Hey Ladies! Since the news this AM, felt led to share on something I’ve been journaling and thinking about....

As HVW, we know we can make it on our own. We put our desires out into the universe for our HVM. One thing I’ve learned is that having a criteria based meeting these 4 principals, as you define them personally, is key —- the connection is Emotionally, Spiritually, Intellectually & Physically aligned.

If all 4 of these criteria’s don’t add up over time, start to detach and prepare to move on. For me, I started recognizing issues after 3 mos, voiced it, and observed if changes were possible. By 5-6 mos, I started to detach as it became clear he could not meet my needs at this time. The break up was easier (although still heart breaking!)

We must be “shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves.”

Don’t follow a dream of money or status that a man can give you, you can do it on your own! A HVM may not be where you or he wants to be financially but he’s building everyday, with proof, to make you happy. A LVM with a trust fund and high intelligence is alluring, but ultimately a waste of time if you’re not treated as you deserve to be. Let go of the fantasy and God will give you what you most desire IMO 🤗

Would love to hear your thoughts!

(Ohhh and I’m a divorced 36yo single mom, breadwinner, married a LVM narcissist ex who took half my money, 4 years out and dated yet again LVM/NVM .... how about that 😅 ..... life is a journey & we all love and learn!)