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you can direct your complaints to your fellow men. Since yall basically invented that shit, and yall are keeping it alive by visiting prostitutes, jacking off to porn, and trafficking girls. Who do you think are the number 1 clients for prostitution? = MEN. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 09:53 PM
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my only must have is much much taller than me. So far I've had no issue finding men like that if you're asian (an assumption based on your avatar) then it must indeed not be hard finding men much taller, since asians tend to be shorter on average
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:12 PM
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It would be different if women were upfront/direct like men I prefer asking men out directly if I'm interested personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:35 PM
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then men are probably just wired to seek young and attractive women, but even then that's still pretty animalistic, granted humans have really evolved since the stone age. Whiwh is interesting bc another dude corrected me when I said men invented the system of misogyny. And he pretty much contradicted me by claiming that misogyny was innate in males bc even in prehistoric times, men were already beating up their wives. That's very interesting bc women are like: "men are inherently good, but syst…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:27 PM
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Sex is validation for men. that's ego It’s approval and it’s an intimate act and you can use it to build an emotional connection to someone. you can't say in one breath that sex is validation, which is basically connected to ego and on the next breath say that it buils emotional connection =which is also not true, since sex doesn't build emotional connection, it's basically just a mechanical act. The hormones are what make people believe they're building a bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:11 PM
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That's not what I meant. And people who refer to others and themselves as genitals are weird af..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:57 PM
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you're talking like men are slaves to their libido, and basically victims. Which is far from reality, that's a narrative that men who want to victimize themselves use to justify their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:56 PM
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what do you propose ? Should women just give up all the comforts they enjoy and go live in a woods away from men, since men have put women in a position where we need them for access to resources ? - I'm not saying it's impossible for women to succeed in this economy, but men are still in positions of power mostly. A few women president are the exception, not the norm. Are you for women separating themselves completely from men and buildin their own civilization where they don't have to sell sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:42 PM
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I can't fault women for goign after high status men since attachign yourself to a man in this system means : security adn not just financial. women who sell sex already receive enough hate. It's like men commodified women and told them "your only value is in your looks, and your genitals". But if she says "ok" and get money from it she's called a slut, a whore, and many other things. Read about the economico-sexual exchange by Paola Tabet. The focus seems to be always on the women, and not on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:39 PM
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why ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:28 PM
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I don't think men invented sexism, I think we have been sexist from the beginning, like humans' ape ancestors were beating their wives and we merely inherited that. wow thanks for being honest, I haven't thought about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:40 PM
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I can't with baldies 😭 the onyl thing ALL the guys I had a crush on had in common, was a full head of hair, like a lot of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:18 PM
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Who are you or anybody else to apply rules and morals and state who deserves what? exactly. A lot of people want to play so high and mighty based on their choice of partners. Like "I'm not shallow bc I don't go for looks" = obviously if you're average looking, so you can't discriminate and went for someone in your looks range. "I'm not shallow I didn't go for money" = so ? That doesn't mean you're necessarily a good person if you don't take someone's social-economic status into account or whatev…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:58 PM
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my friend always used to tell me "you don't know what you're missing. You should find a partner. Bc you deserve it. " I don't get it either. Tons of people I find trash are in relationships. Even if you're a bad person or an asshole, you can find another asshole to be with. It comes down to chemistry or compatibility, it's not an achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:55 PM
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It's not the presence of sex, but the exchange of sex for resources. Two people fucking each other for free can't be prostitution. yes, but under a capitalist society, everything is transactional, no such thing as "fucking each other for free" imo. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/t20rbn/under_a_capitalist_hetro_patriarchal_system_sex/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:47 PM
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I'm banned from FDS because I said porn wasn't the reason why men are depraved. I never subscribed to their philosophy. They operate like a cult, any divergent opinion will get you banned right away, which is not something I can get behind. Sure it's good for women who used to worship men and put them on a pedestal, but it's still promoting unreasonable beauty standards for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:38 PM
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For that matter can you think of a communist or socialist society where women couldn’t parlay their looks into a better lifestyle? you can't detach heteorpatriarchy from capitalism, they're intrinsically linked. commodifiction of women can only take place in a sexist society ruled by money and profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:23 PM
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nope. Men have created capitalism and sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:11 PM
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Big difference between a transaction of affection and one of money i was talking more abt social statues. A married woman or gf has a better social status than the prostitute but the woman's body is always commodified under capitalism. And you can't get someone's affection by havign sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:50 PM
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Women are selling sex is socialist systems too it's the easy road for women bc men create the demand. Men will do anything to have access to and control over women's bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:45 PM
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h-e-t-e-ro
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:44 PM
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🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:34 PM
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sex is always transactional that the title initially, but then I though I should be more specific. I might delete this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:32 PM
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Ain't nothing free in this life Transactions aren't necessarily monetary that's exactly what I'm sayign in my post. Hence the hypocrisy regarding the hatred towards women who monetize their sexuality. I wouldn't go into prostitution, but who am I to judge what someone else does with their bodies/life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:27 PM
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there are tons of ways to reproduce with science and technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:29 PM
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don't the argument I gave abt men starting w catcalling, whistling and making objectifying comments abt women fall under this idea that it needs to be gradual for people to end up doing unspeakable things to see what they can get away with ? I mean, I guess it's one aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:57 PM
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I MEAN
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:31 PM
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I meant why should we have sympathy for rapists. saying that rapists aren't marginals who hide behind the bushes but could be your family members or male friends is not the same as sayign we should have sympathy for them. What I'm trying to get at is that rapists are everyday people. It could be any male. They don't walk down the street with a sign that says "careful I might rape you" and for the victims, they very often have familiar faces. As a woman, I'm more likely to be raped by someone I k…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:15 PM
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I was raped by my partner. It doesn't fucking matter who it is. Why are you trying to make us feel sympathy for a victim of gang rape? you're a weirdo for asking this question. Why shouldn't people have sympathy for a rape victim ?? I mentionned this bc that's a story i heard recently, and the fact that 11 men agreed to rape one person just demonstrates what I said earlier in my post regarding herd mentality. What you should be asking yourself is why you're triggered by me briging this up. The m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 07:02 PM
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unfortunately the brunt of the burden is on women. That's not fair but I'd rather be paranoid than have something horrible or traumatic done to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:22 PM
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I think both men and women hate the opposite sex equally just in different ways. that's not my experience. I know too many male-identified women who worship men and defend them like loyal attack dogs. Even women who have been raped or abused by men. They swear that it's socialization that turns men into misogynists, and that if they were raised differently they would magically turn into these harmless, pro-women white knights LOL. Since how long have women tried to raise "feminist" males and fai…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:18 AM
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If women get held to male standards they are all a bunch of pathetic, simpering weaklings. lol not true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:13 AM
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lol, you're not mysoginistic for disliking whores. Fact of that matter is, if you want to be respected, act respectable. Women for whatever reason can't grasp this simple truth. but men sleep around too and aren't called "whores". Either everyone should be held to the same standard, or you should stop calling women whores. People aren't as invested in male modesty, purity culture does exist and it's damaging to women. Sometimes some women aren't even "whores" as you call them, but it takes one p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:43 PM
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no don't ask her out while she's working.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:41 PM
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what do you mean by that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:31 PM
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Threads like these are exactly why men feel demonized. It doesn't matter that I'm happily married and a good father. Or that my friend is a good guy who got cheated on by his fiance. Or that most men I know are regular lovely people. To some women we're all just secret misogynists. There's not a whole lot we can do but roll our eyes when we read this stuff 🙄 that's a dismissive way of moving the conversation and centering men's feelings. Men don't like it when we say "men do xyz" even tho no one…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:24 PM
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yeah well, the worst that could happen to you is having your feelings hurt by something someone wrote abt men on the internet. Women have to endure way worse. I was 12 when I was sexually assaulted, and yet there are people who are like "you should choose better men" "if that's the kind of men you choose to be around no wonder it happens to you" when I say that men espouse these kinds of behaviour. What's ironic is that those are women who said those things to me, women who claim to be feminists…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:20 PM
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It's totally possible for women to be misogynists. Generally it stems from self-hatred that they project onto other women. I experienced it frsthand during my time as a feminist. Those women are male worshippers that will throw other women under the bus for male validation. But again, taht's not what my post was abt. You're moving the goalpost bc it makes you uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:49 PM
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What do people label a male who respects women? A simp. yeah, this needs to stop. Being misogynistic is one of the easiest way for a male to retain his man card Luckily they are also motivated by internal moral virtues or obsolete incentive systems such as religion religion is extremely misogynistic. The fact that religious figures were always portrayed as male, conferred men (especially white men) an almost god-like status in society. And the most misogynistic people -notice I said people, not …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:38 PM
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My point is : if it keeps happen to you, you might change the way you choose men instead or saying all men are mysogynists 🙄 here we go again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:24 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:20 PM
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what does all of this have to do w my post ? Saying that men are misogynists is not the same as saying women are perfect and can do no wrong. Your comment is long-winded for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:13 PM
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so ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:55 PM
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yeah right, tons of women who share the same experiences of being cheated on, treated badly or abused by men. But it must be me who just needs to choose "better men". LOL and you have no idea if I ever been in a relationship, how many bfs I've had, whether or not I'm heterosexual, or aromantic/asexual. 🙄 Tired of the victim-blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:29 PM
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I don't agree with the whole social engineering theory but this: All the guys are bumbling idiots unless they're gay. this sentence as it is, is facts, wo context.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:36 PM
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wHiCh I fEeL liKE is soRt oF MorE hOw yOu aRe iMaGiniNg tHiS. No a lot of women feel their husband couldn't survive wo them and like I said in the OP, I knew a man who would call his wife "mother". Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:16 PM
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there is a difference btw coddling and parenting. Sex is also (generally) a part of a marriage, I can't imagine how someone can be turned on by their husband if they think of him as a child or a teenager mentally, and if their husband think of them as a mom. That's just...wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:09 PM
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and yet in one of your posts you say that you have to support your bf financially and that you do most of the housework. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:01 PM
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Imagine you test the waters for 5 years and you discover that nobody is ever interested in you. And imagine that sometimes you misinterpret signals and ask out, just to be rejected, and have further confirmation that nobody likes you. For YEARS. Thats how it is to be a below average male, i know because I’ve been one for years myself. nobody is obligated to like you tho. If you look outside yourself for validation but don't like yourself in the first place, you're gonna be unhappy. Ppl don't owe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:07 PM
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1) you don't have to ask everyone you meet out. People can sense desperation thirty miles away. 2) test the waters before you ask someone out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 10:05 AM
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much in the same way that if a man likes kids then he's automatically suspected of being a paedophile. I wouldn't trust a man around my kids, if I had any.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 05:28 PM
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Romantic love is much more than that, it's on a much deeper and more emotionally intimate level, but also doesn't require sexual intimacy to be considered romantic love. Right. But also can friendship be like this without having to add the "romantic" bit? I think it's because in society we only get our physical needs met through romance. If very close friends like to cuddle, should that make their relationship "romantic"? Especially with men, there's a stigma if they do as little as hugging a fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:42 PM
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There's also a significant difference between "not sexually attracted to" and "grossed out by"... I mean yes. There is a difference btw they're not my type but they're conventional enough, and they're just straight up ugly. But theoretically speaking, yes, people can feel romantic love for someone who (as far as sexual attraction goes) grosses them out. I noticed you put romantic love vs platonic love in your previous post, but what you meant is that romantic love can be platonic, and that plato…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:02 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:57 PM
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Romantic love does not explicitly require sexual intimacy to be romantic love. can you really feel "romantic love" for someone if you're grossed out by their appearance ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:52 PM
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A few pounds isn’t enough to tip the scale for me at all my post was about if they get significantly more chubby. But like you said, to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:39 PM
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of course mutual consent is important in any type of relationship. I don't understand the point of your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 03:15 PM
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I mean I think it’s fair to say that if it’s a dealbreaker you never truly loved them at all physical attraction plays a big part in a relationship. If you're not attracted to your partner, you're gonna resent them anytime they're seeking sex, and they're gonna resent you anytime you find an excuse to not have sex with them. If I loved someone simply for their personality but didn't find them attractive and didn't want to be intimate with them, does that mean I still love them? Yes, but that mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:03 PM
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My FWB has gained about 35 lbs over the years wow! if I had to take a fwb I had least take one who's easy on the eyes and fit LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 01:37 PM
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I don't agree with the idea of having maintenance sex for the sake of relationship. If you're really not in the mood an the idea of having sex doesn't invoke any positive feelings, I think it can lead to resentment and even lower desire to be sexual with your partner in a long run. This!! I said once that just bc you're in a relationship w someone or even married to them doesn't mean you are obligated to have sex with them, and ppl acted like I was crazy or weird for saying that. I agree that be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:46 PM
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even if you're not witht hem "for their looks", physical attraction still plays a huge part in a relationship. If you went for someone chubby because you like chubby people as opposed to skinny/fit, does that mean you choose them solely based on their looks too ? Different factors are taken into account when entering a relationship, looks and physical attraction being one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:44 PM
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women are pressured to be pretty otherwise we get judged for it. If we aren't pretty we get less opportunities in life. But if we're pretty, we get also told we have nothing else to offer and get objectified. Ultimately women can't win, no point in playign the game, bc the game is already rigged in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:40 PM
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The most attractive women are almost all hoes and terrible people so any relationship is pointless. you can't generalize like that. what if I said all ugly men are incels ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:35 PM
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There is no reason someone can just eat lots of crap. depression, or they just stopped caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:33 PM
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He’s a bad dude anyways, the whole internet knew this like a year ago idk how peoples minds have changed so quickly or just forgotten Being with Megan Fox and having her public endorsement is what makes him look good. People are kissing his ass like never before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:52 AM
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im in love with adam from Girls he's a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:27 AM
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You forget Adam Driver. Very tall guy always look more attractive than they really are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:26 AM
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Machine Gun Kelly is hot. He reminds me of Jack Skellington
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:21 AM
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you're intent on playing the victim
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:41 PM
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https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:11 PM
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Also women commit a ton of sexual assaults too as long as they can overpower their victim, aka kids, smaller men and other women, but clearly someone posting "men are socialized to be r*pists" is not ready to have that conversation. there is a significant difference in that society enables and even encourages certain types of behaviours from men, which makes rape an expression of their masuclinity. Women do take advantage of others sexually, depending on their interpersonal relationships with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:49 PM
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1 in 5 women gets raped in her lifetime. And most rapists aren't even convicted, in most cases the victim gets blamed 2% of the rape allegation turn out to be false. The number is so little that we can't even refer to false rape allegations as an "issue". In fact, people who bring up false allegations do so to shut down any conversations abt rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:25 PM
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women will never approach a guy they do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 12:15 PM
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disagree. And we're not talking abt being pissed that they got rejected. Inceldom is toxic and misogynist as fuck, it's not jus abt venting that they got friendzoned once. since obviously guys are still expected to pursue and make the first move, I see a lot of men complain taht they're expected to make the first move...by whom ? If a woman doesn't give any signals that she wants to be approached don't approach her and you won't get rejected. No one is forcing men to approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:14 AM
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we should all be having sex with no one. tbh that's what we should be doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:44 AM
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"Y’all just need to hang around with better people." Sounds like victim blaming, it totally is victim-blaming. Women get harrassed walking down the street, at the grocery store, at our workplace. It's up to men to stop being creepy. Putting the responsibility on women to choose better people to hang around with won't solve anything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:53 PM
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Women do appear to be very sensitive to rejection. lmao men kill us for rejecting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 05:35 PM
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they don't complain bc women on average aren't as creepy as men. It's not rocket science
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:39 PM
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If your ego took a hit from a situation as minor as what you described, it's a sign that you need to work on your ego Maybe but I'm peerceptive enough to realize that my ego isn't me or my true self. In fact in spirituality, the ego is often referred to as the "illusory self", the goal is to transcend the ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:32 PM
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being a woman is a non-factor I'm a petite, non-threatening woman, and I generally go for tall men, so of course the men that I ask out won't be afraid for their safety. But insisting, and being desperate or pushy can definitely make the person uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:19 PM
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just leave women alone. period.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:35 PM
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and yet the guy is expected to make the first move and initiate everything. you don't have to iniatiate anything, just leave women alone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:28 PM
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women get killed for saying no to men. LOL being accused of beign creepy si nothing compared to fearing for your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:25 PM
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I stand by what i said 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:52 PM
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It seems I phrased this inaccurately. They experience a lot of rejection, sometimes only rejection. Should they feel positive about it? it's up to them to give up dating and work on themselves. No one finds desperation or victimhood attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:42 PM
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You literally had to recover after the softest rejection imaginable. I said my ego took a hit but that's it. Rejection is not the end of the world You're not a victim just because a guy annoyed you a little by getting hurt when you rejected him. lol that's accross the board where men act badly after a rejection. just learn to take rejection gracefully. Do you really think "pick up artist tactics" are going to be less effective than literally just waiting around until a girl finds you attractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:39 PM
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I do fine with women obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:36 PM
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are u serious ? That's not abt race. she said she's already taken, and that man kept pushing her boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:56 AM
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It's up to you to get out of that victim mentality. since then, women are gonna find you unattractive/undesirable. #facts
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:15 AM
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rEpEat iT 100 tIMes I don't think I would. Doing the same thign over and over again while expecting different reseults is the definition of insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:10 AM
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They don't have to continue asking women out. You can't do the same thing over and over again while expecting different results: that's the definition of insanity. You can't blame women for that. Stop asking women out, give up dating for a while and work on yourself. No one can validate you besides yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:07 AM
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victim mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:04 AM
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I'm not comparing anything, I'm just saying that rejection isn't as bad as immature incels make it seem. And they're not victims, if they see that it isn't happening they shouldn't continue asking women out. Pause for a second and use your brain what is wrong ?: is it with you ? is it with your approach ? are you getting any signals from the women that you approach or signs that they might be interested first, or do you just approach random women hoping they're receptive ? These pickup artists t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:58 AM
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and got rejected politely, I got rejected politely bc I wasn't creepy and didn't breach any boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:56 AM
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no yall are just stuck in a victim mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:55 AM
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there. That's the victim mentality of a lot of men on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:55 AM
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I've already been rejected after asking a guy out (I didn't know he already had a gf) and wasn't nearly as dramatic. Life goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:19 AM
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I approached a dude a few weeks ago, been rejected (I didn't know he had a gf). It wasn't the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:15 AM
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Do women react differently? Like, a guy rejects her, and then she is ok about going for a coffee with him? After a rejection my main concern would be to not look desperate. So I'd definitely put some space btw me and the person to not look like I didn't get the message. I've been rejected once a few weeks ago and honestly my ego was wounded but I didn't become rude or anything. i also didn't know the guy that much so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:21 PM
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I've been rejected by a dude once and that's what I did eventually tbh. You don't have to continue engaging with someone who rejected you, but going out of your way to be outwright rude is immature
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:15 PM
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Sometimes it’s hard to just go back to being on friendly terms after rejection because of the awkwardness associated with that. True, I've been rejected by a guy who already had a gf (I didn't know he was already taken) and it was awkward after, so I just didn't talk to him since...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:54 PM
1

Uhhhh drop the romance there. One person bonding with another person doesn't have to involve romance. I agree, but you said you'd be together if she wasn't overweight. Meaning you still think of her in romantic terms
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:38 PM
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All I did was have a cup of coffee and listen to the birds. poor victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:17 PM
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I only have one female friend who I've shared a deep connection with, and if it wasn't for the fact that she's quite obese, we'd be together right now. Men and women might be better friends to the same sex due to heterosexuality so the only way you can conceive of being friends with a woman, is if you have a romantic connection with her, but is she physically is too unattractive for you to date her ? weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:15 PM
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there's nothing at stake while being friends men just really don't value friendships. it's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:55 PM
1

he's nice to everyone. The problem is not him being nice, it's him doing a 360 after the rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:17 PM
5

than being friends lol you're not nice to your friends ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:06 PM
1

emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:40 PM
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I don't takeit out on ppl, you're playign the victim. I just asked a question. And it's not just abt one man, it's accross the board like I said in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:39 PM
2

they need to work on their emotional intelligence
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:38 PM
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that's the incel mindset. You're not entitled to sex or romantic relationships from women. If you can't get enthusiastic consent, you're the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:34 PM
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not gonna lie it made me lol. But men fuck corpses, horses, goats. People who worked in farms have terrible stories...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:59 PM
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this! it's the woman who makes him look "fuckable". Other women are wearing goggles. Being in a commited relationship makes him look like he has his shit together. If you're doing energy work, the energy of his gf or wife is also what makes him attract women, like honey with bees.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:44 AM
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Most men struggle to get a single girlfriend, let alone cheat on them with another hotter girl. That's a really good point. The average man isn't faithful or loyal, he just can't get any other woman to fuck him, hence why he doesn't cheat as often as the "chads".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:06 PM
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no, think abt it : a barbie doll is a plastic thing that you play with, and doesn't talk or think, so it's quite objectifying and it's meant to imply conventionally attractive women are dumb. ...the term "plain jane" isn't objectifying and doesn't negate a woman's intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 11:19 AM
1

Those things can be had cheaper and of better quality by professionals. you do realize that those "professionals" are women right ? Like actual human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:07 PM
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I am. (and you sound like you have no feminist consciousness at all)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:48 PM
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lol you're the admin for r/ pickme lol that makes perfect sense...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 01:14 PM
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A woman who marries for money is likely going to marry a man who marries for sex, so I don’t see the problem there as long as they both communicate that. disagree. Men are known pursuers of sex, regardless of whether or not a woman has chosen him for his money. Women are social capital, men know that having a woman on the arm makes them look good. The madonna vs whore dichotomy exists only because men keep their sick fantasies for the women they deem "lower"(prostitutes, hookers, however you wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 08:08 AM
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you claimed that it was a conservative view, which imo totally ignores power dynamics and who's in charge. Men have carefully designed society so that we would be dependant on them for protection (from other men) and for a long time, ressources. I guess you can have a partnership/companionship with a group of ppl that were trained to hate you/dehumanize you since birth lol. Just pray you don't end up being one of the many women who ends up getting killed/beaten up or raped by their male partner …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:30 AM
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the risk of violence and STIs probably most women get killed by an intimate partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:28 AM
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what do men have to give besides money ? If they really had something valuable to bring to the table, they wouldn't have invented the money system and try to prevent women from having access to ressources or entering the workforce. Men know that if women achieve financial independance it renders men useless and they can be easily discarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:37 PM
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She married my grandfather at 18 how old was he when he married her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 09:14 PM
1

I can choose to date a man based on his income and to sleep with him only after he spent a certain amount on me, and that makes me his girlfriend and eventually wife, butif i'm honest i'm just a filthy prostitute. This puritanism is just hypocrisy. I MEAN
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 08:58 PM
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You describe it as if women never wanted sex and men always. no one wants to have sex with men 😷🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 08:30 PM
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Idk if any of you has read Paola Tabet but she conceptualized the "economical sexual exchange" in which she says, women have to negotiate their sexual favours to secure a husband who's a good provider. There's more to it: https://books.openedition.org/iheid/pdf/6338 In an hetero-patriarchal society, women's reproductive and sexual access, is definitely what men have to gain control over. They have defined women specifically in terms of their sexuality. And then blame/demonize women for monetizin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 08:21 PM
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lol I live in the west and grew up here. I was simply born in a poor country, but that doesn't change anything, that just gives me more perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:41 PM
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Looks are subjective. Attraction isnt based just on looks. One person might call me ugly. Another one might compliment me. Nobody is really truly ugly. Theres a market for everything. that's called choosing people in your looks-range.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:07 AM
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You shouldn’t be with someone you don’t find physically attractive at all. Unless for some reason, that works for you, but it doesn’t for most people. it works for me as long as they're not ugly. I have a very specific type but I'm willing to look past it if the guy checks everything on my list (good communicator, adventurous, charismatic, etc). But I get where you come from entirely. I've never been with someone where there is physical attraction and they can stimulate me emotionally/intellectu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:55 AM
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I think deliberately dating down is absolutely lame as fuck. I never get people who aim for, say, fat people as they feel they're somehow less likely to cheat. They've had bad experiences and go the other direction to get different results. Women who are constantly aroudn wealthy men for exemple, are convinced that they'll be treated better by a poor guy. in my experience, you teach people how to treat you. that's not to say some people aren't asshole, but it's better to be really honest abt wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:57 PM
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but they will be there for your income entirely and you’ll have a glorified prostitute that may be able to take half your shit some day. men have nothing to bring to the table besides money. lol That's why they invented the money system in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:19 PM
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what does "low effort" mean ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 08:10 PM
1

Give me a plain Jane over a Barbie doll any day. The term "barbie doll" to refer to women is misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:38 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:01 PM
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The exception is when people are able to widen their standards until it at least includes their own level. If a 3 can be attracted to other 3s, or even 2s, they have a pretty good shot. It will still be harder, because even as a 3 dating 2s, a large of those 2s will still have standards that are 5+. maybe they're not actually attracted, but they went through heartbreak while punching above their weight and experience has humbled them. So now they have accepted their fate. It might not be ideal i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:58 PM
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In my experience most people who struggle are in the 4-7 range. They know shacking up with an ugly person would be punching below their weight class but they aren't hot enough to pull chad moves. They also have an idea that they can get really lucky and get a hotty if they roll the dice enough in both genders. The thing is though that real ugly people don't play the same game. They know where they stand with each other and they do things unpretentiously. They don't need game and they aren't tryi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 06:31 PM
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