.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 06:14 PM
2

Exactly. Hell, one of my main regular clients specialises in outsourcing. These STEM jobs are not going to remain in places like America or the West.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 11:04 AM
30

Great advice. If it helps, I found a quote that helps keeps me focused on maintains my daily routines; "We must all suffer one of two things - the pain of discipline, or the pain of regret and disappointment."
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 09:30 AM
32

Also, this: http://imgur.com/rqF7bwT It's hilariously pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 06:49 AM
2

Really? In my experience, engineers almost never got laid in college. They seemed to lack even the most basic social skills, coming across as quite nerdy and awkward. Granted, that was 10 years ago, and they may well have shaken off their beta traits as they matured.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 05:22 PM
2

Depends what you mean. Qualifications are a barrier, but the value of the education itself is debatable. The most useful things I've learned in my creative field are those I've learned "on the job" - but I never would have got that job if I didn't have qualifications. It's a tricky one.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 05:15 PM
1

Jesus. The world isn't binary. I went to art college, and I work for corporations you all interact with on a daily basis. It really isn't as black and white as you're making it.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 05:13 PM
2

Exactly. You can't know what the job market in the future is going to look like in the future, especially with the way things have gone in the last 10 years. Add over-saturation of similar skill sets, and it's a potentially risky prospect. STEM isn't a guarantee of anything, basically.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 05:06 PM
1

How would you know? You don't have basic literacy skills.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 04:59 PM
1

Depends on the nature of the "depression" - if it's linked to circumstances, then it's common as hell, and acts as motivation for them to get their shit together. Many great men crawled their way up from the bottom, and it's a disservice to yourself to dismiss what we can learn from those experiences.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 03:36 PM
2

True. Every girl I've slept with has revealed their awareness of how the game works, explicitly. From complaining that they're "past-it" at 27 (correct) to locking down a BB husband. They know how this shit works.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 03:24 PM
1

You need to get your head out of your ass. I'd say think creatively, but clearly that's not in your wheelhouse. There's a ton of career options for those with creative qualifications - I make six figures, doing creative work for corporate clients all over the world. There's a ton of creative jobs out there with similar prospects, it's just that most lack the ingenuity or drive to find them. If anything, it's those that went into STEM fields that should be worried what their jobs are going to loo…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 01:59 PM
2

He's providing drugs, moron.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 06:59 AM
15

I can think of at least a couple stories from the last year where some guys lost all their money, their jobs, and straight up murder-suicided their entire family. The reasons and details are different, but fucked up people aren't limited to either gender.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 12:37 PM
1

Agree with the first part, but completely disagree with the idea that if someone refuses an apology that they're in the "wrong". If you burned my house down, murdered my family - but you apologised for it afterwards and I didn't accept it, I'm sure as shit not in the wrong. There's truth to what you're saying, but it's absolutely not a blanket rule.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 10:39 PM
3

You only wear clothes once before washing them? You're really not supposed to do that.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 08:09 PM
1

Yeah... He ain't that alpha. Trump is the political equivalent of a PUA. This victory isn't gonna wake anybody up.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 05:17 PM
1

Looking at girls is normal, but Tinder is a bit different. My inclination is that you shouldn't be in a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 01:21 PM
1

Looking at girls is normal, but Tinder is a bit different. My inclination is that you shouldn't be in a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 01:21 PM
2

I had no idea the SJWs were so far gone as to actively arguing that someone put their health at risk so that other people don't get bad feelz. Well done on getting past it, and recognising the reasons why people were trying to hold you back. It's hilarious that they think the point of this forum is to hate women.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 04:54 PM
2

Applying TRP to Trump is the dumbest thing I've seen flowing out of this forum. Trump is beyond incompetent. Sure, he's applying some principles that might be vaguely familiar to you - but he's a trust fund kid with very little understanding of how to operate in the business world. He's incompetent. There's no getting around that fact. Ignoring all the bullshit the left have been throwing his way, he's incapable of holding office. He's incapable of holding a consistent opinion. He's incapable of…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 05:53 PM
9

It absolutely is a disadvantage. But, the more you view it as a problem in your mind, the more of a problem it's actually going to be. Like you say, you have other positive traits. You can't do anything about your height, so you just need to accept it and move on and focus on what you can change.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 02:13 PM
1

To any guys in the late-end of their twenties or early thirties - it's not too late. Move somewhere more exciting. Do things that initially make you feel awkward. You can build the social life you want, and you can fill it with friends that do nothing but enrich your life. At 28, I was close to suicide - loner, beta, used and fucked over by women. Now, I don't even recognise that guy. You can adjust your life however the fuck you want. You just need to actually do it.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 12:01 AM
1

If you've blocked her, that could easily make you look bad.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 02:49 PM
1

Why did it punch you in the gut? Do you feel bad for her? He literally only threw her own line back at her. I think I'm missing what you're getting at.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 02:48 PM
1

I think it's a language/definitions issue. Balanced doesn't necessarily mean fair or equal.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 10:29 AM
5

I don't "hate" Trump, and I can see where people are coming from when they describe him as exhibiting "alpha traits". But I can't get past my perception of him as an incompetent fool. The idea of him having the responsibility and accountability to run a nation - of effectively managing the day to day reality of president - I just can't see it. His track record as a business man simply doesn't translate into public office from where I'm standing. Don't mistake this as an endorsement for Hilary - …
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 12:45 PM
1

The way some of you apply TRP to politics is fucking embarrassing.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 02:48 PM
36

She's his immediate family, a blood relative, his kin. I know that TRP encourages people to focus on themselves and not others (and it's a valuable lesson) but you're entering into mentally deranged territory if you honestly can't work out why a man might care about his immediate family.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 03:38 PM
2

So many faux-intellectuals applying TRP to their hair brained theories of how civilisation should be structured. As best as I can tell, TRP shows you how the world is, not how it should be. Posts like this are irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 11:11 AM
23

"So recently, I decided to speak my mind about women and their high egos" This was a dumb move. You're dumb.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 11:02 PM
1

But you get that he wasn't born famous or funny, right? He built that shit from the ground up.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 06:14 AM
1

Really? I live in a big European city too, and while I've definitely noticed girls lingering on these sites, I've not noticed any drop-off in new users. If anything, I've noticed an increase in attractive women on there. Granted, they write next-to-nothing in their profiles, and treat it the same as Tinder, but they're definitely there. 10 years ago though, I'd have said that online dating was only for socially awkward shut-ins. It's only recently that actually attractive women feel like it's no…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 10:22 AM
-1

It probably comes across that way, since most of the posts and replies are from guys with more time to do so. And y'know, that'll taint what they're saying. AWALT. Some know they're doing it, most don't. It's basic human nature, and I prefer to be aware of it.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 05:09 PM
-2

You're really desperately clinging to some fantasy-version of the way the world is. "But not everyone is like that" - really? Or do you just wish that were true?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 03:00 PM
4

Very few guys on here who grasp the concepts TRP attempts to cover would ever describe women as "evil". You're saying that. We're just discussing human nature, and reality apparently doesn't sit well with you.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 02:59 PM
9

I mean, you just identified the difference in your own sentence.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 02:53 PM
3

I remember my boss saying this to me once when I was around 21 and made a major fuck-up at work. He put his hand on my shoulder, smiled and said; "Look. In 100 years, nobody will ever remember any of this ever happening." Some people would read that as a negative statement. I took it - and you should too - as a statement that our lives are centered in the here and now. Fuck worrying about what people think of you. Live your life the way you want to, mistakes and all. Hilariously - if you do that…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 09:28 PM
2

I mean, I don't share your view. I'm 31 and my life is overwhelmingly more fun than it was between 18-25. Your life can be whatever you want it to be - if you want to go out to gigs and parties in your thirties, you can do that. If you want to sit at home with hobbies, you can do that too. Don't let life just happen to you. Actually go out and seek the one that you want.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 09:23 AM
3

To be fair, with IT guys, it's not necessarily "the job" that women find unattractive. There's a lot of negative stereotypes about the kind of guy that goes into IT - poor dress sense, nerd-hobbies, poor social skills, etc. I have a few friends in IT and they've completely fallen into this role. So long as you fight those tendencies, and improve your dress sense / social skills though, it really shouldn't be an issue.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 08:38 AM
2

Spinning plates. Read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 11:08 AM
1

Sure. But I don't think I'd put the hypothetical trillionaire body-builder in that camp because he has those assets, and I get what you're saying about it being a social science of sorts. I guess I can see how it'd be useful for someone who has an underdeveloped sense of how to socially interact. I suppose, since I've never struggled with that aspect, I've never delved into PUA enough to know anything substantial about it. The only examples that pop up into my consciousness are the extreme ones …
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 11:00 AM
1

I think he's just citing examples, and also, who the hell has the time to remember notable figures in a field that essentially boils down to "pretending to be something you're not". Or, considering the crowd it attracts "how to pretend you're not autistic". PUA gets a bad rep because it's attempting to mimic the traits and behaviours you should naturally acquire by working on yourself. So it can come across as cheap smoke and mirrors around here.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 10:58 AM
8

Y'know, broadly I find myself agreeing with you, but hasn't every generation since the dawn of time thought that society was going to shit? To throw out a random guess, technology connects us in a way never before: an effect of this is the general 'blending' of cultures, with specific regional and cultural differences being lost. Basically - everyone's starting to look and talk exactly the same, making it a hell of a lot harder to work out who's of good character. There were probably a lot of sh…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 09:47 PM
1

Honestly, I'm excited by the prospect. All it's going to do for me, and many posters here, is reduce visible competition. Men growing up today don't stand a chance. If I intended to have kids, or gave a fuck about society I might think differently. But I don't and I don't, so let's watch this shit burn down to the ground and enjoy the ride.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 11:28 AM
2

Exactly. Really, you just need to ask yourself whether it's adding to your life, or replacing something that's missing. Which obviously, if you're depressed and addicted, is harder to see. I think that's why TRP and it's focus on introspection is so fundamental.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 07:31 AM
9

Really, porn is like any other substance or drug. If you've got your shit together, and you're not depressed, it's fine. If your life isn't going well though then you wind up filling that hole with drugs/alcohol/porn.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 06:40 AM
3

American perspectives of Europe are always bewilderingly inaccurate. Take this post with a fistful of salt.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 07:33 PM
1

The Daily Mail is gutter journalism. No idea why you all keep linking to it, as they're almost always factually inaccurate. In fact, they go with their gut opinion on every issue rather than facts. What does that remind you of?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 05:31 PM
1

I'm 31 now and honestly, the issue now is that I need to go out less. I'm not going to give you a blow by blow account of what I've been up to lately, but yeah, things can get as crazy as you want them to.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 05:16 PM
2

Maybe. Met a similar girl, aged 22, who admitted to a 70+ partner count (so likely more). It doesn't surprise me anymore, and my point was that you should just accept and acknowledge reality.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 01:50 PM
-1

Not even vaguely shocking. 3 guys in 2 months isn't a lot, it just seems that way because you're not getting laid yourself.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 11:52 AM
2

Depends. I felt similar around age 28, and made the decision to move into a shared house full of musicians. My social life exploded as a result, and continues to do so. I live in a major city known for a great night life, but if you live in a small town your options are probably far more limited. Like anything, it depends how much you want it.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 10:33 AM
1

Troll, or beta lost cause. Don't care which.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 03:12 PM
1

I think the 90 day thing is for people who're addicted. Regular folk can experience similar benefits in a much shorter timeframe.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 12:02 PM
2

No, I'm reading what you just wrote. You sound like you might have improved, but you obviously haven't worked through it based on this. Stop being defensive and use the energy you want to use to convince me how fucking alpha you are and, y'know, actually work on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 11:41 AM
2

Uh, you clearly do care about your height -first you were short, and now you're apparently "average". You're riddled with insecurities. I know you want to see yourself in a certain light, but it's inaccurate until you get a handle on that deep-rooted inadequacy complex you're trying to ignore.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 11:17 AM
1

Exactly, TRP is effective, but you said it yourself by using the word "often". My point really wasn't directed at you particularly, just the general view that some posters have. There are general truths, and universal truths. It's important to have a nuanced understanding of that. Though, personally, you seem to have that.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 04:12 PM
1

I think the mistake a lot of guys make on here is viewing everything in terms of binary truths. Most of the time this is the case, but obviously there's exceptions. I think, considering the kind of guy that'll make his way to TRP, that explicit black and white rules can be helpful. But people need to understand that things aren't the same every goddamn time. There's so many variables with this shit.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 02:36 PM
1

That's a pretty shitty, lame joke. Your friend was probably just being a weird loser making awkward jokes, and they used that as an excuse to kick him out so that they could go back to having fun. Suck it up.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 12:14 PM
2

I'm on the larger side, and more or less every girl I've ever been with has been really upfront about how size DOES matter, and even told me a few variations of the story "I broke up with him because he was too small." It's something that turns women on, you really can't control or stop that. Even the comments about "it hurt me" are nonsense. Women enjoy that pleasure/pain combination, if you know how to use it. I'm sure there's things you could do that can make up for being average/small though…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 09:04 AM
3

Broadly I agree, but the last girl I've been seeing seems to love hearing about me fucking other women, and is constantly trying to guess which girls in bars I'd like. It's weird, it goes against everything that I'd assumed was true in that respect.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 09:17 AM
-1

And you're a worthless faggot. Happy now?
/r/askTRP03/09/16 09:13 AM
-1

lol you don't know what projecting is keep telling yourself that lie because i sure as shit ain't buying any of your crap
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 09:12 AM
-2

I actually agree, but not for the same reasons she said it. Porn IS for losers who can't get laid. Hamster it all you want, truth hurts.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 08:43 PM
4

if you're worried about disappointing her, you're going to disappoint her
/r/askTRP02/09/16 05:40 PM
1

Very fucking interesting...
/r/askTRP02/09/16 05:35 PM
1

Needed to hear it from level-headed sane guys. Thanks.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 05:31 PM
1

True. I've remained solid in the past, I don't contact her unless she's messaged me. Guess I was just looking for somewhere to formulate what's going on with this one. You're definitely right. Thanks for the reminder.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 05:18 PM
2

Hah, well that's something. I live in a European city - "short hair" means something very different with women here... I dunno. The hairdresser's comment about it "growing back better" might actually be true though - women do all sorts of crazy shit to their hair. You could always ask her how long she's planning to grow it out this time? Feels like you need some direct way to bring up your preference, without losing frame...
/r/askTRP02/09/16 05:16 PM
1

Maybe, I mean, I am seeing other girls? Like, good-looking girls who're sending me messages about how badly they want it, etc. I guess I'm just trying to work out what it is I did wrong with this one... Plates all have their expiration dates, I suppose.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 05:11 PM
1

Holy shit, when you said short, I assumed you meant dyke-cut short. Chin short is a whole other thing. I wouldn't stress out about it meaning anything - but if it's not cutting it with you, walk away. You've already said the dating pool near you is small, maybe she's very aware that she's your best available option.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 05:04 PM
8

I really think this is the sign of intelligence, though. All the idiots I see these days are the ones that feel some compulsion to stand underneath a flag of some sort - "I'M A FEMINIST!" "I'M REDPILL!" "I'M LEFT WING!" "I'M RIGHT WING!" It's gibberish. People do it so they don't have to think about things in a nuanced way. Women are people, and I treat them like that - but TRP has definitely highlighted some of the ways they act and behave that I was definitely blind to before. People who make …
/r/askTRP02/09/16 05:01 PM
2

Give less what? Of a shit? Yeah, you're probably (definitely) right lol
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:51 PM
1

Oh, I figured that. I mean, I'm fucking two other girls reasonably regularly too. I guess with younger women they just get distracted by all the attention incredibly fucking easily. Oh well, you move on. Just seemed odd at first... still learning, I suppose.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:48 PM
3

There's a reason we ended so many of our movies with the male hero riding off into the sunset. We've got our own shit going on. Whilst you may have considered that an action-packed adventure, I call that Wednesday.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:41 PM
8

So many times this.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:39 PM
18

EXACTLY THIS.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:38 PM
4

Walk away now. Completely sever contact and stand tall, knowing that you fought for yourself. You have value, and she's an idiot if she can't see that. Don't give her an explanation, don't fight, just walk away. Tell her it's over and then just ride the fuck off into the sunset and have an amazing and awesome life.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:36 PM
2

You're watching too much porn or something. Stop stressing about it and focus on just enjoying yourself.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:23 PM
-1

Nah. It's a submissive act, you're putting yourself in firm beta territory doing this.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:22 PM
3

Work on yourself, lift, abundance mentality. Women are gonna do what they're gonna do, there's really very little point in letting it bother you.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 06:15 PM
2

I was really just pointing out one example of how overall it's too specific. I'm not about to go through each point. Secondly, settle down, I'm not whining about your post, it's not altogether terrible advice. Tell me more about Turkmenistan, though. What t-shirts do they wear there?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 06:13 PM
1

This is way too specific. What works for one person, in one cultural setting, won't work for somebody else living in a completely different situation. What's stylish in one country is going to make you look ridiculous in another - like the whole thing for t-shirts with logos, graphic-designs, etc. In America, that's a look you can pull off in certain states. In Barcelona, they wear much "busier" designs on t-shirts, but it works there. In London, it's broadly considered immature to wear t-shirts…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 10:09 AM
1

Yeah, I've had a few experiences from Tinder with Indian girls who've come to London for the first time and are apparently desperate to get with a tall white guy. It's fucking awesome.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 01:07 PM
1

London's a bit of a different beast to the rest of the UK (and definitely the US) in terms of people's attitudes to race, though. Most women here wouldn't think twice about dating a black guy, brown, asian, whatever - so long as they're "culturally similar" in how they look/act/behave. From what I've heard from my foreign-born friends, it can be a completely different story (depending on your country of origin) when you come to London. Certain nationalities just don't do well here.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 01:02 PM
1

I'd agree with you. There's a balance to strike, and it's a difficult one to find, but I'm definitely of the opinion that there's nothing indicating that being "kind" and being "Alpha" are mutually exclusive. There's all sorts of evolutionary examples where the alpha demonstrates his value to the women through exhibiting tendencies we'd describe as kindness or generosity. But it's done through the lens of also exhibiting the strength and power required in order to put yourself in the position wh…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 10:53 AM
3

You don't understand what Buddhism is.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 09:04 AM
2

Then change. You're already saying out loud that you want to "kill" your old self - the next step is to actually change or languish in "death". There's a reason death/rebirth motifs keep popping up in religion and mythology. It's this big fat metaphor for how men need to be continually in a process of breaking down our old selves, and building up 'stronger' a version.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 02:19 PM
1

Oh yeah, I know that, but the subconscious motivation for saying it is the same regardless of how "seriously" you're saying it. Even when you're jokingly saying it because of something cringe-worthy, you're still stating to yourself that you'd rather not be the kind of person who did the embarrassing moment you're remembering. It's death and re-birth. I didn't think for a second that the poster was being serious, but it's helpful to actually understand what's going on in your head when you say s…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 09:13 AM
5

Something I learned in therapy - when people say "KILL ME" or "I WANT TO DIE" or any variant of this, it's not actually about suicidal instincts. What you're stating, is that the current 'version' of yourself, or your life, is unacceptable and you want that existence to end. Which doesn't mean that you want to die, just that you want things to change. Just something I found useful.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 08:18 AM
2

That is a very, very fucking interesting point. My Facebook feed has been packed full of posts about how great the new Ghostbusters movie is, and how empowering for women it is, how inspiring for young girls it is - and almost all of them are from men. Beta, manchild, comic-loving, asexual men. And then their posts get liked by their "female friends", which I guess to them, would indicate that their strategy is working. Except we all know here, that it really fucking isn't.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 12:51 PM
1

Hah. Did I touch a nerve? It's weird that you essentially agree with me, and yet kinda just wanted an excuse to hurl meaningless insults. Great stuff.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 12:09 AM
20

That whole trend in sitcoms of "fat/ugly/weird loser with a hot wife" has definitely fed into the minds of this current generation, I'd argue. Just be a "nice guy" and you too will have a hot wife, and a hilarious sitcom.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 09:11 PM
1

Ugh. Years ago, I was this guy. I'd been dating this single mother for a few months, when she has problems paying rent, and like an idiot, I helped her out. I had that twinge of guilt going on at the back of my brain, ludicrous images of her and her daughter stranded out on the street, and didn't even question where the father was to help. Thank fuck I got the hell out of there soon after. It's a long time ago, and since I've been lifting, focusing on building myself. Got a few plates on the go,…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 10:29 AM
1

It's more of a psychological thing, too. Women in their thirties find it harder to date, because there's that unspoken understanding that if they want kids (which they almost definitely do) then they have to lock that shit down in the next couple of years. What man wants to throw himself into a relationship where a woman is pushing for pregnancy/marriage within a couple of years? Barely any. So, men date women in their thirties less. Women in their thirties become more desperate. It's not just b…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 10:19 AM
2

All Russian men have drinking problems. It's just normal within their culture, so they tend not to see it themselves.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 11:28 PM
1

It might seem that way to a beta desperately pretending to be alpha. He looks like a fool from start to finish.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 01:13 PM
3

Exactly. He's the political equivalent of a PUA. On the surface, it might look like he's an "alpha" and that he's "holding frame" - but his lack of leadership exposes the scared little beta underneath. No wonder he appeals to so many men.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 10:17 AM
1

Who the hell fires someone for being gay anyway? I don't care what you're doing with your genitals, so long as you can do your fucking job.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 10:13 AM
1

Because TRP is full of children who think they're men. There are men posting on here, but it's getting more and more clogged full of infantile manlets who have a very simplistic understanding of what it means to run a business, or operate within a global economy. Nigel Farrage lost me money and business. The only people who think he's a "hero" are worthless dole scum.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 10:10 AM
-1

Completely disagree. Everytime I see him speak, he stutters and sinks into himself. It reeks of insecurity. He resembles a child, not a man - and certainly not the kind of man that can effectively lead. But, immaturity is the climate we live in, so his appeal makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 02:05 PM
1

So I've been attracted to this girl for around a year Everything you said after this is pointless. Nothing is going to happen, you're a beta orbiter to her.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 08:28 PM
2

You "surrender" to TRP? This sounds wrong. You have agency. Choose what you want to do, don't fucking surrender to anyone or anything. Jesus. You've got a very long way to go.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 09:44 AM
3

What the fuck are you talking about?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 03:59 PM
6

Read "Thoughts Without a Thinker" by Mark Epstein. He's a Western psychoanalyst and Buddhist practitioner, and he successfully managed to analyse the methods that Buddhism developed and how those are applicable to mental health and therapy. He cuts through a lot of the wishy-washy spiritual feel-good crap and presents meditation as what it is - a tool. It can be used to quiet your mind, to build your confidence, to know yourself. "The Power of Now" is essentially a vague description of what Epst…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 03:18 PM
5

From the way you're talking, it sure as hell seems like there's drama in your own head right now either way. Let go of this, it doesn't mean anything.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 09:22 AM
1

I dunno. From the way you write and communicate, I bet it's not as clear cut as you think. In her mind you probably just came off as an autistic weirdo, so when you argued with her, of course she'd respond that way. Work on yourself, social skills, etc - stop blaming others for your failures.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 12:31 PM
4

Jesus that's rough. Thanks for sharing, a solid reminder of reality. Also - holy shit your ex can't write for shit. That thing reads like the stream of consciousness of a child.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 07:52 PM
1

You say you're RP, but I'd argue you're not, if you're still finding dissatisfaction in the social/dating aspects of your life. Something in your life is out of equilibrium - either you're putting too much focus on pursuing women, you're coming across as vaguely desperate, you're not feeling the confidence that comes from self-growth - it could be anything. The only way you're going to get anywhere with women, is if you concentrate on building yourself. It's a constant, relentless process and yo…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 05:02 PM
7

She sounds a bit unhinged, but that's always the best sex. I kinda get the point of why you're doing this, but I'd be prepared to walk away real soon. From what you've described, there's no telling what this one might do when you bail.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 10:39 AM
1

I often think this is the entire reason I freelance.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 10:57 AM
11

Women tend to buy more shit, statistically. They're a more lucrative demographic to pander to.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 02:46 PM
3

Yeah, I think the trend is that the divorce rate is actually going down, at least in the UK. Though, hilariously, that's because people are marrying less and less. I'd look towards a declining marriage rate, rather than an increase in divorces.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 02:39 PM
9

Yeah, Mad Max interestingly has some very confused depictions of women in it. On the one hand, you've got the main woman - Charlize Theron? She's depicted as this battle hardened wastelander, despite being as skinny as a rake. Her strength weirdly seems to be characterized through adopting masculine traits. Then there's the brides of the war-lord guy (I'm terrible with names) - all of whom are presented to us as utterly helpless. And then you've got the older women - the mothers? This is the bit…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 02:38 PM
2

That seems like it has unnerving symbolism... I mean, if Terminator were true mythology, you could very easily interpret that as a woman's rejection of the role of motherhood. That could easily have been the filmmaker's intention (perhaps even to play it as a 'good thing'), but I'm wary to assume these sort of subtextual layers with the mindless sort of shit Hollywood craps out these days.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 02:32 PM
15

Terminator 2 and Aliens are both good examples of "strong" female characters done well, and believably. It helps that both of their story-arcs are centered around motherhood, in a way that would've spoke to the generations of women who saw those movies. In it, you've got characters who for one reason or another are reluctant to be a true maternal figure, and through various circumstances come to understand that the only way to 'survive' is to embrace that role. I wouldn't be surprised, if Aliens…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 07:33 AM
3

That won't ever happen. Outside of guys who need to be in an institution, no man is ever going to hit a woman. We're conditioned not to even consider it an option. I get your point, and agree that those women are probably a dangerous liability with that idea. Just, it won't be them getting their ass kicked, it'll be whatever poor dope was dumb enough to date them.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 07:28 AM
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Yeah... I'm not so sure this is that cut and dry. I mean, she gave you her number, but she didn't really indicate to you how she saw you (a 'friend' or a fuck). The lack of contact from her, the phrasing of your message (I'd have said "let's hang out" not "we should hang out" - you're asking her permission in your phrasing). Women with boyfriends will happily give their numbers to guys, but it's essentially meaningless - unless there's some escalation ongoing, that sort of interaction fizzles ou…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 12:54 PM
1

You work around it. You fuck them, move on, and focus on your own damn life.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 12:47 PM
1

They all eventually have a perpetual "the grass might be greener on the other side" subconscious mentality to sex. You might be her best, but she'll eventually wonder if there's better, even if she won't admit it.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 12:45 PM
1

I just wouldn't ever look to get seriously involved with a woman for more than a few months. It's not worth it. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 12:43 PM
1

Right. Really, there aren't two parties anyway, in any country. Your choice consists entirely of "Puppet A" or "Puppet B", with corporate media controlling both.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 12:31 PM
1

Look for male role models - not that there's many these days, but athletes and historical figures make good templates. The kind of mentor you're talking about is extremely rare to find. What would they get out of it? That kind of person would need to see some unique potential in you, and get some value out of mentoring you. I look to guys like Muhammad Ali, Hunter S. Thompson, Joseph Campbell and William Wallace for "guidance". I know some guys read up about famous military figures too. But you'…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 08:55 AM
2

I always find this stuff baffling. Why do women write these goddamn lists? You may as well just write in all caps; "I'M MENTALLY UNHINGED AND HAVE A SHIT-TON OF BAGGAGE" and it'd have the same effect.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 08:50 AM
1

I think it really massively depends. My social life is way, way more interesting now in my thirties than it was in college - and college was pretty fucking great too. Now I hang out with musicians, go to warehouse parties, gigs, house parties and fancy cocktail evenings. I get the complete range of social activities, and I've got the money to actually enjoy it. Life is what you make it. If you're hung up on the idea of college being the "best time ever", then you're preventing yourself from ever…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 08:37 AM
1

I know some on here will disagree with this, but I'd try staying away from pornography - if that's something you think you overindulge in. I've noticed that it decreases my libido, drive, or urge to have sex - to the point where, yeah, I've suffered ED in the past. I cut it out of my life, and it's stopped being a problem, but then that also came along at a time in my life where I started eating healthier, lifting, building confidence, etc - so I'm hesitant to suggest that cutting that out alone…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 08:33 AM
3

Gotta keep expanding the definition of "victim" until everyone on the planet can feel like a special little fucking snow-flake.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 08:30 AM
1

This shit drives me crazy. I had an ex who accused me of hijacking every conversation and talking over her - she was only ever happy so long as I shut my mouth, listened to her inane work-place drama bullshit with responses amounting to little more than "I know, I know" and "That must be so hard for you" at arbitrary intervals. Women just want uninterrupted time to talk, without having to contend with an opposing point of view. It's hilariously pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 08:23 AM
1

Yeah, the guy sending the texts sounds weird and totally without game. The desperation of pursuing a woman he works beside should be evidence enough of that. Both guys in that story sound kinda pitiful.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 08:20 AM
1

That's some M. Night Shyamalan shit, right there.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 08:17 AM
4

Isn't this roughly what the "Overton Window" is? You control the parameters of what is considered "normal debate and discussion" in society, and anything outside of that is immediately dismissed as the ravings of a lunatic.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 08:15 AM
1

Exactly that, I think. Bruce Lee was a smart fucking man. It's something I'm still working on wrapping my head round, but personal agency isn't removed when you redefine your fixed sense of self.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 07:33 AM
1

This story doesn't make sense, you're omitting something, either consciously or subconsciously.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 06:13 PM
0

This sounds like the typical Western attempt to define the "self" - personally, I prefer the Buddhist approach. There is no "you". You are a vessel for experiences, emotions, etc. Things move through you. I'd do a piss poor job of explaining it myself, but it's worth investigating. It's effectively destroyed any sense of ever viewing "myself" as a "victim".
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 06:01 PM
5

I'd actually suggest people read "Thoughts Without a Thinker" by Mark Epstein instead. Elkhart Tolle stole a lot of his ideas and wrote them in a very wishy-washy language - Epstein is a psychoanalyst and actually backs up a lot of his ideas with evidence. What the OP is talking about is a combination of two Buddhist meditation methods - "bare attention" and "mindfulness". I'd suggest Epstein's book if you find the ideas interesting towards developing a stable inner core and focus.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 07:04 PM
7

Dependency on society is something that's been slowly fucking us. Looking at it from the angle of religion - one of the biggest mistakes people make is looking for God "out there" (dependency) instead of realising that "God" is inside you (independent).
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 06:58 PM
0

Bullshit book for middle-management cretins with ideas above their station.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 06:56 PM
5

What it means to be a man probably includes not marking himself against a bullshit list written by a random nobody.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 06:50 PM
5

Agreed - you sound bitter. That's off putting to women more than anything else.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 06:49 PM
2

The video was ridiculous, skewed to a world view that isn't even slightly based on facts. What I don't get, is the wave of dislike there seems to be here from Americans for anyone from Europe. I'm from Scotland, and it honestly strikes me as a bizarre, petty and childish way to behave. Man the fuck up and stop projecting your insecurities.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 03:25 PM
2

There's nothing emotional whatsoever about the responses you got - you're the only one reacting sensitively to disagreement here.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 10:33 AM
1

This is really limited thinking, and will be the death of whatever business you're in.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 11:37 AM
0

Egos sure are fragile in sales.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 07:51 AM
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I did sales for 3 years. It's painfully easy and offers nothing in the way of a meaningful challenge. It's far more challenging to create, build and produce. Then afterwards, you can throw your product into the pig pen and let those guys find customers. Kid yourself that you have a "career", but sales should be nothing more than a stop-gap on your way that will test you on a far more meaningful level.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 02:44 PM
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Ugh, sales. The refuge of unimaginative and immature boys. Get a real career.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 02:09 PM
3

LTRs are really dumb at your age. Get that shit out of your head, and aim to have casual sex with these cute girls in class. You'll regret anything else.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 10:20 PM
1

I don't think I'd ever need to think this long about why I shouldn't fuck ugly girls. It's weird that you had to.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 10:17 PM
1

I get what you're saying, I just suppose I didn't think it was a point that needed to be articulated at all. You should be aware of how you present yourself - obviously this is important in person, but in this day and age, texting is a thing that people do, so you should be aware of how to communicate your intent through that. I honestly don't think I've seen anyone suggest that texting can overrule bad game in-person.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 02:35 PM
1

I'm going to have to disagree with the writer's view of what hierarchy is and should be, because this flies against a lot of what I've learned through systemic thinking. The article seems to talk about a very specific kind of overall societal hierarchy, rigid and inflexible in nature, and ill-prepared for the complex kind of changes our species will have to confront. There's another, spontaneous and organic kind of hierarchy on offer though - one where groups assemble to complete a task, before …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 11:07 AM
1

I worked in sales, and found it an intensely dull experience. If you're struggling to socialise with people, and pursuing things you want, then I can see how it'd maybe be useful for a guy. From my own experience, if you are pursuing a sales career for whatever reason, make sure it's for the right company and in the right environment. The partial reason I might have been so bored with it was due to my co-workers - they were terrible salesmen. We had the usual ranking system of how well we were d…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 10:39 AM
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That's something I've never considered before at all, holy shit. Almost every LTR I've been in would, if the roles were reversed, have been classed as an "abusive" relationship. Emotional manipulation, isolation, withdrawal of affection... yup. Sure as shit glad I broke that cycle.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 12:01 PM
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So true. Home for Christmas and my father is already trying to convince me I don't need to put any more muscle mass on. Crab bucket mentality. People will hold you back. Do not let them.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 12:29 AM
1

Sounds pretty beta. I don't know why you think leaving it until the moment of her being in your bed to kiss her is demonstrating anything other than weak and indecisive behaviour. Get your shit together. Be more direct.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 12:24 AM
1

This immediately reminded me of Alec Baldwin's character in 30 Rock using Six Sigma methods to improve his life - career, physical fitness, sex life, etc. In the show it was funny, but you're entirely right in that it'd be great to see the sub shift more towards that kind of discussion.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 08:21 AM
3

This is barely an anecdote, let alone anything to do with TRP. Glad you didn't get fired, at least.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 08:58 AM
2

This behaviour reeks of an insecure, clingy control-freak. If you're embodying all the traits and behaviours of an Alpha male, and the girl is worth the investment as a LTR, then you sure as shit won't need to do any of the stalker-level blue-pill shit you just described. This is astoundingly bad advice.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 11:09 AM
2

Great post, great message. You articulated something that I was struggling to define myself, having only just started reading TRP in the last 6 months or so. Keep on writing.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 04:55 PM
1

Well, at least you know what your fuck-up was now. And I'm in agreement about never describing a girl as a 10. No girl is perfect, not by a fucking long shot.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 12:54 PM
1

Yeah, you're entirely right. Not to completely derail this is into a discussion about capitalism - but you've struck upon the point I guess ties into TRP. Accountability and responsibility. I don't think it's any coincidence that we see a distinct lack of these two traits in both individuals and multi-national corporations in modern society.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 12:51 PM
1

Yeah, I dunno if you handled this very well. Your response to her observing that nobody had bought her a drink had shades of beta to it.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 10:10 AM
2

Well, he should do. I like and agree with your example a lot - but the watered down, rigged version of capitalism we operate in doesn't impose any serious burden on the CEO. Capitalism is a great system, it's just a shame we've never really given it a shot.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 09:39 AM
-1

Utter shit. I own some nice shoes, because they go well with my suits, but I bought them for myself. I'm wearing boots most of the time I bring women home to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 08:32 AM
2

Get the fuck away from that woman.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 12:30 PM
1

I'd agree on both counts - I'd describe myself as left-leaning, but I have a huge frustration around how "feminism" has effectively stalled any meaningful conversation around sex work, porn, prostitution, whatever. That's probably where that comment came from. I try to get into the topic with people, and their brains start doing back-flips between "porn is degrading to women", "women can do whatever they want with their bodies" and "eliminate wage slavery" without ever pausing to think about any…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 09:15 AM
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Exactly. She could've gone the legal route, but instead she'll just send out a tweet - removing from him any ability to realistically defend himself, and allowing the public to just automatically assume he's guilty because she used the word 'rape'. He may have done it, he may not have. The story may be completely different. But we'll never know, because she's publicly tarred and feathered the guy and in the age of the almighty internet, accusations are all that count.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 12:33 PM
1

Ah, maybe it's just feminists projecting the label "feminist" onto him for whatever reason. It's weird that people talk to porn stars about these topics though. I've never understood what value their thinking could possibly have on anything.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 12:04 PM
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This is a bit of a tangent, but I find it fucking bewildering that I live in a society where we actually give platform and listen to the opinions of porn stars. The same well-meaning, left-leaning idiots who parrot on about wealth inequality and wage slavery almost never extend their arguments to sex work, because "feminism". On topic: if he did, it doesn't surprise me. Headline I saw mentioned he's considered a "feminist" - and recently it seems like there's a whole array of known "feminist" me…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 11:40 AM
5

Your train of thought is a bit all over the place, but I get the essence of what you're trying to say. Self-growth, self-discipline. If you make this about "getting pussy" then you've got it all fucking backwards. Boys chase pussy. Pussy chases men. You've got to become a man first and foremost, and you've got to do it for reasons beyond sex - because sex is a real flimsy foundation to build your identity on.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 11:05 AM
1

It sounds psychological to me. You're 27 - it's incredibly unlikely you've got anything physically wrong with you at this point that'd stop you from getting an erection. My guess? It's a combination of the porn you're watching, and knowing your wife's expectations of some dominant sex beast that's fucking up your head. Cut out the porn entirely - men don't need that shit. And stop worrying about what your wife wants. Women want men, unrestrained, and a little dangerous. The only you'll be that i…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 11:01 AM
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Eh, but what if he was legitimately tired and wanted to be on his own for a while? Seems like if he'd gone with your option, he's setting a pattern that she's allowed to always follow him the fuck around.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 12:26 PM
1

Wow, you've got a shitty outlook on being 30. If you're not having as much fun as you used to, it might be because you're not as much fun as you used to be. Get to know some more interesting people, maybe. You're the only obstacle you've got right now, and lamenting on what you think you missed on college is making you sound incredibly fucking depressive unnecessarily.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 12:24 PM
1

Hah, I'm Scottish, and I hear about this shit from women all over. American women especially. Absolutely no idea what the hell it is, but it definitely seems to feed into some pre-existing fantasy a lot of women have. Either way, the Scottish accent turns most women on like crazy. It's insane.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 11:18 AM
3

Then, no matter how hot she is, you need to be clear about the situation or walk away. She says you're not being "considerate" about leaving clothes on the floor, whilst ignoring the fact she's not being "considerate" about the fact you pay for a fucking roof over her head.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 11:12 AM
2

Hard to relate to. The only time I ever lived with a woman, she more or less did all the housework, as well as paying just under half the rent. Chores never became an issue, or a conversation topic. I'd keep my work area tidy to the level I wanted, as well as some of my clothes - but that was generally because I'm incredibly particular about that shit. Now that I live alone, I obviously do all of that. I guess I take pride in the discipline required to keep the place great (I'm also 30 and you j…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 10:21 AM
2

I get what you're saying, and in principal I agree and do in certain situations - but man, I live in London. There's a hell of a lot of people here I do not want to fucking talk to.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 10:06 AM
2

Only drink whisky. Beer, maybe, if you want to get a little fruity about things.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 07:48 PM
1

I think that point is unspoken and included in what he's talking about. The difficult point women seem to be unwilling to acknowledge is that the power they've come into only declines over time. The only people saying otherwise are the average beta-guys duped by feminist group-think. You can't really compare men and women over this and say that it's the same thing at all.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 01:17 PM
3

Of course there are. Nothing about me supporting men's rights or being aware of TRP limits that. Off the top of my head, Tina Fey is a woman I can definitely respect. I was never a fan of SNL, but her work on 30 Rock was incredible and I've loved some of her past writing. She's also clearly got a lot of respect for herself - I remember an interview where she revealed she didn't lose her virginity until she was 21, to her now-husband. I can definitely respect that, especially in this day and age.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 08:20 AM
1

Yeah, it's actually pretty sad behaviour. I have a strange job, that has me occasionally interacting with these types. It's interesting watching them hit a wall with me - showing off brand-name watches, mentioning recent holidays - it's all just hollow window-dressing in most cases.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 07:46 AM
2

Yeah. It's fairly established that people join gangs out of fear, I wouldn't naturally assume that everyone in a gang was alpha. I'd still steer well clear of that shit, because those guys are mentally unstable.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 07:43 AM
2

Don't waste your time in these areas. Woolwich is a cesspit, all you'll find are dead-eyed junkies and car mechanics.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 07:34 AM
1

Hah. The boyfriend of the girl who wrote this sounds like a complete cuckolded little bitch. It's amazing watching women mentally running round in circles trying to justify shit that's so patently obvious. Men chase sex, women give it away. Of course it fucking says something if you've fucked a lot of guys - it says that you're not relationship material, that you've zero fucking standards. Sorry, but that's just this little thing we call FUCKING REALITY.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 02:54 PM
3

Yeah, it's just weird. Dude seemed well-dressed, from what you can see in the photograph. Describes himself in terms of a man otherwise on top of things. I guess I'm still struggling with, how a guy in every other aspect can be so in control, but when it comes to women he's just a completely spineless pushover.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 12:00 PM
2

Well, it might involve adjusting your skillset. I used to work in film post-production, shifted into producing videos for corporate events, then branched out into a few different creative fields. I realise the industries are totally different, but I think the principle still works. Find out how to broaden your skills, and broaden the amount of work you can take on. Find out how you can go into business for yourself - the niche jobs that others can't fill as easily.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 11:12 AM
2

Hah. Love your last paragraph. I'm of the same mind. I'd go further - I'll call you whatever pronoun you like, call you whatever you want. But like you say, I fish out of a different pond. None of it has any impact on my life whatsoever.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 10:07 AM
5

I'm happy, because I design my life to be that way. If you'd have met me 5 years ago, I was a miserable little beta. Everyday felt miserable. Now? I focus on my career. I love what I do for a living, and I love that I'm in business for myself. I make sure that I've a number of different hobbies that occupy my time, and I love the progression in my skills that have come along with it. I exercise a ton - that has an immediately positive effect on my mental well-being. I meditate. I read a lot. I s…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 09:55 AM
17

I feel bad for him, but it's not like he didn't get a whole string of red flags well before he married that crazy bitch.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 09:50 AM
1

This is good stuff. To echo other posters, I understand why most guys drift towards being alpha 24/7 on here - because they're coming from a place where they haven't managed to be alpha once in their lives. Once you're at that place where it's no longer an act, and just a part of who you are, you need to balance it off. This is really intelligent, articulate stuff here.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 09:41 AM
1

Oh, definitely. Think I realised that with the last girl I was with. She spoke a lot about her hobbies - how much she liked games, comics, books, etc. It was like drawing blood from a stone to get her to talk about any of that though. The only conversation topic with her was around her shitty part-time retail job, and the bullshit gossip around it. I didn't even fucking know these people. The terrifying part was, she was studying science. Did she ever talk about it? Nope.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 09:21 AM
8

I won't bullshit - it was a combination of hard work, the right timing, meeting the right people, identifying a niche that my skill-set could fill, enduring months of living on next-to-no-money. I've spoken to others, and the general agreement is it takes around two years to get a good living going from a freelance career when you're starting from the bottom. I'd say I only really became financially comfortable around the last two years or so. I took on work that intimidated me, made sure to kee…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 07:34 PM
20

I've been working for myself for the past 6 years. Never been happier. I actually have a physical revulsion when people try to tell me what to do.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 09:48 AM
1

Yeah, I've been guilty of intentionally drifting towards this tactic. I'm not sure it's a great idea, it felt cowardly at the time, and she left with a completely incorrect perspective of who I was. Just bite the bullet, use some "logic" that resonates with her brain, and immediately move on. No point fucking about.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 08:51 AM
3

The line between love and hate is paper-thin, they're both a product of intense fucking emotions. The opposite of hate isn't love, the opposite of love isn't hate. The opposite of love is complete apathy, and the opposite of hate is the same. So, when the quote says "A women's hatred of you is just like love" - my interpretation - is that it's very literal. That shit can turn on a dime. And with women, and how they are, that's a risk you run when you allow yourself to get locked down into that k…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 11:34 PM
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Yeah, I'm not sure I buy any of this. I studied a "useless" degree (Film ) because the subject fucking fascinates me. I went to University to learn, to grow as a person, to consume knowledge. A lot of people go to University as a purely cynical move to stick to plan on a predicted career path - which is also fine. It really is about what you do with it afterwards. Of my graduating class, I really feel like I'm one of two people (both of us guys, both of us clearly more 'alpha' than the rest) who…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 10:34 AM
1

Wow, this guy is a lost cause. You'd think this would be the rock-bottom moment where he sees the situation for what it is, but nope, he just gets further entrenched in this warped view of what his "relationship" with this girl was. This is actually kinda painful to read, purely because I feel sympathy for this guy for being such a lost cause. He might snap out of it, but it doesn't seem likely from his language.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 10:02 AM
1

Really? So it doesn't impact us at all? Do we spread it? They can't even test if we're carrying it? Just curious, this is new information to me and I'm weirdly struggling to find specifics.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 05:23 PM
2

True story, and maybe an aspect of it I didn't highlight enough. But you're right, it's because she probably sees a directness and assertiveness in me that comes from a place of just generally being sure of myself. That's something she seems to lack a little, so it's natural she might be inclined to lean towards that. Good reminder, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 05:22 PM
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Oh wow. Can't believe I didn't know what HPV was. Seems like this is harshest for women, but it's spurred me on to get tested since I'm probably due to (just for my own mental peace). Awkward conversation, but I almost feel compelled to let my friends know - if I didn't know, it's likely one or two others didn't know about HPV. Sexual health awareness is still pretty fucking backwards the world over.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 03:44 PM
1

I'm lucky enough to live in a European city they all flock to, so it doesn't involve much travel for me. But I'd put Polish and Russian women in the same category too.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 01:59 PM
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Good point, and yeah - I've no idea why I felt the need to add that. I guess, partially, I'm new to posting here - but you're right that it doesn't serve any fucking purpose. Strong observation, something I'll consider.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 01:55 PM
1

Honestly? I have no idea, man. I don't obsess over it, because I think you're then going to make it an unpleasant routine for yourself. I just avoid processed shit as much as I can. I like chocolate milk too - but I'll only have it maybe once a month, or once every two. Otherwise I just make sure to replace snacks with things like nuts, yoghurt, that sorta thing. All I can suggest is that you make sure everything you eat is a consciously thought out decision. I don't beat myself up when I eat sh…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 01:46 PM
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Yeah, basically. And I wouldn't hold your breath for an update - like I say, she's someone I work with reasonably often, and the complexity of that isn't something I need in my life. But there's definitely a firm dynamic that's been established between us. I think she tends to hang out with "hippy-guys" (read: spineless beta bitches) and I represent this guy that's got the creative credentials, but I obviously behave very differently to what she's used to. If any other funny stories come out of …
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 01:40 PM
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Ukrainian women, dude. They're fucking crazy in bed once you let them off the leash.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 01:37 PM
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Oh, hell yes. Should've clarified that. No way in hell am I pursuing it - even though we're both freelancers, we cross paths often, and there's no way I want to deal with the fallout from that shit. I'm not hurting for options - I just thought this whole thing was kinda amusing!
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 01:33 PM
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Hah, that wouldn't happen. I'm a contractor with his own business - I AM the HR department. :D
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 01:31 PM
1

I thought lifting actually increased your testosterone in itself? Try not jerking off so damn much.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 09:12 AM
2

Yeah, I'd agree. Too much coffee makes me jittery and anxious - tea calms and soothes the soul, whilst also waking me the fuck up. Cutting sugar out of your diet is also incredibly good for you. I'm not obsessive about it, but if I can avoid it, I will. I think with all this shit, it's just about finding a healthy balance. Don't go from extreme to extreme.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 09:10 AM
14

What's this thing about a fibroid in her uterus? What the hell is that, and what is it about sleeping around that causes it? That sounds really fucked up. They also all sound seriously delusional and bitter.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 09:07 AM
1

Women, on average, don't give a shit about technical jobs. Sure, there's the odd exception - but that's what it is, the odd exception. These quotas, tuition-waivers - have they not worked out yet how fucking pointless it is? We've been at this shit for decades and guess what? Women still want to work with people, men want to build things and get shit done. Stop forcing this crap.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 08:39 AM
3

I'm completely hung up on that story of the guy who couldn't accept blowjobs because they're degrading. What in the ever living fuck? You don't "accept" blowjobs, for fuck's sake. It's either a struggle to keep them off your damn dick, or your wrap their hair around your knuckles and force them to the floor, so they learn that's where their place is. Every single woman I've been with went crazy when I forced them to their knees, and half of them probably would have identified as feminists in pub…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 08:37 AM
1

Fucking hilarious, and she can't even get close to understanding that maybe - just maybe - this is her fault. She can't even articulate what it is that she IS looking for - only the disgust and disappointment with the castrated-betas she's been fucking around with. I'd have sympathy, but y'know. She deserves it. The most hilarious part of the article though, was the guy who struggled to accept blowjobs because of how "degrading" they are. I mean - wow - how fucking pathetic is that guy? I have a…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 08:31 AM
1

I'd actually say that dating apps are a fucking worthless distraction too. Whenever I've had them deleted on my phone for long periods of time, y'know what? I wind up meeting a hell of a lot more women anyway. You don't fucking need 'em. If anything, they're for tricking housebound-betas that they actually stand a fucking chance. Most probably don't agree with me, but I just view 'em as a fucking distraction from me actually getting shit done.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 08:18 AM
1

You really have to marvel at the logic of someone who thinks the blame lies with the world, rather than anything they're doing or did. You're 28, it's getting rarer that guys your age will want to date you - precisely because they know you're thinking about what you're thinking about (marriage, kids, etc) - that's not the world's problem. She could date older, try messaging people on OKCupid herself instead of waiting to be hit on like she's probably used to, maybe abandon the idea of marriage a…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 11:00 PM
1

Yeah, really, this. I don't even think I necessarily date younger than my own age because of some idea of youth as an ideal - I just know, as a 30 year old guy, I'm still not ready (or sure) I want to have kids. Women my age are obviously going to be thinking about it a hell of a lot more, whether they admit it or not, so I routinely tend to date women 27 and under. 20-25 ideally. Does that make a monster? Fuck no. These women want marriage, kids, commitment or whatever - I'm not their fucking g…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 10:50 PM
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Hah, this is awesome. Totally trying this.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 04:04 PM
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Oh yeah, I've been doing in relative ignorance it for the past two years. Decided I didn't like who I was and set about changing myself, and how I approach relationships and women. The amount of sex I started having has fucking exploded, but I've wobbled a bit recently. Finding Redpill has been great, it's cemented the language of what I've been doing, and given me a renewed sense of how fucking awesome I am. Women are fucking lucky to get near this shit.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 04:03 PM
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I pretty much agree with all of this. I own a Netflix subscription, but that's about it. Fuck social media, and the endless tsunami of badly-thought out opinions that come with it. I don't need some communications grad telling me how the fucking world works.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 01:11 PM
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Yeah, that book is a hell of a lot better than I thought it'd be, and in hindsight, full of RP truths. You've got two identical brothers - one is a wet-blanket beta provider, the other a "doesn't-give-a-fuck" alpha. Guess which one the wife has secret fantasies about, whilst protesting that she hates him? This shit is fucking textbook. The brother might have been a dick for fucking his brother's wife, but the balding-brother had it coming for being such a naive little bitch about it.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 01:09 PM
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Interesting, I unconciously follow all the rules laid out here, but I still had a bit of a default "I'm offended by the language" reaction to this, but I don't really know why. Guess I've got ways to go, but again, I agree with every damn point laid out here.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 12:41 PM
1

Eh, we've never needed "the patriarchy" as an institution before, and I doubt we need it now. If something like that were created, the only use I could see it having would be as a decoy for feminists to get angry and mad at. Let them think there actually is a patriarchy, and burn themselves out trying to rail against, whereas the rest of us men can just get on with life, ignoring all of that inane bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 11:43 AM
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Hah, I thought it was headed in that direction. Seems like she can't stop thinking about him to this day either.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 11:40 AM
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I swear I saw some stand-up comedy about this very topic recently, but on the opposite perspective - those shitty people who state "You don't remember my name, do you?!" No, I don't remember your fucking name. That doesn't give you an advantage over me in any capacity, it means you didn't make enough of an impact that my brain didn't allocate you any space. That's not my problem, that's yours. I've a feeling these are the same douchebags that wear costumes on Halloween that require a fucking exp…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 11:25 AM
1

Hah. I love the point about not ambling to get the paper, but also - making sure the paper boy is crystal-fucking-clear that he has to go up the drive and drop it off outside my front door. You're a boy, I'm a man. There's a fucking pecking order.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 11:22 AM
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I'm not really into the language being used at points, but I totally agree with the overall message. It creates and cements a feeling of abundance in yourself, avoids "oneitis" and most importantly - helps you avoid women who flat-out just aren't worth your fucking time. Which, as it turns out, seems to be the vast fucking majority of them.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 11:21 AM
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I could barely get through the article. This is feminism in utter desperation, clutching at straws. You had bad sex? And somehow, only men are responsible for that? Jesus fucking Christ. This shit is getting insane.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 11:18 AM
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Ditto. By under-valuing himself, the result is that clients will under-value the work done by others in a similar field. Fuck these people and their total lack of self-worth. The harm it inflicts isn't limited just to themselves, but to everyone around them.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 11:16 AM
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So true. My sense of self-worth sky-rocketed when I went into business for myself, for two reasons. I'm my own boss. I choose the work I want to do, when I want to do it, and how I want to do it. Nobody else is in charge of me, but me. The "Fuck you, pay me" mentality. You're forced to have a spine. Nobody fucks me over professionally and as a result, nobody dares do it in my personal life either. I watched this video a few years back, and I've held onto the advice ever since. The logic included…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 11:14 AM
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Interesting, I had a therapist many years ago say something similar. I'd routinely mutter "I want to kill myself" sometimes, almost like a mantra, whenever I caught myself alone and stressed. What the therapist clarified, was that I didn't actually want to kill myself at all - I was stating that I was dissatisfied with my current existence and wanted those circumstances to end. Suicidal thoughts didn't enter into it. The old me is dead now, and I'm moon-walking over that pussy's grave.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 11:10 AM
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