This would really help if woman act upon it

Warrior-Kai · 2020-05-04T23:12:48+00:00

This was an epiphany I had while ready “The Four Agreements” — “Don't Take Anything Personally”.

In other words, what people think (good or bad) is mostly about them. Some says they like your hair — it’s an opinion based on her preferences. Someone is angry in a meeting — probably something is going on his life.

Realizing this relieved me from so much angst.

Skittleschild02 · 2020-05-04T22:27:43+00:00

The same people who have an opinion are projecting their insecurities onto you. When someone makes a negative statement about you, just smile. You’re ruffling somebody’s feathers because you’re shining like a diamond, fam.

marijne · 2020-05-04T20:00:51+00:00

I want to explain a bit more: a lot of woman listen to the opinions of other woman holding them back to act ‘as they should’, listen to their mothers, raised in a different period, who expect you to be a home-maker, or you listen to society who has a perfect image of you. Stop all of that an be your own person!!!! Do what you want to do, become who you want to become..., make your choices for you!

I stole the image from ‘ get motivated’

radical__daphne · 2020-05-04T22:14:16+00:00

This really does help.

Myplummms · 2020-05-05T03:15:00+00:00

It’s your thing - do what you want to do 🎼

Pumpkinhead82 · 2020-05-05T04:22:23+00:00

I recommend this audiobook. The book itself is great, but hearing the author say these words with so much passion in his voice is priceless. Really makes you want to get your life together.

Carols-Curry · 2020-05-05T11:23:36+00:00

Aside from the fact that other’s opinions do matter

Guevasa · 2020-05-04T22:34:45+00:00

Men and women alike could really benefit from this since they both get stuck in abusive relationships

Title	This would really help if woman act upon it
Author	marijne
Upvotes	526
Comments	11
Date	May 4, 2020 7:58 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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