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it will prevent him from getting more strains. You can still get HPV if you are vaccinated because none of the HPV vaccines are effective against every strain, only the most common. I got the vaccine in the US when it was first approved, and it covered the four most common strains. Now (15 long years later) if you get vaccinated in the US, you'll get a vaccine that protects against nine strains of HPV, but you'll still be unprotected against 10% of the HPV strains that cause cancer (I don't know…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:19 PM
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The woman in question is not an ugly, childish fool. If you think that I was saying she is, you have severely misunderstood me. If you inferred that from my comments,perhaps it is you who suffers from misogyny and cluelessness. Agreed. This is FDS. There is no need for you to be disrespectful towards one woman seeking to help another, regardless of how verbose you can be. Also agreed. When and where was I disrespectful? PS - calling a female a girl is only misogynistic if it is meant in a disres…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:14 PM
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I responded to your reply but you deleted it while I was writing my own reply, so for context, I'll just quote your first reply here: I don’t think it’s right to call people assholes. That’s disrespectful :( disappointing to see that on here. I’m sorry if what I wrote was offensive, I was disagreeing with you and I should’ve said it in a different way. I don’t want to go edit my comment as I want to keep FDS real. I thought you were saying how in the end you were rambling anyways. I thought it w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:39 PM
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Do you usually tell calm, kind, and respectful women to "chill out!"? My last paragraph was a "softener" that I deliberately included because, as a woman, I feel bad for not just smiling and agreeing with everyone all the time. My verbosity comes from a lifetime of being a woman who has been routinely and completely dismissed for not being 100% on-the-mark 100% of the time. My lack of input on this site and all others is because of ignorant assholes like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:52 PM
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I'm clearly referring to your comments here, the ones underlining your thinking behind your actions. Just like your male coworker doesn't need to say, "I'm a LVM manipulator," for you to know he is one, you don't need to say, "I think you're an ugly, childish fool," for your younger coworker to pick up on that... And even if she didn't pick up on that, this is a feminist space where you expressed decidedly unfeminist sentiments, to which I responded with respect and clarity. What you've just wri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:46 PM
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I'm confused. Your post was talking about an LVM coworker taking advantage of "a much younger girl," but now you're talking about a "younger woman," and you're disparaging her appearance??? I guess what you were trying to say was that a young woman was being taken advantage of by an older LVM who thinks he can woo her by appealing to the low self-esteem she suffers from due to other people who are not friends, family, or lovers having unkind, close-minded, public opinions of her appearance, and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:52 PM
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Who would want a child running errands for them anyway unless that child were a relative or were the children of close friends? I guess it's because most men are basically children? 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:18 PM
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Thankfully this story told its age in that detail, and things like this are far less common thanks to Obama's "overhaul" of health insurance. Back then, there were people being dropped from their insurance for "undisclosed pre-existing conditions" like root canals and pregnancy, but they were only dropped after they'd made a claim (unrelated to oral health or child-bearing, no less!) so that the insurance companies were able to collect premiums from customers who they had no intention of coverin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:12 PM
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Almost certainly 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:31 PM
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That's a dude with a new account that he uses to troll FDS. Check out the comment history.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:46 AM
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Feminism is for women, by women, and exists to liberate our sex from patriarchal harm and control. "Liberal feminism" (aka choice feminism/fun feminism) is an appropriation of feminism, and it exists to deprioritize women and center men, such that we make ourselves sexually, financially, professionally, aesthetically, and emotionally available to all men all the time; it informs us to pursue our own actualization, but only as far as doing so will benefit men and the patriarchy. It is the off-bra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:43 PM
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Nothing in this description is FDS "approved" other than your mention of two sound bites that are overused by other newbies that also haven't read the handbook and therefore lack the ability to discuss FDS principles in any kind of meaningful way. For instance, stop texting these guys for weeks on end: text for a day or two, arrange a date, then hold off on texting about anything other than date logistics until the date. The myriad reasons for this are explained all over this sub. Also, in 2021,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:27 PM
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It's so tremendously prevalent, and I could point it out dozens of times a day on this sub alone, but I really hate being the "word police," so I don't call it out 99% of the time I see it, and I generally try not to be a dick about it when I do. I appreciate you receiving my comment with an open heart instead of reactionary defensiveness; online arguments (and even mere spats) are soOo draining. I'm so grateful for this community and the rare others like it, and while I hate to see feuds arise …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 07:28 PM
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It is disparaging to refer to women as 'girls,' especially when simultaneously respecting grown males of our species by referring to them as 'men.' That being said, your point is plainly astute, and any woman or girl who forgets that ever-present cellphones can silently record us, regardless of location, is not adequately looking out for herself. [Y]ou’re not safe when you’re around [LVM] Yup, even the ones that we foolishly choose to trust. 'Block and delete' is gospel because it allows us to d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:05 PM
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Holy shit sis, this was brilliant. I'm crying over here 🤣🤣🤣 "'I did eat the others'" has got me howling!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:49 AM
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Men use and abuse women, and that is why this community exists. I know it can’t be only me, I feel a lot of girls are played, used, thrown away and replaced by men as if they are objects. Girls date boys, women date men, and if men are dating girls, then we're talking about grooming and pedophilia, which is a separate conversation (which we also have here). You're asking this question at a few other subs, and it feels like you don't even understand this community or its intent, which makes me wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:25 PM
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TL;DR: 🤡💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 01:20 PM
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Due to proximity to other people and furniture, I, personally, do not think this is worse than butt crumbs guy... And no, you don't want to know. 🤮 If butt crumbs guy lived alone and nobody other than he knew of his existence, then I may be inclined to think him on par with the guy from the OP, but butt crumbs guy shared his butt crumbs with the poor woman who told the tale of him, while the scrote above at least had the decency to be shameful enough to hide his degeneracy. Yea, I'ma go ahead wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:00 PM
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Lots are willing to have it, but it's been banned and censored. We lost a lot of excellent subreddits in the past year dedicated to such conversations, while academics and professionals trying to have it are being ousted from their jobs and positions. It's really super hateful these days to believe that womanhood is a tangible reality and not a culmination of sexist imaginings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:54 PM
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"Getting the bag" is a euphemism for acquiring money by hitching yourself to someone who already has it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:37 PM
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And yes we do have to support each other but also, being constantly adjacent to entirely preventable situations like this is fucking exhausting. This is the subtitle of my memoir from early adulthood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:54 PM
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And before any man gets angry I'm not saying all men... Who is your second paragraph for? There are no men here (well, there are some infiltrators, but we care insofar as removing them, not including them). Did you write a whole paragraph to coddle misogynist lurkers? Why? And why do you think they'd care? Those types can't stand to hear us say anything critical of men, regardless of urgency and truth, but you already did speak your mind, so your attempt at pandering to them just makes you weak …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:47 PM
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The lowest of the low, yes, but plenty of them are rich, successful, attractive, affable, married, engaged, dating, etc. Some may be fat, poor, dirty, stupid, and vomit-inducing, but don't kid yourself: LVM of all stripes pay for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:43 AM
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I have a feeling she's gonna get jackhammered. It's less than jack. Poor dear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:31 PM
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So one must either drink or clean? If that's the dichotomy offered to you, perhaps the party isn't worth staying for, and if the situation becomes outwardly hostile because you refuse both options, then this conversation is now about something else altogether. ETA: "stupid stuff" is a bizarre way to describe hypothetical assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:39 PM
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...Like being the clown who cleans for them??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:21 PM
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Yes!! It was such a relief to see the backlash he got and the mockery he received!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:51 PM
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She was also a personal trainer or employed at a gym and was in amazing shape. She snapped right back after the baby so he was probably bitter that no one could tell she'd been pregnant Goddamn, that guy is such a loser. I had forgotten that detail, which is interesting because it was the most petty part of his petty pity pile of bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:48 PM
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You forgot the "best" parts of this story! She also agreed to pay child support without any legal pressure and not only has never missed a payment, but routinely pays more than the agreed upon amount. Meanwhile, scrote shared his situation with the world because he thinks she's a "deadbeat mom" and wanted to know what his legal options were regarding forcing custody on her. He also whined a whole lot about how shocking the whole ordeal has been for him because he assumed that she'd change her mi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:21 PM
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Maybe this graphic is only talking about one kind of woman, the kind who gave everything she had to a man who gave her nothing. I've been that woman. I've also been the woman hurt by a man who "tried" and still let me down spectacularly and devastated my life despite his feeble, full-hearted attempts to enrich it. I'm not shitting on anyone by advising women not to make either misstep, nor do I demean women for their miscalculations. You ignorantly assume that I'm being pretentious, lumping all …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:29 PM
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If she didn't give her heart, her hope, her love, her commitment, and her loyalty away for an iota of male attention (which is worthless), she wouldn't be crying because she wouldn't have gotten deeply involved with him. This is all about her, not him, and it's not 'victim blaming' to tell women to expect and demand reciprocity from men. Women with high standards don't cry over no-effort scrotes devaluing them because they're too busy cruising away in the opposite direction before those men even…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 02:10 PM
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Let us not get too excited. For all the artistic promise Malcolm & Marie holds, Zendaya is 24 and John David Washington is 36. When I first saw the trailer a few days ago, it seemed like it had the potential to be an exceptionally insightful movie... that is, until I began scrutinizing Washington's face and thinking, "That dude appears to be significantly older than Zendaya." Confirming my suspicions immediately dulled my interest in this film. It is my hope that the film ends with her leaving h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:35 PM
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When I left my comment, your comment linking her here wasn't yet showing up on my end of things; therefore, your screenshot could have been from one of many, many women in the same predicament. If she meanders over here, I hope she realizes that we see posts like hers all the time, and that comments like mine are not meant to mock or humiliate, but to instead highlight an all-too-predictable outcome that we see frequently on Reddit and that we abhor. I don't know what her outcome is/will be beca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:23 AM
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"Dear Reddit: I learned that my fiancé is not trustworthy... Should I still trust him? I feel like I should since he's gone to the effort of sneaking around behind the backs of me and every woman in form-fitting pants within his line of sight. "ETA: It's okay everyone! I confronted him and he told me that he'd totally delete the files later and that I'm just being paranoid and that he'd never do anything to hurt me!! If we weren't already engaged, I'd propose to him right now!! 😍"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:51 PM
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I dOn'T rEaLlY hAvE aNy OtHeR cHoIcE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 06:23 PM
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Of all the TikTok videos that get posted here, this one is absolutely my favorite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:17 PM
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Agreed, although thankfully my experience with this isn't nearly as bad as the all-too-common hypothetical you lay out. I never have and never will lie about, downplay, or soften abusive or shitty behavior. I will never be a bottomless outlet for other people's trauma. My experience is with lifting up mediocre men and allowing the world to see and experience the best he has to offer, giving him a day-to-day life wherein people find him to be more capable, charming, intelligent, and competent tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 07:25 PM
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Your entire comment is spot-on, but this... if you spend your life trying to make him look good, nobody will ever believe he’s not such a nice guy should you ever need to defend yourself and get people to side with you ...should be in neon lights because it isn't spoken about nearly enough and it's so incredibly, painfully true. Women are scarcely allowed to complain about men who are absolute horrorshows, but try complaining about a man who presents himself better than most, and people treat yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 03:51 PM
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I went from reading tame things to more explicit to depraved to depraved and illegal. It really ruined my sexuality, and I am still figuring out how to not be turned on by depraved, sadistic, and honestly fucked up things. This happened to me, except I was 12 and had discovered Microsoft Chat 2.0 on my computer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 12:33 PM
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So many girls (and I say girls because most are teens) Thank you so much for valuing this distinction!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:20 PM
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I was trying to say women are capable of being shitty Why tho? The rest of the world reminds us 24/7 how shitty they think women are. Nobody here thinks women are perfect little angels incapable of doing wrong, and you insult us by not only insinuating that we are deluded into thinking otherwise, but also by derailing a conversation to dump on women as a whole for non-violent bullshit that is primarily a coping response to 1,000s of years of patriarchal conditioning and abuse. Every woman you kn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:59 AM
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Then rock on with your rad self, sister! 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 01:20 AM
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This is a radical feminist subreddit. If you're not a radfem, you're not much of a feminist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 01:03 AM
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Same! I downvote posts here that do the same thing. It literally makes me feel sick when people use "girl" and "woman" interchangeably. I feel SO strongly about the phrase "young girl" because it's NEVER in reference to a 5-year-old girl, but to a 19-year-old woman, who is not at all a "girl" and sure as hell isn't a "young girl." Could you imagine if 19-year-old men were routinely referred to as "young boys"? Lmao! No, 12-year-old boys are called "young men" while 30-year-old women are still ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 08:08 PM
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Why engage with a scrote when you can block, delete, and then do something productive and/or fun?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 08:40 PM
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It's super creepy for sure, but the vehicle was not damaged. Some stupid scrote wrote an unnerving message in the snow on the windshield, they didn't key it into the paint. Probably didn't even smudge the glass with their fingertip. If this is vandalism, I'd happily take it instead of the tire slashing and gas tank tampering that my NVM ex did to my car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 12:43 PM
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"please don't bother yourself that much" 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 07:40 PM
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My mom is the type of person who will bend over backwards making sure I'm taken care of when I'm injured so I know it will be better for me there! I think you're missing the point. We're concerned about your safety, not your comfort. Abusive men turn up the dial when their victims are further victimized by circumstance and/or unable to carry on their day-to-day lives as usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:21 PM
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Get used to that around here. Scrotes and pick-mes show up, diarrhea on a thread, and get removed with consistently impressive swiftness. It's absolutely wonderful how little crap we have to subject ourselves to here due to the amazing moderation efforts of FDS. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 07:57 PM
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Now you're just being willfully obtuse. Stop projecting. A man who wants you will ask. If you have to ask, he doesn't want you, and you initiating will not change that. This is irrespective of whether or not he is HV or LV Approaching isn't "advanced," it's non-FDS. You are welcome to challenge that or embrace a non-FDS stance, but you insisting that women chasing men is FDS will not make it so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 12:16 AM
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I'm being down voted because FDS has a specific idea of womanhood and femininity that is upheld. This isn't a space that is welcoming towards women who aren't stereotypically submissive. Lmao! Sis, you're embarrassing yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 12:10 AM
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They chase, we choose; this is standard FDS. If you're chasing, you're not following FDS, and this article does a great job of explaining several reasons why. To draw a similar parallel: wealth doesn't make a man HV, but that doesn't mean we should date paupers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 12:00 AM
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Why would you get downvoted for encouraging OP to protect herself from pregnancy and STIs? OP is confused, naive, and should not put any trust in a man who thinks and acts like her boyf. She's also wrong about birth control causing abortions, she's wrong to get engaged so young, she's wrong to overlook their massive political differences, she's wrong to put faith in unsubstantiated promises, and she's wrong to make important decisions based on the wrong-headed, selfish, and controlling ideologic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 07:17 PM
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Chef's kiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:14 PM
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"Jolene" by Dolly Parton; it's a classic! Definitely not FDS, but it's got a terrific, rich, and classic sound and it's a lot of fun to sing along to! Edit for grammar 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:47 PM
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More than likely, dude told The Other Woman a bunch of hyped up lies about his wife/girlfriend, their relationship, his feelings about either woman, etc. Men love pitting women against each other and then watching them struggle for him when he has no intention on fully committing to anyone ever. Not saying that's what happened, just that I personally believe that to be a most likely factor. This is why HVW don't mess with committed/"committed" men: it's all guessing games and bullshit no matter …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:39 PM
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I said this to someone else who rated him a four: how can you be so generous?? This man is a crusty-dicked ONE on his best day, and is a three only in his most ambitious dreams!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:59 PM
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Why so generous? For sure, that woman is a 10, but Josh is a solid ONE at best. He nasty af, and could only be a 4 in his wildest dreams.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:57 PM
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OoOoOo, you have a CAR??? 😍😍😍 Pick ME!! Of COURSE I'll give you gas money; I ain't no GoLdDiGgEeEeRrRrRr!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:48 PM
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This guy wanted one thing and was only willing to put forth a bare minimum effort to get it. He is trash and so are his opinions. What he thinks and does is irrelevant because he is LV and is way too old for you anyway. Read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:00 AM
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Ordinarily I hate pretty much every use of the b-word, but... I'm not gonna let it ruin my mood because otherwise the bad smell will know I'm [a] little bitch who can't take it. ...definitely made me laugh. And you are absolutely correct. Your friends who disagree sound immature. Also, while you're totally correct about being able to block people who haven't affected you (proactive beats reactive any day!), these same friends are wrong two-fold: why do they think it's weak to block someone becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:48 PM
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I agree with everything here except for believing this guy's claims about his girlfriend. Without any proof that he's telling the truth, I'm disinclined to believe that the new girlfriend is terrible, and not because women can't be terrible--they absolutely can be, but men are far more likely to be manipulative liars than women are to be abusive girlfriends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:30 PM
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I could go on at great length on this topic, but I'll be brief: **Random hookups for women are very often disappointing, and even if they weren't, the risks are still very, very high. **Most men would choose bad sex over no sex. I learned at a rather young age that, for women, no sex is 1,000 times better than bad sex. Get some masturbatory aids instead! **I got lucky and found a few very satisfying flings, but the vast majority of the boys and men I slept with were not worth it. Also, casual se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:36 PM
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A lot of women don't even have hobbies so maybe that's why they can't relate to people very much into things. What the FUCK???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:25 PM
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You misspelled "ballsack."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:55 PM
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Agreed. The last sentence in particular. Ironically, the man who sent this to OP is almost certainly a predator but doesn't see the situation that way and considers himself a "good guy." Same for the men in his life. Probably a major rape apologist, too. Definitely a misogynist, considering that he goes out of his way to harass women who are no threat to him or his shitty male brethren.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:51 PM
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I absolutely agree that he is phallicly distracted and threatened by the cucumbers, but I want to point out that she calls them "cukes," not "cucks." Maybe it's a regional thing, but it's really common in my neck of the woods to verbally cut off the "-umber." Since "cuc" is no kind of proper spelling, the word is spelled like "cute," but with a 'k' instead of a 't.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:38 AM
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I miss the Pink Pill sub sooo much 😭😭😭 On the plus side, I spend way less time on Reddit since they nixed it (or made it private? Idk, I exclusively use the app and that seems to add a layer or two of difficulty with certain things on here). Edit to add: Red and Purple Pills are trash heaps of braindead misogyny. They are the very antithesis of FDS. They hate women and despise any woman with any standards or self-esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:30 AM
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Omg, the comments section on that video are basically a field study in why FDS exists. I think reading those comments may have finally cured my heterosexuality. They're worse than the video, somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 08:39 PM
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I'm sure that he loves titles that indicate/grant power and that serve him and his ego. To a narcissist, relationship titles are the opposite of power, while stringing along kind people who will cater to their needs and egos is absolutely power. He's going to lie and obfuscate for the rest of his days, always in the pursuit of power over others in any capacity he desires. The hardest parts about moving on from a narcissist (or similar sorts) is (a) accepting that they will continue to try to aff…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:02 PM
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I'll meet you halfway and agree that, if there be a Satan, he definitely created Tinder. A desolate Tartarus of fuckbois, cheaters and the bloated former husbands of walk-away wives. Pure poetry! Edit to add: obligatory "username checks out." 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:08 PM
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I absolutely believe you could fill a whole book with stories about this guy, each more rage-inducing and/or heartbreaking than the last. You can still get revenge, though, while still caring for yourself, by embracing an age-old concept: the best revenge is to move on and be happy; nothing would disappoint him more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:05 PM
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John just be makin' shit up to excuse the fact that he's a bucket of dysfunctional personality traits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:10 PM
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sounds like he's a teenager right? Lmao No, he doesn't. Just a run-of-the-mill narc scrote. A dime-a-dozen. They never grow up because they're never made to do so. Ditto for developing emotional intelligence. Sorry he put you through the wringer!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:04 PM
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I'm not religious and do not believe in the existence of a "creator," but I'm quite certain that if there is one, she's got fuckall to do with the hellscape that is Tinder. Also, as another woman pointed out, scrote's use of the word "female" was a red-hot neon sign indicating that he definitely is, as he claims, a Good Guy (who, like them all, is full of bad intent).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:55 PM
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So glad you found us and the LVM is an ex! Time to get over your embarrassment because you've learned, grown, and are moving on with your life! You've leveled up and this kid shit is behind you now. Congrats!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:48 PM
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This was such a thoroughly excellent response and sounds like a response that could only come from a kindred spirit; thank you so much. I'm only about two hours outside the city in one of the many bumblefuck regions that exist within that radius, and it's moments like this that make me particularly resentful that men have made it unwise for women to trust other Redditors enough to be able to safely meet IRL. I'm also 30-something, childfree, and am an aspiring entrepreneur that can no longer get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:36 PM
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Absolutely and heartbreakingly agree. When I was in my early 20s, looking for true compatibility and past tolerating guys just for sex and a bit of attention, I had quite a few women friends who made it perfectly clear that they didn't believe I was owed, really, any standards at all. Even though I'm intelligent, knowledgeable, kind, caring, thoughtful, motivated, diligent, industrious, ambitious, high libido, and attractive, I was still treated like mutant scum for being unwilling to entertain …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 03:47 PM
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This was how I always understood the movie. Most of it is him reminiscing on all the times he completely failed to understand what was happening in his own relationship, and his inability to move past his own emotional failures because of his own oblivious selfishness. It seemed to me to be a movie directly about how unachievable manic pixie dream girls are because women are humans and MPDGs are a misogynist myth. It has been a few years since I last saw it, though, so I'm also open to the debat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 01:41 AM
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This was how I always understood the movie. Most of it is him reminiscing on all the times he completely failed to understand what was happening in his own relationship, and his inability to move past his own emotional failures because of his own oblivious selfishness. It seemed to me to be a movie directly about how unachievable manic pixie dream girls are because women are humans and MPDGs are a misogynist myth. It has been a few years since I last saw it, though, so I'm also open to the debat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 01:41 AM
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This was how I always understood the movie. Most of it is him reminiscing on all the times he completely failed to understand what was happening in his own relationship, and his inability to move past his own emotional failures because of his own oblivious selfishness. It seemed to me to be a movie directly about how unachievable manic pixie dream girls are because women are humans and MPDGs are a misogynist myth. It has been a few years since I last saw it, though, so I'm also open to the debat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 01:40 AM
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These scrotes love to project. Based on what he wrote, he's a sexist, closeted pedophile who desperately needs psychiatric help. The first step toward that was admitting it to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 06:19 AM
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Waayyy back when MySpace was popular, I found out my ex had cheated on me with his ex. When he got to my house that night, I confronted him. I was angry and heartbroken, but also naive and always looking to see and assume the best in people, so he put on his sad face and told me with very convincing faux vulnerability, "I'd never cheat on you, I know how that shit feels." He was lying, and went on to cheat again with his future girlfriend. I've forgotten so many details from that shitty relation…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 01:46 PM
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❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:27 AM
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It's actually a thing, tho! Like, a challenge to see how many Sharpies one can insert into either their anus or vagina. They post pics and brag about it the way a child might brag about how many gumballs they can fit into their mouths or nickels up their nose. This online fad is one of many that I regretted investigating because of how bizarre, pathetic, and semi-common it turned out to be. It's been months and I've forgotten what it was called (probably hastag_sharpiechallenge), but I struggle …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:30 PM
27

The House on Mango Street is such a wonderful work of art. This vignette stands alone so well, but when read in conjunction with the rest of the book proves to be so tremendously powerful. Even Cisneros' introduction to the book, detailing her life when she was writing it, is heartfelt and more intriguing than most introductions. Esperanza is us all ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:56 PM
2

This response is so thoroughly excellent!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:50 AM
5

Ooo, that ish bothers me so much! Like you said, it's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 11:53 AM
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It is dehumanizing and also allows them to disregard age, thereby giving them a psychological excuse to sexually pursue girls while infantilizing women. It also makes it easier for them to typecast all of us as one predictable monolith of disposable parts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 10:46 AM
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🎪🤡🚩🤡🚩🤡 There's us & our house and the pickmeisha 15 years younger than him Sis you got me dying over here 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 07:14 PM
3

Please don't be embarrassed. All sorts of people make this same mistake online literally all the time, and your respectful, decent, humane response to all this says far more about you than your initial misunderstanding. Really, I think you've come out of this looking quite good: you stand up for yourself and other women, you take no shit, and you know how to back down and apologize when warranted. Honestly, you've come out of this shining like a diamond, as far as my opinion is concerned. As to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 04:50 PM
5

Reddit also has a "weird hatred" of women, and yet here we are, so I say let the emojis fly! Lol Like you said, they're great for conveying tone which is pretty much the only reason I use them. Plus, "🤡" is a complete sentence here at FDS, and I absolutely love that fact. I agree so much with them being a timesaver. I mean, as a species, we've relied on facial, body, and tonal cues to guide us through conversations for thousands of years, and I believe that the loss of that is one of the biggest…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:17 PM
4

The importance of "/s" really shows. Lol Right? I've had to learn that lesson for myself on more than one occasion 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 02:59 PM
12

I think she was being satirical. She even wrote something very recently about how becoming a mother has made her go from pro-choice to "fanatically" pro-choice. Idk, "wanton" and "harlot" sound satirical to me in the year 2020.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 02:37 PM
5

11 pm he texts her: "wyd?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 05:29 PM
13

I love the way you summed this up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 06:54 PM
58

"He's [otherwise] perfect in every way..." 🤮 Doubt it, sis. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:46 AM
16

That wasn't much explanation at all, and you seem to be the only person who required an explanation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:26 AM
11

No, she isn't saying that. On her scale, 1 is pickmeisha, 4 is queen, and 2 and 3 are neither as they are the in-between stages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 03:10 AM
7

Same in the US: 1993. Better late than never 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 03:37 AM
7

A girl friend of mine tried to tell me I was CLASSIST for not wanting to be the butt of fart humor. 🤦‍♀️ Homegirl needs a dictionary widget on her phone and the will to use it before saying some nonsense like 'poor women happen to enjoy the taste of shit permeating their olifactory senses and decent people have an obligation to be open-minded about enjoying it, too.' Great pun, btw 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 03:33 AM
1

So, a member here gets confused on one detail of the story, and you come down on her like a ton of bricks, then when called out for being totally out of line, you shit on the entire community, accuse members of having hate that you have also decided they not only feel but that they feel without just cause, and, lastly, demonstrate that you know nothing about FDS by advocating for women to trust men enough to live/isolate with them after only a month? You sound like a "trollish man."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:18 PM
5

The fact that he got you both the same thing in this one-off display of faux affection makes me think that he trudged into a store that probably sends mailers to your mom and went to the nearest display that had colors he routinely saw at home. He probably spent more time waiting on the check-out line than he did shopping for the two of you. Probably used a coupon that the store sent to your mom, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 05:39 PM
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My own father asked if he “really wanted one pussy for the rest of his life”. My father is trash and so I shouldn't be surprised to hear an anecdote like this about someone else's father, but, like, whaaaat...???!? So glad I gave up on trying to have a relationship with mine. I'm sorry your father spoke about you in such a derogatory and disrespectful manner, even if it was "JuSt A jOkE hUr DuR dUr."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 05:07 PM
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That's so refreshing! Isn't it wonderful to just be a person and need not be decorative? Despite my rejection of modern beauty labors, I happen to think I jazz up a room with my appearance, but like you, it's always on my terms and for my enjoyment. I gave myself the freedom to look as I please or as I need, or even simply just as I do, without concerning myself with the opinions of others, and I'm so thankful to exist in both a time and place where it's not only possible, but where it's been fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 01:49 AM
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I stopped wearing make-up and all that over five years ago due to finally developing a true sense of confidence, and as a result just magically disappeared from the view of LVM! Since I don't work with any men, it hasn't effected me professionally, and therefore has just simply been wonderful! My bare face and bare confidence is so repellent to LVM, and the peace that I feel from not having to deal with them cannot be understated. For the record, I am not now nor was I then "unattractive," but w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 11:16 PM
3

I also do not share your definition of 'boundaries,' but I loved this post!! Great points all around! Additionally, I appreciate that you went to bat for us with that infuriatingly ignorant, arrogant, and obtuse man. You gave him far more than he deserved, but you did it for the benefit of all women, and you stayed cool, calm, and articulate in the face of an infuriating man who didn't deserve a single breath from you. You're a queen, and that POS got attention from you; he should be honored, an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 10:52 PM
2

From novel to straight up trilogy... aaaand I just deleted everything I wrote. Lol, been there, done that. Sometimes it just feels better than hitting 'Post.' Thank you so much for complimenting my writing style! I love to write and it comes effortlessly, and I unfortunately catch a lot of crap for that online where people prefer memes over memoirs, so I'm glad to hear that you appreciate my efforts and my craft (although considering the length of your OP, I rightly figured you'd be unlikely to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 01:58 PM
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🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 07:13 AM
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I neglected your side note when I wrote my magnum opus, which clearly wasn't long enough 😂... I responded to that query each time you asked by stating that I find that language distasteful from anyone, including the group; that doing something because someone else does it is no excuse to do that thing; and, that other usages that I've noticed throughout the site are not nearly so egregious by nature of their quantity and repetition (or lack thereof). Just like your OP, I can be in partial agreem…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 07:08 AM
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Post script: lmao at the length of what I've written below compared to the brevity of what I'm responding to. I've had the debates about this, and it's dull and tedious rehashing for me. You're far from the first person I've discussed this issue with, and when I decide to seriously debate, I am both exhaustive and exhausting, lol. It would suck for us both. The only reason I would want to debate this with you is if you have something that you want to say... Then I want you to say it. I don't wis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:30 AM
2

As a person very well versed in English and language arts, I'm going to take a pass on your wiki link. The fact of the matter is that reducing women to girls and animals is not ancient history, it is happening now, everyday, and it is foolish to think that it is feminist to adopt words that are routinely used to silence and disempower us. Additionally, I am a nearly middle aged woman with plenty of personal experience being called a bitch in all sorts of contexts, so please don't treat me like a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 04:38 AM
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Would like to add, to clarify that I'm not here just to try to tear you down, that I found the majority of what you wrote to be of a wonderful, productive energy, and I think it's great that you took the time to articulate your thoughts and passion for the benefit of other women. You have insight and wisdom that could be of great value to so many women and girls, and I hope that you continue to generate and share your energy and power. I consider us on the same team, and the "meat and taters" of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 03:43 AM
2

A dog is not a human, therefore calling someone a dog is dehumanizing. I didn't portray you as anything, certainly not malicious, and your language was not accidental, it was deliberate and consistent. I was not rude, you're just perceiving it that way because you don't want to hear what I have to say. What's troubling and offensive is calling women 'bitches' and 'girls' and then mocking the woman who points out how offensive and troubling your constant usage of that verbage is. You repetitively…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 03:21 AM
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I am neither a bitch nor a girl. This is a community for women, not children and dogs, and it is troubling and insulting that you think using dehumanizing and infantilizing language about us is a good way to bond. You even called us females, like we're brood stock instead of mature adult humans who happen to be female. The presence of a small number of minors does not negate the fact that this is a space for women, not kids, cows, or puppy mill assets. I am a queen, though, as are the other wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:03 PM
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Yes! Not to mention that it costs women much more just to attend the date if she feels that she must present herself in a hyper-feminine manner. Her hair and nails cost money to maintain, as does her cosmetics collection as well as her wardrobe which must be diverse, include jewelry, is more likely to fail to withstand repeated wear, and will soon be "out of season." THEN there's also the heinous amount of time to acquire all this shit, and then finally, putting it all together to actually get r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 07:56 PM
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You're probably not going to like my perspective, but here goes... The best way to freshen a brand new relationship that has grown stale is to air it out by putting it on top of the trash out by the curb. It's only been a few weeks and already the relationship needs "freshening"? Get out now before you waste any more time and get more attached. Best case scenario: he's going through something majorly stressful that he's struggling to deal with, and does not have the headspace to enter into a mut…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 05:37 AM
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That's a list of superficial interests. Do you actually have commonalities that matter? Characteristics? Hopes? Aspirations? Fears? Flaws? Strengths? What about big ticket issues, like politics and religion? Do you feel the same about treatment of animals and service workers? How do each of you recover from setback, or deal with grief? Do you prefer team sports or solo activities? Obviously, I don't want you to answer any of that to me, but that kind of stuff is the stuff that matters. That bein…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 05:15 AM
5

Pegging is when a woman wears a strap-on to anally penetrate a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 09:57 PM
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You do NOT need to lose weight to date! Have you looked at your bio?!? Take pride in your achievements and accomplishments! And be okay with not being perfect! Trust me, whatever man you wind up with, be he LV or HV, he will also have flaws. Lose weight for yourself and consider it a perk for men who care. Plenty of HV men looking to shed a few extra pounds, too. As to your OP, you answered your own question. If you misrepresent yourself to make yourself seem more appealing to a horde of mostly …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 02:09 PM
2

Look in a mirror while writing most of that? You continuously lie about what other people are saying and how they're acting, and you deliberately insulted me and the woman you originally replied to, but you wanna act like that's "friendly" and that others are toxic? You're so full of shit that you're a whole toxic waste dump, and I ain't sisters with nasty hypocrites like you who sling shit and then wonder why people are calling you out. That's why I don't want you calling me your sister. And I'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 01:04 AM
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Lol, your youthful tenacity and unyielding optimism is admirable, but fuck all that! If I had the kind of energy required to do what you've set out to do, I'd pour it into myself and solve world hunger with what remains, if you catch my drift, lol. It's my belief that any man who wants to be made will make himself. You may be able to bend a weak man into pretending to be a diamond ring, but all he'll ever be is a small creature wrapped around your finger, depreciating in value until he inevitabl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 12:12 AM
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You need reading comprehension and a dictionary. You're a fool, and I'm not your sis. My sisters have more character than to say that I "have issues" and to call my calm, reasoned response a tantrum just because they were wrong and couldn't possibly imagine articulating a thought longer than one simple sentence. You like the tweet because you're immature like the person who wrote it. And you insult like an unclever misogynist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 11:30 PM
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You need reading comprehension and a dictionary. You're a fool, and I'm not your sis. My sisters have more character than to say that I "have issues" and to call my calm, reasoned response a tantrum just because they were wrong and couldn't possibly imagine articulating a thought longer than one simple sentence. You like the tweet because you're immature like the person who wrote it. And you insult like an unclever misogynist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 11:29 PM
2

You need reading comprehension and a dictionary. You're a fool, and I'm not your sis. My sisters have more character than to say that I "have issues" and to call my calm, reasoned response a tantrum just because they were wrong and couldn't possibly imagine articulating a thought longer than one simple sentence. You like the tweet because you're immature like the person who wrote it. And you insult like an unclever misogynist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 11:29 PM
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Lol I'm a millenial, I've been around poorly literate people my whole life, I used to be a high school teacher and am partnered with someone who still is, and I happen to know the value to oneself and the rest of society when we all practice and demonstrate proper literacy. Am also not a "grammar nazi," I just find it annoying when insecure people make wild exaggerations about others for the purpose of encouraging a lazier, less effective society. And I, like the woman you attacked for her comme…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 08:28 PM
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You read so much more into my post than was there. All I addressed was dude's claim that "people have lost their damn morals." You think it's utopian to live in a society where women are legal equals in theory but not in practice, as I discussed? You think it's utopian to live in a world that has outlawed slavery and yet it pervades, as I also touched upon? I don't, and I doubt you do, so I don't know where you get off dismissing what I wrote as deluded. I never said we as a society fixed all th…
/r/askFDS19/03/20 05:45 PM
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Good point! It's probably the same social mechanism that causes us to laugh when uncomfortable. I don't write like a child just to seem more inviting, but I sure do get a stupid, goofy grin when I'm nervous. I sure do wish the latter were as easy to control as the former.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:40 PM
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I agree, and would even argue that the advice is a bit childish. What kind of mature, confident woman develops "crushes" on men she knows so little about as to be able to dream up imaginary traits about something as basic as his character? If you don't know him and yet you're "crushing," you are most likely lacking either maturity and/or self-esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:37 PM
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There's a difference between "perfect grammar" and presenting oneself as a mature adult. Also, what's the big deal with saying people are making a big deal about something that they are calmly and rationally commenting on? The person you're making a big deal about didn't even discard the message, just remarked on the sloppy packaging. Why make such a big deal over it? Who cares? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:32 PM
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Women literally die trying to "be in control" and improve men. It may seem fatalistic to you to give up on savages and live a meaningful life instead of one based around a pipe dream about men, but your perspective is literally fatal for too many women who embrace it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:24 PM
1

Lmao, go away you fucking racist misogynist.
/r/askFDS13/03/20 11:33 PM
3

If you believe people have "lost their morals," when do you think that happened? People have been selfish and horrible throughout all of human history. In fact, we've the largest human population ever, yet, statistically, crime is down. People are still selfish and horrible, but we get along and accept differences much more readily than we ever have. Women are full people in the eyes of the law (in theory, yet questionable in practice, but I digress) in more places than ever before, and slavery,…
/r/askFDS13/03/20 02:39 PM
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As other women here have said, you must wholly and completely reject the shame you feel about this issue if you are to have any chance at a mutually fulfilling sex life. Honestly, if it were I faced with this, it would be a dealbreaker. At the same time, like, from your perspective, who cares? I'm great, but so are millions upon millions of other women, so just keep looking if the woman/women you tell are in the same camp as I. That being said, I've experienced sex with a micro (specifically, ve…
/r/askFDS13/03/20 02:09 PM
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I'm thankful that her issues weren't that deep, although, to be fair, she's an equal opportunity woman blamer and so never denied herself the same shame she cast upon me for not being pleasing enough for the satisfaction of males. If anything, she is actually fully capable of respecting the strength of women who aren't her or myself. In fact, it's quite easy for her to admire strong women from afar, but if she personally knew the men that were deprioritized by those strong women, their strength …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 12:31 PM
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Maybe she wanted me to suffer like she did. I've always suspected this about a few decisions my mom made. She also raised me similarly to how she was raised, despite not being a fan of her parents' parenting style, whilst pretending that she didn't know any other way, which is absolute bunk. I suppose it's just easier to tell girls to shut up while just asking the boys to keep it down. Granted, she was stretched pretty thin at the time, but I was a good kid and easy to deal with (until I got old…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 12:10 PM
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How utterly depressing. Bet his medical ethics are a bit lacking, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:00 AM
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Six whole times? Why you work that man so hard??? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 02:58 AM
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My mom, amazing though she may be, has always rallied for men and gets very uncomfortable when men, as individuals or as a demographic, are criticized. I've been chipping away at that tendency for some time now, and to a measurable degree of satisfaction, but I can't help regretting the pain I experienced as a child, adolescent, and young adult due to her favoritism of males. So, basically, when men abused me, she would try to frame the issue in a way that would put me at fault. Old school inter…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 02:50 AM
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The satisfaction of seeing you clamor for their attention and approval.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 02:11 AM
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Many people do the same thing without similar motives. True, but this isn't a random collective of people; it's a modestly vetted group of women with similar goals and outlooks here to discuss a limited range of topics. A host of downvotes on one comment is very likely to come from similar mindsets. Your second paragraph was more illuminating: in your original response, the implication from your first sentence about "these conversations" is that you were referring to the conversations being had …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 03:59 PM
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Yes, you did. You may not have meant to (hence my use of the word 'unwittingly') but you did. Why else would you be so heavily downvoted? Do you really think this community is full of women who have a disdain for the fact that you've done well to treat yourself and your body like the precious asset it is? We admire that you have been wise enough to not allow men to use you as a masturbatory aid and that your values have prevented you from treating men that way as well, but your comment went furt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 02:59 PM
3

I gave out so many benefit of the doubt cards that I could build a house :/ Can't even tell you how many high-rises I coulda built with all the cards I gave away to leeches and bums. So many, in fact, that I took the few I had left, built a little house around myself, and now refuse to come out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 02:36 PM
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I love the responses here and I agree with them. Instead of expanding on the wisdom already here, I would like to address your comparison between LVM and pickmeishas. There is no comparison to be made. Simply put, pickmeishas are naïve women and girls who tend to have a deficiency or deficit of confidence and/or self-esteem, who accept and overlook unacceptable patterns, who give too much of themselves to men who throw them scraps to keep them hanging on, and who make excuses for shitty men who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 02:30 PM
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This man is not your twinflame, your soulmate, the yang to your yin, or anything else divine. He is sucking the life out of you, and is a negative, abusive, devastating presence in your life. This man will bleed you dry, and when there is nothing left, he'll leave, find another woman, and cry to her about how horrible you were, how you refused to understand him and have empathy for him, how you let his addictions ravage his life, how you didn't work so as to force him to be responsible for you a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 02:09 PM
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You values do not mean that men have the right to abuse their girlfriends. You even said you'd end the relationship and you'd do so without judgment, whereas men like this value control, so they do not end the relationship, but they do judge the woman who they continue to cling to and abuse. You've been downvoted not for your personal values, but because you're unwittingly defending abusive men who do not value the women they claim to care about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 01:02 PM
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Well, for what it's worth, it seems fair to assume that any hotel that welcomes and employs men and has been open at least a few months has probably been host to male pattern violence against women. Removing such reviews seems akin to removing the posts left by people who travel to SE Asia during monsoon season and then complain about the rain and lack of things to do. Just so I'm clear, though, I agree with you and the sentiment of this entire post and the subsequent responses completely. Just …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 12:50 PM
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Me too, please! I'm from the States and while I've been to or through most of them (solo more often than not), I've never travelled abroad because, frankly, I'm simply not interested in travelling with men, I lack the incredible courage required to go alone my first time abroad, and the only women I ever seem to develop relationships with are pickmeishas who ditch the women in their lives the moment a man demands their attention. I'm so sick of that nonsense, but that's what you get when the bul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 12:39 PM
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I'm so upset that I checked the post (which has now been deleted, little doubt that it was due to abusive comments and DMs). Ignorance, misogyny, and anti-FDS abound. I didn't get very far before noping the fuck outta there because every reasonably intelligent comment has been downvoted while the menz and pickmeishas whiny, confused, ignorant bullshit has been heavily upvoted, even down long threads that tend to get ignored on Reddit. The men will read a little bit more if it means they can shit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 12:08 PM
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They are. Check FDSuperfans - few PM’d me saying it changed their view Wow, that's truly amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:37 PM
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That's what I was thinking about this piece: the men to whom it is spoken toward are unlikely to read it and are almost certainly too close-minded to intelligently ponder it. This piece was for us, the women of this sub, regardless of how you titled the piece (although the title is A-OK). Thank you for taking the time to create this excellent work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:36 PM
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Your story is adorable, funny, and charming, and not at all embarrassing! Besides, simple pleasures are wonderful. So happy that your date refused to take you somewhere cheap for dinner! I do hope that you were pleased when you finally got to try some Taco Bell!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 02:27 PM
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To be fair to the other posters, there probably are more guys who use their experience in porn to make young women believe that 'anal is standard' or some shit. I am grateful every day of my life to not be any younger than I am. I've been with the same nigel for 10 years now, and while porn had certainly addled the young minds of my teenaged and young adult peers 10-20 years ago, porn and it's availability wasn't then what it is now. It's so distressing to know what my younger sisters are enduri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 01:27 PM
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The worst people I've met were pushy about vanilla sex. This part was been so true for me when I was dating. All the sexual coercion I experienced during my dating years was from men who had no interest in sex being any kind of remarkable experience, they were just looking for a person to masturbate into. Pants off, dick in, ejaculate, and done. I was young enough to be baffled by it every time, but never naïve enough to not be hurt. Learning to get angry instead of sad, identify such men from a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 12:17 PM
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I have lost confidence in the vast majority of men. Mediocre, soul-sucking leeches, even the good ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 09:21 PM
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I'm thrilled to see this comment because I did the exact same thing!! First time on Reddit that I knew from just the title that a post deserved an upvote, and like you, I hit that arrow and then read the post! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 09:11 PM
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