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Imagine your type of girl, now imagine having sex with her, there's your motivation.
/r/seduction21/03/15 04:27 AM
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Oh I see, I was ranting at the concept in general not your specific use I don't mean to lash out at you. I still have glimpses of that with girls who would be 10's to me. I think it goes away with success. Like if you've met what you call a 9, and gotten what you want, then you think a lot less about future 9's. You're brain subconsciously references your successful experiences and just gravitates toward the optimal thing to do at each turn. You also develop a sense of entitlement. IK this is so…
/r/seduction21/03/15 03:42 AM
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Who gives a fuck if she's a 7/10... like I don't understand this concept of having to specify how hot the girl is on a scale of one to ten. It's not important information. Can anyone explain to me why it's brought up? ... I don't think this other girl knowing that you've been with other women is a bad thing. I mean I see where you're coming from though. A player vibe,while it is a turn on to girls at first,is in the end counter productive. However a more balanced "is capable of, and has pulled g…
/r/seduction20/03/15 09:07 PM
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Yeah I would consider that what I call a red light lol. Actually not a red light, more of a "road closed" sign. Not that I want a detailed field report, but what did you say, and do, and what were you thinking, and what was she saying and doing?
/r/seduction20/03/15 06:38 PM
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Obviously, I didn't see the approach. But I'm willing to bet the fact that it was your first approach was written all over you. There was probably a subtle mixture of fear, anxiousness, nervousness, cluelessness, etc, written all over you. To combat this in the short term, I would try to fix my body language before I approach. Stand tall, shoulders relaxed, walking straight, chest (somewhat) out. Then take a deep slow breath, so I'm more calm. When you do all this you'll look like a guy who's no…
/r/seduction20/03/15 05:35 PM
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I think not only is it putting you in a good state, but it's also clearing your mind of the things that cause AA. Like fear of rejection, and thoughts of people watching. I think the music is sort of quieting that noise.
/r/seduction20/03/15 05:28 PM
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"My friend is telling me this shirt is too much, but I don't know I like it. What do you think...? (To a girl not dancing at the bar or on a couch) "You're not feeling this shit (the music) either are you?" "Why is every guy here dressed so preppy?.. it's a fucking club." The next couple can work off cold approach, but tend to work better for me off of warm approaches (I've forced or gotten an ioi from her already), than cold ones. "I love that dress, nice heels too." (an obvious undertone of 'I…
/r/seduction18/03/15 01:42 PM
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"Do you have a boyfriend?"
/r/seduction17/03/15 11:29 PM
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Think of words of intent as closer to a declaration, than a proposal. Just say them as a statement of fact. In fact your mindset should be a declaration. As opposed to a wish. It shouldn't be, "I wish I could fuck you". It should be "I want to fuck you." A big part of preventing the former mindset is preventing negative feelings and emotions that might come with sexual escalating. Fear, anxiety, guilt, etc. Lets say you really like her ass. You think about telling her. I'm picking this because i…
/r/seduction17/03/15 11:28 PM
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That was because of two things. The fact that she was hot, and also the nuances of the interaction. So you need to do the same. You want to be the most attractive man you can be, then hijack the nuances of that kind of interaction, so that you can turn her on. Be as attractive as possible (things you work on in long term not just in the moment), and interact in a way that has an underlying sexuality. Work on these things throughout life so you can be attractive: Your self esteem You're lack of f…
/r/seduction15/03/15 03:51 PM
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I don't usually advocate pushing the cocky-funny sexual man vibe. But this is a situation where if you're too serious, she'll see you as a guy trying too hard, and as a guy who isn't able to really express his desire.
/r/seduction15/03/15 03:39 PM
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What would you rate me on a scale of 1 to god damn? Am I too muscular? (If you're muscular) Do you like tall guys? (If you're tall) You like to workout? (You're response to her response can easily contain a compliment)
/r/seduction15/03/15 03:36 PM
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Have you ever been speaking to a female, and started to get a hard on? this question is serious and relevant.
/r/seduction15/03/15 03:18 PM
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it's not about what you say, it's about your mindset. And the mindset to have is: Want her, unapologetically. Be outcome independent. Don't feel like expressing how you feel about a girl, is a bad thing. it's natural, healthy, and you have to be manly and alpha to even do it. You can, and should communicate to a girl, both implicitly and explicitly, that you find her sexy. A big key is, what stops you from saying something. What should stop you shouldn't be anxiety, or guilt, or fear she'll be c…
/r/seduction15/03/15 03:17 PM
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I'm takin it back to the old school: PEAKCOCKING. Have one or two things you can wear, clothing or accessories that stand out a bit. Make sure though, that they still tie in to your personal style. Here's a checklist to go though in your head when shopping: Does it/these look cool? Does this fit with my personality and current style? Is it not too gimmicky, not like something part of a costume? Try to only have one really stand out thing when you get dressed, don't be a mess. Keep most of it neu…
/r/seduction15/03/15 02:56 PM
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And I just realize if you think about the knee and back thing too much it feels weird. Just, focus on her, and kiss her because you feel the need to. If your mind is that pure in it then you'll be smooth.
/r/seduction15/03/15 02:38 PM
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Maybe around like 11 am or so. Don't stress out over logistics like that. Instead leave those to common sense outside of pickup. Right now concern yourself with making it very clear you want to see her, while not coming off as needy or clingy. Another thing you should be concerned about right now, is what's a place where it's comfortable, you two can talk, be semi-isolated from the rest of the place. A place where although there are others, you can talk and feel like it's just you two. Then you …
/r/seduction15/03/15 02:37 PM
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It's normal for guys that are attractive. Your move should be to confidently acknowledge her via body language and gestures. Gestures that say "I like what I see too" and/or "I caught you" (in a playful way). If either of these things goes over well, then you can approach her as if she just yelled "Hey you, I find you attractive, and I might sleep with you. Please come speak to me.". Because that is what she just did.
/r/seduction15/03/15 02:30 PM
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I wouldn't say that was "not good".. you told a crush she was attractive, and she agreed to go out with you. That's not smooth, but it grasps some basic concepts of seduction. She might be uncomfortable because there's not enough sexual tension. It would be more comfortable for her if you communicated implicitly through words and body language, that you find her sexy, and that you two should do something about that. The reason this is more comforting than playing it safe has an explanation I don…
/r/seduction15/03/15 02:25 PM
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I sometimes sit on something like a bar stool. Then pull her in closer to me with my hands on her hips, then just converse in that position. Another thing is to put her on a counter or stool and kiss her like that. And leaning down isn't as awkward as you think it is. In the heat of the moment she won't really notice or care. Try to make it half knee bending, half back leaning, not too much of either. Another good thing is to put your hand on the side of her face and turn her head up a bit more.
/r/seduction15/03/15 02:16 PM
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"it's alright, I can do (inset date suggestion, and time your available.)"
/r/seduction15/03/15 02:11 PM
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It's not a big concern in a sense that it's always on my mind. However it would be illogical and potentially consequential to just push it away. Use protection, and if something seems wrong with her, don't do anything. If something seems wrong with you, do not do anything and get yourself checked.
/r/seduction15/03/15 04:02 AM
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What was being said was almost completely irrelevant lol. Look at what she's doing, not what she's saying. You should have escalated a bit, put your hand around her hip, get to a couch and throw her legs over yours. Occasionally go from eye flirting to eye fucking. Here's what you should factor in when thinking if you want to escalate and how much: Is she hot? Am I straight? If the answer to both of those is yes, then the answer is yes, you should escalate. What you shouldn't be factoring in is …
/r/seduction14/03/15 09:24 PM
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Because it generally means she would like to continue communicating. She see's you as attractive, and you've got a shot at some real "accomplishments" with her if you know what I mean*. That being said, it is possible to have what I call an empty number close. You can have an interaction and get her number, but she has in no way entertained the thought of being intimate with you. This is why I think guys should be more proud of the content of the interaction itself rather than the fact that they…
/r/seduction14/03/15 09:00 PM
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I would say first off, figure out how to show intent and express desire. The next time you talk to a new girl, make it very clear very quickly you find her physically attractive and you'd like to go out with her. This can be done by body language and verbally. Stand closer, and look into her eyes more, don;t be afraid to touch her. Compliment her, if you see something that turns you on about her, tell her that that thing is cute or sexy or really nice. Be sure to be specific when you do complime…
/r/seduction14/03/15 04:49 AM
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Don't wait until an approach to clear your mind of everything except sex, and to correct your body langage. From the time you walk in just clear your mind and admire how hot the girls are, and let that make you feel things. The whole time your there, have strong manly body language. When you get in, think "I'm sexy as all hell", and walk around casually, but with assertive body language. Like you own the place, and like you know every girl in there wants to fuck you. Walk around like this and fo…
/r/seduction13/03/15 09:22 PM
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Like to a club?
/r/seduction13/03/15 08:09 PM
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The music isn't going to turn makeout into sex lol. That being said, if you insist on music there's a few elements that make songs good for just, an intimate vibe, chilling with someone. Look for songs that are: Slow- relative to the genre/style. Every style has a typical BPM (beats per minute, how fast the song is) range, go for toward the bottom of that range. Mellow - Nothing too loud and harsh going on in the song, just a laid back vibe about it. Melodic. - When you can really hear, and hum …
/r/seduction13/03/15 08:08 PM
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You have Dwight Schrute's sense of humor.
/r/seduction13/03/15 07:43 PM
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First I'll talk about how I make approaches easier for myself, and then I'll give a couple practical things you can say or do. CLEAR YOUR MIND - When you allow too much thought then you start to evaluate how you look, what she will think of you, etc. And this is especially bad if you've never had success with an attractive girl, because when your mind references itself in the moment, it only has failure to remember. So when you see a girl, try to blank your mind. Take a deep slow breath, and try…
/r/seduction13/03/15 04:30 PM
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my second comment about mindset is the more essential elements part. I'd suspect you have these down to a degree if your quite successful. Be fearless, really desire her, don't be too needy, and be outcome independent in your efforts. Those are the points that are guaranteed to lead to success, not any one of the techniques in my first comment.
/r/seduction13/03/15 03:47 PM
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My bullet points were not really necessary elements, but rather techniques someone might employ. It's not like I'm saying you have to make sure to work all these things in. It's just examples of replicable things that tend to happen in conversations with sexual tension.
/r/seduction13/03/15 03:41 PM
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Also when you do any of this, you have to be in the right state and mindset. It's a delicate combination of wanting her, but being totally outcome independent. By want her, I mean WANT her. Just admire how sexy she is. Like allow yourself to be turned on when talking to her, even start to get a hard on. Don't tone these feelings down whatsoever. Now with that you need that outcome independence. You're not desperate for sex. You have other prospects, and you could add more at any time. You will s…
/r/seduction13/03/15 02:50 PM
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Eye fucking - Look her in the eyes. Imagine you're fucking her. One trick I've read here is to see your own reflection. Don't be this intense the whole time from the start without breaking, you need some pull and not a constant push. But use it often. Get close - Stand close enough so that it would be uncomfortable for you if it was a guy. Invade her personal space gradually. Read her body language to know when to slow down and (literally) take a step back. Compliment her - Be specific about wha…
/r/seduction13/03/15 02:41 PM
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You're always in competition with all single men. Dating and sex is inherently an extremely darwinistic thing. Sometimes, such as in this case, that social/sexual darwinism is very front and center. Don't let that intimidate you. Don't worry about other guys due to competition. Rather, let the fact that there is competition motivate you to continue to improve yourself.
/r/seduction13/03/15 02:25 PM
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Imitate him, SELECTIVELY. Figure out what character traits are turning girls on, and try to imitate them. This is how I got good with night game. I noticed some assholes, but one night instead of getting mad I thought, maybe theres something to this. So I noticed traits like dominance, and a sense of entitlement. I took those traits, but I at the same time have kept my laid back demeanor, and absolute respect and kindness to girls at all times.
/r/seduction13/03/15 02:20 AM
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Over the past couple of days I've started to improve a bit already. I had an awkward interaction yesterday, and after I stopped myself from getting mad and thought, " Well, I didn't lose anything. I wasn't going to go out with her before, and I felt fine. And now I'm still not. So I've really lost nothing."
/r/seduction12/03/15 02:28 PM
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I just wanna get laid, I don't wanna sleep alone. That's the way I care about the outcome.
/r/seduction10/03/15 04:21 AM
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Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction09/03/15 10:05 PM
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I think as a man you've got to acknowledge that sex and dating is very very darwinistic, but at the same time, not be competitive. You are competing with other men 24/7. However The only conscious competing you can and should d,o is a competition with yourself to continue to be a better man. You feel me?
/r/seduction09/03/15 09:37 PM
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I'm very confident and internally validated by default, but I tend to have a switch in my brain that puts weight on little things in the moment. It's not that my ego or confidence is damaged in the moment, it's just frustration. Probably from putting too much feeling into it.
/r/seduction09/03/15 09:37 PM
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The problem isn't my self esteem, since of entitlement, or the idea girls are above me. The problem is I just think about what to do. Some of this comes from past success. I've banged stuff I can brag about too. This should be helpful for new experiences, but in someways it hurts because it reinforces that there was a right thing to do. I think what I'll do is work on framing those past successes in my mind in a way that just says "I fucked a 10, I can get anyone". Rather than thinking, "this is…
/r/seduction09/03/15 09:31 PM
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I see it's counter productive, so I wrote my post. lol. The dance analogy I get though. Especially since the guy is the leader in almost all dances.
/r/seduction09/03/15 09:24 PM
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No, I don't think they're a class above me, thats not the issue. The issue is the more I want it, the more outcome dependent I am. your comment is borderline useless. edit: probably because I can't get past how much you talk yourself up.
/r/seduction09/03/15 09:23 PM
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"Fake it till you make it" has worked for me as far as confidence in escalating. So yeah acting like it doesn't affect me might help, thanks.
/r/seduction09/03/15 09:19 PM
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thank you. (deletes account. travels to island. gets laid with ease rest of life)
/r/seduction09/03/15 09:17 PM
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