lowkey don’t even care at this point if a guy wants to screw around with my feelings like that i simply just do not have the time and resources to deal with it - block and delete

greenwalrus1999 · 2021-12-29T13:41:04+00:00

this is exactly how it goes. scarily accurate

i’m forever sad that college-aged me put herself through this approximately 100 times but at least now i know better i guess

JadeBaby2211 · 2021-12-29T13:51:13+00:00

Wait I thought men liked doing """"manly""""" shit like chopping wood and hunting....but we ended up with this lmao.

londochig · 2021-12-29T12:42:59+00:00

God this is the literal definition of a narcissist. Love bombs then withholds emotional and terrorises you. Perhaps she's not wrong to say all men of today are narcs.

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2021-12-29T06:42:57+00:00

Yeah, we're done with the whiplash.

extragouda · 2021-12-29T09:51:37+00:00

If a guy isn't all in, he's not that into you.

If he doesn't get to know you and is love-bombing you with future-faking and gifts, he's not that into you.

A guy has to get to know you, take his time, prioritize your time, and be all in. There's something to be said about being able to be emotionally vulnerable with the people you are with. It is satisfying and meaningful. All other types of relationships pale in comparison.

scorchedsouI · 2021-12-29T07:20:09+00:00

It's funny how men think they can withhold anything. We don't need them anymore. It's either our way or single.

onceuponasea · 2021-12-29T07:43:27+00:00

Blocked

__kamikaze__ · 2021-12-29T13:52:36+00:00

Reading that gave me the ick. If I sense the slightest bit of that crap I block & delete 💁‍♀️

lansburysoda · 2021-12-29T17:45:59+00:00

To add to this: another part of the new patriarchal dynamic is men dangling the carrot of commitment while women desperately play the “cool girl” while sleeping with him and hoping they get picked. Meanwhile, men are the ones who benefit the most from being in committed relationships. The channel “Ana Psychology” has a video about this on YouTube but I forget what the title is.

Edit: the title of the video is “Watch this if you want him to commit (CLICKBAIT LOL)”

sexualfoodpantry · 2021-12-29T10:00:39+00:00

That's another reason why they love to hound obviously inexperienced women. Only they are impressed by those kind of behaviors and will try to respond by being the "cool girl". Any woman who's been around will next them so fast, it will make their head spin.

mandoa_sky · 2021-12-29T07:17:35+00:00

who knew my adhd had a silver lining? that kinda treatment never works re me.

madamejesaistout · 2021-12-29T17:00:50+00:00

This isn't new, this has been going in my whole life and I'm 39 years old.

Angeli_33 · 2021-12-29T09:01:37+00:00

We're done with the patriarchy.

Bwolffff · 2021-12-29T19:42:43+00:00

I feel CALLED OUT 🤣. This used to be me, I would accept the bare minimum affection from a guy (sex) and didn’t want to ask for anything more or even ask to cuddle because I didn’t want to come off as “needy.” I’m not doing that shit anymore, it’s exhausting.

fds_throwaway_4_u · 2021-12-29T06:31:17+00:00

Haha men are so difficult. Not worth anyone’s time.

letsberealforamoment · 2021-12-29T16:05:01+00:00

Being emotionally inconsistent and ambiguous is very UNATTRACTIVE. and Boring.

FI-REfox · 2021-12-29T23:20:10+00:00

"We not doing this anymore"

scooter_se · 2022-01-05T05:23:06+00:00

Life is hard enough, why be with someone who makes it harder? HVM don’t withhold affection from someone they love

2021-12-30T03:37:40+00:00

Unfortunately this is just a man using you, you should not even be his girlfriend. A guy should like you enough to see you a few times per week

Illseemyselfout- · 2021-12-29T16:06:25+00:00

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