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| 19 | Another reason why we don’t do coffee datesWhy are men so cheap but immediately want sex? I had this happen after a coffee date - he said he lived nearby and winked. I was aghast. The reasoning is insane. You wouldn’t even be able to pay a sex worker per hour what you pay for coffee on the first date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 03:53 PM |
| 31 | The Inverse Relationship Between Financial Maturity and Marriage DesirabilityYou need to get signed in writing that he is either assuming the entirety of his debt or that he will dedicate a certain portion of his salary to paying it off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 03:23 PM |
| 374 | This trended on r / starter packs with a lot of men gaslighting women’s experiences in the comments 🤦♀️Women are leaving OLD in droves because there’s no sense in serving yourself up on a platter to a bunch of pornsick basement dwellers. Guys swipe right on everyone and expect to get laid on the first date despite expressing no desire for long term commitment. My experience on OLD severely affected my self esteem because it demonstrated to me that my high effort would always be met with lackluster enthusiasm and cheap dates. I felt like there was something wrong with me, until I left the dating a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 05:07 AM |
| 5 | If He Wanted To, He Would 💍So happy for you!!! You deserve the best ❤️💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 10:32 PM |
| 43 | Even OTHER men can sense LVM/NVM/ZVM’s red flags with women at the beginning of a relationship, such as “being too busy.”Way way way too real. This should be it’s own post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 07:17 PM |
| 10 | FDS haikus for your entertainment and viewing pleasureThis is incredibly clever! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 03:22 PM |
| 2 | FDS haikus for your entertainment and viewing pleasureSorry the lines got jumbled together! Just think about it as being three lines instead of a paragraph | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 10:27 PM |
| 22 | No one seems to be asking where he got this STD?? And she gets frequent UTIs because of him 🤢🤮Incredibly on point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 05:51 PM |
| 75 | No one seems to be asking where he got this STD?? And she gets frequent UTIs because of him 🤢🤮The double standard is real - there could be a whole thread on just this post. Women are taught to anticipate so little from men while men expect it all. I will never ask a man out and I will not pay on a first date. If that makes me old fashioned, then I will start building a time machine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 05:50 PM |
| 10 | No one seems to be asking where he got this STD?? And she gets frequent UTIs because of him 🤢🤮I’m sorry but at this point, why is this person on Reddit?? You only need half a brain cell to understand how fucked this relationship is. There’s a 100 percent chance he got herpes from cheating AND if she cheated, he would leave her but not vice versa. Oy vey | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 05:47 PM |
| 18 | This is one of those things that sounds "Cool" and "Empowering" when we are young with no responsibilities, but once you get saddled with a parasitic man that takes everything and gives you nothing, you will realize just how NOT cool or empowering this is.The 50/50 logic was never created with the modern man in mind. If the world was fair and equal, the idea would be nice in theory, but sadly the grabbing hands will grab all they can. Why go 50/50 with someone who could care less about me, when I can give 100 percent of what I earn to myself?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 03:59 PM |
| 72 | Sometimes a woman is single BECAUSE she settled not because she was too picky.It’s damned if you do, damned if you don’t. Women always lose which is how they want it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 03:35 AM |
| 71 | The Take's Pick Me Girl - Reflecting Our Insecurities Back to UsIt’s hard to have empathy for some pickmes because you know deep down at the end of the day they’d throw you right under a semi for a crumb of male validation. I don’t want to be a doormat for men or women even if I feel sorry for them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 09:41 PM |
| 30 | Don't fall for the "I was planning to/going to do xyz...for Christmas"The way I see it, if you can put thought and time into a Christmas gift then so can he. If not, then the love is one sided | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 05:17 PM |
| 9 | The kids are going to be fine.He’s obsessed with her and trying to punch up because he knows he doesn’t have a snowflake’s shot in hell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 05:26 AM |
| 450 | Why are men like thisI just refuse to repeat myself anymore. That motherf*cker heard me the first time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 05:22 AM |
| 14 | LVM lining up for cheap, tacky, overpriced jewellery two days before Christmas. The comments are defending them. “bE gRaTeFuL” for the bare minimum? Nah.Why is it women are expected to roll out the red carpet and go above and beyond for everyone on Christmas, but men get away with last minute gifts with little to no thought or effort? The bar is in hell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 05:13 AM |
| 4 | Acclaimed author and activist bell hooks dies at 69This is groundbreaking - thank you for posting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 04:07 AM |
| 16 | When the mask comes offMen always treat women that are SAHM nice in the beginning because they're getting what they want but then begin to take them for granted. The "office wife"/sleeping with the secretary is a cliche for a reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | I had a frustrating conversation with my father.My father just takes credit for all of my accomplishments while putting in no effort whatsoever to encourage/support me in any academic pursuit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 08:32 PM |
| 4 | You Don't Need To Be Grateful🤷Exactly. See how often men devalue women with high money and a career. It’s always from a place of insecurity. out of jealousy, they will find a way to try to tear her down personally. These are the same men that say the believe in equal rights and opportunity but want to punish women socially for going a non traditional path | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:54 AM |
| 5 | You Don't Need To Be Grateful🤷Wow this post is so powerful. Bookmarked it for myself - I honestly believe internalizing this message is key to liberating yourself from needing male approval and truly becoming authentic in your own right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:51 AM |
| 12 | Sis follows her nose & uncovers a whole treasure trove of cheating stemming back years. Now imagine she’d ReSpEcTeD hIs PrIvAcY 🤡 cheaters don’t have any respect for you. And that’s why we’re pro SNOOP. If you think he’s cheating- you’re probably right & just smelling the TIP of the iceberg.If I suspect someone of cheating, I just leave. I have no time for snooping anymore - I don't want to be proven right, I just want to be able to trust someone. If my sixth sense is telling me there's something wrong, I trust my intuition and leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 06:09 PM |
| 122 | Men 👏 Dont 👏 change 👏 EVEN FOR THEIR DREAM GIRL. FDS works ladies. Left my NVM fiancée 4 years ago and he immediately started dating the most beautiful woman I had ever seen. My heart was broken then, but this is them now!!I will never be FWB's with a man. Never. Ever. There are way too many men in the world who would prioritize me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 06:04 PM |
| 50 | Basically All of Reddit vs FDSIt's very sad but men will not respect women that don't respect themselves. Which is not saying that men usually respect women, because they don't but they will never value sex workers in the way that women want to be valued. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 06:01 PM |
| 72 | Men feel entitled to women's bodies and their sex. That's why they believe their words have any worth when they call women sl*ts or prudes. It has more to do with their issues than the woman.Have you ever had a man call you both a slut and a prude? It shows they're just whining like a spoiled toddler at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 05:59 PM |
| 31 | Most men have bad taste. Don't lose yourself or your uniqueness trying to conform to it Chances are, the male gaze is not your aesthetic.From my experience, I've also found female friendships of mine to be more sincere. I've never had a male friendship where the guy didn't eventually expect a relationship from me or place an ultimatum on me to continue the friendship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:49 PM |
| 386 | If men have anything, it's the audacity. Nope, I'm noping the heck outReminder to always leave situations that don't serve you, especially if they're connected to LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 03:53 PM |
| 156 | In the late 1970s, orchestras were composed of 5% females. By 2000, it had increased to 30%.. all because of blind auditions. When you don't see gender + are forced to make a decision on skill alone, there is very little bias.'Using a screen to conceal candidates from the jury during preliminary auditions increased the likelihood that a female musician would advance to the next round by 11 percentage points. During the final round, “blind” auditions increased the likelihood of female musicians being selected by 30%.' ( Source: https://gap.hks.harvard.edu/orchestrating-impartiality-impact-%E2%80%9Cblind%E2%80%9D-auditions-female-musicians#:\~:text=Using%20a%20screen%20to%20conceal,musicians%20being%20selected%20by%203… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 03:43 PM |
| 133 | Internalized misogyny starts early in a girl's life and trains her to value the opinions of others always over her own. It takes time and unlearning to overcome this - be patient with yourself!Is there something you stopped liking/stopped doing/stopped wearing for male approval/because of male disapproval? I started to wear fewer dresses to be taken more seriously in my scientific research/STEM career, but I finally just said fuck it and started dressing how I want again. It's been very liberating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 03:24 PM |
| 10 | Keep SlayingIf you watch the youtube video of this episode, her questions be like “For $4, if you went so far as to not do it and then you did it what have you not done?” Literally my mind is blown watching how quickly she answers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 07:19 PM |
| 6 | lol 💀💀The better person a man is the more attractive he is to me. I don't care if you're Henry Cavill, if you don't treat others well/are arrogant/rude, I'm not interested. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 07:31 PM |
| 6 | Sis is a whole mood.Love this quote - damn queen 🎊👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 02:45 AM |
| 27 | No, you shouldn't do whatever you wantThis is how degenerate Hollywood is towards young women. They build these women up to be cool/girl next door, but by time they reach 18, they’re pushing them to show more and more skin. Next thing you know, Billie will be in the tabloids the way they treated Miley Cyrus. They love to see beautiful women fall from a pedestal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 03:49 PM |
| 31 | No, you shouldn't do whatever you wantI find it interesting that every time society says clothes are “empowering” to wear they pander to the male gaze. I think it’s more empowering when women wear trends they like that men hate (like high waisted jeans - you know those lists online 🤦♀️). The “doing you for you” message is always tainted by the patriarchy in some way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 03:47 PM |
| 6 | I DIED With This! HILARIOUS!!"Do I like him or am I lonely?" deceaseddddd 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 02:03 AM |
| 44 | The post said this was a “joke” but it’s not..because this has been every barbecue I’ve attended...My lesbian aunt and her wife are grillmasters and have won several barbecue competitions. We’re not not letting them on the grill because they have vaginas. In sum: These men are asshat backwards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 04:35 AM |
| 25 | How is ass guy and boob guy a thing but a height/ abs/ beard gal is not?A guy being intentional = instantly more attractive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:25 AM |
| 17 | How is ass guy and boob guy a thing but a height/ abs/ beard gal is not?Preaching on a Tuesday? Girl, you’re on overtime 🙌🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:24 AM |
| 33 | Hating men takes too much work, just acknowledge that they are dangerous and untrustworthy and stay away from them.Please follow her on Youtube! She's incredibly incisive and mature for her age - her opinions and insight astound me. She has another video on "pretty privilege" and how women build their lives around male validation just to be treated well in this world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 02:18 PM |
| 174 | In my experience, most men who call themselves “good guys,” are just comparing themselves to the predatory men they keep in their friend group. and they’ll call themselves the “good guy” in comparison, but they very obviously aren’t because they’re still hanging out with their predatory friendsAnd they always hit you with the “girls hate good guys” like no? You’re not as nice as you think you are. Men who have convinced themselves they are “Nice Guys” quickly become the most toxic men you’ve ever met as soon as you tell them “No.” I dealt with a man that always felt the need to tell me “iM NoT LiKe ThEsE oThEr gUys” and he was right- he was worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Your worth is not defined by how you please othersShe understood the assignment! 👏 Queen! 🙌✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 02:38 AM |
| 363 | What do you ladies think?Men want women to work for free - it's a tale as old as time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 03:48 PM |
| 29 | This is why it’s so important to have financial independence and a career as a woman, so if your partner runs out on you one day, you won’t be blindsided like this poor mother of 3 young kidsThe dads will just let the kids eat crap and fail school 🤦♀️ Looking back, everything I thought my mom did that was “mean” was just her caring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 02:36 PM |
| 14 | This is why it’s so important to have financial independence and a career as a woman, so if your partner runs out on you one day, you won’t be blindsided like this poor mother of 3 young kidsYou cannot win. If you’re a career woman, he’ll cheat because you were “too busy with work”. If you work at home/are a homemaker, he’ll cheat with someone at the office to stave off boredom/feel like a big shot. It is always the woman’s fault because men have never had to learn to take accountability. I can’t anymore 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 02:31 PM |
| 11 | The pandemic is making me take the company of my own for granted - posting this to remind myself that only I can give me lovely things I crave for. Throwback to the time I took the train for 1 hour in heels for pancakes and coffee alone 🥞 Never settling for "walking dates" againI love your bag! 💞🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 02:28 PM |
| 32 | LVMs in the workplaceGirl, he was def attracted to you. It explains the rambling and the one-upmanship. You’re not supposed to impress the interviewee with yourself, your’re supposed to listen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:54 PM |
| 12 | These cries for attention crack me up. “ChEcKmAtE, fEmInIsTs We ArE nO lOnGeR hElPiNg YoU!!!!” As if they ever did? I’ve had way more “help” or protection from other women in public situations than men.Notice how the guys making these videos are never getting laid. Way too much free time on their hands | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 01:27 AM |
| 219 | “The way people talked about Britney Spears was terrifying to me then, and it still is now,” writes Mara Wilson. “Her story is a striking example of a phenomenon I’ve witnessed for years: Our culture builds these girls up just to destroy them.”Many moments of Britney Spears’s life were familiar to @MaraWilson, a child actor from age 5. “We both had dolls made of us, had close friends and boyfriends sharing our secrets and had grown men commenting on our bodies. People had been asking me, “Do you have a boyfriend?” in interviews since I was 6. Reporters asked me who I thought the sexiest actor was and about Hugh Grant’s arrest for soliciting a prostitute. It was cute when 10-year-olds sent me letters saying they were in love with me. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 01:12 AM |
| 5 | Our fav guy just dropped another gem 😂Men won't respect women that don't respect themselves. It's sick and sad, but it's true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 11:07 PM |
| 33 | Why We Can't Seem to Escape Male Sexual Exploitation--It Goes This DeepThis was so thoughtful and succinct - I’m truly blown away by your insight 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 04:17 PM |
| 9 | Why are men such assholes about women's muscles???He’s intimidated so he’s lashing out from insecurity. Cheating, negging, love bombing, etc. - How succinct and thorough this answer has been in every dating situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 04:13 PM |
| 56 | I want to share an eye opening conversation i had with a guy friendThe glossy look you said is all too familiar to me. They are literally possessed by this idea over actual real women standing in front of them. It's scary and shows how far gone mentally they really are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:56 PM |
| 79 | Why I left my Fiancé. - Woman shares inspiring story of how she trusted her intuition, decided to she deserved better, and left her fiance (a man she had dated for nine years).She says later on in a TikTok, that it was. I feel sorry for her because she deserved so much better. The next guy is getting a pot of gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:48 PM |
| 19 | How to Be Successful Without Hurting Men's Feelings 101 - the double standards are real!it's a book called: How to Be Successful Without Hurting Men's Feelings 101 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 03:10 PM |
| 72 | Whose child is this? And she proposed at her brother’s wedding of all places?! 🤦🏽♀️ please do not mistake this as “gEnDEr EqAuLiTy” 😑I don’t know why I thought the guy would look hot af 🤦♀️ He should be on his knees begging HER! This is so embarrassing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:59 AM |
| 116 | Great job Jaines! You’ve got power inside of you 🙏Haha, this isn't me! I saw this on my instagram and wanted to share this woman's success. Thank you for being supportive though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:32 AM |
| 260 | When I finished my thesis and was handing it in, I also posted DOB, length (in pages) and weight to my Facebook timeline, intendedly making it sound like I just gave birth to a baby.This does not even need to be said but this post is not to bash women who have chosen not to get a doctorate/chosen a different life path. It's just celebrating women's achievements. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 04:54 AM |
| 27 | Lib Feminism encourages women to adopt LVM’s toxic behaviorsIt’s sad I know exactly how you feel as the friend 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 07:13 PM |
| 81 | "My husband and I perv on women together! Aren't we so quirky and unique!?" Bonus pickme points for saying the women should have talked to him first. Communication is key ladies! I highly doubt this was the first time she mentioned liking other women's pictures but okay.Better to join in the objectification of women, instead of having to come to the self awareness that your bf is an asshole who will eventually cheat on you when you can’t be “cool girl” anymore 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 12:21 AM |
| 9 | I made a post about hating my course work and after a short convo about it I get a willy pic. Usually I block/delete this behavior but I just couldn't this time!I’m not teaching a grown ass man how to behave/treat me . Our time on this planet is precious and limited | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Happy valentine's day my queens! I can't give you flowers in person so I painted some flowers♡♡♡♡ This is for you!!You have a tender, dear heart - thank you so much, lovely! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 06:54 PM |
| 36 | Woke up to a Valentine’s Day thirst message from the MARRIED father of a kid I used to tutor 🤮You're a good person to look in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 06:53 PM |
| 23 | Author of “Cannibalism Play” Cosmo Article Responds.men hate women, but cosomopolitan hates women more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 07:40 PM |
| 3 | What 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 comeback 👏🏼 👏🏼I follow you on twitter! Thanks for sharing what most women in tech are thinking - I know you read my mind | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:40 PM |
| 635 | If size doesn't matter, why don't they make 3-inch dildos?Women are so often told to look at men for what's "on the inside" in movies, tv shows, and media, but the same message is never given to men about women. You are under no obligation to sleep with someone you're not attracted to! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 05:45 PM |
| 5 | Men make themselves so hateable.Glad you’re here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 04:02 PM |
| 8 | Hint that I come straight over to your place and then ask me to decide the plans? BlockedI hate the little “...” thing men do. It’s not alluring or sexy, it’s just gross. Make your intentions plain so I can see what you are, disgusting as it may be | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 03:55 PM |
| 14 | It happened! All I could do was laugh and unmatch. Even Pre-FDS, I declined coffee dates, because I don’t like coffee and I feel like coffee shops are impersonal.If I wanted to walk around for free, I’d go by my damn self! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 03:48 AM |
| 4 | Part of loving yourself is holding yourself accountable. Often times, we can be our own worst enemies because we act out on momentary emotion instead of stepping back and approaching the situation with clarity and purpose.Maybe this was misinterpreted. I’m not saying be stoic or completely emotionless - I know firsthand women are gaslight for having emotion or none at all. I’ve just personally acted emotionally before by wanting to get back with an ex, when the logical part of me realizes that will lead to heartache/dissapointment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Part of loving yourself is holding yourself accountable. Often times, we can be our own worst enemies because we act out on momentary emotion instead of stepping back and approaching the situation with clarity and purpose.Maybe this was misinterpreted. I’m not saying be stoic or completely emotionless - I know firsthand women are gaslight for having emotion or none at all. I’ve just personally acted emotionally before by wanting to get back with an ex, when the logical part of me realizes that will lead to heartache/dissapointment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 06:50 PM |
| 60 | Organised Religion is the patriarchy’s weapon. The tenements are written by men for men, to help keep women under - and we willingly bow our heads and slip our own necks in the yoke. Look at the things you are taught criticallyas someone who used to be more religious/spiritual, i appreciate distinction btwn organized religion and tradition and toxic culture rather than and individual and their spiritual connection with whoever their god may be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 02:17 AM |
| 345 | Why do men make idols of these emotionless, pseudo-deep characters that are almost always narcissistic and disrespectful towards women?Rick from Rick and Morty is missing here. The problem with having so much media that correlates being a genius/unique with being an asshole is that men start to think that because they're unlikable assholes, they must be smarter/different than everyone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 05:06 AM |
| 22 | Saw multiple men repost this on FB - especially the "if I'm giving her (money), she giving me money" took me out... What's your take on that ladies?The part about splitting chores had me rolling. At what point has a man ever mopped the floor without being asked? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 08:50 PM |
| 10 | When are you going to put yourself first? When are you going to really value and respect yourself as a person more than any fleeting words of external validation? That pull or need for attention that disturbs your peace is a sign that something is missing within. Reflect here. He is not the answer.It’s ok, hun. Things will get better. My dm’s are open if you need to vent 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Snow Tha Product is underrated rapper. Doesn't flinch when LV people want to walk away. Let emI love her music! Glad you posted her 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 11:06 PM |
| 20 | How the Hot Girl with boundaries suddenly becomes invisible ✌️ You become unattractive as soon as they realize they can’t control you with their cheap ‘validation’ and no longer have a reason to lead you on. You are more than enough on your own.That is really fucked up 🤦♀️ He needs help | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 06:47 AM |
| 3 | oofYes! There’s nothing you can do to control how men treat you. If he’s an asshole, he’s going to treat you like an asshole would. Putting the onus of abuse on women is patriarchal bs through and through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 11:30 PM |
| 9 | She needs FDS (also her friends are rubbish)With friends like these, who needs enemies?! 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 11:27 PM |
| 50 | She needs FDS (also her friends are rubbish)Men really are sluts - they only call women that to project and because they’re jealous we can get it whenever we want, no strings attached | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 11:25 PM |
| 3 | The Glass Cliff - Women are more likely than men to achieve leadership roles during periods of downturn when the companies chance of failure is highest.Then they have the audacity to say women can’t lead, when they leave her with a sinking ship 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 11:23 PM |
| 24 | Men are like obese bees, so be a picky flower 👏Exactly! Im not letting the sex that is out here fucking Mcchickens and god knows what else bring down my self esteem. I don’t think so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 11:22 PM |
| 40 | Here’s The FactsTheir feminism is never about making positive changes for women, but instead reinforcing the status quo which by and large benefits men and the patriarchy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Look at the description of Tyler Perry's Sistas vs Bruh - UGH! The double standards continue.Exactly! And the femme fatale is either a man-hater because she rejects advances or she becomes the woman that centers men as her entire life. You can't win. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Utah professor and ecologist, Nalini Nadkarni, inspires line of National Geographic explorer Barbies and has one made in her honor. There's an astrophysicist, entomologist, marine biologist, and wildlife conservationist - wonderful work!That's so cool! I'd love to meet her someday as well. Thanks for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 07:31 PM |
| 10 | Don't let them trick you, BDSM was never empowering.You're completely valid! Anyone who says otherwise can go screw themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 07:30 PM |
| 31 | Zendaya spent a year rejecting roles that served a male protagonistMen will use women as a stepping stone. It’s ruthless but I see it the most often with romantic partners - keep your eyes open | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:23 PM |
| 25 | Don't let them trick you, BDSM was never empowering.Has anyone seen where his texts got leaked and he’s talking about having a cannibalism kink? (I.e drinking blood and putting women’s fingers in his pocket). This guy is really disturbed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:16 PM |
| 72 | LORI HARVEY is me . I am Lori Harvey , cause one thing about it I’m gone move on and get a new fella QUICK and a better one at thatMen: "I just wanna explore my options and get myself together before I settle down." Also men: "Lori Harvey is jumping from man to man and you're a hoe if you do the same." Lori Harvey is the queen of casual dating, because she has fun with it and knows her bag will still be up when all is said and done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 07:43 AM |
| 72 | Utah professor and ecologist, Nalini Nadkarni, inspires line of National Geographic explorer Barbies and has one made in her honor. There's an astrophysicist, entomologist, marine biologist, and wildlife conservationist - wonderful work!Girls can't be what they can't see! As a woman in STEM, I never knew how many options I had for careers until my junior year of highschool. As an aunt now, I bought all of these Barbies for my 8-year old niece along with a waterproof field notes book for outdoor exploring. The world is their oyster - I appreciate women who give back and want to make the world better for young women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 09:39 PM |
| 4 | Same sh*t, different century lol."You're too good for me!" = I'm going to cheat and say I warned you. "You could do better!" = Yes, you most certainly can. "I'm just not ready for commitment" = I'm a fuckboy "We should try being friends first." = Do you mind if I lead you on with the hopes of something serious and then gaslight you about the context of our relationship when I cheat? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 09:19 PM |
| 5 | Can we talk about the sexism in medicine??Yes, it has been shown that old fertility studies correlated the peak of fertility at the age where men found women most attractive. A lot of extraneous information was not taken into account. Now, we see women are actually getting pregnant much later in life and carrying to term. This might be as a result of earlier times in history when childhood mortality was high and women’s reproductive biology adapted to having children for a longer period of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 05:13 PM |
| 37 | Stop giving men so much power.It’s only when people feel irreplaceable in your life that they start disrespecting you. They take your time and energy for granted and the only reason the nonchalance continues is because you allow it. In 2021, walk away from situations and people that don’t serve you. You don’t owe anyone anything, especially people who have shown they don’t deserve your goodwill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:31 AM |
| 6 | Dating and what I've come to understand: I can't control men and men can't control me!Yes! You reiterated it better than I did. Trying to control men’s actions will leave you frustrated and neurotic and will eventually cause resentment from both partners. In the honeymoon period, men are usually on their best behavior but when the mask slips, everything starts to go downhill. A dance instructor of mine would always save her critiques for our free style practice, because she said our errors were most obvious when we weren’t trying to dance “perfect”. It’s the same for relationship… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 04:50 PM |
| 12 | Has FDS helped you dodge abusers?Really good thoughts here. Society pressures women into viewing divorce as a failure, when ultimately being miserable in a relationship should be our biggest fear. It’s always about controlling women’s choices in the end | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 06:15 AM |
| 4 | I’m so sick of men interrupting me while I am running to give me advice or try to chat me up - I am WORKING OUT. I do not WANT your attention.I feel this post spiritually. I was midway through a squat lifting at the gym when a guy hurried over waving his arms. I thought something serious had happened but he just wanted to compliment my form 🤦♀️ Dude, screw off - I’m trying to work out in peace | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Megan Thee Stallion, Don’t Know How You Guys Feel About Her But This Song Absolutely SLAPS!Amen! 🙏👏💝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 09:38 PM |
| 8 | This may sound like a weird warning...My sisters boyfriend was very admanant about meeting the parents very early on - not even two months into the relationship! She refused and he threw a hissy fit. When they broke up because of his incessant calling and need for attention, he talked crap about her to everyone she’d ever introduced him to including my older sister and brother in law on their honeymoon 🤦♀️ Unless he’s properly vetted, never introduce him to family! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 09:34 PM |
| 216 | Daily Reminder: A man’s sexual attraction to you means nothing.Oh my god - “don’t mistake erections for affection” should be a FDS tagline 😂💝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 09:29 PM |
| 16 | To all of us who grew up in households with toxic borderline abusive fathers, and mothers that stayed, just being in this group means we won’t continue that generational curseThis is so real to me and I know exactly what you mean, if that’s any comfort. I had an abusive father and a mother that stayed and still makes excuses for him. I see the harm it’s caused me and my sisters still, but she refuses to see. It’s hard not to feel like collateral damage of someone else’s decisions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 08:29 PM |
| 11 | Attractiveness won’t get you respect! Women need to stop believing this lie -I would get stripper jokes from male friends in college 🤦♀️ It’s not a compliment; they only saw me as a sex object although I was in their medical classes as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 07:20 PM |
| 13 | I swear, why are male “feminists” always so terrible? 🚩 Married scrote with woke tags ON HIS TINDER PROFILE is still, painfully, a low class scrote. Remember, this guy always swipes right, because you’re worth it! 🤮“iM jUsT oN hErE tO leT yOu KnOw tHeRe ArE gOoD gUyS OuT ThErE” Faith in humanity restored/s 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 06:16 PM |
| 13 | I swear, why are male “feminists” always so terrible? 🚩 Married scrote with woke tags ON HIS TINDER PROFILE is still, painfully, a low class scrote. Remember, this guy always swipes right, because you’re worth it! 🤮I’m not on a dating app to talk to married men! GTFO! 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 06:13 PM |
| 61 | Saw this in r/niceguys of all places. "Your hurt feelings do not override my right to say no."Me at insecure men: That’s so sad!!! Alexa, play despacito | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 06:12 PM |
| 8 | Attractiveness won’t get you respect! Women need to stop believing this lie -Your last sentence! 🙌 So tired of being underestimated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 06:02 PM |
| 36 | Attractiveness won’t get you respect! Women need to stop believing this lie -I’m sorry to hear this. Please don’t underestimate the affect other people’s anger has on your mental health. You deserve wellness, happiness, and security. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 05:52 PM |
| 25 | My mom is a pick me, ruined my self-esteem as a young girl, and tried to destroy my relationshipYour mom has projected a lot of her internalized feelings on to you whether those be out of jealousy, insecurity, or something else. You have to take these comments impersonally, hard as it may be, to overcome them. You also don’t have to live up to anyone’s expectations but your own - her words don’t define you. Just be yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 02:59 PM |
| 8 | I'm a day dreamer. And lately I've noticed that in all my day dreams im single 🤷Women are taught from a very young age to center their entire existence around relationships whether that be friends family or men in general. Boys are taught less of a nurturing role; it’s their job to stand tall and take charge. Women forget to even see themselves as an individual with their own thoughts, ideas, and goals. They exist in relation to others only. I wonder how many “selfish” life goals do women even have anymore? Marketing and the media always center women’s goals on adding to so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 05:55 AM |
| 9 | Kill the narrative that women are weak, or waiting to be saved. Don't take our kindness for weakness. Also, their eyes... wowI love seeing empowering content like this! It seems in today's media you really have to seek it out, whereas content that degrades or dehumanizes women is readily available and in our face everyday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 05:28 PM |
| 16 | Tell me again how porn doesn't cause brain damage and isn't intrinsically linked to paedophilia. 🤢Crawled away?!? This is extreme depravity and he’s still looking for sympathy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 01:07 AM |
| 22 | Love makes you look weak to men.I learned this the hard way: don’t look at words, only actions. Words are cheap and unless it’s a written contract, it’s not binding. Men will move how they feel and how they see you. Trusting too much in words will have you confused and wondering what your relationship is. If it’s real, he’ll show you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:33 PM |
| 75 | Love makes you look weak to men.Girl, I just wrote “But does he respect me?” On a post it note and put it on the bathroom mirror. You’re getting gold from me 👏🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:18 PM |
| 53 | You should never be financially losing when you're in a relationship. If he expects you to pay his bill, pay for dinner, be the maid, take your damn self out, love.LVM can be pernicious and greedy with your time. If he becomes a distraction enough away from your career/goals, he's a liability. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 03:22 AM |
| 23 | LVM don’t like it when you know HVM existWow, I hope to be this kind of parent. I’m in medical school now and it’s a mixed bag. Some guys are really high value and some treat me horribly, even though we’re classmates. I’m beginning to understand how to rise above | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 12:25 AM |
| 27 | LVM don’t like it when you know HVM existYour hobbies sound wonderful - take me along! I think it’s a shame you have to hide your love of cooking because low value guys exploit it. It’s just sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 12:22 AM |
| 15 | Sounds like Jane has standards to me! Be like Jane :)I’m conflicted about this. My boyfriend in the past has had lesbian friends he’d known since childhood. I can’t imagine saying they couldn’t hang out just because I showed up. If they tried to hang out without me intentionally, though, I would have an issue, but I think there should be a caveat for sexuality here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 06:40 PM |
| 10 | [Rant] Men are far more 'high maintenance' than any 'high maintenance' woman I've ever metDo men actually love the women they’re with? How can you expect someone to bear the brunt of the domestic work 24/7 without considering how life is from their perspective? It’s delusional | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:58 PM |
| 140 | My ex was arrested marching on Washington today. Looks like the trash took itself out 🤦♀️Yes I will now. He said he voted for trump but it was a mistake and wanted to vote for Biden. He was lying all along. I have to stop trying to see the good in people when it isn’t there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 12:26 AM |
| 151 | My ex was arrested marching on Washington today. Looks like the trash took itself out 🤦♀️Thanks for all the support - he’s definietly my biggest L to date 🤦♀️ Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 12:21 AM |
| 5 | He sounds like, erm, the last 6,000 years of patriarchy and all of the mainstream, woman hating religions. Sure men have women’s best interests at heart, as evidenced by history!🤦♀️ This has to be satire but I know it’s not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 08:56 PM |
| 2 | I told my Italian mother about FDS - her advice:Thank you for all the kind comments! I showed her the thread and she was touched 💝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 08:54 PM |
| 7 | The delusion. The scrotacity lolTheir sleaziest pickup line is: “You’re so mature for your age” - Well, you’re too mature for me, if you know what I’m saying. F*ck off. I had a professor that was creeping on me starting to get on my nerves. I held the door open for him once and said, “Age before beauty!” That really drove the point home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 04:56 PM |
| 6 | What's something that made you realize you're former partner was LVM?Right? They’ve read a pack of condoms before haven’t they, and those aren’t even a necessity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 11:36 PM |
| 5 | What's something that made you realize you're former partner was LVM?He was always asking for nudes but never made it a priority to see me in person. Every time we’d be having a serious conversation he’d turn it sexual and then later blame me for “teasing” him and playing hard to get. He would not take no for an answer. If I refused to be touched, he would do it anyway and shush me! That was really the last straw. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 11:35 PM |
| 9 | The lows you stoop to to get picked.If she’s queen of degeneracy, I guess that makes him king of degeneracy 🤔 well if the shoe fits... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 11:29 PM |
| 11 | They’re thiiiis close to figuring it out!“Friends” = free emotional labor/side chick for guys like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 11:28 PM |
| 2 | "I was a starter wife."- Justine MuskHe said that women who wear lipstick and heels to work are asking for it, and that women that are higher ups in Google must be minority picks. How else would they get there /s? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 06:45 PM |
| 5 | "I was a starter wife."- Justine MuskFrom my perspective, he’s content to play devils advocate on issues that primarily affect women (domestic abuse, trans issues, sexism, wage gap, etc). But when it comes to marijuana, he’s on the soap box with thought out arguments. A lot of his guest stars are disengenuous especially about topics like feminism and he’ll never call them on it because “guy’s club”. It can be grating after a while. A lot of his base hate women - scroll to the comments of any video addressing women’s issue and see f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 06:43 PM |
| 7 | Maybe we should date gay men, they will treat us better than straight men for sureFellas, is it gay to date women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | What a lowlife smhDon’t do drugs, kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 09:45 PM |
| 2 | I want it, I get it!I love this picture! It’s so elegant 💝🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 08:09 PM |
| 74 | Pacific Northwest LVM starter packSmells like gaslighting, mommy issues, and a lack of accountability 🙌👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 08:08 PM |
| 5 | My fiancee organised another lovely date in lockdown times! Happy new year ladies ❤️You look incredible! So happy for you love 💝👏👏🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 08:06 PM |
| 17 | My fiancee organised another lovely date in lockdown times! Happy new year ladies ❤️Right? I was like damn 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 08:05 PM |
| 7 | At this point they could rename themselves as r/ThoughtPolice and I will see no differenceI’m bathing in those salty sweet tears! Now I look years younger haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 07:53 PM |
| 65 | No thanksYou hit the nail on the head! A lot of men are Kodak parents who want kids for that special snapshot moment of laughs and good times but are otherwise missing in action when it comes to actual parenting. No thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 07:51 PM |
| 54 | The reason why lvm find FDS so threatening is being denied access to your womb, finances, emotional labor or mere presence is enough to make them go off — they’re projecting.Men on reddit equating FDS with violence shows that they have never truly experienced violence the way women have. Violence isn’t someone saying words that make you feel insecure on the internet, it’s the terror and fear women have adapted to and experienced ever since they were kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 07:48 PM |
| 8 | The sooner they get their robots the better for usIncel Logic 101: Woman = fleshlight | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:53 AM |
| 34 | Real life Beth Harmon! Of course, there was misogyny in the comments, but she called them all out. I love seeing women doing what they love - Give her a follow if you canGuys it’s a great series! She has problems with men early on because of trauma (she was orphaned from a young age), but she gradually rises above and steps into her own. She’s not going to embody FDS principles at age 12 - none of us did | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:52 PM |
| 223 | men created a society where women are told that having sex is shameful, then get murdered when they turn down sex.A lot of Men: women should respect themselves and stay virginal for their future husband. Also a lot of men: I find women who have a lot of casual sex very unappealing. Also a lot of men: Why won't women have casual sex with me? And they say women are hard to understand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 11:03 PM |
| 252 | Dear men, we don’t give two shits what you want. Signed, A real womanCan’t be flirty and chaste at the same time so what I think he really means is “she has to be into me” because that’s a quality he so rarely finds. Sick. All this tells me is he can't handle when women have any kind of power. And magically, even though I, a woman, obviously only exist to please men, I'm still going to get my PhD. How does it feel to want, assclown? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:33 AM |
| 3 | Dear women who love too much: Men do not appreciate itThis is really good advice. Our society is permeated with the false idea that the more women give to a relationship, the better it will be, but it’s a lie. The respect and effort has to be mutual for any relationship to flourish - why would romantic love be any different? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:15 PM |
| 4 | A Boxing Day sermonI call that cockholm syndrome - she can’t see it for it is now, but she will eventually because the end is inevitable. At least you tried 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:12 PM |
| 1 | A Boxing Day sermonI think it’s a mixture of the sunk cost fallacy and insecurity. They don’t think they can do better or else they feel they’ve already invested too much to move on. But if your investment is giving no return, sell your stock and cut your losses. It just makes no sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:10 PM |
| 6 | This summer I picked up digital painting as a hobby. I've since been drawing portraits of inspirational women, here is my latest: queen Frida Kahlo! 👸🎨This is beautiful! What an empowering hobby 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:05 PM |
| 6 | I'm so curious if anyone understands why she wants to be made to feel bad even though he made her cry and bought her bad gifts.Ya’ll are woke af in the comments - bravo 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Men of this generation are so disappointing....Right? Why would you want to embody the personality of a crazy criminal just to seem edgy? They all need therapy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Men of this generation are so disappointing....Our society is going to hell in a handbasket 🤦♀️ The bar is so low and they still tango | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 06:45 PM |
| 1 | I love cooking extravagant meals. This Xmas Eve, I cooked myself an amazing dinner. Prime rib, smoked Gouda mac and cheese, carrot salad, sous vide broccoli, and crispy duck fat potatoes...with a custard hand pie for dessert! Sipped homemade eggnog while cooking. Life is good, ladies!Wow, please make a YouTube channel or get on food network 🎉👏😂 this is amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 06:43 PM |
| 10 | My now fiancé took me to the nail salon just a few days before proposing to make sure my nails were done for the photos. It only took him nine months to propose! He always knew I was the one for him. Your HVM is out there ladies!I’m so happy for you, love!!!👏🎉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 06:41 PM |
| 377 | LVM literally are fishing with no bait - I'm deadAt least a rock will stay hard....but what do I know? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 02:08 AM |
| 106 | “I don’t even like banana laffy taffys”Damn, I would feel the heat of that burn sitting at the other table. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 08:32 PM |
| 12 | i felt this one deep within my soulOh you've met my father too? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 04:37 AM |
| 25 | Reminder that it's ok to not be ok. Feelings your feelings/Missing someone is not wrong and is totally valid. Just be sure that you're not letting yourself fall into toxic situations again, because you're in a bad place temporarily. If you need support, we got you!I know where you're coming from. It's easy for me to get disconnected with what I know I should do because I don't feel like all of the advice I get is resonating with me on a soul level. Do you want to talk about it? My DM's are always open, love, and I'd love to talk. Stay safe! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 03:25 AM |
| 30 | I'm getting flashbacks to every first date monologue a LVM put me through - Never again!Drop that ig, hun. I'll follow! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 11:56 PM |
| 163 | "Don't worry, I love men with a little meat on their bones", "Real men have abs", "I think we all know how he got that promotion", "Shh, sweetie, the women are talking."Obviously, this post is satire. Women and men don't want to hear these comments alike, but somehow it's permissive in society as long as it's directed at the female sex. If LVM act up, I'm not afraid to fight fire with fire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 11:54 PM |
| 54 | Women of color do not exist as a commodity to live out a fantasy. How far does someone's head have to be up their own ass to think that fetishizing someone is the same as complimenting them?This post also applies for my black sistas. The next time a colorist or pornsick yt is in my DM's, I'm going to make them wish they messed with another one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 11:48 PM |
| 5 | An appreciation meme for all the relentless work that FDS mods do to keep unwanted comments from such people at bay. You're the real MVP.You're so welcome! We appreciate your guys' contribution to the sub as well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 08:44 PM |
| 403 | I got you, babe.If I'm ever in a bar and some guy tries to skedaddle off with some helpless drunk, I'm afraid I'm gonna have to cut him. I don't care who the drunk is; Male, Female, Gay, Straight, Lesbian. ANYTHING. Babs I will cut a creepy pervert for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 11:25 PM |
| 13 | Why Is Men’s Dating Advice all Stuff They Should Have Learned in Kindergarden?I'm so sorry, love. He's an asshole. Men really do switch on you and then gaslight you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 03:59 PM |
| 21 | Why Is Men’s Dating Advice all Stuff They Should Have Learned in Kindergarden?Why Is Men’s Dating Advice all Stuff They Should Have Learned in Kindergarten? Because men don't listen to women when women tell them what they want. Men would just rather pretend women are confusing and unknowable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 03:34 PM |
| 125 | Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.If you or someone you know is currently experiencing domestic abuse, please call 1.800.799 (SAFE) if you cannot call 911 safely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:26 PM |
| 275 | Me and the other girls in my theater class in high school were constructing props in the library late at night and we all had a tearful heart to heart about all the abuse we have received by men. That night we learned that each and every girl had been raped and/or beaten by a bf or family member.Never let men gaslight your boundaries or your standards. You are not obligated to participate in any action/date/sex act you're uncomfortable with. Anyone who says differently can take a long walk off a short pier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 03:24 PM |
| 11 | Do most men even know what love is?This is also why men are statistically more likely to divorce after their spouse becomes ill. They're not having their needs met, so the person is no longer valuable to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 06:21 PM |
| 106 | Men look at women. Women watch themselves being looked at. This determines not only most relationships between men and women but also the relationship of women to themselves.The surveyor of women in herself is male: the surveyed female. Thus she turns herself into an object - an object of sight.So often, we as women view ourselves through a male lens/perspective/gaze. We do not see ourselves as who we are as individuals but rather as who we could be. Early in my teens, I fell into the trap of always trying to be the manic pixie dream girl of some guy, never once taking into account my own dreams, preferences, or plans. I believed that if I was everything a guy needed or wanted I would ultimately feel fulfilled, but it never worked. You have to love you as you are now, haters and naysay… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 02:20 AM |
| 6 | It's a man's world? Ok so we became "men" we have careers, education, we provide, we joined your military, we fought your battles. Some of us were even physically hurt like men by men. Oh you want femininity too? So we become women, we love, we cook, we clean, we nurture.Thank you for your service! You are a legend in my eyes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 02:33 PM |
| 7 | Legitimately good sexDo you actually consider it sex if you don't orgasm? No judgment at all, I'm just curious. I would feel slighted by the interaction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 02:26 PM |
| 26 | Someone find this woman and bring her here. What a SCROTE.As a 20-year old woman, I find men over 30 just repulsive and disgusting honestly, mostly due to their entitlement and to the extent they've let themselves go. If an older man hits on me, I tell him to go back to bed and keep dreaming. I have met a lot of older women I'm attracted to though, which makes me think I must be bi. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 06:09 PM |
| 15 | Don't make the mistake of believing that men only use women for sex.Men can still be misogynistic and not date/sleep with women. Some, not all, gay men I've been friends with have treated their relationships with women as expendable or as a means to an end to either meet more guys or not be judged by straight men for their more effeminate habits/opinions. Emotional labor is still labor! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 06:04 PM |
| 164 | I want my time, money, and emotional labor back now please.Exactly. They're just more experienced at gaslighting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 09:27 PM |
| 60 | If a man brings this guy up on the first date, run for your f*cking life.Right? And they always bring either of these two up tentatively to see how you'll react. If you pretend to like them you're a "cool girl"; if you don't, you're whatever third-wave feminist strawman they can conjure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 09:15 PM |
| 11 | Romantic movies that are FDS horror moviesI can only think of Passengers where Chris Pratt wakes Jennifer Lawrence's character up, which was pretty much a death sentence, just because he was horny. This was somehow supposed to be romantic. Now imagine if the story was from Jennifer's perspective, where she falls in love with this amazing guy just to find out that he is actually selfish, shallow, and desperate. When you see most hollywood action/romance movies from the female perspective, men seem really creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 10:00 PM |
| 3 | Bought me a build-a-bear that says “I love you beautiful” bc he will be gone for a monthThis is soooo sweet! Good for you, love! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:41 AM |
| 12 | When women pay 50% yet are still expected to do 100% of the housework:I love this!!! Great catch! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:50 PM |
| 5 | Being on this sub is making me realize I might not be attracted to menI know what you're saying. I asked my friend once who was pointing out a guy she liked, "How do you know if a guy's attractive?" and she looked at me like I had two heads. I can tell if a man's conventionally attractive obviously, because of facial symmetry and the like, but it seems the majority of the time it's around women that I feel this "pull" of attraction. I don't feel as if I have to force or search for anything either. I'm not sure if that makes any sense. Thank you for this thread. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:15 AM |
| 10 | Being on this sub is making me realize I might not be attracted to men" What's making this in my mind more complicated is that the few times I've been attracted to men I've only liked masculine men. I have never liked feminine men. I'm pretty feminine myself and I've only ever been attracted to other feminine women." - oh my gosh, are you me? I'm in college and I'll find myself really attracted to multiple women in my class that are really feminine like me. But with guys, it may as well be one in a million, that make me do a double-take. I don't think I have high … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 01:47 AM |
| 4 | My friend gave me this sign as a gift. Isn’t it perfect?I love it! Side note: Where did you get your reed diffuser? I want one just like that. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 01:40 AM |
| 3 | I've noticed something and statistics prove me right.Hang in there, girl! You're not alone! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 01:37 AM |
| 12 | Has anyone else encountered the white collar city fuckboy type of LVM?Same shit in a different package. Men are still men at the core, no matter what they look like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 05:05 PM |
| 13 | I've noticed something and statistics prove me right.Great post, but I just wanted to mention something. A lot of lesbians in the media today that are deemed acceptable are femme women that seem to conform to traditional views of femininity. All lesbians face discrimination, but butch women specifically are more likely to be targets of slurs and physical abuse. Our society still does not value women/women relationships with the same respect that they do man/woman or man/man ones. I believe this is to do mostly with misogyny, and the belief that un… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 05:53 AM |
| 8 | I've noticed something and statistics prove me right.Right? If you're femme on femme in porn then men love lesbians, but try to be butch or deviate the norm of what's an "attractive woman" to them and you'll soon be a pariah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 05:49 AM |
| 6 | when this sub isn’t criticizing women it’s begging for female validation 💀"Women of Reddit, explain some reasons why feminism hurts men" - "Women of Reddit, why won't women give a nice guy like me a chance?" - "Women of Reddit, why won't my girlfriend stop pushing me to shower?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 05:44 AM |
| 39 | Why are men broke?"The Future is Female" used to just be an empowerment slogan, but it's quickly becoming a reality. If men don't want to step up, then the job should go to the most qualified candidate, which most of the time today is a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 05:38 AM |
| 6 | Why are men broke?Because a lot of women let them get away with it, because it makes them either feel like they're benevolent or because the patriarchy urges women to have low standards. The bar has gradually lowered throughout history, but women have always picked up their share of the slack when it came to domestic work and careers. LVM are just lazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 05:37 AM |
| 23 | Millionaire Youtuber Asks His Part-Time Model Girlfriend To Split The Check.I'm sure he got rich by being very greedy and running people over. She would do well to run completely in the other direction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 05:34 AM |
| 2 | FDS theme tune? @ninanesbitt , she makes amazing music!Love this song!!! Thank you for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 05:31 AM |
| 8 | Sorry, I'm on a low carb diet, I don't need your breadcrumbs!Breadcrumbing is definitely a mindfu*ck, because by the time you receive any attention/communication you rightfully feel entitled to it. The best thing to do is always to walk away. Good on you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 12:21 AM |
| 150 | I'm a firm believer that men catch feelings faster than women do. Unfortunately those feelings are jealousy, controlling, and inequalities in the relationship. They seem to prefer "tricking you" into dick, or somehow giving you unsolicited D, but if you want it on your terms they get all madnothing funnier than watching men completely lose their minds now that women have started treating them the way they've been treating us for... ever. It only gets problematic if u give him that nectar of the goddesses then you cut him off to give another dude some then he starts getting in his feelings n shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 03:52 AM |
| 3 | Spot the guyNext, I'll teach him how to breathe! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 02:51 AM |
| 38 | Sick men deriving pleasure from women’s pain and tears. Notice how the man playing golf has tied the woman up in the chair for his ‘peace and quiet’. Comments in that post are also sickening. If they hate women so much they should just stay away from us.Men of this generation just aren't cutting it. I just want an old-fashioned guy who, um, puts me in a ball-gag?????? wtf. Men remain depraved. What else is new? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 06:21 PM |
| 11 | It's time to decenter men in your life, period.Romantic relationships are not the only relationships, as well. Think about all the friends and family you can still get to know better and who have your back outside of all these unrealistic dating standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 05:54 PM |
| 112 | It's time to decenter men in your life, period.Remember, men should never be your entire world. They are an addition to an already wonderful life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:23 AM |
| 31 | “A walk isn’t a date?!”Be wary of triangulation! It's manipulative to bring a third party in that you're unaware of for him to prove a point. How can you refute the opinions of these imaginary women you've never met? Not to mention gaslighting your high standards by trying to make you seem high maintenance. Just block and ignore him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:56 AM |
| 7 | And this woman or well actually girl not only has a child but posts pictures of her breasts. This is pathetic."Hey, guys!! Instead of paying for porn, look at my nudes for free! Oh wait, you don't value things that come easily to you? Sh*t." - this woman apparently | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 02:38 AM |
| 36 | Pick me job hunting for her boyfriend- sis come on! As a recruiter, I see this way too often and it’s concerning....if he wanted a job he would get one.She's working overtime so he can work part-time??? Could not be me, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 02:36 AM |
| 13 | Even women fortunate enough to not be attracted to me are not safe from having their entire lives invalidated by scrotes.They are both incredibly beautiful and I'm happy for them!!! Scrotes can die mad about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 09:54 PM |
| 21 | Even women fortunate enough to not be attracted to me are not safe from having their entire lives invalidated by scrotes.A majority of lesbians are not "gold-star" (meaning they've slept with men before), and they've still decided to be together. I'm not sure who told this guy his d*ck was so life-changing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 09:52 PM |
| 12 | Empirical evidence that men are more often assholes than womenI think to post anything on this sub, you either have to be incredibly emotionally self-aware (concerned about your affect on others) or lack emotional intelligence completely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 09:43 PM |
| 5 | Finding fds ladies in real life, being seen as extreme for people around meI hope you're using the word friend loosely, because she doesn't seem to be giving back what she's receiving. People like this will drain you if you're not careful. Just saying, if you want to talk to someone, I'll listen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Finding fds ladies in real life, being seen as extreme for people around me"I myself have never been able to find out precisely what feminism is: I only know that people call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a doormat." (from Rebecca West) Some people will be intimated by your standards, because they believe that if they can't get better then neither should you. Those aren't your people. Most often, I see women that are strong/take-no-sh*t in leadership positions around me, whether it be at my gym, at my work, or among my friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:27 AM |
| 9 | Anyone else consider being a febfem?Yes, yes, yes. Dating women has been life-changing for me. There are always going to be people that treat you well and people that don't, but I've experienced so much joy in just having my needs and wants fulfilled without asking/begging someone for affection. I got so tired of trying to teach men how to treat me the way I know I should be treated, and found a woman I didn't have to ask. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 02:42 AM |
| 5 | Anyone else consider being a febfem?Are you me? Thank you for naming the problem! In my opinion, the only thing society hates more than women-only spaces is wlw. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else consider being a febfem?I just wanted to say, as a bisexual woman, that you don't have to learn a whole new set of rules. There are actually less rules if you're dating women, because there are fewer gender norms to fall into. I think if you're just yourself around someone who respects your boundaries, dating women should go well for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 02:38 AM |
| 7 | PSA found on side of PortaPottyI'm laughing so hard right now, hahaha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 02:33 AM |
| 141 | Just more proof of men being trash, the most he said was “yeah”Her: "I'm breaking up with you." Him: "...yeah." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 02:30 AM |
| 8 | "Men age like fine wine" Sean Penn, 59, and Leila George, 28 just got married. There are no words.Ok, sis. She waiting on that will and testament for payday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 08:08 PM |
| 7 | Once you realize this, it’s a game changer.Exactly. When you're not receiving the same level of energy you're putting out, hang back for a second. Do they notice? If so, do they feel entitled to that energy without giving anything in return? Ask yourself honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 04:59 AM |
| 16 | The bulk of this post is focused on telling the world how unattractive he used to think women like his future wife are. Colorism affects these LVM's brains to the core. They will not accept what a white society tells them not to.I do and thank you! Karine Alourde is also one to follow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:06 AM |
| 125 | The bulk of this post is focused on telling the world how unattractive he used to think women like his future wife are. Colorism affects these LVM's brains to the core. They will not accept what a white society tells them not to.This comment is for black women only: There's a movement on twitter called #divest and #burnthecape where black women that are fed up with low standards that are allowed for black men in the community can talk about their journeys and their choice not to date LVM that adhere to these low standards. It's a really positive, thriving community of great women, just like FDS. Check it out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 10:43 PM |
| 15 | Why I’m here.Apologies, but your ex-husband is a piece of crap. Do not be surprised if he comes crawling back in five years apologizing for everything. Do not let him back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 10:39 PM |
| 1 | What...?I have secondhand embarrassment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 06:10 PM |
| 2 | You guys would have a field day in the commentsSorry, but I don't want to date people that are utterly inept! If I can text him but he can't even take a second to text me back, then I've already invested too much. It's basic respect and decency. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 06:05 PM |
| 33 | Ladies, not sure what to do when your husband forces you to give blowjobs until your lips are bleeding and you throw up? Male redditor has the solution for you!LVM will always use your children against you. Remember, you are hurting them by staying. They deserve to see wholesome, healthy relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 06:00 PM |
| 24 | Can we send an FDS rescue squad for this woman?If your man can be replaced with a vibrator, throw him away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 05:55 PM |
| 6 | Billie Eilish's newest song screams FDSI love this song!!! Thanks for the recommendation! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Going home. I'm through letting a man dictate my life.That's so good to hear, sis!! Good luck to you!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:53 PM |
| 28 | Draconian sexist mindsets/laws that force women to have to run an obstacle course to get tubes tied vs men getting a vasectomyThis is because they view women as first and foremost incubators. Why should they tie men down to their reproductive organs? He has a life and dreams to live out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:50 PM |
| 26 | This is how LVM on Reddit see FDS - I have to laugh.I agree, but it seems like such a foreign concept to some people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 12:29 AM |
| 3 | When FDS and I see a LVMthank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 12:29 AM |
| 30 | If he came with a mother like this, I’d be gone! 😂The mother has issues and she needs to get out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 11:27 PM |
| 9 | how can women use their beauty to their advantage?Don't say that. You are beautiful. Superficial conventional beauty standards made by men keep us in a cage with a distorted funhouse mirror. I will never let them define beauty. If you could see yourself as we all do, I think you'd be impressed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 11:24 PM |
| 8 | When FDS and I see a LVMWhat show is this from, if you don't mind me asking? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 11:16 PM |
| 22 | Their opinions change depending on how it benefits themThis should be a pinned post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 11:04 PM |
| 17 | Their opinions change depending on how it benefits themI'm sorry he said that. I'm glad you stayed true to yourself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 11:03 PM |
| 50 | I just know she is not asking her to wear different clothes in the comfort of her own home because her boyfriend is there. imagine telling a woman you live with to cover up bc your man was staring instead of checking up on her to see if she was uncomfortable bc YOUR MAN WAS STARING.Imagine trying to make your roommate insecure in their own house? The audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 07:10 PM |
| 203 | I just know she is not asking her to wear different clothes in the comfort of her own home because her boyfriend is there. imagine telling a woman you live with to cover up bc your man was staring instead of checking up on her to see if she was uncomfortable bc YOUR MAN WAS STARING.Not that it matters, but if you go to the twitter, thread you can see the original poster was wearing a white shirt and sweats. I have to laugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:55 PM |
| 19 | I don’t know how FDS, a 10 month old subreddit, is allegedly responsible for so many men’s inceldom and MRA activism when the manosphere has been waging a full on war on women for a decade now. 🤔I just don't get it. I'm surrounded by women who have jumped through numerous hurdles, whether it be sexism, pregnancy, or a bad background, and go on to have successful careers, to then meet men who make less than them that want them to apologize for their success? These LVM don't like women if they make more, and they don't like women if they make less (i.e. "she's a gold-digger"). I'm beginning to think they just don't like women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:39 PM |
| 91 | I don’t know how FDS, a 10 month old subreddit, is allegedly responsible for so many men’s inceldom and MRA activism when the manosphere has been waging a full on war on women for a decade now. 🤔You forgot about MGTOW, which is supposedly men going their own way, but in reality is Men Getting Triggered Over Women. The issue is these guys never go away, they just b*tch on the internet about women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:30 PM |
| 16 | I don’t know how FDS, a 10 month old subreddit, is allegedly responsible for so many men’s inceldom and MRA activism when the manosphere has been waging a full on war on women for a decade now. 🤔It's funny this sub is about women taking accountability for their lives by setting boundaries against toxicity, and these guys perceive it as a threat because they refuse to be accountable and are toxic. Gotta love those salty sweet tears. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:25 PM |
| 3 | My desperate pickmeisha storySo proud of you for leaving that relationship! Thank you for sharing your story here, it was really brave! Best of luck to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:53 AM |
| 10 | Can’t believe kids are going to grow thinking bruises like this are okay.This poor girl! There's no way she could have gotten these bruises without serious physical force. He's definitely a psycho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:07 AM |
| 7 | What Living With a LVM Looks LikeYou need a roommate on your level, sis. Do not be putting up with this bs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 05:49 AM |
| 9 | They're fucking everywhere.I bet your sleeve is awesome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 05:41 AM |
| 6 | They're fucking everywhere.A boyfriend will never ever tell me what to do with my body. I would just ask him who died and made him king of anything - what a joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 05:40 AM |
| 4 | Thought you ladies might like this take on the trendI don't know why her dancing made me laugh, haha! I want to be that carefree - go queen!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 04:59 AM |
| 5 | Why chase men when we can chase the bag instead?When I finance myself, the gifts are plenteous and consistent. I don't "owe" anybody anything either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 04:55 AM |
| 8 | Had a self-care day after a break-up with a toxic guy, and I'm feeling much better! Even though it was just a manicure and lunch, making myself a priority again is so refreshing!Good idea!! Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 04:20 AM |
| 9 | Had a self-care day after a break-up with a toxic guy, and I'm feeling much better! Even though it was just a manicure and lunch, making myself a priority again is so refreshing!Feeling like a bad chick! Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 04:02 AM |
| 6 | Had a self-care day after a break-up with a toxic guy, and I'm feeling much better! Even though it was just a manicure and lunch, making myself a priority again is so refreshing!thank you so much!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 03:51 AM |
| 215 | I'm curious how life is for other women dating childfree! Please share your stories/goals/dreams with meI do want to have kids one day. But just for the one day. Then I'll happily give them back to their parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 03:45 AM |
| 7 | Had a self-care day after a break-up with a toxic guy, and I'm feeling much better! Even though it was just a manicure and lunch, making myself a priority again is so refreshing!thank you, love!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Childfree women, do you find it harder to date men, and do you casually date men that want kidsI've seen this too! I know a HV couple that got married in their 30's, and they're nearing 40 and neither want kids. Their life seems like a dream to me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 03:40 AM |
| 9 | I'm curious how life is for other women dating childfree! Please share your stories/goals/dreams with meThank you! I'll look for your comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 03:37 AM |
| 6 | OMG look who bought me flowers! It's me because I'm my favorite person and I love me so much.Those are so lovely! You deserve them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 03:27 AM |
| 7 | Cool Story Brogoddess, give me peace because if you give me strength I will smack him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 09:59 PM |
| 45 | how do you find self-love? you dig. you isolate and you ache - ache from being lonely and ache from not feeling enough. you heal. you accept, you look in the mirror and see the woman you always knew you could be if you'd just tried a little harder.Loving yourself and putting yourself first will save you from a lot of heart ache and fake people in your life. You can give yourself the love you're waiting to receive from other people. Look inside yourself, because it's already there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 09:56 PM |
| 2 | You are under no obligation to be nice to men with bad intentions. Their reaction is not your responsibility.Who needs tiktok when she's in my living room, lol? Just kidding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 09:07 PM |
| 4 | You are under no obligation to be nice to men with bad intentions. Their reaction is not your responsibility.womenonguard.com or they're also available on Amazon! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Looked up Female Dating Strategy on YouTube and it's all mockeryMe too please! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 05:45 PM |
| 16 | Looked up Female Dating Strategy on YouTube and it's all mockeryYoutube is a big as a manosphere as Reddit is, depending on what area of the site you're on. You'll likely never find a good post praising childfree women, feminism, or anything to do with women in STEM/women in gaming without sexism in the comments or an inordinate amount of dislikes. It's just a bunch of insecure men who want to control women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 05:39 PM |
| 6 | Every day on relationship_advice...i JuSt WaNt tO dO aNyThiNg BuT bReAk Up WiTh HiM! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:49 PM |
| 22 | It’s so mean when Lesbians dunk on straight women 😭. Like damn we know it sucks sis but our sexuality is not a choice.Yeah, the "you're so lucky you're gay. I wish I was a lesbian, because women are easier to date" comes off as a little unaware. Humans can be equally shitty across the board, from what I've seen firsthand. I will admit that there does seem to be fewer expectations when it comes to gender roles in a nontraditional relationship, but nobody's perfect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 01:56 PM |
| 18 | This 2003 Maxim article details VERBATIM men’s strategy to Co-opt Feminism and turn it into the ineffective “lipstick feminism” practiced by LibFem Pickmeishas"Is your girl acting like a person instead of a sex object? Remind her that she exists solely for the male gaze in 4 easy steps!!!" - this magazine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 01:49 PM |
| 30 | It’s so mean when Lesbians dunk on straight women 😭. Like damn we know it sucks sis but our sexuality is not a choice.As a lesbian with amazing straight male friends, I know firsthand not all men are Jasons. (which is not to deny that this type of man exists in women's lives). This kind of bottom-tier, never-grew-up, Cheeto-hands type of guy has low self-esteem and literally lives to harm women. HVM have no respect for him and he takes it out on women. I don't like how this post makes it seem like it's women's fault for Jasons existing. We should blame a society that encourages women to settle and not get bette… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 01:44 PM |
| 6 | You are under no obligation to be nice to men with bad intentions. Their reaction is not your responsibility.womenonguard.com or they're also available on Amazon! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 01:30 PM |
| 6 | You are under no obligation to be nice to men with bad intentions. Their reaction is not your responsibility.Of course! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 01:30 PM |
| 3 | He thinks his insults will break me. Well except they won’t. I’ll lose weigh he stays LVI think you hurt his feelings, lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 08:39 PM |
| 11 | 'You should feel lucky that I picked you, because for our first date I will cook for you, fuck you for free, and judge you for being promiscious while doing so' SMHAh, what object am I today? *spins wheel* Hmm, a diamond? Yesterday, I was gum and before that I was a car. What a time to be alive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 08:38 PM |
| 48 | You are under no obligation to be nice to men with bad intentions. Their reaction is not your responsibility.Thank you! It's a lipstick taser, so it fits in my pocket. It's tiny but powerful. I made a post about it and how I use it in my history. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 08:23 PM |
| 7 | I want a nicer bodyThis is some queen energy right here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 08:09 PM |
| 19 | Disguised Hidden Lipstick Perfume Bottle Tactical Stun Gun FlashlightI've gotten to the point where if men are acting sleazy and making gestures while I'm jogging, I just flip them off. They can come at me and get tazed. When I was growing up in Jersey, my aunt always told LVM 'act up and you could get snatched up'. Now it's a philosophy I live by. (this is a reposted comment I made, and here's the tazer I use. Please take classes/watch youtube tutorials before using. A really great place to taze an attacker, if you get close enough, is the upper thigh, neck, or … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 08:05 PM |
| 91 | You are under no obligation to be nice to men with bad intentions. Their reaction is not your responsibility.I've gotten to the point where if men are acting sleazy and making gestures while I'm jogging, I just flip them off. They can come at me and get tazed. When I was growing up in Jersey, my aunt always told LVM 'act up and you could get snatched up'. Now it's a philosophy I live by. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:54 PM |
| 9 | As a professional woman, you can never win. No matter how far you get in your career, you will always be an object to some men. Seek out the HVM in your field (like the one who wrote this tweet) when you're dating, ladies.It was a "research study" on what female medical professionals post on their social media. The study was obviously retracted because it was trying to be a hit piece created by three men attempting to call out women for having fulfilling, unorthodox personal lives. It was pretty much a professional lash out against women in the industry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:57 PM |
| 4 | He bought me a pretty necklace and ring set just because! (Ring not shown, resizing)That's so lovely!!! Happy for you, love!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:57 AM |
| 29 | As soon as I hear some "you're not like other girls" bit, I immediately shut the conversation down. If men can't compliment me without tearing other women down, I don't want to hear it.I agree! These kind of men intentionally try to find women with low self-esteem and use that to further demean women as a whole. It's crazy how quickly they guys move onto the "other girls" they were previously degrading, when push comes to shove. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:46 AM |
| 105 | As a professional woman, you can never win. No matter how far you get in your career, you will always be an object to some men. Seek out the HVM in your field (like the one who wrote this tweet) when you're dating, ladies.As a woman in medicine, I can assure you that this study is merely a tip of the iceberg. Medical residencies, especially surgical, are treated as a sort of boy's club. I remember in one of our resident get-togethers, the final destination of the outing was a strip club??? I was appalled. Men that are low-value are intimidated by women in their field, because these men see their career as their only way of attaining status. It's pathetic to see, but it's even sadder when it affects the lives of w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:44 AM |
| 39 | As a professional woman, you can never win. No matter how far you get in your career, you will always be an object to some men. Seek out the HVM in your field (like the one who wrote this tweet) when you're dating, ladies.I felt like this study was a lash out against women in the field, which you were alluding to as well (I'm speaking as a woman who's a medical student). Society feeds women so many lies that if they're not the "perfect", ideal woman in the traditional sense, they'll be lonely and miserable. Instead, I see women in my career field living their best lives with HVM, and, yes, these women are wearing bikinis too, because they look damn good. This whole study was just a projection of LVM's insecurity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:41 AM |
| 11 | Whats with this new trend of men trying to be victim? Weren't they criticising women friendships few days ago?They have to keep up this facade of being untouchable, unemotional, and tough around their guy friends, but then want women to do all the emotional labor/play therapist for them? I think not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 06:52 PM |
| 22 | Have no wordsIn the words of Simon Cowell, it's a no from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 06:51 PM |
| 29 | Grimes’ baby father is wildin’ on the Internet and she just came to collect him. Embarrassing.I agree, and I'm sorry that happened to you. Don't be too hard on yourself, because society literally enforces this dynamic through the media constantly. I feel as if the historical examples "worked" because of necessity or because both partners rarely saw each other (like an arranged marriage). If I slept with someone 20 years older than me, they'd be my parents age - it's a crazy thought. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 06:24 AM |
| 121 | Grimes’ baby father is wildin’ on the Internet and she just came to collect him. Embarrassing.18 years?! That means she was just born, when he became a legal adult?! That's insane. I feel like our society is just hooked on crazy pills at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 06:05 AM |
| 38 | He's not the only man on earth, sis. Keep on fishing.I'm sorry, but I laughed. It's too real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 04:20 AM |
| 5 | The Queen Energy of this!! Manifesting this all 2020!got u a double dose, but you didn't get it from me ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 03:10 AM |
| 27 | Ever had your career mansplained to you on a first date? Did a boyfriend tell you that you're too emotional/men are the more logical sex? Then the nine types of reply guy list is for you!Right? I just want to say, "you’re not “playing devil’s advocate” you’re just making a person who is likely speaking from personal experience defend themselves against the oppressive opinion you’re too embarrassed to admit u actually believe. you're the devil." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 02:42 AM |
| 12 | It be the ugly ones who are the most insecure and take it out on their girl. Ugly men who get a pretty girl feel like she disrespects herself for even dating them, so they disrespect her. I said what I said.I've had guys I've worked with urge me to date a guy and "give him a chance" in order to raise his self-esteem. And what about what I want? Thanks, but no thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 01:51 AM |
| 12 | It be the ugly ones who are the most insecure and take it out on their girl. Ugly men who get a pretty girl feel like she disrespects herself for even dating them, so they disrespect her. I said what I said.*No shade against dr. doofenshmirtz. He's still a king to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 01:46 AM |
| 14 | Pickmeisha mad 😂I could not roll my eyes any harder. Imagine putting other women for men who don't give a fuck about you. Couldn't be me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 01:39 AM |
| 2 | They love to make it about themselves 🤦♀️Aw, poor scrote. He felt called out, lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 01:31 AM |
| 22 | A wholesome change of pace! Society consistently stereotypes single mothers as "lazy", while praising low value, bare minimum behavior from fathers. It's cultural misogyny in action.Agreed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 01:03 AM |
| 21 | A wholesome change of pace! Society consistently stereotypes single mothers as "lazy", while praising low value, bare minimum behavior from fathers. It's cultural misogyny in action.You're welcome! Congratulations on all your success! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 01:03 AM |
| 5 | Simple stock trading/how to readWow, thank you so much!!! You're a true queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 12:06 AM |
| 49 | Beware of#himpathy: when a man only cares about women's issues as it relates to women in his life (wife, mother, daughter,etc.) Ex: His daughter is part "him" and therefore suddenly she counts in a way no other woman did before/ learned empathy when having a daughter/etc.Exactly. What really gets under my skin is when I hear men that promote misogyny with their actions tell me they're afraid to have a daughter in this world. The world they're partly responsible for actively ruining?? It makes no sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 10:53 PM |
| 28 | And this is why you don’t put out for a NVM"If you want to participate in charity, work at a soup kitchen." - I'm going to cross-stitch this and then hang it in in my living room, lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 10:51 PM |
| 9 | Beware of#himpathy: when a man only cares about women's issues as it relates to women in his life (wife, mother, daughter,etc.) Ex: His daughter is part "him" and therefore suddenly she counts in a way no other woman did before/ learned empathy when having a daughter/etc.Thanks for your comment, love! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Ever had your career mansplained to you on a first date? Did a boyfriend tell you that you're too emotional/men are the more logical sex? Then the nine types of reply guy list is for you!Mansplainer guy is a type #7 and the boyfriend is a type #2. Stay woke, ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 10:16 PM |
| 142 | stop telling women to "choose better guys" and start telling men to be better. stop blaming women for men's bad decisions!Them: iT's tHe wOmEn wHo ArE wRoNg! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 10:14 PM |
| 44 | Sexism, sexism everywhere. If a guy treats your concerns/trauma like any of the four D's, tell him to hit the road.My favorite is when they act stupid as soon as you call them out on it. I just say, "No need to play dumb, you're already great at it." Normally, they'll leave in a huff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 10:01 PM |
| 10 | On January 2nd I gave up dating and instead focused on my net worthYou should make a thread! You sound very knowledgeable about the subject. Thanks for sharing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 09:31 PM |
| 5 | When my husband gets something nice for himself, he buys me one tooThat's so nice! He's a keeper! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 09:30 PM |
| 5 | What about when your dad is a LVM?Same. I feel guilty for calling out the actual abuse, because I try to remember all the good things about people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 03:02 AM |
| 18 | Anytime I would bring up our issues my ex would go silent and ignore me. I wish I’d had this attitude this time last year!Silent treatment is a form of gaslighting. It’s meant to make you think you overreacted to abuse and apologize when you did nothing wrong. Adults communicate through their problems, not sulk in a corner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 05:19 PM |
| 13 | High Value Men and what it means to be oneThis is amazing!!! Thanks for sharing 💝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 05:12 PM |
| 1 | High Value Men and what it means to be oneThis is amazing!!! Thanks for sharing 💝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 05:12 PM |
| 4 | I got mad at first but got pleasantly surprisedlmao 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 04:55 PM |
| 18 | I got mad at first but got pleasantly surprisedI’m with you. Something’s off if this guy wants virtual pats on the head for liking his wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Was I right to block? We had only just started talking from Tinder and I mentioned not being into team sports...his comment/emoji felt weird. Thoughts?You can tell by how he's talking to you that he thinks he's so suave. his whole convo is making me roll my eyes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 04:26 AM |
| 3 | A post titled “How to love a man”....thoughts? I have a strong feeling that if the word “man” was swapped with “woman” scrotes would be yelling about how women have too high of standards.....How to love yourself: Never date a man that would send you this list | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 04:24 AM |
| 9 | Someone clearly hurt this man...Poor little guy. You can obviously tell this "tough guy" thing is just an act by how over aggressive he is straight off the bat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 04:23 AM |
| 2 | MEN KNOW THEY ARE SHALLOW AF-THEY JUST BANK ON BEING ABLE TO HOODWINK US-PPD GEMS (EYE ROLL)Well he says he’s superficial 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 05:06 AM |
| 56 | He might as well put up his resume. Someone loves himself a little too much...Yes! As a med student I can tell you that the guys act like they’re superior to the other women students, on day one, as if we all didn’t work the same amount to get here 🤦♀️ The same guys who say they’d never marry a doctor call sahms lazy. Ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 05:01 AM |
| 1 | This man got chewed out in the comments. If I was his wife, I would leave him.He would sleep with the spin instructor if he had the opportunity. This is a red flag for his wife, that he doesn’t care about her feelings or her as a person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 03:15 AM |
| 9 | Scrot justifies cat catting and a wild Pickmisha appears on que!Hate the culture that encourages this mentality in women the most. They’re just parroting sexism and it makes me sad, because they’ll get nowhere | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 11:07 PM |
| 9 | Scrote is mad no one wants him 😂 bet you he won’t date an overweight woman that’s not at least an 8 on his booksYes would date if you were taller, had a degree, and got paid more than Uber. I have all those things when I made a profile, so why should you get a free pass? 🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 11:03 PM |
| 8 | Scrote is mad no one wants him 😂 bet you he won’t date an overweight woman that’s not at least an 8 on his booksFunny how most women can get a steady 9 to 5 job, but since he cant be arsed to do so, it’s a problem with women 🤦♀️ No thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 11:02 PM |
| 114 | Be careful who you marry and/or procreate with. To make matters worse, this guy is unemployed while she works full time 🥴He plays video games or watches pornhub, I guarantee it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 10:57 PM |
| 4 | I’m not falling for that shit anymore.As long as the venting is mutual and he’s not using you as a dumping zone, I don’t think it’s a problem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 05:13 PM |
| 3 | I’m not falling for that shit anymore.Meanwhile, he’s simping in another girl’s dm but would never say those things to her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 05:11 PM |
| 50 | Never let a man make you feel bad about your bodyAre you “loose” or is he small? Think carefully 🤔😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 05:05 PM |
| 72 | "Wholesome" boomer meme. Hope she gets picked!The men are never never bi in these dynamics 🤦♀️ Couldn’t be me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 05:04 PM |
| 16 | "Wholesome" boomer meme. Hope she gets picked!Are they swingers? I don’t get it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Mood: disappointed but not surprisedI like it! Sounds classy to me 💝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Mood: disappointed but not surprisedGood thing you didn’t answer his question about what he was looking for. He would have just been a chameleon until he got laid 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 04:10 AM |
| 5 | "He actually expected me to love him unconditionally" 😂😂😂 - Gone GirlExactly. The only women characters we’re allowed to have, in their mind, is the typical Madonna/whre dynamic, where the woman is an angel if she ascribes to what men want or a whre if she does things on her own terms. Obviously, women are more complex than that. I’m so glad Gillian gave us a character women could commiserate with, even if Amy fell off the deep end, because I’m so sick of 2D tropes for women in Hollywood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 04:08 AM |
| 9 | "He actually expected me to love him unconditionally" 😂😂😂 - Gone GirlAnytime! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 04:04 AM |
| 70 | "He actually expected me to love him unconditionally" 😂😂😂 - Gone GirlOther notable quotes: "I forged the man of my dreams." "I drank canned beer watching Adam Sandler movies." OFF WITH HIS HEAD HONEY! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 02:13 AM |
| 112 | "He actually expected me to love him unconditionally" 😂😂😂 - Gone GirlOne thing I was really fascinated by in the villainous Amy was her acceptance of and respect for performance. She knows "Cool Girl" is an act and was ready to do it forever for her man, no matter how much she hated it. But when Nick stopped performing his role for her despite the fact that she did everything right, she felt like he welched on the deal and felt justified in punishing him for it. It's crazy and evil and not in any way justified... But it's not hypocritical. Nick performed a differ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 02:10 AM |
| 14 | Men have NEVER HAD IT EASIER than today. Always remember that.Preach! I’ve seen a lot of women providing, and the men I guess are protecting them from ever getting out of the house and having some free time 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 04:23 AM |
| 7 | FDS worked for me!Amazing job!! Congratulations!!👏🎊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 04:20 AM |
| 132 | Do not date men who ascribe to "sex positivity" or are "woke" about women who do sex work. If he supports sex work/porn, he supports human trafficking and abuse for his own gratification. You cannot have one without the other.Porn actresses have come forward and stated that they often don't consent to the things they have to film. Still, they are pressured into it, so they are basically getting raped too. It's hard to know if someone is actively consenting, when their livelihood is on the line. If he supports sex work, he supports human trafficking and abuse, which obviously makes him not high-value. You cannot have one without the other. The majority of sex workers would leave if they had the opportunity and wind up… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 10:20 PM |
| 2 | DO NOT DATE MEN WHO WATCH PORN! - If he support sex work, he support human trafficking and abuse. You cannot have one without the other.Porn actresses have come forward and stated that they often don't consent to the things they have to film. Still, they are pressured into it, so they are basically getting raped too. It's hard to know if someone is actively consenting, when their livelihood is on the line. If he supports sex work, he supports human trafficking and abuse, which obviously makes him not high-value. You cannot have one without the other. The majority of sex workers would leave if they had the opportunity and wind up… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 10:16 PM |
| 5 | From a Facebook group I recently joined called "kink shaming isn't oppression". I'm in a fair few groups on FB that vilify "vanillas" and openly excuse any and all behaviour so long as it's a "kink" 🤮This is a really well-thought out comment! I appreciate the time you put into it. Bookmarked for later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 05:43 PM |
| 4 | Study find low-skilled men more likely to be hostile towards women than men, and high-skilled men do not show this hostility. Just more proof that sexism and LV go hand in hand.Do you think it’s because they see women as a threat to their status? I mean because in order for men to be better/more valuable than women in their eyes, it’s hard also to reconcile your boss being female (i.e she’s more valuable to the company). It’s typical for LVM to lash out at women they see as a threat because of insecurity. Women have known this forever, but it’s good to see a study as proof. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 04:09 PM |
| 9 | iM nOt LiKe OtHeR gIrLsThe penis envy thing is always projection. Just ignore it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 04:06 PM |
| 5 | I’m a bi woman, and a pickme just violated meI would have just told him to piss off. Guys like this hate that women like other women, because they’d rather have you miserable stuck in a relationship with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 07:32 AM |
| 2 | I’m a bi woman, and a pickme just violated meI’m bi too and this is seriously my worst nightmare. I will never meet a girl at someone’s hotel or apartment because I’m afraid of being sex trafficked or raped. She completely betrayed your trust and knew you wouldn’t go for it otherwise. You should report her to tindr | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 07:28 AM |
| 3 | My husband is insecure (about losing his hair) and he takes it out on women. He showed zero signs of being like this in the past. I'm stuck married and can't deal with the nastiness pouring out of himThis toxicity will begin to damage you over time, even subconsciously. Put yourself first and demand he takes action towards improvement. If not, I’d call a divorce attorney. Sorry this is happening, love :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 07:25 AM |
| 5 | A lesbian who had to learn about men even though she doesn’t date them.Thank you!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:56 AM |
| 5 | A lesbian who had to learn about men even though she doesn’t date them.Would anyone mind sharing the title of the book? I'd like to read it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:53 AM |
| 12 | A lesbian who had to learn about men even though she doesn’t date them.I'm bi and you're welcome here! Nice to meet you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:50 AM |
| 7 | This is just sadRight? I mean she's right to feel cheated out of a nice proposal, but she shouldn't bite someone's head off for telling her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:47 AM |
| 14 | This is just sadShe's still defending him after he treated her like this? It's like a raccoon guarding trash! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:45 AM |
| 6 | The media will tell you that no matter how much you improve yourself, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally, you should keep the same low standards, when it comes to a partner. Also notice how it only works one way. It's going to be a no from me.I agree. I'm not saying he's ugly, but he's no Hemsworth. (pls don't kill me). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 04:27 AM |
| 8 | Much needed pep talkShe was spitting straight facts!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Anybody else sad to see their mother being a pick me?I've always wanted to be like my mother, but my biggest fear is to have her relationship. If I put up with the stuff she does, I would literally pull my hair out or have divorced by now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 02:59 AM |
| 6 | Saw this meme on ig today and it’s literally so true and so sad for my culture 😭 this explains all my dating problems. Guy on top left dates/marries Stacy’s. Guy on bottom left is LVM. And the ones we end up marrying.... well...What's a Stacy? I'm seriously confused. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 02:55 AM |
| 12 | She's calling Dave Ramsey for advice on how to help her WILLINGLY UNEMPLOYED HUSBAND pay back ALMOST $60K OF UNPAID CHILD SUPPORT to 3 OTHER WOMEN. Why would you even marry this kind of person??? 🤯Does it ever cross her mind that her life would be ten times easier without him? I mean, good lord, she could go on vacations around the world with that kind of money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 02:54 AM |
| 211 | The media will tell you that no matter how much you improve yourself, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally, you should keep the same low standards, when it comes to a partner. Also notice how it only works one way. It's going to be a no from me.Kevin James. I'm sorry, but no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 08:19 PM |
| 4 | This man gets it.Guarantee they downvoted him into oblivion. All of Reddit, besides this sub, remains a safespace for men, even supposedly female subreddits (r/redpillwomen). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 07:34 PM |
| 21 | Becoming really, truly at peace with the idea of being alone foreverI want in! We can play tennis on the weekends and make lemon bars! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 07:31 PM |
| 23 | Becoming really, truly at peace with the idea of being alone foreverI'm 19, but if I'm still single by the time I'm 35, I'm going to travel the world, live abroad, adopt from a shelter, start a cooking blog, go skydiving, buy a house, run a 5k, become a volunteer lifeguard, win a photography contest, learn another language, get my doctorates, etc. etc. Never make someone else the end all/be all of your life, because people start acting like they're irreplaceable. Put yourself first for once. This is not your practice life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 07:30 PM |
| 6 | Boyfriend got message from exGirl, if you're looking through his phone, you don't trust him. If there's no trust in your relationship, what are you trying to save? Do you love him sincerely or do you feel like you've already invested too much to back out now? Ask yourself this honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 12:51 AM |
| 45 | An interesting follow up to my last post where I’m “insensitive” for not letting this douche string me along for week after weekWith friends like this, who needs enemies? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 12:47 AM |
| 131 | Glad to be this man’s second choice. We went on a date back in October. This virus is bringing out the desperation in men"oof" translates to "can't believe your world doesn't revolve around me, although I've put absolutely no effort in." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 12:04 AM |
| 8 | Every every single excuse for treating women horribly and enslaving them for emotional labourYou're not his on-call therapist, although it sounds like he needs one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 12:00 AM |
| 21 | Imagine going out of your way to play your own damn self like thisYeah, in two months he’ll start acting like it was his idea and she’s just a silly woman 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 07:41 PM |
| 16 | So this happened.... I'm actually taking it as a compliment I am pissing these incels offThis guy is a troll. Same user DM'd me. We need like a wall of shame on this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 07:22 AM |
| 80 | And he’ll somehow still make her feel insecure about all 2 of her stretch marks as he tries to flirt with younger women.They’re just jealous she has a comedy career and they don’t. All men think they’re funny for god knows what reason 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Girl, are you UPS ? Because you're the whole package!Nope, not me! But thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Kobe is communicating his love to his wife by guiding her to find old gifts that he gifted her. He bought her Carrie's dress from Sex and the City, and a dress from The Notebook. that was her soulmate. wow, who’s chopping the onions?Taking my post down. Thanks for letting me know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 05:51 AM |
| 17 | NVM upset because I wouldn’t come over and fuck after the first date.Wow, imagine acting so entitled to someone else's body. This guy needs a therapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 05:48 AM |
| 318 | Jenna Jameson is recounting how she was groomed and trafficked into the sex industry and scrotes are having a meltdown in the comments. They’re always mad when the truth interrupts their fapping.Good for her! The comments are a complete shit show. LVM telling her she could have walked away (she was a child!), could have said no, that she's avoiding responsibility. She herself says that her father, a policeman, was all she had, and she feared losing him to prison. Her mother died when she was 3, but they have no compassion because they're literally porn sick. When the world is no longer dictated by men's libido, we will be in a better place indeed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:35 AM |
| 35 | Women are taught to put everyone before themselves. Men are taught the opposite.Right? What's that old saying - for every successful man, there's a woman behind him. As long as she's behind him and never in the spotlight, then it's ok, I guess. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Caption:’This is why I don’t take her out anymore’ bf complains of her taking a picture of her food 🙄Right??? He should just let her have a good time, damn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 01:51 AM |
| 1 | If you’re this bitter, it might be best to just remove yourself from the dating pool.I’m sure he’s a peach in real life, as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 01:43 AM |
| 25 | More women like me are choosing to be childfree. Is this the age of opting out?That’s an argument I’ve never understood. Who cares if the child has your dna, as long as they have your thoughts and ideas? Isn’t that more important? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 01:40 AM |
| 7 | More women like me are choosing to be childfree. Is this the age of opting out?You can do it! The best male role model isn’t always the father (mine wasn’t). Just make sure you have a great network of friends/family, so you can get a break now and again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 01:38 AM |
| 15 | Solidarity and support for our Egyptian Sisters- (r/TwoXChromosomes): Egypt is a hellhole and no one caresI agree. I used to be a practicing Muslim, but I have given up, mostly because the men are so damn controlling. My body is my body, and I’m not wearing anything I don’t want to just so you’re not attracted. I’ve been told to cover my wrists and ankles in 2020. This is not God, it’s insanity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 01:32 AM |
| 19 | You can get more money and respect as a prostitute 🙄Wtfffffff 🤦♀️ You deserve chocolate strawberries, champagne, and multiple orgasms. These type of guys are losers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 01:26 AM |
| 10 | You can get more money and respect as a prostitute 🙄Your worth to me = how much sex you can give to me. Just say you’re trash and go | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 01:24 AM |
| 11 | I saw this and thought of FDS! I hate it when men are thought of as children. Like seriously, youre a grown man. Parent yourself.IKR? And then people post them on Facebook like “it’s just my opinion!” It’s my opinion you’re an idiot, Dave 😪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 01:22 AM |
| 12 | Yes. Yes. Yes.This is such a great analysis, I can't believe you don't have a thousand comments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 11:16 PM |
| 8 | Yes. Yes. Yes.The truth is society shames women for being attracted to women (outside of the male gaze), because they can't fathom a world in which women don't exist to serve/please men. Most hate crimes perpetuated against lesbians are by men, worldwide. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 11:13 PM |
| 8 | Yes. Yes. Yes.If women hit walls in righteous anger, there'd be no buildings anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Yes. Yes. Yes.Did she use it just for sex, or like go on dates with it? It's a crazy concept, haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 11:10 PM |
| 5 | Yes. Yes. Yes.Exactly. I've started to intuitively psychoanalyze other people's relationships, just from what I hear them complain about. When I meet their spouse in person, I can almost guess what the person will say or do. It's that good old armchair psychology. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 11:09 PM |
| 13 | Yes. Yes. Yes.It’s insane how much homoeroticism is encouraged with women if it’s for the male gaze, but discouraged in men as being unmasculine. And yet, most women live in a culture where men prioritize other men’s thoughts,feelings, and beliefs above their own. How do men bond over misogyny influenced by tradition, and yet also complain about what traditional gender roles expect of them? Make it make sense 😪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Every time I see a disgusting male habit on r/relationships or r/datingadvice and the woman says: “What should I do? Except leave him? 😅🤡” Please continue enjoying your manbaby I guess.You're out here preaching and I say amennnnnnn!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 06:30 PM |
| 11 | Do you ever just wonder why you still like men...First search says he’s a “far-right, white nationalist podcaster and Youtuber” who is known for his promotion of conspiracy theories ,eugenics, and white supremacy views. He blames women solely for all adverse childhood experiences that happen to children and is quoted as saying, “deep down I do not believe that there are any really good parents out there - the same way that I do not believe there were any really good doctors in the 10th century.” And I’m taking family planning advice from him a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Dating in college - a waste of time?Advancing your career will put you right in the dating pool you want to be just starting out. Just don’t drag your feet, when you graduate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Nothing wrong with just wanting to hook up, but low value males don’t even make an effort to get you to find the attractive. Why do they think it’s okay to speak to us like this?I’m not sure you can be high value and constantly engage in hook up culture. The same goes for men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 12:05 PM |
| 3 | I hope he sees this and chooses herI’m going to need her definition of extremely high. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 12:01 PM |
| 29 | Every time I see a disgusting male habit on r/relationships or r/datingadvice and the woman says: “What should I do? Except leave him? 😅🤡” Please continue enjoying your manbaby I guess.This guy I met in my pysc class: I only f with a girl who can cook and clean like my momma. Me: How do you not cook for yourself? Do you even clean your house? How have you lived this far? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:54 AM |
| 92 | Wise words. As long as he's not his own worst enemy, education and ambition go a long way when determining the quality of a person.An aside here, look at the person's situation case by case. It's classist to assume everyone has the means to an education. Is he taking opportunities when they come to him, or is he sitting on his hands waiting for a hand-out? Does he want better for himself and for you, or is he okay with just getting by? Ask yourself these things before commitment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:48 AM |
| 22 | Every time I see a disgusting male habit on r/relationships or r/datingadvice and the woman says: “What should I do? Except leave him? 😅🤡” Please continue enjoying your manbaby I guess.Thought I was on the wrong sub for a second, lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:43 AM |
| 25 | I'm not Bob the Builder. The only "project" I'm working on will be myself.Typical. If a LVM can't match your level, he'll try to bring you down to his. Congratulations on all your success - you earned it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:42 AM |
| 102 | Let's support each other's dreams and root for each other's success!Side note: solidarity does not mean that you shouldn't have boundaries, or because someone is a woman that they're entitled to take advantage of you. The media (rom-coms, tv-shows, etc.) often tries to pit women against each other, as if only one of us will succeed, and that worn-out narrative needs to go. I will clap for you if you got a new job, a new car, a new man. I refuse to bring another woman down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 05:15 PM |
| 9 | Just a reminder that being a “girly” girl is totally awesome and valid and to shame girls for being feminine is to give in to a patriarchal culture that demonizes femininity because it’s largely associated with womanhood in a world that hates women. We can be feminine for ourselves, as well!This is a sub for women and you are welcome here! 💝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Just a reminder that being a “girly” girl is totally awesome and valid and to shame girls for being feminine is to give in to a patriarchal culture that demonizes femininity because it’s largely associated with womanhood in a world that hates women. We can be feminine for ourselves, as well!Yay!!! 👏💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 04:49 PM |
| 10 | When looking for a partner, men is encouraged to aim high and questioned when he settles, while women is "advised" to settle and criticized when she aims high. What the fuck is this bullshit.I’ll be a single mom and have kids by myself, before I marry a low value guy who I know wouldn’t lift a finger to help me anyways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:34 AM |
| 6 | When looking for a partner, men is encouraged to aim high and questioned when he settles, while women is "advised" to settle and criticized when she aims high. What the fuck is this bullshit.They ultimately want you to choose them without them putting in any effort, no matter how much mental gymnastics it takes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:33 AM |
| 4 | When looking for a partner, men is encouraged to aim high and questioned when he settles, while women is "advised" to settle and criticized when she aims high. What the fuck is this bullshit.👏👏👏💝👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:30 AM |
| 12 | When looking for a partner, men is encouraged to aim high and questioned when he settles, while women is "advised" to settle and criticized when she aims high. What the fuck is this bullshit.Really spot on analysis! This should be a post in itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:28 AM |
| 23 | When looking for a partner, men is encouraged to aim high and questioned when he settles, while women is "advised" to settle and criticized when she aims high. What the fuck is this bullshit.You don’t lie! I’ve seen beautiful women be cheated on by husbands that were frankly not attractive, and they always cheated with a women who was nowhere near as a catch. I think it was done mostly out of spite 😪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:25 AM |
| 14 | When looking for a partner, men is encouraged to aim high and questioned when he settles, while women is "advised" to settle and criticized when she aims high. What the fuck is this bullshit.Girlll, I know both guys you’re talking about 😂 My thirsty self needs to log off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:22 AM |
| 19 | When looking for a partner, men is encouraged to aim high and questioned when he settles, while women is "advised" to settle and criticized when she aims high. What the fuck is this bullshit.Yeah the whole “if you’re out of his league, he’ll treat you better” trope is bs. If you’re out of his league, most of the time, his insecurity starts to show and he treats you worse. He might even start to neg you and tear down your self-esteem to get you to stay 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:21 AM |
| 8 | Just a reminder that being a “girly” girl is totally awesome and valid and to shame girls for being feminine is to give in to a patriarchal culture that demonizes femininity because it’s largely associated with womanhood in a world that hates women. We can be feminine for ourselves, as well!Yes, I think part of the “not like other girls” thing can sometimes be women tearing other women down for trying to be feminine. We should all just support each other in doing us for us, and there’d be a lot less toxicity. LVM thrive when we compete, sadly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:16 AM |
| 42 | Just a reminder that being a “girly” girl is totally awesome and valid and to shame girls for being feminine is to give in to a patriarchal culture that demonizes femininity because it’s largely associated with womanhood in a world that hates women. We can be feminine for ourselves, as well!Wear what makes you feel comfortable! Don’t endanger yourself for beauty standards 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:14 AM |
| 6 | Membership increasing like crazyI got confirmation for the account and can comment on the site now 💞 just letting you know | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:12 AM |
| 8 | Julie Nolke hits it straight in the headTop comment from the video: Her: “He said he has to work on himself right now. He said he doesn’t deserve me, and he can’t ask me to wait for him to be the man that I deserve.” Me: “He’s just not that into you.” Her: “You don’t know that! How do you know that?” Me: “Because those are all lines used in the movie He’s Just Not That Into You.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 06:07 AM |
| 5 | Julie Nolke hits it straight in the headThis was amazing!! Thank you for posting 😂👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 06:06 AM |
| 5 | A friend suggested FWB. Cut him off?Yes!!! There is no question. That’s just disrespectful that he formed a relationship with you under the pretense of friendship, just so he could spin it on and get a quick lay. You owe him nothing 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 05:58 AM |
| 24 | Why do men act like they hate you?Because they hate themselves and they project that onto you, because they think since women are more in tune emotionatally we should be their therapist 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 05:55 AM |
| 36 | Just a reminder that being a “girly” girl is totally awesome and valid and to shame girls for being feminine is to give in to a patriarchal culture that demonizes femininity because it’s largely associated with womanhood in a world that hates women. We can be feminine for ourselves, as well!spot on! You know your labels, sis 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 05:54 AM |
| 4 | Hard Hearted Hannah - Julie LondonMy name's Hannah, and I love this song lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 04:19 AM |
| 6 | FDS is a life savior - thank youAw, you're so sweet! I love speaking with you too. I think change starts when women have each other's back globally and refuse to allowing men to pit us against each other. When women as individuals focus on improvement and all advocate for receiving better treatment, we'll see a societal change. Men will have no choice but to adjust to half the population in every culture moving in a different direction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 04:06 AM |
| 443 | Just a reminder that being a “girly” girl is totally awesome and valid and to shame girls for being feminine is to give in to a patriarchal culture that demonizes femininity because it’s largely associated with womanhood in a world that hates women. We can be feminine for ourselves, as well!Also, just because you're not super feminine in the traditional sense does not mean you're any less deserving of chivalry or respect. This post is in no way anti any kind of woman. We are all diverse and beautiful in our range of femininity. Don't let them put us into boxes. Remember, what you wear doesn't make you high value, but how you carry yourself. You don't need to be a millionaire to dress and be treated well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 03:48 AM |
| 10 | FDS is a life savior - thank youIt's not much better culturally over here, sis. But I'm glad we have laws in place that protect our rights as women. Western men constantly compare women across cultures, prizing the most submissive one as the "best", but they eventually will run her over too for someone else. I say we do us, for us. Our actions should benefit women first, and the effects from those boundaries will ultimately benefit mankind in the long run. When women put themselves last, they are consistently taken for granted… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 03:38 AM |
| 10 | Annika Sörenstam is a Swedish professional golfer and is regarded as one of the best female golfers in history. Before stepping away from competitive golf at the end 2008 season, she had won 90 international tournaments as a professional, making her the female golfer with the most wins to her name." Sorenstam’s ANNIKA Foundation, which she started in 2007 near the end of her career, focuses on supporting girls’ and women’s golf globally. Junior and intercollegiate tournaments on four continents bear her name, the most recent being the ANNIKA Invitational at Mission Hills in Dongguan, China, played on the Annika Course, which she designed. Between the LPGA Tour and other international play, she won 90 tournaments, 10 of them majors. She was inducted into the World Golf Hall of Fame while h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 03:17 AM |
| 30 | Just wanted to say, I’ve got your back.Good for you! His approval is worth nothing, and I will never bash women for putting themselves first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 03:01 AM |
| 4 | FDS is a life savior - thank youI'm glad you're here! Thank you for sharing your story. It's funny how low expectations for dating and expectations for dating are enforced across cultures. It's up to us to keep the bar high! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 02:58 AM |
| 87 | Membership increasing like crazyAll my girlfriends said that they noticed a change in me, ever since I started lurking on this sub a couple of months ago. I recommended that they just read a couple of chapters of the handbook, and one of my girlfriends has already broken up with her low value boyfriend! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 02:55 AM |
| 7 | Why do women degrade themselves online?Yes, and like with most mental illnesses caused by trauma, society quickly tries to usher in shame, causing the person to self-harm even more. The toxic cycle really needs to stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 02:25 AM |
| 264 | LOUDER FOR THE LVM IN THE BACKThe “females” bit always triggers me. It’s dehumanizing. they’re intentionally not saying woman/women, because to do so and then follow up with this nonsense makes them sound degenerate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 06:41 PM |
| 24 | Block, block, blockShe’s so gorgeous! Where can we follow her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 06:38 PM |
| 43 | She had me in the first half 😂So women “date potential”, and are left holding the bag, when he used your time and energy to level up and leave to another woman. You are not Bob the Builder! The only person you need to work on/invest in now is yourself. He has the same 24 hours the rest of us do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:18 PM |
| 97 | When you call him out and he calls you crazy“You sound violent” sounds so off? Where the hell did he pull that from? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:33 AM |
| 11 | Tinder LingoI want you to sit down and go through my matches with me. Then, we can throw the phone into the dumpster and light it on fire 😂👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:31 AM |
| 26 | Tinder LingoI always ask “why are you on here if you’re going to put in as much effort as a potted plant?” They normally don’t respond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:30 AM |
| 35 | Tinder LingoOh my god 🤭😪 I feel so bad for us as women. The bar is in hell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:29 AM |
| 29 | This accurately describes our dating pool in 2020:We all make mistakes 😪 live and learn, queens | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:24 AM |
| 19 | The Strong Black Woman Trope, Explained -" The strong black woman is only celebrated when she's serving other" Time to use it for themselves 💕You said it! Black women living in luxury all 2020 and for the rest of time 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:53 AM |
| 42 | The Strong Black Woman Trope, Explained -" The strong black woman is only celebrated when she's serving other" Time to use it for themselves 💕Yes! Society has a fetish to see black women suffer and loves to see these characters "alright" or "strong" at the end to absolve them of any guilt. It's a no harm, no foul fallacy, which is in no way history. We deserve to be treated as ladies, as queens, and as women just like everyone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:24 AM |
| 2 | DON'T chase a manShare with me please! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 01:29 AM |
| 79 | Why do women degrade themselves online?You're not alone. Hypersexuality as a side effect of trauma or as a means to self-harm needs to be talked about more often. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 12:36 AM |
| 32 | Ladies, I present exhibit A - the Friendswithbenefitsasaurus. Abundant in urban areas, he is a common sub-species of the Loserasaurus. Complete disengagement is the only way to stay safe from this species.Has this man ever known shame? Serious question. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 12:34 AM |
| 51 | America’s First Female Cruise Captain Travels the World With Her Adorable Sphynx Cat!Cruise captain, so it's a ship. I'm sure she just lets him roam around, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 12:25 AM |
| 485 | This accurately describes our dating pool in 2020:"She was a lawyer. He was a sandwhich. Can I make it anymore obvious?" - sorry, I just had to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 12:24 AM |
| 147 | America’s First Female Cruise Captain Travels the World With Her Adorable Sphynx Cat!Bug, her sphynx, lives on the go with Instagram-famous cruise captain Kate McCue, who often features the feline on her feed. McCue herself has a pretty impressive resume beyond being a social media star. According to The Telegraph, McCue has worked for cruise lines for about 13 years, and will soon take on Celebrity Cruises’ new flagship, Celebrity Edge, as captain. On top of this, McCue became the first female cruise ship captain in America, according to The Telegraph. “Everyone has a stereotyp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 12:04 AM |
| 41 | If he's not treating you like you're "the one", then let that man go.I don't like divorce, but I hate seeing women being disrespected after they've given their best efforts more. Life's too short to be half-loved. If the guy that's with you isn't a keeper, then stop holding onto him. Also, a ring doesn't guarantee happiness. Who is the kind of person that's giving it to you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 11:47 PM |
| 17 | Those couples on dating sites looking for a "third" 🤮Yeah, and poly relationships are toxic and never last. Every one I've seen, the two people are insecure and like they only have their own best sexual interest in mind. I'm good, honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 10:53 PM |
| 18 | Those couples on dating sites looking for a "third" 🤮Yep. Just because someone's bisexual doesn't mean they want to sleep with this loser and his partner. half of the time, the wife is better looking anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 10:52 PM |
| 35 | Those couples on dating sites looking for a "third" 🤮Society teaches women to fear divorce more than disrespect. I hate to see it, personally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 10:50 PM |
| 3 | Two reasons why following the FDS principles saves you from scrotes:You're good here! I've noticed things in your comment in my own life. I meant personally, in real life, I don't give guys dating advice if I think they're disingenuous, just because I don't want them to manipulate other women for a quick lay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 10:49 PM |
| 271 | I can't even get a text back? Best believe she deserves all of this.In advance, I know a lot of comments will probably say that this is materialistic or that the baby is the gift, but I think this is a sweet gesture, if it's not expected. No two women are the same. If this makes his wife happy but it's not what you'd like to have then let your husband know. This man should love his wife the best way he believes & let his wife be the judge if that's the best way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 10:37 PM |
| 16 | Most Men Cheat. Understand This. Then, Know You Deserve BETTER!I agree 100%. The caveat to me is most gay men I’ve met are HV and make good parents. They can’t internalize misogyny as far, because we raise boys to base their value on how many women they can sleep with/how to treat women as dispensable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 09:46 PM |
| 7 | Men are the BIGGEST hypocrites🤣🙄Men in the church act like marriage is owed to them by some divine right, when it’s really a privilege. 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 09:39 PM |
| 3 | Asking if I live alone in the first thirty seconds of getting to know a woman is creepy as shit. And this isn’t even on a dating site.Facebook is not the place to shoot your shot. My grandmother is on there 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 09:35 PM |
| 27 | Asking if I live alone in the first thirty seconds of getting to know a woman is creepy as shit. And this isn’t even on a dating site.I just say I live with 3 other people. He doesn’t need to know what he doesn’t need to know. My mother taught me when I was young, if anyone asks if someone else is in the house, to say yes and that they just can’t come to the phone right now. Never evade the question or say that you’re alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 09:34 PM |
| 55 | KHLOE THE CLOWNShe could have any guy she wanted 🤦♀️ Hell, she could sleep with the bodyguard. I just don’t get it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 09:31 PM |
| 5 | 5 years after her run, 1972, it became officially legal for women to runMe too. I’ll try to find some! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 09:09 PM |
| 12 | 5 years after her run, 1972, it became officially legal for women to runOh my god, a whole hour before him 😂👏 that’s not even close. She’s have to be crawling for him to catch up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 09:02 PM |
| 17 | 5 years after her run, 1972, it became officially legal for women to runRight? Imagine being controlled solely by your sex drive - embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 09:01 PM |
| 58 | DON'T chase a manThe gloves, the fit, the confidence! She came for their lives 👏🤭💝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 07:44 PM |
| 9 | Women pay to listen to a male dating coach telling them to split the bill, yikes!Drag him girl! 👏💝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 07:07 PM |
| 15 | Women pay to listen to a male dating coach telling them to split the bill, yikes!I’m not taking dating advice that’s supposed to lead to long-term commitment from someone who’s not even married 🤦♀️ These women are wasting their money | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 07:05 PM |
| 12 | Women pay to listen to a male dating coach telling them to split the bill, yikes!Wow you’re comment is woke af 👏 Men really think sex is cheap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 07:01 PM |
| 8 | Women pay to listen to a male dating coach telling them to split the bill, yikes!If we’re friends, I’m halving or paying to treat them. If he wants to be more than friends, he’s paying, period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 07:01 PM |
| 11 | I'm not for everybody, and I'm not trying to be. LVM's lazy ways get them none from me.I don’t think women should be shamed for having casual sex with attractive men that she likes and that have already invested in her with gifts, money, etc if she doesn’t want something long term (maybe that’s a different definition of casual). Men love the catch 22 where they’re an alpha if they sleep around, but women are “used” if they do the same. LVM hate that sex is more readily accessible to women. Purity culture is used to keep women in line, while men sow their wild oats, as they say. I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 06:59 PM |
| 22 | If you make the first move he will settle for you even if he thinks less of youSounds kind of gay to me 🤭 he should just date men, if he’s obsessed with their perception. If he was obsessed with women’s perception, he’d learn to cook, dance, and be a good partner or something 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 06:54 PM |
| 12 | If you make the first move he will settle for you even if he thinks less of youI hope no woman 7,8,9, or 1,000 ever goes out with this idiot 🤦♀️ Women’s time and emotions are not a game, and he’s acting like some women are worth less than others. That’s not it at all! If a woman is a pick-me, it’s not because she’s not valuable, it’s because she hasn’t recognized her own internal sense of value yet. This guy can jump off a cliff | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 06:51 PM |
| 22 | Two reasons why following the FDS principles saves you from scrotes:“Why are you still single?” - what even is this question? We’re on a date, so I’m assuming we’re both single and trying to meet someone. I don’t want my date to sound like my mother 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 06:48 PM |
| 39 | Two reasons why following the FDS principles saves you from scrotes:If they’re nice guys, please don’t give them tips, girl I beg you. It’s easier to avoid them like the plague and they never put in any effort into self-improvement unless it gets them laid 😪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 06:46 PM |
| 29 | Two reasons why following the FDS principles saves you from scrotes:“My heart goes out” does not equal “I don’t feel sorry for her” at all. This guy just hates women because he isn’t getting any. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 06:44 PM |
| 42 | Middle aged man angry that his young fwb is dating other guysWho lied and told older men they were attractive? The most sexist, unkempt, and classless men I’ve ever met have always turned out to be over 35. They’re charming at first because they want to get some, but then they start acting like they’re doing you a favor by seeing you??? I can’t 😪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 06:43 PM |
| 2 | If a guy who’s courting you is complaining about wearing a mask right now 🚩 🚩I see only facts 😪👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 06:35 PM |
| 17 | Those couples on dating sites looking for a "third" 🤮My heart 🥺❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 06:33 PM |
| 37 | Those couples on dating sites looking for a "third" 🤮Omg, she won! 👏😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 05:52 PM |
| 12 | Better known as "I will disappoint you", "Let me ruin your life", and " “i’ll be Burger King and you’ll be McDonald’s. i’ll have it my way and you’ll be loving it". Just no.I got you, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 05:23 AM |
| 32 | Okay... I’ll stay singleHe's "professor" of Clown Academy. Sit down, moron. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Conversation like this makes my vagina as dry as the Sahara. Do better, men. Just do better.Please, god no. I can't stand much more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Always keep an eye out for negging! A guy telling you his preference on how you should look or wear makeup, especially on the first date, is a huge red flag. You dress for no one but yourself, period.I'm so sorry that happened, love. I honestly feel like LVM get off on wasting our time, whether it be on apps or in real life. They literally have nothing to lose, since they've nothing going for them. I've learned to avoid OLD like the plague now. Searching for HVM on there is like looking for a needle in a haystack. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 04:26 AM |
| 17 | Men are the BIGGEST hypocrites🤣🙄I've been looking for the lie for twenty minutes, and still can't find it. Sounds like you speak the truth, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 04:12 AM |
| 6 | Be wary of LVM that prey on women with low self-esteem. Always watch for consistency: does he consistently take your feelings into account or does he pretend to listen? Does he possess any emotional intelligence or do you constantly have to tell him how you feel?Women are maxxed out on doing all the emotional labor of a relationship. If he's not communicating properly or you feel like you're begging him to speak to you, then end it or you run the risk of ending up with someone you have nothing in common with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 03:56 AM |
| 42 | I'm not for everybody, and I'm not trying to be. LVM's lazy ways get them none from me.Also, I think this hat can be interpreted as shaming women for casual sex, which I'm not promoting in the slightest. This is just a personal thought, no shade at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 01:42 AM |
| 6 | Opt out of the LVM's tricksExactly. That's why so many BLM supporters are against "performance activism", because it just encourages people to hide behind a black square virtue signaling without putting in any actual effort to change. I'm sorry you had to deal with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 12:37 AM |
| 6 | Opt out of the LVM's tricksHe sounds 14, with the emotional maturity to match. Stay strong, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 12:35 AM |
| 10 | Opt out of the LVM's tricksYes, always call out silent treatment. That is emotional manipulation to get you to walk on eggshells and apologize (for what? you did nothing wrong.) just to ease the tension. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 12:32 AM |
| 23 | Her mind is set for sureI'm dead, oh my god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:56 PM |
| 38 | Her mind is set for sureFinish him, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:55 PM |
| 14 | The Pickmesha CycleDrag themmmmmm!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:55 PM |
| 13 | A degree is never going to get up and leave you one day, queens.Love is really, really blind sometimes. I hope she wakes up, before she ends up with a lot of regret. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:51 PM |
| 14 | A degree is never going to get up and leave you one day, queens.Oh my gosh, that is insane and so selfish. What is wrong with men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:51 PM |
| 11 | A degree is never going to get up and leave you one day, queens.Preach! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:50 PM |
| 26 | This! And can we please stop having society try to convince us to let a man use us like a walking sex doll in the name of “sex positivity”?I would honestly rather take someone who's homeless out to eat. They'd need it more and at least maybe show gratefulness, instead of acting completely entitled. The bar for men today is in hell, ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:23 PM |
| 20 | A degree is never going to get up and leave you one day, queens.NOOOOooo, that's terrible to hear as a teaching assistant. My skin is crawling right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:17 PM |
| 38 | A degree is never going to get up and leave you one day, queens.Was he on drugs? That's absolutely crazy. The only thing men bring to the table is their audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:16 PM |
| 23 | A degree is never going to get up and leave you one day, queens.Wow, it sounds like LVM are just taking advantage of your good nature left and right. Strengthen your female friendships and find guys that value you for you, which obviously includes supporting your career. Thank you for sharing, as well. Stay strong, love! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:15 PM |
| 23 | A degree is never going to get up and leave you one day, queens.Everytime I hear one of these stories, I get stronger in my resolve to remain independent. Good for you, queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:13 PM |
| 52 | How are LVM always this delusional? 😂You give an ugly guy a chance, and he starts acting like you're the ugly one. Pleaseeee. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:08 PM |
| 29 | How are LVM always this delusional? 😂Self loathing is a hell of a drug. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:07 PM |
| 13 | How are LVM always this delusional? 😂Um what? He looks like someone I'd see outside of a gas station and she looks like she's ready to take grad photos. I can't anymore, for real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:07 PM |
| 29 | This! And can we please stop having society try to convince us to let a man use us like a walking sex doll in the name of “sex positivity”?What??? Tell me you're joking. If he can't pay for his, I'm paying for mine and getting up and leaving. The audacity of men is unparalleled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:05 PM |
| 15 | This! And can we please stop having society try to convince us to let a man use us like a walking sex doll in the name of “sex positivity”?Don't hurt their feelings! /s They're fragile man babies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:04 PM |
| 26 | This! And can we please stop having society try to convince us to let a man use us like a walking sex doll in the name of “sex positivity”?It's really sad that sarcasm needed to be added. Our world today is screwed for women and rigged for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:03 PM |
| 23 | This! And can we please stop having society try to convince us to let a man use us like a walking sex doll in the name of “sex positivity”?The sad thing is they're perfectly capable of improving, but they refuse to. Therefore, I deny them any pity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:02 PM |
| 42 | This! And can we please stop having society try to convince us to let a man use us like a walking sex doll in the name of “sex positivity”?Lesbians date women and I rarely see them complaining about how hard it is to date women or be rejected. They just move on, since they don't have their self-esteem tied up in how much sex they're getting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:01 PM |
| 8 | Why does society treat lazy fathers as quirky or endearing? If the shoe was on the other foot, this woman would be getting bashed online. Hold men and women to the same standard as parents, period!Couldn't be me. It's sad to see women's good nature being taken advantage of though. We're all human and we all get tired. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 09:59 PM |
| 6 | Why does society treat lazy fathers as quirky or endearing? If the shoe was on the other foot, this woman would be getting bashed online. Hold men and women to the same standard as parents, period!I have seen this with my own eyes, as well. They begin to treat their wife like they would their mother, almost as if they don't see her as their partner/gf anymore. The day to night change in men makes me feel like I'm in the Twilight Zone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 09:58 PM |
| 12 | Why does society treat lazy fathers as quirky or endearing? If the shoe was on the other foot, this woman would be getting bashed online. Hold men and women to the same standard as parents, period!Wow, good for you. Women are strong as hell. Women have been taking care of everything since before time. I don't know why we regard men, especially low value ones, as completely essential. They're just not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 09:57 PM |
| 11 | Why does society treat lazy fathers as quirky or endearing? If the shoe was on the other foot, this woman would be getting bashed online. Hold men and women to the same standard as parents, period!Women with internalized misogyny are the worst. I feel bad for them, but they still push sexism and guilt women, so men don't have to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 09:56 PM |
| 7 | Why does society treat lazy fathers as quirky or endearing? If the shoe was on the other foot, this woman would be getting bashed online. Hold men and women to the same standard as parents, period!You ladies are so woke, and it's healing and validating me. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 09:55 PM |
| 29 | Self respect must always come first, never stand to be treated like this!He's still negging her and calling her ugly!!?! His own wife?! I'm just so done with LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 06:00 PM |
| 1 | I’m so tired of Reddit y’all.WOW, I really need this sub. I've been trying to apply everything I learned here to f/f relationships, and some of it works and some of it doesn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:58 PM |
| 16 | Disgusting misogynist wants to FORCE and MANIPULATE his wife to be at home despite the fact that she DOESN'T LIKE being a SAHMproviding us all a headache, lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:44 PM |
| 23 | Disgusting misogynist wants to FORCE and MANIPULATE his wife to be at home despite the fact that she DOESN'T LIKE being a SAHMExactly. Men have a Kodak moment view of what it takes to be a parent, which is all the fun things people think about when they're planning to have kids. The issue is, when the hard things come up, it immediately becomes the mother's problem. If she asks for help, she's nagging. Men investing in their child's well-being emotionally and physically would obviously be too much to ask apparently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:44 PM |
| 18 | Disgusting misogynist wants to FORCE and MANIPULATE his wife to be at home despite the fact that she DOESN'T LIKE being a SAHMThis behavior really demonstrates that he's a narcissist. He cared more about remaining in control of your mother, than he did about your physical wellbeing. You could've burned the house down or drowned, God forbid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:41 PM |
| 15 | Disgusting misogynist wants to FORCE and MANIPULATE his wife to be at home despite the fact that she DOESN'T LIKE being a SAHMHe sounds like a selfish prick. It's not your job to do 100% of the childcare, the baby is half his kid too. You're already doing the bulk of it, anyway. I think his ego is threatened by you achieving even a minute form of independence from his view of what domestic bliss should be and he's lashing out. This is a major red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:40 PM |
| 9 | This tweet makes me want to live to see 2035, haha.Lol, same. Marie Kondo would be a FDS queen, because she wouldn't appreciate low-effort, messy, unproductive men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:57 AM |
| 17 | Ashnikko - Hi, It's Me (Official Video)Wow, thanks for sharing! This song is such a bop and speaks to a lot of what women share on this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:55 AM |
| 5 | Thoughts on Evaluating A Man....I appreciate that you are religious/Christian and are sharing on this sub! I wish more women in the church today would also read your post. Men value what they have to work for, and anything worth having is worth working hard for. All we can do is continue to demonstrate value in our everyday value, out of respect for others and ourselves, and let the chips fall where they may. A powerful, self-assured woman is one that is hard to deny. Thank you for your comment and God bless! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:53 AM |
| 3 | Thought you sisters would appreciate thisExactly. The worst thing you can do is get into a relationship just because it's the thing to do or it's expected. Wait for someone who value you physically AND intellectually. Thanks for your comment! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:50 AM |
| 6 | Thought you sisters would appreciate thisLove this! I believe when women validate themselves, they build a hedge around them against LVM's manipulation tactics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:48 AM |
| 26 | This is gospel. A "feminism" or "equality" that encourages the degradation or gaslighting of women is misogyny in disguise.Exactly. If their feminism is not promoting the wellbeing of women over men's feelings, then what even is the point of it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:45 AM |
| 25 | Reddit is "men" at all female-dominated subs:I'm so sorry that happened. I think metoo has really caused a restlessness in women that are tired of having their pain ignored or gaslighted. We'll validate ourselves, until the rest of the world comes around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:22 AM |
| 31 | Is a man that’s “popular” with women a lvm?I try to avoid guys that women want, because most men that are valued like this let it get to their head and begin to act arrogant. They treat their girlfriends like they're dispensable, and like there's always someone else in line. That's not love, it's cruel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 05:01 AM |
| 24 | Just gonna leave this here.....Come on babe, that is so unsexy when you talk about your past trauma. Now I'm going to feel guilty when I traumatize you further by gaslighting you with my notallmen bs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 04:59 AM |
| 16 | Just gonna leave this here.....Wigs snatched. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 04:57 AM |
| 3 | FDS While Being Married to an LVMOf course! Things will get better, as you put yourself first. Hang in there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 04:31 AM |
| 3 | He only lives in Williamsburg...is that suddenly really so far away? Did he find a better option and is using this as an excuseGirl, forget him. What a loser for real. A guy that really wants to have sex with you would walk 1,000 miles. He can't even get a taxi. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 04:13 AM |
| 15 | The male expectation of women to be completely shavedFrench women do it au natural on nude beaches that I've seen. If I like it, I'm not changing, unless he agrees to completely wax everything as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 04:11 AM |
| 96 | Love seeing stuff like this👏🏽So true! This new generation of women on tik tok are woke af. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 04:10 AM |
| 35 | Rumor has it we're about to be banned and cement Reddit's reputation of being a place for misogynistic views only. It's been a wild ride, but looks like scrotes became too triggered that we are using their own breeding ground platform to promote ideas that protect and benefit women.Yes there is! Just message the moderators. There's also a new website pinned at the top of the sub that you can become a member of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 04:08 AM |
| 7 | My rape apologist, victim blaming brother is gaslighting me to my entire family. Looking for support ♥️Sounds like he's honestly hiding something he's done or feels guilty for. No one lashes out over someone defending women, if they don't feel called out. I say stick to your guns, if it doesn't put you into too bad of a position. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 04:05 AM |
| 9 | FDS While Being Married to an LVMYou are very brave to be this honest with yourself. I hope one day to have this level of self awareness myself. Life's too short not to be happy with someone who's actually deeply in love with you. There are a lot of posts on this sub about how to plan for divorce/set aside a nest egg, that you should look at. Good luck, love! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 04:02 AM |
| 41 | This sub helped me realize I'm not stuck-up or old-fashionedYour post is everything I've been thinking up to this point in my life - thank you so much for putting it into words! You're never prudish for denying someone sex. It's your body and your choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 02:57 AM |
| 263 | Reddit is "men" at all female-dominated subs:Men: "Well I had to split the check once so, I guess we're equals." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 12:13 AM |
| 2 | IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED!ARE YOU HAVING TROUBLE? - Hey ladies!!! I dm'd on reddit like they said and got the code. When I followed the link to the website and signed up with the code, I got added as a user and can now comment on the FDS website, and not only view content. Just message the moderators on reddit for the code :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:56 PM |
| 3 | IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED!I dm'd on reddit like they said and got the code. When I followed the link to the website and signed up with the code, I got added as a user and can now comment. Just message the moderators on reddit for the code :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:54 PM |
| 7 | IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED!I dm'd on reddit like they said and got the code. When I followed the link to the website and signed up with the code, I got added as a user and can now comment. Just message the moderators on reddit for the code :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:54 PM |
| 11 | IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED!Sent on Reddit! Thanks!!!! 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 06:59 AM |
| 1 | The only man I loveI am! My username is hannah_01 (not very original, I know). I’ll try to find you and add you as a friend 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 05:56 AM |
| 6 | Please follow r/FemaleDatingStrategy on Twitter!Thank you! 💞💝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 05:23 AM |
| 2 | The only man I loveAre you on the FDS discord by any chance? You have the exact same username as one of the moderators | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 05:22 AM |
| 10 | HANDBOOK TO DOWNLOAD - Protect your knowledge.I joined Discord too. Hopefully we'll all migrate there, eventually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 03:07 AM |
| 8 | HANDBOOK TO DOWNLOAD - Protect your knowledge.You're a gem!!!! I immediately downloaded. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 03:07 AM |
| 7 | This sub is going to get banned soon. It’s time to leave Reddit ladies.EVERYONE, use the discord server! Once you get verified, it's all the same content! Please come and join us! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 03:05 AM |
| 25 | Why do they compare FDS to other hateful subs?Is this sub being taken down? I’m confused | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 02:34 AM |
| 4 | I will never ever give up my career and depend financially on a man.I hope my post didn’t come across as critical. I said no shade on mothers/SAHM at all. My mom was a sahm and I know firsthand it’s really difficult. I’m not saying being a working mother is harder either. I regret if it came across that way. I just resist the idea that there’s only one way to be a mother, which is what men who want to settle expect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 02:11 AM |
| 12 | LMAO COULD NEVERRRRR BE METhe hairlines... oh my god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 12:33 AM |
| 11 | This sub is going to get banned soon. It’s time to leave Reddit ladies.I love you for this comment! You speak a lot of truth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 12:19 AM |
| 10 | I will never ever give up my career and depend financially on a man.thank you for commenting, as well! I definitely think society values women based on their productivity, rather than as individuals with their own value and merit. My own mother was a SAHM to five of us, and lazy is the last word I would ever use to describe her. She's my hero and instilled a strong work ethic within me since day one. I hope my post didn't come of as judgmental, because I do advocate for women's choices always. If I ever did stay home, I'd need a nest egg, like you said, so I cou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 12:16 AM |
| 6 | I will never ever give up my career and depend financially on a man.thank you so much for commenting! I definitely feel like I shouldn't have to choose between a career and motherhood, because men never choose parenthood or work. I know feasibly I can't be there for every little moment, but, like you said, to me it matters to be a role model to my kids. A gap on my resume longer than maternity leave is a fear of mine, and probably my boss's as well (haha). It pays in the long run to be practical. thank you again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 12:11 AM |
| 14 | I will never ever give up my career and depend financially on a man.I'm so sorry that happened, love. You sound like a wonderful mother. I've had guys tell me I have trust issues, but my worst fear is to get stuck holding the bag just because I fell in love. I've come to realize the hard way that men just don't think about commitment in the same way we do. Their definition of loyal is wildly different than ours, so now I know there's no way that I can give it all way. Thank you for commenting! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 12:07 AM |
| 50 | "men who are 'anti porn' because of the negative side effects for men, are not our allies!!!A great well-thought opinion that you'll never seen on anti-porn reddit, because they only focus on how porn affects men's quality of life and never women's. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 09:20 PM |
| 7 | RED FLAG ALERT! Never let a guy "playfully" insult you by calling you a bitch or a whore. I've had more than a few guys do this and it's veiled negging. It feels wrong, because it's wrong. (The show is Fleabag as well, and it's a must watch!)Girl, no! You deserve so much better. Even in jest, that word is cruel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 05:55 PM |
| 2 | We hit 80,000Let's gooooooooooo!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 04:41 PM |
| 3 | My guy friend sent me this, he calls her wifey....They want her, but they don’t value this women though. When they’re done using her, she’ll be as good as worthless in their eyes. I’ll shame this woman’s actions, but never her personally. It’s almost heart wrenching for me to see this, because she deserves more, but I don’t think she believes she’s worth it. I hope she sees the light soon, before she gets hurt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 01:21 PM |
| 4 | My guy friend sent me this, he calls her wifey....I thought she was going to end with “and that idiot took me for granted. I gave him everything and he was still cheating the whole time!” Instead, it’s like some weird sexual peach thing. This is not a relationship, but servitude. He’s not helping pay your rent and he’s wanting you to pay another woman’s? Hell Nah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 01:17 PM |
| 1 | A VERY infuriating article from a former Cosmo writer where she flat out admits they lied repeatedly to sell a feminist propoganda dream NONE of them were livingI guess the caveat here is she had a HVM who didn’t cheat? A lot of loyal housewives are cheated on daily, due to no fault of their own. This article almost seems like it’s blaming women for their partner’s infidelity. Why do we shame women for promiscuity, even others?, but never men? It makes no sense and infantilizes men in general. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 01:15 PM |
| 46 | My dad reminded me why I need to vet men even harder than I ever did beforeYour mother, poor heart 💝 I hope she feels better soon. Even as another human being, I can feel compassion. It’s sad that your father isn’t even seeming to try. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 01:09 PM |
| 30 | My dad reminded me why I need to vet men even harder than I ever did beforeAmen to this 💝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 01:07 PM |
| 11 | Cheap SexLazy men have always existed but society used to shame them. Now these low-life’s still profit off women’s hard work, whether it be their mother or girlfriend, but this time, since she’s educated, it’s economical leeching. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 12:21 PM |
| 42 | Polgár was Women's World Champion from 1996 to 1999. On the FIDE rating list of July 1984, at the age of 15, she became the top-ranked female player in the world. In 1991 she became the third woman to be awarded the title of Grandmaster by FIDE. In chess, she is a master, in life she is a queen!I’m sorry that happened. ❤️ Glad he’s your ex, tho! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 03:58 AM |
| 5 | and i oop! - we all need to really examine how we view women that aren't partnered in our lives, whether it be coworkers, friends, or family. Having a partner is not indicative of a woman's worth or attractiveness, but of choice. Avoid internalized misogyny like the plague that it is.That's awesome and inspiring! Best of luck to you!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 01:22 AM |
| 9 | and i oop! - we all need to really examine how we view women that aren't partnered in our lives, whether it be coworkers, friends, or family. Having a partner is not indicative of a woman's worth or attractiveness, but of choice. Avoid internalized misogyny like the plague that it is.Yes! It was too many photos to post, but everyone here should follow the twitter handle and read the rest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 01:13 AM |
| 45 | But _beta_ you can’t live alone (and so obviously unburdened by an abusive, overgrown man-child) like this! What will people say?My best friend is Indian, and I know firsthand, her family's expectations are crazy. I'm assuming this is cultural, but they would never let her go out with guys growing up, and now they're harassing her because she isn't married. Was he supposed to come through the window? It makes absolutely no sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 12:25 AM |
| 15 | Listen to me - you are under no obligation to live up to men's unattainable, ridiculous beauty standards. They have been changing them since time immemorial, and will continue to do so. You are original, you are unique, you are the blueprint. No one can be you, and that is your power. Be-you-tiful.Happy cake day!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 11:27 PM |
| 27 | and i oop! - we all need to really examine how we view women that aren't partnered in our lives, whether it be coworkers, friends, or family. Having a partner is not indicative of a woman's worth or attractiveness, but of choice. Avoid internalized misogyny like the plague that it is.I'm sure you're an amazing teacher! Don't let their words get to you please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 10:48 PM |
| 62 | and i oop! - we all need to really examine how we view women that aren't partnered in our lives, whether it be coworkers, friends, or family. Having a partner is not indicative of a woman's worth or attractiveness, but of choice. Avoid internalized misogyny like the plague that it is.Men don't see women as full autonomous human beings, but rather someone who is in a connection, relation, or an extension of them. I don't know how many times I've heard a guy tell me, "I can't be sexist. I have daughters." or "I love my mother, so that means I love women." It's like they want a cookie for respecting women that are closest to them, when it's really the bare minimum. A woman can gain status in their eyes, however, by being partnered to another man, and therefore gaining respect t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 09:25 PM |
| 62 | RED FLAG ALERT! Never let a guy "playfully" insult you by calling you a bitch or a whore. I've had more than a few guys do this and it's veiled negging. It feels wrong, because it's wrong. (The show is Fleabag as well, and it's a must watch!)I normally respond, "And you're a bastard, haha! Oh wait, you didn't like that? Hmm, better lay off the insults then." Never let disrespect slide, especially from someone who already thinks so little of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 09:11 PM |
| 11 | From r/trashy Probably a strip club reviewWatch him like a child? Please, she can have him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 07:00 PM |
| 13 | Only LV males degrade other men who...*shellfish. They are crabs in a bucket, indeed. 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 06:57 PM |
| 13 | MeN aRe sO oPpReSseDYeah, women are actually resilient. Damn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 05:16 PM |
| 14 | MeN aRe sO oPpReSseDMen on twitter: it’s the women who are wrong! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 05:16 PM |
| 7 | His wife is probably safety pinning the household to-do list to his front pocket like a 5th grader at this pointMy grandma used to say “some women walk through fire and are burned by it. Some women walk through fire and are built from it.” Im hoping the user feels empowered through her replies and feels a sense of resolve, as well. Patriarchy can wear on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 03:20 PM |
| 19 | MeN aRe sO oPpReSseDExactly! Imagine having a head start and lots of supporters, and still not succeeding. These guys literally have no excuse, so they make up oppression to justify their laziness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 03:18 PM |
| 24 | MeN aRe sO oPpReSseDExactly. Men left to themselves act like degenerates. There’s a reason when they first started bringing women to America when it was discovered or when women came to the Wild West that we first had a semblance of a functioning society. Women act as the backbone of civilization. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 03:17 PM |
| 20 | MeN aRe sO oPpReSseDHere’s another interesting statistic: “New research reveals that while wedlock helps men to live longer, it shortens a woman's life by more than a year. Marriage helps husbands to an extra 1.7 years, but it knocks 1.4 years off the average wife's lifespan, according to the study of more than 100,000 people across Europe.” In essence, men are slowly killing us. You won’t find the reverse of this trend, unless a man lives alone, which shortens his life expectancy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 03:14 PM |
| 25 | MeN aRe sO oPpReSseDYeah, women had to fight tooth and nail to get what is rightfully theirs (none of these things were ever given to us), whereas men have always expected that society owes them status, a career, and a partner. I will never delay my ambition for a man. Instead of us collectively slowing down, they need to catch up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 03:10 PM |
| 30 | Ladies, Separation and Infidelity More Common When Wife is a Patient, link in commentsWhat happened to “in sickness and in health”? LVM are degenerate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 04:35 AM |
| 18 | Ladies, Separation and Infidelity More Common When Wife is a Patient, link in commentsI’m sorry that happened, love. You deserve so much better than that ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Do you want kids, and why/ why not?I’m bi as well, and expectations for men are so low in our society, it troubles me. It almost seems to me like women make better parents. maybe because societies expectations are so high? In the back of my mind, I can see me just giving up on men completely and marrying a woman. My life would be a lot less stressful in some regards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 04:05 AM |
| 5 | Divorced women rarely seek to re-marry, while divorced males stay panicking!To be a woman truly free to move about the world and make decisions without deferring to anyone/ sidestepping around someone’s feelings seems like a dream to me. It wasn’t until recently that women were even free to do so. The security that comes with a relationship can be a chain, and in some situations a noose. Treasure your freedom 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 03:48 AM |
| 5 | Divorced women rarely seek to re-marry, while divorced males stay panicking!I’ve seen this too in the lives of acquaintances around me. LVM get a divorce thinking they’re finally free of their “nagging” wife. Then they realize she took care of herself all those years and is an adult with more options and regret the decision. It’s brutal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 03:46 AM |
| 3 | Divorced women rarely seek to re-marry, while divorced males stay panicking!I’m sorry he passed ❤️ I’m sure you both shared a great love. Good luck to you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 03:44 AM |
| 9 | JEALOUSY: The thread. Post your examples so we can get a better look at the different ways it manifestsGood on you for recognizing your worth again! 👏 I very much respect women who build themselves from the ground up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 03:32 AM |
| 48 | JEALOUSY: The thread. Post your examples so we can get a better look at the different ways it manifestsLVM say this to keep you trapped in a relationship. They know a successful career is an out for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 03:30 AM |
| 79 | JEALOUSY: The thread. Post your examples so we can get a better look at the different ways it manifestsHad a guy I was seeing tell me that it would be hard for me to find “good men” as I progressed in my career, and that I should slow down my ambition because men don’t want to feel as if they’re competing with their spouses. I said “I compete with no one but myself. If you’re insecure, that’s your problem.” Bye loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 12:55 AM |
| 16 | I’m sorry they feel this way but it’s not like women don’t acknowledge men, we obviously know they are humans. But they do need to be called out for their crappy behaviour because women can’t always tolerate their crap attitude.Please go cry about it elsewhere. I’m so tired of the reverse victim/offender narrative so many men go by. If he feels like their comments spoke to him personally, then he’s doing something wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 12:50 AM |
| 59 | Men contradict themselves at every turn.Incredibly based. If a guy tells me he’s all “facts not feelings”, I know he’s offloading his emotional baggage on women daily, while trying to appear like a tough guy in front of his guy friends. These guys really carry more about what other men think/their perception, than the woman that they’re sleeping with. It boggles the mind 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 10:39 PM |
| 18 | My father on men who wait because they ‘have no expiry date’Both of these comments have given me pause. I would be afraid to delay my career in my mid 20’s that it would affect my financial success later on. But also, I might have more energy if I was younger 🤔 I guess it would depend on how supportive my partner was | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 10:33 PM |
| 21 | Straight men are so oppressed and abused you guysWhat a psycho - he’s literally threatening people on twitter behind a keyboard. Get therapy, incel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Your friends do not exist for the sole purpose of listening to you whine about some man you don’t plan on leaving.That sounds like fun 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 04:30 PM |
| 10 | Your friends do not exist for the sole purpose of listening to you whine about some man you don’t plan on leaving.You hit the nail on the head, exactly. I feel this in my soul. I always try to be the girl who brings other women up, and I feel like some women take advantage of it. I’ve had to be more strategic with my advice giving, as well. I’m not giving great relationship advice to someone who’s not listening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 04:29 PM |
| 6 | Your friends do not exist for the sole purpose of listening to you whine about some man you don’t plan on leaving.It’s like they want just enough sympathy/therapy, that it takes to stay in the relationship. What they really want is the validation from you that they’re not getting currently from their bf/husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Tradwives think people are triggered by them because they’re jealous, rather than crippling anxiety that they may be making decisions that could devastate themselves and their childrenWhat happens if your husband dies and the life insurance money runs out while your kids are still young? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 02:28 AM |
| 1 | A lot has gone through her in the pre-wall years. Now she needs a Real Man to be an accessory for her lifestyle.Wow, she is gorgeous. Good lord ❤️ | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/06/20 05:48 AM |
| 51 | Racist LVM Scrote blogs about FDS and claims that FDS Women are delusional and mostly blackBlack women are beautiful and he’d never get a chance with them, so he’s bitter. Too bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 05:38 AM |
| 6 | The Awakening: Women Hold More Power Than They Think and Can Use It to Get Everything They Deserve.If you ruled the world, it would be a better place! This post sounds like what I'd hoped "Sex in the City" would be, if Carrie wasn't such a pick-me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else fed up of men at weddings (often even the groom - e.g “help me” shoes) pretending that they don’t really want to be in a committed relationship because it’s ‘funny?’Ugh, what a loser. Marrying someone is a privilege and a commitment. I would tell him to run far away and never come back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 03:43 AM |
| 5 | The only man I loveimagine having double the makeup and the shoes. I never even thought of this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 03:35 AM |
| 5 | The only man I lovethe fact that there are other bi/lgbt women on here is awesome to me. thank you for posting! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 03:34 AM |
| 6 | The only man I loveDrag themmmmmm. I'm here for it, haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 03:31 AM |
| 3 | I hope she gets picked. Also, getting in a car with a stranger on the first date... Couldn't be me 🤡🤡🤡This is not a date to me - sorry. Men will pull this low-effort shit and still want sex. pLEASE! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 03:27 AM |
| 7 | Coming to terms with my pick-me pastWe all make mistakes, when we're young. It's just a process of growing up and making better choices. There's a great guy out there who will love you for you. you won't have to chase him - he'll chase you! So glad you're here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 03:26 AM |
| 6 | What attitude? 🤣Does anyone know who this girl is? She's so pretty! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Gay men are proof that men are perfectly capable of understanding how to groom themselves to be more physically attractive, it’s just that straight men don’t give a single fuck how women feel and figured out its easier to just collectively bully us to lower our standards.Antoni is hot affffff. He could cook for me any day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 02:55 PM |
| 5 | Dating as a black woman on dating apps be like..“It’s rare these days” = “You’re not like other girls” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Dating as a black woman on dating apps be like..This guy is either a white supremacist or white nationalist. This is literally a copy paste I see from YouTube videos all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 02:51 PM |
| 40 | Found some FDS hate in the wild... love this cult lolThat just makes logical sense, and is more than likely what a lawyer would tell her. It's the usual "rules for thee, but not for me" bs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 05:12 PM |
| 70 | Found some FDS hate in the wild... love this cult lolYou’re living rent free in his head, lmao 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 04:49 PM |
| 2 | A thank you to all the ladies on hereGlad you’re here! Thanks for posting 💝💞 internet hugs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 11:44 PM |
| 7 | Sick of the double standardsExactly. It is an addiction - men who are addicted to porn are like a shell of a person. All they see is sex, even in something innocent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 11:37 PM |
| 9 | Women Hit The Wall At 30....( RED PILL ) this guy thinks he has everything figured out 😂To be perfectly honest, I hear more men praise how Sean Connery looks than women. He’s like a little god to them, haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 11:22 PM |
| 31 | Women Hit The Wall At 30....( RED PILL ) this guy thinks he has everything figured out 😂Sperm acquires mutations upon mutations with age, increasing the likelihood of birth defects independent of the mother’s age. These guys are living in a fantasy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 11:21 PM |
| 15 | Humble men of MatchHe should marry himself. I wouldn't be surprise if he walked down the aisle to a mirror. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 09:06 PM |
| 19 | Dude dumped his girlfriend after she helped HIM get more self confidence 😐I'd say good riddance. Make no man your project - you are not Bob the Builder. If you're going to work on anyone, work on yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 09:05 PM |
| 14 | NEVER have a NVM's children: NVM red piller impregnates wife three times and complains that she is now hideous and that he has been "cucked by mother nature"I think gay men can still be hurtful towards women's bodies, but this is so visceral and hateful it must have been a guy in close connection with a woman who was either dumped or rejected by her. It's just seething. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 09:02 PM |
| 28 | NEVER have a NVM's children: NVM red piller impregnates wife three times and complains that she is now hideous and that he has been "cucked by mother nature"I think you hit the nail on the head. To most men like the one in the post, sex is about power and dominance, but to women it's more about love and sharing in a relationship. I also think sleeping with someone you hate must be a result of some mental illness. Who in their right mind would do that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 09:01 PM |
| 9 | Breaking the Silence - The Women of BosniaThis is very sad. Thank you for sharing this with us, though. It's better to be aware, than complacent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 02:54 PM |
| 2 | My friend sent this to me. She told me in under a minute, 6 other girls retweeted this. I hate how universal this is!If there's no foreplay, he's just using your body as a fleshlight to masturbate with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 02:52 PM |
| 5 | Learn to recognize the signsYou have to understand that our culture encourages women to pick men over other women constantly. Others will see the light because of empathy, and not misunderstanding. No one has ever been yelled into changing their opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 02:48 PM |
| 7 | Learn to recognize the signsThe "side chick" never ends up happy. He's playing her for a fool, and she's the last one to know. If a guy "commits' to a side-chick, he will eventually cheat again, and she will take the wife/gf's place. It's sad to me, because it's like watching someone emotionally self-harm. At the same time, you also feel bad for the wife/gf who is being cheated on. I say throw the man into the garbage where he belongs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 02:46 PM |
| 4 | Learn to recognize the signsYou're not low value. Don't say that, or you'll internalize it. That is not the point of this sub. It's to build up women, because everyone makes mistakes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 02:44 PM |
| 9 | Learn to recognize the signsThis type of guy is almost always an emotional abuser, whether he gaslights your suspicions or downplays how you feel. You'll be the "crazy" one, for calling him out on his shit. Don't make these men your problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 02:41 PM |
| 10 | You know what BDSM Kinkmeishas and Tradwives have in common? Pretending words mean things they don’t, like “Submissive”Yes! I've only seen people use submissive in a generally good light, if they're trying to rationalize abuse or trying to control you. "Submissive" is almost used as a bat to keep people in check, whether it be kinkmeishas or christian conservatives. "Your relationship would work and be blessed, if you were more submissive" and "Maybe you should be more submissive in the bedroom. A man likes to feel like a man." are both two sides of the same coin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Apparently I am too hash. Does that even make sense?I had to do this with a boss as well. He had to come pick up paperwork from me, that I did for him as a favor. I asked what time would he be by to pick it up, and he responded just 'soon'??? I then said, "Your window of picking it up is between 9 a.m. and 10 am. After that, I'm no longer free." I didn't apologize or come up with some fake appointment, like I used to. I just stood my ground. He picked up the paperwork at 9:15. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 02:30 PM |
| 9 | Lauren Southern opens her mind, gets back to her roots after marriage and a baby. PJW calls her a thot and a bitch publicly on Twitter, then goes psycho on WhatsApp. Don't trust these 'male facts and logic' guys, ladies. They're just as bad as the ones who wear it on their sleeves!Yes, women can't thrive in that environment, and they're not supposed to. I think you'd have to be gaslighted into oblivion or have low self-esteem, to stay "red-pilled" as a woman for long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 07:20 PM |
| 114 | What’s your worst ‘LVM disguising himself as a HVM’ storyThis is the same guy that will keep screwing around, until he finds the fictional "one girl that will change him" and make him settle down. Then after two kids, he'll miss his golden years and cheat on her with anyone (nevermind, his looks have spiraled). Then when he's divorced because of his affair, he'll go on OLD and message women 20 years younger then him that are way out of his league. When they don't take the bait, he'll become a men's right activist and neg women online. It's a sad story… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 07:17 PM |
| 24 | What’s your worst ‘LVM disguising himself as a HVM’ storyMen are f*cking depraved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 07:14 PM |
| 15 | Makes me sick to my stomach honestlyThese are the same kinds of men that will "slut-shame" women in public for showing shoulder. It's honestly depraved and sickening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 07:13 PM |
| 28 | Imaginary sky daddy apparently endorses sloppy three minute jackhammering.And I feel that's why the lesbian rate is going up in this country. - Snooki | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 07:11 PM |
| 9 | Stopped responding because overly complimentary and boring men are uninteresting to me.. then he hits me with this.I'll take you out at the knees. Ugh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 07:10 PM |
| 6 | You sought a flowerThank you for sharing! What a find! 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 04:47 PM |
| 16 | The Red Pill is proof positive men will never NOT hate women for existing, no matter how much liberal feminists concedeThose subs send me running from religion like a bat out of hell. I’m not treating someone like my better, just because they have a penis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Andreya Triana - WomanLove this song!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 03:36 AM |
| 4 | Typical pickmeisha profiles be likeYou’re definietly not alone on this. Sometimes I get so frustrated I just want to give up all together, but I know that I’m still attracted to women. I could see myself falling in love with a woman and marrying her, and they don’t even want to date, so it just baffles me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 03:19 AM |
| 3 | Men: women are so boring and don’t have any hobbies!!1!1 Also every man on tinder’s bio:Is he trying to attract men? 🤦♀️ Good lord | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 03:10 AM |
| 5 | Prepping you for zero effort 101 - a 38 year old’s journey of nothingness.It means lower your standards for me, so I can be worthy of you. Lmao at the audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 03:08 AM |
| 62 | Lauren Southern opens her mind, gets back to her roots after marriage and a baby. PJW calls her a thot and a bitch publicly on Twitter, then goes psycho on WhatsApp. Don't trust these 'male facts and logic' guys, ladies. They're just as bad as the ones who wear it on their sleeves!Paul has always been completely unhinged. He made a video about the me too movement a while ago claiming that women can’t object to being sexually harassed, because it’s in men’s biological nature to catcall women? It’s funny how “biology” always gives men’s shitty actions an out, but condemns and confines women’s. And to support traditional “family values”, he’s still not married and has no children. He’s honestly a hypocrite | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 03:06 AM |
| 8 | Typical pickmeisha profiles be likeRight? This has been my experience too, and it confuses me. I really feel that I’m bisexual, but I never speak it in front of others, because I don’t want them to see it as a fetish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 02:56 AM |
| 14 | What’s with the trend of old men wanting to collect a harem of young girls to get pregnant but never commit to? And why do they think they’re good enough to ask for it?Wow, the audacity is astounding. I would have kicked him out the door | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 02:52 AM |
| 17 | Career-Oriented MenI see this too. Men only “have it all” at the expense of others. When people tell women they can’t have it all, it’s because society doesn’t want to make a way for women to. They like the status quo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 06:58 PM |
| 10 | I’m sick of them jumping in to talk about something they know nothing about and making it about their experiences.Oh god, it's too real. If Jordan Peterson leaves their mouth, I just stop engaging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 02:13 PM |
| 9 | LVM Behavior, what are your examples?Asking me if he thought both the waitress and hostess was hitting on him on our first date 🤦♀️ No, they were bothjust being nice because it’s their job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:33 PM |
| 7 | LVM Behavior, what are your examples?Wow, what a loser 🤦♀️ He just thinks you’ll change your mind for a small gesture, after he love-starved you. Flowers are literally 5 dollars and I buy them for my mother and sisters all the time, as a woman. How hard is it to do for someone you genuinely care about? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:32 PM |
| 7 | LVM Behavior, what are your examples?Gosh I’m so sorry. If I was there, I’d have to intervene | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:30 PM |
| 8 | LVM Behavior, what are your examples?My gut pickme reaction was to say “can’t I just encourage him to pick up a routine”. But now, hell no. You’re not his mother and he should know how to pick up a toothbrush by now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:29 PM |
| 9 | LVM Behavior, what are your examples?I’d be like, it’s funny you prefer a smaller ass, when you’re more than enough ass for the both of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:27 PM |
| 13 | And here we have a classic neg!You didn’t even have to explain yourself but I appreciate you stating your perspective. Don’t lower your standards for anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:24 PM |
| 13 | And here we have a classic neg!Hmm, is she high maintenance or is he low effort? 🤔🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:22 PM |
| 15 | Lord help this woman 🙏He is so self-serving. Lose weight because you want to be healthy for your kids and look good for your wife, not because you want sex. Ugh, men are degenerate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Watch out ladiesRed flags as far as the eye can see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:19 PM |
| 20 | Liberal feminism = seeking approval from who objectify and exploit the female sex and giving them exactly what they want; our submissionThank you so much for this. It’s important to realize that pickme’s will gaslight women too to feel special or to justify their own position. I miss radfem days of the late 60’s-80’s, where women were so vigilant against everyday sexism even the government was scared. It all starts with becoming aware, which a lot of people would rather not do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:17 PM |
| 31 | It's odd that abuse kinks are always called "play" like choking becomes breath play. It infantalizes the torture and makes it sound innocent and fun. It's disgusting and makes me incredibly uncomfortable.Oh my god thank you. It’s not slapping either, like kids playing in the bath. It’s blunt force trauma that causes you’re blood to rise to the surface of your skin and bruise, because the other person has killed the cells of the outermost layer of skin. I will never hurt myself just so someone else can get off. This world is sick! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:14 PM |
| 9 | I’m sick of them jumping in to talk about something they know nothing about and making it about their experiences.These guys are the literal worst. They say they’re open minded, but honestly they’ve already chosen their hill to die on. They’re just out there trying to stir people up and get it on camera for views on YouTube, instead of actually trying to understand people’s trauma. It’s easy to be “rational” and aloof when discrimination doesn’t directly affect them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:11 PM |
| 11 | I’m sick of them jumping in to talk about something they know nothing about and making it about their experiences.To them, racism is just a reactionary YouTube video or an “alternate viewpoint” and not an actual discriminatory lived experience. When you present them with statistics, they buckle down, so I don’t even engage anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:09 PM |
| 31 | I’m sick of them jumping in to talk about something they know nothing about and making it about their experiences.Now imagine being a philosophy/STEM double major and trying to find a guy that doesn’t try to mansplain your field to you🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:07 PM |
| 11 | I’m sick of them jumping in to talk about something they know nothing about and making it about their experiences.Someone’s going to reply to this with “not all men!” and my last shred of sanity will leave me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:06 PM |
| 27 | AKA, this man is forcing you to put up with his crappy LVM behavior before he can even consider you. Don’t do it.Exactly. He’s just pretending to be deep so women who are insecure jump on him trying to prove something. Miss me with it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 03:17 AM |
| 125 | Period!!!My advice is have an internal sense of self worth from which you first draw validation. Anyone who doesn’t match and keep that energy will start to seem like a drain to you, and then you have to let go to keep growing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 03:15 AM |
| 101 | 21 years - My mind is blown. Why is this story so common? My heart hurts for her and for all other women who've had to experience heartbreak, because some LVM didn't understand what the word loyalty meant.By "bubble" he means honeymoon with this woman like it's no big deal, until he comes crawling back begging for forgiveness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 07:18 PM |
| 30 | I can’t decide which one is more shameful here...the girl, the guy, or the parents letting this happen.I'm sure the parents don't know. I mean look at the condition of the floor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 07:17 PM |
| 46 | How men on reddit look complaining about FDsThis is way too real, lmao. Fox News in a nutshell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 07:16 PM |
| 6 | Relationship advice succesfully pressured this woman into doing a sex act she hates with her entitled, predatory boyfriend. There are no words to describe how sad, sick and disgusted this makes me.Nobody knows my bodycount but me and God, and it's going to stay that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 07:15 PM |
| 26 | The truth about expiration dates of women vs menYour post reminds me of all the older southern women I’ve met who are so kind and tender to even strangers. Sadly, their husbands won’t even pick up a dish to help them. They deserve better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 04:57 PM |
| 52 | Settle for someone that knows what they want and doesn't treat you like a mindreader.I wholeheartedly agree, and if he starts acting differently she should leave. It's just a nice gesture I think for women who are negged into having low standards to see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 04:54 PM |
| 83 | Settle for someone that knows what they want and doesn't treat you like a mindreader.I think it's just nice to see someone go the extra mile, even when it's small. Men constantly neg women to lower their standards, especially when it comes to doing anything romantic, but women shouldn't have to. They have to find the guy that won't make them ask for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 04:48 PM |
| 5 | Yes!!! What goals are you working towards and are proud of? Let me know below!Gosh, intensives are no walk in the park and over the summer too? Girllll, you're making it look too easy. (I love corsets too!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 10:10 PM |
| 5 | Yes!!! What goals are you working towards and are proud of? Let me know below!Haters are going to hate! Never dim your light, because it's shining in their eyes. Congratulations! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Yes!!! What goals are you working towards and are proud of? Let me know below!That's a huge step!! Thank you for spreading positivity as well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 10:08 PM |
| 5 | Yes!!! What goals are you working towards and are proud of? Let me know below!That is such a challenging field! Major props to you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 10:07 PM |
| 5 | Yes!!! What goals are you working towards and are proud of? Let me know below!We love to see it!! You should be proud of all your hard work! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 10:06 PM |
| 5 | Yes!!! What goals are you working towards and are proud of? Let me know below!That's exciting! What industry are you going into? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 10:06 PM |
| 12 | Yes!!! What goals are you working towards and are proud of? Let me know below!It's sometimes the most unconventional paths that lead to greatness! Congratulations and thank you for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Yes!!! What goals are you working towards and are proud of? Let me know below!Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 10:04 PM |
| 17 | Women can have it all, they just can't do it all. In the same way, men have had "it all" for years while doing 10% of the parenting and housework. Women should not have to choose between a family and career because their partner is lazy!Right? Ben always acts as if he can't be sexist, because his dad stayed at home, but then it also seems like he resents it, as well. It's really strange. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:59 PM |
| 7 | Yes!!! What goals are you working towards and are proud of? Let me know below!To someone who grew up in a small town, this sounds like a dream. I'd love to have a doctorates and see the world too, some day. Congratulations to you and thank you for the inspiration! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:57 PM |
| 6 | Yes!!! What goals are you working towards and are proud of? Let me know below!A paid internship is so competitive too! Congratulations to you! You earned it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:56 PM |
| 5 | Yes!!! What goals are you working towards and are proud of? Let me know below!That's sounds like a dream job!!! Amazing job, love! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:55 PM |
| 18 | Yes!!! What goals are you working towards and are proud of? Let me know below!Blown away by this thread! You guys are incredible and inspiring!!! I'm going to bookmark this post and come back when I need motivation. Bravo! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:17 PM |
| 6 | Women can have it all, they just can't do it all. In the same way, men have had "it all" for years while doing 10% of the parenting and housework. Women should not have to choose between a family and career because their partner is lazy!Both of my parents did! I did piano lessons after school, and they would alternate days when they picked me up. I never lacked anything at all, but I can understand if you'd want a different path. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:15 PM |
| 20 | Yes!!! What goals are you working towards and are proud of? Let me know below!Yay!!!! 👏 Doctorates here you come! What field might I ask? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 08:33 PM |
| 9 | Women can have it all, they just can't do it all. In the same way, men have had "it all" for years while doing 10% of the parenting and housework. Women should not have to choose between a family and career because their partner is lazy!And you shouldn’t unless you want too! Stay at home moms are also legitimate. The issue here was framing it as only an either/or. I grew up with two working parents, so I know it’s possible and something I want for my kids too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 08:32 PM |
| 48 | Newsflash dude: You are not a prize! Stop trying to neg women with your "not like other girls" bs and shut the hell up.Exactly. Their idea of wifey material is entirely self-serving, but if you call them out on it, they'll say you're bitter. It's funny that I've only been called bitter, whenever I differentiated myself from a doormat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 07:54 PM |
| 14 | Yes!!! What goals are you working towards and are proud of? Let me know below!I'm proud of you! Don't be afraid to ask for help, but don't sell yourself short either. You're going to do just fine! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 07:52 PM |
| 17 | They hated her because she spoke the truth.It's not that youth automatically equals beauty, it's that men go out of their way to date younger, because the women have lower expectations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 07:50 PM |
| 58 | Women can have it all, they just can't do it all. In the same way, men have had "it all" for years while doing 10% of the parenting and housework. Women should not have to choose between a family and career because their partner is lazy!"bUt sHe's nOt A fEmiNist!" She only enjoys the freedoms other women have fought for, while her husband waxes nostalgic about when times were better when times were worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 07:41 PM |
| 21 | Yes!!! What goals are you working towards and are proud of? Let me know below!That's awesome!! Your certifications are going to look great on your resume! I hope they don't cost you a dime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 07:29 PM |
| 4 | And for what? I can't think of anyone less deserving. Joan (from Mad Men) is a queen though!I think so too. She made a lot more rational decisions, than I would have during that day and age. All the blatant sexism and misogyny would have me pulling my hair out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 07:15 PM |
| 3 | "Conflicting Daydreams" (1959, Saturday Evening Post) - A vintage cartoon that tries to illustrate the grass is greener on the other side. I'm wondering why they both can't get a husband that does his fair share of the housework.I agree with this. I'll get coffee once, but I'm not going to do it everytime. It's not my job because I'm a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 07:10 PM |
| 38 | They hated her because she spoke the truth.An older man told me he liked younger girls because they were more "malleable", or in essence, he could mold her to fit him. I just wanted to throw up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 07:08 PM |
| 10 | There's a reason financial independence has been kept from women so long in this country. By owning assets, a woman has options and can choose to leave abusers. Practice caution before giving up your career/money/stability for a man.Oh my god, that's crazy. You know if it was a guy who said his wife was pregnant, he'd be getting pats on the back and high fives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 07:03 PM |
| 5 | Perv teacherEw, he's nasty. I had a sociology teacher that acted similarly. He would always try to get me to come to his office hours alone after class, instead of just answering my one question straight up. Like I got really bad vibes from him. I'm 19 too, so it's always awesome to see girls my age on here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 07:00 PM |
| 7 | The lesbian wage premium - Evidence for the wife (or husband) penalty shows up in what researchers call the “lesbian wage premium.” Across years of research, women who have never lived with a male partner make more money than women who have.Thank you. I didn't post this to encourage homophobia. I don't think you have to be gay for your significant other to help with the housework. It's just interesting how much more gets accomplished when one partner doesn't feet entitled to the other's labor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 06:51 PM |
| 20 | And for what? I can't think of anyone less deserving. Joan (from Mad Men) is a queen though!I agree, but I think it was honestly a lapse in judgment. The issue was that everyone saw her as a sex object, and she internalized it herself. She didn't need that company, they needed her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 02:02 PM |
| 114 | Seeing more and more tweets like this, gives me hope!Men are most often emotional drains, sadly. Unless he's paying me as his therapist, I'm not doing free emotional labor for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:36 PM |
| 37 | There's a reason financial independence has been kept from women so long in this country. By owning assets, a woman has options and can choose to leave abusers. Practice caution before giving up your career/money/stability for a man.He sounds wonderful! (also this post is not a bash against stay at home moms, at all. Just for clarification. Women should choose what they like). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:29 PM |
| 12 | "Conflicting Daydreams" (1959, Saturday Evening Post) - A vintage cartoon that tries to illustrate the grass is greener on the other side. I'm wondering why they both can't get a husband that does his fair share of the housework.I agree! People have to understand that a lot of the same people who made propaganda during World War 2 were the same ones who got advertising jobs after the war was over. The fact that people are still falling for it (except for women and minorities, of course, because they know what's up) shows how pernicious it can be. You can only sell a beautiful lie, not an ugly truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:27 PM |
| 14 | "Conflicting Daydreams" (1959, Saturday Evening Post) - A vintage cartoon that tries to illustrate the grass is greener on the other side. I'm wondering why they both can't get a husband that does his fair share of the housework.I could see all of these, honestly. Patriarchy runs deep. To me,though, it just represent the Catch 22 women find themselves in, when they're trying to make their own way in life. It's easy to fall into roles that weren't meant for us simply because they're conventional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:23 PM |
| 48 | There's a reason financial independence has been kept from women so long in this country. By owning assets, a woman has options and can choose to leave abusers. Practice caution before giving up your career/money/stability for a man.Employers intentionally discriminate against women just by sight, because of their prejudice. It is against the law for employers to ask if you plan to have a family or have kids, so they'll sit a photo of a family on their desk (it doesn't even have to be theirs) to get you to bring it up. This kind of discrimination literally gets on my last nerve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:20 PM |
| 112 | There's a reason financial independence has been kept from women so long in this country. By owning assets, a woman has options and can choose to leave abusers. Practice caution before giving up your career/money/stability for a man.This exactly! There's an article at the Washington Post that explains the reason why lesbians make more than straight women. The simple fact is that sometimes women will delay or tailor their lives and career around the hopes of getting married or having kids. They are also more likely to suffer what is called the wife penalty, which involves the "second shift" of handling both childcare and the brunt of domestic work. If they get divorced later down the road, though, they're stuck holding an em… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:01 PM |
| 5 | He's a lawyer, I didn't do this on purpose but might've condescended him lolNot you, sorry. The guy in the message. Sorry, I meant to reply to the whole thread | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:54 PM |
| 9 | He's a lawyer, I didn't do this on purpose but might've condescended him lolSounds like he's trying to "you're not like other girls" her. I would see this as a red flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:53 PM |
| 5 | He's a lawyer, I didn't do this on purpose but might've condescended him lolI see a snake in the grass. Be wary of shape-shifters, love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:52 PM |
| 2 | He's a lawyer, I didn't do this on purpose but might've condescended him lolI see a snake in the grass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:51 PM |
| 139 | They hated her because she spoke the truth.Yeah, you dodged a bullet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:42 PM |
| 0 | Congratulations, you played yourself.It says "When you give all your love and affection to someone who doesn't deserve it". Sorry, I crossposted from tumblr, so the quality is terrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:38 PM |
| 46 | The scrodacityWomen are too good for OLD. Dating sites profit off attractive women being on the app as well. It's like where bars give women free drinks to get men to come, but instead you're paying them. I meet people in real life or not at all. OLD has made dating too easy and men lazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 11:12 AM |
| 44 | The scrodacityAre you perhaps interested in a threesome? Two males and myself? No? Ok, then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 11:10 AM |
| 11 | "I'm looking for monogamous and serious minded but for a girl who's cool to start casual [so I can put in next to zero effort and then easily leave when I find someone I like better]"Should you be serious about your intentions with a relationship up front? I'm afraid it will just encourage pretenders. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 11:09 AM |
| 31 | The biggest pickmeisha ever?Didn't know that sign made it out of frat house basements. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 11:06 AM |
| 135 | Please please please stay safe out there. Seemingly "nice guys" can be predators. Never feel guilty for setting boundaries or telling people that make you uncomfortable to piss off.I didn't during the day, because I'm usually going in and outdoors, but I'm going to now. Holy hell, these people are depraved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 11:00 AM |
| 11 | LVM be like:Congratulations, you played yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 10:48 AM |
| 8 | This has to be one of my biggest pet peeves. Do not allow a man to make himself feel superior by explaining your business to you. This is a form of negging to catch you off guard and make you doubt yourself. You know what's up, so put him in his place.Queen!!!!!!! 👏🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:48 AM |
| 8 | This has to be one of my biggest pet peeves. Do not allow a man to make himself feel superior by explaining your business to you. This is a form of negging to catch you off guard and make you doubt yourself. You know what's up, so put him in his place.Does he live on earth? How is a drag queen and your average woman even remotely similar? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:46 AM |
| 16 | This has to be one of my biggest pet peeves. Do not allow a man to make himself feel superior by explaining your business to you. This is a form of negging to catch you off guard and make you doubt yourself. You know what's up, so put him in his place.I wish a woman would have her own high stakes cooking show and totally go off on all the sexism rampant in the industry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:43 AM |
| 13 | This has to be one of my biggest pet peeves. Do not allow a man to make himself feel superior by explaining your business to you. This is a form of negging to catch you off guard and make you doubt yourself. You know what's up, so put him in his place.Same! And then they have the nerve to turn around and say that women aren’t funny! wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:41 AM |
| 11 | This has to be one of my biggest pet peeves. Do not allow a man to make himself feel superior by explaining your business to you. This is a form of negging to catch you off guard and make you doubt yourself. You know what's up, so put him in his place.I’m guessinf he played dumb or got offended. That’s all they know how to do when you call them out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:39 AM |
| 15 | I'm 19 and honest to goddess, I feel this on a spiritual level.I think this is true. I’ve only been called bitter by men, when I differentiate myself from a doormat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:32 AM |
| 10 | Can we talk about the "second shift" for a second? Domestic labor is not women's sole responsibility!It's at the Behring Center at the Smithsonian Natural History Museum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:25 AM |
| 0 | Be a slut, show your ankles, do whatever you want.I say, live free or die trying. I'd like to think I'd be a part of some kind of coven. It would be a pretty sweet ride up until that point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 10:47 PM |
| 31 | Totally my type 😍 /sIt's going to be a no from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 10:05 PM |
| 54 | This has to be one of my biggest pet peeves. Do not allow a man to make himself feel superior by explaining your business to you. This is a form of negging to catch you off guard and make you doubt yourself. You know what's up, so put him in his place.Ugh, men are so lame tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 09:58 PM |
| 43 | What in the hell? "These hoes ain't loyal", my ass! LVM ain't sh*t.This mentality has been ingrained in men since pretty much the beginning of time. When suffragettes were fighting for civil rights, all of the objections by men were framed in how it would affect men's lives. "What about his dinner, while she's out picketing? Who will look after the children, while she's protesting?" But what about women's lives and civil liberties? Like you said, "anything short of extreme self-sacrifice is not good enough." Women need to put themselves first, for once. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 09:23 PM |
| 18 | I said what I said.I definitely agree. I also think just by tone, women can tell if a guy is really being genuine or just jumping in to defend men again, like you said.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 09:19 PM |
| 69 | What in the hell? "These hoes ain't loyal", my ass! LVM ain't sh*t.Not necessarily, because a high-value guy that would never dream of doing something like this will usually be the commitment type. I examine the guy that I'm dating. Does he treat older people and those with disabilities with respect? How he treats people that can't do much for him now will be how he treats me in the future, if I ever become sick. There's a reason "in sickness or in health" is in marriage vows. It's a commitment for life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 09:14 PM |
| 19 | I said what I said.There's nothing wrong with a guy disagreeing or having an alternative opinion at all, the issue is when he's only "listening" to respond. Is the only time he brings up men's issues is when women's issues are being discussed? If so, his intentions may be disingenuous. Be wary of the guy who plays devil's advocate often, especially when it comes to instances where a woman is the victim. He's masking his intentions, because he's not bold enough to state what he really believes, which could be sexis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 09:09 PM |
| 60 | So glad someone said itI'm so sorry that the people around you let that happen. We honestly need to start doing better as a society, because children are getting exploited. This kind of behavior is always swept under the rug because "muh dick", but I'm not standing for it. I will call a spade a spade, and if a man is with an underage girl, I'm calling the police. Pedophilia is illegal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 08:52 PM |
| 34 | If he hesitates between me and another woman, I encourage him to pick her. I will not beg nor try to convince a man to pick me. The world is too big and I have too much to offer.Preachhhh. The only ride or dies in my life are my girlfriends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 08:49 PM |
| 123 | Instead of allowing Disney to demonize strong, independent women to be portrayed as villains, can we just agree we need to stop the narrative of "keeping sweet", "being complacent" and "having faith" to remain a "pure princess" trope when others mistreat us?"Why is it when a woman is confident and powerful, they call her a witch?" - Lisa Simpson | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 08:43 PM |
| 68 | "She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes by the Sink" - Women are fed up from having to "nag" men to do the bare minimum. She shouldn't have to tell you something needs to be done. You're an adult - Just do it!I made a similar post about the "second shift" that I believe relates to this idea. Domestic labor is not women's sole responsibility! Our culture infantilizes men with this bs, until they come to expect it. I'm here to say that I am not the one. Learn how to wash a dish, before you meet me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 08:30 PM |
| 1 | I put my phone awayGood to see you're recognizing old patterns! I've struggled with this too. Now when I know a guy's low-value, I just block. I don't need all the bad karma in my inbox. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 08:20 PM |
| 25 | Real men do housework - man dedicates channel to cleaning and decorating his family home and even asks son to helpThis post is bittersweet to me. Shouldn't this have just been conventional up to this point? I'm glad to see someone's taking the initiative, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Don't explain, don't justify, don't reason. Give the gift of your absence to those who do not respect or appreciate your presence.That's a big yikes. Honestly sounds like he's trying to be suave, but it comes off like a stalker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Growing up, I heard a million reasons given why a woman should stay with a cheater, but never one reason she should leave. I'm wondering if you think most bad dating advice given is a deflection, merely well-intentioned, or just taught over time? Let me know below.Maybe one good thing is that reading these comments encourages me to be more outspoken. I find it refreshing when I hear advice that's more tough love, than just simply telling me what I want to hear or just to go along. Hopefully more women will eventually feel the same too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 06:51 PM |
| 33 | Dear women, please read this post. And then please: make the decision for yourself to never stay with a man who expects you to be his mother and servant.I thought sleeping with children was illegal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 06:44 PM |
| 58 | Dear women, please read this post. And then please: make the decision for yourself to never stay with a man who expects you to be his mother and servant.Then there are actual children on Masterchef cooking 5-course meals, while my ex couldn't microwave a potato without setting off the fire alarm. I'll be damned if I babysit a man through life. I already have enough going on as it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 06:43 PM |
| 6 | Monetary value of a Forever-GirlfriendThank you!!! You get the narwhal seal of approval! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Y’all this guy is mansplaining my job to me. I’ve only done it for 15 years, but thank you Bumble man for telling me how to do it.It's like he's pretending to be some crazy amazing thinker, when he's just an asshole. If this is where they get "men are more logical" from, please god spare me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Made a moodboardRachel Weisz (in the black and white photo) is such a queen!!! Can't believe she's 50! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 03:21 PM |
| 3 | NVM doesn‘t even try...Do you want to be treated like an object by a guy who thinks he's god's gift to women? Step right up and swipe right! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 03:17 PM |
| 29 | Monetary value of a Forever-GirlfriendThank you for this! Please add the cost of a therapist, as well, for all the free emotional labor women do for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 03:15 PM |
| 9 | I see no lies 🤷🏻♀️. If he can’t provide financial stability, he doesn’t deserve children or a wife. In fact, some cultures SEVERELY vet men to ensure that they have good character and are capable of taking care of their wife and kids financially and emotionally.The truth is men everywhere feel entitled to women's time and labor, whether that labor be emotional, domestic, or physical (childbirth). If you felt as if you were going to lose something valuable, you would get off your ass and fight for it. But they don't feel as if they'll lose a good woman, because they feel as if they're owed her times and efforts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 03:13 PM |
| 6 | I see no lies 🤷🏻♀️. If he can’t provide financial stability, he doesn’t deserve children or a wife. In fact, some cultures SEVERELY vet men to ensure that they have good character and are capable of taking care of their wife and kids financially and emotionally.Same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 03:11 PM |
| 22 | Imagine how tired we areWow, he didn't tell her she was better off in the kitchen? Will wonders never cease! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 03:08 PM |
| 17 | Grandma Hattie is totally a pickmieshaThis is defineitly a joke. The fact that some people think this would be an ok thing to do in exchange for food is what’s wrong with the world | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 10:53 AM |
| 5 | Here at FDS, we call these 'soul diggers'. Never be a man's therapist or emotional support girlfriend. If he has mommy/daddy issues, he needs to grow up and get professional help.You're welcome! Thanks for our comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 08:26 PM |
| 9 | Here at FDS, we call these 'soul diggers'. Never be a man's therapist or emotional support girlfriend. If he has mommy/daddy issues, he needs to grow up and get professional help.I'll take it! Here's some for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 08:25 PM |
| 8 | Here at FDS, we call these 'soul diggers'. Never be a man's therapist or emotional support girlfriend. If he has mommy/daddy issues, he needs to grow up and get professional help.I feel this spiritually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 08:25 PM |
| 9 | Here at FDS, we call these 'soul diggers'. Never be a man's therapist or emotional support girlfriend. If he has mommy/daddy issues, he needs to grow up and get professional help.Don't let them f with you. Always go with your gut. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 08:24 PM |
| 18 | Never ever ever beg someone to stay. This concept has been romanticized in the media, but it's toxic to your soul and mind. You teach other people how to treat you, so treat yourself with love, respect, and dignity.I've learned that you either suffer the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. It's better to respect yourself instead of go out of your way for momentary validation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 08:22 PM |
| 7 | Never ever ever beg someone to stay. This concept has been romanticized in the media, but it's toxic to your soul and mind. You teach other people how to treat you, so treat yourself with love, respect, and dignity.I’m sorry, love 💜 if you want to think positively, this is the perfect time for reflection and self improvement 👏 this sub is a great place for that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 08:18 PM |
| 11 | Never ever ever beg someone to stay. This concept has been romanticized in the media, but it's toxic to your soul and mind. You teach other people how to treat you, so treat yourself with love, respect, and dignity.It is, but Nicki kind of embraces it. You don’t have to get plastic surgery though to embrace the mantra. You look greatest when you feel like a damn queen 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 08:15 PM |
| 29 | Male Redditor tells women we shouldn’t be insecure with our bodies because men FaNtAsIzE about sleeping with us 🙄 Women drag him in the commentsThis is the same guy who will be in r/aita asking if he’s a jerk because he thinks his wife is unattractive, because she gained 10 pounds after pregnancy. And all the guys in the comments will be patting him on the back like he’s a martyr 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 03:05 PM |
| 16 | Male Redditor tells women we shouldn’t be insecure with our bodies because men FaNtAsIzE about sleeping with us 🙄 Women drag him in the commentsOh my god, I love you 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 03:03 PM |
| 29 | Male Redditor tells women we shouldn’t be insecure with our bodies because men FaNtAsIzE about sleeping with us 🙄 Women drag him in the commentsMcChickens too. Please take my word for it and don’t google it 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 03:02 PM |
| 11 | are men ok?Holy hell - look at all these red flags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 01:55 PM |
| 24 | The Scrotes are mad in the comments because women getting credit for doing or achieving literally anything is controversial.Men? Logical? Ha! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 01:52 PM |
| 32 | The Scrotes are mad in the comments because women getting credit for doing or achieving literally anything is controversial.It’s a lash out because her success reminds them that their inadequacies and lack of accomplishments are entirely their fault. If this woman can overcome so much discrimination and still achieve amazing things by her own merit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 01:52 PM |
| 24 | Growing up, I heard a million reasons given why a woman should stay with a cheater, but never one reason she should leave. I'm wondering if you think most bad dating advice given is a deflection, merely well-intentioned, or just taught over time? Let me know below.Thank you for your comment! I agree with you that advice given can sometimes be taught as a means of survival, although it's detrimental in the long run. It hurts for me to see relatives of mine rationalize inexcusable behavior just to remain in a relationship, when they deserve so much better. In my opinion, the wrong kind of dating advice can potentially have a domino effect in a culture, where cheating is normalized to the extent that women don't expect more from their partners and men don't … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 12:47 PM |
| 50 | Never ever ever beg someone to stay. This concept has been romanticized in the media, but it's toxic to your soul and mind. You teach other people how to treat you, so treat yourself with love, respect, and dignity.What matters in the long run is that you recognized errors you made and are working to correct them. You don't want to let past you affect your self-esteem in the present. You grew and moved on! It reminds me of a rap verse I heard by Nicki Minaj that says, "You ain't fck me, you fcked the old body." I think it's the same mentally. You're not the same person, so everyone you interact with now that never knew you doesn't know that old person. Show them the better version of you! Thanks for your c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 12:42 PM |
| 16 | Don't explain, don't justify, don't reason. Give the gift of your absence to those who do not respect or appreciate your presence.Exactly! And we encourage you to post your thoughts here, as well! I've given myself second-hand cringe just by reading paragraphs I'd written in the notes app, that I'm so so so glad I never sent. I think that's just a process of growth though, and realizing that not everyone deserves your innermost thoughts or feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 12:37 PM |
| 1 | The journey of a pickme and LVM daughterThank you so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 11:59 AM |
| 99 | Let mfs slide an inch, and they think they can start skating. If he cheats or validates cheating in any way, he gone.Men act surprised on dates, when I ask to follow them on twitter. These kinds of tweets are the reason. I need to know whether I should be blocking him in real life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 11:29 AM |
| 16 | The "cool girl" monologue from Gone Girl has stuck with me long after I watched the movie. Even though Amy Dunne is crazy, her madness touches on the trope I know we've all heard praised or even tried to aspire to.I double checked and you’re so right! Thanks for the fact check! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:47 PM |
| 4 | Don't date people who don't value your time. Point blank.Thank you and good for you too! Effort is attractive, and you deserve a date who will go the extra mile for you, not the bare minimum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:28 PM |
| 35 | The "cool girl" monologue from Gone Girl has stuck with me long after I watched the movie. Even though Amy Dunne is crazy, her madness touches on the trope I know we've all heard praised or even tried to aspire to.This is a copy/paste from a previous comment that answers your question: In my mind, she's touching on the faux feminism that is so often seen in guys who think they're progressive by saying they love strong women, but shirk if a woman contradicts them in any way. These are the same guys who believe that they are good people for treating their mothers and sisters like human beings, and believing that encapsulates all women. A strong woman who would call them out on their bs bruises their ego, so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:25 PM |
| 2 | I’m gonna nah sis myself for a second.You’re good, sis! Just plead temporary insanity and keep trucking 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:23 PM |
| 6 | The journey of a pickme and LVM daughterI feel as if our pasts are the same. I grew up in a verbally and physically abusive household with a LVM for a father and pickme mother. So many times they should have gotten a divorce, but didn’t because my mother would not leave. I’ve seen how it’s affected my sisters’ lives in so many ways, especially with their attraction to unavailable, abusive men. I’m going to do everything in my power to internalize the contents of this sub to hopefully deflect those kinds of men from my life. It was rea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:20 PM |
| 11 | I wish I could be the lesbian everyone assumes I am.I’m confused. Are you saying you wish you weren’t attracted to men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:15 PM |
| 27 | Y’all ever been a pick-me pick-me? Past me was just 🤢 🤮Please, I’m asking very nicely, don’t pretend to be a lesbian to attract guys. It makes actual lesbians not be taken seriously to straight men and enforces the idea that their sexuality is just a fetish. It is not ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:13 PM |
| 10 | If she cheated on him, I'm sure he'd be just as understanding. I mean, no one's, invincible right? (/s) My patience is thinner than a contact lens right now.“Because God” has been LVM’s excuse for millennia. There’s nothing new under the sun 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 08:29 PM |
| 128 | The "cool girl" monologue from Gone Girl has stuck with me long after I watched the movie. Even though Amy Dunne is crazy, her madness touches on the trope I know we've all heard praised or even tried to aspire to.I read and watched both. The book definitely humanizes Amy more to the extent that it addresses her concerns as legitimate, instead of mindlessly pushing the woman scorned trope like the movie did. Also, the book will have you identifying with Amy’s struggle to fit into society’s expectation of what the ideal woman should be, whereas the movie makes her seem kind of insecure and 2D. A man directed the movie and a woman wrote the book, so I’m not sure if that plays a part. But the movie makes men… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 08:27 PM |
| 38 | The "cool girl" monologue from Gone Girl has stuck with me long after I watched the movie. Even though Amy Dunne is crazy, her madness touches on the trope I know we've all heard praised or even tried to aspire to.Ben Affleck directed it, but Amy’s character was written by a woman. You can see the difference between perspectives in the book vs the movie. The book, written by gillian Flynn, humanizes Amy more in my perspective. The movie tends to paint her as more of a woman scorned without giving her the benefit of the doubt, when it comes to her reasoning for being so unhinged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 08:20 PM |
| 8 | No one should have control over your life except for you. Always have your own thing, not only to form self-respect but also so you have something to fall back on.It’s from the movie Possessed (1931) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 07:29 PM |
| 130 | The "cool girl" monologue from Gone Girl has stuck with me long after I watched the movie. Even though Amy Dunne is crazy, her madness touches on the trope I know we've all heard praised or even tried to aspire to.In my mind, she's touching on the faux feminism that is so often seen in guys who think they're progressive by saying they love strong women, but shirk if a woman contradicts them in any way. These are the same guys who believe that they are good people for treating their mothers and sisters like human beings, and believing that encapsulates all women. A strong woman who would call them out on their bs bruises their ego, so they'll eventually find someone else who will put up with them, even for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 06:28 PM |
| 435 | The "cool girl" monologue from Gone Girl has stuck with me long after I watched the movie. Even though Amy Dunne is crazy, her madness touches on the trope I know we've all heard praised or even tried to aspire to.This movie really hits me, because I see myself so much in how Amy lost herself when she entered her relationship with her husband. People told her her whole life she'd be fulfilled once she was in a relationship, even if it meant giving all of herself away. All she had to do, was fake it till she made it. She says in the book about her transformation, "I became someone I don't even like. The kind of woman I used to mock." When she fakes her death and is driving through California, she says, "He… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 06:06 PM |
| 44 | Teen Vogue is marketing sex toys... Their primary demographic is 12-17yo, and don’t you have to be 18 to enter a sex shop? Why are magazines so comfortable pushing this kind of content on underage girls?I agree with you. None of these look overly, grotesquely anatomical like most dildos. Those scare me till this day. I would buy my teenage daughter one of these sex toys, if only that she would become more in tune with her body and know how to please herself, instead of going to someone else first. The issue here with me is Teen Vogue's reputation on making girls insecure about relationships with men. i.e are you overbearing? can you lose weight? are you pleasing him in bed? etc. etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 05:55 PM |
| 20 | This person messaged me after I posted on this sub the other day. I checked my inbox today. Any man who sees this group as an "incel group" is a kind of man I don't want to run in to. Yes, I am an incel because I don't watch porn and because I am trying to value myself and better my life. Fuck off.They'll never actually internalize the message of this sub, which would benefit their dating lives significantly, because it would require introspection and changed behavior. I've never felt more empowered then when I read posts on this sub from real women. It really pushes past the Cosmopolitan "girl power" crap that causes so many women to doubt themselves in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 05:48 PM |
| 14 | This person messaged me after I posted on this sub the other day. I checked my inbox today. Any man who sees this group as an "incel group" is a kind of man I don't want to run in to. Yes, I am an incel because I don't watch porn and because I am trying to value myself and better my life. Fuck off.I agree wholeheartedly. I think this sub does a great job of teaching women self respect, self worth, and boundaries, which is something most of society benefits from us not having. If you validate yourself and forego compliments for commitment, you'll be a lot happier and more fulfilled in the long run. It's simple advice, but it's powerful, which is why it's silenced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 05:45 PM |
| 43 | This person messaged me after I posted on this sub the other day. I checked my inbox today. Any man who sees this group as an "incel group" is a kind of man I don't want to run in to. Yes, I am an incel because I don't watch porn and because I am trying to value myself and better my life. Fuck off.Hope they have a long neck, because four inches won't stretch that far lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 05:41 PM |
| 17 | This person messaged me after I posted on this sub the other day. I checked my inbox today. Any man who sees this group as an "incel group" is a kind of man I don't want to run in to. Yes, I am an incel because I don't watch porn and because I am trying to value myself and better my life. Fuck off.Oh my gosh, I got a message from the same guy. He's a chronic lurker. Reminds me of the "why are you so obsessed with me" meme from Mean Girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 05:40 PM |
| 18 | I enjoy making them squirm before unmatching. My dear ladies, meet the king of Backpedal City 🤡. FYI, I wasn’t confused, I was fully aware. #CallThemOut2020!You cracked the code they didn't even know they had, haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 05:36 PM |
| 48 | LVM prey on insecure women because they know they’ll put up with their shit. Remember that you are worthy of the bestMen will show you how much you are worth to them right when they're about to lose you. They realize how good they had it, as you're walking out the door. Then, it's too late. Believe me, I've overheard countless conversations at the office between men who know a woman is wayyyy out of their league, and yet they still neg her. It's a reason I intentionally go out of my way now to compliment other women, if something comes to mind. Most women deserve every single compliment they get, but people ar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 05:35 PM |
| 23 | The "cool girl" monologue from Gone Girl has stuck with me long after I watched the movie. Even though Amy Dunne is crazy, her madness touches on the trope I know we've all heard praised or even tried to aspire to.Of course! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 05:24 PM |
| 35 | There's no need to over explain or reiterate your boundaries. They heard you the first time.Exactly. A conversation is a two-way street. If the other person is not listening or letting you respond, see yourself out, while they continue to argue with the wall. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 04:43 PM |
| 16 | Don't date people who don't value your time. Point blank.Thank you for your comment! If he'd said he'd had anxiety, I would have given him the benefit of the doubt for sure. You also seem socially aware, which he was sorely lacking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 04:03 PM |
| 20 | If she cheated on him, I'm sure he'd be just as understanding. I mean, no one's, invincible right? (/s) My patience is thinner than a contact lens right now.The first is a question you have to ask yourself. Understand you have a problem, if you feel like you have to cheat in order to be validated. That feeling should be there regardless of a relationship. You can level up by being mature enough to respect your relationship enough to discuss your problems, instead of running to others to fix your emotional issues. You need to work hard to improve yourself and regain your boyfriend’s trust, if it’s not already lost. Best of luck to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 03:23 PM |
| 66 | If she cheated on him, I'm sure he'd be just as understanding. I mean, no one's, invincible right? (/s) My patience is thinner than a contact lens right now.This is what I call small man syndrome. Sadly, men like him are rarely in short supply. He just really doesn’t measure up when you see his treatment of others, which convinces me to think little of him, haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 02:39 PM |
| 7 | Someone please tell me to block this LV piece of trash... apologises for not making enough effort 2 weeks ago, already back to pushing me away when I'm trying to make plansHaha, it's yours! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 01:36 PM |
| 54 | The egg don't swim to the sperm, chick. Never chase a man!Yes yes yes. I had a college professor refer to his mother-in-law as a bitch once in class, I guess to seem more relatable? No surprise he turned out to be sexist as hell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 01:20 PM |
| 111 | If she cheated on him, I'm sure he'd be just as understanding. I mean, no one's, invincible right? (/s) My patience is thinner than a contact lens right now.Men will treat you how they feel about you. Point blank. I say he made himself loud and clear here, but , sadly, for some people it takes more than one time for it to really sink in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 01:18 PM |
| 88 | There's no need to over explain or reiterate your boundaries. They heard you the first time.Exactly. No response is the best response. Silence speaks volumes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 01:16 PM |
| 2 | ask stupid questions...The funny thing to me is that they'll be attracted to the woman in the first place because of her sense of style. Then, when they're in a relationship, they automatically want to start controlling her by wanting her to throw out the "hoe" clothes and become someone else. I think the fuck not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 01:15 PM |
| 9 | Out of the mouth of babes, comes forth wisdom. If they're not proud to be with you and treat you accordingly, then it's time to go.Didn't know this before posting; I'm going to go read up on the history. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Out of the mouth of babes, comes forth wisdom. If they're not proud to be with you and treat you accordingly, then it's time to go.Thank you for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 01:10 PM |
| 4 | I don’t rock up to a conversation saying “hey baldy”, why tf do stupid men think this is okay with someone you barely know? 👎🏽lmaooooooo. Queen shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 12:28 PM |
| 8 | I don’t rock up to a conversation saying “hey baldy”, why tf do stupid men think this is okay with someone you barely know? 👎🏽I had a guy pretend to "accidentally" call me honey at work, after hitting on me several times. I responded, "Wow, thanks for the nightmare fuel." He looked aghast that I didn't take it as a compliment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 12:27 PM |
| 8 | I don’t rock up to a conversation saying “hey baldy”, why tf do stupid men think this is okay with someone you barely know? 👎🏽Would they be laughing if a guy groped them, or would they be properly offended? There's your answer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 12:23 PM |
| 49 | Someone please tell me to block this LV piece of trash... apologises for not making enough effort 2 weeks ago, already back to pushing me away when I'm trying to make plansPlease God, give me peace, because if you give me strength, I will smack this fool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 12:22 PM |
| 22 | Wow, manipulative jackhole takes job in Australia without telling gf of 5 years or parents. Tries to gaslight gf reaction.Gf of 5 years was the first alarm bell. Don't let men with bad intentions waste your youth. You'll quickly become emotional support girlfriend, mommy, or a mix of the two. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 12:20 PM |
| 3 | “You’ll be single a long time” - this guyIt would be funny, if it wasn't too real haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:50 AM |
| 6 | “You’ll be single a long time” - this guyGood on you for practicing self-control. It's crazy to see how low value opinions line up with low value lifestyles. Almost like they go hand in hand | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:49 AM |
| 5 | “You’ll be single a long time” - this guyI admire someone who goes straight for the kill, lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:48 AM |
| 3 | “You’ll be single a long time” - this guyAt least I'll be single and not attached to someone who spends all of our money on videogames. Talk about suspended adolescence - definitely husband material | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:47 AM |
| 5 | « Men having to pay for dates is unfair because it doesn’t even guarantee pussy » as if women were supposed to be the ones paying to be used as a sex objectIf they just want sex, then pay for an escort. But they're too cheap. It's like they want a sex worker to take them out on a date. Holy hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:42 AM |
| 14 | I will accept nothing lessThis is a good reminder for me: You can wait around for a text back, or you can date someone who thinks about you and wants to bring you tacos. You get what you settle for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:40 AM |
| 17 | 🙄It's crazy to me that he's never cleaned anything before he met you. It's like not knowing how to wash a dish or use the microwave. My 7-year old cousin can do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:39 AM |
| 23 | 🙄Exhibit A of how men are not connected to reality. This is why the "manic pixie dream girl" trope exists, because they're forever in a dream world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:37 AM |
| 21 | I say, "It's mine bitch, it's just your turn. see yourself out."lmao, you girls are killing me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 06:49 PM |
| 5 | What are some pills you've swallowed about dating?You’re spitting straight facts, and I thank you for it 👏💝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 05:53 PM |
| 3 | respect ends = relationship ends. If they know they're hurting you and it's not bothering them, then what are you even doing in that relationship? Move on to better.That sounds horrible. I’m glad you didn’t go out with him again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 04:39 PM |
| 50 | I say, "It's mine bitch, it's just your turn. see yourself out."It's just a joke poking fun at relationships. It's supposed to be a kinky thing to say, but she's so self-aware that she's in complete ownership of herself, she doesn't respond to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 12:57 PM |
| 13 | respect ends = relationship ends. If they know they're hurting you and it's not bothering them, then what are you even doing in that relationship? Move on to better.i'm sorry that happened. It's crazy to think this behavior is universal, and yet men still gaslight women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 12:53 PM |
| 46 | respect ends = relationship ends. If they know they're hurting you and it's not bothering them, then what are you even doing in that relationship? Move on to better.I’m sorry that happened. Words are just that - words. People will treat you how they really feel about you. If it’s real, you’ll never have to question 💝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 10:45 AM |
| 8 | Tiana is my favorite Disney princess and forever a life mood! Get your coin, sis.If you’re writing fanfic, I’ll read it 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 10:42 AM |
| 56 | Tiana is my favorite Disney princess and forever a life mood! Get your coin, sis.Thank you for your comment. I hadn't considered her from this perspective before. I was thinking of her contextually, kind of like Mulan, in that she worked hard to prove herself and that nothing was handed to her. I look up to them both more than any of the other princesses, because I relate to them and they're more realistic. But I do appreciate your input. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 09:02 AM |
| 8 | Wrote a love letter to a guy that wasn't good to me, and then shredded it. Quarantine is really putting my relationships into perspective.Also, you shouldn't be getting downvoted. I agree with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 08:48 AM |
| 38 | Tiana is my favorite Disney princess and forever a life mood! Get your coin, sis.Tiana is working as a waitress to save up money to be able to afford her own restaurant, a dream both her and her father have shared since she was a child. After a long hard night working at her friend Charlotte’s gala, her beignets get noticed by other wealthy attendees and business starts rolling in. Here, she is clutching the down payment she needs for her business, which she got as an advance for agreeing to cater. (Sorry that was long. I’m obsessed 😂) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 07:07 AM |
| 26 | Wrote a love letter to a guy that wasn't good to me, and then shredded it. Quarantine is really putting my relationships into perspective.I totally agree. It was better for me to feel those feelings, though, so I could finally let go. I wrote it by the shredder and never intended to send it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 07:04 AM |
| 1 | I just can't anymore.Exactly. If anything, it's also a sign they don't respect your boundaries. Why should you completely lose your identity, as if your life revolves around him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 06:04 AM |
| 2 | I just can't anymore.My parents aren't divorced, but they might as well be. I'm keeping my last name no matter, what though, because I've never liked anyone's last name enough that I've dated. I won't change my name, when I get my doctorates either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 05:54 AM |
| 3 | I just can't anymore.She sounds like a woman I'd want to be friends with. Good for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 05:51 AM |
| 3 | I just can't anymore.Wow, I feel like you took the words right out of my mouth. It's crazy how men act like they don't want to get married or have kids, when they are the ones who majorly benefit from both. And then the media gaslights women into thinking we're lucky to get the short end of the stick. It shows how truly fucked our society is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 05:27 AM |
| 7 | PSA About Age Gap RelationshipsThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 05:23 AM |
| 1 | I just can't anymore.Agreed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 05:00 AM |
| 36 | So *ALL* women except for younger ones are unattractive, but this grandpa is soooo attractive. Porn rots men’s brains. Look at any age bracket, women are more attractive. I bet his wife looks light years better than he does. I hope she leaves his crust ass.Imagine thinking you’re stronger than the sun 🤦♀️ Toxic masculinity at its finest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 04:47 AM |
| 24 | So *ALL* women except for younger ones are unattractive, but this grandpa is soooo attractive. Porn rots men’s brains. Look at any age bracket, women are more attractive. I bet his wife looks light years better than he does. I hope she leaves his crust ass.If what this man is saying is true, which it probably isnt, I guarantee you she gained weight having his kids. Ladies, really evaluate your relationships. Think of how hard it is to change yourself, and then think of how hard it is to change someone else. I would be mortified if I saw my significant other post this, but I’m sure it didn’t come out of thin air. This disrespect has taken a longtime to build up. We can’t ignore the red flags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 04:45 AM |
| 20 | PSA About Age Gap RelationshipsI’ve never seen an age-gap relationship “work”, where either partner doesn’t give up a significant amount of power. Usually, that is the younger person. The older you get, the more life experience you have, especially dealing with other people. It’s not a mistake that someone so much older has taken an interest in you. Their motives are predatory, and it just so happens that you fit what they’re looking for. Always be on guard and don’t deceive yourself by projecting your good nature onto others… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 04:28 AM |
| 19 | PSA About Age Gap RelationshipsPlease don’t beat yourself up too hard about this. You had literally just aged into becoming an adult, which doesn’t automatically come with the wisdom gleaned over time. I had almost the same thing happen to me, but I was 19 and he was mid-forties. Ever since I cut him off, I started seriously prioritizing my education. I put all the efforts I made trying to make that relationship work into it. I’m in college now and hope to apply to grad school. I’m really happy to see your career growing too!… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 04:25 AM |
| 14 | PSA About Age Gap RelationshipsNecessaryCook is out here saving lives. He’ll try to treat you like your old, and you’re only 31. Believe me, I’ve seen it with my own eyes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 04:14 AM |
| 17 | PSA About Age Gap RelationshipsThis! I said in another comment, that a work colleague of mine said he preferred younger women because he could more easily “mold” them into what he wanted. It’s just disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 04:06 AM |
| 29 | PSA About Age Gap RelationshipsI’ve definietly almost experienced this as someone who’s 19 and the guy was mid-40’s. He was attractive, and I was naive and flattered. Then, I realized through someone else that his daughter was only 3 years younger than me. That’s so strange and not ok. I’m glad we never even started dating, and I was in a good place mentally to just say fuck it. But sadly, LVM prey on the vulnerable too :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 04:05 AM |
| 56 | PSA About Age Gap RelationshipsSo much this. I’ve met men that have their ego tied up in how much younger their partner is. I had a colleague of mine say he preferred younger women, because you could “mold” them into what you wanted. He’s admitting that he seeks out younger partners, just so he can manipulate them. It’s really disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Get out of it, right frickin now!These people are on crack 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:57 PM |
| 7 | So much this! Insulting another woman will never be a compliment to me. You're beautiful, cool, chill and real and so am I. The great thing is we don't need validation from men with bad intentions to know it.Exactly this! I need friends like you guys in real life 💝 Bless you queens! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:52 PM |
| 4 | So much this! Insulting another woman will never be a compliment to me. You're beautiful, cool, chill and real and so am I. The great thing is we don't need validation from men with bad intentions to know it.Exactly. And when you call them out, they play stupid, because they know how bad it makes them look. I say, keep it moving loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Me: a mentally and emotionally tired black woman; Him: a white man with no understanding of boundariesThis makes me think he’s fetishizing your race, sadly. You deserve way better 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:48 PM |
| 2 | How to have a secret bank account from your SO?I’m not sure about the answer, but I congratulate you on having your shit together. So often, rose-colored glasses with the best intentions hurt us in the long run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 06:35 PM |
| 41 | They can't function without constant over stimulation and wonder why they're miserableWouldn’t this require self-awareness on their part? Sounds too good to be true 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 10:30 AM |
| 9 | My experience with a LVM made me realize that I was a LVW.The thing you said about him continuing to live his life like you didn’t affect it that much really struck me. So often, women give 110% to relationships and forget themselves and their own goals. They forget they have dreams and visions for themselves too. (don’t beat yourself up too much about this, because our entire society enforces this kind of thinking for women). Now when I get into a relationship, I always think “how will this decision affect my career? Does this partner seem supportive … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 12:05 AM |
| 54 | I had to post this with a message on SC! In the end, they got divorced. It was an unstable relationship from the beginning!poor thing, it’s terrible she was treated like this. I feel really sorry for her, and especially her as a 19-year old, that she would believe that kind of behavior was ok. Sad all around :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Realizing he’s not that into youGuys this sub is not a stick to beat other women with. Let’s keep everything in perspective | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 11:51 PM |
| 7 | 100% of the sites Glamour recommends as “female friendly porn” objectify women right on the front page. Unsurprisingly, even “feminist” porn is still male gaze pandering trash. Can we get some dick and some washboard abs, sis?This kind of porn would actually be the kind to give women unrealistic standards 😂👏 I want it too though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 11:48 PM |
| 69 | Reminder: Male desire is both abundant and low value. They're out here screwing McChickens. I honestly feel like I'm taking crazy pillsThanks for the fact check! (sadly the Mcchicken thing is true though, ugh) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 11:41 PM |
| 4 | A Shoutout to HV Friends who keep your standards high (When your friends are the best dates; a great LVM measure)True! I’ve had friends who’ve planned surprise picnics, concerts, and vacations for me. Why should I settle with low-effort behavior with someone I just met? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 10:50 AM |
| 14 | Wish I knew this before. Sure, sometimes there is something wrong with your libido. But I wouldn't count on that from my experience lol. Whether you're not sure, go see a doctor sis <3Damn, as a bisexual, I’m sad you got away but also happy for you 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 10:10 AM |
| 24 | Wish I knew this before. Sure, sometimes there is something wrong with your libido. But I wouldn't count on that from my experience lol. Whether you're not sure, go see a doctor sis <3The relationship dynamic can be great, but if the sex is bad (and there’s no effort from the other person to improve), I won’t stay. I think being a lazy lover communicates a lack of respect. Life is too short to endure substandard sex just to be in a relationship. I can love myself, if you know what I mean | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 10:08 AM |
| 10 | ‘Shes just a friend babe, stop being so insecure!!’I. Am. Disgusted. but not surprised 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 09:53 AM |
| 7 | ‘Shes just a friend babe, stop being so insecure!!’Exactly. I soon as I’m aware I’m in the “fuckzone”, I’m noping the heck out of there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 09:52 AM |
| 7 | ‘Shes just a friend babe, stop being so insecure!!’Oh my gosh, that’s horrible. Now imagine someone hiding their marriage from you and stringing you along 🤦♀️ Been there sadly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 09:50 AM |
| 9 | ‘Shes just a friend babe, stop being so insecure!!’Don’t let scrotes gaslight your gut instinct. You know what’s up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 09:47 AM |
| 4 | ❤This healed me.0 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 01:37 PM |
| 5 | THIS is why you don’t engage in BDSM. Some of these men are deranged!Hello, I'm Chris Hansen. Please take a seat right over there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 04:17 AM |
| 6 | THIS is why you don’t engage in BDSM. Some of these men are deranged!This guy needs to be on a watchlist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 04:17 AM |
| 7 | Husband(43M) is depressed and angry his wife (30F) is the breadwinner so spends all day sabotaging her progress and throwing tantrums. Made her pay 50/50 even when he was making more.Honestly, I believe if a man is secure, it won't matter. Some people start off at different economic brackets or have less money due to illness. He just needs to be working hard towards something and not lazy, like this guy. Any insecurity about your success is a red flag. Also if he expects you to pay for everything - then he's a moocher and you should kick him to the curb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 04:11 AM |
| 8 | Basic redditor starterpackThe negging on truerateme is unreal! They want to hurt the original poster, as well as have female viewers think “damn, if she’s a 5, I’m a -5” or some shit. They just want women to lower their self-esteem, so they have a chance. Just pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 10:20 PM |
| 5 | Basic redditor starterpackThey are really delusional. Too bad they won’t see a therapist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 10:18 PM |
| 15 | Basic redditor starterpackPlease do not listen to these morons. Seriously, they could only dream of dating you. You’re the whole damn cake with a cherry on top | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Karma farming by making women look bad - Saved you a click: They broke upNormally a claim is fake if it's elaborate, pushes one-side overtly/is not fair to both parties, and exaggerates feelings of victimhood/oppression with no real substance or evidence. They're hoping for an emotional knee-jerk response without providing all the details in the original post and will come up with something later on down the line, when the story starts to unravel, to save face | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 01:29 AM |
| 27 | Hating misogynistic behavior = / = hating menYep - then she'll be on relationshipadvice complaining that the guy doesn't treat her like a person, when he was attracted to her only because she had no standards to begin with | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 01:25 AM |
| 38 | Hating misogynistic behavior = / = hating menwhen she gets a lvm, she'll be on r/ relationshipadvice complaining and still seeking validation. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 01:24 AM |
| 26 | Hating misogynistic behavior = / = hating menI think we can all agree that we lost a little respect for you there, jan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 01:23 AM |
| 31 | Can you be my GF without expecting me to be your BF? K, thanks. 🙄“Looking for prostitute/therapist who gets paid for neither” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 11:06 PM |
| 10 | Can you be my GF without expecting me to be your BF? K, thanks. 🙄“ :/“ fills me with rage. It’s like you can’t even put enough effort into this conversation to communicate what you want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 11:03 PM |
| 19 | You don't need emotional fulfillment from a man or validationExactly! Hollywood is partly to blame for pushing an idealized view of women as “manic pixie dream girls” with no agency. We need better media for women and girls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 11:02 PM |
| 47 | Men call women “gold diggers”, but no one ever calls men out for what they dig for.Men want pussy and a free therapist. I can’t 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 11:00 PM |
| 24 | LVM is unhappy that his girlfriend isn't 'open minded' enough to do anal and have a threesome involving him and her 'cute friends.' 🤮Disgusting. He needs to get off pornhub, and enter reality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 09:07 PM |
| 3 | when tall women wear heels unapologetically, I liveExactly. men shouldnt get a pat on the back for being a decent human being. I’ll wear my heels regardless 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 09:05 PM |
| 4 | Whitney Houston - Greatest Love Of All (Official Video) - Out of the mouth of babes, comes forth wisdom! Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of allTrue. In my head, I like to imagine this song sort of came at the end of her story, when she realized her self-worth and no longer needed to be validated by society or being a side chick. But yes, women get these mixed messages all the time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 01:36 PM |
| 47 | when tall women wear heels unapologetically, I liveExactly! If I guy says I’m too tall, I say “get on a step stool and say that to my face 😂👏” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 01:34 PM |
| 6 | when tall women wear heels unapologetically, I liveGood to see you too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 12:19 PM |
| 26 | when tall women wear heels unapologetically, I liveHistorically, they used to 💁♀️ Heels were actually seen as masculine attire, worn by kings and dukes. Then they became an accessory of the middle class, when butchers wore them to keep blood off their feet in slaughterhouses. Ever since then, women have had access to them and have done much to make them personalized and stylish. It’s sad now, though, some people see heels as frivolous. I think they raise women up (literally, haha) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Lizzo and the Self-Love Revolution - A must watch! Society won't convince us to value ourselves; it profits off our insecurities. That's why it's so important for women to lift themselves and other women up!This video also addresses how women empowerment or “girl power” is hijacked by marketing agencies and watered down. Lizzo brings it back, raw and real. There’s no lie in her fire 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 12:13 PM |
| 17 | Really important stuff here - value yourself in your relationships, and it will manifest in the long runAlso, don't worry so much about going through a list, but instead listening to yourself (i.e don't gaslight yourself/deny gut instinct) and putting yourself first in relationships. The rest will come naturally, but these are good reminders. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 12:03 PM |
| 51 | when tall women wear heels unapologetically, I liveValid point! I meant no offense, as a tall girl myself (6’1 not in heels). I saw it as the idea of tall women itself is intimidating to men, not physically, but rather threatens their ego. I’ll keep your post in mind in the future, thank u | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 11:40 AM |
| 58 | Maybe more women will listen to this because it's a guy, but I know most of us already know this from experienceAmen. Women shouldn’t feel guilty about being honest about their lived experiences. Men shame women for being honest, because it exposes ugly truths | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 10:58 AM |
| 49 | when tall women wear heels unapologetically, I liveExactly. I know how tall I am, when I go on a date. If he was lying, I’m walking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 10:57 AM |
| 4 | She ended men and pickmes in one strokeShe's a boss, damn. #goals | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 10:22 AM |
| 32 | Ladies never let these uneducated boys tell you they age like fine wine 💀Thank you for this! I don’t think the scientific community has ever been disillusioned by men “hitting the wall”, only Hollywood has. Honest to goddess, some of these older guys that are supposed to be the hottest alive just aren’t. I saw Mel Gibson in an ad for hottest men alive. Mel freaking Gibson?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 09:35 AM |
| 55 | Reddit be likeWhen tall girls wear heels, I live 💝💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 08:26 AM |
| 35 | Reddit be likeShe handed it right back 😂 his “rules for thee,but not for me” crap reeks of insecurity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 08:25 AM |
| 12 | Honestly just thought this was so funny, I mean what else do you say back to that? Of course I am beautiful 100% of the time!!He wanted her to be like “no, haha. Not always” and be flattered, because he somehow saw something she didn’t see??? She put him in his place real quick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 08:22 AM |
| 4 | Y'all Saved Me.That’s terrifying! I’m glad you stood up for yourself and didn’t go back 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 08:16 AM |
| 28 | Mansplaining: It’s free of charge! 😃Haha, exactly 😂 I didn’t know a service could be so easily offended | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 08:15 AM |
| 45 | Marriage for the vast majority of women has historically been indentured servitude or outright slavery. Men who think they’re “scaring” us by saying we’ll end up alone....So...what? You think you’re threatening us by offering NOT slavery?🤔Hon, a lot of them will be divorced and single later on, if they didn’t choose wisely. Never rush into anything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 08:12 AM |
| 54 | Marriage for the vast majority of women has historically been indentured servitude or outright slavery. Men who think they’re “scaring” us by saying we’ll end up alone....So...what? You think you’re threatening us by offering NOT slavery?🤔Exactly! Even if science shows that unmarried women are happier, society will still push these ideas of single women as desperate cat ladies. I’m over the scare tactics | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 08:11 AM |
| 51 | Preach! I'm learning this too. You can't make him something he's not. Don't try to change him - change your standards!So sorry! Screenshotted an already blurry post 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 12:43 AM |
| 3 | Hon, is he hot and cold? Worry no moreSo true! You deserve more than second thoughts and maybes. Commit or quit is what I'd say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 10:05 PM |
| 1 | A text back is not a "treat". You are not a dog.Glad to help! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 10:04 PM |
| 3 | A text back is not a "treat". You are not a dog.Definitely not. If you're a priority in his life, he'll make time for you, and you shouldn't have to beg for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 10:04 PM |
| 3 | A humble list of ways following FDS improved my life.I wholeheartedly concur! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:46 AM |
| 7 | I hate it that pickmeishas and men fetishize bisexual women.Yeah, finding a based bisexual women (who is actually bisexual) sometimes feels like finding a needle in a haystack. I think it pays to be upfront and see if they consider relationships with women to be long term for them, instead of a placeholder. I’m sorry you got hurt :( You deserved better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 10:33 PM |
| 15 | I hate it that pickmeishas and men fetishize bisexual women.I think this is the reason most bisexuals date lesbians, because they don’t have to jump through five thousand hurdles just to be with a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 10:29 PM |
| 10 | I hate it that pickmeishas and men fetishize bisexual women.Right? Just because I’m bi doesn’t mean I want to sleep with your boyfriend. It should be considered catfishing when they put an attractive photo of her out there, and then go “surprise! I have a bf”. Like no thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 10:28 PM |
| 7 | I hate it that pickmeishas and men fetishize bisexual women.I’m glad to see another bisexual here! The reasons you listed in this post are the exact reasons I won’t tell a guy I’m bi, when we start dating. I don’t want to be fetishized, and I’m not a sex object. My relationships will also always be monogamous - period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Definitely used to be a weakness of mine, until this sub. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be like other girls!What you already said sounds like perfection to me and would have been greatly appreciated. A heads-up always saves me in the long-run, but it only works if you trust other women. I think women sometimes have a knee-jerk reaction to defend men like this at first because they seem like “nice guys”, until they realize later his intentions weren’t so pure. I’m so used to it now, though, I can see them coming from a mile off. Thank you for being so kind! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 10:18 PM |
| 0 | Definitely used to be a weakness of mine, until this sub. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be like other girls!No worries! I’m bisexual and have dated primarily men in the past. The bisexual subreddit is mostly men posting so I feel more comfortable on r/lesbian. I also have a lot of lesbian friends, so it helps me to understand the community | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 09:52 PM |
| 29 | Definitely used to be a weakness of mine, until this sub. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be like other girls!Amen. As an intern who’s experienced harassment from a boss, I’ve had women turn on me because I was getting “special attention”, that I did not desire nor encourage. I just wanted to scream, “help! He’s a pervert” and have other women have my back. It’s sad that I see it only mostly online | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 03:09 PM |
| 49 | Definitely used to be a weakness of mine, until this sub. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be like other girls!I'm sorry to hear that, hon. At the very least, you're aware of the abusive cycle. I feel a lot of empathy towards these women, even if they cause me harm, because they were born in this self-hating, pick-me pit (like me) and haven't ever had the ability to see themselves as a person secure in their own right. This type of relationship cycle is toxic, because it upholds bad behaviors towards oneself in the hope of security. But the person most of these women are searching for security in is usua… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 01:12 PM |
| 29 | Definitely used to be a weakness of mine, until this sub. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be like other girls!Same, girl. What's helped me is putting myself into the shoes of that "other girl" men tell me I'm supposed to be happy that I'm not like. What they're actually saying without saying it is, stay exactly like this "cool girl" image, or you'll fall from grace and become undesirable. Why would I let someone who has such a low view of women overall control my actions towards other women or even my perception of myself? The whole "not like other girl" shtick is just so gross, and I'm working on not p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 01:05 PM |
| 27 | Definitely used to be a weakness of mine, until this sub. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be like other girls!Come with me and we'll be in a world full of pure imagination, haha. All jokes aside, this would ideal. I'm thinking it would look something like Themyscria with men, which I don't even know if that's possible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 12:14 PM |
| 1 | What do you think, ladies?oh my gosh, I'm dying hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 08:20 AM |
| 1 | I made a giant step forward because of this group! So thank you.Good for you, beautiful! We love to see it 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 03:39 AM |
| 39 | Exacly.It’s sad how much this is gospel. It just shows how twisted some guys’ minds are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 03:34 AM |
| 3 | It’s almost as if they try to take the least flattering photo possible 🥴Right?? I’m like getting major serial killer vibes from most of these guys 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 02:44 AM |
| 2 | It’s almost as if they try to take the least flattering photo possible 🥴If I would never give these guys a chance in real life, why the hell would I give them my precious time on an app? I’ll meet men in real life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 02:43 AM |
| 6 | Priority Challenge: Love yourself first and then love your sisters (lift other women up)I will do this for sure! Great post that radiates Queen energy 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 02:41 AM |
| 6 | Value: Superficial vs genuineAlso, I’m reminded of one of my favorite sayings: you get what you give. You don’t have to share the same hobbies, but you should both share interest in what the other person is doing, if only out of love for them. Especially in more creative works, art can be a reflection of who a person is. Communicating interest is communicating respect for the person and their viewpoint | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Value: Superficial vs genuineAmazing post! Without my female friendships, I have no idea where I’d be. It’s nice to confide in someone who will listen genuinely without the hope of sex in return. Also, our shared experiences make me feel less crazy. Thank you ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 08:32 PM |
| 68 | Misogynist Men Hate FDS Because We Expose Their TacticsExactly! They prey on women with low self-esteem - why would they ever want women to have standards? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 08:28 PM |
| 39 | If a woman chooses to forgive/stay with her cheating spouse that’s her choice, but no one will ever convince me that their relationship is goals or anything to aspire to.If men had a handbook, there’d be a whole chapter called “Rules for thee, but not for me” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 08:24 PM |
| 10 | Doing my best to internalize this when reminiscing of how 'nice' they are in the beginning.Honey, and I say this with all the love in my heart, you need to respect yourself a little bit more. I struggle with this too. This guys seems like he’s treating you like a piece of ass, when you’re more than that. Make room for better men, because I think he’s in the way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 08:21 PM |
| 3 | A text back is not a "treat". You are not a dog.Amen! 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Hon, is he hot and cold? Worry no moreThat’s great to hear! Thanks for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Hon, is he hot and cold? Worry no moreThis was so nice to read - thank you so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 03:21 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020They're just throwing anything hoping that it will stick on a woman with low self-esteem. Best to not take it personally. Just block and ignore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 08:05 AM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020Now that's leveling up! The orderliness of a home serves to represent a person's mental state. If it's a disaster, it's going to be hard to have a stable relationship with this person. (this of course excludes disorderliness due to mental illness,etc.) By walking out, you put your boundaries and standards first, instead of just passively following an emotional response. Good for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 07:57 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020Refreshing to read to this positivity! Thank you for being excellent to each other | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 07:48 AM |
| 21 | Hon, is he hot and cold? Worry no moreThank you for sharing this! It's vital for me to have a name to pair with behavior, so I'm not so easily gaslighted in the future. It really helps me line up words with actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 07:26 AM |
| 15 | Hon, is he hot and cold? Worry no moreThere's this song lyric that inspired me to write this post from a band called The Japanese House from a song called "Something Has to Change". It goes : "And it's the same thing, you're repeating yourself, and it's the same guy who's giving you hell, the same face, your heart keeps breaking in the same place. something has to change." This is exactly what I felt leaving my last relationship - how long will I let myself keep hurting in the same place, before I move onto something better for me? … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 07:25 AM |
| 7 | How do you balance between being empathetic and self-serving in a relationship?Firstly, decide what your boundaries are and be upfront about them from the get go. If your future partner is uncomfortable with those, then you needn't get together in the first place. Sometimes men could refer to you as "difficult", because they're low-effort and are trying to manipulate you into lowering your standards. This goes back to having firm boundaries, which will help to clear up confusion. Ask yourself, "Am I treating my partner the way I want to be treated?" If yes, then you have t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 04:41 AM |
| 6 | Sometimes I feel like having low expectations ruins my relationship :(I guess it depends on what your expectations are. If you just want a text back or your boundaries respected, that's a really low bar, which should be easy to meet. Be wary of guys who will gaslight you or try to manipulate you into doing things you're uncomfortable with because of your good nature. Ask yourself, "Am I treating others the way I want to be treated? Are they giving to the relationship too, or just taking?" When you answer those questions, it should help to clear the grey areas. Han… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 04:34 AM |
| 7 | A text back is not a "treat". You are not a dog.thank u! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 04:22 AM |
| 47 | Proposing to a man: I can't evenBecause he’s shyyyy (which means he’s actually just lazy) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 04:17 AM |
| 19 | Proposing to a man: I can't evenIf I ever get down on one knee for a man, call the police. I’m being held hostage and am doing this against my will | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 04:16 AM |
| 16 | Woman’s UNEMPLOYED husband could handle being a stay at home dad for THREE days so she had to shut down her business and lay-off 13 people.This is my new rule: if he wouldn’t do it for me, I wouldn’t do it for him. You get what you give. It saves me from a lot of bullshit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 01:09 AM |
| 10 | Woman’s UNEMPLOYED husband could handle being a stay at home dad for THREE days so she had to shut down her business and lay-off 13 people.Exactly. If you’ve ever seen the movie the baby boom it addresses this topic in the late 80s about motherhood. Mothers have adapted to change as best they can to all these roles, but society has not adapted to fit them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 01:08 AM |
| 5 | Woman’s UNEMPLOYED husband could handle being a stay at home dad for THREE days so she had to shut down her business and lay-off 13 people.Yeah, I’m in my late teens, and I overhear all kinds of disgusting things about me at the office where I work. It’s sometimes infuriating, because my work is either not recognized or undercut because of how I look. Older men are gross 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 01:06 AM |
| 6 | Always put yourself first, ladies.Amen! You get what you give | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 08:35 PM |
| 5 | Always put yourself first, ladies.I think the fuck not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 08:24 PM |
| 9 | 6+ years with a man and no ring?He’s not in love with her, period. Nothing, come hell or high water, will keep a man away that loves you. Men are possessive by nature. The sad thing is he will eventually find someone else who catches his eye and leave her, after he’s wasted so many of her good years. It makes me sad she doesn’t see that she deserves the whole world and infinitely more than this loser. I wish I could link her this subreddit but her comments are off :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 07:05 AM |
| 9 | 6+ years with a man and no ring?I think it’s because in their delusion, they think something better will come along. It reminds me of the old saying though, that a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. It would be a shame to miss out on forever with someone, because you’re afraid of commitment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 07:00 AM |
| 7 | 6+ years with a man and no ring?Just because you were dumped doesn’t mean you’re not valuable! Banish the thought. I’ve broken it off with ex’s before and immediately regretted it, or have looked back on relationships and realized that I took a good thing for granted. And I’ve had ex’s say the same about me. Things don’t work sometimes, but that should never impact your self-worth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 06:56 AM |
| 17 | 6+ years with a man and no ring?Exactly. Society shames the divorcee, because they don’t like a woman with agency. If shit hits the fan, then you should see your way out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 06:52 AM |
| 3 | 6+ years with a man and no ring?Just don’t fall in love with him whatever you do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 06:50 AM |
| 40 | 6+ years with a man and no ring?It’s so obviously much more than a piece of paper, or they’d just give her what she wants. They fully understand the implications of marriage and just want the sex/relationship perks without the commitment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 06:49 AM |
| 2 | Movie/series suggestions?This is amazing! Thank you for all your help, ladies - my weekend is now booked 😂👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 11:47 PM |
| 12 | Nothing “Happened” to Me- A Man Did Something to MeThis reminds me of yesterday, when I was at the store with my sister. We bought groceries and a lot of drugstore makeup, but as we were checking out I saw a rack of 5-inch pocket knives near the till. I started to think of times I or my sister were alone in a parking garage or outside a convenience store and felt afraid or threatened by strange men. The guy who was ringing up our stuff when scanning our makeup laughed and nonchalantly said, “just girly stuff, eh?”. I placed two knives on top and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 08:09 PM |
| 16 | Nothing “Happened” to Me- A Man Did Something to MeBecause of this comment, I’ll try to rephrase how I console people, even on this sub. It’s more validating to place blame where it’s due | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 07:59 PM |
| 9 | LVM with Egos in the Legal Field and Black CommunityI agree 100% with this. In real life, some black men (and most in Tyler Perry movies) believe women should kiss their feet because they have a job (black women do too??) and are faithful. The bar is so low | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Ladies I'm going to tell you a huge secret about menExactly. Find someone who will make time for you, not more excuses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 04:23 AM |
| 3 | Ladies I'm going to tell you a huge secret about menWow, he was treating you like a child, and I’m glad you stood up for yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 04:22 AM |
| 2 | Ladies I'm going to tell you a huge secret about menYour ex is a total ass, and the way he treated you was just plain disrespectful. I would’ve thrown hands | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Don't even trip - you are a prize!!!That too! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Don't even trip - you are a prize!!!That as well! But "don't trip" is just slang for "don't get it confused". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Take responsibility for your own happinessNo problem! The list of movies is: Hidden Figures, the First Wives Club, Fried Green Tomatoes, Thelma & Louise, Legally Blonde, Working Girl, A League of Their Own, Wonder Woman, Alien (Ripley's character is iconic) , Nine to Five, the Sister Act, The Color Purple, Little Women, Mad Max Fury Road, Suffragette, Matilda, Steel Magnolias, The Princess Diaries, The Help, Kill Bill, Little Miss Sunshine, Dangal, The Stepford Wives, 10 Things I Hate About You, the Baby Boom, On the Basis of Sex, and T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 01:12 AM |
| 7 | Take responsibility for your own happinessSure thing! The list of movies is: Hidden Figures, the First Wives Club, Fried Green Tomatoes, Thelma & Louise, Legally Blonde, Working Girl, A League of Their Own, Wonder Woman, Alien (Ripley's character is iconic) , Nine to Five, the Sister Act, The Color Purple, Little Women, Mad Max Fury Road, Suffragette, Matilda, Steel Magnolias, The Princess Diaries, The Help, Kill Bill, Little Miss Sunshine, Dangal, The Stepford Wives, 10 Things I Hate About You, the Baby Boom, On the Basis of Sex, and T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 01:11 AM |
| 22 | One smart Grandma! I came across this post on LinkedIn, and the comments were full of PickMes and men saying that this is “misandrist and dishonest”. Ladies, looking out for yourself is in YOUR BEST INTEREST.thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 12:14 AM |
| 8 | This has loads of angry reacts but men do this all the time lolI said limbo and it autocorrected 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 11:47 PM |
| 9 | This has loads of angry reacts but men do this all the time lolThe bar is lower than the Mariana Trench, and yet they’ll still tango smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 11:47 PM |
| 3 | 1 in 3 women worldwide have been victims of violence. 38% of all murdered women, are murdered by their partners. 700 million women alive today got married under the age of 18. (London School of Hygiene & Tropical Medicine, 2013)Thank you for spreading awareness 👏! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 11:45 PM |
| 229 | One smart Grandma! I came across this post on LinkedIn, and the comments were full of PickMes and men saying that this is “misandrist and dishonest”. Ladies, looking out for yourself is in YOUR BEST INTEREST.There’s an article you should look up about a fund for cash called f*ck you money, which is a secret stash women should save in order to get out of abusive situations. Studies show financial abuse almost always accompanies either physical or verbal domestic abuse. It angers me when people always complain about “why did the woman stay”, as if the victim always has the means to leave . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 11:42 PM |
| 12 | Exactlyhow does one let it get this bad? I’m just aghast 😧 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 11:36 PM |
| 5 | some men need to learn thiswhy-men-deserve-less 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 09:09 AM |
| 10 | Has anyone else started to lose faith in men in general?Always go with your gut - women’s intuition has been gaslighted for centuries as superstition, but that’s your survival instinct at work. I’d trust myself, before I trusted a near stranger | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 09:02 AM |
| 7 | Has anyone else started to lose faith in men in general?The last line is key - you’re already on the road to self improvement by prioritizing your own happiness and taking responsibility for it. 👏 know ,when it gets hard, that the effort you’re putting into your well-being no one can ever take away from you. Good luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 09:00 AM |
| 78 | Men's pockets are bigger to hold all their audacity -I think the reason this is common is not only misogyny, like you were saying, but also because the culture sets such a low bar for men's behavior. If a man acts out, it was because his mother was cruel. If a husband cheats, it's because his wife was not pretty/hard-working enough to please him. This mentality disproportionately places almost all societal blame on women's shoulders. This is a global epidemic, but when I studied abroad, I saw it more often in traditional,patriarchal countries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 07:15 AM |
| 23 | Has anyone else started to lose faith in men in general?From my experience, I find the answer to be simple. It comes from an overinflated ego, a lack of self-awareness, and a society that applauds the bare minimum from men, while telling women to try harder. I’ve had to recognize that I must do things for myself and for my own happiness. It’s a lot less stressful than doing mental parkour for the attention of a cheater. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 07:02 AM |
| 5 | The best thing in life...Damn straight. I’d also recommend buying a firearm or weapon of some kind - you can never be too careful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 04:02 AM |
| 11 | The tinder subreddit is full of men praising pickmeishas and making fun of girls for how they look... oh and I hope she gets pickedYour pick me ways get you none - I’ll go and pray for you hun 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 03:59 AM |
| 21 | We don't beg, we move on.Yep! Don’t let anyone in your life who treats you badly start feeling like they’re irreplaceable. Show them the door - | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 03:57 AM |
| 11 | Has anyone else started to lose faith in men in general?You’re a diamond in the rough - keep shining! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 11:14 PM |
| 36 | Has anyone else started to lose faith in men in general?I echo your sentiments completely. You can’t imagine how many times in shock I’ve discovered that a few of the guys who had been flirting with me had just taken off their wedding ring. When I go out now, I immediately look at men’s ring fingers for a tan. How many times have their shenanigans worked, and their poor wife was none the wiser? I’m just disgusted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 11:12 PM |
| 47 | Men lie, get what you want before he gets hisCommitment is quite literally the bare minimum to ask of someone in a !!relationship!! This is not a hard concept, and neither is it asking for a lot. LVM just want to gaslight you into lowering your standards, when the bar is already lower than the Mariana Trench. smh 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 11:03 PM |
| 19 | some men need to learn thisI believe you, and I’m sorry that happened to you. You deserved better. The best thing I ever did was find one female friend in the office who stuck by me. I remember one Christmas office party, I was feeling so low about everything going on, I was just going to drop off my cake and leave. She caught me at the door and convinced me to go out dancing instead. We split the cake between us! Friendships with women have made all the difference to me. This memory keeps me from letting others grind dow… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 10:21 PM |
| 35 | some men need to learn thisThis is true! congrats on your glow up! please remember not all women think this way - some of us really want to see other women succeed. LVM men will sometimes pit women against each other for their own entertainment or to get what they want. It would be a shame to play into their hands | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 09:51 PM |
| 27 | some men need to learn thischerrybonfield, I adore you! Thank you for speaking what I’ve been thinking for a while now. At the office where I work, I’ve had some women who have said derogatory things behind my back, because the boss liked me (ew,gross, I know). My male colleagues noticed this and tried to “you’re not like other girls” me into talking trash about all the women in the office. I flat out refuse to play their games. If a woman in the office is doing well, I always make sure to encourage her work out loud. Wom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 09:47 PM |
| 35 | some men need to learn thisI’m sorry that happened to you. People can be so cruel. Please know that you're deserving of all the love in world just for being who you are, not for the way you look ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 09:40 PM |
| 84 | some men need to learn thisI understand this sentiment completely. It’s almost like no matter how alike you are, they will always see you outside of the “boys club”, because the only way they can feel any assertion of masculinity is by treating women as a lesser/not equal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 09:34 PM |
| 10 | I have been seeing a surge of these kinds of tweets lately— I love it. We’re doing something right ladies 😜Reading this was inspiring. Bravo! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 06:18 PM |
| 18 | I have been seeing a surge of these kinds of tweets lately— I love it. We’re doing something right ladies 😜Hit the road jack and don’t you come back no more 👏💁♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 06:17 PM |
| 18 | How many other NVM phrases can you think of ?Men will say this and then say that they’re not mind readers. How am I supposed to communicate? Sign language? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 06:37 PM |
| 15 | Do not fall for the trap of liberal "feminism"A part of me wants women to profit off men’s baser horniness, because it’s really just so easy (which says a lot about how worthless male desire is), but then another part of me realizes that, in a sense, it’s an exhange of being seen as a sex object for cash, which I don’t see as empowering in the slightest. It’s an issue I always come back to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 08:27 PM |
| 39 | A queen said so!!!This reminds me of the meme of the broken down picnic table men want you to bring something to. Their standards are so high for women (even in incredibly bizarre,niche ways) and so low for themselves. I have to laugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 11:11 PM |
| 24 | A queen said so!!!Exactly. We should feel no pressure to perform, when we are already at our best simply being ourselves. Men will prey off any insecurities if you let them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 11:09 PM |
| 36 | A queen said so!!!IKR, going to the gym is not a hobby or a personality. It’s the bare minimum for personal physical wellness 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 11:08 PM |
| 88 | A queen said so!!!Damn, he can’t save himself? He’s more helpless than a child? Lmao, pickme’s are reachin for sure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 11:07 PM |
| 17 | Naivety will kill youThis is my first time posting, so I just wanted to say I appreciate all of your replies and have read every one of them! It has also confirmed my suspicion that there are male lurkers on the sub in more ways than one, but this fact only encourages me to be more outspoken in the future. Please keep standing up for yourselves and fighting for what you deserve 👏 Good luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 05:51 PM |
| 13 | Naivety will kill youNo problem! There’s no reason for all of us to learn the hard way 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 05:39 PM |
| 3 | This would really help if woman act upon itIt’s your thing - do what you want to do 🎼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 03:15 AM |
| 10 | “Can we be fwb after quarantine?” NoSo basically prostitution but without the paycheck? Because she’s sure as hell not getting anything emotionally, physically, or monetarily from this relationship 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 04:59 AM |
| 2 | ""WoKe""" dating advice from Male RedditorsThanks! Happy to share | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 08:38 PM |
| 117 | ""WoKe""" dating advice from Male RedditorsLadies, please don’t make the first move. I’ve overheard countless conversations working in a male dominated environment, and it’s never uplifting. It goes along the lines of “man she looked really desperate” or “did you see how quick she came on to me? What a slut.” Men falsely perceive any type of assertiveness as being easy, because they’re used to women in porn being upfront right off the bat. Also, most men I’ve met are turned off when any form of commitment, even initial interaction, doesn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 11:45 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020That's really good advice, thank you! I'll do what I have to do, until I can do what I want to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 11:49 PM |
| 12 | He cheated on her, she's divorcing himUpvoted every comment in this thread so far, because this message is so badly needed 👏 please spread this energy on the original tweet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020He’s a keeper for sure! Thank you for sharing your perspective. It’s sad that femininity is simultaneously put on a pedestal to bash women and then degraded as frivolous and lesser throughout history. I dream of a world where women can be their full, authentic selves without judgement. I posted here somewhere else in the thread, that I was having issues at work getting respect, when I dressed more femininely. I would always get targeted sexist comments like “dont get your skirt in a twist” or th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020That’s awesome! An old boyfriend of mine used to make fun of me for using my bookshelves for shoes. I said you do realize ebooks exist, right? Never apologize for being yourself 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 11:06 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/20/2020I’m in a conundrum, ladies. I really like dressing very feminine to work (skirts,dresses,heels etc.), but I feel like when I do my male colleagues condescend to me more. To be more cognizant, I kept a tally of times I was talked over or my points ignored, when I was wearing pants to when I was wearing a dress. Over the course of a few weeks, it was almost 3 to 1! My demeanor and assertiveness are the same in both, so I just don’t understand. I feel more comfortable in a dress, but I don’t want m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 11:01 AM |
| 9 | Don't Date Much Older Men!!! My Story of Dating my ProfessorThis is so close to my story, it’s scary. Even the ages 🤦♀️ It’s like he knew I was sad and that was a foothold for him to screw with me mentally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 06:43 PM |
| 7 | Don't Date Much Older Men!!! My Story of Dating my ProfessorThis happened to me too. My sociology professor hit on me after class, and I was attracted to him, because I was young and naive. I ended up blowing my grades for a semester just from being led on and wasting my time meeting with him. It came out later, he was married and had just taken off his ring. Of course he was married! I’m such a dumbass. Please don’t learn the hard way like I did - put yourself first and raise your self esteem before looking for a relationship 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 06:35 PM |
| 64 | Men remain in possession of the absolute audacityClassic deflection. Men do this all the time. He’s not rude for disturbing you, you’re “rude” for not putting up with his bullshit. What a prick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 03:18 PM |
| 19 | This is why I'm taking time to reevaluate my standards. In the past I've felt like I clung to the first guy that showed interest in me and it always went down hill the moment I asked anything of them.Same. Dysfunctional does not begin to describe my parents relationship. I’m always on guard for LVM behavior because of it, sometimes even subconsciously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 01:58 AM |
| 7 | Making fun of women for dating LVM men by saying they have "daddy issues" is blaming women for being hurt by things their abusive fathers did.I’m so sorry that happened, hon. I hope my comment didn’t come across as victim blaming - definitely not my intention | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 02:13 AM |
| 18 | Making fun of women for dating LVM men by saying they have "daddy issues" is blaming women for being hurt by things their abusive fathers did.Hello, HR? Yes, I’d like to report a moron. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 08:48 PM |
| 4 | Making fun of women for dating LVM men by saying they have "daddy issues" is blaming women for being hurt by things their abusive fathers did.Wow,I’m just reading these replies and my heart goes out to everyone in this thread. I’m sorry that any person would put you through this. Please take care of yourselves first. You guys deserve the best in the world 💛🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 08:46 PM |
| 5 | The Power of Internalizing the FDS MindsetQueen shit right here 👏🥳👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 02:29 AM |
| 13 | These two tweets sum up perfectly why “not being like other girls” is NOT a compliment!Good on you, sis 👏 expect respect and nothing less | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:19 PM |
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