oof

wedonthavetobeishtar · 2021-01-14T07:30:00+00:00

I want to like this, but I can’t. This has a whiff of slut-shaming /women-blaming. Let’s not forget that women are conditioned to emotionally caretake and that the “give the milk away for free” argument is inherently sexist. Let’s point our fingers at the entitled men who make us feel like crap, not our sisters who are feeling pain.

ETA: as I said above, I’m talking about slut-shaming and women-blaming for being conditioned to emotionally caretake.

jewdiful · 2021-01-14T17:04:43+00:00

So simple, so true. Men need to EARN our time energy and attention by providing value to our lives. If we don’t expect anything from them, if we don’t require them to prove their value before giving away of ourselves, then why would they value us in return?

People most value the things which they had to put the most effort into getting. It’s not about sex at all, it’s about what I said above: time, energy, and attention. Those are precious things that we shouldn’t waste on just anyone, not just romantic partners but friends, family, jobs. Women as a class have been brainwashed to give and give and get nothing in return, but I think we are starting to wake up en masse. I like this meme quite a bit!

Myplummms · 2021-01-14T13:11:21+00:00

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Title	oof
Author	Platipus6
Upvotes	406
Comments	12
Date	January 14, 2021 2:53 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/kwwo3i/oof/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/oof.728705 https://theredarchive.com/post/728705

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