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| 2 | Am I unreasonable and spoiled?This might annoy some of you but I don't think most women (long term) gain the same sense of satisfaction out of some stranger giving them a medal. We're redpilled here, I doubt many would get annoyed at this statement. To me that means a situation where I'm overworked, stressed and still expected to be glowing, beautiful and intimate in body and soul. Yes, and it's why modern women aren't as docile as men would want them to be. We can't expect women to remain childlike, trusting and youthful if… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/03/20 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Am I unreasonable and spoiled?He may not be able to necessarily articulate it the way I did, but that doesn't mean it isn't there. A very important difference at this point of the game. If she's being honest, he's not even married and he is already signaling that he gave up on being the provider (which is a must for her). where resentment comes from. Why are we talking about resentment so, so early, at the point where everything is supposed to look ideal? You kinda make my point with this, it's very simple, women looking to … | /r/RedPillWives | 23/03/20 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Am I unreasonable and spoiled?The thing is, a man who thinks like this is not a good man to marry. I don't disagree with what you wrote here at all (a woman should always seek to better herself to add value to her husband's life), but I'd filter out a man that would present his views like you have presented them because his mindset is not abundant. He can keep counting his pennies, while husband material gets fulfillment when he is generous to the woman he loves. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/03/20 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Am I unreasonable and spoiled?How long have you been together? I don't think you're unreasonable, but then again I am spoiled. Most couples need to work in this day and age. For me and my husband we both agree that we rely on his income for living, but that I should seek income too to increase our savings, as a plus. It's a very intimate conversation for us because it involves our personal goals and feelings. He is generous and loves providing (he immediately saw his income as our money, none of that TRP bs in him thankfully… | /r/RedPillWives | 23/03/20 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Housewives/SAHMs and domestic tasksJust curious, what is it exactly that draws you to this community? | /r/RedPillWives | 11/12/19 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy or something worse? in crisis...It's just inconsistent, to be such an independent personality type but also being so scared of being alone that you stayed for 7 years with someone you lack compatibility at this extent...? It's also a planner personality, thinking things through etc... it's still a mystery to me how you came to marry into this, like what was your thought process? Because, just going with the flow, or doing out of outside pressure, is also not very reflective of that personality type. I'd think you'd be more dec… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/09/19 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy or something worse? in crisis...Because of the turmoil you had originally expressed, the dramatic range of emotion. But on this thread I sway from "this woman is dramatic and destructive" to "this woman is just bored with a man she was too cowardly to leave" the more responses you write. I wonder if you're terrified of being alone. Also you responded elsewhere that you were an INTJ, which is such a shock to me from the way you wrote originally. Nothing about this life of emotion you wrote came across as INTJ. A daydreamy life,… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/19 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy or something worse? in crisis...This paints a different picture than the original post. On the original post you said "Having dated immature/toxic men before him, I felt like I lucked out with a great guy" and it had words like "fulfillment" and "that in-love feeling" that are a tell of female fantasy (seeking personal fulfillment through a life of whirlwind and romance in which they're never bored). Wanting "someone that can level with me playfully and challenge me" is different and realistic to want. But I wonder why did you… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/19 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy or something worse? in crisis...Realize that the relationship in it's current state doesn't hit my marks of fulfillment It never did do i work on myself because this problem will follow me everywhere (chasing drama/emptiness) This is a separate issue you should work on regardless of circumstance or do I accept the reality of the situation as untenable and leave....possibly regret this for the rest of my life You'd be regretting it in the sense of leaving a blanket "good deal" that wasn't what you even wanted, but you've alread… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/19 01:50 PM |
| 1 | [ADVICE] Husband doesn't want me to wear makeup, but I really want to wear a littleWhat qualifies as makeup to him, and why? My first thought was, if you can't get around it, focus entirely on skin texture with skincare (I read you have that taken care of), and you can add color with some tinted lip balm (see my username lol). Lip balm is in the sweet spot of being skincare still and I don't think most men would mind it. Most of the time I'm wearing just tinted moisturizer which is also in that blurry line between skincare and makeup, and some lip balm. My style is blush based… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/09/19 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy or something worse? in crisis...cluster b was my first thought as well, though i don't know how well borderline would apply if she's been good for 7 years without doing something impulsive (also she doesn't display abandonment issues from what I've seen) | /r/RedPillWives | 04/09/19 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Hypergamy or something worse? in crisis...Yes, we've been saying that. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/19 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy or something worse? in crisis...From the way she described him, it reads to me like he goes along with her sexual games just to please her but isn't actually into it. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/19 05:58 PM |
| 5 | Hypergamy or something worse? in crisis...I agree she's high drama, I just don't think she'll be a good wife to this man in any capacity. I don't think it will get solved by her just understanding what a healthy relationship is. She never actually desired HIM. The only way she actually gets excited by him is when he acts extremely out of character (by her encouragement, not his volition). She might get better if she works on herself but she won't just think herself into wanting this man just by playing sexual games. I know people try to… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/19 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Hypergamy or something worse? in crisis...Like literally tell him you saw someone attractive when you were on the bus, and describe the guy How would this help at all? This will make her husband miserable. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/19 05:38 PM |
| 8 | Hypergamy or something worse? in crisis...That my definition of "love" is broken and comes from a dysfunctional childhood scenario. If I'm going to be plagued by this for the rest of my life I'll be chasing toxic relationship dynamics instead. This is it, and I really appreciate how self-aware it is. Your pattern is destructive and you really should not have gotten married. As you are now, you are not going to do him any good, you're just going to bring him down with your nonsense. Please consider moving on now before there are kids inv… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/19 04:02 PM |
| 5 | Hypergamy or something worse? in crisis...Some days it breaks me that I'm depriving him of a woman that's absolutely crazy about him. I feel restless and have a wandering eye and the guilt is eating me alive. I think you should end it and let him find someone who wants him and who is capable of being good wife material. You don't want to be "happy", you want to get high on drama, and "fulfillment" is simply an euphemism for the next fleeting thrill. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/19 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Changing for A ManFor example let's say my fiance asked me to dye my hair blonde. While this is expensive and lots of upkeep I would still do it because he's my fiance and we have years of love and connection. This is an interesting example, because for me it would be the opposite... I value optimization and strive to make maintenance as easy as possible. I keep my hair long, wash it once a week, oil it and comb it and that's it. If suddenly my fiancé wanted me to be a glamorous platinum blonde, it would mean an … | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/19 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Changing for A ManFind someone who wants you. But at your best. Succinctly put! That's what I was going for as well. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/19 02:12 PM |
| 1 | I don't know what to doI know that YOU say cheating isn’t a dealbreaker for you I never said this, I said cheating isn't the worst thing ever in marriage, it's a nuanced issue and it is hilarious when a 20 year old acts like she would leave her future husband over it when she doesn't actually know how it will be down the line. I'm not talking just about me here, about my feeeeelings about cheating, I'm talking about generations of women with long standing marriages that we on the outside don't know what they had to ov… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/09/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | I don't know what to doAll we know is that OP had this dream in her head and that this man was meant to fulfill it. Despite betrayal at every step, she kept having his child, because white picket fence or something. And when doing the same thing over and over changed nothing (big surprise), she posts a woe-is-me for everyone to validate her leaving, which then everyone does! The whole thread turned into commiseration without questioning her actions, and of course the only one who questioned her (/u/teaandtalk) gets do… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/09/19 01:40 PM |
| 1 | I don't know what to doYou sound extremely naive in both hypothetical reactions but it's not surprising given your age. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/19 07:27 PM |
| 3 | I don't know what to doWhat about a child accidentally dying under his care, for a less extreme more realistic example? Would that be easier to work through than, say, a one night stand? | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/19 06:50 PM |
| 0 | I don't know what to doSounds like you ignored any red flags arising during dating for your vision of a big perfect family. I don't even think I could tell how his personality is and what he wants from your post, what attracted you to him and why did you get together in the first place, it's entirely about you and your countless children you dreamed to have. Why did you keep popping out his children if he sucked so much since the first one? I don't even know what to do. I have wasted my entire life on him, didn't real… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/19 06:44 PM |
| 2 | I don't know what to doThere are worse things than cheating, and plenty of relationships survive cheating, saying it's the worst thing ever sounds like a teenager in love for the first time. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/19 06:28 PM |
| 0 | I don't know what to doCheating, in my mind, is the only thing that is irreparable in a relationship. What an inexperienced thing to say. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/19 06:20 PM |
| 1 | I don't know what to doHow have you tried to improve yourself? It seems like you backed yourself into a corner because of your dream of popping out a huge family with no network... What books have you read? and are you two religious by any chance? | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/19 06:18 PM |
| 2 | The importance of being accepted by partner’s parents- grandiose or small?But culturally you're Christian? When you say your family is conservative American I assumed Protestant values (even if you were not taken to church as a child). I don't mean to say there isn't much difference, just that it's not as extreme as it could have been dealing with another race and doctrine entirely. Of course it's still another distinct culture if they're very insular and possibly Orthodox. Their views are very understandable but in this case it doesn't seem to be a big deal to him an… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/19 02:48 PM |
| 1 | The importance of being accepted by partner’s parents- grandiose or small?Truly depends on how he deals with it. If they're super close that you're going to see them every weekend and they're going to make snide comments routinely, it will be a different experience that if he keeps strong boundaries and respects yours as well. I'd say pay attention to his character, if he's the kind of man that believes what you say, and is not going to be like "you're exaggerating. I'm sure she didn't mean it that way" and "she's not like that, she would never say this" because that … | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/19 02:08 PM |
| 12 | How to be more feminine in style, fashion, mannerisms and in the way I speak?Check out this playlist by Mrs Midwest, there's specifically one video on feminine speech that could help you out. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/08/19 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - August 24, 2019I've heard people recommend bringing over home cooked frozen meals so the new mother doesn't have to plan meals on top of having the new baby for a while. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/08/19 05:26 PM |
| 19 | What's the difference between this subreddit and the RedPillWomen subreddit?I just want to learn how to be a better SO, not hear about what my (long gone) virginity means to some red pill alpha male that I don't care about and would never want to date. Oh, to be free of those high value Endorsed Contributor alphas that have nothing better to do than lecture women over the internet... | /r/RedPillWives | 22/08/19 01:20 AM |
| 11 | What's the difference between this subreddit and the RedPillWomen subreddit?The notion has some false premises, and it's posed in the wrong context. Only if you're hot enough As if that's a base from which a man will stop his no strings attached sex stream in order to give away commitment. The best recourse for a woman is to meet a man when he is ready to settle down, not to join his harem until he does. Adding the hotness neg is just to con women into thinking it's up to them. He even suggested you stay away from men who are attractive enough to possibly plate you In h… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/08/19 01:15 AM |
| 25 | What's the difference between this subreddit and the RedPillWomen subreddit?A cursory look through your submitted history made me arrive to a good example of the become-a-plate advice Whisper himself commented on one of your posts: Working your way up from plate is a high-risk, high-reward strategy (high reward because it gives access to more desirable men). So, whether it's "recommended" or not depends on your level of girl game. Unsurprisingly, many of RPW's EC worked their way up from plate status... it's no coincidence that girls who can do that are the same ones wh… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/08/19 08:50 PM |
| 11 | What's the difference between this subreddit and the RedPillWomen subreddit?Half of the mods there are male, some of the others are ECs that remained, at least one of who is a top plate of a TRP EC. Would you as a woman be content getting relationship advice from young male TRPers and women that are not married and that are with men who won't marry them? It came to that. The original modteam that left was made of older married women, it was a no brainer to leave alongside them. Anyway, it's just ashes now. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/08/19 08:04 PM |
| 8 | What's the difference between this subreddit and the RedPillWomen subreddit?I can see how it might seem to you now that this it's just two different subs. It's a long story and both subs demography has changed so it's not as evident as when the schism happened. Long story short, the original mod team of RedPillWomen left and made this sub, a bunch of us are original endorsed contributors that left with them (because of disagreement with how the direction the head TRP mod was taking). What is RedPillWomen now is mostly newer people that arrived later, so the TRP mods mig… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/08/19 07:41 PM |
| 31 | What's the difference between this subreddit and the RedPillWomen subreddit?TheRedPill overlooks the discussion at RedPillWomen so what is advised there depends entirely on what they deem acceptable, which tends to be in favor of the male imperative and downplaying the interests of women. This sub has wives on its name but it doesn't mean you have to be married, it means that the importance of marriage is upheld. TheRedPill is anti-marriage and pro-woman-staying-in-a-LTR-indefinitely squandering her youth because that's what the risk-averse guys over there like. There's… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/08/19 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Dax Shepard Wasn't Sure He Wanted to be with Kristen BellTo me it's impossible to be a working actress and a RPW rolemodel... They're actively choosing a career focused life and getting intimate on camera for pay. Not to mention how incompatible the narcissistic celebrity culture is with family and tradition. I think some marriages are more normal than others, for example Blake Lively seems like a much improved choice than Scarlett Johansson for a wife. But even so we don't know how it's inside, how authentic it could be, since they all pay so much li… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/08/19 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Dax Shepard Wasn't Sure He Wanted to be with Kristen BellYeah, definitely not goals. I wasn't aware they were popularly perceived that way! I'd think it's mostly PR though. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/08/19 06:26 PM |
| 6 | Dax Shepard Wasn't Sure He Wanted to be with Kristen Bellbut this video sort of just makes me think that the reason might be that they're just too different. I've also garnered this from the way they talk about each other, but I wouldn't say it makes them incompatible. She's more of a people-pleasing normie and he's like a fixer upper trying to muster all his energy to function normally. It sounds to me like he fits her need to take care of others and she fits his ideal of the "becoming a better person" lifestyle/brand he is going for. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/08/19 04:29 PM |
| 1 | What keeps you motivated to keep a clean home?That's what I do as well. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/19 05:24 PM |
| 3 | What keeps you motivated to keep a clean home?Oh man, off topic but I was just browsing the homemaking sub yesterday hoping for it to be what it will never be. I want to see systems, resources, or even book recommendations to optimize all aspects of homemaking but it's mostly cleaning questions over there. Unfortunately the women in my family never kept house and always had paid help so I couldn't just learn it while growing up. Is homemaking just a synonym for cleaning? I don't know if home economy is better suited for what I'm looking for… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/19 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Roosh V's change of heartAn urban area? | /r/RedPillWives | 12/08/19 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Marriage Is All-Time LowI think I am dishonest with him sometimes. I don’t think it’s a lot. Ideally it would be jever, but in our case it has been maybe a handful of times in 5 years, including big and little things. Not sure why. I get extreme anxiety from the dishonesty, but also feel the need to hide. Can you get to the bottom of this? Do you actually need to hide, or is it wanting more independence as you have very little right now, or is it to get a reaction from him? | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/19 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Marriage Is All-Time LowI have zero money and no card Why? We’re not legally married, so I’m unsure of the rules for whether I am a dependent or not. Why aren't you? This is insane and untenable. You need to get an income stream and a card under your name. Even if he makes all the income and you stay home, a budget for your expenses needs to be in place because you're operating under a pretty unhealthy plan right now (he "lets you borrow HIS card" for groceries) in which you feel like you can't take any space. I don't … | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/19 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Men want relationships just not with "you"--how do I handle this when people say this to me?it's not normal behavior at all, you come across as very mentally unstable, i'm sure you must be trolling but i'm writing it out just in case. i mean everyone in that thread told you you were acting insane already, so in the slim chance you're being genuine, you're beyond helping. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/19 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Men want relationships just not with "you"--how do I handle this when people say this to me?No records exists in boyfriend's name and AITA for hiring a private investigator to find out why boyfriend ghosted me? are situations in which your behavior can be described as creepy or stalkerish | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Check out A and B below. Help me reconcile? A- When does my need for my space become important then? Never, just in case his head gets turned? B - where his career tanking has required her to step in and take on these responsibilities... Does not the woman’s burden shoulder become a concern?By any chance do you know your MBTI type and his? That also helps a bunch in understanding your relationship dynamic specifically. As well as your love language. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/19 05:50 PM |
| 2 | I want to give my boyfriend certain "loyalty terms". Will I be making a mistake if I do?You don't have the same values at all... that is highly important for long-term success. At 23 with your background you're looking to marry, at 23 with his background he's just starting to understand the dating game and your expectations will seem crazy. Give him this list so he breaks up with you and you can go look for a man that is ready to settle. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/19 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Men want relationships just not with "you"--how do I handle this when people say this to me?You haven't provided enough info on what is it that you're doing that's so misguided. But ask yourself this: What sort of traits would the man you want desire in a woman? Do you offer anything close to what that man would want? Probably not, so work towards acquiring those traits. A quick look through your submitted history makes me think you're dating out of your racial group and that might make things harder for you. Men fuck women of many races but might want to settle for a woman of their ra… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/19 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Check out A and B below. Help me reconcile? A- When does my need for my space become important then? Never, just in case his head gets turned? B - where his career tanking has required her to step in and take on these responsibilities... Does not the woman’s burden shoulder become a concern?It's a good book, I highlighted from it a bunch when I first read it. A lot of its insights are in line with the sidebar here so that was nice. However I read it when I was still dating and trying to figure out what to look for, I hadn't even met the man I married, so it's definitely tougher to be married, struggling and then work backwards to apply it. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/19 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Check out A and B below. Help me reconcile? A- When does my need for my space become important then? Never, just in case his head gets turned? B - where his career tanking has required her to step in and take on these responsibilities... Does not the woman’s burden shoulder become a concern?But we lived on one income for 4 years. Just my wage. About three times the salary he makes now. It was a struggle. The kind of advice Fascinating Womanhood gives is geared towards the man working and the woman staying home, so it would be a long stretch to apply it to you right now, it's simply not the same situation. The best course of action IMO is for you to pay your debts as fast as you can and strive to work less and less in the long run, until you can do it part time and he can actually b… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/19 05:13 PM |
| 5 | What is a red pilled woman?Same, Camille brought interesting content all the time but also allowed a cliquish environment to form. It sucks because I loved that the space existed but I hated it becoming so female and totalitarian (which was ironically reflected in the post about the female social matrix). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/19 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Roosh V's change of heartAgreed with your whole comment btw. He is not even offering what the type of girl he'd approve of requires of a husband. His best bet is accepting a woman of a similar journey (who won't be a chaste young thing...) or pursuing priesthood of some kind. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/07/19 09:00 PM |
| 18 | Where do you think good places for finding redpill/‘traditional’ women would be?What do you have to offer? You're a guy with a Grindr account and a self-described "ugly creep", I don't think a traditional church girl will be into that. Just keep working on yourself and stop being so damn neurotic. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/06/19 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Roosh V's change of heartThanks for the link, by the way what is it with that podcast layout? Lol it looks like he's running a podcast while being the cashier at a mall store. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/06/19 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Roosh V's change of heartthat's run of the mill red pill subject matter though, I don't understand what's so horrific about it | /r/RedPillWives | 01/06/19 10:25 PM |
| 9 | Roosh V's change of heartI agree with you about the faith market and the selling point of his redemption story. As I commented earlier to someone else, he can't compete through the ethno market so all his eggs have to be in the Christian basket if he wants to remain a thought leader (though he also grabs a bit of the ethno market by "naming the Jew" for example). I don't know how likely it is for him to find a good life partner though given his baggage. It's kinda funny to me because all his observations of a post-wall … | /r/RedPillWives | 01/06/19 05:50 PM |
| 5 | Roosh V's change of heartI also think his conversion is true, but I think it's conveniently fashionable now. I've seen a growth of Christianity in the younger right-wing crowd, and Roosh can keep appealing to them through Christian values the way he can't do through race talk. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/06/19 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Roosh V's change of heartHave you ever read the Roosh V forum? Wow, seriously it is horrific. In which ways is it horrific? I'm not really familiar with the forum itself, just with his articles and general worldview. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/06/19 05:01 PM |
| 4 | Roosh V's change of heartHow is his personality terrible in your view? Personally I find him very funny, I like his deadpan approach. But I think he has too much baggage for the type of chaste woman he wants to attract now. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/06/19 05:00 PM |
| 4 | Roosh V's change of heartWouldn't that also make people doubt the existence of god? The randomness of tragedy that is cancer I mean. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/06/19 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Roosh V's change of hearthis messaging left a nasty impression at that time. How so? | /r/RedPillWives | 01/06/19 04:55 PM |
| 7 | Loving like a mother (for your partner)In order for me to love someone, I have to emotionally trust them. In order to emotionally trust them, I have to know I can rely on their tender love and affection when I’m in a dark state of mind. This is nothing out of the ordinary for a relationship. I know having to emotionally reaffirm your captain is not something that would fit into your ideal relationship. But for me, personally, I need something along the lines of that in order to trust someone. I don't think men know how men act with w… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/05/19 06:06 AM |
| 5 | Traditional Woman's Path to HeroismI found this dichotomy interesting. We've discussed female archetypes before but this is one seems a lot more streamlined to me. They directly translate to Madonna and Whore but I liked how she framed how both could work traditionally. A whore archetype is not always degenerate, it can also mean being intellectually challenging to a man for his benefit in his mission. The archetypes discussed before before for example have a clear whore (The Courtesan) but the Madonna archetype from there is amb… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/05/19 04:29 PM |
| 2 | why would any man marry any woman he already knows wont do sex things he wants?Are married muslimas required to give bjs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 11:27 PM |
| 3 | Seeking advice: new beta tendenciesI do think he has the capacity to be dominant and take the reins but that doesn't mean that he will be ready to do so with me. Yeah, this is the thing with men and age. I think it's in your best interest to look for someone over 30 that has a sense of his own self and direction so everything flows more naturally and you can relax in your role. I'm aware it can be hard to break it off when there's no specific tangible problem but at 27 you can't really afford to waste more time. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/04/19 03:47 AM |
| 12 | Seeking advice: new beta tendenciesHonestly, a 24 year old man is barely an adult. It even strikes me as contrived to read you refer him as a "captain". You're older than him, your dominance threshold is clearly higher, and it won't be long until you think of yourself as more capable than him precisely because of this disparity. Relationships are meant for vetting, and 14 months isn't a long time actually - it actually didn't take very long for him to get comfortable and stagnant. This relationship doesn't sound worth pursuing fu… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/04/19 01:39 AM |
| 5 | Do your husbands lose attraction to you as you age?you're funny | /r/RedPillWives | 23/01/19 04:12 PM |
| 6 | Do your husbands lose attraction to you as you age?Because the ones who post here are usually very young and deluded, and it's hilarious when they think their non-experience is relevant to a thread. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/01/19 03:15 AM |
| 12 | Is nun mode worth it at 24? Long but I really need help.How much time do you think it will take you to get back in shape? I'd say to focus 100% on that, and then get back to dating while doing all other self-improvement. However do stick to a fixed date to get there so you don't lose track. According to the losertown calculator, on a 1200 diet and couch potato lifestyle it would take you until Jan 2019 to reach the upper side of a healthy BMI. With 3x week exercise you could lose 25 lbs by February 2019. Female "monk-mode" is controversial here becau… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/10/18 07:44 PM |
| 4 | "What if the man won't lead?"The best thing to do, as an outsider, is nothing tbh. You can't really change something like this from the outside. But if the woman in the relationship really wants to change and not be the boss, she has to put aside her own standards of what the couple's life and direction will be like. It's like a trust fall exercise. These women are rarely bossy because they like it, it's because they're terrified that everything will fall apart if they don't carry all the weight. Being controlling stems fro… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/10/18 07:16 PM |
| 4 | What’s the right thing to say?Yes. You can support him by the groceries you get, the kind of meals you cook, and by sticking to the same plan so that his environment is one of encouragement and not temptation or judgement, but as far as what he chooses to do, that's not under your control. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/09/18 02:36 AM |
| 1 | What’s the right thing to say?Just trying to keep some semblance of consistency here. Nag him, be his mother, but don't nag him! | /r/RedPillWives | 18/09/18 12:26 AM |
| 2 | What’s the right thing to say?Pretty much everything you suggested to her is to persistently urge him to take a certain approach, aka nagging. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/09/18 12:21 AM |
| 1 | What’s the right thing to say?but if he is tracking his calories honestly and not getting anywhere, he needs to see a medical professional. [...] is he properly measuring his coffee creamer, salad dressing, snacks, portions? [...] No need to nag him, [...] you need to get him a food scale and a nutritionist for Christmas. You're actually encouraging nagging all over this comment | /r/RedPillWives | 18/09/18 12:10 AM |
| 3 | What’s the right thing to say?He’s asked me multiple times for me to be supportive. What does this mean exactly? With my speedy metabolism and petite frame I have a hard time not being judgmental Can you elaborate on this? Are you two eating the same junk foods but since he puts on the weight you get judgy with him? Are you cooking homemade meals? What do you mean by "when he eats a little more"? difficult for him to diet because of various health consequences and being impossibly busy How does him being busy relate to him b… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/09/18 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Surprising Statistics About Hot People Versus Ugly PeopleI've seen Japanese women that look like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Surprising Statistics About Hot People Versus Ugly PeopleWeird, I'm hispanic and she looked Asian to me without a question. And I know Asian looking hispanics but I never even considered hispanic with her. I think it's the hair as well, it's too sleek and shiny and made me immediately think Asian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 02:07 AM |
| 1 | What are you working on, or what should you start working on, in your relationship/pursuit of a relationship?I think a good way to think of it is what you can do for self-care vs. what imposes on him or is actually his role. /u/51cab's examples were all about self-care, things that are immediate needs that she can pretty much address on her own (eating, resting). For bigger issues that require his decision making it's best to bring him the problem but not the solution. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/18 06:52 PM |
| 5 | How do I excuse myself from a process I don't want to be a part of?But look at your post, you actually can't. You said so, you lose your composure and snap at him. If you actually could, you wouldn't behave this way or post about it. I'm not about to play dumb to feed his ego It's not playing dumb or lying, it's being honest with yourself and him about what you can bear. This issue is not about his ego but yours. This response further shows you have trouble being vulnerable in your relationship and this is why you snap aggressively at him and get defensive here… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/08/18 02:14 PM |
| 10 | How do I excuse myself from a process I don't want to be a part of?Don't say you don't want to, say you can't. You're not rejecting the task out of disinterest, but out of plain inability to deal with it. Your helplessness (and vulnerability in showing it so transparently) will compel him to step up. And then, when he deals with it on his own, you can't judge him about it, no matter how long he takes or how he goes about it. And if he is asking for more input after this make sure to reply in a way that shows you don't know how to do this, not that you don't wan… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/18 09:12 PM |
| 5 | How do I excuse myself from a process I don't want to be a part of?Have you told him directly you can't handle this responsibility? If so, how has this conversation been like? | /r/RedPillWives | 29/08/18 06:46 PM |
| 3 | What behaviours or charecteristics would not be considered RP?The sidebar is a good start | /r/RedPillWives | 15/08/18 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Perhaps off topic, but let's talk about... Mail order bridesI think the insinuation is that traditional for them means staying loyal to the insular tribe, which I agree is what takes place in "traditional women" of "traditional society". The difference is the lens, you see it as internal (your internal values) and they see is as external (the tribe's values). | /r/RedPillWives | 15/08/18 04:46 PM |
| 8 | Perhaps off topic, but let's talk about... Mail order bridesThey only seem docile in their natural habitat because Eastern European men are even more masculine This is a good point. Again it's what about men command themselves, not what women intrinsically are. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/08/18 04:18 PM |
| 7 | Perhaps off topic, but let's talk about... Mail order bridesIt's not traditional to pick a foreigner over your own culture and network. Loyal to the man, yes, not the tribe. Not judging by the way, I'm in a similar position myself. You're looking at "traditional wife" from an individual perspective, as in, how you'll act inside your relationship, this is quite modern. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/08/18 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Perhaps off topic, but let's talk about... Mail order bridesExactly, what even is success? It's funny because RP men would romanticize the time when women didn't pick their husbands, yet I don't believe a couple's active sex life was a priority these times. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/08/18 04:06 PM |
| 6 | Perhaps off topic, but let's talk about... Mail order bridesAt the end of the day you have to speak and interact with this person, it's not that much of a headscratcher. realistic expectations But the thing is that it isn't. They might know why they got in, but they don't know how it will realistically unfold. In the abstract it sounds pretty clear, but how will this man command respect and sex in the day to day? He will not in the long run. She will not stay sweet in the long run because it's not what she actually was, it's what she conveyed for a purpo… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/08/18 04:01 PM |
| 9 | Perhaps off topic, but let's talk about... Mail order bridesInterestingly I live in a culture where arranged marriages are still the norm This is entirely different. The family picks the family here. The culture is the same. It's not done for a greencard, unless it's one of those cases of an Indian girl from India marrying an Indian American guy, in which even if it's a greencard one, the cultural ties of the couple are the same. An Eastern European woman risks her network to be in a better country, and the best she can hope is to use this guy to get her… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/08/18 03:33 PM |
| 8 | What advice/habits would you impart on your daughter as she grows up?Not exactly advice or habits, but as a little girl I was obsessed with the way my parents met. It was the ultimate love at first sight story. BTW they just met at a party, nothing out of the ordinary, but the way she would tell it and the way I could see this is what love was, it was magical to me. Their relationship wasn't perfect, there were many issues and they separated now, but when I have kids I want them to feel the love that their parents have through my actions and behavior towards thei… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/18 09:44 PM |
| 6 | What behaviours or charecteristics would not be considered RP?I agree. To me being RP is having a RP worldview, not acting a certain way. There is wife material that isn't RP, and RP women that aren't wife material. These kinds of questions are the ones that make the sub appear cliquish and lead to the "what is the RP way to chop vegetables?" sort of threads. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/18 09:36 PM |
| 12 | Need another perspective on moving in (warning: hamstering ahead)Stick to your values. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/08/18 02:41 PM |
| 5 | The Myth of the Alpha FemaleThis doesn't seem to add anything of value to existing RP theory. It only distorts terminology into an obfuscation, helping no one. A submissive desirable woman shouldn't be described as alpha in any shape of form, that would be mentally ill. Feminine nature is not alpha, it makes for an agreeable follower, which is desirable to men, yet that still doesn't mean alpha, because alpha doesn't mean "best", it is directly linked to dominance and leadership. Even in the modern sense "alpha women" are … | /r/RedPillWives | 12/08/18 08:55 PM |
| 7 | The Myth of the Alpha FemaleIs there even a point in using "alpha" for women though? It makes no sense to me, it doesn't seem to be a useful descriptor or to even categorize female traits in a valuable way. Is there beta women too? It's just confusing. Just here in this thread it's used to allude to either a Strong Independent Woman and the complete opposite of that, it's just confusing. There is no alpha and beta for women in relationships or even in the home hierarchy. Buying into it it's buying into measuring women with… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/08/18 08:45 PM |
| 10 | This actually WORKS.Don't take a soft place to land as being so literal that everything is calm all the time, it means that it's a welcoming place for him to leave outside problems out of the home. To not come home to more problems, to her problems or a resentful attitude. It doesn't mean you have to be literally a mellow flower that can't be playful or interesting to talk to. Seeing that you can have a stable happy mindset is a huge relief to a man. While it's wonderful that he cares for you and that he gave you t… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/08/18 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Question for RPW: Why are you against feminism?It's very frustrating to see people saying "modern feminism" as if it was, at some point, not against men. The dictionary definition is the modern one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/18 03:37 PM |
| 6 | Why Is Dating Becoming So Difficult?I think many youtubers acquire that kind of rhethoric ("our side is more enlightened") simply because their audience watch their videos already expecting to be reassured. We can pressume most of her audience is male and not young girls wanting dating advice. They want to be told that good traditional girls exist, even if the video is not insightful or novel in itself. Her previous video on femininity is also similar, not really going deep into the subject but presenting many points at the surfac… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/08/18 05:23 PM |
| 1 | An Awesome Tip If Your Man’s Preferred Language is Quality TimeI have Quality Time and Physical Touch as my primary love languages, but instead of leaning into either as clearly, it's "being alone but together" what really scratches that itch for me in regards to what quality time entails. Maybe we're doing our own thing but we can look at each other, hug each other, joke around, that's the kind of contact I like. I agree with that site's tips whenever there's a deep conversation going on- being understanding and not interrupting - however that much attenti… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/08/18 02:08 PM |
| 4 | My Happy Marriage Tips~ "he's just a man"(This is a rambly one. Lisa is a very rambly youtuber but I like her voice so I sometimes have her on in the background.) Overall you can sense how her relationship is if you are familiar with her videos. She shops, she drives the kids around, she generally has a consumerist lifestyle that is not my goal at all. But you can see she regards her husband with respect and sweetness. I appreciate she mentions how DIFFERENT men and women think about things - something really forgotten in today's cultu… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/08/18 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Why Is Dating Becoming So Difficult?Some general good observations on modern dating from a traditional perspective. I still however think they're barely scraping at the surface here. For example they mention a woman having a "good job" as if that made her a better prospect. I guess it could mean she has a reliable character, but that still shows how solipsistic women can be (even traditional-minded women) in what desirable traits are in women. It's a good observation however that if you come to a date today sharing your perspectiv… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/08/18 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Relationship Dynamics Part 2: All About Men!Yes HHH sounds possible. If the defining percentage for a male H is greater than 50% dominant traits, guess the most appropriate summary would be HHH for our relationship. But that's going to look different if he is coming in H with like 60% alpha traits versus an H guy who is like 90% alpha traits. I actually wrote a similar comment in the original post, since we don't have a concrete base from which to test a male's place in the dominance hierarchy or his balance of alpha and beta traits. Even… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/18 04:45 PM |
| 23 | Good partners shown in literature/movies/TV showsGomez and Morticia are my faves for life. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/07/18 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Relationship Dynamics Part 2: All About Men!You're mixing two separate parts of that post. The first letter refers to the man's dominance, the last two to the woman's own dominance and dominance threshold in that order. If you are HL that would mean you're either in a LHL or a HHL dynamic. If you meant to say your fiance was H and you were L, you would be in a HLH or a HLL depending if you have a low or high threshold. In that case you should state the three letters that comprise the dynamic to avoid confusion. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/07/18 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Relationship Dynamics Part 2: All About Men!You touched on something that bugs me about these archetypes because how men are in the male hierarchy vs. how they are in their relationship. Leaders of men can be totally pussywhipped behind closed doors and the losers in the male hierarchy can be total players. I don't think men can (or should for that matter) be classified in function to their long term relations with women because it isn't a reflection of the external power he holds. Almost any man can be in a LTR, as far as we know someone… | /r/RedPillWives | 05/07/18 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Why Do People Cheat w. Esther Perel | Tony Robbins PodcastEven though the title is about infidelity, the podcast itself touches on the subjects of desire, relationship expectations and attachment styles, and is a good intro to Perel's work. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/07/18 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Curbing HypergamyThis, it's just a female-tribe bonding activity and a subset of gossiping. MEN SUCK! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/06/18 03:59 AM |
| 4 | Advising your friends on RP because you see them struggle? How to help my good friend“lose the weight, give your man sex, and cut back at work a little” This is good advice in general for any woman. I can see how "give your man sex" would be the simple way to go if they were married. But just infusing more sex artificially doesn't go into the roots of her relationship's dysfunction and doesn't actually fix it. At this point I am worried her man will leave her. He is a really good catch in my opinion, and has a lot of potential. It doesn't matter what you think, she obviously doe… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/06/18 04:28 PM |
| 5 | On the importance of marriage, and why we're "RedPillWives"Why do you think men in power so often display predatory behavior? | /r/RedPillWives | 26/06/18 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Will you raise sons & daughters differently?Out of curiosity, what's your family's cultural/religious background? | /r/RedPillWives | 25/06/18 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Orderliness & Emotional SupportDo you know each other's love languages? That might help a bunch. I relate to him in the compliment aspect, I actually feel really uneasy when it comes to receiving words of affirmation and it's not something I look forward to, however I love physical touch. My SO feels really supported with words of affirmation so I make sure to do that for him, and I am glad that I can tell this difference so that I can love him in a way I don't like to receive love. Have you always slept those many hours? Are… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/06/18 01:38 AM |
| 3 | Who inspires us?They ruined her in the latter seasons though. Turned into such a bitter nag. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/06/18 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Resource Roundup! Help us find the best RP (and related) content out thereSexual Personae by Camille Paglia, a classic work on history of western art and culture. She did the order/chaos archetypes thingie before Jordan Peterson came around (and is a MUCH better writer and bolder thinker). If you want to get into female archetypes and appreciate the inception of culture and civilization this is a great, often overlooked, way to start. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/06/18 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Resource Roundup! Help us find the best RP (and related) content out thereThe secret to desire in a long-term relationship and other material that can be found on YouTube by Esther Perel. I'm currently reading one of her books and she roughly says the same thing as in the video. Personally I think her message is good but concise and doesn't warrant an entire book. Feminism and the Disposable Male by Karen Straughan is seminal to getting into antifeminism. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/06/18 02:26 PM |
| 8 | Hurt by husband: Where to go from where?Who even seats a married couple on different tables? Is that a common thing to do now? | /r/RedPillWives | 16/06/18 01:49 PM |
| 5 | Explaining Monogamy to VoxAn article about the history of monogamy and how it was recently portrayed on a recent Vox's Netflix series called "Explained". Usually whenever it's pointed out that monogamy has been out of the norm for humans it's done in a way that makes it seem useless, or that nonmonogamy in contrast would somehow be better. This was an interesting read on the subject that provided insight and many examples across cultures. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/06/18 03:52 AM |
| 4 | The state of the original forumAbout two years ago this community was started by the women that used to mod RPW and they left because of disagreements about the direction that RPW was taking. That's why the two subs have a different feel, since the contributors don't really overlap. I'm not familiar with what happened to this woman but frankly there's no need to bring that reproach here, as it will only stir up drama. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/06/18 11:36 PM |
| 15 | The state of the original forumFYI You can comment here regardless if you're married or not. The name was more of a statement that RPW (and women's sexual strategy) are pro-marriage and ultimately desire a relationship that leads to married status. It doesn't mean you have to be married to join. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/06/18 04:39 PM |
| 2 | TED talk: Where joy hides and how to find itThis was interesting! Unfortunately I don't think I would find joy in some of the spaces she showed. The school redesign was beautiful as a school, but applied to the adult spaces it gave me a bad and uncomfortable sensation. I'm sure it's about aesthetics though, I'm much more happy in environments that seem calmer and with less drastic schemes. I read somewhere that what different cultures look for in their homes is something that contrasts with their environment (for example the ornate archit… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/06/18 04:29 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Socially awkward attractive dude vs below average dude with game/charismaNot just because he’s hot, but because I’m an introverted person myself Yes in the numbers game he wouldn't do well because he wouldn't approach, but he wouldn't struggle falling into relationships with the nerdier girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/18 04:49 PM |
| 2 | ‘Sex and the City’ ruined my lifeI agree, she should have done a yoga retreat à la eat pray love. I just found it funny that she would say it seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/18 05:51 AM |
| 17 | ‘Sex and the City’ ruined my lifeI found it irritating because it was a self-reflecting piece with no actual self-reflection. It's like it was all inflicted on her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 03:09 PM |
| 19 | ‘Sex and the City’ ruined my lifeI don’t know why it infuriates me so much. Because it's spiritual consumerism. These people are obnoxious when they found "the answer" for the 23135th time in the newest fad. And honestly it's not surprising since they were impressionable enough to let their lives be entirely co-opted by a freaking tv show in the first place. I had to laugh a bit when she said she went to Bali to get away from it all as if it's not just yet another move in a life rooted in pursuing "empowerment" glamour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/18 03:05 PM |
| 4 | Jordan Peterson's 12 Rules for Life + Betty Freidan's The Feminine MystiqueI felt conned by his rambly, poorly edited book. His video material had more substance. But the book deal was sparked by him giving life advice on Quora so I should have expected it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/18 04:37 AM |
| 1 | The downsides of a tradcon mother: a personal experienceThis is an immigrant story that doesn't reflect what tradcon means in the West. These people had no network there, a complete different example from tradition, extended family and church to act as support. This also explains the emotional incest developing, a mother relying on her children for adult attention because she is so isolated. BTW I also don't personally abide by the "tradcon" mother example either, I wouldn't have thrived under a highly conservative background. I believe the best thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/18 04:58 PM |
| 4 | "Don't You Know That You're Toxic?" - Christy0Misty is back!For those who don't know her, Christy0Misty was one of the original antifeminist youtubers from 2010 that suddenly deleted her channel. Her original series on feminism has been reuploaded many times, but I was happy to find that she's back making videos and wanted to share. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/18 04:43 PM |
| 4 | Predictors for infidelity and divorceNew research from Florida State University highlights ways to keep love and also identifies clear predictors for failed relationships. In a study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology today, FSU psychology researchers Jim McNulty, Andrea Meltzer, Anastasia Makhanova and Jon Maner reveal factors that lead to infidelity, as well as prevent it. Their research is the first to find evidence of psychological responses that help a person avoid infidelity -- one of the surest way… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/02/18 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Why Do Happy People Cheat?lol not making fun of him, just his client base. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/11/17 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Why Do Happy People Cheat?I was surprised to see this taboo topic addressed by Matthew Hussey (who gives dating advice to strong independent women™) in a short interview with psychotherapist Esther Perel. Perel has also written a book on infidelity called The State Of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity and also has an insightful TED talk about the topic and another one also worth watching called The secret to desire in a long-term relationship. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/11/17 03:53 AM |
| 3 | Random RP Thoughts!It's that troll that always comes here to say the same thing over and over. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/17 03:02 PM |
| 16 | Absentee Dads affect how women interpret interest from menI think some of them perceive more into male behavior than what is there. I also think you are just baiting and don't belong to this sub. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/17 04:38 AM |
| 8 | Absentee Dads affect how women interpret interest from menNew research finds that women who were reminded of a time that their dad was absent from their lives -- or who actually experienced poor quality fathering while growing up -- perceived greater mating intent in the described behaviors of a hypothetical male dating partner and when talking with a man. These women also 'saw' more sexual arousal when viewing images of men's faces. Nothing new, really, but it makes me question how much MeToo claims of harassment can be linked to this perception. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/11/17 03:56 PM |
| 2 | How to hostess (suggestion thread)check out Entertaining with Beth on youtube. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/11/17 11:02 PM |
| 3 | How did your relationship change after having children?It absolutely could be a bad thing, always be careful about not displacing him. If your kids are basis of your family, your marriage will crumble when they leave the nest. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/10/17 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Feeling a void inside. Anyone with similar experiences?Essentially the same thing, a void that has been there since childhood. I don't know the specifics, sorry. I relate it to deeply wanting meaning (not everyone craves meaning as much as certain types) and not having found it. But who knows. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/17 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Feeling a void inside. Anyone with similar experiences?Hey there. Personally I don't quite relate to a void but I've heard the same thing before from an ENFP (Fi). Have you analyzed your personality before? You could start with Myers-Briggs if you haven't, but if you're in a rut I strongly suggest you seek out Jordan Peterson's videos, specifically this personality playlist. He also has a self-authoring program I've personally not completed (I purchased it but ironically life has been in the way) that could get you some further introspection. I hope… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/17 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - August 18, 2017Sangria for summertime! so refreshing. Otherwise I'm a beer person all year round. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/08/17 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Why are conservative / red pill / whatever women drawn to TERFs?There's an aspect of sexual abuse commonly found in radical communities that make it easier to understand than inceldom (which is about rejection not violence). Not saying that's the whole bulk of it, I'm sure some bitterness could come from rejection to a degree. But more often than not I've found that they have some sexual trauma growing up that lead them to distrust men in such a way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/17 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Why are conservative / red pill / whatever women drawn to TERFs?It seems not all trans people believe in a continuation of the self as understood by the "having always been" argument, the ones who get very upset at dead-naming or refer to the new self as a third-person concept (literally a persona they're actively crafting, not inhabiting ab initio), I really believe they're trying to solve something else by transitioning not actually a mismatch of 'mind' and body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/17 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Why are conservative / red pill / whatever women drawn to TERFs?Well both are a male perspective so it's going to sound similar because it's still the way males relate to things. Going in detail the changes described are very different from start to finish, often about their drop in libido (admitting they would masturbate very often before estrogen, how their approach to sexual attraction morphed), and being emotional. Which then makes you question, then what made them think they were a woman inside in the first place? The internal changes they're describing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/17 03:06 PM |
| 5 | Why are conservative / red pill / whatever women drawn to TERFs?The next one is pedophiles as a sexual minority class. They tried it once when gay rights were the issue, they're going to try it again after anti-kink-shaming rhetoric is well established. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/17 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Why are conservative / red pill / whatever women drawn to TERFs?Do you live under a rock? It has been made big in the past year by shaping laws around it, like the Obama bathroom one and Canadian Bill C-16. It's been all over the media due to this. The issue itself might be fringe but it's being centered beyond niche internet groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/17 02:21 PM |
| 6 | Why are conservative / red pill / whatever women drawn to TERFs?And I love this one often found in asktransgender but never called out: 1) Pre-transition: "I'm a woman in the wrong body" 2) Taking hormones: "I'm feeling more like a woman, I feel so emotional now and I'm weaker physically" <- Lowkey admitting they weren't a woman in the first place if they're just "becoming" one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/17 02:15 PM |
| 7 | Why are conservative / red pill / whatever women drawn to TERFs?It's not about "shaming" you it's about what's true. You're still in denial about what your sexual preferences actually entail. But if women argues what they think is true or right is "catty", "out of jealousy", "to shame" someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/17 02:08 PM |
| 6 | Why are conservative / red pill / whatever women drawn to TERFs?They wouldn't want men at all, they think an all female society will be free of the ills of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/17 01:01 PM |
| 9 | Why are conservative / red pill / whatever women drawn to TERFs?Radfems have analyzed female conservatives and they conclude that we're the same class as people but conservative women "make a deal" with men by playing by the patriarchy rule book while radfems eschew it. Both groups often see eye to eye in many issues like porn, female dignity, and the idea that your sex matters to your experience. I take offense at the idea that "woman" is a feeling, I find it quite arrogant of loser males to think they feel this "woman" feeling so they must be it. No one in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/17 02:07 AM |
| 3 | Why are conservative / red pill / whatever women drawn to TERFs?I have a different username for it so I know he didn't mean me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/17 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Why are conservative / red pill / whatever women drawn to TERFs?Yes they heavily overestimate female capabilities. They keep it foggy enough so it's an ideal of "what women could do if it wasn't for the patriarchy". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/17 01:48 AM |
| 7 | Why are conservative / red pill / whatever women drawn to TERFs?Radfems are right about male nature I just don't agree that something needs to be "done" about it YES! I often am shocked about how right they (ironically) get the male perspective and how different it is. They're not like libfems that think men think like them. But I often have to facepalm when they purport "solutions" as if that's a thing, or envision female havens that would fail miserably in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/17 01:46 AM |
| 6 | The Puzzle of Monogamous MarriageThis is a long read so I don't expect it to gain tons of traction in terms of discussion, but here it goes. The anthropological record indicates that approximately 85 per cent of human societies have permitted men to have more than one wife (polygynous marriage), and both empirical and evolutionary considerations suggest that large absolute differences in wealth should favour more polygynous marriages. Yet, monogamous marriage has spread across Europe, and more recently across the globe, even as… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/17 05:33 PM |
| 5 | Supportive Relationships Linked To Willingness To Pursue OpportunitiesI was listening to a Jordan Peterson lecture the other day when he referred to the nice guy (he phrased it as beta males I think) as a "persona". This is why we inherently distrust them as women, not because they aren't "alpha enough" but because they are literally wearing a mask of niceness and not being true enough to themselves to go for what they want outright. In many ways people go around in personas, marry someone as a persona, and then uncover and expect everything to fall in place. And … | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/17 05:11 PM |
| 1 | How does your childhood inform your behaviour in relationships?I was shielded from my parents' issues so this made me have a very happy childhood. I know it's very "in" (especially on reddit) to say that if you're unhappy in your marriage, divorcing is better for the child because otherwise the child will learn bad relationship dynamics. Of course, if there's violence or major cruelty divorce would be the lesser evil, but in the less extreme cases I still think "staying together for the kids" is totally the way to go. It's strange because as flawed as their… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/17 04:53 PM |
| 5 | Supportive Relationships Linked To Willingness To Pursue OpportunitiesI read this the other day and was like "duh!" :) Mutual support to pursue our goals is the best way to trust each other but also to maintain clear communication about what we want in life. But it also requires compatibility in said goals... it also left me wondering about all the people who will look at this to find a sciencey reason of why their marriage is holding them back and then feel entitled to radically change their life path out of boredom/a mid-life crisis. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/17 04:32 PM |
| 3 | When Your Husband Doesn't "Meet Your Needs": Fighting for MarriageIt's a double edged sword that women tend to fit their lives around their relationships. It's great to focus our prime energy there but then it's easy to forget your SO is not an extension of your brain. I know these kinds of articles focus on emotional needs like commiserating or managing boredom but for me the struggle is about self-judgement. I usually keep most of my anxieties for my journal but have found that I'm more prone to whine at him about my shortcomings around that time of the mont… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/17 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Free Friday - August 04, 2017I get my olive oil and parmigiano reggiano from Costco's house brand and when I knew about fake foods I was relieved they didn't fake theirs! I still can't get over dyed salmon though :( I'm also obsessed with food lol, my latest hit has been goat milk. I'm fascinated with cuisine in theory, but for myself I tend to go towards the same very streamlined meals (I'm more interested about nutrition than making a complex meal for example). | /r/RedPillWives | 05/08/17 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Share your fun date ideasOMG yes! this is us! but I need my onion rings too :) It's best when I've "saved up" my calories and it's like a little reward. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/08/17 02:01 AM |
| 4 | Tolkien's Fatherly Advice to His Son on SexI like the juxtaposition of a very strong moral character with a deep understanding of male sexuality. This is why I think it could make for a good discussion. An individual has a nature, but also has an ideal. How does a man reconcile both for a live well lived? | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/17 03:29 PM |
| 2 | How Did I Become the Last Single Person in My Friend Group?Feel free to make it! It's Free Friday after all, even r/relationships has a Love Fest thread lol. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/17 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - August 04, 2017Recently I stumbled upon this YouTube channel and I'm obsessed with it! Not only is the video production outstanding but the topic itself is incredibly wholesome. I love cooking videos, but mixing it up with history is definitely a win for me. My favorite is probably the Food of the Enslaved series since this kind of food has definitely shaped American cooking! It's also surprising to see what common meals have been around forever. Beyond food, he touches on the subject of living history which I… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/17 03:17 PM |
| 6 | Tolkien's Fatherly Advice to His Son on SexThe full text of the letter can be found here (43), but the article neatly points out some of the main ideas. Would you agree with his advice? Do you think young men today receive good advice from their fathers, or any advice at all? What aspect did you find the most surprising? Turning it around, what would the advice for daughters be? | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/17 03:05 PM |
| 6 | Thoughts On Replacing Traditional Marriage In A Post-Scarcity Society - Let's Discuss The Pros And Cons Of His Ideas!Even if people don't want children they would still be attracted to fertility markers! So in theory I'd agree women would go for the alpha fucks over beta commitment if we drove away from the concept, especially as beta currency depreciates and women provide for themselves. My personal observation is similar to yours, and the women I know are still very afraid of being unmarried after 30, as empowered as they are. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/17 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts On Replacing Traditional Marriage In A Post-Scarcity Society - Let's Discuss The Pros And Cons Of His Ideas!What an insightful comment! Thank you for stating the obvious female opinion, you've contributed nothing outside of what we already know women think. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/17 01:41 PM |
| 1 | How Did I Become the Last Single Person in My Friend Group?Yes this is what I thought. It's feminist humor. There's also a hint of self-deprecation about the modern woman lifestyle throughout the piece, such as the freezing eggs comment. I think it gets lost on some people. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/17 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts On Replacing Traditional Marriage In A Post-Scarcity Society - Let's Discuss The Pros And Cons Of His Ideas!This is an interesting post, and I often think about what's the ideal setup for a man today, and I still conclude it's marriage with casual sex on the side. This obviously stirs a lot of bad feelings on young people but I'm surprised he didn't consider it and was like 'marriage' vs. 'no marriage'. I think some manosphereans fail to acknowledge how providing for their families in itself (not the extreme end of it that they often do address, slaving away to pay alimony) is rewarding for the man in… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/17 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Female Nature And Magic/SpiritualityThank you for the blog link! I am actually quite fascinated with ethnicity and nutrition and think about the subject constantly. I've gotten around to read it now and actually share similar views about cultural Christianity forming what "the West" is as we know it. If you haven't read this article contrasting sexual mores as the cultures coexisted do check it out I think you could find it interesting. The white nationalist women that I've seen cling to a seemlingly egalitarian order and tend to … | /r/RedPillWives | 02/08/17 02:52 PM |
| 15 | How Did I Become the Last Single Person in My Friend Group?While it seems like this type of article has been written all over the Internet ad nauseam, I found the author's (unresolved) self-reflection somewhat refreshing. This is the type of woman who grew up idolizing Sex and The City and didn't pick up on Carrie's actual storyline underneath the independent-woman drivel and the cute outfits: this was a woman in her 30s desperate for 'the one' to commit. When I was younger, I took it for granted that my friends would always be available for hungover br… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/08/17 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Female Nature And Magic/SpiritualityAgreed 100% with your entire comment! Specifically about being at the mercy of our bodies, and how much agency a woman can actually bear. I think a lot of people will find this controversial and come up with examples of women's agency that counter your statement, but we have to take into account how that usually comes with a mental and physical toll in the form of great amounts of stress and high cortisol. No matter how we are aligned politically, no one can deny women's current unhappiness and … | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/17 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Female Nature And Magic/SpiritualityYes, sorry, I myself was doubtful as I re-read it! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/17 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Female Nature And Magic/SpiritualityNot just freedom but individual freedom. Women are collectivists by nature and the idea of an individual woman, outside of a daughter-to-mom paradigm is a modern concept. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/17 01:58 AM |
| 4 | Female Nature And Magic/SpiritualityI always viewed women being into the spiritual more as an obvious thing, but I relate it to our cycles and literally birthing life. I think that whole thing is mystifying even when science has explained it. The "viewing thing as happening to them" is an interesting theory and reflects the extent of female solipsism. How accurate do you think the author’s theory is regarding feminists “not [feeling] that their own reality is represented within a ‘patriarchal’ society” I can't agree with it 100%..… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/08/17 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Karen Straughan and Bettina Arndt Talk About How Feminism Screwed SexThis long [48:35] conversation between prominent MRA Karen Straughan and sex therapist Bettina Arndt opens with a great phrase, a play on Marilyn Monroe's famously quoted "If you can't handle me at my worst...": If he can't handle you at your worst, maybe stop sucking so much. They go on to thoroughly discuss how the female perspective has warped male-female dynamics, specifically as it relates to sex. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/07/17 04:04 AM |
| 1 | HELP needed. Unemployed husband and new baby.I'm not "pissed" lol just further explaining how your entitlement is at play here, and rightly backed by your response and asinine clinging to a certain lifestyle above your relationship's well being. Have a nice day! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/17 04:38 PM |
| 1 | HELP needed. Unemployed husband and new baby.This thread is really about how you 'believe' things and you don't believe other things and how he must fall in line with whatever paradigm you had for yourself (nannies and cooks and endless providing because baby doesn't "believe in abortion"). So you're married to a man with depression and addiction, that must be hard, true, but you've had a gross attitude that shows all throughout in this very thread. You're resentful, and he must resent you deeply as well for unilaterally instilling change … | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/17 10:17 AM |
| 1 | HELP needed. Unemployed husband and new baby.Who on the Internet could have some magic words to fix this absolute mess? OP needs to grow the fuck up and learn responsibility, r/relationships would just coddle her entitled ass more. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/07/17 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Why I Finally Accepted Being An "Intimidating" WomanI don't find it quirky that your husband's acquaintances are 'scared' off you, but maybe it's just the whole kink thing. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/07/17 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Why I Finally Accepted Being An "Intimidating" WomanNo one mentioned mom. Who is responsible for the "beta", effeminate men walking around? Is that mom's fault, or is that laid at the father's feet too? If mom is the love and dad is the structure, whose fault is it that there was just love no structure? IMO that's the wrong question, it's assuming one of them is meant to supply both. Like if a plant needed both sun and water, it's not the water's fault that not enough sun was supplied, even if too much water is part of the problem (and vice versa… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Why I Finally Accepted Being An "Intimidating" WomanI disagree that they need to know what a boy would know. But I also understand it's difficult for dads to realize their daughters will be vulnerable in the world, deferring to men for their survival. I'm sure you'll find some balance with your daughter :) | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Why I Finally Accepted Being An "Intimidating" Womanhow to keep and maintain her body I'm super curious on how this is something she would learn from her dad, could you elaborate? how to hunt and fish, how to defend herself Not that I'm against this, survival tactics are great, but I'm curious to see of how all of this would reflect on her attitude towards males and the male role. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Why I Finally Accepted Being An "Intimidating" WomanI don't think it's a dad actively 'raising' her this way, that is, actively promoting those values, I think it's more about permissiveness and just plain old blindness to your flesh and blood's shortcomings. Another user just shared a study that highlighted these differences in what men want in daughters vs. wives that supports this. Transferring that to the author's claim of "being intimidating"... that would not be the upbringing of a white North American suburban woman that I would expect, ha… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Why I Finally Accepted Being An "Intimidating" WomanThis reminds me of the disparity between the traits men want in daughters (intelligence, independence, strength, principles) vs. what they want in wives (intelligence, attractiveness, dependence, sweetness). http://www.businessinsider.com/what-men-want-in-a-wife-and-in-a-daughter-2015-4 Wow this is what I was getting at but didn't know there was a study! Thanks I'll read it. If you've read the theory around here it's not like women can't be high dominance we also have what we call an HHH pairing… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 04:23 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: Do women have more fun in life than men? Does it depend on SMV? Does it depend on age?They're your same sex, are they not? homo sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 08:13 AM |
| 2 | Why I Finally Accepted Being An "Intimidating" WomanWhile their is a biological drive to protect your daughters, is this also tied to the fact that men are too beta these days? I've been thinking this so much lately, not precisely about fathers but young men I'm seeing around the city? Like my gaydar is all off because I would see these guys and think they're gay and then see them with a girlfriend. From the way they dress (informal geeky wear, or too stylish) to their demeanor and just how soft they look, but no, just heterosexual young men that… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Why I Finally Accepted Being An "Intimidating" WomanGreat summary and I wonder if it's a true reflection or a mask to present to the world. Either way it's for women to consume, celebrate and share. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 04:50 AM |
| 5 | Why I Finally Accepted Being An "Intimidating" WomanI don't have it figured out, either it's beta dads with a feminist mindset or those kinds of dads who can't bear the thought of their daughter being in the SMP or something. But I've heard it more than once, it's a complete double standard between 'women' and 'MY daughter'. Dads are super permissive with their daughters as it is and now there's another cultural layer of promoting "feisty" girls. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/07/17 04:43 AM |
| 5 | Q4ALL: Do women have more fun in life than men? Does it depend on SMV? Does it depend on age?You're basically admitting you prefer same-sex sex partners. How is that not the very definition of gay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Has socialization actually become more gendered in children?Yep, IMO some moms miss the point of what it's even about. I recently talked about this with an acquaintance my age and she said she had middle school teachers that refused to let their own daughters play with barbies (which they wanted to do) bc feminism. Totally throwing out the baby with the bathwater. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/17 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Has socialization actually become more gendered in children?I agree and it's two different things, the type of play vs the frills. For example I LOVED barbies, but I didn't like to wear pink at all or acquire princess dresses. I loved making little social settings full of drama for my barbies, even though the people I spent time the most were my brothers and they had robots and dinosaurs (I liked dinosaur books but not the figurines themselves as there was no drama... unless they were rubbery and I could make them kiss). My mom was always the main provid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/17 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Has socialization actually become more gendered in children?Funny you say that, my brother is the main cook in the house That was the case in my family too! They gave me the kitchen as a gift and we would play. And he would be the one handling the easy bake oven because I was afraid of touching hot things anyway. IMO the main mistake was making these things obnoxiously pink. But then I believe that's what attracts the moms so it pushes sales. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/17 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Has socialization actually become more gendered in children?I've heard Christina Hoff Sommers say this before, that it took Lego sets to have a social aspect for girls to be interested in them. I think it's true that boys and girls play differently, but there's also parental influence in what the children get in the end. The type of play is chosen by the child but the frills of it are mostly about the parent is what I've observed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/17 04:38 PM |
| 3 | What RP tenet made the most difference to you and your relationship?To me individually, the male friends thing. It changed my interactions a lot and made me reflect on male-female relations. It never was a problem on this relationship though because I arrived to it with a different mindset, but in a previous relationship tension due to opposite sex friendships was there. But probably the greatest gift of all was self-reflection and reading how men perceive women and what they value in them. It makes me work on myself but at the same time not be so hard on my sho… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/17 04:30 PM |
| 3 | What RP tenet made the most difference to you and your relationship?Agreed! It also makes you aware of where problems arise in other relationships. So many female friends are unknowingly instigating fights with their boyfriends to feel loved/get attention. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/06/17 04:15 PM |
| 4 | Parenting, Motherhood, Pregnancy Mega-Thread - June 17, 2017Not a mom yet, but I loved this video by Wife With a Purpose: Your First Baby It's packed with advice. It's an hour long though. Her videos tend to be on the longer, conversational side so I'm usually doing something else as I listen to them. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/06/17 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Modern ManhoodYes but how much of "interesting" came from just existing in separate spheres and having that mystery? And I highly doubt day to day courtship was as riveting as in movies. My big issue with 'nice guys' is the passive nature and the way it is weak, because there's no putting themselves at risk. I agree this is is a huge issue with modern beta men, I was just pondering on how the culture shifted that devalued beta as currency. Like even women and men as peers and conceiving the 'friendzone' is su… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Modern ManhoodYou know, that gentleman part was kinda harder for me. But it says a lot of our modern times when the very word makes me cringe because of how out of place it is. The author comes from a conservative perspective and not exactly red pill, and is also a man. I've noticed that men have this pedestal for betas, like they glorify and idealize them (and themselves as "good guy" betas). But then I also think it's true that for the large population of women greater betas are the most desirable. I also r… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/06/17 01:30 AM |
| 1 | SHIT POST SATURDAY - June 10, 2017Lol I was always Sailor Mars, it fits me physically and my favorite color is red, but she's too tough. I don't even remember Sailor Star Healer and according to google images she's always in her underwear! I'm glad you related. Another fictional ENFP is Carrie Bradshaw if you've ever watched SatC. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/06/17 05:24 AM |
| 6 | When your partner has a problemI think it's that user that keeps coming back with different accounts to complain | /r/RedPillWives | 12/06/17 04:07 PM |
| 7 | Modern ManhoodI linked this text as a suggested read in another thread but I think it can has its own post for discussion. Longish read from 18 years ago! And already criticizing the separation of the female and the feminine; the male and the masculine. Particularly insightful: You can make men pretend to be less dominant and less aggressive; you can make them pretend to accept a subordinate role in domestic life and a dependent position in society. But deep down, in the instinctual flow of life that is manho… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/06/17 03:34 AM |
| 3 | Philosophy for womenYou might be interested in Roger Scruton. Not pertaining femaleness but beauty as a value (A conservative viewpoint) Why Beauty Matters? Interview with Christina Hoff Sommers: Free speech, philosophy, and art Modern Manhood | /r/RedPillWives | 12/06/17 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Honest question....I think it's more baffling to assume that being heterosexual is better just because of the sexual orientation of the parents. Who says it's about sexual orientation? It's more about direct influences in PARENTING of both sexes, or lack thereof. Not what they want to bang. I don't know why gay couples would be any less capable than straight couples This is not for us to decide, but for future statistics. Like I said, I'm not pro or against until we have more information on the outcomes in develop… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/06/17 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Honest question....If a woman isn't looking for a relationship, shouldn't she just do whatever, and focus on vetting for a decent guy later on? later on when? youth is the most valuable asset for a woman in the sexual marketplace and it rapidly depreciates. Sexwise, a promiscuous woman is like to become jaded which is not a wife material trait. Interesting charts I guess dating has always been more laid back and instinctive among my friends. It is nowadays, people date with no purpose and women "fall" into relatio… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/06/17 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Honest question....i also belive in lesbian and gay couples having the opportunity to adopt shouldn't that be about the child's best interest though? not about what the gays want to do? for the record, I'm not pro or against either way until the full effects are shown in development, it just baffles me when people phrase it this way like it's something that should be fulfilled just to enforce equality jist because of their sexuality. what if it's not about their sexuality, but about the effects of the parental str… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/06/17 11:36 PM |
| 3 | SHIT POST SATURDAY - June 10, 2017Sailor Moon MBTI | /r/RedPillWives | 11/06/17 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Honest question....Definitely check out PurplePillDebate since it was made precisely to debate the ideas you find so horrible. The blue/red pill reference comes from the movie. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/06/17 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Submitting to a Pornified 2017 Man is a Mistakeyet the betas and omegas are consuming the same porn lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/17 07:33 AM |
| 7 | Honest question....Have you checked out the sidebar? It's very complete :) | /r/RedPillWives | 11/06/17 05:39 AM |
| 2 | How important are shared political beliefs in a relationship?I don't know what you expect to come from a talk with him... for him to change who he is? | /r/RedPillWives | 09/06/17 06:35 PM |
| 2 | How important are shared political beliefs in a relationship?I feel for you because I was like that in my first relationship, attached but not seeing the bigger picture. It's okay, you're young, but keep in mind all the things that keep adding up so damn early. It's not a slump after years of bliss, it's trying very hard to sustain something that hasn't even developed! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/06/17 06:27 PM |
| 1 | How important are shared political beliefs in a relationship?Your relationship is too young to have this many red flags. This too. It also had attraction issues from the get go, and sex frequency issues down the road. It seems it's her first relationship too so it could be why she's allowing so much incompatibility. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/06/17 04:14 PM |
| 3 | How important are shared political beliefs in a relationship?For me it's very important since respecting his views/opinions goes hand in hand with how I perceive his leadership. I think for the man, the woman's views are not that important in the bigger sense. It might depend on how politically minded the couple is though. I know a very RP couple in which the husband is basically a commie but not in the modern SJW sense. He leads and his wife is more conservative but not too political, so it works for them. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/06/17 01:42 AM |
| 2 | When Men Pay Taxes, Women Become PromiscuousI think the taboo comes from essentially admitting women are whores. Both conservative and liberal women would find it demeaning. Women at the very primal exchange their sexuality for goods and that's offensive to women as a group. I wouldn't know how to frame a discussion in the future. Discussing sex is really broad. There have been some essays on modern love on the NYTimes that could be great to analyze on the sub in the future however, so I might submit something for discussion when I have m… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/05/17 01:57 AM |
| 1 | When Men Pay Taxes, Women Become PromiscuousI don't know how Camille would answer that, but I think it's because men are more likely to self-improve (given their worth is generally earned, whereas for women it's granted as youth). It's not because men should change, but because it's highly unlikely for women to show that kind of initiative en masse. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/05/17 01:51 AM |
| 2 | When Men Pay Taxes, Women Become PromiscuousYay! Well, as long as he has an interest lol. My SO and I agree on a lot of things but he wouldn't care enough to read up on these kinds of things so it's something I save for this place. TBF this is still a fringe blog, I'm always more inclined to share items with sources on it but the conclusions might be individual/sound outrageous to some. I think even feminists would agree that big government (and its redistribution of wealth) allowed women to become emancipated, except they would perceive … | /r/RedPillWives | 31/05/17 01:46 AM |
| 2 | When Men Pay Taxes, Women Become PromiscuousI get that, but it's hard for me to see it in a "oh well, sucks to be them" way because a lot of women are the product of their environment, they had no reason to question the path they were in and sometimes they realize their loss too late, and that's unfortunate. A lot of times I've looked at the past regretting having made certain choices (because they were presented as the good choices at the time) and I'm still relatively young, so I imagine it's devastating for the women who realize it's t… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/05/17 01:37 AM |
| 3 | When Men Pay Taxes, Women Become PromiscuousThe outsourcing of the male role to various institutions and organizations is such a central part of feminism Brilliantly put! This is why I cringe HARD when I hear women calling for the destruction of patriarchy. It's still the very structure they're standing on. They might as well burn down every building because men made it. And even fewer people connect it to sexual promiscuity. True, when I posted this it had a kneejerk downvote which I assume might be because of how the title is phrased th… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/05/17 04:31 AM |
| 2 | When Men Pay Taxes, Women Become PromiscuousA concise little blog entry that touches on some aspects we've discussed in RPW for some time now. This could serve as a refresher or an introduction for the newer women to discuss. Women as a group follow certain voting trends that distribute wealth to them via the government and this has a certain effect on the SMP and society on a bigger scale. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/05/17 01:22 AM |
| 2 | How have TV/movies/books affected your view of relationships?However, when all you read about are young men with extraordinary powers, your expectations in a man become a bit... high lol. You just reminded me of Why I’m Settling For a Man Who’s Not My High School Poster of Aragorn | /r/RedPillWives | 27/05/17 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What opinions expressed on this subreddit contrast with your experience in the real world?After much thinking about this gender thing I don't think it should even exist as a concept separate from sex. In that sense I agree with abolitionist theory. There's male sex, female sex, and your personality. I won't treat gender expression with the cult and mystique it's modernly regarded, innate and sacred as soul. It shouldn't make a difference in what sex and sexual orientation are either way. I agree with you in that even though feminine pressure was removed, there's still a female paradi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/17 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What opinions expressed on this subreddit contrast with your experience in the real world?if you were burned by biological men but still feel an attraction to them and pull toward domesticity? then maybe your ideal relationship is as the femme partner in a coupling with a trans man. Gender abolitionism isn't pro-trans though. The whole point of that transman's transition is still fitting "gender", a contrary goal to abolitionism. The example you gave, without gender, would be a lesbian coupling example. Also gender abolitionists tend to be second wavers, who believe femininity is a p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/17 05:40 PM |
| 4 | Why do Feminists always draw themselves to look thinner?I also agree. The people drawing these images are not fully committing to the idea of fat being beautiful. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/01/17 07:02 PM |
| 8 | Why do Feminists always draw themselves to look thinner?It's a similar case for loish, she's a little chubby irl and draws some fat women but they're still neotenized and have attractive facial features. I think about this a lot, plenty of commercial artists, male and female, draw women because they're pleasing to look at. It's funny to me because even though I don't come from a feminist perspective I end up sounding super feminist when discussing this in a critical way, because I don't appreciate the lack of experimentation. I know why people love b… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/01/17 06:58 PM |
| 13 | Why do Feminists always draw themselves to look thinner?A few of those examples look like build-an-avatar things to me, too. I don't really think this is just a feminist thing, I think most artists tend to draw themselves more attractive, or they lack the skills to draw themselves realistically at least. Agreed completely. It's a bigger theme, and it has to do with making pleasing pieces instead of cartooning accurately. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/01/17 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do Feminists always draw themselves to look thinner?Me neither, I've never been into it, but it's very easy to see its influence in young aspiring artists that are often entangled in feminist thought and on found on tumblr usually. I think this article sees only a fraction of the phenomenon, I see that cartooning has become very rigid now when it comes to female features, it's almost always stylized for it to be found pleasing instead of reflecting actual features of the person its supposed to be depicting. Even though I don't really know anime i… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/01/17 06:38 PM |
| 4 | Why do Feminists always draw themselves to look thinner?Funny that the article pointed out Carolyn was MTF but didn't do the same for Brianna. Brianna wasn't even a feminist before he climbed on the Gamergate controversy to gain some popularity for himself and his ugly game. I think it comes down to style and imitation of what they like to see, cartoons now are very neotenized and pinupy. I'm not sure Anita's icon was drawn by herself and it would be unfair to assume she intended for it to look that way, or if it was someone else's rendition. However… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/01/17 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Random RP Thoughtsif a man truly wants a feminist woman and an equal relationship I am kinda contesting this in my response, because I don't think a man would sincerely strive for this beyond virtue signaling, and even men who end up in LHL crave the respect they can't command. I have other thoughts on this and we're basically in agreement, it's just that you're taking a more encompassing stance on embodying the red of RP vs. just using RP theory toolbox to keep a man. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/01/17 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Maria von Trapp (Character), An RP Woman?Yes! "I can't ask him to be less than he is". Encapsulating the idea that the man was a separate entity, not to be persuaded into something he didn't believe in. The essence of not being controlling. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 07:10 PM |
| 4 | Random RP ThoughtsSo if your good man is a feminist and prefers dating a feminist, would it be RPW to follow his lead into feminism? If your goal is to keep this man, you can use RPW to keep him. It's really funny but leftist men are still men who would appreciate the mindset RPW offers in a female partner. The real question would be, would you want to keep this man if his worldview differs greatly from yours, and if he's going to lead you to places you disagree ideologically? One of the first steps of vetting wo… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Random RP ThoughtsThere lies one of the differences between traditional and RP, tradcons can be very team woman in worldview. RP itself has many tenets that would be impossible for feminists to accept, no matter how shallow their idea of feminism is. Then again many of them think feminism is about women not being slaves so other aspects of the worldview must be analyzed. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/17 06:50 PM |
| 5 | On children and gender identity, and the impact of feminismYeah, it's a total bingo. Same with videogames/anime, I don't have to scroll too far to see the same tired pattern surface with these "women in the wrong bodies". | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/17 06:46 AM |
| 1 | On children and gender identity, and the impact of feminismThey're so disingenuous, framing the conversation with phrases like "developing as the wrong sex" and acting like puberty blockers are no biggie (it's strong medication developed for other purposes, not even tested for children use). I didn't want to participate but I can't stand it any longer, most of the comments from the sub from today are from two users strange to the community flooding this thread. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/17 05:36 AM |
| 5 | On children and gender identity, and the impact of feminismThe women receiving them in the recent attempts, who were not trans, would probably take some issue with that. They wouldn't, because they know they're women. The thought of men such as yourself receiving uteruses to feed your delusion is disturbing to most people. Bulking infertile women in your argument to guilt trip women is disingenuous and won't fly here. Why? Unless your claim is that I couldn't be a good mother, what is 'insane' about it? Because it's reminiscent of Gein's skin suit, don'… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/01/17 05:22 AM |
| 3 | SHIT POST SATURDAY - January 14, 2017Yeah of course, that's what the image is mocking | /r/RedPillWives | 15/01/17 03:10 PM |
| 4 | SHIT POST SATURDAY - January 14, 2017When you think it's satire but it's not ): That could be on Reductress completely unedited. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/01/17 02:46 AM |
| 5 | SHIT POST SATURDAY - January 14, 2017What Marilyn Monroe's size would be in modern times, so true! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/01/17 02:43 AM |
| 2 | If you consider transwomen to be men, does that make transwomen MGTOWS?Not all of them, they're either homosexual and seek male partners, or they like women and somehow hamster their straight relationships into the "queer" niche. If they become celibate and are out of the SMV entirely then yes, much like any other man embracing celibacy before MGTOW claimed it to be a new thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/17 10:42 PM |
| 5 | Simple Questions - January 07, 2017is it normal to not be really excited about the guy all the time when you're first getting to know each other? This is not normal to me, what would be the point of attaching myself to someone I'm not crazy for? | /r/RedPillWives | 09/01/17 03:11 PM |
| 1 | RPW and Interracial DatingThey're not saying half Asians look more Asian, they're saying Asian women that select for White men forget their sons will probably look Asian (since white features tend to be recessive). It was interesting that your response to the user that asked you that was basically "I'm open minded, that won't happen to my family" instead of considering the possibility. Anyway, not to be judgmental about it, it's just something to think about when a woman of a race is strictly attracted to men of another. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/01/17 06:27 AM |
| 1 | RPW and Interracial DatingI have a preference and I know some people don't have enough decency to respect that. [...] our future kids would be awesome because they will have our good looks This is understandable, many Asian women are selecting against Asian men for the reasons you outlined. But surely you must realize that if you bring an Asian-looking son to this set-up, other women (Asian or White) would likely select against him using your same rationale. It's a very interesting phenomenon, and an important aspect of … | /r/RedPillWives | 09/01/17 05:53 AM |
| 2 | [Q4RP] How do transgender people factor into your view?David's case proved otherwise. Many, many, other cases have proved otherwise. David's case prove children aren't blank slates. He isn't a case of gender dysphoria (given he was not the female sex) and I'm not sure why you weakly champion his example for trans activism. Often, it is. Not in all cases, it is not. And in a lot of the trans narrative, dysphoria isn't even a requirement. The problem debating this is we've seen many examples of the extent it has been diagnosed, but people only reply l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 10:16 PM |
| 2 | [Q4RP] How do transgender people factor into your view?I don't think we get to define for other people what an insult is. I can't tell you, what's going to hurt, and why it shouldn't hurt, just because it doesn't hurt me, anymore than the reverse. Searching for truth, and defending what you think it's true, is not done out of ill will. If they find themselves offended that's another thing. What part of the brain made him a boy, so that even a sex change didn't change him? Sex is more than genitals, I swear I have to keep saying it each time. Trans a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 09:42 PM |
| 2 | [Q4RP] How do transgender people factor into your view?David Reimer knew he wasn't a girl because he wasn't, and the gender inflicted upon him did not match his true expression (built upon his actual material sex) you're kinda supporting my argument in which gender as a concept built from sex expression is observable. Blank slate was never my position. Because I've known a few for decades, and their stories - and the stories of their families - aren't difficult to find. This adds nothing to the conversation. Of course I've read stories, I know what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 09:16 PM |
| 2 | [Q4RP] How do transgender people factor into your view?My view, I think gender is the social expression of sex, but I think it only has value as a concept built on sex. Taking sex away from it makes 'gender' ill defined as a term, incapable of standing on its own. many of which show up when you dissect brains There has been studies but there hasn't been solid conclusions, this bugs me when it comes up because it's being regurgitated as proof before we can even say for sure (sexual trauma can show up as dysphoria in ftm for example, this is defined b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: How many of you were converted into Red Pillers due to PPD?I would like to know what specifically about the study of religion paralelled, political correctness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 08:29 PM |
| 1 | What is your favorite type of porn and does it differ from what you are looking for in a relationship?What were the creators thinking with that scene? It was a movie for kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 08:10 PM |
| 1 | What is your favorite type of porn and does it differ from what you are looking for in a relationship?it adds to the grossness hahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 08:08 PM |
| 2 | What is your favorite type of porn and does it differ from what you are looking for in a relationship?freeuse same, hard to find though. same with cmnf, it's mostly cfnm out there and it does nothing for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 08:07 PM |
| 2 | What is your favorite type of porn and does it differ from what you are looking for in a relationship?It's one of those things that people like because of the taboo aspect specifically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 08:01 PM |
| 2 | What is your favorite type of porn and does it differ from what you are looking for in a relationship?Did you also like when Jasmine was taken slave by Jaffar? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 07:56 PM |
| 3 | [Q4RP] How do transgender people factor into your view?The answer to that question reveals a lot of what society values actually, and is the source of much disagreement between the trans community, as not all them agree in what makes them trans. First, I want to distinguish between mind and brain. If we're talking about a female mind of a man, we're talking about his predisposition to feminine behavior (not material), and it would involve his identity being somehow composed of female ideas and feelings (fleeting, ill-defined, not even scientifically… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 07:15 PM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] How do transgender people factor into your view?I know what it means, I just didn't get if you meant differences between them (nonbinary vs binary), or differences between each of them and "cis" but I get it's probably both. Do you have dysphoria? What do you feel about Riley Jay Dennis (male) who claims to be both a woman and nonbinary? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 06:50 PM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] How do transgender people factor into your view?But what do you mean by both binary and nonbinary trans, differences between them? There's been comorbidity between autism and gender dysphoria, and also something about the 'disgust' area in the brain that they both share that I can't recall fully right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 06:44 PM |
| 5 | [Q4RP] How do transgender people factor into your view?Female and male differences go beyond "just genitals", this is the way trans activists oversimplify sexual dimorphism to make it sound like it's no biggie. Material reality is all there is, if they wanna "identify" with a stereotype and modify their body accordingly that's not my business, but I'm not calling them a woman because they aren't, and it's not an insult to recognize so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 06:42 PM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] How do transgender people factor into your view?there are biological correlates to both binary and nonbinary transgender that are not yet discovered can you elaborate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 06:36 PM |
| 3 | [Q4RP] How do transgender people factor into your view?This isn't remotely what it's being said, and it's not analogous. Sexual orientation is not materially defined that we know of. Gay men know they are men attracted to men, they aren't saying they're women because they fuck men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 06:31 PM |
| 3 | [Q4RP] How do transgender people factor into your view?But why do other people have to concede their delusion? It's not an insult to recognize material reality. "Women" is not self-identification. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 06:26 PM |
| 6 | Anyone here going to buy Milo Yiannopoulos' new book (or actually like him)?I agree with you. I think he is great at one thing, which is presenting University students with the shocking idea that a gay person doesn't have to be a leftie, battling identity politics in the process. However, it ends there. I used to like him, but find his edgy and self-centered personality is detrimental in a greater sense. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/01/17 05:07 PM |
| 4 | RPW and Interracial DatingINTJ, have many thoughts on this depending from where you tackle it, since other movements that formed/intersect with RP (HBD, tradcon, WN...) are prohibitive, in RPW I think we have only pointed out the compatibility aspect in the long run (in which cultural background and religious values define a lot). It would be hypocritical of me to be claim to be strictly against it because of my own personal example, but overall I think it has more disadvantages than advantages for society in general, bu… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/01/17 04:21 PM |
| 2 | What does submission mean to you?I didn't think you were, but I thought I would mention it in case this type of debate developed in your thread. It's good to see the response has been super positive so far though! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/01/17 11:26 PM |
| 3 | What does submission mean to you?As a preamble on this specific word and RPW, this is a term that has been discussed in the community with some controversy. Not all of the women here like the word, for various reasons. Some feel it's negatively charged (whether religiously, or sexually), some feel it doesn't quite describe their own dynamic and prefer to use deference and yielding. Regarding your question, I've personally defended this term before. Your situation sounds normal and resembles dynamics I know, in which the husband… | /r/RedPillWives | 04/01/17 06:24 PM |
| 8 | Dumb-Ass Stuff We Need To Stop Saying To DadsAgreed, these were my thoughts as well. The dad is a parent on his own, he's not equally (as in, interchangeably) mom, nor a lesser 'mom', it's hard to approach from mainstream media because how obsessed they are with not offending any group so the unique position of dads got downplayed to not offend single moms, but more recently I've seen them trying to compensate it by giving the dad a momlike place, which isn't quite the case either in terms of human nature. I'd be conflicted if I were a dad… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/01/17 06:37 PM |
| 4 | Unexpected ResultsAlso reading the advice without context and then extrapolating it weirdly, then people think we're saying all women should submit to all men regardless of merit, or that someone already submissive should just submit more, and then be confused when we give 'contradictory' advice, well duh, not all cases are the same and not all wives start with the same habits. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/01/17 06:22 PM |
| 3 | End Of The Year LetterHappy new year everyone! I look forward to see the community grow :3 | /r/RedPillWives | 01/01/17 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Hygge Helps Explain Millennials' Longing For ReenchantmentAgreed with your sentiment! and yes I mean beyond the holidays, since one of the biggest criticism of millennials is extended childhood. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/01/17 07:09 AM |
| 5 | Free Friday - December 30, 20161) RPW is not about the 50s wife fetishism, this is actually in our sidebar wiki 2) you're probably comparing yourself to an image perpetuated in ads/nostalgic media and not actually fulfilled by real housewives | /r/RedPillWives | 01/01/17 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 30, 2016Crazy Ex Girlfriend is my fave right now. Idk your tastes though, I started watching it as a fluff (girlie, a musical which was not my thing at all) but then seriously enjoyed it. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/12/16 03:14 PM |
| 2 | How many of yall are on the spectrum?YES! TWIX ftw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/16 08:50 PM |
| 2 | How many of yall are on the spectrum?but part of the system of relationships is to not systemize everything. So I can still be spontaneous and emphatic and do fun things! This is my thing as well! And my perceived 'spontaneity' is part of a system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/16 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Hygge Helps Explain Millennials' Longing For ReenchantmentYeah, I figured that make sense if you're not going to see the person for a while. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/12/16 12:14 AM |
| 2 | 17 Sizzling Facts About AttractionA study has shown that people born to parents in their thirties preferred older-looking faces, while people born to parents in their twenties preferred younger-looking ones. This is super interesting! I'm going to try the left ear thing, it made sense to me organically because I have sensitive ears but I didn't know it was a thing. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/12/16 08:33 PM |
| 2 | [Sanity] Vent, Share, and celebrate!Last, year CQ submitted a thread about fitting in more with the women (aka the kitchen crew) during the holidays. I related a lot because for years I didn't go near it, and this year I was seamlessly integrated and coordinating the making of 2 dishes! It felt more natural than previous attempts and that made the whole thing much more special. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/12/16 08:28 PM |
| 3 | [Sanity] Vent, Share, and celebrate!I'm going to roast some veggies to feel better about myself | /r/RedPillWives | 26/12/16 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Hygge Helps Explain Millennials' Longing For ReenchantmentIt's interesting how different approaches can be justified depending on what the person gets out of the holiday. I am like you in the sense that I get great joy seeing someone open their present, but respecting the ritual is important to me. So in that sense opening the gifts early translates as poor manners. It might also be helpful for the parents because the child can thank you specifically for the present in the moment, rather than writing a thank you note later. That might start a whole oth… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/12/16 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Hygge Helps Explain Millennials' Longing For ReenchantmentI don't get this thing with children opening their presents before Christmas Day either, I gave my friends little girl a present and she opened it right there and then, I don't like to criticise how people choose to parent their children especially as I don't have any but I did think it was a bit rude Yeah, I felt the same way. We gave gifts the day before Christmas because we weren't going to spend it with them (this was for three different families), and I thought they would just thank us and … | /r/RedPillWives | 26/12/16 06:53 PM |
| 3 | "you only dated Chads"Lol Cynic. Did you see the childish drama when they broke up? But yes, the more technical the metal is, the more dorky beta the band and the fanbase are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/16 06:11 PM |
| 6 | Hygge Helps Explain Millennials' Longing For ReenchantmentI read this last night and agreed largely with the article. I don't understand why the hygge craze had to be co-opted into a bourgeois statement, to me it's just the concept of making a house a home, and comfortable togetherness overall (in another thread someone framed it brilliantly as repackaging domesticity). I liked how the article linked this with a missing sense of spirituality. In nostalgia, millennials look for lost tradition and genuine joy. This wasn't mentioned at all in the article … | /r/RedPillWives | 26/12/16 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Anti-feminist/liberal book suggestions?Well, I think it takes time. It's silly but a lot of the debate I took part in was on tumblr of all places! it was around 2011-2012 too so I don't know the quality today. It's amazing how 'cis' for example was super niche and now it's mainstream, and I got to understand a lot of things from the crazies there. A lot of places are egalitarian blogs that are also leftist and young.. A lot of people say they just think the third wave is bad, and a lot of people that are arguing have half formed thou… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/12/16 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Anti-feminist/liberal book suggestions?Before I even found TRP/RPW I was deep into MRA discussion. I will keep on recommending Karen Straughan's videos, more specifically Feminism and the Disposable Male (probably the most powerful of her pieces). After that, sorting by popular, even if you are already familiar with Karen's content. There's honestly a lot of material on youtube that I would go to before a book because of how non establishment the criticism is. While Karen's style is more of a take down of specific articles/videos/ide… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/12/16 01:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men oft attribute their failures to aspects of themselves that are unfixable so they have an excuse not to change themselves.You should become a cool drummer and date younger fan girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/16 07:31 PM |
| 6 | Free Friday - December 23, 2016One year into a social "science" degree | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/16 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Maybe It's Time To Redefine What It Means For Women To 'Have It All'Thank you so much for sharing this! I really appreciate how detailed it was, especially regarding your health problems and how you felt emotionally during your whole journey. In many ways, you are redefining what "it all" is for you with growing a business and a solid presence in your home life. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/12/16 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Maybe It's Time To Redefine What It Means For Women To 'Have It All'It seems very silly but a lot of people in my generation at least (especially high-achieving children) are raised with that bar of "gonna do something great". It's very often a disservice because it has them disappointed when they grow out to be normal, and in women, it results in them pursuing paths to fulfill some nebulous standard that isn't even what they would want without that pressure. I had a friend who was studying some kind of specialized physics degree because she had something to pro… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 02:42 PM |
| 6 | Maybe It's Time To Redefine What It Means For Women To 'Have It All'It's true a lot of people go around with an ambition that isn't theirs. I did very well at school because it was an easy and simple game, the path was straightforward. Yet when time came to know what I wanted to do in terms of a career, I had no idea. I have no careerist ambition of my own and I wish I had figured out a realistic plan in high school, but I kept delaying that. It was interesting to me that in the interviews, many SAHMs had not planned it at all and it was almost a surprise to the… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 02:35 PM |
| 4 | Maybe It's Time To Redefine What It Means For Women To 'Have It All'Lol, do they know you work from home? IMO earning money from home seems to be the best balance so far for SAHMs, and I'd like to see that be more common in the future. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 05:05 AM |
| 5 | Maybe It's Time To Redefine What It Means For Women To 'Have It All'This is very true, and the article touched on meaning and I found that interesting. I had heard most millennials, regardless of sex, wanted it all in that sense. I had not analyzed that from the female perspective, aside of the obvious things (choosing flexibility over salary, etc). Yet wanting meaning through progeny is seen as opting out. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Maybe It's Time To Redefine What It Means For Women To 'Have It All'I'm tired of being told I'm giving up my own potential Right! I was told this by a friend when I pursued a non-STEM degree (he was in STEM). I understand it to be a well-intentioned thought that translates poorly, and for mothers who put their kids first it reinforces the idea that child rearing means the loss of individuality. Additionally - the ONLY women who can truly have it all - are the women who can pay for it all. Think Ivanka Trump. I'm glad you mentioned this. I think that, besides wea… | /r/RedPillWives | 22/12/16 04:50 AM |
| 3 | Winter attire threadIt sounds boring as hell, but most of my tops (sweaters/outerwear, long sleeve tops) are gray! Gray everything + dark jeggings! Gray is the coziest color, debate me. This year I added a camel turtleneck sweater though, for a change :b | /r/RedPillWives | 21/12/16 03:31 PM |
| 11 | Maybe It's Time To Redefine What It Means For Women To 'Have It All'In The Atlantic, Hana Schank and Elizabeth Wallace decided to write a seven-part series, in which they talk to their former college classmates about their ambition and successes after graduation. After conducting the interviews, they divided respondents into three groups: the “High Achievers,” the “Scale Backers,” and the “Opt Outers.” Their description of women in the Opt Outers group was particularly interesting: Many were on maternity leave, with daycare or a nanny lined up, and found that th… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/12/16 03:03 PM |
| 2 | RPW HAS REACHED 1700+ SUBSCRIBERS!!!! NEW MEMBERS AND LURKERS INTRODUCE YOURSELF :DHi, welcome! I totally relate, I was a lurker for a little under a year before I decided to finally make an account. Hope to see you join the conversation :) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/12/16 01:34 PM |
| 2 | RPW HAS REACHED 1700+ SUBSCRIBERS!!!! NEW MEMBERS AND LURKERS INTRODUCE YOURSELF :DGlad to have you here! :) | /r/RedPillWives | 21/12/16 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – December 19, 2016Ohh I see! We're more formal-casual so I'm currently planning to wear an oversized grey turtleneck sweater, black skinny pants w/boots and just emphasize the hair and makeup. I do not like the fringes I'm seeing at the bottom but I recently got this for the day after, which is much more relaxed. I hear you about the hourglass, I also think my waist is one of my best features so I have a wrap dress just in case I change my mind (or maybe for New Year's). | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/16 05:27 PM |
| 3 | No one likes a shitty cupcakeIt used to be just kawaii but it started being used along messages like "friendly reminder that <insert guilt-tripping statement about being trash if you like something sjws find problematic>" or kill all men etc, now it's tainted forever | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/16 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – December 19, 2016What's your style? And what fashion are you seeing around you? I'm seeing a lot of fringes in sweaters. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/16 04:30 PM |
| 9 | No one likes a shitty cupcakereminds me of the once innocent ill fated flower emoji, now an icon of tumblr social justice passive aggression: (◕‿◕✿) you used to be cute, my fallen friend... before you found the feminism | /r/RedPillWives | 19/12/16 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Holiday Edition: Hobbies, Crafts, and Recipes MegathreadSounds delicious! tamales r life | /r/RedPillWives | 18/12/16 03:58 AM |
| 3 | How to Be a Ladyperson at the Holidays: 10 Important TipsOmg nooo I don't want to think they're dead! I want to believe they live in a cloudy place | /r/RedPillWives | 17/12/16 04:46 PM |
| 4 | How to Be a Ladyperson at the Holidays: 10 Important TipsPut yourself first, in a sexy way | /r/RedPillWives | 17/12/16 04:43 PM |
| 3 | RPW HAS REACHED 1700+ SUBSCRIBERS!!!! NEW MEMBERS AND LURKERS INTRODUCE YOURSELF :DWelcome! I think some of us come from a more liberal background. We remain on topic so it might not be as visible. Where I may differ from some of you is I'm essentially a libertarian atheist. You might be surprised that we have a prominent mod who is a minarchist and objectivist! Plus a lot of us are on the secular side. I look forward to seeing you join the conversation :) | /r/RedPillWives | 17/12/16 02:29 AM |
| 3 | RPW HAS REACHED 1700+ SUBSCRIBERS!!!! NEW MEMBERS AND LURKERS INTRODUCE YOURSELF :DI've seen you around posting, good to have you here! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/12/16 02:23 AM |
| 4 | Free Friday - December 16, 2016They're not allowed to say on social media, I believe I read that somewhere. Disney is litigious. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/16 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4WOMEN: Would you die for your man?Soon! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/16 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4WOMEN: Would you die for your man?I've been here, how dare u | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/16 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4WOMEN: Would you die for your man?This is hilarious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/16 03:53 AM |
| 1 | How Do You Define Cheating?Because the promiscuous behavior gets passed to the sexy son. In the long run, it passes her genes (through her son, not his promiscuous father). It's interesting, and just an animal theory by the way, but I like to see how it parallels with what I know. But I still feel like I would be personally offended I totally get it, this is normal womaning it's why we're talking about it in the abstract. A great deal of its success as a practice is that the woman never knows, so it wouldn't involve her f… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 08:03 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Define Cheating?Just going to firstly say that arguing my position is not arguing 'for' cheaters or defending cheating (I know you get it but for anyone else reading that might interpret it that way). my biggest hangup would be the personal insult it would feel to me, not the actual infidelity. Feelings of "not being enough" would far outweigh the actual event. As we know, here are different types of cheating. If a man 'strays' because he is being underappreciated, is in a dead bedroom situation, emotionally ne… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 07:32 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill Movie - A ReviewAgreed 100%! | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 05:36 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill Movie - A ReviewPC doctrine would say "she's straight" even though they have no issue separating sex and gender otherwise and this is clear homosexuality. Similarly, a straight man that believes himself a woman is called a lesbian in this bizarre trans world. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 05:31 PM |
| 4 | The Red Pill Movie - A Reviewit was supposed to be another hit piece to show how terrible MRAs are Just a small clarification, it was never intended to be a hit piece on MRAs by Jaye's standards. She had done documentaries like that before (take a controversial subject and try to get both sides of the argument on camera neutrally). It's just that feminist funding came with strings attached (it had to be a feminist film) so she couldn't fund it this way to keep the message as she intended. Had she accepted the funds with tho… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/16 06:36 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Introversion is a sign of submissiveness. Shyness implies submissiveness.Same, I thought they were super compatible types | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/16 04:18 PM |
| 5 | Female Sexual StrategyYou got a good gen, lol! I'm one of those useless millennials. I am often disgusted when browsing r/relationships seeing my gen claim moral high ground when advising people to drop their family members as soon as they're inconvenient or not 100% pleasant to deal with. It's just a level of ungratefulness I can't process. About your question, Occamsusername's LTR Game series sometimes get referenced here, and in the Unicorn Hunter Checklist he notes positive relationship with father as something t… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 06:15 AM |
| 6 | Female Sexual StrategyStrong sense of kinship and loyalty. You kind of clued it in "true to myself and people I care about", but IMO it's a point in itself altogether... too many young women today lose their paths by trying to be "true to themselves"... too many women are disloyal when it gets harder. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/12/16 04:55 AM |
| 3 | How Do You Define Cheating?You mention that there are a lot of men on the 'no-fap' sub for example. I'm not familiar with that sub, or the reasons that the men their engage in that behavior Ironically it mainly attracts recovering masturbation addicts, so while they might align with an antiporner's requirements, they still come with porn baggage attached, if not more of it than casual porn watchers who engage with it in a more moderate way. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/16 08:31 PM |
| 4 | Why Acting At Home Like They Act In The Office Will Get Women DivorcedGreat find! I had actually been saving some Suzanne Venker material to post on the sub at some point, her message is in line with the sub (with the slight difference that she keeps using the term 'Alpha women' for type A careerists, which ironically further perpetuates the idea that women are like men). The articles are generally short and to the point. “There’s a downside to being so self-reliant,” writes Hill. “I found it very difficult to let anyone help me. And if they tried but couldn’t do … | /r/RedPillWives | 12/12/16 03:32 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Define Cheating?Watching House also made me more neutral towards escorts I was totally the same way! I watched House on TV a lot as a teen and it challenged my perceptions of the 'dirtiness' that normally comes with the picture. Same with Lt. Dan's use of prostitutes, I feel like those details in the stories made me understand why female sexual companionship is revitalizing to men in a way women can't grasp firsthand. This thread wasn't really framed in a way I could respond, because escort use is still adulter… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 05:23 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Define Cheating?Just curious how this reflects being INTJ? Because I'm INTJ too and I thought it just made me more realistic on the reconciliation of what I could bear and + what I know about male sexuality by looking at human history. I don't think normal women like or overtly approve of sex encounters on the side, but the majority of long-time married women would be alright if it was discrete enough that it never became known. Not that they would openly advocate it, or like it, and would still officially cond… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 05:14 PM |
| 1 | [ADVICE] I feel like I have to be in charge of everything in our marriage and it's stressing me outThat's what I thought, like she might look like she does it as a chore so naturally it's not very appealing to him. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 01:52 AM |
| 6 | [ADVICE] I feel like I have to be in charge of everything in our marriage and it's stressing me outYour incompatibility has been addressed thoroughly and accurately here by Phantom. I remember you from these recurring and unchanged attitudes on IRC from months ago... but aside from that (poor vetting, mismatched dominance levels and expectations, things that you really should have addressed before marrying) I think the fact that you chose your education (being in affordable med school in Germany) over a dynamic in which he would come out on top (by being in his own country where he knows the … | /r/RedPillWives | 10/12/16 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016He's been under the public eye since he came out with his stand, doing a variety of interviews and debates. A lot of people I follow came out in support so it was hard to miss for me (especially since I follow the trans agenda closely as of this past year). He went on Joe Rogan and had a lengthy chat as well. Another professor I watch a lot and does lengthy chats is Gad Saad, you might have heard from him from evo psych people, here's his talk with Peterson. I really like super long youtube talk… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Sexbots, artificial reproduction and the SMPWow I didn't think about the number aspect! Yeah, I think it would be nice to add a child just like that, haha. Sexbots will probably be banned in England though given recent porn laws, so i'm not too worried about them ;p How's that going now? I heard they were going to do it but I didn't know the outcome. How are they planning to enforce this? | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Free Friday - December 09, 2016He has aged so much since this whole debacle started. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Sexbots, artificial reproduction and the SMPWas your due date close to a holiday or weekend, by any chance? | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Sexbots, artificial reproduction and the SMPThis is very interesting, thanks for sharing! I have a lot to say on messed up reward systems. What porn and social media brought to dating made women sluttier in order to compete. I don't know if VR would be a shift further on that direction, or just further isolate males since VR is more encompassing. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Sexbots, artificial reproduction and the SMPI thought about this aspect as well, that reactionary groups would emphasize how much of a loser a man that purchases robot sex is to create shame. I think it all depends in how successfully it can be marketed. We might say that porn hasn't affected much, but it has. About artificial reproduction, I was also reading about Sofia Vergara's legal battle and it was really a sight into the future! But I'm more inclined to think it might remain an option to favor the wealthy and women who are working … | /r/RedPillWives | 09/12/16 03:52 PM |
| 16 | Don't be Daisy DuckHmm but he even has the little Captain outfit! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 11:14 PM |
| 3 | Present Ideas, Holiday cards and LettersDid he/she agree to be your valentine? | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Present Ideas, Holiday cards and LettersDoes anyone here buy holiday gifts for pets? Or am I just silly | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Sexbots, artificial reproduction and the SMPVR is also an interesting topic on its own but I felt it was more akin to porn and less of a 'human' proxy in material reality. I just wanted to add that any 'public' models would probably have to include visible, obvious, and extensive cleaning cycles between 'use.' Maybe they'd have something similar to a sex doll car wash. This sounds like a budding fetish on its own lol! Watching a dirty bot being cleaned I don't have any issue with a man that chooses to watch gross or violent porn on his ow… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Sexbots, artificial reproduction and the SMPI was also reading about that yesterday! But I wonder if it's more scientific conjecture than proof at this point. Are they basing this on actual pelvic measurements or on verbal reasons given to the woman so she schedules one? I know many instances that doctors push for a c-section so they don't have to bother with a long labor during the weekend, for example, but the woman gets told the baby might be big as a medical reason. I doubt all c-sections scheduled today are actually needed. Of course… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 05:55 PM |
| 4 | Female Nature and Advice for Young LadiesWow, love it! And she didn't shy away from using RP terms! I thought it was going to be subtle redpill as usual but she is very direct about it. Great resource. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 05:16 PM |
| 6 | "Baby It's Cold Outside"I was thinking the same thing! A white woman with a pixie cut playing the ukulele? How novel! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Sexbots, artificial reproduction and the SMPThere's a UK series I watched called Humans where some bots were sentient, and an sexbot said of sexbots to women "What they do to us, they want to do to you". Would you agree with that sentiment? So I'll speak for the possible framing of bot violence, and I think it will be framed the same way as videogames. The quote from that bot stayed with me because it's a question that rises when human nature meets VR. A proxy release for a natural proclivity to violence, but also curiosity. I used to pla… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 04:48 PM |
| 3 | "Baby It's Cold Outside"But that is black culture! They can't touch that, lol. Edit: Weird Al truly beats them all. There will be no better adaptation of Blurred Lines! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 04:20 PM |
| 6 | "Baby It's Cold Outside"I heard about criticism of this song before and I hope they don't ruin it for everyone as I really enjoy this tune with Ella Fitzgerald! Not really the topic, but it reminds me how on AskReddit there have been threads about how parents or grandparents met, and it sometimes involved the guy to be super persistent in a way it would be considered stalkery today. It's interesting how mainstream perceptions change with the time and circumstance. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 03:59 PM |
| 4 | Russian Dating School: A return to traditional gender rolesNo wonder ramen is so damn appealing. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/12/16 03:53 PM |
| 2 | The fight that never was (also known as "I'm a dumbass)Agreed 100% we do not need to write a dissertation of "all the things we would want to say", this just feeds into the tendency of overthinking. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/16 06:42 PM |
| 6 | Trying to console my RP cousin...You're not wrong, I remember this user's submitted threads (now deleted) scattered all around reddit, and her situation seems to go way above and beyond "minimalist SAHM". I distinctly remember a post where he supposedly installed cameras to spy on her while he was gone? Not saying the government should meddle in people's home lives and liberties and I'd be against that, just that her post in this thread is not remotely covering all the strange things she has written about before, whether they'r… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/12/16 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Simple Questions - December 03, 2016I've been wondering about Christmas celebrating families with young children (those born in the Internet era). Do you tell them about Santa? Or is the Santa tradition dying out because of precocious fact-checking? | /r/RedPillWives | 03/12/16 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Free Friday - December 02, 2016Amy Schumer in Talks to Star in 'Barbie' Movie From Sony ... I wonder what axe they'll grind with this one. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/12/16 11:59 PM |
| 3 | The rise of romance gaming: is the perfect boyfriend inside your phone?From that episode, I thought the voice stage was optimal. Things went south when she tried the next stage because of the uncanny valley. I know the message is supposed to be AI can't replace your loved one, but I think it only went wrong because the imitation was flawed. She could have stayed with the voice version and be reasonably satisfied. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/11/16 03:49 PM |
| 5 | The Social Consequences of Everything (Hardly Working)Lol, this reminded me of that time with a super Christian friend and we were younger and her mom was hanging out with my mom and she couldn't pick a movie because of adultery or this sin or that other sin (the kids weren't going to watch it, it was for the adults and my mom told me after the fact). These people would probably hate on/mock Christianity yet will act in a full circle similar way in search of moral purity. I was kind of surprised to see the Woody Allen comment, I have never known a … | /r/RedPillWives | 28/11/16 07:14 PM |
| 1 | How to give compliments?I have no problem with having sex or being sexual with him. This is not the point at all, I am drawing a parallel between a new experience that can be awkward at first, that can only be overcome with practice, and this, essentially something that you can only get used to by practicing. If anything, I am easily embarrassed and don't want to say things I don't genuinely mean. This is why I and others asked you if you honestly liked him, because if you aren't meaning any sort of physical compliment… | /r/RedPillWives | 27/11/16 12:42 AM |
| 3 | How to give compliments?What's the point of asking for advice then if you are answer everything with "I would feel awkward saying this and that"? It is literally putting it as an excuse. You were digging for some magical answer that poses no work on your part. Power through until it's a habit is what I've been saying all along. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/11/16 12:39 AM |
| 1 | How to give compliments?You can drink at home, you can dress up a bit too during a date inside. Start breaking the routine a bit even if it's still at home. What kinds of flirty things do you say? Or what would you consider a flirty comment? Without proper context they might seem too out there, and BellaScarletta already gave some examples that you dismissed. I compliment the attributes that enhance his masculinity, parts of his body that I like, his voice, there are a lot of ways to go about it. Right now he's raising… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/11/16 11:13 PM |
| 1 | How to give compliments?It is immaturity. Honestly, who didn't feel awkward the first time acting sexy, or having sex the first time? It's similar, something you just get acquainted with, with no shortcut but practice. I don't even know why she posted the thread if she doesn't seem willing to face that and embrace the challenge, and just keeps using it as an excuse. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/11/16 11:04 PM |
| 1 | How to give compliments?The only way to deal with this is to start doing it and developing the habit. This is such an absurd mental barrier you have. I don't even know what advice you are expecting here. Do you even like your boyfriend? | /r/RedPillWives | 26/11/16 11:01 PM |
| 1 | How to give compliments?You should be able to work some compliments into casual flirting so it's more seamless. You're being abstract but it would help if you had some examples of your actual wording when you are being appreciative/flirty. You mention you haven't gone out to bars but I don't see how this is directly related to flirtation, you can be inside and still maintain a flirty demeanor. like sending him a dirty picture or flashing him randomly Okay, this is interesting because these are overt actions of you show… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/11/16 08:33 AM |
| 1 | How to give compliments?How do you usually flirt with him? | /r/RedPillWives | 26/11/16 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOHence it being in a thread about unpopular opinions | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 11:33 PM |
| 3 | gifts for your manI am a Christmas fool Same! lol | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 05:52 PM |
| 7 | gifts for your manYes, I'm sitting here thinking, this won't make a difference to his day to be considered a 'gift'. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOThe term is so broad that an accusation of antisemitism does not mean anything to me. It covers so much, from the mildest criticism, that it's impossible for me to care about this card being played. Among other things. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/11/16 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Struggling, ladies.Exactly! It might be fine if the complaint wasn't specifically that she isn't participating. I don't have anything against 'solo togetherness', as in each person doing their own thing and keeping company if she was otherwise attentive when needed, but that advice won't fix this particular problem. And OP's excuse that she's introverted, family time at home with a movie isn't exactly extroverted territory. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Struggling, ladies.The point is he is right in his assessment, and you should concede this and apologize to him. I can't quite understand why you got upset at his upset. He is not asking for something unreasonable | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 05:00 AM |
| 0 | Struggling, ladies.Finally, what's wrong with reading a book next to your man while they watch a movie? Err I think there can be a lot of wrong in this | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Struggling, ladies.I know it's not an excuse Yet somehow "autistic spectrum" people always seem to bring it up as a justification... | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Struggling, ladies.The DH says that I do not want to do things with him unless they interest ME. [...] I don't feel that this is true. We have many common interests and we do a lot of things together... Can you see what you just wrote there? Because it confirms what he says. In the venn diagram that is your interests and his, you're only willing to do the intersecting ones, so that doesn't refute his statement. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/11/16 04:30 AM |
| 6 | How does a man's facial hair affect the way you perceive him?darker manes Idk why I read "danker memes" | /r/RedPillWives | 19/11/16 04:00 AM |
| 5 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOIn my perspective, I think your views are the mainstream, and the natural birth feminine new agey thing is the more unpopular one. About breastfeeding, I see the very opposite, with doctors giving up easily if a woman doesn't produce milk and jumping towards formula before trying to tackle the underlying problem. But I'm talking more about a healthcare institutions perspective than a mommy perspective (since I'm not a mom, but I have no doubts today's sanctimommies have an all natural resurgence… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 06:08 AM |
| 3 | Technology And The SMPI'm going to write more, definitely! I think about this subject frequently... /u/am3liia expressed what I would have (and have said on PPD) about porn broadening the expectations of sexual acts. I have some other thoughts about how the hierarchy took care of this in terms of sexual reward (socially successful meant experiencing the full menu in a way it made sense), and how it's intriguing what the availability of the full menu (via proxy pornstar slut behavior) means for the newer and more naiv… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Technology And The SMPI think a lot of mainstream porn is really overdone and I think a lot of men know it; that doesn't mean they necessarily mind it, but I don't see a rational man conflating over-exaggerated porn sex with actual male-female relations. I think this rings true for people who came to know porn when/after they had established personal relations, I don't know for sure if it's the same extent for younger generations growing on more hardcore media (like, the mixture of social isolation with higher consum… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 05:23 AM |
| 4 | Technology And The SMPI was writing a long comment earlier but got too distracted to finish it, and I don't think anyone has mentioned for question 2, the expectation of women sending risqué and nudes to boyfriends due to porn and hookup culture. I think women are doing it younger and more often. There are more repercussions I can think about but can't address as fully, but this is an instance where I think women compete more 'directly' with other sexual media their guy consumes. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 05:16 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOAnother one, since my last one is already at the top if sorted by controversial. It peeves me that Wikipedia uses preferred pronouns in the articles of transgender people. Of course, them not doing it would result in a huge liberal backlash, but it frames itself as this objective source yet it completely laps up the concept of gender as self-identification unquestioningly. I guess it would be more permissible for those who have legally transitioned (even if it doesn't make it true, it's recogniz… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 01:00 AM |
| 3 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOI'm not on twitter and I'm not white, so no! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/11/16 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOThis is what led to helicopter parenting. I often ponder how the tides can turn with technologically advanced society? When it's not about imminent danger, but an hyper awareness of threat via news and interconnected social media 24/7 | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 07:00 PM |
| 6 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOthe SJW community invests so much time into essentially saying "You're helping us wrong" that they're probably pushing away people who could actually have a lot to offer them This. I can't even begin to process that their strategy to further their message is to double down in the chastising that pushed people away. Frankly, this tells me that they rather die morally cleansed martyrs than to actually improve conditions materially. Because how on earth would they conclude that keeping on using the… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 06:54 PM |
| 5 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOI'm like you, in that my confusion about whether or not I wanted children was mainly because of overthinking, not hatred of children/thinking that it would ruin my life and identity. To me there's also an element of 'protection', in which I'm like, "what kind of world am I bringing them to?", but tbh, it's very controlling. It's like... "this could go in a way I don't want to, so I'm not going to do it" than make him feel as if he has to pursue a more corporate Does he want kids himself? And hav… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 06:43 PM |
| 4 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOAs an excuse, sure, it's pointless, but it's true that connections matter, and also timing. It's equally hilarious to think it's merit alone. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 06:01 PM |
| 5 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOI think everyone knows this inside | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOThe worst part is that it's truly the type of images that are consumed online, so people keep making them and feeding this idea | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOAgreed with all points. I think the first point is heavily influenced by mixing it with religion though. Generally speaking, if RP is seen as a path, women's optimal path is very restrictive. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOPinterest is so roundabout and bulky I agree! I have not succeeded in making it a habit, but I do appreciate it for at least keeping my online recipes together somewhere. i would never spend thousands of dollars on a wedding. Preach! I don't think I would enjoy myself at all in that whole ritual. Seems weddings are for other people. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 05:46 PM |
| 4 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOI don't think antisemitism is a big deal. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 05:42 PM |
| 10 | Unpopular Opinions Part Deux: ELECTRIC BOOGALOOI think most of today's "introverts" are just whiny self-important brats who think being quiet and reserved makes them "special" and "unique." Yes!!! I think it's because of 'relatable' comics and new media putting introverts above extroverts in some way. And it extends to the 'not like other girls' introverted girl, who thinks she has substance and other girls don't, and she has to be liked for it. Pirating books makes you an asshole. hmm | /r/RedPillWives | 15/11/16 05:38 PM |
| 7 | Weekly reflections with RPWi: 11/14/16How could an educated black woman like yourself ever support Trump? I hope you made it clear to them how patronizing their statement actually is?? | /r/RedPillWives | 14/11/16 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Conway shatters glass ceiling as first woman to run a successful presidential campaignjade_cat thought her use of the word was wrong because you implied it was, it was only misconstrued by you when you said "There is nothing "supportive" about it". It is by definition a supportive role. Most men would kill for the chance to run a presidential general election. jade_cat was was rightly saying that for FEMINISTS it's about all or nothing in women's position, they want President not Secretary, they want Captain and not First Mate. Her point was pretty clear but you replied like it w… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/11/16 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Shit Post Saturday!It's likely they aren't using it in the TRP sense but in the alt-right sense. I've repeatedly seen people use "red-pilled" in these movements to mean seeing reality in terms of the white race and nationalism (ramzpaul, etc). In fact, when I see the term out in the open, I am more likely to relate it to race than to relationship dynamics. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/11/16 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: If a studio wanted to make more porn to appeal to women, what genres would you most want to see?Yeah, but I don't have to see it! haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/16 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: If a studio wanted to make more porn to appeal to women, what genres would you most want to see?I never viewed porn in that manner. I never wished to be the woman in it, to me it's just voyeurism. I never stop to think about what their sensations are as people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/16 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: If a studio wanted to make more porn to appeal to women, what genres would you most want to see?He looks 'alternative', not your typical jock. That said, I was never into him despite liking the alternative types. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/16 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: If a studio wanted to make more porn to appeal to women, what genres would you most want to see?I'm the same way in a relationship. I can't watch porn when I'm in love, everything is him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/16 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: If a studio wanted to make more porn to appeal to women, what genres would you most want to see?I used to watch gay porn a lot growing up (12-14), and I cannot stand cunnilingus. I always skip it. I can't stand gay porn now, I outgrew it when I could deal with seeing vaginas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/16 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Are there any feminist movements/ideas that you support? If so, what is it?I don't disagree with this, and for reference I am red. I was just pointing out the way porn normalizes new expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/16 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Q4Feminists: Should women be allowed to drink, do drugs while pregnant?No radfem would call themselves TERF seriously though, they see it as a slur. But yeah, apparently is common belief that merely calling yourself feminist makes you one, no first premises needed, so I think anyone could make a comment here if they stated they were feminist in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/16 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many women oppose feminism?I don't think anyone disagrees that feminism has changed society. I think the Christianity example isn't fitting with the example you gave. It isn't quite analogous. Claiming to be feminist while upholding views that diametrically oppose feminism would be the same as claiming to be a Christian without the concise knowledge of its tenets and/or while holding a view that is actually in opposition to Christian morality. Hilariously, both things tend to happen a lot, but I differentiate them because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/16 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many women oppose feminism?What's your point with the last sentence? I've seen that sentiment used to guilt women into accepting a baptism-like feminist label, but I don't know what you mean with it in this context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/16 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many women oppose feminism?They equate liking women's rights with the label feminist, in my view these are separate. Being 'liberated' doesn't mean holding a feminist view. If a woman was born with equal rights and expectations of pursuing a college education and a career just like men do, that doesn't make them feminist because it's the set up they were born into and the values that society happened to be endorsing. Being submissive doesn't mean that one isn't liberated. That's not what I was getting at. It about congrue… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/16 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many women oppose feminism?Plenty of evolutionary psychologists are feminists That doesn't mean the discussion is feminist, or that evolutionary psychology theories of gender are. Framing everything under a feminist umbrella just muddies what it was meant to stand for (women's liberation of perceived sex based male oppression). But going back to why I replied to this, from your previous comments But if some RPW do identify as feminist Honestly, they are wrong. I know they exist, but I can always tell they haven't fleshed … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/16 08:51 PM |
| 6 | Why do so many women oppose feminism?Right now, feminism is so huge that in reality, any reasoned action that discusses and questions gender can be viewed as feminist. Are you a feminist? Because statements like this is what is destroying feminism. The word has hardly a meaning now. The whole "feminism is equality between the genders" was the demise of the movement. It now has to accommodate everyone and everything. I'm not a feminist but I've grown to treasure when a feminist knows the subject matter and the actual feminist viewpo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/16 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many women oppose feminism?beta females ??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/16 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many women oppose feminism?RPW is about long term commitment and not about pleasing TRP men. You've been here long enough to know this already | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/16 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Is it a red flag or a green flag if somebody has no friends?Yeah I'm very close with my brothers too but I chat with them more sparingly because they're super busy now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/16 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Are there any feminist movements/ideas that you support? If so, what is it?Well, I was making the case of grooming inside a relationship, not the coercion aspect that has been discussed by Atlas, which touches on marriage and as a direct threat (if you don't this, I'll divorce you). My point with grooming as more subtle pressure is how it's normalized via porn and media, so women feel like they are being uptight and even unreasonable by having certain boundaries. A lopsided SMP enabled top men to actually get anal via huge demand and short supply I don't know why you k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/16 05:19 AM |
| 4 | Q4All: Is it a red flag or a green flag if somebody has no friends?I personally have no close friends and have found men don't mind that, but society in general looks down on that. Of course I have had friends, circumstantially in school etc, but I don't keep tight friendships, or go out of my way to preserve them and honestly I find them overrated. However I'm really super close with my mom (I talk to her everyday), which I think many people would consider super weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/16 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Are there any feminist movements/ideas that you support? If so, what is it?They might have wanted it, but they didn't expect it from their relationship. Porn made it an expectation, since they experienced it by proxy. The normalization of porn makes new real expectations for women and their sexual behavior, so grooming. I thought this whole conversation was about a marriage at stake, but tbh it also works for relationship, I wouldn't say it's uncommon for young women to be pressured into some act so they don't seem prudish and uncool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/16 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Are there any feminist movements/ideas that you support? If so, what is it?"Here watch this porn about anal so you think its normal" It's funny that you point this out as implausible, because this is actually how it happened and how it became mainstream that women get asked to do anal as part of a checklist in their relationship. It didn't just happen overnight. IMO this comment thread wasn't even about competing for a man in the SMV, it was in the case of a married woman being pressured into a threesome by the man she married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/16 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Are there any feminist movements/ideas that you support? If so, what is it?Grooming would involve taking steps to ease her into caving, so to make her say yes to something she did not want at first, by normalizing it in some way (through porn, media, not doing it means she's being a boring prude etc). Some men also go through this process to make their wives participate in their gross fetishes like cuckoldry, but for threesomes I have seen lots of media in the last decade portraying MFF as borderline rite-of-passagey. "Face it?" Normally I agree with you, this is the c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/16 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Are there any feminist movements/ideas that you support? If so, what is it?Puberty blockers are also another thing that should be looked into a lot more before prescribing it to young patients because of a theory that is in development. I think this is a huge blindspot in medicine because of the political pressure that is linked with trans as part of the LGBT group. When I'm saying the feelings aren't permanent I'm not saying they should just 'get over them', I'm saying that transitioning is not the fix in the way you put it because dysphoric feelings are not even the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/16 11:12 PM |
| 3 | Are there any feminist movements/ideas that you support? If so, what is it?Because of their sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/16 09:07 PM |
| 3 | Are there any feminist movements/ideas that you support? If so, what is it?They're often groomed or guilted into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/16 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Are there any feminist movements/ideas that you support? If so, what is it?I thought they would make her go mad like all her family? IDK, I don't even watch GoT to be honest but she irks me the most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/16 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Are there any feminist movements/ideas that you support? If so, what is it?She's like white savior complex personified. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/16 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Are there any feminist movements/ideas that you support? If so, what is it?The thing is this somehow remains the mainstream idea which I see people repeating all over (and I used to repeat it myself) but people fail to mention that dysphoric feelings are actually like feelings, fleeting, and a good chunk of people get over them. It's dangerous that HRT is pushed on confused teenagers, and the pharmaceutical industry is pretty content with this solution. Reading a lot of what trans people think and go through, I think dysphoria is not this big single thing, but a confla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/16 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Are there any feminist movements/ideas that you support? If so, what is it?Rey from Star Wars is a perfect example... I ranted so much about this at the time, yet feminist sites refuse to see her as a Mary Sue. The problem is shoehorning women into male character archetypes to make them appealing to men. I'm not even a feminist, but in this instance I agree with the male gaze concept because of what it's doing to media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/16 08:20 PM |
| 0 | Name one thing you dislike about the pill you support, and one thing you like about the pill you oppose.somewhere over the rainbow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/16 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Name one thing you dislike about the pill you support, and one thing you like about the pill you oppose.<3 I identify with this but in another space and time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/16 04:32 AM |
| -1 | I want this life and I don't think fiancé doesWhat are hobbies besides watching Netflix and painting your nails and playing games on your phone and reading Reddit?? Wow no wonder he feels the way he does... You couldn't possibly sound more vapid. Don't you lgs at least have those mandala coloring books nowadays to pass time? | /r/RedPillWives | 16/10/16 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Shave your face!I've heard this too but I just think it's correlation. Men biologically have higher collagen density than women so I really doubt a shaving habit makes that much of a difference. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/09/16 01:28 AM |
| 4 | Shave your face!It was Margery! Many of her submissions totally deserve reposting. I was not a stranger to the concept of face shaving but frankly I always thought doing it with a razor like a man was a bit overkill so this was pretty perfect :P And then they started the dermaplaning fad (literally professional shaving with a surgical blade) so maybe it will be less 'weird' of a grooming step. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/09/16 11:43 PM |
| 3 | Shave your face!Around 5 bucks but I'm not from the USA, they have them on Amazon though and I know they're easy to find. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/09/16 11:20 PM |
| 5 | Shave your face!I use the same as hers. Personally the Tinkle brand is the best kind I've found. There are other brands but when I've gotten them (they usually come in 3) there's almost always a dud that is just useless. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/09/16 11:04 PM |
| 7 | Shave your face!I think that since the ends of the hair become sharp from the cut they tend to look/feel thicker for some people. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/09/16 10:59 PM |
| 6 | Shave your face!I shave my face with an eyebrow razor ever since this video was posted to RPW a couple of years ago. But I like to be fancy about it and think of it as home dermaplaning, lol. I like it best during bath time and it's not only hair but dead skin that's coming out, making the results very appealing. Of course, since it's a type of exfoliation be sure to protect your skin from the sun! And be careful not to cut yourself, although I've found that an eyebrow razor makes that impossible to happen. | /r/RedPillWives | 27/09/16 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Littleknownfacts Presents: Love Your Body No Matter WhatThis post makes me happy! It is the act of treating your body well In the same vein self-love is making sure your body has what it needs and the treatment it deserves. A way of framing it is, telling myself, I don't deserve to be worrying about <preventable ailment> in the future, so I'm working towards maintaining good health from now. It becomes an act of self-respect, not about deprivation and self-hatred. I don't like to dish negativity to obese people, but I also won't act like they're bein… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/09/16 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Why I returned to work (the long version)I'm so happy to read this field report! Your excitement really comes across in your written words. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/09/16 10:51 PM |
| 3 | CMV The most harmful sub on reddit is r/relationshipsI agree with the premise that their advice often sucks, but this is a bad example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 10:12 PM |
| 5 | CMV The most harmful sub on reddit is r/relationshipsI'm not missing the point. That instance changed her whole perspective of him and people are recognizing it as valid, RP or not. I also don't believe he fled out of a thought out plan, I think he literally just fled for self preservation and then rationalized his actions afterwards as being protective, which is why he was talking her into not telling anyone else what he did. People are criticizing his denial for the most part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 08:52 PM |
| 3 | CMV The most harmful sub on reddit is r/relationshipsI don't disagree with that in the general sense because having given birth certainly poses a different circumstance, just speaking of the way it comes across in the actual sub. I think most commenters there are women and tend to project their own person in the woman in the story so they give her the benefit of the doubt more than they would a dad. I've seen some heavy dad lynchings in there in the past so that's why I'm pointing it out. I think in general there's a new trend to try and reason ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Does society really disrespect housewives?Feminism supports choice Choice feminism is a subcategory of feminism that many feminist academics reject. You could claim that feminists like you support it, but not that Feminism does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 05:39 PM |
| 1 | What beliefs do you hold that differ from your "tribe"?I thought people from nofap were former overfappers? Like it's the same concept as people that leave social media because they were addicted. It doesn't really apply to people who use it responsibly and don't get to the point where it's a huge problem for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 04:37 PM |
| 2 | What beliefs do you hold that differ from your "tribe"?I understand body/gender dysphoria. But I don't understand how some people are trans but feel comfortable with the sexual organs they were born with. Right, there's an undercurrent of trans individuals called truscum because they make this distinction. They call the second transtrenders (probably considered a slur by the mainstream now). Even when I was supporting of trans I would side with the truscum on this. I don't understand what it means to "feel" like the opposite gender. Yes! Like, do th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 04:15 PM |
| 3 | What beliefs do you hold that differ from your "tribe"?100% agree with this comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 04:09 PM |
| 3 | What beliefs do you hold that differ from your "tribe"?That only speaks for appreciating different gender roles. If a boy is feminine and feels better playing nurturer roles that doesn't mean he 'feels' like a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 04:08 PM |
| 5 | CMV The most harmful sub on reddit is r/relationshipsNot as extreme as that but the biggest double standard is probably how they treat new dads vs. new moms. New dads have to be perfect while new moms are allowed tons of leeway in terms of attitude and behavior (since everything at that stage can be blamed on postpartum/hormones rather than lousy character). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 03:59 PM |
| 10 | CMV The most harmful sub on reddit is r/relationshipsAbsolutely. Frankly I'm surprised that red-leaning men are reacting like she's wrong for feeling let down and less attracted to his coward ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/16 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Feminism in a Conservative SocietyBetty Friedan was blatantly marxist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/16 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Would women lose attraction to the man in this scenario and how can it be avoided?Can't help but think this thread was brought up by this Agreed that man doesn't really love his wife. His fetish and pleasure came before her and their marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/16 07:50 PM |
| 6 | 8 ways to celebrate your relationship everyday!Lol that's awesome! And if all else fails I still use the unbirthday shamelessly! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/09/16 05:32 PM |
| 5 | The importance of how we dressI mean it's okay if she wants to come back and learn/discuss with a clean slate, however she keeps bittering the place up instead of seeking to gain perspective! You can just spot the festering from a mile away. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/09/16 05:07 PM |
| 4 | The importance of how we dressYou keep changing accounts without changing your attitude. Stop looking for reasons to be mad and insulted. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/09/16 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Why don't TRPillers/RPW try BDSM?I'm not even disagreeing with that. I was refuting your "RPW says" because the sub's purpose is not about making men dominant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Why don't TRPillers/RPW try BDSM?I read your first paragraph wrong so I edited that part. I don't have a problem with a word, I said that in your line of thinking it was 'wrong' so I wasn't going to contest that (you did say you didn't like it). Encouragement can be as much as a positive reaction to something. I was just explaining that the purpose of RPW isn't tricking a man into being in a dynamic he doesn't want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Why don't TRPillers/RPW try BDSM?Still, there's no meeting place that would make vetting unnecessary. So this idea wouldn't save you the vetting step at all. I think meeting someone and knowing you're attracted is very organic, so the thought that this would be cost effective doesn't make sense. RPW doesn't say that as a blanket statement, by the way. It's not about tricking a man into a role he doesn't want, but respecting him as a man and leader. It's true it might be like that for the women who want their low dominance husba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Why don't TRPillers/RPW try BDSM?Because it's not an attractive scene to them as individuals, most likely. Personally I researched BDSM way before I found RPW and found it very unappealing and corny. What is there not to get? And I don't see how you can insist it saves time and trouble, even if it made sense it would only make for a reduced pool of prospects with a lot of fetishists to weed out, for the women at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Why don't TRPillers/RPW try BDSM?The question is not whether we can find similarities or not. Finding an intersect does not mean one fits in the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Why don't TRPillers/RPW try BDSM?Are you going by theory of by practice? Because my mental image of a Dom is not someone I would want to be with. I think you got too caught up on your premise and didn't stop to think how it would actually pan out. Masculine men do exist out in the world, and guess what, they do not need to gather at BDSM events bidding for the subs the scene offers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Why don't TRPillers/RPW try BDSM?I hear this argument a lot and it ends up framing female nature like it's a structured BDSM niche making it sound super weird and obscure. The point of your thread was supposedly for it to be 'easier' to find, but is actually making it sound fringe and complicated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Why don't TRPillers/RPW try BDSM?This sums it up pretty well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 09:46 PM |
| 5 | Why don't TRPillers/RPW try BDSM?Could not have expressed it better myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: what do you find attractive about your significant other or your most recent one?Same here. It helps to convey that I'm not being super serious. I've found that if I'm not using them, some people project a negative emotion. So you don't get out of the emotion judgement either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/16 06:06 PM |
| 1 | minor impromptu RP man surveySame here, I'm very skeptical of White being a blanket for Europe that includes Mediterranean people. Spain had Moor occupation for centuries! Yet some of Spaniards are all about being proudly white on the Internet... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/16 05:04 AM |
| 2 | minor impromptu RP man surveyYes! I think it might even be adaptive. I'm Mexican (girl) and have fairer skin than all my relatives. My ex was brown skinned and his sister is dirty blonde with green eyes. Female fairness of skin is a favored trait here so it makes sense if it's selecting genetically. Although in my direct case my dad was more Spanish-looking and I just ended up looking like him more. I think it's bizarre to look at my country with USA's perception of race because my maternal uncle is very very dark yet we're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/16 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Routine HappinessI see now, I also re-read our whole convo to see where you're coming from, and I'll clarify my "no excuse" was more on the side of "there's no excuse not to try this class that is so close", as opposed to me having the excuse of "I would take a class, but it's too far away". Like, the premise was around taking a class, the excuse being how much time I would take to get there. It wasn't about exercising or not because I already go to the gym downstairs where the classes are. That online videos/cl… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Routine HappinessWhile I get what you're saying, I disagree that because it's an illusion it ceases to be helpful. I think the social aspect of physical activities can be an important variable for people in general. The whole thing about doing things on your own first and then being allowed to join groups still strikes me as an arbitrary dictation. I agree I'm tricking myself by making myself stick to a class by framing it as commitment, but don't see it as wrong as long as it's useful. On the plus side, I enjoy… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Routine HappinessI'm not overthinking it, I'm weighing in the ways I could make yoga stick according to my actual lifestyle and traits. Like I said, gym is not an issue - my issue here is making yoga a daily practice. You took it and made it about exercise in general which wasn't really the case. The who/what/where/when/why is pointless Disagree, these are variables that can make or break a habit. Sure, people can go overboard with focusing on the wrong things, but if it helps, it isn't pointless. If you want to… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Routine HappinessIt's definitely a matter of self discipline, in the sense of turning it into part of my lifestyle forever. Not sure if you said the gym thing in general or to me, I do have access to my building's gym and that's not really the issue for me, it's how fragile my whole system is even if I impose a schedule that seems to work at first. I don't want to ramble too much, but the key for me is to involve the social aspect in the right ways. I'm very very prone to isolating myself and want to interact wi… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Routine HappinessFrench press sounds 'fancier' but it's way simpler. It's less stuff in the way, but with more possibilities for customizing if you start getting into it. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Routine HappinessTried the Yoga with Adriene ones for some time. In fact, I think I even have a YouTube playlist somewhere. Your love for yoga has inspired me to try again! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Routine HappinessFor me it's not about their cost but the convenience, I really don't like inconveniencing myself and I only tried this one because it's literally in my building anyway so there's no excuse. If I do get into it I might try hot yoga, it's further away but still in the neighborhood. Which is why online would be great for me, way less hassle, my problem is actually following through. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Routine HappinessI miss having a bathtub! Where I currently live we just have showers. I miss living as a mermaid. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Routine HappinessDo you do it by yourself or in a class? I'm going to a class twice a week because I really don't follow through following online videos. But I might start trying that again in the days off. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Routine HappinessI love cold brewing my morning tea! Cold brewing requires a long time (I leave mine around 15 hours) so you have to remember the day before in order to have it ready the next morning. I know this isn't super appealing for the people who are already getting colder weather but you might like to try it when it's warm haha. Right now I'm into white tea blends a lot more because of the antioxidant properties, paired with the fact that cold brewing doesn't release tannic flavors* so it's super fresh a… | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Routine HappinessIt's amazing that the things you love are so positive, like cleaning! I don't mind cleaning once I'm doing it (I always have to pair it with youtube watching or series otherwise it's impossible to get through), but it's hard to get to the mindset of wanting to do it. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/09/16 03:56 PM |
| 6 | 12 Reasons Why Conservative Women Have The Best SexThis Spring, coming to select IMAX® theatres! Based on a true story | /r/RedPillWives | 13/09/16 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Shit Post Saturday/SundayExpectation 0800: Wake up. Perform blowjob for the alpha. 0820: Cry in bathroom Where did you get a copy of my schedule?? | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 10:22 PM |
| 2 | 12 Reasons Why Conservative Women Have The Best SexSome of the articles cited within this entry, many of which could be their own thread (feel free to take and expand). Not entirely centered in sexual satisfaction but surrounding effects. Some of them are studies and others are articles with more references in them but here they are in a manner of index: On Sexual Attraction The role of facial hair in women's perceptions of men's attractiveness, health, masculinity and parenting abilities Why Women Want Tall Men Why Women Like Deep Voices and Me… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 10:07 PM |
| 2 | 12 Reasons Why Conservative Women Have The Best SexFeel free to crosspost! I wouldn't really know how to frame it for discussion over there, but I thought it would be good to share especially because of all the different links it referenced. I think I might outline them in another comment. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 09:33 PM |
| 3 | 12 Reasons Why Conservative Women Have The Best SexI don't know if these charts are what you mean but that's what I've found in my browsing history and also supported the idea that less partners meant better quality of life (but of course in a correlation not causation kind of way so there's room for disagreement on what the info really means). | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 09:09 PM |
| 3 | 12 Reasons Why Conservative Women Have The Best SexI wasn't sure whether to share the BuzzFeed article this post initially referred to, but since this expanded on a lot more arguments I thought it would be interesting to discuss, whether you agree or disagree with the premise and subtopics from a RP standpoint. I'll also point out that the BuzzFeed poll was European while the Federalist article seems to be written with American politics in mind, but we can discuss the overarching themes and how the observations hold true (or not) and correlate i… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 08:36 PM |
| 4 | Littleknownfacts Presents: Common Covert Contract Complications and Creating Communal CommunicationLol, I always think of you and /u/_wingnut_ when I reflect on this, since you two are the main proponents of the hard next. In this sense I'm skeptical of how well the core message is taken, since I know the subreddit's framework has unintentionally played part in some of our members prolonging their faulty relationship out of a sense of dutiful surrender... "not trying to guilt him into being the man you actually want" should not mean stop looking for the man you actually want while you're stil… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 07:14 PM |
| 2 | What's in a Name?Yep, not only do I consider it but it's been one of the main deciders of whether I would date a man or not. This is not something to be explicitly proud of but not something I would really fight against since it makes sense, because in my country they are reflective of a caste, and in a town microcosm, the quality of the family they come from. So there are good families and some lesser quality families, and more broadly, good and less-good names. This is reflective of a specific culture and more… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 06:43 PM |
| 3 | How Not To Rape [Trigger Warning: Condescending And Awkward Millennials]Dude was a more appropriate casting choice for a teen vampire, and she looks like a suburban soccer mom. The more I see it the more it disturbs me. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Littleknownfacts Presents: Common Covert Contract Complications and Creating Communal CommunicationThis is an awesome post and I'm really happy you're doing this series. However, I would like to add a tiny little thing regarding the sentence you highlighted: RPW is about learning to appreciate him for who he is, not trying to guilt him into being the man you actually want. This is very true and the core of avoiding covert contracts. That said, if you're not married yet and still vetting, don't be afraid to walk away if the dynamic is not fulfilling your dominance threshold. This doesn't mean … | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Littleknownfacts Presents: Common Covert Contract Complications and Creating Communal CommunicationHer character was spot on for these kind of women and their friends though. That movie as a whole was great to show different kinds of relationships, unfortunately it was still a romantic comedy so at the end the man bends to the woman's will in some of the examples. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Littleknownfacts Presents: Common Covert Contract Complications and Creating Communal CommunicationEssentially Drew Barrymore's character in He's Just Not That Into You. The wishful thinking that makes women mess up their lives because the exception somehow is the rule. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/09/16 05:33 PM |
| 3 | How Not To Rape [Trigger Warning: Condescending And Awkward Millennials]The couple that appeared with the title looked like mother and son. Like the dude seems young and she seems older and it was very painful to watch. I could not make it through the whole video. And why are they all especially weird looking? "If someone feels raped then they were raped" even as she is saying it she knows it's BS. They even say it condescendingly like it's something for people to memorize, there's just no reasoning behind it. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/09/16 10:02 PM |
| 3 | MBTI and RedpillINTJ red pill cat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/16 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Shit Post Saturday/SundayGood article, and strange to find in a mainstream site. The more I think about the topic the more I'm convinced she's an accurate reflection of a bigger thing, the white millennial girl. A lot of people hate her because she's rich or/and because of the incestuous predator behaviors she had towards her sister growing up, but usually give her a pass about a lot of other things that she does under the mix of her arrogance and insecurity ("both obscenely arrogant and cripplingly insecure" as the art… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/09/16 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Why he doesn't want to come home.This reminds me of Six Feet Under, when Nathan and David find their dad rented a room that he kept a secret. Sometimes the man just wanted to smoke a joint or just be by himself, and he couldn't do that at his house. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/16 10:44 PM |
| 4 | Why he doesn't want to come home.And no one is expecting stuff of you there either. I think a lot of these men have unpleasant dynamics, but even ones in loving marriages might find it too hectic and avoid it to relax. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/16 10:42 PM |
| 5 | Why I've packed My Husband's Lunch for 15 Years by: Stacy Heinyou are letting your relationship tarnish just so you can pretend to shine it later. This is a perfect way to put it! This sounded like a narcissistic tendency to me. Like, she will do something as long as everyone is praising it, and then when that feeling fades she completely stops. And thinking about it, from the other perspective it sounds very unreliable... because she will only do things for her mood and self-perception, not for the other person. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/09/16 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Littleknowfacts Presents Homemaking 201: Literally the Least You Can Do Beyond the Goddamn Cleaning ScheduleHomemade preserves are really cozy looking, just this week there was this post on r/Frugal that really exemplified the decor possibilities. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 04:02 PM |
| 5 | "we fought for the freedom to RISK rape!"That's what you took away from this? We all know it's wrong, but it's the risk women accepted when they fought for sexual emancipation. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/09/16 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Non-Mothers of RPW - Let's share our thoughts on parenting. Mother's of RPW, share your experience! Controversial Opinions Welcome.Yes! My parents were extremely relaxed with the alcohol subject. When I was a young child I was allowed to stick my finger in their hard liquors if they were drinking it, and have a taste. It was not made taboo and I didn't get a sense of "forbidden/bad" out of it. I just knew it was not a thing for kids that's all. Around 14 years old I would get a beer with my dinner just so I could build alcohol resistance in the event I would be out drinking (my parents generally preferred to address the pos… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/09/16 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Keep your goals to yourselfI agree with this. I believe that, while remaining truthful in everything that matters, we don't need to involve our SO in every step of our process. Some things should remain mysterious. I think about this a lot when reflecting then-vs-now gendered spaces and the modern female-male relationship, the boundaries aren't very clear now and some women think they should share every thought (I struggle with this when I'm in a low mood) but that's not really the case. Another reason for me (in general,… | /r/RedPillWives | 08/09/16 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Psychological AttractionLol blushing and hiding your face is super cute, I bet your husband adores it. I was thinking about that when I looked at the gif Cooch shared. Like, that wouldn't look bad if a group of girlfriends did it, it would be quite flattering to a man. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Psychological AttractionI think this is solipsistic, you conclude this because as a woman you find that behavior to be aggressive and intrusive, which is fine. Confident men do not think this way since women don't represent a threat to them. If anything, it's an invitation, if the woman doing the eye contact is easy in the eyes. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Psychological AttractionIn many lower mammals staring into the eyes is almost universally (reflexively?) interpreted as an act of aggression, but it seems to be different for humans for not well understood reasons. It's still reflexively interpreted like that in a big portion of human cultures. It seems to be normal and expected in the West and taboo in more hierarchical societies (triggering all the 'confrontational' things the other mammals sense). Interestingly enough, a part of why it's not okay for a woman to do i… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 04:21 PM |
| 7 | Can I be feminine ant into STEM and MMA?What is this, a subreddit for ants? | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 05:01 AM |
| 4 | Can I be feminine ant into STEM and MMA?I seriously doubt being an ant would be compatible with a red pill lifestyle, with their matriarchy and all | /r/RedPillWives | 07/09/16 05:00 AM |
| 1 | RPWi weekly reflections: 8/29/16 the "I'm so in love" editionYay!!! | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 07:43 PM |
| 2 | RPWi weekly reflections: 8/29/16 the "I'm so in love" editionYou should get an eyebrow razor. Quicker than plucking with the same short term result. I use them for shaving my face fuzz as well, as a poor man's dermaplaning. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/16 05:46 PM |
| 1 | How to motivate my BF to work outHe has told me that if I had been more direct about finding it attractive if he worked out early in the relationship, that he probably would have put more effort in on that front. Based on this, is he changing his habits now that he explicitly knows this? If fitness is a value you really care about, you should be willing to leave him if he is not working towards remaining attractive to you in the long run. The confusing aspects about your post is why is it a problem now, 2 years in, as opposed t… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 10:06 PM |
| 3 | The Case Against Female Self-EsteemOk so you kind of changed the subject from degree merit to student loan and profitability. I don't think there's room to disagree in student loans, and regarding profitability, that's not really women's most important requirement, as the women in aggregate tend to prefer flexibility of hours rather than reaching highly performing positions. It's funny because you're sort of reaching male conclusions yet the argument started due to femininity and STEM. Out of curiosity, do you want children somed… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 09:12 PM |
| 0 | How to motivate my BF to work outIt was condescending to imply that she didn't read your post, which I also read in its entirety (and found it contains "I've tried to tell him that..." and variants around 'criticism', 'encouragement', all which can be naggy) and agreed with her assessment. Nowhere in your original post did you state it was something he explicitly asked for, in any case any misunderstanding happened because you didn't provide this information in the first place. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 07:31 PM |
| 3 | The Case Against Female Self-EsteemI'm neither emotional or angry, I just pointed out how you made a comment about you and then attempted to tone police me, and are trying to do so again. Your actual argument was "well I'm an engineer and it hasn't affected my femininity", a very reductionist approach to the general observation. Aside from genuine female interest in the field (which wasn't the subject of my comment, by the way) is the constant attempts to measure women's value by male standards, belittling other pursuits in the p… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Niche Dating: Just Don'tExcellently put. It's about understanding your core values and working towards finding someone who meets those first. If anything, religion aids you in finding someone with extremely compatible core values and worldview. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 05:38 PM |
| 12 | Goodbye ?!Holds frame | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 05:28 PM |
| 3 | The Case Against Female Self-EsteemWhat happened was I expressed my annoyance at this popular narrative, and then you took it and made it about yourself. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 05:25 PM |
| 8 | Goodbye ?!She is shit testing us! Further proof of AWALT! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 05:24 PM |
| 8 | Goodbye ?!LOL why did you have the urge to make a histrionic thread for this notice? Buh bye! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Goodbye ?!She will fit in just right! | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 05:16 PM |
| 5 | How to motivate my BF to work outYou mention all of these activities before he dated you, and then Throughout the time that we've been together, he has never worked out. What else has changed? Is it possible he only worked out to attract a mate, stopping when he got in relationship comfort? Or was there another reason? Why did he stop playing football? Was it a college team? I think mentioning work outs is the wrong way to go about it, perhaps you can explore the football subject more because that's more of a hobby thing that m… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 04:56 PM |
| 2 | RPWi Example: Branch SwingingI think you don't understand this community or what AWALT stands for. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 04:40 PM |
| 4 | The Case Against Female Self-EsteemDid you read what I said, or the context of what was said in the article? I talked about the attitude that STEM as the only choice that is worthwhile, plus the feminist push for it. I did not say 'choosing a field because you have the aptitude'. Lol I knew this would make some woman go all "I am a engineer and blabbity blah" objecting this. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/09/16 04:36 PM |
| 5 | The Case Against Female Self-EsteemI remember that post and I agree with it for the most part. Like you, I disagree with the college part, not because men care or should in the SMV, but because it's shown to factor in the RMV. I'm also more than done with all of the "only STEM matters" line of thought, you're only going to push women to act more like men when you say stuff like that, just as the feminists do. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/09/16 11:48 PM |
| 7 | Niche Dating: Just Don'tGreat thread! Niche dating can definitely be tempting, especially for introverted girls, because it usually means you don't have to get out of your comfort zone! Yay! So it's a good idea to expand on the cons of this novel form of navigating the dating scene. Dating based on specific similarities was hardly a thing when sex-segregated spaces and activities were the norm. A woman was expected to make a good wife, not to share every male interest like some manic pixie dream girl. I'm glad you have… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/09/16 06:29 PM |
| 4 | Captain second guesses me and I can't help but feel resentfulIt's encouraged to get an alt from a main reddit account, to separate RP-related activity to the activity from other subs. So if your other account is a 'main' account that friends and family know, I totally get why you did it and that's very valid. I think it's mostly the way it was phrased. Longtime contributor gives the idea that you have a long history here with submitted content in the form of insightful threads and a reputation to uphold. And throwaway, unlike an alt, usually means somethi… | /r/RedPillWives | 02/09/16 05:22 PM |
| 7 | Captain second guesses me and I can't help but feel resentfulYes, so much. I see why they do it if their SO knows their account but it defeats the entire purpose of knowing their history and their own patterns. Aside from that, it's very duplicitous, like there's this 'perfect contributor' image trying to be kept, and another one for issues. It's not the first time I've seen this and I don't appreciate the trend. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/09/16 04:54 PM |
| 2 | First-Reactions to RPWI think the point of her response was to point out the hypocrisy of deeming men's casual sex pursuit as "unbearably manipulative" since we do the same for a different goal, not to say girl game is wrong. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 08:02 PM |
| 1 | First-Reactions to RPWAw, don't sell yourself short. It's definitely a complex subject that involves bigger political theories and I don't think anyone would blame you if you got a factoid mistaken. And the exercise of laying out your thoughts in the open could even help you gather them in a concise way and make you more secure in your position. Gender identity theory and its preposterous extent is definitely controversial and has its opponents within the movement, and it will definitely be the cause for a major spli… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 05:32 PM |
| 4 | First-Reactions to RPWwhile some of the RPW community happens to have beliefs that line up with some forms of feminism, that doesn't mean they are then feminist. This conclusion a bit incomplete and could be misleading so I must make two distinctions. What is understood here is that some ideas held by feminist people can be held by other individuals, but maybe not under the same framework or thought process. True, not just for feminism but other movements that share a certain value in different contexts. However, I w… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 05:16 PM |
| 2 | First-Reactions to RPWYou're an EC now, I don't see why you couldn't explain it from your standpoint and understanding. | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 03:15 PM |
| 3 | First-Reactions to RPWThat "only the third wave sucks" line of thought is very misleading. The problem is many feminists (and well meaning naive people in general) portray it as being entirely benevolent and just about women having rights. That's the mistake. It's an ideology entangled in Marxist belief, it opposed the nuclear family from the start. It denigrates the role of women in the family and that's not 'just a third wave thing'. That said, I agree that many of our members might not be entirely opposed to all w… | /r/RedPillWives | 01/09/16 03:14 PM |
| 3 | First-Reactions to RPWbut I didn't like the fake part of a the BDSM community, especially the feminist definition of "it's all just in the bedroom", and I couldn't actually imagine liking the kinky parts of it IRL. Yep, this. I encountered it online out of the same search, and found it corny and cringeworthy for many reasons. A man that "is allowed to be dominant", but only when a woman says so? Like a dog that's commanded in its behavior? No thanks. The corniness in the stories written by the sub girls. Everything I… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 06:43 PM |
| 3 | First-Reactions to RPWI get what you mean, I'll just point out the difference between trolling and concern-trolling for anyone reading, since a lot of people don't realize when it's being done because it may seem genuine, and then the responses calling out this type of trolling are perceived as overly defensive. Concern trolling is basically when a person comes to a space already opposing what the place is about, but acting like they're genuinely curious and "just asking questions". But in their approach they are try… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 06:17 PM |
| 3 | First-Reactions to RPWLol. Well, I don't know if you were one of the concern trolls, but it baffled me that they all followed the same pattern being so covert in their real motive, stating they were "starting a dialogue" and acting victimized if their post was removed. I don't know if it just subsided on its own or the mods got better at quickly removing them, haha. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 05:33 PM |
| 3 | First-Reactions to RPWI don't think I even had a first reaction, just a lot of curiosity. I didn't conclude anything at all from the first glance, but I knew it was something new and interesting. While I didn't have a bad reaction, I wasn't like "I found my people" either, because even though I was already over feminism and interested in male issues, I hadn't looked at it from a relationship perspective. So a lot of things resonated because I already knew I was attracted to dominance in a way that was said uncommon (… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 05:22 PM |
| 7 | First-Reactions to RPWOur savior. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 04:52 PM |
| 5 | First-Reactions to RPW"well none of this is inherently anti-feminist, here, let me point that out to them because I'm sure it's just a silly mistake" Lol, I wish I could see your thread now. When I first lurked in 2014 there seemed to be a lot of posts routinely femsplaining and trying to "start a dialogue". | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 04:49 PM |
| 7 | First-Reactions to RPWMost of us got linked by hate mentions. It's the best publicity. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 04:40 PM |
| 4 | First-Reactions to RPWI believe they tend to stick around under other usernames or lurking. Even dissenters could agree that there aren't many female spaces left that aren't overrun by feminism. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 04:39 PM |
| 3 | First-Reactions to RPWThat one and The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands are really good. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 04:24 PM |
| 5 | First-Reactions to RPWWow, I just want to say that it is really amazing that you had an open mind to check it out and see its value! So many times when the girl is introduced by her bf it makes her super defensive and unwilling to take it all in. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Random RP ThoughtsI disagree with this because the idea is that "you can't fix a problem unless you are facing that problem" which is a different mindset from the one that I'm expressing which is "you were never at risk of dealing with this problem because the choices/preparation/etc you made along the way drastically reduced the likelihood that you'd ever encounter it." Perhaps the way I wrote it was confusing, but I wasn't saying I wouldn't value the well-prepared person at all. I said we could learn from their… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Random RP ThoughtsThat falls into the "observing the pattern of someone who avoids developing the problem", which I wrote it was valuable. I had written a paragraph about that bit decided it was redundant and deleted it. To be clear, I wasn't disagreeing, I was just adding how people tend to emotionally value the journey (personal experience coping with problem) more than a good pattern (the habits that prevent the problem from ever forming). Their personal experience may not resonate emotionally with others This… | /r/RedPillWives | 31/08/16 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Random RP ThoughtsNot that random but some recent thoughts on the whole evolution and reproduction subject. It's been discussed to death (r/K, high vs low FTO) and framed in many ways but the way this essay titled it made me giggle. It's ironic that those 'ignorant' folk atheists feel superior to are actually the 'fit' reproductive model. And of course I'm not above it, of course, as a secular millennial who had to actively 'decide' that I want children after all (never mind that it isn't something that will happ… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/08/16 11:52 PM |
| 4 | Random RP ThoughtsI think it's a lot more about the pattern than the journey. If someone hasn't encountered a problem, I wouldn't value their advice as much as someone who has encountered the problem and solved it. Someone who keeps encountering the problem and hasn't solved it doesn't have valuable advice even if they are "experienced". I think there's a lot of value in observing the pattern of someone who avoids encountering the problem because their overall behavior is not conductive to developing it in the fi… | /r/RedPillWives | 30/08/16 11:10 PM |
| 1 | TV, Books, and Film DiscussionI mean, whenever I see a discussion of it, everyone praises that character. And it's not that she's a slut, but she's so sanctimonious and her voice/accent and face expressions just make me want to slap her lol. | /r/RedPillWives | 22/08/16 08:29 PM |
| 1 | TV, Books, and Film DiscussionI watched The Fall too and I really really disliked the obnoxious detective, but everyone seems to love her... | /r/RedPillWives | 22/08/16 06:31 PM |
| 4 | Shit Post...Sunday!And a little more libfem dissonance! | /r/RedPillWives | 21/08/16 06:52 PM |
| 11 | Shit Post...Sunday!Sweats nervously | /r/RedPillWives | 21/08/16 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: RPWi is not "one size fits all"no hot pinks and no glitter sparkle, we all know those are for sluts | /r/RedPillWives | 19/08/16 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Your "Daily Dose of Drama"too bad your name is already taken :b | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Your "Daily Dose of Drama"I also think it's unavoidable. In one way or another we've found a way to satiate this fascination through forms of media entertainment and discussion boards for further consumption/examination. On the other hand, I don't like to inject drama into my own life and run away from histrionic personalities. I assume most of the women that outsource their drama fix think this way. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Your "Daily Dose of Drama"Lol reading it is such a timesink for me. I particularly enjoy when everyone chastises and mass-downvotes the OP even if it's unwarranted, I don't know why I get a kick out of it. It's like this vestigial form of lynching. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Self Improvement DiscussionThanks, but unfortunately that would be too similar to my current setup with the default calendar. Maybe I'm just being too annoying with this and I need to adjust to what I have. I already find Fantastical 2 too redundant for a paid app. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Self Improvement DiscussionWow that app is super pretty! More family oriented that I'm looking for but I'll definitely keep it in mind for when I have children. Thanks for this recommendation. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Self Improvement DiscussionI for the life of me can't get a physical planner to stick. It's just not for me, and it sucks because they are too pretty. I'm currently testing Fantastical 2 (calendar app) but if anyone has a better system for visually mapping out the day I am open to suggestions. I'm interested to know if anyone has used Planner Pro or other apps like that. (Note: I already use Wunderlist and Google Keep for tasks/shopping lists and so I'm not looking for a list maker/reminder app) | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/16 05:50 PM |
| – | New Mods Nomination Threadseconded! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/16 05:32 PM |
| – | New Mods Nomination Thread/u/susandeath meets all the requirements perfectly and would be an excellent mod! SAST timezone for bonus. /u/madscientistlove as well, HAST timezone but IDK if she will be up for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/16 05:28 PM |
| 5 | The Modern Guide to Becoming a More Classy Woman : 8 Things You Should Always Keep PrivateThey're both status signaling, but the food thing could be understood as the liberal approach to purity. If you're interested on the subject you could check out Jonathan Haidt's work on human morality, in which he notes how conservatives moralize purity in sex while liberals moralize purity in food choice. Personally I'm more conservative but also guilty of the whole 'my food is better' millennial mindset so I'm not saying it's strictly a thing of non-conservatives, but I do believe it comes fro… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/08/16 12:44 AM |
| 2 | The Five Love LanguagesMy SO and I also have physical touch and quality time as the top ones! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/08/16 03:28 PM |
| 5 | Advice neededI didn't tell her to ignore her husband's needs, I told her to take care of herself. You implied so by leaving him out in the entirety of your "you go girl" comment. Do keep in mind the post is actually about the improvement of her marriage. All I said was that she deserves love and care and help. That she deserves praise for surviving through incredibly stressful times. These are all platitudes that aren't actually advice. She can get love from her support system while improving her situation. … | /r/RedPillWives | 07/08/16 03:52 PM |
| 16 | What do I do now?I actually identify flower-kin That's not what they meant when they said we needed more women in STEM... | /r/RedPillWives | 06/08/16 06:07 PM |
| 7 | What do I do now?Why are you questioning your husband's words? How dare you. Accept reality and embrace your new life as a Mister. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/08/16 05:59 PM |
| 6 | The Wise Words Of Camille PagliaShe is so insightful! For those who haven't seen, there's a recent video discussion with both Christina Hoff Sommers and Camille Paglia about modern-day feminism. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/08/16 11:26 PM |
| 3 | TV Romance Can Affect Real-Life MarriageWhy was this on a kids movie tho | /r/RedPillWives | 03/08/16 11:10 PM |
| 2 | TV Romance Can Affect Real-Life MarriageI think it sorts of create a constant feedback of distortion. Like, romance series and movies reflect real life drama, taking it up a notch, and in response the viewer generates this need for drama in their lives. Then for things to be "interesting" there needs to be conflict. I'm interested to see how much of modern relationships and expectations are 'constructed' by show writers. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/08/16 10:58 PM |
| 3 | TV Romance Can Affect Real-Life MarriageWhenever someone references this, it reminds me I was really weird. I mean, being little, one of my favorite scenes from Aladdin is when Jasmine gets made into Jafar's unwilling slave. What's up with that? She looked better in red, tbh. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/08/16 10:48 PM |
| 6 | TV Romance Can Affect Real-Life MarriageResearchers at Albion College surveyed 392 married individuals, analyzing their television-viewing habits, belief in the portrayal of television relationships, expectations for relationships and feelings toward their own marriage. They found that participants who believe that couples on TV are true to life are less committed in their own marriage: their survey responses indicate they are more likely to cheat and less likely to stay in the marriage. This 2013 study seems to conclude the empirical… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/08/16 04:33 PM |
| 11 | The wonders that STFU can doThis is great! Kudos to you for taking a step back and breathe before reacting. Women have a tendency to make these things about ourselves and our feelings, but you were able to fight these urges successfully. You mention you avoided a fight, but it's more than that. Had you reacted that way, then he would have the letter worry about and the additional task of placating you. Instead, you used this opportunity to show him you are on his team. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/08/16 02:29 PM |
| 5 | Friends and their influenceI think it has to do with being what rp calls "sigma", and how that's way harder for a woman than for a man. This isn't a RP thing, women aren't actually categorized like this. Your success must be due physical attractiveness. Your friends feel like they compete with you because they acknowledge your attractiveness vs theirs. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/08/16 02:03 PM |
| 4 | Curse Like a Lady (ahem, close but not quite)Fudge that sugar! Fudge it to heck! Where a demon with a thousand wee-wees fudges it forever! | /r/RedPillWives | 31/07/16 04:04 AM |
| 5 | 1300+ Subscribers!! New Women And Lurkers Introduce Yourselves :)Many of us aren't wives yet! Welcome to RPW | /r/RedPillWives | 30/07/16 01:52 AM |
| 3 | 1300+ Subscribers!! New Women And Lurkers Introduce Yourselves :)Welcome to the sub! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/07/16 01:51 AM |
| 4 | 1300+ Subscribers!! New Women And Lurkers Introduce Yourselves :)Nice to meet you! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/07/16 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Let's take a fun quiz!I agree about there being an inaccuracy in self-assessments, but so far I see most women scored higher in feminine than masculine (and I'm not surprised by the ones scoring strongly as masculine since I know they are HH). Personally I'm not ambitious/assertive but I assume low sentimentalism and high analytical score as male as well (and the RPW userbase is also self-selected in some of these mental traits). Interestingly enough, answering every question neutrally still garners 33% score on both… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/16 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Let's take a fun quiz!True. I'm actually not surprised that I'm overall "less", since I'm not inclined that strongly to many traits. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/16 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Let's take a fun quiz!So-so Although I don't get how it has anything to do with roles themselves. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/07/16 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Name one thing you'd like to change about yourself to improve your relationship?Well, she kind of has to take his side, that's what showing loyalty means in this situation. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/07/16 08:23 PM |
| 4 | Name one thing you'd like to change about yourself to improve your relationship?She doesn't have to bash his mom in order to show support. She could do so in a more neutral manner, there are a lot of ways she could do it. Staying quiet could very well heighten his frustration. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/07/16 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Name one thing you'd like to change about yourself to improve your relationship?How have you tried coping with this so far? | /r/RedPillWives | 28/07/16 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Name one thing you'd like to change about yourself to improve your relationship?Oh, I read "with his mother" as actually with his mother right there. "In a two party dispute" and "I find both unreasonable" lead me to think that was the case, a debate with a third person taking place. Can you please clarify /u/philomexa just in case? However, I still think that even in private when he blows off steam like that he's asking for loyalty and the best solution is to understand that so she can give it to him without feeling conflicted with her values. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/07/16 07:56 PM |
| 6 | Name one thing you'd like to change about yourself to improve your relationship?You're missing the forest for the trees. At this moment he doesn't want input, but loyalty. In your approach you're valuing appearing logical and right, but this is not the time to do this, this is the time to support him for the sake of union. Maybe you can see if he is open to hearing more of your thoughts about the matter in later when he has vented and is more or less removed from the conflict, but you're not helping him or yourself by trying to be objective at the time he is asking for loya… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/07/16 07:50 PM |
| 4 | Name one thing you'd like to change about yourself to improve your relationship?Ohh, same! | /r/RedPillWives | 28/07/16 06:03 PM |
| 5 | Name one thing you'd like to change about yourself to improve your relationship?Great post idea, Sunhappy! In general, I'd like to do the things I say they will do more consistently. It's a bigger problem than a relationship problem and about the way I approach my goals, but I don't want it to affect my relationship in the sense that he would stop believing I'm going to do what I say. I know it's too broad but it's my main worry. | /r/RedPillWives | 28/07/16 05:57 PM |
| 5 | Returning to Red: Hello again, update, and thanksHey there, welcome back! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/07/16 03:08 PM |
| 11 | Beware 'Journalists' and 'ReportersGood reminder! For the newcomers, keep in mind these journalists are not actually interested in your perspective or value it in any way, your words will only be used to support the conclusions they already had from the start. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/16 08:16 PM |
| 2 | The Most Feminine Women Make the Least SenseOkay so first I disagree with this part: People are scare of the feminine energy because it’s more powerful than the masculine energy. I'm glad you pointed this out! This is a pet peeve of mine that I commonly find in femininity sites. Authors feel the need to tell women that they're the strongest sex or that their power intimidates people or that they're tougher than men because of giving birth. Puhleeze! I wish this idea would die already, but I assume this flattery makes women read and share … | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/16 03:04 PM |
| 3 | The Most Feminine Women Make the Least SenseGreat find! From the title I suspected what she was aiming for, and this is super true: In today’s world, you get ridiculed – especially by women, if you change a lot. Yes. And I think it's connected to women's current obsession of being right. We shouldn't be seeking to "be right" all the time when living our lives. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/16 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Bombshell Aesthetics: The Most Attractive Female BodyYou beat me to it! Cellulite on a healthy, fit, and attractive/vital body is not going to send men running for the hills in the same way that cellulite on an FA tumblurina will (for many many reasons). Yes, exactly. I don't see the author endorsing the cottage cheese lifestyle anywhere on the article. I think it was a good addition because girls can obsess over certain things that don't matter that much in the big picture. Obviously, men (and women themselves) would prefer no cellulite. But if a… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/07/16 02:35 PM |
| 5 | Bombshell Aesthetics: The Most Attractive Female BodyThere’s no sense denying that when it comes to dating, love and relationships, well, physical attractiveness matters. We’re very visually perceptive and we infer a lot from how people look. Whether that’s right or wrong, that’s just how us humans work. The research clearly shows that whether or not people say they value physical attractiveness they still base their actions on it. Hell, even the people who truly believe that they don’t care about physical attractiveness still care about it just a… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/07/16 10:15 PM |
| 5 | My Journey into Womanhood.By all means do expand! In comments, or you can write a field report later in the week if you're observing more changes. We love hearing from new girls. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/07/16 07:51 PM |
| 5 | My Journey into Womanhood.Thank you so much for this post! It's so refreshing to see someone approach the community having read its sidebar in a most objective fashion. Hope you stick around! Looking forward to see more from you :) | /r/RedPillWives | 24/07/16 07:08 PM |
| 5 | What is your favorite subreddit besides RedPillWives?and don't forget /r/holdmyfries!! credits to /u/PhantomDream09 for sharing this gem on IRC while back | /r/RedPillWives | 23/07/16 08:38 PM |
| 5 | What is your favorite subreddit besides RedPillWives?/r/DadReflexes!!! adorbs | /r/RedPillWives | 23/07/16 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Shit Post Saturday!These are all NSFL! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/07/16 05:56 PM |
| 4 | Shit Post Saturday!Some of this makes me rage so much! | /r/RedPillWives | 23/07/16 03:39 PM |
| 5 | Hosting And Entertaining Megathreadthe wifi-password framed all cute hung up by the door Great idea! I hate when I have to ask for it. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/07/16 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Hosting And Entertaining MegathreadI love to make sangria in the summer, and I love to add frozen berries instead of ice! much more flavorful. But I try not to use straws because of their environmental impact. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/07/16 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Hosting And Entertaining MegathreadI'll take a moment to plug one of my favorite YouTube channels: Entertaining With Beth It's mostly recipes, but there are many hosting gems such as How to Stock a Home Bar, Hostess Gifts from the Grocery Store, How to Set Up a Buffet Table, and many more. I love Beth's approach and often wonder why she doesn't have more followers! She recently updated her Gardening channel so I'm excited for that. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/07/16 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Why It's OK (And Even Attractive) For Women To CrySensitivity is very feminine but so often women are encouraged to be "hard" and unflinching, and to hold back tears. While a certain degree of emotional control is important, I don't think women should stifle themselves and diminish their capacity to experience every moment in full. Yep! I used to do that, try to be tough and not cry. I still do that if I'm watching a movie in public! Generally I tend to cry when I'm extremely moved, or if I'm very frustrated and only in the presence of people i… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/07/16 05:16 PM |
| 3 | 25 Politically Incorrect But Effective Ways to Make Him Your Boyfriend via Hooking Up SmartCan anyone please share an archived link? This just won't load for me on any browsers and I can't even find the cached version :( | /r/RedPillWives | 20/07/16 02:51 AM |
| 3 | This Joke Never Gets Old, And It's So RP!"MEAN IT! MEAN THE KISS!" lmao | /r/RedPillWives | 19/07/16 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Alpha/beta behaviours, and how they are received depending on dominance thresholdsSo true about orbiters! That way of approaching mitigates all risk of rejection to them and I think that's why it's so off putting, it's the coward's way. The whole thing is just repulsive. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/07/16 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Alpha/beta behaviours, and how they are received depending on dominance thresholdsYou sound LLL to me :) | /r/RedPillWives | 18/07/16 03:15 AM |
| 3 | The Votes Are In - June Winners Announced + More Good News!Congratulations, /u/lifterofthings! Loving the energy and content lately! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/07/16 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Alpha/beta behaviours, and how they are received depending on dominance thresholds<3! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/07/16 02:07 PM |
| 4 | Alpha/beta behaviours, and how they are received depending on dominance thresholdsI see it constantly in makeup and beauty subs... some women seem to like that | /r/RedPillWives | 16/07/16 04:47 AM |
| 6 | Alpha/beta behaviours, and how they are received depending on dominance thresholdsI would be on that group that appreciates random spanking through the day lol! And I really like certain things that would make other women feel like they're being oppressed :o Dislike: Certain dotting behaviors like men getting up to get the woman a drink at a social gathering (my brother is like this with his wife) and overall catering to her instead of it being the opposite Public declarations of love like Camille said, but also public praise that looks in any way like pedestalizing I would d… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/16 10:52 PM |
| 6 | Alpha/beta behaviours, and how they are received depending on dominance thresholdsthis 100%! I cringe at public proposals and elaborate date ideas | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/16 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Week 5 Girl Game Challenge: Start a JournalYes! Keeping a journal has been so helpful in processing my emotions, reflecting on my thoughts (and developing them), and be more self-aware. It's also a great way to remember to be grateful, and also to distinguish between what's appropriate to share on a journal vs. social media. I know many good people who choose to vent on social media, and personally when I notice this habit it means it's time to unfollow them! I used to just journal bad emotions to let them rest, which is also helpful if … | /r/RedPillWives | 15/07/16 04:59 PM |
| 5 | 7 Reasons to Prioritize Sex in MarriageI really like this blog! Even though I'm not religious, I was raised in Roman Catholicism and while it's a religion stereotyped as extremely sexually-repressive, our chapter of the Christian Family Movement always outlined how important sex was within a marriage bond and the way it strengthens love! So good to see this resource linked here, I always enjoy reading her. | /r/RedPillWives | 14/07/16 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Everything is perfect except there's rarely sexHLL dynamic (from Camille's relationship dynamics theory), means the man is high dominance, but the woman has low dominance and low dominance threshold. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/16 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Need lunch recipe advice, pleaseMy guess would be because tacos are one thing and vampiros are another thing (like an open tortilla with meat and pico de gallo on top) so vampire tacos was someone mixing the two concepts in one. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/16 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Skincare + Anti Aging MegathreadYou're welcome! And about what you said about protection on the label not being equal to the one you're actually getting on your skin, that's true unfortunately for many reasons. SPF is calculated considering you use 2mg of sunscreen per cm2 of skin area. In general, people don't apply that much sunscreen. Also, one would logically think broad spectrum 30 is much much less protection than 70 but they're actually closer since it's not that linear. This is a good post that covers these things and … | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/16 07:34 PM |
| 3 | Skincare + Anti Aging MegathreadI've just gotten the Mad hippie Vitamin C serum to try for the first time! I've been trying different Vitamin C serums but it's always such a nuisance for me to repurchase and then worry about it oxidizing, since I can never find them locally. So I end up just getting a new one whenever it fancies me or I travel. So far I've gotten the best result with OST's C20. I hope Mad hippie's is effective! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/16 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Skincare + Anti Aging MegathreadI really like that BHA! It's very mild and perfect for constant use. Also remember that when you're starting to use exfoliators on the regular you absolutely must use sunscreen in the morning! Everyone should use sunscreen of course, but exfoliators and other actives make your skin even more sensitive to the sun. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/16 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Skincare + Anti Aging MegathreadI just wrote a very long sunscreen comment here please check it out! Hope it helps! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/16 04:12 PM |
| 4 | Skincare + Anti Aging MegathreadMy picks are a rotation of Japanese sunscreens, because when it comes to skincare I just can't stick to one thing! Some in my rotation: Disclosure: These are all Amazon non-affiliate links so people here can easily find prices and other reviews (even though I personally shop these on Ebay and Rakuten and not Amazon). Biore Perfect Face Milk - Says it's water resistant, I personally like the finish and can use it under makeup with no issues. Biore Perfect Milk - This is great for going out in my … | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/16 04:07 PM |
| 9 | Everything is perfect except there's rarely sexAre these complaints reasonable or are you two just not compatible? I'm hamstering because it's becoming more common. This is a non-answer. Why are you with him? Do you want marriage? It sounds like you two are incompatible because he requires a girlfriend that shares his very particular views/approaches on specific niches, and perhaps the physical attraction is not there. It sounds like he's not reproaching some annoying habit, but your personality. Do you think you would have broken up by now,… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/16 05:04 AM |
| 5 | It's Almost Hilarious How Terrible This Advice IsYes, the intention is good, but in many ways they don't foresee how the actual execution will turn out. For example, I was raised without this bizarre approach, yet I was still instilled a strong sense of bodily autonomy. So I concluded such an extreme measure is unnecessary. Of course, had I been raised in a manner that made me feel my words didn't matter regarding my body, I would perhaps end up overcorrecting this in my parenting. Maybe the author is coming from this perspective. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/16 04:15 AM |
| 6 | It's Almost Hilarious How Terrible This Advice IsWell written, this is a whole subject in itself! Also, people don't get that when you give something a lot of emphasis it makes it a big deal and children get their first sense of wrongness and alert from their parents, so now a big human component (bonding and gesturing through casual touch) is this alien intrusion because the parent treated it as such. Really I think this is why the article irked me. I'm super into the idea of giving my future children the confidence to assert their bodily bou… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/16 04:04 AM |
| 6 | It's Almost Hilarious How Terrible This Advice IsI get what you're saying, and it's a balanced approach, but the article went way beyond what you're saying. You can teach your child boundaries and bodily autonomy while still maintaining authority over them. The way the article wants parents to act will make these poor children hypersensitive to touch, hyper-aware of physical interactions (how will they process how other kids relate to them?) and overall make them process the world in a very bizarre, alienating way. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/07/16 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Why I Am Not A Men's Rights ActivistI agree it shouldn't be illegal. At best, I would like the practice to be done on consenting adults only, just because babies can't consent. But I wouldn't go as far as making a law and charging parents that decide on following this tradition. Just more awareness and informed decisions. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/07/16 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Why I Am Not A Men's Rights ActivistGreat points all around. Personally, I came to know the red pill from MRAs. If it wasn't for the youtube side of the MRM (starting with Feminism and the Disposable Male by Karen Straughan) I wouldn't have shifted my views in the way that allowed me to embrace RPW when I first encountered it. So in that sense I thank them. They were the first opposition to mainstream feminism I came to know. That said, even then I noticed many problems with the movement. Like many people have noticed, they are ex… | /r/RedPillWives | 12/07/16 03:16 AM |
| 3 | Why I Am Not A Men's Rights ActivistOut of curiosity, why are you pro circumcision? I'll comment more after I read the article. | /r/RedPillWives | 12/07/16 02:49 AM |
| 17 | The first reviews for the all-female-led Ghostbusters reboot are in, and they’re not good.It's not even properly done. They're not making new exciting roles for women, they're taking existing male characters and shoehorning women into them. Like it's not a good solution to any side of the argument. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/07/16 07:15 PM |
| 5 | The first reviews for the all-female-led Ghostbusters reboot are in, and they’re not good.Grouchy lesbians | /r/RedPillWives | 11/07/16 07:13 PM |
| 5 | My Husband beat me at a bar in public: what do I do now?But women aren't allowed to read? How can you call yourself a good woman if you read? Reported | /r/RedPillWives | 11/07/16 07:02 PM |
| 5 | RPWi Weekly Reflections: Lucky Summer Days 07/11/2016It's just typical best friend jealousy. I've seen this a lot, she's looking for subtle ways to undermine your happiness because you're succeeding in a way she isn't right now. I'd say most women react like this and it's truly rare to find a friend who honestly supports you in every way even if it means you're upstaging them in some way. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/07/16 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Not So 'Committed' After AllOr any excitement of a new thing before it shows itself difficult. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/07/16 12:51 AM |
| 3 | Not So 'Committed' After Alland because it made women think that their lives would be better if their surroundings changed This is a very true thing and a common trend. Women love idea of spiritual yoga retreats for this very reason, it makes them feel like they're learning something and also puts them in a scenic place far away to forget about reality. It also reminded me of your excellent post about women who travel! | /r/RedPillWives | 11/07/16 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Not So 'Committed' After AllWell put! I really identified with the "warm blanket from the dryer" happiness you referred to. Your experience reminded me of Dan Gilbert's book and TED talk about how happiness sorts of regulates by itself and it's not a product of circumstances overall. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/07/16 12:46 AM |
| 4 | Femininity Case Study: Alla KushnirShakira was my first introduction to belly dancing! To be honest I haven't tried it, and I know dancers here who aren't particularly slender so I never thought of it as a workout before. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/07/16 12:38 AM |
| 2 | A man of many faces - makeup goes a LONG way!Yep will do! working my way through the threads :D | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 10:18 PM |
| 2 | A man of many faces - makeup goes a LONG way!True! For that one I just thought he did a really fake "feminine" expression, but if you see the original snow white, the animation is really overacted and ridiculous! That movie did not age well. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 09:58 PM |
| 2 | A man of many faces - makeup goes a LONG way!I didn't mean Ariel looked natural lol, I think Ariel looks fake because of the lip and hair color and fake lashes, but it's the one where he looks less masculine. It looks like a woman with too much makeup to me. I agree his Pocahontas look was an Instagram look, but I also think the Instagram look is heavily inspired by drag. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 09:54 PM |
| 1 | What are your unpopular opinions?So late to this and no one will see it, but by now all my opinions are pretty unpopular and unflattering to my "group" (both as part of the "woman" group and the "Mexican" group). People expect you to have a bias towards those groups you loosely belong to but I really differentiate between "benefits me personally" vs. "I see as right or wrong objectively" and I don't know why other people struggle with that difference. This is why I don't feel personally insulted when people have negative opinio… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 09:45 PM |
| 3 | What are your unpopular opinions?I agree with you and my relationship is similar. We have different backgrounds (different cultures, both under the umbrella of Christianity though) but it extends to what we ate as children, local festivities and stuff like that, we're otherwise pretty much in tune regarding values and life goals. I think it has to be really spelled out for it to work, no surprises. I feel that when it fails (and that is most of the time) it's because they had different hidden expectations, or the extended famil… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 09:37 PM |
| 2 | A man of many faces - makeup goes a LONG way!It's true that is angular, but not that elongated. He's clearly a male to me in that shot at least. The one that tricked me the most is Ariel! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Insulting a Man while Cultivating AdorationI do this! I didn't analyze it before, but I guess it's about exaggerating the contrast between your vulnerability and his masculine traits. It gets the point across while it's still flattering to him somehow. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 09:30 PM |
| 7 | A man of many faces - makeup goes a LONG way!He particularly nails the manic princess look. Exaggerating the eyes is the most effective trick to achieve a feminine look. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 09:26 PM |
| 4 | A man of many faces - makeup goes a LONG way!I thought his Pocahontas was his most masculine, but it's probably because he can't hide the man jaw and the shoulders. Overall he achieves big eyes and smooth soft skin that are, as you mentioned, great markers of neoteny. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 09:10 PM |
| 2 | [Insanity] Barefoot Contessa's latest book focuses on cooking meals that her husband enjoys...apparently this undermines her career and reputation"Is anyone else triggered by the Barefoot Contessa's latest cookbook title?" I thought that subtitle really reads as parody, but the rest of the article seems in line with what modern "journalists" aim for so I'm confused! I personally think it's bizarre to nitpick over such a matter. But I've seen it often to believe it, women now have to justify their interests and find a way to make it properly individualistic instead of admit that they might be doing things to please others. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Appreciation is a VirtueYes, appreciation and gratefulness isn't emphasized enough. I'm just catching up with general RPW sub and I like this rush of new threads about gratitude, while also the ones noting the selfishness involved in the feminist movement and modern women in general. People in general now have much more that they can appreciate anyway. It really doesn't matter if it's because of religion or personal values, any woman should make a point of exercising gratefulness. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Free With Purchase Pins Prove Too Sharp To HandleNot surprised that this is an actual qualm in MakeupAddiction, where women go to justify their shopping addiction as a hobby and therefore as something "entirely for themselves". I'm glad there was a comment acknowledging that most women don't use makeup like that. I used to love pins of bands I liked, but I never really used the phrase ones so I'm not this brands target audience either. | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 07:03 PM |
| 5 | Feminist Envy Of The BeautifulWhich would you choose between a person who takes time to look presentable, has a good attitude, and works hard, or a woman who throws clothes on, does no work towards her appearance, and scowls all day? My thoughts as well. I feel it's also very hard today to truly be ugly. You'd have to have the worst genes ever for it, but other than that, for people plain and up, a lot of it is disposition, presentation and maintenance, which are habits, and habits are part of a person's character. It's imma… | /r/RedPillWives | 10/07/16 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Busted!I definitely relate to the personal responsibility part. Sometimes I want to be babied, so I know what the author meant there. I don't want to think too hard and struggle. That's definitely the female childlikeness peeking through. But irl my SO requires me to be smart and capable because we're a team. A lot of men require a more independent woman they can trust to pull their weight. And some women like a dynamic that is more like parent-child which is okay but that doesn't mean it's the RPW dyn… | /r/RedPillWives | 28/05/16 12:49 PM |
| 8 | [Theory] The complete guide to Sparkling Water.Thank you for writing this. It definitely needed to be said. It's saddening that the feminine art of sipping water has been lost thanks to feminism. One question, though. What if I just have a sparkling water can instead of a bottle? I feel like the instructions could be a little vague for this situation? And maybe for the new RPWs? There's definitely need for more examples, like in the media. Here's an example I just found, which one is the right way? Thanks in advance for the clarifications. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/16 03:37 AM |
| 5 | What is your favorite method of sipping sparkling water?new mantra, ladies | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/16 02:56 AM |
| 11 | What is your favorite method of sipping sparkling water?I make sangria with it because I secretly put alcohol in everything | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/16 02:41 AM |
| 4 | What is your favorite method of sipping sparkling water?Don't you mean the coffee table your boyfriend built for you? We all know women can't carry, let alone build furniture. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/05/16 02:37 AM |
| 3 | MyFitnessPal RedPillWives group - come join us! (HOWTO join included)Made an account to join... let's see if that keeps me accountable! I have really been slacking off lately. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/05/16 11:12 PM |
| 1 | The chair situation.I seriously don't understand how this becomes an issue. It's such a non-issue. Honestly if I want to move furniture I do it, and if I can't, I ask for help so we both move it, I don't request someone to do the whole thing as if I hired them and then be pissy they haven't. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/16 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Where's the beef?/u/Camille11325 | /r/RedPillWives | 23/05/16 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Some RP Comedy - Iliza ShlesingerLol I just got around and watched it. Her style is not exactly my sense of humor but some parts are so true! I am also watching her previous standup War Paint. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/05/16 01:14 AM |
| 6 | Relationship Dynamics Part 1.5LL women still want men who are more dominant than them, they just don't need more than 50% of alpha traits in a man to feel arousal. This is key! The confusion is supported by a subjective assessment of what alpha behaviors are. I think that a lot of women fixate on the labels and an invented identity that maybe represents their "best" self that they aspire to be like. Yes, and this is a risk that comes with every self-assessment. But I also think it is influenced subconsciously by taking in RP… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/05/16 05:58 PM |
| 5 | Relationship Dynamics Part 1.5I understand your confusion and I think it's common in the sub. The reason there's a constant confusion between HLH and LLL self-assessment to me would be twofold (my opinion though, not the original author's view, which would be much more insightful): LLL sounds like the man is low or even equal in dominance to her. But this isn't true, it just means the man is low in dominance on an alpha-beta trait scale. It doesn't mean he is pure beta, but that beta qualities are more prevalent than alpha q… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/05/16 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Where's the beef?Camille had a LDR guide a while back. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/05/16 10:03 PM |
| 4 | Relationship Dynamics Part 1.5Didn't know about the female archetypes! On these I definitely fit madonna + courtesan. Paul Rudd and Leslie Mann embody a LHL on Knocked Up and This is 40. Example that also displays her mother + warrior characteristics. Paul Rudd is routinely typecasted as the L guy. In I Love You, Man he and Rashida Jones embody a LLL couple, I am looking for clips right now but can't find any that show it. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/16 11:58 PM |
| 5 | There is no such thing as PerfectThank you for writing this. I've been thinking about this for some time. I am also very private and don't really externalize stuff very often, but yes, if we sum this to a collection of women who are only sharing words of wisdom and no faults, it might seem like we're in this untouchable summit unaffected by the behaviors we condemn. It also reminds me how women (well, people in general, but women in particular since it’s what I notice more) interact in social media like there’s this need of tra… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/16 10:52 PM |
| 3 | How to Handle a Depressed HusbandLol, it would seem disjointed and incoherent at this point. Everything about this person is so off-putting, from how they came here with their condescending petname as if they were friendly with you (ew) to their ridiculous baseless analogy. You're much more patient than I would be! | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/16 09:19 PM |
| 5 | How to Handle a Depressed HusbandOMG you're so quick with the removals, I was just about to publish my answer haha. Have all my upvotes in this exchange. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/16 09:09 PM |
| 2 | May 2016 Events!Lol, I was thinking about this just yesterday. It would definitely have to be postponed, I believe. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/16 03:02 PM |
| 2 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!Misogyny! | /r/RedPillWives | 18/05/16 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Hate sex, hate relationships, hate work. What could I possibly do with my life?Isn't there some sort of convent you could join? But I don't know the convent standards today, I don't think they would allow you to browse the Internet all day. My favorite female historical figure was a nun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/16 11:22 PM |
| 3 | 1,000 Subscribers!!! New users, come say 'Hello' :)Yay for our growing sub! I am looking forward to hear from the new subscribers and lurkers :) | /r/RedPillWives | 17/05/16 08:21 PM |
| 2 | 1,000 Subscribers!!! New users, come say 'Hello' :)Lol, me too! I have a fixed answer, no matter the question I choose. It's like a second password. In any case they would need even more information, like your accounts and real name, which is very unlikely to be able to gather in these types of communities. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/05/16 08:16 PM |
| 2 | 1,000 Subscribers!!! New users, come say 'Hello' :)I thought they meant these were common questions used for password recovery (mother's maiden name, first pet, etc). I remember they were suggested questions for Hotmail, for example. Nowadays there are more steps involved in password recovery (like linking your phone number or another e-mail account) so it's not that risky anymore. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/05/16 08:11 PM |
| 2 | 1,000 Subscribers!!! New users, come say 'Hello' :)Rachel Blaze - PERFECT! Lol, this really sounds like the name of an upcoming brunette porn actress or something like that :P | /r/RedPillWives | 17/05/16 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Brag About Your SO!!!Happy birthday! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/05/16 01:44 AM |
| 1 | If male and female brains are different, doesn't that prove transgenders are right?I think you're misunderstanding me, I was giving you an example of how they would explain to themselves they are feeling female ("liking feminine things" and "disliking own genitalia/gender roles"), but that doesn't mean I think that's a legitimate way of "feeling female", since not all women are girly or inclined to like the female look or role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/16 09:10 PM |
| 1 | If male and female brains are different, doesn't that prove transgenders are right?I'm pretty sure tomboys with a short hair cut and no makeup still identify as women though (I assume that's what you mean at least) Yeah, I mean, they know they are women because it's a given. Gender as self-perception is a new thing, so for women it's not even a question if they "feel" like women. I don't see why trans women would hate their dicks though. Would it help, instead. GID involves disgust at their own genitalia. There's no "reasoning" with it, as far as I know. I am unsure if you thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/16 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Brag About Your SO!!!Congratulations! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/05/16 05:24 PM |
| 4 | If male and female brains are different, doesn't that prove transgenders are right?No, they just want womanhood as far as their maleness understands it: being a pretty girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/16 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Examples of Red Pill Wives and Red Pill Husbands in Media(she's where I got my name) I was wondering about that! Brienne is actually a good RP woman example. Not aesthetically pleasing and not exactly feminine but her devotion and willingness to defer. I agree. She is loyal. I don't watch the show or read the books (I've watched some episodes and read the wikia to fill in some gaps), but most of the royal women, while womanly, aren't loyal, they're just trying to position themselves or their children. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/05/16 05:21 PM |
| 3 | If male and female brains are different, doesn't that prove transgenders are right?I don't really think I "feel female" (except for when I'm having my period and even then, it's more of a oh here we go again) No woman does, really. They identify with the female look and the idea of femininity, that's all. And at worst, they hate their dicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/16 05:08 PM |
| 3 | If male and female brains are different, doesn't that prove transgenders are right?autogynephilia Yep, this. Being "woman" as a male fantasy. That's why all of them are very formulaically girly as understood by the male-gaze (using this at the risk of sounding feminist lol) and not like the variety of real women that exist out there. At least would explain why there's more apparent MTF than FTM. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/16 05:01 PM |
| 1 | If male and female brains are different, doesn't that prove transgenders are right?I think dysmorphia causes the 'legit' trasgenderism (the one that would require the penis to be removed for the MTF's peace of mind or else she kills herself), and not the general "being uncomfortable by gendered toys and clothing preferences in childhood" which is most of the current dysphoric narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/16 04:55 PM |
| 1 | If male and female brains are different, doesn't that prove transgenders are right?Not really all of them. Many of them think like that but they are currently excluded by the intersectional majority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/16 04:47 PM |
| 3 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!She is routinely given mass kneejerk downvotes since her fat people video, regardless of what the newer videos are about. Even when she's saying the most PC shit she'll get the comment section filled with butthurt insults. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/05/16 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Self-Care MegaThread!You don't 'have' to do anything, but as long as you can see sunlight, UV rays are present. There are many sunscreens designed for interior use (mainly Japanese, like the famous Biore Watery Essence) that are light enough and comfortable for daily use. That said, it's really about how anal you are about the whole thing, some people won't really care that much, and others go to great lengths to minimize UV exposure. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/05/16 03:22 AM |
| 4 | Self-Care MegaThread!Yes I have very little lid space and understand your frustration. I guess the upside of this is I don't need more than a neutral quad for my eye looks, so my wallet is not suffering every time there's a new palette out there! | /r/RedPillWives | 13/05/16 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Sigma appreciation moment.Thank you for your in depth explanation! Very interesting, although I wouldn't really think of cult leaders as sigmas. More like renegade alphas (which I know it's characterized as sigma by some as well but I can't help but think there's a nuance), since they do tend to have cult of personality and social influence. But in a way, a talented artist creates that too as a result of their craft. I guess in my mind I separate socially-based power (physicality, charismatic extraversion, all alpha char… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/05/16 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Self-Care MegaThread!Have you seen missmai27's videos? I'd say hers because she actually has that sort of lid (many of these tutorials don't even feature a hooded eye person). The trick is to draw it with your eye open because it doesn't look the same as when you blink. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/05/16 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Sigma appreciation moment.Yes, I am totally into sigma! There's so much mystery and confusion around this character and it rarely gets talked about. To be quite honest, I've never characterized their type as 'mad scientist' because I haven't met science-inclined men who I'd identify as sigma males. Most of my real life understanding of sigmas comes from the artist and writer types (quintessentially ISFP, MBTI-wise) who know the game, can play the game with success when talent is present, but don't care for the game. I wo… | /r/RedPillWives | 13/05/16 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Is being a perfect fit with his family just a fairytale?I thought your post was clear, but maybe they are answering to cover other MIL type-qualms readers could have. :) You know, you might absolutely find hidden stuff like that. When my ex crashed his car, I spent a huge amount of time alone with his mother, and she was more interesting than she initially seemed. She disliked me, but we bonded over crocheting and experiences with antidepressants (lol) and honestly there's a lot of common ground to be had with other women, it's just that they might n… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/05/16 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Is being a perfect fit with his family just a fairytale?Yeah, most people are replying to you as if they're ostracizing you or being hostile but it's not the case at all with families that are well rounded and otherwise great but you just don't mesh because your background is so different. Someone recommended cooking as a way to get close to them, and I think that's good advice. Find some common ground and keep an open mind. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/05/16 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Smash it Down vs AcceptanceThank you for this, Stingray! You are always very wise with your words. I think many people still think RPW is about suppressing and brushing off our own turmoil for the sake of being calm and collected in our role. But in the long run this tends to backfire and is an enemy of vulnerability and ultimately intimacy. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/05/16 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Practicing VulnerabilityGreat guide, BSC! You're really stepping up your game here. I was recently vulnerable with my man and it surprises me how different I would have been in this stance pre-RPW. I didn't necessarily have a problem being feminine and in touch with my emotions, but in my emotionality I'd be reactive and defensive (aka very female, lol). I still can't express what happened in words, it's definitely been a cognitive change for me. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/05/16 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Examples of Red Pill Wives and Red Pill Husbands in MediaA lot of the examples would be grounded in a religious sense of duty and not necessarily a red pill knowledge/impulse of the dynamic at work. This is why the couples that would stand out to me would be outlow couples, mostly the cases of women doing anything for their man out of unwithering devotion, going beyond legality and social acceptance. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/05/16 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Is being a perfect fit with his family just a fairytale?This is a very good point. Many women are left to feel the outsider to the family because, well, they are still not part of it. | /r/RedPillWives | 11/05/16 05:35 PM |
| 6 | Is being a perfect fit with his family just a fairytale?I think it definitely can happen and it's a plus, but don't count on it as a "must". I know what you mean about feeling snobbish for being used to a more substantial conversation - that's why socioeconomic compatibility matters (and many people tend to forget the 'socio' aspect of the word, it goes beyond income level). You'd have to define how much it really matters to you. My ex, for example, was really close to his extended family (cousins, grandparents) and they all got together constantly t… | /r/RedPillWives | 11/05/16 05:30 PM |
| 1 | [Repost]: Decide to be HappyThis is about character values, essentially. It's natural to want approval to an extent, and especially that of your husband, but let's also remember virtue is often its own reward. I am often pleased to have done something a certain way because of the knowledge that I did it right, regardless of praise. Of course, a balance is needed, and no one can go their whole life receiving absolutely no positive feedback, but we also have to be wary of transactional thinking. but am very guilty of chiming… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/05/16 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Are these "toxic behaviours really toxic?Good idea, I'll make it a thread for the people who haven't seen it. Edit: I realized /u/lifterofthings was the one who made an original thread about this so I'll ask her if she'd like to repost it! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/05/16 05:27 PM |
| 8 | Are these "toxic behaviours really toxic?and the latter "flaws" are something you need to either ignore or enjoy because they are YOUR perception of what YOU find to be a flaw. AKA the Price of Admission | /r/RedPillWives | 06/05/16 03:56 PM |
| 5 | Dating stories! The good, the bad, and the hilarious!This is amazing. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/05/16 02:06 PM |
| 0 | Celebrity women who like being a "traditional wife"My comment was written in a more general sense and wasn't meant to single out these women in particular. I don't even know who that lady is! I mean, sure, you can categorize her as you please. I really don't think it would matter. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/05/16 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Celebrity women who like being a "traditional wife"Working ≠ careerist | /r/RedPillWives | 03/05/16 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Celebrity women who like being a "traditional wife"I personally don't believe "celebrity" and "traditional" can go in the same sentence for women. They are careerist women first and foremost, unless they forgo stardom and give up their careers after having started a family. Sure they can talk the talk, but there are no guarantees they're walking the walk. As far as we know, that's just the image they present to the public. That's not to say they can't be deferential, but it's certainly not done in a traditional way. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/05/16 05:09 PM |
| 2 | How The Government Is Robbing Men Of Good WivesGreat article! Women, like Icarus to the sun... | /r/RedPillWives | 03/05/16 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Celebrity women who like being a "traditional wife"Ironically, her role in The Hobbit was modernly created to satisfy the feminist need for a "badass chick" in movies. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/05/16 04:14 PM |
| 1 | What is your before bed routine?Mists can be considered toners, yes, but they're also a category now, I believe! I use one of those thermal spring water sprays that do nothing and a propolis mist regularly throughout the day. Adding light layers of moisture seems to work well with my skin. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/05/16 11:48 PM |
| 2 | May 2016 Events!The Total Woman No kindle edition? :( | /r/RedPillWives | 02/05/16 10:57 PM |
| 2 | May 2016 Events!Oh I follow her YouTube channel but haven't really bought any of her books. What would be the one you like the most? | /r/RedPillWives | 02/05/16 10:53 PM |
| 7 | May 2016 Events!I'd like to discuss Fascinating Womanhood, only because I've only been starting reading it! Two birds with one stone yay. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/05/16 10:52 PM |
| 2 | How would RPW react if the husband does something incredibly stupid?IIRC that's actually part of the surrendered wife mindset, and you have to understand the context of this is a step program for overly critical wives to stop their nagging ways. It's not a hard RPW rule or anything for every case in every relationship. It's just like how 'having one drink' has an entirely different meaning to a recovering alcoholic than to an infrequent social drinker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/16 07:47 PM |
| 2 | How was your first encounter with Red Pill theory/RP communities?Yay! I remember your story from your field report. I'm glad you've found improvement in this community. | /r/RedPillWives | 02/05/16 04:47 PM |
| 6 | What should I blog about?Hey margerym! Well, you might not know me as I only lurked when you were a regular, but I was always a fan of GirlsBeingGirls as well as your (defunct?) blog. I'd like more insights into the married + kids life, and I personally don't look for a blog to be extremely focused in an area. Some examples: I'd enjoy homemaking and entertaining, cooking, cultural criticism, philosophy, etc. Also, if we could bring back any good GBG post to the sub, that would be amazing! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/05/16 11:34 PM |
| 3 | The 7 Habits of a Highly Effective ShrewVery eye opening indeed. I know the biggest shrew in the world, and it's an utter pain to see how many of these habits are deeply ingrained, to the point that a man can't drive in peace without being criticized for every single micro-decision he makes. And really, what is the point to all of this? It makes everyone miserable. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/04/16 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Repost - sex is important, k?I really loved how her comment was delivered. It had some pragmatical points, aside from "be a good wife to him just because you should". I wonder if her message has changed any dead bedrooms for the better. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/04/16 07:31 PM |
| 2 | How was your first encounter with Red Pill theory/RP communities?Every lit class I've had has been feminist, so I know the feeling. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/04/16 07:22 PM |
| 3 | How was your first encounter with Red Pill theory/RP communities?Lol, I can only imagine his surprise! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/04/16 07:20 PM |
| 2 | How was your first encounter with Red Pill theory/RP communities?I remember that thread, and that there was some controversy around it. The bottom line was that engaging in masculine activities did not make a better wife, and some users took offense. There was some discussion around whether or not engaging in these activities would lead to meeting a compatible man. It heavily depends on how 'rugged' a women is and what said man would want in a partner. Anyway, I'm glad you're participating in this new community. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/04/16 07:17 PM |
| 2 | How was your first encounter with Red Pill theory/RP communities?I understand your initial perspective. It's very easy for people to mistake women's rights with the whole scope of the feminist ideology. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/04/16 07:14 PM |
| 2 | How was your first encounter with Red Pill theory/RP communities?Did you reject femininity before finding the manosphere? | /r/RedPillWives | 30/04/16 07:10 PM |
| 3 | How was your first encounter with Red Pill theory/RP communities?You discovered RPW in such a timely manner, lol! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/04/16 07:09 PM |
| 2 | How was your first encounter with Red Pill theory/RP communities?Now that you mention forgetting about it and then re-discovering it, I did stumble upon a Roosh article long before I found RP communities. But at that time I just read it, was intrigued, thought to myself his findings didn't apply and then forgot all about it. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/04/16 07:08 PM |
| 2 | How was your first encounter with Red Pill theory/RP communities?We're all a work in progress :) I'm glad Google led you here. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/04/16 07:06 PM |
| 4 | How was your first encounter with Red Pill theory/RP communities?Your discovery was the same as mine! There's definitely no such thing as bad publicity. I'm glad you made an account and are participating so actively! | /r/RedPillWives | 30/04/16 07:06 PM |
| 2 | How was your first encounter with Red Pill theory/RP communities?I've read about your situation and I hope it improves! I'm glad you're participating here. | /r/RedPillWives | 30/04/16 07:04 PM |
| 2 | How was your first encounter with Red Pill theory/RP communities?This is very interesting. What was the thing that made you cross over? | /r/RedPillWives | 30/04/16 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD, how do you feel about sharing restrooms with transgender women?Don't we matter in our own movement anymore? Exactly! It's coming full circle. But there are transwomen only spaces where cis women cannot be. I feel like a 2nd class citizen sometimes, and it alienates me from feminism. This is a very true trend that I am glad you are voicing. I am not a feminist, but I've given these matters a lot of reflection and I've been in every position of the debate. From trying to be super inclusive beyond coherence, to realizing that from my personal viewpoint, menstr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/16 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Women of PPD, how do you feel about sharing restrooms with transgender women?That's not really true. When trans people claim that they are women because they "feel like it" or "don't identify with their genitals", then they are changing the definition of what it means to be a woman from something that was defined biological and through socialization to something that can be chosen internally. I think that, as a woman, I have a right to protest, argue or reject the new definition of womanhood foisted on me. That's just how I feel. I agree with this. I am respectful of eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/16 07:21 PM |
| 2 | How was your first encounter with Red Pill theory/RP communities?I'm glad you submitted a more detailed answer! I was not raised conservatively, and was into "girl power" when I young. However, after gaining life experience I came to realize a lot of that was idealistic and untrue. Samesies! I had the most 90s upbringing ever. The cult of self-esteem, consolation prizes, neon hiking shoes and Lisa Frank stationary! My current planner is still super nineties, lol. Honestly I had a very open upbringing, searching truth and knowledge was really encouraged and I … | /r/RedPillWives | 29/04/16 07:02 PM |
| 4 | How was your first encounter with Red Pill theory/RP communities?How was that introduction? Did he just link you? Did the subject come up in random conversation? I think it's amazing that he gave you this community :) I am sure many women share these ideas but haven't found a like minded circle and feel isolated. I have no aversion to RP ideas or concepts, only to weird extreme interpretations that are peddled by insecure, low-value males. Great observation. I think this can be a deterrent for a lot of women. That we are suddenly put in a position to defend i… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/04/16 06:11 PM |
| 5 | How was your first encounter with Red Pill theory/RP communities?How did you arrive to TRP Chat to begin with? I'm always curious when I see IRC regulars aren't reddit regulars! Is there a "random" way to navigate IRCs? I'm glad the mods didn't give up on you! | /r/RedPillWives | 29/04/16 06:08 PM |
| 2 | How was your first encounter with Red Pill theory/RP communities?1) I found the red pill through a BP friend. He was always a redditor, and I never got into the site (I had seen it previously when noticing an AMA that interested me - I never cared for the layout). He disapproved of it and linked the TRP sub as mockery. This piqued my interest because it mentioned masculinity, and I was already well into the antifeminist part of YouTube (Having watched all of Karen Straughan videos). In hindsight I am glad that I just read the sidebar and then went directly to… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/04/16 05:42 PM |
| 3 | My journey to becoming vulnerable and of higher value to my SO (1 of 2).Thank you for this field report. I really appreciate that you didn't try to embellish the different aspects of your own conflict and have presented your raw thoughts. This actually shows vulnerability! Many people take field reports as a way to only report successes, not ongoing struggles. I am looking forward to part two. I personally would like to read more reflection on the weight of his praise in contrast to your own self-motivation to improve. It seems you tend to blur external praise and i… | /r/RedPillWives | 29/04/16 05:11 PM |
| 2 | A Captain trying to help his first mateTheology of the Body | /r/RedPillWives | 29/04/16 04:14 PM |
| 2 | An Update After The Flood And A HUGE Thank You!I'm really glad you're both okay! Although it really sucks that your fund page was deleted just like that. | /r/RedPillWives | 29/04/16 03:27 AM |
| 2 | A few honest questions for RPWisyes | /r/RedPillWives | 29/04/16 03:17 AM |
| 2 | A Captain trying to help his first mateDid RPW resonate with you from the start? I feel there's a fundamental difference between people who encounter it and it makes sense vs. people who react defensively and then get it (vs. people who never do). I feel unequipped to respond to these threads because 1) I didn't find it through my SO, but on my own 2) my SO isn't from TRP or reddit 3) I found it to be true from the start. I'm curious to hear more about women in OP's wife situation and how it started to make sense to them. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 10:19 PM |
| 5 | Ending the date firstWhat's there to explain? It's manipulative behavior, and it doesn't stop there. You picked an innocent enough action that can get a pass, but I'm going to expand on the core implications of this kind of 'rules' advice we now find on the mainstream and why we don't advise this course of action here. Doing it for the sake of getting a certain outcome (i.e. 'leaving him wanting more' instead of truly wanting to end it) is in itself acting covertly and not honestly. Let's note that a lot of the tact… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Simple QuestionsRight when I am replying to this comment, underneath the box where I am typing there's hyperlinked text saying "formatting help" and if you click it, it will show you some formatting tips. There's also the reddit wiki that is more thorough. You don't necessarily have to explain why you edited a post. If I am editing typos or weird phrasing I usually don't explain it. If your edit will disrupt comment continuity (for example, if someone has already replied to you, and your edit would make their r… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 08:21 PM |
| 13 | Ending the date firstThese kinds of tactics will land you a beta man you can (and will) manipulate. They're set up to covertly vie for power right from the start. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 07:56 PM |
| 2 | What is your favourite quote?I can't pick a single quote, but my two favorite people to quote would be Oscar Wilde and Jorge Luis Borges. The first, for his wittiness. The second, because he is the best writer ever to exist. A few picks: Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much. I've lived by this and never found myself dwelling on an adversary. To fall in love is to create a religion that has a fallible god. This resonates with me and my relationship history. Don't talk unless you can improve the silence. S… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 07:33 PM |
| 3 | A Captain trying to help his first mateNot only that but 'discovering' it puts her in a defensive mindset, she's already emotionally reactive and using derogatory language to approach it (stepford, slavery...). Unfortunately it varies from women to women and for some of them it simply won't resonate with words. OP your best hope is to transform yourself for the relationship's benefit and hopefully it will start making sense to her. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 07:08 PM |
| 2 | RPW Film Club: "Crazy, Stupid, Love"This is true. It's also what I've felt is kind of missing of the 1-10 SMV rating scale. There's no sexy-cute spectrum but they're two different parameters of nothot-hot notcute-cute summed to result in 'attractive'. Cute+Sexy is perfect for the MMV because it calls for protection (neotenized cuteness) but also passion. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 06:53 PM |
| 3 | The Lost Art of the Handwritten CardGreat idea! My mother got me some cards that are mostly blank but have a little hand-painted watercolor flower on them and I like that they aren't completely blank but they're still clean looking. On the topic of cards as crafts, when I was little I was taught how to make parchment craft cards and that was fun (even though I feel they look extremely dated today anyway). One of my favorite things now is collecting postcards and I am working towards designing greeting cards myself. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Update: 29F, virgin... Depressed and thinking of going on monk mode.Definitely go to therapy. That is beyond our scope, we can tell you what to change, but we can't make you change it. | /r/RedPillWives | 26/04/16 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Man Friendly Beauty: Makeup Dos and Don'tsI use that one mostly as blush, it tastes like rose scent! But I do have the red benebalm as well, I really like it. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/04/16 11:01 PM |
| 3 | RPW Film Club: "Crazy, Stupid, Love"I never found Ryan Gosling to be empty Of course not, they want you to like the character and see he is not shallow and has some content underneath, which the girl-the-audience-will-identify-with uncovers. They want you to show his lifestyle is missing someone like her. She was a really unremarkable character to me, like, why is she so worth it? Because she's drunk and awkward and doesn't have a mouth filter? They place the bar so low, like he must only be doing airhead bimbos before her so she … | /r/RedPillWives | 25/04/16 04:23 PM |
| 3 | RPW Film Club: "Crazy, Stupid, Love"I must say I didn't rewatch the movie and am going from what I can remember from it + the linked reviews. Did you like the movie? Not really. I (secretly) live for the romantic comedy genre but this is film seemed unremarkable to me, I think I've put it as background noise a few times and have to remind myself to the plot. I think it's because I generally dislike Emma Stone's acting. Favorite parts/quotes? I liked the Demi Moore/Ashton reference, since it's now dated. What did the movie get righ… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/04/16 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Update: 29F, virgin... Depressed and thinking of going on monk mode.It's true, a lot of people find relationships without looking for them and it's all very romantic. But as a 29 year old with no relationship history to speak of, you're clearly clinging on to a fantasy so you don't have to step out of your comfort zone at all. this is exactly why I am thinking of going on full monk Mode How would this help anything? And you aren't even doing it out of self improvement, you're doing it to tell yourself the lie that being alone is your choice. | /r/RedPillWives | 25/04/16 03:09 PM |
| 6 | Update: 29F, virgin... Depressed and thinking of going on monk mode.I'm sorry about that. I know you're not here for financial advice but if you find alternative ways to supplement your income/live on less, this is very important. Being overworked is not sustainable if you want to get married and have a family in the next years, and that is a priority. I also think you might need to meet men in non-date settings. Personally, I've always found it weird when people only date by purposely setting dates in dating-focused sites. It might be good for you to meet peopl… | /r/RedPillWives | 25/04/16 12:05 AM |
| 7 | Update: 29F, virgin... Depressed and thinking of going on monk mode.I think you can work on yourself while not being in monk mode? It's not, like, mutually exclusive. Seriously stop working so much that you can't meet anyone new, this is your main problem. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/04/16 11:56 PM |
| 3 | How many times have you heard a TRPer say, "It's no offense to you, but I'm never going to get married."?Still, it's not advisable to go along in a relationship in the hopes to change his beliefs to match yours. You know him more than we do, perhaps they are not his true beliefs, but still keep that in mind. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/04/16 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Guide to Healthy Eating HabitsI've always been afraid that the opposite would happen if I did that to my future kids. That they would go crazy at their friend's houses. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/04/16 10:04 PM |
| 3 | FR: How I remodeled my body as I 'reddened'This is amazing! Thank you for this field report, it's definitely an inspiration. What you say is true, many people see marriage as the time to let themselves go because it seems like the finish line of the race. That is a very depressing worldview, if you think about it. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/04/16 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Etiquette: Chapters 1-3Thank you for this! I've been looking for a guide like this for quite sometime. How many chapters are there left? The dignity part also reminded me of what /u/cats_or_get_out usually says about not compromising your values when dating and I think it's definitely something important that reflects on your character. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/04/16 06:13 PM |
| 4 | Man Friendly Beauty: Makeup Dos and Don'tsRimmel products are pretty good and from the UK, their lip products are usually the ones that stand out. I think you should definitely check out the Lisa Eldridge YouTube channel, since she is from the UK and uses drugstore products consistently. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/04/16 06:03 PM |
| 8 | Man Friendly Beauty: Makeup Dos and Don'tsDefinitely Lisa Eldridge, but I'm sure you've heard of her already! She has a beginner playlist and her looks tend to be natural. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/04/16 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Man Friendly Beauty: Makeup Dos and Don'tsIt definitely depends on the quality of the shimmer. Cheap, chunky glitter-like shimmer is so so different from the look of a finely milled shimmer. | /r/RedPillWives | 24/04/16 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Man Friendly Beauty: Makeup Dos and Don'tsThank you so much for this thorough post! We've always had discussions about men and makeup, but never a thread so well presented. One thing that is my signature in makeup and men really like is using a really deep lipstick (MAC Rebel or Revlon Crush) as a stain instead of wearing its full intended color. It looks more natural to my complexion than using a 'nude' lip (which I believe to be an androgynous fashion trend women are tricked to think is natural-looking). It's also good to note that co… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/04/16 05:40 PM |
| 6 | Guide to Healthy Eating HabitsThat's amazing! A separate post field report would also be good to read :) | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 10:21 PM |
| 4 | IAmA: 7yr old 6'5" Chinese womanThe minute their 'wants' start dictating how I can/should behave and speak however - is where I start to have problems. Yes, this is the entire issue here. Not their existence. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 06:17 PM |
| 6 | IAmA: 7yr old 6'5" Chinese womanIt's a nuanced debate, but a lot of intersectional feminism in practice is about being inclusive for the sake of not offending. I've read about these subjects thoroughly and think that the ultimate solution would be to have single bathrooms with these signs on the door: "Bathroom with baby changing station" and "Bathroom with urinal", instead of communal bathrooms linked to perceived sex. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 06:15 PM |
| 5 | IAmA: 7yr old 6'5" Chinese womanOtherwise, I'm going to start insisting that I be allowed to write numerical amounts on a sheet of paper and exchange that for normal bills at the bank. OMG! My money is just as good as yours, you currency-normative scum! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Comfortable vs. Passionate RelationshipsWhen you can't quite trust the man, but you're passionate about him. That makes you more fearful of losing him, ergo more available and accommodating to his wishes and him. The opposite can be said when he gives you comfort. It's a slippery slope to complacency. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 06:06 PM |
| 5 | IAmA: 7yr old 6'5" Chinese womanYeah, as soon as he mentioned school, it got trickier. You can claim whatever in your own home, but letting a grown adult man befriend your elementary school kids? This is a point of contention between many people and intersectional feminists. Many think a biological male shouldn't be allowed in a girl's bathroom to protect the girls (compatible with the TERF opinion on the matter), while the intersectional feminists are more worried about offending transgendered individuals than the protection … | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Comfortable vs. Passionate RelationshipsYes, but to be honest, that's some effective dreading right there. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 05:53 PM |
| 2 | IAmA: 7yr old 6'5" Chinese womanThat's why I prefer children interviews lol. They're often hilarious! Editing is involved, of course, but it's more sincere. I really like the green shirt kid on this video! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Guide to Healthy Eating HabitsFor me, understanding I tend to overeat socially and due to stress was essential to changing these habits. I still have a long way to go regarding discipline, but it's important to first understand why we do what we do. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 05:47 PM |
| 4 | IAmA: 7yr old 6'5" Chinese womanStreet interviews are so insincere lol. Everyone saying whatever it takes in order to look open-minded. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 05:39 PM |
| 5 | Comfortable vs. Passionate RelationshipsWhat do you prefer in your own relationships: passion or comfort? Do I have to pick? Because I couldn't. Passion is extremely important to my attraction. Instead of comfort I would say "trust". Because the unstable passionate relationships are ones without it. Comfort is nice when it doesn't mean stagnancy, but then again what's comfort without passion? | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 05:31 PM |
| 5 | Comfortable vs. Passionate RelationshipsWell this is the roller coaster component of it. It's not just the fights, it's the hot sex after them. Everyone knows these relationships are tiring, but the 'high' after the low is too addictive to give up when there's primal attraction. That said, passion without trust doesn't last very long. It does wear you out. A lot of these people are young and, without knowing, are depending entirely on the sexual attraction aspect. The dynamic is more fragile than they think, but it certainly keeps wom… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 05:26 PM |
| 2 | How to be vulnerable.Anything could. OP wants to improve this part of herself and being like "don't do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable" is not conductive to improvement. Can you please get a flair? It's mandatory here. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 04:56 PM |
| 2 | How to be vulnerable.That's why I said "much", not "none at all". Anonymity is still way easier. | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 04:54 PM |
| 5 | How to be vulnerable.It's not complaining. It's talking to him about a problem. Complaining/whining focuses on the negative feelings associated with the problem and it's not geared towards finding a resolution. Talking to him about your problem is looking for a resolution. What kind of situation would you use this for, and how can you avoid coming off as whining when taking this approach? About the phrase you quoted, I think it's different advice for a different situation. Of course, I think endless whining is the w… | /r/RedPillWives | 20/04/16 12:36 AM |
| 4 | How to be vulnerable.Being open anonymously to Internet strangers doesn't require much vulnerability. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/04/16 10:23 PM |
| 3 | How to be vulnerable.Do you have any idea of how the path to progress can actually mean discomfort? | /r/RedPillWives | 19/04/16 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Houston FloodWow, heard of this and made sure my Texan friends were safe - I am glad Camille is safe too! A few members of my family had the same situation a few years ago. It's definitely difficult, not to mention pet lodging. I don't know who else is from Houston though so hopefully they're okay too! I remember SouthernPetite being from Texas but don't know her exact location. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/04/16 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Simple QuestionsI always thought the yellowness was when wearing really pigmented polishes? I usually use a neutral color as a base (like Revlon Checkmate) and then go on top with whatever other color I was going for. I don't really have a problem with remover destroying my fingernails... so I don't know about that. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/16 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Psychological FemininityLove this post. I still remember it as RYSPEP which is what I called it in my head. | /r/RedPillWives | 18/04/16 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Let's Share Fun Quizzes and Tests!Same here! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/04/16 05:55 AM |
| 4 | [REPOST] The Beginner's Guide To Building A House BinderOne of my favorite original submissions. Thanks for reposting! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/04/16 05:46 AM |
| 3 | The Pinnacle of a Composed WomanI was just a fan of ANTM in general as a teen and would watch other countries' editions. :) | /r/RedPillWives | 17/04/16 03:03 AM |
| 3 | The Pinnacle of a Composed WomanI used to watch it, but got tired of the endless cycles with unsuccessful winners and Tyra's histrionic personality. The Australian version of the show was better quality IMO. | /r/RedPillWives | 17/04/16 02:58 AM |
| 2 | The Pinnacle of a Composed WomanAmerica's Next Top Model | /r/RedPillWives | 17/04/16 02:54 AM |
| 1 | The Pinnacle of a Composed WomanThis reminded me of Anya from ANTM for some reason. I loved her refreshed attitude and no ill will towards anyone, despite other girls badmouthing her. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/04/16 06:22 PM |
| 6 | So I heard you ladies can cookUmmm I'll gain weight this week and it's ur fault thx | /r/RedPillWives | 16/04/16 07:19 AM |
| 3 | Online DatingLol, well, Facebook is the standard one for messaging right now, but it's okay not to add people if you don't want to. If you don't want to delete it, definitely curate it so it's not embarrassing. You can even temporarily delete it without getting rid of it if you don't want it to be permanent. I only use Facebook to message family & friends, reading articles and finding about events near me. It's not like you have to make posts if you don't want to! Phantom is right that e-mail is probably bes… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/04/16 02:45 AM |
| 3 | Online DatingA dating Twitter or something? OMG sorry but I laughed out loud at this. I'm trying to picture what a dating twitter would look like | /r/RedPillWives | 16/04/16 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Plates: A Few ClarificationsIf you don't mind, I would like a verbatim example of these conversations to understand how sex was brought up to the table in these real scenarios. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/04/16 02:22 AM |
| 3 | Plates: A Few ClarificationsWell you're kinda playing semantics, because you gave a definition that wasn't the one you would normally draw by context when reading Camille's response. What would come to your mind if I said "a calculating person"? Would it be "A person whose brain chooses an action based on some data?" | /r/RedPillWives | 16/04/16 02:14 AM |
| 5 | Plates: A Few Clarificationssubconscious, instinctual calculations. Then it's no calculation. To calculate is to aim for an effect and it implies rationality. An instinct is not a calculation. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/04/16 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Plates: A Few Clarificationsmost people have not been exposed to as many women as I have who make outright promises to their orbiters This is interesting. I want to know more about the women who suck at negotiating so hard that they actually have to bring up sex verbally. Any stories? | /r/RedPillWives | 16/04/16 01:18 AM |
| 5 | Plates: A Few ClarificationsAll of the actives are lying No, lying would be stating a falsehood. "I am your boyfriend now, we're exclusive" would be the lie. In your unreal scenario ("I'll give you sex if you fix my car") she is lying, but that doesn't actually happen. In a real case scenario a woman wouldn't lie (state a falsehood) to get this favor. She would rely on being suggestive in order to get her way. Suggesting doesn't need to come to a lie, it only requires the other party to believe the deception. It's a nuance… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/04/16 01:10 AM |
| 3 | Plates: A Few ClarificationsWell, it's wishful thinking during the scenario and it would be natural to read the implication as a good sign. I meant in the way the scenarios are discussed at the moment as if she actually promised sex when even Demonspawn admits this doesn't occur verbatim. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/04/16 12:56 AM |
| 3 | Plates: A Few ClarificationsJust right for balancing innuendo/flirtation/suggestion without ever getting locked into explicit promises she has no intention of following through on. Yeah, this is a very female negotiation tactic, and the fact that this is being confused as promising sex really shows how some men are completely clueless about verbal cues. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/04/16 12:46 AM |
| 5 | Plates: A Few ClarificationsI agree it's not done in good nature and I'm not defending it, but implying isn't promising. We're talking about a guy openly stating a commitment and then breaking that commitment/showing it was a lie vs. a woman feigning interest to get a favor but never actually stating sex is going to happen in exchange of that favor. I edited my previous comment to expand upon an example I think is more analogous than friendzoning. Now, if the dude was implying he miiiiight commit but never actually state s… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/04/16 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Plates: A Few ClarificationsActive Friendzoning: "If you fix my car I'll give you sex" When does this ever happen verbatim though? (Besides porn). At worst, a friendzoner flirts her way to free favors and maybe loosely implies interest to get her way. Someone promising sex in such a manner reads like fiction to me. As long as we hold men's resources and women's sex to have the same/similar value, these two are the same deception. I think a more analogous case would be trapping a man in a sexless marriage and then freeloadi… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/04/16 12:25 AM |
| 3 | Plates: A Few ClarificationsI read it as a joke, since the two first examples imply the girl is not actually that into the guy as the guy's version would make it seem, and in one of the examples she reads more as the one who is using the guy for free weed. | /r/RedPillWives | 16/04/16 12:19 AM |
| 3 | The “Women are Wonderful” EffectI feel sorry for everyone in that dynamic. Not only is he an idiot but the woman married one. For any bad trait a [fictional] husband has, it reflects twice as poorly on the woman IMO, because she picked him. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/16 07:17 PM |
| 1 | The “Women are Wonderful” EffectThis undermines the very foundation our greatest civilization was built on. I've had similar thoughts and want to expand upon this in my journal, can you link me to the blog entry pls? Edit: Oh, if you meant the "How to Genocide Inferior Kinds in a Properly Christian Manner" entry I am just reading it now lol. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/16 07:16 PM |
| 4 | Being WomanI'm just starting Fascinating Womanhood due to a recent suggestion and seeing it in my recommendations for quite some time. I'm just at the beginning though, and would love to see it featured in the future RPW book club. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/16 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Just for Fun: ColognesThis is why I like Jo Malone colognes. Their main criticism are that they are unoriginal and some of them resemble other (more complex) fragrances, but I honestly appreciate there's a streamlined collection out there for my much simpler nose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/16 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Plates: A Few ClarificationsI've seen users refer to women they have never had sex with as a 'plate.' Yep, I remember this. I've seen it with newbie RPers just getting in the game, and married men using it to describe flirty interactions. I think it ceases to be a proper denoting term and becomes a means to boost self esteem. This is where theory gets tricky inside a community: Does a word mean its meaning, or is its purpose to boost confidence? And when does it matter? I've come to notice that in RP communities, it all de… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/16 06:05 PM |
| 11 | Plates: A Few ClarificationsRecently I've been reading a lot of discussions around platehood and don't know whether to come to the conclusion that there's either a lot of misunderstanding/confusion in semantics, or an intentional effort to blur the lines of what it means to be a plate so men can broaden the circumstances where it applies. If ‘plate’ and ‘dating’ are interchangeable terms, then there’s no reason to use one term over the other. This is true. I’ve observed the part where it gets talked about interchangeably i… | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/16 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Just for Fun: ColognesI am the same way when the fragrance has too many notes (so, with the majority of today's formulas). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/16 04:40 PM |
| 3 | Just for Fun: ColognesYep, it'll be a whole Bath & Body Works line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/16 04:37 PM |
| 5 | Plates: A Few ClarificationsYep, I am seeing a Rock opera develop here. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/16 04:26 PM |
| 6 | Plates: A Few Clarificationsand Post-Wall Ennui: The Sequel. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/04/16 04:23 PM |
| 5 | Are we all just pre-wall prancers?Yep. Camille is awesome! | /r/RedPillWives | 14/04/16 02:54 PM |
| 5 | Welcome to RPW! Please Read Before PostingHey! I am so glad to see you're back. | /r/RedPillWives | 13/04/16 04:40 AM |
| 5 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!Lol she isn't serious though. I remember her from one of Milo's videos, she's with the whole free speech/antifeminist crowd. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 09:45 PM |
| 6 | The Happy Wives ClubFYI there's an actual Happy Wives Club, by Fawn Weaver. It's compatible with RPW (from what I've seen about the online community, haven't read her book) but not associated with RP so I guess it's easier to refer to offline without controversy. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 09:26 PM |
| 6 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!I'm convinced hell is made of feminist slam poetry | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 09:13 PM |
| 8 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!All men are pigs | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 09:10 PM |
| 6 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!Omg these are hilarious! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 09:08 PM |
| 4 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!So true! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 09:06 PM |
| 6 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!LOLolol! This is one I had not seen. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 09:03 PM |
| 4 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!Lol, love SMBC! | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 09:02 PM |
| 4 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!Don't crucify me, but I've always kinda liked those cake bride and groom figurines. Because it's done in jest rather than the actual sentiment behind it! A type of humor not everyone appreciates, lol. I also like those creative cakes in which bride and groom are fighting zombies, and stuff like that. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 08:58 PM |
| 5 | SHIT POST SATURDAY!Lol, I've always liked the Beyonce one. Also, when big recording studios produce rebellious music... The irony gives me a little smile. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 08:55 PM |
| 6 | Amoris Laetitia - The Joy of Love, written by Pope Francis. Thoughts?Meta: I think it's totally fair with the flair of discussion, which is what you picked, or culture (or even as BP example, but I don't think we have that flair?). Perhaps what could have been done is having submitted it as a text post and develop your argument in the text so it gains more attention and propels discussion. Unfortunately, I don't think many people would read a whole article without being sufficiently interested in the title or prompted by an initial comment from the OP. I think ev… | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 08:49 PM |
| 5 | Amoris Laetitia - The Joy of Love, written by Pope Francis. Thoughts?Oh, goodie! Thanks, I briefly read an outline yesterday but will definitely give it a thorough look as soon as I can. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 07:11 PM |
| 4 | Amoris Laetitia - The Joy of Love, written by Pope Francis. Thoughts?What do you think about JP II's Theology of the Body? I saw it mentioned in another thread as compatible with RPW but haven't read them. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 07:03 PM |
| 5 | What are the little things you love about your husband (or SO)?His amazing butt. Way out of my league. How could this man have noticed me? The way he is so chill about everything and maintains that chill when I consider it harder to. His laid back attitude becomes our frame. The face he makes when I caress his hair at night He's really smart and we seem to agree about everything that matters, which I guess isn't a "little thing" but I really can't leave the detail out because it's so important. He inspires womanliness in me. It's hard to be concise in this … | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 06:55 PM |
| 5 | FR - My Week Long Challenge to Not Nag My HusbandI just got more sulky, even though there was that ever so quiet voice in the back of my head saying how insane I was being. Gosh, this happens to me so much. In my head I know how insane it is but it still takes a few moments to talk myself into not sulking out. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 06:41 PM |
| 5 | How do I vet men?(well, sashimi for me) quite a lot. One of my favourite restaurant meals! Are you me? Hamachi sashimi is my life. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/04/16 12:55 AM |
| 3 | How do I seduce men without seeming ridiculous or desperate? How do I recognize signs of interest?Lol, yes, she was! I answered you in case you're linking in the future. Now you know how! | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 06:14 AM |
| 4 | Helpful Habit: "Is It Worth It?"A very good reminder for the overly talkative, especially if it leads to a bad dynamic. An important part of poise is to speak with a purpose, not fill silences with chatter. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 06:12 AM |
| 3 | How do I seduce men without seeming ridiculous or desperate? How do I recognize signs of interest?Just between subreddits! | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 06:09 AM |
| 5 | How do I seduce men without seeming ridiculous or desperate? How do I recognize signs of interest?Yes. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 06:06 AM |
| 5 | The case against being a plateLol, she is the absolute poster child for plates! I'll have to watch that movie again. My mom has that friend and the friendship sounds exhausting. The worst part is that he is married and she is widowed beyond salvation. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 04:31 AM |
| 3 | Shit Tests (101)If I hate his first suggestion, it turns out I DO mind, and I try to offer an alternative that he might like as well. This is great to keep in mind and be self aware. That happened to me with teamwork and it would be the most exasperating thing: I would come up with ideas and alternatives to those ideas and some teammates would put themselves in a position to reject the ideas without coming up with their own. It was annoying for many reasons, but what stuck to me the most was this feeling that t… | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 04:20 AM |
| 9 | WE'VE REACHED 500 SUBSCRIBERS!!!!(I get to be a married crazy cat lady! Two dreams come true) #Goals | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 03:20 AM |
| 12 | WE'VE REACHED 500 SUBSCRIBERS!!!!YAY! Hi! I am tintedlipbalm, I'm in a LTR and I love to read, paint & spend an inordinate amount of time online. I hope all of us get to know each other and form a tightly knit positive community! | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Stop saying 'Sorry' if you want to say Thank YouWell tone definitely matters most! Many times I end up saying "Thank you for being you" because words can't suffice. | /r/RedPillWives | 07/04/16 02:43 AM |
| 5 | Weird Things "All" Couples Fight AboutIt's hip to be dysfunctional nowadays. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 08:09 PM |
| 3 | LMR in an LTRI used to unknowingly play coy in my past relationship to extend the flirtation before sex. Currently I don't because I tend to be hornier, so while I remain playful about it, I accentuate receptiveness. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 07:44 PM |
| 3 | Intro PostWelcome, and congratulations on your engagement! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 07:40 PM |
| 4 | Stop saying 'Sorry' if you want to say Thank YouVery true, this extends to friends, family and the professional life. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Stop saying 'Sorry' if you want to say Thank YouI'm glad it was helpful! :) | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Birthday Gift Ideas?I thought fancier art supplies as soon as you mentioned him having an artistic side, but it really depends on how much you know of his taste/process in that matter. Men with a really focused hobby are sometimes hard to shop for if you don't know the technicalities. Last Christmas I gave my SO some good headphones because he enjoys making music and I knew he didn't have something like that. I have mentioned this before, but I like to give more than one gift so I can get in some little things too.… | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Stop saying 'Sorry' if you want to say Thank YouThanks! :D | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Stop saying 'Sorry' if you want to say Thank YouIsn't it amazing how a what was a business piece of advice can also help in interpersonal relationships? And vice versa. I definitely look forward to see field reports of people that have implemented this advice and have seen positive changes in their lives. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Stop saying 'Sorry' if you want to say Thank YouVery true! I like that you mentioned being humble. Oftentimes I find people forget about humility as a virtue altogether. I am so glad you have put this in use already and find value in it. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Stop saying 'Sorry' if you want to say Thank YouI'm glad you touched on this subject as well. It also helps to appreciate all the things he does for us that sometimes become invisible because we're used to them, or don't even register as an effort on his part. Sometimes I feel myself getting upset at an irrelevant by-product of his effort: "He didn't appreciate the dinner I made tonight", I think to myself, when in reality he is tired from commute because he made this time for us. I have to step out of my perspective ("I slaved away for this … | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Stop saying 'Sorry' if you want to say Thank YouSo I am working on changing my view of myself. YES, this as well. It's true, the cartoon itself was aiming for that message: Stop being so hard on yourself, first and foremost. We don't have to apologize for existing the way we are and every single quirk we have. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Stop saying 'Sorry' if you want to say Thank YouYou're welcome! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 06:24 PM |
| 3 | SteaksMy thoughts exactly, lol. Reddit can be quite helpful. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 06:23 PM |
| 3 | SteaksThank you for this guide! I definitely need to up my steak game and all the resources linked in this thread have already helped a ton. I have to say I am a little intimidated by the seasoning process already. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 06:21 PM |
| 4 | Stop saying 'Sorry' if you want to say Thank YouThat's true. And sometimes an apology is truly warranted, this is not to say otherwise. Paraphrasing Louis CK, nowadays we don't think about how we talk, and we overuse words until we render them meaningless. Apologizing for everything every single day ceases to be an apology, it becomes a crutch and an excuse. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 06:11 PM |
| 5 | Why Won’t Men Commit? Oh…Yeah, Because Women Are Ballbusting Shrews That Steal Their Dreams.Sometimes strong language sticks better to the mind. Everyone has a different style of wording their arguments, and some people have a stronger one. We try not to tone police here because it can often be tangential to the message. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 06:07 PM |
| 4 | Weird Things "All" Couples Fight AboutThat's unbelievable. With couples that fight that much, I sometimes wonder if it's just part of their foreplay. I have a friend that's constantly fighting with her boyfriend on the phone. Your typical explosive couple. But because they're so into each other they rely on that sexual chemistry and don't measure their words. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 05:59 PM |
| 2 | If not college, then what? And where to begin with major self-improvements?I really wish I had done that. I was too worried 'staying behind'. The (imaginary and completely one-sided) competitiveness with peers my age worked against me. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 05:36 PM |
| 4 | How to spice upHe wants you to walk through life with him, not to walk through life with you on his back. Brilliant way to put it! We pull our weight, too. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 04:03 PM |
| 5 | The biological tragedy of the sexesThis is so beautiful, your parents sound great! | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Why Won’t Men Commit? Oh…Yeah, Because Women Are Ballbusting Shrews That Steal Their Dreams.These are all amazing goals! I look forward to see more comments from you. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 05:01 AM |
| 5 | The Lost Art of Self Preservation (for Women) - A GuideThanks for these! I've actually haven't read her before. The only thing I am disliking so far is the blog theme, lol. But I will get over it. | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Why Won’t Men Commit? Oh…Yeah, Because Women Are Ballbusting Shrews That Steal Their Dreams.Hi, you being 58 years old and married for long is not an issue here a all! Have you read the the about page of this subreddit? /u/Suzanne_by_the_River's comment wasn't meant to be pocking fun at you personally, it was simply about linking your animal alpha categories with Arlybigstickk's joke about dreaming to be a leopard. Please don't take it personally and keep bringing good content and reflections :) | /r/RedPillWives | 06/04/16 04:36 AM |
| 5 | Ten Traps That Trip Up The Trying-To-Be-Submissive WifeIt's good that you give him a heads up, otherwise it could read as sulking in a manipulative attempt. I would do that all the time in previous relationships and not notice it wasn't me really sulking, it was me wanting him to come bend to my frame. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/16 04:58 PM |
| 4 | Ten Traps That Trip Up The Trying-To-Be-Submissive WifeLol my brother used to do this and it made me want to murder him | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/16 04:54 PM |
| 4 | Hil*scary*ous: Tumblr Argument GeneratorLol, for the SJW blog: sERIOUSLY???? why teh fuck shOULD I RESPECT UR FUCKING TRANSMISOGYNIST OPINION???????? (◕﹏◕✿) how difficult is it 2 just address me as "thon/thon/thons"!!! acknowleDGE THAT FAT H8 IS LITERALLY A. TRIGGER FOR ME!!!!!! its noT MY DAMN JOB 2 EDUCATE U, U UTERUS-BEARER-OVERPRIVILEGED DUDEBRO!!! IN CONCLUSION: SCREW U!!!!!!! (╯°□°)╯︵ ┻━┻ I love the realistic random all caps and copious question/exclamation marks, I truly feel back on tumblr. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/16 04:52 PM |
| 5 | Ten Traps That Trip Up The Trying-To-Be-Submissive WifeI find a lot of women do this without noticing! And for the most irrelevant reasons, too. Like correcting the date and weather of an anecdote. What are the steps you take towards fixing this trait? I think that would be a good post on its own. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/16 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Ten Traps That Trip Up The Trying-To-Be-Submissive WifeNot a wife yet, but was guilty many of these in my past relationship, and that really showed me I didn't respect him and although we had good chemistry, at the end of the day I thought of him as less competent than myself. Ask yourselves what you are communicating when you partake in these actions, ladies. Thankfully, my current relationship reflects respect and admiration, and I intentionally work towards keeping it that way. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/16 04:46 PM |
| 4 | Don't Let External Influences Poison Your Relationship's HarmonyYeah, some people will try to shame you to your face. Others simply would talk behind your back and "feel sorry for you" because they think you want to go but aren't allowed to. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/16 04:42 PM |
| 4 | How your personality type expresses and asks for loveWow, INTJ and never noticed how strongly really I valued loyalty until I read the questions for the other personality types. But I am not sure about the career goals aspect, I've never framed love that way even in my mind. I also tend to think frequently about the Harmony aspects (attributed to FJ types), especially looking for connection, protection and approval in my man. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/04/16 04:22 PM |
| 3 | RPW Film Club April 2016 + AnnouncementYes, it's amazing. It meant growing up for the main character too with tough subjects. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 08:03 PM |
| 3 | RPW Film Club April 2016 + AnnouncementHow To Train Your Dragon 2 OMG, I haven't been able to watch it since I saw it in the theaters because it makes me so emotional. Toothless makes me cry Ira and Abby Thanks for this recommendation! I haven't seen it and usually enjoy Jennifer Westfeldt's screenplays. I would also like to discuss the possibility of widening the scope to films that have English subtitles available... Agreed. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 07:54 PM |
| 12 | All About RPWSo glad this is all cleared up so eloquently. I personally love the inclusion of "What is RPW not about?" because there are many misconceptions regarding this point. I especially enjoy the last point because I think some women forget that is still important to enjoy life when going through the steps of improving yourself. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 07:10 PM |
| 5 | Remember to make the effort for the one guy who matters MOST! This image is not a "teehee cute and funny" way to live.Your username definitely attests to this, lol! Athleisure is exactly my style at home. Throw in some tinted moisturizer and I already feel put together. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 06:42 PM |
| 3 | What Is Your Love Language? What Is Your SO's?Same here. Want quality time above all. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Insidious Lies Refuted: Sex With Your Husband is NOT Rape.Is that the one with Laci Green? That girl is a total mess. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Avoid Overthinking a SituationI've always loved this one! Realistically depicts how the hamster runs and runs. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Husband Not Affectionate | Laura DoyleGoddess of Fun and Light, the concept Laura Doyle uses to mean being a spontaneous, lighthearted wife who doesn't take herself too seriously all the time. She did an AMA some time ago and introduced it to the community, and she refers to it on this article. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 04:23 PM |
| 3 | Women And The Death Of FemininityYou're right. I was meaning it would be male solipsisim if he used 'male pain' to mean 'all pain', but I didn't disagree with the point that male pain would lead to women becoming rugged (the original point). I must also clarify that I think even female pain can make women react this way and mean overall a loss of youth which is detrimental to her attractiveness in that sense. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 04:03 PM |
| 1 | New independent RPW sub -- RedpillwivesOf course fathers have a parental relationship with their sons and daughters. It's not mutually exclusive. Just as mothers can provide for their children. I don't really wish to go in depth about this in practice, I was talking about the desire alone. so long as you aren't trying to convince other women/men to think this way, or to proselytize. No one is sales-pitching the lifestyle here, I am not trying to convince anyone to become a RPW and have stated this numerous times. This is like a major… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/16 05:46 AM |
| 6 | Avoid transactional thinking, focus on character.I thought your response on that thread was brilliant and your subsequent comment (not shown in the OP) was a good reflection of the double standard the BP view showed in male vs. female quid pro quo thinking. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 05:01 AM |
| 1 | New independent RPW sub -- RedpillwivesWell in the context of this conversation I meant to prioritize the relationship and family above all, which people deemed unhealthy. I subscribe to a RP view so yes I believe these are female desires, and while a man can want a family and prioritize it in his own way, his approach to it would be different, such as taking on a provider role (which includes having a job to also look after) instead of the nurturing one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/16 04:57 AM |
| 9 | Remember to make the effort for the one guy who matters MOST! This image is not a "teehee cute and funny" way to live.There's no reason comfort should mean homeliness. There are tons of good little home outfits out there! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 03:46 AM |
| 3 | On Preferences and Requirements in Dating.I have never thought in terms of a list, I just intuitively know what irks me and what turns me on. But if I were to put it all on a list it would probably seem unrealistic and long and weirdly specific, and I think it's part of a fickle nature. That said, I think a list should only be done for hard boundaries you won't break, but then again it should be realistic. | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 01:33 AM |
| 1 | On Preferences and Requirements in Dating.This is a great way to put it! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Welcome to RPW! Please Read Before PostingI know what you mean, sometimes a break is needed. Glad to see you back! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 01:24 AM |
| 5 | Welcome to RPW! Please Read Before PostingMay I ask why was that? I wondered where you've been! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 01:14 AM |
| 3 | "The Husband Store"~A Parable Of Modern Female ChoosinessI don't know where this story came from, but I heard of it since I was a child. It seemed so sad that you couldn't go back, because I always thought I would keep going just out of curiosity! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/04/16 01:12 AM |
| 3 | New independent RPW sub -- RedpillwivesYes, especially hobbies that bring her a sense of community and belonging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/16 10:31 PM |
| 3 | New independent RPW sub -- RedpillwivesNo, because I know what codependency is (an actual dysfunction in dynamic, not a diagnosis as in illness) and I know I don't fit it, though I understand how someone with this trait could become codependent if they didn't seek to balance their lifestyle or handle their emotions properly and maturely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/16 10:10 PM |
| 1 | New independent RPW sub -- RedpillwivesSure, two people playing armchair psychologist is just the argumentum ad populum I needed today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/16 09:57 PM |
| 1 | New independent RPW sub -- RedpillwivesWe've been through this already, read above | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/16 09:44 PM |
| 5 | Women And The Death Of FemininityThis is a very good point I had not taken into account at first. I think it's a case of male solipsisim. The author is talking from a perspective of male pain alone. You reminded me of my mother and the pain she has gone through with some losses, and her growth from it has been dignified and feminine. I do however think that a more constant exposure to the pain related to male situations could eventually lead to a woman to become rugged to cope, which was his original point. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/04/16 09:38 PM |
| 4 | Don't Let External Influences Poison Your Relationship's HarmonyI remember this post and it's so true. The amount of this type of messages out there is overwhelming. But I also think that the people conveying these messages have also fallen into a marketing trap themselves. Just like the people who must do this and that on the weekend, or it isn't a weekend to them. Everything now really calls for self-indulgence. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/04/16 09:33 PM |
| 1 | New independent RPW sub -- Redpillwivesany idea of interdependency is seen as unhealthy. It's more interesting that actual female desires (marriage+family-centric lifestyle) are deemed as abnormal and unhealthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/16 09:18 PM |
| 3 | New independent RPW sub -- Redpillwivesthey don't give women the tools to satisfy their own needs and create their own happiness. RPW mods and contributors routinely tell overly dependent women to get a life of her own: interests, hobbies and crafts to be create their own happiness. As far as giving the tools, what else can we do? They rest her happiness completely on his, which is codependency in my opinion. This is your own personal interpretation not based on actual RPW advice. We prioritize our relationship, yes, but a life outsi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/16 09:16 PM |
| 3 | OFFICIAL: TRP Endorsed RPW FashionA more elegant alternative | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/16 08:48 PM |
| 5 | New independent RPW sub -- RedpillwivesIts funny because TBP usually harshly criticizes TRP for viewing relationships as a transaction, then pulls shit like this out and shows their true colors. On point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/16 08:09 PM |
| 2 | New independent RPW sub -- RedpillwivesNot really, but nice try pathologizing me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/16 08:05 PM |
| 1 | New independent RPW sub -- RedpillwivesMy mind is rigged in a way that I get satisfaction from the sole act of giving. So it would be the prisoners dilemma, if the prisoner enjoyed cooperating for the sheer sake of it + got nice deals, so not really a dilemma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/16 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Are You Giving Him Space to Say "No"?I tell my journals now. Yes, same here! The way you phrased this made me laugh. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/04/16 07:02 PM |
| 4 | Are You Giving Him Space to Say "No"?To send nice texts that didn’t involve me whining about how much I missed him or how alone I felt. This is definitely something I struggled with in past relationships and made a point not to repeat. I want to feel better by sharing how much I miss him, but it can actually become repelling to him. It's still a struggle but seeing it in friends/media reminds me that it's okay to have space without! I am currently rewatching Sex and the City (because of that PPD thread) and now I think of it as "pu… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/04/16 06:45 PM |
| 10 | New independent RPW sub -- RedpillwivesI want to see thissss | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/16 05:34 PM |
| 10 | New independent RPW sub -- RedpillwivesNowhere did I mention how much I receive from him or what he does, I merely stated my side of the equation. You went on to assume the rest, probably that I give everything and get nothing. Personally, not only do I 'receive' from him, but in the act of giving, I also feel incredibly rewarded. I suppose it's a difference in character and I didn't say all women have this trait/ought to have it. For me, it's something that has shown itself from the moment I was a child. For example, it makes me so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/16 05:20 PM |
| 6 | New independent RPW sub -- RedpillwivesAnd then you assumed that by doing this I get less happiness, because it's a zero sum game, right? I am the kind of person that gets immense joy from prioritizing my SO/relationship above all. I am not claiming every woman is like this, but in my case it is true and it has always been, even before finding RPW. I'd say other RPW are like this or the sub wouldn't have any regulars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/16 05:11 PM |
| 4 | New independent RPW sub -- RedpillwivesNever said I did? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/16 05:03 PM |
| 8 | New independent RPW sub -- RedpillwivesThat would make no sense in my context because him being "everything I would normally want" includes his dominant role in the relationship. That said, I don't know why you ask me this because we were just talking about the difference between rpw and typical traditionalism, not hypotheticals about my personal preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/16 08:39 AM |
| 12 | New independent RPW sub -- RedpillwivesI'd say a big difference is that we seek an understanding of male sexuality and come from a secular background, whereas standard traditionalism shames male strategies that aren't marriage due to remaining religious undertones. While at RPW the talk is superficially traditionalist because we seek marriage, there's no judgement of plate spinning (or there isn't supposed to be, anyway) and non-female-centric dating strategies in men. I think that, while RPW looks after the woman's best interests, i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/16 07:23 AM |
| 6 | New independent RPW sub -- RedpillwivesThis is not akin to changing ideologies, it's like moving your family to another place because you don't agree with your landlord's new policies. The community as it stood was maintained by all the mods that moved together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/16 07:00 AM |
| 11 | New independent RPW sub -- RedpillwivesTRP ≠ RP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/16 06:05 AM |
| 10 | April 2016 Subreddit EventsFirst film club, then book club... obviously, fight club must be next. I'm ready. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/04/16 06:01 AM |
| 7 | April 2016 Subreddit EventsHey guys! So excited for film club and the crafts thread. Is book club happening? | /r/RedPillWives | 03/04/16 05:50 AM |
| 5 | On the topic of SOs drinking excessively; how to conduct yourself?But I did. My advice was to make up your mind about your boundaries. There's no clear cut RPW answer but that. Some women will tolerate functional alcoholism, some won't. Some men would notice it's becoming a problem and stop, others won't. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/16 08:03 PM |
| 3 | On the topic of SOs drinking excessively; how to conduct yourself?Things that directly affect attraction and the relationship hierarchy - fitness, success, respect. Everything was great at first but I became a nag? Can be helped. Got fat after the kids and and our sex life sucks? Can be helped. Shit testing too much, fighting too much because the smallest things, etc. If you can fix it by changing your mindset/actions, RPW can help. RPW however won't magically get a man to stop gambling or fix any internal issues he might have independently of your relationshi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/16 08:01 PM |
| 3 | On the topic of SOs drinking excessively; how to conduct yourself?I was just addressing the hypothetical since your OP seemed entirely hypothetical. The "you" I use is a general one for everyone reading this. Don't be so cryptic next time when you're addressing your own case. So the lack of negative effects makes me hesitant to just dump him, but I don't know if I can cope with a lifetime of his dependency either. You have to make up your mind about this being a boundary or not. Some girls here have a strict boundary about smoking, they won't tolerate it in a … | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/16 07:50 PM |
| 3 | On the topic of SOs drinking excessively; how to conduct yourself?Would it be argued that a situation of that kind of medical severity transcends what the RPW ideology is equipped to handle Yes, there's been many posts on this before. RPW is not a superglue that fixes a man. We've seen a lot of "SO drinks a ton" and "boyfriend is depressed" situations. RPW deals with cases of structural attraction that can be helped with RP knowledge, it isn't medical advice. and that an intervention may be appropriate? Really depends of the case. Is this a husband or a boyfri… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/16 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Simple QuestionsThanks for the tips! I still have much to learn about bread making. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/16 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Simple QuestionsYes, I think I am inclined to save up for a KitchenAid instead. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/16 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Simple QuestionsOh yes! I used to get sourdough from a baker in my hometown. I honestly am a bit intimidated by the whole bread thing but want to do more. I even saw there's bread you can make at the slowcooker! I should definitely try that too at least once. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/16 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Is Sex and the City red pill?Never said she was attracted to money specifically, although I can see why you assumed that with the word status (which can be made of social proof besides socioeconomic status) My edit was basically about her showing a slightly more female-like choosing pattern in LTR mate picking vs. her casual escapades. You point out that Smith was a waiter, so no status there, but she was not meaning to date him and was reluctant at first to admit it. She [...] had sex with [...] plenty of other lower-statu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/16 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Is Sex and the City red pill?She isn't like a normal female though. She isn't hypergamous, but polyandrous and very sexually aggressive. Edit: Well, you could say that in her more long term relationships she showed preference for higher status individuals proving hypergamy in that sense. Dating a female fine artist, an hotel magnate and a famous actor. But other than that it was borderline indiscriminate casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/16 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Simple QuestionsSuper off topic, but can anyone tell me if a bread maker machine is worth it? And which one | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/16 06:33 AM |
| 2 | Is Sex and the City red pill?Lol, after ten years of drama I think Big was just tired of it all and just wanted to watch tv in peace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/16 04:09 AM |
| 3 | Is Sex and the City red pill?Yes, Miranda's storyline can't be analyzed by the customary TRP "alpha good beta bad" rhetoric, but going by the dominance level theory posted recently in RPW I would categorize her as LHL and then it makes sense. He's low dominance, she is high dominance but also has a lower threshold in attraction for male dominance (which is why she is more attracted to beta characteristics). So they are attracted to each other but she still sees him as less competent and the relationship problems they have t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/16 03:45 AM |
| 5 | Is Sex and the City red pill?It is at first. I re-watch it yearly (guilty pleasure) and the first episode is very different to how the style progresses and ends. I would have liked it if they had kept going with the mini-interview style they had going. After that, the show can still be analyzed in a RP way even if the characters/subtext aren't proponents of it. I think many people think it's super fantasy because Carrie gets alpha bucks at the end, but honestly: She humiliates herself constantly for him, cheats on her soft … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/16 02:08 AM |
| 3 | Do what he says.What I think you mean to say is "I don't have a response to the really rational point you just made." Lol, get over yourself. Others before you have come and posted your exact same arguments. Please read the sidebar. If you want to debate head to r/PurplePillDebate. I am not against debate, I am just against BPers posting 'concerns' here at the RPW sub. It's against the rules of the community. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/16 01:41 AM |
| 4 | Do what he says.This is not a sub for debate, take your concerns elsewhere. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/16 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Do what he says.Please stop indulging this person's "curiosity". You don't have to justify yourself and your relationship dynamic to the blue pillers that mock this very thread! | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/16 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Do what he says.We are not voiceless victims in our relationships. If we have any relevant information, we share it. A good man will listen to his wife's needs, wants and concerns, and make the best decision taking those into account. Considering your TBP activity, you are likely going to be banned. It's in the sidebar, just so you know. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/16 01:18 AM |
| 2 | My so is on a holidayDo you think he'll be into that? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/16 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Why an MRS degree is more valid than an English BADid we read the same article? The author didn't even mention engineering or accounting in the main text. It's in fact your typical tired article against English majors, art school, etc. I don't think the author is even swearing off college entirely, but noticing its price doesn't match the value. It's not "it's worthless", but "is it worth it?" I agree with some parts of the article and disagree with others, but your entire comment is going off of a tangent. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/16 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Self-Reflection Thread: 03/21/2016Your sentences are incoherent | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/16 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Can't get over SO's postYou must know at this age it's a real conundrum for men to know whether to be settled and committed or play the field. It's going to end up with a) him introducing a break so he can get it out of his system, b) staying with you and secretly wondering what could have been (could breed resentment), or c) even seeing other women while being with you to get the best of both worlds. This is male nature, which is why young women here are advised to date older, so she can find a man ready for the next … | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/16 12:52 AM |
| 6 | Simple QuestionsNot sure how others do it, but whenever I pick something up I squat down, even if I'm wearing pants. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/16 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Where to make high-quality, RPW-minded girl friendsIt's the same crowd but different subreddit purpose. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/16 09:27 PM |
| 2 | I am struggling with two issues with boyfriend and would like help with letting them go, thank youLol yes we just looove orbiters around here | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/16 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Alpha Men ....... (Or the balance between Alpha and A**hole)Lol, spot on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/16 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Use sunscreen to help delay the wall.Most of my routine is Korean. Like polyphonictree recommended, CosRX is a really inexpensive brand that is fairly streamlined. I like that they don't release whole lines (other brands would make a whole green tea line, a whole propolis line etc to the point of redundancy). The sunscreens I generally like are Japanese (my favorite being the Hada Labo UV creamy gel and the Biore ones, not the most popular one in the tube though, but the tiny ones in the bottles). I am currently trying to finish my… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/16 06:12 AM |
| 5 | Use sunscreen to help delay the wall.I think a fair amount is pretty much down to genetics and the sun. If you have a good diet that includes meat it's not really that different. Also, not all vegetarians eat well. Plenty of them (and vegans) eat an excess of grains/sugar too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/16 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Do Gentlemen Prefer "Bland"?He also said that "femnazi" translates to men as "raging bitch" so she may want to take that off her profile. Hmm, I don't know. They really do pride themselves in being edgy men-repellents. Then, when they don't find someone, it's the fault of men for preferring "non-threatening" 'bland'. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/16 06:38 PM |
| 3 | On Seeking ValidationIt's not your app, your previous thread is locked now so no one can comment on it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/16 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Watching my sis destroy her marriage (again). The struggle of a RPW: confront her or not?I'm saying it's not a sign of mangina, but you're really stretching things now. Look, I'm not going to keep replying, but your understanding of alpha vs. pseudo-alpha (aka alphaness you do not approve of) is not what is in line with what the endorsed members here have to say on the matter. I am just trying to make this clear to you, and it's not a debate. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/16 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Simple QuestionsYes, it bothers me too. I feel like it implies settling for the dependability of an orbiter friend, what about the passion? This is the man that swept off your feet. I know women mean it in the sense "I trust him more than anything" instead of "settled for a friend", but it really implies the first thing that comes to their minds is his reliability and not the sheer attraction to him as a man. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/16 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Simple QuestionsYou can if you disable css, or on most reddit mobile apps. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/16 05:30 AM |
| 2 | I tried to rpw my dying 4 year relationship (with children) and it failed. But I'm still here.IMO being married is relevant. OP has other posts on this guy and examples like giving him financial control of her assets (totally okay within a marriage but it backfired with this man). If this was a 10 year marriage they would have probably been trying harder to stick together. There was a mod post once saying RPW is not a superglue that would fix all problems. I think this is very important to take into account. OP wasn't perfect, hell, her dating history seems worse now knowing she has rack… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/02/16 05:00 PM |
| 3 | I tried to rpw my dying 4 year relationship (with children) and it failed. But I'm still here.I'm really not being passive aggressive, it was a polite suggestion since your whole assessment was based on this being a marriage. Yes, of course she needs to change them for good, and level up so she can have a chance at having a successful relationship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/02/16 04:44 PM |
| 3 | I tried to rpw my dying 4 year relationship (with children) and it failed. But I'm still here.I think the difference is she know her habits are bad but she's not in the place where she has changed them for good, so everything is just a huge mess. I just thought you might have wanted to read it again since you kept saying this was her husband and she didn't say it was. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/02/16 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Watching my sis destroy her marriage (again). The struggle of a RPW: confront her or not?People say this to shame the behavior, not because it's true. It's a real event of hamstering to say it's mangina to be physically dominant this way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/02/16 04:11 PM |
| 7 | I tried to rpw my dying 4 year relationship (with children) and it failed. But I'm still here.Posters of field reports about failure always worry they'll be roasted. And they would, if they didn't show self-awareness. I don't see the cognitive dissonance. It's messy, sure. But one can admit to have fucked up big time and still realize he wasn't the whole package either. I think OP is frustrated that she put herself in a position where she can see her only options are men like this. That the men who would go for her (33 year old with two kids from different dads) must not have a lot of ch… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/02/16 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Watching my sis destroy her marriage (again). The struggle of a RPW: confront her or not?Mangina is a weak male or a male feminist, how is violence towards women mangina? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/02/16 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Watching my sis destroy her marriage (again). The struggle of a RPW: confront her or not?Source? LittleRedBirdie'sOpinion.doc? Do you notice I am talking about alpha and beta traits? The man you call an alpha is probably balancing his alpha with good beta traits. You keep replying with your opinion as it's the final say in the matter, I am not saying "all alphas" and "all betas", as if the common man embodied just alpha or just beta. To be violent and to induce fear this way is an alpha trait even if you keep stating the contrary. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/02/16 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Watching my sis destroy her marriage (again). The struggle of a RPW: confront her or not?Yes, exactly. I think the whole misunderstanding is that being beta thrown around as an insult so we don't want to associate our SOs with that word. I think talking about dominance levels in that sense is more appropriate. A higher beta can be high dominance and be anything but the kind of 'beta' people men when talking about weakness in men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/02/16 12:12 AM |
| 8 | Watching my sis destroy her marriage (again). The struggle of a RPW: confront her or not?These are alpha traits and people need to realize this. We cannot make the acceptable manly things "alpha" and call the unacceptable beta just because it isn't nice for women. Self-restraint is a very good beta trait to have. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/16 11:50 PM |
| 7 | Watching my sis destroy her marriage (again). The struggle of a RPW: confront her or not?Hotheadedness, impulsive/spontaneous violence in men are alpha characteristics. "Alpha trait" doesn't always mean "good trait". | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/16 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Simple QuestionsYou're conflating different pieces of advice. Don't complain about your SO and relationship to your girlfriends and never badmouth your SO to your family or friends. Do talk to your girlfriends about your non relationship problems if you wish to feel validated and commiserate. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/16 07:51 PM |
| 8 | What are some examples of the covert ways women communicate with each other and men?Can you edit your post to expand on what the article is about, and maybe quote some relevant excerpts of it on this thread to gain more interest and focus the discussion a bit? | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/16 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Girls be like "I want a sensitive man"your treatment of men You realize this is an actor in a movie? No one is "treating" him any way I must be a man? Come the fuck on. Sorry, but you do read like a butthurt beta anger phaser and if you're RP you should know what does and doesn't attract women. The way you phrased But if you guys can't even take the suggestion of a criticism without getting snarky, then screw it. I'm not into circle-jerks. Seems to suggest you think the sub needs you and cares about your tone policing, so let me cla… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/16 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Girls be like "I want a sensitive man"Are you even a RPW? You seem to be a butthurt male and this sub is not for you | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/16 02:23 PM |
| 2 | He's tired of me...I'm not convinced borderline personality disorder is as common as thought. I think many use it as an excuse to be a bitch. I think it's just a spectrum that manifests in the female psyche at different degrees, but only the most extreme ones get diagnosed. A lot of the examples there are very common to do for women, like dishonestly interpreting his message in a way that is more hurtful for her, so she can be the victim and he has to apologize. I find that to be commonplace enough for it to be a … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/16 03:44 PM |
| 8 | In defense of arranged marriagesThe article you're looking for. Eight years after that wonderful engagement party in 1989, I walked away from dear, devoted, loyal Matthew, convinced that somewhere out there, a better, more exciting, more fulfilling life awaited me. Only there wasn't. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/16 03:22 PM |
| 4 | Simple QuestionsI think you should go. Even if you are pretty sure you will decline a second date, it would serve you as experience on how to be on dates anyway, how to be gracious, assert boundaries, etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/16 04:06 AM |
| 4 | Simple QuestionsI'm not sure how to handle this situation and now I suddenly feel bad You need to remember that "adult time" is his expression of closeness. I feel like in your mind you decided it's a feature separate from your relationship, but it's the core of your bond. What do you think this feels like for him? He's being made to feel like the bad guy for no reason by being met with rejection because of your baggage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/02/16 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Simple QuestionsYou could say "letting go of trying to control him". Allowing is technically correct but we can start changing our mindset with our language, and if you think that, he hasn't changed at all, you have. You're not allowing him to 'do' anything, you're allowing yourself to not being annoyed (or to annoy him) with your expectations of him not wearing that color. I think the phrase "let someone/allow someone" not your child/employee is an illusion of control anyway. You're only changing your reaction… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/02/16 05:21 PM |
| 1 | General Posting TipsYou're welcome! | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/16 08:55 PM |
| 6 | Has anyone heard of Milo Yiannopoulos?He's also pro-circumcision, which is something many MRAs dislike about him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/16 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone heard of Milo Yiannopoulos?Yes! I heard from him originally because of the MRA crowd and Breitbart. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/16 08:34 PM |
| 2 | General Posting TipsYay! | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/16 06:34 PM |
| 1 | General Posting TipsI do think it would improve the sub. Most of the non-EC link posts nowadays get removed anyway and a mod asks the OP to please resubmit with a description. It just seems like double the effort for the mod to have to catch it and remove it, especially if there was already some discussion happening by that point. Plus the spam we get are all direct links This too! I obviously don't catch them in the frontpage, but when I browse by comments I see tons of them because of the Automod's response. I th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/16 06:25 PM |
| 1 | General Posting TipsHey, I just saw PPD only displays a "Submit a New Text Post" button, no submit a new link. Perhaps disallowing direct links will also benefit the sub? I know it's already in the rules to not crosslink and to be descriptive when sharing something on how it's RPW, I was just remembering our previous conversation on the post buttons. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/16 06:07 PM |
| 1 | General Posting TipsPhantom just gave you a more detailed response, but there's a Wiki that also touches on the subject (under About This Subreddit) "are they in agreement about what the red pill ideology means in like the bigger picture?" We're in agreement about how men and women operate in nature. That said, yes, individuals will disagree on "what's best". Marriage, for example, is a huge point of contention. RPW want it, some TRP get it, but a lot of TRP say to never do it. Red Pill theory is descriptive, not p… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/16 05:20 PM |
| 1 | General Posting TipsSome of your questions are already addressed in the FAQ, have you read the sidebar? I also have questions about my own personal life and how I can start looking at it from a RPW point of view. I assume you are male? Men asking for advice here generally have their threads removed, yes. This is a spot for like-minded women. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/16 05:02 PM |
| 1 | TinderYou're welcome. The OP deleted it so if you weren't here when it was up the subreddit's frontpage there was no way you could have seen it. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/16 10:02 PM |
| 2 | TinderLol we literally just had a thread about this. The general consensus is that it's a bad idea since it's an app geared towards hookups and casual dynamics. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/16 09:53 PM |
| 1 | General Posting TipsBrilliant suggestions. I think people should also have in mind the focus of the post and the flair it's going to be under. Is it a Field Report, or an Insightful share? Is it an open discussion? How is it RPW? Try to frame it accordingly, from the title to the content. Sometimes there's promising threads that get taken down because the OP didn't take the time to truly frame the post within RPW goals. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/16 08:00 PM |
| 2 | The RPW guide to TinderI am glad it's going well but you do realize how biased you sound? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/16 06:44 PM |
| 2 | The RPW guide to TinderYeah... I've always met men by being myself and just existing along my interests. Works for me, but I wouldn't write it down as a strategy, because it was never intended to be. I wouldn't tell women all of the sudden that this is the RPW guide to meet men by liking what I like/doing what I do. Kind of off topic here, but there's been talk before of meeting through niche interests and I just think it's a plus when your interests happen to align with the hot guy you met, but it's different when a … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/16 06:42 PM |
| 4 | The RPW guide to TinderNot to be harsh but your first hand success is a 3 month relationship. You're getting a bit ahead of yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/16 06:27 PM |
| 3 | The RPW guide to TinderI think maybe women with a past might be more open to try it? I've never used a dating site in my whole life, and if I were inclined to start using one at this point, it wouldn't be tinder. It might just be me but I would consider using Tinder as shameful socially. Imagine if some guys there know me irl and now they think I'm DTF strangers? They wouldn't read my profile unless matched, as stated on the OP, and if they don't, they might keep that view of me. If you are putting yourself in the pos… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/16 05:09 PM |
| 5 | The RPW guide to TinderSo why would I assume it can't work for others? It's the same as meeting your husband at the club. A lot of women do it, but wouldn't advertise it as a proper RPW strategy. I don't know about Tinder and I've never used online dating sites, but the whole process of Tinder particularly is to make it easier to find easy girls (The whole low effort swiping thing), right? So while you can overcome the whole stigma, isn't it a bad bet to be putting yourself in that position? Also, no one else has said… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/16 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible for a "beta" man to become more "alpha" simply by dating a feminine woman?Do what works best in your relationship, of course, but "women should initiate sex with her SO everyday" is not RPW advice, being sexually available and receptive to his advances is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/16 02:09 AM |
| 2 | My husband thinks he deserves a hotter wife after he got promotedThere are also plenty of apps that help keep track of diet and exercise if OP (and anyone else who is curious) is particularly tech-savvy. MyFitnessPal and Endomondo are my favorites! Hell, if it's true he's bringing the big bucks she could also request a dietitian/personal trainer and don't even have to do the planning herself. The trophy wives I know have their surgeon, botox, hair, nail appointments and don't even have to lift a finger for most of the maintenance. They don't even do the house… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/16 08:19 PM |
| 2 | My husband thinks he deserves a hotter wife after he got promotedPrecisely. It's not that only high value men want it, it's that they know they have the upper hand in that negotiation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/16 08:00 PM |
| 7 | My husband thinks he deserves a hotter wife after he got promotedI think this isn't taught enough. Marriage is considered the end of the race for some, at which point he has to love you for who you are. I feel for the women that are caught like a deer in the headlights when it sinks in that her man has actual desires beyond that and that she's still competing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/16 07:36 PM |
| 2 | My husband thinks he deserves a hotter wife after he got promotedI feel like she's being motivated more out of fear than anything else. She is experiencing dread. You mentioned how would a "healthy mindset" be. IMO the "healthiest" form of taking dread is being a willing participant in the game. That is, consciously knowing he's high value and you have to maintain a standard to keep him, and knowing that the sacrifices are worth it. The unhealthiest form of it would be to be dragged into the game thinking it's unfair, and resenting the shit out of his male na… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/16 07:29 PM |
| 7 | My husband thinks he deserves a hotter wife after he got promotedMy response from the last thread: This situation reminds me of that Marie Claire interview with Elon Musk's ex wife. I don't know how veracious the TwoX story is, but it's a very real trend among successful men. If she wants to keep her marriage, I would tell her to accept it and do her best to adjust to the new rules of the game as a status wife. Knowing yourself replaceable is the most effective way of dread. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/16 07:17 PM |
| 3 | My husband thinks he deserves a hotter wife after he got promotedIt was also hilarious that they complained about the bureaucracy and refused to change anything out of some obstinate sense of principle. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/16 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible for a "beta" man to become more "alpha" simply by dating a feminine woman?I don't believe you are female, as most of your comments pander exclusively to the male imperative and are rather heavy-handed. But, if you are, try to phrase your advice in a less inflammatory manner. Just because she isn't the cream of the crop doesn't mean she should let go of every boundary (if "free pass" means what I think it means), and his financial success is another subject entirely. Also, about your other (removed) comments from another thread, women shouldn't initiate sex, but always… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/16 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible for a "beta" man to become more "alpha" simply by dating a feminine woman?Do not go for someone financially successful, you don't deserve that. Allow him a few 'free passes' a year Are you a male troll? Every comment of yours is on the TRP side but overly abrasive to be taken seriously as well-meaning advice. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/16 05:26 PM |
| 2 | My husband thinks he deserves a hotter wife after he got promotedTrue, I meant like in the shortcut rules that are in the sidebar Community Rules, for the "casual observers" :) Edit: Okay, never mind. I can't believe the OP was being such a little bitch about a completely reasonable request from a mod. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/16 05:11 PM |
| 1 | My husband thinks he deserves a hotter wife after he got promotedIs there a way to automatically override "Submit a new link"? Or add in the rules that every link should be a text post with added commentary? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/16 05:07 PM |
| 1 | My husband thinks he deserves a hotter wife after he got promotedJust submit it as a text post, not as a link. Like, put the comment you did in the OP and elaborate on what you think. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/16 05:06 PM |
| 1 | How aware were your family members when you had sex for the first time and got into a relationship?Are you a dad or a mom? I had much more closeness to my mom in this regard and she knew, but many teens just don't want to brief their parents in this aspect of their lives. She didn't go about this the right way. Well, it's her life to live, and the more you overprotect her, the more she will pull away from you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/02/16 05:10 PM |
| 5 | Sexual availabilityMy first bf had death grip and I thought there was something seriously wrong with me not being able to make a man cum because that was my first sexual experience lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/16 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Bringing the sparkles backI agree with TempestT. I wanted to suggest some hobbies but you started the thread saying hobbies were what kept you apart from the sparkles. I think you can have hobbies that focus on your relationship. I personally love to do this. Knitting? knitting him a scarf. Pinterest? Have a board with ideas for meals, DIY decor, etc. Canning? Find out what preserves he likes, etc. You have the common goal of moving out of his parents', so it would be pretty cool if you learned skills and crafts that wou… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/16 07:45 PM |
| 1 | I have audible credits to burn. Whatcha readin'?Anything by The Teaching Company. The lectures I've listened to so far are pretty interesting and thorough!. I really liked one called Nutrition Made Clear if you want to know more about nutrition in general, I'd say it's more informative than a lot of books out there (and it did come with a PDF, thought this might have been a recent addition because many reviews say it doesn't). Self-improvementy, I really enjoyed The Willpower Instinct. It's not wishy washy and sustains what they say with stud… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/16 06:14 PM |
| 2 | To what extent do you use social media?Yeah, and tumblr can be the same. I've been happier since I left. There's a false sense of companionship in the type of validation that social media gives, as if my followers actually cared? It's just a huge waste of time if you become reliant on it. I didn't even count Pinterest as social media in my mind because it's like an aggregator based around organizing/collecting, which is usually a solitary hobby. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/16 09:30 PM |
| 6 | To what extent do you use social media?I love anonymous social media for personal use, which is why I was drawn to reddit and tumblr at first. At this point I only use Facebook professionally and to message family, but even when I was a lot on it, I used it for sharing interesting/funny articles and music, and I never acted like it was my journal to share private stuff on it. Twitter on the other hand is hard to grasp for me (professionally) and when I tried it as a personal outlet, it actually made me prone to rant more than normal,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/16 06:51 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Self-Reflection Thread: 02/15/2016Now I wonder who that was, lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/02/16 05:33 PM |
| 4 | Do you have any beliefs that are "too redpill" even for mainstream TRP?In no other culture, in my experiences, is this acceptable. This is more about wealth than culture IMO. In Mexico it's pretty common for any middle class family to have at least one maid, with UMC often having a maid, nanny and cook separately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/16 12:35 AM |
| 8 | How do I become more soft & feminine?Not sure if you're asking if I personally think a certain price range warrants snobbery? Because that wasn't my point at all, I was just mocking OP for being high and mighty about a mid-range makeup brand. Strikes me as someone who would call themselves "classy". | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/16 06:28 PM |
| 12 | How do I become more soft & feminine?And as if using MAC was even something to be a snob about, lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/02/16 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Do You Have a Weekly Beauty Routine?I'm not in the US so it's probably not going to be useful information. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/16 12:36 AM |
| 1 | These are a few of my favorite things...They're definitely biased in their snarky reviews. I don't know how they're allowing them to have a rating site for other brands if they're their competitors. The only thing they've rated lower than 4 (3 stars, not so low), is their lip balm just because it comes in a pot. I have read a ton on that site, and they would rate something high because it included some antioxidants (no definite scientific proof antioxidants applied topically do anything substantially beneficial to the skin), but take … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/16 08:08 PM |
| 6 | What does 'submission' or 'obedience' mean for you?I actually don't see the issue here. If she knows her place, it doesn't sound like she is topping from the bottom. It just means he stepped up to the male role because she was filling the female one so well. They evolved as complements, and if they weren't complementary they would have issues by now. Topping from the bottom would be "he is the leader in the places I want him to lead, but if I say no, we do what I think it's best" or "I put the idea in his head and then I pretend it was his idea,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/16 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Do You Have a Weekly Beauty Routine?Paint or re-paint nails (fingers and/or toes) For retouching nails when needed, you can fill in the gaps first, then retouch the whole nail, and then go on top (after it's dry of course) with a clear polish, preferably one that mimics gel and it's very glossy. Therefore the glossiness will reflect the light and you won't see the parts where it's cracked and repainted. I don't always wear polish, so this is very irregular. Also, the more closer to your skintone the polish is, the most you can get… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/16 07:24 PM |
| 2 | What does 'submission' or 'obedience' mean for you?Completely agreed. I'm thinking of other users that have said/implied that to accept 'obedience' and 'submission' means a woman has no will, character, or strength. I think it brings disharmony, and may encourage some users to think they are better (or worse) compared to others, simply because of the vocabulary they use. Yes, this is exactly what concerned me and why I was quick to come out and debate that notion. It's okay if an individual woman doesn't find those words describe her dynamic. It… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/16 04:28 PM |
| 1 | What does 'submission' or 'obedience' mean for you?Yes, Stingray and Camille are. But the long discussion you had was with me! It's totally okay if your dynamic is different, I wasn't saying "your dynamic is wrong", I was saying that there was an unseen value in the words and wanted other readers of this thread to understand there was another perspective. A lot of discussions online serve this function. I might not be convincing you or you might not be convincing me, but the lurking reader has both perspectives to ruminate on. At that point the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/16 04:08 PM |
| 2 | 40 days of penanceThe gif you linked didn't embed properly on my RES for some reason, but I know it's this one It was exactly like that, I spent way too much time looking on that isle. It was a flavor I haven't tried so that made it extra sad for me! | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/16 03:56 PM |
| 2 | What does 'submission' or 'obedience' mean for you?I am not religious and /u/PhantomDream09 isn't either, if I recall correctly. I pointed out a pattern, but it wasn't "only religious people are into it", it was more like, "most nonreligious women have a bad time with the term because of its religious association". | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/16 03:53 PM |
| 2 | 40 days of penanceHmm this is good! I have to think about something. I am currently giving up alcohol and sweets until my birthday. The alcohol part I am not sure if it counts, it's not really hard since I don't drink much anyway and I have done these ceasing periods before. But yesterday I had a hard time grocery shopping and looking longingly at a Lindt chocolate bar. It was calling my name and I had to leave it behind :c | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/16 03:47 PM |
| 1 | What does 'submission' or 'obedience' mean for you?I did! I sometimes only silently upvote lol. I really liked how she expanded on it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/16 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Valentine's Day and the RP/Masculine maleLol, now I'll always think of it as Vagina Day | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/16 03:58 AM |
| 3 | Valentine's Day and the RP/Masculine maleWe don't really care about it, but to answer your question what is your perception of a man's effort to celebrate Valentine's Day- or not? I would hate it if he felt forced to get me something or act a certain way just because there's this pressure to do so. I personally find the most romance in the most quotidian acts of caring, I would feel uncomfortable to be romanced extensively because I find the most joy in doing things for my man and giving gifts, not so much receiving gifts. I might be a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/16 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Quick Beauty Tip: Waxing Your Eyebrows at HomeJust replace it with the image link I did for you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/16 06:39 PM |
| 5 | Quick Beauty Tip: Waxing Your Eyebrows at HomePoorsay it's best if you cropped out your face and only showed the eyebrow part! Some people are out there for doxxing and you never know! Edit: I personally liked the before better! at this point I only use eyebrow razors to only get the stray hairs, but I really like thicker brows on me :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/16 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What drew you to the manosphere/pill world discussions?What drew you to the HBD-o-sphere? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/16 01:54 AM |
| 2 | What does 'submission' or 'obedience' mean for you?Yes, perhaps. Her response here about submission really resonated with me and my experience! It could also be because of the biblical undertones to the terms. While I am secular, I don't have qualms with how they relate to religion. I know you and Camille are religious, so I wonder if the negative reactions to those words are also influenced by an inner desire to separate themselves from that as well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/16 08:42 PM |
| 3 | What does 'submission' or 'obedience' mean for you?But honestly I like that we are able to have these discussions among the community :) It's interesting to see the different perspectives everyone has. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/16 08:13 PM |
| 3 | What does 'submission' or 'obedience' mean for you?Well you and wingnut are the only ones who basically said "just not my cup of tea/dynamic" (unsurprisingly for me, as I've already read countless instances of that comparison between the HH vs. LL/LH experience). If you notice, others have equated it with being a dog, not having boundaries, being disrespected (said implicitly), expecting punishment, etc. You didn't imply negativity but others did! Personally I don't even have an overt threat over my head or receive explicit orders in an uber hig… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/16 07:57 PM |
| 2 | What does 'submission' or 'obedience' mean for you?Most of the RPWs that have responded reacted negatively to those words so I'd say you're with the majority. I am wondering if I'm a RPW since I don't see those words as blind slavery and imposed meek servitude. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/16 06:56 PM |
| 2 | This doesn't seem unreasonable to me...I guess it's time to go... | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/16 05:40 PM |
| 2 | This doesn't seem unreasonable to me...It would be faaaabulous | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/16 05:32 PM |
| 3 | What does 'submission' or 'obedience' mean for you?Well the op question was 'what do these words mean to you' Yes, and I was bringing up a different meaning to your meaning. We weren't touching our personal situations at all, just meanings (just like "divorce" and "death" have meanings in our minds, even though we might not have experienced them). I feel like women here renounce the concept because it's bad sounding, but I was just bringing up why it too could be a virtue. I don't think it has to be god-fearing (though it can be). I see it the w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/16 01:51 AM |
| 4 | What does 'submission' or 'obedience' mean for you?Perhaps that is what works for you, fine. I don't know where this comes from? I am not talking about you or me, I am talking about the word in the general sense and what it has reflected in the context of a traditional marriage. But if we're making it personal... Either I follow my SO or I don't, and that is my choice everyday. That's the value of obedience, it's following even in hardship and fog. The way you answer leads me to believe you only follow him when you agree with him (or that you ha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/16 01:26 AM |
| 5 | What does 'submission' or 'obedience' mean for you?That's my point, obedience is not a pleasant term, but there's a reason it's a traditionally a virtue. I can see that "defer to his judgement" is the preferred term as it reflects choice and a deeper understanding of why we are choosing to follow. The word obedience seems to remove the notion of choice, so it's natural emancipated women react negatively to it. 'obedience' takes away our ability to decide I feel like this is the same argument as when people tell us our SOs will lead us to harm. I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/16 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Instagram Husband - rpw please don't!I'm sorry you took it as rude. Classic way to deflect accountability. It was a snippy response in all intents, don't try to turn it the other way around. The only miscommunication here is you being in denial of how much of a nuisance your Instagram habits probably are to him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/16 10:46 PM |
| 9 | What does 'submission' or 'obedience' mean for you?Obedience is wifely duty though. Obedience is not a pleasant word because it's doing something even when you wouldn't do it out of your own will, and it's the hardest part of not being in control. It's easier to be obedient when you understand each other roles, and the whys and hows, and are on the same page all the time. But take a more primal woman (for example a religious young woman) that doesn't quite understand, this is why Abrahamic religions tell her to be obedient because God says so. I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/16 10:21 PM |
| 7 | Instagram Husband - rpw please don't!And you can bet they are taking those pictures while holding her purse... | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/16 04:23 AM |
| 10 | Instagram Husband - rpw please don't!I feel this is really common with female fashion bloggers or the youtubers that do vlogs. I can only imagine the defeated look on the face of their husband-turned-cameraman behind the scenes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/16 04:12 AM |
| 7 | Instagram Husband - rpw please don't!but I don't think there's anything wrong with it. He's man enough to say 'I don't want to do this' if he didn't like it. So, do you legit thinks he likes it, or is this a cop out so you don't have to acknowledge that you know it annoys him but you just don't care? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/16 01:22 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on the line in Law 26 "the mistake does not vanish with an apology; it deepens and festers"?Yes, in cases like tardiness I believe apologizing plus thanking is way more fitting, since it first recognizes the fault and shows appreciation without leaving space for the other person to make excuses for you. It takes the other person into account. When I first shared it I framed it as a way to respond in situations where you are trying your best but still fail along the way. Obviously if a person who is routinely tardy and unconcerned thanks me, I will no longer see it positively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/16 01:01 AM |
| 3 | This doesn't seem unreasonable to me...Her title was sarcastic, of course. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/16 09:33 PM |
| 5 | This doesn't seem unreasonable to me...Well, the image is meant to be funny by contrasting the numerous requirements a woman has for a man vs. his simple, realistic needs. It's meant to be cheeky, not educational! :P While it doesn't mean every man is like that (or every woman, for that matter), I think it works as a generalization because men will look for meaning outside of their relationship (career, hobbies, outside achievements), while most women tend to want to be fulfilled wholly by their relationship and want their husband to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/16 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Time to share: what have you improved since joining RPW?Thank you :D | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/16 09:29 PM |
| 4 | Time to share: what have you improved since joining RPW?Lurking/avidly reading since 2014. Every time we get a variant of this question, I start to write the longest thing, then get overwhelmed and delete it. I found this place because a friend referred to TRP mockingly on another social media. I had already heard of it and of people like Roosh but I didn't investigate further until my friend mentioned it and said they glorified masculinity. That was it for me. I clicked, instantly went to the sidebar and found the women sub. Basically, I came here a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/16 08:39 PM |
| 3 | Time to share: what have you improved since joining RPW?Yay! That's amazing, so much progress in so little time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/16 08:03 PM |
| 4 | Time to share: what have you improved since joining RPW?That's great! New habits are hard to fully achieve, so it's just a matter of sticking to it and getting better with practice. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/16 07:56 PM |
| 5 | Time to share: what have you improved since joining RPW?This is so lovely! I am so glad for you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/16 07:46 PM |
| 33 | Will keeping my mouth shut about this be better or is it worth it to explain myself? The problem that happens when YOU offer a solution to something instead of your SOI am getting the impression that he thinks more casually about you and the nature of your relationship than you do about him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/16 03:37 AM |
| 3 | On ChadIt really depends on the guy tbh. I guess that's why we focus on SMV. It's more simple to know what attracts guys in general, but it's more difficult to assess what values aside from femininity are important to them. I believe SE background and not so much the woman's profession. It matters more what kind of values she was instilled growing up, religion, her relationship with her family, whether there's a lot of divorce on her family or none at all, etc. As an example, this post lists many trait… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/16 12:31 AM |
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